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This Whole Life
Screening Prospective Priests & Religious: Storytellers #7
What's it like to have the responsibility of discerning whether a man or woman would be a healthy and suitable priests or religious?Dr. Anthony Isacco shares his humble insights into the quietly holy work of psychological assessments in the process of discernment.Support the showThank you for listening, and a very special thank you to our community of supporters! Visit us online at thiswholelifepodcast.com, and send us an email with your thoughts, questions, or ideas.Follow us on Instagram & FacebookInterested in more faith-filled...
2026-01-26
11 min
This Whole Life
Ep91 Hope Amid Depression w/ Dr. Anthony Isacco
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted, saves those whose spirit is crushed."~ Psalm 34:19Is it a sin to be depression?Is depression really able to be treated and healed?How can I help my loved one who is suffering with depression?In the first ever episode of "This Whole Life" recorded in front of a LIVE audience, Pat is joined by Dr. Anthony Isacco to dive into the realities of depression—what it is, how it affects individuals and families, and its complex relationship with faith. The co...
2026-01-19
56 min
This Whole Life
A Wondrous Walk in Wyoming: Storytellers #6
What does a Wyoming girl do every time she visits the family farm?Beth Hlabse joins us for this edition of Storytellers and a glimpse of the grandeur, quiet, and beauty of her childhood home.Get your copy of He Leadeth Me for our Lenten book studyLet us know your thoughts on this 3-minute This Whole Life listener surveySupport the showThank you for listening, and a very special thank you to our community of supporters! Visit us online at thiswholelifepodcast.com, and send us an...
2026-01-12
09 min
This Whole Life
Ep90 Loving Persons With Mental Illness
"But a Samaritan traveler who came upon him was moved with compassion at the sight."~ Luke 10:33How can I better support my loved one who suffers with mental illness?What is the Church's place in caring for those with mental illnesses?Is it possible to choose my responses instead of just reacting?In episode 90, Kenna & Pat welcome Beth Hlabse, program director of the Fiat Program on Faith and Mental Health at the University of Notre Dame, for an honest conversation about loving and supporting people with mental illness...
2026-01-05
1h 09
This Whole Life
When the Hernons *knew* they were meant for each other: Storytellers #5
When do you know that you're meant to marry someone? How much do you ever really know?? Mike & Alicia Hernon of the Messy Family Project share the story of their friendship, dating, and discernment with loads of wisdom for anyone at any stage of their vocation journey.Get your copy of He Leadeth Me for our Lenten book studyLet us know your thoughts on this 3-minute This Whole Life listener surveySupport the showThank you for listening, and a very special thank you to our community of supp...
2025-12-29
17 min
This Whole Life
Ep89 Family from 30,000 Feet w/ Mike & Alicia Hernon
“Where there is no vision, the people perish."~ Proverbs 29:18Why do my spouse and I fight over such trivial things?How can we be more connected in our marriage?How do we create a vision of hope for our family?In episode 89 of This Whole Life, hosts Kenna & Pat Millea welcome Mike & Alicia Hernon, founders of the Messy Family Project. Together, they dive deep into the importance of building a shared vision for marriage and family, exploring the transformative power of intentionality in daily life. The Hernons share ca...
2025-12-22
1h 00
This Whole Life
Ep88 The Window of Tolerance
"If you find that you have wandered away from the shelter of God, lead your heart back to Him quietly and simply."~ St. Francis de SalesWhat is wrong with me that I feel so overwhelmed sometimes?Why do I freeze up and struggle to process stress?How can I get back to my authentic self and respond instead of react?In Episode 88 of This Whole Life, Pat & Kenna dive deep into the concept of the “Window of Tolerance” — a foundational model for understanding emotional regulation and navigating stress...
2025-12-08
59 min
The Unplanned Joyful Life - Faith, Prayer, Catholic Church, Resilience, Self-Confidence
#123 Concerned about your Mental Health and Feel Like Praying just isn't Enough? Meet Pat Millea, Cofounder of The Martin Center of Integration and Cohost of This Whole Life Podcast
Inside today's episode of The Unplanned Joyful Life Podcast, Cathy Jo meets and speaks with Pat Millea. Pat is a Catholic speaker, musician, leader, and business owner. He is cohost of "This Whole Life" Podcast with his wife, Kenna. They've been married for 16 years have seven children together! Pat talks about where his faith journey began and why he is so passionate about helping others suffering due to mental illness. He and Kenna lead a team of professionals at The Martin Center for Integration, where therapy and faith are used to benefit their clients' mental health, wellness and...
2025-11-24
1h 02
This Whole Life
Ep87 Sane Celebrations & Holidays
"So whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God."~ 1 Corinthians 10:31Is it really possible to stay sane around the holidays?What if I have real baggage from past holidays & celebrations?How do I hold onto my values when the routine is thrown out the window?In episode 87 of This Whole Life, Pat and Kenna dive into the highs, hards, and heartfelt moments that come with holidays and celebrations. Together, they explore personal and family traditions, sharing how their values influence...
2025-11-24
55 min
This Whole Life
From Occult Practices to Catholic Priesthood: Storytellers #2
What a difference a year can make.You'll be wowed by Fr. Nathan LaLiberte's story of conversion and vocational discernment, going from occult practices to the seminary. Who in your life needs to hear Fr. Nathan's story? Take one moment to share it with them.Get your copy of He Leadeth Me for our Lenten book studyLet us know your thoughts on this 3-minute This Whole Life listener surveySupport the showThank you for listening, and a very special thank you to our community of sup...
2025-11-17
12 min
This Whole Life
Ep86 Gratitude Changes You
In all circumstances give thanks, for this is the will of God for you in Christ Jesus.~ 1 Thessalonians 5:18Why is it so easy to feel entitled?How am I supposed to be grateful when things are so flawed?Does gratitude really make a difference?In this episode of This Whole Life, Pat, Kenna, and recurring guest Fr. Nathan LaLiberte dive deep into the transformative power of gratitude. They explore why gratitude isn’t optional for Christians, how it supports both mental health and spiritual maturity, and the enemies th...
2025-11-10
55 min
This Whole Life
Why This University President Stopped Using Email: Storytellers #1
"Monsignor James Shea stopped using email in 2013."What?!In this inaugural Storytellers episode of This Whole Life, hear about this University president's story of deleting his email entirely: his reasoning, what he's learned, and what you can gain from his story.Get your copy of He Leadeth Me for our Lenten book studyLet us know your thoughts on this 3-minute This Whole Life listener surveySupport the showThank you for listening, and a very special thank you to our community of supporters! Visit us...
