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Mess and The CityEp. 14 - Like My Shit, Or Just Unfollow Me Okay, so what do we call those types of people who follow you on all your socials but never interact with your content? MONITORING SPIRITS!!! Tune in to hear our opinion about 'these kinds of people' and why it takes the fun in social media away. 2025-06-1531 min
Mess and The CityEp. 13 - What About The Butterfly Effect? Remember that one time my friend canceled on me and I then met the love of my life? Yeah, no me neither. But all the girls on TikTok do! It's called the butterfly effect, apparently. Let's dive into this concept and chat about the role it has played in our lives. 2025-05-1838 min
Mess and The CityEp. 12 - The World Is Falling Apart... Let's Dilly-Dally A lot is going on..... But even in some of the darkest times, it's important to take care of ourselves and each other. So tune in for some old-school fun and yap. Let's dilly-dally together :)2025-05-0431 min
Mess and The CityEp.11 - Girl, Your Early Twenties Is NOT My Late TwentiesWhat are the young girls and gurls in their early twenties up to these days? And why is it so hard to keep up? Let’s chitchat about it!2025-04-1335 min
Mess and The CityEp.10 - Chaotically In Community To be in community with others, or to be completely independent, that's the question. Let's talk about what it takes to build and sustain a community, whether with friends or family. And is that even still possible in this modern age? Tune in to hear our take on this. 2025-03-2334 min
Mess and The CityEp. 9 - More Hobbies, Less Side Hustles Cause really, do you need ANOTHER job? Why can't we just enjoy our talents and hobbies in peace these days? Does everything need to become a side hustle? Let's talk about it! #girlbossgaslightgatekeep #sidehustles2025-03-0931 min
Mess and The CityEp. 8 - Side by Side: Unfiltered Convo’s In The Parking Lot What to do while waiting for your flight from the DMV to Amsterdam? Record a new podcast episode with your dear friend and co-host! Tune in to hear our thoughts about old friendships, meeting new people, and having tough conversations with longtime friends. Can you believe it? This is the first we are recording irl, side by side! We hope you enjoy it. 2025-01-2628 min
Mess and The CityEp. 7 - To Spend Is To ExistOr... to exist is to spend? Cause can you really still go outside without spending money? If you ask us, the answer is ‘NO’!! But according to our favorite Boomers, we got it all wrong.2025-01-1245 min
Mess and The CityEp. 6 - 2024: Yapping and Wrapping It Up Oh my, it has been a year. So let’s talk about it! What did we learn, what did we watch, what did we read, what did we listen to, and what do we want to do differently in the new year? Tune in to get some answers and for some laughs! 2024-12-2944 min
Mess and The CityEp.5 - Spotify, Are You For Real? Yes, we need to talk about Spotify Wrapped again... but also, does Santa go to the White House, and why are biology teachers so mean? Tune in for some answers, and some laughs!2024-12-1533 min
Mess and The CityEp. 4 - Went On A Girls Trip and Broke Up After Ft. Amy Garay Let’s talk about the one and only real friendship test: Girls Trips!Can you bring your boyfriend? Can you talk about relationship trouble, and do you bring someone back to the room? Tune in the hear our opinions and everything about our worst trips, featuring the one and only girls trip connoisseur Amay Garay.2024-12-0150 min
Mess and The CityEp. 3 - Concepts of Thoughts and PrayersLet’s talk about it…. Cause honestly it’s all we’ve been talking about this past week: the elections. How did we get here? And where do we go from here? Tune in to hear our opinions on the outcome, the uptick in Latinos supporting Trump, and Black women taking a step back. Also, take a shot every time Nahawi says: “I think it’s interesting.” 2024-11-1046 min
