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Guiding GenerationsThe Power of Appreciation: Teaching Kids to Say Thank You—Even When It’s HardIn this week’s Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman unpacks a striking lesson from Parshas Chukas that flips our understanding of gratitude on its head. Why was Moshe Rabbeinu afraid to confront Og Melech HaBashan—even though Og’s original intent was malicious? The Torah teaches that gratitude isn’t about someone’s intentions, it’s about the benefit we received.As parents, we often hear, “You only did that for yourself!” Rabbi Shifman explores how to raise children who internalize true hakaras hatov—appreciation—even when it feels undeserved. This episode will shift how you view relationshi...2025-06-3012 minGuiding GenerationsWhen Growth Hurts: Teaching Kids to Embrace Life’s Next LevelIn this week’s Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman unpacks the powerful lessons of Parshas Shlach and the story of the Meraglim (spies), showing how even righteous leaders can resist growth when it threatens comfort. Through the lens of parenting, he explores how relationships—whether with Hashem, a spouse, or our children—are tested not at their beginning, but when they’re called to evolve. What do we do when our kids resist the next stage of independence or responsibility? How do we teach them to embrace discomfort as the path to deeper connection and meaning? Tune in for a moving r...2025-06-2430 minGuiding GenerationsWhy Some Relationships Don’t Survive Growth: Lessons from the SpiesIn this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores the devastating story of the Meraglim (spies) from Parshat Shlach and uncovers a powerful parenting and relationship insight: why some relationships falter when faced with new challenges. Were the spies righteous or wicked? Why would leaders of such stature sabotage the mission into the Promised Land? Through deep analysis and a relatable parable, Rabbi Shifman teaches how our ability to grow through discomfort—whether in parenting, marriage, or faith—defines the strength and future of our most important relationships.Tune in to learn how to...2025-06-1722 minGuiding GenerationsHumility and Hidden Greatness: Parenting Lessons from Moshe and MiriamIn this week’s Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores two powerful parenting lessons from Parshat Behaalotecha. Why does the Torah stress Moshe’s unparalleled humility—and how does it connect to his prophetic clarity? And what does the story of Miriam’s punishment teach us about praising our children without inciting jealousy? Through deep Torah insights and relatable stories, Rabbi Shifman teaches us how to raise children with humility, recognize their potential without overexposing them, and cultivate a perspective that sees godliness in every soul. A must-listen for parents and educators alike.2025-06-0929 minGuiding GenerationsRaising to Potential: The Father’s Role in AspirationIn this week’s Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores Parshas Naso through the lens of parenting—unpacking the mysterious laws of the Nazir and their surprising relevance to raising children. Why is it the father, not the mother, who makes a child a Nazir? What does this teach us about setting aspirations versus affirming self-worth? Rabbi Shifman draws a powerful distinction between the nurturing role of a mother—making a child feel good about who they are—and the father’s mission: showing the child what they could be. Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on how to raise children n...2025-06-0431 minGuiding GenerationsIncentives, Identity, and the Heart of ParentingIn this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman draws a powerful parenting lesson from Parshat Bamidbar. Why are the Levites counted from just 30 days old, while others are counted from age 20? And what does this have to do with how we raise our children—with rewards, discipline, or love?Through the lens of a famous story about Hillel and a would-be convert who wanted to become Kohen Gadol, Rabbi Shifman explores the difference between extrinsic rewards that manipulate behavior and sincere expressions of relationship that deepen connection. This episode unpacks how to guid...2025-05-2725 minGuiding GenerationsThe Blame Game and the Bond: Parenting Through CrisisThis week on Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman reflects on a traumatic incident in his school community and draws deep parenting insights from the double Parsha that concludes Sefer Vayikra. In a world where blame is quickly assigned and values are easily lost, Rabbi Shifman challenges us to confront the real message: Are we raising our children with shared Jewish values, or outsourcing their growth to