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TwoGetherSo How Good is the Better Love Marriage Assessment?In our final episode of the season, Rachel, Andy and Kelly shared about their experience in taking the Better Love marriage assessment. We go over the different aspects of the assessment as well as talk about our own results and shared what it got right about our marriages. We end the episode by talking with Rachel about her role at Ada Bible Church as our Director of Women's Ministry and her vision for the ministry. Because of her responsibilities, sadly, Rachel has to step down as a host, but we are so thankful for her two years of being...2024-05-0827 min

TwoGetherThe Gift of Twin Sons - Caiti and Austin MooreRachel and Kelly invited back to the podcast, Caiti and Austin Moore to give us an update on their journey as a couple and family. In the previous episode they were on in 2022, they vulnerably shared about their infertility journey. In this episode, we had an amazing update in how they were able to adopt twin boys. They shared what that journey was like and have lots of wisdom to share with those who maybe are in a similar situation with adoption.For the previous episode from 2022 that Caiti and Austin did, you can find it here...2024-04-2453 min

TwoGetherA Biblical View of Marriage - Dan SeabornWe had the privilege of talking with Dan Seaborn, who leads Winning at Home. Samuel and Kelly with Dan had an engaging conversation about bringing us back to the basics of what a healthy marriage looks like from a biblical standpoint. Specifically, they talked about some of the false ideas our culture may have about marriage and how we can look at marriage through a biblical lens. For more information about the counseling practice of Winning at Home, you can find it at this link: https://winningathome.comIn the episode we mentioned that Dan had spoken...2024-04-1038 min

TwoGetherDating WellJoin host, Cori Olsson, in a conversation with Brad Holmes and Sam Schubkegel on how to date well! Brad and Sam are both on staff at Ada Bible Church and work with young adults in a ministry called UNION. Are you currently dating or wondering if you are dating the right way? Wherever you are at in your dating journey, this episode dives into the mechanics of dating, how it has changed over time, and tangible tips on how to date and who to date. Join us as we navigate the ultimate purpose of dating and how...2024-03-2743 min

TwoGetherSupporting Men through MinistryWhen men support each other, what kind of positive impacts can happen in marriages and families? In Episode 6 of this season, Andy invites Men’s Ministry Pastors Ethan Cole (Ada Bible Cascade Campus) and Vic Willis (Ada Bible Kentwood Campus) to the podcast to discuss the impacts and support men can find in a ministry setting.You’ll learn more about the importance of supportive spaces for men, Ada Bible Church’s Men’s Ministry program, and how that ministry is working to support men and improve marriages in our church. 2024-03-1334 min

TwoGetherMatt DeHoog - Different Ways in Which Conflict Impacts MarriagesConflict is normal in a marriage, but how we engage in it can have either positive or devastating consequences. Today Samuel and Kelly invite back fan-favorite Matt DeHoog to talk about the Drama Triangle, a relational paradigm in which we can shift between three roles, Persecutor, Rescuer, and Victim, all held in place by guilt and blame. This an episode that you might want to have a notebook handy, because we talk about these dysfunctional dynamics that can pop up in your relationship or marriage and we share how you can fix them.2024-02-2844 min

TwoGetherPeter DeHaan - How I Do Marriage CounselingToday we invited the counselor Peter DeHaan to talk about all the different ways he does marriage counseling. This was a valuable conversation in which Peter shares about motivational interviewing, working with couples with addictions, and some other facets of his ways in working with couples. A really important segment of the episode was when Peter addressed the stages of change - this was helpful when thinking about our own relationships and how we can make them better.2024-02-1451 min

TwoGetherWe Are Going to Make This Work - Sarah and Ryan RaymondBoth Sarah and Ryan are key leaders in our Thrive and Lifeline ministries and we get to hear their powerful marriage story. Starting out as high school sweethearts, they thought they had it all until the challenging aspects of life caught up to them. By staying committed and getting help, they were able to rebuild their marriage. A key marking point for them was saying yes to a relationship with God and learning about the blessing of serving others. This is a must listen!2024-01-3156 min

TwoGetherCo-dependence in Marriage - John EklundCo-dependence is a term used a lot today, but what is the difference between a connected couple and a co-dependent one? In this episode, Andy sits down with author, speaker, and pastor John Eklund to dive into the intricacies of co-dependency, how to identify it, and some tips on avoiding it in your marriage. You’ll enjoy John’s engaging stories while he breaks down this complex topic.2024-01-1755 min

