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Becoming The Wealthy You | How to Save Money, Stop Overspending, Get Out of Debt, Budgeting & Personal Finance for Women114. Find Love Over 40 This Valentine's Day: Expert Tips to Craft the Perfect Dating Profile with Renée SuzanneRenée Suzanne is a dating coach with a unique focus on helping smart successful women master dating as a skill. She provides them with the tools to make empowered choices and connect with men who align with their values and desires.Renée was single and dating for over 2 decades before meeting her husband on Tinder in 2017 when she was well into her 40’s. She is certified by The Life Coach School and brings a wealth of knowledge and personal insight to her practice.Renée is dedicated to transforming the dating landscape for women...
2025-02-1452 min
Women in the Middle® Entrepreneurs: The Reality of Running a Business After 50 - Midlife Coach PodcastEP #83: You Can Still Find Love in Midlife with Renée SuzanneToday’s episode is with Renée Suzanne. Renée is a woman in the middle entrepreneur who wants all women to know that they can create the kind of life they love, they don't have to wait for it to just happen to them. And that at your age, being over 50, you’re still in the game.In this episode, you will learn:You can still find love in midlife.You get to decide what the purpose of your life is at all stages and change your mind as you and your life change.Your dreams...
2024-12-1740 min
The Sober Mom LifeThe Real Sober Moms with ReneeAlcohol was a normalized part of Renee’s early life. Going back and forth between her mom’s and dad’s homes, she was regularly around drinking in ways that never felt dangerous at the time. So, it seemed natural to start drinking in her teens. As an adult, alcohol continued its regular place in her life, but she slowly began to experience its dark side. Her husband’s drinking had gotten out of control. After two hospitalizations for acute pancreatitis, her husband’s doctor was clear: he had to quit drinking for his health. Whi...
2024-12-0234 min
Love Your Life After Divorce with Angie Wilson: Helping Women Rebuild Their Lives, Co-parent and Heal16. Dating After Divorce with Renee SuzanneSend us a textAre you ready to dip your toe into the dating pool? Have you been dating for a while but not having much luck? This interview with dating coach, Renee Suzanne, is packed with helpful tips, valuable information and encouragement you can use along your dating journey. For more information about Renee's transformative work, check out her website at Ready to find a good man? (reneesuzannecoaching.com)To get her free guide, click here: 3 Steps to Find a Good Man in 30 Days (reneesuzannecoaching.com)Angiewilsoncoaching.com
2024-10-2151 min
Courage & Clarity103: From Spaghetti Throwing to Step by Step Progress with Dating Coach Renée SuzanneIn this episode, Steph chats with client Renée Suzanne about her journey in the Sold Out Group Programs mastermind. They get into Renée's experience as a dating coach for women over 40, recounting her dating history and how hiring a coach changed her life, leading her to find love and launch a successful coaching business.After a few hail Mary attempts at investing in the right support for her business, Renée came to Sold Out Group Programs ready to roll up her sleeves and dive head first into Steph's curriculum, resulting in a succ...
2024-10-0124 min
Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting[Part 2] What to Do After a Breakup to End Painful Relationship Patterns by Renee Suzanne with Tiny BuddhaDiscover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2258: Renee Suzanne's insightful article delves into recognizing and transforming harmful relationship patterns after a breakup. By reflecting on past relationships and understanding one's role in recurring issues, readers can pave the way for healthier future connections. Suzanne emphasizes the importance of self-discovery, proactive dating strategies, and personal growth to break free from destructive cycles. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/breakup-end-painful-relationship-patterns/
2024-07-2907 min
Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting[Part 2] What to Do After a Breakup to End Painful Relationship Patterns by Renee Suzanne with Tiny BuddhaDiscover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com.Episode 2258:Renee Suzanne's insightful article delves into recognizing and transforming harmful relationship patterns after a breakup. By reflecting on past relationships and understanding one's role in recurring issues, readers can pave the way for healthier future connections. Suzanne emphasizes the importance of self-discovery, proactive dating strategies, and personal growth to break free from destructive cycles.Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/breakup-end-painful-relationship-patterns/
2024-07-2911 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne69. How many self help books have you read about dating?I was putting together a great reading list for my Dating Mastery clients and it made me realize that I have read a LOT of books about dating!
Honestly, I’d have a PhD in dating if they existed.
There are so many great books on this list and I learned a lot from all of them.
I used to spend hours and hours gorging on self-help back in the day, still do!
And while I LOOOOOOVE self-help books, I was also reminded of how even though I learned a ton fr...
2024-05-0610 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne68. Can a matchmaker help me find a quality man with Lisa Goodman of Selective SearchToday we’re talking to a matchmaker!
If you’ve ever considered working with one, you will love this episode.
I’m interviewing Lisa with Selective Search and she’s answering my most burning questions like:
Who is a good candidate to work with a matchmaker?
What are the benefits of hiring a matchmaker?
What is the price range?
What can clients expect?
What should one look for in a matchmaker?
If I decide to work with the matchmaker, how can I make the...
2024-04-2920 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne67. Things men say when they don't want to date youHas the man you’re seeing started making excuses, seeing you less often, or saying any of the following things:
I need space
I’m not over my ex
I’m really busy right now
I’m going through a lot
I have a lot on my mind
My kids/parents/job really need me
I’m confused
Don’t wait a guy like this out. All of these things and more may be true, but a man who want...
2024-04-2210 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne66. Is he a ladies man?Does he have lots of women friends, stay friends with all his exes and drive you crazy with insecurity and jealousy?
Does he gaslight you about this or do you gaslight yourself?
Do you feel awful, insecure or jealous a lot of the time and wish he would change his ways?
Get rid of guys like this!!
Men who want to hang out with all the women generally have ginormous egos and aren’t interested in monogamous relationships.
Even if you find a man who is, he’s not your...
2024-04-1510 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne65. How do I know if I need to work on my dating skills?
How do you really know if you’d benefit from working on your dating skills?
