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The Horny ChapelThe Horny Chapel- Diana: Conservative Iranian Immigrant to Sex-Positive OnlyFans StarIn deconstruction circles, it can feel like our experiences are so unique, and in many cases they are, but the struggle for identity and agency in our identities is a universal one. Diana's story of immigrating from England to the US as part of a conservative Iranian family mirrors our fundamentalist Christian upbringings in so many ways. Diana tells her story in exquisite detail, highlighting the racial issues many immigrants face as we as the development of a sexual identity and ethic. Check out Diana's OnlyFans page for sexy, adventurous fun and follow her on YouTube channel...2025-03-211h 27
The Horny ChapelThe Horny Chapel #10- Janice Selbie: Mennonite to Shameless SexualityThis week we talk to therapist, author, and podcaster, Janice Selbie. Scott and Priska saw an ad for the Shameless Sexuality conference and knew they had to talk to Janice about her story in which she went from the most conservative fundamentalist world to a sex-positive, religion-free life. The Pentecostal life wasn't restrictive enough for Janice, so she joined a local group of Mennonites where she did her best to fit in but was never fully accepted by the women there. Now, after an eventful deconstruction phase, Janice has created the Divorcing Religion organization (with a podcast Scott was a guest...2025-03-131h 10
Chapel ProbationThe Horny Chapel- Janice Selbie: Mennonite to Shameless SexualityThis week we talk to therapist, author, and podcaster, Janice Selbie. Scott and Priska saw an ad for the Shameless Sexuality conference and knew they had to talk to Janice about her story in which she went from the most conservative fundamentalist world to a sex-positive, religion-free life. The Pentecostal life wasn't restrictive enough for Janice, so she joined a local group of Mennonites where she did her best to fit in but was never fully accepted by the women there. Now, after an eventful deconstruction phase, Janice has created the Divorcing Religion organization (with a podcast Scott was...2025-03-131h 10
The Horny ChapelThe Horny Chapel Episode 9: Purity Culture...Loopholes...? WTFIn stark contrast to last episode's rundown of Purity Culture's anti-fun, anti-connection, anti-humanity madness, we talk about more recent trends of people trying to remain pure while finding loopholes to avoid sinning. And just like most of christian culture and lifestyle these days, it's fucking confusing. 2025-03-081h 13
The Horny ChapelThe Horny Chapel- Episode 8: I Kissed Dating Goodbye: Worst Book Ever Written?We're about 25 years late to this and about 7 years past Japanese American Joshua Harris denouncing his shitty book, but here we are. After Scott's Substack post about Harris had 4x as many reads as he has subscribers, we figured we should take a look back at why today's Christians are so damaged. A big part of it is purity culture. Scott never read the book, having slammed it shut after the first page, but poor Priska grew up in the height of the purity movement. And she has some feelings and thoughts.
CW- We don't pull any punc...2025-01-251h 54
Chapel ProbationThe Horny Chapel- I Kissed Dating Goodbye: Worst Book Ever Written?We're about 25 years late to this and about 7 years past Japanese American Joshua Harris denouncing his shitty book, but here we are. After Scott's Substack post about Harris had 4x as many reads as he has subscribers, we figured we should take a look back at why today's Christians are so damaged. A big part of it is purity culture. Scott never read the book, having slammed it shut after the first page, but poor Priska grew up in the height of the purity movement. And she has some feelings and thoughts.
