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It’s Not Therapy!A Wounded Heart - Trauma in the ClergyWhen many people lean on you for emotional support, who do you lean on? This is a question that caregivers and members of the clergy wrestle with every day. US Army Lt. Colonel Rebecca D'Angelo, speaks to Liana about how military clergy face the challenge, with information that caregivers can model in their own lives.
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That's So Kvetch!Maggi Feldman Deutsch: Are Spiritual Lows Really Lows?This episode is for all spiritual seekers out there! In this episode, I chat with Maggi, who runs her own art business based in Jerusalem. Together we discuss the ups and downs of her spiritual journey and how to deal when you hit a spiritual low. Also an olah chadashah, we begin with her Aliyah story and what inspired her to move in the first place. Then we dive into how things spiritually shifted for her through trauma and life changes, and what happened when she stopped feeling as connected. We explore questions like: What does God really want...2023-04-1044 minThat's So Kvetch!Unicorns, Beards, and The Stages of Acclimating to IsraelIn this episode, I dive into the stages of moving to a new country. Future olim, this episode is for you! I start off with a debrief from last week’s incredible Purim celebration. I dressed as a man and the cross-dressing experience lent to a very fun social experiment and I share all the hilarious reactions as well as an exploration of masculinity vs. femininity. Then, I dive into the 5 stages of acclimating to a new country, share stories from learning Hebrew, difficult Saturday nights, to building up my confidence. It’s amazing to look back at how much...2023-03-1737 minThat's So Kvetch!Bodhi River: How to Give Yourself ClosureIn this episode, I have a conversation with Bodhi River, community builder, bodyworker, and soon-to-be joining a school for communal learning in Italy! Together, we dive into how to let go and create closure for yourself in situations when you don’t get it. Through a series of metaphors from the blue ball to the regenerative cake, we talk about dealing with rejection, having healthy boundaries, loving ourselves, and feeling full all on our own. We can truly depend on ourselves to give ourselves love! I hope you’ll enjoy this cathartic and hopeful episode. Happy listening!
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That's So Kvetch!Season 2: The Science Behind LoveThat’s So Kvetch is back and just in time for Valentine’s Day!
In honor of the day, I wonder about my relationship with love, why I am so attracted to it, and how it’s impacted me both positively and negatively. Why does love make people go so dumb? It’s based in science! I talk about the chemicals and hormones behind love. Lastly, I talk about the important role of having hope and believing in order to get to love. We need to be kind to ourselves when we experience these feelings because it is so hu...2023-02-1742 min
That's So Kvetch!New Beginnings + Unboxing MyselfIf you are in a moment in your life where you are wondering “where am I going next?” or “how am I going to create the future I want?”, then this episode is for you! Also for my close friends, consider this a grand catch-up! In this reflective episode, I chat about the ups and downs of living in Jerusalem. I go into detail about why I moved, and share cute stories about crying on the trains, dancing in the shuk on Hanukkah, practicing my Hebrew on dating apps, and more! I also chat about some of the things I’ve bee...2021-12-1340 minThat's So Kvetch!Jewish Good Girls vs. Bad Girls and Lilith’s AwesomenessI enjoy diving into stigmas and talking about Jewish culture, and this episode is non other than that. First, I share updates and funny stories from my new life in Israel. Then, I chat about the stereotype of being a Jewish good girl and bad girl and how it’s affected me, and how I think it affects the Jewish world. I also share the scandalous story of Lilith and her symbolism in Jewish feminist lore. Happy listening!