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Real People Real TalkSlowmaxxing: Thriving without the RushToday we are talking about Slowmaxxing: a way of maximizing your life—not by cramming more into your day, not by hustling until you’re exhausted, but by slowing down, being intentional, and focusing on what truly matters. The host, Paul, will unpack why slowing down is essential for your mental and emotional well-being. Practical tips and strategies are brought to the forefront to help you adopt a slower, more mindful lifestyle. Learn how mindful eating, regular unplugging from technology, and the "one thing rule" can significantly enhance focus and reduce anxiety. By embracing a sustainable pace...2025-02-1524 min
Vantage Point PodcastSummer Takeover 2024: Relevant Reminders (Pastor Paul Calcote)Summer, summer, summertime!! It's Takeover Season 2024!! Our signature series is back for a 4th year with a new look as we also celebrate 5 years of Vantage Point Podcast! #takeoverseason2024 is coming in hot with 9 epiosdes this summer, you'll get to hear some familiar voices on the Vantage Point stage, as well as some new ones. We have pastors, authors, next gen, influencers, and a few surprises, so lock in and buckle up! This is our Series Finale for #takeoverseason, and episode 9 please welcome back Pastor and Podcaster, Paul Calcote.Special Guest: Paul Calcote.Support Vantage...2024-07-3123 min
Real People Real TalkSpiritual WarfareToday episode is all about thriving in Spiritual warfare.Your host Paul will discusses the participants of Spiritual Warfare as well as how to prepare for and win in this Battle. Key Scripture: Ephesians 6:10-12 "10 Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. 11 Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. 12 For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual for...2024-01-0325 min
Real People Real TalkA Life Worthy of the GospelIn this text Paul admonishes us to live a Christ-centered life that includes 3 specific characteristics. Commitment to Unity. Courage in the Face of Opposition Contentment in the Midst of Suffering.Philippians 1:27-30 " Only let your manner of life be worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or am absent, I may hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving side by side for the faith of the gospel, 28 and not frightened in anything by your opponents. This is a clear...2023-09-1320 minReal People Real TalkA Lifestyle of WorshipToday's episode is all about worship as your host, Paul, seeks to answer 2 questions.What is Worship?Why do we worship?Worship is so much more that the music that we sing, and Worship is so much more than what we do on Sunday mornings at Church, But true Worship is a lifestyle, it’s something we should do every day!Scripture MentionedRomans 12:1-2 “I appeal to you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a...2023-08-3120 minReal People Real TalkThe Rhythm of RestRest is essential to your Spiritual, Physical, and Emotional health, so tune in as the host, Paul Calcote, discusses the benefits of rest. Scripture from today's episodePsalms 62:1 “Truly my soul finds rest in God; my salvation comes from him.”Matthew 11:28-30 “Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy...2023-05-2414 min
Real People Real TalkWho is God?In this episode Pastor Paul seeks to answer 3 questions Who is God? How Do We know Him?Why Does it Matter? Quotes and Scripture from this episode John 17:3 “And this is eternal life, that they know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom you have sent.”Ex 15:11 “Who is like you, O Lord, among the gods Who is like you, majestic in holiness, awesome in glorious deeds, doing wonders?”Charles Spurgeon “Those who question the study of God fail to see how practical and relevant it is in their lives...2023-04-2525 min
Real People Real TalkThe 7 Last Sayings of Jesus on the Cross!It’s Good Friday! In this episode I am taking you to Church. I’ve invited some friends and we are preaching on The Last 7 Sayings of Jesus Christ. These are the last 7 things Jesus said before dying on the cross.“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." By Paul Calcote“Today shalt thou be with Me in paradise.” By Devin Boone. “Woman, behold thy Son.” By Krishna Boone “My God, my God, why hast Thou forsaken Me?” By Drey Clark “I thirst.” By Sahil David “It is finished.” By Paul Calcote“Father, into Thy hands I commend My spirit.” By Dr. LaTanya M...2023-04-0735 min
Real People Real TalkBaecation Do's & Don'tsA Baecation is a vacation that you take with your bae\boo\significant other. In this episode Paul & Arielle share travel tips for couples.Don’t leave God outCollaboratePlan but don't over plan. Make a Budget Make room to rest and relaxGet out of your comfort zone Leave work at homeCapture the moment Resolve conflict ASAPAvoid the "post vacation blues" If this podcast ministry has been a blessing to you, would you consider supporting us by becoming a Patron, fancy word for monthly donor. You can click the link below to set it up, takes l...2021-11-1724 min
Real People Real TalkThe Do's & Don'ts of Biblical FastingFasting is a powerful spiritual discipline taught and modeled by Jesus. Fasting is also one of the more neglected spiritual disciplines honestly. Tune in as the host, Paul Calcote, discusses the Do's & Don'ts fasting and answers the following questions: How long to fast? Types of fast? Why should we fast? When to fast?Quotes from this episode"Fasting means going without food for spiritual purposes""When we fast, we are expressing and demonstrating our obedience, worship, and love to God""Fasting makes us more sensitive to the voice and timing of the Holy Spirit" 2021-11-0315 min
