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Bend Don't Break
Use of Force for the Mind Dr. Mark Davies
convert_to_textConvert to source Top of Form Dr. Mark Davies Important Ideas/Facts: Academic and Professional Credentials: The source emphasizes Dr. Davies' strong academic foundation and extensive professional experience. Key Facts: He holds a Ph.D. in Counselling Psychology from the University of Alberta (1995) and has additional degrees (B.A., M.Div., M.Ed.). His professional experience spans academic roles as an associate professor (1995-2007) and full-time private practice (2007-2023). Focus on First Responders and Operational Stress Injuries: A significant portion of Dr. Davies' career has been dedicated to supporting first responders and addressing the p...
2025-05-15
49 min
Bend Don't Break
Mind Over Matter - Performance Enhancement Imagery
Top of Form Subject: Review of key themes and concepts from interviews with Inspector Mo Perry and Sergeant Chris Borgstead on performance enhancement imagery and its application in policing and personal health. Executive Summary: This briefing document summarizes key themes from interviews with Inspector Mo Perry and retired Sergeant Chris Borgstead of the Delta Police Department (DPD). The discussion centers around "Bend Don't Break," a series focusing on optimum performance. A significant portion of the conversation is dedicated to the power of performance enhancement imagery, also known as visualization or mental r...
2025-05-01
46 min
Bend Don't Break
Elite Nutrition
Alright everyone, welcome back to the "Bend Don't Break" podcast! This is episode number 87, and we're rolling right along in our six-part series on becoming an elite performer, whether that's in your job or your personal life. We've already covered the essentials of elite sleep, and last time we dove into knowing your markers with Nia Health and Sameer Dhar who talked about proactive tests for optimum health and wellbeing And today, we're tackling part three of this elite performance puzzle, and it's a big one: elite nutrition. We've got a fantastic guest joining us today, Lynae C...
2025-04-15
41 min
Bend Don't Break
Episode 86 Sameer Dhar - Nia Health
I had the pleasure of hosting Sameer Dhar, CEO & Co-Founder of NiaHealth, on Episode 86 of the Bend Don't Break podcast! We dove deep into the future of proactive health and how NiaHealth is revolutionizing employee health benefits. NiaHealth is making cutting-edge proactive care accessible to everyone, offering a breakthrough health check-up that’s available to all employees, not just the C-suite . This means first responders can really start to be proactive about their health. Nia Health are changing the game with next-gen longevity check-ups that analyze over 50 health biomarkers, VO2 Max, body composition, gut microbiome, and more . Th...
2025-04-08
34 min
Bend Don't Break
Episode 85 - Elite Sleep with Dr. Landry
Elite Sleep The Bend Don't Break podcast is shifting its focus from stories of resilience in first responders to exploring the foundations of high performance for everyone, not just elite athletes. The upcoming six-week series will delve into often-overlooked aspects such as sleep, mental imagery, nutrition, and mental resilience, providing practical tools and techniques for listeners to improve their daily functioning and thrive. The first episode of this new direction will focus on "Elite Sleep" and will feature Dr. Glenn J. Landry, a sleep coach and founder of Elite Sleep, as the expert guest.
2025-04-01
1h 01
Blue Grit Radio: Improving Police and First Responders of Life through Mindset, Wellness, Leadership
184: Career Advancement through Self-Work, Humility and Determination in Police w/ Chief Neil Dubord (ret.)
Soon after I entered into the police wellness space, I learned about Chief Neil Dubord's leadership philosophy and style- which incorporated wellness concepts foundationally. I learned about his Bend, Don't Break podcast, which highlights these crucial health topics for officers to endure, maintain and build resilience.It was my sincere pleasure and honor to meet and join him on the show, as it was to be able to pick his brain on leadership. He shares his outlook, and how he embraced humility and putting himself back in the forge from the beginning of his law enforcement career- an...
2025-02-13
52 min
Bend Don't Break
PART TWO. Starlight Casio Shooting - Jordan MacWilliams
On this episode of Bend Don’t Break, your host, Neil Dubord, is joined by Constable Jordan MacWilliams once again, to continue his story from last week’s episode. Jordan has gone through significant events over the last several years — making him the perfect person to discuss the topic of resiliency in the field. His story starts on November 8th, 2012, a fateful night in both his life and work. Having been sent to a dangerous hostage situation at Starlight Casino, Jordan has to make one of the toughest decisions of his life for...
2025-02-11
31 min
Bend Don't Break
CHARGED WITH MURDER- THE STARLIGHT CASINO SHOOTING
Today on Bend Don’t Break, it is another one from the archieves and the next two episodes will go over one of the most popular series on Bend Don’t Break. Jordan has gone through significant events over the last several years — making him the perfect person to discuss the topic of resiliency in the field. He’s happily married with two young daughters. Currently, he’s seconded, working at The Lower Mainland District Emergency Response Team. He joined the Delta Police Department as a Reserve Constable back in 2007, graduated in 2009, and then worked Patrol until 2012 when he got on...
2025-02-04
47 min
Bend Don't Break
Is Compassion Fatigue Real
In this Episode of “Bend Don’t Break” podcast, Constable Mike Willford of the Abbotsford Police Department shares his personal journey with compassion fatigue. He discusses how his role as a ‘helper’ led him to neglect seeking help for himself, resulting in physical symptoms he could no longer ignore. Mike emphasizes that his experience wasn’t triggered by a single event but by the accumulation of numerous small incidents over time. Mike’s story highlights the importance of mental health awareness at all levels within law enforcement. He candidly discusses the challenges of recognizing and addressing comp...
2025-01-13
36 min
Bend Don't Break
CIA Secrets to Escape
Former CIA intelligence officer Michele Rigby Assad knows better than anyone what it means to venture into uncharted territory. Michele explains in the Bend Dont Break Podcast her experience to help you embrace the often uncomfortable path to success. She will talk about how to escape your comfort zone and realize your full potential! Michele has played a pivotal role in high-stakes missions both as a counterterrorism official and as a human rights defender in the civilian world, culminating in the 2015 airlift operation and relocation of 149 persecuted Iraqi Christians. Michele also provides security advice to nonprofit...
2025-01-07
38 min
Bend Don't Break
Nearly Losing her Life over a Stolen Chocolate Bar: From Trauma to Triumph
Episode #80 is a replay of one of the Top 3 downloaded Episodes in the 6 Year history of Bend Don't Break. It was originally played over 65 Episodes ago. Lane Douglas Hunt. Lane has been a member with the Victoria Police Department since 2008. She has spent most of her career on the front lines in patrol where she was on the Greater Victoria Emergency Response Team for 6 years. Currently, she serves as the Explosives Technician, a Detective in the Special Victims Unit, and a member of the Critical Incident Stress Management Team. Outside of work, Lane and her amazing husband...
2024-12-31
1h 05
Bend Don't Break
Insights into Resilience
"Insights into Resilience of First Responders" This episode of the Bend Don't Break podcast features a role reversal, with Brian Willis of the Excellence in Training Academy interviewing Neil Dubord, about the lessons and insights gained from the first 70 episodes of Bend Don't Break. The podcast explores the resilience of first responders, touching on critical incidents, mental health challenges, and strategies for overcoming adversity. Key Themes Discussed: Origin of the Podcast: Neil shares how the Bend Don't Break podcast started as a Delta Police Department initiative, inspired by the need to reduce...