(0:00-9:14) Intro and funny moments in Israel(9:14-12:20) Why this topic is important(12:20-18:42) Adam an...2021-11-2740 minThat's So Kvetch!My Personal Lech Lecha and The Story of a Jewish Femme FataleI moved to Jerusalem in Israel - to a land that Hashem will show me the way - my own personal Lech Lecha journey. In this episode, I chat about the recent move, and the big and little adjustments that I’ve dealt with in the two weeks I've been here. Then, I share a story from the Gemara about a woman named Homa and R’ Hisda’s daughter. (Which I learned at Pardes from Gila Fine!) In the story, Rabba becomes aroused by the skin of his dead friend’s wife and runs home to consummate his urge with his...2021-10-1530 minThat's So Kvetch!Feeling Like “Too Much”, Breakups, and Summer MemoriesThis episode is for the sensitive people out there! In this reflective episode, I chat about a variety of topics, from some announcements in my personal life to the story of Chana’s prayer, feeling like “too much”, breakups and more. The concept of being “too much” has come up for me in a variety of aspects of life, and I wanted to talk about the struggles behind feeling this way, the beauty of feeling, and why it is good to stay soft and open. Then, I share two moments when I felt the connectedness of everyone dealing with something...2021-09-1735 minThat's So Kvetch!Boris Kerzner: How To Be More SustainableIn this episode, I chat with my older brother Boris, all about sustainability, Jewish journeys, parenting, and more! I’m always looking to improve environmentally, and Boris shared some of his best tips with me, on how to be kinder to our planet. Boris shares his career journey from software engineering to sustainable landscape design and we learn all about the wonders of growing your own food. Also, when Boris was my age, he quit his job and moved to India for four months, and we hear more about why he chose that adventure! Then, on parenting, we talk ab...2021-08-3147 min
That's So Kvetch!Elena Potek: What’s the Deal with Sexual Energy?In this episode, I chat with sex educator and coach Elena Potek. Elena works one-on-one with clients to help them harness their sexual energy, reframe old narratives around sexuality, and get in touch with their most authentic selves. I am fascinated by this concept of sexual energy and what it means and how we can tap into it and Elena helps answer all my questions. Then we talk about ideas surrounding sexuality that Elena learned growing up in an Orthodox environment and Elena shares her journey on how she moved away from that mindset. Along the way, we discuss...2021-07-2948 minThat's So Kvetch!Alan Avitan: How To Get Excited About Dating AgainIn this episode, I chat with friend of the pod, Alan Avitan, low-key dating coach, upper-west sider, and great advice giver. We chat about how to make the first move in big group scenes, both from the girl's and guys' perspectives. Then we talk about how the dating system favors men and why that is. Alan really speaks to the difficulties women face and the reality of the unequal nature of the dating game. It’s definitely not smooth sailing out there, but we’re all in it together. Alan’s positive attitude will surely inspire you. Happy listening!
...2021-07-1541 minThat's So Kvetch!All About Self-SabotageIn this episode, I chat all about the ups and downs of self-sabotaging, both in the Torah and in my own experiences. Before we dive in, I share some changes I’ve felt in myself since we have started returning to “normalcy”. Then, I discuss the ways self-sabotage manifests and how it relates to me. I share a tragic yet entertaining story with an ex from college and reflect on my patterns in dating. Then, we bring in the good ol’ Torah characters to share their self-sabotaging stories. This is an intense topic, and yet still, I manage to laugh an...2021-07-0143 minThat's So Kvetch!Shot Girl Summer and Social ExhaustionThis episode is about the recent influx of socialization in life and reflecting on the mental health effects of the pandemic. I unpack the overwhelming feelings that come with adjusting to a busier life post-vaccine. I start off by sharing a funny story from my adventures on the Clubhouse social media app and then move to a larger conversation about mental health. I reflect on a recent party I threw, CDC’s new guidelines, and how I want to hold on to all my recent awesome memories. Then I dive into the larger picture of mental health effects of th...2021-06-1135 minThat's So Kvetch!Dr. Batsheva Marcus: Why Sex Fantasies are a Good ThingIn this episode, we return to chat with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, certified sex therapist and the Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Sexual Health, host of the podcast “Joy of Text”, and awesome woman. We talk about her new book Sex Points, the importance of fantasy, and how to tackle the guilt and shame that surrounds sex. Happy listening!