2025-11-03
11 min
This Whole Life
Ep85 Creating Integrated Catholic Culture w/ Msgr. James Shea
"The Christian faith does not destroy culture, but purifies and uplifts it. It takes away nothing of genuine value from a society or nation, but strengthens whatever is good for the betterment of all."~ St. John Paul IIWhat does it mean to live a beautiful life?How can I create a Catholic culture in my own life, family, school, or work?Should I be aiming to create a utopia on earth?In this insightful episode of This Whole Life, hosts Pat and Kenna sit down with Monsignor...
2025-10-27
1h 03
This Whole Life
Ep84 Holy Sex, part 3: Expectations, Desires & NFP w/ Renzo & Monica Ortega
"Each family finds within itself a summons that cannot be ignored, and that specifies both its dignity and its responsibility: family, become what you are."~ St. John Paul II, Familiaris Consortio, §17How do I acknowledge and communicate my sexual desires & needs?What do I do when my expectations about sex in marriage are unmet?Is it possible to keep the spark alive while practicing NFP?In episode 84, Pat and Kenna welcome Monica & Renzo Ortega for the final installment of their “Holy Sex” series. Together, they dive into...
2025-10-13
1h 01
This Whole Life
Ep83 Holy Sex, part 2: Arousal & Openness
"Love should be seen as something which in a sense never ‘is’ but is always only ‘becoming’, and what it becomes depends up on the contribution of both persons and the depth of their commitment.”~ Karol WojtyłaWhy doesn't arousal come as easily as we expected?How do we make opportunities for intimacy when life is so busy?How can I have honest conversations with my spouse about arousal and our sex life?In Episode 83 of This Whole Life, Pat & Kenna are joined by guest Trisha McKeever, LMFT for Pa...
2025-09-29
1h 02
This Whole Life
Ep82 Holy Sex part 1: The Great News About Sex
"I belong to my lover, and my lover belongs to me; he feeds among the lilies."~ Song of Solomon 6:3Why isn't my sex life going the way I hoped it would?How do I talk to my spouse about sex after we've gotten into ruts?Is it possible to have more sex and better sex in our marriage?In Episode 82 of This Whole Life, Kenna is joined by Vonda Tiede, LMFT and Daniel Merboth to kick off a powerful three-part series on “Holy Sex” in marriage. Together, they dig...
2025-09-15
1h 08
Practicing Catholic Show
After the unthinkable: Holding on to hope (with Bishop Izen and Pat Millea)
How can Mary’s faith inspire us to face fear and uncertainty with courage? Bishop Michael Izen shares powerful insights for families and disciples today. Plus, Pat Millea from the Martin Center for Integration offers hope and healing strategies for those coping with grief and trauma in our community.Like what you're hearing? Leave us a review, subscribe, and follow us on social media @practicingcatholicshow! Facebook Instagram YouTube
2025-09-08
58 min
This Whole Life
Ep81 Take Back Control Of Your Life
"For freedom Christ set us free; so stand firm and do not submit again to the yoke of slavery."~ Galatians 5:1What if I didn't sign up for the life I have?What does my life feel so out of control?Why do I feel trapped in the life I'm leading?In Episode 81 of This Whole Life, hosts Pat & Kenna Millea dive deep into what it really means to take control of your life — especially when things aren't going the way you thought they would. This episode explores the br...
2025-09-01
1h 00
This Whole Life
Ep80 The 4 C's of Healthy Conflict
"A mild answer turns back wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."~ Proverbs 15:1Is it possible to fight fair?How can someone who hates conflict approach it better?How do you turn conflict into connection? In this episode of This Whole Life, Pat and Kenna Millea dive deep into the heart of fighting well with the "Four Cs of Conflict." Drawing from real-life family stories, faith, and the practical tools of therapy, they lay out a step-by-step process to approach disagreements in healthier, more meaningful ways. You'll l...
2025-08-18
54 min
This Whole Life
Ep79 How Fathers Can Find Peace w/ Devin Schadt
“For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you received a spirit of adoption, through which we cry, ‘Abba, Father!’”~ Romans 8:15Why are so many fathers struggling?Is it possible for fathers to live peaceful lives today?How can a man change the world through his identity as a father?In episode 79 of This Whole Life, Pat Millea sits down with Devin Schadt, founder and executive director of the Fathers of St. Joseph, to dive deep into the challenges and opportunities of Catho...
2025-08-04
1h 00
The Freedom to Love Podcast
S2 E13 How to Talk About Sex: Catholic Parenting with Pat Millea
How do you talk to your kids about sexuality in a way that's faithful, honest, and free from shame? In this episode of the Freedom to Love podcast, Catholic speaker and therapist Pat Millea discusses why God gave us the gift of sexuality and how parents can guide their children toward understanding it with clarity and grace. From toddlerhood to the teenage years, Pat shares practical advice for having age-appropriate, ongoing conversations that affirm the goodness of the body and the purpose of sexual desire. If you’ve ever felt unsure or overwhelmed about...
2025-07-28
30 min
This Whole Life
Ep78 Dating Well Before - And After - the Wedding w/ Dr. Mario Sacasa
"Love should be seen as something which in a sense never ‘is’ but is always only ‘becoming’, and what it becomes depends upon the contribution of both persons and the depth of their commitment.” ~ St. John Paul IIIn episode 78 of This Whole Life, hosts Kenna and Pat Millea welcome Dr. Mario Sacasa, a seasoned marriage and family therapist and host of the Always Hope podcast, for an honest and hope-filled conversation about dating well—both before and after marriage. Together, they explore the true purpose of dating, how couples can continue to date with...
2025-07-21
1h 15
This Whole Life
Ep77 Living Pro-Life Every Day
“This is how all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”~ John 13:35Am I really "pro-life"?How does loving others impact my mental & spiritual health?How am I supposed to treat the people who are hard to love?In Episode 77 of This Whole Life, Pat Millea welcomes Fr. Nathan LaLiberte for a powerful conversation about living out the pro-life message in our daily interactions and relationships. Together, they go beyond the usual political rhetoric, exploring how being truly pro-life means acknowledging the...
2025-07-07
59 min
This Whole Life
Ep76 Top Ten Parenting Hacks
“See, I am sending you out like sheep into the midst of wolves; so be wise as serpents and innocent as doves."~ Matthew 10:16Is there any way to make parenting less stressful?What can I do to make our life less chaotic?How can our family be a little more sane & connected?Let's face it - parenting in the 21st century is not for the faint of heart. In episode 76 of This Whole Life, Kenna and Pat dive into their top 10 parenting hacks, offering real-life tips for bringing sa...
