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Big Sexy Digital NomadEpisode 134 An Unfolding Fairytale with Nilla, Episode 50 (Rerelease)Holy Schmoly! It's episode 50! We have come a long way on this adventure. It was only appropriate to invite Big Sexy's better half and the originator of the whole idea, Nilla BerryWhite (IG @nillaberrywhite) to this special episode and chat about the experience from her perspective. We discuss our favorite things (here's a hint: we love coastal places), unexpected circumstances, and the planned date to return to Spain. Judge dives deeper into doing work for charity organizations and his experiences with travel since this whole thing started! We also send shout-outs to the podcasts (PSS, ICS, HBNP) and people...2025-04-161h 02

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastRDTLP FRIENDSHIP SERIES Episode 3 Friends To LoversHappy Valentine's Day! In this episode, Nilla & Big Sexy discuss the path to going from friends to a long-term relationship. They discuss the pitfalls many people fall into when navigating the delicate transition, give tips on having success when changing from friendship to relationship, and what to do if it doesn't work out.Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.comIG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepodTikTok: @rainbowdreamcatchertlpRDTLP Merch: http://tee.pub/lic/colorfulhumans 2025-02-1436 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastRDTLP FRIENDSHIP SERIES Episode 2 - How To Identify Toxic FriendshipsIn this 2nd episode of the RDTLP Friendship Series, Nilla and Big Sexy discuss how to identify if you are in a toxic freindship. Nilla talks about her personal experience with toxicity within her friendship circle and how she found revelation from the most unlikely ally. Join Rainbow Dreamcatcher as they dive into the world of harmful and destructive friendships and share markers to help identify if you may be in one.2025-01-2432 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastRDTLP FRIENDSHIP SERIES Episode 1 - Friendship Mountain! How Do We Make Friends?Happy New Year to all our colorful humans! In 2025 we will start a new "Friendship Series." We will explore all aspects of friendships throughout the year. In this first episode of that series, Nilla and Big Sexy discuss how to go about making friends, the meaning of the word "friend," and how they nurture and build connections, and provide tips to identify those skills in your own life.Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@g...2025-01-1738 min

Big Sexy Digital NomadEpisode 121 Don't Take A SackThis week Big Sexy is recovering from being sick and didn't have a voice for 3 days. Judge Mentalist is also wiped from doing too much over the weekend. The guys talk about asshole fandoms, the BerryWhite Christmas Extravaganza (3 weeks late 10 years straight), and different White Elephant Gift Exchanges. Thanks for supporting us, and feel free to let us know how we can improve and make this podcast even better! We welcome your suggestions and ideas! Join Big Sexy and his lovely wife Nilla on Nilla’s 50th Cruise Celebration Click here: gowithlisa.com/big...2025-01-151h 01

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 41 How To Know If You Are In An Abusive RelationshipIn this insightful episode, RDTLP delves into the signs and red flags that may indicate you're in an abusive relationship. Join Nilla and Big Sexy as they discuss the various forms of abuse—emotional, physical, and psychological— and expert advice on recognizing harmful behaviors. Listeners will learn about the importance of setting boundaries, understanding the cycle of abuse, and identifying patterns that can lead to emotional distress. This episode aims to empower those who may be questioning their relationship dynamic and encourages seeking help and support, fostering a safe environment for open discussions about love, respect, and personal well-being. 2024-11-2249 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 40 Dating After DivorceNilla and Big Sexy are joined by Stephanie (IG: StephOhs) of Final Girlz (www.youtube.com/c/FinalGirlz) to discuss jumping back into the dating pool after getting divorced. Both Nilla and Steph have experience with this, Big just listens. They also talk about Steph's experience with dating apps, being celibate on purpose, a few horror stories, and why it's important to not settle for anything less than an "Enthusiastic Yes!" Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.c...2024-10-2551 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 39 Dating Apps Are TrashNilla and Big Sexy dive right in after their hiatus into the hot topic of dating apps. They discuss the history of, the rise of, and the inundation of the multitude of websites designed for hookups and supposed long-term love. Listen in and learn why these apps aren't designed to help people in the way they promise and how they will keep you lonely! Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.com IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod TikTok: @r...2024-09-2059 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 38 Five Ways To Improve Your Relationship ImmediatelyNilla and Big Sexy discuss the 5 things that can be done to improve your relationship immediately. Implementation of these things will have you living and loving better in any relationship, not just marriage and dating. Some you know, some you may be surprised about. Rainbow Dreamcatcher is also experimenting with a shorter format. Share your thoughts! Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.com IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod TikTok: @rainbowdreamcatchertlp Consider becoming a sponsor of R...2024-07-2634 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 37 Re-release: Episode 17 FIGHT!! The Keys To Repair 30 Common DisagreementsBy special request, (and since we haven't been able to record anything new), we r re-releasing Episode 17 FIGHT!! The Keys To Repair 30 Common Disagreements. Colorful humans, don't let the aggressions of the world sabotage ur relationships. In this insightful and personal episode of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, Nilla and Big Sexy embark on a journey through the often challenging terrain of common disagreements that arise in various aspects of our lives. From trivial disputes to more profound conflicts, we explore 30 items which cover all the disagreement bases in the Reasons for Disagreements in Romantic Relationships Scale...2024-07-1245 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 36 Connecting Without Conflict: How To Have Non-Violent CommunicationNilla and Big Sexy discuss the necessity of non-violent communication in healthy relationships. Nilla gives the 4 things needed to have this type of conflict resolution. Rainbow Dreamcatcher explores techniques for effective communication without resorting to aggression, defensiveness, or hostility, emphasizing the power of active listening, expressing feelings and needs clearly, and initiating conversations from a place of compassion. Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.com IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod TikTok: @rainbowdreamcatchertlp Consider becoming a s...2024-06-2838 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 35 Can Your Relationship Be Better After Infidelity?Nilla and Big Sexy discuss the possibility of a relationship actually improving after infidelity. Nilla goes over the tools needed and the circumstances required to make this happen. Hint: explicit communication is key! QOTW sent in by Ryan: "How do you put yourself in a position to be in a relationship (find someone)?" Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.com IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod TikTok: @rainbowdreamcatchertlp Consider becoming a sponsor of R...2024-06-1441 min

Big Sexy Digital NomadBONUS Intenionness! AKA How We Got Here with NillaMarriage and Family Therapist and host of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, and adorable wife of our host Nilla BerryWhite, (IG: @nillaberrywhite, @colorful_humans_global, @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod), sits down with Big Sexy to discuss their journey from conception to actualization. She informs and educates about the research rabbit holes she found herself going down and how being able to pivot and problem-solve makes this a uniquely wonderful experience. Plus, they give tips they have learned from their journey to those seeking to do the same. Thanks for supporting us, and feel free to let us know how we...2024-06-0136 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 34 A. I. T. A.? Vol. 2Nilla and Big Sexy return to their favorite subreddit of "Am I The A$$hole?" This week, they look at parental assistance with housing, monetary equality in a relationship, issues with an ex-MIL, a mom getting back into dating, and communication trouble around a dishwasher. Chime in and let us know if you think any of the people are indeed "The A$$hole!" Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.com IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod TikTok: @rainbowdreamcatchertlp 2024-05-3145 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 33 Let's Talk Polyamory With MikeThis week Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast sits down with Northern California native, network engineer, and world traveler, Mike to chat about the ins and outs of polyamory. Is it just cheating with a different label? What are the rules and boundaries? Mike shares his experiences with discovering he is polyamorous and the benefits and issues therein. They barely scratch the surface of the topic and will definitely continue the conversation! Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to r...2024-05-2446 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 32 A. I. T. A.?This week Rainbow Dreamcatcher helps Reddit folks answer the age-old question: "Am I The A$$hole?" They look at friendships, in-laws, and proper dessert etiquette. There are some disagreements, some passive-aggressions, and a whole lot of fun. Will definitely do this again! Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.com IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod TikTok: @rainbowdreamcatchertlp Consider becoming a sponsor of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast and get extra content by joining our Patreon: rainbowdreamcatherthelovepodcast.c...2024-05-1753 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 31 Big Sexy, Love CoachOn this episode of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, Nilla and Big Sexy flip the script and Big Sexy gives out love and life advice as Nilla asks questions from Reddit. The questions range from friends who aren't really friends to sex as a transaction to family members who get no respect. Big gives his advice and Nilla shows why she's the professional. Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.com IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod TikTok: @rainbowdreamcatchertlp 2024-05-1042 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 30 Oops, All Questions AgainNilla and Big Sexy answer a popular question circulating social media and listener questions. They discuss women choosing to face a bear instead of a man if they were walking in the woods, the difficulties of bisexuality, and the ways they like to be supported during tough times. Colorful Human questions submitted by Sophie and Kira. Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.com IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod TikTok: @rainbowdreamcatchertlp Consider becoming a sponsor of R...2024-05-0346 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 29 Re-release Episode 4 You Got Jokes?! The Importance Of Laughing Together In RelationshipsGet ready to laugh your way to a better relationship! Humor is the spice of life, and in long-term relationships, it might just be the secret ingredient to everlasting love. Join Nilla and Big Sexy, your favorite love gurus, as we delve into why laughter really is the best medicine for keeping the spark alive. Real-life anecdotes, expert advice, and a sprinkle of our own comedic moments await you. Don't miss this heartwarming episode, and leave us a comment about a funny story from your relationship! Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or a...2024-04-2754 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 28 Keep That Spark Alive! Sex In Long-Term RelationshipsHow do you stop the sexual flame from going out in a long-term relationship? Nilla and Big Sexy explore what sex looks like after you have been together for a while and what to do if that spark just isn't there anymore. The QOTW comes from Ryan: How do you keep that spark alive in a relationship? Editor Note: Nilla's mic goes out at 29:45 and Big's mic does the same at 39:00. There is a definitive shift in sound quality. Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow D...2024-04-1943 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 27 I Really Want To Trust You! Rebuilding Trust After A BetrayalHow do you come back from betrayal? This week, Nilla and Big Sexy discuss the steps to rebuilding trust in the relationship after there has been a betrayal. They dive into what constitutes betrayal, what to do to make it right, how to navigate that path, and how to move forward with your partner. The QOTW comes from Dallas: How do you handle feeling not good enough for your partner if they're more successful/rich etc? Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love P...2024-04-1243 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 26 The Do's & Don't's Of A Functional Relationship Part 2Nilla and Big Sexy continue their discussion on what to do and what not to do to have a functional relationship. This week, they examine what helped them have a functional relationship. Nilla provides guidance on appreciation, gratitude practices, avoiding sarcasm and negative play that can become abuse, and being able to say, “I’m sorry!” QOTW sent in by Marvelyn: How do you make time in a relationship for each other when you have careers and kids? Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Lov...2024-04-0546 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 25 The Do's & Don't's Of A Functional Relationship Part 1Nilla and Big Sexy discuss the hierarchy of a functional relationship, breaking down the loneliness crisis in the world, and how to combat it. NIlla explains the differences between clean pain vs. dirty pain. Big confesses that he has a teacup booty and the couple examines when the switch happened between dating and choosing a long-term partnership. QOTW sent in by Anonymous: When would you consider to be ready for a relationship? Where do you need to be in life for that? When would you say someone is not ready? Be A Colorful Human! Send i...2024-03-2942 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 24 Relationship Bugaboo: Housework (Episode 9 Re-release)Nilla and Big Sexy are on Vacation for Nilla's birthday. Here is a re-release of the first episode in the "Relationship Bugaboo" series, Housework. Enjoy. If you have any "relationship bugaboos" you would like Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast to address, leave us a comment or hit us up on social media. Our latest episode presents a new series within Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, "Relationship Bugaboos.” This month’s topic is "Relationship Bugaboos: Housework", Ah, housework – the silent relationship tester. We uncover the under-the-rug issues that chores can stir up in a romantic dynamic. Whether it's the ba...2024-03-2259 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 23 Is Love Really Blind? With StephanieThis week features a special guest! Taking Big Sexy’s place is our friend Stephanie Bale (IG: @stephohs). The topic is the hit Netflix show “Love Is Blind.” SPOILERS AHEAD! Nilla and Steph chat about following 3 main couples in season 6 and the drama that plays out within each of their stories. The problems with each get dissected and examined with humor and insight. They, of course, veer off into tangents about all the other drama to be found in the series' shows and seasons. Enjoy this in-depth review of this very popular dating show. Be A Colorful Human...2024-03-1550 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 22 Who TF Did She Marry? Healing From Toxic RelationshipsIn this week’s episode, join Nilla and Big Sexy as they ask the question, “who the f*** did she marry?” and dive into the saga that is Reesa Teesa (TikTok @reesamteesa). Reesa broke down her marriage to a “pathological liar” in her 52-part story told on TikTok. Rainbow Dreamcatcher examines her story and, more importantly, the aftermath of those circumstances. Nilla provides suggestions on how to heal and move forward after a toxic partnership. QOTW: Sent by Forrest. “Why do empaths always end up with narcissists?” Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questio...2024-03-0853 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 22 Oopsie!Well, it was bound to happen. We recorded an entire episode and the mic wasn't working. We will re-record the episode soon but in the meantime, here is us apologizing. With love to all of our colorful humans! Be A Colorful Human! Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast to rainbowdreamcatchertlp@gmail.com IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod TikTok: @rainbowdreamcatchertlp Consider becoming a sponsor of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast and get extra content by joining our Patreon: rainbowdreamcatherthelovepodcast.com Music: FRESH by...2024-03-0201 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 21 Political Trigger Warning! Staying Cool When You Talk About Stressful TopicsQOTW sent to us by Colorful Human Aubrey, “Every time my partner and I talk about politics we end up in a fight. It’s to the point we had to take this topic off the table entirely. How can I talk about a triggering topic and stay cool-headed?” In this episode, Nilla and Big Sexy chat about strategies for maintaining composure and fostering constructive dialogue when engaging in politically charged conversations. They explore techniques such as active listening, mindfulness, and setting boundaries to navigate heated discussions without succumbing to stress or escalating tensions. Rainbow Dreamcatcher TLP seeks to empowe...2024-02-2343 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 20 What Did You Say? The Importance Of CommunicationQOTW: How important is communication in a relationship? Thank you to colorful human Kendol for the question. Nilla and Big Sexy look at the important role of communication in relationships. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, they emphasize how open dialogue, active listening, and empathy can foster trust and understanding between partners. Learn the ways we communicate and effective tools to help keep the channels of communication open after they seem to shut down. Whether you're in the early stages of dating or seeking to deepen a long-term partnership, communication is one of the keys to having a healthy...2024-02-1642 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 19 I Can't Trust You! Dealing With The Trauma Of InfidelityNilla and Big Sexy are back! Join them this week as they dive deep into the challenging topic of infidelity. Can trust be rebuilt after cheating? What is the emotional impact of infidelity on partners and relationships? Hear all about the root causes behind cheating and how to address them, practical steps for rebuilding trust and fostering forgiveness, and strategies for healing and moving forward together. Whether you've been affected by infidelity or just seeking to deepen your understanding of trust and forgiveness in relationships, this episode is a must-listen. Be A Colorful Human! Send in your...2024-02-0955 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastRe-release Episode 5 Meet Cute! Interesting Places To Find LoveLast of our top 5 episodes! This is a special one as its about having fun and finding humor with each other. Ever bumped into someone in a bookstore and felt that cinematic spark? Or maybe you've danced around the idea of love in an online chatroom? From fate-filled encounters to the digital dance of modern dating apps, the magic of meeting that 'special someone' has evolved. In our latest episode, we journey through love's delightful and unexpected rendezvous points. Join us, your favorite relationship experts, as we share heartwarming tales, laugh-out-loud mishaps, and insights into the ever-evolving landscape of romance...2024-02-0354 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastRe-Release: Episode 10 What The Funch Is A Munch? BDSM with Master Arcane & DaphneNilla and Big Sexy have to take a brief hiatus. Please enjoy 1 of our top 5 episodes! #becolorful We delve deep into the world of BDSM as we demystify its practices, values, and communities in our latest episode. We're honored to be joined by renowned experts, Master Arcane and his life partner and full-time sub, Daphne, who provide an intimate look into their experiences and the colorful world of BDSM culture. From understanding the true essence of a "munch" to breaking down common misconceptions, this episode is an enlightening journey for both the curious and the knowledgeable. With...2024-01-261h 11

