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New Dad OrderFrom Yale Football to New Orleans Fatherhood: Parenting Through Life’s Disruptions!New Dad Order – Episode 37 is a thoughtful, wide-ranging conversation about modern fatherhood, youth sports, resilience, and intentional parenting, featuring the real-life experiences of a former Division I athlete, attorney, coach, and dads. The episode explores how early life lessons, career pressure, natural disasters, and sports culture shape the way men show up as fathers today. The discussion begins with youth sports and the complicated decision many fathers face about whether to coach their own children. Drawing from firsthand experience in competitive football environments, the episode highlights the importance of fundamentals, safety, fairness, and emotional maturity in coaching kids. It di...
2025-12-251h 55New Dad OrderLane Kiffin to LSU: The soap opera that is college football!In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the college football coaching carousel, reacting to Lane Kiffin leaving Ole Miss for LSU and the ripple effects it creates across the SEC and the national landscape. This conversation tackles the complicated intersection of NIL, the transfer portal, early signing day, and the evolving expectations placed on modern college coaches. Whether you’re a fan of Ole Miss, LSU, or simply fascinated with high-stakes college football drama, this episode breaks down why Kiffin’s move is bigger than one program—it’s a symptom of how the spor...
2025-12-1342 minNew Dad OrderKids, Screens, and AI: How Technology Is Shaping the Next Generation!Will AI destroy us, or are we panicking about the wrong things? Through a fast-paced and honest conversation, we explore how artificial intelligence, social media, screen addiction, and technology are shaping modern life—and whether any of it actually threatens humanity.The discussion begins with the widespread belief that social media is destroying society. But the hosts challenge this idea, arguing that social media itself isn’t the real problem; it’s how we use it. Platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube reflect our behaviors, habits, and emotional states. When people consume negativity or conflict-driven content, they naturally spiral into a...
2025-12-0426 minNew Dad OrderDad Rules That Actually Matter: Health, Manners, and Dressing Like a Grown Man” epi 34The Dad Rules Compilation explores a humorous yet relatable set of “dad rules” covering fitness etiquette, grocery store behavior, men’s fashion, and the culture of fatherhood. Blending real-life scenarios with bold opinions, the conversation outlines what it means to be a modern dad—and what behaviors should be avoided.A major focus of the discussion is gym etiquette. The hosts emphasize that dads should never wear weightlifting gloves, arguing that calluses symbolize hard work and commitment. They also highlight a controversial take: sumo deadlifts don’t count, calling them an ego lift with no real functional benefit. The podcast st...
2025-11-2409 minNew Dad OrderStop Avoiding Hard Things: How Daily Discipline Builds Success in Life, Sports, and FaithIn this episode, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the real meaning of failure, discipline, and doing hard things—and how these principles shape success in sports, business, parenting, and everyday life. They break down why people fear failure, why excuses become our biggest obstacle, and how building discipline through small daily challenges leads to long-term growth.Sports becomes a central metaphor throughout the episode. Ray and Parfait talk about coaching, competition, and how a “win the next pitch” mentality helps kids (and adults) bounce back quickly. They highlight the difference between getting beat by someone better versus beating yourse...
2025-11-2341 minNew Dad OrderWork-Life Balance, Fatherhood & Real Estate Success with Jason Lipscomb-NDO12In a special Father’s Day episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait welcome their longtime friend and first guest, Jason Lipscomb, a local real estate mogul and entrepreneur from Ponchatoula, Louisiana. Jason’s inspiring journey from dealing cards at poker tables to becoming a top-producing real estate broker, investor, and restaurateur highlights the power of hustle, motivation, and family values.Jason first stepped into the poker world as a dealer after realizing he wasn’t a great player. What started in small card rooms soon led him to run some of the biggest tournaments, includ...
