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The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaGender RolesHow do traditional or non-traditional gender roles affect your relationship or ability to be in a relationship with someone else?2025-03-3130 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaReturn of the ExIs your ex “spinning the block?” Have you received texts saying they are thinking about you? Jorge and Nelsa weigh in on whether or not you should pick up that phone, text back or respond to that DM! Follow us on YouTube at The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa. Subscribe, like and comment and share to help us keep more relationship content coming to you!2024-12-1124 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaDating & PoliticsIn the divided political climate of today, Jorge and Nelsa discuss if dating someone across the aisle is possible and if so, how. Follow, like and share on YouTube at The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa or go to our website for more episodes at www.therelationshipcycle.com. Thank you for supporting this podcast for three seasons!2024-12-1134 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaRed & Green FlagsJorge and Nelsa discuss how to spot red and green flags when dating- or, when to pause and when to move forward. Subscribe, like and share us on YouTube and Spotify for The Relationship Cycle!2024-10-0332 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaCuffing SeasonAre you cuddling up with someone this fall and winter? Cuffing season is almost here! Learn what it is and how it impacts you psychologically, as well as the pros and pitfalls of the practice.2024-09-1932 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaHoneymoon’s Over-Now What?What happens when the glow of new love moves to lukewarm? Jorge and Nelsa discuss ways to reconnect, rejuvenate and reignite the love you thought was gone!2024-09-1732 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaDating ExclusivelyWhat does it mean to date exclusively in today’s social context? Who decides when it’s time to commit? Jorge and Nelsa discuss the pros and cons of exclusivity in this episode.2024-08-3040 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaWork and DatingHow do you balance work and dating, especially in a demanding profession? Jorge and Nelsa have tips to help you in this episode. Follow us on Spotify and YouTube at “The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa”.2024-07-3028 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaCourtingIs courting a potential partner still an active practice in the modern world of online dating? Can it still serve a necessary purpose? Nelsa and Jorge discuss the potential to improve your odds of choosing your mate using this technique in this episode! Follow us on YouTube: like, subscribe and comment with your feedback.2024-07-2245 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaWhat’s Your Zodiac SignJorge and Nelsa uncover the nuances of dating according to Zodiac signs. Does it really matter if your signs are compatible? Can an Aries and a Capricorn make it work? Let us know what you think on our YouTube channel, The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa.2024-06-3033 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaLet’s Get Married…AgainJorge and Nelsa dive into why some people choose to remarry their former spouse after a breakup. While some statistics show 60% of second marriages end in divorce, those who remarry the same person have some success. Listen on Spotify, Apple podcasts, or YouTube to catch this latest hot topic!2024-06-2232 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaPrenupsIt’s wedding season and Jorge and Nelsa debate the hot topic of prenuptial agreements in this relationship era. Sign or don’t sign? Do prenups show a lack of trust, or are they just a safety net like car insurance? Please give us your thoughts at The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa on YouTube, like and subscribe!2024-06-0128 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaIs Porn Cheating?Jorge and Nelsa discuss whether or not porn is a form of cheating. Or is porn just a simple pleasure? We asked our listeners for their opinions. What do you think? Take our poll!2024-05-2335 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaBaby Mamas, Baby Daddies, & DatingJorge and Nelsa discuss the implications of dating when your partner has a baby with another. How to effectively date if the baby’s parent doesn’t cooperate with you is also discussed. Join the conversation on our YouTube channel at “The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa” and like, share and comment!2024-04-3046 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaMeet the FamilyNelsa and Jorge discuss in depth when is the best time to introduce a new partner to the family. Is there a time frame minimum? What is a realistic expectation for both partners to be introduced to children? Follow us on YouTube, like and comment and let us know your thoughts about meeting the family!2024-04-1343 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaCheck, PleaseNelsa and Jorge enjoy lovely discussion about who pays for dates. Are you traditional and think the man pays? Or, do you believe that who asked is the responsible person? Thanks to our listeners for your comments, shares, likes and follows on all our platforms! Go to www.therelationshipcycle.com to find our content and link.2024-03-2925 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaBreak up to Make UpDo you or someone you know keep going in and out of the same relationship without any real change? Nelsa and Jorge discuss how this make up and break up cycle can lead to unhealthy outcomes that may not end in real love. Follow, like and subscribe to our YouTube channel (as well as Spotify) at “The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa.”2024-03-1637 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaClosure (with Luz Velez)Jorge and Nelsa talk to Luz Velez, LCSW, Licensed Clinical Social Worker at Chanilu Therapeutic Spot, PLLC, about closure.