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastRe-Release: Episode 11 Will You Marry Me? The Art Of The EngagementNilla and Big Sexy have to take a brief hiatus. Please enjoy 1 of our top 5 episodes! #becolorful We are often asked, "How did you get engaged?" On this episode of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, Nilla and Big Sexy dive deep into the world of engagements. We chat about when to do it, how to do it, and how many people are surprised by it. We even tell our own story with is full of expectations, subterfuge, misleading events, and a fun-filled celebration as Big Sexy had Nilla unknowingly plan her own engagement party. We read listener...2024-01-1957 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastRe-Release: Episode 8 Lessons From Breakup, How To Make Sure Your Last Relationship Wasn't A Waste Of TimeNilla and Big Sexy have to take a brief hiatus. Please enjoy 1 of our top 5 episodes! #becolorful Heartbreak might sting, but it's also a profound teacher. Dive into our newest episode, "Lessons After a Breakup", where we unpack the wisdom and growth that often follows the tears and heartache. From rediscovering your individuality to gaining clarity on what truly matters in a partnership, breakups, although painful, can illuminate the path to a healthier, happier you. Whether you're mending a broken heart or supporting a friend through their journey, this episode is a treasure trove of reflection and resilience. Listen...2024-01-1254 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastRe-Release: Episode 2 Let's Hook Up! One Night Stands, F**k Buddies, Booty Calls, & Friends With BenefitsNilla and Big Sexy have to take a brief hiatus. Please enjoy 1 of our top 5 episodes! #becolorful Step into the intricate web of modern romantic dynamics with us in this deeply personal and insightful episode. As a relationship coach and licensed therapist, I, together with my co-host and husband, shed light on the often-misunderstood realms of one-night stands, booty calls, fuck buddies, and friends with benefits. But this isn’t just a theoretical discussion – we intersperse our professional insights with real-life stories and anecdotes that both entertain and educate. Hear about the hilarious missteps, unexpected connections, and hear...2024-01-0555 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 18 Oh My Goodness! Examining Crushes, Infatuation, And AttractionBe A Colorful Human! Journey with Nilla and Big Sexy through the realms of crushes, infatuation, and attraction. In this episode. What is “attraction?” What different types of attractions are there? Rainbow Dreamcatcher takes a deep exploration into the psychology of attraction. We delve into the science behind attraction, unraveling the mysteries of chemistry and the subconscious signals that draw individuals together. Answering the question, “Why is Brad Pitt so damn fine?!” Join us as we examine what happens to our bodies when we see a potential mate. CHQOTW sent in by Chiara: "Are the butterflies in your sto...2023-12-2946 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 17 FIGHT!! The Keys To Repair 30 Common DisagreementsIn this insightful and personal episode of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, Nilla and Big Sexy embark on a journey through the often challenging terrain of common disagreements that arise in various aspects of our lives. From trivial disputes to more profound conflicts, we explore 30 items that cover all the disagreement bases in the Reasons for Disagreements in Romantic Relationships Scale (RDRRS), 30 scenarios that all colorful humans can likely relate to. Drawing from expert advice and real-life experiences, we dissect each disagreement and offer practical strategies for resolution and repair. Whether it's differences in communication styles, divergent priorities, issues...2023-12-2245 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 16 Love Across Borders: Navigating Intercultural RelationshipsIn this episode of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, we explore the intricate and delicate world of intercultural relationships. Join us as we examine the challenges, pitfalls, and joys that come with loving someone from a different cultural background. Nilla and Big Sexy offer practical tips for couples looking to strengthen their connection. From effective communication strategies to celebrating the richness of cultural diversity, we provide insights and real-life stories that will inspire and guide you in navigating these unique dynamics. Whether you're in such a relationship or simply curious about the magic that happens when two worlds collide...2023-12-1543 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 15 BFF Breakups: What To Do When The Friendship Is OverIn this episode, Nilla and Big Sexy delve into the complexities of breaking up with friends, exploring the emotional intricacies and the profound impact such separations can have on our lives. They shed light on the various reasons friendships end, the emotions that accompany these breakups, and strategies for healing and moving forward. Whether you're grappling with the end of a long-term friendship or seeking guidance on how to initiate a healthy separation, Rainbow Dreamcatcher offers genuine and relatable insights, fostering a sense of community for those navigating the intricate landscape of friend breakups. Send in your...2023-12-0849 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 14 Buddies & Besties: Tips For Making FriendsFriends, how many of us have them? How do we make them? How do we