2025-06-23
53 min
This Whole Life
Ep75 Youth Sports: Inspiring or Insane? w/ Matt Birk
"Do you not know that the runners in the stadium all run in the race, but only one wins the prize? Run so as to win." ~ 1 Corinthians 9:24Are youth sports helping or hurting our kids?Can sports be a healthy way of honoring God?How can my children and I stay grounded in the midst of their sports?In Episode 75 of This Whole Life, hosts Pat and Kenna sit down with Super Bowl champion Matt Birk for a lively, honest, and heartfelt conversation about the realities of youth...
2025-06-09
1h 09
This Whole Life
Ep74 Stuck in the Middle: Triangulation (Relationship Roundtable)
“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone."~ Matthew 18:15Why do I get caught in the middle of arguments in my family?Why is it so tempting to bring someone else into a tense situation?How do I break the cycle of being brought into triangles among my family & friends?In Episode 74 of This Whole Life, Kenna Millea welcomes Ben Baker, LMFT and Addy Diaz for a lively Relationship Roundtable all about “triangulation”—that sneaky dynamic that can pop up in fa...
2025-05-26
57 min
The Unplanned Joyful Life - Faith, Prayer, Catholic Church, Resilience, Self-Confidence
#77 Need Help in your Marriage and Family? Meet Kenna Millea: Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and co-founder of the Martin Center of Integration
Inside today's episode, Cathy Jo has the pleasure of interviewing Kenna Millea. Kenna has an extensive academic background, including 2 degrees from The University of Notre Dame and an additional Master's degree from St. Mary's University of Minnesota. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Co-founder of the Martin Center of Integration where Kenna counsels and leads others to bring healing and wholeness to those in need. She does this through integrating counseling and The Catholic Faith. She and her husband, Pat, cohost "This Whole Life" Podcast. Kenna and Pat have been married for 15 years and have 7 children. You can li...
2025-05-13
33 min
This Whole Life
Ep73 Don't Be An Antithesis
Jesus said to him, “What if I want him to remain until I come? What concern is it of yours? You follow me.”~ John 21:22Why do I get so angry at others' opinions & actions?How am I supposed to handle the evil & falsehood in the world?Why is it easier for me to explain what I'm against than what I'm for?In episode 73 of This Whole Life, hosts Kenna and Pat Millea welcome back Fr. Nathan LaLiberte for a candid conversation about identity, vulnerability, and the subtle trap of l...
2025-05-12
58 min
This Whole Life
Ep72 Benefit of the Doubt: Positive Sentiment Override
"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."~ 1 Corinthians 13:7Why do I get so hurt by others' actions?Why is it so hard for me to let things slide?How can I give people close to me the benefit of the doubt?In episode 72 of This Whole Life, Kenna and Pat dive into the concept of Positive Sentiment Override, a game-changing mindset for building stronger, more joyful relationships. Kicking things off with some spirited candy rankings for the Easter season, the duo opens...
2025-04-28
57 min
This Whole Life
Ep71 Suffering with Sanity & Sanctity
"...we also boast in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not disappoint us, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us."~ Romans 5:3-5How are Christians supposed to respond to suffering?How do I know if I'm suffering well?How do I know whether I should avoid or accept a specific kind of suffering?In episode 71 of This Whole Life, hosts Kenna and Pat Mi...
2025-04-14
53 min
This Whole Life
Ep70 Men's Relational Health: Relationship Roundtable
“Man becomes an image of God not so much in the moment of solitude as in the moment of communion.”~ St. John Paul IIHow do men connect with others?What makes it hard for men to have strong marriages & friendships?What can a man do to create healthier connections with others?This special episode of This Whole Life is the first "Relationship Roundtable," tackling issues related to human connection and struggles in relationships. Pat Millea is joined by an outstanding panel of guests, including Ben Baker, John Brau...
2025-03-31
1h 02
This Whole Life
Ep69 Active Listening w/ Addy Diaz
"True listeners no longer have an inner need to make their presence known. They are free to receive, to welcome, to accept."~ Henri NouwenWhy is it so hard to listen well to others?Why am I so pained when others don't listen to me?Can I become a better & more active listener?In this episode of This Whole Life, Pat and Kenna welcome guest Addy Diaz to explore the art of active listening. Delving into how active listening fosters deeper connections and empathy, Addy shares insights from...
2025-03-17
1h 00
Kolbecast
250 Made for Relationship featuring Kenna Millea
AMDG. Clinical Director and Co-Founder of the Martin Center for Integration and host of This Whole Life podcast Kenna Millea joins the Kolbecast to discuss the ins and outs of relationships under a Catholic lens. “If you don’t like relationships here,” Kenna comments. “I think heaven’s going to be a big bummer— because that’s what it’s going to be.” Kenna offers her expert insight into common challenges in family dynamics, from the relationship between the spouses to how parents interact with children. She unpacks how our relationships with others can impact our relationship to God and how the sac...
2025-03-12
57 min
This Whole Life
Ep68 A Future With Hope w/ Bishop James Conley
"What we can be always sure of - no matter what is happening in our lives - is that we are not alone. You are not alone! God knows your suffering intimately and wants to walk with you through it."~ Bishop James ConleyHow should a Christian respond to a mental health crisis?Do priests & bishops know what it's like to struggle with their mental health?Is it worth it to be open & honest about my struggles?In this beautifully personal episode, Kenna and...
2025-03-03
59 min
This Whole Life
Ep67 Gender Identity & Gender Dysphoria w/ Dr. Julia Sadusky
"Love without truth devolves into sentimentality. Truth without love becomes cold and calculated."~ Bishop Robert BarronWhere did we get to this place with regard to gender?How do I, a Christian, treat people who are gender nonconforming?What is the relationship between truth and love in real relationships?In Episode 67, hosts Kenna and Pat engage in a profound & faithful conversation with Dr. Julia Sadusky about gender identity and gender dysphoria. Dr. Sadusky, a licensed clinical psychologist, brings her expertise in psychology, gender, and faith, offering compassionate insights...
2025-02-17
1h 16
This Whole Life
Ep66 The Five Love Langauges
"Above all, let your love for one another be intense, because love covers a multitude of sins."~ 1 Peter 4:8What is a love language? What is MY love language?Why is it hard to connect with my spouse?How do I talk to my spouse about what makes me feel loved?In this heartwarming episode of This Whole Life, Kenna and Pat explore the concept of love languages, inspired by Gary Chapman's popular book. They dive into how understanding love languages can enhance relationships, especially during the busy...
