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Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics168 Restless Hearts: St. Augustine and Catholic Parts WorkYou can think of St. Augustine’s heart as an “open book” titled “Confessions.” In this episode, we go deep into his restless heart, sharing with you how well his clear, detailed, and nuanced descriptions of his inner experience reflect Internal Family Systems and parts work so well. As St. Augustine describes his “divided heart” and “conflicting wills” and the stages of his conversion, Dr. Gerry Crete, Dr. Chrisian Amalu, and Dr. Peter Malinoski show how this translates into IFS terms. And Dr. Christian provides an Augustinian experiential exercise. Join us to see how St. Augustine wisdom connects with and informs Cathol...2025-06-161h 29Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics166 Can IFS and Parts Work Be Catholic? Listening to ScriptureInternal Family Systems is extremely popular not only as a therapy model, but as a way of making sense of our inner experience.  IFS does not have specifically Catholic origins.  But can there be a way of understanding parts work and systems thinking and harmonizing them with an authentically Catholic understanding of the human person?  Dr. Christian Amalu, Dr. Peter Martin, Dr. Gerry Crete, and Dr. Peter Malinoski explore that question in these next episodes, starting with Sacred Scripture.  What evidence can be found in the Bible to support the major tenets of IFS?  How might IFS be understood throu...2025-05-191h 31Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics161 Integrity: That You Be One InsideSurvival.  Importance.  Agency. Goodness.  Mission.  Authentic expression.  These are the six integrity needs that Dr. Peter came up with over decades of work with Catholics.  In this episode, we define integrity and integrity needs, we discuss how so many children are forced to choose which needs will be met and which will be denied.   We cover each of the six integrity needs in depth, we explore the hierarchy of integrity needs, and we discuss what kinds of parts are especially focused on each integrity need.  Then Dr. Peter lays out how we can meet our parts integrity needs, and we have...2025-03-031h 28Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics156 Attachment, Love, God, and Parts: Q&A with Dr. Peter MartinReal people, real questions.  Parts, attachment, human formation, marriage, conscience, intimacy with God, connection with your innermost self…  Dr. Peter Martin answers audience questions and leads a discussion in this episode, recorded live.  Join in as a “fly on the wall” for the most cutting edge thinking and research on attachment and parts work, applied to the practical problems and issues we face in both the natural and spiritual realms.  Join us on YouTube at InteriorIntegration4Catholics https://youtu.be/dyG_L4WyON4 to like, subscribe, ask questions, and comment -- we'll connect with you there.  2024-12-161h 28Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics154 Attachment and Learning How to Love with Dr. Peter MartinAttachment needs, problematic God images, parts, systems, love, and security – no one brings these together quite like seasoned Catholic psychologist Peter Martin in this episode.  Join us as Dr. Martin weaves together the leading edges of conceptual thinking and practical application to provide you a lifeline to grip on to and by which you can climb to a new plane of being as he integrates the four dimensions of personal formation: human, spiritual, intellectual, and pastoral.  Dr. Martin brings in the best of secular research and theory, firmly grounded a in a fully Catholic understanding of the human person and...2024-11-181h 21Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics151 Catholic Parts Work: IFS Demonstrations with Dr. PeterWhat does Catholic parts work look like in action? Join Dr. Peter as he accompanies David and Ian as they connect with not only their manager parts but also some of their exiled parts in these demonstrations. These demonstrations illustrates very typical ways of working with parts in an accompanied way. We address themes of safety, fears of looking weak, play, body sensations, the need for excellence, and the importance of mission, among others. You are invited into the “observer role” to connect with your own parts in your human formation as you experience the demo and your parts reso...2024-10-071h 32Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics142 Your Story and Your Personal FormationDr. Peter Malinoski shares some dark moments of his story of medical trauma from when he was 11 years old in 1980 with Kathryn Wessling and Gabriel Crawford from Catholic Story Groups at CatholicStoryGroups.com. Discover the power of exploring stories. Join him for this episode to discover how essential story is to your personal formation. We first discuss what a story is, review tips for writing your story, and offer recommendations for listening to a story well. 2024-07-151h 31Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics141 Integrated Personal Formation at the 2024 National Eucharistic CongressTim Glemkowski and Joel Stepanek, key planners and executives for the 2024 National Eucharistic Congress, join Dr. Peter Malinoski on this episode to continue our series on integrated personal formation and discuss the kind of transformation you can expect at the NEC, as well as what you can do to prepare for it, both in the natural and spiritual realms. We explore how the four dimensions of Catholic personal formation -- human, intellectual, spiritual, and pastoral -- are incorporated into the NEC revival sessions, impact sessions, breakouts, exhibits, and all the other offerings. Finally, Joel and Tim offer you suggestions...2024-07-011h 11Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics135 The Tree of Catholic Personal Formation: An Integrative ModelWhat do the roots, trunk, branches, leaves, and apples of a tree have to do with your Catholic formation?  Find out how these, combined with sunlight, water, and soil, bring us an integrated understanding of personal formation grounded in a Catholic understanding of the human person, drawing from Church documents and the sciences of the natural world.  By looking at an apple tree, we can understand our own formation and where we need to change and grow much better – and not just as solitary trees, but together, in community, in a forest.  Join me, Dr. Peter Malinoski, as we learn...2024-04-011h 09Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics120 Understanding Narcissism More Deeply with IFSIn this groundbreaking episode, Dr. Peter explains how to conceptualize narcissistic "personalities" and narcissistic reactions through the lens of Internal Family Systems.  Looking at narcissism through the lens of subsystems and parts is an entirely new paradigm that makes it easier to accept the reality the unmet attachment and integrity needs that fuel narcissistic positions and behaviors.  Through four case vignettes, Dr. Peter illustrates how both covert and overt narcissism look and function from a parts and systems perspective.  