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Shrink SpaceThe Outsider’s Dilemma When You Think Someone’s Relationship Is a Mistake | Shrink Space E.53Ever wonder if someone’s relationship is a mistake? We explore why people stay, how your perspective can mislead you, and smart ways to give advice without overstepping.On this episode of Shrink Space, we explore why people stay in unhealthy relationships, how our own perspective can mislead us, and whether you can actually predict which relationships will last. Plus, we share practical strategies for giving advice without overstepping. Tune in and let us know what you think!
2025-11-1848 minShrink SpaceWhy Your Brain Can’t Stand Being Wrong | Shrink Space E.52Why does your brain resist being wrong? In this episode of Shrink Space we explore cognitive dissonance, the tension that happens when your actions and beliefs don’t line up. Learn three ways people respond to it and hear examples from cults and politics that show how it shapes decisions and beliefs.Timestamps: (00:00) Welcome back to Shrink Space(01:22) AITA question of the week(10:07) Cultural differences in burnout(17:23) Introducing today’s topic: Cognitive Dissonance(24:55) Three ways to handle Cognitive Dissonance(33:39) Is Cognitive Dissonance a bad thing? Cognitive Dissonance in Cults(35:53) Cognitive Dissonance in PoliticsDon't forget to leave a revi...
2025-11-0443 minShrink SpaceDo You Really Have Burnout? | Shrink Space E.51In this Shrink Space episode, Dr. David Colarossi and Dr. Rob Patterson dive deep into the psychology behind Burnout It’s funny, honest, and surprisingly practical—a real-world psychologist’s take on one of pop psychology’s most viral ideas.📺 Watch more Shrink Space for grounded, insightful conversations where real psychology meets real life.👇 Leave a comment with your thoughts—we might feature it in the next episode!#PsychologyPodcast #burnout #ShrinkSpace #PopPsych #DavidColarossi #RobPattersonFollow us on Social Mediahttps://www.instagram.com/shrinkspaceshow/https://www.tiktok.com/@shrinkspaceshow
2025-10-2855 minShrink SpaceThe hidden flaw in the 5 Love Languages | Shrink Space E.50In this Shrink Space episode, Dr. David Colarossi and Dr. Rob Patterson dive deep into the psychology behind The 5 Love Languages — and why the framework might actually do more harm than good.They unpack why Gary Chapman’s best-selling relationship book became so popular, what it gets right about communication and emotional connection, and where it goes off the rails. Are love languages helpful for couples trying to connect—or do they accidentally promote narcissism and entitlement?The conversation also touches on:💬 Why “words of affirmation” and “acts of service” aren’t created equal🧠 How personality traits like introversion and extroversion affec...
2025-10-2140 minShrink SpaceLiving Out Loud: Extroverts and Introverts at Work and Home | Shrink Space E.49Are you an introvert, extrovert, or ambivert?In this episode of Shrink Space, psychologists David Colarossi and Rob Patterson explore how personality shapes the way we connect, lead, and show up. Discover the strengths of introverts, practical ways to share your ideas, and how anyone can boost charisma and executive presence.Packed with tips and insights, this episode helps you show up charismatic while staying true to yourself.
2025-10-1457 minShrink SpaceSuccess Against All Odds: An Interview with John Brink | Shrink Space E.48In this episode, Rob and David sit down with John A. Brink — an entrepreneur, philanthropist, and author whose life reads like a blueprint for grit and reinvention.Born in Nazi-occupied Holland and liberated by Canadian soldiers at age five, John immigrated to Canada with just $25.47 in his pocket. Over the next five decades, he built Brink Forest Products, one of North America’s largest secondary lumber manufacturers, employing hundreds and exporting worldwide.We talk about his early years, the mindset that carried him across continents, and what drives him to keep creating opportunities for others.Chapters: If you are curi...
2025-10-0724 minShrink SpaceLiving with a Loud Mind: Psychology of Neuroticism | Shrink Space E.47Are you an overthinker or highly sensitive to everything around you? That might be neuroticism. In this episode of Shrink Space, we explore what neuroticism really is, the upsides and downsides, and practical ways to handle it in daily life.We cover:What neuroticism is and how it shapes personalitySurprising benefits of being neuroticDownsides like overthinking, emotional intensity, and sensitivityStrategies to manage and make the most of neurotic traitsThis episode is perfect for anyone interested in personality, self-understanding, and personal growth....
2025-09-2353 minShrink SpaceWhy Charlie Kirk’s Death Sparked a Firestorm | Shrink Space E.46Reach out to our new sponsor: "Patterson Consulting Group" at info@Pattersonconsultinggroup.com. You can also find out more information about their services on their website: https://www.pattersonconsultinggroup.com.In this episode of Shrink Space, David and Rob discuss the death of Charlie Kirk, exploring the psychological mechanisms that drive our collective response. We dive into why society feels the need to politicize and polarize the tragic event, and what this reveals about us.#charliekirkshooting #charliekirk #PoliticalPolarizationSubscribe to Shrink Space for more deep dives into psychology, pop culture, and the strange corners of...
2025-09-1753 minShrink SpaceSoulmates, Conspiracies, and AITA: One Year of Shrink Space | Shrink Space E.45We are celebrating one year of Shrink Space by revisiting some of our most talked about episodes. Psychologists David Colarossi, Ph.D. and Rob Patterson, Ph.D. take a fresh look at Reddit’s AITA stories, ask if soulmates are real, and break down the psychology behind conspiracy theories and the Epstein files.This anniversary special is full of reflection, surprising insights, and the internet’s wildest stories. If you love psychology, relationships, and exploring why people believe what they do, this episode has it all.Subscribe to Shrink Space for more deep dives into psyc...
