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Thee Uncommon Podcast100. Keep Feeding the Beast: our 100th Episode Celebration!! Well ladies & gentlemen, we did it! 100 episodes in the bag, and we're just getting started!
Whether you've been a longtime listener, or just joining us, thank you for being apart of our Uncommon journey. We hope that our show - the topics we explore, and the amazing guests we speak with - continues to add value to your life and inspire you on your own Uncommon journey!
Remember that no matter what you are pursuing, consistency is key! Keep chipping away. Keep your head down, don't allow distraction or comparison to deter you. Focus on you...
2024-03-2754 minThee Uncommon PodcastHow to Gain Wisdom through the Fear of the LordDid you know we're born with only 2 innate fears?
The fear of loud noises
The fear of falling down
These fears are hardwired into us to protect us and keep us alive. If this is true, it begs the question: Where do all our other fears come from?
It turns out that all other fears are LEARNED fears. These learned fears are acquired through experiences and environmental cues, mainly negative associations (i.e. a traumatic run-in with a rooster).
We can also adopt learned fears from other people and the culture at large...
2024-03-2021 minThee Uncommon PodcastMerging Faith & Fitness on Your Uncommon Journey w/Elizabeth Kirchmeier1 Timothy 4:8 tells us that, physical training is of some value; but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.
What does it look like to pursue physical fitness and hone your athletic abilities in a God-honoring way?
This question - and others - are what my guest, Elizabeth Kirchmeier, and I discuss on the show today. Elizabeth is the COO of Faith RXD, an organization with the mission to serve and strengthen the fitness community to live for Christ and share His love.
Elizabe...
2024-03-1353 minThee Uncommon Podcast5 Ways to Enhance your Romance with Dance w/Victoria!How do you define 'romance'?
Does romance look like candles, chocolates, and a bouquet of flowers?
Is it a long walk on the beach?
Or maybe it looks more like a heart to heart conversation with your loved one?
Whether you are single or in a 'romantic' relationship, I want you to picture what your ideal expression of romance would be.
Got it?
Now, take an honest assessment of the current level of romance in your relationship. Rank it from 1-10 (1 being Grumpier Old Men, 10 being Casablanca)... and as...
2024-03-0643 minThee Uncommon PodcastCouples Dream Retreat KC Recap!"Marriage is like a partnership formed to run very small, mundane, and often boring non-profit business... and I mean that in a good way" - Lori Gottlieb
While not the most romantic take on marriage, this is an honest perspective that many couples can relate to.
A marriage is a partnership. It requires clearly defined roles & responsibilities. You need transparency and open communication. And much planning is required to reach your end goal.
But what is you "end goal" in marriage?
To stay together? Reach Retirement? Raise good kids?
T...
2024-02-2843 minThee Uncommon PodcastStrides Against Hunger: Why I'm running 35 miles on my 35th BirthdayWhen was the last time you wondered where your next meal was coming from?
For most of us, that’s not an uncertainty we often - if ever - experience. Unlike those facing hunger, we don't have to choose between keeping the lights on or buying groceries.
But for many people, that is their reality.
In Iowa it’s estimated that 1 in 10 adults and 1 in 8 children face hunger.
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In this episode I share some updates to my 2024 Misogi, in which I will tackle my 1st ever Ultra by running 35 miles on...
2024-02-2112 minThee Uncommon PodcastCreating Uncommon Balance with the Life Ledger
So do not worry, saying ‘ What will we eat?’ or ‘What will we drink?’ or ‘What will we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
Matthew 6:33 NIV
What does it mean to you to practice stellar stewardship? This is 1 of our Uncommon Pillars, and it refers to the effective management of our time, talents, and treasures in submission and service to God's Kingdom.
But how do you know how you...
2024-02-1414 minThee Uncommon PodcastLeaning into the Unknown with Kevin Stittsworth What's your natural response to the unknown?
What thoughts or emotions surface when you face uncertainty?
fear? anxiety? helplessness? paralysis? excitement?
Most of us want to to have a game plan for everything - and a backup plan for when our game plan falls through.
We want to see the finish line.
We expect all the details.
We want the full itinerary.
Any surprises are met with resistance as they threaten our security by putting us in vulnerable positions. When we lack control we feel uneasy...
2024-02-0749 minThee Uncommon PodcastSpur Each Other On: Unpacking Hebrews 10:24, 25What image comes to mind when you hear the word "spur"?
Most likely, it's the pointy device on a rider's heel which allows them to communicate to their horse through subtle movements. There's a sense of urging and directing the horse to move and/or accelerate.
The word "spur" is used in Hebrews 10:24-25 as the writer puts forth a call to persevere in the faith. As followers of Christ, we must daily acknowledge the difficulties we will face in our walk with Jesus. We must rest and rely on God's strength and wisdom - res...
2024-01-3123 minThee Uncommon PodcastLeading with Positivity, Purpose, and Passion with Drew HardenWhat does an amazing company culture look like?
It is an environment where people are truly known, appreciated, and celebrated! There is palpable energy, excitement - even joy - all of which contribute to a thriving and productive team. There is camaraderie and genuine friendship, which enables co-workers to collaborate and believe the best in each other. There is an atmosphere of fun and surprise, as well as the occasional prank! People take their work seriously, while embodying a "we" over "me" mentality. It's a place where people love to come and work, and don't want to leave...
2024-01-2453 minThee Uncommon Podcast5 Ways to WIN the WinterWhat is your relationship with winter - specifically with the cold?
If you live in a place that experiences winter in its fullest: cold, snow, darkness... it's easy to get bogged down with the "winter blues."
We can default to a hunker down mentality in which we become recluse and inactive during these frosty months - which doesn't help us in any respects to create Uncommon lives.
But what if we could reframe our relationship to the cold, and put the W-I-N in winter?!
In this episode, I unpack 5 ways for us...
2024-01-1722 minThee Uncommon PodcastRethinking Drinking: Jump Start a Healthy 2024 with Dry JanuaryWhat does a healthy 2024 look like for you?
Is it signing up for that gym membership?
Is it reigning in your diet?
Maybe its cutting out unhealthy habits - or even relationships...
In this episode we look at the benefits of Dry January - abstaining from alcohol for the 1st month of the year.
You'll learn about some of the physical, mental and emotional benefits that result from eliminating alcohol consumption for 1 month including:
Mental clarity and focus
Improved sleep
Boosted energy
Weight management
Heightened liver function
Overall life e...
