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Confident CollectiveConfident CollectiveA Real Talk on Body ConfidenceThis week, Raeann and Kristina get real about body confidence, reflecting on the pressures of “thin is in” culture and how it affects their mindset. Both girls have faced a tough year with their body confidence—Raeann’s ups and downs of feeling hot vs hating her body and Kristina’s struggle with clothes that don’t fit and the suburban skinny bubble. They also discuss balancing body positivity with health goals, the power of habits, and checking in with how you’re feeling. Remember, confidence naturally ebbs and flows, and practicing self-love wherever you’re at in this journey is important!  ...2024-11-1942 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveVictoria’s Secret Fashion Show Returns: Glamour, Inclusivity & Unfiltered OpinionsThis week, Kristina and Raeann break down the return of the iconic Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, from their favorite walks to the curve model representation. At the afterparty, they reaffirmed that they ARE big girls and Raeann now manifests her runway debut in next year’s show. They highlight favorite moments, from Ashley Graham owning the spotlight to Lisa from Blackpink’s stunning performance, but they also drop some critiques—pointing out the lack of glitz and glam and the small percentage of body diversity. The girls reminisce about the old show and how happy they are that it’s back but...2024-10-2237 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveFrom Grandma’s Pasta to Saucy Wings: Celebrating Food Without ShameIn this episode, Raeann talks about her first few days doing 75 Medium (75 Hard Rae edition), focusing on consistency, routine, hitting her hydration goals. Kristina celebrates her 7-year wedding anniversary and shares marriage advice on communication and how to balance life with kids. They also dive into their latest obsessions — Raeann’s dopamine menu of little joys like iced matcha, fresh sheets, and ocean dips, while Kristina raves about her new pilates princess era.    Today, the girls are talking alllll about food! The focus is to celebrate the joy a good meal can bring and to quiet the toxic diet culture. They s...2024-09-1752 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveSummer Rewind: Going Deeper With Rosie On Casual Sex, Celibacy & Reclaiming Sexual FreedomJoin us as we revisit an insightful conversation with Kristina, Raeann, and special guest Rosie, exploring Raeann’s evolving views on casual sex. We delve into Raeann’s reflections from her ‘hoe phase,’ where she embraced casual encounters without regrets, to her subsequent ‘celibate era.’ Discover how Raeann navigated dating during her 'siren summer,' prioritizing connection over immediate intimacy. This judgment-free episode encourages reclaiming sexual freedom while ensuring personal comfort and empowerment. Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return September 3rd! Resources: Submit your question for the next Ask Away: Click Here Follow us on Instagr...2024-07-0940 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveSolo Episode: The Art of Being Cringe & Caring LessIn today’s solo episode, we are chatting about embracing the cringe and not letting people’s opinions get in the way! Raeann posted about her butt acne issues and her community came through with helpful advice, the girlies understand. Especially helpful as we’re in our sporty girl era, Kristina is excited about joining a beach volleyball team and Raeann is currently training for a half-marathon. We also chat about our expectations when it comes to surprises… catch Raeann’s couch boy 2.0 surprise reaction with Gabe on our Patreon. Also soon to be on Patreon, Kristina drops that she’s having sle...2024-05-1435 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveAsk Away: Dating a Short King, How to Flirt & Getting Friend-ZonedToday’s Ask Away is a good one, but first a little life recap! Raeann may have came back from her Mexico vacation paler than when she got there, but her relationship with Gabe has grown stronger. Raeann and Kristina share how they feel like they are glowing down, but apparently it’s a normal feeling in your early 30s so love that for us. Speaking of aging, Kristina got a 3D mirror image of her face and left with Botox recommendations and how to fix her tech neck. Also, Kristina drops that she is Taylor Swift’s muse?! One of her...2024-04-3043 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveUnfiltered With Chelsea Blackwell: Life After Love is BlindToday we sit down with Chelsea Blackwell to unveil what really went down during her time on Love is Blind, the Megan Fox debacle, and her dating life post Jimmy. Chelsea thought she didn’t say or do anything too crazy on the show that would bring unwanted attention, but little did she know that she would soon be roasted by America for saying Megan Fox is her celebrity doppelgänger. As she navigates this new life in the spotlight, she is handling the scrutiny with humor and grace while embracing exciting new opportunities with confidence. Chelsea gives her raw tho...2024-04-2342 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveThe Ozempic Effect: Unpacking Society’s Obsession with Thinness and the Body Positivity BacklashIn this solo episode, we’re talking all about the craze behind Ozempic and of course, catching up with our girls. Kristina spills the tea about her bougie Aspen brand trip, meanwhile, Raeann had a much-needed low-key week. Kristina and Raeann chat about how drastically different their lives are now as Kristina talks about how special her first mother-son dance (aka rave) was. Raeann opens up about not feeling settled and her current existential crisis that she’s been trying to navigate. As for pop-culture references, we’re watching Summer House, binging The Traitors, and wondering where is Kate Middleton hiding...2024-03-1945 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveSolo Episode: Unveiling Spring Fashion Trends from Capris to Ballet FlatsIn this solo episode, we are chatting about spring trends and giving our honest opinions as true fashion connoisseurs. But before we get into it, Kristina and Raeann catch us up on what’s new. Kristina and Raeann unveil that they are both thriving in their fitness era — Kristina even signed up for a triathlon!! Raeann confesses her love for buffalo sauce, Kristina shares stories about her nanny, and the girls find agreement on ending friendships if they associate with disrespectful men. Also, does Kelly Clarkson know she’s the face of weight loss pills that are targeting old parents?!    As sprin...2024-03-1239 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveWho TF Did Tory Almost Marry: Red Flags, Gaslighting & Sex AddictionWe’ve all binged or heard about @ReesaTeesa and her 50-part TikTok series about her pathological liar husband, right? Well, let us introduce you to Raeann’s sister, Tory Langas, who’s about to open up about her 5-year relationship with a man who ended up being a sex addict and narcissist. The red flags started early on in their relationship when he lied about his age (hello, 16-year age gap), but was overlooked because of their love and pull towards one another. But the red flags kept piling up from fighting with family members to going to Vegas with his “e...2024-03-051h 59Confident CollectiveConfident CollectiveAsk Away: Wedding Planning Drama, Intimacy Dynamics & the Journey to Self-LoveIn this Ask Away episode, love, dating, and relationships take center stage. But before we dive into your burning questions, did you know Raeann was in musical theater?! Apparently, Raeann and Mr. Jersey even break out into show tunes together which we love. Speaking of things we love, Kristina has been obsessing over love languages which also sparks the debate if returning gifts from a loved one is tacky or not. Rae and Kristina also chat about the planning it takes to get ready as a girl, the elaborate lies they told to impress boys in high school, and...2024-02-2737 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveAsk Away: Wedding Planning Drama, Intimacy Dynamics & the Journey to Self-LoveIn this Ask Away episode, love, dating, and relationships take center stage. But before we dive into your burning questions, did you know Raeann was in musical theater?! Apparently, Raeann and Mr. Jersey even break out into show tunes together which we love. Speaking of things we love, Kristina has been obsessing over love languages which also sparks the debate if returning gifts from a loved one is tacky or not. Rae and Kristina also chat about the planning it takes to get ready as a girl, the elaborate lies they told to impress boys in high school, and the...2024-02-2752 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveSolo Episode: Catching up with Rae and K, Friendship Tips, and Pop Culture Round Up!Okay, quick question for the class… is every single person on the earth on Ozempic? And Tom Holland and Zendaya didn’t break up, right? Because Kristina and Raeann have thoughts, questions, and opinions about it all. But before they dig into that, we’re going to get caught up on Raeann’s Vermont ski trip, WHICH may or may not have been her last. Ice is meant for drinks, not to ski on, ya know?    