2025-09-0942 minShrink SpaceChatGPT Isn’t Your Therapist | Shrink Space E.44In this episode of Shrink Space, we explore the psychology of AI and what happens when people turn to ChatGPT for advice. We look at when ChatGPT can make mistakes, the real benefits of using AI, and whether it can act as a therapist. We also discuss whether humans can form relationships with ChatGPT and what that reveals about us. Finally, we tackle a big question of today: is ChatGPT taking our jobs or creating new opportunities?Join us for a conversation that blends psychology, technology, and real-world impact to understand the promise and risks of AI.
2025-09-0251 minShrink SpacePull of the Past: The Psychology of Nostalgia | Shrink Space E.43Why do childhood memories, old songs, or cultural movements make us feel a deep longing? Psychologists David Colarossi, PhD, and Rob Patterson, PhD, break down the science of nostalgia and why it shapes our emotions, identity, and even politics.In this episode of Shrink Space, we explore:What nostalgia really isWhy we feel it and its different typesWhen nostalgia helps and when it holds us backHow political movements like “Make America Great Again” tap into nostalgic feelingsShrink Space is a psyc...
2025-08-2652 minShrink SpaceIs Everything “Trauma”? Discussing Concept Creep in Psychology | Shrink Space E.42Rob and Dave take on the psychology of “concept creep,” the slow expansion of mental health terms into everyday life. Why is stress now called trauma, or conflict called bullying? This episode looks at how psychological language evolves, what gets lost when labels stretch too far, and how social media and generational shifts drive these changes. It’s a conversation about psychology, resilience, and the way we make sense of human struggles.
2025-08-1947 minShrink SpaceWhat Pop Culture Gets Wrong About Self-Care | Shrink Space E.41Self-care is everywhere in pop culture, but is what you are being sold actually helping you? We explore how movies, influencers, and billion-dollar brands have turned it into something very different from its real purpose.We cover Eat Pray Love, Gwyneth Paltrow’s infamous candle, the booming self-care industry, the difference between self-care and self-soothing, and how to know if your habits are truly helping or just distracting you.👇 Let us know what you think in the comments, and don’t forget to subscribe for new episodes.Follow us on Social Media Inst...
2025-08-1241 minShrink SpaceAfter the Affair: What Survivors and Offenders Both Need to Know | Shrink Space E.40In this episode of Shrink Space, we dive into the emotional wreckage left behind after an affair. Whether you were betrayed, were the one who strayed, or you're both trying to rebuild what was lost. #psychologypodcast #Infidelity #PsychologyPodcast #Coldplay #CheatingExplained #TherapistReact #MoneyAndPower #AffairPsychology #CouplesTherapy #PopPsychology #AndyByron #KristinCabot
2025-08-0547 minShrink SpaceHow We Parent: Two Psychologists Discuss Triggers, Values, and Emotional Growth | Shrink Space E.39Parenting can bring up big emotions and hard questions. In this episode of Shrink Space, we talk about common challenges like parenting triggers, kids favoring one parent, emotional breakdowns, and raising entitled children.We also explore how to teach values like empathy and resilience, and how different parenting styles shape a child’s development.👇 Let us know what you think in the comments, and don’t forget to subscribe for new episodes.Follow us on Social Media InstagramTikTok
2025-07-2956 minShrink SpaceWhy We Cheat: The Psychology Behind Infidelity | Shrink Space E.38Why do people cheat? In this episode of Shrink Space, we discuss the infidelity revealed at the Coldplay concert. We discuss the psychology behind cheating, the role of personality, environment, and wealth. We explore:The psychological roots of infidelityCommon triggers and vulnerabilitiesHow wealth and status can distort relationship boundariesWhat people misunderstand about cheating#psychologypodcast #Infidelity #PsychologyPodcast #Coldplay #CheatingExplained #TherapistReact #MoneyAndPower #AffairPsychology #CouplesTherapy #PopPsychology #AndyByron #KristinCabot
2025-07-2250 minShrink SpaceWhere Did All My Friends Go? Friendships in Adulthood | Shrink Space E.37Why do adult friendships fade, and what can we do about it? In this episode of Shrink Space, we explore the common reasons people lose touch with friends in adulthood. From busy schedules and life transitions to changes in values and routines, friendship drift is more common than you think.We also offer practical tips for making new friends as an adult, navigating awkward social moments, and rebuilding connections.
2025-07-1541 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Short Takes: Elon Musk’s America PartyElon Musk is back at it. This is a quick reaction from David and Rob about Musk's new plan to start a new political party. If you find this episode insightful, hit like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs to hear this.#trumpvsmusk #narcissismexplained #narcissisticinjury #elonmusk #donaldtrump #twitterdrama #psychologypodcast #humanbehavior #narcissism #narcissistic #currentevents #conflictresolution
2025-07-1112 minShrink SpaceThe Diddy Verdict: Trauma, Power, and Public Perception | Shrink Space E.35This episode offers a psychological deep dive into the Diddy verdict — exploring why some people continue to support him, and how trauma bonding may have kept his victims emotionally tied to their abuser.👇 Let us know what you think in the comments, and don’t forget to subscribe for new episodes.Follow us on Social Mediahttps://www.instagram.com/shrinkspaceshow/https://www.tiktok.com/@shrinkspaceshow#TraumaBonding#PsychologicalAbuse#SurvivorStories#MentalHealthAwareness#AbuseAwareness#WhyTheyStayed#DiddyVerdict#Diddy#SeanCombs#CelebrityJustice#CancelCulture
2025-07-0841 minShrink SpaceCrowd Control: The Psychology of Protests and Riots | Shrink Space E.34What really separates a peaceful protest from a riot? And why do some crowds stay calm while others spiral into chaos?In this episode, we dig into the psychology of mass gatherings, why emotions run high, and what causes some protests to turn violent. We break down the difference between a protest, a riot, and a mob, and talk through real-world examples like the No Kings riot and January 6th.Also in this episode:Rob shares a health updateThe latest on the Trump vs. Musk betA shocking...