Buy the book anywhere books are sold from Barnes and Noble to Amazon by searching Sex Points by Dr. Batsheva Marcus.2021-06-0435 minThat's So Kvetch!Shira Lankin Sheps: Living Through PainIn honor of mental health awareness month, I chat with Shira Lankin Sheps, editor-in-chief of the Layers Project Magazine. The Layers Project is an online magazine for Jewish women focusing on the challenges and triumphs of their lives. The magazine focuses on breaking the stigma to create a community that is centered around healing and connection.We talked about the process of catharsis that undergoes when people share these stories online. Then, our conversation took a spiritual turn to discuss the role of God and faith in dealing with mental health issues. We ended off with Shira...2021-05-2649 minThat's So Kvetch!Shira Feen: How To Travel Solo and Own The CityIn this episode, I chat with a dear bestie of mine, Shira Feen, a fellow Jewess and design professional currently residing on the Upper West Side. We talk about the origin story of Shira’s famous catchphrase, “own the city” Then, we hear more about Shira’s recent solo trip she took to the Grand Canyon and Sedona, Arizona. She shares some valuable travel info, from Airbnb experiences to hiking alone, selfie sticks, and more!To reach Shira, you can dm her on Instagram @shirafeen(0:00-2:59) Intro(2:59-9:00) Miguel concert, hype girls, and how to o...2021-05-1433 minThat's So Kvetch!Rabbi Scott Kahn: Does God Judge Us?In this episode, I chat with Rabbi Scott Kahn, co-host of the Intimate Judaism and Orthodox conundrum podcast. Intimate Judaism deals with intimacy and healthy sexuality in the context of Jewish family while remaining firmly in the bounds of halacha and the Orthodox conundrum podcast focuses on major issues that affect the Orthodox word.Together, we dive into a serious conversation to address some tough questions about how to deal with the tensions of Jewish law and today’s realities: Does God judge us? Are there certain cases when it is ok to violate Jewish law? What is...2021-05-0652 minThat's So Kvetch!Rena Levene: Erotic Foods, IBS, and Self EsteemIn this episode, I chat with Rena Levine, a dear friend of mine to chat about all things food-related with dating. We discuss everything from our worst food date stories, to dealing with IBS, to food anxiety. Then we share some general dating insecurities and analyze a text conversation together. Rena is a natural podcast host and this episode is sure to bring you lots of laughs and good vibes. Happy listening!(00:00-12:10) food themed worst date stories)(12:10-17:10) dealing with IBS and how it affects dating(17:10-25:21) Food anxiety and favorite recipes2021-05-0446 minThat's So Kvetch!Zak Benarroch: How Do You Know If You Are In Love?In this episode, I chat with next-door neighbor Zak about *drum roll please* dating! In the Modern-Orthodox world — how exciting! We talk about breakups, stigmas, red flags, and the struggle of trying to find someone who matches you religiously. Hope you enjoy this fun light-hearted episode!(0:00-3:40) Intro(3:40-9:23) Guys and breakups(9:23-11:40) Covid has changed dating(11:40-22:00) Red Flag or dealbreaker game(22:08-28:00) How to know if are in love(28:00-end) Getting feedback and dating at the same religious level2021-04-2638 minThat's So Kvetch!The Soon By You StigmaIn this reflective episode, I chat about the oft-quoted phrase “soon by you” that is occasionally said to singles at Jewish weddings and engagements. I dig deep into the origin of this phrase and talk about the pressure society places on young people to reach that next step in life, whether it be getting married, having a kid, or buying a house. I reflect on some difficult feelings of inadequacy and dive into why people say “soon by you”. People love order and stability and when someone seems to have it all together, they can rest comfortably. Lastly, I reflect...2021-04-0828 minThat's So Kvetch!Mandie Peled: Pelvic Health, Orgasms, and Destigmatizing Body ShameIn this episode, I chat with Mandie Peled, pelvic physical therapist and fellow neighbor in the Heights! Mandie specializes in everything from pelvic pain, to fecal/urinary incontinence, constipation, urinary urgency, prolapse, sexual dysfunction, and musculoskeletal impairments that can occur during and after pregnancy. Together, we talk about how to heal from all kinds of women’s health issues with pelvic physical therapy. Mandie debunks misconceptions about anatomy and discusses how to create a more open world when discussing pelvic health. See below for more specifics. Happy listening!(0:00-18:00) all about pelvic floor therapy(18:00-28:40) Cl...2021-04-0247 minThat's So Kvetch!101 Bad DatesIn this episode, I compiled a bunch of stories from you all about one of my favorite “That’s So Kvetch” topics, bad date stories! From accidentally hitting a 3-year-old at a mini-golf place, to non-stop conversation about exes, to live performances of original songs, these bad date stories will bring you many laughs guaranteed. Hopefully, you haven’t been there, but some of us definitely have. Happy listening and thank you for contributing!2021-03-2439 minThat's So Kvetch!Maia Groman: On Defining FeminismIn this episode, I chat with my friend and neighbor Maia Groman, assistant media planner by day and marketing freelancer by night. Maia is the marketing manager of Basheret, a Jewish dating app that caters to young Jews across a religious spectrum. Not a shidduch app or a hookup app, Basheret meets people where they are at in their Jewish journey and finds matches for you! We talk about dating (of course) from our favorite Hinge prompts, to dealing with dating burnout, to top break up tips, and more. Then, in honor of women's history month, we dive into...2021-03-1835 min