(Phone: 704-665-9097, https://headway.co/providers/luz-velez). How do you tell the story of your relationship ending and how to move forward if you did not get closure.2024-02-2747 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaWithholding IntimacyNelsa and Jorge define and discuss the different types of intimacy and how withholding them can affect a relationship. Follow TRC with Jorge and Nelsa on YouTube, Spotify and other podcast outlets. Comment, like and let us know how our content is impacting your relationships!2024-02-1040 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaJealousyJorge and Nelsa delve into jealousy and how you can best manage this emotion. Follow us and subscribe on Spotify or other podcast outlets, as well as on YouTube at The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa. We appreciate our listeners from around the world!2024-01-2444 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaDouble StandardsJorge and Nelsa discuss some double standards in dating and how they impact moving forward in a relationship. Join us on YouTube, subscribe, comment, and like us to support our show; or go to Spotify or www.therelationshipcycle.com.2024-01-0839 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaDating SeriouslyAre you ready to date with a real solid outcome for a long term relationship? Jorge and Nelsa talk about where and how to get different results.2023-12-2735 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaWe’re Just TalkingJorge and Nelsa dive into what it means to “just talk” in the dating world. Follow us online at www.therelationshipcycle.com; on YouTube at The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa please like, follow and comment on the show when you listen there; or listen on any of your favorite podcast platforms worldwide!2023-12-2041 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaStep BackJorge and Nelsa describe times when they have needed to step back from personal relationships to evaluate themselves and why you should consider it when strengthening current relationships or preparing for a new one. Sources: “7 Signs You Need to Step Back for a Stronger Marriage or Relationship.” Brides.com. 11/27/2023. Heidi Priebe. YouTube.com. 11/27/2023.2023-11-3045 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaFriend ZonedJorge and Nelsa explore why some people get friend zoned, how to get out the friend zone, and how to recognize when a friend wants more. Find out what our listeners think as we discuss comments from this topic’s Facebook discussion. Follow us on YouTube at The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa. Comment, like and subscribe! Thanks for your support!2023-11-1757 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaCougarsIn this episode, Jorge and Nelsa discuss cougars and younger men in this new age of dating. We dive into the pros and cons and go over our personal experiences on the topic.
2023-10-3146 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaCodependencyA hot topic, “Codependency” looks at dating and how this behavior impacts the success or failure of relationships. (The hosts are not licensed therapists and the show is for entertainment purposes only and not meant to treat or cure any disease or illness. Seek a trained and licensed mental health professional if you or someone you love need help for addiction or other issues.)2023-10-2548 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaMilitary Couples- An Interview with Liz and StevenJorge and Nelsa interview Liz and Steven and discover how the couple managed a courtship, marriage and family life while Steven serves in the United States Armed Forces. Check us out on Spotify and YouTube at The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa.2023-09-2943 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaChemistryJorge and Nelsa talk about chemistry between people and why it matters. Join us on Spotify or other podcast platforms or go to YouTube @The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa for more great shows! www.therelationshipcycle.com2023-09-1639 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaCelibate DatingJorge and Nelsa discuss how celibacy and dating works for some couples but not for others. Listeners also chime in with their opinions on how this might work. Tune in on Spotify, YouTube, or our website to listen to this and other episodes!2023-08-3144 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaFriends of the Opposite SexCan men and women be platonic friends? In this discussion, Jorge and Nelsa if people can be friends with the opposite sex while in a relationship.2023-08-1638 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaThe 90 Day RuleJorge and Nelsa have a rousing discussion on whether or not to have sex before 90 days or not. What are your thoughts? Would you wait? Why or why not?2023-07-2934 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaBad BoysJorge and Nelsa discuss why some women habitually choose “bad boys,” and what science, and psychologists, say about that choice. Follow The Relationship Cycle on YouTube or at www.the relationshipcycle.com.2023-07-0441 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaCouples Therapy, Part 2 with Therapist Cyndi Ixchele AyaJorge and Nelsa speak to Cyndi Ixchele Aya, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, Licensed School Counselor, and a Reiki Master in NC. She is the owner of Innerverstaions, PLLC a therapeutic private practice, where she invites her clients to examine and reshape the conversations. Cyndi Ixchele received her Ed.S, and M.A., in Mental Health Counseling from Gardner-Webb University. You can contact Cyndi at innerversation@gmail.com, or feel free to text her at 919.299.0970.2023-06-2446 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaGirl/Bro CodesJorge and Nelsa explore