2025-06-2451 minShrink SpaceWounded Ego: Trump, Musk, and Narcissistic Injury | Shrink Space E.33In this episode, we dive into the explosive Twitter feud between Elon Musk and Donald Trump. We read their tweets, discuss whether both show signs of narcissism, and explain what narcissistic injury is and why it happens.If you have a narcissist in your life, we share practical advice on handling conflict, setting boundaries, and protecting your mental health. Tune in for psychology, current events, and hands-on tips you can use today.Timestamps: (00:00) Introduction and Rob’s back issues(05:31) Breaking down the Musk and Trump tweets(11:09) Is Donald Trump a...
2025-06-0644 minShrink SpaceWhen Ego Wears a Halo: Two Psychologists Discuss Spiritual Narcissism | Shrink Space Podcast E.32In this episode of Shrink Space, two psychologists take a close look at spiritual narcissism. What does it really mean? How does it differ from authentic humility? And how can you recognize it in others or even in yourself?We explain the psychological traits of narcissism, examine how ego can show up in spiritual or self-growth spaces, and look at how these patterns appear in public figures and influencers. We also discuss whether atheists can be spiritual narcissists and why sincerity does not always mean truth.Whether you're curious about narcissism, spiritual influencers, or mental h...
2025-06-0349 minShrink SpaceTypecast: Myers-Briggs & Other Personality Tests | Shrink Space E. 31Do personality tests like MBTI, GRIT, and StrengthsFinder really reveal who you are?In this episode of Shrink Space, Rob and Dave dive into popular personality tests, exploring their pros and cons, how they’re used in recruitment and team building, and the psychology behind them. Learn about the Barnum effect, Carl Jung’s influence, and practical tips for using these tools effectively.Key topics:What is MBTI and why it’s popular (05:17)The Barnum effect and test limitations (10:39)StrengthsFinder for team building and growth (21:04)Using personality tests in recr...
2025-05-2746 minShrink SpaceThe Catastrophe of Success: Why Success Can Feel Like Failure | Shrink Space E.30Why does success sometimes leave you feeling anxious, empty, or unsure what's next? In this episode of Shrink Space, we explain the catastrophe of success: that surprising feeling of pressure or emptiness after reaching a big goal.David shares his theory that anxiety is what keeps us moving and that the absence of anxiety might even feel like depression. Rob doesn’t fully agree. Is it possible to just feel content without always striving for more? If you’ve ever wondered why success doesn’t always bring happiness, this episode is for you. Follow Shrink Space f...
2025-05-2046 minShrink SpaceHow to Strengthen Your Relationships: John Gottman Part 2 | Shrink Space E.29In this episode, we’re back with part 2 of our series on John Gottman’s relationship principles. We’re talking about the practical stuff – how to strengthen your relationship daily.We go through things like building better love maps, how to keep appreciation alive, why those little moments of connection matter, and what to do when you’re stuck having the same fight over and over again.If you’ve ever felt like you love your partner but keep missing each other, or like small issues keep snowballing, this one’s for you.If you liked t...
2025-05-1353 minShrink SpaceThe Four Horsemen: John Gottman and Romantic Relationships Part 1 | Shrink Space E.28The Four Horsemen of Relationships – Are You Doing These Without Knowing It?We’re finally back from our spring break! In this first part of two, we explain why Dr. John Gottman’s 4 signs that predict divorce—criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling—are so powerful, and how they often show up without us even realizing it.We break these down by analyzing a viral clip of Alec and Hilaria Baldwin, using it as a real-life example of how these patterns play out in everyday relationships.Timestamps (00:00) Coming up in this episod...
2025-05-0653 minShrink SpaceFIRST GUEST INTERVIEW! David & Rob Discuss Cancel Culture and Other Topics with Dr. Dana Borchert (She doesn’t agree) | Shrink Space E.27Dr. Dana Borchert sits down with Rob and Dave to push back on their views about toxic masculinity, non-violent communication, and more. It’s a fun, honest conversation where Dana offers fresh insights and challenges the guys to think differently about some things they’ve said before. Hit play and join the conversation! 🎧🧠Don't forget to like and subscribe if you like our content! 👍Dr. Dana Borchert's Instagram Follow us on Social Media YouTubeInstagram TikTok T...
2025-03-1857 minShrink SpaceTRUMP VS ZELENSKY: Whose Side Are You On? Loyalty in Politics, Work, and Relationships | Shrink Space E.26In this episode of Shrink Space, we explain the psychology of loyalty in politics, the workplace, and personal relationships through the lens of one of today’s most polarizing geopolitical dynamics: Donald Trump vs. Volodymyr Zelensky. - What drives loyalty, even in the face of conflict?- How do political leaders influence public trust and allegiance?- What parallels can we draw between political loyalty and commitment in our personal and professional lives?Tune in for a discussion about the psychological and social factors that shape who we stand by an...
