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End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefThe Difficult Reality of Being a Female Funeral Director: What does it take to deal with death, dying, grief and loss 24/7?Send a textWhat does it take for a woman to work and thrive as a funeral director? How difficult is it to work in what has long been a male-dominated profession? Are things changing in the funeral industry now that more women are joining the profession? In this episode, Rev Wakil and Rev Annalouiza speak with Lisa Baue, a third-generation funeral director and founder of Your Funeral Coach. They discuss Lisa's journey in the funeral industry, the impact of death on personal identity, the importance of women in leadership roles within the profession, and the s...
2026-01-2140 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefKicking the Bucket Podcast with Andee Kinzy: A unique, animated look at death, dying, grief and loss.Send a textIn this engaging conversation, Andee Kinzy, creator of the Kicking the Bucket podcast, discusses the importance of addressing caregiving and end-of-life topics through humor and storytelling. The podcast aims to empower families to have difficult conversations about death, using fiction as a tool to facilitate these discussions. Kinsey shares her personal experiences with death, the creative process behind the podcast, and the challenges of engaging audiences in serious topics. The conversation highlights the significance of community engagement through listening clubs and the role of humor in navigating the complexities of death. S...
2026-01-1444 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefFinding Real Life Compassionate End of Life Care for your Grief and Loss When Coping with Death and DyingSend a textIn this conversation, we engage with David Zartman and Joanna Franco from Caring House, a nonprofit hospice care facility. We discuss Caring House's mission, which focuses on providing compassionate end-of-life care to underserved communities. We explore the importance of hospice care at home and discuss valuable caregiver advice for those supporting individuals at the end of life. The conversation highlights the significance of dignified care at the end of life.We explore the critical need for hospice care at home and offer valuable caregiver advice for those supporting loved ones. The discussion emphasizes...
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End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefWhat Happens to Our Perceptions of Death, Dying, and Grief When Psychedelics Meet End of Life Care?Send a textIn this conversation, Reverend Bodhi Be discusses the evolution of his work in conscious dying and the establishment of the Ram Dass Institute of Psychedelic Studies. He emphasizes the importance of community care in the dying process, the role of death doulas, and the integration of psychedelics as a tool for end-of-life care. The discussion also touches on cultural appropriation in the use of sacred medicines and the need for a community-centered approach to dying. The upcoming event in Maui aims to bring together various practitioners to explore these themes further.This...
2025-11-1535 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefTop 3 Ways to Unite Death Doulas, Grief Coaches, and Healers for the DyingSend a textThis video explores the intersection of small business and mental health resources, focusing on supporting solopreneurs on their healing journey. We discuss the importance of overall wellness and therapy options, especially in dealing with grief and loss. It's crucial to prioritize mental health when building your business.In this conversation, Reverend Wakil David Matthews speaks with Jessica Sadler, a death doula and founder of Dawn of Aging. They explore the importance of community support in the grieving process, the role of caregivers, and the challenges faced in death care. Jessica shares her...
2025-11-1243 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefThe Surprising Push For Open Air Cremation In America: Another Way to Deal with Grief, Death, and DyingSend a textIn this conversation, Brett Nicoletti, an award-winning documentary filmmaker, shares his journey into the world of death and dying, exploring his personal experiences with loss and their impact on his storytelling. He discusses his documentary project, 'Passing Through,' which focuses on open-air cremation and cultural perspectives on death. The conversation delves into the importance of rituals and community, the challenges of filmmaking, and reflections on fear and the acceptance of death. Throughout, Brett emphasizes the sacredness of this work and the need for deeper connections in the face of mortality.
2025-11-0542 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefHalloween Special Episode - Worldwide Death Rituals and The Connection Between Death, Dying, Grief and LoveSend a textIn this conversation, Rev Wakil David Matthews and Annalouiza explore the cultural differences surrounding Halloween, its historical origins, and the evolution of death rituals across various cultures. They discuss how Halloween has transformed into a commercialized holiday in the U.S. and the impact of Christianity on traditional death celebrations. The hosts emphasize the importance of reconnecting with ancestors and the natural cycles of life and death, encouraging listeners to reclaim Halloween as an opportunity to honor loved ones and engage in meaningful conversations about death.The episode emphasizes the importance of...
2025-10-3019 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefCan Art and Conversation about Death, Dying and Grief REALLY Change Your Life?Send a textIn this conversation, we speak with Jennie Banks, the creative director of Death Dancer, about her journey with death awareness and the importance of community support in navigating grief. Jennie shares her personal experiences with death, her work creating art that fosters conversations about grief, and the events and workshops she has organized to help people process their emotions. The discussion highlights the challenges faced in death awareness, the transformative potential of grief work, and the vision for establishing permanent spaces for grief support in communities.We explore how authenticity in conversations...
