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Love & Truth Network Podcast - Audio Edition133: Far Too Many Pastors Struggle With Porn | Nick Stumbo & Garry IngrahamNick Stumbo grew up in a loving Christian home, but behind closed doors, he battled a secret addiction to pornography. The struggle followed him into Bible college and marriage, casting a long shadow over his life for many years. However, through surrender, honesty, and faith, Nick found freedom and now leads a ministry helping others break free from this same battle. He and Garry delve into his story, and explore how many pastors desperately need help in dealing with this issue too. Don’t miss this honest, hope-filled episode and discover the numerous resources that exist for finding support an...
2025-11-121h 08
Pure Desire PodcastSPECIAL EPISODE: Hope, Healing, and Freedom (New Book Release)In this special episode, Nick Stumbo and Ashley Jameson sit down to share the heart behind their new book, Hope, Healing, and Freedom. Written from their own journeys through pornography addiction and betrayal trauma, this book offers a deeply personal yet practical roadmap toward lasting recovery.They discuss why telling their story together matters, the reasons pornography has become such a widespread issue—even in the church—and how common misconceptions continue to keep people stuck in silence. Nick and Ashley unpack key concepts like connection vs. sobriety, the impact of betrayal trauma, and why quitting porn requ...
2025-10-0750 min
Faith Radio PodcastStumbo, Nick & Jameson, Ashley - September 30, 2025 Guests: Nick Stumbo & Ashley JamesonMinistry: Pure Desire MinistriesPositions: (Nick) Executive Director (Ashley) Director of Programs and PartnershipsBook: Hope, Healing and Freedom: A Pathway Beyond Pornography, Compulsive Sexual Behavior, and BetrayalWebsite: puredesire.org
2025-09-3017 minFaith Radio PodcastStumbo, Nick & Jameson, Ashley - September 30, 2025 Guests: Nick Stumbo & Ashley JamesonMinistry: Pure Desire MinistriesPositions: (Nick) Executive Director (Ashley) Director of Programs and PartnershipsBook: Hope, Healing and Freedom: A Pathway Beyond Pornography, Compulsive Sexual Behavior, and BetrayalWebsite: puredesire.org
2025-09-3017 min
The Covenant Eyes PodcastBreaking Shame & Finding Freedom: Nick Stumbo on Pornography & Healing in the ChurchHow can the church create safe spaces for healing from pornography and sexual brokenness? In this powerful conversation, Nick Stumbo from Pure Desire Ministry joins hosts Karen Potter and Rob Stoddard to talk about shame, recovery, and the hope of freedom in Christ.In this episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, Karen Potter and Rob Stoddard sit down with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministry. Together, they explore how the church can respond to pornography and sexual addiction with grace, truth, and community.Nick shares his personal story of transformation and...
2025-09-2441 min
PSR PodcastBeyond the Porn Phenomenon: Latest Research on Porn UsePSR Podcast is a listener supported outreach of Be Broken Ministries. Partner with us through giving at BeBroken.org/donate. Thank you for your support!----------In this episode, I sit down with Nick Stumbo, director of Pure Desire Ministries, for an honest conversation about sexual brokenness and the impact of pornography, especially within the Christian community. We dive into new research from Pure Desire and the Barna Group, titled Beyond the Porn Phenomenon, revealing surprising trends and the ongoing struggle many face in silence. Nick shares insights from the research on breaking s...
2025-06-2040 min
The Union PodcastEpisode #106- Nick Stumbo On What To Do When You’re Leading & Struggling With PornIn this powerful episode of The Union Podcast, we sit down with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, for a candid and hope-filled conversation designed specifically for church leaders.As pastors, ministry leaders, and youth workers navigate the pressures of spiritual leadership, many also face private struggles with sexual brokenness — often in silence. Nick shares his own story of battling pornography addiction while in pastoral ministry, and how coming into the light became the starting point of healing, not the end of his calling.We also discuss the sobering results of “Beyond the Porn Phen...
2025-05-1400 min
Relationship Truth: UnfilteredNick Stumbo on Breaking the Silence: The Hidden Impact of Porn on Christian MarriagesWhat do you do when trust is shattered, but no one around you seems to take your pain seriously?
In today’s deeply honest and hope-filled episode, Leslie sits down with Nick Stumbo, former pastor and Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, who opens up about his personal battle with pornography—and the profound impact it had on his wife, his marriage, and his ministry. Nick's story isn’t just one of addiction—it's about healing, honesty, and hope when everything seems lost.
Together, Leslie and Nick dismantle toxic messaging that pressures wives to “just forgive” or “have mor...
2025-04-1449 min
Dad TiredPorn, Shame, and the Journey to Real Healing (with Nick Stumbo) |464In this episode, Nick Stumbo (Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries) shares his personal story of battling pornography addiction while serving as a pastor—and how it nearly cost him his marriage. Nick and Jerrad unpack the cycle of shame, hidden habits, emotional coping, and why true healing for Christian men requires more than confession.If you've ever felt stuck in sin, numb to your marriage, or spiritually ashamed, this conversation offers a hopeful path toward recovery and freedom in Christ.What You’ll Learn:Why many Christian men deny the severity of their porn...
2025-04-1453 min
The Lion Within Us - Leadership for Christian Men513. Combating Pornography In Church With Nick StumboSend us a textIn this unflinchingly honest conversation, Nick Stumbo shares his journey from serving as a senior pastor while secretly battling pornography addiction to finding freedom and now helping others as Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries. Nick reveals how his early exposure to sexual content created patterns of shame and secrecy that followed him into adulthood, marriage, and ministry—despite his sincere faith and leadership position. What makes this episode particularly powerful is the exploration of why churches and seminaries continue to avoid addressing sexual brokenness effectively, despite statistics showing 75% of men and 44% of wo...