2024-01-1013 minThee Uncommon Podcast6 Ways for You to Stop Consuming, and Start CREATING Your Uncommon LifeWhen was the last time you created something?
When we're young, we create in order to learn about the world and express ourselves. But as we get older, we tend to lose our creative curiosity and artistic expression. Our time and mental bandwidth are consumed by our jobs and responsibilities, and although we are surrounded by content and art, we succumb to the habit of passive consumption - instead of pursuing active creation.
In this episode I explore 6 benefits of choosing to create:
self-expression & personal growth
skill building & expertise
fostering innovation & critical thinking
contributing to cu...
2024-01-0320 minThee Uncommon PodcastPlanning our Uncommon 2024 using the BIG A## Calendar w/Victoria Garvey pt 2How do you design a year of fun & adventure?
In this pt 2 episode, Victoria and I share our experience with filling out our BIG A## calendar. We talk about the idea of Building Your Life Resume #BYLR, intentionally designing each year to feature fun, adventure, and challenges that produce personal growth and lifelong memories.
Victoria talks about the importance of scheduling regular rhythms of rest, and prioritizing 1-on-1 experiences with our kids. We also go through the months and explain the mini adventures we have planned.
Finally, Ryan shares his Birthday Misogi - his...
2023-12-2739 minThee Uncommon PodcastLongevity: a Biblical look at man's desire to live foreverWhat comes to mind when you think about death?
What emotions surface? What questions or thoughts are you confronted by?
In this episode we explore people's fixation with longevity - extending their lives at all costs. While we promote our pillar of Holistic Health and encourage all people to aspire to live healthy lives, is the desire to live as long as possible and "cheat" death a God honoring pursuit?
Or should we be excited for death, knowing that our last breath in this life ushers us into eternity with our Creator?
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2023-12-2028 minThee Uncommon PodcastPlanning our Uncommon 2024 using the BIG A## Calendar w/Victoria Garvey pt.1How can you make 2024 the most Uncommon year of your life?
That's exactly what we're trying to find out in this episode, as I sit down with my lovely wife Victoria to talk about the tool that will help us achieve this goal: the BIG A## Calendar!
This calendar is exactly what it sounds like - it's a 4' x 3' calendar that includes all 365 days, allowing you to use sticky notes to plan your most important events/experiences and visualize your entire year!
This part 1 episode is before we complete our calendar, and...
2023-12-1347 minThee Uncommon Podcast5 Laws of Stratospheric Success How do you view the relationship between giving and success?
For most people, giving is the result of success.
But what if the reality is that giving is the cause of success?
In this installment of Book Reports, Ryan unpacks the principles espoused in the best-selling book, The Go-Giver, by Bob Burg & John David Mann.
This book outlines 5 laws for stratospheric success:
The Law of Value - Your true worth is determined by how much more you give in value than you take in payment
The Law of Compensation - Your income...
2023-12-0633 minThee Uncommon PodcastLive a life of adventure w/Matt KinchHow do you define adventure?
Is it traveling to far off exotic locations?
Is it high octane - even dangerous - physical activity?
Is it interacting with diverse peoples and cultures?
Perhaps it's a combination of each - or something else entirely...
Is adventure reserved solely for action movie stars, or real life explorers?
Do you believe that adventure is for YOU?
We believe that adventure is a crucial component of an Uncommon life! Adventure forces you out of your comfort zone, it reveals your inner g...
2023-11-2956 minThee Uncommon PodcastElevate Experience recap - Decorah Fly Fishing What can happen when you're willing to just show up?
When you're willing to leave behind your routine and responsibilities for a time, show up and be open to whatever God has in store for you, Uncommon things can happen!
In this episode, Phil & Ryan recount the events from their Elevate Experience in Decorah, IA. There, we and 5 other men spent time fly fishing in Iowa's beautiful Driftless region. We hiked picturesque bluffs. We enjoyed delicious meals and fantastic fellowship. We soaked in God's creation. Formed authentic friendships. And had time for a mental reset as w...
2023-11-221h 02Thee Uncommon PodcastHow to be an Uncommon LeaderHow do you define leadership?
What are the characteristics of a truly Uncommon leader?
Are leaders born, made, or a bit of both?
In this episode, Phillip & Ryan discuss these questions and more in their desire to portray what an Uncommon leaders should look and act like.
Qualities like humility, integrity, ownership, selflessness, empathy and a servant's heart - all of these comprise Uncommon leadership.
We look at how Jesus modeled leadership - and how his "upside down" approach contrasts with the all too common selfish, domineering, and outright oppre...
2023-11-1553 minThee Uncommon PodcastRetribution: Phillip's RAGNAR Redemption!Have you ever felt the urge to redeem yourself by conquering something that once conquered you?
While the word retribution may sound like a Liam Neeson movie (*hint: it is), this was Phillip's mentality as he prepared to face off against the RAGNAR again: to completely dominate the race that left him hobbled the year prior.
In this episode he recounts his 2nd go at the team relay race, his mentality and the type of teammate he was. He tells us about his teammates and the different dynamics of running 15 miles over the course of 2 days...
2023-11-0834 minThee Uncommon PodcastCelebrating God's Faithfulness Through the Years w/John OttleyWhen did you last take time to purposefully reflect on God's faithfulness to you over your life?
Why is reflecting on God's faithfulness important?
Doing so will actually bolster our own faith in Him, as we recount His blessings and sustaining presence in our lives. Gratitude will help us fix our eyes on what is there, instead of what isn't. When we focus on the ways in which God has blessed us, this thankfulness will produce in us an abiding joy that the world can't touch.
In today's episode, I sit down with John...
2023-11-011h 02Thee Uncommon PodcastThe Joy of Pursuing Christ in CommunityWhat does your community look like?
Do you think of community as your immediate family, co-workers, church members, or that small close-knit group of high school buddies you still keep in touch with?
Better question: What are you willing to do to ensure that you have authentic community?
Are you willing to go somewhere new, try a different experience, put yourself out there and make that initial intro?
And if you are a Christ follower, what community do you have around you to spur you on in love and good deeds?
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2023-10-2535 minThee Uncommon PodcastWalking in God's Calling for Your Life w/Shiraz SiddiqueHow do you define your calling in life?
Is your calling comprised of what you do in their 9-5?
Does calling consist of the roles we play as spouses, parents, friends, employees?
Or do we each inherently possess a singular purpose with which God has created and intended us for in this life?
And how do you know if/when you're actually walking in your calling?