Real People Real TalkCalled to Create!You have been Called to Create! God is ultimate creator and we have been designed in His image therefore whether we realize it or not, we are creative and we have creativity, we just have to tap into it. Tune in as your host Paul chats with Creative Pastor and fellow Podcaster Koby Dickenson. Connect with Kobyhttps://www.instagram.com/kobydickensonhttps://sbtexas.com/resources/calledcreative/Top QuotesColossians 3:23 "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men,""Make yourself available to Go...2021-09-2242 min
Real People Real Talk“He Saw That It Was Good” w/ Sho Baraka“He Saw That It Was Good” w/ Sho Baraka. Today’s conversation is all about Calling, Creativity, & Purpose. God is the Ultimate Creator. He created you therefore you have creativity & purpose. So please don't believe the lie that your work is too small or insignificant. There's no higher calling than the call of God. So be and do all that God has called you to be and do. Tune in and be encouraged!Sho Baraka is a globally recognized recording artist, performer, culture curator, activist, and writer. His work combines his artistic platform with h...2021-09-1532 min
Real People Real TalkJesus Changes Everything!Jesus changes everything! Tune in as we explore and unpack the transformative power of the Gospel, demonstrated in the life of Paul in Acts 9:1-8. One encounter with Christ will change you for ever and it will change your forever. Other episodes mentioned "How to Know God's Will for Your Life"https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/7120309For more great content, follow the Host Paul Calcote on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/paulwcalcote/If this podcast ministry has been a blessing to you and if you have been enjoying the c...2021-09-0116 minReal People Real TalkFrom Surviving to ThrivingHello Thriver! In this episode the host, Paul Calcote. gives his favorite practical tips to go from Surviving to Thriving: Spiritually, Physically, Relationally, Mentally, and Financially.If this podcast ministry has been a blessing to you, would you consider making a donation towards our podcast fund. Our ministry cash app is $realpeoplerealtalk A non-monetary way to help us would be to simply share this podcast with your friends and family and your social media inviting them to take a listen Thank you in advance!Episodes mentioned: Prayer Still Wor...2021-06-2307 min
Real People Real TalkNormalize FailureLet's Normalize Failure as failures are simply pitstops along the road to success. It's important to note that failure isn’t final, it's an opportunity to learn, grow, and do better next time. In this episode we define "failure" and "success" while sharing personal stories of failures that actually led to valuable lessons learned. If you want to know how to bounce back from a loss then tune in. Top quotes"Sometimes failure is God's protection and redirection in your life." Nicole "Don’t let the fear of failure cause you to miss out...2021-06-1621 min
Real People Real TalkMENtal Health pt 2Welcome to MENtal Health pt 2. This episode features an uplifting & transparent conversation designed to help you to thrive mentally & emotionally. We keep it real, relevant and relatable! Although this episode focuses primarily on men, women are invited and welcomed to tune in as well, so you can better understand the men in your life. If you haven't, go back and listen to part 1 for the full conversation. Connect with the guests:Irvin Wasswa https://www.instagram.com/irvman116/Bryan Saint-Louis https://linktr.ee/Madcasters https://www.instagram.com/bryan_bsl...2021-06-0935 min
Real People Real TalkMENtal Health pt 1According to WHO, three times as many men as women die by suicide and men are less likely to access psychological therapies than women, it’s time to talk about this. Since June is recognized as Mens health month, We decided to have a man cave discussion about MENtal Health. This episode features an uplifting & transparent conversation designed to help you to thrive mentally & emotionally. If you are a woman, this would be good for you to hear as well, so you can better understand the men in your life. Our guests today open up about their...2021-06-0237 min
Real People Real TalkTrust the ProcessToday we celebrate our 1 Year Podcast Anniversary! Thank you so much for tuning in each week. In this episode, "Trust the Process" my wife and I share a little bit of our journey and take you behind the scenes of the origins of Real People Real Talk. It's more than a podcast, it's a ministry. I'll also share some practical nuggets as it relates walking in purpose and answering God's call on your life. Top quotes:"Vent joy: lets go beyond venting about our complaints but lets vent about the things that br...2021-05-2620 min
Real People Real TalkTreat Yourself! #selfcareSince May is Mental Health Awareness month, we wanted to remind of this truth: It's okay to treat yourself because Self care is not selfish! Join the conversation as your host, Paul, provides a spiritual foundation for self care, share his personal self care routine, while also sharing numerous ways for you to practice self care because self care is the best care. Tune in as you will learn about self care in the following areas: spiritual, physical, relational, emotional, and mental.Related episodes mentioned "Rest is Essential" https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/6871640"Hea...2021-05-1923 min