2025-03-1154 minShrink SpaceHOW TO SPOT AN ABUSER – Lessons from the Gabby Petito Case | Shrink Space E.25How does someone become an abuser? Is it trauma, control issues, or something even darker? In this episode, psychologists Dave and Rob break down the psychology behind abusive behavior—what creates someone like Brian Laundrie, what triggers violence, and whether abusers even recognize what they’re doing.They also explain the cycle of abuse, the mistakes police made when they encountered Gabby Petito, and the similarities between abusers and cult leaders. If you want to understand the warning signs before it’s too late, this is the episode for you....
2025-03-0439 minShrink SpaceTOXIC MASCULINITY: What Is It Really? | Psychologists Discuss Toxic Personality Traits | Ep.24What do we really mean by toxic masculinity? And does toxic femininity exist too? In this episode of Shrink Space, psychologists Dave and Rob discuss what masculinity is, what makes traits toxic and how it may impact our children. Hit play and let's discuss! Do you agree with what we're saying or do you think we missed something? Let us know in the comments and don't forget to like the video! 👍💬Timestamps: (00:00) Intro (00:21) Update on the situation with our boss(01:51) The talent show (04:22) Today's Topic: Toxic Masculinity (07:38) What does it mean t...
2025-02-2550 minShrink SpaceCANCEL CULTURE | Psychologists discuss (David rants) about the implications of Cancel Culture Ep 23In this episode, Rob and Dave discuss the complex dynamics of cancel culture. Rob shares his recent health struggles and his evolving views on language and communication. They explore the balance between addressing societal issues and the potential unintended consequences of cancel culture, particularly its impact on relationships and societal discourse. They also delve into the nuances of communication within professional and informal settings, touching on the importance of directness versus sensitivity. Tune in for an insightful conversation that challenges the extremes and seeks a balanced perspective.00:00 Introduction and Catching Up00:37 Rob's Health Struggles02:33 Language and Communication Rant04:02 Psych...
2025-02-1853 minShrink SpaceWHY DO WE NEED AWARD SHOWS? | Psychologists React to the Grammys Ep. 22Are Awards Really Important? A Deep Dive with Rob and DaveIn this episode, Rob and Dave discuss the significance of awards, specifically focusing on entertainment awards like the Grammys and Oscars. They share personal experiences and perspectives on why people care about awards, whether they are still relevant, and the psychological impact of recognition and status. They also debate intrinsic versus extrinsic motivation, the subjective nature of awards, and if these accolades genuinely reflect the best in a field. Join them for a nuanced conversation about awards, recognition, and what truly matters in creativity and achievement.00:00 Catching Up: Parenting...
2025-02-1153 minShrink SpaceVOICE MEMO Analysis: Blake Lively vs Justin Baldoni | Psychologists React Ep. 21
In this episode, Dave and Rob dive headfirst into the Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni drama. They react to the voice memo Justin left Blake at 2 AM and explore the nuances behind their conflict.
00:00 Introduction and Initial Disappointment
00:53 Switching Topics: Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni
02:56 Deep Dive: The Movie and Promotional Issues
05:22 Allegations and Controversies
08:40 Voice Memo Analysis
15:29 Psychological Insights and Reactions
29:45 Respect and Deference in Communication
30:29 Building Relationships Through Voice Memos
32:06 Coaching and Intimidation
33:37 Directness vs. Deference in Leadership
34:18 Industry-Specific Communication Styles
35:59 Navigating Creative Partnerships
38:31 Addressing Past Experiences and Apologies
45:08 Public Perception and Assumptions
48:25 Celebrity Culture and Public...
2025-02-0457 minShrink SpaceWhy do you like TAYLOR SWIFT? Psychologists explain PARASOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS | Ep. 20In this episode, Dave and Rob catch up on their recent adventures and dive deep into the topic of parasocial relationships. They discuss the nuances of these one-sided relationships, using examples like Taylor Swift, Kevin Hart, and even sports teams to illustrate their points. They explore the types, benefits, and potential downsides of parasocial interactions, making connections to self-help gurus, political figures, and the impact of social media. The conversation also includes insights into gender differences, the motivations behind these relationships, and personal anecdotes about their own parasocial connections. Join the discussion and share your thoughts on the phenomenon...
2025-01-2853 minShrink SpaceMASS FORMATION (Not Psychosis) Psychologists discuss reactions to LA Fires & Luigi Mangione | Ep. 19In this episode, hosts Rob and Dave delve into the concept of mass formation and group think, discussing how society reacts to significant stressors such as the fires in California. They explore how people construct narratives and find scapegoats to make sense of chaotic events, sometimes leading to misguided and harmful behaviors. The discussion also touches on the implications of social media, celebrity influence, and the psychological need for belonging and meaning. Strategies to prevent mass formation and promote critical thinking are also examined.
00:00 Introduction and Catching Up00:50 Fires in California01:05 Theme Parks and Personal Experiences04:05 Societal Reactions to...
2025-01-2153 minShrink SpaceWHY DON'T PEOPLE CHANGE? | Psychologists share STRATEGIES for behavior change | Shrink Space Ep. 18In this episode, Dave and Rob discuss their holiday experiences, share hilarious stories about their kids, and dive into the topic of personal change. They explore how behaviors, habits, and environments influence our ability to change, especially in the context of the new year. Rob shares insights from his dissertation on organizational change resistance, and both hosts set their own New Year's resolutions while providing practical advice for making lasting changes. Tune in for a mix of humor, personal anecdotes, and actionable tips on achieving your goals in the new year.