These questions, and many more, are what my guest, Shiraz Siddique, seeks to answer in his book, Well Done: A Passionate Pursuit of Purpose...
2023-10-1859 minThee Uncommon PodcastMilestones: Reflecting on 5 years of marriage w/Victoria Garvey (my beautiful wife!) pt. 2 *Mix up your dating lifeWhy should you & your spouse prioritize dating in your marriage?
If you've been married for more than a year, you've likely learned that infatuation is a phase, and it takes intentionality to maintain the passion and excitement in marriage. As we settle into our routines of married life, it's easy to unconsciously start to "drift" away from pursuing romance, fun and intimacy.
So we need to have regular rhythms of dating!
In this episode I am joined agin by my wonderful wife Victoria to reflect together on our imperfect - yet intentional - app...
2023-10-1146 minThee Uncommon PodcastMilestones: Reflecting on 5 years of marriage w/Victoria Garvey (my beautiful wife!) pt. 1How do you keep your marriage, fun, fresh, and Christ-centered?
In this episode, I sit down with my 1-and-only beautiful wifey, Victoria, as we reflect on the last 5 years of our marriage: the good, the bad, and everything in between.
We share the lessons we've learned (and are still learning), the mistakes we've made (and how we've grown), and our approach to prioritizing quality time together, and casting Victorious Vision.
Marriage is inherently difficult. We've learned the hard way how to temper our expectations, work on clear communication, and practicing gratitude when it'd be...
2023-10-041h 14Thee Uncommon PodcastHow to Craft your Family Mission StatementWhat is your family's mission?
It can be strange to think of your family having a mission, but another way to think of this question would be to consider the nonnegotiable values & principles that guide your family's decisions and trajectory.
In this episode, we look at the purpose of having a family mission statement, how to write one, and how it will enhance your relationships and unify your family as a whole.
This statement is a living document that will evolve over time as your values evolve, and you are able to include you...
2023-09-2712 minThee Uncommon PodcastChoosing Compassion over Comparison on your Uncommon journeyHow do I get my partner to pursue personal growth and success?
This question - or some variation of it - is asked by many individuals who are striving to excel in life. Whether it be elevating their health & fitness, reigning in their finances, investing in their relationships, advancing in their careers, etc... the temptation is to look at those close to us and wonder,
Why aren't they doing the same thing as me?
Don't they see how hard I'm working, and the results I'm getting?
And while these questions can be w...
2023-09-2049 minThee Uncommon PodcastLiving on through your Legacy LetterWhat does legacy mean to you?
Is it an inheritance to your children?
Is it a business that is succeeded after you leave?
Or is your legacy defined by the values and vision you impart to your loved ones?
However you define legacy, you must take it upon yourself to see that your legacy is preserved. But how do you go about this?
On today's episode we look at the Legacy Letter. This letter is designed for you to reflect on and share you life experience, as well as impart...
2023-09-1319 minThee Uncommon PodcastMOVE boldly towards what God is calling you to w/Aaron KellerWhat does it take to move boldly toward whatever God is calling you?
Short answer: faith
Similar to the father of our faith, Abraham, we may experience times where God is calling us to leave what is familiar and "safe" and instead go to a place he will reveal to us.
It's intimidating to venture out without having the final destination, without knowing what might happen, but it's also the starting place for adventure and transformation! And when we will just take that 1st step and move, there's no telling what God will do...
2023-09-0647 minThee Uncommon PodcastCreating your Uncommon journey through clarity, connection & adventure with Kyle DepiesseWhat do you do when you discover that the path you're on isn't leading to the Uncommon life you desire?
You create a new path.
Such was the case for our guest today, Kyle Depiesse. Several years back Kyle had essentially achieved the American dream: a secure job with benefits and generous salary. And yet, he found himself frustrated, unfulfilled, a corporate burnout, and seriously reassessing his definition of success.
He knew there had to be more.
To compound matters, he and his wife had just welcomed the birth of their son, a...
2023-08-3058 minThee Uncommon PodcastSolitude: My reflections from 24 hours spent in dark silenceWhat comes to mind when you hear the word "solitude"?
Maybe it's loneliness. Maybe boredom.
Maybe you think of prison and solitary confinement. Psychological torture?
What about peace? Clarity? Contentment? Gratitude?
Depending on one's approach and mindset going in, the experience can be largely positive or negative.
For starters, we can define solitude as a state of peaceful aloneness or voluntary isolation that offers prolonged self-reflection in the absence of distraction or disturbance.
In this episode, Ryan shares his thoughts & reflections after spending 24 continuous hours in dark & silent soli...
2023-08-2338 minThee Uncommon Podcast3 Ingredients for creating 1 Uncommon yearHow do we create an Uncommon life?
An Uncommon life results from the compounded effect of living Uncommon years. So how do we design an Uncommon year?
In this episode we explore 3 "ingredients" to an Uncommon year:
1 misogi challenge
6 mini adventures
1 quarterly habit for success
We look at how the misogi challenge will help you set the tone for your year as you achieve a seemingly insurmountable challenge and experience transformation. From there you will purposefully plan 6 mini adventures throughout your year. Think of these as smaller vacations or experiences that you've never had...
2023-08-1626 min
Thee Uncommon PodcastModeling Joy in all you do with James SanigularWhat are you modeling to those around you?
Who are you a role model to? Your spouse, kids, co-workers, friends, strangers?
And who is a role model to you - whether consciously or subconsciously?
These are just some of the questions we consider on this episode where we sat down with our good friend James Sanigular. James is an entrepreneur with a background in sales, advertising, public speaking, modeling and more. He currently serves as the Dir of Sales at Ayo Foods, a family owned producer of delicious West African frozen foods and sauc...
2023-08-0954 minThee Uncommon PodcastDoes God Laugh at Our Plans?Does God laugh at our plans?
It's been said, "If you wanna make God laugh, tell Him your plans!" ;D
But does God's word reveal about His sovereignty and perspective of our human plans?
Proverbs 19:21 tells us that, Many are the plans in a person's heart, but it is the Lord's will that prevails...
Some other passages that speak to this include:
Psalm 18:30 As for God, His way is perfect: The Lord's word is flawless; He shields all who take refuge in Him
Psalm 115:3 Our God is in heaven; He does...
2023-08-0233 minThee Uncommon PodcastSeeing & Serving others like Christ w/Anderson SainciWhat does it mean to see others as Christ sees them?