2025-02-03
56 min
This Whole Life
Ep65 Grief & Glory Through Infertility
"If in spite of everything God does not give them children, they should not regard themselves as being thwarted. They should be happy, discovering in this very fact God's will for them. ... There is, then, no reason for feeling they are failures or for giving way to sadness."~ St. Josemaría EscriváIs God present in infertility?How do I deal with the sadness & anger of losing a dream?When I feel like I don't fit in, what do I do?In this profoundly moving episode of This Wh...
2025-01-20
53 min
This Whole Life
Ep64 Parenting Under Control, Not Controlling w/ Rachel Balducci
“It is easy to love the people far away. It is not always easy to love those close to us. Bring love into your home, for this is where our love for each other must start.”~ St. Teresa of CalcuttaWhy am I so emotionally tied up in my kids' accomplishments?Is my child's behavior a verdict on my parenting?How can I be invested in my child without trying to control them?In Episode 64 of This Whole Life, Kenna welcomes guest Rachel Balducci for an insightful discussion on p...
2025-01-06
1h 05
This Whole Life
Ep63 Facing the Big Questions w/ Alex Wallace, LPCC
“All of humanity’s problems stem from man’s inability to sit quietly in a room alone.”~ Blaise PascalDo the big, existential questions of life really matter?Why is it so tempting to avoid the big questions?How can I deal with the big questions in ways that I can process?In Episode 63 of This Whole Life, Pat and Kenna engage with clinical counselor Alex Wallace to explore the big questions: Why am I here? What is my purpose? Should I be vulnerable with others? Alex emphasizes the nece...
2024-12-23
1h 03
Kolbecast
238 Pat Millea on Accompaniment, Hope, Integration, and Resilience
AMDG. Catholic youth minister and podcaster Pat Millea joins the Kolbecast to share his journey from parish work to beginning an integrated Catholic therapy center. Pat explains what “integration” means; how a good therapist should sit with their clients; what “admonishing the sinner” really looks like; why parents shouldn’t protect their children from failure or suffering; how to guide children through discernment; the real meaning of self-care; why telling someone to “offer it up” can be unkind; how our day to day suffering can still be redemptive; and advice for beating the holiday stress. Listen to the end for a few spec...
2024-12-18
59 min
This Whole Life
Ep62 Training Kids (and Ourselves) for Technology
"The Christian community is called to help them [parents] in teaching children how to live in a media environment in way consonant with the dignity of the human person and service of the common good.”~ Pope FrancisDoes technology really harm children & teens?How do I raise my children in a world steeped in tech & social media?Is it even worth the fight to resist the culture when it comes to technology? This is an important one, friends! In Episode 62, Pat and Kenna delve into the complexities of te...
2024-12-09
1h 04
This Whole Life
Ep61 Holy Living in Secular Settings w/ Isaac Wicker
"As you sent me into the world, so I sent them into the world.”~ John 17:18How do I share the gospel when others aren't open to it?Can I be an authentic Christian if my job doesn't allow me to express it openly?How do I love people who are hostile toward my faith?Our world is fallen and broken, and in many ways it seems to be growing more opposed to the Christian life. Pat is joined by licensed therapist Isaac Wicker for a profound conversation about th...
2024-11-25
59 min
This Whole Life
Ep60 How To Create A Habit
“Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections, but instantly set about remedying them - every day begin the task anew.” ~ St. Francis de SalesWhy are my habits so hard to change?Why do I keep doing the things I don't want to do?How do I build a new habit and get rid of others?In Episode 60, Kenna and Pat Millea take a deep dive into the psychology and spirituality of habit formation. They unpa...
2024-11-11
47 min
This Whole Life
Ep59 The Temperament God Gave You w/ Art & Laraine Bennett
"But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace toward me has not been in vain."~ 1 Corinthians 15:10Why do I react the way that I do?How much of my personality can I change?How does my temperament impact my relationships, my work, and my faith?Join Kenna and Pat as they dive into the fascinating world of temperaments with Art and Laraine Bennett, renowned authors of "The Temperament God Gave You." In this enriching episode, discover how understanding temperaments can lead to...
2024-10-28
1h 13
This Whole Life
Ep58 What's Your Story? w/ Fr. Angelus Montgomery, CFR
“Return home and recount what God has done for you.”~ Luke 8:39Where has the Lord been most clearly present in the story of your life?Is my story really worth telling?What good would it do to share my story with someone else? In this heartfelt and enriching episode of "This Whole Life," hosts Kenna and Pat Millea engage in a profound conversation with Fr. Angelus Montgomery, the vocations director for the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal. In the framework of "telling your story," they delve into themes of pe...
2024-10-14
1h 01
The Freedom to Love Podcast
S1 E43 Navigating Conversations About Sexuality with Your Kids with Pat Millea
We are diving into the intricacies of discussing sexuality with children in a world filled with opposing messages. Pat Millea, a Catholic speaker, musician, and leader, joins us again to share his expertise on achieving integration - the harmonious union of mind and soul. Pat stresses the significance of open, ongoing conversations with children about the beauty and purpose of sexuality as an expression of love. Through personal stories and practical guidance, Pat equips us to create a safe space for children to ask questions, emphasizing the importance of understanding their journey within...
2024-10-07
29 min
The Freedom to Love Podcast
S1 E42 Reducing Shame to Focus on What Matters with Pat Millea
We’re excited to have Catholic speaker and leader, Pat Millea, return this week. We explore the impact of shame on personal and spiritual growth, especially in the realm of sexual sin. Pat shares his valuable insights on how to combat shame through openness and vulnerability, drawing from his experience as a youth minister and counselor. We’ll discuss how parents can create environments that foster honesty and reduce shame, helping their children navigate the journey to chastity and virtue. - Martin Center for Integration - www.martincenterforintegration.com- This Whole Life...
2024-09-30
22 min
This Whole Life
Ep57 Faith & Flourishing in the LGBT+ Experience w/ Shannon Ochoa
“Come see a man who told me everything I have done. Could he possibly be the Messiah?”~ John 4:29Is there a place in the Church for people with an LGBT+ experience?Does God have a joyful plan for people living with same-sex attraction?How can Christians love all people and uphold the teachings of the Church? Pat Millea engages in a profound conversation with Shannon Ochoa, co-founder of Eden Invitation, and recurring guest Fr. Nathan LaLiberte. The episode explores the intricate intersection of faith, sexuality, and mental health, focus...