The short answer is, if you’re in your 40’s and not getting the results you want with dating, it is very likely due to a skill gap unless you have been hiding under a rock for the last 10 years.
Here are some things I’ve heard from women I’ve helped by teaching them basic dating skills:
You really want a great guy in your life, but you don’t know where to start
You don’t...
2024-04-0811 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne64. Can "The Rules" help you find love? with Sherrie SchneiderI just had the best conversation with one of my favorite self-help authors, Sherrie Schnieder!
She wrote “The Rules” back in the day which I read SO many times. I finally actually learned to not just read, but implement them, which was a huge part of my success in dating.
You know I’m all about getting help and support in your dating journey to succeed with your goals.
Sherrie and I talked about:
1) Can The Rules help single women over 40 in today's dating climate?
2) What would...
2024-04-0137 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne63. Avoid the dreaded "What are we?" talk
Ooof! The dreaded “what are we?” talk.
How many of those have you had?
If you’re anything like me, way too many and none of them has ever gone the way you’d hoped.
Because the truth I always knew in my heart was that if a man was crazy about me, I wouldn’t have to have such talks.
So, how would you like to never have another “What are we?” talk for the rest of your life?? Are you in?
Building effective dating skills will do this f...
2024-03-2510 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne62. Are dating skills really that important?
In our culture, we grow up thinking that love should just happen to us and that something has gone terribly wrong if it doesn’t.
I think this is absolute mind poison and has done more to ruin women’s love lives than almost anything else.
There is so much you can do to help yourself find a great guy and build the lasting connection you really want.
One of the most important of these things is to work on your dating skills.
If you’re over 40 and you’ve...
2024-03-1814 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne61. How to make finding a good guy easierI remember being single for decades, enduring so many disappointments and wondering what on earth I was doing wrong.
I read all the self-help books, got makeovers, took classes and workshops and worked with several coaches to figure out how to find a good guy.
It was a long, arduous, and often excruciating process.
I learned everything the hard way, but I did learn.
Now I use all the things I learned to help make things easier for you and for my clients.
Because it can be really hard...
2024-03-1112 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne12. Why chasing men is a bad ideaSo you finally had a first date with that guy you’ve been into for a while
And it went really well...
So you leave feeling all giddy and you can’t wait to see him again.
And now you’re waiting for his call.
And waiting
Aaaaandd still waiting
Should you text to tell him you had a good time or thank him?
What about that meme you saw about the Bears? Should you send it to him? He said he loved the Bears.
...
2024-03-0611 min
Swears and Does HairEp 81: Building The Next Generation Of Educators With Renee MarieYou can find Renee on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/reneemarieacademy/
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2024-03-0430 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne60. Why you need a man planYou know I’m all about setting yourself up for success in dating.
I want you to have the life you really want instead of waiting for it to just happen to you.
So today, I’m going to tell you why you need to make a man plan to help you find a great guy.
You can still be your beautiful feminine self and let men make the first move.
You don’t have to chase men or do anything ridiculously embarrassing.
This is just a fantastic way to mak...
2024-03-0412 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne59. How do I know where to start with dating?You may not know where to start with dating.
You may hope that you’ll just meet someone you like and he’ll like you and things will just fall into place.
I spent years feeling the exact same way and honestly, it would have been nice.
Besides, it’s what all the movies and books tell us is supposed to happen, so what’s wrong with that?
Well, let’s start with the fact that you’ve wanted this for a while now and it’s not just happening to you.
Do...
2024-03-0113 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne14. How to reach your goal when it seems impossible with Corrine Crabtree
Today I'm interviewing the fabulous Corrine Crabtree.
She knows a thing or two about reaching big goals and getting things done.
She's the CEO and founder of the No BS Weightloss Program and No BS Business Women.
She lost over 100 pounds, met and married a wonderful man and created 2 very successful businesses.
We chat about how to reach your dreams and have your own back even when it's hard.
She brings some good old-fashoined common s...
2024-03-0140 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne58. It's not just you, it really is hard to find a good guy
It’s not your imagination. It really is hard to find a good guy in today’s dating climate.
But there’s plenty you can do to help yourself find the good guys that are out there looking for you.
Here are some reasons it’s so hard to find a relationship-ready man:
There aren’t as many of them “on the market” at any given time. Once they get in relationships, they tend to stay in them.
This leaves a much higher percenta...
2024-02-1914 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne57. How do you know if you're ready to date?How do you know for sure you’re ready to date?
I think that being ready is very subjective.
We do lots of things in life we don’t necessarily feel ready for, just because we want the results or the experience of doing them.
We don’t wait until we’re ready to brush our teeth, go to the doctor to get a checkup, or enroll in grad school.
You may not feel ready to date, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t.
Or that you even need to be re...
2024-02-1210 min
The Behind The Shades Show : Marriage, Mental Health, And Trauma RecoveryHow To Find Love Through Online Dating | Renee Suzanne Interview | Full Interview |Renee joins us to discuss how we can find love through online dating. She shares her dating experience with online apps like Tinder and to navigate them. We speak about the success she had as she is happily married after finding her match online. Renee shares how she is helping her clients find love and to date successfully and with purpose. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes. #selfimprovement #relationships #dating #behindtheshades
Visit https://www.behindtheshades.ca to book your one-on-one coaching session today
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2024-02-0733 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne56. Should you refuse to date men with kids with Kristin LindellToday, I'm interviewing my friend and colleague Kristin Lindell about dating men with kids.
If you insist on only dating men without children after 40, you're seriously shrinking your dating pool, but is it worth the hassle to date guys with kids?
Kristin shares all the intel on dating men with kids in this interview.
We answer these burning questions:
Should you date guys with kids?
How do you know when it’s worth it and when it’s not?
Are there any benefits to dating men with children?
What do wo...