Two Kosh GirlsEpisode 12: Celebrating Bad*** Jewesses Ft. Rebecca Kerzner (That’s So Kvetch Podcast Host)In honor of Women’s History Month, Two Kosh Girls highlight Jewish women that we find inspiring from the past and the present. We talk with incredible Jewish content creator, podcast producer, and soon-to-be children’s book illustrator Rebecca Kerzner, who also happens to be a close college bestie of ours. We chat about our favorite Jewish pop culture icons, biblical characters, and our personal female inspirations. Rebecca dives into the story of Tamar, and how she took control of her own narrative. You’ll also hear about the wild story of Purim, and how we celebrated this year in Israel...2021-03-1550 minThat's So Kvetch!Homosexuality in the TorahSeason 2 of That’s So Kvetch is in full swing! In this episode, I journey into the terrain of dealing with homosexuality in the Torah. First, I share the scandalous story where Resh Lakish mistakes Rav Yochanan for a woman and is enchanted by him. Then I dive into Judaism’s general attitude towards homosexuality. I listened to a super right-wing shiur to get a different perspective and contemplated some big questions like: Why are some Jews against homosexuality? What do Jews value most in Judaism? Should the Torah be a rule book or a lesson book? This episode is j...2021-03-1225 minThat's So Kvetch!The Quarter-life crisisIn this episode, I chat about the concept of a quarter-life crisis. If you are feeling lost or inadequate or doubting yourself, this episode is for you. I share my feelings about my insecurities, particularly my intellect anxiety and feeling not good or capable enough to accomplish my goals. (Or even knowing what those goals are!) The biggest truth I’ve realized so far is that nobody really has it together. Lastly, I talk about some helpful mentalities I’ve used to cope with these feelings and basically finish off with a serious pep talk! Happy listening!(0:00-4:5...2021-03-0526 minThat's So Kvetch!Hart Levine: The Power of Chance Experiences and DreamsIn this episode, I chat with Hart Levine, the spiritual leader of the Beis Community in Washington Heights. The Beis Community is an intentional community that welcomes diverse Jews together for prayer and spirituality in Washington Heights. We talk about his recent new position at Religious Zionists for America and share some vision ideas together about how to bring Israel’s ideological dream-focused mindset to America. We also discuss what it means to be outward-facing, a little Torah, conversations about community, and more. Hart’s inspiring voice is sure to bring you hopefulness. Happy listening!Favorite Beis mome...2021-01-0848 minThat's So Kvetch!Being Delusional In Dating + Making Asarat B’ Tevet MeaningfulIn this episode, I chat about the concept of disillusionment in dating. The pandemic has changed dating in many ways with it having to become a lot more methodical, zoom slowing things down, and recognizing that sometimes it's just nice to get to know another person in a time of isolation! It can get confusing and I share the two lenses that distract from having clarity. Then, we debate the importance of having a dating checklist and the need for good chemistry in a relationship. Most of all, the confusion is driven by the romantic lens that drives a...2020-12-2430 minThat's So Kvetch!The Nice Jewish Girl StereotypeIn this episode, I chat about my dislike for the Nice Jewish Girl and Nice Jewish Boy stereotype. Having these labels so present in Jewish culture creates a lot of negative impacts both on the personal level and communal level. The aspirational NJB or NJG title is a little arbitrary, can be used as a cover-up for unethical morals, and puts people on an unnecessary pedestal. We also celebrate a whole year of “That’s so Kvetch!” episodes (the anniversary was November 15)! with a reflection on what I’ve learned over the year, both in dating and in life - most i...2020-12-0425 minThat's So Kvetch!Yael Brodsky Levine: All about That Beis (and some on Marriage Privilege)In this episode, I chat with the amazing Yael Brodsky Levine, Beis Community leader who works in storm recovery and mitigating future natural disasters. Yael is passionate about environmental causes and Jewish feminism - what a great combo! Join us as we talk about the history of the Beis