It starts with an understanding that all people - regardless of their ethnic, political or socioeconomic backgrounds - are created in the image of God (Gen 1:27); and as such, are endowed with inherent dignity and worth.
We are then able to look past our differences and celebrate our union in Christ. Because Jesus gave of Himself on the cross, He has destroyed all barriers and overcome all hostility, reconciling man to God, and man to man.
In this episode, Ryan & Anderson discuss this go...
2023-07-2655 minThee Uncommon PodcastWhy You Need to Create Your FAMLY VISION BOARDHow do you create victorious vision as a family?
Creating victorious vision requires an understanding of your core values. Once you (and your spouse) are clear on your values, you can effectively cast vision to your family, and work together to design your compelling future! If you've never discovered your Core Values before, you can download our awesome worksheet here: Discover Your Core Values worksheet
One of the most Uncommon tools at your disposal is the Family Vision Board. No, we're not talking manifesting yachts & Maseratis. What we're talking about is creating a prominent display of...
2023-07-1931 minThee Uncommon PodcastHow to Invest in your ValuesWhat words or pictures come to mind when you hear the word "invest"?
Retirement?Sacrifice? Risky? Delayed gratification?
One important aspect of investing that's too often overlooked is Values.
What are your core values - the nonnegotiable things in life that bring you the most joy & fulfillment?
We all have things in life that we say are important to us, whether travel, philanthropy, health/fitness, the latest toys, or making family memories. Yet too often there's a disconnect between what we say we value, and how we invest our mo...
2023-07-1229 minThee Uncommon PodcastChasing Your Dreams with Intentionality w/Mike Rice"Every morning we have 2 choices: 1) keep sleeping with our dreams or 2) Get up and chase them!"
That's a quote from my guest, Mike Rice. Mike works as an IT Staffing Executive with Golden Technology and has over 20 years of consulting experience. He’s also very active with non-profit work and serves on the board of an awesome charity called Single Parent Provision. Mike is a husband, father - and most importantly a follower of Jesus Christ.
In this episode we discuss everything from Mike's testimony, to his work and how he views the workplace as h...
2023-07-0552 minThee Uncommon PodcastWho Moved My Cheese?How do you respond to unforeseen change in your life?
Do you panic? Do you curse your misfortune? Do you shrug and smile?
If you follow Jesus, how should you respond to change? It's natural for us to view change as an inconvenience or even a threat to our well being. But what if we viewed change as a chance to place greater faith in God, die to ourselves, and receive new opportunities and blessings from our God who loves us?
In his groundbreaking book, Who Moved My Cheese? author Spencer Johnson tells a fab...
2023-06-2817 minThee Uncommon PodcastCreating an Uncommon Marriage by Investing in Your Spouse w/Tyler & Tallis StrubHow should you respond when your spouse shares their most audacious dreams with you?
What are the typical responses? Skepticism. Amusement. Fear...
What about whole hearted support?
To be sure, there are necessary questions to be asked, and a certain level of pragmatism to be exercised. But what if we leaned into supporting and encouraging our partner to shoot for the stars, to blaze their own Uncommon path?
What if one of the best ways for us to love our spouses is to fully support and invest in their dreams?
Th...
2023-06-2151 minThee Uncommon PodcastLeaving a Legacy of Lasting Leadership with Josh TerrellWhat do you want your legacy to look like?
What is the legacy you're creating today?
It might be best to start with your definition of "legacy." Is the inheritance you leave behind to loved ones? Maybe it's starting a business, organization or charity that will endure beyond your living years. Maybe it's "ever green" content or art you create.
When considering legacy it helps to think about the enduring impact you will leave with your life.
And a major aspect of impact is relationships. What legacy will you leave as a sp...
2023-06-1447 minThee Uncommon PodcastDeveloping Resiliency through Overcoming Life's Challenges w/Jonathan YorkWhat does it look like to live a resilient life?
Can resiliency only be gained through the gauntlet of unrelenting trials? Or, can resiliency be learned and cultivated by intentionally doing hard things?
In this episode, Ryan sits speaks with Jonathan York with Resilient Man Project.
Jonathan shares his story of overcoming addiction and cultivating resiliency through the many challenges he's faced in life. Jonathan tells about how he placed his faith in Jesus Christ while in prison, then later met the love of his wife, started a family, as well as a success...
2023-06-0748 minThee Uncommon PodcastTransforming Your Identity through Uncommon Goal Setting pt. 2We continue our conversation from pt 1, as we look at how to create SMART goals, reflect on our motives, and put effective systems in place to give us the best odds for success.
Download our FREE Goals System worksheet and start creating your own Uncommon goals today!
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2023-05-3135 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Building Deep Bonds w/our Kids through Emotional LabelingHow do we build deep bonds with our kids?
Is it by playing with them at the park? Taking them to their favorite restaurant? Buying them their favorite toy?
While it's good to be aware of our kids' love languages, the research shows that the #1 way to build deep bonds with our kids is by helping them process their emotions in difficult situations.
In this episode the men in our Fraternity discuss the importance of building deep bonds as fathers, and reflect on the do's and don'ts of helping our kids label their emo...
2023-05-2944 minThee Uncommon PodcastTransforming Your Identity through Uncommon Goal Setting pt. 1What kind of goals do you set?
What question are most people trying to answer when they set a goal? What am I trying to achieve?
But is this the right - or most important - question to ask?
What if we reframed goal setting with the question: Who am I trying to become?
In this episode Phil & Ryan look at an Uncommon but effective approach to goal setting that focuses on 2 main aspects:
Creating SMART goals
Creating identity-based goals
By aligning our goals with our core values and attach...
2023-05-2430 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - How to Boost our Happy Hormones :)Ever wonder why sometimes you feel inexplicably happy - while other times you're bummed?
Part of the answer lies in the chemicals produced in our bodies, particularly the chemicals affectionately known as the "happy hormones."
Chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and cortisol each have their own role in producing both short and long term happiness in our lives - as well as the lives of those around us. These chemicals affect our minds, our moods and our bodies. And there are a whole host of factors & situations that impact the production of these chemicals, including ou...
2023-05-2236 minThee Uncommon PodcastReflections from our Elevate Experience - with Tom & ChrisWhat can your life look like after participating in our Elevate Experience?
We sit down for a conversation with Tom & Chris - 2 of the participants in our MN Elevate Experience - to hear about the growth they've experienced since our weekend retreat.
We've all experienced some version of the "summer camp high": you go to a weekend retreat, meet some awesome people, hear some inspirational speeches, and set some loft goals... only to return home to your routine and grind and forget all about the vision you were so excited about.
