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The Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingWhy Your Inheritance Is Bigger Than You Think: The Doctrine the Church Has OverlookedMost Christians have heard the word inheritance in church, but few have stopped to ask what it really means. Is it just another way of saying “salvation”? Or is there more? In this episode, join Rachel as she traces the theme of inheritance across the whole story of Scripture—from Adam’s squandered dominion to Abraham’s promise, from Israel’s land to David’s throne, and finally to Jesus, the Faithful Heir who secures it all.You’ll discover why our inheritance is bigger than we think: it’s not only eternal...
2025-09-2447 min
The Daily PourThe Daily Pour Podcast with Rachel Lopez - Episode 8: Ryan TenneyIn this episode, we’re hanging out with worship pastor Ryan Tenney - lover of Jesus, his family, his Harley, and a big bowl of ice cream. He shares his real and relatable journey to faith, how he fell in love with worship, and why he's passionate about reaching young adults for Jesus. It’s a laid-back convo full of laughs, heart, and encouragement. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review and share with a friend. Have a question or topic suggestion? Email us at: thedailypourpodcast@gmail.com
2025-08-0840 min
She Sells Differently - Authentic Selling & Business Growth Strategies for Faith-Based Female Entrepreneurs7 Steps to Transform Emotional Barriers into Business Strengths w/ Rachel TenneySend us a textAre fears and emotions holding you back from having a successful business? Today, I have my biz bestie, Rachel Tenney, back on the podcast and she is sharing her personal experience with fear and disappointment and a failed launch and how these challenges shaped her business journey. Rachel turned a failed launch into a catalyst for growth and shares how instead of being immobilized by fear and discouragement, she chose to embrace a process of emotional honesty and vulnerability. We a...
2025-04-1633 minThe Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingBread That Does Not SatisfyIn this follow-up episode to The Voca Podcast's debut episode,The Bread of Anxious Toil, Rachel delves deeper into the struggle of self-reliance versus surrender in entrepreneurship. Drawing from Psalm 127:2 and Isaiah 55, she connects "the bread that does not satisfy" with the "bread of anxious toil" in Psaplm 127. Challenging Christian entrepreneurs to identify and release their business idols, join Rachel as she encourages you to find true satisfaction in Jesus rather than in your business achievements while still encouraging your drive to accomplish great things!⭐️LINKS FROM THIS SHOW⭐️
2024-10-0210 minThe Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingKingdom Motivation for Writing Your Email Welcome SequenceIn our new Mundane to Motivated series, we are using my new IGNITE framework to discover your kingdom motivation for all sorts of practical business tasks! In this episode, we look at writing your email welcome sequence, and how that has kingdom impact. Want to submit a topic for me to discuss next? Submit your idea below!https://www.vocasociety.com/topic ⭐️LINKS FROM THIS SHOW⭐️♡ SUBMIT A TOPIC for me to discuss next on the podcast!https://www.vocasociety.com/topic♡ GET MY FREE MASTER...
2024-06-2515 minThe Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingWhen God Feels Distant: Embracing Lament in Business DisappointmentsHow can we take our business disappointments and griefs to the Lord? How can we apply the biblical theology of lament to what we experience in business when it feels like God didn't show up for us? ⭐️LINKS FROM THIS SHOW⭐️ ♡ GET MY FREE MASTERCLASS ON KEEPING JESUS FIRST IN YOUR BUSINESS https://bit.ly/keepjesusfirstbiz ♡ SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE (It’s free!): https://www.youtube.com/@thevocasociety ♡ FOLLOW ON INSTAGRAM: @thevocasociety - https://www.instagram.com/thevocasociety/ ♡ WEBSITE: vocasociety.com ♡ MEMBERSHIP: https://www.vocasociety.com/join
2024-06-1317 minThe Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingGod Is Writing Your Business StoryGod is Writing Your Business Story. That can be difficult for us to accept, especially if we don't like how He's writing it! In this episode, I share how God wrote a different story for my business than I would have written, but how His plan was much better than I could have written. ⭐️LINKS FROM THIS SHOW⭐️ ♡ GET MY FREE MASTERCLASS ON KEEPING JESUS FIRST IN YOUR BUSINESS https://bit.ly/keepjesusfirstbiz ♡ SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE (It’s free!): https://www.youtube.com/@thevocasociety ♡ FOLLOW ON INSTAGRAM: @thevocaso...