2024-12-17
1h 00
Bend Don't Break
Jail Break
In this episode of Bend Don’t Break, I sit down with Jake Suelzle, a seasoned corrections officer with over a decade of experience, to delve into the challenges faced by those working in one of the most demanding fields. Together, we explore the often-overlooked realities of life behind the fence, the emotional toll it takes, and the resilience required to thrive. Key topics include: Moral Injury and Burnout: Understanding the cumulative impact of administrative pressures, long hours, and difficult policies on corrections officers. Personal Responsibility in Mental Health: Why individual accountability for resilience is as...
2024-12-10
45 min
Bend Don't Break
#FirstResponders #BrainHealth #Resilience #MentalWellness #BendDontBreak #CircleBrain #Leadership #StressManagement #PoliceWellness #FirefighterSupport
In this powerful episode of Bend Don’t Break, I sit down with Dr. Nolan Beise, neuroscientist and CEO of Circle—a groundbreaking Canadian neurotechnology company. Dr. Beise shares how first responders can proactively strengthen their brain health using innovative brainwave sensing technology. Drawing parallels to physical fitness, Dr. Beise explains how measurable, actionable insights can transform mental resilience and prevent the neurological injuries often caused by high-stress careers. First responders will learn: How to identify early signs of mental strain before it becomes a crisis. The critical link betw...
2024-12-03
33 min
Bend Don't Break
Episode #76 Jessica Flores
On this episode of "Bend Don't Break," Neil speaks with Jess Flores, a former police officer who has navigated the challenging journey from law enforcement to becoming a transition coach. Jess shares her gripping story of near-death experiences on the job, her struggle with injury, and the painful reality of losing her law enforcement identity. Listeners will hear how Jess battled feelings of betrayal, isolation, and hopelessness before finding a new purpose in helping other officers transition out of policing. Jess also dives into how fitness and personal development saved her and inspired her to...
2024-11-26
35 min
Bend Don't Break
Bend Don't Break Episode #75 Brian Murphy
Strength in the Face of Trauma - BRIAN MURPHY In this compelling episode of Bend, Don’t Break, host Neil Dubord sits down with Lieutenant Brian Murphy, a survivor of the Oak Creek Sikh Temple shooting. On August 5, 2012, Brian responded to a distress call, confronting a gunman who had already claimed multiple lives. Despite being shot 15 times, Brian refused to back down, displaying unwavering resilience as he continued to assist his fellow officers. Brian opens up about his recovery, the challenges faced by his family, and the importance of mental strength in law enforcement. He sheds lig...
2024-11-19
55 min
Bend Don't Break
Episode #74 with Jim Nixon
In this powerful episode, host Neil Dubord sits down with Jim Nixon, a seasoned community safety professional from the UK, to explore the deep and personal challenges that first responders and law enforcement officers face. Jim opens up about his journey from 20 years in policing to his current role, sharing the mental health battles he’s endured along the way, including his experiences with PTSD and moral injury—a sense of betrayal by the system that many officers will relate to. Jim and Neil discuss the complexities of leaving a profession that becomes part of your identity and...
2024-11-12
56 min
Bend Don't Break
The Thin Ice of Policing
Join us for an eye-opening conversation with Jeff Wenninger, a former LAPD veteran and law enforcement consultant, as he dives into the heart of police culture and the challenges of creating resilient, well-rounded officers in today’s world. Jeff shares his own journey from experiencing police misconduct firsthand to dedicating over three decades to transforming policing from within. Discover his bold insights on mental resilience, officer wellness, and the untold power of higher education in reducing force incidents. If you're ready for a fresh perspective on what it takes to improve law enforcement and strengthen co...
2024-11-05
29 min
Bend Don't Break
Forgotten Civilians
This episode of the Bend Don't Break podcast features Katie West, a civilian transcriptionist for the RCMP, who opens up about her journey through chronic stress and PTSD. Often overlooked, civilian staff like transcriptionists and 911 operators are regularly exposed to traumatic content, yet lack the same mental health support systems available to front-line officers. Katie shares her deeply personal experiences with PTSD, detailing the toll of listening to traumatic cases for hours on end and the difficulties she faced when seeking help. She discusses the systemic gaps in mental health support for civilian roles, her...
2024-10-29
42 min
Bend Don't Break
The Scars of Policing
In this powerful episode of the Bend Don't Break podcast, we sit down with Daniel P. Smith, a seasoned journalist and author with deep personal ties to law enforcement. Daniel shares intimate stories from his life growing up in a family of Chicago police officers and explores the emotional toll the job takes on those who serve. From tragic incidents that forever change officers’ lives to the ripple effects on their families, this conversation reveals the unseen struggles and resilience of first responders. Daniel's unique perspective sheds light on the trauma and triumphs of law en...
2024-10-22
41 min
Bend Don't Break
Redemption - From Charges to Chief
In this episode, we sit down with Chief Chad Martin to explore a powerful story of resilience, redemption, and leadership. From overcoming a turbulent childhood and the scars of early trauma, Chad’s journey is one of perseverance in the face of adversity. He shares candidly about his military and early law enforcement career, where unresolved personal challenges surfaced, leading to setbacks, including addiction and job loss. After hitting rock bottom, Chad had to rebuild his life and career from scratch, enduring multiple failures before finding his footing again. His path back into law enforcement, rising unexpectedly to...
2024-10-15
48 min
Bend Don't Break
Beneath the Badge Episode #69
In this gripping episode of "Bend, Don't Break," we delve into the unspoken truths of trauma, resilience, and recovery within the world of first responders. Join us as we listen to the story of Diane Taylor, a former victim turned victor, who faced unimaginable loss and battled the depths of despair before reclaiming her life. Diane shares her profound experiences of grief and survival, including three suicide attempts, and the powerful journey that gives us all hope. Through candid conversations, we explore how the culture of toughness in policing often overlooks the essential need for...
2024-10-05
36 min
Bend Don't Break
Blue Grit Wellness: Balancing Duty, Family and Health
Summary In this conversation, police commander Eric Tung discusses the importance of wellness and resilience in law enforcement. He shares his personal journey of recognizing the need to address sleep issues, chronic stress, and mental health in order to optimize his performance as a police officer. Eric also talks about the role of his podcast, Blue Grit Radio, in promoting wellness practices and building bridges between law enforcement and the community. The conversation covers topics such as organizational culture, leadership support, and the importance of living outside the 'blue world' to maintain a balanced perspective. The conversation revolves around the...
2024-07-23
46 min
Bend Don't Break
Blue Grit Wellness: Balancing Duty, Family and Health
Watch the video episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/iY9MnqA2n3M Summary In this conversation, police commander Eric Tung discusses the importance of wellness and resilience in law enforcement. He shares his personal journey of recognizing the need to address sleep issues, chronic stress, and mental health in order to optimize his performance as a police officer. Eric also talks about the role of his podcast, Blue Grit Radio, in promoting wellness practices and building bridges between law enforcement and the community. The conversation covers topics such as organizational culture, leadership support, and the importance of living outside th...
