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Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 45 - Our Mount Rushmore of Dad SuperpowersIn episode 45, we finally reunite in person and dive into a lively conversation about the weird, wonderful world of modern fatherhood. From late-night guitar solo practice and punk rock nostalgia to R2-D2 builds and DIY parenting fixes, we reflect on how our own childhoods, hobbies, and daily chaos shape the dads we are today. Along the way, we each draft our dream “Mount Rushmore of Dad Superpowers” — including calm under pressure, expert negotiation, and the ever-critical ability to summon snacks on demand. It's a mix of real talk, laughs, and reminders that parenting is part patience, part planning, and pa...2025-04-3057 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 44 – How Becoming a Parent Changed the Way We See Our ParentsIn this episode, we kick things off with our Hygge Question of the Week: “Who is the most interesting person you’ve ever met?”—which leads us down a few unexpected and hilarious memory lanes. Then we put our homeowner hats on for a Would You Rather.From there, we dive into the heart of the episode: how becoming dads has reshaped the way we see our own parents. We reflect on the generational differences in parenting styles, how much more we appreciate what our parents went through, and the way those realizations are shaping how we raise ou...2025-04-1648 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 43 - Navigating Life's Storms - Grief, Resilience, and GrowthIn episode 43, we dive deep into personal challenges that have recently touched our lives. We share the emotional burden of Pete's family's health issues, including the heartbreak of losing our beloved dog, Penny, to lymphoma, and grappling with the complexities of aging loved ones undergoing serious health procedures. Amid these trials, we discuss the resilience shown by our kids and the small joys that light up our days. The conversation also explores our growth through these experiences, underscoring the importance of maintaining a hopeful outlook despite life's inevitable hardships. We also tackle our Hygge question of the day: "Is...2025-04-0244 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 42 - Brainstorming the Ultimate Play PlaceIn Episode 42, we're tackling the tail-end of winter's challenges, from the stubborn snow to unexpected flooding and the inevitable mud. We're sharing how we handle these dreary days and keeping you updated on our family adventures, like Jack's standout dentist visit and Lacey's newfound independence in the kitchen. Derek also opens up about a recent hiccup with a flat tire on Beth's new car that had us scrambling. We're also brainstorming some innovative family-friendly business ideas, imagining a co-working space that's as fun for kids as it is productive for parents. Key Points: We discuss the...2025-02-2637 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 41 - Oversharing and the Mental Struggle of AdulthoodIn episode 41, we dive into the nuances of parenting as we discuss the highs and lows of our weeks, and we play "Would You Rather" with a very intriguing question about the internet. We explore the shifting landscape of parenting in 2025, focusing on trends like the decline in sharenting and the rise of more balanced parenting techniques amidst the pressures of social media. Join us as we navigate the complexities of modern fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of mental health and personal goals over traditional resolutions.Key Points:Seasonal Struggles and Personal Reflections: We share the personal...2025-02-1252 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 40 - Balancing Acts: Family, Creativity, and Fatherhood with AndyIn episode 40 of the Super Secret Dad Club, we start by diving into our favorite culinary creations, answering the Hygge question, "What is the most impressive recipe you know how to cook?" We share some fun things we've been whipping up in the kitchen. Then, we transition to our interview with Andy Olsen, where we kick off with our highs and lows, giving an authentic glimpse into our daily lives as well as Andy's. Andy, a creative professional and dedicated dad, discusses how he and his wife, both with non-traditional schedules, balance their careers while supporting their son Everett’s...2025-01-291h 18
