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Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram14: Season 2 Finale - From Inner Critic to Inner Peace: Paul's Type 1’s Journey Toward Spiritual FreedomIn this powerful season finale of Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram, host Paul Basden sits in the guest chair—interviewed by creative pastor and longtime friend Allison Harrell. Together, they explore Paul’s personal journey as an Enneagram Type 1 (The Reformer) and how understanding his type has shaped his spiritual life, leadership, and relationships.
With honesty, humor, and deep self-reflection, Paul shares how childhood experiences formed his worldview, why he mistyped himself as a Two for years, how spiritual direction and counseling transformed him, and how he’s learning to distinguish his inner...
2025-12-1836 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram12: The Enneagram 9 Peacemaker with Robin Johnson & Denise BasdenThis episode explores the Enneagram Type 9: The Peacemaker, featuring two authentic and engaging voices—Robin Johnson and Denise Basden. Both share openly about their upbringing, personality patterns, life as pastor’s wives, and their unique journeys toward emotional and spiritual maturity. Their stories highlight why Type 9s are often called “the sweethearts of the Enneagram.”
Drawing from real stories of marriage, motherhood, life, and church leadership, Robin and Denise unpack the core motivations and struggles of the Enneagram 9: the longing for peace, the fear of conflict, the tendency to avoid decisions, and the quiet strength of loyalty, empathy...
2025-12-0436 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram11: Strengths, Struggles & The Challenger’s Heart with Enneagram 8 Pastor Jim JohnsonIn this episode of Why Do I Do What I Do: Exploring the Enneagram, host Paul Basden interviews longtime friend and co–senior pastor Jim Johnson for an in-depth, engaging, and heartfelt look at the Enneagram Type 8 personality—the Challenger.
Jim shares his moving family story, including the life-altering accident that shaped his parents’ faith and filled his childhood with unconditional love. From leadership in the church to marriage and parenting, Jim offers real-life examples of how Type 8 traits show up in daily life.
Listeners will learn:
What drives an Enneagram 8
How Ty...
2025-11-2631 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram10: Chasing Fun with the Enneagram Type 7: Navigating Life, Family, and Faith with Natalie WellsIn this episode of Why Do I Do What I Do?, we explore the vibrant, possibility-driven world of the Enneagram Type 7—The Enthusiast. Host Paul Basden interviews Natalie Wells, Parent Communications Director at Preston Trail Community Church, who shares how the Seven’s love of fun, spontaneity, and freedom shapes her family life, marriage to an Enneagram One, and her spiritual walk.
Natalie opens up about her upbeat “YOLO” mindset, her legendary costume carpool line, and the challenge Sevens face in sitting with sadness—especially through the loss of her father. She also shares practical ways she’s learned to...
2025-11-2027 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram09: Enneagram Type 6 Explained: Loyalty, Anxiety, and Learning to Trust God with Warren Jacobs and Josh ManuelIn this episode of Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram, Paul Basden sits down with two longtime Preston Trail pastors—Warren Jacobs (Worship Pastor) and Josh Manuel (Men’s Pastor)—to explore the steady, loyal, and thoughtful nature of the Enneagram Type Six: The Loyalist.
Known as the “guardian” of the Enneagram, Sixes are faithful, reliable, and protective—always planning ahead to make sure others feel safe and supported. But beneath that loyalty lies a constant battle with fear, self-doubt, and the need for security. Together, Warren and Josh share how these traits show up in their lives...
2025-11-1341 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram08: Understanding Enneagram 5 : Knowledge, Boundaries, and the Journey Toward Connection with Sonya JacobsIn this insightful episode of Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram, Paul Basden sits down with Sonya Jacobs, Marriage and Support Pastor at Preston Trail Community Church, to explore the thoughtful and deeply introspective world of the Enneagram Type Five: The Investigator.
As a biblical counselor, ministry leader, and wife of 31 years, Sonya offers a unique window into the mind of a Type Five—known for their curiosity, independence, and lifelong pursuit of knowledge. Together, Paul and Sonya unpack what it looks like to live as a Five in marriage, parenting, and ministry, and how this per...
2025-11-0631 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram07: Enneagram Type 4 Explained: Strengths, Struggles, and Faith with Tara WedemeyerIn this episode of Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram, Paul Basden sits down with Tara Wedemeyer — licensed professional counselor, artist, wife, mom of two boys, and Enneagram Type Four — for a raw, honest, and beautifully nuanced look at what it means to live as The Individualist.