2024-07-23
46 min
Bend Don't Break
Behind the Shield: A Journey from Undercover Ops to Mental Health Advocate
Summary Bob Stenhouse, a former undercover police officer, shares his journey from undercover work to being a whistleblower and the impact it had on his mental health. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining balance, avoiding cynicism, and surrounding oneself with good people. Stenhouse also highlights the need for wise leadership in policing, with a focus on emotional intelligence, psychological safety, and accountability. He encourages young officers to be trauma-informed, compassionate, and empathetic. Stenhouse's story serves as a reminder that taking responsibility for one's mental health and creating a respectful workplace are crucial for the well-being of police officers. Takeaways Maintain ba...
2024-07-09
42 min
Bend Don't Break
Behind the Shield: A Journey from Undercover Ops to Mental Health Advocate
Watch the video episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KuoGeAU2Npk Summary Bob Stenhouse, a former undercover police officer, shares his journey from undercover work to being a whistleblower and the impact it had on his mental health. He emphasizes the importance of maintaining balance, avoiding cynicism, and surrounding oneself with good people. Stenhouse also highlights the need for wise leadership in policing, with a focus on emotional intelligence, psychological safety, and accountability. He encourages young officers to be trauma-informed, compassionate, and empathetic. Stenhouse's story serves as a reminder that taking responsibility for one's mental health and creating a respectful w...
2024-07-09
42 min
Bend Don't Break
Surviving The Unthinkable: A Journey of Healing and Hope
Summary Constable Josh Harms shares his experience of being shot while on duty and his journey to resilience and mental health. He discusses the court process and the challenges he faced in seeking justice. Josh emphasizes the importance of accessing mental health resources and creating a supportive community for police officers. He also highlights the role of faith and forgiveness in his healing process. Josh encourages listeners to be open to seeking help and to validate the experiences of others. Takeaways Accessing mental health resources is crucial for police officers who experience trauma and stress. Everyone's journey to resilience is d...
2024-06-25
42 min
Bend Don't Break
Surviving The Unthinkable: A Journey of Healing and Hope
Watch the full video episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gNpSNM4k754 Summary Constable Josh Harms shares his experience of being shot while on duty and his journey to resilience and mental health. He discusses the court process and the challenges he faced in seeking justice. Josh emphasizes the importance of accessing mental health resources and creating a supportive community for police officers. He also highlights the role of faith and forgiveness in his healing process. Josh encourages listeners to be open to seeking help and to validate the experiences of others. Takeaways Accessing mental health resources is crucial for pol...
2024-06-25
42 min
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Post-Traumatic Growth and Survival Through Support
Summary Brad Savage, a police officer, shares his journey of resilience and self-care after experiencing traumatic incidents. He discusses the challenges of seeking help in a profession where there is a stigma around mental health. Brad emphasizes the importance of taking care of oneself and seeking support, even if it means challenging the belief that asking for help is a sign of weakness. He highlights the impact of participating in peer-to-peer programs and attending courses like the Trauma Resiliency Program and Save a Warrior. Brad encourages others to prioritize their well-being and not neglect their own needs. Takeaways Seeking help fo...
2024-06-11
47 min
Bend Don't Break
Post-Traumatic Growth and Survival Through Support
Watch the video episode and subscribe on YouTube: https://youtu.be/B9zCnbZzBdU Summary Brad Savage, a police officer, shares his journey of resilience and self-care after experiencing traumatic incidents. He discusses the challenges of seeking help in a profession where there is a stigma around mental health. Brad emphasizes the importance of taking care of oneself and seeking support, even if it means challenging the belief that asking for help is a sign of weakness. He highlights the impact of participating in peer-to-peer programs and attending courses like the Trauma Resiliency Program and Save a Warrior. Brad encourages others t...
2024-06-11
47 min
Bend Don't Break
Overcoming Tragedy Through Mental Health Advocacy
Watch the video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/dxpq4bkQeI0 Summary Jodie Baulkham, a survivor of the loss of her police officer husband, shares her journey of overcoming grief and supporting another first responder with PTSD. She emphasizes the importance of personal growth, effective communication, and mental health awareness. Jody encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives, assess their feelings, and set goals for the future. She shares her story through her memoir and invites others to share their stories as well. Takeaways Personal growth and resilience are essential in overcoming grief and trauma. Effective communication and emotional intelligence ar...
2024-05-21
40 min
Bend Don't Break
Overcoming Tragedy Through Mental Health Advocacy
Summary Jodie Baulkham, a survivor of the loss of her police officer husband, shares her journey of overcoming grief and supporting another first responder with PTSD. She emphasizes the importance of personal growth, effective communication, and mental health awareness. Jody encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives, assess their feelings, and set goals for the future. She shares her story through her memoir and invites others to share their stories as well. Takeaways Personal growth and resilience are essential in overcoming grief and trauma. Effective communication and emotional intelligence are key in supporting relationships with those experiencing mental health c...
2024-05-21
40 min
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Breaking The Silence: Transforming Mental Health in Law Enforcement
Watch the video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ojl-vQVxWrA Summary In this conversation, Mark Bouchard discusses the importance of addressing mental health and stigma within the police force. He shares his personal experience with psychological injury and emphasizes the need for proactive action and individual responsibility in maintaining mental health. Bouchard also highlights the concept of suicide by cop and the challenges faced by officers in making lethal force decisions. He calls for a shift in the understanding and treatment of officers involved in such incidents. In this conversation, the Delta Police Department discusses the importance of educating the public an...
2024-05-07
50 min
Bend Don't Break
Breaking The Silence: Transforming Mental Health in Law Enforcement
Summary In this conversation, Mark Bouchard discusses the importance of addressing mental health and stigma within the police force. He shares his personal experience with psychological injury and emphasizes the need for proactive action and individual responsibility in maintaining mental health. Bouchard also highlights the concept of suicide by cop and the challenges faced by officers in making lethal force decisions. He calls for a shift in the understanding and treatment of officers involved in such incidents. In this conversation, the Delta Police Department discusses the importance of educating the public and themselves about the realities of police work. They...
2024-05-07
50 min
Bend Don't Break
Resilience and Strength: Navigating Through Grief
Summary Constable Peggy MacConnell shares her experience of losing her husband in a tragic accident and how she coped with the grief and trauma. She emphasizes the importance of being your own advocate and doing what feels right for you. Peggy found support from the RCMP and her family, and she prioritized her physical fitness and mental well-being. She returned to work and embraced a routine to maintain a sense of normalcy. Peggy's resilience and positive outlook have helped her navigate through the challenges and continue to live a fulfilling life. Takeaways Be your own advocate and do what feels r...
2024-04-23
38 min
Bend Don't Break
Resilience and Strength: Navigating Through Grief
Watch our video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/VWYOjcfSfb4 Summary Constable Peggy MacConnell shares her experience of losing her husband in a tragic accident and how she coped with the grief and trauma. She emphasizes the importance of being your own advocate and doing what feels right for you. Peggy found support from the RCMP and her family, and she prioritized her physical fitness and mental well-being. She returned to work and embraced a routine to maintain a sense of normalcy. Peggy's resilience and positive outlook have helped her navigate through the challenges and continue to live a fulfilling life. Ta...