Well, that's com...
2023-05-1737 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Elevating our Marriages through Emotional IntelligenceHow can emotional intelligence help us elevate our marriages?
When we understand that there are different chemicals at play in our own - as well as our spouse's - body and emotions, then we can begin the work towards producing the positive chemicals, and limiting the negative (harmful) chemicals.
Did you know that there are some simple skills we can learn & practice that will actually decrease cortisol aka the "stress hormone," and increase oxytocin aka the "bonding chemical"?
Skills like emotional labeling, active listening or mirroring, and resisting avoidance of tough subjects can each...
2023-05-1543 minThee Uncommon PodcastLeading Your Son on a Rite of Passage w/Phil & Beckham RamseyWhen did you know that you became a man?
This is a question that most men can't answer.
And this question - and its answer - highlight an important need for young men in our society. A need to understand what makes a true man, and how they can begin their transition from boyhood to manhood.
In this episode, Ryan interviews Phil and his eldest son Beckham, following Beckham's 13th birthday and the Rite of Passage weekend that Phil organized for him.
In this episode you will learn about some of the h...
2023-05-1051 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - What is Emotional Intelligence, and how can I get some?What is emotional intelligence, and why should I want it?
Emotional Intelligence (EQ) can be defined as the ability to use emotions effectively … for relating to people, sustaining drive, and making optimal decisions.
EQ shows up in our ability to feel, label and understand & process our emotions in a healthy way.
In this edition of our LIVE Fraternity call, we unpack why EQ is an important skill, how we can elevate our EQ, and the positive impacts it will have on our relationships and life as a whole.
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2023-05-0844 minThee Uncommon PodcastHelping Others Unlock their Inner Greatness w/RJ SumrallHow do you unlock your inner greatness?
For many people, having a coach to come along side them is a crucial element of tapping into their potential.
In this episode, Phillip & Ryan speak with RJ Sumrall of Sumrall Coaching, an organization seeking to help educators and coaches Connect, Motivate, and Mobilize their students and athletes in their pursuit of greatness! RJ has a background in collegiate sports, and is the Area Director Mid-Iowa for the Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA).
RJ shares about his background as a young athlete, in need of a coach...
2023-05-0344 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Creating a Family Discipleship Plan pt 2We continue our conversation around family discipleship from last week, considering the merits of pursuing family discipleship in spite of the very real challenges.
If you're listening to this and want to take the 1st step on creating your own plan for family discipleship, click the link to get your own FREE copy of our Family Discipleship Plan!
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2023-05-0142 minThee Uncommon PodcastThe 10 Questions to Help You Create An Uncommon Life
How do the questions you ask yourself shape the person you're becoming?
Tony Robins famously said that, The quality of your life is a direct reflection of the quality of questions you are asking yourself
If we aspire to lead Uncommon lives, then we oughta be asking ourselves Uncommon questions!
In this episode, Phil and Ryan share their own Top 10 list of questions they believe can help to create an Uncommon life. While this is certainly not an exhaustive list, we hope that these questions will inspire you to think critically about...
2023-04-2645 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Creating a Family Discipleship Plan pt 1What is Family Discipleship?
We can define "discipleship" as making followers Jesus.
So a definition of family discipleship might be, creating intentional time built into the rhythms of the family’s life for the purpose of thinking about, talking about and living out the gospel.
As men - husbands and fathers - what is our role in family discipleship? Who's primarily responsible for discipling our kids?
Their pastor or youth group leader(s)?
Their teacher (if they attend a Christian school)
Their peer group?
Or, are we as fathers primarily responsible for discipl...
2023-04-2437 minThee Uncommon PodcastStart with the end in mind: write your own eulogy!What does it mean to start with the end in mind?
We believe in the power of visualization: imagining and picturing your desired outcome as a means of achieving your greatest goals. And what better goal than to live a life of purpose and impact?
In this episode, Phil & Ryan discuss the power of writing your own eulogy, or the story that will be shared about you at your funeral. While funerals are somber occasions, this is not intended to be a morbid exercise; but rather an opportunity to reflect on the life you want to...
2023-04-1936 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Leading our wives spirituallyAs husbands, what does it look like to lead our wives spiritually?
How do we rightly think about submission in our marriage? What does it practically look like for us to love and lead our wives "as Christ loved the church," and to practice servant leadership?
That's what we unpack on this community call. We look at some of the challenges we face as husbands to lead our wives in our faith, as well as practical action we can take to fulfill this calling.
No matter where you're at in this journey, know that...
2023-04-1743 minThee Uncommon PodcastEmbracing adventure and joy while traveling the world w/Samantha BurmeisterWhat does a day in the life of a digital nomad look like?
In this episode, Phillip and Ryan have a conversation with thee Samantha Burmeister from 9 to 5 nomad. Samantha has created an Uncommon life defined by her core values of freedom, joy and adventure, which empowers her to do worthwhile work all over the globe!
In this episode we discuss:
the beauty of travel and experiencing other cultures in shaping our own world view
the freedom found through financial independence to be able to design your compelling future
the importance of creating worthwhile goals...
2023-04-1247 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Fervent Faith: Our Position in Christ2 words: In Christ
In this community call we explore our position and identity in Jesus: the blessings and benefits that we have as a result of placing our faith in His atoning sacrifice!
We look at passages from Ephesians 1, John 15, and Revelation 2, and discuss the importance of understanding, reflecting and celebrating our union with Christ!
We also discuss the recent Rite of Passage retreat that Phil took his 13 year old son, Beckham on, and consider the importance of helping our young sons be able to answer the question, "When did you know you wer...
2023-04-1044 minThee Uncommon PodcastHow to be a Top Dog (not a lone wolf)Are you a lone wolf?
Are you a Top Dog?
What's the difference between the two? Are there good & bad qualities of both?
In this episode, Phil and Ryan reflect on the merits and pitfalls of lone wolf mentality, and discuss how you can maintain your sense of creativity and individuality within the context of a tribe or community.
As people striving to walk our own Uncommon path, we don't want to forsake the unique traits that make us who we are, but we also don't want to allow our sense of i...
2023-04-0537 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Worthwhile Work Recap / Sneak Peak of Next Month...It's the last week of the month, and you know what that means...
Time to recap the month!
In this episode the men share their wins & conundrums; we review the goals we've set for ourselves; and we (sort of) review the month's topics for our Worthwhile Work pillar.