2025-10-2935 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefHow Do You Cope With Death, Dying, Grief and Loss with Chrystal PennicSend a textIn this episode of End of Life Conversations, hosts Rev Annalouiza and Rev Wakil David Matthews engage with Chrystal Pennic, a grief therapist and podcast host. They explore the profound impact of sibling loss, the challenges faced by grief workers, and the importance of self-care and community support in navigating grief. Crystal shares her personal journey with grief, the significance of her podcast, The Grip Spot, and the necessity of accessible mental health services for those in mourning. The conversation highlights the importance of compassion, understanding, and finding joy in life despite the pain...
2025-10-2240 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefWhy Do We Only Get Three Days to Deal with Grief, Death, and DyingSend a textIn this episode, Dr. Bob Baugher shares his extensive experience in death education, discussing personal stories that shaped his understanding of grief and loss. He emphasizes the importance of openly discussing death, societal attitudes towards grief, and the need for better support systems for the bereaved. Dr. Baugher also highlights his ongoing projects, including books and articles aimed at helping those coping with loss, and reflects on the fears surrounding death and the significance of teaching younger generations about it. He has published an article about 'griefism' - the stigma around grief a...
2025-10-1536 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefWhen an Elder Reminds Us To Celebrate Death, Grief and Dying and Reimagine Funerals with Jess WakefieldSend a textIn this enlightening conversation, we meet with Jess Wakefield, a funeral director and end-of-life doula, to explore the evolving landscape of death care. Jess shares her personal journey with death, emphasizing the importance of celebrating lives rather than merely mourning them. The discussion highlights the shifting perspectives in the funeral industry, particularly the increasing role of women and the need for personalized, meaningful farewells. Jess advocates for open conversations about death and the necessity of community support during the grieving process, ultimately viewing death as a natural part of life that should be embraced...
2025-10-0838 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefSeason 4 Memories about Normalizing Death, Dying and Grief That Will Surprise You!Send a textIn this special episode, Rev. Wakil and Rev. Annalouiza offer a Season 4 recap, highlighting their favorite moments and guests. They reminisce about insightful conversations, wonderful guests, and inspiring moments. Hear about the best moments and the overall journey of the season.Support the showYou can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one on one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.
2025-10-0625 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefHow Just a Few Songs Can Lift Your Spirits and Help You Cope with Loss, Grief, Death and DyingSend a textTim Ringgold, a board-certified music therapist, shares his profound journey through grief and the healing power of music. He discusses his personal experiences with loss, including the deaths of loved ones, and how these experiences shaped his approach to music therapy. Tim emphasizes the importance of music in facilitating healing and connection during difficult times, particularly in grief retreats. He also addresses the challenges individuals face in seeking help for grief and the cultural stigmas surrounding it. The conversation highlights the transformative role of music in both personal and collective healing processes....
2025-10-0142 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefThe Secrets to Healing Grief and Loss One Day at a Time-Response to Death and DyingSend a textIn this conversation, Christine Jurisich shares her journey as a retreat facilitator and her experiences with grief and spirituality. She discusses the profound impact of death on her life, the importance of vulnerability and community in healing, and the role of rituals in processing grief. Christine emphasizes the non-linear nature of grief and the significance of listening and being present for others. She also highlights her ministry, Retreat Reflect Renew, which aims to foster deep spirituality and genuine community. The conversation concludes with a contemplative prayer that invites listeners to connect with their emotions...
2025-09-2447 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefWhy Funeral Care Is More Than You Think! Supporting Grief, Death and DyingSend a textOn this episode, we are joined by Jamie Dravecky. Her journey in funeral service began when she was 19 years old. She is a graduate of Worsham College of Mortuary Science and holds a bachelor’s degree in business management. She is the Senior Account Executive for Homesteaders. Homesteaders is an organization providing products and services to promote and support the funding of advanced funeral planning and end-of-life expenses, which began in 1906 in Des Moines, Iowa. Before joining Homesteaders, Jamie held almost every role in funeral service. When Jamie decided to step away fro...
2025-09-1740 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefThe Questions That Save Your Family From Conflict During Dying, Grief and DeathSend a textMonica Kumar, an end-of-life educator and author, shares her profound insights on death, grief, and the importance of legacy planning and asking/answering all of these essential questions as soon as you can. Drawing from her personal experiences of loss, she emphasizes the need for open conversations about death and the values that guide our decisions at the end of life. Monica discusses the challenges of caregiving planning, the limitations of traditional wills, and the significance of understanding quality of life. She advocates for a playful approach to discussing mortality, highlighting the importance of...
2025-09-1054 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefGrief Turned to Art | The Power of Poetry to Heal Death and DyingSend a textIn this conversation, Annalouiza, Sarah Sawyer, and Gus Reid explore the profound themes of grief, death, and the healing power of poetry. They discuss Andi's posthumously published poetry collection, which candidly addresses end-of-life issues and the complexities of grief. The dialogue explores personal experiences with death, the impact of Andy's work on readers, and the significance of open conversations about mortality. Through readings of Andi's poems, the group reflects on the nuances of grief, the role of humor, and the societal challenges of coping with loss. The conversation highlights the importance of emotional expression...
