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Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 51 – Trust vs. Control: The Parenting TightropeParenting often feels like walking a tightrope—trying to keep your kids safe while giving them enough space to grow. In this episode, we dive into that tension between control and trust, unpacking how much of it is really about our anxiety and need for structure.We also bring back The Mess-Up segment, where we confess the parenting moments we wish we could redo—and the lessons hiding in them.Key Points:The tricky shift from rule-heavy toddler parenting to trust-building with older kidsHow our anxiety drives routines, overscheduling, and “perfec...2025-07-2354 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 50 - Where The Sidewalk Ends and the Camp Drop-Off BeginsFifty episodes in and we’re still parenting mostly by gut instinct and Google. This week, we dive into first-day emotions, birthday party logistics, and the awkward art of stepping back so our kids can figure things out on their own.We talk about the stress of managing behavior without overcorrecting, the weird vulnerability of drop-offs, and how AI has quietly become part of our parenting toolbox. Also: we introduce a new segment called “The Mess-Up,” because let’s be honest—sometimes the best lessons come from the stuff we’d rather not repeat.Key Points:2025-07-0949 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 49 - Milestone Season: Peak Dad ModeThis week we caught up on a bunch of highs and lows—Jack’s crushing potty training and finally staying in bed (huge win), while Pete’s gut is still mad at him. Lacey graduated pre-K and somehow beat all of us at bowling. We talk about the neighborhood pool party that felt like the official summer kickoff, the screen time swaps we’re trying out, and why post-dinner walks and shooting hoops might actually be better than scrolling. Plus, we get into parenting hacks, Facebook photo fails, and why bi-weekly episodes just make way more sense. Oh—and one of us...2025-06-2553 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 48 – What Even Is Dad Fashion?This week we pulled on our most dependable t-shirt and asked the real questions: When did we become brand loyalists? Why is everything cut weird now? And does loving a hoodie count as a fashion statement?We also took a stroll down memory lane—middle school crushes, boy band fever, and the exact moment you realized your dad had a weekend uniform.Key Points:Celebrity crushes, from Shania to Obi-WanThe dopamine spike of a sunny playground dayGrappling with the style legacy of our own dadsMi...2025-06-1145 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 47 – What We’d Actually Want in a Parenting NewsletterIf there was a magical parenting newsletter, we’d want it to include honest stories, practical hacks, and at least one tip about how to survive your kid’s bedtime routine without needing therapy. This week, we talked about all of that—plus splinters, the Tooth Fairy economy, and why jury duty felt like a childhood nightmare.We also kicked around what our ideal dad newsletter would include (besides strong coffee and a diagram for potty training in public).Key Points:Childhood fears we’re now reliving through our kidsPotty training...2025-05-2843 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 46 - Raising Resilient Kids in an Anxious WorldIn this episode, we reflect on what it means to prepare our kids for a changing world without overwhelming them — or ourselves. Derek shares the big news about expecting baby #2 and how it feels totally different from becoming a first-time dad during the pandemic. We talk through the evolving approach to parenting — especially when it comes to over-explaining, managing emotions, and letting our kids build resilience without dumping our adult stress on them. From personal growth to screen time, we’re figuring out how to stay grounded while raising emotionally strong kids.🔗 Join the conversation in our Discord...2025-05-141h 08Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 45 - Our Mount Rushmore of Dad SuperpowersIn episode 45, we finally reunite in person and dive into a lively conversation about the weird, wonderful world of modern fatherhood. From late-night guitar solo practice and punk rock nostalgia to R2-D2 builds and DIY parenting fixes, we reflect on how our own childhoods, hobbies, and daily chaos shape the dads we are today. Along the way, we each draft our dream “Mount Rushmore of Dad Superpowers” — including calm under pressure, expert negotiation, and the ever-critical ability to summon snacks on demand. It's a mix of real talk, laughs, and reminders that parenting is part patience, part planning, and pa...2025-04-3057 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 44 – How Becoming a Parent Changed the Way We See Our ParentsIn this episode, we kick things off with our Hygge Question of the Week: “Who is the most interesting person you’ve ever met?”