2024-02-0543 min
The Behind The Shades Show : Marriage, Mental Health, And Trauma RecoveryHow The Dating Game Works Between Men And Women: The Surprising Truth | Renee Suzanne Interview | Part 02 |Renee joins us to discuss how we can find love through online dating. She shares her dating experience with online apps like Tinder and to navigate them. We speak about the success she had as she is happily married after finding her match online. Renee shares how she is helping her clients find love and to date successfully and with purpose. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes. #selfimprovement #relationships #dating #behindtheshades
Visit https://www.behindtheshades.ca to book your one-on-one coaching session today
Watch more videos at youtube.com/@behindtheshades and subscribe for more
...
2024-02-0411 min
The Behind The Shades Show : Marriage, Mental Health, And Trauma RecoveryHow I Found Love: The Story Of Meeting My Future Husband | Renee Suzanne Interview | Part 01 |Renee joins us to discuss how we can find love through online dating. She shares her dating experience with online apps like Tinder and to navigate them. We speak about the success she had as she is happily married after finding her match online. Renee shares how she is helping her clients find love and to date successfully and with purpose. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes. #selfimprovement #relationships #dating #behindtheshades
Visit https://www.behindtheshades.ca to book your one-on-one coaching session today
Watch more videos at youtube.com/@behindtheshades and subscribe for more
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2024-02-0110 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne55. How important is it to have chemistry in early dating?Chemistry is so overrated.
It’s a necessary part of a romantic relationship, but letting it drive your entire dating life is like letting a 3 year old get behind the wheel of your car and take you to the store.
It’s a terrible idea and you’re not likely to get where you want to go.
I’d like to suggest that you prioritize other qualities and let the chemistry grow over time. There needs to be some, but it doesn’t need to be overpowering.
I think it’s a gift that...
2024-01-2914 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne54. Date men who are excited about youIf a man isn’t excited about you, nothing else matters.
Not how tall, rich, handsome or funny he is.
Not how much you have in common or his background.
Not how much you like him or how great you think your connection is.
If he’s not excited about you, you’ve got nothing.
You need to pack up your toys and go home.
He’s not going to come around no matter what you do.
Men know if they are excited about you or not p...
2024-01-2215 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne53. Are you great at weeding men out?I talk to so many women who tell me they’re doing fine with dating, thank you very much!
They’re champs at getting rid of losers, flakes, players and all the awful men out there.
And that’s a great skill to have.
But they’re still single and they have been at this for years.
If that’s the result you want, you can skip this episode, but if you want to actually find a wonderful man to share your life with, I want you to lean in.
Sitting...
2024-01-1510 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne52. Why the perfect relationship is not going to happen to youWhen I was single I spent so much time wishing, waiting and hoping to meet the right guy.
I thought that once I met him everything would be fantastic and I would finally have the love I wanted.
It took many years, false starts and heartbreaks for me to learn that this was never going to happen.
Not for the reasons I used to think, like I wasn’t young or beautiful enough, something was wrong with me, love wasn’t in the cards for me or all the good men were taken.
2024-01-0813 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne51. How coaching helped Julie find a great guyJulie started working with me straight after a 24 year marriage. She didn't have a clue about dating and wasn't even sure if she wanted to. She didn't trust the dating apps and had heard horror stories from her friends about online dating.
I helped her with the dating process once she decided she was ready and encouraged her, as I do with so many of my clients, to give things time to develop with new men. It's very common not to be excited about men early in the dating process and 1 date just isn't...
2024-01-0131 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne50. Do you think dating is too much work?Women often tell me that my method of dating sounds like a lot of work.
And it is!
I’m always just a little surprised that this is a problem.
We do other things that are a lot of work all the time because we want the results, such as:
Excelling in our careers
Taking care of our health and fitness
Raising children
Maintaining our homes and possessions
Running marathons, climbing mountains, etc
We understand th...
2023-12-2511 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne49. Would you like a male perspective on dating?Today, I’m interviewing The Hubbs!
We matched on Tinder 7 years ago and married 5 months later.
I’m asking him the questions my listeners submitted via email a few weeks back including:
Why were you looking for a woman?
Did you intend to find a wife? or just "see how it goes" ?
How did you recognize that I was the one you were looking for?
What was your dating experience like?
Did you hope to meet a woman in person?
What...
2023-12-1821 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne48. Would you like to start a tab?I used to over-give in relationships and then wonder why my needs were never met.
I felt so frustrated and confused by dating because I thought that I was doing everything right.
Being patient and understanding
Giving him space
Not expecting anything
Can you relate?
Then he’d move on and I’d be left feeling hurt, angry and jaded.
Slowly and with much help, I began to see why.
I was running a tab...
2023-12-1110 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne47. Why taking a break from dating doesn't helpAre you taking a break from dating right now?
I used to get discouraged with dating and take lots of breaks.
I just couldn’t handle the continual disappointment and revolving door of men in my life.
It was all so exhausting.
But after my break was over, I’d go back to dating and all the same things would happen again.
Nothing had changed but the date on the calendar
This happens because the passage of time alone does not solve anything.
Think about it, i...
2023-12-0408 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne46. Did he marry the woman he dated after you?A few years ago, I postponed breaking up with a guy I was dating.
I knew that I wanted to get married and suddenly he said he didn’t.
He thought he might change his mind in the future so I tried to be patient.
I had what felt like very good reasons at the time.
I was in my 40s, it was the best relationship I’d had in years, I didn’t want to start all over again, maybe I wouldn’t find anyone as good as him or it would...
2023-11-2709 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne45. Men are "as is" merchandiseIs there a guy you’re interested in who’s perfect for you and you just know you’d be great together?You may be crushing on him from afar or you may have even gone out with him a few times. Maybe he’s even your boyfriend.
BUT, there are some things you wish were different.
He won’t commit to you
He puts his job, kids, ex, pet lobster before you
He never has time for you
He smokes, parties, gambles, cheats, goes to strip club...