00:00 Catch-Up After the Holidays
00:41 Holiday Mishaps and Norovirus
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2025-01-1452 minShrink SpaceTIPS & TRICKS to Navigate the Holidays | PSYCHOLOGISTS share their strategies | Shrink Space Ep. 17In this episode, Rob and Dave share their personal holiday experiences, discussing common family dynamics and challenges during the festive season. They dive into various personality types that often surface at holiday gatherings, such as the 'drunk uncle,' the passive-aggressive parent, and the family member who insists on confronting issues head-on. The conversation alsocovers strategies for dealing with these situations, as well as the responsibilities and frustrations around holiday gift-giving. Join them for insights, humor, and practical advice on navigating family interactions and ensuring a joyful holiday.
2024-12-2459 minShrink SpaceLILY PHILLIPS | PSYCHOLOGISTS REACT | Why she did it. Why the men did it. Shrink Space Ep.16Psychologists David and Rob delve into a recent controversial documentary about Lily Phillips, a successful OnlyFans star. The discussion covers the psychological aspects of her extreme behaviors, the reactions of society, and the differing perceptions based on gender. They also explore the social and moral implications of such events and the role of social media in
shaping public opinion. Tune in for a deep dive into the complex intersection of mental health, pop culture, and societal values.
00:00 Introduction and Unexpected Pivot
01:56 Who is Lily Phillips?
02:39 The Documentary Breakdown
04:36 Public Reaction and Moral Debate
05:26 Psychological Analysis of Lily's Actions
08:44 Comparing...
2024-12-1753 minShrink SpacePSYCHOLOGISTS EXPLAIN | Why Families Create Stress over the Holidays | Shrink Space Ep. 15In this episode, Rob and Dave discuss the various psychological and situational stressors that arise during the holiday season. They explore the pressures of family expectations, financial strain, nostalgia, and the challenges of managing relationships. The conversation also includes
personal anecdotes and tips on how to handle the stress that comes with holiday gatherings.
Tune in for part two of a three-part series focused on making your holiday season more manageable and enjoyable.
00:00 Reconnecting and Setting Up
01:24 The Cat Hoodie Dilemma
01:57 Carhartt and Caterpillar Stories
05:35 Holiday Stress Series Introduction
08:03 Personal Experiences with Holiday Stress
17:56 Financial Strain and...
2024-12-1051 minShrink SpacePsychologists' guide to Surviving your Family over the Holidays | Shrink Space Ep. 14Psychologists Rob and Dave explain best practices/strategies that can be used to survive your family over the holiday.
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2024-12-0427 minShrink SpaceUNGRATFUL - Psychologists Question the Value of being Thankful | Shrink Space Ep. 13
Join Rob and Dave as they dive into the theme of gratitude just in time for Thanksgiving. Hear about their personal Thanksgiving traditions, thoughts on gratitude practices like journals, and the psychological benefits and downsides of focusing on the positive. The episode is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and meaningful reflections on what they're thankful for this year.
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2024-11-2648 minShrink SpaceTrump Won - Why are you Surprised? | Shrink Space Ep. 12In this episode, Psychologists David and Rob use the presidential election to delve into the psychological concept of the False Consensus Effect. They discuss how it impacts political perspectives in the United States, and explore cultural influences, social media's role in polarization, and the effects of individualistic versus collectivist societies.
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2024-11-1940 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 11 | Competition - Blessing or CurseSome of us are competitive. Like, we flip the Monopoly board because we just had to pay taxes on boardwalk and just went to jail, again, kind of competitive. Some of us are not competitive at all. Some people really don't care if they win or lose. Today, Rob and Dave dive into the concept of competition and if being competitive is good or bad, why we love to compete, why we don't love to compete, and other things sprinkled with that good ole childhood trauma and insecurities.
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2024-11-1241 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 10 | Voting Blind - Psychologists discuss voter biasJoin Rob and David on Shrink Space as they dive into the Dunning-Kruger Effect, exploring how overconfidence and lack of knowledge play out in politics and everyday life. The conversation unfolds around election season in the U.S., highlighting the importance of humility and questioning in understanding public policies.Don't miss this insightful and engaging discussion!
2024-11-0544 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 9 | The Psychology behind CultsWhat makes a good cult leader? Why would anyone join a cult?
In today's episode, Rob and Dave take a deep dive into the underlying psychological mechanisms that create cults.
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2024-10-2946 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 8 | The Power of Self RighteousnessYou know that feeling - when you are 'so right' about something? In this episode Rob and David discuss benefits and pitfalls of feeling like you have the moral and intellectual high ground.
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2024-10-2235 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 7 | What is more important - Impact or Intent?
Today on the show, Dave and Rob, discuss the popular axiom that in social exchanges Impact is more important than Intent.
2024-10-1555 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 6 | Are some conspiracy theories real?
Today on the show, Dave and Rob, dive into conspiracy theories. You know, tin foil hats, lizard people, the whole 9 yards. Except not every conspiracy theory has turned out to be crazy. And not every conspiracy theorist is crazy either. Today we go deep down the rabbit hole to show you.
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2024-10-0850 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 5 | Are you the A-hole?Are you an A-hole? What makes someone an A-hole? And at what point do they cross the line from a pretentious douche bag/ narcissist to an asshole? Is it something that people choose? Or is it something that is an innate part of the psyche? This week Dave and Rob dive in to the weeds on this one, and they go deep into the nuances around "assholes" and whether or not you may be one.