2024-06-0512 minThe Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingThe Things of EarthAre you a "two boxes" Christian? Listen in to hear the #1 thing that hinders worshipful work! Podcast Notes ⭐️LINKS FROM THIS SHOW⭐️ ♡ GET MY FREE MASTERCLASS ON KEEPING JESUS FIRST IN YOUR BUSINESS https://bit.ly/keepjesusfirstbiz ♡ SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE (It’s free!): https://www.youtube.com/@thevocasociety ♡ FOLLOW ON INSTAGRAM: @thevocasociety - https://www.instagram.com/thevocasociety/ ♡ WEBSITE: vocasociety.com ♡ MEMBERSHIP: https://www.vocasociety.com/join ---------------------------------- ♡ NEED HELP WITH YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA?
2024-05-2920 minThe Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingConquering Imposter Syndrome with Biblical ConfidenceWe struggle with imposter syndrome in new ways at every step of our business endeavors. The more we grow in Christian maturity and understanding how "not awesome" we truly are, the more the enemy will try to cripple us with feelings of inadequacy. We need a robust theology to help us conquer imposter syndrome through Scripture; the world's band-aid solutions will not last. Podcast Notes ⭐️LINKS FROM THIS SHOW⭐️ Wisdom and Folly in the Streets Podcast Ep 23 The Anvil of Entrepreneurship Podcast Ep 13 ♡ GET MY FREE MASTERCLASS ON KEEPING JESUS FIRST...
2024-05-1827 minThe Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingWisdom and Folly in the StreetsWe hear voices calling to us everyday. In our digital world, it’s a daily occurrence for us to hear voices calling out who claim to understand how life works. They tell us they have the secrets we are missing, the key that will unlock the life we long for. They tell us what the good life is. This is so true for us as business-minded women who are driven toward self-improvement! In our modern context, we could read this as wisdom and folly calling from podcasts, from Ted Talks, from coaches, from courses, from masterminds, and fr...
2024-05-0818 minShe Sells Differently - Authentic Selling & Business Growth Strategies for Faith-Based Female EntrepreneursWhy Manifesting Your Goals Doesn't Work with Rachel TenneySend us a textWe hear this all the time in the entrepreneurial world – if we manifest our goals they will happen! But what if the practice of manifesting our goals is actually causing us to not achieve our business dreams? Today's guest, Rachel Tenney, is bringing a thought-provoking conversation to us where she notes that manifesting goals is basically saying you don’t have to work hard for what you want and that this way of thinking can actually start to harm our business.
2024-05-0130 minThe Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingAre You Believing This Lie?In this episode we talk about a lie that may be keeping you from trusting God fully with your business. ⭐️LINKS FROM THIS SHOW⭐️ ♡ GET MY FREE VIDEO MASTERCLASS ON KEEPING JESUS FIRST IN YOUR BUSINESS https://bit.ly/keepjesusfirstbiz ♡ SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thevocasociety ♡ FOLLOW ON INSTAGRAM: @thevocasociety - https://www.instagram.com/thevocasociety/ ♡ WEBSITE: vocasociety.com ♡ MEMBERSHIP: https://www.vocasociety.com/join ---------------------------------- ♡ NEED HELP WITH YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA? Join my completely FREE Faceboo...
2024-04-2410 min
Plants by Wade Lee PodcastEpisode 7 with @Plantschoolpodcast Rachel Tenney
Episode 7 with @Plantschoolpodcast Rachel Tenney
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In this conversation, Wade Lee and Rachel discuss their experiences with podcasting and their love for plants. They talk about the challenges of using technology, their favorite podcast episodes, and their plans for the future. They also touch on topics like composting, caring for houseplants, and gardening. The conversation is filled with humor and authenticity, making it an enjoyable listen for plant enthusiasts.
2024-04-2232 minPlants by Wade Lee PodcastEpisode 7 with @Plantschoolpodcast Rachel TenneyEpisode 7 with @Plantschoolpodcast Rachel Tenney
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In this conversation, Wade Lee and Rachel discuss their experiences with podcasting and their love for plants. They talk about the challenges of using technology, their favorite podcast episodes, and their plans for the future. They also touch on topics like composting, caring for houseplants, and gardening. The conversation is filled with humor and authenticity, making it an enjoyable listen for plant enthusiasts.
2024-04-2232 min
Control Freak ChristianityWhy Are We Called Control Freak Christianity?Why are we called Control Freak Christianity and why are we here? We recognize the reality that there are control freaks who love to use the name of Jesus and His church for their own selfish purposes. It's all over the Bible, though it's rarely talked about in churches. Joe and Rachel introduce this topic and why we need to address control freaks in Christianity, today.
2023-09-0314 min
Inspire GreatnessHow Leaders Can Excel Through the Relationships They Create and Maintain with Rachel RiderIn this episode we talked with Rachel Rider and discussed how leaders can excel through the relationships they create and maintain.Rachel is a Columbia University certified executive coach with over a decade of coaching experience. She started as an HR Business Partner responsible for developing and coaching leaders and teams at Bloomberg, she then went on to specialize in leadership coaching at AppNexus (since acquired by AT&T) and Digital Ocean, the third-largest hosting company in the world.Since then, Rachel has founded Mettaworks, an executive coaching firm dedicated t...