2023-09-041h 42Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics119 Narcissism: Q & A with Dr. Peter MartinIn this episode, Catholic psychologist Peter Martin and I discuss narcissism with a live audience, covering the following questions: 1) What are two primary clinical approaches to treating individuals with narcissism; 2) How do we distinguish between boldness and narcissism; 3) How does one relate with a narcissistic spouse; 4) How do we work with narcissistic family members who don’t believe in God; 5) The importance of feeling cherished and treasured by God; 6) The relationship between narcissism and spiritual abuse in religious communities and organizations; 7) What makes it difficult for a person with narcissism to receive the love of God; 8) what are the di...2023-08-211h 29Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics117 Discover the Parts Who Make Up Your "Personality"Dr. Gerry Crete, Marion Moreland and Dr. Peter Malinoski discuss the relationship among parts and how your manager parts make up what is perceived to be your personality.  Dr. Peter offers a 25-minute experiential exercise to help you connect with your manager parts, the ones who make up your "personality."  Then we debrief, describe our experiences of the exercise and answer questions from our live audience.  2023-07-171h 18Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics115 Unburdening in Internal Family Systems -- A Catholic DiscussionJoin Catholic IFS therapists Marion Moreland, Jody Garneau, and Dr. Peter Malinoski for an in-depth discussion of unburdening, informed by Internal Family Systems and grounded in a Catholic understanding of the human person.  We explore three kinds of burdens -- personal burdens, legacy burdens, and unattached burdens (the IFS equivalent of demons), we provide examples from our own lives, we emphasize the importance of felt safety and protection for all parts, and we discuss the role of attachment theory in unburdening.  In our Q&A with our live audience, we discuss how to approach "hiding parts" as well.  2023-06-191h 17Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics112 Assuaging Raging Hearts and Parts: Managing Anger with IFSIn this episode, Dr. Peter takes close look at an alternative way to manage, work through, and let go of anger, informed by Internal Family Systems (IFS), and especially by the work of Jay Earley.  After a brief review of the major tenets of IFS, we discuss how to work through the different ways that manager parts, firefighter parts and exiled parts hold and manage anger.  We look at the functions of anger in the internal system and especially at the process, the steps of working through and resolving anger held by parts in different roles.  Then Dr. Peter dis...2023-05-011h 15Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics111 Approaching my Anger from the Other Side: Experiential ExerciseIn this live experiential exercise, Dr. Peter leads listeners through an experiential exercise that explores why anger might feel important, necessary, even indispensable for parts.  We look at how anger can develop from parts feeling forced to choose between attachment needs and integrity needs being met.  Dr. Peter and the audience members shared a lively, personal debriefing and discussion of their experience of the exercise.   2023-04-171h 10Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics108 Giving up the Idols We Hate -- Experiential ExerciseIn this experiential exercise, we invite parts of us to share their stories of why they hold anger toward God.  Dr. Peter offers an invitation to parts to see if we can listen to those stories in an open, nonjudgmental way, understanding that there are always reasons for anger at God, reasons that stem from misunderstanding and misinterpretations of experiences.  Parts are angry more at their images of God -- their idols -- than at who God really is. Live audience participants share their experience in debriefing and Dr. Peter also answers questions.  2023-03-2053 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics107 How to Work Through your Anger at GodSummary:  Dr. Peter walks you through the four tracks or pathways Catholics commonly follow with their anger at God, tracks proposed by Michele Novotni and Randy Petersen in their 2001 book Angry with God, and elaborates on them extensively.  These four tracks are 1) Trust in God Track; 2) the Cover-Up Track; 3) the Wrestle with God Track; and 4) the Long-Distance / Disconnect Track.  We discuss how to better resolve anger issues with God through a wide variety of means with a focus on practical solutions.  Dr. Peter emphasizes the importance of God images, felt safety and protection, a sense of trust, the infused virt...2023-03-061h 33Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics106 God in the Hands of Angry Sinners -- Experiential ExerciseIn this episode, informed by Internal Family Systems and grounded firmly in a Catholic worldview, Dr. Peter guides you to connect with your spiritual manager parts who protect you against your own anger at God, getting to know those parts' concerns about why anger at God is dangerous or unacceptable.  This is an important step in the journey to working through your anger at God.  We discuss how to work safely with your parts, with a spirit of cooperation and collaboration, not rushing.  Come join us on an adventure inside.  At the end, audience participants debrief, share their experiences with...2023-02-2056 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics104 Connecting with your Angry Parts -- Experiential ExerciseIn Episode 104, in a experiential exercise, a guided reflection, Dr. Peter guides you in helping your parts who struggle with anger and also parts who work protect you against your anger. Come join us on an adventure inside, where we work to overcome the human formation obstacles to our interior integration. At the end, audience participants share their experiences with Dr. Peter and he answers questions. 2023-01-161h 00Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics102 Helping your Parts Get the Love they Need: Experiential ExerciseIn Episode 102, Dr. Peter guides a live audience to helping their parts get the love they need in an experiential exercise, especially the parts that may have been unnoticed or even neglected. Come join us on an adventure inside, where we work to overcome the human formation obstacles to embracing God's love for us. At the end, audience participants share their experiences with Dr. Peter and he answers questions. 