TwoGetherThe Gift of WordsIt's a new season of TwoGether! One of our favorite things to do when we interview couples is that we ask each of them to share on the episode what they love about their spouse. This has been a powerful way to end each episode and each of the couples walk away blessed to do this exercise. In this episode, the team highlights some ways in which you can do this on a regular basis and we give you specific ideas in how you can give your husband or wife the gift of your words.2024-01-0329 min

TwoGetherForty Years of Marriage and Ministry - Pastor Jeff and Chris ManionWhat a privilege it was to interview Pastor Jeff and Chris Manion for our final episode this season. This was one of the more vulnerable interviews we have had with a couple. Jeff and Chris share some of the challenges they have faced and things they have learned in their 40 years of marriage and ministry. There is much to take away from this episode so make sure to have something handy to take notes.2023-12-1354 min

TwoGetherFighting Fair - Cori and Collin OlssonIn this fun episode, Andy, along with his wife Esther, got to sit down with co-host Cori and her husband Collin. The Olsson’s discuss enjoying the process of getting to know one another during their 6 year courtship before tying the knot. They share lessons they have learned along the way and give some great tips on fighting more effectively. You’ll enjoy this couple’s story and get to know one of our TwoGether hosts.2023-11-2954 min

TwoGetherHow Introverts and Extroverts Relate in Marriage - Nance RobsonThey say opposites attract, but what does that really mean for a marriage? Join Andy as he and Nance Robson, local marriage counselor, explore the differences of an introvert and extrovert within the context of marriage. You will follow the story of Alex and Kristin Trovert, a fictional couple who represents the many couples both Nance and Andy have worked with in counseling. It's a conversation that may help you understand some of the dynamics in your marriage.2023-11-1538 min

TwoGetherNo Longer Fearing Commitment - Lisa and Eric MillerWhat a great episode - we brought in former clients of Kelly to discuss the impact counseling has had on their individual stories as well as their marriage. In this episode, Kelly and Andy had the pleasure of speaking with Eric and Lisa Miller, a couple with a great love story. You’ll get to hear about how they found each other, the ways they have grown as a couple, and how their identity in Christ has helped their marriage thrive.2023-11-0138 min

TwoGetherHow I Do Marriage Counseling - Samuel JonesA new segment that will be offered on the Twogether podcast are interviews with marriage counselors in our community. We will ask how each counselor works with couples, with the goal of making you familiar with the amazing counselors we have in our community and which one may be a good fit for you. Today, our own Samuel Jones will be sharing with us how he approaches marriage counseling.You can find the contact info for Samuel if you would like to schedule an appointment at www.theprinciplething.com.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If...2023-10-1856 min

TwoGetherWhy Do We Interview Couples?A key aspect of the TwoGether podcast is that we interview couples and want to dive deep into learning more about their stories. By doing these interviews, there is much for us to learn from others that can make our marriages better and it's why we believe it is the cornerstone of our podcast. Today, Rachel, Andy, Kelly and Cori have a discussion of how we can learn a lot from couples in how they navigate their marriages and we highlight some of the past episodes in what we learned from the different couples we have interviewed on the...2023-10-0434 min

TwoGetherGrowing in Marriage and Ministry - Pastor Parris and Fallon McMurrayThe McMurray's have stepped into a new season that could elicit chaos and disunity, where instead they find stability and openness. Pastor Parris and Fallon along with Samuel and Cori dive into the world of what it looks like to shepherd their church, work other jobs, parent, and the day in-and-day-outs of marriage. We’ll explore the new season of ministry that Pastor Parris and Fallon entered into and how they were able to do so based on practices they established early in their relationship. You’ll hear their story of how they fell in love and the tools they...2023-09-2055 min

TwoGetherHow Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage - Ted LoweThis upcoming fall on October 6, Ted Lowe is coming to visit Ada Bible Church and we will be having a marriage night for couples. On this episode, Kelly and Ted discussed his latest book Us in Mind: How Changing Your Thoughts Can Change Your Marriage. This was a great discussion in how we think about our spouse in a positive manner can make a long-lasting impact on your marriage. Also please join us on October 6 for our marriage event - it will be a fun event where you can take one or two things away to better your marriage.2023-09-0631 min

TwoGetherRestoring What Was Lost - Jan and Keith SchaapRachel and Kelly had the privilege of interviewing Jan and Keith Schaap, who sadly divorced after just ten years of marriage. But God was not done with them as a couple and amazingly after nine years of being divorced found their way back to one another. This is a story you won't want to miss!For those interested in attending the marriage retreat Jan and Keith will be hosting you can find that information at this link: https://restoringthegift.com/WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or...2023-08-2344 min