2023-07-1838 min
3Q3Q Episode Forty Seven: Will TenneyNo matter where you are in your career, you’ll benefit from listening to 3Q.
3Q provides a window into the careers of some of the best in the music business. Every episode is an insider's view of the realities of life as a music executive. Topics include issues of empowerment, uncertainty, trust, finances, etc; issues that will impact you both personally and professionally. The executives we interview represent every aspect of the industry including but not limited to A&R, Marketing, Music Supervision, Artist Management, Promotion, and more.
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2023-03-2414 min
Plant School PodcastIntroduction to Microgreens w/ Rachel Haber | Ep. 106In today's episode I talk with Rachel Haber, founder of Knowing Nature, all about microgreens. Check out her microgreen planters here or follow her on Instagram, Facebook, or Youtube.
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2023-01-2642 min
Control Freak Christianity7 Thoughts on Christmas TheologyListen in as Joe and Rachel talk through seven devotional thoughts Rachel wrote for Advent after being disappointed by the advent devotionals she picked up this year. Whether you love or hate Christmas, we hope that digging a little deeper into the theology of Christmas encourages your heart this season. WARNING: May contain nerdy tangents and the bashing of Gnostic heresies. _____ LINKS: WATCH this episode as a video on YouTube! https://youtu.be/WVfGS8Rurh8 Watch Rachel's full advent video series here: bit.ly/ad...
2022-12-2245 minThe Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingIncarnation | Advent Devotional Pt 4How does the truth of Jesus' incarnation (His taking on a physical human body) affect our work lives? Join Rachel as she jumps on one of her favorite soap boxes and shows how much significance this seemingly abstract theological idea has for our everyday lives! WATCH this podcast as a video here: https://youtu.be/sYI7h8A81yU Go to the playlist of all 7 Advent Devotional videos on YouTube: bit.ly/advent-biz-devotionals ⭐️LINKS FROM THIS Podcast⭐️ JOIN The Voca Society here and get a FREE month using the...
2022-12-2211 minThe Work As Worship Podcast | For Christian Women Pursuing Their CallingEmmanuel | Advent Devotional Pt 3How does the Christmas truth of Emmanuel, God with us, change how we do business? Join Rachel as she explores this topic and pulls out beautiful truths to encourage our hearts year round. WATCH this podcast as a video here: https://youtu.be/viplokjkQ_k Go to the playlist of all 7 Advent Devotional videos on YouTube: bit.ly/advent-biz-devotionals ⭐️LINKS FROM THIS Podcast⭐️ JOIN The Voca Society here and get a FREE month using the coupon code ADVENT www.vocasociety.com/join
2022-12-2207 minControl Freak ChristianitySurvivor Reacts to Doug Wilson's Letters to a Broken GirlIn a series of letters to a fictional girl, Doug Wilson gives advice on how to handle being a victim of sexual abuse. Joe and Rachel are joined by Bethany Tenney, a real survivor, to discuss the quality of that advice in light of her experiences and the hope she has found in God and the Scriptures. Support Our Channel: https://www.patreon.com/controlfreakc... Original Source of "Letters to a Broken Girl" by Doug Wilson: https://dougwils.com/tag/letters-to-a...
2022-10-191h 07Control Freak ChristianityJohn MacArthurThis episode contains various accounts of abuse against women and children. John MacArthur is a well-known pastor of Grace Community Church, as well as an author and commonly heard voice on the radio. Recently, troubling details of a church discipline, carried out by John MacArthur in 2001, indicates poor judgment and improper use of church discipline. Joe and Rachel discuss how the legacy of John MacArthur has impacted their own lives and how they are thinking through the issues that arise from these allegations.
2022-03-1249 minControl Freak ChristianityImago DeiWe are created in the Image of God. What does this mean, and how does it impact how we live? Join Joe and Rachel as they discuss ways we get Imago Dei right, and ways we can get it wrong.
2022-02-2634 minControl Freak ChristianityHoliday BoundariesThe holidays can bring with them a lot of expectations, especially from family. Joe and Rachel talk about their different perspectives on holiday cheer, how to have healthy boundaries over the holidays, and examples of Jesus' boundaries in Scripture.
2021-12-2539 minControl Freak ChristianityOur Hardest Episode YetJoe and Rachel share news of recent spiritual abuse and how it's affecting them, their church, friends, and even the podcast.
