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Look At Me Now with Alexis ArtinWhy Financial Independence Could Save Your Life with Pattie EhsaeiThis episode is brought to you by AX3 Life. In this powerful and deeply emotional conversation, Pattie Ehsaei shares her journey from fleeing Iran as a child and growing up in poverty in the United States to enduring unimaginable tragedy when her parents died in a murder-suicide while she was just 24 years old. Forced into survival mode, she raised her younger brother, navigated a controlling relationship that mirrored her mother's dependency, and ultimately found the strength to choose herself after a pivotal moment that made her realize she was abandoning her own identity. Pattie went on to...
2026-02-1150 min
Branducation™ with Bill HarperHow Pattie Ehsaei Grew 1 Million FollowersIn this episode of Branducation, I sit down with Pattie Ehsaei for a candid conversation about what it really takes to build influence, reclaim your voice, and evolve your brand without losing yourself in the process.Pattie shares the unfiltered reality behind growing to over a million followers on TikTok—why it wasn’t luck, why it definitely wasn’t overnight, and why most people quit right before the algorithm ever works in their favor. We talk about the discipline, volume, and self-awareness required to build a platform, how viral moments actually happen, and why the content you le...
2026-01-0629 min
NotBasicBlonde PodcastSecrets Of The Scale - Billion-Dollar Habits From Top Founders - Highlights From Episodes With Eddie Wilson, Pattie Ehsaei, Matt HigginsEpisode 238As 2025 closes, I’ve pulled together the most powerful financial lessons from my conversations with wildly successful entrepreneurs, Eddie Wilson, Pattie Ehsaei, Matt Higgins. In this episode you’ll get bite-size highlights and actionable strategies to help you plan for 2026: proven ways to scale faster, practical steps to get out of debt, mindset shifts that drive long-term growth, and hard-earned tactics for surviving your toughest moments. Tune in to steal the habits, frameworks, and decisions that turned small bets into huge wins — and leave with a clear, confident plan for your money and your business next year.
2025-12-2731 min
Money Rehab with Nicole LapinThe Financial and Emotional Cost of Choosing the Wrong Partner: Pattie Ehsaei’s Story of Survival and PowerPattie Ehsaei’s life may look picture-perfect now—she’s a financial exec, lawyer, and author—but it’s been shaped by unimaginable tragedy. Pattie grew up watching her mom depend entirely on her dad financially, a dynamic that turned toxic and ended in unimaginable tragedy. Later, Pattie found herself in a financially abusive relationship of her own, repeating painful patterns until she broke the cycle.
Today, she shares the lessons she’s learned about love, money, and power—wisdom she’s also laid out in her book, Never Date a Broke Dude. Nicole and Pattie talk about why who you...
2025-11-171h 01
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Pattie Ehsaei, better known as the Duchess of Decorum, joins Ross Mandell this week to share her journey from immigrant child to criminal prosecutor, finance executive, and social media educator. After immigrating from Iran as a 7-year-old without knowing English, Pattie overcame...
2025-10-161h 13
Social Venture Podcast with Joe MkhitaryanPattie Ehsaei: The Duchess of Decorum | Social Venture Podcast EP #031In this episode, we sit down with Pattie Ehsaei, known widely as The Duchess of Decorum. With a career dedicated to the art of etiquette, refined communication, and cultural diplomacy, Pattie has become a trusted guide for professionals, leaders, and changemakers who want to bring elegance, respect, and confidence into their personal and professional lives.We explore her journey into the world of modern etiquette, how cultural intelligence shapes global business and social impact, and why grace and good manners still matter in today’s fast-moving, digital-first society. Pattie also shares insights from her bestselling book, Never Da...
2025-09-1942 min
Wake Up Your Soul With Andrea Lynn33 Money, Power, and Self-Worth: A Woman's Journey of Personal Growth and Financial FreedomIn this powerful episode of 'Wake Up Your Soul with Andrea Lynn,' Andrea welcomes Pattie Ehsaei to share her inspiring healing journey and trauma recovery through financial independence. Pattie discusses her compelling life story, from her family's escape from Iran to overcoming immense personal challenges including her mother's tragic fate due to financial dependence. Emphasizing personal growth and life purpose, Pattie shares her path out of $190,000 debt with practical strategies like budgeting, side hustles, and smart investing. Together, they explore the myths surrounding women's self-worth, ambition, and the importance of taking control to overcome challenges. This episode is...
2025-08-2837 min
NotBasicBlonde PodcastNever Date A Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook - Meet Pattie EhsaeiEps: 225In this episode, the author of Never Date a Broke Dude to unpack why money and dating collide—and why that conversation matters. We trace the moment the book was born, her journey from debt to multi‑millionaire (including three non‑negotiable financial rules), and practical advice for bringing up finances early in a relationship. We also cover warning signs to watch for, the influence of upbringing on money habits, what financial health beyond income looks like, and why commitment fears persist. Tune in for blunt, actionable guidance aimed at shifting dating standards and starting real conver...