2025-04-091h 14
Men in the Arena - Christian Men's PodcastIs Looking at Porn Digital Adultery? – Podcast Highlight: Nick Stumbo EP 835This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 678, Breaking the Porn Cycle: The 7 Pillars of Freedom from Sexual Sin w/ Nick Stumbo. Check it out! Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have qu...
2025-04-0207 min
Awesome Marriage PodcastConfronting the Destructive Impact of Porn with Nick Stumbo of Pure Desire | Ep. 667Porn is doing real damage to too many Christians today. This issue is affecting a huge percentage of our brothers and sisters in Christ, and the shame that often prevents us from talking about it leads to secrecy and hinders healing. We're thankful that Nick Stumbo is on the podcast today. Nick is a pastor and the director of Pure Desire Ministries. Along with Barna, Pure Desire recently conducted a study on the impact porn is currently having on the Church in America. Their findings demonstrate how crucial it is to open the conversation about porn among...
2025-03-2559 minAwesome Marriage PodcastConfronting the Destructive Impact of Porn with Nick Stumbo of Pure Desire | Ep. 667Porn is doing real damage to too many Christians today. This issue is affecting a huge percentage of our brothers and sisters in Christ, and the shame that often prevents us from talking about it leads to secrecy and hinders healing. We're thankful that Nick Stumbo is on the podcast today. Nick is a pastor and the director of Pure Desire Ministries. Along with Barna, Pure Desire recently conducted a study on the impact porn is currently having on the Church in America. Their findings demonstrate how crucial it is to open the conversation about porn among...
2025-03-2559 min
Taking Donors Seriously® PodcastA Rowboat in the OceanIn this conversation, Brad interviews Nick Stumbo and John Begeman from Pure Desire Ministries, discussing their mission to help individuals overcome sexual addiction and the importance of community in healing. They share personal stories of struggle and recovery, emphasizing the need for churches to address sexual issues openly. The discussion also covers fundraising challenges, the growth of Pure Desire, and the impact of their counseling programs. The conversation highlights the importance of vulnerability, donor engagement, and the vision for changing church culture around sexual health. Pure Desire: Helping People Break Free from Sexual Struggles by Ted Roberts
2025-03-2450 min
The Pursuit of Manliness512: Nick Stumbo | Pure Desire MinistriesSend us a textOn today's PoM Podcast episode I sat down with Nick Stumbo of Pure Desire Ministries. Nick, the executive director of Pure Desire, confronted his own porn addiction 15 years ago. He and his wife found healing through Pure Desire’s counseling and group ministries. Nick believes parents should create a safe place to have an ongoing, open-ended conversation with their kids about healthy sexuality rather than focusing on having a one-time conversation about sex. Even though fathers have one of the earliest and most trusted roles in a young person's life, the dat...
2025-02-2533 min
The WinShape Marriage PodcastOur 8 Favorite Moments From Season 2Check out our highlight reel for season 2 of The WinShape Marriage Podcast. We’ve loved being a part of your weekly routine through the fall and winter—thank you for engaging with us! As we officially wrap season 2, Rob Philo and Marlee Arnold run through their eight biggest takeaways from this season. With so many amazing guests ranging from Dr. Gary Chapman to most recently Nick Stumbo, it was hard to choose just eight. Tune into today’s episode for a high-level overview of what you might have missed. Then, catch up on any episodes you didn’t listen to when...
2025-02-1936 min
Fight For Your Marriage PodcastHope After Porn: Healing for You and Your Marriage Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, a ministry that helps people find hope and healing from the effects of sexual brokenness. Nick knows firsthand how a pornography addiction can destroy a person and marriage. In this conversation, Lori and Nick talk about current statistics surrounding porn use in the church from a study they did in partnership with the Barna Group. You will also learn: The challenges a person may face in overcoming the shame associated with their sexual addiction and how to break free The importance of transparency with those around y...
2025-02-1252 min
Rejoice Marriage Ministries AudioEp 200 Hope After Porn: Healing for You and Your MarriageNick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, a ministry that helps people find hope and healing from the effects of sexual brokenness. Nick knows firsthand how a pornography addiction can destroy a person and marriage. In this conversation, Lori and Nick talk about current statistics surrounding porn use in the church from a study they did in partnership with the Barna Group. You will also learn:
• The challenges a person may face in overcoming the shame associated with their sexual addiction and how to break free
• The importance of transparency with those around you, especially your spouse
• How to...
2025-02-1252 minThe WinShape Marriage PodcastWhat Does Research Say About Pornography? | Nick StumboDid you know 61% of the U.S. population (men and women) say they view pornography and 54% of practicing Christians (men and women) say they view pornography—only a 7% difference—according to the latest research. Additionally, only 11% of practicing Christians say they feel comfortable talking to their pastor about this struggle. Pornography is pervasive among our culture, even those with a Christian worldview. On today’s episode of The WinShape Marriage Podcast, Rob Philo talks with Nick Stumbo, executive director of Pure Desire, an organization dedicated to providing resources for those struggling with sexual brokenness, addiction, and betrayal. Nick shares his pe...
2025-02-0552 minFaith Radio PodcastStumbo, Nick - Pure Desire Ministries Guest: Nick StumboMinistry: Pure Desire MinistriesPosition: Executive DirectorTopic: a discussion about the operation of pornography, its pervasiveness, and resources available to parents to help their children in this topic areaWebsite: puredesire.org
2025-02-0316 minFaith Radio PodcastStumbo, Nick - Pure Desire Ministries Guest: Nick StumboMinistry: Pure Desire MinistriesPosition: Executive DirectorTopic: a discussion about the operation of pornography, its pervasiveness, and resources available to parents to help their children in this topic areaWebsite: puredesire.org
2025-02-0316 min
unSeminary PodcastBreaking Free: Addressing Sexual Brokenness in the Church with Nick Stumbo
Welcome back to the unSeminary podcast. We’re talking with Nick Stumbo, the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries.
