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Becoming The Wealthy You | How to Save Money, Budgeting, How to Get Out of Debt, Money Management, Build Wealth
114. Find Love Over 40 This Valentine's Day: Expert Tips to Craft the Perfect Dating Profile with Renée Suzanne
Renée Suzanne is a dating coach with a unique focus on helping smart successful women master dating as a skill. She provides them with the tools to make empowered choices and connect with men who align with their values and desires.Renée was single and dating for over 2 decades before meeting her husband on Tinder in 2017 when she was well into her 40’s. She is certified by The Life Coach School and brings a wealth of knowledge and personal insight to her practice.Renée is dedicated to transforming the dating landscape for women...
2025-02-14
51 min
Women in the Middle® Entrepreneurs: The Reality of Running a Business After 50 - Midlife Coach Podcast
EP #83: You Can Still Find Love in Midlife with Renée Suzanne
Today’s episode is with Renée Suzanne. Renée is a woman in the middle entrepreneur who wants all women to know that they can create the kind of life they love, they don't have to wait for it to just happen to them. And that at your age, being over 50, you’re still in the game.In this episode, you will learn:You can still find love in midlife.You get to decide what the purpose of your life is at all stages and change your mind as you and your life change.Your dreams...
2024-12-17
40 min
The Sober Mom Life
The Real Sober Moms with Renee
Alcohol was a normalized part of Renee’s early life. Going back and forth between her mom’s and dad’s homes, she was regularly around drinking in ways that never felt dangerous at the time. So, it seemed natural to start drinking in her teens. As an adult, alcohol continued its regular place in her life, but she slowly began to experience its dark side. Her husband’s drinking had gotten out of control. After two hospitalizations for acute pancreatitis, her husband’s doctor was clear: he had to quit drinking for his health. Whi...
2024-12-02
34 min
The Sober Mom Life
The Real Sober Moms with Renee
Alcohol was a normalized part of Renee’s early life. Going back and forth between her mom’s and dad’s homes, she was regularly around drinking in ways that never felt dangerous at the time. So, it seemed natural to start drinking in her teens. As an adult, alcohol continued its regular place in her life, but she slowly began to experience its dark side. Her husband’s drinking had gotten out of control. After two hospitalizations for acute pancreatitis, her husband’s doctor was clear: he had to quit drinking for his health. Whi...
2024-12-02
35 min
Love Your Life After Divorce with Angie Wilson: Helping Women Rebuild Their Lives, Co-parent and Heal
16. Dating After Divorce with Renee Suzanne
Send us a textAre you ready to dip your toe into the dating pool? Have you been dating for a while but not having much luck? This interview with dating coach, Renee Suzanne, is packed with helpful tips, valuable information and encouragement you can use along your dating journey. For more information about Renee's transformative work, check out her website at Ready to find a good man? (reneesuzannecoaching.com)To get her free guide, click here: 3 Steps to Find a Good Man in 30 Days (reneesuzannecoaching.com)Angiewilsoncoaching.com
2024-10-21
51 min
Courage & Clarity
103: From Spaghetti Throwing to Step by Step Progress with Dating Coach Renée Suzanne
In this episode, Steph chats with client Renée Suzanne about her journey in the Sold Out Group Programs mastermind. They get into Renée's experience as a dating coach for women over 40, recounting her dating history and how hiring a coach changed her life, leading her to find love and launch a successful coaching business.After a few hail Mary attempts at investing in the right support for her business, Renée came to Sold Out Group Programs ready to roll up her sleeves and dive head first into Steph's curriculum, resulting in a succ...
