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Better Than Perfect | A Relationship Podcast15 Most Common Relationship MYTHS DEBUNKED! [Ep 88]Ten evergreen “rules” almost everyone hears—John & Nicole shred them one by one. From soul-mate telepathy to the myth that a newborn repairs a shaky marriage, the duo’s rapid-fire myth-busting sparks a 50/50 comment war.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 Intro & why relationship “rules” won’t die2:50 Myth #1 – If they loved me, they’d just know what I need9:20 Myth #2 – Good couples don’t fight10:30 Myth #3 – You complete me14:45 Myth #4 – Love should be effortless18:25 Myth #5 – Happy couples always feel in love20:55 Myth #6 – Sex must be spontaneous24:45 Myth #7 – Once passion fades, the relationship is over27:45 Myth #8 – We should want the same things all the time37:20 Myth #9 – Talking more always fixes every...2025-08-011h 05

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastSimp Culture, OF and Pay PIGS Are RUINING Society [Ep 87]From “sick, perverted music” to the Dubai porta-potty rumors, John and Nicole detonate every hot-button topic in the modern sex economy. Are simps the real villains? Does shaming still work? And can masculinity survive a culture drenched in OnlyFans?⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 Rant kickoff: hyper-sexualized music & why it “needs shame”2:00 Simp culture defined—how thirsty men bankroll the problem4:30 Dubai porta-potty stories & extreme prostitution incentives6:00 “Men created this mess” — blame game heats up9:30 Social fallout: marriage rates, family decay, and porn saturation14:00 Supply-and-demand economics of online sex work20:00 Bring-back-shame debate: moral policing vs personal freedom28:00 Porn’s impact on masculinity and real intimacy32:00 “Sex belongs i...2025-07-251h 17

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWomen Should Wait 3 MONTHS Before SEX??? [Ep 86]Three months before sex, hidden “body-count” questions, and juggling multiple partners until someone locks it down—John and Nicole ignite every land-mine topic modern dating has to offer. From nice-guy makeovers to born-again virgin vows, nothing escapes scrutiny in this Better Than Perfect showdown.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 First-date scenario: the infamous three-month wait for intimacy4:30 Filtering wrong candidates vs “settling” too soon10:00 Should men ask a woman’s body count—or let it go?11:00 Blue-pill nice guy → alpha upgrade: fact, fad, or fraud?16:00 Will real men wait...2025-07-171h 02

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhat Happens When A Women Compliments A Man? [Ep 85]Guest Lana Rico, a female-dating strategist, joins John & Nicole to dismantle modern courtship: Why won’t women give compliments? Do both sexes secretly crave a “traditional” relationship? And has social media killed masculine pride?⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 | Intro & Lana’s mission: help women attract quality men2:15 | The compliment gap—why many women refuse to praise men6:00 | “Interview dating”: men feel they’re on job trials9:45 | Who should make the first move in 2025?13:40 | Modern-traditional mash-ups: both sexes want the old model… differently18:50 | Men’s disappearing pride and the rise of passive masculinity24:30 | High standards vs entitlement: where the line breaks30:10 | Social-media illusions, Tate culture...2025-07-111h 01

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastYou Don't Owe ANYONE ANYTHING Period [Ep 84]Does accepting a check from Mom and Dad mean surrendering control of your entire wedding? John and Nicole rip into the ultimate “Big Day” power struggle—money strings, guest-list guilt, dress disputes, and whether you actually owe your parents anything once you’re grown. If you’re planning a wedding—or arguing about one—prepare to pick a side.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 Obligations 101: why John says you owe only spouse and children3:30 Parents footing the bill: blessing, bribe, or both?7:45 Setting boundaries early vs “bridezilla” accusations10:50 Big bash vs intimate vows: whose dream wins?14:40 Guest-list guilt trips—inviting cousins you’ve never met18:25 Budget bombs: $50...2025-07-0450 min

Digital Dating with Anonymous AndrewThe man is the leader, right?S4 Ep#14Want to be a guest on the podcast? Send Andrew a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/member/anonymousandrewpodcastPlease buy me a cup of coffee!Proud Member of the Podmatch Network!SummaryIn this episode, John and Nicole Sonmez discuss their podcast 'Better Than Perfect' and explore the dynamics of modern traditional relationships. They emphasize the importance of masculine and feminine roles, the impact of feminism on relationships, and the challenges of 50-50 partnerships. The conversation also touches on parenting dynamics, the influence of...2025-07-0251 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastLies About Marriage That HURT Men [Ep 83]Workhorse husbands, “I-don’t-need-a-man” girlfriends, and the question every couple secretly asks: Is today’s relationship just a transaction? John and Nicole tear into the clash between female independence and masculine purpose—arguing over exclusivity rules, whether men should ditch all other women (real and virtual), and why some guys feel useless in an era that says women can do it all.💥 Expect raw takes, stats on provider burnout, and a 50/50 split in the comments.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Intro: “If a man wants to stay exclusive, why keep backup women?”4:30 – Transactional vs covenant love—who really benefits?9:15 – “I don’t need a man” culture & the male pu...2025-06-271h 21