2025-08-1934 min
The BDO ShowWhat it Really Takes to Be a Top Producer feat. Pattie EhsaeiWelcome back to The BDO Show—where the only competitive advantage you need is yourself! This week, we're honored to sit down with the one and only Pattie Ehsaei, a force of nature in the SBA world. Pattie holds nothing back with hosts Emily Detor and Ray Drew as she delivers a masterclass in sales, success, and the surprising secrets of financial freedom. If you're a new BDO, an entrepreneur, or anyone looking to level up, you won't want to miss this no-holds-barred conversation on: The BDO's Competitive Advantage: Pattie reveals her single bi...
2025-08-0434 min
The Pap Smear Podcast starring Alison VictoriaPap Smear Appointment #4: When Money, Men & Survival CollideSend us a text
This isn’t about gold digging—it’s about survival.
In this episode, I sit down with Never Date a Broke Dude author Pattie Ehsaei to talk about financial independence, dating red flags and the life-altering moment that inspired her book.
The truth? Money isn’t just power—it’s protection.
Every woman needs to hear this.
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2025-06-1758 min
Redesigning Life with Sabrina SotoHow to Break Free from Financial Control with Pattie EhsaeiFinancial independence isn't just about luxury purchases. It could save your life. Pattie Ehsaei joins the podcast to share the powerful story behind her new book "Never Date a Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook," and shares powerful insights about financial independence as the ultimate form of self-love and protection.Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, this episode delivers crucial insights about protecting your financial future. Discover how financial literacy creates the freedom to build the life you truly want. Ready to transform your relationship with money and power? This conversation is your starting...
2025-06-0235 min
The Good News with Angie AustinEp. 1671 - The Good News with Angie Austin - Pattie Ehsaei - Finance Author of Never Date a Broke Du / Anna De Souza - Mother's Day Gift Ideas
2025-05-0800 min
Embrace A Captivating Full Audiobook On Your Commute.Never Date a Broke Dude by Pattie EhsaeiPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/155740to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Never Date a Broke Dude
Author: Pattie Ehsaei
Narrator: Pattie Ehsaei
Format: mp3
Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
Release date: 05-06-25
Ratings: 5 out of 5 stars, 4 ratings
Genres: Money Management & Budgeting
Publisher's Summary:
Never Date a Broke Dude opens with the definition of a broke dude: someone, regardless of gender or wealth, who is unable or unwilling to match their partner in ambition, commitment, work ethic, or drive. This four-part playbook moves from The Basics through Money, Work, and Power (or, Self-Worth).
2025-05-067h 37
Inner Voice - Heartfelt Chat with Dr. FoojanE400-Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr.Foojan Zeine & Pattie Ehasei about Financial Independence - Never Date A Broke DudeE400– "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Pattie Ehasei. Known as "The Duchess of Decorum" by her 1M followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as one of the leading financial experts today. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the workplace, financial literacy, workplace decorum, and financial independence for women have over 8.1 MILLION likes—answering questions such as "How do I maintain financial independence in a relationship?" "How do I make and keep a budget?" "How do I maintain my power in the workplace?" "How do I ask for...
2025-05-0639 minInner Voice - Heartfelt Chat with Dr. FoojanE400-Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr.Foojan Zeine & Pattie Ehasei about Financial Independence - Never Date A Broke DudeE400– "Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Zeine." In this episode, Dr. Foojan Zeine chats with Pattie Ehasei. Known as "The Duchess of Decorum" by her 1M followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as one of the leading financial experts today. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the workplace, financial literacy, workplace decorum, and financial independence for women have over 8.1 MILLION likes—answering questions such as "How do I maintain financial independence in a relationship?" "How do I make and keep a budget?" "How do I maintain my power in the workplace?" "How do I ask for...
2025-05-0639 min
Fearlessly AuthenticNever Date A Broke Dude' X Pattie Ehsaei, The Duchess of DecorumThis week on Fearlessly Authentic, I sit down with the bold and brilliant Pattie Ehsaei—also known as The Duchess of Decorum—to talk about her highly anticipated book Never Date a Broke Dude: The Financial Freedom Playbook (out May 6, 2025). In this candid conversation, we unpack what it really means to date a "broke dude"—and spoiler: it's about way more than money. We get into financial red flags, the importance of setting boundaries, and why financial independence is the ultimate act of self-worth. Pattie brings her signature no-BS approach, sharing personal stories and practical tools...