2024-04-23
38 min
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The Transcendental Power of Meditation for First Responders
Summary In this episode of the Bend Don't Break Podcast, retired police chief Les Sylven and Garry Foster discuss the benefits of transcendental meditation (TM) for first responders. They explain that TM is a simple and easy practice that can help reduce stress and build resilience. They share research studies that show the effectiveness of TM in reducing PTSD symptoms and improving overall well-being. The conversation emphasizes the proactive nature of TM, highlighting its ability to enhance concentration, conflict management, and relationships. They encourage listeners to explore TM as a tool for self-care and mental wellness. Takeaways Taking care of ou...
2024-04-09
35 min
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A Legacy of Resilience: Honoring Ryan Masales
Watch our video on YouTube: https://bit.ly/4axm4Kd Summary In this episode, we remember Ryan Masales, also known as Chopper, who was an undercover operator for the Delta Police Department. Ryan battled brain cancer and shared his inspiring story. He discussed his early career in law enforcement, his involvement in Project Starboard, and his diagnosis of glioblastoma. Despite the challenges he faced, Ryan remained resilient and focused on spending time with his family. He emphasized the importance of realism and cherishing every moment. This conversation with Chopper and his wife Estelize covers a range of topics, including the im...
2024-03-26
1h 22
Bend Don't Break
A Legacy of Resilience: Honoring Ryan Masales
Summary In this episode, we remember Ryan Masales, also known as Chopper, who was an undercover operator for the Delta Police Department. Ryan battled brain cancer and shared his inspiring story. He discussed his early career in law enforcement, his involvement in Project Starboard, and his diagnosis of glioblastoma. Despite the challenges he faced, Ryan remained resilient and focused on spending time with his family. He emphasized the importance of realism and cherishing every moment. This conversation with Chopper and his wife Estelize covers a range of topics, including the importance of always having a plan, the role of physical f...
2024-03-26
1h 22
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How PTSD Manifested Physically
In this episode of Bend Don't Break, Courtney Luxen from the Calgary Police Service shares her journey of overcoming functional neurological disorder (FND) and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). She initially joined the police service with a background in sports medicine but fell in love with the idea of becoming a cop after seeing a female officer in action. Courtney experienced various physical symptoms, including uncontrollable blinking, breathing difficulties, and loss of motor control. After a long and challenging recovery process, she returned to work in a part-time capacity and now advocates for mental health and wellness within the police...
2024-03-13
35 min
Bend Don't Break
Choosing Resilience: A Cop's Perspective on Life with Multiple Sclerosis
In this episode, Chief Neil Dubord speaks with Detective Greg Linkert from the Calgary Police Service, who shares his journey of resilience in the face of adversity after being diagnosed with multiple sclerosis (MS). Greg discusses his career in law enforcement, including his time in specialty sections such as the tactical team and bomb unit. He recounts the symptoms he experienced before his MS diagnosis and the challenges he faced in accepting his condition. Greg emphasizes the importance of communication, support systems, and maintaining a positive mindset. He also shares his involvement in the MS walk and peer support...
2024-02-07
34 min
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From Crisis to Control: Mitch Hardington's Resilience Revolution
In this episode, Mitch Hardington from the Calgary Police Service shares his experience with PTSD and his journey to recovery. Mitch recounts a traumatic call where he found a man who had cut his own throat and the impact it had on Mitch's mental health. He emphasizes the importance of seeking help and therapy, including the use of EMDR therapy. Mitch also discusses the concept of post-traumatic growth and how he has found a new identity outside of being a police officer. He shares his reintegration strategy for returning to work and encourages others to live authentically and take...
2024-01-16
35 min
Fast and Furious Ways to Grow Your Business
How Bold Leadership Makes Building an Epic Team Easy With Neil Dubord
Our Center Stage Member for this podcast is Neil Dubord, Delta City Police Chief Constable responsible for the performance of 300 officers and civilian staff, and more than 200 volunteers.In this episode, Neil breaks down his unique approach to leadership and the importance he places on communications, sense of purpose, belonging, coaching and the need to WOW! his “customers” with amazing experiences that make him a one-of-a-kind leader. He also shares his secrets on how to build a team of professionals who are committed to their role and to each other to protect public safety in the...
2023-12-22
18 min
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Crossroads of Courage: Navigating Trauma
This week, Chief Neil Dubord speaks with Nanaimo RCMP Constable Mason Dirnback. Mason was the first officer on scene of a dispute in a car between a man and a woman. Upon Mason's arrival, the man became fixated on Mason, not breaking eye contact, and advancing on him from the very start. And then the man produced a pistol. The encounter turned fatal for the man. Mason talks about the incident, the subsequent Independent Investigations Office investigation, and strategies he has employed to help him get through the psychological weight of taking the life of another person....
2023-12-19
50 min
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When the Hunter Became the Hunted
RCMP Sergeant Greg Toogood was at home enjoying an evening with friends and family when his chocolate labrador Abby started uncharacteristically barking outside. He went to the back door of his house to check on the dog. Greg, silhouetted in the door, was ambushed from afar and shot causing significant, permanent damage to his right arm. On this episode of Bend Don't Break, Greg joins Chief Neil Dubord to talk about how the shooting affected him, and how he found the courage to come back both physically and mentally. Join Chief Dubord and Sgt. Toogood as...
2023-12-01
48 min
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Finding Strength in Recovery
Join Chief Neil Dubord as he speaks with Greater Sudbury Police Service Constable James Jefferson. James was involved in a critical incident that had a profound impact on how he managed and functioned. Until he was ready to acknowledge this impact and do something to help himself, he spiraled to his rock bottom. But when James did acknowledge the impact, he started a road to recovery for himself, and now uses his experiences and outlook to help others with the GSPS. Looking for More Episodes? You can find more episodes of Bend Don’t Break on iT...
2023-11-17
44 min
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You Can't Buy Good Mental Health, You Can Only Create It
Join Chief Neil Dubord as he speaks with psychologist Dr. Mark Davies. Mark has recently joined the Delta Police Department and works with our wellness section to help our officers be mentally healthy. A psychologist on staff is not a completely new thing, but it goes a long way to show how committed the DPD is to employee wellness. Mark believes organizational culture can reduce barriers and contribute to healthy mental well-being. In speaking about a study conducted at Harvard, Dr. Davies states, “Unit cohesion in the military was a negative predictor of PTSD by a 2...
2023-09-29
39 min
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First the Plane Crash, then the PTSD
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Sande Higgins, an RCMP member who bravely shares her unique story of survival, followed by trauma. In this episode, Chief Dubord speaks with Sande who, several years ago, boarded a plane five days before getting married to the love of her life, to moments later finding herself as a survivor. Sande describes the traumatizing experience and how it accompanied her in silence for many years, painfully but away from the sight of her close ones. Sande has remained resilient in the face of all the different obstacles s...
2023-09-16
54 min
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Surviving PTSD: If I Could, You Can Too
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Ryan Moore of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police. In this episode, Chief Dubord speaks with Ryan about his struggle with PTSD and how he ended up helping others due to his own healing journey. Ryan has indigenous roots and received his formal name when he was young, he was called Big Uncle, a name they hadn’t given for a while in his culture, which represents somebody who looks after people, a perfect name that foresaw his destiny. In his role helping others, Ryan e...