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWomen Have Gotten Out Of Control, It Needs To STOP [Ep 82]Is calling the shots a man’s duty—or a gateway to abuse? John and Nicole dissect the razor-thin line between healthy masculine leadership and controlling behavior. From “submit to your husband” verses to women’s fear of domination, this clash splits audiences right down the middle.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 Fear of “controlling men” — why the topic triggers instantly3:00 When leadership gets mislabeled as abuse6:06 John’s stance: men lead, women follow (if trust is earned)9:00 Vetting a man before you ever “submit”12:24 Marriage myths that fuel power struggles18:00 Historical abuse vs modern over-correction23:58 Wardrobe rules: preference or red flag?30:00 Agreements vs micromanagem...2025-06-201h 10

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow AI Will Affect The Future Of Relationships And Dating [Ep 81]AI “partners” promise endless affection and zero rejection—but do they heal loneliness or hollow us out? John and Nicole dissect the explosive rise of virtual girlfriends, sex robots, and synthetic intimacy, asking whether tech will rescue a generation of touch-starved men or torch real relationships forever.💥 From epidemic statistics on sexless young men to dystopian predictions about pacified populations, nothing is off-limits in this Better Than Perfect showdown.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Why AI companionship suddenly exploded in mainstream culture2:30 – “Sexless young men” statistics and the desperation market fueling it5:00 – First-gen sex robots: creepy toys or future spouses?9:15 – Psychological hits: dopamine loops, attachmen...2025-06-131h 03

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastAre Women’s Standards Too High… or Are Men Just Mediocre? [Ep 80]Men say “women want too much.” Women say “men won’t step up.” Who’s right? In this Better Than Perfect face-off, John and Nicole pull no punches as they dissect modern dating complaints, the fall of the “gentleman,” and whether standards or self-improvement really decide who wins love.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Intro: Men furious at women—why the outrage never solves anything4:30 – “Become a gentleman, get options” — John’s blunt fix for male misery9:00 – Women’s boundaries vs desperation: Nicole breaks down the fine line14:30 – Nice guy, good man, bad boy: attraction science or social myth?20:00 – Emotional safety vs physical provision—what each gender secret...2025-06-0651 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastToxic Relationship Survival Guide [Ep 79]Spider-bite analogies, nut-kick stories, and the hard line between healthy conflict and pure toxicity. John and Nicole dissect when a relationship is worth the grind—and when zero-tolerance is the only sane choice.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Net-negative vs net-positive fights: the instant litmus test4:20 – Emotional & physical abuse examples: where the line snaps10:15 – “Getting worse every day” spider-bite analogy explained15:30 – One-off mistakes vs patterns: spotting irreversible trends20:40 – The fix-it checklist: accountability, change, and proof25:55 – Violence anecdote: crossed lines, kicked groins, zero tolerance26:25 – Narcissist label & gas-lighting: real diagnosis or buzzword?32:59 – Cheating + severe betrayal: can trust ever rebuild?38:10 – Calm repair vs shouting matches: which actually solves proble...2025-05-3050 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastMasculine-Feminine Roles and The Alchemical Journey [Ep 78]Endurance junkies, fiery debates, and a marriage that thrives on both. John and Nicole sit down with David Gilbert and his wife Alyssa—fresh off a Spartan trifecta⁠—to tackle the raw questions most couples dodge: • Is raising your voice ever solid leadership? • Should children watch their parents fight to learn conflict skills? • Do strict masculine–feminine lanes build polarity or trap you in 1950? • And can you really love unconditionally once hard boundaries appear?Expect zero fluff and plenty of 50/50 splits that’ll light up the comments.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Introductions & “We’re all going to fight”—why hiding conflict backfires1:20 – Spartan trifecta...2025-05-231h 02