The Living Your Learning PodcastThe Special Guest Sessions | Peter Wakefield | Developing People and OrganisationsSummary:In this episode of the Living Your Learning podcast, Craig McHugh welcomes Peter Wakefield, a seasoned expert in learning, leadership and organisational development and culture. They discuss the importance of people development in organisations, and the impact of feedback and coaching. The conversation delves into defining culture, the significance of authenticity and intent, and the connection between vision, purpose, and values. They also explore the role of communication, fostering a positive culture, and as a leader and manager, the power of self-awareness and understanding people. The episode concludes with valuable advice for people and...2025-01-161h 09Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 39 - Beyond the Everyday: Gaining Insight from a Special Needs Journey with SteveIn Episode 39, we sit down with Steve, a dedicated father sharing the compelling story of raising his daughter, Ella, who is navigating life with spinal muscular atrophy (SMA). Diagnosed at age two and now a vibrant 13-year-old, Ella’s journey has been one of incredible resilience and joy despite the challenges. Steve opens up about the practical aspects of enhancing accessibility in their home and the inspiring victories Ella has achieved, from winning costume contests to advocating for herself. Join us as we delve into a discussion full of insights on parenting a child with a disability, the evolution of...2025-01-151h 25Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 38 - The New Year's EpisodeIn Episode 38 of the Super Secret Dad Club, we dive into the festive frenzy of holiday preparations, discussing how we keep up with the dynamic demands of family life during this bustling season. We revisit our cherished "Would You Rather?" and "Hygge Question" segments, sparking lively debates with questions like, "Would you rather have the ability to undo one thing from the past year or sneak a peek at one upcoming event?" and "If you could be the main character in any movie, who would you choose to be?" Join us as we explore these intriguing dilemmas, share our...2025-01-0139 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 37 - Evolving Roles: The Continuous Transformation of Parenting with JustinIn episode 37, Pete and Derek catch up with their old friend Justin, co-host of Derek's guitar podcast and a dedicated father. Justin delves into the trials and triumphs of raising his nine-year-old daughter, Aria, discussing everything from managing ADHD to her passions for dance and horseback riding. The trio explore the intricate balance of nurturing independence while providing essential guidance, reflecting on the single-child dynamic versus the considerations of expanding the family. Tune in as they share invaluable insights into parenting, the significance of giving children agency, and maintaining harmony within family life.
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Justin’s...2024-12-181h 13Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 36 - Navigating Dadhood: Balancing Family, Health, and Personal Growth with Guest BrianJoin us on Episode 36 of the Super Secret Dad Club as we welcome Brian, a high school English teacher and dedicated dad, to dive deep into the world of parenting. Brian brings his experiences from the classroom and home to our lively discussion, covering everything from health scares to the juggling act of work and family life.
Meet Brian: A high school English teacher and father, discussing the limited resources available for dads in parenting conversations.
Health Challenges: Brian and the hosts share personal stories about handling their children's illnesses and the impact on family dynamics.
Work-Life Balance...2024-12-041h 10Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 35 - Season TwoPete and Derek resume their podcast after a hiatus, discussing their lives and children's developments. Jack, now two, is showing rapid language skills, while Lacey, approaching five, is becoming more independent and understanding complex concepts. Derek shares a health scare involving a complex migraine, leading to a hospital visit and subsequent neurology follow-up. Pete talks about his exercise-induced asthma diagnosis, which has impacted his daily life and activities. Both reflect on the challenges and joys of parenting, the importance of health awareness, and the value of community and family support during difficult times. The conversation revolves around the excitement...2024-11-2059 min
Dayspring Church Audio PodcastIdentity Formation w/ Peter McHughAre you living from a place of belief or just managing your behaviour?Journey with us as we dive into the heart of belief management and how it transforms your identity in Christ. This message challenges you to recognise and explore how deeply being chosen, holy, and loved by God can change your responses to life's pressures. Break free from behaviour-driven living and embrace the liberating power of grace through reflection with the Spirit.Colossians 3:12-14So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put...2024-11-0900 min
Dayspring Church Audio PodcastBeing the Answer to Jesus' Prayer w/ Peter McHughCan our unity truly transform the world? In this powerful message, Ps Peter challenges and invites us to become the answer to Jesus' prayer for unity among believers, referencing John 17:23, where Jesus prays for His followers to be 'perfected in unity.' We're reminded that our oneness as believers is meant to reflect the oneness of the Trinity, serving as a powerful testimony to the world. Ps Peter highlights two main hindrances to this unity: our culture's emphasis on individualism and our struggle to choose love in difficult situations. As we reflect on these challenges...2024-10-1900 min