Community, what it’s like teaching kallah classes, marriage privilege in society, and how to combat climate change.The Beis Community is an intentional Jewish community that provides a spiritual home where all are welcome and celebrated, and transcends expectations of routine Orthodoxy. Currently, the Beis offers safe di...2020-11-2947 minThat's So Kvetch!Alan Avitan: How to Date During A Covid WinterIn this episode I chat with Alan Avitan, Upper-West Sider from Cleveland and social media marketer. Three years ago, after he was mentioned on a JSwipe article as one of "The 42 Most Popular Men On JSwipe", Alan started his own dating consultation business, called The Right Swipe. We talk about how dating has changed for us both in the pandemic and how we plan to navigate the colder winter months. Then, Alan shares some awesome zoom and in-person date ideas. This positive and inspiring episode will surely uplift you! Happy listening!About Alan and The Right Swipe2020-11-0546 minThat's So Kvetch!Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus: An Honest Conversation About Judaism and SexIn this episode, I chat with Dr. Bat Sheva Marcus, a certified sex therapist and the Clinical Director of Maze Women’s Sexual Health, host of the podcast “Joy of Text”, and amazing woman! We start off with discussing her journey to becoming a sex therapist and where her mind was at in her 20's. Then, we go on to discuss masterbation and how the role halacha plays in having a healthy sex life. Next up- we discuss sex education in Jewish environments, and how sexual guilt and shame impacts all people, not just religious Jews. Lastly, we touch on (no...2020-10-3046 minThat's So Kvetch!Dressing Like a Woman and Queerphobia in the Jewish Community (Gavi @eatingaroundisrael)In this episode, I chat with Gavi from @eatingaroundIsrael on Instagram - food tour guide and Jewish queer activist on Instagram! Gavi’s journey began in the Five Towns, then to HaKotel for 2 years, then Hesder, and now resides in Tel Aviv! Together, we discuss gender expression, dressing in drag (shout out to Shaindy!), and envisioning the normalization and acceptance of queer people in Jewish Orthodox communities. Then we go into a larger conversation about Judaism’s attitude towards sexuality, advocating for frum women, and understanding the holy mitzvah of the mikveh ritual immersion. Happy listening!Queer topi...2020-10-2347 minThat's So Kvetch!Break Up Remedies and The Secrets of KoheletIn this episode, I chat about the book of Kohelet and breakups! Undoubtedly, break ups are a part of life. But they are utter crap. I talk about some things I’ve learned along the way on how to cope with them. Healing isn’t linear, and it’s okay and good to mourn the loss of a relationship. Then, I talk about the book of Kohelet, which is read on Shemini Atzeret. Kohelet responds to what we need most to remember during the time of a pandemic, when things are hard and different. So many nuggets of wisdom in thi...2020-10-0935 minThat's So Kvetch!Changing Yourself For a PartnerIn this episode, I chat about changing emotionally, spiritually, and religiously for a partner. This topic is widely contested and feels different for every person across the board. I think it is inevitable that this sometimes happens and people try to please each other at the expense of themselves. Can you spiritually grow with someone? Where do you draw the line and where are your boundaries? I share my struggles with this topic and some of my thoughts on Jewish dating culture. Ultimately, like everything else in life, this is not black and white, and every love story has...2020-10-0222 minThat's So Kvetch!50 Shades of Tzniut: 2 Opinions on Dressing ModestlyIn this episode, I chat with old friend Basya Hans, content creator at the Jewish Learning Institute. Yay Jewish non-profit world! We begin with a conversation about her ba’al teshuva journey and how we’ve both grown religiously over the years. We touch on the mission of the Chabad movement and valuing accessibility in Judaism. Then we open up to discussing the multi-faceted mitzvah of dressing modestly! Basya and I shared our opinions on the mitzvah and how it manifests for us. Through chatting, we realized our opinions are very different but it was nice and interesting to enga...2020-09-2541 minThat's So Kvetch!Slut Shaming in the Torah + Why You Should Start a Podcast!In this episode, I start off by chatting about the origin of this podcast and some unexpected benefits it has had for me! If you want to start a podcast, DO it! Then I dive into the unsettling topic of slut shaming and work through the stories of the wayward wife, Sotah, and of Yakkov’s daughter Dina. These stories seep into our culture today and I discuss how to deal with reconciling the issues they bring up. There’s a lot at play here, from the power of agreement, to mass cultural trends, and the difficulty of breaking embe...2020-09-0422 minThat's So Kvetch!So You Want to Make Aliyah (Part 3) with Jazzie Morgan and Karen AmouyalIn this episode, I chat with social media