—which leads us down a few unexpected and hilarious memory lanes. Then we put our homeowner hats on for a Would You Rather.From there, we dive into the heart of the episode: how becoming dads has reshaped the way we see our own parents. We reflect on the generational differences in parenting styles, how much more we appreciate what our parents went through, and the way those realizations are shaping how we raise ou...2025-04-1648 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 43 - Navigating Life's Storms - Grief, Resilience, and GrowthIn episode 43, we dive deep into personal challenges that have recently touched our lives. We share the emotional burden of Pete's family's health issues, including the heartbreak of losing our beloved dog, Penny, to lymphoma, and grappling with the complexities of aging loved ones undergoing serious health procedures. Amid these trials, we discuss the resilience shown by our kids and the small joys that light up our days. The conversation also explores our growth through these experiences, underscoring the importance of maintaining a hopeful outlook despite life's inevitable hardships. We also tackle our Hygge question of the day: "Is...2025-04-0244 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 42 - Brainstorming the Ultimate Play PlaceIn Episode 42, we're tackling the tail-end of winter's challenges, from the stubborn snow to unexpected flooding and the inevitable mud. We're sharing how we handle these dreary days and keeping you updated on our family adventures, like Jack's standout dentist visit and Lacey's newfound independence in the kitchen. Derek also opens up about a recent hiccup with a flat tire on Beth's new car that had us scrambling. We're also brainstorming some innovative family-friendly business ideas, imagining a co-working space that's as fun for kids as it is productive for parents. Key Points: We discuss the...2025-02-2637 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 41 - Oversharing and the Mental Struggle of AdulthoodIn episode 41, we dive into the nuances of parenting as we discuss the highs and lows of our weeks, and we play "Would You Rather" with a very intriguing question about the internet. We explore the shifting landscape of parenting in 2025, focusing on trends like the decline in sharenting and the rise of more balanced parenting techniques amidst the pressures of social media. Join us as we navigate the complexities of modern fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of mental health and personal goals over traditional resolutions.Key Points:Seasonal Struggles and Personal Reflections: We share the personal...2025-02-1252 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 40 - Balancing Acts: Family, Creativity, and Fatherhood with AndyIn episode 40 of the Super Secret Dad Club, we start by diving into our favorite culinary creations, answering the Hygge question, "What is the most impressive recipe you know how to cook?" We share some fun things we've been whipping up in the kitchen. Then, we transition to our interview with Andy Olsen, where we kick off with our highs and lows, giving an authentic glimpse into our daily lives as well as Andy's. Andy, a creative professional and dedicated dad, discusses how he and his wife, both with non-traditional schedules, balance their careers while supporting their son Everett’s...2025-01-291h 18Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 39 - Beyond the Everyday: Gaining Insight from a Special Needs Journey with SteveIn Episode 39, we sit down with Steve, a dedicated father sharing the compelling story of raising his daughter, Ella, who is navigating life with spinal muscular atrophy (SMA). Diagnosed at age two and now a vibrant 13-year-old, Ella’s journey has been one of incredible resilience and joy despite the challenges. Steve opens up about the practical aspects of enhancing accessibility in their home and the inspiring victories Ella has achieved, from winning costume contests to advocating for herself. Join us as we delve into a discussion full of insights on parenting a child with a disability, the evolution of...2025-01-151h 25Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 38 - The New Year's EpisodeIn Episode 38 of the Super Secret Dad Club, we dive into the festive frenzy of holiday preparations, discussing how we keep up with the dynamic demands of family life during this bustling season. We revisit our cherished "Would You Rather?" and "Hygge Question" segments, sparking lively debates with questions like, "Would you rather have the ability to undo one thing from the past year or sneak a peek at one upcoming event?" and "If you could be the main character in any movie, who would you choose to be?" Join us as we explore these intriguing dilemmas, share our...2025-01-0139 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 37 - Evolving Roles: The Continuous Transformation of Parenting with JustinIn episode 37, Pete and Derek catch up with their old friend Justin, co-host of Derek's guitar podcast and a dedicated father. Justin delves into the trials and triumphs of raising his nine-year-old daughter, Aria, discussing everything from managing ADHD to her passions for dance and horseback riding. The trio explore the intricate balance of nurturing independence while providing essential guidance, reflecting on the single-child dynamic versus the considerations of expanding the family. Tune in as they share invaluable insights into parenting, the significance of giving children agency, and maintaining harmony within family life.