CW- We don't pull any...2025-01-251h 54
Chapel ProbationChapel Probation s4- The Horny Chapel #7- The Myth of Addiction in Purity CultureIf you grew up in purity culture, you were taught that things like sex, alcohol, and porn were evil portals to demon possession, and you would become addicted to these kinds of vices. Of course people can become addicted to things, but purity culture lied to us. For most christians, there is no such thing as balanced living with people making choices and decisions about what they want to do or consume. Scott and Priska talk about their own stories and break down some of the falsehoods taught in purity culture that make people afraid to simply live their...2024-12-081h 33
The Horny ChapelThe Horny Chapel Episode 7- The Myth of Addictions in Purity CultureIf you grew up in purity culture, you were taught that things like sex, alcohol, and porn were evil portals to demon possession, and you would become addicted to these kinds of vices. Of course people can become addicted to things, but purity culture lied to us. For most christians, there is no such thing as balanced living with people making choices and decisions about what they want to do or consume. Scott and Priska talk about their own stories and break down some of the falsehoods taught in purity culture that make people afraid to simply live their...2024-12-081h 33
Chapel ProbationChapel Probation s4- The Horny Chapel #6- Waiting Too Long to Break Up with Esther ChoBreaking up is hard to do. It's even harder to do in Purity Culture if you've experienced any degree of physical intimacy with your partner. This leads people to remain in unhealthy and even abusive relationships because of deeply programmed guilt and shame. Esther Cho is a singer/songwriter and dear friend of Priska. She was gracious enough to enter the Horny Chapel and talk about a past relationship that lasted longer than it should have because of purity culture. Esther's beautiful songs can be heard throughout the episode and you listen to her EP here.
The...2024-11-191h 35
The Horny ChapelThe Horny Chapel #6- Waiting Too Long to Breakup w Esther (Mahra)Breaking up is hard to do. It's even harder to do in Purity Culture if you've experienced any degree of physical intimacy with your partner. This leads people to remain in unhealthy and even abusive relationships because of deeply programmed guilt and shame. Esther Cho aka Mahra, is a singer/songwriter and dear friend of Priska. She was gracious enough to enter the Horny Chapel and talk about a past relationship that lasted longer than it should have because of purity culture. Esther's beautiful songs can be heard throughout the episode and you can listen to her EP here...2024-11-181h 35The Horny ChapelThe Horny Chapel Episode 5- Sexual AwakeningPriska and Scott get spicy...well, as spicy as possible within the confines of purity culture...as they talk about their sexual awakenings. Even inside purity culture, curiosity and desire got stimulated, giving them a glimpse into sexual possibilities. From pop culture, movies, music, to their friends, sex and sexuality was on their minds, whether they wanted it to be or not. And as embarrassing or cringey as some of the stories are, Priska and Scott have learned to be gentle with their former selves as they navigated their way out. Hell, they're still navigating.
The Horny...2024-10-291h 28
Chapel ProbationChapel Probation s4: The Horny Chapel #5- Sexual AwakeningPriska and Scott get spicy...well, as spicy as possible within the confines of purity culture...as they talk about their sexual awakenings. Even inside purity culture, curiosity and desire got stimulated, giving them a glimpse into sexual possibilities. From pop culture, movies, music, to their friends, sex and sexuality was on their minds, whether they wanted it to be or not. And as embarrassing or cringey as some of the stories are, Priska and Scott have learned to be gentle with their former selves as they navigated their way out. Hell, they're still navigating.
The Horny...2024-10-291h 28The Horny ChapelHorny Chapel Episode 4: Marriage and Relationships After Purity CultureThis week, Priska and Scott dive into marriages and intimate relationships, sharing their own experiences and talking about the harms done by purity culture that keep people from experiencing real connection and wholeness. We share some deeply personal stories and details of our own lives while unpacking all the trauma in general.
The Horny Chapel is part of the Dauntless Media Collective.
Send us a message at hornychapel@gmail.com
https://www.instagram.com/hornychapel/
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Chapel ProbationChapel Probation s4: The Horny Chapel #4- Marriage and Relationships After Purity CultureThis week, Priska and Scott dive into marriages and intimate relationships, sharing their own experiences and talking about the harms done by purity culture that keep people from experiencing real connection and wholeness. We share some deeply personal stories and details of our own lives while unpacking all the trauma in general.
The Horny Chapel is part of the Dauntless Media Collective.