According to a Barna study, 75% of Christian men and 40% of Christian women view pornography at least occasionally, with 67% of pastors having a personal history of porn use. How can churches effectively address pervasive issues of sexual brokenness and foster healing within their congregations? Tune in as Nick shares his personal journey of healing, and how churches can create both a safe place and a safe process through which people can experience transformation and freedom.
Finding healing. // Despite th...
2025-01-3039 min
Man Within Podcast889 - How Data is Changing the Conversation on PornographyIn this conversation, Sathiya and Nick discuss the findings of a recent Barna study on pornography usage among practicing Christians. They explore the need for updated data, the alarming statistics regarding pornography consumption, and the implications for mental health and church involvement. The conversation highlights the gender differences in perceptions of pornography and emphasizes the church's role in providing support and resources for those struggling with addiction. In this conversation, Sathiya and Nick delve into the complex relationship dynamics surrounding pornography use, emphasizing the importance of trust, communication, and professional help in recovery. They discuss the stigma associated with...
2025-01-2055 min
More than RoommatesEpisode 113 - How Porn Affects Your Brain and Your Marriage (feat. Nick Stumbo) In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek and Scott interview Nick Stumbo, the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, about pornography and its impact on the brain and how it affects marriages. This episode is Part 1 in a 2-part series about pornography and marriage.Scriptures:James 5:161 Cor 6:18Resources:Website - Pure Desire MinistriesFree Downloads - 7 Keys to Understanding Betrayal Trauma and 5 Steps to Freedom From PornPodcast – Pure Desire Ministries PodcastQuestions to...
2025-01-1432 min
The Built Different Podcast with Dr. Zach ClintonBreaking the Silence: Finding Lasting Freedom from Pornography Addiction, with Nick Stumbo, Ep. 207Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire, a ministry that actually helped him and his wife find a way out and healing from his own porn addiction. In this honest, unflinching conversation, Nick joins Zach Clinton to explain the challenges involved in overcoming the shame and brokenness of porn use. They examine the different wounds and the peripheral damage that can occur with a spouse or a mate, and explain why both partners in a relationship matter as a journey of recover begins. Nick offers unique firsthand perspective on how this can be an unspoken problem within...
2025-01-0746 min
The Art of Relationships PodcastBreaking the Chains of Pornography with Guest Nick StumboIn this episode, Chris and Alisa Grace explore the challenges and impacts of pornography in relationships and personal lives with special guest Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire. They discuss the pervasive issue of pornography in Christian communities, its mental, relational, and spiritual implications, and the path to freedom through grace-filled healing. Offering insights into breaking cycles of shame and addiction, this episode provides practical tips to help listeners pursue healthy, Christ-centered relationships.Whether you’re a college student, a married couple, or a leader in the church, this episode offers valuable advice to navigate this ch...
2025-01-011h 08Pure Desire Podcast391 - Looking Back & Looking AheadHappy New Year’s Eve! In this special year-end episode, host Nick Stumbo and guest co-host Heather Kolb dive into the value of self-reflection as we close out one year and prepare for the next. Whether you’re in the middle of a recovery journey, pursuing personal growth, or simply looking for practical ways to start the new year with purpose, this episode has something for you.Nick and Heather discuss why self-reflection is vital, not just at the end of the year but throughout our lives. They explore how pausing to look back can help us unco...
2024-12-3154 min
Husband MaterialNew Stats On Porn Use Among Christians (with Nick Stumbo)75% of Christian men and 40% of Christian women watch porn on a regular basis, but only 21% wish they didn't. Nick Stumbo shares these stats and other major findings of Beyond The Porn Phenomenon, a new research report produced by Barna and Pure Desire Ministries.Nick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and host of the Pure Desire Podcast. He's also the author of Setting Us Free: An Unexpected Journey Of Grace and Safe: Creating A Culture Of Grace In A Climate Of Shame. Learn more at puredesire.orgOrder Beyond The Porn Phenomenon
2024-12-3034 min
The Good Question PodcastBreaking The Chains: Overcoming Pornography Addiction With Nick Stumbo Of Pure DesireToday, we sit down with Nick Stumbo, a former pastor and the Executive Director of Pure Desire, to dive into a complex subject: pornography addiction. With sexually explicit material more accessible than ever, men and women across the world find themselves impacted by ongoing exposure to it. How does pornography influence our culture as a whole? How can we break free from this cycle of addiction? Join us now to see for yourself… Nick was a third-generation pastor who began his ministry work at the East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington, where he served as head pas...
2024-12-1736 min
Kingdom Sexuality213: Is it Time to Make a Change??Tune into our final pornography series episode with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director at Pure Desire Ministries. Nick shares how porn impacted him as a pastor and how he decided to find healing!
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2024-12-091h 03
Finding Genius PodcastBreaking Free: Nick Stumbo On Pornography Addiction, Healing, & Hope With Pure DesireIn today’s episode, we discuss the topic of porn addiction with Nick Stumbo, a former pastor and the Executive Director of Pure Desire. Nick, a third-generation pastor, began his ministry work at the East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington. He served here as head pastor for more than 10 years. During this time, Nick closely observed the sexual brokenness and devastation in the congregation – and recognized like never before the power of grace in the Church… Nick has his own story involving pornography addiction. Through the resources provided at Pure Desire, he and his wife, Michelle, found...