2024-09-30
1h 05
The Freedom to Love Podcast
S1 E41 The Power of Vulnerability on the Journey to Freedom with Pat Millea
We're honored to have Pat Millea, a Catholic speaker and co-founder of the Martin Center for Integration, join us in our next series of episodes. Pat shares his journey of his battle with pornography, from initial exposure to recovery. He emphasizes the crucial role of vulnerability, spiritual direction, therapy, and strong support systems in overcoming addiction.We also debunk the myth that marriage alone cures such struggles and discuss the importance of setting boundaries and seeking professional help. Whether you're facing similar challenges or supporting someone who is, Pat's story offers valuable insights...
2024-09-23
29 min
This Whole Life
Ep56 Therapy, Spiritual Direction or Confession? w/ Fr. Nathan LaLiberte
"But woe to the solitary person! If that one should fall, there is no other to help."~ Ecclesiastes 4:10How do I know if I need therapy or spiritual direction?Why doesn't my pastor offer more counsel in confession?Do I need to talk to a priest or a therapist - or both?In episode 56, Kenna welcomes Fr. Nathan LaLiberte to delve into the nuanced interplay between confession, therapy, and spiritual direction. Together, they distinguish between these different, but sometimes overlapping, practices of spiritual & mental healing. Fr. Nathan shares...
2024-09-16
58 min
This Whole Life
Ep55 Addiction & Recovery w/ Scott Weeman
"So if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed."~ John 8:36Is there hope for people who are stuck in addiction?Is healing really possible for everyone?If God really knows what I've done, how could he forgive me?In episode 55 of "This Whole Life," Pat engages in a profound conversation with guest Scott Weeman, founder of Catholic In Recovery. Scott shares his personal journey through addiction and finding a path to recovery through faith and humility. He reveals the connection he identified between the 12 Step...
2024-09-02
1h 04
This Whole Life
Ep54 Thriving Through Transition
"There is an appointed time for everything, and a time for every affair under the heavens."~ Ecclesiastes 3:1Change is hard. Yet, it's something that every person experiences on a daily basis. How can something so universal be so difficult for us?In this episode of This Whole Life, Pat and Kenna dive into the challenges surrounding life changes and transitions. So many clients bring their questions and struggles to them when they're facing changes, and the hosts take time to reflect on the ways they have handled changes well and...
2024-08-18
59 min
This Whole Life
Ep52 Surviving Family Trips
"In your journey as a family, you share so many beautiful moments: meals, rest, housework, leisure, prayer, trips and pilgrimages, and times of mutual support…"~ Pope Francis, Letter to Families, February 2014Do you feel like you need a vacation to recover from your vacation?Have you spent time and money on trips that leave you feeling disappointed & frustrated?Do you have nightmares of children shouting "Are we there yet?" and arguments with relatives?Family trips and vacations are sources of such deep joy and fulfillment, but they can al...
2024-07-21
1h 02
This Whole Life
Ep51 Holy Friendship w/ Fr. Luke Marquard
"I no longer call you slaves, because a slave does not know what his master is doing. I have called you friends, because I have told you everything I have heard from my Father."~ John 15:15Friendship is one of the highest experiences of human life, but it can also be the source of some of our greatest pains and struggles. Why do we desire deep and abiding friendship? Are all friendships the same? What does the Lord desire in our friendships, and which friends are best for us?In episode 51...
2024-07-07
1h 05
This Whole Life
Ep48 Sanity & Sanctity with St. Thérèse: Book Study Part 2
“It is the love of God dwelling in our actions that makes us whole. It is love that keeps us sane.”~ Fr. Marc FoleyIt's the grand finale of our book club! In Episode 48, Kenna, Pat, and Fr. Nathan LaLiberte wrap up their discussion on The Love That Keeps Us Sane by Fr. Marc Foley. Together, they reflect on moments of conviction, the essence of love as our primary vocation, and the interwoven nature of holiness and sanity in everyday life. From personal anecdotes to spiritual insights, the trio navigates the challenges of s...
2024-05-26
47 min
Continuing the Call: A Seminary Dropout's Guide to Discernment
Marriage as a Vocation w/ Pat & Kenna Millea
Thomas Lyons talks with Catholic Speakers Pat and Kenna Millea about marriage, family, and discernment.Pat and Kenna are a husband-and-wife team and co-founders of The Martin Center for Integration. The Martin Center for Integration provides counseling, podcasting, and speaking & training presentations that address mental health and spiritual needs. Their services are tailored to individuals, couples, and organizations that need tools and resources to improve daily functioning and bring peace to their relationships, workplaces, and vocations. Pat is a Speaker, Musician, Leader, and former Parish Minister. Kenna Millea is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in private...
2024-05-22
00 min
This Whole Life
Ep47 Sanity & Sanctity with St. Thérèse: Book Study Part 1
“Her ‘little way’ was her means of holiness, and it was also what kept her sane.”~ Fr. Marc FoleyIt's book study time! At long last, Kenna and Pat are joined by Fr. Nathan LaLiberte to delve into the thought-provoking spiritual gem, The Love That Keeps Us Sane: Living the Little Way of St. Thérèse of Lisieux by Fr. Marc Foley, OCD. Drawing from the psychological and spiritual genius of St. Thérèse, they discuss the interplay between sanity and sanctity as a fruit of humility, the value of silence, and the complexi...
2024-05-12
1h 10
This Whole Life
Ep44 Dealing with Difficult People
"This is how all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another."~ John 13:35It's time to be honest: we all have people in our lives that we don't particularly enjoy. Their personality or quirks might rub us the wrong way, or maybe we don't agree with their opinions or choices. They're not necessarily bad people, we just don't like being around them. And while we're being honest, we can also admit that we can be difficult to deal with ourselves. So what do we do, as...
2024-03-31
58 min
This Whole Life
Ep43 From Conflict to Connection: Process Over Content
"Pure love is capable of great deeds, and it is not broken by difficulty or adversity."~ St. FaustinaDo you have the same arguments over and over again? Are you frustrated by a lack of connection in your relationship? Is it possible to still be connected when you disagree with the person you love?In this episode, Kenna and Pat Millea explore the transformative power of prioritizing Process over Content in communication and relationships. They delve into the significance of empathy and vulnerability in fostering genuine connection, especially during times...
2024-03-17
46 min
This Whole Life
Ep41 Shame vs. Guilt
"...and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit that has been given to us." ~ Romans 5:5So much of human life is marked by shame and guilt. We feel the weight of our mistakes, sins, and failures. Shame and guilt are both difficult to feel, but are they both bad? Do they serve a purpose? Do they drive us closer to God or farther from Him?In episode 41 of This Whole Life, Fr. Nathan LaLiberte returns for a...