culture, technology, and circumstance? Through the lens of the Tochacha (rebuke) and the lasting legacy of the Avot, we explore how true connection—rooted in Torah, tefillah, and chesed—can anchor our families, even when...2025-05-1927 minGuiding GenerationsEvery Child Counts: Lessons from Nadav and AvihuIn this episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Aaron explores a surprising insight from the Book of Numbers with the help of Rabbi Mordecai Shifman. Why does the Torah mention that Nadav and Avihu had no children—and what does that teach us about parenting, leadership, and legacy? Discover how the Torah’s census reveals a deeper message about individuality, and why raising the next generation isn’t just about rules and rituals—it’s about connection, direction, and purpose. Tune in to learn how the Torah elevates our natural drives and how real parenting means guiding—not perfecting—our children.2025-05-1903 minGuiding GenerationsThe Power We Carry: Teaching Our Children to Represent HashemIn this week’s Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores a powerful lesson from Parshas Emor. Why does the Torah detail the background of the blasphemer? What connection is there between striking another Jew and cursing Hashem Himself? Rabbi Shifman uncovers a profound truth: every Jew is a living ambassador of God. As parents, this insight reshapes how we view ourselves — and how we teach our children to view their role in the world. Through stories of ancient sibling rivalry and modern-day lessons, Rabbi Shifman highlights how a child’s actions toward others reflect a deeper relationship with Hashem, offering practi...2025-05-0624 minGuiding GenerationsWhen Love Isn’t Enough: The Parenting Power of RespectIn this powerful episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores a surprising truth from this week’s double Parsha: even the greatest students of Rabbi Akiva—24,000 of them—were lost not due to a lack of love, but a lack of respect.What happens when closeness erodes boundaries? Why does Torah emphasize “don’t do to others what you wouldn’t want done to you” rather than simply “do unto others”? And how can we apply these insights to parenting, ensuring our love for our children doesn’t overshadow the foundational need for mutual respect?2025-04-2726 minGuiding GenerationsGems in the Walls: The Loving Discipline of ParentingIn this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman reflects on Parshas Tazria-Metzora and the lessons it holds for today’s parents. Against the backdrop of Yom HaShoah, he explores how messages—whether from history, our homes, or our children—are meant to be internalized, not ignored.What does a house afflicted with tzaraas have to do with parenting? More than you might think. Rabbi Shifman uncovers a powerful educational message: the journey from discipline to discovery, from punishment to love. Through a moving Holocaust story and a surprising teaching about hidden jewels in the w...2025-04-2024 minGuiding GenerationsTeaching Beyond the Rules: Transformative Parenting from Parshat ShminiThis week on Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman unpacks the deeper parenting message behind the kosher laws in Parshat Shmini. Why does the Torah shift from saying “what may be eaten” to “what shall not be eaten by you”? And what does that teach us about how we raise our children?Using insights from the Ohr Sameach and Rambam’s Shmona Perakim, Rabbi Shifman explores the difference between mitzvot that refine our behavior and those that reshape our inner world. More than just teaching kids to follow rules, we’re charged with guiding them to internalize...2025-04-1326 minGuiding GenerationsSacred Chores: Teaching Respect Through AshesIn this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores Parshat Tzav and its deep parenting lessons hidden within the ashes of the korbanot. What can the Cohen’s act of cleaning the altar teach us about raising respectful, responsible children? Why does the Torah elevate even the seemingly mundane task of removing ashes into a sacred service?Rabbi Shifman unpacks a profound message: how we treat our spaces—our homes, schools, and communities—reflects how much we value what they give us. From putting on proper garments to remove ashes, to picking up after...2025-04-0628 minGuiding GenerationsRaising Accountable Kids: Lessons in Leadership from Parshas VayikraIn this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman opens Sefer Vayikra with a powerful parenting message hidden in the Torah’s laws of sin offerings. Why does the Torah say “when the leader sins” instead of “if”? What does it mean for a generation when its leaders admit mistakes?Drawing from classic commentaries—Rabbeinu Bachya, Rav Zalman Sorotzkin, and Rav David Feinstein—Rabbi