2021-12-0456 minControl Freak ChristianityKilling ProductivityMany raised in Authoritarian Fundamentalism struggle to be as productive as they believe they should. Have they been set up for failure with shame, fear, idealism, and perfectionism eating away at their abilities? Joe and Rachel discuss this along with their own struggles to work well.
2021-11-1355 minControl Freak ChristianityReview: 'What are you doing?' by Vaughn OhlmanCourtship led to some crazy stories, right? And yet, even more bizarre ideas are trying to take root out in the world of Authoritarian Fundamentalism. Joe and Rachel go through a book written to convince Christians of the virtues of betrothal and arranged marriages.
2021-10-3054 minControl Freak ChristianityPutting the Cult in CultureCults can be wildly different in beliefs, organization, teachings, and operations. But the culture of cults can be in things that seem innocuous on the surface. Inside Christianity, whether in churches, movements, families, or organizations, cult-like practices can cause incredible damage. Join Joe and Rachel as they discuss twelve things that can demonstrate cult-like behavior in a community.
2021-10-1648 minControl Freak ChristianitySome Thoughts on SexAlready we live in a world that mishandles sex. The Church can run the range of ignoring sex in embarrassment and shame, to glorifying it similarly to how the world does. Do men have a visual Rolodex? Should sex be pleasurable for both men and women? How does pornography and self-pity play a part in Christians' understanding of sex? Joe and Rachel talk about some of the ways they understood sex to how they understand it now.
2021-10-0257 minControl Freak ChristianityMind of an Abuser in CourtshipA letter, written to Rachel's father, demanding her hand in marriage is a perfect example of spiritual abuse in a Christian courtship. Rachel relives her past anguish in this episode as she, along with Joe, read and comment on a real-life letter as an example of manipulation and narcissism.
2021-09-251h 36Control Freak ChristianityToxic TacticsMost people caught in abusive relationships have trouble navigating the many tactics that abusive people use to control, manipulate, and confuse. Joe and Rachel cover a list of tactics they've observed, and how those tactics work.
2021-09-1144 minControl Freak ChristianityThe Dursley EffectWhy do abusers who have hatred for those whom they abuse, try to hang on to them and keep them around? This effect is exemplified in the popular 'Harry Potter' books. Rachel nerds out on Harry Potter while Joe hangs on for the ride as they discuss how this dynamic is common in abusive situations.
2021-08-2117 minControl Freak ChristianityThe Way We DatedWhat happens when dealing with abusive people and a friendship that started on the internet blend together? Romance of course! Well, at least it did for Joe and Rachel. Join them in this lighthearted episode as they recount their dating story and what they learned along the way.
2021-08-141h 00Control Freak ChristianityElsie DinsmoreThe popular book series for girls by Martha Finley written over a century ago continues to be a phenomenon for many in fundamentalist and home-educated circles. They are beloved by many and hated by many more. Joe and Rachel discuss different excerpts from the books and give their own evaluations.
2021-07-3138 minControl Freak ChristianityBa'al in Israel Part 3: How it EndsElijah fought against Israel's slide into Ba'al worship, but there didn't seem to be any impact from his work. God tells him the three men who will bring an end to Ba'al worship but the consequences are staggering. Join Joe and Rachel as they discuss this dark part of Scripture, and how we still see glimmers of hope.
2021-07-2440 minControl Freak ChristianityBa'al in Israel Part 2: Elijah RunsElijah, who had been so faithful was on the run because Jezabel wants him dead. He runs and has a conversation with God. We can see how Elijah's wrestling can help us when our faithfulness leads us to suffer. Join Joe and Rachel as they discuss Elijah, God, and how we can heal well in our darkest moments.
2021-07-1740 minControl Freak ChristianityBa'al in Israel Part 1: Elijah's Triumph and DespairHow can we change massive societal evils? What can we do to face unfaithfulness in God's people. We are not the first to face these challenges. We have heard a lot about Elijah the prophet. He mocked false gods, prayed and God sent fire from heaven. But Elijah was attempting to end the practices of Ba'al worship that plagued Israel. Join Joe and Rachel as we look at his struggle, what it cost him, and what we can learn from how God worked through Elijah.
2021-07-0337 minControl Freak ChristianityWhen Victims Turn on VictimsYou might think that people who've endured terrible abuse would be kind and understanding to others who face similar abuse, but this is often not the case. Joe and Rachel talk through some of the reasons some victims are obstacles for healing for others, and why it's hard to help others with their trauma when you haven't dealt with your own.
2021-06-2624 minControl Freak ChristianityAbuser's Favorite Bible Passages: Matthew 18Using the Bible for wrong purposes is common, and perhaps no passage has been misused more than Matthew 18:15-20. Joe and Rachel give a few thoughts that shed light on this important section of Scripture and show how abusers misuse this passage.