2024-11-2337 minPure Desire Podcast382 - Beyond The Porn Phenomenon w/ David Kinnaman (Part 1/8)David Kinnaman, CEO of Barna Group, joins the podcast today to help kick off an 8-part deep dive into the new data on pornography use, its impact on relationships, mental health, and the Church. Together, with Nick Stumbo and Ashley Jameson, they explore how this research can guide the Church in addressing sexual brokenness and provide real hope for healing.This eight episode deep dive into Beyond the Porn Phenomenon features the voices of people prominently featured in the report.Resources:Order 'Beyond The Porn Phenomenon'Barna Website
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2024-10-291h 03Pure Desire Podcast376 - Reaching the Next GenThis episode explores the challenges young people face today, including mental health issues, pornography, and the impact of growing up in the digital age.Ben Bennett, leader of the Resolution Movement, shares his experience connecting with Gen Z through social media and offering hope, freedom, and healing through the message of Christ. Join Nick Stumbo, John Begeman, and Ben as they discuss how curiosity, compassion, and authentic relationships can help guide this generation toward healthy sexuality and mental well-being.ResourcesFull Episode on YouTube
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2024-09-171h 04
RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery80 - Renewed by Grace: A Journey of Healing and Leadership with Nick and Michelle StumboIs it possible for GOOD to come from all the pain of sex addiction and betrayal trauma?
Nick and Michelle Stumbo are examples of how good CAN come from the pain we have experienced. A former pastor and now head of Pure Desire ministries, Nick shares his personal story of transformation along with his wife Michelle who talks about what it was like being married to a pastor and feeling like she had to keep all of this to herself at the time.
If you are a betrayed partner and would lik...
2024-09-1157 minRecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery80 - Renewed by Grace: A Journey of Healing and Leadership with Nick and Michelle StumboIs it possible for GOOD to come from all the pain of sex addiction and betrayal trauma?
Nick and Michelle Stumbo are examples of how good CAN come from the pain we have experienced. A former pastor and now head of Pure Desire ministries, Nick shares his personal story of transformation along with his wife Michelle who talks about what it was like being married to a pastor and feeling like she had to keep all of this to herself at the time.
If you are a betrayed partner and would lik...
2024-09-1157 minPure Desire Podcast374 - 10 Mistakes When Launching Recovery GroupsToday, Nick Stumbo and Rich Moore explore 10 common mistakes churches make when launching recovery groups. They share practical advice on avoiding pitfalls like isolating or shaming language and the dangers of a quick-fix approach. This episode is essential for pastors and leaders looking to create and sustain effective, long-lasting recovery groups within their church community.RESOURCESFull Episode Video (YouTube)
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2024-09-0354 min
The Covenant Eyes PodcastThe Pornography Pandemic: New Data, New Hope with Nick StumboIn this episode of The Covenant Eyes Podcast, Karen Potter sits down with Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, to delve into the alarming rise of pornography, especially among the digital generation. With the release of a groundbreaking new Barna study on the horizon, we'll explore the staggering statistics and uncover the devastating impact of pornography on individuals, families, and society. Nick will share insights from Pure Desire Ministries on how to combat this epidemic and offer hope for those struggling with pornography addiction. Don't miss this crucial conversation about a problem that af...
2024-08-0240 min
The Betrayal Recovery Transformation PodcastA Message for Pastors & Clergy: Supporting Betrayed Spouses Well with Nick StumboOn this episode of BRT, we have a special guest, Pastor Nick Stumbo. Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and has an extensive background in pastoral ministry. He began his ministry career at East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington, where he served as lead pastor for over a decade. Confronted with his own pornography addiction, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through Pure Desire’s counseling and group ministries. His public disclosure led to a revival of forgiveness and healing within his church, and he continues to lead the way in helping ch...
2024-07-281h 14
No Regrets Leadership PodcastNick Stumbo - Pure Desire MinistriesHey men, this week we have Nick Stumbo on from Pure Desire Ministries. Nick and his ministry work with men struggling with pornography and supports churches with support / recovery groups and recourses, all avaliable at their links below. Don't forget to leave a review and follow us everywhere @noregretsmen! https://puredesire.org/ https://puredesire.org/podcasts/ https://puredesire.org/tools/
2024-04-1636 min
Spirit Lake CampusPornography: Soul-Shriveling And Relationship RuiningNick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, Toutdale, OR. Join him as he teaches us about the impact of pornography on men and how they can find an escape from the bondage of that sin.
2024-04-1000 min
PSR PodcastLiving Undefiled (with Nick Stumbo)Why is pornography such a big deal? This is a common question in the culture, but not necessarily one of alarm, but rather questioning why ministries like ours and many others even exist. Is there any real harm to pornography?To help us answer these questions we have Nick Stumbo back on the program. Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and an author and speaker on sexual issues from a Christian worldview. In our conversation, Nick shares many of the negative effects of porn: biological, mental, emotional, and relational. We look at t...
2024-02-2837 min
EFCA Theology PodcastPornography: Soul-Shriveling and Relationship Ruining – Rev. Nick Stumbo (2024 EFCA Theology Conference)From the breakout sessions of the 2024 EFCA Theology Conference, Rev. Nick Stumbo leads a session on "Pornography: Soul-Shriveling and Relationship Ruining."
2024-02-211h 03
Stories Unveiled Podcast with Ashley SearsFinding Healing Through Sexual Addiction and Betrayal Trauma with Guests Nick Stumbo and Trevor Winsor of Pure Desire Ministries (S2:E1)Welcome to Season 2 of the Stories Unveiled Podcast with host, Ashley Sears, sponsored by Pure Desire Ministries. On today’s episode, Ashley is joined by Trevor Winsor and Nick Stumbo from Pure Desire to chat about their stories, their involvement with the ministry, and how understanding our stories in relationships help in our healing journey.