TwoGetherA New Season Today Rachel, Samuel and Kelly opened up our first episode of season six and shared what a few of their favorite episodes were from Season Five. We had different themes in our fifth season and two were personality differences and adoption. We also had a surprise for our listeners at the end - it's an episode you don't want to miss.2023-08-0927 min

TwoGetherLove at First Sight? - Kyle and Elizabeth PierpontWhat an amazing final episode of the season! Rachel and Kelly interviewed our Cascade campus pastor, Kyle Pierpont and his wife, Elizabeth. Two key aspects that they shared were their dating challenges and their very different personalities. It's a powerful episode you won't want to miss.2023-07-1943 min

TwoGetherHow Your Personality Impacts Your Marriage - Matt DeHoogWe brought in Matt DeHoog to talk to us about how your personality impacts your life and marriage. By looking at the DiSC personality assessment, we can have a better understanding of how God designed us and this also helps us to relate to others better. We had a rich conversation on these topics and you might want to take notes as we go over a lot of different dynamics as it relates to personality.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please...2023-07-0551 min

TwoGetherA Multicultural Marriage - Amanda and Mordecai NjorogeIt’s a story of two very different cultures coming together in a powerful way. You’ll want to be sure to make space for this latest episode of Ada Bible’s marriage podcast, TwoGether, to hear how Amanda (from America) and Mordecai (from Africa) found their way to one another. Learn about intentional investments they made that helped them create their own culture and marriage.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love t...2023-06-2139 min

TwoGetherA Couple's Adoption Story - Mike and Susan TeBosContinuing with the theme of adoption, Rachel and Kelly interviewed Mike and Susan TeBos who have been married 27 years and adopted three children who are now adults. Susan has written two books on adoption and she and Mike shared their story and offer advice for couples who may be thinking about adoption or foster care.The two books Susan wrote are entitled We've Been There: True Stories, Surprising Insights, and Aha Moments for Adopted Teens & Before You Were Mine: Discovering Your Adopted Child’s Lifestory.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to ta...2023-06-0747 min

TwoGetherStories of Restoration and HopeRachel, Samuel and Kelly share some of their stories where they have seen couple's restore their marriage. They focussed on a handful of examples of couples who were able to come back from the brink, did their own personal work, and reconnected in their marriage.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as any future topics you would like us to talk about.RATE...2023-05-2431 min

TwoGetherThe Impact of Adoption with Marriages - Kurt EllisIf you are thinking of adoption or foster care for your family, this episode is a must-listen. Kurt Ellis is a counselor whose main focus is working with many couples and children who have been adopted. He brings a lot of great information for our listeners and in particular, discusses the dynamic of attachment, which is a common issue with some adopted children and teens.For those interested, Families Forever Counseling's phone number is (616) 217-8612. WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff...2023-05-1054 min

TwoGetherGetting Unstuck in Your Marriage - Nicole FrylingRachel and Kelly spoke with counselor Nicole Fryling about practical ways couples can move forward in their marriages if they feel stuck. Nicole is also Ada Bible Church's Women's Director at our Kentwood campus and she offered some preliminary steps in how you can attempt to revitalize your marriage.2023-04-2638 min

TwoGetherBeing a Blessing to Your Spouse - Diane and Dan SchroederSamuel and Kelly spoke with Diane and Dan Schroeder about their 30+ years of marriage. Together they explored areas such as finances and life changes, especially sharing about the blessings and challenges when a couple has children. This was a rich conversation you won't want to miss.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as any future topics you would like us to talk about.2023-04-1148 min

TwoGetherWaiting for the Right PersonSamuel and Kelly had a joyful conversation with Esther and Andy Donaldson as they shared their love story in how they waited until their 30's to find one another. There's a lot of good stuff in this conversation, especially for those who maybe are single and in that place of waiting on God to bring you the right person.2023-03-2250 min

TwoGetherSome of Our Favorite Marriage BooksToday Rachel, Kelly and Samuel shared some of their favorite books on marriage they are currently reading. Make sure to check out this episode if you are looking for some good resources for your marriage. Here are the books we mention:Good Boundaries and Good-Byes, Lysa TerKeurstThe 7 Principles for Making Marriages Work, John GottmanThe Mystery of Marriage, Mike MasonWANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org...2023-03-0840 min

