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Rebecca E Blanton
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Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow
Lesbian Erotica Fiction Story, Plus Author Interview Auntie Vice, Exploring Kink, Power, & Gender in Writing
Are you ready to dive into the intriguing world of erotic writing and kink education? In our latest podcast episode, we sit down with Rebecca Blanton, also known as Auntie Vice. Rebecca is an author, podcaster, performer, and kink educator whose work delves into the complex realms of gender, power, and BDSM. Join us as Rebecca shares her unique journey from policy writing to becoming a renowned figure in the BDSM community. Discover how she overcame severe dyslexia, explored the world of erotic fiction, and found joy in creating stories that challenge societal norms...
2024-06-14
1h 14
Fat Chicks on Top
Auntie Vice Responds to Listeners
In this episode of "Fat Chicks on Top," the host discusses various topics related to accountability, consent, and community safety within the kink community. The host mentions receiving a listener's question about whether an episode featuring Boss Boar, who has been accused of consent violations and possible sexual assault, should be removed. The host explains the complexities of deciding whether to remove an episode, considering the concept of responsibility in the community and varying degrees of consent violations. The host emphasizes the importance of education, understanding, and ongoing discussions surrounding consent. The host also explores the issue...
2023-08-28
28 min
ARTish Plunge
LYNNE MAPHIES: visual artist + curator / curating "Day Jobs"
As Lynne Maphies, former Curatorial Assistant at the Blanton Museum of Art, knows firsthand — for many artists, “day jobs” do more than pay the rent. In this fascinating behind-the-scenes conversation, Lynne shares the 10 year process that Veronica Roberts, former Blanton Curator of Modern and Contemporary Art, directed to create the standout exhibit “Day Jobs.” A dialogue with conceptual artist Sol LeWitt prompted Roberts to explore the different ways that artists establish relationships or get material inspiration from the jobs that sustain them. After receiving hundreds of recommendations from colleagues, scholars, gallerists, and artists in the field, Maphies and the Blanton te...
2023-07-26
1h 05
CREATE Happy Now
Rebecca Morrison Career Transitions How to be Successful and Happy
Rebecca and I talk about her career transition and how to be successful and happy. She went from being a successful lawyer to becoming a happiness coach. She helps those who are successful but struggling with finding happiness. Becky Morrison is a mom, wife and lawyer turned Happiness Coach. Her mission is to spread joy. She believes most people can live happier, easier lives if they get clear on what matters most to them and then develop a plan to do more of that and less of the rest. If she can help enable people to find cla...
2023-02-28
49 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Kink-Life Balance: Is 24/7 Really for You?
This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/05/04/kink-life-balance-is-24-7-really-for-you/ Power exchange delineated at 24/7 is commonly upheld as the "ultimate" or "most desirable" form of kinky relationship. The reality is, even in 24/7 relationships not all things are power exchange! If you have ever desired to enter into this type of dynamic, here are things to consider before pursing one. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-08-19
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
This Could Save Your Life!
This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/07/26/this-could-save-your-life/ Kink and BDSM play elicits strong physical and emotional reactions. Knowing what is a good reaction what what signals indicate a potential medical emergency is critical to staying safe. This post covers the most common medical emergencies, what they look like, and appropriate first aid. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-08-19
09 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Why is sexting with strangers only possible on a secure chat site?
This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/07/30/why-is-sexting-with-strangers-only-possible-on-a-secure-chat-site/ Sponsored post promoting online sexting with strangers through new app. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-08-19
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Is Your Kink Practice Missing Something Critical?
This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/08/19/is-your-kink-practice-missing-something-critical/ Is spirituality incorporated into your BDSM practice? Should it be? After speaking with a ton of long-term kink practicitions, Auntie Vice discovers the one thing most think are missing from the current practice of BDSM is a spiritual aspect. This post covers the whys and hows of incorporating more ritual into your practice and the potential benefits of exploring the deeper side of kink. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-08-19
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Unfuck Yourself for Pride
We all have a lot of unlearning to do as we come to embrace pride. Here are a few ways to help unlearn what society has told you about LGBTQ+ folks and Pride. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/06/10/unfuck-yourself-for-pride/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-07-25
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Pride 2022
Pride readings for 2022 This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/06/02/pride-2022/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-07-25
00 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Things Are Terrifying! How Do I Keep Going?