some of the girl/bro codes (unwritten rules) of dating. Can you date your friend’s ex? Should you date your ex’s friends? Where are the boundaries? Who decides? Tune in for a great conversation! Check out The Relationship Cycle on YouTube now, as well!2023-06-1045 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaCouples Therapy- Part 1Jorge and Nelsa examine the benefits and drawbacks of couples therapy, including why it may not work for everyone, and why some couples decide to try it.2023-05-2742 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaFWB (Friends with Benefits)In this episode, Jorge and Nelsa discuss FWB, the pros and cons of this dynamic, and see what our listeners say about it.2023-05-1342 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaCheatingIn this episode, Jorge and Nelsa discuss cheating- reasons people cheat, if trust can be rebuilt, and how to salvage the relationship after the infidelity. Don’t miss us on all our platforms!2023-04-2938 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaNarcissismIn this episode, Jorge and Nelsa talk with Vanessa, Coach V, a certified life coach who works with clients who have been through narcissistic abuse, similar to her own experience. This conversation discusses flags, definitions, and ways to help people in dating relationships navigate what may be narcissistic behaviors. *We are not licensed therapists or doctors, and this show is not designed to diagnose or treat anyone with any diseases or illnesses. We are here to entertain and inform only.2023-04-081h 02The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaHealthy Lifestyles & DatingJorge and Nelsa talk to Dan Garten, a certified personal trainer, about how couples may be affected by how different they are when it comes to healthy lifestyles and their relationships. If you are interested in learning more about Dan’s services as a trainer, contact him at 732-710-1418 or at dangar229@gmail.com! Check out our podcast on YouTube @The RC with Jorge and Nelsa, as well as our website, www.therelationshipcycle.com.2023-03-2535 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaDating & Sobriety: Olena’s StoryJorge and Nelsa talk to Olena about her personal journey to sobriety and how it impacted her dating life. *This episode may contain details that could be triggering for some. Listeners be advised.2023-03-0742 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaDating: Reality vs. FantasyIn this episode, Jorge and Nelsa discuss whether dating is about reality or fantasy- are people choosing compatibility or simply creating a movie in their minds? Check out Jenn Selby’s article, “Why It’s Time to Embrace Romantic Realism” at refinery29.com.2023-02-2538 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaLove or Lust?Jorge and Nelsa talk about the differences between love and lust, and how those differences affect relationships.2023-02-1132 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaAge & Dating: Does It Matter?Jorge and Nelsa discuss age gaps in their dating experiences and share listener feedback in whether or not age is just a number or if it’s a dealbreaker.2023-01-2934 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa50 Shades, Part IIJorge and Nelsa interview Mr. Noir, a BDSM lifestyle Dom(inant), and ask the questions you want to know: how to get into the lifestyle, how to intelligently negotiate a Dom/Sub(missive) relationship, and other must know details inquiring listeners want to know. Sources: How to be a Healthy and Happy Submissive https://a.co/d/7GVQCZn https://youtu.be/s82GqIOuO3s www.the relationship cycle.com2023-01-2149 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaLiving SingleCan you stay single too long? Does it impact how you engage with potential partners? Is being single positive or negative? These and other points are covered on the show with feedback from our Facebook friends to shed light on how they see being single. Check out our website, www.therelationshipcycle.com, and send us feedback on show ideas at jorgeandnelsa@gmail.com! We appreciate each of you for supporting our show.2022-12-3139 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaSituationshipsNelsa and Jorge talk about what a "situationship" is, how you know if you are in one or not, and the pros and cons of being in one. Referencing womanshealthmag.com article, "11 Signs You're in a 'Situationship'- And How to Handle It Like a Dating Pro", and the listener responses on Facebook, Jorge and Nelsa help you navigate this sometimes slippery slope! Thanks for your support this year. We appreciate you in all 27 countries where are listeners are located!2022-12-1734 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaLove LanguagesIn this first episode of the new season, Jorge and Nelsa discuss what love languages are and how knowing yours and your partner’s (or family members’) love languages can impact your relationship. Link to Love Language quiz: 5lovelanguages.com/quizzes2022-11-1932 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaMental Health & RelationshipsTune in as we talk with Luz Velez, a licensed clinical social worker. We dive into the important discussion of how mental health affects relationships and what techniques and methods can be used to support yourself and others2022-11-0541 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaLet's Talk about SexNelsa and Jorge talk to Nakimah Clark, a Certified Master Sexpert (The Dr. Rachael Institute since 2020, and soon to be Certified Clinical Sexologist. Nakimah began her coaching service in 2021, Pleasure Principles, LLC. Nakimah talks about what led her to want to help others' intimacy and sexual issues, as well as answers questions from listeners. This is a must-listen show! You can find out more about Nakimah's coaching services at or call for an appointment with her at 704-252-3531.