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWould YOUR Partner Leave If You Got Sick? 🤯 [Ep 77]Can you lead a family if you occasionally blow up? Would your partner stick around if you tore a tendon and couldn’t walk? And is “for better or worse” really unconditional… or just marketing?In this jam-packed Better Than Perfect episode John and Nicole tackle the minefield of leadership under stress, gender-split loyalty stats, and whether divorce courts are fundamentally unfair. Expect blunt takes, real injury stories, and a debate guaranteed to split the room 50/50.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Why John says “If I yell, I’ve failed” — the leadership-temper dilemma2:00 – Spartan Race carnage: pushing through pain or proving nothing?6:00 – Living with the injury: da...2025-05-1647 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastIf You Are Getting FAT In Your Relationship, Listen To This [Ep 76]In this episode of Better Than Perfect, John and Nicole dive into the controversial topic of fitness in relationships. Should you expect your partner to stay in shape? What if one person lets themselves go? And how does physical health impact attraction, intimacy, and long-term connection?💥 From lifting together to the deeper psychological reasons couples struggle with fitness, we get brutally honest about what it takes to grow stronger — in body and in love.⏱️ Timestamps (approximate):0:00 – Why fitness is a relationship issue2:15 – The unspoken expectation to stay attra...2025-05-081h 08

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhy Men Are Dumb and Women Are Crazy: The Surprising Truth About Relationships [Ep 75]Welcome to the Better Than Perfect podcast! In this episode, we dive into the hilarious and eye-opening question: Why do men seem dumb and women seem crazy? Discover the real reasons behind these stereotypes—singular focus vs. multitasking madness—and how understanding them can transform your relationship. From prenups to the "Crazy Hot Matrix," we’ve got insights, personal stories, and practical advice for couples, singles, and anyone looking to decode the opposite sex.⏰ Timestamps00:00 - Introduction: Meet the hosts and get a taste of what’s to come.02:25 - Prenups & Marriage: Are they a smart move or a relat...2025-05-021h 03

Inner Peace, Better HealthBetter Than Perfect: Real Talk on Relationships, Growth, and Modern Love with John & Nicole SonmezIn this refreshing and candid episode, John and Nicole Sonmez, hosts of the "Better Than Perfect" podcast, dive deep into the realities of modern traditional relationships. They discuss why striving for perfection can be detrimental and how embracing authenticity, vulnerability, and conscious growth creates stronger, more fulfilling relationships. John and Nicole share personal insights, revealing how facing challenges together and prioritizing continuous growth has profoundly strengthened their bond. About the Guests:John and Nicole Sonmez are relationship experts and the dynamic duo behind the popular podcast, "Better Than Perfect." Through their show, they offer humorous, heartfelt, and...2025-04-2522 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow Forgiveness Saved Our Relationship—and How It Can Save Yours [Ep 74]Welcome to the Better Than Perfect podcast! In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the transformative power of forgiveness. Discover why true forgiveness means letting go of past hurts—not just for others, but for your own peace and growth. We unpack the struggles of holding onto resentment, share personal stories of overcoming pain in our relationship, and reveal the three essential components of a genuine apology. Whether you’re wrestling with bitterness or seeking stronger connections, this episode offers practical wisdom and emotional insights to help you move forward.⏰ Timestamps00:00 - Introduction: A quirky chat about protecting our 5-lb do...2025-04-251h 02

The No Fruit PodcastKnowing Your Worth in Relationships with John and Nicole Sonmez |S7E24In this eye-opening episode of The No Fruit Podcast, Kafi and Maurice sit down with John and Nicole Sonmez for a deep, thought-provoking conversation about self-worth in relationships. Using the powerful metaphor of a Lamborghini and a Volkswagen, the couples unpack what it truly means to understand your value—not in comparison to others, but in connection to your purpose and partnership.If a Lamborghini and a Volkswagen are part of the same business family, does one really hold more worth than the other? The discussion tackles this idea head-on, shedding light on how identity, ego, and alignment wi...2025-04-2231 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastUnpacking Adolescence: How Netflix’s Hit Show Exposes the Red Pill Crisis [Ep 73]In this compelling episode of the Better Than Perfect podcast, hosts dive deep into the Netflix series Adolescence, exploring its portrayal of the dangerous influence of red pill and manosphere ideologies on young boys. Sparked by a Matthew Hussey video and complemented by insights from a Diary of a CEO podcast episode, the discussion unravels the societal shifts contributing to hopelessness and violence among young men. From the feminization of society to the loss of masculine role models, this episode tackles the urgent need for healthy masculine spaces and empathy to combat toxic narratives. Spoiler alert for Adolescence—listen to...2025-04-181h 21