2025-05-0543 minRedesigning Life with Sabrina SotoSPECIAL EDITION: Breaking Money Taboos with Pattie EhsaeiMoney—the last standing taboo in our society and the number one cause of divorce—takes center stage in this candid conversation between Sabrina Soto and Pattie Ehsaei, the "Duchess of Decorum" on TikTok. Raw, unedited, and refreshingly honest, this discussion dives deep into why financial independence remains non-negotiable for creating balanced power dynamics in relationships.The conversation tackles Pattie's viral advice to "never date a broke dude"—clarifying that it's less about someone's bank balance and more about matching "hustle for hustle." Financial compatibility means aligning ambition, responsibility, and mindset rather than dollar amounts. They discuss practi...
2025-04-2120 min
The TikTok Influencers You Really Should Know About!The Duchess of Decorum: Empowering Women Financially and Breaking Toxic Relationship MythsThe Duchess of Decorum: Empowering Women Financially and Breaking Toxic Relationship Myths
In the ever-evolving landscape of social media, TikTok stands out as a platform that not only entertains but also educates and empowers its users. One such influencer making waves is Pattie Ehsaei, also known as the Duchess of Decorum.
Her mission is to empower women to take control of their finances and their lives, breaking down societal norms that have held them back for too long. In this blog, we'll delve into her journey, her impactful content, and the vital lessons she shares...
2024-11-1622 min
High Vibe HomeInvest Like a Woman: Strategies for Household Financial Empowerment with Pattie EhsaeiEnrollment doors are now open for Spellbound Spaces 8-Week Feng Shui Training for House Witches. Use code: HIGHVIBEHOME for 22% off! Get sorted into your element and join a coven of House Witches to transform your home into a magical abode! Enroll in Spellbound Spaces > On this weeks episode of the High Vibe Home podcast Nixie's hosts an incredible guest, Pattie Ehsaei who is an Attorney and Financial Expert specializing in the field of empowering women to become financially independent. After decades of being in the finance industry, Pattie took her expertise online and l...
2023-12-0756 min
High Vibe HomeInvest Like a Woman: Strategies for Household Financial Empowerment with Pattie EhsaeiEnrollment doors are now open for Spellbound Spaces 8-Week Feng Shui Training for House Witches. Use code: HIGHVIBEHOME for 22% off! Get sorted into your element and join a coven of House Witches to transform your home into a magical abode! Enroll in Spellbound Spaces > On this weeks episode of the High Vibe Home podcast Nixie's hosts an incredible guest, Pattie Ehsaei who is an Attorney and Financial Expert specializing in the field of empowering women to become financially independent. After decades of being in the finance industry, Pattie took her expertise online and l...
2023-12-0756 min
No Romance Without FinanceThe Rise of the Huntress: Breaking Evolutionary Stereotypes with Cara Wall-SchefflerIn the Season 2 Finale of No Romance Without Finance, Pattie is joined by the brilliant Dr. Cara Wall-Scheffler, Professor and Co-Chair of the Department of Biology at Seattle Pacific University. Forget what you thought you knew about our ancestors–Cara’s research shows that women weren’t just gatherers and caretakers, they were hunters. Together, Pattie and Cara explore the cultural narratives that hold women back, how society’s success relies on women’s work, and how the huntresses of time past can inspire women today.Links:...
2023-12-0534 minNo Romance Without FinanceBehind the Pockets: Unveiling Financial Transparency with Maya LauIn this episode, Pattie speaks with Maya Lau, writer, researcher, and host of the award-winning podcast "Other People's Pockets." Join Pattie and Maya as they dish about salary transparency, giving the side-eye to gender pay gaps, and why it's essential to have the financial talk before you put a ring on it. They'll tackle the drama of public proposals, break down the real cost of weddings, and sprinkle some financial fairy dust on the age-old question of love and money. Links:Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media:
2023-11-2840 minNo Romance Without FinanceOh The Pivots You'll Make: Unpacking Baggage with Michaela GuzyIn this episode, Pattie is joined by Michaela Guzy, founder of the editorial content house, OhThePeopleYouMeet. Together, they dive into her content empire and her pivot from the corporate world. Michaela bravely shares the vulnerable tales from past relationships, the red flags she ignored, and the gifts she received from the universe when she learned to let go of things that aren’t meant for her. From heartbreaks to high triumphs, you’ll hear it all!Links:Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media:http...
2023-11-2151 minNo Romance Without FinanceThe Diplomatic Diaries: Goli AmeriIn this episode, Pattie is joined by Goli Ameri, former U.S. diplomat and current CEO of StartItUp, an AI-driven mobile platform providing personalized business guidance to millions of Solopreneurs. Goli shares her career journey, and how her unwavering passion for human rights is what led her to serve as the U.S. Assistant Secretary of State for Education and Cultural Affairs. She also shares her remarkable immigration story and discusses the challenges she faced as a working mother, shedding light on the concept of "mom guilt" and the constant juggling act between career and family.