Shifman explores three approaches to leadership, accountability, and risk-taking. With stories from school, insights from a global education conference, and a heartfelt take on modern parenting, he unpacks why embracing failur...2025-03-3121 minGuiding GenerationsLegacy in the Making: Trusting the Process of ParenthoodIn this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores a powerful lesson from Parshat Pekudei: why was Betzalel, the grandson of Hur, chosen to build the Mishkan instead of his father, Uri?Through this fascinating question—and a moving real-life story about a teacher who never lived to see the impact he made—Rabbi Shifman uncovers a vital parenting truth: our efforts may not always bear fruit in the moment, but they are never in vain. Whether it’s in our children or their children, the values we live and the sacrifices we make...2025-03-2312 minGuiding GenerationsStrength in Identity – Lessons from Parshas VayakhelIn this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores the Torah’s timeless wisdom on family dynamics, gender roles, and the power of identity within the home. Drawing from Parshas Vayakhel, he examines the deeper meaning behind the copper mirrors donated by the Jewish women for the Mishkan and how they played a crucial role in preserving Jewish continuity in Mitzrayim.What can these mirrors teach us about modern parenting and marriage? How do we navigate evolving societal roles while maintaining harmony in our relationships? With a blend of Torah insight, history, and...2025-03-1735 minGuiding GenerationsThe Legacy of Mordechai – Parenting Through Purim and Ki TisaIn this episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman uncovers the deep connection between Purim and Parshat Ki Tisa, revealing timeless lessons on parenting and personal growth. Exploring the Tikunei Zohar’s teaching that Yom Kippur is merely like Purim, we delve into the transformative power of embracing our past while shaping a better future. Through the symbolism of Mordechai, the ketoret (incense offering), and the concept of teshuva, Rabbi Shifman illustrates how parents can foster resilience, patience, and understanding in their children—recognizing that every child has the potential for greatness, no matter their origins. Tune in for an insp...2025-03-0925 min
R Yitzchak Shifman Torah ClassesMegilla 15b², 16a- Parties and TurnaroundTwo parties of Esther and the miraculous elevation of Mordechai with the downfall of Haman.2025-03-0525 minR Yitzchak Shifman Torah ClassesMegilla 15a- Aggadita's abt Prophets, Ppl's Nature's and Dealing w the DecreeIdentifying nature of others via relatives in pesukim, beautiful women in Torah, Mordechai and Esther arrange response to the decree of Haman to destroy Jews, various aggadita's of R Elazar amar R Chanina2025-03-0425 minGuiding GenerationsThe Power of Validation in Parenting – Parshat Tetzaveh & PurimIn this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman uncovers a profound parenting lesson from Parshat Tetzaveh and its unexpected connection to Purim. Through the inauguration of the Kohanim and the historical downfall of Haman, we explore the critical role of validation in shaping confident children and strong relationships. Why was Moshe’s name missing from this Parsha? What can Aaron’s response to personal tragedy teach us about emotional resilience? And how do we ensure our children seek validation from the right sources? Tune in to discover how true happiness and self-worth are built—not through material gain, bu...2025-03-0430 minR Yitzchak Shifman Torah ClassesMegilla 13b- Genetic Modesty, Bigsan and Seresh, Haman Elevated and Decrees DestructionGenetic modesty of Rachel, Sha'ul, and Esther, Bigsan and Seresh plot is revealed by Mordechai, Haman is elevated and decrees in agreement with Achashveirosh to destroy Jews2025-02-2623 minR Yitzchak Shifman Torah ClassesMegilla 12b, 13a¹- Problems at the Party and Intro of MordechaiIssues at the party cause Vashti's death and need for new queen, Mordechai's introduction with names and accolades2025-02-2528 minGuiding GenerationsBuilding a Home, Building a Nation: Parenting Lessons from Parshat TerumahIn this week’s episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores Parshat Terumah and its deep connection to parenting and family life. Why does the Torah dedicate so much detail to the construction of the Mishkan? What does this teach us about building not just a physical sanctuary, but a spiritual home?Through profound insights and practical wisdom, Rabbi Shifman reveals how the Mishkan serves as a blueprint for the Jewish home, where values are instilled, and spirituality thrives. He discusses the unique role of parents—especially mothers—in shaping the home as a place...2025-02-2325 minGuiding GenerationsRestoring