2022-12-191h 02Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics101 A Story about Receiving LoveSummary:  In this episode, Dr. Peter brings together what we have been learning about receiving love in the story of SusannaLead-in:  There is something in us, as storytellers and as listeners to stories, that demands the redemptive act, that demands that what falls at least be offered the chance to be restored. The reader of today looks for this motion, and rightly so, but what he has forgotten is the cost of it. His sense of evil is diluted or lacking altogether, and so he has forgotten the price of restoration. When he reads a novel, he wants either his se...2022-12-051h 04Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics100 Embracing God's Love for Me: Experiential Exercise In our 100th episode, we celebrate by going inside in an experiential exercise. Recorded before a live audience, Dr. Peter guides you through an experiential exercise to help you connect with parts of you that resist God's love. We create a space where you can much more deeply understand the negative, distorted God images that some of your parts may have -- mistaken ways they see God, and how those misunderstandings came about. With gentleness, kindness, and love for your parts, your parts might be ready for your innermost self to be a bridge between them and God and Mother...2022-11-211h 05Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics99 Why We Catholics Reject God's Love for Us and How to Embrace that LoveIIC 99 Why We Catholics Reject God's Love for Us and How to Embrace that LoveIt is so common for Catholics (and others) to reject the love of God, to not let that love in.  Join Dr. Peter for this episode where we explore in depth the eight natural, human formation reasons why we refuse God's love. We also look at what Hell really is and why it really exists.  Through examples, quotes, and an exploration of Dr. Peter's own parts, listen to how this critical, central topic comes alive.  And then Dr. Peter presents the...2022-11-071h 32Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics97 Unlove of Self: How Trauma Predisposes You to Self-Hatred and IndifferenceIn this episode, we review the many ways we fail to love ourselves, through self-hatred and through indifference toward ourselves.  We discuss the ways that unlove for self manifests itself, contrasting a lack of love with ordered self-love through the lens of Bernard Brady's five characteristics of love.  We discuss the impact of a lack of self-love on your body.  I then invite you into an experiential exercise to get to know a part of you that is not loving either another part of you or your body.  IIC 97 Unlove of Self"Mourn not...2022-09-051h 24Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics95 Trauma's Devastating Impact on our Capacity to LoveSummary:  In this episode, we focus on how unresolved trauma undermines and sabotages both our capacity and our inclination to love well.  We explore how unresolved trauma impacts each of the five characteristics of love -- compromising our ability to love in an affective (emotional), affirming, responsive, unitive and steadfast way.  We also dive into how so trauma pulls us to focus inward, and to protect ourselves, undercutting the vulnerability and willingness to engage that are required for deep love and we discuss hope for change.  Lead-in They say love is blind, but it’s trauma that’s blind. Love sees...2022-07-041h 26Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics92 Understanding and Healing your Mind through IPNBSummary:  In this episode, I invite you to explore and understand with me neuropsychiatrist Dr. Dan Siegel's Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB) and what IPNB can show us about psychological health.  We review the triangle of well-being, the nature of secure attachments, and the basis for mental health from an IPNB perspective.  We examine the characteristics of a healthy mind and how it functions, and the two signs that reliable indicate all psychological symptoms and mental dysfunction.  We discuss the nine domains of integration, mindsight, and the healthy mind platter, and I share my exchange with Dr. Siegel about whether and how IPNB...2022-04-041h 20Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics89 Your Trauma, Your Body: Protection vs. ConnectionSummary:  Join Dr. Peter as he explains how trauma impacts our bodies, through the lens of polyvagal theory. Through quotes, examples, questions for reflection and experiential exercises, Dr. Peter walks you through a current understanding of how large a role our bodies have in our experience of trauma.  Introduction I am Dr. Peter Malinoski, clinical psychologist, bringing to you, my listener the best of psychology and human formation and harmonizing it with our Catholic Faith This is the Interior Integration for Catholics podcast -- you are part of it, right here, right now and I am glad to be with...2022-02-071h 19Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics88 Trauma: Defining and Understanding the ExperienceSummary: In this episode, we gain a deeper understanding of the experience of trauma, the impact of trauma. we clarify definitions of different aspects of trauma, various categories of trauma, the immediate and delayed signs and symptoms of trauma, and the effects of trauma.  Then I share an experiential exercise with you to help you discover potential areas that might be fruitful for future exploration of your own internal experience.  Opening Dramatic Short Brief descriptions of the experience of trauma “Outside, the sun shines. Inside, there’s only darkness. The blackness is hard to describe, as it’s more than sympt...2022-01-031h 34Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics87 Scrupulosity: When OCD Gets ReligionSummary: In this episode, we explore the conventional secular and the traditional spiritual ways of understanding scrupulosity, bringing in the experts to define scrupulosity, tells us the signs of being scrupulous, speculate on the causes of the trouble, discuss that standard remedies in the secular and spiritual realms.  Then I share with you my views on it, looking at scrupulosity through an Internal Family Systems lens, grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We discuss how parts have different God images and the role of shame and anger in the experience of scrupulosity.   Description of Scrupulosity Suddenly my stomach tightens up, there...2021-12-061h 37Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics86 Obsessions, Compulsions, OCD and Internal Family SystemsJoin Dr. Peter to go way below the surface and find the hidden meanings of obsessions, compulsions and OCD.  Through poetry and quotes, he invites you into the painful, distressing, fearful and misunderstood world of those who suffer from OCD.  He defines obsessions and compulsions, discusses the different types of each, and evaluates two conventional treatments and one alternative treatment for OCD.  Most importantly, he discusses the deepest natural causes of OCD, which are almost always disregarded in conventional treatment, which focuses primarily on the symptoms.  Lead-in OCD is not a disease that bothers; it is a disease that tortu...2021-11-011h 20Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics85 Perfectionism: Who, What, Where, When, Why, and How Join me as we discover explore all the elements of perfectionism, from its root causes to its surface manifestations, through an Internal Family Systems lens, grounded in a Catholic world view.  