2023-11-1438 min
Everyone's Talkin' MoneyYour Ultimate Guide to Afford the Holidays with Pattie EhsaeiThis episode is your ultimate guide to afford the holidays without all the stress and debt that can come with it. With that said, I get that it is hard to do. The holidays always feel like a time when you are expected to spend money, even when you might not have money to spend. Maybe you have a family member who is always trying to one-up your gifts, or you feel pressured to have the best gift for your boss. And what about Dad’s? I never knew a good gift to get my dad, so I always ov...
2023-11-1343 minNo Romance Without FinanceMind The Gap: The Reality of Salary Inequality feat. Linda BabcockIn this episode, Pattie is joined by renowned behavioral economist Linda Babcock. Linda, the founder and director of the Program for Research and Outreach on Gender Equity in Society (PROGRESS), is a trailblazer in understanding the barriers women face in the workplace and developing evidence-based solutions to promote gender equality. Linda and Pattie dive into the true roots of the gender pay gap, and how equitable distribution of labor is the key to narrowing the divide. They also explore the double standard of workplace behaviors and the perceptions of men as "the boss" and women as "bossy”....
2023-11-0740 minNo Romance Without FinanceNo Fairy Tale Needed: How Nicole Eckels Built A Fragrance EmpireIn this episode, we welcome Nicole Eckels, Founder and CEO of Glasshouse Fragrances. Nicole shares how her love of travel and all things glamorous ignited her entrepreneurial journey, and how a gap in the fragrance market set the stage for it all. Learn the 3 most vital traits for all entrepreneurs, and how waiting for “Prince Charming” will get you nowhere – because he’s not coming. Links:Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media:https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/https://www.tiktok.co...
2023-10-3125 minNo Romance Without FinanceBartender to Billion-Dollar Broker: Gina Michelle’s Real Estate JourneyIn this episode, we follow Gina Michelle's extraordinary journey from mixing cocktails to sealing over $1 billion in real estate deals. Gina shares her ascent through adversities, including housing crashes, gender biases, and reinventions. She sheds light on the path to success in the real estate industry, and how the skills you acquire throughout your career can become invaluable assets down the line.Links:Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media:https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/https://www.tiktok.com/@duchessofdecorum...
2023-10-2454 minNo Romance Without FinancePodcasting & Prosperity: Behind the Mic with Tony DursoIn this exciting episode of "No Romance Without Finance," our special guest is none other than Tony Durso, the dynamic host of "The Tony Durso Show." Pattie and Tony explore what motivated him to leave his corporate job and embark on his podcasting adventure, while also gaining insights into the secrets to success he's gleaned from his high-profile guests. In addition, they engage in a healthy and fun debate about the age-old question: should you or should you not separate finances when you get married?Links:Follow P...
2023-10-1745 minNo Romance Without FinanceCash Flow & Feng Shui: Unlocking Prosperity with Nixie MarieJoin us in this enlightening episode as we delve into the world of Feng Shui and its profound connection to your financial well-being. Our guest, Nixie Marie, Feng Shui practitioner and CEO of Claryti, shares her expertise on how the arrangement of your living space can impact your finances. Nixie provides specific instructions on creating a prosperous environment in your own home, red flags to watch out for when entering a potential mate's home and gain insights into creating a harmonious and prosperous environment that supports your love and financial goals....
2023-10-1050 minNo Romance Without FinanceCraving Connection: How Unni Turrettini Bridges the Human DivideIn this episode of "No Romance Without Finance," we welcome Unni Turrettini, a distinguished author, speaker, and Human Connection Expert. Unni shares how a national tragedy compelled her to explore the profound impact of human connection. She also tackles two provocative questions: Can men and women truly be just friends, and is it possible to attain genuine happiness without the confines of a romantic relationship?Links:Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social media:https://www.instagram.com/duchessofdecorum/https://www...
2023-10-0336 minNo Romance Without FinanceBra-vo to Business: Paula Tutman’s Entrepreneurial JourneyWe’re joined by the remarkable Paula Tutman. With over 30 years of experience as a multi-Emmy winning broadcast journalist, Paula's journey is one of resilience, innovation, and empowerment. She takes us through her transformation from a broadcast news reporter to becoming the founder of Zuke-iT, a 100% woman-owned company that revolutionized fashion with its flagship invention—the Bra-Less Bra, Instant Cleavage Sculpting Solution™. Paula’s story is a true inspiration for anyone seeking to reinvent themselves and embark on a fulfilling second act.Links:Follow Pattie Ehsaei on social m...