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Justin’s...2024-12-181h 13Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 36 - Navigating Dadhood: Balancing Family, Health, and Personal Growth with Guest BrianJoin us on Episode 36 of the Super Secret Dad Club as we welcome Brian, a high school English teacher and dedicated dad, to dive deep into the world of parenting. Brian brings his experiences from the classroom and home to our lively discussion, covering everything from health scares to the juggling act of work and family life.
Meet Brian: A high school English teacher and father, discussing the limited resources available for dads in parenting conversations.
Health Challenges: Brian and the hosts share personal stories about handling their children's illnesses and the impact on family dynamics.
Work-Life Balance...2024-12-041h 10Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 35 - Season TwoPete and Derek resume their podcast after a hiatus, discussing their lives and children's developments. Jack, now two, is showing rapid language skills, while Lacey, approaching five, is becoming more independent and understanding complex concepts. Derek shares a health scare involving a complex migraine, leading to a hospital visit and subsequent neurology follow-up. Pete talks about his exercise-induced asthma diagnosis, which has impacted his daily life and activities. Both reflect on the challenges and joys of parenting, the importance of health awareness, and the value of community and family support during difficult times. The conversation revolves around the excitement...2024-11-2059 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 34 - Life Lessons Instilled By Our DadsJoin us for the Season 1 finale of the Super Secret Dad Club! We wrap up with some awesome segments, including our highs and lows, and a Hygge question: "What advice would you give your 10-year-old self?" We also tackle a hilarious "Would You Rather" question: Would you rather your kids say "f*ck" all the time at home or say "how the f*ck are you" once to a teacher or grandparent? Plus, we dive into the top 3 lessons our dads taught us and what we hope to pass on to our kids.
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Highs...2024-06-121h 06Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 33 - The One About Father's DayIn this special Father's Day episode, Pete and Derek dive into a fun "Would You Rather" question: Would you rather your kids inherit your music taste or your sense of humor? They also share their favorite TV dads and discuss character development in shows. The conversation includes personal experiences with health issues, the origins of Father's Day, and gift ideas ranging from practical items to personalized experiences.
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Music Taste vs. Sense of Humor: The debate on what's more valuable for kids to inherit.
Favorite TV Dads: Celebrating the most relatable and memorable TV fathers.
...2024-06-0559 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 32 - Can Money Really Buy Happiness? (Probably)In this episode, Pete and Derek dive into the timeless debate of whether money can truly buy happiness. They share their perspectives on success, happiness, and the importance of prioritizing mental and emotional well-being. The conversation also covers managing finances, navigating life transitions, and the challenges of affording comprehensive healthcare. Throughout, they emphasize the need for financial planning, budgeting, and personal growth, offering valuable insights for anyone looking to balance their financial and personal fulfillment.
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Money and Happiness: Exploring how money can solve problems but not necessarily lead to long-term fulfillment.
Personal Development and...2024-05-2955 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 31 - The Dad's Summer KickoffJoin Pete and Derek as they dive into summer with a fun-filled episode! From the wonders of 3D printing to nostalgic summer memories, this episode is packed with laughs and heartfelt moments. The guys discuss their fascination with 3D printing, share stories of farm visits with their kids, and reflect on the joys and challenges of parenting during the summer months. Plus, they reminisce about their own childhood summers, from Memorial Day parades to beach pizza in New Hampshire. Don’t miss out on the latest adventures and insights from your favorite millennial dads! This week, we also ponder th...2024-05-2255 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 30 - So, When Are You Having Another Kid?In episode 30, we dive into the all-too-common and sometimes invasive question from friends, family, and even STRANGERS: "When are you going to have another one?" Join us for some straight talk as we navigate these tricky social waters. We also spice things up with a playful "Would you rather" question—would you prefer your kid to know every language or be able to speak to animals? Plus, Derek shares his latest venture into the world of 3D printing, and Pete reveals a killer meal deal find during his latest pizza order.