2024-10-01
23 min
Optimal Relationships Daily - Dating, Marriage and Parenting
[Part 2] What to Do After a Breakup to End Painful Relationship Patterns by Renee Suzanne with Tiny Buddha
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com.Episode 2258:Renee Suzanne's insightful article delves into recognizing and transforming harmful relationship patterns after a breakup. By reflecting on past relationships and understanding one's role in recurring issues, readers can pave the way for healthier future connections. Suzanne emphasizes the importance of self-discovery, proactive dating strategies, and personal growth to break free from destructive cycles.Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/breakup-end-painful-relationship-patterns/
2024-07-29
11 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
70. You deserve to go on real dates!
Has the guy you’re seeing suggested any of these things: Takeout at his place Netflix and chill Helping him shop or do chores Attending his events Or does he keep texting and texting but never ask you out? Or do you get the dreaded late-night text or call asking if he can come over or if you’ll come to his place? NOOOOOOOOO! If you’re seeing this behavior in the men you date, I’d like you to consider upgrading your presence...
2024-05-13
11 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
69. How many self help books have you read about dating?
I was putting together a great reading list for my Dating Mastery clients and it made me realize that I have read a LOT of books about dating! Honestly, I’d have a PhD in dating if they existed. There are so many great books on this list and I learned a lot from all of them. I used to spend hours and hours gorging on self-help back in the day, still do! And while I LOOOOOOVE self-help books, I was also reminded of how even though I learned a ton fr...
2024-05-06
10 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
68. Can a matchmaker help me find a quality man with Lisa Goodman of Selective Search
Today we’re talking to a matchmaker! If you’ve ever considered working with one, you will love this episode. I’m interviewing Lisa with Selective Search and she’s answering my most burning questions like: Who is a good candidate to work with a matchmaker? What are the benefits of hiring a matchmaker? What is the price range? What can clients expect? What should one look for in a matchmaker? If I decide to work with the matchmaker, how can I make the...
2024-04-29
20 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
67. Things men say when they don't want to date you
Has the man you’re seeing started making excuses, seeing you less often, or saying any of the following things: I need space I’m not over my ex I’m really busy right now I’m going through a lot I have a lot on my mind My kids/parents/job really need me I’m confused Don’t wait a guy like this out. All of these things and more may be true, but a man who want...
2024-04-22
10 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
66. Is he a ladies man?
Does he have lots of women friends, stay friends with all his exes and drive you crazy with insecurity and jealousy? Does he gaslight you about this or do you gaslight yourself? Do you feel awful, insecure or jealous a lot of the time and wish he would change his ways? Get rid of guys like this!! Men who want to hang out with all the women generally have ginormous egos and aren’t interested in monogamous relationships. Even if you find a man who is, he’s not your...
2024-04-15
10 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
65. How do I know if I need to work on my dating skills?
How do you really know if you’d benefit from working on your dating skills? The short answer is, if you’re in your 40’s and not getting the results you want with dating, it is very likely due to a skill gap unless you have been hiding under a rock for the last 10 years. Here are some things I’ve heard from women I’ve helped by teaching them basic dating skills: You really want a great guy in your life, but you don’t know where to start You don’t...
2024-04-08
11 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
64. Can "The Rules" help you find love? with Sherrie Schneider
I just had the best conversation with one of my favorite self-help authors, Sherrie Schnieder! She wrote “The Rules” back in the day which I read SO many times. I finally actually learned to not just read, but implement them, which was a huge part of my success in dating. You know I’m all about getting help and support in your dating journey to succeed with your goals. Sherrie and I talked about: 1) Can The Rules help single women over 40 in today's dating climate? 2) What would...
2024-04-01
37 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
63. Avoid the dreaded "What are we?" talk
Ooof! The dreaded “what are we?” talk. How many of those have you had? If you’re anything like me, way too many and none of them has ever gone the way you’d hoped. Because the truth I always knew in my heart was that if a man was crazy about me, I wouldn’t have to have such talks. So, how would you like to never have another “What are we?” talk for the rest of your life?? Are you in? Building effective dating skills will do this f...
2024-03-25
10 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
62. Are dating skills really that important?
In our culture, we grow up thinking that love should just happen to us and that something has gone terribly wrong if it doesn’t. I think this is absolute mind poison and has done more to ruin women’s love lives than almost anything else. There is so much you can do to help yourself find a great guy and build the lasting connection you really want. One of the most important of these things is to work on your dating skills. If you’re over 40 and you’ve...