Real People Real TalkPrioritize Your Mental HealthWe have a value packed episode for you today as May is Mental Health Awareness Month This month and time is set aside to raise awareness of those living with mental or behavioral health issues and help to reduce the stigma so many experience. So we’re going there & talking about ways to survive & thrive mentally & emotionally as you prioritize your mental health. Disclaimer: Today’s episode is for sharing stories and raising awareness, not professional advice Connect with Today's GuestsArshawna Warren https://www.iamarshawna.com/Chemyeeka Tumblin...2021-05-1255 minReal People Real TalkPrayer Still Works!Prayer still works! Since the National Day of Prayer in the US lands in May we decided to dedicate this episode to all things prayer. We’re going to give you scripture, share stories, as well as debunk a few myths and misconceptions about prayer. My prayer is that by the end of this episode you will have a better understanding about prayer and have what it takes to take your prayer life to the next level. Questions we answer:What is prayer?Why should we pray?Does God answer all prayers?2021-05-0542 minReal People Real TalkWhat are You Going to Do with What God Has Given You!?What are you going to do with what God has given you!? This episode will encourage and empower you to answer God's call on your life, to walk in purpose, and to utilize the gifts that He has given you. There is a level of peace, joy, contentment, & fulfillment that only comes when you answer God’s call on your life, using all that He has given you. I want you to ask yourself "What are you good at & How can you use that to bring God glory?" Then get to work! The Parable of the Talents can...2021-05-0317 min
Real People Real TalkKeeping Your Marriage Fresh, Fun, & Sexy Pt. 2Keeping Your Marriage Fresh, Fun, & Sexy PART 2 is here and the conversation gets even better! We pivot into talking about Obedience and Answering God's call on your life. Whether you're single or married, God wants to use you to do great things. If you haven't, go back and listen to part 1 to get the full story as our guests share their love story, offer wisdom concerning relationships, and provide tips to keeping God first in your marriage and your business. Favorite Quote " Obedience + Faithfulness = True Success"Be sure to listen to Pa...2021-04-2837 min
Real People Real TalkKeeping Your Marriage Fresh, Fun, & Sexy Pt. 1Today's episode is all about thriving in your relationships. We get practical as we discuss ways to keep your marriage Fresh, Fun, & Sexy! Today's guests share their love story, offer wisdom concerning relationships, and provide tips to keeping God first in your marriage and your business. This episode is full of love, laughter, and truth, so enjoy :) Be sure to listen to Part 2 https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/8418686 Today's Guests: Hope & Kadero Watson are relationship champions committed to inspiring healthy relationships through love and laughter for people across the globe. After...2021-04-2137 min
Real People Real TalkFaith & InfluenceFaith and Influence is the perfect episode for You! This episode is all about answering God's call on your life. We discuss fear, imposter syndrome, comparison, defining success and so much more. Also, do you want to know how to keep God 1st in your business and how to bounce back from a loss, then tune in! Today's Guest: Michelle Ana is the creator of www.lovemichelleana.com a platform designed for the modern woman seeking inspiration for her lifestyle, beauty, and soul. With over 7 million views on Youtube and six years of s...2021-04-1438 min
Real People Real TalkRelationship over ReligionToday we're talking about "Relationship over Religion" and our guest today has an incredible story about the faithfulness of God. His testimony includes growing up in foster care, experiencing divorce, drunkenness, prison, drugs and more. Now, Andrew F. Carter is a pastor, author and influencer that went viral on TikTok and has over 1 million followers across all social media platforms. Most importantly, he uses his story of overcoming obstacles to encourage, motivate & inspire others. His testimony is proof that God wants to use your story to bring Him glory. Also in this episo...2021-04-0728 min
Real People Real TalkThe 7 Last Sayings of Jesus on the CrossIt’s Good Friday! And in this episode I am taking you to Church. I’ve invited some friends and we are preaching on the last 7 sayings of Jesus. These are the last 7 things Jesus said before dying on the cross.Here are the sayings“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” — Luke 23:34“Today shalt thou be with Me in paradise.” — Luke 23:43“Woman, behold thy Son.” — John 19:26“My God, my God, why hast Thou forsaken Me?” — Mark 15:34“I thirst.” — John 19:28“It is finished.” — John 19:30“Father, into Thy hands I commend My spirit.” — Luke 23:46Tod...2021-04-0239 min
BCI LIVEShoot Your Shot ft. Paul CalcoteIt's Episode 5 of BCI Live and we're still bringing you the news you can use to help you go deeper in your faith and further in your business! In this episode, you'll hear from your pick for BCI Podcaster of the Year, Paul Calcote.