Dignity: Parenting Insights from Parashat MishpatimIn this episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Mordechai Shifman uncovers powerful parenting lessons from the weekly parsha. This episode, explores how the Torah’s approach to justice, compensation, and emotional restoration provides a blueprint for raising children with dignity and resilience.Through the mitzvah of Hanakah (severance gifts for a freed servant) and the Torah’s nuanced understanding of Ayin Tachat Ayin (an eye for an eye), Rabbi Shifman reveals how true restoration goes beyond material repayment—it requires emotional healing, sincere apologies, and a recognition of human worth. These lessons translate directly into parentin...2025-02-1723 minGuiding GenerationsYisro: The Key to Overcoming EgocentricityIn this thought-provoking episode, Rabbi Mordechai Shifman explores a powerful educational insight from the Ten Commandments, revealing a fundamental truth about parenting. Why is honoring parents (Kibbud Av Va’em) grouped with commandments between man and God? How does it connect to the prohibition against coveting?Drawing on a profound Midrash and the sharp wisdom of the Ibn Ezra, Rabbi Shifman explains how the family unit serves as the foundation for overcoming egocentricity. By placing parents at the center of a child’s life, rather than the child themselves, we instill a perspective that natu...2025-02-0921 minGuiding GenerationsBeshalach: The Power of AttentionIn this episode, Rabbi Shifman explores a fascinating Midrash on Parshat Beshalach, revealing a profound truth about human nature and parenting. Why did Pharaoh cry when Bnei Yisrael left Egypt? What does this teach us about the deep need for attention and recognition?Through a powerful parable and insights from Torah and psychology, Rabbi Shifman explains how children—and even adults—seek acknowledgment to feel valued. He discusses why kids sometimes act out, the importance of catching them doing good, and how small gestures of recognition can transform relationships. Discover how to nurture self-worth in c...2025-02-0723 minR Yitzchak Shifman Torah ClassesBeis HaLevi on Bitachon 10- Cursed if Rely on PeopleOne who places his reliance on people receives a curse from the Navi Yirmiya, with illustrations of Mordechai and Esther who promoted the Jews reliance on Hashem (and not on them).2025-02-0406 minGuiding GenerationsParshas Bo: Breaking FreeIn this episode of Breaking Free, Rabbi Shifman uncovers deep psychological and parenting insights from Parshas Bo, exploring why people resist change—even when it’s in their best interest. What holds us (and our children) back from growth? How can we help them embrace challenges instead of fearing them?Through the themes of Makas Choshech (Plague of Darkness) and the Jews’ reluctance to leave Egypt, Rabbi Shifman examines: • Why 80% of Jews refused redemption—and what this teaches us about guiding children through transitions. • The plague of frogs as a lesson...2025-01-1926 minGuiding GenerationsParenting Lessons from Parshas VayeiraJoin Rabbi Shifman in Guiding Generations, a thought-provoking podcast that uncovers timeless parenting lessons from the weekly Parsha. This week, in Parshas Vayeira, we examine Avraham Avinu’s ten trials and the deeper message behind Sarah’s abductions by Pharaoh and Avimelech.Through the concept of Maaseh Avos Siman Lebanim—the actions of our forefathers shaping future generations—Rabbi Shifman explores how these two seemingly similar events reveal distinct tests: Pharaoh’s challenge of unchecked lust versus Avimelech’s test of dominance and control. These powerful contrasts teach us about emotional resilience, decision-making, and maintaining...2025-01-1926 minGuiding GenerationsFrom Pharoh to Parenting: The Power of Labels and Lessons from ShemosIn this insightful episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman delves into the opening of Sefer Shemos, exploring the emergence of the Jewish nation and the origins of anti-Semitism. He examines how Paroh’s labeling of the Jewish people as a “problem nation” set a precedent for centuries of discrimination and internalized negativity. Through this lens, Rabbi Shifman draws profound lessons on parenting and education, emphasizing the dangers of labeling individuals—whether children or entire communities—and the lifelong impact it can have on self-perception and growth.With relatable anecdotes and timeless Torah wisdom, Rabbi Shifman hi...2025-01-1229 minGuiding GenerationsGratitude, Accountability, and the Legacy of Rav Meir Shapiro: Parenting Lessons from Parshat VayechiIn this episode, Rabbi Mordechai Shifman shares profound lessons from Parshat Vayechi and the timeless legacy of Rav Meir Shapiro, the visionary behind Daf Yomi. Reflecting on a recent trip to Poland, Rabbi Shifman recounts the inspiring story of Rav Shapiro’s life insurance policy sustaining his yeshiva and the eternal dividends of his Torah revolution. Drawing from the blessings of Yehuda, discover how gratitude—recognizing we’ve received more than we deserve—and accountability—taking responsibility even when it’s difficult—are core Jewish values that can transform our approach to parenting.Explore how these prin...2025-01-0530 min