guru Jazzie Morgan from @theIsraelBites and Karen Amouyal, old friend from Stern about Aliyah! Jazzie shares how she navigates Israel with Celiac disease, tips on how to be the best chutzpanit, and a recent hilarious date story. Karen recently made Aliyah during the pandemic and sheds light on what her bidud has been like and why Israel is right for her. Happy listening!2020-09-0140 minThat's So Kvetch!Talia Lakritz: Exploring Sex Taboos in the Orthodox CommunityIn this episode, I chat with Talia Lakritz, senior lifestyle reporter for Insider and writer! We talk about Monologues from the Makom, a groundbreaking collection of poetry and prose designed to break the observant Jewish community’s taboo against open discussion of female sexuality. In her piece, Talia shares her first experience with touch after being shomer negiah for years. We also discuss affirmative consent, the harmful notion of “all men being dogs” we grew up with, sexuality, shomer negiah in practice, and more!Monologues from the Makom will be released on September 1st and you can pre-or...2020-08-2445 min
Research for What?Philanthropy and Research - trust, honesty and communication - with Anna Guillan Founder of NELUNE FoundationHow can researchers connect with philanthropists and supporters? In this week’s episode of Research for What?, I talk with Anna Guillan. Anna is the Deputy Chair ofTourism Australia and the Australian consultant to Kerzner International, a global operator of luxury resorts.More relevant to this podcast is the fact that Anna is the co-founder of the NELUNE Foundation, which she established with her friend Nelune Rajapakse in 2001. Today, they have raised over $33M to support patients diagnosed with cancer. Their work at the NELUNE Foundation supports NSW public hospitals and re...2020-08-1638 minThat's So Kvetch!Shimmy Feintuch: The Stories we Tell OurselvesIn this episode, I chat with Shimmy Feintuch, psychotherapist and fellow Beis Community enthusiast. We discuss the stories we create in our minds when dating, dealing with insecurities, and how to zoom out and see the big picture. He shared some mental health concepts and how to utilize them and some mindfulness techniques. Then, we tackle ways to deal with vulnerability and the most effective ways to relieve ourselves from overthinking. Damn it brain! Let’s face it, we are all messy in our own ways at times and that is ok! What a cathartic episode - thank you Sh...2020-08-1444 minThat's So Kvetch!Brina Chu: A Jewish Feminist’s Guide to DatingIn honor of Tu’ B’Av, I chat with Brinu Chu, close friend, roommate of 2 years, vegan and fellow Jewish feminist. Brina is a professional in the Jewish non-profit world and together, we dive into many topics at the nexus of Judaism and dating: worst date stories, misogyny, how our upbringing in Jewish spaces shaped our attitudes towards shomer negiah, modesty, niddah, Jewish identity, and even Pandemic Patty makes an appearance. Happy listening!2020-08-0646 minThat's So Kvetch!So You Want to Make Aliyah? (Part 2) with Sarah Kirshner and Lielle BarthThe Aliyah-series is in full swing! In this episode, I chat with Sarah Kirshner, graphic designer and marketer in Nachlaot, and Lielle Barth, a recent graduate from Bar Ilan university who is moving to Baka/Katamon area this week! We talk about a bunch of new topics like the culture of Israeli people, how attachment to the land changes over time, crunchy cucumbers, social life in Israel amidst coronavirus, and how important it is to immerse in the Hebrew language. Plus, what’s the shidduch crisis like in Israel? Happy listening!2020-07-2447 minThat's So Kvetch!So You Want to Make Aliyah? (Part 1!) with Dafna Milstein and Roni Buchine!Are you considering Aliyah? As part of a new series on That’s So Kvetch, I’ll be focusing on Aliyah stories from individual people! In this episode, I interview Dafna Milstein, filmmaker, creative writer and English teacher in Pardes Hanna and Roni Buchine, (old friend from Houston roots), who is studying computer science at Machon Lev in Jerusalem. We cover everything from acclimating as an immigrant, to cost of living and salaries, to the healthcare system, a typical shabbat experience, love stories, and more! It’s very cathartic to listen in and hear other people’s stories and gain ins...2020-07-1745 minThat's So Kvetch!Roommate Hunting is Like DatingAfter a hiatus, I’m back! In this episode, I start off chatting about some recent life updates, moving apartments, and future plans. Summer is the season of change, and in the process I’ve noticed how roommate hunting is similar in some ways to dating life! I mean, it’s all about making a commitment in the end, am I right? Then, I briefly go on a tangent about Rav Nachman and nature (don’t ask) and swerve back to a scandalous and exciting story of triumph by the bad a** ladies Devorah and Yael! This dream team is truly...2020-07-0736 minThat's So Kvetch!Let’s Unpack This: White Fragility, Getting Over Exes, and Religion’s Role in DatingIn this episode, I chat about my personal reflections on the