TwoGetherSeason Finale with Aaron and Katie BuerIn this episode, Kelly and Rachel introduce you to Ada Bible Church’s Executive Teaching Pastor, Aaron Buer and his wife, Katie. They share their story of how they met at college and built their relationship on first being friends. They also offer some unique insights on how to navigate family, ministry and how you can strengthen your marriage.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as...2023-01-1851 min

TwoGetherUnexpectations with Bryon and Jennifer HarveyJoin Kelly and Rachel as they discuss “Unexpectations” in marriage with authors and speakers, Bryon and Jennifer Harvey. In this episode they explore how to cope when expectations in a marriage relationship aren’t being met.Check out more about them here: https://www.operationthrivingmarriage.comWANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as any future topics you would like us to talk a...2022-12-1449 min

TwoGetherLearning to speak your spouses love language w/ Les ParrottJoin Samuel and Rachel as they talk with best-selling author, Les Parrott about his online assessment “Better Love”. Helping couples learn how to speak their spouses love language on a deeper level.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as any future topics you would like us to talk about. RATE AND REVIEW If you enjoyed the podcast, please rate and...2022-11-3045 min

TwoGetherImportance of premarital counseling with Matt DeHoogIn this episode Kelly and Samuel talk to Matt DeHoog about the different elements of premarital counseling. They also discuss ways to navigate past trauma. Matt is a counselor and has served with Young Life for 20 years. WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as any future topics you would like us to talk about. RATE AND REVIEW If you...2022-11-1641 min

TwoGetherWomen’s Panel on Sexual Issues in Marriage, Part 2Today Rachel Norton is joined by counselor Sarah Eastway, and Samuel and Kelly’s wives, Tova Jones and Julie Bonewell. This second of a two-part episode is a high-spirited conversation on the different elements of a sexual relationship in marriage. In this episode, they discussed how to have a mutually satisfying intimate relationship and deepen your marriage.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as...2022-11-0249 min

TwoGetherWomen’s Panel on Sexual Issues in Marriage Part 1Today Rachel Norton is joined by counselor Sarah Eastway, and Samuel and Kelly’s wives, Tova Jones and Julie Bonewell. This two-part episode is a high-spirited conversation on the different elements of a sexual relationship in marriage. In this episode, they discussed how to have open conversations with your spouse and the challenges couples face when they begin to have children.2022-10-1952 min

TwoGetherSimple Tips to Improve Your MarriageJoin Kelly, Samuel and Rachel as they discuss their own personal “marriage hacks”. You are sure to hear some ideas on ways to work on your marriage relationship.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as any future topics you would like us to talk about. RATE AND REVIEW If you enjoyed the podcast, please rate and review it on Appl...2022-10-0520 min

TwoGetherMen’s Sexual Issues In Marriage with Matt KenneyJoin Samuel and Kelly as they talk about men’s sexual issues with counselor Matt Kenney. Matt is a counselor at The Journey Christian Counseling Center in southwest Michigan and a pastor at Crossroads Church. They had an engaging conversation about how men overcome sexual addiciton issues and key ways that can heppen.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as any future topics yo...2022-09-2158 min

TwoGether Marriage and Infertility with Caiti and Austin MooreRachel and Kelly had the privilege of interviewing Caiti and Austin Moore. Austin serves as our Director of Production at Ada Bible Church and Caiti is self-employed. They shared a tender story of how they have had to face issues of infertility in their marriage. If you would like to follow the Moore’s on their journey, you can follow them @caitirmoore on Instagram.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also lo...2022-09-0700 min

TwoGetherThriving in Marriage and Money with Jeff and Shaunti FeldhahnTwoGether is back with a brand-new season! Samuel and Rachel jump into season 4 of the Ada Bible Marriage Podcast by interviewing renowned authors Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn. For more than half of their 25-year marriage, the Feldhahns have investigated the little things that make a big difference in relationships and have written books that help relationships thrive. Join us to find out how the topic of money changed their relationship.2022-08-1743 min

TwoGetherMoney and Marriage with Tom SkillingIn today’s episode, Samuel and Kelly had an important conversation about money and marriage with Tom Skilling who serves as the Director of Community Groups and Stewardship at Ada Bible Church. He shared both his own personal story of resolving debt with his wife Jessalyn. Additionally, he encourages married individuals with practical advice on how they can be more generous, plan to budget, and steward their finances with a biblical foundation. You won’t want to miss the season finale of TwoGether.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pa...2022-07-211h 02