2023-07-19
1h 02
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Overcoming PTSD: Thriving and Finding Happiness Beyond Trauma
Chief Neil Dubord is accompanied this week by Dr. Kendra Devor, who dives deep into her efforts regarding the Wellness Program designed to assist first responders in overcoming the repercussions of critical incidents they often endure in service. In this episode, Chief Dubord speaks with Kendra Devor Psy. D., a Licensed Clinical Psychologist out of Orange County, California. Her professional experience has focused on treating post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, grief, and loss. Dr. Devor has extensive experience working with first responders and their family members. Key Takeaways: [1:45] Ke...
2023-06-19
37 min
Bend Don't Break
Whole-Person Wellness for First Responders
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Kyle Stubbs, who is a member of the RCMP and was formerly in the Surrey Detachment. In this episode, Chief Dubord speaks with Kyle about how his life took a sudden shift in 2018 with his premature daughter's birth. Kyle openly shares how his entire family was affected by this and especially the impact that the vulnerable health condition of his baby girl had on him as a father, a husband, and a cop. Kyle shares how he struggled to find the support he needed but, fortunately, ran into a t...
2023-05-24
35 min
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Building a Care Culture
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Jonny Morris, CEO of the British Columbia chapter of the Canadian Mental Health Association, to discuss the event that took place on January 23rd, 2023, when the Delta Police Department received a report of an individual who was outside the safety rail on the southbound side of the Alex Fraser Bridge. In this episode, Chief Dubord speaks with Jonny Morris, who reached out during the crisis faced on that bridge and extended his support through a long negotiation process that lasted 8 hours and also caused the closing of the bridge...
2023-05-01
42 min
Bend Don't Break
The Cost of Confidentiality
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Grayson Hawkings and Joel Thirsk from the Delta Police Department. In this episode, Chief Dubord speaks with Grayson and Joel about their intervention in a case that had an unexpected turn and how they handled a complex and uncertain incident in the Ferry Terminal, displaying a magnificent team effort. Both Grayson and Joel share the impact the process that followed the event had on them since they were not able to talk to anyone about the incident for many months. They also speak of the strategies and to...
2023-03-29
58 min
Bend Don't Break
A Story of Resilience and Perseverance: We Need to Protect the Protectors
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Todd Mason from the Victoria Police Department. In this episode, Chief Dubord speaks with Todd about two tragic incidents that changed his career and affected him deeply, impacting his physical and mental health profoundly. Todd boldly shares the struggles he endured being diagnosed with PTSD, major depression and anxiety and how he regained control of his life and has his PTSD in remission. Listen to Todd’s inspiring story of transformation, resilience, and perseverance. Key Takeaways: [1:51] In September of 2021 Todd was a neg...
2023-02-14
48 min
Bend Don't Break
Todd MasonSizzle
2023-02-09
00 min
Bend Don't Break
‘10-33’ - Officer Down: RCMP Sgt. Laurie White’s Story of Being Shot in the Leg and Her Return to The Front Line
This week Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Laurie White. Laurie graduated from the RCMP training academy, ‘depot’, in 1996 and was posted to Kitimat, B.C. Less than three years into her career she was shot in the leg while executing a search warrant at the home of a sex offender. Laurie shares her incredible story of losing her leg, her physical and mental recovery and her heroic return to work as the first police officer in Canada to return to full, unrestricted policing duties, with an artificial leg. Laurie and Chief...
2022-12-06
53 min
Bend Don't Break
Skewed World View: How Policing Affects Your Perspective
In this episode, Chief Neil Dubord speaks with retired LAPD Chief Psychologist Dr. Kevin Jablonski. Kevin discusses how, in 25 years with the LAPD, he observed policing distort and skew how police officers view their world - becoming increasingly negative. Kevin also challenges police officers to explore their own world view and challenge it, noting that while black and white thinking might serve a purpose on the job, life outside of policing has many more shades of grey. Key Takeaways: [2:35] Kevin talks about his background and how he became a psychologist working with police o...
2022-11-08
39 min
Bend Don't Break
The Unreasonable Ask: Supporting Police Officers Fighting the Emotional Toll of Their Jobs
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Steve Joordens, a Professor at the University of Toronto where he teaches psychology, and Sgt. Dave Haynes, a Police officer who has been working for the Toronto Police Services for 21 years. In this episode, Chief Dubord speaks with Steve and Dave about how they put together a course for police officers to help face the stress and anxiety that come with their very challenging jobs. Steve explains how this course became an amazing opportunity to give back to the community by helping officers in need. Steve and Dave...
2022-10-12
41 min
Bend Don't Break
A Journey into PTSD with Nathan Kapler
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Nathan Kapler, who has his own podcast called Ten Thirty-Three, where he tells some of his experiences through extremely challenging situations as a Police Officer. Nathan shares in his show how he learned to handle his emotions, and also deal with his own unresolved trauma. In this episode, Chief Dubord speaks with Nathan about how he grew up in a small town in Northern Alberta wanting to be a caring and compassionate policeman. He shares the beginning of his career when he only was 21 years old, and how...
2022-09-13
43 min
Bend Don't Break
(Part 2) Tragedy in Mayerthorpe Alberta: Supt. James Hardy’s Story of Investigating the Murder of 4 Mounties while Caring for his Team
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined again by James Hardy who has been in policing for more than 4 decades, he was with the Royal Canadian Mounted Police then over to the Calgary Police Service, and later developed a consulting career. This episode is the second part of an amazing conversation with James. He shares how a large team of police officers investigated the murder of 4 RCMP officers on a rural property in Alberta in 2005. In addition to investigating the murder, James was one of the senior members in charge of making sure the mental he...
2022-07-05
33 min
Bend Don't Break
Maintaining Professionalism in the Face of Tragedy: Retired RCMP Supt. James Hardy Shares his Story of Leading Through Crisis
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by James Hardy who has been in policing for more than 4 decades, he was with the Royal Canadian Mounted Police then over to the Calgary Police Service, and later developed a consulting career. This episode is the first part of two, where James speaks about his 40 years of career in policing and how hard it was to retire. He also shares two major incidents that happened during his vast career that impacted him forever. James shares in detail both events and how he managed to balance professionalism and pay attention to...
2022-06-07
31 min
Bend Don't Break
Trauma and Stress, One 9-1-1 Call at a Time: Giselle Chiu’s Story of Answering the Call for Help
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Giselle Chiu, a Delta Police employee who experienced stress and trauma build throughout her 9-1-1 call-taking career. Giselle discusses her drive for a life of service, the toll answering 9-1-1 calls took on her wellbeing and a traumatic incident that occurred outside of work where her life saving efforts to save a baby were unsuccessful. Giselle’s story of resilience is one you won’t want to miss.
2022-05-03
28 min
Bend Don't Break
Saying Goodbye to Policing: A Career Lost to an On The Job Brain Injury
This month Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Constable Jenny LeQuesne from the Victoria Police Department (VicPD) who is sharing her incredible story. In this episode, Chief Dubord and Jenny speak about how being injured on the job led to the end of her beloved 12 year career. Jenny talks about trying to return to work as a police officer on patrol, the realization that a brain injury would mean that would never happen and the subsequent feeling of loss and how she ended up saying goodbye to policing.