2021-06-1234 minControl Freak ChristianityRussell Moore's LetterIt's already created quite the impact. A letter, written over a year ago from a well-known theologian and ethicist, Dr. Russell Moore, has been leaked. The letter includes some very troubling allegations that, if true, would demonstrate corruption in the heart of the largest conservative denomination in America. Joe and Rachel discuss the letter, how they and others are thinking about it, and how it lines up with their own understanding of what's going on in American churches. Read the letter in full: https://religionnews.com/2021/06/02/leaked-russell-moore-letter-blasts-sbc-conservatives-sheds-light-on-his-resignation/ Support our work! https://www.patreon.c...
2021-06-0559 minControl Freak ChristianityThe Things We Wore: A Foray into Homeschool FashionJoe and Rachel are completely unscripted as they spill the tea about their past fashion faux pas while growing up in homeschooling sub-cultures. Have you ever wondered why you can spot a homeschooler in a crowd? This episode is a light-hearted conversation about some of the reasoning behind why homeschoolers dress the way they do. A special thanks to Forte Music Academy for supporting us. Check out their online catalog of composer training! www.bytesizedtheology.com/forte
2021-05-2235 minControl Freak ChristianityBad Counsel in the Book of JobJob received bad counsel from his friends in the midst of his suffering. What are some of the bad things that Job's friends told him and does it sound like advice we give today? Join Joe and Rachel for this episode to explore what kind of advice makes God angry, and what we can say instead.
2021-05-1537 minControl Freak ChristianityCleanse the TempleJesus will cleanse His bride. How does this truth affect how we should see the church and address evils inside the church? In this episode, Joe and Rachel talk of how to take part in the work of Jesus, while relying on Jesus' promises for His church.
2021-05-0839 minControl Freak ChristianityJosh DuggarFormer TLC star from "19 Kids and Counting," Josh Duggar has been charged in Federal court with possessing Child Pornography. He is yet another conservative Christian that has shown a horrific willingness to abuse others. Joe and Rachel discuss how they used to hold similar beliefs as the Duggars. God has helped Joe and Rachel come to freedom, perhaps He will show the same grace to members of the Duggar family. Previous episodes mentioned: Episode 22, 'Why is there so much Sexual Abuse in Authoritarian Fundamentalism?' https://controlfreakchristianity.libsyn.com/why-is-there-so-much-sexual-abuse-in-authoritarian-fundamentalism E...
2021-05-0144 minControl Freak ChristianitySpiritual WarfareSpiritual Warfare is often either over-emphasized or ignored. Joe and Rachel discuss their own experiences, Jesus' dealing with temptation, and the confidence Christians can have against the enemy.
2021-04-1737 minControl Freak ChristianityRacist Doctrine and Neo-Confederacy in the ChurchFor centuries, teachings of Kinism (and similar doctrines) have infiltrated the church justifying many evils. Joe and Rachel talk of their own upbringings and exposures to racist ideologies, along with some of their own thoughts on how to begin to think of racial issues.
2021-04-1052 minControl Freak ChristianityChristian PoliticsPolitics have been crazy and Christians are all over the map when it comes to political involvement and positions. Joe and Rachel discuss their own political experiences and talk about what a healthy understanding of politics in the life of the Christian can look like.
2021-04-0446 minControl Freak ChristianityFantasy and EscapismJoe and Rachel have a raw and unscripted conversation about a rarely addressed topic - that people have fantasies, imaginative worlds, and daydreams. Is that even ok? Join us for the discussion!
2021-03-2733 minControl Freak ChristianityThe Quiverfull MovementThe Quiverfull movement, and similar movements, teach that all birth control is wrong, and families should produce as many children as possible. Joe and Rachel discuss some of the thoughts, beliefs, and arguments of the Quiverfull movement, along with the truth and freedom found in the Bible.
2021-03-1342 minControl Freak ChristianityPractitioners vs Social Media ExpertsIn a world where internet experts and armchair theorists abound, Joe and Rachel discuss the importance of listening to people who actually live out their own ideas. How can we tell if somebody is a practitioner? How do we know if their practice is healthy and good? And what does a practitioner learn from engaging in real life?
2021-03-0642 minControl Freak ChristianityTrue or Cheap RepentanceCo-hosts Joe and Rachel discuss the core Christian doctrine of repentance and how it is often dealt with cheaply. From abusers faking repentance to save face, to large numbers of Christians being gullible because they don't regularly walk in repentance, much discussion and work is needed on this topic.
2021-02-2739 minControl Freak ChristianityRavi ZachariasThe sexual abuse of famed evangelist and apologist, Ravi Zacharias, is in the open. We know he shamefully used his ministry for selfish reasons, harming and abusing others in the process. Joe and Rachel have an unscripted conversation on the ordeal and what it means for Christians and the Church.