2023-11-2010 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne44. Doing this 1 thing will help you find a quality manI’ve been working on creating a digital course to help you date and I’ll be talking about it a lot more in the coming weeks, but for now I want to talk about something I’ve been learning from the women I’ve been talking to.
If you’re anything like them, or me when I was single, you’ve tried a lot of things to find a good man:
Dating sites and apps
Matchmaking
Visualizing
Meditation
Therapy
Prayer
Speed dating
Asking...
2023-11-1312 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne43. Do men only want sex?I used to get so discouraged when it seemed to me like all men wanted was sex, and it’s true that some men do.
Men have a very strong desire for sex that most women do not share to the same extent, so it’s difficult for us to understand at times.
They think about sex to the point of distraction and a recent study cited that 51% of men would like to have sex at least daily compared to 7% of women.
There are stro...
2023-11-0619 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne42. How to find out if he's seeing other womenHow soon should you be exclusive with a man and how on earth do you find out if he’s actually seeing other women?
We ladies tie ourselves in knots over this because we want to be feminine and date men who pursue us and at the same time, if you really like him you want to know where you stand.
I think the best way to get this to happen is for it to be the man’s idea. Men are like cats and tend to do whatever the heck they want. Plus, it’s just...
2023-10-3018 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne41. Are you part of his texting harem?Some guys go on dating sites and apps and message all the women and just see who will respond to them. Then they send messages on and on. Maybe you even exchange numbers hoping for a real connection, but all he does is text.
And text and text and text.
Maybe he checks in every few days, every day or even a few times a day.
Or maybe he does that maddening thing where just when you get used to hearing from him regularly he vanishes.
And he might resurface a...
2023-10-2313 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne40. Do you feel like you shouldn't want a man?I was having a conversation with a friend the other day, and was sharing the story of how I made a promise to myself, when I was single, that I would do whatever it took to find the love of my life.
She said “I thought you were going to say how you decided you loved yourself and it was OK if you never found love.” I found that to be really interesting because we hear that message so often.
There seems to be an undercurrent of messaging that if wo...
2023-10-1609 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne39. Do you hope you’ll find love without having to date?Do you hope you’ll find love without having to date? I used to and I totally get it.
Dating can be a lot of work, especially when you find it overwhelming and don’t enjoy it.
But if you really want to find someone to share your life with, dating is the best, fastest, easiest way to find him.
Dating is simply a skill that you can learn, just like any other skill. Learning this skill actually prepares you for the experience of havi...
2023-10-0920 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne38. Are you following this bad dating advice?Today I’m going to talk about the worst dating advice I hear all the time. I bet you’re hearing it too, even from well-meaning friends who just want to help you.
But I’m here to give it to you straight and this stuff just doesn’t work and I want you to stop believing this stuff immediately.
Stop looking/It’ll happen when you least expect it
Ugh. This is the best way to make finding a great guy to take even longer. The fact is, you’re over 40 a...
2023-10-0214 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne37. Dating after Divorce with Julie DanielsonToday, I'm talking with my good friend Julie Danielson about the specific challenges women face when dating after a divorce.
We chat about how to put yourself back out there and attract a quality man for a healthy relationship, even if you've never experienced that before.
Julie and I made alllll the mistakes, so you can learn from us and avoid the heartache and missteps we experienced and just get to the good part.
She also shares her story of meeting and marrying her...
2023-09-2528 min
All Things Authorpreneur065 - Crafting Comedy from the Serious with Renee LonnerMeet Renee Burns Lonner, a Los Angeles-based TV newsroom consultant and licensed therapist. Her writing was always serious until a year ago when she shifted to humor with 'If You Give A Man A Tesla: A Parody.' Join us as we explore her journey from seriousness to humor and discover the unique perspective she brings. Guest Renee Lonner Humor writer reneelonner.com Highlights In this episode you will learn: What inspired her to write the book ‘If You Give A Man a Te...
2023-09-2022 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne36. Easy tips to keep you safe on the dating sites and appsSo many women are afraid to try dating sites and apps because they hear all the horror stories.
Then they wait months or even years to “meet someone the old-fashioned way”.
But dating sites and apps are the best, fastest and yes, cheapest way to meet your love and some statistics suggest that you’ll have a better relationship if you use them.
They give you access to men you’d never meet in real life and they are the top way that singles are meeting these days.
If you want to find...
2023-09-1819 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne35. Is your heart too hard for love?Having a thick skin is helpful for a lot of things in life and dating is no exception.
Having a thick skin means that you don’t take things too personally. You understand that everyone is doing the best they can in life and is just trying to make it through the day and get the things they want. Most people do not go through life, planning ways to break your heart.
They just don’t.
When you have a thick skin, you learn how to take care of yourself in the dating world...
2023-09-1111 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne34. 10 tips to help you heal after a break upBreakups are awful. I used to be the queen of getting my heart broken and it never got easier.
Even my very last breakup which took place a few weeks before I met my husband was devastating.
I did learn a lot though, and I have some great pointers to help you get through this and come out of it stronger and more likely to get into a better relationship next time.
It won’t be easy, but it will be worth the effort.
Realize that it really is over. Let yo...
2023-09-0422 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne33. How to keep your heart safeSo many women are afraid to say that they want something serious, so they try to play it cool and act like they’re up for anything.
Or maybe you really are up for anything at this time in your life. You may just be looking to date around and see how things go.
Either way, how you word this in your dating profile and conversations with men is important, because men are pretty fixed in what they’re looking for when they’re out shopping for women.
Women think they’re not looking...
2023-08-2811 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne32. How to pace a relationship without shooting him downI see so many women miss connections with promising men all the time.
Here’s how it often goes down.
She meets a guy on a dating site/app and he very enthusiastically pursues her. He sends her messages, gets her number, texts, calls her and tries to schedule a date with her.
She feels overwhelmed with the attention and shuts him down.
She then goes on to complain that there’s no one good to date or falls for the unavailable guys who could take or leave her and rarely mess...