Guiding GenerationsParenting and Leadership: Parshas VayigashJoin Rabbi Mordechai Shifman in this captivating podcast series where timeless messages from the weekly Torah portion are transformed into powerful lessons on parenting, leadership, and emotional growth.This week’s episode, based on Parshas Vayigash, delves into themes of empathy, favoritism, and family dynamics. Explore why Yaakov Avinu’s choices created jealousy among his sons, why Yosef’s actions seemingly mirrored these mistakes, and how these lessons illuminate the balance between leadership and unity.Rabbi Shifman also ties in the significance of Asara B’Teves, offering a profound understa...2024-12-2924 min
Guiding GenerationsParenting Lessons from Miketz and ChanukkahRabbi Shifman intertwines the wisdom of Parshat Miketz and the story of Hanukkah to uncover powerful lessons on parenting and education. Explore how the dedication of the Menorah with pure oil mirrors the need to set high standards in raising children, ensuring values are built to last.Through a deep dive into Rashi’s interpretation of Pharaoh’s dreams, Rabbi Shifman highlights the connection between satisfaction, unity, and the Torah concept of a “Shem Tov” (a good name). Learn how these insights apply to parenting, fostering an environment of mutual respect and personal growth, and guid...2024-12-2333 min
Guiding GenerationsVayeishev: Parenting Insights from Yosef’s JourneyIn this thought-provoking episode, Rabbi Mordechai Shifman dives into the story of Yosef in Parshas Vayeshev to explore the psyche of a teenager and its parallels to modern parenting. Through the lens of Yosef’s dual identity as a “naar”—simultaneously youthful and responsible—Rabbi Shifman unpacks lessons on potential, self-perception, and the delicate balance of guiding teens toward maturity. Discover the Torah’s perspective on nurturing growth, fostering responsibility, and addressing the challenges of adolescence with compassion and wisdom. Perfect for parents, educators, and anyone seeking deeper insights into the complexities of youth and leadership2024-12-1619 min
Guiding GenerationsVayishlach: Parenting Lessons from YaakovIn this episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman explores powerful parenting lessons from Parsha Vayishlach. Drawing from Yaakov’s interaction with Esav, he examines Yaakov’s decision to prioritize his children’s well-being, adjusting his pace to protect their growth and future.Through Torah insights, Rabbi Shifman highlights the importance of balancing life’s demands with the eternal responsibility of raising the next generation. Learn how Yaakov’s choices emphasize placing family above material pursuits and creating a nurturing environment for lasting values. A must-listen for parents seeking timeless wisdom to guide their journey.2024-12-0922 min
Guiding GenerationsParshas Vayeitzei: The Foundations of a NationRabbi Mordechai Shifman explores Parshas Vayeitzei, uncovering profound insights into the formation of the 12 tribes and the unique roles of Yaakov, Eisav, and Leah in shaping the Jewish nation. Through their stories, we learn how qualities of leadership, resilience, and spiritual growth were integrated into the foundations of the Jewish people. Gain a deeper understanding of how these lessons impact our relationships, parenting, and personal development today.2024-12-0228 min
Guiding GenerationsLessons from Toldos: Building Growth-Focused RelationshipsRabbi Mordechai Shifman draws timeless lessons from Parsha Toldos about marriage, personal growth, and parenting. Explore the transformative power of commitment in relationships, how striving for growth as a couple inspires children, and why the Torah emphasizes connection and forgiveness. Practical insights for building stronger families and guiding the next generation.2024-11-2526 min
Guiding GenerationsChayei Sarah: Lessons from Avraham and SarahIn this compelling episode of "Guiding Generations," Rabbi Shifman delves into Parshat Chayei Sarah to explore profound life lessons on aging, respect, and the enduring value of wisdom gained through experience. Drawing from the story of Avraham and Sarah, he addresses our society’s obsession with youth and the contrasting Torah perspective on the blessings of old age. Rabbi Shifman provides insightful guidance for parents on teaching children the importance of honoring elders, a value that has become increasingly rare. This class offers practical advice for cultivating respect across generations, rooted in the timeless teachings of our sages.2024-11-1813 min