“Who’s not getting fed because you aren’t walking on purpose?” Phew! This is the type of energy Podcaster of the Year Paul Calcote brought on the fifth episode of BCI LIVE Podcast. Paul leads the Real People Real Talk Podcast that empowers people to go from surviving to thriving. In Shoot Yo...2021-04-0243 min
Real People Real TalkMillion Dollar Life LessonsIf you need to be inspired and motivated moving towards success, then tune in, as we are giving you Million Dollar Life Lessons:Define Success for Yourself Pay Attention to your MentalStay in Your Chapter Take Control of your Finances Keep God First Matthew 6:33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.Today's Guest Sebastian J Sanders is a serial entrepreneur, author, speaker, community investor and youth advocate that’s passionate about innovation, empowerment, and diversity. Connect with Sebastian here.2021-03-3140 min
No Trash, Just Truth! - Proverbs 9:10 MinistriesEpisode 80 - Talking Young Adults with Paul CalcoteSend us a textBack in January, we were honored and thrilled to be able to sit down with Pastor Paul Calcote, young adult pastor from Champion Forest Baptist Church in Houston, TX, and award winning podcaster. Paul's podcast, Real People, Real Talk recently won the Black Christian Influencer's Podcast of the Year! Join us as we pick Paul's brain about young adult ministry, keeping young adults engaged in the Word and in church, and helping them to overcome worldly views and bad theology. He also tells us all about his podcast and the award his show...2021-03-2932 min
Real People Real TalkSecure The Bag!Our goal today: to give you practical yet powerful tips that will help you thrive in your finances. So if you want to "Secure the Bag" and keep the Bag, take a listen. This episode is the launching pad to achieving Financial Freedom as we talk about Budgeting, Saving, Retirement, & Credit as well as how to honor God even in our Finances. Today's Guest: Jasmine Noel holds a MBA & spent the last 10 years of her professional career in Banking/Finance and most recently obtained her Real estate license in Dallas, Texas. Connect with he...2021-03-2433 min
Let's Hear Your StoryS1E20 | Pastor Paul Calcote | Shoot Your ShotIn this episode of Let's Hear Your Story, Pastor Paul Calcote encourages others to step out of fear and step into obedience to what Jesus has planned for your life. Paul is the young adult Pastor at Champion Forest Baptist Church in Houston, Texas. He is also a podcaster & conference speaker. Paul graduated from Mississippi college with a B.A. in Christian Studies & New Orleans Baptist Theological Seminary with a M.Div in Collegiate Ministry. He is passionate about empowering & equipping people to be all that God has called them to be. You can also catch up with everything...2021-03-1914 min
Real People Real TalkDating Red FlagsWe are going THERE today as we talk about Dating Red Flags. This episode is practical, spiritual, and even philosophical. If you want to date well and avoid some pitfalls then tune in. Discussed in Today's Episode: The Role of Discernment in DatingHealthy boundaries Should Christians date non-Christians The concept of Soulmates Examples of Red Flags in dating Today's Guests: The Rooted Life is a Christian lifestyle brand that encourages people to build their lives on faith first. Through candid podcast conversations and inspirational online content, long-time friends Dorian...2021-03-1743 min
Real People Real TalkReclaiming My Time!Daylights saving has passed and you "lost" an hour, so its time to Reclaim Your Time. If you want to know how to manage your time better, be more productive, effective, and efficient, then tune in! It's essential that you manage your time well because 1) Life is short, so make the best of it and 2) we will be held accountable for how we spent our time on Earth. 8 Ways to Successfully Manage Your TimeSeek God's GuidancePrioritize Plan\Set GoalsGet OrganizedIdentify Your Time WastersLearn to say NoWrite it...2021-03-1524 min
Real People Real TalkChristian Dating 101New's Flash: Dating isn't a biblical concept! But in this episode "Christian Dating 101" We encourage you to utilize biblical principles & wisdom so you can make wise God-honoring choices in your dating. We also speak truth to and discuss Zodiac signs and "ghosting". Bonus: If you want to know how to respond to a person who says "God said that you are my spouse", then tune in! Related Episodes Living Single Girls Chat https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/8011590Living Single Guys Chat https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/8011632Dating 101 https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/7917592Tod...2021-03-1040 min
Real People Real TalkLiving Single, Guys ChatLiving Single, Guys Chat: Another episode dedicated to the Singles. But today we get to hear the guy's side of the story and these fellas hit the ground running as they give rich practical tips to navigating the season of singleness. We take another deep dive into both the joys and struggles of being Single, while also discussing practical ways to maximize the season of singleness and understanding how this season is actually a gift. Related Episode "Living Single, Girls Chat" https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/8011590Guests Today:2021-03-0349 min
Big Bold FaithDo it Afraid, Get out the Boat! - Paul CalcoteToday we discuss the realness of how fear keeps us in bondage while in our walk. As we sit down with Paul Calcote, a Citizen of Faith and the Host from Real People Real Talk podcast, we not only discuss how to move forward spiritually but how to address fear even when you're a seasoned believer practically. The first step to conquering fear is acknowledging it. When we choose to ignore our weakness, that's where the devil thrives the most. Listen in as Paul, and I keep it real on what it means to live out Faith in Fear. 2021-03-0354 min