Enneagram Fours are known for their creativity, emotional depth, and desire to live with authenticity. Tara shares how this plays out in real life: in her marriage, parenting two teenage boys, co-owning a counseling practice, and navigating her own inner world with compassion and curiosity. She open...
2025-10-3129 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram06: Unmasking the Enneagram Three: Achieving with Purpose and Grace with Angel Hadley & Rick WisnerIn this episode of Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram, Paul sits down with two dynamic leaders from Preston Trail Community Church—Angel Hadley (Engagement Pastor) and Rick Wisner (Discipleship Pastor)—to explore the drive, discipline, and heart of the Enneagram Type 3: The Achiever.
Known for their energy, focus, and relentless pursuit of excellence, Threes are natural leaders who inspire others to reach new goals—but they also face unique challenges beneath the surface. Together, Angel and Rick offer an honest, faith-centered look at how the Achiever’s desire for success, validation, and admirati...
2025-10-2335 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram05: Living as an Enneagram Two: Compassion, Pride, and Healthy Boundaries with Kari Dobbs05: In this episode of Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram, Paul sits down with his daughter, Kari Dobbs, to unpack life as an Enneagram Two—the Helper and Encourager. Known for their deep compassion, loyalty, and desire to be needed, Twos are often described as the most relational type on the Enneagram. But as Kari shares, those same strengths can sometimes become struggles when pride, people-pleasing, or perfectionism creep in.
Together, Paul and Kari explore:
What it means to live with a “Helper’s heart” in marriage, parenting four boys, teaching, ministry, and friendships.
The strengt...
2025-10-1526 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram04: Living as an Enneagram One: Parenting, Leadership, and Overcoming Perfectionism04:
In this episode of Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram, Paul sits down with Sarah Davidson, Executive Pastor of Ministries at Preston Trail Community Church, to unpack the gifts and challenges of being an Enneagram One. Known as the Perfectionist or the Improver, Ones are motivated by a deep desire to do what’s right, live with integrity, and make the world a better place.
Sarah shares candidly about how her Enneagram type shapes her marriage, parenting three boys, and leadership of a large church staff. From the high standards and reliability that make her...
2025-10-0935 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram03: Going Deeper with the Enneagram: Exploring Triads, Centers, and Spiritual Growth03: Knowing your Enneagram number is just the beginning. In this episode, host Paul Basden dives deeper into the Enneagram to uncover the layers that reveal not only your type, but also your habits, motivations, and path toward transformation.
You’ll unpack:
Virtues and Vices: How your greatest strengths can also become your biggest struggles, and why choosing virtue over vice leads to growth.
Centers of Intelligence (Triads): The Heart (2-3-4), Head (5-6-7), and Gut (8-9-1) triads that shape how we feel, think, and act.
Paul shares how Christian faith intersects with the Enneagram, showing how prayer...
2025-10-0217 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram02: Discovering the 9 Enneagram Types: Strengths, Struggles, and Faith02: In this episode, Paul takes a deep dive into all nine Enneagram types—revealing how each type’s core motivations, strengths, and struggles can shape the way we live, love, and follow God. From the Perfectionist’s drive to do things right, to the Peacemaker’s longing for harmony, each number offers both unique gifts and unique challenges.
Paul unpacks:
The defining traits, mottos, and anxieties of each type (1–9).
Why people with the same Enneagram number can look very different depending on wings, social preferences, spiritual gifts, and emotional health.
How the Enneagram can help you name your gifts, confron...
2025-09-2513 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram01: Who Am I? Exploring the Enneagram Through a Biblical Lens01: In this opening episode of Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram, host Paul Basden unpacks one of today’s most popular tools for self-discovery and spiritual growth: the Enneagram. If you’ve ever asked, “Who am I?” or wondered why you keep repeating certain patterns, this conversation will help you understand the Enneagram as more than a personality test—it’s a map of motivations, fears, and desires that can lead to both transformation and healing.
Paul tackles five big questions: Who am I? What is the Enneagram? How does it work? How do I use it? And where...
2025-09-1817 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramWhat is the Enneagram, and why does it matter for your faith and personal growth? In this teaser episode, Paul introduces his new podcast season, Why Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the Enneagram. After months of conversations on faith, culture, and tough topics, Paul shifts the focus inward—showing how the Enneagram can be a powerful tool for self-awareness, spiritual formation, and transformation.