2025-09-0350 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefFeeding Love to Grief, Death, and Dying - Caring for Seniors with Food with Chef Dave DekkerSend a textIn this conversation, Chef Dave Dekker shares his profound experiences with death, caregiving, and the importance of compassion in senior living. He reflects on his personal encounters with loss, the impact of his mother's decline, and how these experiences shaped his approach to culinary caregiving. Dave emphasizes the need for dignity in elder care, the significance of nutrition, and the role of care staff in creating a supportive community. He concludes with reflections on finding purpose in service and the importance of caring for others.Support the show...
2025-08-2735 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefGrief, Loss, Death and Dying - Expert Advice - How to be Buried in a Forest!Send a textIn this episode, Mel Bennett, co-founder of Life Forest Cemetery, shares her journey in the death care industry, emphasizing the importance of compassionate care, innovative burial practices, and community support. She shares her expertise in creating Life Forest, a mapped forest cemetery. Mel highlights the significance of cemetery mapping and deeded burials, ensuring families have access to their loved ones' resting places. The conversation also touches on the emotional aspects of death care and the need for resources to support grieving families.Life Forest's website: https://www.thelifeforest.com/Video...
2025-08-2044 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefTraditional Irish Revenant Songs for Death, Dying, and Grief with Elizabeth HealySend a textIn this conversation, Elizabeth discusses her deep connection to Irish music, particularly revenant songs, which explore themes of death, grief, and resilience. She shares personal experiences with death and how they shaped her understanding of life and loss. The discussion highlights the importance of community in the grieving process and the therapeutic role of traditional songs in coping with grief. Elizabeth also reflects on her journey as a singer and the significance of music in her life, emphasizing the interconnectedness of life and death.Elizabeth joined us all the way from Westport...
2025-08-1336 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefHelping Families Navigate Death, Dying, Grief and the Aging Process with Dr. Corinne AumanSend a textIn this conversation, Corinne Auman discusses her journey in reshaping perceptions of aging through her work with Choice Care Navigators and her book, KEENAGERS. She shares personal experiences with death and caregiving, emphasizing the importance of planning ahead, the desire for independence among older adults, and the need for open conversations about end-of-life planning. Corinne highlights the challenges families face in navigating elder care and the role of professionals in providing support. The discussion also touches on the financial aspects of elder care and the significance of quality of life over mere longevity. Ultimately...
2025-08-0640 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefHelping Parents Heal from Death, Dying and Grief - Communicating with Loved Ones with Mark IrelandSend a textIn this episode, Mark Ireland shares his profound journey through grief and the exploration of life after death following the loss of his son, Brandon. He discusses the impact of his father's legacy as a psychic medium and the founding of Helping Parents Heal, an organization dedicated to supporting grieving parents. Mark delves into his experiences with mediumship, the evidence he has encountered, and the importance of community in healing. He also reflects on the intersection of science and spirituality, emphasizing the need for open-mindedness in understanding consciousness and existence beyond the physical realm.
2025-07-3045 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefA Fiduciary As End of Life Advocate and Resource for Death, Dying and Grief with Sara EckleinSend a textIn this episode, Rev Wakil David and Annalouiza engage with Sarah Ecklein, a fiduciary and end-of-life advocate, discussing the importance of legacy planning and the emotional aspects surrounding death. Sarah shares her personal experiences with death, the role of a fiduciary, and the challenges families face in estate planning. The discussion emphasizes the need for proactive planning, the significance of difficult conversations, and the emotional connections that underpin legacy work. Sarah also highlights the importance of creating meaningful connections and leaving behind a legacy rooted in love and intention.Website: trustandhonor.co
2025-07-2349 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefEmbrace Softness and Connection in Grief, Death and Dying with Dr. Mekel HarrisSend a textIn this conversation, Dr. Mekel Harris shares her profound insights on grief and loss, drawing on both her personal experiences and professional expertise. She discusses the impact of her mother's death on her life, the importance of journaling as a tool for processing grief, and the non-linear nature of the grieving process. The conversation highlights the importance of witnessing grief and the cultural barriers that often hinder open discussions about loss. Dr. Harris encourages embracing softness in grief and highlights the importance of connection and support during challenging times. In this conversation, the speakers...
2025-07-1635 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefThe Essence of Life and Death, Dying and Grief - Letting Go of the Egoic Self with Rabbi Rami ShapiroSend a textIn this conversation, Rabbi Rami Shapiro shares his insights on death, spirituality, and the interconnectedness of life. He reflects on his early awareness of death, the impact of losing loved ones, and the profound lessons learned from witnessing the dying process. Rabbi Rami emphasizes the importance of letting go of the egoic self and living by the golden rule, drawing from his experiences and teachings in both Judaism and other spiritual traditions. We explore the profound experiences of contemplative practices, the power of chanting, and the interconnectedness of all beings. We discuss the nature...