2023-09-2649 minNo Romance Without FinanceCosmo Confidential: Love, Money, and Madeleine Frank ReevesWelcome to Season 2 of No Romance Without Finance! In this exciting premiere, we're joined by a powerhouse in the world of media and journalism, Madeleine Frank Reeves, deputy editor of Cosmopolitan Magazine. Madeleine takes us on a journey through her career path, sharing why her post-college move to Alabama was a game-changer for her career and finances. Along the way, we delve into the truth behind the glamorous lives of social media's "Faux Riche" stars. Madeleine also offers a unique perspective on reframing those tough money conversations in your relationship.Links:
2023-09-1942 min
Cents and the CityEpisode 3: Go Dutch, or Go Brooklyn?A recent date goes sour after Jojo is asked to split the bill. Sure, Jojo anticipated that dating in the city would require a lot of work emotionally, but she wasn’t expecting it to take such a toll on her monthly food & beverage budget. Our Financial Experts joined us this episode to discuss:
How gender norms impact financial spending
Setting boundaries around spending with friends
This week’s Star Expert Guests: Pattie Ehsaei, aka the "Duchess of Decorum," and host of the No Romance Without Finance Podcast...
2023-08-3035 minNo Romance Without FinanceMarried to Real Estate, Bound by Budget - Egypt Sherrod and Mike JacksonPattie is joined by the dynamic duo of real estate and design, Egypt Sherrod and Mike Jackson. You might recognize them from their popular HGTV show 'Married to Real Estate,' where they turn houses into dream homes. But today, they're here to share a more intimate side of their journey – how they've managed to intertwine their love story with the complex world of finances. They pull back the curtain on the challenges they've faced, the lessons they've learned, and the strategies they've developed to navigate love and money. Whether you're a real estate enthusiast, a romantic at he...
2023-08-1534 minNo Romance Without FinanceThe Love Audit feat. Dr. Foojan ZeineIn this episode, Pattie delves into the secrets of building a fulfilling relationship with renowned psychotherapist, Dr. Foojan Zeine. With decades of experience in helping individuals find love and happiness, Dr. Zeine shares invaluable insights on identifying a good partner, recognizing red flags, and mastering effective communication. She emphasizes the importance of active listening, expressing needs respectfully, and cultivating a non-judgmental environment for open dialogue. Tune in to this enlightening episode as we uncover the secrets to identifying a fulfilling love!Produced by Citizens of Sound
2023-08-0849 minNo Romance Without FinanceBreaking The Ice: Confronting Misogyny feat. Lori FetrickIn this episode of "No Romance Without Finance," we sit down with Lori Fetrick, also known as "Ice" from the iconic American Gladiators. Join host Pattie as they delve into Lori's remarkable journey as one of the few women in a male-dominated industry. From the grueling physical challenges of the arena to confronting pay discrepancies and misogyny, Lori shares her inspiring story of resilience and determination. Tune in to discover how she overcame obstacles and became a trailblazer, standing tall as an empowering symbol for women everywhere.Links:
2023-08-0137 minNo Romance Without FinanceMoney Mindset Makeover feat. Nicole TravoltaPattie welcomes the remarkable Nicole Travolta, who opens up about her tumultuous past relationship with money. Nicole shares the negative money behaviors she learned in her youth, how they influenced her life choices, and how they eventually led to the downfall of her marriage. But this is also a story of redemption and empowerment; she shares her turning point when she ditched the ego and faced her debt head-on, learning that acting like everything's fine won't fix your bank account. Nicole's candid tale of money woes and triumphs will slap you with some serious financial reality. No more...
2023-07-2544 minNo Romance Without FinanceNever (Ever!) Date A Broke Dude - Farnaz VahdaniWhen Pattie released her viral video, “Never Date a Broke Dude”, she drew from experience-that of her own, and that of millions of women worldwide. One such woman is Farnaz Vahdani, who bravely shares her unfiltered experience dating a “broke dude”. From the red flags she ignored, to the lies he told, to the mindset of insecurity that kept Farnaz from leaving sooner! Pattie connects it to recent events with Keke Palmer and her partner, using their story as a prime example of how insecure, penniless men can tear down successful women. Produce...
2023-07-1854 min
Hispanic Wealth MattersHow to Handle the Peaks and Valleys of Commissions Sales - Pattie EhsaeiIn this episode the brilliant Duchess of Decorum Pattie Ehsaei and I chat about what it takes for commission-only entrepreneurs to survive through tough markets. What do familiar conversations need to be and how do you train your mindset to thrive!Pattie Ehsaei is a keynote speaker, content creator, and author living in Los Angeles. Creator of TikTok channel, “Duchess of Decorum”, where I teach financial literacy, social and workplace decorum, along with a focus on empowering women. For the last 20 years, I’ve had a multi-faceted career as a lawyer and manager in financ...
2023-07-1324 minNo Romance Without FinanceFrom Hot Flashes to Hot Success: Demystifying Hormones with Stephanie WolffPattie engages in a captivating conversation with Stephanie Wolff, CEO of Novus Anti-Aging Center. Stephanie, a renowned expert in sexual wellness and hormone therapy, sheds light on the profound impact hormones have on a woman's overall well-being, productivity, career, and more. She shares insights gained from her 17 years of experience (like how men go through menopause, too!) and offers valuable guidance to women navigating the transitional phase of menopause.Produced by Citizens of Sound.Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and I...