There is so much overwhelming bad news out there! From losing Roe, to the limitation of Miranda, to the gun violence we all face in the US it can feel like there is so much bad stuff that all we can do is curl up in a ball and cry. As an old activist, I offer a few words of advice on how to care for yourself and keep going. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/07/11/things-are-terrifying-how-do-i-keep-going/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-07-25
07 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Sexual Fantasy Research
Galen Fous is conducting academic research on sexual fantasies. Please consider learning about this survey and possibly participating. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/07/24/sexual-fantasy-research/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-07-25
01 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Jet Noir: Muse
This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/05/30/jet-noir-muse/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-06-02
00 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
A Sexy Bucket List: How many have you done?
This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/05/25/a-sexy-bucket-list-how-many-have-you-done/ Looking for a sexual bucket list which focuses on connection and intimacy? Too many bucket lists focus on individual activities or fetishize types of people. This one focuses on the events which allow you to connect with yourself and your partner. Bet you haven't done all of these yet! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-05-26
03 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Gretchen Felker-Martin: Divine Filth
This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/04/25/gretchen-felker-martin-divine-filth/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-04-27
00 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Imani Barbarin: Black, Disabled JOY!
This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/04/17/imani-barbarin-black-disabled-joy/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-04-22
00 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Summer Reading List
During my conversation with Meg Elison (author of The Road to Nowhere series), she listed a great set of books which center fat, trans, and queer characters. This list will make an excellent reading list for anyone this summer! This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/04/11/summer-reading-list/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-04-22
01 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
7 Ways to Expand Your Dynamic
Taking a D/s or BDSM dynamic beyond just sexual play can help couples connect more deeply to each other and their dynamic. Here are seven ways to take you dynamic beyond the bedroom! This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/04/22/7-ways-to-expand-your-dynamic/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-04-22
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
“No White People Left Behind”
Imani Barbarin, disabilities activist, wished white people could have a list of readings we passed around to help us understand how race was experienced in America. Wish granted! Here is a list of great books to start to understand the viewpoints of different people on race in America. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/04/17/no-white-people-left-behind/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-04-22
02 min
The Sexual Alchemy Podcast
061 Getting Intimate with Robyn Dalzen
My wonderful guest Robyn Dalzen is an Intimacy Coach, Consent Facilitator, Pleasure Revolutionary and Author. We had a stunning conversation about boundaries and consent, and their infinite nuances. We delve into the concept of domain over our bodies and thoughts, and how it relates to boundaries and consent. Robyn co-authored the book “The Art of Receiving and Giving” with Betty Martin and also co-founded The School of Consent with her. She is passionate about helping people meet with what gives them joy. What You Will Learn In This Episode: - Robyn’s lifetime evoluti...
2022-04-18
56 min
Kannibalpodden
7. Den hjärnskadade kannibalen – Joseph Oberhansley
Den 11 september år 2014 kommer inte Tammy Jo Blanton till jobbet. Hennes kollegor blir oroliga och kontaktar tillslut polisen när de inte lyckas få tag på henne. En polispatrull skickas till Tammys hus och vad de inte vet är att en annan polispatrull redan varit där under natten för att köra bort Tammys expojkvän Joseph Oberhansley, som försökt bryta sig in. Tammy har precis avslutat förhållandet efter att Joseph blivit kontrollerande, svartsjuk och dessutom våldtagit henne vid ett flertal tillfällen. Polisen som nu knackar på dörren möts av en bl...
2022-04-18
16 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
The #1 Things Dom(me) Hate!
There is one behavior exhibited by submissive folks that dominants hate more than anything else in the world! Find out what it is and what you can do to avoid being the annoying submissive. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/03/28/the-1-things-domme-hate/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-29
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
What Can You Do If You Disagree with Your Dominant?