2023-08-2113 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne31. Men you should stop seeing immediatelyI have 20 years of dating experience and another 9 years of coaching experience behind me, and experience has taught me that there are men you should stop seeing immediately if you want to get into a long term relationship.
Here they are:
Anyone who doesn’t share your relationship goals
Anyone who issues you a disclaimer
Anyone who doesn’t follow up within a day or 2 after a date
Anyone who doesn’t want to be your boyfriend after 8 weeks
Men are most excited about you in the beginn...
2023-08-1415 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne30. How to go from sites/apps to datesI get so many questions about how to go from chatting on dating sites and apps to actually going on dates.
This can feel clunky and awkward, especially if you’re not used to online dating.
Some women make the mistake of waiting way too long to give men their phone number and end up missing out on connecting with anyone.
Because the truth is, men who are ready for a relationship aren’t going to message you for weeks on end.
You know who will? Scammers, catfishers and men who are l...
2023-08-0712 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne28. Are you afraid to ask questions on dates?
You can and should be asking questions when you’re dating.
You cannot afford to assume anything.
If you’re looking for a committed relationship, you need to find out if guys are on the same page on the very first date.
Here’s why:
You’ll never care less than you will then
Neither will he, so he’s much more likely to tell you the truth
As awkward as it may feel, it will never be easier to ask than it is...
2023-07-2412 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne27. Can you help who you're attracted to?Unpopular opinion:
You can help who you're attracted to.
And if you're attracted to men who don't treat you well or want to date you or call you back, it might be a good idea to start figuring out how to change that.
Because you absolutely can.
I help women do this all day long and I did it myself.
Like many other wonderful things in life, good men can be an acquired taste.
Here are some practical tips to get you started:
Ask...
2023-07-1711 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne26. I bought my wedding dress 15 years before my wedding This might sound crazy, but I bought my wedding dress 15 years before my actual wedding.
Back in the early 2000’s, I was a stressed out single mom and my daughter worked at a bridal shop.
It was on my way home from work and I would often stop by to say hi to her.
I’m a girly girl and the allure of all those beautiful gowns was irresistible.
I’d never worn one before then.
So it was absolutely intoxicating to prance around a bridal shop in gorgeous weddin...
2023-07-1012 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne25. Why I don't recommend starting a long distance relationshipI don’t love long distance relationships because dating after 40 is hard enough without creating extra difficulties.
In my opinion, “long distance” is anyone who is over 90 minutes away from you. Dating local men will save you so much trouble and drama.
Here are my top reasons why I don’t recommend dating long distance:
*It ties you up and keeps you unavailable to local men who may be better candidates
*They drag on and on and take longer to figure out
*Cheaters love distance
*So do online s...
2023-07-0312 min
Wholesome Healing CollectiveEp. 21- Guest Suzanne Anderson, founder & author of The Mysterial Woman & You Make Your Path by WalkingOn today’s show:We are so delighted that you are here! We are so honored to have Suzanne Anderson on today as our guest! Suzanne Anderson, MA, is the founder of The Mysterial Woman, a psychologist, author, coach, leadership consultant, and transformational teacher. Her pioneering work inguiding others to awaken their full Feminine and Masculine strengths combines insights and practices from ancient wisdom, depth psychology, and modern neuroscience.Grab a drink and dive in as Suzanne shares about trauma and loss; working with resistance and grief; and how healing creating a ritual out...
2023-06-3051 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne24. What kinds of pictures will get you noticed online?Your picture is so important. It's the first time a man sees you.
Yes, men read the profiles. At least the kinds of men you want to date will. But he needs to click on your picture in order to read it.
So, what makes a great profile picture? I'm glad you asked!
Here are some sugestions:
*You alone
*Smiling no-weird duck/pouty face
*Look straight at the camera
*No filters
*No hats/sunglasses
*Not...
2023-06-2614 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne23. Are you being too picky?Do you place impossible conditions on the kinds of men you’re willing to date?
For example, does he have to be a member of your (very fringe) religion?
Share every single one of your 117 very specific political views?
Be a super fan of some band that only 9 people in the world have ever heard of?
Share your passion for raising wild iguanas in Madagascar?
If so, you’re literally keeping yourself from finding a perfectly good man over ridiculousness.
There I said it, these kinds of thin...
2023-06-1907 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne22. Are you worried about online scammers?If you’re worried about online scammers you really don’t need to be.
Think about it logically.
Scammers don’t just reach through your screen the minute you post your dating profile and drain your bank account.
There are several things that need to happen before it comes to that.
They’ll need to contact you, start a conversation, hook you and ask you for money.
You will have choices about how you respond...
2023-06-1211 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne21. You can have your dream guy AND your dream body - Interview with Jo from Couture FitnessThis week I interviewed my fitness coach Jo of Couture Fitness. She shares how we can actually repair our metabolism, no matter how old we are or what we've done in the past, so that we can meet our health and fitness goals. I'm working with her personally and improving my body composition and feeling great. It's not a quick fix, but it is a game-changer.
So many women tell me they'd love to feel more confident, lose a few pounds and look better in (and out) of clothes. They're sometimes reluctant to date...
2023-06-0555 min
Radio SavannahVoorbij de verbijstering van Renée Römkens, Anja Meulenbelt en Tessel ten ZweegeVoorbij de verbijstering: over gender en geweld van Renée Römkens, Anja Meulenbelt en Tessel ten Zweege
Hoog bezoek bij Radio Savannah! Renée Römkens en Anja Meulenbelt schuiven aan om te vertellen over Voorbij de verbijstering, de bundel teksten over gender en geweld die zij redigeerden met Tessel ten Zweege. In het boek worden 24 bijdragen verzameld die de vele gedaantes van gendergerelateerd geweld inzichtelijk maken. Aan Renées keukentafel kletsen zij over het maakproces van het boek, de leermomenten van de redacteuren en hoe we samen, in de toekomst, voorbij de verbijstering over gendergerelateerd geweld...