2024-03-18
14 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
61. How to make finding a good guy easier
I remember being single for decades, enduring so many disappointments and wondering what on earth I was doing wrong. I read all the self-help books, got makeovers, took classes and workshops and worked with several coaches to figure out how to find a good guy. It was a long, arduous, and often excruciating process. I learned everything the hard way, but I did learn. Now I use all the things I learned to help make things easier for you and for my clients. Because it can be really hard...
2024-03-11
12 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
12. Why chasing men is a bad idea
So you finally had a first date with that guy you’ve been into for a while And it went really well... So you leave feeling all giddy and you can’t wait to see him again. And now you’re waiting for his call. And waiting Aaaaandd still waiting Should you text to tell him you had a good time or thank him? What about that meme you saw about the Bears? Should you send it to him? He said he loved the Bears. ...
2024-03-06
11 min
Swears and Does Hair
Ep 81: Building The Next Generation Of Educators With Renee Marie
You can find Renee on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/reneemarieacademy/ Follow me on Instagram and DM me your thoughts on today's episode or leave me a review wherever you're listening! www.instagram.com/beautybizcollective Get more actionable tips to grow your bridal business on autopilot and start saving my best tips for taking your bridal hair or makeup business to the Next Level. FREE MASTERCLASS --> Book more brides and get more financial and personal freedom with my signature systems. Love the podcast and want more? -> Che...
2024-03-04
30 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
60. Why you need a man plan
You know I’m all about setting yourself up for success in dating. I want you to have the life you really want instead of waiting for it to just happen to you. So today, I’m going to tell you why you need to make a man plan to help you find a great guy. You can still be your beautiful feminine self and let men make the first move. You don’t have to chase men or do anything ridiculously embarrassing. This is just a fantastic way to mak...
2024-03-04
12 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
59. How do I know where to start with dating?
You may not know where to start with dating. You may hope that you’ll just meet someone you like and he’ll like you and things will just fall into place. I spent years feeling the exact same way and honestly, it would have been nice. Besides, it’s what all the movies and books tell us is supposed to happen, so what’s wrong with that? Well, let’s start with the fact that you’ve wanted this for a while now and it’s not just happening to you. Do...
2024-03-01
13 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
14. How to reach your goal when it seems impossible with Corrine Crabtree
Today I'm interviewing the fabulous Corrine Crabtree. She knows a thing or two about reaching big goals and getting things done. She's the CEO and founder of the No BS Weightloss Program and No BS Business Women. She lost over 100 pounds, met and married a wonderful man and created 2 very successful businesses. We chat about how to reach your dreams and have your own back even when it's hard. She brings some good old-fashoined common s...
2024-03-01
40 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
58. It's not just you, it really is hard to find a good guy
It’s not your imagination. It really is hard to find a good guy in today’s dating climate. But there’s plenty you can do to help yourself find the good guys that are out there looking for you. Here are some reasons it’s so hard to find a relationship-ready man: There aren’t as many of them “on the market” at any given time. Once they get in relationships, they tend to stay in them. This leaves a much higher percenta...
2024-02-19
14 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
57. How do you know if you're ready to date?
How do you know for sure you’re ready to date? I think that being ready is very subjective. We do lots of things in life we don’t necessarily feel ready for, just because we want the results or the experience of doing them. We don’t wait until we’re ready to brush our teeth, go to the doctor to get a checkup, or enroll in grad school. You may not feel ready to date, but that doesn’t mean you aren’t. Or that you even need to be re...
2024-02-12
10 min
The Behind The Shades Show : Marriage, Mental Health, And Trauma Recovery
How To Find Love Through Online Dating | Renee Suzanne Interview | Full Interview |
Renee joins us to discuss how we can find love through online dating. She shares her dating experience with online apps like Tinder and to navigate them. We speak about the success she had as she is happily married after finding her match online. Renee shares how she is helping her clients find love and to date successfully and with purpose. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes. #selfimprovement #relationships #dating #behindtheshades Visit https://www.behindtheshades.ca to book your one-on-one coaching session today Watch more videos at youtube.com/@behindtheshades and subscribe for more ...