Submissives will not always agree with the decisions or actions of a dominant. This does not mean you should be quiet! Here are ways to honor your dynamic and express disagreement. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/09/21/what-can-you-do-if-you-disagree-with-your-dominant/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-23
03 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Home For the Holidays? Ways to stay kinky while visiting relatives
Visiting family? Want to stay kinky but not tip off the grandparents? Here are a bunch of tips and tools for traveling and visiting fam, staying kinking, and not tipping off the parents. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/11/02/home-for-the-holidays-ways-to-stay-kinky-while-visiting-relatives/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-23
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Can’t Find the Dom(me) of Your Dreams? This May Be Why!
Have you tried to date in the kinky world and not been able to connect with the right person? Too many or too few good candidate? Here are things which may be preventing you from meeting the dominant of your dreams! This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/10/14/cant-find-the-domme-of-your-dreams-this-may-be-why/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
08 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
BDSM Tips for Beginners
Everyone starts somewhere. Here are tips and tools to make you early foray into the kinky world a bit safer and more fun! This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/10/24/bdsm-tips-for-beginners/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
How to be an Ethical Ho
There are ethics to hooking up and casual sex. Understanding how to navigate this will keep you from unintentionally hurting people (or yourself) and allow you to enjoy casual dating and hook-ups. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/11/10/how-to-be-an-ethical-ho/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Which Nipple Clips are Right for You?
With five major nipple clamp designs and a wide variety of nipples out there, which clamps will work the way you want them too? Here is your buying guide! This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/11/30/which-nipple-clips-are-right-for-you/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Abortion Must Be Safe
There are currently dozens of states rushing to pass laws to severely limit or eliminate abortion access in anticipation of the upcoming SCOTUS decision. Understand why abortion access must remain safe, legal, and widely available. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/12/06/abortion-must-be-safe/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Which Wand is Right for You
There are thousands of vibrating wand models out there to buy. How do you know which one will work for you? Here is a buying guide! This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/12/13/which-wand-is-right-for-you/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Getting What You Want in 2022: Step 1
Setting goals for sex and intimacy may seem a bit weird. However, having a sexual bucket list or other form of goal setting can be a practical way to prioritize desire. Here are tips for setting and achieving things on your sexual goal list. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/12/26/getting-what-you-want-in-2022-step-1/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
02 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Dating in an On-going Pandemic
While COVID numbers are currently decreasing and most states have abandoned their mask mandates, this does not mean the risk of catching COVID is gone. Here are some practical tips for ethically dating at a time where COVID is still a real risk for people and still causing serious disease and death for over 1,000 people a day in the US. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/01/12/dating-in-an-on-going-pandemic/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
How To Communicate When You Hate Long Talks
Many sex educators and couples therapists say communication is key to a successful relationship. What happens if you are not into long, heart-felt talks about your relationship, sex, and desire? This post covers some alternative to long talks as ways to communicate for couples! This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/01/25/how-to-communicate-when-you-hate-long-talks/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Head Space 101
People talk about 'head space' without actually defining it or giving any practical tips for entering and staying in various head spaces. This post explores what we mean when we say "head space," how to get there, stay there, and understand it. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/02/05/head-space-101/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
07 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
EARN IT Act: Using the pretense of child sexual exploitation to invade privacy
EARNIT Act is sponsored by Senator Lindsay Graham. This bill, if passed, could open the door to the CIA, ICE, and FBI reading, cataloging, and tracking all your DMs on social media sites. Understand what this act is and what it could mean for online privacy. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/02/09/earn-it-act/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
09 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
One Question Every Submissive Needs to Answer
Figuring out WHY you submit is the key to understanding what you want out of submission. Gain tools to help you find your why. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/02/21/one-question-every-submissive-needs-to-answer/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
01 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Should Submissives Express THEIR Needs?