Through poetry, quotes, research findings, personal examples and the current professional literature, I pull together many strands into a unified whole to help you deeply grasp the internal experience of perfectionism.Intro The Quintessential Persona    Leanna Smith We are together in this great adventure, this podcast, Interior Integration for Catholics, we are journeying together, and I am honored to be able to spend this time with you.  ...2021-10-041h 16Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics84 The Who, What, Where, When, Why and How of the IIC PodcastIn this episode, I lay out the whole mission and purpose of the Interior Integration for Catholics Podcast -- answering the six central questions so that you can make an informed decision about whether this podcast fits you and your needs.  Get the latest in my discernment about this podcast and the Resilient Catholics Community, where we are going.  Lead in:  [cue Sundancer music] Who, What, Where, When, Why and How -- those are the six questions we're addressing today about this podcast.  Why those questions?  It's all about fit.  It's all about being clear about the target audience for this p...2021-09-061h 03Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics83 The Internal Dance of Healthy GriefJoin me for a deep exploration of the ways our parts process grief in healthy ways, the back-and-forth alternating between focusing on the loss and looking at restoration.  Guided by the work of IFS therapist and author Derek Scott and by using a dramatized example of loss with resulting grief, we will explore the internal interactions among our parts that lead to such a multifaceted experience of grief.  We also examine the two paths of grief that Catholics can choose.  Lead-In Intro -- activation warning What you are about to hear is a fictional dramatization of a car accid...2021-08-301h 01Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics82 The Many Faces of Grief Inside UsThrough a dramatic representation, quotes, and examples, I walk you through how six dimensions of what it means for you to love yourself and others.  By bringing in the pioneering work of IFS therapist Derek Scott, we will explore how different parts within you respond to grief and loss in so many different ways.  Lead in: Lead-in Intro Letter Ron's reactions Intro We are together in this great adventure, this podcast, Interior Integration for Catholics, we are journeying together, and I am honored to be able to spend this time with you.  I am Dr. Peter Malinoski, clinical...2021-08-231h 09Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics81 Grieving is the Price We Pay for LovingIf we love deeply, we're going to grieve deeply.  It's inevitable.  And it's that simple.  So together, let's understand and experience grief better in order to love better.  In this episode, I review the popular models of grief with their strengths and limitations, illustrating them through poetry, quotes, and evaluating them with the best of the psychological research. Lead-in:  We are going to start out with a simple truth.  We Catholics get close to people.  We get close to people We form deep, intimate bonds with our Parents, siblings, spouses, children, our friends -- all those we love.  Last weekend, I...2021-08-1649 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics80 How to Help a Loved One Who is SuicidalThrough dramatic reenactments, experiential exercises and the best of available resources, Dr. Peter brings you critical information to help you better love those near you who are struggling with suicidal thoughts and impulses.  Learn how to be a much better first responder in these situations and to be a bridge to additional resources for your loved ones who are considering suicide.   Lead-in:  Imagine a young man, a teenager you care about, one you really love, a family member or friend, or the son of a friend, comes to you, in distress, and he shares this with you -- listen closely as h...2021-08-0951 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics74 Internal Chaos and Blending vs. Internal Peace and IntegrationIntro:  It is good to be together, thank you for joining me today in this podcast episodeI want to take you back 40 years with me, more than 40 years, to 1981, and share with you an experience I had as a lad, share with you a story and images of that story that will help us understand the topic of today's podcast.  So, without any further delays, its Story Time with Dr. Peter Its early July 1981, I'm 12 years old, really skinny, about 5 foot 5, 110 lbs, very nearsighted without my glasses swimming to the green raft with my swim buddy at Camp Onaway on the...2021-06-2854 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics73 Is Internal Family Systems Really Catholic?IntroductionThe Goals:  We Catholics are to love God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind.  With every fiber of our being, every last little bit of ourselves.  To love God in every internal experience -- every thought, emotion, body sensation, intention, impulse attitude, belief, assumption, every desire -- every internal experience oriented toward loving God. Nothing within us oriented any other way.  That's the challenge, that's what that commandment means.   Fr. Jacques Phillipe:  Searching for and Maintaining Peace  -- may be my most favorite book  In order that abandonmen...2021-06-2152 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics71 A New and Better Way of Understanding Myself and OthersIntroduction Very autobiographical today, I'm going to tell you a lot about me and the mistakes I've made and how those mistakes have brought me to do this episode.  I don't really like talking about myself -- not a lot of autobiographical material in previous episodesI especially don't like talking about myself all by myself in my little studio -- not being interviewed by a host -- the really Competent part of me thinks it's a little weird to be sharing details of my life and my struggles and my mistakes, not knowing who is listening because I haven't met mo...2021-06-071h 01Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics70 Catholic Sex and the Four Pillars -- and the Dos and Don'ts of Sharing about your Sexual LifeIntro:  This is it, this is the last episode in our 21 episode series on sexuality , our last episode of 14 in our subseries on sexuality in Catholic marriages, it has been a long run, thank you for being hereWe are finishing up with our metaphor of the canopied Catholic Marriage Bed And today we'll be discussing the four bedposts, the canopy, and the bedskirt, bedspread and the shams with more examples.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast, Interior Integration for Catholics, is part of Souls and Hearts, our on...2021-05-3155 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics69 Good and Bad Sex in Catholic Marriages: What are the Moral Limits?Opening Questions (connect to vignettes) Cindy wants to know, "Is oral sex okay in marriage? -- My husband every now and then likes it if I give him a blowjob, just for some variety in our sex life and he says there's no moral problem with that and it turns him on, but I'm not sure what I think and feel about that."    