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Co...2024-05-151h 00Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 29 - Taco Tour, Star Wars, and Tons of Dad GuiltIn this episode, we tell tales from our adventure at the world's largest taco tour in Manchester, New Hampshire, have a huge Star Wars mishap, and unload some real-time dad guilt. Join us as we reflect on the importance of social events for decompression, the strategies we use to handle tantrums and discipline, and our thoughts on meaningful gift-giving for Mother's Day.
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Taco Tour Adventure: We recount our experiences at the taco tour, discussing the variety of tacos and the event's vibrant atmosphere.
Parenting Strategies: Sharing insights on managing children’s behavior with consistency an...2024-05-0844 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 28 - The Cold Hard Truth: Motherhood, Emotional Challenges & Support Systems [Go Ask Your Mother]In this special "Go Ask Your Mother" episode, Derek, Pete, and our guest Cassie dive into the various challenges and joys of parenting. From tackling outdoor nuisances like black flies and garden fungi to navigating the deeper waters of postpartum anxiety, we share our diverse experiences. We also touch on how we manage media consumption for our kids, ensuring emotional intelligence and resilience, and the nuances of balancing cultural expectations with personal preferences on Mother’s Day. This episode is packed with honest discussions aimed at fostering support and understanding among parents.
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Outdoor Challenges: Di...2024-05-0156 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 27 - Dad Rants and Gear GrindersIn this episode, we unpack the amusing yet challenging aspects of parenting and daily life that just grind our gears. We share our frustrations with everything from tricky baby gates to the elusive concept of giving children an 'illusion of choice.' We also ask the Hygge question "What is something that you wish you were better at?" and we dive into our personal struggles with learning new skills, such as music, discussing how the Dunning-Kruger effect plays out in our own experiences. Additionally, we vent about the myriad of baby products that never seem to work as promised...2024-04-2448 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 26 - Dads On Discipline & Gentle ParentingIn this episode, we get back into some highs and lows of a recent work trip and recap our eclipse experiences. We discuss our experiences and emphasize the importance of using gentle parenting techniques as well as two quasi-clueless dads can. This episode features our "Would You Rather" question: "Would you rather always know what your kid is thinking or have the ability to communicate telepathically with them?" We also talk about the critical role of being present and mindful in our interactions with our children, employing strategies that foster respect and understanding while maintaining clear boundaries. Packed with...2024-04-1755 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 25 - Parenting Powwows: Check-Ins and EtiquetteIn Ep. 25 we tackle the intriguing Hygge Question, "If you could see into the future, how far ahead would you want to see?" as we navigate through the milestones of parenting and the essence of parental check-ins. From pondering the possibilities of glimpsing our children's futures to sharing firsthand experiences of their significant 'firsts,' we dive into the emotional and practical aspects of parenting. We discuss the importance of maintaining open lines of communication with our co-parents and finding those crucial moments for parental check-ins amidst our hectic schedules. This episode is a heartfelt blend of personal stories...2024-04-1044 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 24 - Weekend Warriors: Mastering Home Projects and Family TimeIn this episode, we dive into our journey of balancing home renovation projects, managing household chores, and maintaining a healthy work-life balance—all within the confines of our weekends. We share our strategies on leveraging credit card points for savings on home improvements, the challenges we face with specific renovation tasks, and how we strike a balance between the endless cycle of household tasks and quality time with our families. From considering new laundry services to fine-tuning our weekend routines to prioritize family fun over chores, this episode is a deep dive into tips for dads aiming to navigate th...2024-04-0341 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 23 - Dad Chef: Cooking, Food & All Things KitchenIn this episode, we dive into a "Would You Rather" segment with a unique parenting twist, debating over the choice between a magical bedtime routine that ensures our kids fall asleep instantly or a cure for all temper tantrums. Our conversation naturally unfolds to cover a broad spectrum of parenting challenges, including the trials of managing tantrums, the struggle of adjusting sleep schedules, and the impacts of inconsistent childcare. Beyond the realm of parenting, we also share our personal experiences with food routines, recipes, and meal prep. We discuss everything from our cooking preferences and techniques to how we...2024-03-271h 01Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 22 - Why Is Self Improvement So Hard?In this episode, we navigate the complexities of parenting, digital detox, and the pursuit of personal betterment. We share our experiences with adjusting our children's sleep schedules after daylight saving time, leading to broader discussions on phone usage, the impact of news consumption, and the challenges of political polarization on mental health. We also delve into personal stories of fitness struggles, holistic health approaches, and the journey towards mindfulness and self-improvement, offering insights into overcoming modern challenges through goal-setting and self-awareness.