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2024-10-0150 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 4 | Two Psychologists React to DIDDY - Is being a psychopath adaptive?Rob and Dave share Discuss Diddy and the implications of being diagnosed with Anti Social Personality Disorder
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2024-09-2429 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 3 | Two Psychologists React to the DEBATE - Naïve RealismRob and Dave share their reactions to the Presidential Debate, and discuss the psychological concept of Naïve Realism.
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2024-09-1533 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 2 | Are soul mates real?
On this weeks episode of Shrink Space, Rob and Dave dive into an age old debate: are soul mates real? We would all like to believe so. We would all like to believe in our one true love. But is it that simple? Could we possibly be compatible with more than one person? What are the factors that play into this? What would happen if our current "soul mate" passed on? Would we move on? All of this and more!
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2024-09-1049 minShrink SpaceShrink Space Ep. 1 | Let's talk about power, and why people won't give it upToday, Rob and Dave talk about power, and why some people just can't let go. From athletes who refuse to retire, to politicians who refuse to step down, to your grandma who needs to turn in those car keys, we all see examples of power in our lives and people who don't want to give it up. Rob and Dave take a deep dive to cover all of this and more.
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2024-09-0543 min
Shrink WrappedReddit Advice Plus our Camping Trip | SHRINK WRAPPED PODCAST🧠 Welcome to a new episode of Shrink Wrapped! This week, we're diving into our recent camping trip struggles and sharing the fun and challenging moments we experienced in the great outdoors 🌲
🤷 We're also giving advice on a question from Reddit.
If you want advice on the next episode of Shrink Wrapped, please email them to me or make a comment below 💬
📚 Live Book Club Announcement:
Mark your calendars! Join us for our LIVE BOOK CLUB on July 25th at 6pm MST. We’ll be discussing Whoopi Goldberg's "Bits and Pieces."
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2024-07-1229 minShrink WrappedJill Duggar's Book - Also thoughts about Josh Duggar | SHRINK WRAPPED PODCASTDavid and Allison are back with a new episode of Shrink Wrapped! In this episode, they discuss their family vacation to Italy as well as their thoughts on Josh Duggar.
They also have a live book club coming up where they will be talking about Jill Duggar's book 'Counting the cost' on YouTube.
2024-06-2426 minShrink WrappedReacting to DIDDY's Parties and GARRISON BROWN'S text messages | SHRINK WRAPPED PODCASTReacting to DIDDY's Parties and GARRISON BROWN'S text messages | SHRINK WRAPPED PODCAST
2024-04-1350 minShrink WrappedRuby Franke & Jodi Hildebrandt - Also Sister Wives Social Media | SHRINK WRAPPED PODCAST
2024-03-1946 minShrink WrappedGarrison Brown | SHRINK WRAPPED PODCASTIf you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call or text 988 or chat at www.988lifeline.org.
To learn more on 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, visit:
https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/988
2024-03-0614 minShrink WrappedHow to Deal with Toxic PeopleWhat is a toxic person? How can you spot them, and how should you deal with them? David and Allison discuss what they think about it.
2024-03-0421 minShrink WrappedMicro-StressorsDavid and Allison discuss their airport shenanigans, Muay Thai and the insidious nature of micro stressors.
2024-02-2939 minShrink WrappedPart 2: Collaboration with Surviving Sister WivesOur first collaboration! We met up with Cory and Carly from the Surviving Sister Wives Podcast to discuss our mutual interest in all things Sisterwives!
For part 1 - head over to the Surviving Sister Wives podcast
Listen to Surviving Sister Wives on Apple Podcasts:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/surviving-sister-wives/id1494729163
Listen to Surviving Sister Wives on Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/show/3OXRwJ8jaKAhWUDUlH2xhD?si=4a7f37631773424e
2024-02-2155 minShrink WrappedQ&A - Learning about David and AllisonDavid and Allison answer questions and tell us more about how their relationship started and their biggest fights.
This episode is also a video podcast on YouTube.
2024-02-1549 minShrink WrappedFitness - How to be fit as a coupleAllison stays consistent in her fitness habits, and David gets on fitness kicks. In this episode, they talk about how to stay fit and give their best tips.
2024-02-0636 minShrink WrappedHow To Have More Gratitude -- and why it worksHow To Have More Gratitude -- and why it works
2024-02-0229 minShrink WrappedHow to Compromise in a relationship. Plus - Allison and David have a tiffLearning to Compromise. Plus - Allison and David have a tiff
2024-01-2730 minShrink WrappedSensitivity - How to not take things personallyDavid and Allison discuss how to better handle negative comments from other people and not take things personally.
2024-01-2324 minShrink WrappedInfidelity and Cognitive Dissonance (mental gymnastics)David and Allison discuss lessons learned in 2023, and then talk about and the cognitive dissonance that occurs in people having affairs.
Article Discussed:
Alexopoulos, C. (2021). Justify my love: Cognitive dissonance reduction among perpetrators of online and offline infidelity. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 38(12), 3669–3691.
2024-01-2037 minShrink WrappedEmotional Burden (what is it, and how to handle it in your relationship) - Allison and David don't Agree!Emotional Burden (what is it, and how to handle it in your relationship) - Allison and David don't Agree!
2024-01-1626 min
Shrink WrappedHow to defeat Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) ... and does it even exist?Allison and David discuss Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD). David give tips - but also argues that it may not even exist! Allison cleverly (and unfairly says David) finds a way to critique David's diet and exercise habits.