2022-04-05
47 min
Bend Don't Break
Physical, Mental and Emotional Impacts of Investigating Sex Crimes: RCMP Cst. Shelby Murphy Shares Her Story
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by RCMP Cst. Shelby Murphy. In this episode, Shelby shares her story from her time in the RCMP’s Sex Crimes section investigating child sexual assaults and child pornography. Shelby shares that these investigations deeply impacted her physically, mentally and emotionally, to the point where she ended up suffering from PTSD and lived in shame for years. Shelby talks about how sharing her story was met with love and understanding, not the judgement and stigma she feared. Her story is inspirational, filled with life lessons and hope.
2022-03-09
1h 05
Bend Don't Break
A Journey in Healing: Abbotsford Police Cpl. Aaron Courtney’s Story of Staying in the Fight
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Aaron Courtney, a 19-year veteran of the Abbotsford Police Department. In this episode, Chief Dubord speaks with Aaron about how his career and life were completely altered in 2019 after he was a victim of a serious on-duty pedestrian hit-and-run motor vehicle incident. He shares his personal story, his struggles with career loss, his major health changes, organizational pressures, and the dark realities of PTSD and depression. He also opens up about the turning point that sparked his transformation and how his journey has led him to starting a...
2022-01-11
46 min
Bend Don't Break
Life Lessons from a Homicide Detective: Calgary Police Service Detective Dave Sweet’s Story.
On this edition of Bend Don’t Break, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by a 23-year member of the Calgary Police Service, Dave Sweet. In this episode, Dave shares key lessons he has learned as a Homicide Detective, impactful moments in his career that have changed his perspective on policing, and the coping strategies he leverages to protect his mental health.
2021-12-15
42 min
Bend Don't Break
Navigating an International Kidnapping and the Trauma of Losing Two Canadians: Three RCMP Negotiators Share Their Stories
This month on the Bend Don’t Break Podcast, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by not one, but three fantastic guests. S/Sgt. Mike Bloxham, Sergeant Dave Fouche, and Superintendent Dave Teboul are all experienced RCMP Crisis Negotiators here to talk about the critical incident that brought them all together. In this podcast, Mike, Dave T., and Dave F. speak about a 9-month long international kidnapping of two Canadian citizens. The three negotiators share their experience during the months long negotiation, and how they managed their mental health struggles after the incident was over.
2021-11-09
52 min
Bend Don't Break
PTSD & Night Terrors. RCMP Cst. Mark Bouchard Shares His Story of Processing Trauma and Healing.
This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Mark Bouchard. Mark first joined the Delta Police Department in 2007 and in 2020, Mark left the Delta Police to join the RCMP. Currently, he is serving on RCMP’s North District Emergency Response Team that he has been a part of since March 2021. In this episode, Mark shares some of the life-changing experiences he has gone through throughout his career from patrol to ERT. He candidly speaks on how these experiences have impacted his mental health, what he has done to recover, and his advice to both leaders and...
2021-10-07
52 min
Bend Don't Break
Airdrie Firefighter Chris Bentley opens up about Coping with Indirect Trauma, Years After the Catastrophic Wildfire in Slave Lake Alberta.
In this episode of Bend Don’t Break, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Chris Bentley. Chris and Chief Neil Dubord discuss the topic of vicarious trauma. You don’t always have to be right on the front line to experience the side effects from a traumatic incident. Chris shares his experience assisting with the wildfire effort in 2011 in Slave Lake, AB, and how it impacted his mental health in the years that followed. He speaks about the ups and downs he went through during and following the catastrophic event. ...
2021-09-14
46 min
Bend Don't Break
Standing Shoulder to Shoulder: RCMP Cpl. Deepak Prasad’s Story about Taking Care of a Community and Fellow Officers after a Tragic Mass Shooting.
The focus of today’s episode is on creating positive situations out of the darkest moments. Joining Chief Neil Dubord today is Deepak Prasad, a Divisional Wellness Coordinator for the Royal Canadian Mounted Police. April 18-19th, 2020 in Nova Scotia marked one of the darkest moments in the history of the province and the country. A gunman went on a rampage and took many innocent lives including the life of Constable Heidi Stevenson, a mother of two who had been with the RCMP for 23 years. On the morning of the 19th, Deepak’s phone went off t...
2021-06-08
43 min
Bend Don't Break
Vancouver Firefighter Lieutenant Jenn Dawkins on Surviving and Thriving Through a Cancer Diagnosis
Get ready for another fascinating, powerful, and insightful episode of The Bend Don’t Break podcast! This week, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Vancouver Fire Lieutenant Jenn Dawkins. Jenn has some incredible experience both in and out of her role as a firefighter and a powerful story of resilience that anybody can learn from. Jenn’s story is one that anyone could relate to. She speaks about the challenges of being one of seven women that were a part of an 800-person organization, her firefighting career, the health challenges she has faced and overcome, and the...
2021-05-04
38 min
Our Delta, Your Story
Community-First Policing | Episode 12 – Chief Neil Dubord
Host Garry Shearer is joined by Delta Police Chief Neil Dubord to relay his path in policing. From his start with the neighbourhood foot patrol in Edmonton to chief of the Metro Vancouver Transit Police to now chief of the Delta Police Department, he determined that community integration was an absolute necessity. In fact, Chief Dubord’s illustrious career was inspired through community, being encouraged by his neighbour years ago. It was these formative experiences that cemented Chief Dubord’s commitment to community. He unpacks the nuanced tactics behind policing and the ingenuity required to protect others. Chief Dubord also...
2021-04-28
50 min
Bend Don't Break
Overcoming the Trauma of Investigating the Death of a Child: RCMP Cst. Glen Fenimore’s Story of Resilience
Today, Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Glen Fenimore, former member of the Calgary Police Service, and currently a Constable with the RCMP. Glen was with the Calgary Police for 14 years before leaving policing to be closer to his family. His service with Calgary included a role in the Priority Crimes Unit which involved being part of undercover operations. On November 13th, 2011 a horrific crime occurred in Calgary that would eventually have a big impact on Glen’s career and life. In this episode, Glen shares details of the undercover operation he was part of, his...
2021-04-06
38 min
Bend Don't Break
Building Resilience Without Trauma: RCMP Sgt. Major Sebastien Lavoie’s Approach to Leading Through Critical Incidents
Welcome back to the Bend Don’t Break podcast! Chief Neil Dubord is welcoming RCMP Sergeant Major Sebastien Lavoie to this episode. Sgt. Major Lavoie’s career highlights include the Canadian Air Carrier Protective Program and the Lower Mainland District Emergency Response Team. In their conversation together, Sgt. Major Lavoie talks about his career journey, the lessons he has learned through difficult experiences and the recovery plan that he developed to ensure people on his team were provided with enough support through critical incidents. He also shares how to build resilience without tra...
2021-03-09
1h 01
Bend Don't Break
Aftermath of a Mass Shooting: Las Vegas Police Department Lt. Joshua Bitsko Recounts the Months and Years After the Tragedy.