TwoGetherBlending Families in Marriage with Nick and Deloris MiltonIn today’s episode, Samuel and Kelly had an important conversation with Nick and Deloris Milton who had the unique story of breaking up in high school, but finding one another years later. This was a rich conversation that revolved around the importance of faith and blending families. This is an inspirational story which exemplifies that if you stay close in your relationship with God he will do things in your life you maybe never thought possible. WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff ab...2022-06-2953 min

TwoGetherRecovering from Infidelity with Roane and Eva HunterRachel and Kelly had the opportunity to interview Roane and Eva Hunter, who are counselors who work with couples where sexual addiction and infidelity are issues. In their own story, they discuss different aspects of their healing and redemption in their marriage. Their story is a powerful one where they vulnerably shared how their marriage ended in divorce, but because of humility and working together as a couple were able to restore their relationship.***For this episode, we highly recommend not listening to this episode with teens or children as we will be discussing adult content.2022-06-1556 min

TwoGetherBefore You Say "I Do"Kelly, Rachel and Samuel take a deep dive into some of the key areas to have conversations around before getting married.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as any future topics you would like us to talk about.RATE AND REVIEWIf you enjoyed the podcast, please rate and review it on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This will help...2022-06-0100 min

TwoGetherLasting Love After Loss with Jim & Sharon McFarlandContinuing on our theme of God’s redemption in our lives, we interviewed the McFarland’s. Jim and Sharon both lost their spouses and found one another and remarried. In this episode, we explore their story of grief and loss and then the different dynamics of what it is like to be remarried in the midst of this. Their story captures just what can happen when you trust God with your future.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out...2022-05-1850 min

TwoGether Finding Love After Loss with Jim and Sharon McFarlandContinuing on our theme of God’s redemption in our lives, we interviewed the McFarland’s. Jim and Sharon both lost their spouses and found one another and remarried. In this episode, we explore their story of grief and loss and then the different dynamics of what it is like to be remarried in the midst of this. Their story captures just what can happen when you trust God with your future. WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out...2022-05-1100 min

TwoGetherWhy Mentorship MattersIf we want to grow in an area, whatever that might be, finding someone to mentor you can accelerate your growth. This is no different than with marriage. In this episode, Samuel and Kelly discuss different aspects of marriage mentorship and when might be the time to seek that out. Marriage mentorship is best when your problems don’t get too large, and so being proactive in finding someone to mentor you in your marriage can make dramatic changes in your relationship.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pa...2022-04-2750 min

TwoGetherDiscovering Awe in Your Marriage with Chris and Jenni GraebeOn today’s episode, Rachel and Samuel interviewed Chris and Jenni Graebe, who are the authors of The Rhythm of Us. They shared about their unique background and how they met and then we dived into looking at the important parts of their book. A central part of the conversation was discovering awe in your spouse and not taking them for granted. Each day is a gift, and if you are in a married, a key ingredient is to consistently find the positive in your relationship.You can find Chris and Jenni’s book on Amazon and you...2022-04-1300 min

TwoGether When God Redeems Your Life with Mike and Kristin VorceOn today’s episode, Rachel and Samuel had the pleasure of interviewing Mike and Kristin Vorce. Mike and Kristin have been married for over 5 years and their blended family shows a story of grace, loss, mentorship, and a way of finding each other beyond the norm.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as any future topics you would like us to talk about....2022-03-3048 min

TwoGetherA Couples Interview with Mike and Kim BallOn today’s episode, Rachel and Kelly had the pleasure of interviewing Mike and Kim Ball. Mike and Kim for eight years have served as small group leaders for engaged couples. They shared their own love story and also shared what it’s like to walk alongside couples who are about to be married and the blessing that has been in their marriage. WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also...2022-03-1648 min

TwoGetherA Couple’s Interview, John and Rachel NortonThis our first episode of season three and we have a surprise! Rachel Norton, who serves as one of our Women’s Ministry Directors is joining Samuel and I as a co-host of the Twogether podcast. In this episode, we get to meet her and her husband John. We talked about a lot of different things, but a focus was on how faith can play an important role in our marriages. WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please re...2022-03-0246 min

TwoGetherSeason Finale: A Couples Interview with Jason and Megan RossThis is our final episode of season two and we ended it with a bang! We interviewed Jason and Megan Ross - some of you know Jason as he is our campus pastor for our East Paris campus. Today we got to hear their story of how they met and then made a commitment to one another after some ups and downs. We explored a lot of different topics ranging from finances, dedication, and they shared a beautiful story where they had Jason’s mom come live with them for a season and how that impacted their family in im...2022-01-2644 min