In other news, is Kristina made for the Mob Wife Aesthetic? Maybe she is and maybe she IS. Buckle up for a lively episode, no one’s h...2024-01-2343 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveAsk Away: Dating Post a Breakup in Your 30's, Going From One Child to Two, and Financial Convos with FriendsWell, first things first. Guess who hates Saltburn, Kristina or Raeann? Also, who is caught up on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City? Because Kristina has thoughts, STRONG ones at that. She believes one deserves an award while the other literally put her to sleep, in fact. 🤷‍♀️ Next up we’re getting some life updates and may or may not be hearing about a new crush, buttt you’ll have to 🎧 to find out! And don’t worry, we’re not skipping past Gypsy Rose … and the fact that her husband *MIGHT* look like her mom?! 😬 Raeann goes speed dating again and we get all the...2024-01-1636 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveExploring the Cosmic Vibes of 2024 with Astrologist, Alice BellRaeann and Kristina are spilling the tea on everything that's been happening since the last episode -- 2024 is off to a wild start! From Raeann's January Dating Challenge (👀) to Kristina taking a wild polar plunge all by herself and all the trends that are IN and OUT in 2024. But the real icing on the cake? Alice Bell is back on the pod, and she's here to break down all things astrology! If you've been riding with TCC for a while, you know Alice Bell was the one who got Raeann hooked on astrology in the first place. Now...2024-01-091h 22Confident CollectiveConfident Collective‘23 Wrapped: Milestones, Big Moments, Dating and Relationship RecapsWhat a year it’s been and what a fun episode to send us all into the Holidays! Today, we may or may not be getting some ☕️ *tea on the Golden Bachelor while Raeann fills us in on some circulating questions about the bachelor himself … not least of which, the pronunciation of “Gerry.” Then we get into Taylor Swift’s latest Vogue cover and some quotes to chew on, because obviously we must and we will! 👸 Before we start looking to the new year we have some dating recaps from Raeann, a solid story involving an un-called for Instagram blocking, along w...2023-12-1250 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveHello, Cuffing Season! feat. Sixtine RouyreIt’s a wonderful day for all our single and searching friends out there because we have Sixtine Rouyre in-studio dishing the goods! She’s dropping real dating-expertise, excel spreadsheets, some simple adjustments to your dating strategy and overall? - Just some confidence and chill we can all sit back and enjoy even if you're already cuffed! She’s giving us all some permission to be our most settled and authentic selves, to hide nothing on dates, and to find our own siren eyes … You’ll get it when you hear it.   But before we get into all that goodness, we’re first...2023-12-051h 06Confident CollectiveConfident Collective155. Ask Away: Seeing Your Old Crush at Your New Job and How to Handle Your Friends Being Approached by Guys - But Not You!We’re still recovering from our wonderful Friendsgiving Dinner and can’t wait to announce the winner of a free Goodie Bag, so make sure to subscribe to our stories so you don’t miss the announcement!  Now, we know you’re all dying to hear whether or not Raeann went out on THAT date we talked about last week … Well, let’s just say there was a shirtless selfie and some bad communication, do you think that was a dealbreaker for Raeann and would it be one for you?    Next we’re moving on to some Golden Bachelor and Gold...2023-11-2831 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective154. Friendsgiving: A Night to RememberWell our Confident Collective Friendsgiving was one for the books! We’re going to fill you in on our incredible night with awesome new friends, throbbing feet, a beautiful dinner, and we may even answer the age old question, “How many dirty martinis can Kristina order before the waiter tries to cut her off?” But before that, we’re catching you up on the day … which may or may not have included tears on New Jersey Transit, a euphoric cab ride, and a buccal massage— All before noon.    Raeann’s filling us in on the pre-Friendsgiving photo shoot drama and a pretty privile...2023-11-2140 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective152. Going Deeper with Rosie: The Virtue of Food, Eating Differences within Relationships, and Commenting on Each Other’s HabitsNavigating any food conversations with your person or potential partner can be tense and tricky. We each have a very different relationship with food but that doesn’t mean we can’t come to the conversation from a level place and not with a grenade-of-opinion in our hand. That’s why we’re so glad to have Rosie back with us to help answer a listener’s question about this very thing. The best part? We all heard the question a bit differently so you’re really going to get a variety in perspectives today!   We also get to hear about Raeann’...2023-11-0755 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveBig Sis Energy with Malia Alexis and Kenzie GraceWe could all use a little more Big Sis Energy in our lives; Malia Alexis and Kenzie Grace are here to show how to do just that! We were blown way by the authentic confidence and joy that Malia and Kenzie brought to the table for this discussion! Kenzie and Malia are Tiktok sensations and podcast hosts of the new show, Big Sis Energy! If you don't know, they are two sisters *one year and a day apart* whose creativity and infectious energy have taken the TikTok world by storm. With a combined following of millions, Malia and K...2023-10-1758 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveLong Story Short: Kristina’s Moving!We have a super exciting update for you in today’s episode: Kristina’s moving! Listen to this episode to find out where she’s moving, how she finally made the decision on East vs West Coast, what she’s most looking forward to, what she’s leaving behind and all the in between. There is a lot of great advice about making big life decisions in this episode, reflecting on how far you’ve come to celebrate your evolution, ignoring the noise of other people’s opinions and navigating new phases of life. Plus, hear all about how Raeann’s recen...2023-10-1055 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveAsk Away: Boyfriend’s Mama Drama, Destination Wedding Woes & Shifting Your Mindset Around Your SizeWe’re feeling all sorts of chaotic and while it’s bad for our sanity, it’s good for the podcast! Catch up with us in this episode on how we’re feeling post NYFW. We’re sharing some crazy stories about what we’ve been dealing with behind the scenes, some inspo Kristina got from a recent wellness and entrepreneurship panel, and how it’s been for Raeann to dip her toes back in the dating pond. Then, we’re answering your questions about dealing with boyfriend mama drama, friends flaking on your wedding, not feeling the pressure to “snap back” a...2023-09-2642 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveAsk Away: Boyfriend’s Mama Drama, Flaky Friends & Shifting Your Mindset Around Your SizeWe’re feeling all sorts of chaotic and while it’s bad for our sanity, it’s good for the podcast! Catch up with us in this episode on how we’re feeling post NYFW. We’re sharing some crazy stories about what we’ve been dealing with behind the scenes, some inspo Kristina got from a recent wellness and entrepreneurship panel, and how it’s been for Raeann to dip her toes back in the dating pond. Then, we’re answering your questions about dealing with boyfriend mama drama, friends flaking on your wedding, not feeling the pressure to “snap back” a...2023-09-2642 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveGoing Deeper with Rosie on Fat Shaming: Navigating Negative Comments & A Size-Biased WorldNo matter how confident you are, being fat shamed still hurts. Whether it’s intentional or not, overt or covert, no one wants to be fat shamed. It's such a sucky feeling and after talking to our friend Rosie recently about an experience involving fat shaming on a plane, we’re left to wonder, why does this still happen? Why is being called fat such a diss and insult? And why do people think it's okay to say that?  