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastThis One Book Holds the Key to Ending Fights With Your Man Forever [Ep 72]Are men and women doomed to misunderstand each other forever? In this eye-opening episode of the Better Than Perfect podcast, hosts John and Nicole dive deep into The Queen's Code by @AlisonArmstrongVideos —a game-changing book that uncovers why men and women think so differently and how to turn conflict into connection. From the surprising truth about men’s singular focus vs. women’s diffused awareness to practical tips like asking for help the right way, this episode is packed with insights to transform your relationship. Discover how to stop emasculating your partner, bring out his inner hero, and build a love t...2025-04-111h 16

Love StoriesCreating a Better Than Perfect RelationshipIn this episode of the Love Stories Podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming John and Nicole Sonmez, the dynamic duo behind the Better Than Perfect Podcast. Our conversation delved deep into the complexities of love, commitment, and the transformative power of relationships.As we wrapped up the conversation, John and Nicole offered listeners a glimpse into their life together now, four and a half years later, and how they continue to navigate the challenges of love and commitment. They left us with a powerful reminder that true love often requires us to confront our past and...2025-04-091h 04

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastAll Men Should Read THIS BOOK [Ep 71]In this episode, we talk about one of the top books all men should read. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.2025-04-041h 10

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastShe's Coming For Your Husband [Ep 70]Would you happen if an attractive woman messaged your husband or boyfriend and tried to get him to engage her? Would he do it? The truth is MOST men would fail this kind of loyalty test. But why? Is this acceptable? What can be done about it?2025-03-281h 07

WITneSSesMastering Relationships: The Modern Traditional Approach with John & Nicole SonmezShow Notes: A Deep Dive into Relationships with John & Nicole Sonmez Episode Title: Mastering Relationships: The Modern Traditional Approach with John & Nicole Sonmez Guest(s): John & Nicole Sonmez Host: Amb. Elisha --- Episode Summary: In this insightful episode, Amb. Elisha welcomes John and Nicole Sonmez—relationship and personal development experts—to discuss the foundation of strong, fulfilling relationships. Together, they break down their Modern Traditional Relationship philosophy, the power of polarity between masculinity and femininity, and why a...2025-03-2726 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHard Advice To Men In Their 20s [Ep 69]In today's confused world, it's very difficult to be a young man trying to find his way. Especially if you are looking for a modern traditional relationship like we advocate. In this episode, we break down exactly what a man should do to end up happily ever after.2025-03-211h 10

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastCan The Right Relationship HEAL You? [Ep 68]One of the most important, if not the most important parts, of a relationship is the power to heal. When you have a modern traditional relationship dynamic, the result is a deep healing of the masculine and feminine core.Jon and Sabrina Broderick join us again to talk about how their relationship healed and is continuing to heal them.2025-03-141h 00

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastModern Traditional Relationships [Ep 67]We finally have guests on the show. In the episode, we welcome our good friends Jon and Sabrina Broderick to the show to talk about modern traditional relationships. If you aren't familiar with the terminology, don't worry, we coined the term, but in this episode,e we discuss what is a modern traditional relationship and why you should have one.2025-03-071h 08

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastBrutal Truth to Older Women About How to Attract VS Keep a Man [Ep 66]Continuing the discussion from last week, we expand to older women and talk about the real realities of being an older woman and trying to find a good man.2025-02-281h 12

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastBrutal Truth to Young Women About How to Attract VS Keep a Man [Ep 65]We ended up making this a 2-parter because it was so good. In this part, we talk about the raw truth about youth and beauty regarding women and how young women should use this knowledge to prevent themselves from ending up bitter and alone.2025-02-211h 04

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastYou Need MORE Conflict In Your Relationship, Here's Why... [Ep 64]In this episode we talk about "doing the work" and what that actually means. It's not tolerating. It's not ignoring. It's actually bringing up the issues that bother you until they are COMPLETELY resolved.2025-02-141h 14

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWe Discovered Something Amazing We Were Missing [Ep 63]Coming back from our friends' wedding, we realized this very important thing were were missing from our lives... community. A good community can be one of the best things for your relationship. Life is easier with friends. Also, we got tattoos!2025-02-061h 03

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWomen Are SUPPOSED TO Be Difficult [Ep 62]Yes, you heard that right. Women are SUPPOSE to be difficult. As crazy as it may seem, there is a good reason for it....2025-01-3155 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastIs Love Enough? Maybe Not [Ep 61]Is love enough? What does that even mean? In this episode, we break it down and see if love really is enough or not.2025-01-2456 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastIf They Need Personal Space, It's A Bad Sign [Ep 60]Is needing personal space in a relationship OK? We say "no," watch to find out why.2025-01-1759 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship Podcast"We Are Breaking Up" [Ep 59]How do you break up? Just ghost them? Cheat on them? No... Here's how.2025-01-101h 00