2024-01-1337 min
Shrink WrappedSix Tips to Improve your RelationshipsToday, we discussed the Carol Bruess PhD article on Ideas.Ted.com
Link below
https://ideas.ted.com/6-relationship-resolutions-to-make-this-year/
2024-01-0938 min
Shrink WrappedAttempts at Intimacy and the Bristle Reaction - The research will change your perspective.We are back at it again - this is the first episode in a while.
New format for us - let us know what you think at DavidColarossiPhD@gmail.com
2024-01-0621 min
Shrink WrappedThe one about Jonah Hill, the Duggars (Shining Happy People) and Killer Sally | Shrink Wrapped e.53The one about Jonah Hill, the Duggars (Shining Happy People) and Killer Sally | Shrink Wrapped e.53
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2023-07-1342 minShrink WrappedChris Rock and Bot relationshipsDavid and Allison discuss Chris Rock special and explanation on Will Smith slap. They also answer a listener question on BOT relationships.
2023-03-1721 min2023-03-1424 min
" Your Financial Future" with Nick Colarossi"Your Financial Future" with Nick Colarossi of NJC Investments 10/01/2022Are there any investment strategies working in 2022? Yes, there are, and we have the examples to prove it! Investment ideas from Seeking Alpha, Warren Buffett, David Bahnsen, and Mark Grant are reviewed in investment information packed hour.
2022-10-0159 min
Psych'dNO, YOUR FEELINGS DON'T CARE ABOUT FACTS | HOW MINDS CHANGE with DAVID McRANEYMeet David McRaney. A best selling author and journalist that spent over six years studying the research of Psychologists and Neuroscientists to understand how minds are made, and how minds are changed. In this podcast, we discuss David's study of conspiracy theorists, cults, political activists and even Westboro Baptist Church picketers. Before publication of David's most recent book 'How Minds Change,' he became very well-known for his blog, podcast, and book titled 'You Are Not So Smart.' ___MORE FROM DAVID MCRANEYhttps://www.davidmcraney.com/Twitter: @DavidMcRaneyHow Minds Ch...
2022-07-281h 04Shrink WrappedShrink Wrapped e.25 | Vacation in Kona, our United Airlines nightmare and Allison's book clubIn these "Shrink Wrapped" podcast episodes, Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss our Hawaii vacation, our hatred of "United Airlines, and Allison's book club.
You can also hear this episode in podcast form, wherever you get your podcasts.
#Relationshippodcast #Travel #United Airlines
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2021-06-2119 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped e.24 | Basic/Extra, Rachel Hollis, therapy vs coaching, and habitsIn these "Shrink Wrapped" podcast episodes, Allison and I a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss being extra vs basic, therapy vs coaching, Rachel Hollis, habits and Gretchen Rubin's book Better than Before.
You can also hear this episode in podcast form, wherever you get your podcasts.
#Relationshippodcast#RachelHollis #therapy #coaching
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2021-06-0330 minShrink WrappedEpisode # 23 Getting Cancelled, Pink, Adam Carolla, Ellen, Chrissy TeigenIn these "Shrink Wrapped" podcast episodes, Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss Being Cancelled, Pink, Ellen, Chrissy Teigen, and what it's like to be married to David Marriage to a Psychologist
You can also hear this episode in podcast form, wherever you get your podcasts.
#Ellen #ChrissyTeigen #Relationship
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2021-05-2830 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped e. 21 | Listener Questions, Stereotype Threat, Prince Harry & Meghan MarkleIn these "Shrink Wrapped" podcast episodes, Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss listener questions, stereotype threat, and Prince Harry & Meghan Markle
You can also hear this episode in podcast form, wherever you get your podcasts.
#meghan markle, #prince harry
2021-04-0225 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped e. 20 | Britney Spears, Dave Hollis, Rachel HollisIn these "Shrink Wrapped" podcast episodes, Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss the Free Britney movement, and Dave Hollis' new romantic interest
You can also hear this episode in podcast form, wherever you get your podcasts.
2021-02-2048 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped e.19 | The Bachelor, Rachel Hollis' new coaching program, Enneagram, NewsIn these "Shrink Wrapped" podcast episodes, Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss David's new obsession with The Bachelor, Rachel Hollis' new online coaching program, and the perils of consuming too much news.
You can also hear this episode in podcast form, wherever you get your podcasts.
2021-02-1935 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped Episode # 18 Dr. Jill Biden, Dream Interpretation, Boredom & SadismAllison and David debate whether Dr. Jill Biden should be called ‘doctor.’ They also talk about dream interpretation, sleep paralysis, and the relationship between boredom and Sadism. The conversation ends with a discussion about benefits and pitfalls of kids highlighted on YouTube and other social media platforms -e.g., Ryan’s World).
2021-01-2625 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped e.17 | Capital Riots, Protesters, Narcissism, Mitt Romney, Kim & Kanye DivorceAllison and David discuss the recent riots at the US capital. We specifically discuss the events and psychological characteristics that led to the capital siege. We also talk about Mitt Romney’s response to protestors, Trump’s impact, and narcissistic injuries. And finally, we address the Kim and Kanye West divorce.
2021-01-0726 minShrink WrappedNew Years Resolutions, TikToc, Creativity, Hilaria Baldwin, & Lori LoughlinDavid and Allison discuss New Year's Resolutions, TikToc Addiction, Creativity, Hilaria Baldwin, and Lori Loughlin
**If you have extra invites to Clubhouse, David would love one.
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2021-01-0431 minShrink WrappedEpisode #15 Tony Hsieh, Mental Health, Mel Robbins, & Pop Psychology True or FalseShrink Wrapped podcast episode.