Black Lives Matter movement, the positive and negative effects of social media, and my white guilt. It’s important to recognize how to be more educated and aware in the Jewish community. If we don’t talk about this, nothing will change. Then, I chat about the difficult decisions that come with dating someone of a different religious level than you. Lastly, I discuss the pressure of ‘getting over’ someone, and the negative impact that brings.This is a very raw episode. I hope it brings you to f...2020-06-0530 minThat's So Kvetch!On Not Knowing What’s To ComeIn this episode, I chat about the concept of dealing with uncertainty in life right now. I reflect on some positives that grew out of my uncertainty from when I graduated college. Then, I dive into the significance of Shavuot as the basis for Jewish belief and how it relates during this time. Also, this week was Israel Kamakawiwo'ole’s birthday and I shared more about his life and his charm! (He’s the Hawaiin singer and activist who sang ‘Somewhere Over the Rainbow’). Lastly, I top things off with a poem by Walt Whitman and some well wishes for us t...2020-05-2425 minThat's So Kvetch!My Flirtationship with Lag B’OmerIn this episode, I chat about the awesome upcoming holiday Lag B’Omer this Tuesday and how I’ve fallen in love with its coolness. Lag B’Omer is a mystical holiday that celebrates the Kabbalah’s legacy, religious tolerance, renewal, and inspiration. I dive into the interesting story of R’Shimon Bar Yochai and talk about some funky customs from this holiday like shooting bows and arrows and eating dyed eggs? What?! Anyway, don’t worry, there are also brief chats about dating and recent tv shows I’ve enjoyed to cover all the stops. Happy listening!2020-05-0825 minThat's So Kvetch!Tzvi Zuckier: Keep Calm and Quarantine OnIn this episode, I chat with Tzvi Zuckier, a mental health therapist and friend that I met on last year’s Jewish music festival, Sababa. We interrupt his tie-dying activity to discuss the relevant topics: Tiger King, Zoom speed dating, mental health (always relevant!), and how people (sometimes) look like animals! And let’s not forget, a ‘That’s so Kvetch’ classic, worst dating stories! Happy listening!2020-05-0127 minThat's So Kvetch!Anna Kerzner: Matchmaking, Quarantine Date Ideas and More!In this episode, I start off with sharing some things that have brought me genuine joy recently as well as a chat about Zoom fatigue and how Zoom can drain your energy. Then I interview my wise sister Anna Kerzner, who is a matchmaker on Saw You at Sinai, one of the oldest Jewish online dating sites! She shares her wisdom on how the site works, how to match people, and tips on how to craft your resume. Lastly, we top things off with talking about the pressure to date right now and some cute quarantine date ideas! Happy...2020-04-2440 minThat's So Kvetch!The “Everything in Between” EpisodeIn this episode, I chat about my journey into self-help during quarantine life and how I've welcomed the extra time to self-reflect and refocus. I share areas of struggle for me personally like changes in friendships, religious guilt, and general anxiety and how I deal with them. Then, I dive into a book I read over chag by Brene Brown and her insights on tackling our inner critic and the concept of shame. Lastly, I finish off with a short chat on emunah, or faith in G-d, as a powerful tool to live your best life! Cheers to an...2020-04-1727 minThat's So Kvetch!Dating Digitally and Dancing on Your OwnIn this episode, I chat about the future of dating in the Corona age (thanks to my recent insta poll peeps for your input!) and how dates will go down -just a little more creatively- during this time! Next, I talk a little bit about my personal self-care and how I’ve been managing my anxieties during this crazy time. I highly encourage dance parties right now! Then, I talk about Miriam as a feminine strength born out of bitterness and how she lead the women who left Egypt with their tambourines and dances of joy and faith. Shabbat Sh...2020-03-2726 minThat's So Kvetch!Keeping the Spark Alive Amidst Self-QuarantineIn this episode, I start off by talking about my journey in trying to stay hopeful and positive during the global pandemic. As for dating, Covid-19 is quite a turnoff so we dive into the next best thing: Rom-coms! He’s Just Not That Into You (on Netflix right now!) has some interesting monologues about dating that we just had to unpack! Lastly, we discuss some sources on the Jewish exile in Egypt in honor of the upcoming Passover holiday and how it can inspire us to reframe this new reality.2020-03-2031 minThat's So Kvetch!S.T. Schwartz: The "Cautiously Pessimistic" Book Club Chat + Some Dating ChatterIn this episode, I chat with author and illustrator S.T. Schwartz about her book, "Cautiously Pessimistic", a delightful Jewish rom-com novel! We dive into the book, a story about a 25 year old boy named Choni who is ready to get married! Choni follows an anonymous blog about the trials and tribulations of Jewish Dating, Dear Jane Does. Then, he starts