2021-02-1322 minControl Freak ChristianityCracks in the CeilingThis episode contains a detailed account of abuse. Joe and Rachel discuss an example of abuse from Joe's life and how God faithfully met Joe in many moments of darkness.
2021-02-0618 min
Control Freak ChristianityCost of TellingPrevious guests, Bethany and Adia, return to talk about the cost they had to pay to publically share their stories. All of us benefitted from each of their first visits with co-hosts Joe and Rachel, but few know how much hardship those interviews brought them. From being attacked by people who didn't like what they had to say, to reopening wounds that came with intense grief, these two women share their insights and experiences.
2021-01-231h 19Control Freak ChristianitySufferingA shallow understanding of suffering can easily lead to trite Christian sayings or quoting a Bible verse without compassion. Joe and Rachel discuss the heart of God, our need for comfort, and how we should seek to comfort others in their suffering.
2021-01-1628 minControl Freak ChristianityPassive Support of AbuseAbusers are not the only ones to blame for cultures of abuse. The enablers, those who stand by and don't resist abuse, bear culpability as well. Joe and Rachel touch on the biblical theology of Justice, discuss how we have all fallen short in acting justly, and give examples of how passivity against abusers hurts the abused. But for all of our failure in these areas, our hope is in Jesus who actively walked out Justice perfectly.
2021-01-0930 minControl Freak ChristianityAbused People in Church ft. Miguel DavillaIn another interview with Pastor Miguel Davilla, co-hosts Joe and Rachel discuss many of the challenges abused people face in the church, even as they need church. Everything from how to identify a healthy or unhealthy church, to when the police should be called in an abusive situation, this interview pulls on years of experience and wisdom from Pastor Miguel.
2020-12-1930 minControl Freak ChristianityChurch Discipline Done WellJoe and Rachel wrap up some of their thoughts on Church Discipline, how it can be done well, and how God has given us tools to protect our local church communities. Don't miss Joe's nerdy addendum about Congregationalism, if you're into that kind of thing.
2020-12-1236 minControl Freak ChristianityCrummy Church DisciplineChurch Discipline is a practice not done by most churches. But when it is done, it's often down wrong. Rachel and Joe discuss real-life examples (including Rachel being church disciplined by a jilted ex-suiter) and the harmful ideas that use Church Discipline as a weapon.
2020-12-0533 min2020-11-2102 minControl Freak ChristianityPastoring the Abused Pt 2 Ft. Miguel DavillaPastor Miguel Davilla joins Joe and Rachel to discuss how Pastors can help bring healing to those who've experienced spiritual abuse. God's grace through his ministry, and the work of his congregation, has helped many people walk the difficult road of healing in Christ.
2020-11-0723 minControl Freak ChristianityPastoring the Abused Pt 1 Ft. Miguel DavillaPastor Miguel Davilla joins Joe and Rachel to discuss how Pastors can help bring healing to those who've experienced spiritual abuse. God's grace through his ministry, and the work of his congregation, has helped many people walk the difficult road of healing in Christ.
2020-10-3120 minControl Freak ChristianityWhat Even is LifeHow we respond to life, with its highs and lows, can vary. Different generations have been formed in different contexts, each with their own shortcomings. Joe and Rachel use some inspiration from Netflix binging, a quick nod to Philosophy, and an overview of the Book of Ecclesiastes to give some thoughts on how to deal with all of life, good and bad.
2020-10-2430 minControl Freak ChristianityHumor and Fun? Or Sober-Mindedness?Many self-righteous people are miserable, and many sub-cultures of Fundamentalism have limited understandings or expressions of humor. Rachel previews her comedy show, followed by Joe and Rachel discussing humor with its uses and misuses.
2020-10-1725 minControl Freak ChristianityIdealism UnmaskedIdealism is a common theme in Authoritarian Fundamentalism and appeals to our desire for easy answers. In this episode, Joe and Rachel discuss how our God-given desires for perfection can lead us into harm when not anchored in the hope of Jesus alone.
2020-10-0328 minControl Freak ChristianityPolitics and False MoralitiesWhen we've been burned by the morality of Authoritarian Fundamentalism, we look for other moralities that can replace what we've known. These moral systems can give identities and standards of right or wrong. Joe and Rachel talk about moral systems inside Authoritarian Fundamentalism and the world including what comes from politics.