keep them? In this episode, Nilla and Big Sexy discuss the world of friendships. Making friends seems to be one of Big Sexy’s superpowers and he analyzes how he goes about doing so. Nilla quotes “Platonic: How the Science of Attachment Can Help You Make — and Keep — Friends.” by Dr. Marisa Franco is shocked by the stat that in 1990, only 3 percent of Americans said they had no close friends; in 2021, nearly 12 percent said the same. People are lonely and Rainbow Dreamcatcher provides some tips to ma...2023-12-0143 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 13 The In-LawsOnce you get married, you not only combine your life with your partner but also your family and their family. On this episode of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, Nilla and Big Sexy discuss the relationships people have with in-laws. We explore the joining of family units and the possible troubles and issues that may arise. What happens when they don't like you? Or when they disagree with how you are living and/or raising your children? We answer those questions, give some helpful suggestions for how to handle any problems, and are sure to mention that we both...2023-11-2455 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 12 Oops, All Questions!Get ready for an engaging and enlightening episode where Nilla and Big Sexy try out something new! In this special edition, we're diving headfirst into a sea of our colorful human’s burning questions about love, relationships, and all things in the world of human connection. Whether you're curious about it being love or lust, navigating daily routines to help a long-term partnership, or simply curious about having tough conversations with your significant other, "Oops, All Questions!" promises to be a valuable resource for anyone seeking guidance in matters of the heart. Sending thanks to Kendol, Raluca, and Valerie fo...2023-11-1752 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 11 "Will You Marry Me?" The Art Of The EngagementWe are often asked, "How did you get engaged?" On this episode of Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, Nilla and Big Sexy dive deep into the world of engagements. We chat about when to do it, how to do it, and how many people are surprised by it. We even tell our own story with is full of expectations, subterfuge, misleading events, and a fun-filled celebration as Big Sexy had Nilla unknowingly plan her own engagement party. We read listener mail and answer listener questions. Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow...2023-11-1056 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 10 What the Funch is a Munch? Conversations about BDSM with Master Arcane and Submissive DaphneWe delve deep into the world of BDSM as we demystify its practices, values, and communities in our latest episode. We're honored to be joined by renowned experts, Master Arcane and his life partner and 24/7 submissive, Daphne, who provide an intimate look into their experiences and the colorful world of BDSM culture. From understanding the true essence of a "munch" to breaking down common misconceptions, this episode is an enlightening journey for both the curious and the knowledgeable. With respect, openness, and authenticity, we aim to bridge the gap between myth and reality, fostering a deeper understanding of the...2023-11-021h 10

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 9 Relationship Bugaboos: HouseworkOur latest episode presents a new series within Rainbow Dreamcatcher The Love Podcast, "Relationship Bugaboos.” This month’s topic is "Relationship Bugaboos: Housework", Ah, housework – the silent relationship tester. We uncover the under-the-rug issues that chores can stir up in a romantic dynamic. Whether it's the battle over unwashed dishes or the ever-growing mountain of laundry, housework often becomes a mirror reflecting deeper relationship values and balance. If you've ever thought, "Whose turn is it to vacuum?", this episode is a must-listen. Let’s declutter relationship misunderstandings and create a tidier love life. Share your own housework tales and tips and...2023-10-2659 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 8 Lessons From Breakups. How To Make Sure Your Last Relationship Wasn't A Waste Of TimeHeartbreak might sting, but it's also a profound teacher. Dive into our newest episode, "Lessons After a Breakup", where we unpack the wisdom and growth that often follows the tears and heartache. From rediscovering your individuality to gaining clarity on what truly matters in a partnership, breakups, although painful, can illuminate the path to a healthier, happier you. Whether you're mending a broken heart or supporting a friend through their journey, this episode is a treasure trove of reflection and resilience. Listen in and start your journey of healing and understanding. Share your personal growth stories and lessons learned...2023-10-1953 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 7 What Do You Believe? Beliefs About Love That Can Damage Your RelationshipsOn this Friday the 13th of October, join us as we discuss unraveling the mysteries of love. Beware of hidden pitfalls! In this latest episode, we dive deep into those unspoken convictions, superstitions, and mindsets that, left unchecked, could quietly erode the foundation of your romantic connection. From age-old myths to modern misconceptions, our analysis sheds light on the beliefs you might not even know you're holding onto. Listen in and unearth potential relationship roadblocks, setting your love on a more enlightened path. Send in your stories or any questions you may have for Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The...2023-10-121h 00