2025-07-0947 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefDying and Grief - Affordable and Environmentally Sustainable Death Care with Liz DunnebackeSend a textIn this conversation, Liz Dunnebacke shares her journey from the entertainment industry to founding Wake, a nonprofit focused on affordable and environmentally sustainable death care. She discusses her personal experiences with death, the challenges of navigating the death care system, and the emotional impact of choices surrounding death. Liz highlights the crisis of unclaimed bodies, the legal complexities of death care decisions, and the need for greater access and affordability in this essential service. We delve into the complexities of death care, exploring personal values, financial barriers, and the emotional toll of losing loved...
2025-07-0232 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefSelf Care for Grief, Dying and Death Caregivers with Christine GautreauxSend a textIn this conversation, Christine Gautreaux shares her journey of understanding death and caregiving, beginning with her early experiences of loss in her family. She discusses how these experiences shaped her career in social work and her role as a death doula. Christine emphasizes the importance of self-care for caregivers and the need for open conversations about death and dying. She also shares personal stories about her family and the impact of caregiving on health and well-being. She shares her experiences with art, death, and the importance of having open discussions about difficult topics. She...
2025-06-2544 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefUsing Taxidermy Puppets for Storytelling about Death, Dying and Grief with Kilah StormSend a textIn this engaging conversation, Kilah Storm, a writer and puppeteer, shares her unique perspective on life, death, and storytelling through her art. We discuss her early encounters with death, the impact it had on her desire for honest storytelling, and her journey into puppetry using taxidermy roadkill. Kilah emphasizes the importance of honoring life and death in her performances, aiming to change perceptions of taxidermy and encourage positive conversations about mortality. Through her work, she connects with audiences, especially children, fostering a deeper understanding of life and death. In this conversation, we explore the...
2025-06-1849 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefSeason Three Review - Available as VideoSend a textYou can see the video version of this episode hereIn this reflective conversation, hosts Wakil David Matthews and Annalouiza Armendariz discuss the highlights of their third season, featuring a diverse array of guests who share insights on death, dying, and the various cultural and personal approaches to end-of-life care. They explore the roles of death doulas, innovative practices in body disposition, and the importance of community support in navigating grief. The conversation emphasizes the interconnectedness of life and death, the need for cultural sensitivity in death care, and the evolving understanding...
2025-06-1735 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefDeath, Dying and Grief - Every Moment is a Death with Sam Lee ZemkeSend a textIn this compelling episode, we speak with Sam Lee Zemke. Sam is part of our podcast family and does terrific work as our editor. He is a jack of many trades and interests: radical anthropologist, neo-mythologist, cooperative living counselor, mediator, artist, musician, improviser, ancestral advocate, part-time house spirit, and service magician. He is my friend on the Sufi path, and I’ve known him since he was a little rascal! Sam has been walking a lifelong journey with the trickster and has an excellent affinity for the liminal parts of life. Transformation and boundary te...
2025-06-1158 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefDeath, Dying, and Grief - Insights Into Male Emotional Responses to Loss with Seth SamuelsSend a textIn this conversation, Seth Samuels shares his journey through understanding death, grief, and emotional expression. He reflects on his early experiences with loss, particularly within his family, and how these experiences shaped his identity and spiritual journey. The discussion explores the cultural significance of grief, the role of humor in processing emotions, and Seth's work in examining male emotions through his podcast, 'The Good World.' We discuss the importance of emotional expression, the fear of mortality, and the role of ministry in today's media landscape. We emphasize the need for connection and presence...
2025-06-0444 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefDeath, Dying and Grief - Texting With a Friend Who Has Died with Jay DeitcherSend a textIn this conversation, Jay Deitcher shares his personal experiences with death and grief, discussing how these experiences have shaped his life and work. He reflects on the loss of friends and family, the impact of death on his children, and how writing serves as a coping mechanism. Jay also introduces the unique practice of texting deceased loved ones as a way to process grief and maintain connections with them. We emphasize the importance of community support and the normalization of conversations around death. We explore the themes of grief, community, spirituality, and t...
2025-05-2830 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefDeath, Dying and Grief - The Art of Grieving with Dr. Sheila K. CollinsSend a textIn this conversation, Dr. Sheila K. Collins shares her profound experiences with grief, having lost both a son and a daughter. She discusses the importance of community support, the role of art in healing, and the misconceptions surrounding the grieving process. Through her personal stories and professional insights, she emphasizes the need for a deeper understanding of grief and the transformative power of love and connection during times of loss. We explore the significance of end-of-life discussions, the caregivers' role, and the transformative power of grief. We emphasize the importance of...
2025-05-2143 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefDeath, Dying and Grief - The Audire Program - Grief Training for Spiritual Directors with Timothy ArsenaultSend a textIn this conversation, Tim Arsenault shares his profound experiences with death and grief, exploring how these experiences shaped his journey into spiritual direction. He discusses the concept of spiritual bypassing, the impact of his early losses, and how he found purpose in helping others navigate their spiritual journeys. Tim also reflects on his current work in spiritual direction, the importance of deep listening, and the challenges he faces in his practice. Our conversation highlights the significance of being present with others in their grief and the transformative power of love an...