Barbara asks "In episode 61, in the story of Jeff and Joanne, you seemed to say that the husband's kissing of breasts was wrong, that it was disordered.  But I like it when my husband kisses my br...2021-05-2441 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics66 Acceptance vs. Endorsement: A Critical Difference in Catholic MarriagesIntro It is good to have you with us, Peter Malinoski, clinical psychologist Weekly Podcast Interior Integration for Catholics Part of our Online outreach Souls and Hearts and soulsandhearts.com Which is all about your human formation, all about shoring up your natural foundation for a solid Catholic spiritual life.  Episode 66 Acceptance vs. Endorsement: A Critical Difference in Catholic Marriages.   we are in the middle of a series on Sexuality in Catholic Marriages, but there is so much in here that is relevant about all kinds of close relationships.  Where have we been?  Re...2021-05-0344 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics65 Why Catholic Spouses Find it Hard to Empathize with Each Other, Especially about Sex -- with Solutions.Intro It is good to have you with us, Peter Malinoski, clinical psychologist Weekly Podcast Interior Integration for Catholics Part of our Online outreach Souls and Hearts and soulsandhearts.com Episode 65  Why Catholic Spouses Find it Hard to Empathize with Each Other, Especially About Sex -- with Solutions.  -- we are in the middle of a series on Sexuality in Catholic Marriages, but don't worry if you are not married, there is so much for you in today's episode that applies to any close relationship.  Definitions of Empathy: Daniel Siegel:  Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the UCLA Schoo...2021-04-2650 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics64 Subtle Ways Catholics Cheat on their Spouses: How and WhyIntro It is good to have you with us, Peter Malinoski, clinical psychologist Interior Integration for Catholics Part of our Online outreach Souls and Hearts and soulsandhearts.com Episode 64 released April 19, 2021 Subtle Ways Catholics Cheat on their Spouses:  How and Why. Getting into natural level issues around our commitment, the covenant a husband and a wife make in a Catholic sacramental marriage.  Brief Review -- Canopied Marriage Bed Description of each part of the bed -- symbolism of each part, what each part represents.   The rock-solid floor in the bedroom is the Foundation -- The presence of God -- an...2021-04-1952 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics63 Human Formation: The Critical Missing ElementIntro:  I am clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski, and you are listening to the weekly podcast Interior Integration for Catholics Today in episode 63, we are discussing human formation -- what is it?  What do you mine it's missing for many people? Windup: I am going to start with a bold claim and a controversial claim.  For many, many Catholic adults in our day and age, in our culture, there is a much greater need to focus on human formation than on spiritual formation.Let me repeat that:  Many, many Catholic adults at this point in their lives need solid human format...2021-04-1247 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics62 Unmet Attachment Needs and Unmet Integrity NeedsIntro:  This is Interior Integration for Catholics, it's great that you can join us, and today we are wrestling with the deep attachment needs and the deep integrity needs that Catholic spouses have. In this life, we all have deep attachment needs and deep integrity needsWe all struggle with deep attachment needs and deep integrity needs -- whether we realize it or not.  And some of those needs are unmet.  They cause us difficulties and suffering and tension in our important relationshipsThose unmet needs are part of being human in our fallen world.    How we choose to handle those attachment needs a...2021-04-0549 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics60 How Well Do You Really Know Your Spouse?Intro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics Interior Integration for Catholics brings to you in each episode the best psychological information essential for your human formation, knowledge that is fundamental in shoring up the natural foundation for your Catholic spiritual life.  This podcast helps you focus inward on your interior integration -- to help you bring together the different parts of yourself into unity and harmony with God in the natural realm.In this podcast, we confront the tough internal questions we Catholics have in our day-to-day lives, we confront head-on our struggles in the natural realm, the ps...2021-03-2251 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics59 Mystery, Covenant, Vocation, and Being "Submissive" in the Marriage BedIntro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics Interior Integration for Catholics brings to you in each episode the best psychological information essential for your human formation, knowledge that is fundamental in shoring up the natural foundation for your Catholic spiritual life.  This podcast helps you focus inward on your interior integration -- to help you bring together the different parts of yourself into unity and harmony with God in the natural realm.In this podcast, we confront the tough internal questions we Catholics have in our day-to-day lives, we confront head-on our struggles in the natural realm, the ps...2021-03-1553 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics58 The Catholic Marriage BedIntro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics Interior Integration for Catholics brings to you in each episode the best psychological information essential for your human formation, knowledge that is fundamental in shoring up the natural foundation for your Catholic spiritual life.  Often said that if you want to start an argument, bring up sex, politics or religion.  Those are the tried and true, sure-fire ways to stoke disagreement among people.  This podcast helps you focus inward on your interior integration -- to help you bring together the different parts of yourself into unity and harmony with God -- so w...2021-03-0839 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics57 The One Main Psychological Reason Why Catholic Marriages FailThe One Main Psychological Reason Why Catholic Marriages FailIntro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics Interior Integration for Catholics brings to you in each episode the best psychological information essential for your human formation, knowledge that is fundamental in shoring up the natural foundation for your Catholic spiritual life.  In this podcast, we confront the tough questions we Catholics have in our day-to-day lives, we confront head on our struggles in the natural realm, the psychological difficulties that keep us from fully loving our Lord and our Lady in a deep, personal, intimate way and li...2021-03-0139 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics56 What is Essential for Catholics to Recover from Porn?Intro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics Interior Integration for Catholics brings to you in each episode the best psychological information essential for your human formation, knowledge that is fundamental in shoring up the natural foundation for your Catholic spiritual life.  