This episode is part two of the two-part series with Lt. Joshua Bitsko from the Las Vegas Metropolitan Police Department. In the first part of the series, Josh recounts the day of the October 1st, 2017 Las Vegas shooting as one of the first responders on the scene. He took listeners moment-by-moment from when he first received the call up to finding the shooter deceased in his room. In this episode, Josh shares further insight into his mindset, emotions, and mentality during and post-incident. He also speaks about the key lessons he le...
2021-02-02
27 min
Bend Don't Break
Massacre in Sin City: Las Vegas Metropolitan Police Department Lieutenant Joshua Bitsko’s Moment-by-Moment Account of the ‘Route-91’ Music Festival Shooting
Today is a special episode for the Bend Don’t Break podcast. Chief Neil Dubord is joined by Lt. Joshua Bitsko from the Las Vegas Metropolitan Police Department, who recounts the day of the 2017 Las Vegas shooting at the Route 91 Harvest Music Festival. Lt. Bitsko takes listeners moment-by-moment from when he first received the call, to finding the shooter deceased in his room. Be sure to tune in to our next episode, where Josh shares further insight into his mindset, emotions, and mentality during and after the crisis.
2020-12-15
47 min
Bend Don't Break
Seeking Help: Abbotsford Police Cst. Mike Willford’s Story of Compassion Fatigue.
*This episode contains graphic language.* In this episode, Cst. Mike Willford of the Abbotsford Police Department joins the podcast to share his personal story on compassion fatigue. Mike and Chief Neil Dubord discuss Mike’s experience of being the ‘helper’, but not seeking help for himself and how that led to physical symptoms he could not ignore. His story is a unique but common one in the sense that there was no one, single event that stood out or led to his symptoms; it was the small incidents that added up over tim...
2020-11-03
37 min
Bend Don't Break
Reintegration: How Edmonton Police Service is Helping Police Officers After a Traumatic Event
In this episode, Chief Neil Dubord is excited to be joined by two guests who are both long-time Edmonton Police Service members, Colleen Mooney and Glen Klose. In this episode, Glen and Colleen discuss how Edmonton Police look after their members after traumatic events on the job, and how for the past 11 years, the department’s Reintegration Program has been helping police officers get back to work.
2020-10-06
47 min
Bend Don't Break
Beyond the Blue: Police Spouse Erica McKeddie Shares her Story about Strengthening and Supporting Law Enforcement Families.
On this episode of Bend Don’t Break, host Chief Neil Dubord speaks to the founder of the Vancouver chapter of Beyond the Blue about the need for more peer support for family members of police officers. As the spouse of a Vancouver Police officer, Erica McKeddie founded Beyond the Blue after tragedy touched her family and her extended police family. Erica shares her story about how Beyond the Blue is working to strengthen and support law enforcement families.
2020-09-08
45 min
Bend Don't Break
Shot in the Line of Duty: Metro Vancouver Transit Police Cst. Josh Harm’s Story of Recovery and Resiliency
Metro Vancouver Transit Police Constable (Cst.) Josh Harms joins the podcast to discuss his recovery after he was shot while on duty in early 2019. After going through this traumatic event, Cst. Harms returned to work, concentrating not on the number of days it took to return, but the work he put into his recovery, resiliency, and mindset.
2020-08-04
46 min
Bend Don't Break
60 Hour Walk for PTSD Awareness: RCMP Sgt. Rob Farrer’s Quest to Support First Responders
A 20 year RCMP officer, Rob Farrer recognized the need for more awareness associated with post-traumatic stress disorder amongst first responders. Rob took it upon himself to hike 1 kilometer for every fallen officer of the RCMP - 239 kilometers in 56.5 hours, over the course of three straight days. Rob shares his process of why he decided to do the walk, what the walk was like, and what happened as a result.
2020-06-01
41 min
Bend Don't Break
Surviving the Covid-19 Crisis: Advice on How to Stay Resilient"
2020-03-30
38 min
Bend Don't Break
Metro Vancouver Transit Police Cst. Julien Ponsioen on Facing Adversity on and off the Job.
After a 21-year career with B.C. Emergency Health Services (BCEHS), Cst. Julien Ponsioen joined the Metro Vancouver Transit Police, serving Vancouver’s Downtown Community area as a Neighbourhood Police Officer. In this episode, Julien speaks about the adversities he’s faced on and off the job, including trauma while with EHS, as well as coming to terms, and coming out as gay to family and colleagues.
2020-03-03
46 min
Bend Don't Break
Frontline policing: The wear and tear of everyday calls for service
Edmonton Police Service 20 year veteran, Gary Benoit shares a common story that most first responders can relate to - the impact that day-to-day stress can play on one’s health and wellness. Gary shares lessons on facing these challenges head-on, and how to discover your ‘why’ and pave your path to recovery and self-improvement. Mentioned in this Episode: Edmonton Police Service The 5 Love Languages, by Gary Chapman Bring About What You Think About, by Eddie LeMoine Oola: Find Balance in an Unbalanced World —
2020-02-04
38 min
Bend Don't Break
From a Routine Break-and-End Call to a Dangerous Shootout - Victoria Police Sergeant John Musicco's Story
In 2015, Sgt John Musicco, a 14 year veteran with the Victoria Police Department, took what started out as a fairly standard break-and-enter call. The events following were anything further from standard. In the 3 ½ years that followed, John went through a process that, to this day, remains a big part of his life. His story is incredibly invaluable to hear and learn from. He shares the significant hurdles he faced, the strategies he used to cope and move forward, his key lessons, and advice Key Takeaways: [:45] Chief Neil Dubord welcomes John Musicco on to the podc...
2020-01-13
52 min
Bend Don't Break
Undercover Cop Steps Out Of the Shadows in Fight Against Terminal Brain Cancer
Today’s story is an incredible one — but even more incredible is the resiliency today’s guest shows through his journey over the last several years. Ryan (Chopper) Masales started as a police officer in 2001 at the Vancouver Police Department. He worked there for 11 years before he transferred to Abby PD in 2010. He spent the major part of his career working as a undercover operator and is well known in the policing world for his knowledge of drugs. Chopper has been a good friend of the Delta Police Department for a long time — helping them through ma...
2019-11-12
1h 22
Bend Don't Break
Investigating Major Crime with an Oxygen Tank Strapped to her Back: RCMP Cst. Cathleen Falebrinza’s story of Resiliency.
Today on Bend Don’t Break, your host Chief Neil Dubord is interviewing someone from the Royal Canadian Mounted Police (RCMP) — a first for the podcast! Cathleen Falebrinza is an RCMP officer who first was trained at the RCMP training academy, ‘Depot’, in 2004. When she graduated in 2005, she was posted to Quesnel, British Columbia where she met her future husband, Stuart, who she now has been married to for 14 years and has two stepdaughters with. In 2014 however, life as she knew it changed forever. During her time in the Chilliwack Serious Crime Unit she was diagnosed...