Drawing from ancient wisdom, modern psychology, and Scripture, Paul shares how knowing yourself is the first step toward living with integrity and experiencing God’s love more deeply. This episode sets the stag...
2025-09-1407 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramHow to Talk About Faith, Politics, and Sexuality Without Losing A Friend#40 Over the past 10 months, we’ve tackled some of the most polarizing topics in culture—faith, politics, sexuality, justice, and more—not to divide, but to unite.
In this heartfelt finale of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden revisits the core question: How can we have hard conversations that actually bring healing?
Join us as we explore:
🔹 The power of words to divide or unite (Proverbs 12:18, Ephesians 4:29)
🔹 How to be known for love—even in disagreement (John 13:34-35)
🔹 Practical wisdom for families, churches, and public discourse
🔹 Why unity, not uniformity, is the goal of gospe...
2025-08-0707 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramGuns & God: Where Faith Meets the Second Amendment Pt. 2 with guests Greg and Mike#39 In Part 2 of our series on gun control, host Paul Basden is joined by Greg, a long-time gun owner, and Mike, an active-duty police officer. Together, they tackle one of the most polarizing topics in America—firearms—through the lens of faith, public safety, and personal responsibility.
Join us as we explore:
Why Christians feel conflicted about gun ownership
How personal experience shapes beliefs about gun laws
The tension between the right to bear arms and the call to peacemaking
What it means to prioritize both safety and compassion in a divided culture
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2025-07-3133 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramThe Gospel and the Gun: A Christian Take on Gun Control#38 The gun control debate is more than political—it's personal, moral, and spiritual. In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, Paul Basden takes us to the epicenter of the controversy: the right to bear arms.
Before diving into interviews and expert opinions next week, this Part 1 episode explores the spiritual tension many Christians feel when trying to balance personal freedom with public safety.
Join us as we explore:
Four foundational beliefs that shape American attitudes on guns—sacredness of life, human sinfulness, the instinct to defend, and the constitutional right to bear arms
What...
2025-07-2513 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramWhen the Church Hurts – and Heals: A Conversation on Church Hurt, Healing & Hope#37 In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, Paul Basden sits down with longtime Preston Trail Creative Pastor Allison Harrell and couples group coordinator D’Anthony Forte to talk about a subject too many know firsthand: church hurt.
Allison opens up about growing up in a high-control religious group she now recognizes as a cult—where authority went unchecked, manipulation was normalized, and eventually, her family was excommunicated. D’Anthony shares how fear-based faith, legalism, and judgment shaped his earliest experiences with church, leading to decades of anxiety and a 14-year absence from Christ...
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2025-07-1338 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramJustice for All? A Christian’s Call Beyond Political Agendas#36 Is justice just a political buzzword hijacked by the culture wars—or is it central to the heart of God? In this thought-provoking episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden dives deep into the biblical roots of justice and challenges us to move beyond partisan stereotypes to embrace God’s call to care for the vulnerable.
Join us as we explore:
What the Hebrew prophets (like Isaiah) really said about justice (Isaiah 1:17, 10:1-2, 58:6-7)
How Jesus wove justice into His mission (Luke 4:16-19, Matthew 25:31-46)
Why justice is more than politics—it’s a refl...
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2025-07-0645 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramOne Nation… Over God? The Dangers of NationalismRe-Release :
Is love for your country a virtue—or can it become a form of idolatry? In this thought-provoking episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden explores the fine line between patriotism and nationalism, and what Scripture teaches about our highest allegiance.
Join us as we explore:
The biblical call to seek God’s Kingdom above all else (Matthew 6:33)
Why nationalism can subtly replace God with nation as our object of worship (Philippians 3:20, Ephesians 2:19)
C.S. Lewis’ warning: “The love of one’s country becomes a demon when it becomes a...
2025-07-0606 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramScrolling with Purpose: Identity & the Social Media Dilemma with Influencer Ashlynn McKay#35
Social media connects us more than ever before—so why do so many of us still feel so alone?
In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden sits down with Ashlynn McKay Lurkens, social media influencer, and podcast producer, for a candid look at the beautiful and broken realities of life online. From influencer culture and identity formation to adolescent anxiety and digital discipleship, this conversation unpacks the pressures and possibilities of social media in the modern age.
Join us as we explore:
Why comparison and curated co...