Real People Real TalkDating 101Dating 101: the Relationship Series continues: Jordan Scott and Keitra Wilson met at Jackson State University and have been dating since 2015. They join the show today to discuss the Do’s & Don’ts of Dating. We talked about a lot: “Entanglements” “Situationships,” the good old DTR (Define the Relationship talk), what does good communication look like in a dating relationship, and keeping God 1st while dating. Related Episodes Christian Dating 101 https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/8011966"Thriving in Your Relationships" https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/7387870Favorite Quote: "For those that a...2021-02-1730 min
Real People Real TalkThriving in Your RelationshipsHappy Valentine's Day! Some people call in "Single Awareness Day" So we wanted to bring you this bonus episode for those that are single and ready to mingle and looking to be married one day. This episode is all about Thriving in your Relationships. Favorite QuotesMarriage is choosing to say yes to each other, every single day because love is a choice & love is a commitment Don’t go into marriage expecting the other person to make you happy all the time and don’t expect marriage to fix all of your problems. Only J...2021-02-1420 min
Real People Real TalkHow to Win at Relationships!So, how do you win at Relationships!? #relationshipgoals We answered questions like "What we wish we would have known before we got married?" and "What does good communication really look like in marriage?" While also taking a deep dive into expectations and roles. Yup we went there, what does the man "supposed" to do and what does the woman "supposed" to do. Listen to find out! Whether you're single, dating, or married there are so many gems in this episode just for You!Our Guests today, Sia & Tommy Tarawallie, are ori...2021-02-091h 05
Real People Real TalkKeys to a Lasting Godly MarriageNot only did my wife join the episode today, but so did my parents. Pastors Leonard & Paula Calcote have been married for over 30 years, and today they are sharing some keys to a lasting, godly marriage.Questions We Answer What does it look like to keep God first in your marriage?How to handle conflict?What does it meant to submit to your husband AND what does it mean to love your wife as Christ love the church. A few Scriptures about Marriage: Genesis 2:24: "Therefore a man shall lea...2021-02-0346 min
Real People Real TalkHealth is WealthIf you want to know how get in shape AND stay in shape, then tune in! And share this episode with your friends that may need a boost as it relates to fitness. We tackle both sides of the fitness equation today: Diet & Exercise. Thriver, it’s time to invest in your health, because Health is Wealth. Connect with today’s GuestsDarius Youngblood https://www.dyfitness.org/ Brandi Whitaker https://www.brawfitness.net/Kayana Mitchell https://youtube.com/channel/UCrtCcYF6Kv3KKHRB9fNJ-OQ3 John 1:2 "Beloved, I...2021-01-2754 min
Real People Real TalkCreativity, Content, & Criticism with Artist Lil ByronThe conversation today features a young creative, hip hop artist by the name of Lil Byron and he's following his dreams and shooting his shot in the music industry. His music is receiving significant hits on multiple streaming platforms such as Apple music & Spotify.Here's what we talked about: Creating contentSparking Creativity Handling Criticism Faith & CareerThe True Meaning of Success Related Episode Shoot YOUR Shot!https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/7157665Top Quotes"Give God something to work with" Lil Byron "Creativity is all about finding...2021-01-2028 minReal People Real TalkBreaking Family Curses!Today we are talking about Breaking Family Curses with entrepreneur, motivational speaker, and author, Deangelo Collier. His story is truly amazing as God really transformed his life. We even discussed the importance of mental health, self care, and going to counseling...while also talking about people pleasing and learning to say no. Today is all about inspiration and motivation. Whatever generational curses that has gone on in your family can be broken, it can start with you, it can start now, because "if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed." John 8:362021-01-1334 min
Real People Real TalkShoot YOUR Shot!To Shoot Your Shot means to step out in faith and do THAT thing that God has been stirring in your heart to do. Whether it's to write a book, start a Youtube Channel, or launch a business, etc, then do it. Start with what you have, Start where you are, but Start now. Today I share 5 Major Keys to motivate and empower you to push past the fear and the imposter syndrome and Shoot your shot and make this the year of Execution as you boldly answer God's call on your life 2021-01-0622 min
Real People Real TalkHow to Know God's Will for Your Life?Happy New Year Thriver! Have you ever asked any of these questions: (1) Why am I here? (2) What is my purpose? or (3) What is God's will for my life? Then this is the perfect episode for you, because it offers Biblical truth and answers to these questions. We will talk about your universal calling, which is the will of God for all believers: to obey & Love Him and to make disciples. We will also talk about your unique calling: that thing that God has specifically called you to do. Be sure to connect w...2021-01-0425 min
So Rude PodcastHow to Go From Surviving to Thriving feat Paul Calcote - Ep. 31Follow along Paige Ruderman as she discusses the inspiring highs and motivating lows of living in your 20's. Health, lifestyle, career and more are the topics covered here on SO RUDE. We post new episodes every Tuesday so make sure to subscribe.
Today's guest is Paul Calcote. Paul is a young adult pastor out of Houston and the host of the Podcast "Real People Real Talk!" He is passionate about empowering & equipping people to be all that God has called them to be. Today, Paul is joining us to discuss mental health, and motivation.