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2023-11-0739 minMen in the Arena - Christian Men's PodcastBreaking the Porn Cycle: The 7 Pillars of Freedom from Sexual Sin w/ Nick Stumbo EP 678Are you stuck in a cycle of sexual sin? It's time to break free! In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Nick Stumbo, co-host of the Pure Desire podcast, to discuss his book, "Setting Us Free." They walk you through the seven pillars of sexual freedom and how to break the cycle once and for all. Setting Us Free on Amazon
2023-09-2255 min
The Wounds Of The FaithfulEP 151: How Do You Find The Words To Describe Your Trauma? Mark McNearMany survivors suffer unspeakable abuse in their childhood and never tell another soul about it. It is very common to not have the words to even describe what happened to their bodies, their minds, and emotions. My guest Mark McNear is here to talk about his book Finding My Words: A Ruthless Commitment to Healing Gently After Trauma. Mark candidly talks about his painful childhood, the long term fallout from the abuse, what was it like going through rehab, and finding the words and the courage to tell his story. Join us for a powerful testimony of freedom in Christ!
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2023-09-2033 min
Husband MaterialWhy You Need A Recovery Action Plan (with Nick Stumbo & Trevor Winsor)How do you take action after relapse for growth and healing without using shame or punishment? After a porn relapse, what do appropriate consequences look like?Nick Stumbo and Trevor Winsor are members of the Executive Team at Pure Desire Ministries. Together, they host the popular Pure Desire Podcast.Free tools mentioned in this episode:Recovery Action Plan (for when a relapse has occurred)Escape Plan (for when we are triggered or tempted)Relapse Prevention Plan (for day-to-day life)The F.A.S.T.E.R. Scale (for self-awareness)Register for the Pure...
2023-08-1443 min
PSR PodcastBecoming a Healing Church$75K Matching Gift Summer Partnership OpportunityWhen you give any amount to our ministry this summer (before August 31, 2023) your gift will be DOUBLED, up to $75,000. Give now at Bebroken.org/donate. Thank you for your partnership!----------------------------Our guest today is Sam Black. Sam is the director of recovery education at CovenantEyes and the author of the new book, The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography and How to Fix It.In our conversation, Sam shares who he wrote this book for (pastors and ministry leaders) and why he w...
2023-06-1435 min
Pure Desire Podcast307 - Betrayal As A Pastor's Wife w/ Michelle StumboThe devastation created through betrayal trauma can turn a partner’s world upside down and impact them in a way they never imagined. But what does healing from betrayal trauma look like if your spouse is in a public position—doctor, teacher, police officer, judge, or pastor? Today, we’re joined by Michelle Stumbo (married to Nick Stumbo, the Executive Director for Pure Desire). We talk through what healing from betrayal looks like when your husband is the pastor. What tools and boundaries are necessary, how it impacts kids and healing as a family, the obstacles you may face, and ev...
2023-05-2351 min
Grace Enough PodcastJessica Harris | Helpful Message for Christian Women Struggling with PornJessica Harris grew up in a cultural Christian home, she followed all the rules and expectations of her faith, but still fell prey to pornography. When she stumbled upon pornography at the age of 13, she became addicted and developed a double life of shame and perfectionism. Even after finding Jesus, she struggled alone, unable to find a safe place to talk about her addiction. But just when she thought she might have a way out, a devastating blow leaves her questioning everything.In this episode, you will be able to:
Uncover the trials and triumphs of w...
2023-05-0957 minGrace Enough PodcastRoșie McKinney | The Truth About Women Crushed by Porn in Their RelationshipsIs your spouse or boyfriend struggling with a porn addiction in your relationship? Have you heard the myths about how to address it? From the widely misinformed to the downright wrong, Rosie Makinney is here to debunk the top three myths about how pornography addiction affects relationships and marriages, present the truth and what to do next.I remember what it was like to feel so alone and so ashamed, and I don’t want anybody else to feel like that. – Rosie MakinneyMy special guest is Rosie MakinneyRosie Makinney, founder of Figh...
2023-05-0248 min
The Nook PodcastDirty Little Secret - Part 3 - The Mentality - Breaking Free From PornographySend us a textIn the third installment of this honest and necessary series, we take a deeper look beneath the surface of pornography addiction, not just the behavior, but the brokenness that fuels it. I’m honored to be joined by Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, an organization committed to helping men, women, and couples find lasting freedom from sexual addiction through the healing power of Jesus Christ.Nick brings a powerful mix of personal experience and professional insight to this conversation, helping us understand what’s really going on in the...
2023-04-2550 minGrace Enough PodcastDr. Juli Slattery | Christian Sexual Purity & IntimacyDr. Juli Slattery and Amber discuss discussed some of the unbalanced messages Christians received during 90's purity culture, the dangers of reducing intimacy down to a formula, some ways her understanding of God and sex have evolved over the years and what covenant has to do with it.Related Episodes:
197: Rachel Joy Welcher | Talking Back to Purity Culture
196: Dean Inserra | Is the Bible’s Plan for Sexuality Outdated?
119: Shelia Gregoire | Exposing Lies Christians Believe About Sex
91: Mary Flo Ridley | Let's Talk Birds & Bees
54: Nick Stumbo | Discovering Freedom From Pornography
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2022-11-1547 min
Hope For WivesEpisode 14: Is it a Struggle, a Compulsion, or an Addiction?Welcome to Hope for Wives With your co-hostesses: Pam Blizzard from RecoveredPeace.com Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com Today, we're going to do something a little different. We are inviting some of our professional male colleagues to share on the topic of, "Is it a struggle, a compulsion, or an addiction?" The root of this topic comes from questions we get most often, "Do I really need a group when he is just struggling?" Or, "My husband refuses to call it an addiction." W...