2025-06-1915 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramScrolling with Purpose: How Should Christians Use Social Media? Pt. 1#34 Social media touches nearly every part of our daily lives—but is it helping us love better, or hurting our ability to connect meaningfully?
In this thought-provoking solo episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden explores the power, pitfalls, and potential of social platforms through a biblical lens. From endless scrolling to the search for validation, Paul challenges listeners to evaluate their digital habits in light of Jesus’ command to love our neighbors—online and off.
Join us as we explore:
The addictive nature of social media—and why we touch our phon...
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2025-06-0836 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramSingle, Gay, Christian: A Conversation with Greg Coles#33 What if your deepest sense of identity doesn’t fit within the traditional framework of the church—but your love for Jesus still burns bright?
In this honest and moving episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden sits down with author and speaker Greg Coles for a vulnerable conversation about faith, identity, and what it means to live as a single, gay Christian committed to the authority of Scripture.
Together, they explore:
Greg’s personal story of discovering his same-sex attraction and reconciling it with his Christian faith
The tension between authen...
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2025-06-0137 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramSame-Sex Attraction & the Church: A Third Way Rooted in Truth and Grace#32 Same-sex attraction is one of the most emotionally charged and spiritually complex conversations in the modern church. What does it mean to hold fast to biblical convictions while extending the radical love of Jesus?
In this thought-provoking episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden invites listeners into a grace-and-truth-filled conversation about LGBTQ+ identity, specifically same-sex attraction. Rather than choosing between condemnation or full affirmation, Paul explores a third way—rooted in Scripture, compassion, and the image of God in every person.
Join us as we explore:
Why same-sex attraction is not inherently sin...
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2025-05-2541 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramWhen Vows Break: A Christian Response to Divorce, Heartache, and Hope#31 Is divorce the unforgivable sin—or can God bring beauty out of brokenness?
In this vulnerable and redemptive episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden tackles the topic of divorce with wisdom, truth, and compassion. Drawing from Scripture and real-life reflections, Paul explores the pain of divorce, the purpose of marriage, and the surprising grace of a God who never gives up on us—even when our relationships do.
Join us as we unpack:
God’s original design for marriage: “You first. You only. You always.” (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4–6)
The true cause of div...
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2025-05-1847 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramUnderstanding Gender Identity: Truth, Grace, and the Church's RoleHow should Christians respond when someone's gender identity doesn’t match their biological sex? Is it loving to affirm? Is it faithful to confront? Is there a better, more Jesus-like way?
In this important episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, Pastor Paul Basden dives into one of today’s most sensitive and controversial topics: the “T” in LGBTQ. From the cultural spotlight on Caitlyn Jenner to the theological implications of gender dysphoria, Paul challenges listeners to approach this issue not with fear or anger—but with both grace and truth.
Join us as we explore:
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2025-05-1134 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramConfronting Poverty: What the Bible Really Says About the Poor#29 Is poverty a result of personal failure—or a symptom of a broken system? In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden explores the deeply human and deeply biblical dimensions of poverty, challenging us to think beyond politics and toward compassion.
Join us as we explore:
Global and national poverty statistics that demand attention
Why God’s Word speaks so directly—and urgently—about the poor (Jeremiah 5:28, Isaiah 58:6-7, James 2:1-6)
What Jesus meant when he said he came to bring “Good News to the poor” (Luke 4:18)
How followers of Christ can m...
2025-05-0807 min2025-05-0434 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramFaith & Facts: Can Science and Christianity Coexist?#28 Is science the enemy of faith—or a reflection of God’s creativity? In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden explores the often-tension-filled relationship between science and Christianity, offering a refreshing take that honors both Scripture and scientific discovery.
Join us as we explore:
What science really is—and why Christians should care
How Psalm 111:2 and Proverbs 25:2 encourage curiosity and discovery
Why humility is essential in studying the universe God made (Romans 11:34, 36)
How believers can approach science not with fear, but with worship
Whether you’ve questioned how scie...
2025-05-0106 min2025-04-2743 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramCaring for Creation: What the Bible Says About the Environment#27 Should Christians even care about climate change? Some say environmentalism is political. Others say it’s biblical. In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden asks: What if caring for the planet isn’t about partisanship—but about partnership with God?
Join us as we discuss:
Biblical foundations for environmental responsibility (Genesis 1–4)
How the industrial revolution changed our relationship with nature
What it means to co-rule creation with God
Why caring for the planet is an act of love for future generations
Whether you’re skeptical about the climate de...