So, today we’re diving into the root of fat phobia, size stereotypes, and why the term 'fat' is stil...2023-09-1957 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveNYFW Curvy & Confident StyleYour curvy girls hit up NYFW for the first time and honestly, it was so much fun! We shared a lot of the BTS in real time, but nothing compares to getting all the juicy details in this episode. We’re sharing our POV on the Victoria Secret fashion show, Fashion Media Awards, and the star-studded VIP after parties we attended. Although we had a great time at the events and showing off our curvy style, the highlight was definitely getting to spend lots of quality time together! Hear all about it, plus the fall fashion trends we’re lovi...2023-09-1238 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveAsk Away: Friend Fights, Dating in the App Age & Postpartum ConfidenceWelcome back to another Ask Away episode where we’re giving our advice on everything from style challenges to conflict in relationships! We’re sharing how the preparation for Fashion Week is going as stylish mid size girlies and we must admit, it hasn’t been easy finding clothes we love that come in our size. Then we’re giving advice on how to resolve conflicts in relationships; whether it’s a friend fight or drama with your partner or family. We talk about the realities of dating in the app age, and how we’d go about defining the relation...2023-09-0541 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveConfidently Embracing 30: Raeann's 10 Takeaways from Her 20sRaeann is 30 & thriving! As she confidently enters a new decade, she’s sharing 10 takeaways from her 20s in this episode; from relationships to self confidence to friendships to career – she's sharing what she's learned in the last decade that is making her so excited for this next phase of life. Raeann shares how she’s feeling about this milestone birthday, and all the wisdom she’s gained in her twenties to bring into her thirties. We talk about her birthday plans, and Kristina shares what turning 30 has taught her, and a little more about what you can expect in this dec...2023-08-2250 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveGoing Deeper With Rosie On Casual Sex, Celibacy & Reclaiming Sexual FreedomRaeann has been having a lot of conversations with friends lately about the shift in her mentality around casual sex, so we thought we’d bring in Rosie to help us unpack and navigate this topic in case any of you are going through similar experiences. We talk about what Raeann learned in her “hoe phase” enjoying casual sex and why she has no regrets. We talk about the emotional and physical implications of casual sex that caused Raeann to rethink her relationship with it, and enter her “celibate era.” Join us as we dive into what her siren summer loo...2023-08-1540 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveLong Story Short: Summer Adventures, Beige Flags & Sibling RivalryGet ready for a super fun catch up episode where we share what we’ve been excited about lately. We get into our summer travel plans as Kristina prepares for her last West Coast summer & Raeann prepares for her 30th birthday festivities. Hear about a recent astrology and tarot reading Raeann had that gave her interesting insight about a future relationship. Then, we share some of our favorite beige flags we’ve seen and confess our own beige flags. There’s so much to look forward to this summer, and we talk about movies we’re excited to watch on the b...2023-07-111h 03Confident CollectiveConfident CollectiveWe’re Back! Life Updates & Tips for Feeling Confident in a SwimsuitWe are so excited to be back with you after a short hiatus! We are feeling refreshed and so ready to be back on the mic. We missed the Confident Collective community, and are excited to finally catch you up on everything that’s been going on in our lives over the past couple of months. We also share all the exciting details of our Los Angeles pool party happening on June 17th, what to expect if you’re coming and some outfit recipe ideas to help you feel so confident in a swimsuit. Finally, if you’ve been feelin...2023-06-0654 minConfident CollectiveConfident CollectiveMental Health Check In: Why We're Putting The Podcast On PauseThe burnout is real, you guys. Both Raeann and Kristina have been going through a lot this year; having a baby and moving to a new city. They have recently recognized that maintaining their current workload is causing them to neglect their mental health. We believe in listening to your gut and that it is important to take time to rest, so, we’re taking a break from the podcast for the next couple of months to recharge. We hope you understand that it was a really hard but necessary decision, and we’ll be back with a new epis...2023-04-0426 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective128. Spring Style Guide: Embracing New Trends & Closet EssentialsThe sun has come out, spring has sprung, and we’re ready for a closet refresh! In this episode we’re looking at the top spring and summer fashion trends for 2023 and sharing what we’re most excited to wear in the upcoming seasons. We’re ready to embrace new textures, colors and silhouettes; from festival season favorites like coastal cowgirl and mermaid core, to closet staples like maxy skirts to more playful pieces like floral appliques on shoes, get all you need to know to feel confident and look so chic when the warmer weather comes. We also...2023-03-2859 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective126. Exposing Our Toxic TraitsConstantly losing things? Unfortunately. Always thinking someone is either mad at or obsessed with us? Most likely. Thinking that money is no object at the airport? Guilty. In this episode, we’re exposing all of our toxic traits and share some top offenders submitted by listeners. In summary, we're all toxic AF, but to be honest, we have no desire to change our toxic traits. It's fun to laugh at ourselves, so let’s accept them and keep doing what we're doing, okay? Plus, Kristina shares some exciting family news and updates us on if she is plan...2023-03-141h 07Confident CollectiveConfident Collective125. Sober Curious? Olivia Noceda’s Advice for Navigating Relationships & an Alcohol-Free LifestyleWe’re sure you already know and love today’s guest, Olivia Noceda! Olivia has had an alcohol-free lifestyle for the past 15 months, so we invited her on the podcast to share her experience and to explore the concept of sober curiosity. Olivia shares her personal journey with sober curiosity and why she decided to cut out alcohol. We discuss the similarities between the sober curious movement and diet culture, and the red flags to be aware of. We also talk about the correlation between alcohol and hookup culture, and how to navigate dating while sober curious.  Raean...2023-03-0754 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective124. Shit Men SayThe audacity! We’re laughing but it’s actually ridiculous, the shit men say. And honestly, no one gets more random, crazy shit said to them than us. We’re sharing personal stories about the most insane things men have said to us; from commenting on our size, to the way we walk, to how our eyes look. Then, we share some of the most unhinged things our TCC listeners have heard from men. We can’t imagine what’s going through their minds to make these comments, but they sure as hell have made for funny stories. Whether they don’t...2023-02-2847 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective121. If you’re feeling lost, this is for youReflecting on different phases of your life gives you an opportunity to appreciate the moments that have made you who you are, and shows you that you’re capable of so much more than you give yourself credit for. When Raeann moved to Los Angeles five years ago, her life looked a lot different. As she prepares to close this chapter and move to NYC, our good friend Rosie joins Raeann on the podcast to help her recognize and celebrate her evolution and ask hard questions that dive deep into the pivotal moments that have led Raeann to who sh...2023-02-0754 