2025-05-1536 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefDeath, Dying and Grief - Two Envelopes - Give Your Beloveds the Gift of Knowing Your End of Life Wishes with Rusty RosmanSend a textIn this conversation, Rusty Rosman shares her experiences with caregiving and the importance of pre-planning for death through her book, 'Two Envelopes.' She discusses families' emotional challenges during end-of-life decisions and emphasizes the need for clear communication and documentation of final wishes. Rusty introduces the concept of two envelopes: one for immediate actions after death and another for post-funeral instructions, highlighting the significance of leaving a legacy and ensuring loved ones are prepared. We share insights on navigating grief, family dynamics, and the importance of preparation for end-of-life decisions. She discusses the challenges...
2025-05-0732 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefAddressing the Gaps in End of Life Care with Marci DonaldsonSend a textIn this conversation, Marci Donaldson shares her journey from a small town in Wyoming to becoming a passionate advocate for end-of-life care. She discusses her early experiences with death, the impact of her mother's strength, and how these experiences shaped her career in hospice and nursing. Marci highlights the gaps in care for those at the end of life and her efforts to innovate solutions, including the establishment of Hopeful House and her new service for families seeking medical aid in dying. We talk about the importance of community support and the need for...
2025-04-3043 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefAnnouncing Child Loss Virtual Support Group with Phoenix Destiny and Karen CarlissiSend a textIn this episode, Karen Carlissi discusses her work as a death doula and the collaborative event she is hosting with Phoenix Destiny, focusing on supporting individuals who have experienced child loss. We explore the concept of disenfranchised grief, the format of their workshops, and the importance of ongoing support for participants. Karen shares insights into the emotional landscape of child loss and the rituals that can help in the healing process, culminating in a poignant poem that encapsulates the essence of remembrance and love.Workshop Flyer and Registration LinkD...
2025-04-2621 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefIntroducing the Grievers' Library with Pamela BelyeaSend a textIn this conversation, Pamela Belyea shares her journey through grief after losing six family members in a short span. She discusses the founding of the Griever's Library, a nonprofit that provides grief resources to the community. We explore the importance of being present for those in grief, the role of community support, and the impact of literature on the healing process. Pamela emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding in dealing with loss and how her experiences have shaped her approach to helping others navigate their grief.She speaks to the importance...
2025-04-2338 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefTelepathic Connections: Communicating with the Deceased with Fran ParkerSend a textIn this episode, we welcomed Fran Parker. Fran is a writer who loves Earth and the diversity of life on planet Earth. Her awe of humanity's potential, her communication with God, and her journeys in dreams and meditations led her to write the book God's Gift to Gaia: Guidance for Awakening Humans. Messages from Jesus led to a book sequel, Jesus Joins the Dialogue. Fran has a Ph.D. in Intercultural Education. She is Wakil's mother’s cousin, and they’ve had many fascinating conversations over the years. In today’s podcast, she'll...
2025-04-1642 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefCalled to Accompany the Dying with Karen CarlisiSend a textIn this conversation, Karen Carlisi shares her profound journey from being an English language educator to becoming a death doula. She reflects on her early experiences with death, including the loss of loved ones, and how these moments shaped her understanding of life and death. Karen discusses her transition into the role of a death doula, its responsibilities, and the challenges she faces in educating others about this profession. She emphasizes the importance of community support and self-care in her work, highlighting her collaborative efforts with other doulas to bridge gaps in societal understanding...
2025-04-0934 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefHelping Navigate Grief in the Wild Heart Space with Mirabai StarrSend a textIn this conversation, Mirabai Starr shares her profound experiences with death and loss, detailing how these events have shaped her spiritual journey and her work. She discusses the impact of her brother's and first love's deaths on her life, leading her to explore the sacred dimensions of grief. Mirabai also introduces her current projects, including the Wild Heart Space community, which supports individuals navigating grief as a spiritual path. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing all forms of loss and the transformative power of grief in connecting with the divine. In...
2025-04-0239 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefNatural Body Disposition and Mindfulness at End of Life with Mike ReaganSend a textIn this conversation, Mike Reagan, CEO of The Natural Funeral, shares his profound journey in end-of-life care, from his teenage years working in a cemetery to his current role in revolutionizing the funeral industry. He discusses the importance of presence and compassion during the dying process, the innovative approach of terramation, and the challenges of raising awareness about eco-friendly death care options. Mike reflects on his personal experiences with death and dying, emphasizing a sense of peace and acceptance regarding the end of life. This conversation explores the profound experiences of end-of-life care, emphasizing...
2025-03-2641 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefUnique Death Education with the Death Doyenne, Gail RubinSend a textIn this conversation, Gail Rubin, a pioneering death educator, shares her journey into the field of death education, emphasizing the importance of planning for end-of-life issues. She discusses her creative approaches, including the use of humor and film clips, to engage people in conversations about death. Gail also reflects on her personal experiences with loss and the challenges she faces in her work, advocating for pre-need funeral planning and the need for open discussions about mortality. In this conversation, Gail Rubin shares her experiences with medical aid in dying, the role of death doulas...