2022-07-1323 min
Man Within Podcast295 - Nick Stumbo on Overcoming The Binge-Purge Cycle, Publicly Confessing To His Church, and Why Community Must Be Part of RecoveryNick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries International, author of two books, and an ordained minister with the Christian and Missionary Alliance. After facing his own addiction to pornography, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through the counseling and group ministries of Pure Desire. Today, Nick continues to believe that the Church can become a place of healing and that Pure Desire is leading the way.
In today's episode, he details his recovery story as a third-generation pastor, why his pride left him stuck in a binge-purge cycle for years, how...
2022-06-0250 min
Life TogetherVoices of GBC- Nick StumboPastors Mike and Josh are joined by Nick Stumbo, director of Pure Desire Ministries, on this episode. Nick shares honestly about his journey with sexual brokenness and how the Lord's providence led him to Pure Desire Ministries. They also talk about how everyone has sexual brokenness and how the church can open up, share, and love one another through battling this sin.
2022-04-071h 08
Pure Desire Podcast226 - Stories Of Healing: Nick & Michelle StumboNick and Michelle looked like they had it all. A good marriage, growing ministry, and a beautiful family. But in secret, Nick's sexual addiction was killing it all from the inside. Though he was a respected pastor, hated his behavior, and confessed often, Nick couldn't break free. This left Michelle at the point of wanting to leave. But that's not how the story ends. Over the past 10 years, their marriage, family, and ministry is thriving. Today, they tell us their story of healing.RESOURCESFULL EPISODE VIDEO (YOUTUBE)BETRAYAL & BEYOND (BETRAYAL RESOURCE FOR...
2021-11-0246 minGrace Enough PodcastJoshua Broome | Porn Star to Pastor, 144Joshua Broome joins Amber to discuss how his dream to be an actor led to becoming a porn star and how that career left him filled with shame and emptiness. He walked away and encountered the grace and love of Jesus Christ, where His true identity lies.
Questions Joshua and Amber Discuss:
(3:40) Take us back and share a bit about your childhood, teen years, and your aspirations of becoming a famous model/actor.
(8:22) What led you to move to Hollywood?
(11:36) What led to you signing a contract to work as an actor in porn films?
(21:40) You worked in t...
2021-09-211h 03
The Counter Culture Mom Show with Tina GriffinNick Stumbo Shares How to Break Free From the Addiction of Porn For GoodDo you feel like you’re the only one struggling with porn? Are you wanting to find freedom once and for all? Is your spouse viewing pornography and you don’t know if you’ll ever be able to trust or love them again? Many people are struggling with a pornography addiction. Prayer is not enough. Find out how harmful behaviors arise from inaccurate thoughts and feelings stemming from corrupt core beliefs. Addressing the main issue at the core, will help stop this unhealthy addiction.
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The pornography problem is bigger than we rea...
2021-09-0226 min
Other People's ShoesPorn CycleHow does one break free from the cycle of porn addiction and get help with sexual integrity? The challenge is to recognize that you in fact have a problem, and you are stuck in a pattern that makes you feel powerless. My guest today is Nick Stumbo. Nick, is the Executive Director for Pure Desire. Pure Desire and Nick, both believe you were designed, to live a life without sexual brokenness, and the effects it can have on your present, and future. Nick also continues to believe that the church can become a place of healing and that Pure...
2021-08-1858 minGrace Enough Podcast125: Laura Perry | Transgender to TransformedLaura Perry joins Amber to discuss living as a transgender male for 10 years, her life leading up to the transition, and the transformation she experienced through the Word of God, Jesus, and the faithful prayers of her mother.
Questions Laura and I Discuss:
(2:13) What was life like for you as a young girl? Did you grow up with Christian parents? Did you fit in at school?
(5:38) At age 8 you were molested and that only compounded your feelings of wanting to be a boy. How so?
(6:55) What was your relationship like with your parents during your teen and young adu...
2021-07-2059 min
The Courage, Coaching and Counseling Podcast with Sovann Pen025 Nick Stumbo Pure Desire Ministries International Healing from Pornography & teaching your children healthy sexualityEpisode 25 of The Courage, Coaching and Counseling Podcast is with Nick Stumbo.
As a third-generation pastor, Nick started his ministry career at the East Hills Alliance Church in Kelso, Washington. Serving as their lead pastor for more than a decade, Nick observed the fallout of sexual brokenness and devastation in the lives of men and women in the church and recognized, like never before, the need for a culture of grace in the Church. After facing his own addiction to pornography, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through the counseling and group ministries of Pu...
2021-06-2846 min
Pure Victory Podcast60. The Nick Stumbo Story: Breaking The Chains Of ShameWelcome to episode #60!In this week's episode, Nick Stumbo, Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries, shares his story and talks about how to break free from a culture of shame.Trying harder doesn't workAttempting to beat porn in a a try harder mentality leads to a binge purge cycle, and it led Nick to years of struggling behind closed doors and being bogged down in shame and guilt. When we focus on just the behaviour, it becomes about managing a problem on the surface level, but true freedom comes with inner healing which...
2021-06-1646 minGrace Enough Podcast122: Debra Wallace | Hope After Betrayal & TraumaDebra Wallace joins Amber to discuss the betrayal she experienced in her marriage, how Scripture memorization gave her strength and courage, and how she ministers to other women experiencing betrayal trauma.
Questions Debra and Amber Discuss:
(3:54) Briefly share how you came to know Jesus.
(4:27) Take our listeners back to your life as a new wife and mother. How would you have described your family?
(6:34) 10 years into your marriage you discovered your husband was leading a double life. What did you discover and what was his response?
(9:56) You stayed married for years after discovering the betrayal. Did you husband stop...