2023-06-0159 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne20. Are you waiting on God to bring you a good man?I see this all the time;
Someone has a dating disappointment or is just plain scared and says she’s going to wait on God or the Universe to bring her a good man.
I get it.
I spent many years doing this myself.
I don’t recommend it.
God and the Universe love you and want to help you, they really do.
And they want you to help yourself.
Finding love is a lot like your very own personal development program and they don’t want...
2023-05-2910 min
Not Your Mama's Midlife Podcast#44: Find Love After 40: A Conversation with Renée SuzanneWhat does it really take to find the love of your life after 40? In this episode of Not Your Mama's Midlife Podcast, I interview Renée Suzanne, a life coach who helps women over 40 start dating better men immediately so they can meet and marry the man of their dreams. Many of my listeners are looking for a romantic relationship to enjoy in the second half of their lives. Renée tells us that finding love is just not actually all that complicated. Love isn't something that happens to you, it's something you create. ...
2023-05-2542 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne19. How I stopped being a dating disaster with Bobbi Blum PalmerMeet one of my fabulous mentors Bobbi Blum Palmer!
I met her at a workshop I attended when I was in my 40's and trying to figure out how to date.
She is a dating coach and became a first-time bride at age 47.
I'm forever grateful to her for her work and influence in my life.
She teaches her clients how to prioritze what's important in a mate when you're in your 40's and beyond so that you can actually find love instead of making the same mistakes over and over...
2023-05-2234 min
From Sparks to Light - Inspiring Stories for Challenging TimesWith Love for All - Renee Ho“Whatever you do, lead with love,” says Renee Ho, founder & executive director of Amor Para Todos (Love for All). When a loved one came out as trangender in 2019, Renee vowed to do whatever was needed to love, support, and protect them. There’s a fifty percent chance that a transgender person will seriously consider ending their life. Renee pledged to change that statistic and created a school-based early prevention program that celebrates gender diversity.As you listen to this episode, consider: How do we create communities where everyone is celebrated? What step can you take today to see yo...
2023-05-1856 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne18. Are you an alpha widow?Buckle up ladies, there’s a truth bomb coming here.
So many women, including myself a few years back, need to take this to heart, so I’m going to spill the beans.
If you haven’t found anyone you want to date for months or even years, I want you to perk up your ears.
You might be an alpha widow.
According to the googles, an “alpha widow'' is someone who compares the men who are available to her unfavorably with a man (or men) she once dated, or even just had...
2023-05-1509 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne17. Do you believe these lousy thoughts about dating?Do you believe any of these unhelpful things about dating?
"I'm too {heavy, skinny, old, young, broke, successful, smart, etc.} to find love"
These things are always a lie
However {fill in the blank} you are, a quick Google search will most likely reveal someone with your exact situation who has indeed found love.
So can you.
But you must stop telling yourself how hopeless it is, how awful dating is, how men don’t want women like you.
You absolutely have to stop.
Because no...
2023-05-0808 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne16. You don't have to be perfect to find loveYou’re a nice person, well-educated, responsible and in great shape.
You’re a catch.
Maybe you’re working on a few things though.
You want to lose 5 pounds, struggle with depression or have 7 cats.
And you think that once you deal with whatever the thing is, you’ll find love.
This is never true.
There are tons of women out there who are struggling with whatever you’re worried about who have a wonderful man who adores them.
Some women are a total mess and still...
2023-05-0107 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne15. Do you think your situation is different?I often talk to women about pining away for unavailable men and it brings me back to my own single years.
I used to be the poster child of pining away for men who weren’t interested in dating me.
I once refused to even try to date for YEARS because I was sure the guy I was crushing on at the time (who didn’t even live in my state anymore and was living with another woman) would come around
I wish that was the only time I did such a thing, but...
2023-04-2414 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne13. Do you want a man to chase you?Do you want a man to chase you?
I used to think I did.
It sounded way more fun than me chasing them.
Which I had a tendency to do back in the day, with terrible results.
So I thought that having a man chase me would be very refreshing.
It’s what all the dating books said should be happening.
But the only men who ever chased me were the men I didn’t want.
And I started to become someone I didn’t really...
2023-04-1008 min
Get Over Divorce102. Dipping Your Toe in the Dating Pool - With Renee SuzanneThis is a juicy deep dive into all things dating, with podcast host of "Find Love After 40" and dating coach Renee Suzanne.
Learn more about Renee here: https://reneesuzannecoaching.com/
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2023-03-3120 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne9. Does the man you're seeing have a lot going on?Ah the allure of the man who has a lot going on.
So much on his plate.
He’s successful at work, spends time at the gym, has friends, family, maybe he’s even a Dad.
And you understand what it’s like to be successful and busy, so you give him the benefit of the doubt.
After all, you don’t want to date someone who doesn’t have a life.
But there’s a difference between someone who has nothing going on and someone who doesn’t have time for...
2023-03-1508 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne8. How to invite a man to call you on the phone and why you shouldHere’s a quick tip that will revolutionize your dating life if you use it:
Ask men to call you on the phone before you agree to meet them.
Do this a couple message exchanges in, not after weeks of messages and texts.
Please, don’t let them text you on and on and on.
There’s so much that can go wrong with that and I’m not going to go into it here, but just try doing this and see how effective it is.
Just reply to a messag...
2023-03-1510 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne7. Your dreams matter!Your dreams matter. You have the right to want anything you want, just because you want it. You have the right to go for whatever your dreams are in life and I hope that you will.
Your dreams aren’t just for you. They are for everyone. Just because your dreams don’t fall into your lap doesn’t mean they’re not meant to be. You get to decide what’s meant to be.
Every movie you’ve ever seen is about the hero’s journey. This is because we love to watch someone go for a big d...
2023-03-1507 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne6. How much time should you spend on dating?If you want to find love, you need to make time for it.