Mess and The CityEp. 2 - Is Being Delulu Always The Solulu? No, cause really…. What is the difference between being delusional and having big dreams? And how do you set up a GoFundMe account to secure a down payment on your dream home? Tune in for a new episode to hear us yapp about these topics! 2024-11-0323 min
Mess and The CityEp. 1 - Hello, Are Y’all Still Listening? We are back y’all! Did you miss us? Tune in for the very first episode of season two, where your favorite hosts Nahawi and Veronica reminisce on their summer holiday and discuss everything else under the sun: from ‘streetwalker fashion’ and 'uncancelling' celebrities to swifties, barbz, and lesbian love. 2024-10-2040 min
Mess and The CityEp. 21 - Can You Believe It? We Have a PodcastThat’s it for now folks! Season 1 of Mess and The City is done. Can You believe it? Time flies when you’re having fun. Tune in one more time to hear us talk about dating, Sex and the City, and all the things we have learned while recording our first season.See you soon! Follow us on Instagram @messandthecitypod for updates on season 2. Thank you for listening and for all your support. 2024-06-3043 min
Mess and The CityEp. 20 - The Dating App Diaries This week we are swiping left and right on Bumble and Hinge! You really don't want to miss this... So tune in to hear all about our online dating experiences, our 'icks', and of course our potential dates. 2024-06-0258 min
Mess and The CityEp. 19 - Baby Reindeer May Destroy You: Part 2Let’s continue the seriousness! And let’s continue to talk about Baby Reindeer and I May Destroy You, and how these two shows have beautifully created space to talk about sexuality, assault, and trauma. In part 2 of this miniseries, we go a little bit further and discuss how the depiction of SA and domestic violence in the media affects our thought process and behaviors. We also talk about holding ourselves accountable but reflecting on situations where we could have done more to protect the people close to us. If you are located in the US a...2024-05-1940 min
Mess and The CityEp. 18 - Baby Reindeer May Destroy You: Part 1 Let’s get a bit more serious this time. Let’s talk about Baby Reindeer and I May Destroy You, and how these two shows have masterfully created space to talk about sexuality, assault, and trauma.In part 1 of a 2 part miniseries, we set the foundation to get into a broader conversation about the depiction of assault in movies and TV shows, and the complex but beautiful space survivors of these assaults create in media.If you are located in the US and need help please call the 24/7 hotline for survivors of sexual assault and hara...2024-05-1334 min
Mess and The CityEp. 17 - Drinking Around The World Ft. Hector Gonzalez MagnoLet’s talk about drinking culture: from the US to Europe and from the Caribbean to Central America! Tune in for a fun episode with our special guest Hector Gonzalez Magno.2024-05-0543 min
Mess and The CityEp. 16 - No More Sexy Laws in America Ft. Brian Weakly Happy Sunday and happy new MATC episode. Tune in for a little history lesson about the restrictions on pleasure in the US with no one other than our friend and scientist Brian Weakly.2024-04-2838 min
Mess and The CityEp. 15 - Block Etiquette & Getting a Ring By Spring After a mid-season break your favorite podcast is back! And let's get into it darlings because we really need to talk about ‘block etiquette’ and getting a 'Ring by Spring’. So tune in for a brand new episode of Mess And The City with your hosts Nahawi & Veronica. 2024-04-2142 min
Mess and The CityEp. 14 - The Gurls Are Fighting Girls hold up! Is the big three spilling their big tea? Apparently… Tune in to hear our opinions about the Drake & Cole vs Kendrick rap beef, produced by no one other than Future. 2024-03-2438 min
Mess and The CityEp. 13 - New (Wo)Man, New AestheticWould we ever pull a Brad Pitt? Meaning, would we ever date a person that looks or acts just like us? And how do we feel about changing up our aesthetic for our partner? Tune in to a new episode of Mess And The City to hear our opinions on dating our twin!2024-03-1739 min