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Real People Real TalkThe Greatest Gift of AllChristmas isn't about the gifts that we give and receive. Christmas is a reminder of the Gift that God gave us over 2000 years ago. John 3:16 "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life." During these holidays I want to encourage you to stay close to Christ & point others to Christ because Jesus is the reason for the season. Merry CHRISTmas my Friend!If you enjoyed today’s episode, leave us a rating and review in Apple Podc...2020-12-2022 minReal People Real TalkREST is Essential."Essential" has been a buzzword in 2020! Today we discuss why Rest is indeed Essential. We are living in a very fast paced society that is saturated by this "hustle culture" and "team no sleep" etc. If you talk to almost anybody, you’ll see that just about everybody is so busy, we wear business as badges of honor and often brag about the lack of sleep. BUT, if we’re not careful & intentional, we can skip rest, ending up down, depleted, and burnt out. Matthew 11:28-30 "Come to me, all wh...2020-12-1656 min
The Seek God Slay Goals PodcastEp. 23 | Leading & Trusting God's Plan (with Paul Calcote)This episode features Husband, Young Adult Pastor & Podcaster, Paul Calcote!In this episode we discuss:- Trusting God's plan- "Shooting your shot"- Submitting to Leadership- True leadership according to the Bible- Responsibilities of Leadership& more!Connect with Paul CalcoteFacebook: www.facebook.com/paul.calcoteInstagram: www.instagram.com/paulwcalcotePodcast: Real People Real TalkConnect With UsWebsite: www.seekgodslaygoals.comInstagram: www.instagram.com/seekgodslaygoalsFacebook: www.facebook.com/seekgodslaygoals2020-12-1135 minReal People Real TalkRelationship Goals ...UNCUT!Today we are keeping it Real, pulling the curtain and looking at marriage and relationships in a raw and transparent way. We're joined today by Mississippians, Devin & Krishna Boone. They have been married for 14 years. Devin works in Real Estate while Krishna works in credit repair. Be sure to share this episode with your friends that are single, dating, engaged, & married.Topics we Tackled:Dealing with your in-lawsHow to know if he or she is "the one"?How to handle the holidays as a married couple?How to keep the f...2020-12-0959 min
Real People Real Talk7 Ways to Beat the Holiday BluesIt's the most wonderful time of the year...or is it!? We are going there today and tackling the topic of the Holiday Blues. According to psychcentral.com The Holiday blues are defined as temporary feelings of anxiety or depression during the holidays. It can be caused by unrealistic expectations, exhaustion\stress, financial difficulties, nostalgia for holidays of the past, and more! My guest today, Nicole Brown, is a Learning & Engagement Specialist as well as a Blogger & Influencer that shares affordable styles and inspirations to live your best life. Our List Start a ne...2020-12-0724 min
Therapy RouletteSurvive and Thrive Beyond Food Addiction with Paul CalcoteMichele opens up about her own experience with depression, food addiction, and overeating as a coping mechanism. She reveals that when she was younger, she would alternate between eating disorders and battled an addiction to fast food. She shares how she quit drinking soda and started eating healthier. Today’s guest is Paul Calcote, a content creator and host of the podcast, Real People Real Talk. Paul tells us that he regularly sees a counselor for mental health maintenance and to give his wife a break from hearing him vent. He tells us how he likes to che...2020-12-031h 02
Real People Real TalkJ.D. Greear: What are YOU going to do with your life?God created you to leverage time for eternity. It's time to get off the sidelines of life and answer God's call on your life ...right now. Pastor J.D. Greear is the current president of the Southern Baptist Convention, the largest Christian protestant denomination in the USA. Today we are talking about purpose & calling as we dive into his book "What are you going to do with your life"Questions we answerHow does God speak to us today?What does success look like for the Believer?Are pastors & missionaries the only ones called to...2020-12-0227 minReal People Real TalkDon't Forget to Tell God Thank You! Don't Forget to Tell God Thank You! Because of the year that we’ve had, it could be easier to forget about telling God thank you and forget to express our praise & gratitude to Him. The question of the day: Is thanksgiving an opportunity to to express gratitude one day in a year or a reminder to us to be thankful every day of the year? I believe you know the answer. I want to encourage you to practice expressing gratitude on a consistent basis. It's a mood changer and mood booster. Enjoy this sermon & Happ...2020-11-2223 minReal People Real TalkLife Lessons from a Christian Lawyer Life Lessons from a Christian Lawyer: So many nuggets of wisdom can be found in today's episode. I'm joined by fellow church member Mark Lanier. Mark shares his story of balancing faith & career while also giving wisdom related to time management and finances. Mark is a lawyer, author, and founder of the Lanier Law Firm. He has led a number of high profile product litigation suits. He was named 2018 trial lawyer of the year and is the founder of the Christian Trial lawyer Association. https://www.amazon.com/Christianity-Trial-Lawyer-Examines-Christian/dp/0830836675...2020-11-1831 min
Real People Real TalkA Divided Nation Needs a United Church.Someone once said that it's impolite to talk about Religion and Politics, but today we are going THERE and talking about both. The US is divided between red states and blue states, Trump supporters & Biden supporters, but today we have a thought provoking conversation about Unity in the Body of Christ in the midst of a divided nation. Questions we answerWhich political party is the true Christian Party?How should the Body of Christ lead during such divisive times in our nation?What causes Division in the Body of Christ?What does it lo...2020-11-111h 00
Real People Real TalkSome Do's & Don'ts of Social MediaSo, there’s a bad side to Social Media: unhealthy comparison, cyber bullying, arguments, & much more. There’s a good side to it as well: celebrating collectively with birthdays, graduations, weddings and a place to stay connected, do business, and do ministry. In our conversation today we’re going to talk about effectively & productively using social media while addressing some the pitfalls to avoid as well. We even talk a little about "The Social Dilemma" the Netflix documentary that sounds the alarm on the dangerous human impact of social networking. Joining us from New Orle...2020-11-0950 min