2024-02-18
54 min
This Whole Life
Ep40 Crushing Criticism
"My friends, if anyone is detected in a transgression, you who have received the Spirit should restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness. Take care that you yourselves are not tempted."~ Galatians 6:1Why is it so tempting to speak harshly to the people that we love most in the world? How do we overcome this habit and speak with the gentleness that comes from the Holy Spirit? In this final installment of their four-part series on Dr. John Gottman's 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse for relationships, Kenna and Pat...
2024-02-04
54 min
This Whole Life
Ep38 Family Meetings: A Game Changer
"And whatever you do, in word or in deed, do everything in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him."~ Colossians 3:17Marriage and family life is a beautiful, romantic, sacramental vocation. And in the midst of that vocation, spouses also need to deal with finances, schedules, meal plans, parenting, budgets, and to-do lists. How are we supposed to maintain an organized home and family while being connected to each other in love & faithfulness? In Episode 38, Kenna and Pat invite listeners into the concept of F...
2024-01-07
49 min
This Whole Life
Ep37 Forgiveness: Living In Freedom
"Bear with one another and, if anyone has a complaint against another, forgive each other; just as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive."~ Colossians 3:13In the prayer that Jesus gave us, we hear: "Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us." We pray these words so often that we can overlook how challenging, and even unpopular, we find the reality of forgiveness. We have all been hurt by others, sometimes in profound and life-altering ways. Why would Jesus command us to do something as difficult - maybe even...
2023-12-24
57 min
This Whole Life
Ep36 Radical Acceptance
"But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me has not been ineffective."~ 1 Corinthians 15:10As humans living in a fallen world, we often feel the space between our hopes and reality, and in that space we find disappointment, frustration, and heartbreak. Our relationships, our families, our work are marked by this hardship. What do we do when we are so tempted to either deny reality or wallow in the difficulty?In episode 36 of "This Whole Life," Kenna and Pat delve into the topic...
2023-12-10
1h 01
This Whole Life
Ep35 Unified: Overcoming Pornography Together
"It is necessary that the heroic becomes daily and that the daily becomes heroic."~ Saint Zélie MartinIn this fallen world, there are particular evils that require the grace of God and the support of loved ones to overcome. Pornography certainly falls into this category. In the second half of the conversation about pornography, Pat & Kenna discuss the consequences that brokenness and addiction had for their marriage. They also recall key moments that led them to reconciliation and deeper intimacy. Loving relationships, especially marriages, are the ones most affected b...
2023-11-26
1h 04
The Storydram
028 Pat Millea's Vortex of Death
Chris correctly names all the things that suck about waterparks before special guest Pat Millea tells an incredible story about the time he made his own waterpark attraction out of a regular old community pool. The guys unpack the connection between everyday faith life and baptism.
2023-11-13
29 min
This Whole Life
Ep34 Perspectives on Pornography: His & Hers
"Create in me a clean heart, O God..."~ Psalm 51:12How can something that affects all of us be something that we almost never talk about honestly and purposefully? Pornography has infiltrated individuals, marriages, families, and the Church, and it's time to deal with it in ways that are faithful and fruitful. In this incredibly candid episode, Pat and Kenna dive into an intimate and inspiring discussion about the impact of pornography within their marriage and their own personal journeys. With raw vulnerability, they reveal the emotional toll, struggles, and triumphs experienced during...
2023-11-12
1h 09
This Whole Life
Ep33 I'm Not In Control: Superstition
"To attribute the efficacy of prayers or of sacramental signs to their mere external performance, apart from the interior dispositions that they demand, is to fall into superstition."~ Catechism of the Catholic Church §2111Let's face it: it's really scary to realize that we're not in control, and that's understandable. But grasping for control through superstition is, at best, fruitless and can even be mentally and spiritually harmful. From rabbit's feet and lucky coins to empty "religious" routines, superstitions are all around us.In Episode 33, Pat Millea delves into the intriguing t...
2023-10-29
53 min
This Whole Life
Ep32 In The World, not of the World: the Sacred & the Secular
"I do not ask that you take them out of the world but that you keep them from the evil one. ... As you sent me into the world, so I sent them into the world."~ John 17:15, 18Let's face it: the fallen world around us is a difficult place to be. We, who desire a healthy and holy life, are surrounded by secular influences and misguided worldviews. What are we supposed to do? How do we stay sane and holy in a secular world? It can be tempting to either give in to...
2023-10-15
55 min
This Whole Life
Ep31 Let Them Struggle: Enabling & Overfunctioning
"We should strive to keep our hearts open to the sufferings and wretchedness of other people, and pray continually that God may grant us that spirit of compassion which is truly the spirit of God."~ St. Vincent de Paul ➡️"Snowplow" parenting, friendship, or marriage➡️Trying to fix other people's problems ➡️Over-functioningWe care so deeply for our loved ones, and it pains us to watch them struggle and suffer. Sometimes it is good and necessary to help alleviate their suffering. But all of us are tempted to cross the line into...
2023-10-01
47 min
This Whole Life
Ep30 Conquering Contempt
"All bitterness, fury, anger, shouting, and reviling must be removed from you, along with all malice. And be kind to one another, compassionate, forgiving one another as God has forgiven you in Christ."~ Ephesians 4:31-32On the wedding day, most couples can't imagine ever treating their spouse with contempt. But in this broken world, we know that so many marriages suffer with belittling speech and actions. How does a marriage devolve into habits of contempt, and what are the antidotes to get the relationship back on track?Drawing from their...
2023-09-17
1h 00
The Storydram
019 Giving Birth in the Front Yard ft. Pat Millea.
Pat Millea from This Whole Life Podcast tells the guys about the time his wife Kenna gave birth in an ambulance parked in front of their house. The Martin Center for Integration provides counseling, podcasting, and speaking & training presentations that address mental health and spiritual needs. Their services are tailored to individuals, couples, and organizations that need tools and resources to improve daily functioning and bring peace to their relationships, workplaces, and vocations. Some of Pat's work can be found here: patmillea.com."Retro...
2023-09-11
27 min
This Whole Life
Ep28 Choosing Greatness Over Comfort with Isaac Schmidt
"The world offers you comfort, but you were not made for comfort. You were made for greatness."~ Pope Benedict XVIWe live in a world that often seems to be designed for our human comfort. We now have access to temperature-controlled homes, split-second mobile computers in our pockets, fast food, and delivery services. And as comedian Louis C.K. once said, "Everything is amazing right now, and nobody's happy."Why do we find ease and comfort so enticing but, ultimately, so disappointing? Why do we so often chase pleasure after...