Again, we covered the following topics - and you can go back and listen to those episodes:
Viewing work as worship
Avoiding burnout through rhythms of rest
Being a leader & light in your workplace
Pursuing passion in your profession
As always, thanks for list...
2023-04-0337 minThee Uncommon PodcastUnlocking the power of fastingWhat is fasting?
Is it cutting out food - or just certain foods - for a time? We hear about TV or social media "fasts" - but is that true fasting?
In this episode, Phillip & Ryan explore biblical principles around fasting, the various approaches in today's culture, as well as share their own experiences with fasting and the resulting benefits.
Whether you practice a regular discipline of fasting, or you've never fasted a day in your life, know that you can do it an experience the host of physical, mental and spiritual breakthrough! The...
2023-03-2930 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Pursuing Passion in our ProfessionHow important is passion in your work?
Is it reasonable for us to desire to do a job that aligns with our passions? Or should our priority be to just work hard and provide for our families? And are those mutually exclusive, or can we have both?
In this episode we discuss the relationship of passion to the work we do. Some seasons of our vocational lives align more with our passions, while other seasons find us struggling to feel fulfilled in our work. We may have to persevere in a work situation that poses ma...
2023-03-2746 minThee Uncommon PodcastIgniting the Fire Within You, w/Luis Leonardo & Harrison KleinHow can you ignite the fire within you?
What does your journey look like of becoming a better YOU?
In this episode, Ryan reconnects with Luis & Harrison, the partners and masterminds behind Embrace North & Built to Breathe. Together, they are creating a movement with the mission of empowering people to ignite the fire within through sauna & cold plunge therapy, breath-focused training, and embracing a lifestyle of movement, nature, and community, aka the "sauna papi lifestyle"!
You will learn the importance of breath consciousness in optimizing training and recovery, as well as managing stress and...
2023-03-2247 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - How to be a servant leader in your workplaceHow do you define a servant leader?
Humility? Courage? Integrity? Encourager?
What does it look like to be a servant leader in your workplace? And what would be the results of answering this call?
On this edition of Thee Fraternity LIVE call, the men in our community answer these questions, as well as discuss some of the challenges to being a servant leader, and the blessings that outweigh these challenges.
One thing is for sure:
Being a servant leader is Uncommon.
Jesus was the ultimate servant leader. He demo...
2023-03-2043 minThee Uncommon Podcast*Bonus Episode! Taking off the Know-it-all MaskWhat are the masks we hide behind?
In his book, The Mask of Masculinity, author Lewis Howes highlights several of the masks men tend to hide behind, 1 of them being the Know-it-all mask, or the "tendency or need to fill the void with the sound of your own voice."
In this solo episode, Ryan reflects on the know-it-all mask, how it's manifested in his own life, the detriments of this mask, and the positive outcomes of shedding this mask and embracing his authentic self.
The pressures to wear this mask range from insecurities, fears...
2023-03-1735 minThee Uncommon PodcastThe Surprising Benefits of Being... SURPRISED!Apply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
Surprise!
When was the last time you experienced a truly amazing surprise? Was it a surprise party? A surprise gift? A surprising piece of news? When we were kids we marveled at the world around us, and we loved being surprised! But as we get older, it becomes more rare for us to enjoy surprises; and our tendency is to associate surprises with negativity, like an unexpected expense or surprise diagnosis.
We want to turn this norm on its head and create space in our lives for surp...
2023-03-1525 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Avoiding burnout through rhythms of restWhat is burnout and how do we avoid it?
On this call we discussed the importance & value of hard work, and the ever-present threat of burnout to knock us off course.
God has given us the mandate to create and cultivate, and to identity with Him in our work - and also in our rest. The 4th commandment - and the most descriptive - is to honor the Sabbath day and keep it holy. Just as God rested from His work of creation on the 7th day, He has called us - blessed us - wi...
2023-03-1343 minThee Uncommon PodcastCultivating mental health by embracing authentic community w/Ian Nelson-JohnsonApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
How are you doing?
It's a question we all ask. And it's a question we're asked, to which we reply with, Good, Fine, Busy, etc.
But how are you, really? When do you take time to honestly ponder your mental well being? What authentic relationship(s) do you have where you could safely share about your struggles, fears, anxieties, hopes, disappointments, pain, dreams?
In this episode, Phil and Ryan have a conversation with Ian Nelson-Johnson PSY.D., L.P. - and Thee Fraternity Founding Father to di...
2023-03-0844 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Viewing our work as worshipWhat does is mean to view our work as worship?
In this episode we discuss God's original mandate to man to create and cultivate. What does it mean for us to have dominion over God's creation, and to work in a manner that properly displays His glory?
You can learn more about what it means to view work as worship by watching this video: https://youtu.be/PAf3-PKWCc4
We also shared the challenges we face in our work to reflect God's glory, and ways that we can practically overcome these challenges.
You...
2023-03-0641 minThee Uncommon PodcastStep out of your comfort zone, and into your Uncommon!Apply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
Is your comfort zone holding you back?
Is comfort good for us, or is it detrimental - and downright dangerous?
In this episode Phillip and Ryan unpack what comfort is, why it's so enticing, and how it creeps up in our lives? Certainly leisure and vices are not all inherently bad, but how do we enjoy those things without idolizing comfort?
It's likely we'd all agree that we experience more growth when challenged - as opposed to living comfortably - and yet so few of us co...
2023-03-0136 min2023-02-2745 minThee Uncommon PodcastHow to be a person of your wordApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
Are you a person of your word?
What does that even mean - being a person of your word? Is it just keeping your promises? Is it being where you say you'll be, doing what you say you'll do, when you say you will?
Where do qualities like integrity, dependability, and trustworthiness intersect, and where are they different? How does knowing your core values empower you to be a person of your word?
In this episode, Phil and Ryan unpack what it means to them to b...
2023-02-2230 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - Are YOU an Uncommon friend?What makes an Uncommon friend? And are YOU one? In this episode we discuss the character traits of an Uncommon friend: loyalty, trustworthy, reliable, consistent, authentic and loving. We share stories of times where we experienced Uncommon friendship, and the impact it had on us. We also talk about why friendship matters, and how it elevates us in our roles as husbands and fathers, as well as optimizing our mental and emotional health. If you're looking for Uncommon friendship, look no further than this community - we'd love to have you join us as we navigate our Uncommon journeys...
2023-02-2034 minThee Uncommon PodcastElevate Experience recap - MN Fire & Ice!What do you get when you take 5 relative strangers, place them in a new city for 48 hours, and throw Uncommon surprises at them?