Mess and The CityEp. 12 - The Messy Korner: Life After Ball Ft. Ajani Daniel Who’s messier than an athlete who can’t play sports anymore? Veronica, Nahawi, and Ajani with a microphone in hand!Let’s get our heads in the game and talk about sports. Tune in for a fun podcast with no one other than our favorite sports connoisseur, journalist, and podcast host Ajani Daniel. 2024-03-1050 min
Mess and The CityEp. 11 - Celebrate Yourself and Give Backhanded ComplimentsLet’s dive into the art of celebrating yourself, the evil eye, and recognizing the backhanded compliments for what they really are; shady affffffff!As always tune in for a good time with your two podcast hosts Veronica and Nahawi.2024-03-0343 min
Mess and The CityEp. 10 - Olivia Pope, We Need You Girl Ft. Rania AliFrom Beyonce’s Feminism and Leonardo Dicaprio’s climate change “efforts", to Olivia Pope’s white hat. Let's discuss all things politics and pop culture!Tune in to eavesdrop on a conversation between your two favorite podcast hosts and our special guest, philosopher and political scientist, Rania Ali (@rania.ali).2024-02-2244 min
Mess and The CityEp. 9 - All About Love (and Flashmobs) Valentine’s Day is almost here! So let’s talk about it. Tune in to hear us, two single girlies, talk about our favorite romantic movies & tv-shows, flashmobs, and of course our views on romantic and platonic love.Happy V Day!2024-02-0843 min
Mess and The CityEp. 8 - What In The Incel-Red-Pill-Activity Is Going On? Ft. Jose ‘Chips’ Rodriguez So…. Let’s talk about the elephant in the room aka incels, red pill men, and pick-me girls. Tune in for an interesting conversation with your two favorite podcast hosts, and Veronica’s friend Chips (@dreambenders9 on IG) ** This episode is not meant to offend the people discussed in it. We are simply just sharing our thoughts and opinions. In other words, let us be respectfully disrespectful in peace. It’s all love over here! 2024-02-0148 min
Mess and The CityEp. 7 - Evolve, Become, Arrive & Slay: A Masterclass in Rebranding Ft. Aidan McClainTune in for a little fun and a little education this week as we talk about personal and celebrity rebrands with the founder of The Hollywood Rebound, Aidan McClain (@hllywdrbnd)Follow us on IG @messandthecitypod @hllywdrbnd2024-01-2548 min
Mess and The CityEp. 6 - Clap When You Land and Drop The Therapy SpeakOn the excessive use of 'Therapy Speak' in our day-to-day lives, wishing people Happy New Year, and Narcissism. Tune in for a fun conversation.2024-01-1846 min
Mess and The CityEp. 5 - FMK: The American Religion Edition ft. Ricardo Alvarado On which American religion we're most to least likely to become a part of. Tune in for a fun game of FMK and a good time with your two hosts and our first-ever guest Ricardo Alvarado!**Please know that this episode is not in any way meant to offend people. We respect all religions and beliefs and the people who subscribe to them. In this episode, we are just being honest about our experiences and thoughts. In other words, let us be respectfully disrespectful :)2024-01-0449 min
Mess and The CityEp. 4 - Goodbye 2023! On insane New Year's Resolutions, Nahawi spiraling out of control over some Ne-Yo concert tickets, Veronica’s favorite movies and TV shows of the year, and more.... Tune in for a good time and our last episode of 2023.See you next year!2023-12-2836 min
Mess and The CityEp. 3 - Am I The Asshole? On Reddit posts, sad beige babies and people who need to get with the program! So, tune in for a good time.2023-12-2126 min
Mess and The CityEp. 2 - 5 Love Languages, 1 Lobotomy On the five love languages, communication, and getting lobotomies at Claire’s… So tune in for a good time!2023-12-1430 min
Mess and The CityEp. 1 - Origin Stories, Stan Culture & One-sided Celeb BeefOn our friendship origin story, Stan culture, one-sided celebrity beef, and more... So, tune in for a good time!2023-12-0736 min
Mess and The CityMess And The City: The TrailerEnjoy the trailer for our brand new podcast Mess And The City. 2023-11-3000 min