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective119. Unpopular OpinionsGet ready for some laughs as we dive into our personal unpopular opinions. This IS a comedy podcast after all, right?! First, it’s dating story time with Raeann as she shares the awkward moment she had on a recent date in NYC. Kristina’s also sharing an update about what she’s trying to accomplish before baby #2 arrives and how she’s feeling in her body. Then, Raeann and Kristina share their unpopular opinions on foods, traditions, trends, habits, places and celebrities they think are overrated. Do you agree or disagree? What are some of your unpopular opinions? Share th...2023-01-2454 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective118. Dating & Relationship Q+A with Unsolicited Advice PodcastWelcome Ashley and Taryne, fellow besties turned podcast co-hosts of Unsolicited Advice podcast, to the Confident Collective! We love hearing Ashley and Taryne’s amazing advice and perspectives as we tackle some complex and interesting scenarios and give our advice. We'll be discussing everything from navigating the dating scene & confidently setting boundaries after going through physical changes to reigniting the spark in your long term relationship. We all have unique insights to share based on our individual experiences, and hope we can help with situations you have or potentially will go through. Make sure to check out Unsolicited Advice to...2023-01-171h 04Confident CollectiveConfident Collective117. Goal and Intention Setting Tips for the New YearWe’re sharing our mindset heading into 2023, and the different categories of goals and intentions we’ve set for the new year. We’re focused on taking steps to feel our best and work towards positive, supportive change. We’re excited to share our thought process and how to set goals that are sustainable and attainable. We hope this episode helps you feel inspired, motivated or encouraged to go after the things you want that come from your heart. You can make your life feel however you want it to! There’s no better time to start than now. 2023-01-1054 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective116. Love Is Blind’s Alexa Lemieux on How to Be Confident in Yourself & Your RelationshipAlexa Lemieux has had such a big impact on curvy women all over the world, including Raeann and Kristina, and we loved watching her journey to find love on the reality TV show, Love Is Blind. Her confidence has sparked positive, dare we say viral, attention on the internet and she has inspired women to be unapologetically themselves and take up space. Although breaking the reality tv mold wasn’t exactly part of her plan, she has embraced her position as a role model for curvy women with pride. Hear the inside scoop about her unconventional and in some wa...2022-12-201h 09Confident CollectiveConfident Collective116. Love Is Blind’s Alexa Lemieux on How to Be Confident in Yourself & Your RelationshipAlexa Lemieux has had such a big impact on curvy women all over the world, including Raeann and Kristina, and we loved watching her journey to find love on the reality TV show, Love Is Blind. Her confidence has sparked positive, dare we say viral, attention on the internet and she has inspired women to be unapologetically themselves and take up space. Although breaking the reality tv mold wasn’t exactly part of her plan, she has embraced her position as a role model for curvy women with pride. Hear the inside scoop about her unconventional and in some wa...2022-12-201h 09Confident CollectiveConfident Collective115. Raeann's New York City EraICYMI: Raeann is officially moving to NYC! Check out this solo episode where Raeann is giving you the exclusive update on how she’s adjusting. Is NYC really more expensive than Los Angeles? What’s the dating situation? Has she noticed an energetic difference living on her Jupiter line versus Pluto line?  Raeann is answering your most common questions and giving her advice for anyone looking to make a similar move. Plus, hear about our TCC dreams for 2023 here first! Remember, getting outside of your comfort zone is the best way to build your confidence. Have fun hanging with Rae!2022-12-1329 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective114. Easy Organizing Tips To Transform Your SpaceThis guest has transformed Kristina’s life. Dany D’Andrea is a professional home organizer and styler, and will give you a holistic approach to editing your home that will impact more than just your closet. In this episode, Dany shares her easy tips for home organization that will transform your space. She offers insight about how and where to start decluttering your home, how you can identify your aesthetic in order to be more intentional with your purchases, and how to know if it’s time to part with an item in your closet. She acknowledges the financial and em...2022-12-0652 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective113. Winter Holiday Survival Guide: Festive Outfit Recipes & Activities, Budgeting Tips & Staying HealthyThe holidays can be a crazy busy time of year. Between going to events, finding the perfect outfit for said events, shopping for yourself and others, and taking advantage of all of the festive activities, there’s so much to do in such a short amount of time. We’re hoping to take some of the stress out of the season by sharing some of our favorite outfit recipes you may already have in your closet, seasonal activities you shouldn’t miss, tips for staying within your budget, and reminding you to take time to rest. You can enjoy the ho...2022-11-2956 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective111. Being Thin Isn't the GoalDiet culture and thin-praising has been highlighted in news articles, entertainment and culture a lot lately, and we know how harmful these messages can be. If you’re struggling with comparison, or the pressure to be thinner or lose weight before going home for the holidays, hit play on this episode to reframe your mindset on what will really help you feel more confident, and remind yourself that your worth is not tied to your weight. If you’re being influenced by negative comments or people around you that believe being thin or losing weight is the answer to your...2022-11-1548 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective110. How to Confidently Make a Career Switch in Your 20sHave you ever dreamed about working for yourself but don’t know how or have the confidence to actually do it? Today’s guest, Adriana Parente, went from working in a corporate setting to having her own clients as a freelance influencer marketing specialist and brand consultant in her 20s, and is sharing her advice for how she made the switch in this episode. We talk about how to know when it’s time to take the leap to work for yourself, how to stay on track and motivated, tips for budgeting and sending invoices, how to set your pricin...2022-11-0859 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective109. CONFIDENT COLLECTIVE LIVE SHOW IN NYCWe’re still not over our first live podcast show in NYC!! We had the time of our lives getting dressed up in Halloween costumes and hanging out with the Confident Collective community IRL! Thank you so much to everyone who came out to our first show. We can’t wait to do it again! From sharing some of our most cringe-worthy high school photos, to asking Steve questions from the male perspective, to setting Raeann up on her first NYC blind date - we were cracking up the whole entire time. We hope you enjoy catching up on all...2022-11-011h 26Confident CollectiveConfident Collective108. How to Raise Confident Children & Heal Grief through Gratitude with Hunter & Michaela McGradyIt’s official: curve models, content creators and hosts of the Model Citizen podcast, Michaela and Hunter McGrady, are our long lost best friends. They have such incredible energy, are the best examples of sisters supporting and respecting one another and it is so inspiring. Listen to this episode to hear how they were raised to put respect for one another first, and how their mom positively influenced their confidence growing up. We also ask them to share how they’ve navigated the tragic loss of their brother, and how practicing gratitude has helped them move forward. Plus, we cele...2022-10-251h 05Confident CollectiveConfident Collective107. Scandalous Stories: Getting Arrested, Spicy Hookups, Cheating Discoveries & MoreWow, do we have some juicy content for you today! We’ve all done some scandalous things, so there’s no judgment here as we get into our most scandalous stories