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhat Do Women Bring To The Table? [Ep 58]What is the right answer to this question? Is there even one? In this episode, we discuss.2025-01-031h 06

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWomen Don't Care About Men's Feelings [Ep 57]One of the biggest things men complain about is that it often appears that women don't care about men's feelings. Is this true? Watch to find out.2024-12-271h 02

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHave Modern Women Killed Chivalry? [Ep 56]Are modern women turned off by the idea of chivalry? Have modern men forgotten about it? Or is it still alive? Let's find out...2024-12-2058 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastAvoid The Friendzone By Learning To Flirt Like An A$$hole! [Ep 55]So many innocent, well-meaning men, get put into the friend zone, but it doesn't have to be that way. In this episode, we give a complete guide and how guys can learn to flirt, create chemistry and AVOID the friend zone.2024-12-131h 09

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastI Ain't Sayin She's a Gold Digger, But... [Ep 54]Let's talk about gold diggers... Are all women gold diggers? How can you tell? Is it even that bad? We break it down!2024-12-061h 14

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastThe Most Important Relationship Lessons We've Learned [Ep 53]We've been doing this podcast for exactly a year. In this episode, we break down the relationship lessons we've learned over the year of doing this podcast. Thanks to everyone whos been supporting us. It's not easy to produce a weekly podcast at this level every single week for a whole year straight.2024-11-291h 10

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow Long Should You Be Unhappy In A Relationship? [Ep 52]How long should you go being unhappy in a relationship? Should you get a divorce is your partner is faithful, but you just aren't happy? Listen in and give us your opinion was we celebrate our 52nd episode, a full year of this podcast!2024-11-221h 09

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastMen Set Too LOW Standards For Women [Ep 51]Men typically have too high expectations for women but set too low of standards, while women often do the opposite. But what's the difference between a standard and an expectation, tune in to find out.2024-11-151h 12

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow Women Try To CONTROL Men In Relationships [Ep 50]The latest season of Love is Blind inspired us to do an episode about women being extremely controlling in relationships.2024-11-081h 19

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastIs Reading Smut the Same as Watching Porn? [Ep 49]Men are often chastised for watching pornography, but women often get away with reading smut books classifying them as steamy romance novels without the same stigma applied. In this episode, we dissect and talk about why there really isn't much of a difference and neither are good for a relationship, despite the defense of it improving your sex life.2024-11-011h 15

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastShould We Open Our Relationship? [Ep 48]What if you've been together for a very long time and you haven't had many other partners. Does it make sense to open your relationship if you both agree?2024-10-251h 19

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastFreedom vs. Commitment: Do Relationships Limit Your Life? [Ep 47]Are relationships holding you back from living life on your terms? In this episode, we dive deep into the age-old debate: Do relationships truly restrict your freedom, or can you maintain independence while being committed? We’ll explore how relationships impact your time, goals, and personal growth. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this discussion will challenge the way you think about love and freedom. Tune in to find out if you can really have it all.2024-10-181h 14

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastAre You Self Sabotaging Your Relationship Without Even Knowing It? [Ep 46]Sometimes in trying to protect ourselves, we hurt ourselves and those around us when we are guided by fear instead of love and vulnerability. We deep dive into this issue and briefly discuss The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives.2024-10-111h 07

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhen She's Masculine And He's Feminine... (Can it be turned around?) [Ep 45]In so many relationships today, she "wears the pants." But are relationships like these one's ultimately doomed or can they be turned around? The answer is "yes," but it's not easy. Find out how and why.2024-10-041h 13

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastAre Men Dangerous? The Real Reason Women Fear Men [Ep 44]We continue our discussion on what women should do during the day and then dive into the topic of women's fear of men. Is it justified? Are men really that dangerous? It depends...2024-09-271h 06

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastA Woman's Role Is To Support Her Man [Ep 43]What are the roles in a relationship? A man is the protector and provider, but what about women? Whare is the role of a woman in the relationship? In this episode, we break down, both roles and talk about what works best for a healthy, successful relationship.2024-09-201h 24

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWe Got Into A Big Fight! [Ep 42]Just when you think everything is going perfect, you find out there are still some issues you need to work on. But, that's why we call this podcast Better Than Perfect, instead of perfect. You can't have a perfect relationship, but you can always have a better one. In this episode, we talk about our mistakes and what we learned.2024-09-131h 12