How much time? Around 30 minutes a day to spend on dating sites/apps and talk to men plus a couple hours on the weekend for dates. This adds up to around 5 hours a week.
If you don’t have 5 hours a week to spend on dating, you DON’T have time for a relationship.
Every one of us in this world has 24 hours in each day and we must choose our own priorities or they will be chosen for us. If y...
2023-03-1509 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne5. Should you reconnect with an old flame?If I had a dime for every time a woman has told me she reconnected with a guy she knew when she was younger and things went south, I would be SO RICH!
Can this work out sometimes?
Of course!
But it most often doesn’t and here’s why:
When you let your feelings of attraction run the show instead of asking the right questions, you’re setting yourself up for disappointment.
Vetting the men you date and asking questions is ESSENTIAL, but women are often afraid to do thi...
2023-03-1507 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne4. Why you need to be using dating sites and appsYou might balk at dating online, but it’s the way to go now, and it’s easier than ever before. It’s estimated that over 300 million people worldwide are now dating online. It’s the best, easiest and fastest way to meet someone.
Your future significant other is on one
You simply cannot be everywhere
One in 5 new marriages starts with an online introduction
Statistics suggest that relationships that start online are happier
It is so much faster and easier than meeting in real life
There’s really no stigma anymore, everyone is online
And if you’re wor...
2023-03-1513 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne3. Most men will tell you the truth, are you listening?In early dating, most men really do try to be straight with women.
The problem is, we often don’t want to hear it!
In early conversations and/or on a first date, a man will often try to tell you things that he thinks you might have a problem with so that you won’t move forward if it’s a deal-breaker for you.
So lean in and listen hard when he says things like:
-I’m not looking for anything serious right now.
-I’m really busy with {fill...
2023-03-1511 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne2. 5 tips to help you cut the number of bad dates you go on by 90%Dating sounds like fun until you go on some bad ones. After a few disappointments, you may start to wonder if it’s worth it.
I promise that it is. Dating is the best and fastest way to get into a relationship, so it pays to learn how to do it effectively.
Here are 5 of my favorite tips:
1. Write a really good profile I cannot stress this enough. Your profile is all a man has to go on until he meets you. Most people have no idea how to do th...
2023-03-1508 minFind love after 40 with Renée SuzanneTrailer: Are you ready to find your forever love?If you're a single woman over 40 who wants to find a great guy, this podcast is for you!
I'll be sharing practical, actionable dating advice that actually works every single week.
I learned this stuff the hard way in my 20 years of trying to date which extended well into my 40's when I finally figured it out and met my husband on Tinder.
I'll tell you what works, what doesn't and why so you can find your man in much less time than it took me.
If you'd like to learn...
2023-03-1503 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne10. Watch out for these red flag words in his dating profileAfter over a decade of online dating and apps, and then becoming a dating coach, I’ve seen a lot!
And read a TON of dating profiles.
These are my top pics for things guys you don’t want to date say in their profiles:
Drama - even the word itself doesn’t belong in a bio.
I’m looking for an independent woman - may as well read “I’m cheap, broke or just plain stingy.” A giver will not write this in his profile.
My {kids/job/pet iguana} co...
2023-03-1516 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne11. 5 signs you've found a keeper5 signs you've found a keeper
You don’t need a crystal ball or a fortune teller to know where things are headed with the man you’re seeing. Look for these 5 signs to tell you whether you should start thinking about taking down your profile or keep swiping.
He shares your relationship goals
This is huge. There’s simply no point in dating any man who doesn’t. Find out what he’s looking for early and act accordingly.
He’s consistent in his contact and attention over time
Any man can...
2023-03-1510 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne1. 5 quick tips to help you get back into dating after 40According to Google, 50% of people over 40 are single! So if you’re feeling alone, there’s proof that you’re not. This also means that there are plenty of single men over 40 out there as well.
Decide what you want
Having a good dating experience starts with deciding what a good experience is for you.
Embrace dating sites and apps
This is the quickest way to meet new people.
Be sure to write a great profile and post good, recent pictures.
If you don’t know where to start, I...
2023-02-1011 min
Imagine Yourself PodcastFinding Love at Any Age (w/ Relationship Coach, Renee Suzanne)From fairy tales to romcoms we are enchanted by couples who despite enormous odds, find each other, fall madly in love and then live happily ever after. In real life, things can be uh…a little more complicated. Not to say that romantic dreams don’t come true, but navigating the process of meeting people, dating, getting into relationships and maybe marriage is a challenging business. Now, add in that you’re trying to do it after 40 and things can get even trickier. Whether you’re looking for advice for yourself or a single friend or family member, our guest Re...
2022-11-1239 min
Books On AirThe Golden Book of Life: & The Plasma Soul Codes by Simone Renee Quinton
The Golden Book of Life & The Plasma Soul Codes is an extraordinary self-help bible overflowing with life-changing spiritual information, healing guidance, cosmic wisdom, and unconditional love specifically designed to empower you to live your best life. It is significantly unique as it presents intelligent, energetic codes of plasma light that live inside your soul.Subscribe with your favorite podcast playerApple PodcastsAndroidRSS
These codes magnetically reconnect you to converse with your limitless soul in plenty of practical means and enliven you and others in every way possible! Further, the Author feeds information from the collective...
2022-11-1125 min
Divorced Women Creating Peace4-Divorced Women Creating Peace with Special Guest Renee Suzanne Interviewing Inspiring Women who created Peace and Joy after Divorce Renée Suzanne helps women over 40 start dating better men immediately so they can meet and marry the man of their dreams. She is the creator of the COURTED method, a process that helps women date in order to create the lasting connection they really want. Renée is the author of “Beloved: How to go from relationship-challenged to relationship-ready” and “Ten things you can do to upgrade your love life”. When she’s not helping women find true love, you can find her out ballroom dancing with her husband or walking he...