Submissives often experience difficulty navigating their own desires. We naturally tend to want to serve our dominant partners first before meeting our own needs. There are many reasons people are attracted to submission. Understanding your desires and how to navigate them is a key part to creating your version of submission. This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/03/15/should-submissives-express-their-needs/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2022-03-15
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Scared? Tips to Conquer Fears
Are you afraid to try something that intrigues you? Is your fear holding you back in a relationship? Here are some tips to conquer your fears and explore what you desire. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/06/21/scared-tips-to-conquer-fears/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-08-16
07 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
An Introduction to Body Affirming Kink Play
Do you or a partner have body image concerns/issues? Are you looking for ways to grow you body confidence and self-love? Here are three great body-affirming exercises to do with an intimate partner! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/08/16/an-introduction-to-body-affirming-kink-play/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-08-16
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
7 Tips When You Are New to Kink
If you are new(ish) to kink and BDSM it can be both thrilling and overwhelming! Looking for some solid tips on how to start exploring this new-found world? Looking for resources and insider how-to's? This post is for you! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/08/02/7-tips-when-you-are-new-to-kink/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-08-03
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Flip It and Reverse It: Protocols for Dominants
Protocols- rues and rituals formalized in a power exchange relationship- can lend security, structure, and sexiness to a relationship. Most often, the Dominant designs protocols for the submissive. Here are ways to flip the script and create protocols for Dominants. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/05/30/flip-it-and-reverse-it-protocols-for-dominants/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-23
08 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Combining Weed and Kink? Read This!
Adding marijuana to your pre-sex life can have very positive benefits. Here is how to keep your kink play safe, sane, and consensual while high! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/07/22/combining-weed-and-kink-read-this/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-23
09 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
How Do You Create an Aftercare Plan?
Aftercare, the things you do right after a kinky play session to reground you and your partner(s), is often mentioned as important. It is not frequently explained in a way which allows you to find the aftercare plan right for you. This post takes you through finding and planning for your own aftercare needs. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/07/16/how-do-you-create-an-aftercare-plan/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-17
10 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Why Collars Are Important to BDSM
You have probably seen people wearing a collar to represent something in BDSM. Here, guest poster Spices of Lust, explains what the significance of a collar is and why it is so important to BDSM. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/06/19/why-collars-are-important-to-bdsm/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-17
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Sexier Sex? Plan for it!
Great sex rarely "just happens." Great sex requires some planning. It may sound counterintuitive, especially if you watch too many rom-coms, but sex needs some pregaming. Here are some tips on how to have better sex with a plan. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/08/27/sexier-sex-plan-for-it/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-17
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
How to Swing Safely During the COVID-19 Pandemic
Tips on how to stay safe and sexy during the pandemic This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/04/10/how-to-swing-safely-during-the-covid-19-pandemic/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-12
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
What Monogamous Folks Can Learn from Non-Monogamy
Practicing ethical nonmonogamy takes work and learning. Even if you are monogamous, the skills that make ethical nonmonogamy work are great for helping monogamous folks as well. Here are the major things can take away from nonmonogamy. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/12/03/what-monogamous-folks-can-learn-from-non-monogamy/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-01
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Deepening Your Submission Resources
This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/03/26/deepening-your-submission-resources/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-01
01 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Sex Toy Buying Guide
Are you looking to find that perfect sex toy for yourself? Here are tips on finding just the right one! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/05/13/sex-toy-buying-guide/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-01
08 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Do This BEFORE a Partner Cheats
At some point in our lives, we will probably be in a relationship where we get cheated on. You hope the person you are dating will not cheat, but you can never be sure this won't happen. Here are tips on how to set up your relationship to survive a cheating incident and maintain your authentic self. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/05/25/do-this-before-a-partner-cheats/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-01
07 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
What Do Kinky Girls Keep in Their Bedside Table?