2024-02-07
33 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
56. Should you refuse to date men with kids with Kristin Lindell
Today, I'm interviewing my friend and colleague Kristin Lindell about dating men with kids. If you insist on only dating men without children after 40, you're seriously shrinking your dating pool, but is it worth the hassle to date guys with kids? Kristin shares all the intel on dating men with kids in this interview. We answer these burning questions: Should you date guys with kids? How do you know when it’s worth it and when it’s not? Are there any benefits to dating men with children? What do wo...
2024-02-05
43 min
The Behind The Shades Show : Marriage, Mental Health, And Trauma Recovery
How The Dating Game Works Between Men And Women: The Surprising Truth | Renee Suzanne Interview | Part 02 |
Renee joins us to discuss how we can find love through online dating. She shares her dating experience with online apps like Tinder and to navigate them. We speak about the success she had as she is happily married after finding her match online. Renee shares how she is helping her clients find love and to date successfully and with purpose. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes. #selfimprovement #relationships #dating #behindtheshades Visit https://www.behindtheshades.ca to book your one-on-one coaching session today Watch more videos at youtube.com/@behindtheshades and subscribe for more ...
2024-02-04
11 min
The Behind The Shades Show : Marriage, Mental Health, And Trauma Recovery
How I Found Love: The Story Of Meeting My Future Husband | Renee Suzanne Interview | Part 01 |
Renee joins us to discuss how we can find love through online dating. She shares her dating experience with online apps like Tinder and to navigate them. We speak about the success she had as she is happily married after finding her match online. Renee shares how she is helping her clients find love and to date successfully and with purpose. Remember to share and follow to keep up-to-date with all episodes. #selfimprovement #relationships #dating #behindtheshades Visit https://www.behindtheshades.ca to book your one-on-one coaching session today Watch more videos at youtube.com/@behindtheshades and subscribe for more ...
2024-02-01
10 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
55. How important is it to have chemistry in early dating?
Chemistry is so overrated. It’s a necessary part of a romantic relationship, but letting it drive your entire dating life is like letting a 3 year old get behind the wheel of your car and take you to the store. It’s a terrible idea and you’re not likely to get where you want to go. I’d like to suggest that you prioritize other qualities and let the chemistry grow over time. There needs to be some, but it doesn’t need to be overpowering. I think it’s a gift that...
2024-01-29
14 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
54. Date men who are excited about you
If a man isn’t excited about you, nothing else matters. Not how tall, rich, handsome or funny he is. Not how much you have in common or his background. Not how much you like him or how great you think your connection is. If he’s not excited about you, you’ve got nothing. You need to pack up your toys and go home. He’s not going to come around no matter what you do. Men know if they are excited about you or not p...
2024-01-22
15 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
53. Are you great at weeding men out?
I talk to so many women who tell me they’re doing fine with dating, thank you very much! They’re champs at getting rid of losers, flakes, players and all the awful men out there. And that’s a great skill to have. But they’re still single and they have been at this for years. If that’s the result you want, you can skip this episode, but if you want to actually find a wonderful man to share your life with, I want you to lean in. Sitting...
2024-01-15
10 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
52. Why the perfect relationship is not going to happen to you
When I was single I spent so much time wishing, waiting and hoping to meet the right guy. I thought that once I met him everything would be fantastic and I would finally have the love I wanted. It took many years, false starts and heartbreaks for me to learn that this was never going to happen. Not for the reasons I used to think, like I wasn’t young or beautiful enough, something was wrong with me, love wasn’t in the cards for me or all the good men were taken.
2024-01-08
13 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
51. How coaching helped Julie find a great guy
Julie started working with me straight after a 24 year marriage. She didn't have a clue about dating and wasn't even sure if she wanted to. She didn't trust the dating apps and had heard horror stories from her friends about online dating. I helped her with the dating process once she decided she was ready and encouraged her, as I do with so many of my clients, to give things time to develop with new men. It's very common not to be excited about men early in the dating process and 1 date just isn't...