Guiding GenerationsTorah Parenting Lessons from AvrahamIn this episode of "Guiding Generations," Rabbi Shifman delves into the trials of Avraham as recorded in Parsha Vayeira, extracting timeless lessons for today’s parents. He examines the abductions of Sarah by Pharaoh and Avimelech, highlighting two distinct tests: dealing with lust and handling dominance. Rabbi Shifman explores how these challenges reflect the dual struggles parents face—navigating desires and managing power dynamics. Drawing from traditional commentaries and the concept of "Ma'aseh Avos Siman L'banim," he provides practical wisdom for guiding children through life’s complexities, showing how the trials of our ancestors map out spiritual and emotional strate...2024-11-1126 min
Guiding GenerationsLech Lecha: Prioritizing FamilyIn this episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman unpacks the deep lessons of Parshas Lech Lecha, exploring Avraham and Sarah's journey and how it reveals essential principles for creating a strong family foundation. This week, Rabbi Shifman focuses on the significance of Avraham pitching Sarah’s tent first—a subtle but powerful act that underscores the importance of valuing family roles. By prioritizing Sarah's role as a mother, Avraham models a dynamic that elevates the home’s spiritual fabric and sets a blueprint for future generations. Rabbi Shifman’s insights guide parents in fostering mutual respect and purposeful roles, creating...2024-11-0420 min
Guiding GenerationsBuilding Positive Jewish Identity: Lessons from Parshas NoachIn this week's episode of Guiding Generations, Rabbi Shifman delves into Parshas Noach, exploring the powerful message of cultivating a positive Jewish identity for our children. Drawing from the story of Nimrod, the symbolism of the four species on Sukkos, and the inspiring actions of Ashur, Rabbi Shifman emphasizes the importance of shaping a family culture that highlights the beauty of Jewish life and values. He discusses the impact of presenting Judaism as a positive, inviting experience rather than a set of restrictions, teaching parents how to foster an environment that inspires children to embrace their heritage wholeheartedly.2024-10-2828 min
Guiding GenerationsFoundations of Fulfillment: Insights on Marriage, Parenting, and Connection from Parsha Ki SavoIn this enlightening episode, Rabbi Shifman delves into Parsha Ki Savo, uncovering its essential teachings on building strong foundations in marriage, effective parenting, and our spiritual relationship with Hashem. By exploring the interconnections between marital harmony, nurturing our children, and fulfilling our divine obligations, this discussion highlights how cultivating favor and commitment in our personal relationships mirrors our spiritual journey. As we approach Rosh Hashanah, gain insights on enhancing familial bonds and deepening your spiritual connection, paving the way for a year of growth and fulfillment.2024-09-2025 min
Guiding GenerationsParsha Ki Teitzei: Navigating Family DynamicsIn this episode, Rabbi Mordechai Shifman delves into Parsha Ki Teitzei, connecting its teachings to the profound themes of Rosh Hashanah and the complexities of family relationships and personal accountability. As we approach the High Holidays, Rabbi Shifman explores the narratives of Sarah and Yishmael, reflecting on their relevance to our modern struggles with parenting, conflict resolution, and self-transformation. This discussion provides practical insights into leveraging the wisdom of the Torah to enhance our personal lives and family interactions, fostering a deeper understanding of redemption and renewal as we enter the New Year. Join us for a journey through...2024-09-1126 min
Guiding GenerationsWisdom in the Word: Unpacking Parental Guidance in Parsha ShoftimJoin Rabbi Shifman on "Guiding Generations" as he explores Parsha Shoftim, revealing its deep lessons on community responsibility and parenting. Discover how the Torah's guidelines for community elders can enhance our relationships with children, fostering a sense of belonging and confidence. This episode offers practical wisdom for nurturing the next generation, providing valuable insights for our families and communities.2024-09-0626 min