2023-08-20
57 min
This Whole Life
Ep27 10 Tips for Parenting Toddlers (and other kids of any age)
“Soon we’ll have the intimate happiness of the family, and it’s this beauty that brings us closer to God.”~ St. Louis MartinThe Terrible Twos. Three-nagers. A-Four-itarian. It's time to dive into the wild world of parenting toddlers (and kids of any age) with a blend of wisdom, humor, and relatability! Drawing from their own experiences as parents to a brood of seven children, ranging from 3 to 12 years old, Pat & Kenna share 10 valuable and hard-earned tips to help navigate the challenges that come with raising little ones.From the stru...
2023-08-06
1h 01
This Whole Life
Ep26 What Do I Do With My Anger? w/ Fr. Nathan LaLiberte
"Be angry but do not sin; do not let the sun set on your anger, and do not leave room for the devil."~ Ephesians 4:26-27ANGER. It's a word that brings up so many feelings and reactions for each of us. Some struggle to control their anger, and others are tempted to ignore or squash their angry feelings. How are we, as followers of Christ, supposed to understand anger? Is anger an emotion or a sin? Is it involuntary or can we learn to control it? Is there a way...
2023-07-23
58 min
This Whole Life
Ep24 Men & Mental Health: Do I Have What It Takes?
"There is a great man who makes every man feel small. But the real great man is the man who makes every man feel great." ~ G.K. ChestertonThe relationship between men and mental health is a complicated one, and this is true for Christian men as well. For many social and personal reasons, men seek out mental health care and resources less often than women. And yet, the need for mental health care in men is becoming increasingly clear: men are 4x more likely than women to commit suicide (CDC). What...
2023-06-25
1h 01
This Whole Life
Ep23 Staying Grounded in the Chaos
"I am the vine, you are the branches. Whoever remains in me and I in him will bear much fruit, because without me you can do nothing."~ John 15:5In the midst of a fallen, chaotic, and frenetic world, we can feel pulled in many different directions. We might lose connection with our experience in the present moment and lack awareness of what's going on in our body, emotions, and soul. How can we regain a sense of connection to the present moment and remain rooted in the love of Christ?...
2023-06-11
43 min
This Whole Life
Ep21 Do I Need Therapy? with Vonda Tiede, LMFT
"His divine power has given us everything needed for life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and excellence."~ 2 Peter 1:3With a greater understanding of mental health in recent years, many have become aware of the benefits of therapy in general. But how does someone know if therapy is right for them - individually or for their marriage? Especially for a person who believes that Jesus Christ is their hope and their source, how should they view and approach therapy?We welcome Vonda Tiede, LMFT...
2023-05-14
1h 04
This Whole Life
Ep20 The Resilience & Healing of our Brains with Sofia Carozza
"Therefore, we are not discouraged; rather, although our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this momentary light affliction is producing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison..."~ 2 Corinthians 4:16-17The last 50 years have seen incredible development in neurobiology and our understanding of the human brain. Yet we, as people of faith, know that humans are so much more than just a "brain in a body"; in fact, we are a deep and mysterious unity of mind, body, soul, brain, and even our...
2023-04-30
59 min
This Whole Life
Ep19 Sanity in the Sacred Triduum & Easter
This saying is trustworthy: If we have died with him we shall also live with him;if we persevere we shall also reign with him.~ 2 Timothy 2:11-12Happy Resurrection from our family to yours! He is risen! Alleluia!The Sacred Triduum and the Easter season are some of the most significant days of the liturgical year and of our lives. There is so much beauty, solemnity, sorrow, and triumphant joy in the symbols, rituals, and traditions of this holy time. And while the passion, death, and Resurrection of our Lord...
2023-04-16
39 min
This Whole Life
Ep17 Living With A Broken Heart: Others' Free Will
"For He bore witness to the truth, but He refused to impose the truth by force on those who spoke against it."~ Dignitatis Humanae, St. Pope Paul VI & the Second Vatican CouncilOne of the most difficult and heartbreaking experiences for us as people of faith is watching someone that we love wander from the Church or make choices that are harmful to themselves or others. So much fear, disappointment, and anxiety is created by these situations in our lives. We deeply love our children, our spouses, our friends, and...
2023-03-19
51 min
The Daily Refill
What Does God Want from Me Right Now? - Pat Millea
Welcome to the Daily Refill: Lenten Pause!Today, Pat Millea shares with us about when our own plans and projects for prayer can actually get in the way of us praying. When those things become the focus of our prayer instead of God, we have to remember the one to whom we are praying is most interested in receiving us how we actually are and loving us there.Hear more from Pat Millea on The This Whole Life Podcast: https://spokestreet.com/this-whole-life/Thanks for joining us today! Be sure to check out...
2023-02-27
02 min
This Whole Life
Ep15 Adoption, Fostering, & Connections That Heal (with Ryan O'Hara)
"For you did not receive a spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you received a spirit of adoption, through which we cry, 'Abba, Father!'"~ Romans 8:15When someone has experienced separation or trauma, especially as a child, it can be challenging for them to feel safe in attachment with others. Yet, close connections are a powerful source of healing and wholeness for all of us, especially for those who have suffered. How can we step into connection and attachment, even - and especially - when it's difficult?In this...
2023-02-19
1h 12
This Whole Life
Bonus Episode: Merry Christmas!
"The perfect Teacher of children became himself a child among children, that he might give wisdom to the foolish. The Bread of heaven came down to earth to feed the hungry."~ St. Cyril of JerusalemMerry Christmas from This Whole Life! 🎄🙏🏻❤️💚We are so grateful for your presence on this journey with us, especially during this season of the incarnation - God made flesh, the perfect model of integration.May your Christmas season be filled with joy, peace, hope, and the blessings of Jesus Christ, who came into this world for our salvation...
2022-12-25
19 min
This Whole Life
Ep11 Embracing Your Emotions
In the Christian life, the Holy Spirit himself accomplishes his work by mobilizing the whole being, with all its sorrows, fears and sadness, as is visible in the Lord's agony and passion. In Christ human feelings are able to reach their consummation in charity and divine beatitude.~ Catechism of the Catholic Church §1769If we are going to enjoy lives of peace and wholeness, it's imperative that we understand and embrace our emotions for the gift of God that they are. But emotions can be just so confusing and overwhelming! We al...
2022-12-25
52 min
This Whole Life
Ep10 Coaching Children Who Argue
Do nothing from rivalry or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others. ~ Philippians 2:3-4Every parent knows the frustration and anxiety that we feel when our children seem to constantly argue. And every parent also knows the difficulty of finding a way to respond that is loving and patient, and also correcting and guiding. Conflict is an inevitable part of this earthly life - the goal is not to make sure our children avoid...