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Parenting and Digital Detox: The balance of...2024-03-2052 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 21 - Does the "Village" Exist? [Go Ask Your Mother]In Ep. 21, we blend the worlds of dad and mom communities through candid conversations on the complexities of parenting, the beauty of morning routines, and the ever-persistent challenge of finding balance in work-from-home life. Special guest Bethany, Derek's wife, joins us for the much-anticipated "Go Ask Your Mother" segment, where she offers a refreshing perspective on motherhood, including insights into the "mom village" and navigating "mom guilt."
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Coffee or Patience?: We kick things off with a playful "Would You Rather" question about choosing between a never-ending supply of coffee or patience, sparking a lively...2024-03-131h 00Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 20 - Coffee, Morning Routines & Remote WorkIn episode 20, we explore the fascinating idea of introducing an extra month into the calendar and share where we would ideally place this 13th month. We also dive into our personal morning routines, our coffee brewing preferences, and the strategies we've developed for navigating work-from-home life effectively. Additionally, we discuss the ins and outs of parenting, how to strike a balance between work and self-care, and the various ways we keep up with the bustling dynamics of family life. Join us for an episode brimming with practical advice, thoughtful discussions, and the warm camaraderie that the Super Secret Dad...2024-03-0654 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 19 - Man Chores & Power ToolsIn this episode, we dive into the world of DIY projects, chores, and power tools . We tackle the Hygge question: "What song defines our generation?" and Pete gives an update on his current Screen Time Detox. From sharing our favorite tracks to navigating the highs and lows of home renovations, we explore the unique intersection of modern fatherhood and hands-on tasks around the house.
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Pete and Derek reminisce about the cultural impact of iconic millennial theme songs.
Pete gives a screen time detox check-in
We share our stru...2024-02-2856 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 18 - Changing of the Parental Guard [Go Ask Your Mother]In episode 18, we kick off our new segment "Go Ask Your Mother" where we hear the perspectives of moms to help bridge the gap between parental viewpoints. Our inaugural guest is none other than Pete's wife, Rhiannon. We navigate the world of parenting with our signature blend of humor and real-life anecdotes, tackling everything from making dad friends at gymnastics class to childhood traumas induced by movies like "My Girl." Join us as we navigate the highs and lows of parenthood and gain insights from a fresh perspective. Plus, don't forget to join our Discord server to continue the...2024-02-2154 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 17 - Single Dadding for a WeekIn episode 17, we tackle the challenges of single parenting when our wives were sidelined by illness, leaving us to navigate the ups and downs of solo childcare amidst our already hectic lives. From bedtime battles to managing household tasks, we discuss the struggles and triumphs of fatherhood during trying times. Join us as we share our experiences, coping mechanisms, and the importance of finding moments of catharsis amidst the chaos. Plus, don't miss out on our lively "Would You Rather" segment and the exciting announcement of our new Discord server – your go-to destination for community support and engaging conversation. ...2024-02-1452 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 16 - Night Terrors and Bad GuysIn episode 16, we catch up on parenting and toddler activities, sharing our experiences with sleep deprivation and early morning wake-ups. Pete receives a surprise gift - a Tom DeLonge signature Stratocaster guitar from his family, adding an emotional touch to the conversation. We discuss introducing after-dinner activities like yoga and tumbling into our routines to help our kids develop balance and coordination. Derek shares his challenges with exhaustion and caregiving responsibilities, particularly dealing with his toddler's night terrors. The episode delves into managing night terrors in toddlers and older children, along with the importance of introducing age-appropriate movies and...2024-02-0754 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 15 - Screen Time Detox for Dads: Take 2In this episode, we dive into a thought-provoking Hygge question of the day: "Should advertising to children be prohibited?" We explore the complexities of this issue, considering how targeted ads affect young minds and their implications for parents. Alongside this, we address a pressing concern for modern adults – the necessity of a screen time detox. We candidly discuss our experiences with social media addiction, the challenges of balancing technology and family life, and share strategies for achieving a healthier digital balance. Join us for a conversation about the effects of advertising on children and the importance of unplugging and pr...2024-01-3149 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 14 - Dads At Home: WFH and SAHD LifeIn this episode, we take you through the highs and lows of being a stay-at-home dad while juggling the demands of working from home. We kick things off with a hilarious trip down memory lane, reminiscing about the best $100 purchases we've ever made. Then, we dive deep into the world of remote work, exploring its benefits and challenges, especially when you're parenting at the same time. From identity crises to setting boundaries and maintaining a work-life balance, we share our experiences, tips, and tricks to help fellow millennial parents navigate this unique journey. So grab your headphones, join the...2024-01-2449 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 13 - Modern Dads: Striving For PerfectionIn episode 13, we embark on a candid discussion about our journey as dads striving for perfection in the digital age. From navigating baby gender reveals and challenging gendered clothing norms to the impact of technology on parenting and screen time concerns, we discuss the complexities of modern fatherhood. We also explore the influence of the internet on our parenting styles, from seeking advice to grappling with the delicate balance of screen time and face-to-face interactions.