2021-06-1533 minPure Victory Podcast59. Richard De La Mora: The Pastor Who Married An Ex-Porn StarWelcome to episode #59!In this week's episode, Richard De La Mora shares how he's been able to look past the history that his wife has in the porn industry and see her instead as a product of God's grace and transformation!Honesty leads to intimacy...but pray about it!Honesty and conversation leads to intimacy. Richard wanted to know everything about his wife's past because he desired for her to know that he fully loved her despite her past. You have to be ready to hear things that you don't want to hear though...
2021-06-0835 minGrace Enough Podcast119: Sheila Gregoire | Exposing Lies Christians Believe About SexSheila Gregoire joins Amber to discuss some of the harmful messages many popular Christian books have put out when it comes to sex, intimacy, and a man's need versus a woman's need. We also discuss her new book The Great Sex Rescue.
Questions Sheila and I Discuss:
(3:34) Tell us a little about The Bare Marriage survey and what led you to embark on such a survey.
(6:05) What would you say is one of the most damaging, widely held beliefs about sex and marriage in evangelical culture that is actually preventing us from fully engaging in sex as God i...
2021-05-2541 min
2021-05-2043 min
PSR PodcastA Hopeful Response to Church Leaders Struggling with Sexual Sin"The danger is that for men and women in ministry there is little to no training, guidance, and supervision that is ever offered specifically in the area of sexual wholeness and integrity." These words from our guest, Nick Stumbo, lay the foundation for this episode. Nick was a pastor for 15 years and now leads the sexual integrity ministry Pure Desire. Our conversation will unpack sexual sin and leaders in the church; what to do when a leader is struggling or failing, and how to better prepare leaders to cultivate a personal and corporate culture of sexual wholeness...
2021-05-1833 min
The Savvy Sauce137 Sexual Sin Recovery for You and Your Spouse (Part Two) with Geremy Keeton*DISCLAIMER* This episode is not intended for anyone under 18 years of age.
137. Pornography Healing for Spouses with Geremy Keeton
Isaiah 61:7 (NASB) “Instead of your shame you will have a double portion, And instead of humiliation they will shout for joy over their portion. Therefore they will possess a double portion in their land, Everlasting joy will be theirs.”
Geremy Keeton is the senior director of the counseling services department of Focus on the Family and a licensed marriage and family therapist. He has extensive experience in counseling men and...
2021-03-1648 minThe Savvy Sauce136 Pornography Healing for Spouses with Geremy Keeton*DISCLAIMER* This episode is not intended for anyone under 18 years of age.
136. Pornography Healing for Spouses with Geremy Keeton
Isaiah 61:7 (NASB) “Instead of your shame you will have a double portion, And instead of humiliation they will shout for joy over their portion. Therefore they will possess a double portion in their land, Everlasting joy will be theirs.”
Geremy Keeton is the senior director of the counseling services department of Focus on the Family and a licensed marriage and family therapist. He has extensive experience in counseling men and...
2021-03-1546 min
Petra PodcastPurifying My Desires As a third-generation pastor, Nick Stumbo observed first-hand the fallout of sexual brokenness and devastation in the lives of men and women in the church. After facing his own addiction to pornography, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through the counseling and group ministries of Pure Desire. It radically changed their lives! His public disclosure to his church body led to much forgiveness and healing and the launch of Pure Desire groups for men and women. Today, as the Executive Director of Pure Desire, Nick continues to believe that the church can...
2021-02-2853 minPetra PodcastPurifying My Desires As a third-generation pastor, Nick Stumbo observed first-hand the fallout of sexual brokenness and devastation in the lives of men and women in the church. After facing his own addiction to pornography, Nick and his wife, Michelle, found hope and healing through the counseling and group ministries of Pure Desire. It radically changed their lives! His public disclosure to his church body led to much forgiveness and healing and the launch of Pure Desire groups for men and women. Today, as the Executive Director of Pure Desire, Nick continues to believe that the church can...
2021-02-2853 min
Before You QuitPodcast Ep.75: When Christian Leaders Fail Us (Nick Stumbo)
Like many of you I have been reeling from the stories that have come out in the last years of great Christian leaders, mostly men, who have fallen hard. How do we respond to these events? What is it doing for the church or to the church? Why does this even happen to people we look up to and admire and then find they have a completely double life. Why should this be good for our own faith where it forces us to look inwardly at our own tendencies and sins. How can this also be good for the g...
2021-02-1052 min
Good Shepherd Community Church - Women's Ministry PodcastMom To Mom: Address The MessSpeaker: Nick Stumbo Date: January 2021 Good Shepherd Women's Ministry https://goodshepherdcc.org/women/
2021-02-0124 minGrace Enough Podcast102: Christopher Yuan | Transformation & Holy SexualityChristopher Yuan joins me to discuss his journey from being an agnostic gay man in prison to a follower of Jesus, who now teaches the Bible at Moody Bible Institute and travels around the world with his parents speaking on faith and sexuality
Questions Christopher and I Discussed:
(1:48) I have briefly introduced you, but will share with our listeners a little about the work you do on a day to day basis?
(3:03) What was life like for you growing up?
(4:41) In your early 20’s, you came out as a gay man to your parents, which you and your moth...
2021-01-261h 02
Restored 2 MoreWhat the Church Needs to Know About Pornography with Nick StumboStudies show that over 50% of pastors struggle with pornography. In this episode, we talk to Nick Stumbo, the Executive Director of Pure Desires, about his journey to freedom as the previous senior pastor of his church and his experience disclosing his struggle to the entire congregation. He explains how the church needs to respond to leaders who are struggling with porn and what Pure Desires is creating to help them and others find healing. More Resources:https://puredesire.org/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/pure-desire-podcast/id1253655598Our Resources:Couples Workshop:...
2021-01-0646 min
Humble and Honest PodcastBest of Part 2 Controversal ConversationsToday's episode with Dan Koch, Jonathan Merritt, Justin Khoe, Jeffrey Kranz, John Mark Comer, Nick Stumbo, and Cait and Nicole Zick of the Moral Revolution. This is part two of the three-part "best of" series. All episodes available today!