In today's episode, we discuss Tony Hsieh, Mental Health, Mel Robbins, & Pop Psychology True or False
You can also hear this episode in podcast form, wherever you get your podcasts.
2020-12-1624 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped e.14 | Hanukkah, Amy Cuddy, Adam Grant, and a game of Pop Psychology True or FalseIn these "Shrink Wrapped" podcast episodes, Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss Allison's family history, the celebration of Hanukkah, Amy Cuddy, Adam Grant and Elf on the Shelf. We also play a game of "Pop Psychology - True or False."
2020-12-1223 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped e.13 | Harry Styles' Vogue cover, thanksgiving, political unrest, hypocrisyIn these "Shrink Wrapped" episodes Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we review the things we are thankful for, Allison's frustration with hypocrites, the current political environment, and the outrage over Harry Styles' Vogue cover.
You can also hear this episode in podcast form, wherever you get your podcasts.
2020-12-1025 minShrink WrappedEpisode# 12 Conspiracy theorists, phobia treatment, narcissism, female sex drive, & moreIn these "Shrink Wrapped" podcasts Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss the personality traits of conspiracy theorists, phobia treatment, narcissism, female sex drive, the placebo effect, and more.
2020-11-2737 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped e.11 | ACE family, Trump/Biden, old age, personality disorders, NFDQ and A with a psychologist- In these "Shrink Wrapped" podcasts Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we review, the new personality disorder identified in the latest issue of Psychology Today (Need for Drama), Jay Shetty's values audit, Trump and Biden's old age, conscientiousness and relationship longevity.
2020-10-2234 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped e.10 | Rachel Hollis' new book, losing friends, rise healthyand happy and motivation.In these "Shrink Wrapped" Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we review, Rachel Hollis' new book "Didn't See That Coming," and discuss the Rise Healthy and Happy conference, losing friends, staying motivated, Jay Shetty, Dave Hollis, Nick Vujicic, and Kelly Leveque.
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2020-10-0723 minShrink WrappedEpisode #9 dealing w/ family, divorces of Hatmaker, Hollis, & Doyle, and Esther PerelIn these "Shrink Wrapped" videos Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss the divorces of feminist authors -Jen Hatmaker, Rachel Hollis, and Glennon Doyle. We also talked about how to deal with family members that "trigger" you. Allison and I end the conversation with a discussion about Esther Perel's view of relationships.
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2020-09-2120 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped #8 - Card b WAP, Naysayers, Energy Vampires, Annoying relationship adviceThis is a newer segment for this channel. In these "Shrink Wrapped" videos Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss the following:
1:50 Cardi B's new song WAP and whether it is a 'sex positive' anthem that should be lauded by feminists or just an objectification of women.
7:00 Managing/responding to naysayers. People that try to "steal your light"
11:05 Identifying and coping with energy vampires
14:55 What habits do we find annoying in other couples
19:25 The best relationship advice we've ever received
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2020-08-2823 minShrink WrappedBacklash after David's Bryan Callen videos, traveling w/kids, politics & family, loneliness & COVIDQ & A with a psychologist:
This is a new segment for this podcast. In these "Shrink Wrapped" podcasts Allison and I have a long-form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss the backlash after David's two videos about Bryan Callen' alleged sexual misconduct, traveling w/kids, talking politics with family, and how to best deal with the loneliness that people are experiencing during the COVID-19. Follow David on Instagram @David_Colarossi_PhD
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2020-08-1631 minShrink WrappedEpisode #6 Caretaker abuse, mob mentality, ghosting, virtual edu, Brene Brown, Mel RobinsQ & A with a psychologist:
This is a new segment for this channel. In these "Shrink Wrapped" episodes Allison and I have a long-form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss caretaker abuse, mob mentality, virtual edu, Brene Brown, Mel Robbins, & Dave Hollis ghosting Allison.
2020-07-2531 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped episode #5 Rachel Hollis, Self Sabotage, Kanye, Jada, Apology Languages & QuarantineThis is a new segment for this channel. In these "Shrink Wrapped" videos Allison and I have a long form discussion about popular psychology topics and current events.
In today's episode, we discuss Kanye West's decision to run for president, self-sabotage, Jada Pinkett Smith's infidelity, apology languages, and Rachel Hollis and Glennon Doyle.
2020-07-2336 minShrink WrappedShrink Wrapped #4 | Q&A format - topics include gaslighting, emotional abuse, and walk therapyIn these "Shrink Wrapped" episodes I attempt to answer Listener questions without any prep, or the advantage of editing.
In today's episode, we complete the #koalachallenge, discuss gaslighting and it's relationship to emotional abuse. We also talk about the benefits of walk therapy vs sit down therapy and the existence of “Chads.”
2020-07-1011 min
Shrink WrappedHypocrisy, gossip, influencers, and avoiding transactional relationshipsIn today's episode, we complete the #pufferfishchallenge, discuss the increased prevalence of hypocrisy in times of crisis, the global impact of gossip at work, the pros and cons of looking up to influencers, and strategies that can prevent your romantic relationship from becoming transactional.
2020-07-1018 min
Shrink WrappedQ and A with my wife and her thoughts on the Hollis divorce and a stab at emotional burdenIn these "Shrink Wrapped" videos I will attempt to answer Allison's questions without any prep, or the advantage of editing.
2020-07-1014 minShrink WrappedShrink WrappedQ and A format. Dr. David Colarossi answers listener questions candidly. We hope you enjoy!
2020-07-0900 min