and then share yours anonymously. We share about a one night stand that turned into a sex tape, the story of how Kristina was arrested in Washington Square Park, savage things we did in college, spicy hookups and so much more. Hear all about it in this episode! “I’m a vanilla gal, I’m 80% vanilla, so all of my scandalous stories are still pretty PG.” - Raeann...2022-10-181h 01Confident CollectiveConfident Collective106. How to Make Dating Feel Like Self-Care & Manifest a Partner IRLWant to know how to build more joy into your life while increasing your chances of meeting a partner IRL? Today’s guest, podcast host of @datebrazen & dating coach Lily Womble, has your answers. Lily “helps women transform their dating lives from a soul-suck, to an act of self-care, attracting extraordinary relationships along the way.” Sounds like the ideal way to date, no? We chat with her about the internal work we need to do before we start dating, adding more joy, self-love and compassion into our lives, how dating apps can be harmful to the nervous system, where to put...2022-10-111h 17Confident CollectiveConfident Collective105. Confessing Our Biggest Pet PeevesWe must confess…we have some major pet peeves we need to talk about! It just feels good to release and talk about things that annoy us so we can get it off of our chest, you know? In this episode, we also talk about our upcoming LIVE EVENT in NYC this October, the worst date Raeann has ever been on, and some exciting news from Kristina about a TV appearance she’ll be making soon. In our ask away segment, we give advice to a listener about how we motivate ourselves to stick to our workout routines, and not...2022-10-041h 10Confident CollectiveConfident Collective102. Fall Fashion Favorites: Outfit Recipes, Trends & Confidence TipsRaeann and Kristina started as fashion creators, and honestly, experimenting with fashion was one way that helped us to feel more confident. Because we LOVE helping other women feel confident and good about themselves, this episode is all about fall fashion: what we’re excited for, how to incorporate trends, stay true to your style, our tried and true outfit recipes and best confidence tips when it comes to fashion.   “Find the recipe that really works for you then just have fun with iterations. Because you know you're going to feel good when you walk out t...2022-09-131h 05Confident CollectiveConfident Collective101. Your Guide to Plus-Size Style Confidence: Size Inclusivity in Fashion, Shopping Sustainably & How to Launch an Extended Size Collection with Nicolette MasonIt sucks to go shopping and find something you love, only to realize it isn’t made in your size. We have been there too many times, and talk a lot about how brands need to be more size inclusive. Our girl Nicolette Mason has been on the frontlines of this important conversation for a long time, and is truly a pioneer of change in the fashion industry in the best ways. She is one of the first plus size content creators we met in LA, and both Raeann and Kristina have been following her journey and benefiting from he...2022-09-061h 22Confident CollectiveConfident Collective100. Kristina Is Pregnant! Modeling in NYC, Plus Size Representation in Media, Bennifer’s Wedding & Advice If You’ve Never Been in a RelationshipThe last episode of our summer series reveals a HUGE life update from Kristina: she’s PREGNANT! Hear about how she found out, when she’s due, how she’s been feeling and what she’s most excited for with baby number 2! We get into the BTS of Raeann’s recent modeling gig in NYC for Express, discuss Barbie Ferreira leaving Euphoria, our thoughts on the low media coverage of Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez’s wedding, and other celebs tying the knot this month (Sarah Hyland and Wells Adams). We also open up about our dating history, and normalize fe...2022-08-3049 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective99. Bowling & Burlesque Birthday, Edibles, Malibu Event with the Kardashians, Evil Eye Update, Spontaneous Tattoos, Post-Party Anxiety, Finding a Good Personal Trainer29 and feeling FINE. Raeann’s birthday celebrations were truly next level. Tune into this super fun episode right after a few days of shenanigans and good times in honor of our Leo queen for all the details. We talk about everything that went down at Highland Park Bowl, including why Kristina almost didn’t get in, and how Raeann accidentally got everyone too high. Raeann shares why she didn’t get any photos at her birthday party, Kristina’s finger injury, and her spontaneous tattoo adventure. Raeann and Kristina share their highlights from an Instagram event in Malibu with the Kard...2022-08-2341 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective98. Kristina’s Evil Eye, Raeann’s Birthday Vibe, Wardrobe Minimization, Jersey Weddings, Laser Hair RemovalGet the scoop on why Kristina thinks she’s caught an evil eye, the warning a family member gave her in Greece, and what she’s doing about it now. And, it’s Leo season, baby! Raeann shares 3 ideas for an epic birthday celebration. Hear what activity she decided on, her reflections on the last year and what she’s looking forward to. We also talk about items on our wishlist (ft. fall trends). We also talk about the top wardrobe tip we have been leaning into lately that is leaving us more creative and inspired by what’s in our clo...2022-08-1644 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective97. Traveling with a Toddler, Relatability in Friendships, Making Amends with an ExWhile Kristina and family have had a blast while traveling in the Greek Islands, it’s not all chill beach hangs and aperol spritzes when you have a toddler. Kristina is surrounded by her childhood friends and family who now also have kids, and she’s realizing the importance of having friends who can relate to what you’re going through (especially re: parenting). We talk about having different types of friendships in different seasons and the importance of them all. We also share our maybe unpopular opinions about whether or not you should make amends with an ex, and wh...2022-08-0943 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective96. Obsessed with Rest & Romance: Greek island getaway, talking about sex, running into an ex, learning to chillKristina’s enjoying her second week of rest and romance in the Greek islands. She talks about how nice it was to have a couples getaway with Steve in Patmos, and the importance of making time for your relationship especially after having kids. Raeann is embracing LA while she’s still there, and recaps running into an ex at a concert. Then, find out why she’s making a public apology to Bumble. Raeann and Kristina discuss how chill European culture is versus the go-go-go mentality of the US. In our “ask away” segment, hear Raeann and Kristina’s advice for t...2022-08-0240 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective95. Raeann's European Summer RecapRaeann’s sharing the good, the bad and the scandalous parts of her 6-week European vacation, and answering your most common questions! First, Kristina shares an update on her first few days in Greece, and gives some tips for moms traveling with toddlers. Then Raeann goes into every detail of her trip: her favorite and least favorite destinations, what she would do differently, more tips for meeting people if you’re traveling solo, the best and worst money she spent, what to pack, safety tips and so much more. Plus, hear a scandalous story from one of her dates and...2022-07-2657 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective94. Post Trip Transformation, Playing Bilingual, Dating in Europe, Scams, Organized ChaosWe’re back together for one day before Kristina heads to Greece! Raeann shares her initial reflections upon returning to LA from 6 weeks in Europe, and how the trip impacted her personally and work-wise. Stay tuned for an upcoming episode where she’ll be going more in depth about her experience. She tells us all about her dating app swipe success in Europe and how different it was than dating in LA. Kristina shares how she’s preparing to travel to Greece for a family vacation, and they give advice to a listener who’s wondering if she should make a m...2022-07-1934 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective93. Peeing in an Elevator, France Escapades, Life EpiphaniesThere’s nothing more humbling than accidentally peeing yourself in an elevator. Whether it was from having too much fun laughing with a friend or potentially getting drugged at a French pizza place, we don’t