2023-07-1139 min
Women On TopFinancial expert, Pattie Ehsaei, talks how to become multi millionaires, financial infidelity, how to ask for a raise and why women out perform men in business.Financial expert, Pattie Ehsaei, talks how to become multi millionaires, financial infidelity, how to ask for a raise and why women out perform men in business.Our Sponsors:* Check out Rosetta Stone and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.rosettastone.com/Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/women-on-top/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
2023-07-051h 03Fearlessly AuthenticNo Romance without Finance x Financial Expert Pattie EhsaeiIn this episode, Pattie and I talk frankly about the importance of having that sometimes difficult conversation with your significant around finances BEFORE you find yourself in a situation that doesn't work for either party. As a financial expert, Pattie also dishes out her top tips for investing in your 20's and 30's as well as the best way to start saving and investing with just $100. Known as The Duchess of Decorum by her 982,000+ followers, Pattie Ehsaei(@duchessofdecorum TikTok ),has established herself as one of the leading financial experts in the space. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the...
2023-06-2948 minNo Romance Without FinanceFive Seconds of Courage - Dr. Lauren CookJoin Pattie for a discussion with Dr. Lauren Cook, a distinguished therapist, founder of Heartship Psychological Services, and author of the highly anticipated book, "Generation Anxiety." Dr. Lauren Cook shares her invaluable insights and principles and introduces the concept of "5 seconds of courage," a powerful practice to help you embrace moments of bravery, so you can challenge toxic behaviors and confront the waves of anxiety that often plague our day-to-day lives. Together, they break down when it's time to put on your superhero cape and tackle hardships on your own and when to call in the professionals.
2023-06-2732 minNo Romance Without FinanceA Woman Should Always Have F*** You Money - Dr. Jenn MannIn the fifth episode of "No Romance Without Finance," Pattie welcomes special guest Dr. Jenn Mann, a renowned psychotherapist and expert in relationship dynamics. They explore the effects of money on the dynamics of romantic relationships, discussing the challenges and opportunities it presents. Dr. Jenn breaks down the intricate ways in which money can shape relationships and influence power dynamics, and shares practical advice and strategies for fostering a healthy and fulfilling relationship that addresses the needs and concerns of both partners.Produced by Citizens of Sound.Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok a...
2023-06-2034 minNo Romance Without FinanceFor Better or For Wealth - Lauren The LawyerIn this episode, Pattie brings in Internet sensation and award-winning divorce lawyer, Lauren The Lawyer. With a blend of humor and expert advice, Lauren and Pattie delve into the world of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. They discuss the types of couples who may benefit from these legal documents and why it's essential to have frank conversations about finances before tying the knot. Lauren shares an eye-opening divorce horror story, shedding light on the importance of being informed and prepared. Join them as they explore the role of money in relationships and empower women to ask the necessary questions...
2023-06-1340 minNo Romance Without FinanceYour #1 Investment Is You - Haleh ModdasserSeasoned financial advisor and renowned author Haleh Moddasser joins Pattie for an insightful conversation on investing as a woman. Haleh is known for her expertise in guiding women to financial independence and success. Join them as they delve into the challenges and triumphs of thriving as a woman in male-dominated industries, the importance of maintaining a professional identity while being a stay-at-home housewife, and the undeniable significance of financial literacy and ambition for women.Produced by Citizens of Sound.Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/_noromancewithoutfinance/...
2023-06-0644 minNo Romance Without FinanceRiches to Rags To Riches - Nina TakeshIn the second episode of "No Romance Without Finance," we delve into the inspiring journey of superstar Interior Designer, Nina Takesh. Despite the affluence of her upbringing, Nina reveals that she's no stranger to the hustle. She candidly shares personal stories and moments of vulnerability, reminding everyone that hard work and determination are crucial ingredients for any achievement.Produced by Citizens of Sound.Links: Follow NRWF on TikTok and Instagramhttps://www.instagram.c...
2023-05-3045 minNo Romance Without FinanceDon’t Let The Fear Stop You - Jodi Harrison BauerIn the premiere episode of "No Romance Without Finance," we dive into the captivating life story of our special guest, Jodi Harrison Bauer. Join us as we explore the financial dynamics that shaped Jodi's upbringing and her journey towards reclaiming her independence. From the loss of autonomy in her first marriage to the courageous steps she took to break free, Jodi shares her inspiring story of overcoming fear and finding the strength to live life on her own terms.Produced by Citizens of Sound.