2022-12-11
52 min
This Whole Life
Ep9 The Ache We All Know (w/ Ashley Cermak)
"If I find in myself a desire which no experience in this world can satisfy, the most probable explanation is that I was made for another world." ~ C. S. LewisAs we make our way through this earthly life, we experience a nagging ache or longing for something more. While we feel this ache even at the best of times, it's often in the midst of our deep human suffering and anxieties that we come to understand our soul's ache for God's perfect love.Our guest for this episode is Ashley Cermak, a c...
2022-11-27
52 min
This Whole Life
Ep8 Mental Health in the Marvel Cinematic Universe
“Everyone fails at who they are supposed to be, Thor. The measure of a person, of a hero, is how well they succeed at being who they are.” (Frigga, Avengers: Endgame)The Marvel Cinematic Universe is one of the most successful film franchises in history. But the popularity of these movies & series isn’t merely based on superheroes and quirky one-liners - it’s rooted in how effectively the MCU portrays the human experience, including mental health struggles of all kinds.From Ironman to Avengers...
2022-11-13
50 min
This Whole Life
Ep7 Managing Family Relationships
"As they grow up, children should continue to respect their parents. They should anticipate their wishes, willingly seek their advice, and accept their just admonitions. Obedience toward parents ceases with the emancipation of the children; not so respect, which is always owed to them. This respect has its roots in the fear of God, one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit." ~ Catechism of the Catholic Church §2217Families - the ones we’re born into and the ones that we create - are full of beauty, joy, thanksgiving, worship, and purpose. But...
2022-10-30
59 min
This Whole Life
Ep6 Date Nights
"Love should be seen as something which in a sense never ‘is’ but is always only ‘becoming’, and what it becomes depends upon the contribution of both persons and the depth of their commitment.” ~ St. Pope John Paul IIIt’s time for a date night, friends!Marriage is one of the beautiful and amazing things that God does in the lives of His beloved children; husbands and wives are called to be witnesses of God’s love by giving themselves completely to the Lord and to each other. But if we’re honest, we also...
2022-10-16
52 min
This Whole Life
Ep5 Receiving Your Values
"For where your treasure is, there also will your heart be." ~ Matthew 6:21We give our time, our money, and our energy to the things that we value. Everything about our lives is a result of our values - our actions, relationships, priorities, even our sins. Our values don't just determine what we do, they communicate who we are and Whose we are. But all too often we float through life without intentionally choosing our values: they get handed to us (sometimes without us even knowing it) by our families of origin, the culture aro...
2022-10-02
32 min
This Whole Life
Ep4 Living Up To Your Dignity
“Freedom is not getting to do what you want, but being able to do as you ought.” - St. John Paul IIYou are good…and you don’t get to do whatever you want. God made you good, plain and simple, and nothing that you do can diminish or steal your inherent goodness as a child of God. But that doesn’t mean that all of our desires and actions are good. We’ve all experienced the anxiety, pain, and breakdown of relationships that happen when our actions don’t live up to our dignity. Yet...
2022-09-18
33 min
This Whole Life
Ep3 The Verdict is In: YOU ARE GOOD.
My friend, you. are. good.We’ll say it again in case you don’t believe us: you are good.Our intrinsic goodness and value don’t come from our achievements, our actions, our relationships, or even our prayer lives. We are good simply because God, our Father, made us in His image and likeness; He made us good. No sin, no action, no suffering, and no failure can rob us of our goodness. So many mental health challenges stem from our reluctance to receive our inherent, God-given worth.Fr. Nathan LaLiberte joins Pat fo...
2022-09-04
44 min
This Whole Life
Ep2 Meet Me at the Fencepost: Balancing Boundaries
Mental health isn’t limited to what goes on inside our minds; our mental health is deeply affected by our human relationships. And one often overlooked facet of deep, authentic relationships is healthy boundaries.Boundaries are a balancing act that offer freedom: both holding firmly to my own identity AND being open to connection with others. All of us desire this kind of self-knowledge and self-gift, but human relationships are messy! Whether it’s in a marriage, with a child, or in a friendship, we struggle to hold clear and loving boundaries. It’s so easy to only f...
2022-09-04
36 min
This Whole Life
Ep1 Seeking Sanity & Sanctity
This Whole Life is about being fully alive! It’s about pursuing an authentic, integrated life and allowing every part - mind, body, and soul - to function as a whole so that we can love and serve God and all your fellow humans. To live this in the real world requires a genuine look at our mental health in the context of faith. “Mental health” isn’t a four letter word and it’s not just for people who go to therapy. Being attentive to our mental health is crucial for EVERY follower of Christ, because when we’re...
2022-09-04
45 min
Practicing Catholic Show
Catholic Mental Health Resources (with Pat and Kenna Millea)
AVAILABLE NOW: God desires our wholeness and flourishing in every aspect of who we are: body, soul, and mind. Pat and Kenna Millea join us to talk about a new initiative they’ve begun providing Faith-Filled Mental Health Services for Individuals, Couples & Organizations. https://martincenterforintegration.com/
2022-08-08
14 min
Church Life Today
Integrating Mental Health and Faith, with Pat and Kenna Millea
Salvation comes from the Latin word “salus”, which means “health” and “well-being”. Illness and sin are therefore both, in different ways, a lack of the health and well-being that is intended for us. We might even say that we are created for wholeness just as we are created for holiness, and that growing in one means growing in the other. Salvation is both a matter of wholeness and holiness. The Martin Center for Integration seeks to bring together what is all too often kept apart: mental health and faith development. It is common for either one or the other of those two...
2022-07-25
35 min
This Whole Life
This Whole Life: Trailer!
This Whole Life debuts on September 4th!How does our mental health relate to our faith? How can we become whole while living in a broken world? Every day, we all strive to encounter God amidst the challenges of balancing faith and family, work and leisure, our sense of self and complicated relationships. Pat & Kenna Millea bring joy, hope, and wisdom to those who believe there is a connection between holiness and happiness. Kenna is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist; Pat served for 15 years as a youth mi...
2022-07-11
04 min
The Dudes That Babel
Fatherhood (w/ Pat Millea)
We are joined by fellow youth minister and father of 7, Pat Millea, and we ask him: How does our Christian faith help fatherhood? How does being a father help in growing in relationship with the Father? Which comes first in priority, wife or kids? dudesthatbabel.com dudesthatbabel@gmail.com
2021-04-16
49 min
The NET Ministries Podcast
Episode 7: Career Youth Ministry with Pat Millea
Pat Millea has worked as a Youth Minister for 11 years and considers it his career. Dan Driver asks Pat about the "calling" of being a Youth Minister and how to avoid burnout. Special Guest: Pat Millea.
2018-06-26
1h 16