Ever wonder what a kinky girl keeps in her bedside table? What are the true go-to items? This post reveals what I keep at my fingertips for sexy time! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/05/29/what-do-kinky-girls-keep-in-their-bedside-table/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-01
02 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Why Mantras Are Important to BDSM
Mantras, short repeated sayings which help you center and focus, can deepen your BDSM practices. This post explores how mantras are created, used, and what they can do to improve your kink practices. his episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/06/03/why-mantras-are-important-to-bdsm/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-01
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
14 Ideas to Embrace the True Spirit of Pride
Pride has been co-opted by companies trying to make a buck off the queer community. Pride is about our rights to exist and live out and proud! Here are 14 ideas which will embrace the true spirit of pride. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/06/08/14-ideas-to-embrace-the-true-spirit-of-pride/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-01
09 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
7 Tips for Hosting an Orgy
Are you committing to your hot girl/guy/human summer? Want to host an orgy? Here are 7 tips on how to host a safe, sane and consensual group sex event from someone who has. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/06/23/7-tips-for-hosting-an-orgy/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-01
09 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
7 Tips to Help You Screen For Abusers on Kink Sites
Some people use the language of BDSM and kink to hide their abusive behaviors. People seeking relationships which will allow them control and the ability to hit others are drawn to kink dating sites but they do not intend to engage in consensual kink. Unfortunately Fetlife is inundated with these folks. Here are 7 tips to help you screen out the chafe. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/06/30/7-tips-to-help-you-screen-for-abusers-on-kink-sites/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-07-01
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
New Boobs (short erotic story)
Looking for an erotic story featuring nonbinary folks? Sci-fi take on gender changes and hot actions! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/04/14/new-boobs-short-erotic-story/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-05-12
11 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Pain. The Good, The Bad, the Fun!
Not all pain is the same. Some pain hurts to signal danger. Other times it hurts as part of healing. Sometimes it just hurts so good! Learn about the different types of pain and how to use them in kinky fun. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/09/14/pain-the-good-the-bad-the-fun/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-05-12
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
10 New Role Play Ideas!
Looking for ideas beyond maid/hotel guest, professor/student tropes for role play? Auntie Vice offers ten modern takes on role play! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/04/13/10-new-role-play-ideas/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-05-12
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
What Is a Submissive’s Responsibility?
As BDSM and kink has become more mainstream narratives about the "submissive as a vessel for a Dominant's will" and "submission as a gift" have become predominate in the pop culture representations of our relationships. How real are these narratives? What does a healthy power exchange relationship look like? This post seeks to answer your questions! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/04/28/what-is-a-submissives-responsibility/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-05-12
14 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Pain and Presence
Some folks use the pain of a BDSM play scene to escape from their minds or bodies. Others embrace it as a way to become more present. This post explores how to become present during a pain filled BDSM scene. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/10/05/pain-and-presence/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-04-12
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Embracing Sex Writing
Auntie Vice explores the process to becoming a sex writer. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/01/09/embracing-sex-writing/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-04-12
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Need a Little Sexy Inspiration? Try This!
Sex life in a bit of a rut? Bored? Looking for ways to spice it up a bit? Here are some tips and tools for creating a personal way to up the hottness in the bedroom. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/04/10/need-a-little-sexy-inspiration-try-this/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-04-11
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
10 Things Every Bottom Should Know
Peter Minkoff guest posts with very practical tips for anal sex This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/12/10/10-things-every-bottom-should-know/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-04-10
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Introduction to Cock and Ball Bondage
Looking for information on how to tie up a cock and balls? Jett Oxy guest writes a great introduction! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2019/12/28/introduction-to-cock-and-ball-bondage/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-04-10
07 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
National “Weird Sex” Day
Embracing the spirit of Valentine's Day, here are tips on adding strange, new, or just outright weird sex to your life! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/01/22/national-weird-sex-day/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-04-10
08 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
10 Things EVERY Kinky Person Should Try
Whether you are new to kink or an established player, there are some core things every kinky person should try once in a lifetime. None of these are sex things--- these are all about community, learning, connecting, and exploring your kinky self! Here are 10 things every kinky person should try in a lifetime. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/01/14/10-things-every-kinky-person-should-try/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-04-10
10 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Essential Safety Gear for Kinky Play
Many kink and BDSM educators will mention needing a kinky first aid kit. However, most do not provide you with a list of what you actually need! here is a practical list to creating your BDSM first aid kit complete with downloadable shopping list! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/03/30/essential-safety-gear-for-kinky-play/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-04-10
01 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
So You Want to Try a Threesome…
Twenty percent of Americans desire to have a threesome. Approaching your first threesome can be intimidating, a bit scary, and definitely titillating. While there is no perfect formula which will guarantee a great outcome, there are some basic tips which will make it a better experience. This post offers people practical tips on setting up threesome, how to approach your partners, and what you should ask prior to getting into the sack. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/01/29/so-you-want-to-try-a-threesome/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor...