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2025-04-2044 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramExperiencing the Risen Christ: A Bonus Easter Conversation with Pastor Jim Johnson#26 What does Easter truly mean beyond the empty tomb? In this heartfelt bonus episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden sits down with his longtime friend and co-founder of Preston Trail Community Church, Pastor Jim Johnson, for an intimate conversation about faith, doubt, healing, and the presence of the resurrected Jesus.
Together, they reflect on:
The miracle that shaped Jim’s childhood and family legacy
How personal sorrow deepened his understanding of Jesus’ love (Isaiah 53:3)
Wrestling with fragile faith and finding hope in the resurrection (1 Corinthians 15, Romans 8)
What it means...
2025-04-1716 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramSeeing Immigrants Through God’s Eyes: A Biblical Call to Compassion and Justice#25 In this powerful episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden shifts the conversation from policy to people—inviting listeners to see immigrants not as a problem to solve, but as people to love. Through Scripture and story, Paul reminds us that our faith calls us to something deeper than politics: it calls us to radical hospitality.
Join us as we explore:
How Scripture calls us to love and welcome immigrants: (Exodus 23:9, Leviticus 19:33-34, Deuteronomy 10:17-19)
Jesus’ teaching on caring for “the least of these”: (Matthew 25:40, 45)
How Christian hospitality can transform...
2025-04-1008 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramThe Future Is Together: A Biblical Conversation on Feminism, Calling, and Co-Leadership with Guest Pastor Alison Leamon#24 In this powerful follow-up episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden is joined by Pastor Alison Leamon of Preston Trail Community Church for a candid and inspiring conversation about feminism, faith, and what it means to honor God’s call—regardless of gender.
Alison shares her personal journey as a woman in ministry, from questioning her place in leadership to boldly stepping into her God-given teaching gift. Together, Paul and Alison explore the difference between secular feminism and biblical equality, inviting listeners to embrace a vision of co-leadership that reflects the heart of God.
2025-04-0325 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramRedefining Feminism: A Biblical Case for Equality, Leadership, and the Full Image of God#23 Feminism is one of the most controversial words in modern culture—and in the church. But what if the conversation didn’t have to divide us? In this insightful episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden explores the history, theology, and emotion behind feminism, offering a more biblical and unifying lens on gender, value, and leadership.
Join us as we explore:
God’s original design for men and women as co-rulers of creation (Genesis 1:27–28)
The meaning of “helper” and its powerful Old Testament context (Genesis 2:18)
Jesus’ radical inclusion of women in His ministry (Luke...
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2025-03-2341 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramBreaking Down Patriarchy: A Biblical Look at Gender, Leadership, and Equality#22 Patriarchy has shaped societies and religious traditions for centuries, but is it God’s design? In this thought-provoking episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden unpacks the roots of patriarchy, its impact on the church, and what Scripture truly says about men and women leading together.
Join us as we explore:
The biblical foundation for gender equality (Genesis 1:27, 1 Corinthians 11:11-12)
How Jesus challenged cultural norms by elevating women (Luke 10:38-39)
Paul’s teaching on spiritual gifts and leadership beyond gender (Galatians 3:28)
Why shared leadership between men and women refle...
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2025-03-1636 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramCharismatic Christianity Pt. 2 Featuring Pastor John McKinzie#21 In this thought-provoking follow-up episode, host Paul Basden sits down with Pastor John McKinzie of Hope Fellowship to continue the conversation on Charismatic Christianity. Pastor John shares his personal journey—growing up in the Assemblies of God, his theological shifts over the years, and how those changes influenced his leadership and church planting.
Together, Paul and John explore key questions about the Charismatic movement, including:
What it means to be a Spirit-filled church
How theology and church culture evolve over time
Misconceptions and excesses in the Pentecostal and Charismatic traditions
The role of spiritual gifts like to...
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2025-03-0947 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramCharismatic Christianity: Signs, Wonders, and the Power of the Holy Spirit#20 In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, we take a deep dive into the charismatic movement—what it is, what it teaches, and how it has shaped modern Christianity. From spiritual gifts and miracles to healing and speaking in tongues, we explore the biblical foundations of charismatic belief and discuss how different churches respond to these practices.
Join us as we unpack key questions:
What does it mean to be charismatic?