In this podcast, we confront the tough questions we Catholics have in our day-to-day lives, we confront head on our struggles in the natural realm, the psychological difficulties that keep us from fully loving our Lord and our Lady in a deep, personal, intimate way. And we deal with these difficult, demanding issues for one primary reason: to...2021-02-2244 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics55 Why Catholics Use PornographyIntro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics Interior Integration for Catholics brings to you in each episode the best psychological information essential for your human formation, knowledge that is fundamental in shoring up the natural foundation for your Catholic spiritual life.  In this podcast, we confront the tough questions we Catholics have in our day-to-day lives, we confront head on our struggles in the natural realm, the psychological difficulties that keep us from fully loving our Lord and our Lady in a deep, personal, intimate way. And we deal with these difficult, demanding issues for one primary reason: to...2021-02-1546 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics54 Masturbation Recovery StoriesIntro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics Interior Integration for Catholics brings to you in each episode the best psychological information essential for your human formation, knowledge that is fundamental in shoring up the natural foundation for your Catholic spiritual life.  In this podcast, we confront the tough questions we Catholics have in our day-to-day lives, we confront head on our struggles in the natural realm, the psychological difficulties that keep us from fully loving our Lord and our Lady in a deep, personal, intimate way. And we deal with these difficult, demanding issues for one primary reason: to...2021-02-0851 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics53 Breaking Free from Masturbation, Part 2Intro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics -- the podcast formerly known as Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!  Interior Integration for Catholics brings to you in each episode the best psychological information essential for your human formation, knowledge that is fundamental in shoring up the natural foundation for your Catholic spiritual life.  In this podcast, we confront the tough questions we Catholics have in our day-to-day lives, we confront head on our struggles in the natural realm, the psychological difficulties that keep us from fully loving our Lord and our Lady in a deep, personal, intimate way. And we dea...2021-02-0145 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics52 Breaking Free from Masturbation, Part 1Intro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics -- the podcast formerly known as Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!  Interior Integration for Catholics brings to you each week the best psychological information essential for your human formation, knowledge that is fundamental in shoring up the natural foundation for your Catholic spiritual life.  In this podcast, we ask and answer the tough questions about the real problems we Catholics have in our day-to-day lives, our struggles in the natural realm, the psychological difficulties that keep us from fully loving our Lord and our Lady in a deep, personal, intimate way. And we...2021-01-2546 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics51 The Top 10 Reasons Why Catholic Men MasturbateIntro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics -- the podcast formerly known as Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!  Interior Integration for Catholics brings to you each week the best psychological information essential for your human formation, knowledge that is so fundamental in shoring up the natural foundation for your Catholic spiritual life.  In this podcast, we ask and answer the tough questions about the real problems we Catholics have in our day-to-day lives, our struggles in the natural realm, the psychological difficulties that keep us from fully loving our Lord and our Lady in a deep, personal, intimate way. In...2021-01-181h 05Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics50 In Search of a Healthy, Ordered SexualityIntro: Welcome to the podcast Interior Integration for Catholics -- the podcast formerly known as Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem! And for one episode, the last episode we called it "Resilient Catholics" -- but there is a podcast out there already called "The Resilient Catholic" so we don’t want to create confusion and division. InteriorIntegrationCatholicsEncompasses Human Formation Radical Transformation Shoring up the natural foundation for the spiritual life Resilience I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soulsandhea...2021-01-1143 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics49 The Secret Impact of our Shame on our SexualityIntro: Welcome to the podcast Resilient Catholics -- the podcast formerly known as Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!  That's right, in this new year we have a new name, and it's fitting because we have broadened our scope to do so much more than help you, our listeners deal with the Coronavirus Crisis.  When this started out. Coping skills, build resilience, not alone-- crisis management.  Now a long crisis.  Now not just about making it through the coronavirus crisisNow we are really about increasing resilience through transformation -- a radical transformation of self, overcoming anything that gets in the way o...2021-01-0455 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics48 Shame and Repentance: St. DismasIntro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth right now, in these days, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   This podcast is about transformation -- a radical transformation of self, overcoming anything that gets in the way of us loving God our Father and Mary our Mother with the trust and dependence of a little child.  This podcast is all about real love in real relationships and it's messy.   I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here wi...2020-12-2839 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics47 Shame and Redemption: St. Peter and YouIntro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth right now, in these days, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   This podcast is about transformation -- a radical transformation of self, overcoming anything that gets in the way of us loving God our Father and Mary our Mother with the trust and dependence of a little child.  This podcast is all about real love in real relationships and it's messy.   