2021-03-30
12 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
5 Ways BDSM Will Improve Your Life
Kink and BDSM are more than sex, it is a unique subculture with unique values and practices. People who regularly engage in kink and BDSM speak openly about desires and needs, about power relationships and expectations of partners in a way not reflected in the predominant culture. This post discusses five ways BDSM can improve anyone's life, regardless of desired sexuality. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/02/20/5-ways-bdsm-will-improve-your-life/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-30
07 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Six Sexting Tips
Do you feel awkward sending sexts? Don't know how to ask a partner to sext? New and don't have the right vocabulary for sexrting? Auntie Vice comes to the rescue with these Six Sexting Tips! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/04/23/six-sexting-tips/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-29
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Submission and Control
It is common to hear "submission is a gift." The premise is that the submissive holds all the power until they agree to cede some to a dominant. At any time the submissive may withdraw power. This concept is often presented as a way to help people not familiar with kink to feel better about trying kink. However, submission is much more complex and more nuanced that the concept of "submission as a gift." Explore how submission and control interplay in many kink relationships. This episode is also available as a blog...
2021-03-29
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Fisting 101
Ever want to try fisting? Scared? Not sure how? Afraid of hurting your partner? I've got you covered! Here are the basics for anal or vaginal fisting! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/06/24/fisting-101/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-29
11 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
7 Tips for Navigating the Post-COVID Kink World
As public spaces reopen, the kink world is starting to get back to in-person events! This is great. But... you may not realize how much you have changed in the past year. Get ready to re-enter the in-person world of kink with these 7 tips. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/03/16/7-tips-for-navigating-the-post-covid-kink-world/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-29
05 min
Breakfast with the Broker
Breakfast with the Video Summit @ R4
Breakfast With The Broker with Jeremy Blanton at RE/MAX R4_____________________?Where to follow and listen to Breakfast with the BrokerInstagram: https://instagram.com/remaxservicesbocaratonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/breakfastwithbrokerWebsite: https://davidserle.remax.com/pages/breakfast-with-the-brokeriTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/breakfast-with-the-broker/id1497747814----Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it. I like to read comments so please leave a comment and…? Subscribe to My Channel: https://www.youtube.com/breakfastwiththebroker?sub_confirmation=1...
2021-03-24
40 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Pride: Be Queer. Fuck the Patriarchy
LGBTQ+ Pride has been enveloped by corporate sponsors and a focus on a few parties of young, able-bodied, wealthy queers. This has nothing to do with the origin of Pride or what it means to be a queer person living an out and proud life. This post offers ways to get back to the roots of pride: rebellion, bucking oppression, and making the world safer for all queer folks. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/06/13/pride-be-queer-fuck-the-patriarchy/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn...
2021-03-16
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
6 Tips on Making Your Kink Venue/Event Emotionally/Socially Accessible (Part 2)
Physical accessibility is only part of the accessibility picture. Making your spaces and events fully accessible means that people with various disabilities need to feel welcome in your space. Here are six tips on making your space more accessible to all people! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/03/12/6-tips-on-making-your-kink-venue-event-emotionally-socially-accessible-part-2/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-16
08 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
9 Tips To Make Your Kink Venue More Accessible (Part 1)
Looking for ways to make your play space, munch, or conference more accessible to folks? Not sure where to begin? Worried about the expense, level of skill it will take, or just have questions? Here is a great place to start! Part II will cover making spaces socially and emotionally acceptable. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/03/08/9-tips-to-make-your-kink-venue-more-accessible-part-1/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-08
17 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Turn Your Kitchen Into Kink Central!