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Choosing to find out the baby's gender before birth and genetic testing.
The influence of gendered clothing options on...2024-01-1748 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 12 - Dad Jams: Navigating Kids' MusicIn episode 12, we dive into the world of children's music and have a great 'Would You Rather?" question. Join us as we discuss the impact of children's music on kids, explore coping strategies for pet loss while parenting, and ponder the challenges of always having the right words for our children. From embracing lifelong learning to nurturing children's musical talents, we've got you covered in this engaging episode.
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The influence of children's music on kids and parents.
Coping with pet loss while balancing parenting responsibilities.
Handling tricky parenting questions with a "lifelong learner" mindset.
...2024-01-1050 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 11 - Do We Spend More Time With Our Kids?In episode 11, we dive into the question: Do millennial dads spend more time with their kids compared to previous generations? We explore insights from a thought-provoking article, engage in a fun 'Would you rather?' game, and tackle a new Hyggee question of the day.
Our conversation delves into the changing dynamics of fatherhood in the modern era and the unique challenges faced by today's dads. We also take a closer look at comments from various dad groups, offering a fresh perspective on the diverse spectrum of fatherhood.
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Exploring the notion of...2023-12-201h 02Super Secret Dad ClubEp. 10 - Internet Parenting: Evolution or Overload?In Episode 10 of 'The Super Secret Dad Club,' we dive into the world of Internet Parenting. Pete and Derek, discuss whether we're evolving as parents in the digital age or simply overloaded. Join us as we explore the challenges and triumphs of parenting in the 21st century, with a particular focus on the impact of the internet. We discuss baby data tracking apps, screen time limits, and the profound influence of online resources on modern parenting. Get ready for a lively conversation that sheds light on how technology is reshaping the way we raise our children.
...2023-12-1346 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 09 - Dynamics of Partnerships and Parenting RolesIn episode 09 "Dynamics of Partnerships and Parenting Roles", we kick things off by diving into the intricacies of balancing the roles of mom and dad versus husband and wife. While sharing relatable stories and anecdotes, we'll navigate the ups and downs of parenthood, all while maintaining our strong partnership. From humorous food escapades to the challenges of parenting, we explore how our dynamic evolves as we continue on this adventurous journey together.
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Memorable food experiences and how they affect our husband-wife relationship.
The surprising influence of funky music on our toddler's dance...2023-12-0657 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 08 - New Parent NervesIn Episode 08 of The Super Secret Dad Club, we're diving headfirst into the unpredictable world of parenting, where milestones and challenges often come unannounced. Pete and Derek candidly share their hilarious experiences, from Jack's Halloween costume escapades to messy toddler accidents. Get ready for an honest conversation about sleep deprivation, self-doubt, and finding the balance between parenthood and personal interests. Here's what you can expect:
Hilarious Halloween costume mishaps and how Jack stole the show.
Toddler poop accidents, sensitive skin, and the aftermath.
Parenting moments that warm your heart and the challenges that come with them.