2025-11-161h 33New Dad OrderForbes Top Financial Professional Talks Estate and Retirement Planning! EPI24New Dad Order, welcomes Ernie M. Burns, Jr., President & CEO of Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors and host of the TV show Total Retirement with Ernie Burns. With over 30 years of experience in retirement income planning, Ernie shares his personal journey of resilience, faith, and discipline, along with expert insights on retirement planning, wealth management, estate planning, and financial independence.Listeners will hear how Ernie turned tragedy into triumph after a life-changing accident, building one of the Gulf Coast’s most trusted financial advisory firms. As a Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®) and Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Lou...
2025-11-161h 38New Dad OrderRaising Confident Kids: The Power of Pressure, Practice, and Patience! Epi 32In this episode of The New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down what it truly means to have “Ice in the Veins” — that elite-level calm under pressure that separates average performers from true leaders. Drawing from college football memories, parenting lessons, and the psychology of performance, they unpack how emotional control, preparation, and resilience build both great athletes and confident kids.Ray shares his first start at the University of Pittsburgh vs. Notre Dame, reliving the nerves, a dropped pass, and the immediate bounce-back that led to a breakout performance. He reflects on playing alongside legends like Curtis Martin...
2025-11-1543 minNew Dad OrderReal Leadership Starts with Emotional Control! EP 31This episode explores the often-unspoken reality behind modern masculinity — where strength and vulnerability collide. This episode dives deep into the emotional struggles men face in silence, the pressure to “be the rock,” and the hidden cost of suppressing pain. Hosts Ray and Parfait open a real conversation about how men can carry strength without losing their humanity, combining stoic principles with emotional intelligence to define what healthy masculinity looks like in 2025.This discussion challenges outdated stereotypes about what it means to “be a man.” The hosts unpack courage, leadership, and emotional control — emphasizing that masculinity is not about hiding emotions but...
2025-11-1334 minNew Dad OrderAre You Really Okay or Just Saying It? EPI 30In Episode 30 of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait dive into the unspoken rules of emotional intelligence, and conversation skills. The episode opens with a relatable truth—how men often default to saying “I’m good” even when they’re not. It’s a cultural shorthand for emotional restraint, politeness, and control, but it can also isolate men from real connection. The hosts explore how social conditioning makes men less likely to express vulnerability and more likely to keep conversations surface-level.Small Talk and Social ConfidenceThe conversation shifts to small talk—the “elevator speech” moments that define first impre...
2025-11-1318 minNew Dad OrderHow Faith Changed Our Family! Epi 29In this episode of the Water to Wine Podcast, two dads open up about faith, family, and friendship—and how God often turns the simple, ordinary moments of life into the “good wine” that nourishes our souls. Drawing inspiration from Jesus’ first miracle at Cana, they explore what it means to live out faith not just in church, but in marriage, parenting, and daily relationships.One host shares how joining a Catholic couples’ ministry—the “Together in Holiness” program at a parish in Ponchatoula—has strengthened his marriage and community. The other reflects on an unexpected blessing: discovering an older half-brother...
2025-11-1219 minNew Dad OrderPete Hegseth & the Soft Culture Crisis: Are We Raising Tough Enough Kids? EP28 #petehegseth #speechIs America getting too soft to defend itself — or even raise resilient kids? In this episode, Ray and Parfait break down Pete Hegseth’s passionate warning about soft culture, weak leadership, and fading standards. They connect his message to everyday parenting, youth sports, and the modern military, asking the hard question: Can a soft generation survive in a hard world?From the soccer field to the battlefield, this discussion exposes how lowering standards and protecting kids from failure creates fragile adults. Ray and Parfait share real coaching and parenting experiences that reveal the difference between controlled failure (where growth happ...
2025-10-2137 minNew Dad OrderPete Hegseth-This Speech Will Change How You See America! NDO 27In this episode, the hosts break down Pete Hegseth’s fiery 45-minute speech to military generals, focusing on standards, leadership, and the future of the U.S. military. The unscripted and passionate delivery impressed both hosts, who argue it was one of the clearest calls to action on restoring accountability and readiness in today’s armed forces.Core TakeawaysRaise Standards, Not Lower Them: Hegseth stresses fitness, grooming, and discipline as key indicators of readiness. The hosts agree—arguing that enforcing high standards across all ranks, including generals, ensures combat preparedness.Toxic Leadership Defined: Promotions based on quotas instead of merit...