2024-01-01
31 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
50. Do you think dating is too much work?
Women often tell me that my method of dating sounds like a lot of work. And it is! I’m always just a little surprised that this is a problem. We do other things that are a lot of work all the time because we want the results, such as: Excelling in our careers Taking care of our health and fitness Raising children Maintaining our homes and possessions Running marathons, climbing mountains, etc We understand th...
2023-12-25
11 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
49. Would you like a male perspective on dating?
Today, I’m interviewing The Hubbs! We matched on Tinder 7 years ago and married 5 months later. I’m asking him the questions my listeners submitted via email a few weeks back including: Why were you looking for a woman? Did you intend to find a wife? or just "see how it goes" ? How did you recognize that I was the one you were looking for? What was your dating experience like? Did you hope to meet a woman in person? What...
2023-12-18
21 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
48. Would you like to start a tab?
I used to over-give in relationships and then wonder why my needs were never met. I felt so frustrated and confused by dating because I thought that I was doing everything right. Being patient and understanding Giving him space Not expecting anything Can you relate? Then he’d move on and I’d be left feeling hurt, angry and jaded. Slowly and with much help, I began to see why. I was running a tab...
2023-12-11
10 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
47. Why taking a break from dating doesn't help
Are you taking a break from dating right now? I used to get discouraged with dating and take lots of breaks. I just couldn’t handle the continual disappointment and revolving door of men in my life. It was all so exhausting. But after my break was over, I’d go back to dating and all the same things would happen again. Nothing had changed but the date on the calendar This happens because the passage of time alone does not solve anything. Think about it, i...
2023-12-04
08 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
46. Did he marry the woman he dated after you?
A few years ago, I postponed breaking up with a guy I was dating. I knew that I wanted to get married and suddenly he said he didn’t. He thought he might change his mind in the future so I tried to be patient. I had what felt like very good reasons at the time. I was in my 40s, it was the best relationship I’d had in years, I didn’t want to start all over again, maybe I wouldn’t find anyone as good as him or it would...
2023-11-27
09 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
45. Men are "as is" merchandise
Is there a guy you’re interested in who’s perfect for you and you just know you’d be great together?You may be crushing on him from afar or you may have even gone out with him a few times. Maybe he’s even your boyfriend. BUT, there are some things you wish were different. He won’t commit to you He puts his job, kids, ex, pet lobster before you He never has time for you He smokes, parties, gambles, cheats, goes to strip club...
2023-11-20
10 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
44. Doing this 1 thing will help you find a quality man
I’ve been working on creating a digital course to help you date and I’ll be talking about it a lot more in the coming weeks, but for now I want to talk about something I’ve been learning from the women I’ve been talking to. If you’re anything like them, or me when I was single, you’ve tried a lot of things to find a good man: Dating sites and apps Matchmaking Visualizing Meditation Therapy Prayer Speed dating Asking...
2023-11-13
12 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
43. Do men only want sex?
I used to get so discouraged when it seemed to me like all men wanted was sex, and it’s true that some men do. Men have a very strong desire for sex that most women do not share to the same extent, so it’s difficult for us to understand at times. They think about sex to the point of distraction and a recent study cited that 51% of men would like to have sex at least daily compared to 7% of women. There are stro...
2023-11-06
19 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
42. How to find out if he's seeing other women
How soon should you be exclusive with a man and how on earth do you find out if he’s actually seeing other women? We ladies tie ourselves in knots over this because we want to be feminine and date men who pursue us and at the same time, if you really like him you want to know where you stand. I think the best way to get this to happen is for it to be the man’s idea. Men are like cats and tend to do whatever the heck they want. Plus, it’s just...