really know. You have to hear these stories from Raeann’s time in France and weigh in! She talks about which French hot spot is overrated, where to go instead and the epiphany she had while getting a psychic reading in London. Meanwhile, Kristina shares an epiphany of her own, and a Tik Tok video calling out our parent’s generation’s weird relationsh...2022-07-1241 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective92. Navigating New Friendship Dynamics, Family Fun, Celeb Sighting in London, Tips for Living AloneLast week Rae was having a blast making out with strangers, and this week she’s reflecting on always feeling like the “single one.” She’s dishing about why she fell in love with Soho House London, the celebrity she saw there, and unexpectedly falling in love with Thai food. Kristina shares about her recent trip to San Diego, embracing new types of fun with her family, and shares exciting career news. We talk about our favorite places and products as well as give advice for staying productive while living alone in our Ask Away segment! “When your close...2022-07-0535 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective91. Young, Wild and Free Energy: going out in Greece, drunk make outs, girls trip bondingFor Raeann, this is the summer of crossing things off of her bucket list. Manifesting skinny dipping with a hot guy in Greece? Check. Having the most fun with drunk make outs, bonding with strangers who become fast friends and embracing flexibility and spontaneity? Also check. It’s the wild and free summer she always dreamed of, and reminds us it’s never too late to do the things you’ve dreamed of. We’re diving into all the juicy details in this episode! Come along for the ride (and get a preview of what we’re dreaming of for the TC...2022-06-2839 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective90. Strong Girl Summer Motivation, Craving Routine, Social Media ComparisonIf you’re like us and consistency and routine is your lifeline, traveling for an extended period of time can be a challenge. Raeann is 2 weeks into her solo travel adventure, and although she is having the best time, the lack of her normal eating and exercise routine is starting to weigh on her mental health. Kristina is getting into a new gym routine, but shares how the pressure to get fit for summer is real and reminds us that we should be working on being healthy and strong all year round. We also talk about the dangers of so...2022-06-2138 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective89. Steve’s Psychic Reading Recap, Traveling Solo in Italy & Advice for Living AbroadWe finally have the long awaited update for you about Steve’s psychic reading and the messages she had from his dad who has passed away. She shared information with Steve no one outside of the family knew and truly knew everything. Plus, she tells Steve and Kristina what the gender of their next child could be and where they should ultimately end up living. This story will give you major chills! We also talk about Raeann’s travel experience so far in Italy, how to meet friends and take photos while traveling solo, and advice for anyone looking to l...2022-06-1445 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective88. Hot Girl European SummerWe’re kicking off our summer mini episode series documenting our Euro travels and summer adventures. We begin this episode with an update from Raeann on her chaotic first couple days in Rome! We get into Kristina’s plans for the summer, products they’re loving for travel, and some key advice for anyone traveling this summer (especially to Italy.) We also chat about what we think about the Depp vs Heard trial and verdict, share lots of fun personal stories and share our opinions about how to keep calm while trying to get pregnant from a listener’s question...2022-06-0734 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective87. Are You Adopting Other People’s Insecurities?Have you ever had lunch with a friend who kept talking about her weight and diet, and then you started to question your lunch order and weight and diet? Sometimes we adopt others’ insecurities and don’t even realize it. A pivotal part of our confidence journeys has been realizing when we’ve taken on others’ insecurities as our own. Today we’re sharing stories from throughout our lives where our confidence was challenged because of other people’s opinions and insecurities, and how we persevered to protect and practice our own self confidence. At the end of this episode we’l...2022-05-3152 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective85. Ask Away Part 3: How to Recover from Heartbreak, Support New Moms, Talk to Your Doctor About Weight and Practice Self-LoveKristina and Raeann are answering your questions in today’s episode and sharing raw and honest emotions about what’s been going on in their lives behind the scenes. Raeann opens up about struggling lately with the sadness of heartbreak. Whether you’ve recently experienced a break up or are still dealing with emotions from past relationships, we’re here to remind you that it’s okay to be sad when you lose something you love. But we’re also sharing our tips for moving on, focusing on yourself and appreciating where you are now. We also get Kristina’s perspective...2022-05-1755 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective84. Top 5 Wellness Tips for WomenCourtney Swan (@realfoodology) is an Integrative Nutritionist with her masters of Science in Nutrition and Integrative Health and she also happens to be a dear friend of Raeann. Courtney posts daily about the real food and organic movement on her Instagram account: Realfoodology as well as her weekly podcast, also called Realfoodology. She aims to educate on the dirty practices of the food industry and how to eat healthy, with real food, and today she’s on the podcast sharing her top 5 wellness tips for women who are looking to improve their overall health. “You need to canc...2022-05-101h 04Confident CollectiveConfident Collective83. Things Men Don't GetNot wearing socks with holes in them. Folding damp towels. Planning literally anything. We love the men in our lives, but living with them is not the easiest sometimes! We’re reading off the things men just don’t get that drive our listeners crazy and it’s equally hilarious and frustrating. Tune in to see if your submission made it into the episode and if you can relate to any of these situations! “When it comes to men not understanding urgency, we need to meet in the middle. Why create more stress?” - Kristina “I am concerned for the gene...2022-05-0348 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective81. Learning to Say NoHave you felt torn between what you think you should do versus what your gut is telling you you want to do? Whether it’s to make a friend or family member happy, a work opportunity or FOMO – saying no to things that sound like a good idea or that you know would make someone you care about happy is extremely hard to do. As finances and the balance between work and a social life become more challenging to manage in adulthood, it’s important to be aware of your options and understand how to make the right decision for YO...2022-04-1946 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective80. Breaking Down Stereotypes with Olympic Athlete Ilona MaherOlympic athlete and Tik Tok star Ilona Maher’s confidence is contagious. She started playing Rugby as a senior in college then made it as an Olympic Rugby player in the 2020 Tokyo Olympics where she went viral on Tik Tok with her witty commentary and insightful view into the Olympic Village. Ilona is hilarious, and an incredible role model for women and girls by encouraging us to embrace our strength and athleticism. In this episode we talk about the false stereotypes around Rugby players, how playing a sport has helped her confidence, how to deal with people saying you’re “...2022-04-121h 07Confident CollectiveConfident Collective79. What Raeann Learned from Running a Half MarathonIn 2019, Raeann and Kristina were approached by Nike to lead a group for a half marathon with the Confident Collective community. They trained for months just to have the race canceled weeks before due to COVID. Since then, Raeann has thought about completing her goal of running a half marathon to challenge her own perception of what a runner looks like and what her body can do. In this episode, Raeann shares her biggest takeaways from the experience, what she gained and her advice for anyone thinking about tackling a big goal. We also discuss tips for future