TwoGetherHow Your Relationship with God Is Important to Your Marriage, Part IIIThis is a three part series, where Kelly and Samuel look at the importance of a healthy relationship with God and how it can positively impact your marriage. A relationship with God must start with deep commitment - he must be the most important thing in your life. If we get this right, all of our other relationships can be healthy and balanced, especially our marriages.However, sometimes we can get stuck in our relationship with God and we will explore different stages of faith. The Bible illustrates for us three different types of relationships with God...2022-01-1252 min

TwoGetherHow Your Relationship with God Is Important to Your Marriage, Part IIThis is a three part series, where Kelly and Samuel look at the importance of a healthy relationship with God and how it can positively impact your marriage. A relationship with God must start with deep commitment - he must be the most important thing in your life. If we get this right, all of our other relationships can be healthy and balanced, especially our marriages.However, sometimes we can get stuck in our relationship with God and we will explore different stages of faith - two which can hinder us. The Bible illustrates for us three...2021-12-2931 min

TwoGetherHow Your Relationship with God Is Important to Your Marriage, Part IThis is a three part series, where Kelly and Samuel look at the importance of a healthy relationship with God and how it can positively impact your marriage. A relationship with God must start with deep commitment - he must be the most important thing in your life. If we get this right, all of our other relationships can be healthy and balanced, especially our marriages.However, sometimes we can get stuck in our relationship with God and we will explore different stages of faith - two which can hinder us. The Bible illustrates for us three...2021-12-1550 min

TwoGether Elements of Healthy Sexuality in MarriageWhen it comes to marriage issues, the top three areas are conflict resolution, finances and sex. We had an engaging conversation with counselor Sarah Eastway on topics surrounding all things sex and marriage. We discussed what are the healthy elements of a sexual relationship. We also took a look at how couples can have conversations about their sexual relationship, especially if they are struggling in this area. We ended the show by having Sarah share practical information on how you can strengthen your sexual relationship in your marriage.For this episode, we highly recommend not listening to...2021-12-011h 00

TwoGetherForgiveness in MarriageForgiveness is one of the hardest communication tools in marriage. It requires two parties with two different points of views to admit that someone may have been the recipient of pain or hurt. Have you been there? Samuel and Kelly share a biblical context on how forgiveness can be uncovered to help your marriage thrive in good and bad.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear...2021-11-1749 min

TwoGetherA Couple's InterviewReverends Joe and Jessie Jones serve as Senior Pastor and First Lady of Brown Hutcherson Ministries (BHM), a non-denominational church located in the urban core of GR. They were installed into these new roles in June 2021, after serving in ministry at BHM for over 20 years. Joe and Jessie have been married for over 24 years and are the parents to Eric, Erica, Miles and Micaela. They are also grandparents to five! Joe serves as Grand Rapids City Commissioner representing the Second Ward. He also serves as President/CEO of the Hekima Group...2021-11-031h 00

TwoGether Facing Mental Health and Trauma within RelationshipsOn this episode we had the privilege of talking with counselor Lisa Tamblyn-Bergman. Lisa has a background in addictions counseling and we talked about different types of mental health issues that can cause complications within a marriage. Lisa talked about her background and experience in working with clients from a variety of experiences. We ended the show by talking about how trauma can also impact a relationship and she offered some good information and next steps if this would be helpful for you to have a better understanding.Lisa Tamblyn-Bergman is a licensed professional counselor and spiritual dire...2021-10-2059 min

TwoGetherWisdom for Those Who are Dating Part 2On this episode we got to meet Luke and Carmen who have been dating for over a year and considering taking next steps. We talked about how their relationship has developed and some different learning lessons along the way. An important way to develop a serious relationship is to form that out of friendship first and this is what happened for Luke and Carmen. We spent time discussing how this happened for them. We rounded out the show by talking about their relationship with God and how that helps to draw them together more closely. ...2021-10-0647 min

TwoGetherWisdom for Those Who are Dating Part 1Today we had a great interview with Hannah who serves here at Ada Bible Church. Hannah shared with us her family background and how it has influenced her views of marriage. She offered some key things she has learned over the years in her dating relationships and shared some tips for those who are single. We also talked about aspects she is looking for in a partner and to round out the episode, we looked at the results of her DiSC personality test to give her a better idea of what type of personality would best fit people like...2021-09-2239 min