2023-10-30
18 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
41. Are you part of his texting harem?
Some guys go on dating sites and apps and message all the women and just see who will respond to them. Then they send messages on and on. Maybe you even exchange numbers hoping for a real connection, but all he does is text. And text and text and text. Maybe he checks in every few days, every day or even a few times a day. Or maybe he does that maddening thing where just when you get used to hearing from him regularly he vanishes. And he might resurface a...
2023-10-23
13 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
40. Do you feel like you shouldn't want a man?
I was having a conversation with a friend the other day, and was sharing the story of how I made a promise to myself, when I was single, that I would do whatever it took to find the love of my life. She said “I thought you were going to say how you decided you loved yourself and it was OK if you never found love.” I found that to be really interesting because we hear that message so often. There seems to be an undercurrent of messaging that if wo...
2023-10-16
09 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
39. Do you hope you’ll find love without having to date?
Do you hope you’ll find love without having to date? I used to and I totally get it. Dating can be a lot of work, especially when you find it overwhelming and don’t enjoy it. But if you really want to find someone to share your life with, dating is the best, fastest, easiest way to find him. Dating is simply a skill that you can learn, just like any other skill. Learning this skill actually prepares you for the experience of havi...
2023-10-09
20 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
38. Are you following this bad dating advice?
Today I’m going to talk about the worst dating advice I hear all the time. I bet you’re hearing it too, even from well-meaning friends who just want to help you. But I’m here to give it to you straight and this stuff just doesn’t work and I want you to stop believing this stuff immediately. Stop looking/It’ll happen when you least expect it Ugh. This is the best way to make finding a great guy to take even longer. The fact is, you’re over 40 a...
2023-10-02
14 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
37. Dating after Divorce with Julie Danielson
Today, I'm talking with my good friend Julie Danielson about the specific challenges women face when dating after a divorce. We chat about how to put yourself back out there and attract a quality man for a healthy relationship, even if you've never experienced that before. Julie and I made alllll the mistakes, so you can learn from us and avoid the heartache and missteps we experienced and just get to the good part. She also shares her story of meeting and marrying her...
2023-09-25
28 min
All Things Authorpreneur
065 - Crafting Comedy from the Serious with Renee Lonner
Meet Renee Burns Lonner, a Los Angeles-based TV newsroom consultant and licensed therapist. Her writing was always serious until a year ago when she shifted to humor with 'If You Give A Man A Tesla: A Parody.' Join us as we explore her journey from seriousness to humor and discover the unique perspective she brings. Guest Renee Lonner Humor writer reneelonner.com Highlights In this episode you will learn: What inspired her to write the book ‘If You Give A Man a Te...
2023-09-20
22 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
36. Easy tips to keep you safe on the dating sites and apps
So many women are afraid to try dating sites and apps because they hear all the horror stories. Then they wait months or even years to “meet someone the old-fashioned way”. But dating sites and apps are the best, fastest and yes, cheapest way to meet your love and some statistics suggest that you’ll have a better relationship if you use them. They give you access to men you’d never meet in real life and they are the top way that singles are meeting these days. If you want to find...
2023-09-18
19 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
35. Is your heart too hard for love?
Having a thick skin is helpful for a lot of things in life and dating is no exception. Having a thick skin means that you don’t take things too personally. You understand that everyone is doing the best they can in life and is just trying to make it through the day and get the things they want. Most people do not go through life, planning ways to break your heart. They just don’t. When you have a thick skin, you learn how to take care of yourself in the dating world...
2023-09-11
11 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
34. 10 tips to help you heal after a break up
Breakups are awful. I used to be the queen of getting my heart broken and it never got easier. Even my very last breakup which took place a few weeks before I met my husband was devastating. I did learn a lot though, and I have some great pointers to help you get through this and come out of it stronger and more likely to get into a better relationship next time. It won’t be easy, but it will be worth the effort. Realize that it really is over. Let yo...
2023-09-04
22 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
33. How to keep your heart safe
So many women are afraid to say that they want something serious, so they try to play it cool and act like they’re up for anything. Or maybe you really are up for anything at this time in your life. You may just be looking to date around and see how things go. Either way, how you word this in your dating profile and conversations with men is important, because men are pretty fixed in what they’re looking for when they’re out shopping for women. Women think they’re not looking...