Insights into...2023-11-2941 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 07 - Breaking Family TraditionsIn "Breaking Family Traditions," episode 07 of the podcast dives into the dynamic nature of family customs as hosts discuss the personal shift away from long-held traditions to create their own. The episode begins with a brief segment inspired by the Hygge question of the day, touching on solo travel aspirations. It swiftly transitions into the core discussion of evolving holiday practices, where hosts share experiences of adapting Thanksgiving and Christmas to fit their growing families. Emphasis is placed on the transition from formal celebrations to more casual, meaningful gatherings centered around togetherness rather than the date or decorum. They...2023-11-2247 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 06 - Rediscovering Hobbies as DadsIn episode 06, "Rediscovering Hobbies as Dads," Pete and Derek tackle the familiar parental challenge of maintaining personal hobbies amidst the hustle of family life. Prompted by a dad forum's insights into fathers feeling adrift during rare free moments, they explore the act of carving out time for personal interests. From buying a family-suited Chevy Trailblazer to navigating playground outings and T-ball chaos, they share the nuances of fatherhood's busy schedule. The hosts then pivot to a reflective discussion on the shifts in personal identity and interests since becoming parents. They introduce "Hygge," a game segment aimed at spurring conversation...2023-11-1551 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 05 - Confronting Dad LonelinessIn Episode 05, "Confronting Dad Loneliness," Pete and Derek tackle the nuanced topic of isolation in fatherhood. They open up about their children's developmental milestones, with Pete sharing Lacey's progress in story comprehension and Derek noting Jack's use of signs. Both hosts revel in the joys of witnessing their toddlers’ growth.
The core of the episode focuses on the loneliness epidemic among fathers. The hosts get personal about the challenges of connecting with other dads, the invisibility felt in parental playgroups, and the mental health toll of lacking a supportive network. They exchange stories about overcoming social awkwardness to...2023-11-0939 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 04 - Modern Dad ExpectationsIn Episode 04, Pete and Derek delve into the intricacies of fatherhood, setting parenting expectations, and the challenges that come with it. From the simple joys of improved nap schedules and transitioning to solid foods, to the highs and lows of balancing personal identity with their roles as dads, the episode gives a candid look into modern fatherhood. The duo touches on various topics, from navigating preschool dynamics to meaningful connections among fathers. They also share personal anecdotes, like Pete's endearing ballet escapades with his child and Derek's insights from a birthing class. Throughout the episode, they highlight the importance...2023-11-0145 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 03 - Adventuring with the FamIn Episode 03, Pete and Derek dive deep into the rollercoaster of parenting and the unique challenges of traveling with young children. They openly share their individual experiences, from witnessing their children's milestones like walking and talking, to the highs and lows of family adventures on the road. The duo offers travel hacks, including clever ways to keep kids occupied during trips and innovative solutions for the usual travel hiccups, such as ensuring sleep in unfamiliar settings. Throughout the episode, they reflect on the balance of cherishing old moments while warmly welcoming new experiences, navigating the complexities of solo parenting...2023-10-2538 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 02 - Birthday Reflections and CelebrationsIn this episode of The Super Secret Dad Club, hosts Pete and Derek delve into the complexities of celebrating birthdays as parents. Reflecting on their own experiences and comparing childhood birthday memories, they explore the changing dynamics of birthdays in different generations. They discuss the pressure of hosting the perfect party, sharing funny anecdotes, and the emotional impact of seeing their kids grow. The hosts also delve into how social media impacts parental perceptions of birthday celebrations and how modern technology is changing the way we document and remember these special moments.
2023-10-1828 minSuper Secret Dad ClubEp. 01 - Welcome to the ClubWelcome to the Super Secret Dad Club podcast! In this pilot episode, hosts Pete and Derek introduce themselves, their backgrounds, and their motivation behind starting the podcast. They discuss the challenges and experiences of being new dads and share their perspectives on the journey into fatherhood. Pete and Derek highlight the need for a space where dads can have open conversations about the emotional aspects of parenting and share anecdotes, stories, and advice.
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Introduction: Pete and Derek introduce themselves as the hosts of the podcast, the Super Secret Dad Club. They discuss their...2023-10-1131 min