half...2022-04-0537 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective77. How to Embrace Your Height and SizeLet’s be real, being the bigger friend in your friend group sucks sometimes: not being able to share clothes, shop at the same stores, and hearing people thinner than you complain about their bodies. We receive messages from listeners all the time requesting advice on how to handle these situations. Raeann and Kristina have both been the bigger friend, in size and height, and know that it can feel alienating. But they’ve also come a long way in their confidence journeys and have plenty of good advice to share. So, we’re talking about how to change your m...2022-03-2235 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective76. Plus-Size Bridal StyleWedding invite says: serve a look. We have a fun wedding-themed episode for you today as wedding szn approaches! Taelor Pawnell aka @stylishsista is your plus-size, creative, Virgo, bridal bestie, sharing tips for plus-size bridal fashion and wedding planning on her social media. Raeann loved following her and was super inspired by her fire Brooklyn Bridge engagement photos so we had to have her on the podcast to hear more! “There's a lot of hidden costs of being plus-size, and then you add the layer of not having options. I’m very much wanting to do what I wa...2022-03-1548 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective75. '90s-‘00s NostalgiaThe year’s approximately 1998. You get home from school in your Limited Too matching set and immediately pop in Spiceworld: The Movie as you plop down on your blow up couch. A gentle breeze filled with Victoria Secret’s Love Spell fills the air. You reapply your Lip Smacker and touch up the row of butterfly clips adorning your head like a crown, admiring the Mary Kate and Ashley poster proudly displayed on the wall. Life is good. If you haven’t guessed it already, this episode is all about ‘90s-’00s nostalgia. Get to know Kristina and Raeann...2022-03-0846 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective73. Raeann Downloaded a Sex Positive Dating AppHere’s what happened. A few months ago, Raeann’s friend told her about this app. It’s called feeld, and it focuses on establishing connections based on your sexual desires in the “spirit of openness and experimentation.” Because she’s someone who approaches things with an open and curious mindset, she downloaded it and made a profile. Find out in this episode how she ended up having “a more positive experience” than other dating apps, got out of her comfort zone, and learned how to be up front with her expectations sooner in her dating life. P.S. This one might m...2022-02-2251 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective70. Relationship Q&A with Intimacy Expert Dr. VivianaLove is in the air. We’ve deemed February LOVE month on TCC! Single or not, we’re talking about it all this month - sex, dating, relationships, intimacy… ALL of it. This episode is with a very special guest, Dr. Viviana, licensed relationship and sex therapist and intimacy expert. We had her on the podcast last July, so this is a long awaited part 2 where she answers YOUR sex and relationship questions! This episode covers everything from how to talk to your partner about money and budgeting, to avoiding the most common mistake new parents make, to how to kno...2022-02-011h 06Confident CollectiveConfident Collective69. How We've Made Friends as AdultsADULT FRIENDSHIPS. We’ve gotten some questions about how to make friends as adults, so Raeann and Kristina are sharing how they’ve done it in this episode! R+K both moved to new cities in their early twenties and had to make a new family of friends, so they know how hard to find but extremely necessary those relationships are. You’ll learn from Kristina and Raeann’s personal stories and hopefully become inspired to go out and make those connections. Rae and Kristina also give some tips and encouragement for putting yourself out there and even provide examples...2022-01-2547 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective67. Making Moves in 2022We’re back from the holiday break! So obviously we’re catching you up on what we’ve been up to. Raeann went to Cabo with her family to live her best life, and Kristina was with her family in New Jersey. Hear about Kristina and Steve’s exploration of homes in the NJ/NY area and if they’re making any offers. Then, Kristina and Raeann share what they really think about resolutions, what their intentions are for the new year and what goals they’re working towards. From the internal work of trusting ourselves and taking better care of our...2022-01-1141 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective66. Find Your Life’s Direction with AstrogeographyThe episode Raeann has been hyping up for weeks is finally here! After we spoke to Dara Dubinet, Raeann called her mom and said, “I just met someone who’s going to change my life.” If you’re into astrology or human design, you’re going to LOVE this episode. Dara Dubinet joins us to explain Astrogeography - the astrology of place - and how we can use this tool to tap into our soul’s wish and know where in the world will energetically benefit us. Dara tells Raeann and Kristina where they’ll find the best energy for their desi...2021-12-281h 05Confident CollectiveConfident Collective65. What We Learned in 2021: Motherhood, Relationships, Self Reflection, Career and Everything In Between2021 has been a LOT and we all deserve a hug and pat on the back. We made it! In this episode, Raeann and Kristina get real honest about the struggles they’ve faced, what they’re most proud of, what changes have made the biggest impact on their lives, what they want to keep working on in 2022 and more. Everyone’s going through a different season, and whether it’s been the best year, the worst or both, there’s always good in it somewhere.  P.S. There won’t be an episode the first week of January, so t...2021-12-2147 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective63. Navigating Holiday Weight Loss Pressure & Family Fat ShamingDo you feel pressure to lose weight before going home or seeing family around the holidays? Are you nervous about hearing comments about your weight from family members? If you answered yes to either of those, you’re not alone. Raeann and Kristina have always felt the pressure of losing weight before coming home at the risk of hearing unwanted comments from family. Although we know they may have good intentions or honestly don’t know how their comments affect you, it’s time to take your power and voice back.  In this episode, Rae and K s...2021-12-0746 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective61. Our Most Embarrassing StoriesWarning: we talk about a lot of shit in this episode (literally.) We are not responsible for the sore abs and tears you may experience while or after listening to this episode sharing our and your most embarrassing stories! Coming from two people who live their lives in between embarrassing moments, it was so fun reading, sharing and commenting on the stories you’re able to look back and laugh at. Realizing other people have experienced similar things as your most embarrassing moments helps make them more entertaining and less lonely, right? At least, that is what we hope yo...2021-11-2348 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective60. How Human Design Helps Us Honor Our Differences with Erin Claire JonesHuman design: you may have heard of it, but did you know you can use your human design type as a tool to understand yourself better, see yourself and your energetic needs more clearly & accept yourself as the unique human you are? Clearly we needed to know more, so we invited human design guide and leadership coach, Erin Claire Jones on the podcast to break it all down for us! “Human design is a system based on your time, date and place of birth to reveal your energetic blueprint; how you’re wired to make decisions, work with...2021-11-161h 02Confident CollectiveConfident Collective59. How to Get Out of a Confidence FunkRaeann has been struggling lately when it comes to dating and its’ effect on her confidence, so we invited our friend Rosie to join us in a truthful, vulnerable conversation about the nuances of dating as curvy women, why women are so affected by the presence or lack of male attention, where confidence really comes from, how to gain it back when you’re in a funk, the role men should be playing in evolving the conversation around fat phobia and so much more.  