2025-03-1933 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefThe Wind Phone: A Symbol of Connection with Russell YoungSend a textIn this conversation, Russell Young shares his profound experiences with death, grief, and the importance of community support. He reflects on the impact of losing loved ones, particularly his father and wife, and how these experiences shaped his understanding of life and death. We also highlight his installation of a 'wind phone' on his church's property, a symbolic gesture that allows individuals to communicate with lost loved ones. Russ emphasizes the significance of maintaining connections, whether through imagination or belief, and the role of community in navigating grief. He shares insights on resilience, the...
2025-03-1229 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefWhat is a Death DoulaSend a textIn this episode, we introduce the concept of death doulas, professionals trained to support individuals and families during the end-of-life process. Four experienced death doulas are featured in the conversation, sharing their backgrounds, specialties, and personal stories that inspired them to enter this field. They discuss the importance of providing emotional and practical support to families, their unique challenges, and their profound impact on the dying and their loved ones. The doulas emphasize the need for better organization and support during the dying process, highlighting the value of their role in facilitating a...
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End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefHand Woven Coffins and the Importance of Death Literacy with Dr. Tamara McIntyreSend a textIn this conversation, Dr. Tamara McIntyre shares her journey and insights into death literacy, the importance of curiosity in facing mortality, and her work with hand-woven willow coffins. She discusses the challenges of engaging people in conversations about death, the cultural shifts surrounding end-of-life practices, and the need for community support in navigating these experiences. Dr. McIntyre emphasizes the significance of understanding our mortality and making informed choices about death and dying. We explore the importance of advanced care planning, compassion in healthcare, and the dynamics of end-of-life conversations. We discuss the emotional impact...
2025-02-2646 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefCultural Ritual with the Founder of A Thoughtful Death Neshia AlaovaeSend a textIn this conversation, Neshia (Nee sha)  Alaovae (Alah vi) shares her profound experiences and insights on death, grief, and the importance of cultural rituals. Raised by her grandparents in Samoa, Neshia's early encounters with death shaped her understanding and approach to end-of-life care. She emphasizes the significance of rituals in navigating grief and the need for community support.  Neshia discusses her journey into death work, highlighting her current role as an end-of-life consultant, where she helps individuals, particularly young adults, confront and plan for their mortality. In this conversation, we explore the themes of mi...
2025-02-1938 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefHelping Children and Adults Find Meaning in Death with Rich NisbetSend a textIn this conversation, Rich Nisbet shares his profound experiences with death, grief, and spirituality. He discusses his journey from personal loss to becoming a grief counselor, emphasizing the importance of finding meaning in death. Rich also introduces his children's book, The Life Cycle, which aims to help children understand death and the continuity of life. The discussion also touches on the significance of open conversations about death, the stigma surrounding spiritual experiences, and the therapeutic benefits of journaling in processing grief. Rich advocates for a holistic approach to grief that acknowledges both p...
2025-02-1543 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefLast Words & First Words and How They Relate with Michael ErardSend a textIn this conversation, Michael Erard discusses his work on language, mainly focusing on the first words of babies and the last words of the dying. He shares personal experiences with death, including a profound encounter that shaped his understanding of grief and mourning. The discussion explores the importance of communication at the end of life, the cultural models surrounding death, and the collective experience of dying, emphasizing the significance of verbal and non-verbal communication. In this conversation, we delve into the profound themes surrounding language and communication at the end of life. We explore...
2025-02-1239 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefCompassionate End-of-Life Care for the 2SLGBTQIA+ Community with Tianna DargentSend a textIn this conversation, Tiana Dargent, founder of Queer Community Death Care, shares her personal journey with death and grief, highlighting the importance of inclusive and compassionate end-of-life care for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. She discusses her experiences with death from a young age, the evolution of her understanding of grief, and the creation of safe spaces for discussions about death through Queer Death Salons. Tiana emphasizes the challenges marginalized communities face in death care and the significance of community support in navigating these experiences. In this conversation, the speakers explore the importance of creating safe...
2025-02-0633 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief🔒 How to Become a Death Doula - Premium EpisodeSubscriber-only episodeSend us a textAn edited video version of this episode is available here: https://youtu.be/9bLisrm7q4wIn this podcast episode, the hosts engage with experienced death doulas to explore the journey of becoming a death doula, the personal inspirations behind their work, and the training involved. The conversation highlights the importance of community support, the calling to serve the dying, and the unique philosophy guiding their practice, including recognizing their work as a form of ministry. This conversation delves into the multifaceted role of end-of-life doulas, exploring...