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastAre The 5 Love Languages Legit? [Ep 41]What do you think about the 5 love languages? In this episode, we discuss them and discuss the strangest one.2024-09-061h 06

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWomen Are Delicate (Vulnerability Makes You Invulnerable) [Ep 40]Women are delicate, but in that delicacy is there power. A feminine woman has power in her vulnerability which can bring the strongest man to his knees.2024-08-301h 15

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhat Men Get Out Of Marriage [Ep 39]We've talked about whether a man should even get married, but what is it that a man wants from a marriage? What are the things only a woman can provide him? It's not what most women think it is and most men have forgotten what is actually important to them.2024-08-231h 05

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhy Buy The Cow When I Can Get The Milk For FREE? [Ep 38]Relationships are a game of power—whether you realize it or not. In this episode, we uncover the subtle but powerful dynamics that determine who’s really in control in dating. From when women hold all the cards to the surprising leverage men have, we’ll break down how power shifts and how you can use it to your advantage. Ever wondered why the rules seem to change once certain lines are crossed?2024-08-1640 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhy Do WOMEN Initiate 90% Of Divorces?Ever wondered why women are the ones pulling the trigger on most divorces? It’s a surprising statistic that flips the script on what you’d expect. In this episode, we dive deep into the hidden dynamics that keep men in relationships—even when they’re breaking down.2024-08-091h 27

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastIs He Secretly Controlling or Confidently Dominant? No More Girls Trips Allowed! [Ep 36]Are you in a relationship where you constantly wonder if your partner is too controlling or just confidently dominant? 🌟 This video will help you uncover the truth about your partner’s behavior and what it means for your relationship. 👫 For Women: Are you dealing with a man who says “No more girls trips” or “No more nights out”? Learn the signs of controlling behavior and how to differentiate it from a secure, dominant partner. 💪 For Men: Are you confident in your role, or could you be unknowingly controlling? Find out now and see how...2024-08-021h 10

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhy Do Men And Women HATE Each Other? [Ep 35]It seems men and women are always at war, but the truth is we need each other. In this episode, we discuss the war of the sexes and what you can do to not get sucked into it.2024-07-261h 05

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow a Man Can FIX His Relationship (5 Step Process) [Ep 34]Most long term relationships end up becoming more like roommate stations than lovers. Fortunately a man can bring back the spark if he follow this 5-step process for fixing your relationship.2024-07-191h 13

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastThe BIGGEST Problem With Men Today (That makes them weak) [Ep 33]Many men today have forgotten or have never leaned what it is to be a man. In this episode, we cover what John thinks is the biggest problem with men today that is making them weak.2024-07-121h 08

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastIf She Isn’t Afraid You’ll Cheat, She Doesn’t Love You [Ep 32]If she’s not at least a little bit jealous, she’s probably doesn’t value that highly as a man. But, does it work both ways? No, watch the episode to find out why…2024-07-051h 00

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastThe Surrendered Wife [Ep 31]In many episodes, we talk about what men are doing wrong, and what men should be fixing in relationships, because they are supposed to be the leaders, but often one problem is women won't let their men lead. In this episode, we talk about the book "The Surrendered Wife" by Laura Doyle 2024-06-281h 16

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastI Love You, But I Don't Like You... [Ep 30]You hear it all the time. Couples who claim to love each other but are constantly talking about how they can't stand their partner for one reason or another. Well, that doesn't have to be the case and in this episode, we explain how to turn things around if you're already there. Follow us on Instagram - https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-06-211h 10

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastA Man Deserves UNCONDITIONAL Respect From His Wife [Ep 29]In this episode, we are reviewing the popular book Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs.One of the more controversial topics in the books is the idea that a woman should unconditionally respect her husband. Watch the episode and let us know what you think.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-06-141h 09

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWestern Women Are Too Woke For "Passport Bros" [Ep 28]Desperate men are going to third world countries in pursuit of easy women who will give them whatever they want?But, is this really a good idea? And will they actually get what they want?In this episode, we break it down and talk about the motivations, myths, and misogyny behind the phenomenon of "passport bros."Follow us on IG:https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-06-071h 10

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastMen Do NOT Want "Boss Babes" [Ep 27]You go girl! #bossbabeWhat do guys really think of "boss babes?" And why are women so attracted to the idea of being a "boss babe." In this episode, we break it down.Follow us on IG: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-05-311h 08