Send us a message at hornychapel@gmail.com
https://www.instagram.com/hornychapel/
And join our Discord Server for more discussion and fun.2024-10-011h 24
Chapel ProbationChapel Probation s4: Horny Chapel #3 Keiko Agena Talks Purity and Gilmore GirlsThis week we are joined by a special guest, our dear friend
Keiko Agena. Keiko is best known for her role as Lane Kim on the show Gilmore
Girls, but she is also a writer, artist, and beloved member of our AAPI arts
and activist community in Los Angeles. With her own real-life evangelical past
to draw on, she goes deep in analyzing her Lane Kim role as we talk about the
dangers and harms to young women inside of purity culture. Gilmore Girls
superfan, Priska, unleashes 16 years of pent up questions, making this
conversation must-listen for all Gilmore...2024-09-101h 15
The Horny ChapelThe Horny Chapel Episode 3: Special Guest Keiko Agena Talks Purity and Gilmore GirlsThis week we are joined by a special guest, our dear friend Keiko Agena. Keiko is best known for her role as Lane Kim on the show Gilmore Girls, but she is also a writer, artist, and beloved member of our AAPI arts and activist community in Los Angeles. With her own real-life evangelical past to draw on, she goes deep in analyzing her Lane Kim role as we talk about the dangers and harms to young women inside of purity culture. Gilmore Girls superfan, Priska, unleashes 16 years of pent up questions, making this conversation must-listen for all Gilmore...2024-09-101h 15The Horny ChapelThe Horny Chapel Episode 2In this second episode, we're still introducing ourselves, and we compare our experiences as Asian Americans from different generations and in different kinds of churches. But there are still incredible similarities between our experiences...bad ones, mostly. Scott's experiences as a Gen X-er in the 80's was less intense than Priska's Millenial experiences in the 90's, but both were rife with guilt, shame, and racism. And sexism, of course. We basically tie it all together in this episode: race, gender, purity, and a struggle to find ourselves inside the christian world. We round up the episode with some observations...2024-08-271h 25
Chapel ProbationChapel Probation s4- The Horny Chapel Episode 2In this second episode, we're still introducing ourselves, and we compare our experiences as Asian Americans from different generations and in different kinds of churches. But there are still incredible similarities between our experiences...bad ones, mostly. Scott's experiences as a Gen X-er in the 80's was less intense than Priska's Millenial experiences in the 90's, but both were rife with guilt, shame, and racism. And sexism, of course. We basically tie it all together in this episode: race, gender, purity, and a struggle to find ourselves inside the christian world. We round up the episode with some observations...2024-08-271h 25
Chapel ProbationChapel Probation Collab- The Horny Chapel Episode 1The first episode of the Horny Chapel, a collaboration with Priska of the Two Horny Goats podcast. We introduce this limited series with a look back at our youth and early adulthood and break down the ins and outs, so to speak, of purity culture. And we talk about where this series will go in the coming episodes. In the end, we hope to help everyone become sex-positive and love themselves. Be sure to subscribe to the separate podcast feed and follow us on Instagram.
Join the Horny Chapel Discord server to keep the conversation going.
2024-08-061h 26The Horny ChapelThe Horny Chapel Episode 1Priska and Scott introduce the podcast with a look at christian purity culture and they share their experiences growing up and going through young adulthood.
The Horny Chapel is part of the Dauntless Media Collective.
Send us a message at hornychapel@gmail.com
https://www.instagram.com/hornychapel/
And join our Discord Server for more discussion and fun.2024-08-061h 26
Chapel ProbationChapel Probation s4 Abraham Kim: Korean PK- Badass DrummerWhen you are the son of a big-time Korean pastor who suffers from narcissism and rage, christianity and life are filled with trauma and despair. But Abraham Kim found music and drums early on to help him deal with life, drumming his response to violence at home and oppression in the church. And he found his way out with the help of Talbot (Biola) and found footing in a full, beautiful life with his life partner, Priska, who you heard in Season 3. He's one of my favorite drummers in the world, and one of the best people I know.2024-06-041h 24
Chapel ProbationNew Collab Coming Repost: Chapel Probation s3- Priska- From PK to the Two Horny Goats PodcastUPDATE: Get to know Priska if you haven't already. She will be collaborating with Scott to bring you a BIPOC-centered, AAPI-flavored podcast about leaving evangelical Purity Culture. Coming soon!
About 11 years ago, I went to a Tuesday Night Cafe and saw a young woman in her early 20's perform there for the first time. Priska's voice and playing floored us as she performed her original songs, and she immediately became part of our community as an incredible singer/songwriter and all-around amazing human. As I got to know her, I discovered that she was in the process...2024-02-241h 19