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End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefCulturally Sensitive Training with Joe'l the Grave WomanSend a textIn this conversation, Joe'l Simone Maldonado, a licensed funeral director and grief educator, shares her profound experiences with death from a young age, the challenges she faces in her profession, and the importance of self-care and boundaries in her work. She emphasizes the need for cultural competency in death care and reflects on the spiritual aspects of her role, while also discussing the fears and uncertainties surrounding death. In this conversation, we explore the complex emotions surrounding death and grief, discussing personal fears, cultural practices, and the importance of inclusivity in end-of-life care. We...
2025-01-2936 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefServing 10,000 Veterans at their End of Life with Deborah GrassmanSend a textIn this conversation, Deborah Grassman shares the profound insights she gained from her extensive experience as a hospice nurse for veterans. She discusses the concept of 'soul injury,' a wound that disconnects individuals from their true selves and emphasizes the importance of healing through self-discovery, grief, and forgiveness. Grassman reflects on how facing death can lead to a deeper understanding of life and the urgency to connect with one's authentic self. She also addresses the challenges of promoting healing practices in a busy, distracted society and shares her personal reflections on life and...
2025-01-2232 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefServing Individuals and Families Navigating the End-of-Life with LiElla KellySend a textLiElla Kelly is a nationally recognized NEDA (National End-of-Life Doula Alliance) Proficient End-of-Life Doula and After-Death Care Educator. She founded Leaving Well, a groundbreaking business that serves individuals and families seeking to navigate end-of-life transitions with grace, dignity, and peace. Her clients understand the importance of planning and wish to approach death with openness and preparedness—those who believe that we can “do death” better.LiElla brings a unique blend of compassionate care and practical expertise to her work. Her role is to ensure that the dying know their options, that their voice is hea...
2025-01-1537 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefSpeaking with Death Doulas - with Phoenix Destiny and Myra DanielSend a textIn this episode, we spoke with two new friends we met at a recent death care conference in Seattle. They are both Death Doulas and some of their cohort will share their inspiration and work in a special premium video episode called “How to become a Death Doula?” We hope you’ll subscribe to enjoy that and other premium content.Phoenix and Myra share their personal experiences with death and how it has shaped their lives and careers. They discuss the importance of community, the challenges they face in their work, and the profou...
2025-01-0838 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefTraining Caregivers At The Humane Prison Hospice Project with Laura MusselmanSend a textLaura Musselman is the Director of Communications (and program facilitator) for the Humane Prison Hospice Project. She is also a trauma-support specialist and advocate for compassionate, dignified end-of-life care. A mother of one child and three dogs, she enjoys exploring how privilege affects access to a “good death” and learning from others’ stories.In this conversation, Laura Musselman shares her journey from teaching philosophy to becoming an end-of-life care specialist. After losing her parents, she became a doula and now works with the Humane Prison Hospice Project at the Central Califor...
2025-01-0143 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefCelebrating the End of Season TwoSend a textNOTE: You can see the video version of this episode on YouTube - https://youtu.be/L-mUMV5shaAAlso, please note that subscribing to the YouTube channel (though we appreciate it!) is not the same as subscribing to our podcast to have access to our premium content. Please consider clicking on the "Support the Show" link at the bottom of these (and all) podcast notes or on our website to become a supporter of our work. Thanks!!
2024-12-2507 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefPlant Medicine for Grief and Healing with Teresa YungSend a textIn this conversation, Teresa Yung shares her profound journey through grief and healing, exploring the impact of death on her life and work. As an activist and therapist in training, she discusses her experiences with plant medicine, the awakening process, and her role as a life doula. Teresa emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and the challenges faced in the healing journey, ultimately leading to a deeper understanding of life, death, and the infinite nature of the soul. In this conversation, Teresa Yung shares her insights on finding support during overwhelming times, the importance of...
2024-12-1843 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefBe Vessels of Love in the World and Imagine Peace - with Author and Playwright Anastacia DadashpourSend a textIn this conversation, Anastasia Dadashpour shares her profound experiences with death and loss, exploring how these events have shaped her understanding of life, love, and spirituality. She discusses the impact of her grandmother's fear of death, the loss of her daughter, and her father's suicide, emphasizing the connections that remain after death. Anastasia also highlights her work in creating a play about children imagining peace after an apocalypse, reflecting on the importance of love and community in healing and transformation. The conversation delves into the significance of acknowledging grief and the role of death...
2024-12-1141 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefAI Replicants, Sentience, Death Awareness - with Playwright Duane KellySend a textDuane Kelly is an award-winning author of eleven full-length plays. His plays often delve into end-of-life themes. The two most recent productions were a premiere of Abacus in Seattle in September 2024 and the play Patrimony in Tulsa, Oklahoma, in October 2024. Abacus tells the story of a synthetic human replicant who experiences unexpected concerns as she cares for a man who suffers the indignities of old age and cognitive decline.His plays, which often delve into end-of-life themes, were produced at the Edinburgh Fringe in 2022 and 2023. Duane is also writing a history book...