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastShould You EVER Take Someone Back? [Ep 26]If you break up with someone or they break up with you, under what circumstances is it acceptable to "take them back?"It's a tough question and there isn't a definite answer, but we get to the bottom of it in this episode.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-05-241h 03

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWho Settles More? Men Or Women? [Ep 25]Who settles more when it comes to relationships, men or women?In this episode, we answer a very interesting question from a view and we dig deep into the issue of settling. Who is doing it more and should you ever settle?Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-05-171h 11

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow Can WOMEN Be Romantic? (It's not what you think) [Ep 24]We always talk about how guys need to be more romantic, but what about women? Women might THINK they are being romantic when they are doing things that they consider romantic, but men and women are very different.In this episode, we specifically address the ways that women can be romantic to the man they are with and it's not what you think.Follow us on IG: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-05-081h 05

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastShould A Woman Ever Propose To A Man? [Ep 23]Should a woman ever propose to a man? You can probably already guess the answer, but we break it down in this episode and share exactly why this is such a bad idea and talk about what to do if he's not proposing and definitely what NOT to do.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-05-031h 07

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow To Romance A Woman [Ep 22]Ah, romance. The one thing every woman craves, yet so many men have NO IDEA how to be romantic—but it's not their fault. Most men were never taught how to be romantic.Today, that changes as we discuss romance 101 for guys. In this episode, John and Nicole teach men how to be romantic and absolutely sweep a woman off her feet.Follow us on IG: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-04-261h 09

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow Having Kids Changes Your Relationship [Ep 21]Having kids is a huge decision. One that should not be taken lightly. Not only is it a lifetime commitment, but it will definitely change the relationship you have with your spouse.In this episode, we talk all about having kids. Should you? If so, how should you parent them? This episode is everything, kids!Follow us on IG: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-04-191h 04

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWill Social Media Be The Downfall Of Relationships? [Ep 20]Social media has affected all aspects of life on this planet. It's everywhere you look and while some of the things social media has brought us are positive, there is a HUGE negative effect on dating and relationships.In this episode, we discuss social media's impact on dating and relationships and what you need to know to survive.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-04-121h 08

The Battlefield Of The Mind123. Better Than Perfect with John & Nicole SonmezSend us a message, we can't respond. If you'd like a response email us at rick@warriorswaymindset.comStep into the fray of modern romance with your guides, Rick, John, and Nicole, as we unravel the 'Better Than Perfect' dynamic that's reshaping the dating and relationship landscape. With John's extensive experience in men's coaching and Nicole's keen insights from relationship podcasting, we're lifting the veil on the bitter cycle that plagues the dating scene and the impact of social media on our love lives. We dissect the mutual disdain and skewed romantic expectations, aiming to arm you...2024-04-051h 59

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastThis Could Destroy Your Relationship [Ep 19]Aloha from Hawaii. We are on our 1st-anniversary trip on Kauai talking about traveling with your partner and how it can make or break your relationship.If you want to really know whether or not you get along with someone. Go on a trip with them where you are stuck with them 24/7 for at least a few days and see what happens.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-04-0555 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastSEX [Ep 18]The title says it all. In this episode, we talk bout SEX in relationships.Should a woman give it up on the first date?How can you improve your sex life?Why do women often lose interest in sex in a long-term relationship?We answer all these questions and more.Follow us on IG: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-03-291h 12

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastCan You REALLY Be Satisfied With Just One Person Forever? [Ep 17]Does attraction always have to fade over time or can you ALWAYS be attracted to your partner and not want anyone else?Do guys always look? Is that just how they are? Or can a man be so satisfied with the woman he's with that he doesn't even see other women?In this episode, we break down the laws of attraction and talk about why many couples end up looking outside of the relationship, wondering if the grass is really greener on the other side and how to prevent it.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-03-2255 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastPick One: Happy Mom OR Happy Wife [Ep 16]One of the biggest issues in relationships, behind money, is family. What do you do if your partner doesn't like your family? What do you do if your family doesn't like your partner? What about friends? When do you make introductions?In this episode, we get into all the family issues that mess up relationships and give you some solid advice when dealing with friends and family members.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-03-1549 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastMarriage Is About TWO Becoming ONE [Ep 15]What does it mean to get married? It's more than just living together and potentially raising a family. It's about two people becoming one person. Most people don't treat marriage that way anymore and that is why there is such a high rate of divorce and marital conflict.In this episode, we discuss what it really means to become ONE and how the masculine and feminine dynamics play out and become essential when this happens.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-03-081h 01