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 6 Love in the Stars: Astrology with Confident MoonJoin us for a cosmic conversation on Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast with hosts Nilla and Big Sexy. In this episode, we're excited to have Astrologer Cris Andreica from Confident Moon Astrology as our guest. Explore the intriguing connection between love and astrology as Cris and the crew shed light on how celestial bodies can influence your love life and relationships. Big and Nilla get a live reading - was their love written in the stars? Whether you're an astrology enthusiast or simply curious about its impact on love, this episode will provide cosmic insights that may just change...2023-10-0557 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 5 Meet Cute! Interesting Places To Find LoveEver bumped into someone in a bookstore and felt that cinematic spark? Or maybe you've danced around the idea of love in an online chatroom? From fate-filled encounters to the digital dance of modern dating apps, the magic of meeting that 'special someone' has evolved. In our latest episode, we journey through love's delightful and unexpected rendezvous points. Join us, your favorite relationship experts, as we share heartwarming tales, laugh-out-loud mishaps, and insights into the ever-evolving landscape of romance. Whether you're a romantic at heart or a curious soul, this episode promises a delightful look into love's many meeting...2023-09-2851 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 4 You Got Jokes?! The Importance Of Laughing Together In RelationshipsGet ready to laugh your way to a better relationship! Humor is the spice of life, and in long-term relationships, it might just be the secret ingredient to everlasting love. Join Nilla and Big Sexy, your favorite love gurus, as we delve into why laughter really is the best medicine for keeping the spark alive. Real-life anecdotes, expert advice, and a sprinkle of our own comedic moments await you. Don't miss this heartwarming episode, and leave us a comment with a funny story from your relationship! IG: @rainbowdreamcatcherthelovepod TikTok: @rainbowdreamcatchertlpSend in...2023-09-2154 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 3 Love's Second Chapter: Finding Joy in Late-Life RelationshipsDive into the heartwarming world of late-life love in this episode of "Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love Podcast" with Nilla and Big Sexy. Join us as we explore the incredible benefits and joys of finding love later in life. We discuss rediscovering vitality and how learn how late-life love can bring a renewed sense of energy and zest for life. We also explore how years of experience contribute to more meaningful and profound connections. Whether you're seeking love, cherishing your own late-life relationship, or simply curious about the power of love's second chapter, this episode will warm your heart and...2023-09-1450 min

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 2 One Night Stands, Booty Calls, F**k Buddies, Friends With BenefitsStep into the intricate web of modern romantic dynamics with us in this deeply personal and insightful episode. As a relationship coach and licensed therapist, I, together with my co-host and husband Big Sexy, shed light on the often-misunderstood realms of one-night stands, booty calls, fuck buddies, and friends with benefits. But this isn’t just a theoretical discussion – we intersperse our professional insights with real-life stories and anecdotes that both entertain and educate. Hear about the hilarious missteps, unexpected connections, and heart-rending moments that these relationships can bring. We talk about the significance of clear communication, boundaries, and unde...2023-09-0754 min

Big Sexy Digital NomadEpisode 50 An Unfolding Fairytale with Nilla BerryWhiteHoly Schmoly! It's episode 50! We have come a long way on this adventure. It was only appropriate to invite Big Sexy's better half and the originator of the whole idea, Nilla BerryWhite (IG @nillaberrywhite) to this special episode and chat about the experience from her perspective. We discuss our favorite things (here's a hint: we love coastal places), unexpected circumstances, and the planned date to return to Spain. Judge dives deeper into doing work for charity organizations and his experiences with travel since this whole thing started! We also send shout-outs to the podcasts (PSS, ICS, HBNP) and people...2023-09-061h 02

Rainbow Dreamcatcher: The Love PodcastEpisode 1 Fool Me Once! Romance ScamsHey, lovely listeners! Ever heard the phrase "love is blind"? In today's tech-savvy world, Cupid's arrow can sometimes lead us astray, right into the hands of crafty romance scammers. Join us in this eye-opening episode as we delve into the not-so-sweet side of love – the world of romance scams.With our usual blend of warmth, humor, and expertise, we'll share startling tales from those who've been swindled, bamboozled, and downright fooled in the name of love. But don’t fret, it’s not all doom and gloom. We'll also arm you with tips, red flags, and expert insights to ensur...2023-08-3159 min