2020-09-2626 min
Kent Lapp Podcast#052: Joe and Rachel TenneyThis episode is all about spiritual abuse and abuse of power, including sexual abuse. Some examples, how to identify it, deal with it, heal from it and find hope. Joe and Rachel share their personal stories, and their motivation behind launching their podcast, Control Freak Christianity. This conversation is sometimes difficult, often heavy, and yet hopeful, redemptive and certainly necessary. If you or someone you know is caught in abuse of any kind, please seek help. Joe and Rachel Tenney each have a depth of experience, a heart of compassion and a strength of courage t...
2020-09-192h 53Control Freak ChristianityAttack the Victim!Most people who state they've been wronged end up being attacked for it. Joe and Rachel talk about what Victim Blaming is, why it is so common, and what we can do about it.
2020-09-1924 minControl Freak ChristianityGod Loves our JoyDo you ever wonder if God is waiting to take away things that we love more than Him? Does he take sadistic delight in our sometimes painful process of sanctification? It often feels that way, yet we see a different picture in Scripture. Joe and Rachel discuss their own beliefs, and how they've experienced God's kindness.
2020-09-1232 minControl Freak ChristianityNice Christians Don't Use Aggressive ForceMost of us feel like we shouldn't defend ourselves and are limited by unspoken rules that tell us to be nice. What is God's heart for us when we are faced with horrific evil? Rachel and Joe discuss how to begin to unravel unravel difficult situations where aggressive actions are needed. Support us so we can continue making this Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/controlfreakchristianity
2020-09-0533 minControl Freak ChristianityGospel + Safety + TimeGospel + Safety + Time has been a helpful formulation for how a healthy Gospel culture should work and function. Join Rachel and Joe's conversation not just articulating the Gospel but living it out in a healthy and helpful way.
2020-08-2925 minControl Freak ChristianityMatriarchy DisguisedIn communities with strict gender roles, men are given near ultimate power over others. Yet women often end up the ones that initially drive families into these cultures and often end up quietly controlling families and churches. Joe and Rachel discuss observing this and why this is such a factor in Authoritarian Fundamentalism.
2020-08-2235 minControl Freak ChristianityDeconstructionMany have gone through a deconstruction of faith that leaves them going to the world to define their Christianity, or they leave Christianity altogether. Rachel and Joe discuss their own deconstruction and how they came out closer to Jesus on the other side.
2020-08-0834 minControl Freak ChristianityWhen Abusers Fight Other AbusersSometimes we are helped by people out of an abusive situation, only to be dragged by those very same people into a different abusive situation. Rachel and Joe discuss the complicated nature of abuse and give some thoughts on how to navigate difficult situations.
2020-08-0124 minControl Freak ChristianityIs God an Egg?God's nature has often been described in goofy ways, yet the doctrine of the Trinity has some beautiful truths. These truths help us dismantle views of God that cause suffering, confusion, and sometimes even abuse. Joe and Rachel start to scratch the surface on this doctrine, and how it's led them to more joy and trust in God.
2020-07-2531 minControl Freak ChristianityAesthetic of HolinessThere is holiness, and then there is an appearance of holiness. They are not the same. The focus on appearing holy but using arbitrary human standards to measure that external holiness causes massive trouble in people, families and communities.
2020-07-1852 minControl Freak ChristianityInterview: Adia's StoryAdia Barkley joins hosts Joe and Rachel to tell her story. From arranged near-marriages to a presbytery court on flirting, Adia has been on a wild ride through extreme elements of Authoritarian Fundamentalism. Yet God's kindness and grace show clearly in sustaining her, and helping her heal and grow.
2020-07-111h 46Control Freak ChristianityWhy is there so much Sexual Abuse in Authoritarian Fundamentalism?Hosts Joe and Rachel lay out the case that sexual abuse is common in many families, churches and organizations that claim Christ. Why is this evil so common? And what can we do about it? Through it all we can have hope that Jesus is bigger than evil and He can help us.
2020-07-0438 minControl Freak ChristianityMind of a Spiritual AbuserMany tactics are used by Spiritual Abusers to control, manipulate and wear out others. Joe and Rachel use a letter from their own past as an illustration of these tactics.
2020-06-271h 18Control Freak ChristianityPressing into JesusJoe and Rachel talk about how crazy life is and our need to press into Jesus.
2020-06-1315 min2020-06-0642 minControl Freak ChristianityThe Abuse and Murder of George FloydJoe and Rachel take a step back from looking at spiritual abuse to examine the horrific abuse and murder of George Floyd at the hands of police officers.
2020-05-3032 minControl Freak ChristianityLife Purpose for Women (Hint: Not Being Married and Having Babies)To some, women's purpose is wrapped up in their roles as wife and mother. But the Bible teaches differently, that identity for women should be who they are in Christ, not what they do for their families. Support us today: patreon.com/controlfreakchristianity
2020-05-2341 minControl Freak ChristianitySinglenessMany single Christians impacted by Fundamentalism feel lesser for being unmarried. Joe and Rachel discuss the terrible ideas that made their singleness harder and how local churches should treat single Christians. They talk about the fear of missing out on sex and how we should hope in the future marriage of Christ and His Church.