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhen You Mess Up... (We had to stop an episode short) [Ep 14]Oh boy. We blew it. We ended up having to stop in the middle of recording an episode because we got into a bit of a conflict. No one is perfect and that's what this episode is about.What happens when you screw up? That's exactly what we discuss in this VERY real and transparent episode.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-03-0153 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastMen's BIGGEST Struggles In Dating and Relationships [Ep 13]It's not easy to be a man in the world we live in today. It can be frustrating when you swipe repeatedly on dating apps and get no matches and it feels like society is against you.In this episode, we talk about the real struggles that men have in dating in relationships and give some advice on how men can overcome them.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-02-231h 00

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhy Do Women Like Assholes And Losers? [Ep 12]A common complaint most men have is that women seem to like assholes and losers and then complain that there are no good guys or complain when men treat them poorly.Many men are extremely frustrated by this, but is this phenomenon even real, and if so, why do women seem to prefer these types of men?In this episode, we break it down and give you the honest truth about why nice guys seem to always finish last, what men can do about it, and what women REALLY want in a man.Make sure to follow us on...2024-02-161h 10

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastSTOP Doing Girls Night Out And Guys Night Out NOW! [Ep 11]While it may seem innocent and you trust your partner, girls' and guys' nights out is a VERY BAD idea.In this episode, we discuss why it's okay to hang out with your friends, but it's not okay to go to a bar or a nightclub to do so. Bachelor and bachelorette parties are also a big NO-NO if you want a better-than-perfect relationship.Be sure to follow us on IG: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-02-0956 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow A Man Should LEAD A Relationship [Ep 10]It's vitally important that a masculine man learns to lead a relationship in the right way. He has to be able to make tough decisions and follow through with his own judgment, but he has to take into account the feelings and desires of his partner.In this episode, we lay out the best way for a man to lead a relationship without being domineering and controlling while still maintaining respect and authority.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-02-021h 04

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow To Have A Successful First Date [Ep 9]First impressions are important. The first date is the most important date you'll ever go on with a potential partner, because if it doesn't go well there mostly likely will be no future. That's why it's critically important you get it right.In this episode we discuss how to conduct a first date so that it can lead to future dates.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-01-261h 14

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhy Traditional Relationship Are Better [Ep 8]What is a traditional relationship? It's one where a man is the primary provider and a woman takes charge of the home and family. Where masculine and feminine roles are valued instead of eliminated.In this episode, we discuss why a traditional relationship is the best kind of relationship to have for both men and women and how a man and a woman should behave in a traditional relationship.Follow us on IG: https://www.instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast 2024-01-191h 08

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhy Do Women Date "Ugly" Men? [Ep 7]Do women actually date "ugly" men? If so, why? That's what we discuss in this week's episode.2024-01-121h 05

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHow To Handle Conflict In A Relationship [Ep 6]In this episode, we discuss the proper way to handle the inevitable conflicts you will face, even in a "better than perfect" relationship.2024-01-0556 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHe CHEATED... [Ep 5]Once a cheater, always a cheater? Cheating is usually a pretty universal deal-breaker to most people. But there are also couples who choose to work through affairs as well. In this episode, we discuss the complex topic of cheating in relationships.2023-12-291h 06

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastHere's Why The "Honeymoon Phase" Doesn't Have To End [Ep 4]You hear it all the time, the "honeymoon phase" is the best time of your relationship and then "reality" hits. But what if that isn't the case? What if you could constantly be in the "honeymoon phase" and grow even happier together?That is what we have experienced together as a couple and in this week's episode, we explain how it's possible for any relationship to never leave the "honeymoon phase."2023-12-221h 05

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastWhy A 50/50 Relationship Won't Work [Ep 3]Today, it’s common for a man and woman in a relationship to split everything 50/50, but is that really fair? Does it actually work?In this episode, we discuss the 50/50 relationship dynamic and why it works in theory, but in practice, it will quite literally separate you from your partner.2023-12-151h 04

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastLove or Control? 6 Rules That Might Change Your Relationship Forever! [Ep 2]Do you need rules or boundaries for your relationship? Does having them mean you don't trust your partner? It is controlling? This week, we tackle all of these questions as we discuss our 6 rules for a successful relationship based on transparency and accountability.2023-12-0857 min

Better Than Perfect | A Relationship PodcastIs It Even Worth It To Get Married Anymore? [Ep 1]After getting married ourselves, for our first episode we discuss why (or why not) getting married today is worth it for men and women.2023-12-0240 min