2023-08-28
11 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
32. How to pace a relationship without shooting him down
I see so many women miss connections with promising men all the time. Here’s how it often goes down. She meets a guy on a dating site/app and he very enthusiastically pursues her. He sends her messages, gets her number, texts, calls her and tries to schedule a date with her. She feels overwhelmed with the attention and shuts him down. She then goes on to complain that there’s no one good to date or falls for the unavailable guys who could take or leave her and rarely mess...
2023-08-21
13 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
31. Men you should stop seeing immediately
I have 20 years of dating experience and another 9 years of coaching experience behind me, and experience has taught me that there are men you should stop seeing immediately if you want to get into a long term relationship. Here they are: Anyone who doesn’t share your relationship goals Anyone who issues you a disclaimer Anyone who doesn’t follow up within a day or 2 after a date Anyone who doesn’t want to be your boyfriend after 8 weeks Men are most excited about you in the beginn...
2023-08-14
15 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
30. How to go from sites/apps to dates
I get so many questions about how to go from chatting on dating sites and apps to actually going on dates. This can feel clunky and awkward, especially if you’re not used to online dating. Some women make the mistake of waiting way too long to give men their phone number and end up missing out on connecting with anyone. Because the truth is, men who are ready for a relationship aren’t going to message you for weeks on end. You know who will? Scammers, catfishers and men who are l...
2023-08-07
12 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
28. Are you afraid to ask questions on dates?
You can and should be asking questions when you’re dating. You cannot afford to assume anything. If you’re looking for a committed relationship, you need to find out if guys are on the same page on the very first date. Here’s why: You’ll never care less than you will then Neither will he, so he’s much more likely to tell you the truth As awkward as it may feel, it will never be easier to ask than it is...
2023-07-24
12 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
27. Can you help who you're attracted to?
Unpopular opinion: You can help who you're attracted to. And if you're attracted to men who don't treat you well or want to date you or call you back, it might be a good idea to start figuring out how to change that. Because you absolutely can. I help women do this all day long and I did it myself. Like many other wonderful things in life, good men can be an acquired taste. Here are some practical tips to get you started: Ask...
2023-07-17
11 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
26. I bought my wedding dress 15 years before my wedding
This might sound crazy, but I bought my wedding dress 15 years before my actual wedding. Back in the early 2000’s, I was a stressed out single mom and my daughter worked at a bridal shop. It was on my way home from work and I would often stop by to say hi to her. I’m a girly girl and the allure of all those beautiful gowns was irresistible. I’d never worn one before then. So it was absolutely intoxicating to prance around a bridal shop in gorgeous weddin...
2023-07-10
12 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
25. Why I don't recommend starting a long distance relationship
I don’t love long distance relationships because dating after 40 is hard enough without creating extra difficulties. In my opinion, “long distance” is anyone who is over 90 minutes away from you. Dating local men will save you so much trouble and drama. Here are my top reasons why I don’t recommend dating long distance: *It ties you up and keeps you unavailable to local men who may be better candidates *They drag on and on and take longer to figure out *Cheaters love distance *So do online s...
2023-07-03
12 min
Wholesome Healing Collective
Ep. 21- Guest Suzanne Anderson, founder & author of The Mysterial Woman & You Make Your Path by Walking
On today’s show:We are so delighted that you are here! We are so honored to have Suzanne Anderson on today as our guest! Suzanne Anderson, MA, is the founder of The Mysterial Woman, a psychologist, author, coach, leadership consultant, and transformational teacher. Her pioneering work inguiding others to awaken their full Feminine and Masculine strengths combines insights and practices from ancient wisdom, depth psychology, and modern neuroscience.Grab a drink and dive in as Suzanne shares about trauma and loss; working with resistance and grief; and how healing creating a ritual out...