2019-11-05
45 min
Bend Don't Break
Nearly Losing her Life over a Stolen Chocolate Bar: Victoria Police Department Detective Lane Douglas-Hunt’s Journey on Navigating PTSD
Today’s guest is Lane Douglas Hunt. Lane has been a member with the Victoria Police Department since 2008. She has spent most of her career on the front lines in patrol where she was on the Greater Victoria Emergency Response Team for 6 years. Currently, she serves as the Explosives Technician, a Detective in the Special Victims Unit, and a member of the Critical Incident Stress Management Team. Outside of work, Lane and her amazing husband, Jeff, are parents to 2 dogs, 50 chickens, a 700-gallon reef tank, and 5 honey bee hives! When they aren't lifting weights or farming they are riding th...
2019-10-01
1h 07
Bend Don't Break
Losing 9 Fingers to Frostbite: The Climbing Expedition that Changed Firefighter Erik Bjarnason’s Life
In this week’s episode of Bend, Don’t Break another firefighter joins the podcast! Erik Bjarnason is a career firefighter with the North Vancouver City Fire Department, who has recently retired. He is also a long-time member of North Shore Rescue and an avid mountaineer. Erik has climbed mountains in Africa, Europe, Asia, North America, and South America; completed a month-long dogsled trip in the Arctic to the magnetic North Pole; and explored the entire length of the Amazon from the highest point in Bolivia to the Atlantic Ocean. Today, Erik is sharing the story...
2019-09-04
37 min
Bend Don't Break
Geoff Young’s Courageous Story: Overcoming Addiction and Fighting to save his Career.
Joining the Bend, Don’t Break Podcast today is Geoff Young. Geoff is 42 years old and has been with the Delta Police Department for 12 years. Prior to joining Delta Police, he served in the infantry in the Canadian Armed Forces in New Brunswick with the Royal Canadian Regiment. He was also a Corrections Officer at Surrey Pre-Trial Services Centre, as well as a commercial pilot for both land and seaplanes. In today’s episode, Geoff transparently shares his incredibly courageous story centered around his struggle with opioid addiction. Geoff speaks about the struggles with managing compli...
2019-08-07
34 min
Bend Don't Break
When a Routine Call Turns Life Threatening: Vancouver Police Constable Craig Look’s Story
On this week’s episode, Bend, Don’t Break is welcoming on their first guest from the Vancouver Police Department — Constable Craig Look! Constable Craig Look is a 16-year member with the Vancouver Police Department and has worked in various sections within the department, with a focus on taking a proactive approach toward policing. Away from work, Constable Look spends his time with his family and volunteer-coaching for his children's sports teams. In this episode, Constable Look shares his stories about two significant calls he received within his career. One of them dates...
2019-07-03
48 min
Bend Don't Break
Brush with Death: Delta Police Acting Sergeant John Jasmins’ Story
This week, John Jasmins joins Chief Neil Dubord to discuss the challenges he has been through throughout his career. John Jasmins started with the Delta Police Department as a Reserve Constable, and has been a regular member with the department for over 13 years. He has worked in Patrol, Street Crime Unit, Uniform Gang Task Force, CFSEU, Youth Section, and Community Policing. Currently, John is assigned to the North Delta District Community Policing Office and is working on his Master of Laws Degree from Osgoode Hall Law School. His wife, Kristina, is also a police officer a...
2019-06-04
43 min
Bend Don't Break
Retired Abbotsford Police Chief Bob Rich’s Story of Leading through Traumatic Events and Organizational Crisis.
This week, Bob Rich joins the podcast! Bob was the Chief of the Abbotsford Police for 10 years, retiring in 2018. Prior to that, he was with the Vancouver Police for 28 years, finishing his time as the Deputy Chief of Operations. Bob’s story begins just before 2015. During his time in Abbotsford, the Department faced a number of difficult events — both in the community and within the Department. He dealt with two suicides, him and his team being under investigation, a member being charged through an internal investigation, a leadership crisis, and several more traumatic event...
2019-05-01
52 min
Bend Don't Break
Coping with the Suicide of a Loved One and a Near-Fatal Accident.
In this week’s episode, Retired Sergeant Chris Borgstede joins the podcast to speak with Chief Neil Dubord about the impactful experiences in his life — both personally and professionally. Chris has been a longtime member of the Delta Police Department, starting his career back in 1992. Previously, Chris was a lawyer, but decided to make the career switch and found his true passion in policing. Chris is now coming up on his 26th year with the department and will be retiring this month. He’s had a career full of rich experiences and was a fantastic cop.
2019-04-02
37 min
Bend Don't Break
The Challenge of a Lifetime: Delta Police Sergeant Ray Athwal’s Wait for a New Heart
Sergeant Ray Athwal joins Chief Neil Dubord on this week’s episode of Bend Don’t Break. Ray Athwal is 49, married for 23 years, and has two teenage boys. Professionally, he has spent 19 years with DBD. Ray enjoys spending his days motorcycling, socializing with friends and family, and accompanying his children to their hockey and lacrosse games. On the fateful day of May 8th, 2016; mother’s day, his and his family’s lives were changed forever. His wife suffered a major heart attack that developed into heart failure, leading to many surgeries and a wait for a new hea...
2019-01-30
41 min
Bend Don't Break
Part 2 : The Starlight Casino Shooting and the Murder Charge that Followed
On this episode of Bend Don’t Break, your host, Chief Neil Dubord, is joined by Delta Police Officer, Constable Jordan MacWilliams once again, to continue his story from last week’s episode. Jordan has gone through significant events over the last several years — making him the perfect person to discuss the topic of resiliency in the field. His story starts on November 8th, 2012, a fateful night in both his life and work. Having been sent to a dangerous hostage situation at Starlight Casino, Jordan has to make one of the toughest...
2019-01-13
36 min
Bend Don't Break
The Starlight Casino Shooting and the Murder Charge that Followed
Today on Bend Don’t Break, your host, Chief Neil Dubord, is joined by Delta Police Officer, Constable Jordan MacWilliams. Jordan has gone through significant events over the last several years — making him the perfect person to discuss the topic of resiliency in the field. He’s happily married with two young daughters. Currently, he’s seconded, working at The Lower Mainland District Emergency Response Team. He joined the Delta Police Department as a Reserve Constable back in 2007, graduated in 2009, and then worked Patrol until 2012 when he got onto the Emergency Response Team. Jord...
2018-12-18
47 min
Bend Don't Break
On the Brink of Losing Your Job, Your Health, and Your Father: Delta Police Constable Aaron Hill’s Lesson in Resiliency
Welcome to Bend Don’t Break — a Delta Police podcast on police officers using the power of storytelling to strengthen their resiliency — with your host, Chief Neil Dubord. In this episode, Chief Dubord is joined by Delta Police Officer, Constable Aaron Hill, to bravely share his story in its entirety. Aaron’s story greatly reflects the themes of this podcast: resiliency and overcoming incredible challenges. His story provides significant lessons and key takeaways that can be applied to anyone — regardless of position, career, or aspirations. His story starts back in 2011, when he was the su...
2018-11-10
39 min
Living Leadership Podcast
Episode 1 Interview with Neil Dubord Chief Constable of Delta Police Department
Episode 1 Interview with Neil Dubord Chief Constable of Delta Police Department
2017-09-03
31 min
Living Leadership with Phil Eastwood
Episode 1 Interview with Neil Dubord Chief Constable of Delta Police Department
Episode 1 Interview with Neil. Dubord Chief Constable of Delta Police Department
2017-09-03
31 min