2020-12-1055 min
Help Them Heal-with Carol the CoachCreating a Culture of Grace with Carol the CoachTonight, Carol will be interviewing Nick Stumbo, who has his own personal story of hope and healing from Sexual Addiction. He believes that men and women need to find support, understanding and grace from thier church. He is going to talk about the fundamental principles of healthy sexuality and freedom within the church climate. He uses Pure Desire Ministries to help people find fellowship and sobriety.
2020-11-2453 minGrace Enough Podcast94: Mary DeMuth | Hope After Sexual AbuseMary DeMuth joins me to share her story of being sexual abused as a 5 year old girl and how God re-storied her through the ministry of Young Life. Mary also shares how the church can redemptively respond to the sexual abuse crisis.
Questions Mary and I Discussed:
(5:23) You say, "Not only have I been restored, I have been re-storied." Take us back to your childhood and share what happened to you at 5 years old?
(13:03) What were some of those wounds that you carried with you and likely continue to work through today?
(17:27) What were your teens years like?
(20:10) At...
2020-11-1744 minGrace Enough Podcast91: Mary Flo Ridley| Let's Talk Birds and Beeswww.graceenoughpodcast.com
Mary Flo Ridley joins me to talk about simple, foundational conversations to have with our children, ranging from toddlers to teens, that will shape their sexual health for years to come.
Questions Mary Flo and I Discussed:
(4:25) Even in 2020, I have conversations with friends who cringe when it comes to having the “birds and bees” talk with their children. We deal with questions like when is it the right time, what should I say, and so on, but Birds and Bees is all about getting rid of this idea that this is a one-ti...
2020-10-2746 min
Brave Men Podcast with Paul Louis ColeBraveMen S3E46: Nick Stumbo - Healing Men in Sexual BrokennessNick Stumbo is the Executive Director of Pure Desire, a ministry dedicated to being a safe place for hope and healing from the effects of sexual brokenness. Through small group resources for men, women, and teens, on-site or online counseling, training events, and ministry partnerships, Pure Desire is bringing the strength of sexual integrity men across the nation.
Not only is Nick the Exec Dir but he was also healed of a terrible addiction to porn through the tools of this ministry. Pure Desire was founded by Dr. Ted Roberts who as a local pastor saw the desperate need...
2020-08-1844 min
Husband MaterialNick Stumbo: Free To Be KnownDiscover how Nick Stumbo found freedom from porn, even while serving as the lead pastor of a church!Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries and Co-Host of the Pure Desire Podcast. He's also the author of Setting Us Free: An Unexpected Journey Of Grace, and Safe: Creating A Culture Of Grace In A Climate Of Shame. You can email him at nicks@puredesire.orgIn this episode, we walk a lot about the power of groups. Join a Pure Desire Group here: https://www.puredesire.org
2020-07-0634 min
Pastors on PornEp. 22 - Pure Desire GuysThe Pure Desire podcast is one of those podcasts that has been very helpful to me on my journey away from porn. In this episode we interview the two hosts of the podcasts - Trevor Winsor and Nick Stumbo.I love to talk to Pastors - especially those who are looking to deal with their unmanageable sexual behaviors.If you need a safe place to talk - you can reach out to me atbandofbrothers.care@gmail.comYou can also see some more resources on my website
2020-03-1240 minHumble and Honest PodcastPorn and Pastors Pt 2 with Nick Stumbo.In this second part of this conversation I speak with Pastor Nick Stumbo. Nick Stumbo is the executive pastor of Pure Desire ministries and is not shy to answer questions regarding sex. Pure Desire Ministries exists to provide hope and freedom from...
2020-03-1257 min
The Flip Side with Noah FilipiakEp. 26, Interview with Nick Stumbo: Going from a pastor looking at porn to Director of Pure Desire Ministries, helping others find freedomNick and Noah talk through the desire that is underneath the desire to look at pornography, and how the only real way to find freedom is to have that desire met in legitimate ways. Listen in to find out what those legitimate ways are and how you can get past the "every time is the last time" mentality toward pornography and sexual sin. The "legitimate ways" of meeting our deepest desires applies to any area of struggle you may be facing, not just pornography.
Nick is the Executive Director of Pure Desire Ministries. He has been in...
2020-02-171h 25Grace Enough Podcast54: Nick Stumbo | Discovering Freedom From PornographyNick and I chat about his journey of discovering freedom from pornography, dealing with negative sexual history, normalizing the conversation in our churches and homes, behaviors vs. core beliefs, and how Pure Desire ministrieshelps people find freedom from sexual addiction.
Pure Desire Ministry
4:20 As we begin, will you share with our listener's a little of your story. When did you come to know Jesus? How did you end up working at Pure Desire?
"My little brain responded to it the way God has designed our brain to react to that, which is a sense of curi...
2020-02-1157 min
Pirate Monk PodcastEpisode 256 * Nick StumboToday Nate & Aaron chat with Nick Stumbo of Pure Desire ministries about Nick's story and how to understand the difference between arrival mentality and journey mentality in recovery, as we search for deeper maturity and more honest...honesty.
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https://puredesire.org/
2019-10-2956 minPodcasts Archives - CASTIMONIACastimonia Purity Podcast Episode 66: Pure Desire Podcast – A Discussion with Nick StumboPure Desire Ministries is a ministry designed at helping Christians find help for pornography and sex addiction. Nick is a well-known voice for healing in recovery through his work and his own podcasts. Nick and Doug discuss how the Church can stand up to this epidemic, and how there are practical ways to join in the […]The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 66: Pure Desire Podcast – A Discussion with Nick Stumbo appeared first on CASTIMONIA.
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