Guiding GenerationsInsights on Gratitude: Learning from Parsha ChukasExplore the profound themes of Parsha Chukas with Rabbi Shifman, focusing on the concept of recognizing and appreciating the benefits received rather than merely considering intent. This episode unpacks the pivotal moments where Bnei Yisrael interact with the nations of Sichon and Og, highlighting how Moshe's diplomatic efforts and subsequent conflicts teach us about the complexity of human motives and divine justice. Rabbi Shifman elucidates how understanding and focusing on the benefits we receive in interactions can significantly enhance our personal satisfaction and improve our relationships. This discussion provides a unique perspective on navigating life's challenges with gratitude and...2024-07-1011 min
Guiding GenerationsNavigating Conflict: Lessons from Parsha KorachIn this episode, Rabbi Shifman takes us through Parsha Korach, examining the dramatic story of Korach's rebellion against Moshe's leadership. We explore the nature of disputes within communities, distinguishing between destructive conflicts and those that are "for the sake of Heaven." Drawing insights from Pirkei Avot, Rabbi Shifman discusses how conflicts, when rooted in genuine values and communal benefit, can lead to constructive outcomes, unlike the divisive machlokas led by Korach. This discussion provides valuable perspectives on handling disagreements in our communities and families, emphasizing the importance of intention and respect in every debate.2024-07-0327 min
Guiding GenerationsLessons of Leadership and Legacy: Understanding Parsha ShelachIn this episode, Rabbi Shifman delves into Parsha Shelach, exploring the catastrophic story of the spies (Meraglim) and its enduring impact on Jewish history. We'll examine the complexities of the spies' characters and decisions, and how these events set Tisha B'Av as a date of tragedy throughout Jewish history. The podcast will also draw parallels to parenting and personal relationships, reflecting on the consequences of our actions and the importance of integrity and foresight in leadership. Learn how the themes of trust, perception, and responsibility in the Parsha can guide us in nurturing resilient and thoughtful leaders within our...2024-06-2622 min
Guiding GenerationsParsha Behalosecha: The Essence of HumilityJoin Rabbi Shifman as we delve into Parsha Behaalotecha, focusing on the exemplary humility of Moshe Rabbeinu and its implications for parenting. This episode examines how Moshe's humility and the incidents with Miriam and Aaron can teach us about balancing authority and humility in parenting. Learn how recognizing and respecting our own strengths and limitations—as Moshe did—can help us nurture a similar sense of humility and self-awareness in our children, fostering an environment where both parents and children see the divine in each other and grow together in mutual respect and understanding.2024-06-1916 min
Guiding GenerationsSefer Bamidbar and Shavuos: Heritage & EducationThis episode takes us into Sefer Bamidbar and the upcoming festival of Shavuot, highlighting their relevance to modern parenting. Rabbi Shifman discusses the Parsha's unique census, where each individual is counted by name, illustrating the importance of acknowledging each child's unique identity in our educational and parenting approaches. As we prepare for Shavuot, celebrating the giving of the Torah, explore how the concept of lineage and the acceptance of the Torah can inspire us to instill a sense of heritage and responsibility in our children, preparing them to carry forward our traditions and values.2024-06-0522 min
Guiding GenerationsParsha Bechukosai: Chessed Starts at HomeDive into Parsha Bechukotai with Rabbi Shifman as we reflect on the enduring lessons of the Sinai covenant and its modern implications for family dynamics and community engagement. This episode unpacks the tokukha—reproof and blessings—as a framework for understanding our obligations to Torah and chessed (acts of kindness) within our families.2024-05-2921 min
Guiding GenerationsParsha Behar: Nurturing IndependenceDiscover key parenting strategies from Parsha Behar with Rabbi Shifman. This Shiur focuses on the importance of early intervention and support, drawing parallels between Torah teachings on community assistance and raising independent, resilient children. Gain insights into fostering self-reliance and dignity from a young age, inspired by the wisdom of Parsha Behar.2024-05-2221 min
Guiding GenerationsParshas Emor: Elevating Family ValuesDive into the premiere episode of "Guiding Generations" as Rabbi Mordechai Shifman illuminates Parsha Emor's profound teachings on respect, holiness, and the power of words. This episode offers a deep exploration of how the high standards set for priests can inspire today's parents in guiding their children with principles of sanctity and respect. Learn how the themes of Emor can help foster a nurturing environment that honors tradition while addressing contemporary parenting challenges. Join us for a journey through these timeless lessons, empowering you to raise thoughtful and principled children.2024-05-1424 min