2025-10-2037 minNew Dad OrderFrom Kirk to Kimmel: Political Violence, Free Speech, and Policing America’s Streets! Ep 26This episode examines three of the most talked-about stories of 2025: the Charlie Kirk assassination, the suspension of Jimmy Kimmel, and the debate over deploying the National Guard in New Orleans.The conversation begins with the shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk, a moment that shook the political landscape and intensified national concerns about political violence. The episode explores not only the facts of the case but also the media reaction and the way the story has been framed across different outlets.Attention then turns to the suspension of Jimmy Kimmel, following his controversial remarks connected to Kirk’s death. This se...
2025-10-1136 minNew Dad OrderCharlie Kirk’s Campus Debates, Social Media Fame & His Tragic End! NDO 25In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the shocking murder of Charlie Kirk — a polarizing figure in American politics and social media.We talk about:👉 His rise from college campus debates to internet fame👉 Why so many people either loved him or hated him👉 The role social media played in his career (and his downfall)👉 Our honest opinions on his impact, legacy, and the tragedy surrounding his death👉 How freedom of speech, division, and echo chambers shaped the conversation around himThis one’s a little different in tone, but we wanted to give our real react...
2025-10-0939 minNew Dad OrderDid Your Parents Have These Weird Rules? Epi 23In Episode 23 of the New Dad Order podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the funniest, strangest, and most absurd house rules and parenting myths they grew up with. From weird family traditions to childhood superstitions, the episode unpacks the rules parents swore were true but turned out to be nothing more than myths or scare tactics.The Strangest House RulesSome rules were practical, but others made no sense at all. One example was the “no shoes and no socks inside” rule, meant to keep the house clean but taken to an extreme. Another? No sleeping past 8 AM on weekends, beca...
2025-09-2125 minNew Dad Order“Fake Friends vs Real Friends: 7 Red Flags Parents Must Know”NDO22How do you know if your child is dealing with fake friends at school? In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the realities of childhood friendships, parenting struggles, and the hard lessons kids face when friends turn toxic.As parents, we want our kids to grow up surrounded by real friends who uplift them, not fake friends who use, criticize, or tear them down. But spotting the difference isn’t always easy—especially in elementary and middle school, when cliques, jealousy, and peer pressure start to shape your child’s social life.In this c...
2025-09-1538 minNew Dad OrderThe Greatest Childhood Cereals of All Time | 80s & 90s Throwback! NDO 21Breakfast Cereal, 90s Nostalgia, Saturday Morning Cartoons, Sugar Smacks, Frosted Flakes, Lucky Charms, Apple Jacks, and Corn Pops — in this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait take you back to the golden days of childhood when cereal and cartoons ruled Saturday mornings.The hosts start by declaring their favorite childhood cereals: Sugar Smacks (both agree it was their number one pick). From there, the cereal debate heats up with Apple Jacks, Corn Pops, and the ever-popular Frosted Flakes. They laugh about whether Wheaties were just Corn Flakes in a different box, share hot takes on wh...
2025-09-1227 minNew Dad OrderSaturday Morning Memories: Wrestling, Cartoons, and Childhood Routines EPI 20Welcome back to the New Dad Order Podcast! In Episode 20, Ray and Parfait take a nostalgic trip down memory lane and revisit the magic of Saturday morning cartoons. From bowls of cereal in front of the TV to heated debates about which shows truly stood the test of time, this episode is packed with laughs, memories, and a healthy dose of dad perspective.We compare the cartoon eras of the 80s vs. 90s, exploring what shows shaped our childhoods, what still holds up today, and how modern kids are missing out on the weekend ritual of waking up early...