dating Tamar Adelson, who unbeknownst to him, is Dear Jane Does. The book follows their dating journey as they both are forced to reconcile their expectations of relationships with the relationships they actually have.2020-03-1041 minThat's So Kvetch!An Old School Love Story + Some Megillah MusingsIn this episode, I chat about the ultimate love story: how my parents met! It’s quite a tale with twists and turns but with a happy ending! Then, I bring in some poems and quotes about uncertainty and how you just never know how your own story will unfold. Lastly, I dive into Megillat Esther in honor of Purim coming up and the meaning behind Esther’s secret name, Hadassah. She’s the coolest! Happy listening!2020-02-2728 minThat's So Kvetch!The Shomer Negiah StruggleIn this episode of That’s so Kvetch!, I talk about the struggle of what it means to be shomer negiah and the religious guilt that sometimes follows with the mitzvah. I delve into my personal thoughts, the sources, and a story of a man awakened from sexual sin by the slapping of his tzitzit, or ritual fringes (the better way to call them) Feeling guilty is tough, but it’s important not to judge yourself too hard! Just like the Gemara offers a discourse, so should you for the story of your life. Happy listening :)2020-02-2130 minThat's So Kvetch!Oy Vey, Valentine's Day!Bonus episode alert! In this episode, we begin with some exciting “That’s so Kvetch” related updates! Then, I chat about Valentine’s Day and the concept of giving love to all aspects of life. What are the origins of Valentine’s Day? Can/should Jews celebrate? I also talk about Tu B’Av and how cool of a holiday it is! Then, I reflect on a past relationship and how I learned to harness the love from it and re-purpose it! Enjoy!2020-02-1434 minThat's So Kvetch!Jon Shatoff: Romance is Good for the SoulIn this episode, I chat with my friend Jon Shatoff, video editor at Nickelodeon about romantic adventures, horoscopes, and more! We talked about going with the flow of dating and accepting the fluidity of it as it comes. Jon even had a sick electron analogy to illustrate his point. So what are you waiting for? Get out there, get dating! Happy listening :)2020-02-1216 minThat's So Kvetch!Cassie Gonzales and Michael Rosen: Tefillin-Turn Ons and High School CrushesIn this episode, I chat with my old home-town homies, Cassie and Michael about all things dating, from relationship dealbreakers, to tefillin-turn ons, to how high school relationships affect us nowadays. We also ask questions like: Is it normal to ask about kids on a first date? How much should you filter yourself when dating? Then we top things off with a bissle dating advice as always and then some reflection on our respective adulting journeys. Happy listening!2020-02-0541 minThat's So Kvetch!Sarah Gold and Adam Brodsky: The Journey is the DestinationIn this episode of “the pod”, I chat with Sarah, an old friend from Stern, currently in dental school, and Adam (new friend!), currently in law school, about the woes of dating! We dive into the concept of dating checklists, how to meet potentials at Key Food, who should pay for dates, feminism, Hex and Co (the board game cafe dating spot), some poetry, lessons from heartbreak, and more! Through laughs, *just water*, and shared anecdotes, we talked about how important it is not to regret loving or having been loved and appreciating the journey of dating as it come...2020-01-2942 minThat's So Kvetch!Getting Back Together with Your Ex, Bad Timing, and Some Kohelet Wisdom!RebeccaKpodcasts, once again! In this episode, I chat about getting back together with exes and some of my experiences in the matter, the concept of “bad timing”, cutting things off cold turkey, and poems by Erin Hanson and Elizabeth Bishop on loss. To top it all off, we’ll finish with some insights from the Book of Kohelet. Kohelet is a doozy and offers lots of existential wisdom (my favorite kind!) and I hope you enjoy this reflective episode.2020-01-2228 minThat's So Kvetch!Birthdays, Boys, and Being True to YourselfIn this episode, I chat about my recent birthday festivities and reflect on parts of my growth. I share how I learned the importance of embracing the mess of who you are and the value in impressing yourself over others. Then in terms of boizzz, I talk about a catch-22 and the concept of the "people-lover". Steer clear of the people-lover! Then, we top it off with a dope story from the Gemara about an awesome woman named Yalta and the 400 wine barrels she smashed. Cool beans. Hope you all enjoy :)2020-01-1627 minThat's So Kvetch!Dating Apps and Meeting People IRL!In this episode, I chat with one of my oldest YU friends Aaron Shakib about dating apps and more! Oh, the joy! We cover everything from name puns as pick-up lines, to the dreaded “hey” text message, and tips to eliminate the awkwardness! In the end, meeting people is fun, and the more people you meet, the more likely you are to find that one and only. Aaron’s positive approach is sure to leave you uplifted and refreshed, guaranteed!2020-01-1421 min