2023-06-30
51 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
24. What kinds of pictures will get you noticed online?
Your picture is so important. It's the first time a man sees you. Yes, men read the profiles. At least the kinds of men you want to date will. But he needs to click on your picture in order to read it. So, what makes a great profile picture? I'm glad you asked! Here are some sugestions: *You alone *Smiling no-weird duck/pouty face *Look straight at the camera *No filters *No hats/sunglasses *Not...
2023-06-26
14 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
23. Are you being too picky?
Do you place impossible conditions on the kinds of men you’re willing to date? For example, does he have to be a member of your (very fringe) religion? Share every single one of your 117 very specific political views? Be a super fan of some band that only 9 people in the world have ever heard of? Share your passion for raising wild iguanas in Madagascar? If so, you’re literally keeping yourself from finding a perfectly good man over ridiculousness. There I said it, these kinds of thin...
2023-06-19
07 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
22. Are you worried about online scammers?
If you’re worried about online scammers you really don’t need to be. Think about it logically. Scammers don’t just reach through your screen the minute you post your dating profile and drain your bank account. There are several things that need to happen before it comes to that. They’ll need to contact you, start a conversation, hook you and ask you for money. You will have choices about how you respond...
2023-06-12
11 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
21. You can have your dream guy AND your dream body - Interview with Jo from Couture Fitness
This week I interviewed my fitness coach Jo of Couture Fitness. She shares how we can actually repair our metabolism, no matter how old we are or what we've done in the past, so that we can meet our health and fitness goals. I'm working with her personally and improving my body composition and feeling great. It's not a quick fix, but it is a game-changer. So many women tell me they'd love to feel more confident, lose a few pounds and look better in (and out) of clothes. They're sometimes reluctant to date...
2023-06-05
55 min
Radio Savannah
Voorbij de verbijstering van Renée Römkens, Anja Meulenbelt en Tessel ten Zweege
Voorbij de verbijstering: over gender en geweld van Renée Römkens, Anja Meulenbelt en Tessel ten Zweege Hoog bezoek bij Radio Savannah! Renée Römkens en Anja Meulenbelt schuiven aan om te vertellen over Voorbij de verbijstering, de bundel teksten over gender en geweld die zij redigeerden met Tessel ten Zweege. In het boek worden 24 bijdragen verzameld die de vele gedaantes van gendergerelateerd geweld inzichtelijk maken. Aan Renées keukentafel kletsen zij over het maakproces van het boek, de leermomenten van de redacteuren en hoe we samen, in de toekomst, voorbij de verbijstering over gendergerelateerd geweld...
2023-06-01
59 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
20. Are you waiting on God to bring you a good man?
I see this all the time; Someone has a dating disappointment or is just plain scared and says she’s going to wait on God or the Universe to bring her a good man. I get it. I spent many years doing this myself. I don’t recommend it. God and the Universe love you and want to help you, they really do. And they want you to help yourself. Finding love is a lot like your very own personal development program and they don’t want...
2023-05-29
10 min
Not Your Mama's Midlife Podcast
#44: Find Love After 40: A Conversation with Renée Suzanne
What does it really take to find the love of your life after 40? In this episode of Not Your Mama's Midlife Podcast, I interview Renée Suzanne, a life coach who helps women over 40 start dating better men immediately so they can meet and marry the man of their dreams. Many of my listeners are looking for a romantic relationship to enjoy in the second half of their lives. Renée tells us that finding love is just not actually all that complicated. Love isn't something that happens to you, it's something you create. ...
2023-05-25
42 min
Find love after 40 with Renée Suzanne
19. How I stopped being a dating disaster with Bobbi Blum Palmer
Meet one of my fabulous mentors Bobbi Blum Palmer! I met her at a workshop I attended when I was in my 40's and trying to figure out how to date. She is a dating coach and became a first-time bride at age 47. I'm forever grateful to her for her work and influence in my life. She teaches her clients how to prioritze what's important in a mate when you're in your 40's and beyond so that you can actually find love instead of making the same mistakes over and over...
2023-05-22
34 min