We know many of you in our community deal with the same things we ar...2021-11-091h 10Confident CollectiveConfident Collective57. Are we moving to New York?We’re live from New York! In fact, we are living our BEST lives in NYC, and we’re inviting you along in this week’s episode. We had a blast during our girls trip and can’t wait to tell you all about our city adventures. We’re sharing the stand out moments from our trip like running into a listener on the street, why we feel seen in NYC, Raeann shares about her NYC dating experience, how traveling can help build your confidence and we give our advice about how to not let people’s comments about their own bo...2021-10-2635 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective56. Not Skinny But Not Fat’s Amanda Hirsch on Celeb Power Couples, Reality TV and Living Her Life as a Pop Culture ExpertWe got so many DMs after we talked about pop culture on the podcast, so we had to invite THE QUEEN of pop culture on the show today. And here’s a hint: she knew about the impending Kravis engagement before anyone else! That’s right, hear it for yourself right here, because we have Amanda Hirsch or “Kamanda”, the host of “Not Skinny But Not Fat,” a celebrity based podcast and the mastermind behind the binge worthy Instagram account @notskinnybutnotfat joining us on Confident Collective. We have been fans of hers for a while and love her insight, news and com...2021-10-191h 03Confident CollectiveConfident Collective55. How We Learned to Enjoy Doing Things AloneDo you find it intimidating to do things solo? You’re not alone. Kristina and Raeann get messages all the time asking for advice on how to feel more confident doing solo activities and being alone, and understand how it can be intimidating and difficult to branch out of your comfort zone. However, some of the best learning experiences, growth moments and memories in their lives have come from doing things alone. Today’s episode is full of insight and inspo from Kristina and Raeann’s lives about times where they’ve done things alone, how it has helped them ref...2021-10-1253 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective53. Celebrating One Year of Confident Collective: Our Most Meaningful Podcast Moments and Dreams for the FutureIt’s our ONE YEAR pod-iversary! We wanted to take time to reflect on the stand out moments from the last year’s worth of conversations on Confident Collective. And to say thank you all for listening, subscribing and telling your friends about the pod, we are doing a massive giveaway! You can win $500 to treat yourself, plus a 15 minute Zoom call to hang out with Raeann and Kristina and ask them anything! Check out @confidentcollective for more information. We’ll be announcing the winner in our next episode!   What We Talk About: What’s...2021-09-2839 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective52. Plus Size Representation in Film with Fox’s ‘The Big Leap’ Star Simone RecasnerHow would your life be different if you grew up seeing someone who looks like you represented in film and TV? Most of the narrative we have grown up with is based on the limited demographic that we’ve seen represented on our screens, and if you don’t happen to fall into the thin body crowd, it’s likely this has had an effect on what you think you can or can’t do. As Raeann admits, the lack of body diversity and representation has held her back from pursuing opportunities because she didn’t think it was for girls...2021-09-2149 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective51. Ask Away with Rae and K Part 2: Friendship Breakups, Tips for Reigniting Intimacy Post Baby, and Cultivating a Healthy Mindset Towards Weight LossEpisode Overview: Episode 51: Raeann and Kristina are back with Part 2 of the “Ask Away with Rae and K” advice column! They love getting questions for these episodes and appreciate all the love and support from listeners. Get revved up for the episode by hearing the qualities Raeann looks for in a guy, then slide in a TikToker’s DMs with Raeann. Then, Kristina and Raeann chat about Addison Rae’s new movie and discuss the complexities of why they think people love to hate the success of young social media female superstars.   You all sent...2021-09-1445 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective50. Highlights and Learnings from Summer 2021Episode Overview: Summer 2021 was one for the books, and Kristina and Raeann could not let it slip by without recapping their stand out moments, trips, experiences and learnings from the past few months. They’re sharing what they’re obsessed with currently, what they loved most about this summer, what they’re maybe still not over, lessons learned about communicating with your loved ones and confidence when approaching speaking up for yourself during sex.  “I think that’s how you build confidence; through experiences and making mistakes, and I’ve learned.” -Raeann Finally in “Ask Away wi...2021-09-0748 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective39. Let's Talk Dating Red Flags The Episode: Raeann was recently hanging out with a guy and there were a few things that came up that she caught herself thinking… “Is this a red flag?” Kristina shares her thoughts on the situation and we also asked you to submit things you think would be a red flag.   What We Talk About: Raeann + Kristina’s number one red flags when it comes to dating Calling exes “crazy” Being a mama’s boy Not having close friends Saturdays are for the boys Adding you o...2021-06-2258 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective38. What Raeann Has Learned After A Year Of Dating The Episode: In today’ solo episode Raeann sits down to reflect on the her first year of dating. She shares the biggest lessons that she has learned and also answers your questions on dating!   What We Talk About: Getting drunk on a first date Dating apps When to have sex Following “the rules” Rejection How to get over first date jitters Confidence in bed Dating multiple people at once 2021-06-1558 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective14. A Conversation on the Importance of Friendships with Kristina & RaeannThe Episode: Our last episodes of 2020!! Wow can’t believe it’s already here! In today’s episode, K + R have an honest conversation about friendship and its importance in their lives. From being a girl’s girl to whether men and women can really just be friends, Kristina and Raeann chat about how friendships have shaped their lives. They give advice on staying in touch with friends and when to let go of friendships that may not be serving you. We Also Talk About: Toxic Friendships Fear of Losing Friends 2020-12-0858 minConfident CollectiveConfident Collective7. Ask Steve: A Man's Perspective On Your Most Burning Questions The Episode: We are so excited about this week’s episode because we have Chef Boyar-Steve aka Swole Steve aka Kristina’s husband Steve on the podcast! We set up a special TCC voicemail box and had Steve give the male perspective on all the incredible questions people left for us! From talking about what men really say to their friends after a hook-up, to how men react to curvy women, Steve gives us the inside scoop on what men really think.   We Also Talk About: The Aura Being Confidence Emits Ghost...2020-10-201h 06Confident CollectiveConfident Collective6. Our Confidence Journey With Kristina & Raeann The Episode: In this week’s episode, we have an open and honest conversation with each other about our personal confidence journeys, followed by a Q&A. We discuss how our childhoods, relationships, and experiences have shaped how we view ourselves and how we’ve learned to overcome societal standards to embrace our bodies and channel our confidence. We speak candidly about things we still struggle with and share personal stories of times our confidence was tested. We hope our stories help to inspire you to love yourself, and serve as a reminder that self confidence is trul...2020-10-131h 20Confident CollectiveConfident Collective1. Q&A With Kristina & RaeannWelcome to the first episode of The Confident Collective Podcast! We are so excited to dig deeper into The Confident Collective community through this podcast and can’t wait to share new episodes with you every Tuesday! The Episode: In this introductory Q&A episode, We share the strange way we first met and how we’ve supported and grown with each other in both our careers and personal lives. We talk about why we started The Confident Collective and how being plus-size models and fashion influencers encouraged us to inspire others. We explore future topi...2020-09-2231 min