2023-05-2348 minNo Romance Without FinanceTrailer: No Romance Without FinanceIs your partner a "broke dude"? What is their credit score? If they were gone tomorrow, would you be able to take care of yourself? In No Romance Without Finance, we join host and TikTok sensation Pattie Ehsaei as she opens hard-hitting discussions around love, money and everything in between. Each week, Pattie brings in experts and explores the first date taboo we all love to avoid…money!You'll learn how to manage your money, maintain financial independence in a relationship, and open difficult conversations with your partner about money an...
2023-05-1601 min
Banking on Digital Growth264) Help First, Sell Second: A Focus on Helping in Personal BrandingPersonal branding is a subject that gives many people pause despite its incredible marketing potential. Whether it’s the fear of failure or an overwhelming desire for instant gratification, it’s easy to make excuses not to plant our flag in the ground.
The Duchess of Decorum herself, Pattie Ehsaei, believes financial leaders have the time and potential to provide value to others through personal branding content. They simply have to find it in themselves to take the first step.
Join us as we discuss:
- Common misconceptions of s...
2023-01-1743 min
The Jen Marples Show for Midlife WomenMy 2022 Podcast Roundup: Best Guest Advice & Episode GuideThis week, episode 92 of The Jen Marples Show recaps the best advice, themes, and episodes for you to listen to based on where you are on your midlife business or personal journey! Check the blog post for all links and an exhaustive list of episodes mentioned.Best Advice throughout the podcast: Ep 36: Playing The Long Game in Partnership with Kathryn Keown Ep 46: Trusting Your Journey & Knowing the Sky is the Limit with Kathy Kamei, Jewelry Designer Ep 48: We must Support, Amplify, and Promote Women with Julie Castro Abrams of How Wom...
2022-12-2237 minFearlessly AuthenticTiktok's Duchess of Decorum, Pattie EhsaeiAre you ready to be incredibly empowered? This is the episode you need to listen to. Known as the The Duchess of Decorum by her 960,000+ followers, Pattie Ehsaei (@duchessofdecorum TikTok ), has established herself as one of the leading financial experts in the space. Pattie's TikTok teachings on female equality in the workplace, financial literacy, workplace decorum and financial independence for women have over 6.1 MILLION likes—answering questions such as "How do I maintain financial independence in a relationship?" "How do I make and keep a budget?" "How do I maintain my power in the workplace?" "How do I ask for a...
2022-12-0854 min
Commercial Real Estate 101 PodcastUnderstanding SBA Loans with Pattie Ehsaei▶️ Visit to know more: https://www.raphaelcollazo.com/
Welcome, and for all your questions, Raphael is here to help you with understanding SBA Loans with Pattie Ehsaei.
If you are interested in learning about the many facets of commercial real estate, whether you're a business owner, investor, or just someone who's curious about the subject, you'll gain value from being a part of the group!
In today’s episode, Pattie Ehsaei, Senior Vice President at First Bank SBA, discusses her background and experiences in the commercial real estate industry.
Along with that, she sha...
2022-11-1837 minThe Jen Marples Show for Midlife WomenTaking Risks and Going for It with Pattie Ehsaei [Meet in Malibu Series]As women, we tend to shrink back or lack the confidence to push for what we truly want. That ends today! This week, episode 71 of The Jen Marples Show is about Taking Risks and Going for It with Pattie Ehsaei!Known as the "The Duchess of Decorum" by her 800,000+ followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as the expert on "P's and Q's." Pattie's TikTok teachings on social and workplace etiquette and financial literacy have over 3.7 MILLION likes. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national...
2022-07-2821 min
CRE SharkEye Commercial Real Estate Show Hosted BY Yishai BreslauerWhen CRE Meets M&A with Pattie EhsaeiPattie Ehsaei has been in financial services for over 20 years and has considerable experience in SBA and commercial lending.
She started her career as a lawyer, transitioning to financial services in various roles as a top performing regional manager, investment banker, and SBA lender.
Having funded more than $350MM in transactions, Pattie’s extensive background makes her an expert in thinking outside of the box and providing customized solutions to help small business owners achieve their goals.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/pattie-ehsaei-a785589/
The CRE Sh...
2022-04-1140 min
The Commercial Real Estate AcademyEpisode #50 - Pattie Ehsaei - SVP at First Bank SBA - Benefits the SBA Offers to Business OwnersThe Commercial Real Estate Academy podcast was created to demystify the commercial real estate industry for the masses. During our weekly episodes, we interview industry experts on a host of different commercial real estate-related topics. Through these interviews, we hope to arm you with the knowledge, references, and tools you’ll need to confidently pursue commercial real estate opportunities as a business owner and/or an investor.
Raphael Collazo and Jeff Walston are excited to introduce their guest for this week!
In today's episode, we hosted Pattie Ehsaei, Senior Vi...