C3 Church NararaPeter McHugh - Managing Troubling TimesWe hope you enjoy this weeks message by special guest Peter McHugh.2024-09-0850 min
The Pete McHugh ShowFrom the Start to my BdayHere’s another fantastic episode everyone please enjoy and I’ll be back on Monday! I love you all. Be safe.2024-07-1914 minThe Pete McHugh ShowTPMS A Busy WeekHere’s a freshly baked episode everyone enjoy and I’ll see you next week 😊2024-07-1225 minThe Pete McHugh ShowTPMS From the NBA to AIHere’s a brand new episode everyone please enjoy! Have a wonderful weekend and I’ll see you next week 😊2024-07-0518 minThe Pete McHugh ShowTPMS Life & BasketballHere’s a brand make a new episode everyone hot off the press. Please enjoy and I’ll see you next week!2024-06-2821 minThe Pete McHugh ShowTPMS Conversations in JournalsHere’s a new one, everybody. Thanks for listening!2024-06-2423 minThe Pete McHugh ShowTPMS Life in ChatsHere’s a new one everybody. Enjoy the episode and I’ll see you next week. Thanks for listening!2024-06-1428 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 34 - Life Lessons Instilled By Our DadsJoin us for the Season 1 finale of the Super Secret Dad Club! We wrap up with some awesome segments, including our highs and lows, and a Hygge question: "What advice would you give your 10-year-old self?" We also tackle a hilarious "Would You Rather" question: Would you rather your kids say "f*ck" all the time at home or say "how the f*ck are you" once to a teacher or grandparent? Plus, we dive into the top 3 lessons our dads taught us and what we hope to pass on to our kids.
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Highs...2024-06-121h 06The Pete McHugh ShowTPMS New ConversationsHere’s a new episode everybody thinks for listening! I’ll see you on Monday. Have a great weekend 😊2024-06-0723 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 33 - The One About Father's DayIn this special Father's Day episode, Pete and Derek dive into a fun "Would You Rather" question: Would you rather your kids inherit your music taste or your sense of humor? They also share their favorite TV dads and discuss character development in shows. The conversation includes personal experiences with health issues, the origins of Father's Day, and gift ideas ranging from practical items to personalized experiences.
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Music Taste vs. Sense of Humor: The debate on what's more valuable for kids to inherit.
Favorite TV Dads: Celebrating the most relatable and memorable TV fathers.
...2024-06-0559 minThe Pete McHugh ShowTPMS Fresh JournalsHere’s a freshly baked episode. Everybody thinks for listening.2024-06-0421 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 32 - Can Money Really Buy Happiness? (Probably)In this episode, Pete and Derek dive into the timeless debate of whether money can truly buy happiness. They share their perspectives on success, happiness, and the importance of prioritizing mental and emotional well-being. The conversation also covers managing finances, navigating life transitions, and the challenges of affording comprehensive healthcare. Throughout, they emphasize the need for financial planning, budgeting, and personal growth, offering valuable insights for anyone looking to balance their financial and personal fulfillment.
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Money and Happiness: Exploring how money can solve problems but not necessarily lead to long-term fulfillment.
Personal Development and...2024-05-2955 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 31 - The Dad's Summer KickoffJoin Pete and Derek as they dive into summer with a fun-filled episode! From the wonders of 3D printing to nostalgic summer memories, this episode is packed with laughs and heartfelt moments. The guys discuss their fascination with 3D printing, share stories of farm visits with their kids, and reflect on the joys and challenges of parenting during the summer months. Plus, they reminisce about their own childhood summers, from Memorial Day parades to beach pizza in New Hampshire. Don’t miss out on the latest adventures and insights from your favorite millennial dads! This week, we also ponder th...2024-05-2255 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 30 - So, When Are You Having Another Kid?In episode 30, we dive into the all-too-common and sometimes invasive question from friends, family, and even STRANGERS: "When are you going to have another one?" Join us for some straight talk as we navigate these tricky social waters. We also spice things up with a playful "Would you rather" question—would you prefer your kid to know every language or be able to speak to animals? Plus, Derek shares his latest venture into the world of 3D printing, and Pete reveals a killer meal deal find during his latest pizza order.