TwoGetherWhat to Listen for in Season Two of TwogetherWant to know what we'll be talking about in our second season of Twogether? Look forward to Samuel and Kelly, along with guests, taking an in-depth focus on topics such as:Single but wanting to be married. Dating Keys to success in marriage and so much moreAnother key focus in this season will be faith. Our relationship with God is vital to our overall health, and also essential to our marriages and relationships. It is important that couple’s not only push forward in their relationship with God in...2021-09-0851 min

TwoGetherMarriage & Ministry with The Wright FamilyToday we had a great interview with Pastor Dan and Sarah Wright. Dan oversees our Kentwood Campus here at Ada Bible Church and we discussed this. Likewise, Dan and Sarah have raised children and have an incredible testimony about being married and being in ministry. You won't want to miss the season finale on, TwoGether.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you as well as any...2021-06-3055 min

TwoGetherFalse Appearances in MarriageHave you ever heard the old adage: "things may not be as they appear"? We deal with this in the context of marriage as Kelly and Samuel talk about how to address issues such as individuality in marriage, proper use of evaluation, and placing God's authority on the matter. RESOURCESGottman Method- www.gottman.comWANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to care@adabible.org. We would also love to hear from you...2021-06-1651 min

TwoGetherAdopting and MarriageToday we had a great interview with Kevin and Becky Vreugdenhil. Kevin oversees our benevolence ministry here at Ada Bible Church and we discussed this for a little bit. Likewise, Kevin and Becky many years ago adopted two children and we spent some time talking about the blessing that has been in their lives and with their family. We ended the show by talking about some key principles Kevin and Becky had about marriage, in particular how you have to be intentional in your marriage and consistently remember that your spouse is for you, and not against you. 2021-06-0234 min

TwoGetherThe Importance of Validation in Your MarriageToday we interviewed the counselor Wesley Morgan, MA, LPC who has a private practice in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Wesley works with individuals and couples, and enjoys “helping people have renewed perspectives” in their lives. Our focus of the talk was that we discussed working with couples in terms of communication, looked at counseling in the African-American community, and he had some wise words directed to those who may want to mentor other couples. If you would like to reach out to Wesley for counseling feel free to call him at (616) 604-4090.WANT TO TALK TO SOMEONE?If...2021-06-0256 min

TwoGetherHelping Couples When There Has Been an AffairToday we interviewed the counselor Diane Schroeder, MA, LPC who has a private practice in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Diane works with individuals and couples, and has a specialty in neurofeedback. Our focus of the talk was that we talked about working with couples where there has been an affair. Some key aspects we discussed were:Statistics regarding infidelityKey ways to work with couplesAdvice for those mentoring couplesHow to affair proof your marriageRESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE PODCAST-After the Affair: Healing the Pain and...2021-05-0551 min

TwoGetherThe DiSC Series: Marriage in Real TimeThis Twogether Podcast features Ada Bible attenders Mario and Becky Franciscotty. They discuss how learning each other’s personality is essential to growing their marriage. Utilizing the DiSC can help married individuals work through understanding strengths and weaknesses that they may otherwise not recognize. Resources Mentioned in the PodcastDiSC Classic Profile (Paper version): https://www.discprofile.com/products/disc-classicDiSC Profile (free): https://discpersonalitytesting.com/free-disc-test/ If you would like to talk to a pastor or person on staff about your marriage, please reach out to ca...2021-04-2141 min

TwoGetherEmotional Struggles in MarriageIn the context of marriage, individuals can often be thinking, feeling, and behaving in ways that their spouse may have trouble understanding. In this podcast we will be exploring four chief emotions: Anger, Lust, Anxiety, and Depression. These emotions have critical impacts on an individual's behavior and it becomes important to know how to notice and understand these emotions. ***As you are listening, you may notice that these topics are complex may go beyond what a mentor can help with. If you think or feel that you may be working through one or more of these emotions...2021-04-0756 min

TwoGetherThe DiSC Series: Personality and Prepping for the Dating ProcessThe Twogether Podcast is also for those who are single. Figuring out who you are in diferent ways will help you make a better informed decision in who you should date and maybe one day marry. One key way to get a better understanding of who you are is by taking the DiSC Profile. God created us into unique individuals and by knowing your personality style, it can help you pursue the right relationship for you. If you are single and hope to be married, today’s podcast will help give you the tools in looking for that unique pe...2021-03-2448 min