You don't need fancy and expensive toys to have a good time with kinky sex. Many common toys already exist in your own kitchen (or office, or living room). This post includes dozens of tips on how to turn your everyday items into fun tools for great BDSM scenes! This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/02/07/turn-your-kitchen-into-kink-central/ #kink #BDSM #sextoys #pervertibles #sextips --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Su...
2021-03-06
08 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
When “D” in BDSM Stands for Dissimilar
The probability you will have a long term relationship with someone who has identical sexual interests as you do is very slim. What can you do if your partner(s) just aren't into the same stuff you are? Here are some tips and tools for managing dissimilar sexual interests. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/04/16/when-d-in-bdsm-stands-for-dissimilar/ #sexuality #sex #relationships #BDSM #relationshiptips #kink #sextips --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support t...
2021-03-06
13 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
5 Best Sex Toys to Rock Your Queer World
Guest poster Peter Minkoff offers tips on the five best sex toys to explore if you are queer. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/07/30/5-best-sex-toys-to-rock-your-queer-world/ #kink #bdsm #sextoys #adulttoys #lgbtq --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-06
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
The Future of Gender
Gender is evolving. Western cultures no longer believe it is just binary (male/female). As the gender nonconforming and nonbinary identities expand, people have questions about what that means. Auntie Vice explores the meaning of nonbinary in this episode. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/09/08/the-future-of-gender/ #gender #nonbinary #gendernonconforming #lgbtq --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-06
00 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
How Your Body and Sex Appeal Change as You Age
Guest post by Peter Minkoff Our bodies evolve and change. Standards of beauty and sexuality are not set to embrace older bodies. Guest writer Peter Minkoff explores how we change and how we can embrace our sexuality at all ages. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/09/18/how-your-body-and-sex-appeal-change-as-you-age/ #aging #beauty #sexuality #kink #bdsm --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-06
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Election 2020 and Erotic Power
Erotic power was first discussed by Audre Lorde who claimed the erotic was a key source of power for women. As women have become a more prominent force in American politics, the power of the erotic has been shunned by some women and embraced by others. This entry explores how it is used and who uses erotic power. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/10/31/election-2020-and-erotic-power/ #power #elections #womeninpolitics #eroticpower --- This episode is sponsored by · A...
2021-03-06
07 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
New Year! Better, Kinkier YOU!
Find out full information about the 30 Days of Kinky Self-Discovery class here! This included the syllabus, an overview of they course, and how I broke down topics. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/12/03/new-year-better-kinkier-you/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-05
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Anticipatory Service
Anticipatory service is a special kind of service submissives may develop. It is a way to care for a dominant without having to wait for specific tasks to be assigned. Learn about what anticipatory service is and how you can develop it. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/10/15/anticipatory-service/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-05
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Having a Hard Time Feeling Sexy? You are Not Alone!
There are so many reasons we might not feel sexy or aroused. Stress in its myriad of forms, hormone changes, illness, and having family around all the time can contribute to a lack of sex drive. Here are a few ways to figure out what is keeping you from your erotic side and how to reconnect. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/11/17/having-a-hard-time-feeling-sexy-you-are-not-alone/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/l...
2021-03-05
15 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Vaginal Dryness? It’s More Than “Just Add Lube”
Have you developed vaginal dryness? It can happen as part of menopause, perimenopause, with other hormone changes, as a reaction to medication and many other reasons. Here is what they don't talk about at your gynecologist and on those pamphlets you get. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/12/01/vaginal-dryness-its-more-than-just-add-lube/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-05
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Subordinate Clause
Ever wonder what it would be like if Santa was a hot daddy dom? This seasonal erotic story is for you!T his episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2020/12/08/subordinate-clause/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-05
12 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Is BDSM Inescapably Racist:4 years later
In the past year, thanks to several key title holders in the kink community, we have begun to address the issue of racism in BDSM and our community. I originally posted about this subject four years ago. Now, I reflect on how things have changed and how they remain the same. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/01/11/is-bdsm-inescapably-racist4-years-later/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/s...
2021-03-05
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Sexy Valentine’s Day Inspirations!