2025-09-0130 minNew Dad OrderTravel Sports exposed: Baseball vs Basketball-Parental guide! NDO 19In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the world of travel baseball vs travel basketball (AAU). They break down how summer becomes “high drama season” with endless World Series tournaments, costs of travel ball, team classifications (AA, AAA, Majors), and the business behind organizations like Perfect Game, UTSA, and Hammond Yankees. They also compare basketball’s AAU structure, local leagues, and the impact on young athletes and families. From expenses to coaching, talent development, and the culture of travel sports, this conversation is both insightful and relatable for every sports parent. ⏱️ Timestamps00:00 – Travel baseb...
2025-09-0117 minNew Dad OrderThirdzy vs Beam: Honest Sleep Supplement Review + Parenting Psychology Insights! NDO18n this episode of the New Dad Order podcast, co-host Jerrard shares his firsthand experience using Thirdzy, a natural sleep supplement, and how it compares to his previous go-to: Beam, a CBD-based sleep aid. As a dad who juggles early mornings and long commutes, Jerrard gives a detailed, no-hype breakdown of how Thirdzy affected his sleep quality, referencing data from his WHOOP sleep tracker. He explains how Thirdzy helped him reach deep sleep faster, without the grogginess he sometimes felt after using Beam.Jerrard talks about how Beam worked well for a time, especially when paired with warm milk...
2025-08-2318 minNew Dad OrderMarriage After Kids: How to Reconnect as a Couple | Marriage Tips NDO Podcast Ep 17s your marriage struggling after having kids? You're not alone. In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast (Ep 17), we dive deep into how marriage changes after kids and what it takes to reconnect with your partner when life revolves around parenting.From managing schedules to creating intentional couple time like a quiet coffee or dog walks, we share real experiences and practical tips for keeping your marriage strong. Whether you're newly married, planning a baby, or already married with kids, this conversation offers honest insights and advice for relationships after baby.We explore how family life, marriage...
2025-08-2328 minNew Dad OrderFinding Yourself Again After Fatherhood: Real Talk for Dads | NDO16In this powerful episode of the New Dad Order podcast, we dive deep into one of the most overlooked yet important transitions a man can experience: rediscovering your identity after becoming a father. Fatherhood changes everything — from your hobbies and lifestyle to how you see yourself. Hosts Ray and Parfait reflect on their personal journeys of transformation, sharing how they moved from late-night poker tables to early morning workouts, CrossFit routines, coaching youth sports, and balancing marriage and mental health. 👉 Are you a new dad feeling lost in your role?👉 Do you miss your old hobbies and wonder if you'll e...
2025-08-2027 minNew Dad OrderWork-Life Balance for Dads: Real Talk on Boundaries, Stress & Family Time (NDO15)Work-Life Balance for Dads: Real Talk on Boundaries, Stress & Family Time (NDO15)Struggling to balance your career, stress, and family time as a dad? You're not alone. In Episode 15 of the New Dad Order podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait open up about the real challenges modern dads face when it comes to work-life balance. From long work hours and bringing stress home to missing precious moments with family—this episode dives deep into how to set boundaries, avoid burnout, and be fully present as a father and partner.You'll hear personal stories, mistakes made, and lessons learned from two da...
2025-08-0432 minNew Dad Order“From Dating to Dad: Navigating Fatherhood & Marriage”NDO 14Welcome to the New Dad Order Podcast, where we get real about the modern Dad Identity Crisis and the challenges men face from dating to marriage to fatherhood. In this episode, hosts Ray and Parfait break down what it really means to lose — and then rediscover — yourself as a husband and father.They dive deep into the stages that shape your identity: going from dating to dad, balancing a demanding career with family time, and finding ways to keep your marriage strong long after the honeymoon phase. Whether you’re a new dad wondering how to juggle work-life balance, a husb...