Are miracles, healings, and tongues for today’s church? (1 Corinthians 12:9-10)
How does Pentecost shape our understanding of the Holy Spirit? (Acts...
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2025-03-0247 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramFaith & Fundamentalism: Navigating Rigid Religion with Grace and Truth#19 Religious fundamentalism is often associated with rigid beliefs, sharp boundaries, and a no-compromise attitude—but is that what Jesus called us to? In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, Paul Basden explores the roots of Christian fundamentalism, why it resonates with so many believers, and where it can fall short of Jesus' example of love and grace.
Key Takeaways:
✅ The historical and theological origins of Christian fundamentalism
✅ Why fundamentalism often leads to exclusion and division
✅ Jesus' and Paul’s warnings against legalism (Matthew 23:4, 1 Timothy 6:4-5)
✅ How to disagree with fundamentalists without dehumanizing them (Colossians 3...
2025-02-2706 min2025-02-2342 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramEvangelical: Recovering the True Meaning of the Good News#18 The word evangelical is everywhere—but does it still mean good news? In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, Paul Basden dives into the history, theology, and controversy surrounding the term. What once stood for a movement centered on Jesus and the Gospel has, in many circles, become synonymous with political agendas. Can we reclaim its true meaning?
The true meaning of "evangelical"—rooted in the Greek word evangel, meaning "Good News"
How the movement started and evolved over 300+ years
Why many Christians are rejecting or redefining the term today
Navigating faith beyond poli...
2025-02-2005 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramLet's Talk About Sex: Understanding God’s Design for Intimacy Pt. 2 featuring Marriage Experts Warren and Sonya JacobsIn this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden welcomes marriage experts Warren and Sonya Jacobs to explore sex and intimacy from a biblical perspective. Drawing from their own marriage journey, they discuss the impact of purity culture, the importance of vulnerability, and the role of sexual intimacy in a thriving marriage.
Key Takeaways:
How purity culture shaped Christian views on sex and intimacy
The four pillars of intimacy in marriage—spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical
Why inviting God into your sex life can transform your marriage
Breaking unh...
2025-02-1321 min2025-02-0937 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramLet's Talk About Sex: Understanding God’s Design for Intimacy Pt. 1#16 Sex is one of the most talked-about topics in our culture—but how does it align with God’s design? In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden explores what the Bible says about sex, why culture often distorts its purpose, and how Christians can engage in meaningful conversations about this sensitive subject.
Join Paul as he unpacks:
What culture says about sex vs. what God intended
Why sex is a beautiful, God-given gift (Genesis 1:22)
The dangers of sexual distortion and its consequences (1 Thessalonians 4:3, Romans 13:13, 1 Corinthians 6:18-20)
The redemptive power of God’s...
2025-02-0609 min2025-02-0241 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramPro-Life and Pro-Love: Navigating Compassionate Conversations About Abortion#15 In this deeply important episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden explores the sanctity of life and how Christians can advocate for the unborn while showing love and compassion to mothers facing difficult decisions. Through biblical truths, thoughtful discussion, and a special guest interview, this episode challenges believers to embrace a pro-life stance that looks more like pro-love.
Join Paul as he examines:
The biblical foundation for the value of life, including:
Matthew 19:13-14 (Jesus welcomes the children)
Psalm 139:13 (God knits us together in the womb)
Jeremiah 1:5 (God knows us before we a...
2025-01-3013 min2025-01-2639 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramRace and Christianity: Seeing Beyond Skin Color to Love Like Jesus#14 In this thought-provoking episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden addresses the sensitive and critical topic of race. Through biblical insights, historical context, and a heart for unity, Paul challenges listeners to engage in meaningful conversations about race with compassion, humility, and a commitment to seeing others as God does.
Join Paul as he explores:
The origins of race-based prejudice and its devastating impact
Biblical truths that reveal God’s love for all people, regardless of race
Understanding concepts like Black Lives Matter, Critical Race Theory, and "woke" culture from a Christian perspective
Practical wa...
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2025-01-1936 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramRethinking Church: Unity, Hurt, and the Hope of God’s Plan A#13 In this episode of Uncomfortable Conversations with Christians, host Paul Basden explores the complexities of the church—its purpose, its struggles, and its enduring hope as God’s chosen instrument in the world. Despite its flaws and divisions, the church remains central to God’s plan for redemption and unity.