This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/01/26/sexy-valentines-day-inspirations/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-05
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Expanding Your Kink
Are you interested in expanding your kink? Here is some information on a class originally offered in January 2021. It will be offered again in October 2021 through WickedGrounds.com. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/01/22/expanding-your-kink/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-05
04 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Do You Always Need a Safe Word?
Safe words are one of the most talked about aspects of kink. A safe word is a word, when used, that indicates someone needs all action to stop and something needs to be addressed. Does everyone need a safe word for every scene? Learn more with this post. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/02/11/do-you-always-need-a-safe-word/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-05
06 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
Sex Life in a Rut? Break Out of It With These 5 Tips
Feel like your sex life is in a rut? It's not that the sex is bad so much as it is just routine. Not sure how to get out of the rut? Here are 5 tips for injecting a bit of sizzle back into your sex life. Podchaser confirmation number uBNuLXUkQzbjeUifmUNI This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/02/17/sex-life-in-a-rut-break-out-of-it-with-these-5-tips/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/lo...
2021-03-05
05 min
Love Letters to a Unicorn
7 Tips to Improve Your Sexy Banter
Does talking sexy to a partner feel awkward or forced? Have you wanted to try it but don't know how to start? Hate the word "moist" and don't have any idea what to call various body parts? Here are 7 Tips to help you build your vocabulary and sexy talk muscles. This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/02/23/7-tips-to-improve-your-sexy-banter/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/loveletterstoaunicorn/support
2021-03-05
06 min
Farts & Giggles
Is umm a word?
Send us a textThe Last Letter by Rebecca YarrosGreat and Precious things by Rebecca YarrosMini deodorantNative Pakthttps://www.dictionary.com/browse/ummhttps://www.instagram.com/werejonna/https://twitter.com/JonnaMediaBecome a patronAudio Equipment we useRodecaster ProShure SM58 microphoneHeadphones
2020-10-15
32 min
Farts & Giggles
My Journaling Conundrum
Send us a textDo you Journal? How do you do it? What do you use?The Hideaway by Lauren K. DentonThe Last Letter by Rebecca Yarroshttps://www.instagram.com/werejonna/Audio Equipment we useRodecaster ProShure SM58 microphoneHeadphonesMic StandSupport the show
2020-10-08
31 min
Theatre with P.R.I.D.E.
College Auditions, Interviews, and Equity, Oh My! Part 1
Calling all those ready to embark on their college theatre journey! In this episode, we have a roundtable discussion to talk all about the college audition process and what it will look like in the 2020 audition season, especially in the middle of a global pandemic. Established and experienced theatre professionals Trent Blanton (Rider University), Rebecca Simon (Rider University), Ernie Nolan (Nashville Children's Theatre), Abe Reybold (Professional Director/Actor), and Erin Farrell Speer (UNCG) share their thoughts about the current situation in the country and what students auditioning for colleges can do. These faculty members of well-known theatre...
2020-08-10
1h 02
The Sofia Gray Show
Sex, Kink, & Disability (feat. Rebecca Blanton)
Blogger, performer, and sex writer, Rebecca Blanton (aka Auntie Vice), joins Lacey to discuss the many stigmas surrounding BDSM and people with disabilities.
2020-05-02
00 min
Views and Brews
Re-imagining Museums for Healing
Join KUT’s Rebecca McInroy along with Annette Juba from AGE of Central Texas, Dr. Valerie Rosen, and Ray Williams and Monique O’Neil from The Blanton Museum to talk about how the Blanton is partnering with schools, hospitals, and other organizations to create groundbreaking programs that help patients, families, and caregivers navigate social, reparative experiences. Monique […]
2020-01-27
1h 00
Views and Brews
The City Within Our City
Listen back to a very special edition of KUT’s Views and Brews recorded live at the Blanton Museum on the campus of The University of Texas at Austin,“The City Within Our City.” KUT’s Rebecca McInroy hosts Dr. Rich Reddick, Dr. Cherise Smith, Rabbi Neil Blumofe, and Blanton Curator Veronica Roberts to talk about “The City,” […]
2018-08-29
1h 09