2022-10-1546 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaGhostingJorge and Nelsa talk about “ghosting” in dating and relationships, some reasons for it, and what to do if it happens to you. Contact us at jorgeandnelsa@gmail.com if you have other show topics you want to hear.2022-09-1734 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaLove & Finance“Boss Creator,” Liz Yancey, Owner of Business Solutions, LLC, author, speaker and entertainment consultant, educates and informs our listeners on ways you can discuss finances with your partners or potential partners and how to prepare yourself for a sound relationship regarding money. You can contact Liz for more information on her services at iambosscreator.com.2022-08-3152 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaSwingers’ LifestyleWe speak to a couple who is living the swinger's lifestyle to learn more about their choice and how it impacts their relationship. Buckle up and put the kids to bed for another lesson in The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa! Check out all our episodes on our website at www.therelationshipcycle.com. Special thanks to all our fans worldwide for your input and for being a part of our listening family!2022-08-1341 min
The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaSingle Parents and DatingIn this episode, Jorge and Nelsa speak to Chuck, a single dad in the military, about how he juggles parenting, work, and the effects on his dating life. We also did a Facebook dialogue and shared feedback given by our listeners. You can see those at Jorge Medina or Nelsa Webber on Facebook. Please subscribe and share our podcast and check out our website at www.therelationshipcycle.com.2022-07-3046 min
The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaCultural Differences in DatingIn this episode, Nelsa and Jorge discuss the impact of cultural differences in dating and how relationships are formed, continue, or even dissolve because of differences such as race, ethnicity, political and socio-economic beliefs among others. How has a dating relationship of yours been affected? 2022-07-1633 min
The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaIndependent WomenAre you an independent woman finding it difficult to date in this century? Are men intimidated by your independence? Is your independence getting in the way of love? We surveyed women on Facebook and asked these questions to find out independent women's perspectives on dating. You may be surprised what we discovered. Tune in and listen.
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2022-06-2546 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaDivorceIn this episode, Jorge and Nelsa discuss the trials and tribulations of divorce, including the negative connotations, and the effects of it on the family, friends, and even the individuals involved, along with what their biggest lessons learned were. 2022-06-1137 min
The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaMoving on after a Breakup with Master Life Coach Kat TolerCertified Master Life Coach, Kat Toler, joins Jorge and Nelsa in discussing ways to move on after a break-up. Kat is also an author of several books, including My Name is Rage and As Secret Letters Do. If you would like to work with Kat, you can reach her at https://katjtoler.com/.