Join Paul as he examines:
Why the church is more than a building or a denomination
The impact of church hurt and how to offer healing and reconciliation
How to embrace the church as the Body of Christ while acknowledging its imperfections
A vision of the church...
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2025-01-1241 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramThe Bible: God’s Great Love Story to Humanity#12 In this compelling episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden explores the heart of the Bible and its profound role in the life of a believer. Moving beyond doctrines, commandments, and devotions, Paul reveals how Scripture tells the greatest love story ever written—God’s self-revelation and plan to redeem humanity.
Join us as Paul unpacks:
Three common ways Christians view the Bible—and why it’s more than all of them
How the Bible follows a universal narrative of love, danger, rescue, and redemption
The incredible ways God reveals His love throughou...
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2024-12-2425 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramBonus Episode: Beneath the Lyrics: The Theology behind ‘Hark! The Herald Angels Sing’In this special bonus episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden takes us on a journey through one of the most beloved Christmas carols, “Hark! The Herald Angels Sing.” Written by the prolific hymnwriter Charles Wesley, this timeless carol is not just a beautiful song—it’s rich with deep theology and biblical truths.
Join Paul as he unpacks the carol verse by verse, exploring its profound message about the birth of Christ:
The biblical references behind the carol’s powerful lyrics
Wesley’s vision of Jesus as Immanuel, God with us, and the Prince of Pe...
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2024-12-1534 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramThe Power of Belief: How to Share Your Faith with Love and Respect#11 In this insightful episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden unpacks the concept of belief—what it is, how it shapes our lives, and why it often becomes a source of contention. Drawing from personal stories, biblical wisdom, and practical guidance, Paul explores how Christians can hold their beliefs with conviction while respecting the freedom of others.
Join us as Paul dives into key questions surrounding belief and its role in our relationships and faith:
What is belief, and how does it make sense of our lives?
Why beliefs can divide—and how to avoi...
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2024-12-0832 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramKeeping Christ in Christmas: How to Navigate Holiday Conversations in a Secular Culture#10 In this festive episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden delves into three hot-button topics surrounding Christmas in today’s world. From nativity scenes and “Happy Holidays” greetings to the controversy over “Xmas,” Paul offers thoughtful perspectives on how Christians can celebrate Jesus’ birth with grace and confidence in a pluralistic society.
Join us as Paul unpacks these timely questions and provides guidance for meaningful, Christ-centered holiday interactions:
Why “Merry Christmas” and “Happy Holidays” can both reflect Christ’s love
The history and meaning behind abbreviating Christmas as “Xmas”
How to approach holiday traditions in a way that honors Jesus...
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2024-11-2430 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramHome for the Holidays: Navigating Family Conflict and Finding Peace During the Holiday Season#9 In this heartfelt episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden explores the challenges of family dynamics during the holidays, especially when relational gaps are widened by political and cultural divides. With Thanksgiving and Christmas approaching, Paul shares the story of a family torn by tension and offers practical, biblical wisdom for navigating these difficult conversations with grace.
Join us as Paul provides insights into how believers can bring peace to their families and reflect Christ’s love during the holiday season.
Understanding how the “war of words” is damaging relationships
Biblical guidance on “speaking the trut...
2024-11-2110 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramFacing the Devil: A Biblical Perspective on the Devil & Demons#8 In this powerful episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden tackles a challenging topic that many believers ponder: what is the true nature of the Devil, and how should Christians view him?
Far from a caricature with horns and a pitchfork, the Devil represents a real and complex adversary. Paul explores two contrasting views on Satan: one that instills fear and another that reveals the Devil’s limitations in light of Jesus’ victory. This episode encourages listeners to live confidently, armed with biblical truths about evil and the power of Christ.
Unpacking the Devil’s role...
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2024-11-0337 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramLiberal or Conservative? Understanding Jesus Beyond Political Labels#7 In this timely episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, host Paul Basden addresses a question many believers wrestle with: where would Jesus fit on today’s political spectrum? Raised in a world that often labels Christ as either liberal or conservative, Christians find themselves divided and challenged by these simplistic views.
Join us as Paul dives deep into the teachings of Jesus, exploring a perspective that transcends modern political divisions and illuminates His true message.
Key moments in Jesus' ministry that challenge political labels
Biblical insights on authority, justice, and compassion
Discovering a balanced approach that pr...