2025-08-0332 minNew Dad Order8 Harmful Things Parents Say Without Realizing It! NDO13Welcome to the New Dad Order podcast! In this powerful episode, Ray and Parfait dive into a deeply personal and eye-opening discussion about the 8 most harmful phrases parents unknowingly say to their kids. Whether you're a new dad, seasoned parent, or someone healing from childhood trauma, this conversation will resonate with you.Starting at 1:07, the hosts break down phrases like “What’s wrong with you?”, “Don’t have time for you,” and “Because I said so”. Drawing from real-life experiences, coaching backgrounds, and honest parenting moments, they explore how these common phrases affect children's mental health, self-worth, and long-term development.Each...
2025-08-031h 00New Dad OrderHow I Played D1 Football + 5 Ways to Get Noticed Now! NDO11Want to play D1 college football — or help your kid get there?In this powerful episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray breaks down 8 things he did to play Division 1 football in the 90s — and 5 ways modern athletes can still get recruited today.The game may have changed — with NIL deals, transfer portals, and social media highlights — but one thing hasn’t: effort always matters.🎧 Whether you’re a dad raising an athlete, a parent navigating today’s confusing recruiting world, or a coach helping young players succeed, this episode delivers real talk and actionable advice.You’ll learn:🏈 The biggest...
2025-06-1554 minNew Dad Order"I Joined CrossFit: The Real Dad Experience Unfiltered" #podcast #crossfit #smallchannelWelcome to New Dad Order!Are you a dad contemplating a return to fitness or curious about the CrossFit phenomenon? In this insightful episode of the New Dad Order podcast, hosts Ray and Jerrard delve into the unfiltered truths about embarking on a CrossFit journey, especially from a father's perspective.What You'll Discover:Scaling Isn't Failing: Learn why adapting workouts to your fitness level is not only acceptable but essential for long-term success and injury prevention.The Importance of Quality Coaching: Understand how a certified and attentive coach can make a significant difference in your CrossFit experience, ensuring proper...
2025-06-0131 minNew Dad OrderNew Dad Order – Episode 9: Gut Checks, God Complexes & Praising the Effortn this raw, honest episode, Ray and Jerrard talk about the stuff most dads won’t say out loud—from spiritual gut instincts to childhood trauma, health scares, and parenting in the shadow of addiction.You’ll hear Jerrard open up about losing his mom at age 6, and Ray surviving a terrifying AFib incident, and how faith slowly made its way back into Jerrard's life. The guys also dive into the “God complex” many dads carry and why letting go of control might be the most powerful thing we can do.We also challenge the cliché “Be...
2025-05-261h 15New Dad Order“Oktoberfest to Xbox Battles: Wild Travel Stories, Food Adventures & Real Talk”NDO8#podcast #family #friends #oktoberfest #prom #xbox Buckle up for a wild ride in Episode 8 as we dive into Covington’s newest restaurants and Jerrard’s surprising Chinese food hustle. We dish on picky eaters, homemade pasta, and the magic of Italian markets—then shift gears to globe-trotting tales from Oktoberfest mayhem to Hawaiian leis and Canadian adventures. You'll meet Henry—the coolest guy in Europe—and hear what really went down on Jerrard’s carnival cruise. We also get personal about missed Proms, friendships, woke video game debates, and parenting wins on Xbox. Travel, food, fun, and real conversations all in one p...
2025-05-2157 minNew Dad OrderBuilding Real Friendships, Poker Lessons & Dad Talk | Unfiltered Conversations NDO7In this episode, we dive deep into what makes real friendships stick—from supporting each other through insecurities to calling out the fake "L" word. We share hilarious stories, explore the bond between veterans in Irreverent Warriors, and reflect on the importance of surrounding yourself with people who show up. From casinos and poker tournaments to MGK as a dad and Ryan Reynolds as Deadpool, it's a rollercoaster of honest laughs and personal insights. Whether you're here for the humor, heart, or a little poker wisdom—you're in the right place.#podcast #friends #poker #dadlifematters #conversation #smallchannel #newcontentcreator #youtubesuccess #earn...