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Co...2024-05-151h 00Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 29 - Taco Tour, Star Wars, and Tons of Dad GuiltIn this episode, we tell tales from our adventure at the world's largest taco tour in Manchester, New Hampshire, have a huge Star Wars mishap, and unload some real-time dad guilt. Join us as we reflect on the importance of social events for decompression, the strategies we use to handle tantrums and discipline, and our thoughts on meaningful gift-giving for Mother's Day.
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Taco Tour Adventure: We recount our experiences at the taco tour, discussing the variety of tacos and the event's vibrant atmosphere.
Parenting Strategies: Sharing insights on managing children’s behavior with consistency an...2024-05-0844 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 28 - The Cold Hard Truth: Motherhood, Emotional Challenges & Support Systems [Go Ask Your Mother]In this special "Go Ask Your Mother" episode, Derek, Pete, and our guest Cassie dive into the various challenges and joys of parenting. From tackling outdoor nuisances like black flies and garden fungi to navigating the deeper waters of postpartum anxiety, we share our diverse experiences. We also touch on how we manage media consumption for our kids, ensuring emotional intelligence and resilience, and the nuances of balancing cultural expectations with personal preferences on Mother’s Day. This episode is packed with honest discussions aimed at fostering support and understanding among parents.
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Outdoor Challenges: Di...2024-05-0156 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 27 - Dad Rants and Gear GrindersIn this episode, we unpack the amusing yet challenging aspects of parenting and daily life that just grind our gears. We share our frustrations with everything from tricky baby gates to the elusive concept of giving children an 'illusion of choice.' We also ask the Hygge question "What is something that you wish you were better at?" and we dive into our personal struggles with learning new skills, such as music, discussing how the Dunning-Kruger effect plays out in our own experiences. Additionally, we vent about the myriad of baby products that never seem to work as promised...2024-04-2448 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 26 - Dads On Discipline & Gentle ParentingIn this episode, we get back into some highs and lows of a recent work trip and recap our eclipse experiences. We discuss our experiences and emphasize the importance of using gentle parenting techniques as well as two quasi-clueless dads can. This episode features our "Would You Rather" question: "Would you rather always know what your kid is thinking or have the ability to communicate telepathically with them?" We also talk about the critical role of being present and mindful in our interactions with our children, employing strategies that foster respect and understanding while maintaining clear boundaries. Packed with...2024-04-1755 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 25 - Parenting Powwows: Check-Ins and EtiquetteIn Ep. 25 we tackle the intriguing Hygge Question, "If you could see into the future, how far ahead would you want to see?" as we navigate through the milestones of parenting and the essence of parental check-ins. From pondering the possibilities of glimpsing our children's futures to sharing firsthand experiences of their significant 'firsts,' we dive into the emotional and practical aspects of parenting. We discuss the importance of maintaining open lines of communication with our co-parents and finding those crucial moments for parental check-ins amidst our hectic schedules. This episode is a heartfelt blend of personal stories...2024-04-1044 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 24 - Weekend Warriors: Mastering Home Projects and Family TimeIn this episode, we dive into our journey of balancing home renovation projects, managing household chores, and maintaining a healthy work-life balance—all within the confines of our weekends. We share our strategies on leveraging credit card points for savings on home improvements, the challenges we face with specific renovation tasks, and how we strike a balance between the endless cycle of household tasks and quality time with our families. From considering new laundry services to fine-tuning our weekend routines to prioritize family fun over chores, this episode is a deep dive into tips for dads aiming to navigate th...2024-04-0341 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 23 - Dad Chef: Cooking, Food & All Things KitchenIn this episode, we dive into a "Would You Rather" segment with a unique parenting twist, debating over the choice between a magical bedtime routine that ensures our kids fall asleep instantly or a cure for all temper tantrums. Our conversation naturally unfolds to cover a broad spectrum of parenting challenges, including the trials of managing tantrums, the struggle of adjusting sleep schedules, and the impacts of inconsistent childcare. Beyond the realm of parenting, we also share our personal experiences with food routines, recipes, and meal prep. We discuss everything from our cooking preferences and techniques to how we...2024-03-271h 01Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 22 - Why Is Self Improvement So Hard?In this episode, we navigate the complexities of parenting, digital detox, and the pursuit of personal betterment. We share our experiences with adjusting our children's sleep schedules after daylight saving time, leading to broader discussions on phone usage, the impact of news consumption, and the challenges of political polarization on mental health. We also delve into personal stories of fitness struggles, holistic health approaches, and the journey towards mindfulness and self-improvement, offering insights into overcoming modern challenges through goal-setting and self-awareness.