I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here wi...2020-12-2159 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics46 Shame and Tragedy: Judas Iscariot and YouIntro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth right now, in these days, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges in our lives and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soulsandhearts.com, which is all...2020-12-141h 11Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics45 How Shame Leads Us to IdolatryIntro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth right now, in these days, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges in our lives and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soulsandhearts.com, which is all...2020-12-071h 02Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics44 Rape, Incest, Shame, and Silence: A True Story Reexamined, Part 3Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soul...2020-11-3056 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics43 Rape, Incest, Shame, and Silence: A True Story Reexamined, Part 2Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soul...2020-11-2355 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics42 Practicing Deep Listening: Understanding King David's ShameIntro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soul...2020-11-1659 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics41 Rewind: Trauma and Shame in King David's ChildhoodIntro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soul...2020-11-091h 01Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics40 Rape, Incest, Shame, and Silence: A True Story Reexamined, Part 1Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soul...2020-11-0254 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics39 The Real, Radical, and Resounding Differences Between Shame and GuiltIntro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soul...2020-10-261h 01Interior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics38 Seeing the Signs of Shame in Yourself and OthersIntro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach at soul...2020-10-1948 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics37 The Silent Killer Who Stalks You from Inside1.      Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide.  This podcast is part of Souls and Hearts, our online outreach a...2020-10-1245 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics36 Why We Flee From Real LoveEpisode 36: Why We Flee from Real Love        October 5, 2020. Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you, to be your host and guide. ...2020-10-0535 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics35 Being Both Big and Small -- September 28, 2020Episode 35 Being Both Big and Small        September 28, 2020. Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski and I am here with you to be your host and guide.  Thi...2020-09-2844 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics34 Radical Receptivity -- September 21, 2020Episode 34        Radical Receptivity       September 21, 2020. Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for being here with...2020-09-2142 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics33 Being Open and Coping Well -- September 14, 2020Episode 33. –  Being Open and Coping Well          September 14, 2020. Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where by God’s grace, you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for be...2020-09-1440 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics32 Trauma, Trust, Treatment and Truth -- September 7, 2020Episode 32. – Trauma, Trust, Treatment and Truth     September 7, 2020. Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where with God’s help you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for...2020-09-0749 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics31 The One Essential You Must Have to Be Resilient -- August 31, 2020Episode 31. -- The One Essential You Must Have to Be Resilient     August 31, 2020. Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Th...2020-08-3147 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics30 How Small and Childlike are We Supposed to Be?Episode 30. How Small and Childlike are We Supposed to Be? -- August 24, 2020. Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem!, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com. ...2020-08-2439 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics29 Magic Genie Gods and Party-Pooper Gods -- August 17, 2020Episode 29. Magic Genie Gods and Party-Pooper Gods, August 17, 2020. Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for being h...2020-08-1739 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics28 Police Detective Gods, Pushy Salesman Gods, and Heartbreaker Gods – August 10, 2020Episode 28.   Police Detective Gods, Pushy Salesman Gods, and Heartbreaker Gods – August 10, 2020 Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you...2020-08-1040 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics27 Robber Gods, Aristocrat Gods and Marshmallow Gods -- August 3, 2020Episode 27.   Robber Gods, Aristocrat Gods and Marshmallow Gods – August 3, 2020 Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for being...2020-08-0333 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics26 Dictator Gods, Pharisee Gods, and Scrooge Gods – July 27, 2020Episode 26.  Dictator, Pharisee, and Scrooge God Images – July 27, 2020 Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for being here...2020-07-2742 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics25 Drill Sergeant Gods, Statue Gods, and Preoccupied Manager Gods, Oh My… July 20, 2020Episode 25.  Drill Sergeant Gods, Statue Gods, and Preoccupied Manager Gods, Oh My…July 13, 2020 Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at...2020-07-2045 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics24 God Images and Self ImagesEpisode 24.  God Images and Self ImagesJuly 13, 2020 Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for bein...2020-07-1343 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics23 Sinning, God Images and ResilienceEpisode 23.   Sinning, God Images, and ResilienceJuly 6, 2020 Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for bein...2020-07-0633 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics22 The Core of Catholic ResilienceEpisode 22.  The Core of Catholic Resilience June 29, 2020 Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you...2020-06-2941 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics21 How Secular Experts Get Resilience WrongEpisode 21.  Catholic Resilience – Where the Secular Experts Get Resilience Wrong. June 22, 2020 Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resilience, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at...2020-06-2234 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics20 Ten Factors of ResilienceEpisode 20.  