2025-05-2059 minNew Dad OrderFrom Disney Trauma to Frying Bologna: The Wildest Talk You Didn’t Know You Needed NDO6 #podcast #jreStrap in for an epic ride through dad life, fashion faux pas, Disney trauma, and the never-ending Star Wars feed. In this episode, we tackle everything from lightsabers to laugh tracks, school calendars to cargo shorts (spoiler: they gotta go). Get ready for real talk, nostalgia, unpopular opinions, and way too much time spent on tactical pants.🎢 Topics include:Disney World meltdownsWhy vertical stripes might save your outfitParenting in the age of internet outrageFrying bologna like a proWhen your kids post political opinionsEntourage, The Mandalorian, Sex and the City, and moreAnd yes… the great alligator vs. crocodile debate👖 Fashion debates...
2025-04-291h 05New Dad OrderNo Regrets on using Life 360! Eat what's cooked! NDO5 #family #podcast #motivation #art #jreJerrard and Ray discuss Helicopter Parents and if Life 360 is good or bad. When you cook is that what you eat or do you have picky eaters? Jerrard and Ray discover that picky is the trend. Light discussion on Poker and how Guardian Helmets that the NFL use are not allowed in Louisiana Highschool football, find out why. All this in our longform podcast...enjoy!Reach out to Jerrard or RayJerrard-Jmparfait@gmail.comJerrard-IG is @itsparfait Ray-rbelvin91@gmail.comClick the link to discover a new Energy Drink-Dubby-https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbGuardian Helmet article-https://www.fox8live...
2025-04-221h 00New Dad OrderBest Athletes-between Soccer and Basketball players, who you got? #soccer #basketball #sports #jreJerrard and Ray discuss sleep patterns and when their kids should and wanted to go to sleep, a brief discussion about Thirdzy, getting to the gym. Dad fashion is on the books-did you rock cargo shorts? Squatting and Leg press are subjects for meat head moment and they finish off with a heated discussion on who is a better athlete...Soccer players or basketball players! Who you got?
2025-04-141h 10New Dad OrderNo regrets to end with a good decision- NIL in amateur sports! NDOEPI3 #podcast #motivation #jreReach out to Jerrard or RayJerrard-Jmparfait@gmail.comJerrard-IG is @itsparfait Ray-rbelvin91@gmail.comJoin us as we navigate the exhilarating journey of fatherhood, sharing stories, advice, and the occasional dad joke, real talk on parenting, balancing life, and embracing the chaos of fatherhood.Welcome back to the New Dad Order — where we raise strong kids, crush weak mindsets, and deadlift through the drama.In this episode, we’re talking about:🏆 Why participation trophies aren't helping💰 How NIL deals are changing youth sports...
2025-04-1253 minNew Dad Order"How to stop Bullying" "Why do you post your life on social media?" New Dad Order-Episode 2 #jreJerrard and Ray talk about Bullying and how it affected each of their lives and they give solutions to parents especially in this new day of social media.Talking about social media, how can you post it but not talk about it?There are a few more topics and a new Dad Rule and a meat head moment.Reach out to Jerrard or RayJerrard-Jmparfait@gmail.comJerrard-IG is @itsparfait Ray-rbelvin91@gmail.com
2025-04-111h 14New Dad OrderNo Regrets on building family foundations, respect and sports! New Dad Order Episode 1Jerrad and Ray breakdown some of their origin story and talking about being older dads and through those experiences how we are raising our kids.This conversation explores the profound intersections between parenting, faith, and family dynamics, with a strong emphasis on youth sports and coaching philosophy. It reflects on the challenges and rewards of navigating family life while balancing personal passions, such as sports and fitness. The discussion highlights the importance of discipline, growth, and emotional maturity in both parenting and coaching, and how shared experiences in sports can strengthen relationships. It touches on the impact of travel...
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