You get Thee Uncommon Elevate Experience!
In this episode, Phil & Ryan recount their amazing leadership adventure retreat with a group of 3 brave men looking to elevate their lives. What transpired was nothing short of life changing adventure! There were flames, freezing water, saunas, crocodile breathing, dogs, and a 48 ounce tomahawk steak... we don't call it MN fire & ice for nuthin'!
Looking for your own Uncommon experience in the Twin Cities? Here...
2023-02-1544 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE - how to intentionally connect with our kidsWhat does an Uncommon father look like?
It's been said that kids spell "love" T-I-M-E. When it comes to parenting, we need to give our kids the value of quality time. It's not enough to just show up: we need to strive to be engaged and intentional fathers. There's too much at stake to settle for less.
In this LIVE community call we discuss challenges and strategies around forging intentional connections with our kids.
We look at the intentional practice of noticing and naming the positive qualities our children embody. We look at th...
2023-02-1339 minThee Uncommon PodcastOwning Your Journey through Discipline, Commitment, & Accountability w/Amy BoydApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
What does it mean to own your journey?
In this episode, Phil & Ryan sit down with Amy Boyd - wife, mother, follower of Christ, and fitness coach extraordinaire! We discuss a variety of topics from blended families, cultivating personal growth through discipline, celebrating your spouse's strengths, and sharing your faith through your work. Amy inspires with her powerful story of owning her own journey by surrendering control to God.
Be encouraged and motivated to own your own Uncommon journey by taking risks, gaining new skills, and learning from...
2023-02-0843 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Fraternity LIVE Community Call - Creating an Uncommon MarriageEver wonder what Thee Uncommon Fraternity community looks like?
Well, wonder no more, as we give you a look under the hood of our weekly calls as we discuss the skills we're learning, and share crowd sourced wisdom in our quest to grow as we navigate our own Uncommon journeys together. In this episode we discuss the million dollar question: To get a dog, or not to get a dog? We also look at what makes an Uncommon marriage, and share what the current biggest struggles in our marriages are (hint: communication).
*Application for our...
2023-02-0642 minThee Uncommon PodcastPhillip Ramsey: Warrior from the godsApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
What is a "Ragnar"?
Just ask our own Phillip Ramsey - Warrior of the gods - who retells his experience of completing his 1st Ragnar Race down in Texas.
He recounts how he "embraced the suck," and in the process learned how to:
listen to his body and know his limits
find the fun in the midst of struggle
connect with a group of strangers over a shared goal
Be inspired and encouraged to step out of your own comfort zone, and discover the strength in a...
2023-02-0128 minThee Uncommon PodcastWhat I (Ryan) learned from my weekend with 200 dadsApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
What would it look like to spend an entire weekend in a hotel ballroom with 200 other dads?
In this episode, Ryan shares about such an experience as he attended a dad's conference. We talk about the challenges and benefits of entering into times of intensive community and group work, and the healing that happens as well as the vision that is born.
Ryan also shares about the importance of putting a plan of action into place after attending such a conference. It's one thing to go, interact and...
2023-01-2531 minThee Uncommon PodcastWhy Everyone should have a Financial Friend w/Andrew PistoriusApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
What is a 'financial friend,' and why should you have one?
In this episode, Phil and Ryan are joined by Andrew Pistorious, to discuss the importance of having a financial friend. No, we're not talking about an accountant that you're chummy with - we mean a close friend who knows the ins-and-outs of your financial picture, as well as your goals & values, and can hold you accountable to keep your money and values in alignment.
Ask yourself, "Who is someone in my life that I trust to s...
2023-01-1840 minThee Uncommon PodcastHow to invite God's Abundance into your lifeWhat does "abundance" mean from a biblical standpoint? How do we invite God's abundance into our lives from a place of pure motives? In this episode, Phil and Ryan share their words for 2023, and unpack what biblical abundance looks like, and how we can pray and invite God's abundance into our lives for His glory! Thank you for listening to the show, please follow, rate/review and share the show so this message can spread and help more people on their own Uncommon journeys!
2023-01-1137 minThee Uncommon PodcastCasting victorious vision with your spouse through a family goal setting retreatApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
How can you and your spouse get on the same page when it comes to designing the compelling future you want to live into?
In this episode, Ryan shares of his experience with doing family goal setting retreats with his wife, including a comical stay at Great Wolf Lodge (with no kids;)
Be challenged and inspired to do your own family goal setting retreat - and utilize our free template!
When planning your own retreat, remember the following:
have you and your wife work throu...
2023-01-0433 minThee Uncommon PodcastVictorious Vision - Using Affirmations & Visualization to Design Your Uncommon LifeApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
How do you create a Victorious Vision for your life? Where do you want to get to, and who do you want to become?
In this episode, Phillip & Ryan unpack the benefits of affirmations and visualization in designing your ideal life.
We're not talking about the new age concept of manifesting. We are not promoting a pseudoscientific self-help strategy based on law of attraction where you just think really hard about something you want, make a vision board, mutter some mantras, and POOF! your desired outco...
2022-12-2833 minThee Uncommon PodcastHolistic Health - Cultivating Mental & Emotional well beingApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
How do you cultivate "holistic health" in your life?
What does it look like to optimize your physical, mental and emotional well being?
Phillip & Ryan explore how health and fitness are a vital linchpin that directly impact how you show up in your relationships, work, etc. They share their personal approaches to health and fitness, including their exercise routines, eating plans, and productive pause strategies for mental and emotional health.
We realize it's challenging to fire on all cylinders. That's why it's so crucial to have...
2022-12-2123 minThee Uncommon PodcastHolistic Health - Make Exercise Fun Again Today (MEFAT)Apply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
How do you cultivate "holistic health" in your life?
What does it look like to optimize your physical, mental and emotional well being?
Phillip & Ryan explore how health and fitness are a vital linchpin that directly impact how you show up in your relationships, work, etc. They share their personal approaches to health and fitness, including their exercise routines, eating plans, and productive pause strategies for mental and emotional health.
We realize it's challenging to fire on all cylinders. That's why it's so crucial to have...
2022-12-1436 minThee Uncommon PodcastFervent Faith - Phillip's TestimonyApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
What does it look like to practice fervent faith?
Phillip shares his testimony, how a trial during college forced him to reassess his relationship with God, and recommit himself. He also shares the powerful witness of his then girlfriend (now wife) Erin, and how God sovereignly caused them to be apart so they could both grow in their faith.