2022-03-2928 min
Superwomen with Rebecca MinkoffControl the Gold, Make the Rules: Duchess of Decorum Pattie EhsaeiDuchess of Decorum Pattie Ehsaei holds many esteemed positions as a lawyer, financial advisor, workplace and social decorum expert, as well as being a TikTok star. While she has made a name for herself guiding others around social and work-related pitfalls, these lessons were hard won. When Pattie arrived in the U.S., she knew little of the culture and even less of the language; she now maintains her popular social media accounts because of her desire to help others in the hopes that they may learn from her early mistakes.
It’s no secret that Pattie’s ot...
2022-03-2231 min
HELP! I Suck at DatingMind Your P’s and Q’sDo you know which fork to use at a fancy dinner? How to ask for a raise? How to decipher a thirst trap?? All these questions and more are answered when Dean, Jared and guest co-host Sydney Lotuaco talk to the “Duchess of Decorum”! We’re hanging out with Pattie Ehsaei who went viral on Tik Tok teaching young people how to navigate through situations no one prepared us for! Plus, find out why Dean thinks he and Caelynn are “total opposites”! Learn more about your ad-choices at https://www.iheartpodcastnetwork.comSee omnys...
2022-02-2431 min
The Tony DUrso Show - Journey to Success!The Duchess of Decorum, Pattie Ehsaei on The Tony DUrso ShowKnown as the The Duchess of Decorum by her loyal 865,000 TikTok followers, Pattie Ehsaei has established herself as the expert of "P's and Q's" on the platform where she has received over 3.8 MILLION likes and nearly a million followers as she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade and currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Acquisitions lending for a major national bank, she's the perfect example of "tough but fair and believes that success comes from information and empowerment. Listen to The Tony DUrso Show on VoiceAmerica Influencers Platform every Friday at 2...
2022-01-1455 min
Places I Remember with Lea LaneWorld Customs (Odd, Proper, Fun) -- With TikTok's 'Duchess Of Decorum'Send a textPattie Ehsaei (TikTok: “duchessofdecorum”), leads a delightful and informative discussion about unusual and entertaining customs around the world, with lots of giggles along with fascinating facts.After an intro about customs of the world by Lea, she and Pattie alternate in discussing customs in France, Italy, Nicaragua, Malaysia, Kuwait, Scotland, Greece, Germany, Indonesia, Russia, China, Thailand, Japan, Nigeria, Mexico, Egypt, Vietnam, Switzerland, Iceland.Ways to kiss in France, how to eat in the Middle East, a st...
2021-12-2817 min
The Art of SBA LendingThe Power of Thinking Big with Pattie Ehsaei | Ep. 58In this episode, Ray talks with Pattie Ehsaei, a former prosecutor turned private equity, turned banking, turned top-producing SBA lender, and now has a TikTok under the handle @duchessofdecorum with over 850,000 followers. What can't she do?! Tune in to learn how the right mindset can make anything possible. To contact Pattie: Pattie Ehsaei Senior Vice President National SBA M&A Lending First Bank SBA pehsaei@firstbanksba.com
2021-12-2326 min
Places I Remember with Lea LaneIran: Mystery, History, Persian DelightsSend a textIran is one of the great destinations of the world, but many travelers are hesitant to go. After listening to Pattie Ehsaei, born and raised in Iran, you'll want to, soon. She describes her birth-country's beauty, history and culture in cities including Tehran, Esfahan, Persepolis and Shiraz. She tells of castles, mosques, ziggurats, lagoons, islands, beaches, scenic mountain roads, and ancient pigeon towers.Pattie came to the U.S. when she was seven, on the last plane out, in the Iranian Revolution. Pattie and Lea discuss...
2021-12-1420 minFearlessly Authentic@duchessofdecorum on TikTok: She's More Than A LawyerThe Duchess of Decorum is what fans have come to call Pattie Ehsaei. She is best known for her very successful TikTok channel, duchessofdecorum, of almost 859K followers where she teaches social and workplace etiquette, along with financial literacy. A lawyer by trade, Pattie is currently a Senior Vice President of Mergers and Aquisitions lending, and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused in finance. Pattie didn't always have the answers to all social and workplace questions and etiquette including when to ask for a raise, how much to spend on a car, how to make and...
2021-12-0253 min
Ladies Who Leverage - Kelly Charles-CollinsDuchess of Decorum, Pattie Ehsaei, on Crushing Patriarchy and Being A BadassBorn in Iran, the Persian beauty moved to Los Angeles as a youth and has spent the last 20 years in a multi-faceted career focused in finance. She attended Loyola Law School and it was during this time that she taught herself proper etiquette with limited resources. From relationship management, business development, investment banking, and raising capital from sovereign wealth funds in private equity, Pattie has seen all sides of the industry. In this episode, we discuss how Pattie created her TikTok account as a way to provide education, advice, and techniques to help young folks navigate their...
2021-11-0840 min