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2024-10-2035 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramCelebrity Pastors: When Shepherds Lose Their Way
#6 In this thought-provoking episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, join host Paul Basden as he tackles the controversial topic of celebrity pastors.
Explore the dangers of idolizing religious leaders and discover the biblical model for pastoral ministry.
Understanding the true role of pastors as shepherds
Biblical examples of good and bad shepherds
The dangers of fame and fortune in ministry
Balancing pastoral compensation with servant leadership
Recognizing the signs of a pastor losing their way
Perfect for believers seeking to understand the proper role of church leadership and how to support their pastors in a...
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2024-10-1338 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramCreation vs. Evolution: Finding Faith in the Age of Science (Part 2)#5 In this thought-provoking episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, join host Paul Basden as he continues the discussion on Creation and Evolution. Building on last week's foundation, Paul explores how Christians can thoughtfully engage with evolutionary theory while maintaining strong biblical faith.
Understanding God-guided vs. atheistic evolution
How God works both directly and indirectly in creation
The Christocentric view of creation
Historical Christian perspectives on evolution
Engaging in grace-filled discussions about origins
Perfect for believers seeking to reconcile scientific understanding with biblical faith, or anyone wrestling with questions about evolution and Christianity. Learn how to approach this...
2024-10-1008 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramCreation vs. Evolution: Finding Faith in the Age of Science (Part 1)#4 In this thought-provoking episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, join host Paul Basden as he tackles the complex relationship between biblical Creation and modern science. This first installment of a two-part series explores the foundational aspects of the Creation doctrine and how Christians can approach this often controversial topic with grace and wisdom.
Understanding the purpose vs. process of Creation
Different Christian perspectives on Genesis 1-2
Reconciling biblical faith with scientific discovery
The ongoing nature of God's creative work
Engaging in Creation discussions with grace and understanding
Perfect for believers wrestling with questions about faith and science...
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2024-09-2941 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramBeyond the Ballot: Christian Ethics in a Political World#3 In this thought-provoking episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christians, join host Paul Basden as he dives into the complex world of politics through a Christian lens. Explore how faith intersects with political engagement and discover a balanced approach to civic participation.
Biblical views on government and authority
Jesus' teachings on earthly and heavenly kingdoms
Balancing political involvement with spiritual priorities
Praying for leaders across the political spectrum
Engaging in political discourse with grace and wisdom
Perfect for believers seeking to navigate today's polarized political landscape while staying true to their faith. Learn how to be salt and l...
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2024-09-2243 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramRedefining Tolerance: A Christian Perspective#2 In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the often misunderstood concept of tolerance from a Christian perspective. Discover why tolerance isn't about accepting every idea as equally valid, but rather about treating people with dignity and respect despite our differences.
Key points covered:
The true meaning of tolerance in today's world
How to stand firm in your faith while showing Christ-like love to others
Biblical insights on balancing truth and love in our interactions
Whether you're grappling with difficult conversations or seeking to engage more effectively with diverse viewpoints, this episode offers valuable insights for...
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2024-09-1539 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramNationalism vs. Patriotism: A Christian Perspective
#1 On today's episode of Uncomfortable Conversations for Christian host Paul Basden sits down to explore the controversial topic of nationalism. Dive deep into the biblical view of national loyalty and discover the fine line between healthy patriotism and idolatrous nationalism. Learn how to love your country while keeping God first, and understand the dangers of misplaced devotion. We'll discuss:
The difference between nationalism and patriotism
Biblical citizenship and heavenly allegiance
Balancing national pride with Christian values
Praying for leaders without blind loyalty
Embracing a global Christian perspective
Perfect for believers seeking to navigate today's politically charged climate...
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2024-09-0142 minWhy Do I Do What I Do? Exploring the EnneagramUncomfortable Conversations IntroWhether you're struggling with divisive issues or seeking to improve your communication skills, this episode offers valuable insights for believers and skeptics alike. Learn how to approach uncomfortable conversations with wisdom, empathy, and love.
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Modern Church LeaderHow Co-Pastors Can Effectively Minister Together with Jim Johnson and Paul BasdenClick here to view the full show notes and transcript for this episode.Co-pastoring is commonly done but often not talked about.It's a responsibility that can be challenging, life-changing, and rewarding all at the same time. This is especially true if you are just getting started with your church from the ground up.So what does it take to succeed in co-pastoring a new church?As with any relationship, communication is the key. They have to be willing to discuss everything, big or small, no matter how uncomfortable it may...
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