Resilience: Ten Factors June 15, 2020 Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resiliency, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for being...2020-06-1522 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics19 Healing from Losses, Healing with GriefEpisode 19:  Healing from Losses, Healing with GriefJune 8, 2020Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resiliency, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for being h...2020-06-0836 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics18 Grief vs. DepressionEpisode 18:  Grief vs. DepressionGrief:Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   Ok, so I know we’re now into some really heavy, difficult times in our country and in our world.  There’s lots of things going on – we have the pandemic, we have partial lockdowns and closures, we have major unemployment issues, nearly half of small businesses are in danger of shutting do...2020-06-0130 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics17 Loss, Grief, Mourning and Resilience – How do They Go Together?Episode 17:  Loss, Grief, Mourning and Resilience – How do They Go Together?Intro: Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resiliency, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide, with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for being...2020-05-2530 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics16 Who Am I, Really? Identity and ResiliencyCoronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem Episode 16:  Who Am I, Really?  Identity and Resiliency May 18, 2020 Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resiliency, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide...2020-05-1827 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics15 The Main Sign of Psychological Health Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem Episode 15:  The Main Sign of Psychological Health May 11, 2020 Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview.   We are going beyond mere resiliency, to rising up to the challenges of this pandemic and becoming even healthier in the natural and the spiritual realms than we were before.  I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski your host and guide...2020-05-1133 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics14 Soulset: The core of usCoronavirus Crisis: Carpe Diem Episode 14:  Soulset:  The core of usMay 4, 2020Screwtape letters:  From the experienced demon Screwtape to his nephew Wormwood – Screwtape is teaching Wormwood the ins and outs of tempting men, trying to drag their souls to hell.  When Screwtape refers to the Enemy he means God.  “Be not deceived, Wormwood, our cause is never more in jeopardy than when a human, no longer desiring but still intending to do our Enemy's will, looks round upon a universe in which every trace of Him seems to have vanished...2020-05-0433 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics12 Bodyset: Accepting our Bodies – with Dr. Andrew SodergrenCoronavirus Crisis: Carpe DiemEpisode 12:  Bodyset:  Accepting our Bodies – with Dr. Andrew Sodergren Show NotesTo accept the body, we need to accept the body as a gift.  Obstacles to receiving our bodies as a gift:1.       Our bodies are imperfect and we are very aware of things we don’t like about our bodies, that fall short of the ideals that we have for our bodies.  Can be superficial issues, or more major issues such as disabilities and major medical problems.  Shame is often body-related.  Body as an obstacle...2020-04-2749 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics11 JR’s Story: What Happens When You Listen to Your BodyCoronavirus Crisis: Carpe DiemTitle:  JR’s Story: What Happens When You Listen to Your Body  Episode 11:  April 24, 2020Welcome to our podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem.  Let us seize this day!  This twice-weekly podcast helps us rise up.  It helps us embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis.  And our podcast does this through being thoroughly grounded in a Catholic worldview. I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  It is great to be together with you, thank you...2020-04-2428 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics10 Your Catholic Body and Crisis: BodysetCoronavirus Crisis: Carpe DiemTitle:  Your Catholic Body and this Crisis:  Bodyset Episode 10:  April 20, 2020Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem.  Seize the day!  This twice-weekly podcast helps us rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview. I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  It is great to be here with you.  This is Episode 10 and its April 20, 2020, entitled Your Catholic Body and this Crisis:  Bo...2020-04-2029 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics9 The Flip Side of the Huge Mistake We Make with our Emotions in a CrisisCoronavirus Crisis: Carpe DiemTitle:  The Flip Side of the Huge Mistake We Make with our Emotions in a Crisis Episode 9:  April 17, 2020Welcome to the podcast Coronavirus Crisis:  Carpe Diem, where you and I rise up and embrace the possibilities and opportunities for spiritual and psychological growth in this time of crisis, all grounded in a Catholic worldview. I’m clinical psychologist Peter Malinoski with Souls and Hearts at soulsandhearts.com.  Thank you for being here with me. This is Episode 9 and its April 17, 2020, entitled The Flip Side of...2020-04-1721 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics7 The Huge Mistake We Make with our Emotions in a CrisisCoronavirus Crisis: Carpe DiemThe huge mistake we make with our emotions in a crisisEpisode 7:  April 10, 2020Let’s get right to it.  Today we are discussing the one huge mistake that we human beings tend to make with our emotions when we are in a drawn-out crisis situation. One major mistake that we all are prone to make when we are stressed.  And we’re going to also not just discuss the remedy to that huge common mistake – but also we are going to practice that remedy.  I will walk...2020-04-1015 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics6 A Call To Arms: Rise Up, Red-Blooded CatholicsCoronavirus Crisis: Carpe DiemA Call To Arms: Rise Up, Red-Blooded CatholicsEpisode 6:  April 6, 2020Look, I’m going to get right down to it.  We are in a real crisis with this virus.  You’ve seen the news – New York City’s hospitals are overwhelmed and infections and deaths are accelerating exponentially.  We’re facing shortages of some basic items and supply chains are breaking down.  We’ve never experienced anything like this.  And I believe we are in it for the long haul.   The bottom line is this:  The Cathol...2020-04-0612 minInterior Integration for CatholicsInterior Integration for Catholics5 Your Catholic Mindset and Resilience in CrisisCoronavirus Crisis: Carpe DiemYour Catholic Mind and Resilience in Crisis Episode 5:  April 3, 2020Mindset.  What is a mindset and how can I understand my mindset?  These are the questions we will be addressing in depth in this episode.  And to help us, I’m inviting in Denethor II, Steward of Gondor, in his moment of crisis.  Here you go, you Lord of the Rings fans.  In the Return of the King, the third volume of the Lord of the Rings series, Denethor is in an extremely...2020-04-0317 min