Real People Real TalkWhat Makes a Leader\Influencer GREAT?!Since the Election is all about leadership, we decided to devote this episode to all things Leadership, Influence, & Personal Development. Dr. Stephen Trammell serves as the Global Executive Pastor at Champion Forest Baptist Church in Houston, Texas. He has been in ministry and leadership for over 35 years. Speaking as a husband, father, and pastor, he drops so many great leadership nuggets in this episode. There's something for everybody! Whether you're a young professional, student, parent, CEO, or anything in between leadership & influence plays a major role in your life so tune in today!Questions we answer t...2020-11-0430 min
Real People Real TalkBecoming an Influencer w\ Tatyana AliMy cousin, Tatyana Ali is a successful You-tuber with over 200,000 Subscribers to date. She started her channel at age 16, and now she's a 4th year student at San Jose State University thriving as a content creator and influencer. In this episode we talk about what it takes to be a successful content creator as well as dealing with criticism, and the pros & cons of being in the public eye! Connect with the Guest Tatyana Ali www.youtube.com/user/AliTatyanaRelated Episode "Faith & Influence" https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/8330055Connect wi...2020-10-2822 min
Real People Real TalkIt's Okay Not to Be Okay...October is National Depression Awareness Month in the USA. So today's episode features a rich conversation with a Christian social worker & counselor, Hazzel Monterroza LMSW. Hazzel is trained in Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Trauma and Grief Component Therapy for Adolescents, and Play Therapy.Questions we answer today:What are some practical ways to prioritize one's mental health?How can a person know if they are suffering from mental illness?When is it time to pursue professional help? Why is self care important? Related Episodes "Prioritize Your Mental Heal...2020-10-2127 minReal People Real TalkFriendship Goals Life isn't meant to be lived alone. We need other people in our lives, people we can count on, people we can call, people that will pray for us, encourage us, and even correct us. So today we invite you into this conversation about Friendship. Arielle Calcote, Cierra Bailey, & Janell Harville, have been friends since college, over 10 years ago. Today, they share about the Joys & Struggles of Friendship.Facebook changed the way we view & define the word "Friend" so here are the questions that we are answering today: 1) What does it mean to r...2020-10-1453 minReal People Real TalkLoving God & Loving People Pt. 2Today is part 2 of a mini sermon series revolving around Matthew 22:35-38. This message of love is essential, especially during the Election season here in the US. We are most like Jesus when we are loving God (vertical relationship) and loving Others (horizontal relationships) because Vertical + Horizontal meet to form a Cross, where Jesus demonstrated love to the fullest. What does it look like to really love your neighbor? What does it look like to love your self in a healthy and balanced way? Tune in and find out! Today's Text Matthew 22:39 "A...2020-10-1125 min
Real People Real TalkJonathan Pokluda: Welcome to AdultingToday we continue our "Adulting" Series. We discuss Career, Relationships, and Finding God's Will for your life. We also give practical ways for you to Thrive in your Adulthood. Jonathan Pokluda is the Pastor of Harris Creek Baptist Church and the former director of the Porch, the young adult ministry of Watermark Church in Dallas that literally reaches thousands of young adults weekly. In this episode we also discuss his book "Welcome to Adulting: Navigating Faith, Friendship, Finances, and your Future"To check out JP's books and podcast Click here https://jonathanpokluda.com/2020-10-0632 min
Real People Real TalkAdulting 101 Pt. 2Welcome to Part 2 of Adulting! Joined once again by friends Brooke McManus, Ben Fraser, and Frances De La O. The panelists share wisdom and encouragement as it relates to mental health, self care, finances, and relationships. Each Panelist is in a different relationship season--married, engaged, single-- and offers unique perspectives. This is the episode to share with the college students and young adults in your life. Related Episode "Jonathan Pokluda: Welcome to Adulting"https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/5759962Connect with the Host Paul https://www.instagram.com/paulwcalcote/ If you enjoyed tod...2020-09-3046 min
Real People Real TalkAdulting 101 Pt. 1Today we tackle the topic of Adulting. Joined by friends Brooke McManus, Ben Fraser, and Frances De La O, we discuss both the joys and struggles of Adulting as well as life lessons from this crazy year we call 2020. We also talk about Adulting as it relates to career, finances, relationships, and more. This is Part 1!Click here for Part 2 https://www.buzzsprout.com/1113380/5669527 Dictionary.com: Adulting is an informal term to describe behavior that is seen as responsible and grown-up. This behavior often involves meeting the mundane demands of independent an...2020-09-2342 min
Real People Real TalkSpark Your Soul Message with Misty PhilipUse Your Story to Bring God Glory! Today you will hear an inspiring story from Misty Philip: podcaster, author, & speaker! Misty shares how through God's grace she has navigated through fear, pain, and loss and is making a positive impact on so many others. She wrote an award-winning Bible study called "The Struggle is Real but so is God." Tune in and be inspired! Click here for more information about today's guest Misty Philiphttps://mistyphillip.com/Favorite quote from this interview "God can Redeem your story for His...2020-09-1623 minReal People Real TalkSo You Want to Buy a Home?Today we are talking about the American Dream: Buying & owning a home! My guest today, fellow Houstonian, Dwayne Pano took the ultimate leap of faith from a full time secure job to a Real Estate Consultant...in the middle of a pandemic. We talk about the importance of ownership, legacy, and initial steps to take towards homeownership. If you enjoyed today’s episode, leave us a rating and review in Apple Podcast, Stitcher, or Podchaser. We would love to hear from you and get your feedback Connect with Guest: Dwayne Pano with Co...2020-09-1435 min
Truely YOUniqueWhat is Self Love? Ft. Paul CalcoteI had an epiphany and finally got the answers I've been searching for. Find out the answer to the million dollar question: "what is self love?" Thank you Paul Calcote from real people real talk for guest appearing on today's show.