2022-10-0834 min
Sex & BaconHow to Make Online Dating Work with Renée SuzanneHow can you make online dating work? Honestly, it can feel so overwhelming. There's so many people on the apps, a lot of them are hookups only, and you invest so much time for ultimately nothing to happen. Is it just this day and age? Are all people on these apps really like this? How can we make online dating better to have more fulfilling relationships? Renée Suzanne helps women over 40 start dating better men immediately so they can meet and marry the m...
2022-10-0446 min
The Unlimited Creative: Owning Your You-NessDancehall: The New Jonkunnu with Suzanne BeadleDancehall verses Jonkunnu. Suzanne Beadle and I will compare these practices as we open discussions around cultural retention.
Here is a bit more about Suzanne: She has a Bachelor of Arts degree in Literatures in English and Cultural Studies (Hons) from the University of the West Indies (Mona), where she studied Theatre and Social Justice at Malmo University in Malmo, Sweden. She recently completed a Master of Arts degree in Creative Arts with distinction at the UWI (Cave Hill) in Barbados. Through her recent study, she has the opportunity open discourse in Jonkunnu within her acting practice. ...
2022-08-2145 minFind love after 40 with Renée Suzanne29. Why love is not enoughLove is NOT all that matters!
You can love a lot of people and that doesn’t mean they are good for you or that you should stay with them.
I see women stay with men who are terrible for them all the time because they love them.
Men who:
Don’t make them a priority
Only see them once a week or less
Are ambivalent about them
Refuse to commit to them
Insist on seeing other women or leave thei...
2022-07-3116 min
Woman To Woman Conversations PodcastConversation with Alicia Renee'Alicai Renee' is a bestselling author, blogger, speaker and certified confidence and empowerment coach. She's the founder of The Confident Lily, a personal development company that equips women all over the world to find their personal power. Listen as she shares about her new book, her own life experience and her advice to women everywhere. You can follow her on Instagram @theconfidentlily
Want to be a guest on our podcast? Visit our website www.womantowomannetwork.com for details.
2022-07-2824 min
Fit Strong Women Over 50Taking Responsibility for Your Life with Renée SuzanneIn episode 111, Taking Responsibility for Your Life, Jill and Chris talk with Coach Renée Suzanne about self love, persistence, and self confidence. Her coaching principles for improved dating reach into many areas of life. Renée Suzanne helps women over 40 start dating better men immediately so they can meet and marry the man of their dreams. She is the creator of the COURTED method, a process that helps women date in order to create the lasting connection they really want. More info and links at our Becoming Elli website.
2022-07-2653 min
Swears and Does HairEp 16: Becoming An Educator with Renee Marie PlanteToday's guest interview is with the amazing Renee of Renee Marie Academy! I'm so excited to share our conversation with you about how to grow as an educator. You can find more by Renee online at www.instagram.com/reneemarieacademy
Want more information on how to book better quality brides faster, easier, and with less effort? Sign up now for my free training at www.swearsanddoeshairpodcast.com/bookmorebrides to grab your access today.
Looking for more actionable tips to grow your bridal business on autopilot? Follow me at www.instagram.com/beautybizcollective today and start sav...
2022-01-2458 min
Common ThreadSmall Beings Carrying Hidden Stories: A Conversation with Renée MarceauRenée is a farmer and artist who intuits we are Nature. Her assemblages of natural objects symbolically carry her hidden story out into the open. Its theme belongs to a special category when a definitive direction and goal are unknown. If you are Nature, then your life is ever evolving into something new. Small beings are those whose invisible work weaves the common thread of mutual sustainability. Renée’s invisible work includes elevating the tenuous edge of vulnerability and impermanence we all face. Why? Love is a raw human potential—nested deep. SHOW NOTES: Visit Renée a...
2021-12-1844 min
Total Health in Midlife with Elizabeth ShermanSelf-Love With Renee SuzanneSelf-love is where dating and health intersect. If you want to be inspired by a woman's story of how things were not going in the right direction, but how she was able to create the life of her dreams, you are going to want to tune into this interview with Dating Coach, Renee Suzanne. Renee is such an inspiration in grit, determination, and realizing that she deserved more than what she had been allowing herself. Even if you aren't in the dating pool right now, it was even a surprise to me how much overlap...
2021-10-2648 min
Total Health in Midlife with Elizabeth ShermanSelf-Love With Renee SuzanneSelf-love is where dating and health intersect. If you want to be inspired by a woman's story of how things were not going in the right direction, but how she was able to create the life of her dreams, you are going to want to tune into this interview with Dating Coach, Renee Suzanne. Renee is such an inspiration in grit, determination, and realizing that she deserved more than what she had been allowing herself. Even if you aren't in the dating pool right now, it was even a surprise to me how much overlap...
2021-10-2648 min
YouMeWe Amplified - Conversations w Wave-Making Women: Transforming Lives with Social SolutionsRenee Dunn, CEO & Founder of Amazi FoodsAmazi Foods is a mindful food company selling healthy, made-in-Uganda snacks. Amazi is committed to going a step beyond ethical sourcing, and toward building more connected supply chains by keeping value-addition in-country.Interview highlights:What are the benefits of producing products in developing countries and exporting to the West?How many people does it take to create an international brand?How can engaging youth transform a community?How can you collaborate in a developing country to empower locals?And near the end of the interview, Renee shares the best piece of advice she ever received. It is...
2020-06-1945 min
Mastering Life, Relationships and Intimacy with Lucia GabrielaEp 121 | Dating | How to take your dating life into your own hands with Renée SuzanneIn today’s episode with Renée Suzanne we had a delicious conversation about dating, especially online dating, plus we shared some practical tools to use whenever we feel like giving up on our dating life because we feel something is “wrong” with us if we see zero or minimum positive results.Renée Suzanne is a coach for smart, successful women who want to find love. She helps women go from heartbroken to happily married. She believes that true love is possible for anyone who’s willing to create the conditions in their life for it to flou...
2018-10-2531 min