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The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaHow to Spot Players and Gold Diggers, Part 2In this episode, Jorge and Nelsa focus on how to spot someone who may just want your finance and not your romance!2022-05-1942 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaHow to Spot Players and Gold Diggers, Part 1In this episode, Jorge and Nelsa help our listeners recognize the signs that a date may not be serious about commitment in the relationship, but may be all about sex or money. Is your mate a player or gold digger? In part one, we explore how to spot the signs. 2022-04-3038 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaBaecationJorge and Nelsa talk about taking a potential "bae" on vacation and whether intimacy should be expected. 2022-04-1731 min
Bittersweet EpiphaniesJorge and NelsaFellow podcasters, Jorge Medina and Nelsa Webber, come to hang out at the JJP and talk about relationships, dating, energy, healing and starting a podcast. Their podcast, Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa, is based on real talk with expert guests to help you navigate relationships in our modern-day world. Lot of laughs, wisdom and "real talk" fill this one-hour episode.2022-04-051h 01The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaDaddy IssuesIn this episode, Nelsa and Jorge speak to guest, Nicole (*her name has been changed to protect her identity) about her emotional issues in her dating relationships that stemmed from her relationship with her father. We discuss with Nicole the affects to her dating life and how to recognize red flags in potential suitors.2022-03-1943 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaHow to Heal with H.M.HumphreyIn this episode we talk to couple’s therapist,H.M. Humphrey, from CouplesConnectTherapy, who gives tips on ways to heal after pain in relationships. If you need help in healing, couplesconnecttherapy.com has virtual and in-person appointments.2022-03-0544 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaDating with Health IssuesJorge and Nelsa interview Jamie, a breast cancer survivor about her challenges in dating.2022-02-2235 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaLove Boredom?In this episode, Jorge and Nelsa explore ways couples can overcome boredom in their relationships. One resource for our listeners can be found here: https://www.bustle.com/wellness/148328-20-things-to-do-when-you-get-bored-in-your-relationship. Congratulations to our $50 gift card winner, Jamie Lynne! Thanks to all our listeners who entered, shared, and those who are continuing to support us! 2022-02-0633 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaPoly Who?Have you ever wondered what polyamory is? Why anyone would choose it? Nelsa and Jorge talk to Chris- who has experienced both monogamy and polyamory- about the lifestyle and what the advantages and disadvantages have been for him, as well as what prompted the changes in his life. This is a compelling and enlightening interview. Follow, share, and comment; also, tag us when you share this episode and send a screenshot to jorgeandnelsa@gmail.com to be entered to win our $50 gift card giveaway through February 4, 2022. Drawing will be Feb.5. All decisions are final. Must be 18 and up to enter. ...2022-01-2125 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and Nelsa50 ShadesJorge and Nelsa talk with two guests, Jessica (a submissive) and Mr. Noir (a DOM), as they help listeners explore the often stereotyped world of BDSM. This episode contains adult content and is NOT recommended for listeners under 18 years old. 2022-01-1246 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaHappy Holidates!In this episode, Jorge and Nelsa help you decide if you should bring that new date around the family for those special occasions. Also, how do you know when the time is right to take things to another level? Jorge and Nelsa share their own dating and marriage experience to help you navigate the world of relationships. 2021-12-2334 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaToxic & Abusive***
WARNING: This episode may be a trigger for those who have experienced abuse.*** Danielle shares her story of surviving a toxic and abusive relationship with Jorge and Nelsa. This episode discusses the signs and red flags of abusive relationships and tips on how to get out of unsafe situations. Please call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) or 9-1-1 if you need immediate help to get out of an unsafe situation.2021-12-1137 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaDating with PurposeJorge and Nelsa discuss dating etiquette, courtship, roles, and safety considerations when you are ready to meet people. Give us your feedback and show ideas at jorgeandnelsa@gmail.com.2021-11-2436 minThe Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaIntimacy & Communication with Guest, Asha SimsJorge and Nelsa talk to Asha Sims, owner of Ashakti Wellness and Yoga of Charlotte, NC. Asha is a clinical licensed therapist who specializes in holistic healing modalities in addition to traditional talk therapy, and she shares her expertise in how to improve communication and intimacy as an individual first, then as a couple. Follow her on IG or Facebook @ashaktiwellness or see Asha's website, ashaktiwellness.com, to see the full menu of services she provides. 2021-11-1343 min
The Relationship Cycle with Jorge and NelsaAre You Ready to Date?In this episode, Jorge and Nelsa discuss being ready to date and ask some questions that help prepare for the process. Shout out to Stephan Labossiere of Stephan Speaks on YouTube for today's questions. (Check him out!) 2021-10-3131 min