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Parenting and Digital Detox: The balance of...2024-03-2052 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 21 - Does the "Village" Exist? [Go Ask Your Mother]In Ep. 21, we blend the worlds of dad and mom communities through candid conversations on the complexities of parenting, the beauty of morning routines, and the ever-persistent challenge of finding balance in work-from-home life. Special guest Bethany, Derek's wife, joins us for the much-anticipated "Go Ask Your Mother" segment, where she offers a refreshing perspective on motherhood, including insights into the "mom village" and navigating "mom guilt."
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Coffee or Patience?: We kick things off with a playful "Would You Rather" question about choosing between a never-ending supply of coffee or patience, sparking a lively...2024-03-131h 00Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 20 - Coffee, Morning Routines & Remote WorkIn episode 20, we explore the fascinating idea of introducing an extra month into the calendar and share where we would ideally place this 13th month. We also dive into our personal morning routines, our coffee brewing preferences, and the strategies we've developed for navigating work-from-home life effectively. Additionally, we discuss the ins and outs of parenting, how to strike a balance between work and self-care, and the various ways we keep up with the bustling dynamics of family life. Join us for an episode brimming with practical advice, thoughtful discussions, and the warm camaraderie that the Super Secret Dad...2024-03-0654 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 19 - Man Chores & Power ToolsIn this episode, we dive into the world of DIY projects, chores, and power tools . We tackle the Hygge question: "What song defines our generation?" and Pete gives an update on his current Screen Time Detox. From sharing our favorite tracks to navigating the highs and lows of home renovations, we explore the unique intersection of modern fatherhood and hands-on tasks around the house.
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Pete and Derek reminisce about the cultural impact of iconic millennial theme songs.
Pete gives a screen time detox check-in
We share our stru...2024-02-2856 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 18 - Changing of the Parental Guard [Go Ask Your Mother]In episode 18, we kick off our new segment "Go Ask Your Mother" where we hear the perspectives of moms to help bridge the gap between parental viewpoints. Our inaugural guest is none other than Pete's wife, Rhiannon. We navigate the world of parenting with our signature blend of humor and real-life anecdotes, tackling everything from making dad friends at gymnastics class to childhood traumas induced by movies like "My Girl." Join us as we navigate the highs and lows of parenthood and gain insights from a fresh perspective. Plus, don't forget to join our Discord server to continue the...2024-02-2154 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 17 - Single Dadding for a WeekIn episode 17, we tackle the challenges of single parenting when our wives were sidelined by illness, leaving us to navigate the ups and downs of solo childcare amidst our already hectic lives. From bedtime battles to managing household tasks, we discuss the struggles and triumphs of fatherhood during trying times. Join us as we share our experiences, coping mechanisms, and the importance of finding moments of catharsis amidst the chaos. Plus, don't miss out on our lively "Would You Rather" segment and the exciting announcement of our new Discord server – your go-to destination for community support and engaging conversation. ...2024-02-1452 min