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Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/truelyyounique/support2020-09-1414 minReal People Real TalkCarpe Diem: How to Enjoy Your Life...Right Now!?Carpe Diem! Today we are keeping it brief but full of value & great content. My wife & I share 5 super practical ways for experiencing more joy and enjoying your life right now. Connect with JesusVent about your JoyPlan Your Joy Set GoalsLean into your Relationships Tune in as we elaborate on this list. We just want to encourage you to enjoy and embrace the season that you are in right now!If you enjoyed today’s episode, leave us a rating and review in Apple Podcast, Stitcher, or Podchaser. We would love to he...2020-09-0920 minReal People Real TalkSermon: God is Faithful!Bringing back the Sunday Sermon Series! Today's topic: The Faithfulness of God Today's text: Genesis 12:10-20 I just want to encourage you today with 3 powerful truths!God is Faithful in your FailureGod is Faithful in your FamineGod is Faithful ForeverI don't know what you may be going through today, but I know that God is faithful. He works ALL things out for our ultimate good & for His glory. Keep the faith! One obedient decision at a time. 1 Corinthians 1:9 "God is faithful, by whom you were called into the...2020-09-0619 minReal People Real TalkBack to School-ishAre you a college student? Or are you related or close to any college students? Or are you a college minister? If so, then this episode is especially for YOU! I had a deep conversation with Camryn Johnson from Mississippi College, Moses Gonzalez & Kaitlyn Laarman from Lone Star College in Texas. The college campus is one of the largest mission fields we have, so these students share how they are living out their faith and fulfilling the Great Commission on campus! We raise awareness about issues that college students face such as anxiety, weight-gain, and homesickness. We also conclude t...2020-08-2642 minReal People Real TalkFinding Purpose & Pursuing Your Calling!Have you ever asked any of the following questions: "Why am I here?" "What is my Purpose?" Well, today is a must listen! I'm joined by Geoffrey V. Dudley II, a Moorehouse College graduate that founded a ministry consulting business called R.E.A.C.T. Today we are discussing Purpose & Calling primarily while also dropping knowledge about leadership, rest, self-care, and burnout! Connect with today's Guest: Geoffrey V. Dudley II https://www.reactconsulting.services/Related Episode "How to Know God's Will for Your Life?"https://www.buz...2020-08-2536 min
Real People Real TalkComing to America Pt. 4: The FinaleIn Part 4, we conclude on a high note, sharing about the joys of living in the USA. This international conversation about race, culture, unity, and diversity has been eye-opening and thought provoking! Sylvia, Deji, and Anett give some practical advice for improving racial relations and promoting unity. Listen all the way to the end as each of them bid us farewell in their native languages. Thank you for listening and consider sharing this podcast with your friends and even on social media!If you haven't be sure to go back and listen to Parts 1-3 t...2020-08-2027 min
Real People Real TalkComing to America Pt. 3In Part 3: Seung Yeon Son "Sylvia" from South Korea, Adedeji Akindele-Alo "Deji" from Nigeria, and Anett Bernal from Mexico discuss cultural insensitivity and jokes that aren't really jokes as it relates to their cultures. We debunk a few myths while also diving deeper into the conversation about diversity, assimilation, and inclusion! A few quotes from this episode:Sylvia "I'm not just smart because I'm Asian"Anett "Just because I'm Mexican doesn't mean I like tacos"Deji " While jogging, I shouldn't have to fear for my life" For more great content, follow the...2020-08-1926 min
Real People Real TalkComing to America Pt. 2In Part 2, we dive deeper as the panelists, Seung Yeon Son "Sylvia" from South Korea, Adedeji Akindele-Alo "Deji" from Nigeria, and Anett Bernal from Mexico raise cultural awareness as they share about their struggles of Coming to America. If you're easily offended or uncomfortable with truth, then skip this one :) Favorite Quote "The 11 o'clock hour on Sunday morning is the most segregated hour of the week."For more great content, follow the Host Paul Calcote on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/paulwcalcote/If you enjoyed today’s episode, leave...2020-08-1824 min
Real People Real TalkComing to America Pt. 1Today's episode features an international conversation about Culture, Diversity, & Inclusion. I've invited some friends to share their stories: Seung Yeon Son "Sylvia" from South Korea, Adedeji Akindele-Alo "Deji" from Nigeria, and Anett Bernal from Mexico. In Part 1, the panel talks about what they miss most about Home and some of the struggles of "Coming To America." So, buckle your seat belt because it gets REAL!Favorite quote from this episode: "Diversity is being invited to the party; Inclusion is being asked to dance" (Verna Myers)Full Conversation...2020-08-1732 min
Real People Real TalkDavid Marvin: Navigating the "New Normal" Pt. 2Today we finish up an informative and thought provoking conversation. My guest today leads a ministry that literally reaches thousands of young adults in the greater Dallas area through the Porch, the young adult ministry of Watermark Church. This part of the conversation gets real and goes THERE! David Marvin and I have a productive and progressive conversation about racial tension and racial reconciliation in America and in the Church while offering practical steps that we all can take towards unity and being peacemakers!Connect with today's guesthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/views-from-the-porch/id14134596892020-08-1327 min