TwoGetherThe DiSC Series: How Personality Differences are Important in MarriageHow well do you know your spouse? Have you ever considered how your two personalities mesh or create friction? In this episode, Dr. Kelly Bonewell and Samuel Jones discuss the DiSC personality assessment and what it could mean for your marriage. This episode goes over specifics in how you and your spouse can compliment your different and unique personalities. DiSC Classic Profile (Paper version): https://www.discprofile.com/products/disc-classicDiSC Profile (free): https://discpersonalitytesting.com/free-disc-test/Gordon Allport: https://www.verywellmind.com/gordon-allport-biography-2795508 If you would...2021-03-1053 min

TwoGetherBlending FamiliesFamilies are composed in various different ways. In this episode we focus on stepfamilies, also known as blended families. Understanding that dating, coparenting, and blending one’s family is a journey, allows for the proper time to be taken to grow personally and familially. Good Reads- The Smart Stepfamily (Ron Deal), The Smart Stepdad (Ron Deal), The Smart Stepmom ( Ron Deal & Laura Petherbridge ), The Smart Stepfamily Marriage (Ron Deal & David Olsen)Remarriage at Ada: Email us at care@adabible.org or Go to our website: https://www.adabible.org/care/To fi...2021-02-1739 min

TwoGetherLeading our Families Well featuring Mario Franciscotty2020 brought challenges we were not prepared for as men. The season also showed the residency of men to grow as husbands, fathers, and leaders of their homes. In this episode, Samuel and Dr. Kelly interview Mario Franciscotty, Executive Director of Wellspring Counseling in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Listen up for several intimate and relatable details from their collective stories as they share therapeutic advice and lived experience. For more information on the resources mentioned see below:Love Bank Analogy- https://www.marriagebuilders.com/the-love-bank.htm Good Reads- Love and Respect (Emerson Eggerichs), Saving Your Marriage Before...2021-02-1030 min

TwoGetherMeet The Ryerson FamilyCouples are the lifeblood of Ada Bible Church. Their involvement, service, generosity, and support have helped this church thrive for its 30+ years of existence. As apart of marriages at Ada, we believe hearing from seasoned marriages can give experience, wisdom, and insight that may be needed in challenging times. In this episode we interview Jim and Jane Ryerson. They are attenders at the Cascade Campus and serve as marriage mentors and administrative support for our Care Department, respectively.To find more about:Jim Ryerson, check out https://salesoctane.comDr. Kelly, search for...2021-02-0345 min

TwoGetherCommunicating in High Conflict SituationsWe all know communication is hard work. In this episode, Samuel and Dr. Kelly share how to enact active listening as well as practice skills that help couples survive high conflict situations. Mentioned in this podcast is the resource "Crucial Conversations" a book by Grenny, McMillan, and Switzler. Here is a note about this book:When stakes are high, opinions vary, and emotions run strong, you have three choices: Avoid a crucial conversation and suffer the consequences; handle the conversation badly and suffer the consequences; or read Crucial Conversations and discover how to communicate best when it...2021-01-2040 min

TwoGetherEssential Elements of a Mentor MeetingToday Samuel and Kelly did a quick look at the essentials of a mentoring meeting. Those elements would include 1) Listening, 2) Information and biblical wisdom, 3) homework and accountability and 4) Prayer. During the podcast, we talked about an important book entitled The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce by Judith Wallerstein. This excerpt is from the publisher:In this compelling, thought-provoking book, Judith Wallerstein explains that, while children do learn to cope with divorce, it in fact takes its greatest toll in adulthood, when the sons and daughters of divorced parents embark on romantic relationships of their own. Wallerstein sensitively illustrates...2021-01-1314 min

TwoGetherWhat Does Marriage Mentoring Look Like?This episode is a deep dive in discussing what the marriage mentorship ministry looks like at Ada Bible Church. Dr. Kelly shares one of his favorite marriage mentor experiences and their lasting impact. Additionally discussed are concepts like the Love Bank and the Five Love Languages.For more Information on what we share, follow these links:Marriage Builders Website: https://www.marriagebuilders.com/a-summary-of-dr-harleys-basic-concepts.htmHis Needs, Her Needs, William Harley: https://www.amazon.com/His-Needs-Her-Building-Marriage/dp/0800737717/ref_11?dchild-1&keytwords=william+harley&qid=1606921238&s=books&sr=1-1The Five Love Languages...2020-12-0428 min

TwoGetherMeet Kelly and SamuelIn this very first episode, our hosts, Dr. Kelly Bonewell and Samuel Jones provide a glimpse into the world of their lives, marriages, and what to expect from the TwoGether podcast.2020-11-0930 min