Wherever you are in your faith journey, please know that YOU are loved by your Creator God, and He has an amazing life for you to live if you w...
2022-12-0727 minThee Uncommon PodcastFervent Faith - Ryan's TestimonyApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
What does it look like to practice fervent faith?
In this episode, Ryan shares his testimony, how heartbreak in college led him to truly surrendering his heart and life to Christ for the first time - despite growing up in a Christian home and attending church his whole life.
All of our journeys look different, with seasons of sorrow and seasons of joy. Wherever you are at in your faith journey, be encouraged to know that YOU are loved by your Creator God, and He has an ama...
2022-11-3029 minThee Uncommon PodcastRadical Generosity with Matt JoensApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
What does it look like to practice "radical" generosity?
Phillip and Ryan sit down with Matt Joens to discuss radical generosity: what does it look like, and why is it important? Is it truly better to give than to receive? We think so.
Matt shares stories of several individuals who modeled radical generosity to him, and inspired him to carry that legacy forward in his own life. We encourage you to reflect on your own level of generosity, and consider how you might take it to the next...
2022-11-2344 minThee Uncommon PodcastStellar Stewardship - How to exceptionally manage your time, talents and treasuresApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
When it comes to your time, talents, and treasures - are you an owner or a manager?
In this episode, Phillip and Ryan unpack the idea of stewardship, the exceptional management of our God-given resources. What does it look like to be a faithful steward of what God has entrusted to us?
When we view what we have as gifts, rather than personal possessions, we step into the freedom of living selfless instead of selfish, and can focus on generosity instead of greed.
Our encouragement to yo...
2022-11-1631 minThee Uncommon PodcastWorthwhile Work - Pursuing Passion in Your ProfessionApply now for Thee Uncommon Experiences
How do you define worthwhile work?
Is it a job that pays the bills? Is it work that's not necessarily lucrative, but aligns with your core values. Is it a career that allows you to learn, progress, and impact others? Is it all of these?
Phillip and Ryan share their stories in discovering their own worthwhile work. They discuss their career trajectories that brought them to this present moment, and where they hope to be going next.
Wherever you're at on your career path, we enco...
2022-11-0924 minThee Uncommon PodcastRadical Relationships - Mentoring, with Matt Frey
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What makes a great mentor?
What makes a great mentee, for that matter?
Phillip and Ryan sit down with Matt Frey, Teaching & Equipping Pastor, at Keystone Church in Ankeny, IA.
Matt shares his experience and insights on what a healthy mentor/mentee relationships can look like, as well as the proper motives in approaching either role.
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2022-11-0242 minThee Uncommon PodcastRadical Relationships - How to Connect Intentionally with Your KidsIn our world of technology and endless distraction, how can we connect intentionally with our kids?
In this episode, Phillip & Ryan share about their struggles and successes to be present fathers. They share how they are personally investing in themselves to become better fathers, and the goals they have to create amazing, life-long connection and impact in their kids' lives.
Thank you for listening! Please follow, rate/review and share the show! And connect with us through our facebook community!
2022-10-2543 minThee Uncommon PodcastRadical Relationships - Getting Back on the Field w/Brandon SwettWhat would you do if your sibling said they needed a clean break from the family? That was the experience of today's guest, Brandon Swett, whose twin brother and sister-in-law broke contact from the family for several years. Brandon shares his thoughts and emotions around this falling out, and how he decided to get out of the stands, and back on the field towards reconciling with his brother.
Thank you for listening! Be sure to follow, rate/review, and share the show! And engage with our facebook community!
2022-10-2539 minThee Uncommon PodcastRadical Relationships - Uncommon FriendshipWhat kind of friend are you?
What makes an Uncommon friend?
We believe an Uncommon friend is one who loves at all times - through the good and bad - who extends grace and forgiveness, and always fights for reconciliation.
In this episode, Ryan shares a personal story about a friendship lost, and what he did - and didn't - do to fight for reconciliation. Ultimately the road to reconciliation is a two-way street. So while we can't control the actions and decisions of the other person, we are responsible for doing everything in...
2022-10-2532 minThee Uncommon PodcastRadical Relationships - Creating an Uncommon MarriageWhat does an Uncommon marriage look like?
What kind of spouse do you desire to be? Who does your spouse need you to be? In this episode, Phillip & Ryan unpack Thee Uncommon pillar of Radical Relationships. They share their marriage stories, the mistakes they've made and lessons they've learned. In this episode you will learn the following:
How to make positive deposits into your spouse's emotional bank account
Communication techniques to create deep emotional intimacy
How to love your spouse in their love language
Thanks for listening, be sure to follow, r...
2022-10-2545 minThee Uncommon PodcastDeveloping Your Authentic Self through Core ValuesIf someone asked you the question, "Who are you?" how would you answer? What's the 1st thing that comes to mind? Is it your faith? Family? Your career? Do you define yourself by your personality, your passions, or abilities? Maybe you don't even know where to begin. But we can all agree it's an important question. A defining trait of an Uncommon life is authenticity: allowing others to see and know your true self. But for that to happen, you first need to know who you are. And to discover and develop your authentic self, you need to know...
2022-10-2529 minThee Uncommon PodcastRotten to the CoreWhat happens when we take our core values too far? They can get distorted and "rotten." In this episode, Phillip & Ryan explore the potential for our good core values to turn bad if we're not honest with our motives. Be sure to follow, rate/review and share the show! And engage with our facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085317301476
2022-10-2527 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Uncommon Origin StoryHow did this all start? How did we go from "Thee Fraternity" to Thee Uncommon? Phillip shares about how an innocent question posted on facebook led to over 80 responses of men and women desiring fun and community. How did we get here, and where are we going? Come along for the ride and find out! Be sure to follow, rate/review and share the show! And like our facebook page to engage with our community: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100085317301476
2022-10-2529 minThee Uncommon PodcastThee Uncommon Podcast IntroWelcome to Thee Uncommon Podcast! What is Thee Uncommon, you ask? Listen to this episode to learn about our mission, vision, and core pillars. Who are we? We're Phillip and Ryan: we are husbands to our wives, fathers to our kids, and we aspire to be authentic in our roles and relationships. We are common, but we serve an UNCOMMON God. We're here to keep it real about our flaws and failures, and to learn from crowd sourced wisdom so we can get 1% better each day. We hope our message resonates with you, and that you find encouragement and...
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