2020-05-1653 minControl Freak ChristianityAn Episode for AbusersJoe and Rachel speak directly to abusers in this powerful episode that demonstrates the Gospel and a firm reminder of God's hatred of abuse. Most abusers fake repentance when it's convenient, but true repentance is still possible. Listen and hear the Gospel at work in abusive situations.
2020-05-0934 minControl Freak ChristianityFrom Abused to AbuserWhen a person is abused, they often are tempted into becoming abusers themselves. Rachel and Joe discuss why abuse is so damaging and why it can draw its victims into continuing cycles of hurt and destruction. Only the gospel of Jesus allows us to break free from abuse cycles and into freedom and joy. Join the support to keep us making this podcast: https://www.patreon.com/controlfreakchristianity
2020-05-0231 minControl Freak ChristianityFalse Peace vs. True PeaceWe want to live in peace with others. Sometimes, unhealthy people will create a type of false peace that ends up controlling or manipulating us. To be free would be to break the "peace" they have created. Joe and Rachel discuss how to break false peace in order to create true peace. Help us create more episodes and support us: patreon.com/controlfreakchristianity
2020-04-2531 minControl Freak ChristianityTen Ways Courtship Can Go WrongCourtship is a common method in Authoritarian Fundamentalism to replace dating. Rachel and Joe discuss their own experiences and go through ten ways they've seen courtships go wrong. Support us so we can continue to discuss these important issues. patreon.com/controlfreakchristianity
2020-04-1849 minControl Freak ChristianityThe Dehumanizing Effects of ControlWhen a person is being dominated, ruled or controlled by another why does it cause so much damage? Control isn't just about who gets their way, it's about the value of a human being and God's design. Support us at Patreon.com/controlfreakchristianity so we can continue to produce these episodes!
2020-04-1127 minControl Freak ChristianityPenny Pinching ParentsCheapness is not often talked about. But cheap parents can unintentionally lie about the character of God, teach us to view God and ourselves wrongly, and destroy the generous attitude God designed us to have. Joe and Rachel discuss their own experiences with cheapness and how God's grace, most clearly seen in the gift of Jesus, is bigger than any lack of provision we have experienced. Help us continue making content: www.patreon.com/controlfreakchristianity
2020-04-0432 minControl Freak ChristianityTemporary and Eternal FamilySome families operate as though they were the ultimate end of mankind. But is this how God designed earthly families to act? Join Rachel and Joe as they discuss the proper focus of family. Support us so we can continue to create episodes https://www.patreon.com/controlfreakchristianity
2020-03-2821 minControl Freak ChristianitySurvive and ThriveThe very skills that keep people alive in danger can also trap a person. How can we step away from the coping mechanisms that allowed us to survive, so that we can move on into healing and growth? Support us on Patreon so we can continue to make this podcast! https://www.patreon.com/controlfreakchristianity
2020-03-2130 minControl Freak ChristianityGospel Doctrine & Gospel CultureJoe and Rachel discuss the importance of both doctrine and culture that is driven by the gospel of Jesus. Culture is both more difficult to define, and often missing from churches that emphasize doctrinal truth.
2020-03-1244 minControl Freak ChristianityI've Got the PowerIn this episode, we discuss true and false forms of authority and lay some groundwork for understanding authority as Jesus taught it.
2020-03-0736 minControl Freak ChristianityInterview: Bethany Tenney Part 2Bethany Tenney, sister to co-host Joe Tenney tells her story of spiritual, emotional, and sexual abuse. In part two, she discusses her response and healing.
2020-02-291h 00Control Freak ChristianityInterview: Bethany Tenney Part 1Bethany Tenney, sister to co-host Joe Tenney tells her story of spiritual, emotional, and sexual abuse. Patreon Link: https://www.patreon.com/controlfreakchristianity
2020-02-221h 11Control Freak ChristianityThe Numbness PhenomenonSpiritual abuse or trauma can leave you feeling emotionally numb. Joe and Rachel discuss feeling distant from God, and the fallout of having Scripture used to control them.
2020-02-1443 min2020-02-1127 minControl Freak ChristianityIntroductionThousands of people have been taught forms of Christianity that led them into more bondage than freedom. Why do we feel like we have been enslaved by the truth when it’s supposed to set us free? Join your hosts, Joe and Rachel Tenney, as they discuss how to fight disillusionment, and move forward in the hope of Jesus Christ. This is the Control Freak Christianity podcast.
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