2024-12-0438 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefThe Importance of Planning for the End of Life as a Gift to Your Loved Ones with Dr Kimberly HarmsSend a textIn this conversation, Dr. Kimberly Harms shares her profound experiences with grief and loss, detailing the impact of her mother's and son's deaths on her life. She discusses the importance of processing grief, the role of legacy planning, and how to support others through their grief journeys. Dr. Harms emphasizes the significance of reconciliation, forgiveness, and the need for community support in navigating the challenges of loss. She also highlights the importance of leaving a legacy of love and preparing for death to ease the burden on loved ones.Dr. Harms has...
2024-11-2744 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefFuneral & End of Life Planning with Jamie SarcheSend a textIn this conversation, Jamie Sarche discusses her mission to help people confront their mortality and plan for their funerals, which she believes leads to more meaningful lives. She shares personal experiences with death, the importance of open conversations about grief, and the various options available for funeral planning. Jamie emphasizes the need for rituals and the emotional landscape of grief, advocating for a society that embraces these discussions rather than shying away from them.Jamie's calling is to help people be less afraid of death. By arranging for them to provide their...
2024-11-2043 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefSpeaking With a Pharmacist About Medical Aid in Dying with Rodney DiffendafferSend a textRodney Diffendaffer, a clinical compounding pharmacist and certified functional medicine practitioner, discusses his work in the field of medical aid in dying (MAID). He shares his personal experiences with death growing up on a farm and how it shaped his perspective. Rodney talks about his role at Flatirons Family Pharmacy, where he helps people with their end-of-life journey and develops formulations to make the process more comfortable. He also highlights the challenges he faced in spreading awareness about MAID in Colorado, particularly in getting doctors to engage in conversations about the topic. He shares...
2024-11-1337 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefWhat Comes Next - A Near Death Experience with Libby CarrSend a textLibby Carr. Libby has been an environmental and political activist for much of her life.  It was when she had her first big job (working for the Sierra Club) when she had her near death experience while on a white-water raft trip on the Snake River.  This happened in 1972, several years before much had been written about this phenomenon.  Libby shares her near-death experience in 1972 and how it impacted her life. She describes being trapped under a raft during a whitewater rafting trip and having a conversation with an energy beyond anything she...
2024-11-0644 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief🔒 The What, Why and How of Advanced Care DirectivesSubscriber-only episodeSend us a textThis premium episode is available as a video at: https://youtu.be/axTn31uxgGAIn this conversation, Wakil and Annalouiza delve into the significance of advanced care directives, exploring their definition, importance, and the various components involved. They discuss who should have an advanced care directive, the role of healthcare agents, and the emotional and legal implications of these documents. The conversation emphasizes the necessity of having clear directives to avoid family conflicts and ensure that personal wishes are honored at the end of life. They also...
2024-11-0330 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefSimplify Estate Planning and Organization - Buried In Work Website for End of Life Resources with Adam ZuckermanSend a textAdam Zuckerman is the Founder of Buried in Work, a leading eCommerce platform specializing in estate planning/organization, end-of-life tasks, and estate transitions. With a deeply personal motivation stemming from his experience managing his father's estate, Adam is dedicated to simplifying these complex processes for individuals and families nationwide. As an Eisenhower Fellow, an attorney, and MBA, Adam brings a wealth of expertise to his role, combining legal knowledge with entrepreneurial vision to drive innovation in the field of estate planning. Adam's mission is to empower individuals of...
2024-10-3034 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefAlternative Body Disposition - Terramation and Water Cremation - with Seth ViddalSend a textIn this episode Seth Viddal shares his journey of becoming aware of death and how it has impacted his life. He discusses his experiences with traditional funerals and the limitations he felt in the funeral industry. This led him to start The Natural Funeral, an organization that offers ecological funeral options. Seth explains the processes of natural organic reduction and water cremation, highlighting their environmental benefits. He also emphasizes the importance of creating meaningful rituals and the challenges of making these options more widely available.Seth has been an entrepreneur for most...
2024-10-2337 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefMindfulness and Art as tools for healing & support during the dying process with Tajali TolanSend a textIn this episode we're pleased to welcome Tajali Theresa Tolan, MS Tajali is a Certified Mindfulness Educator, Peace Educator, Marriage and Family Therapist, Family Life Educator, and Registered Yoga Teacher.  She is the founder of both the Children’s Global Peace Project and The Consciousness Project–an Empowerment Life Coaching Counseling Business.  She holds an MS in Educational Psychology and BS in Family Life Education.  Tajali is passionate about teaching social-emotional, awareness and  mindfulness skills.  She specializes in creative expression, communication, healthy parent-child relationships and peace work. Over the course of 3o yea...
2024-10-1636 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefCaring for the Homeless and Trans Communities with rev. Dr. Meghan RohrerSend a textIn this episode we speak with Megan Rohrer, PhD and DMin, a social justice influencer known for their advocacy with the homeless and LGBTQ communities.  Megan received a PhD in Transformative Studies from the California Institute of Integral Studies for their dissertation Trans Theology Without Apology. Megan received a Doctorate of Ministry from the Pacific School of Religion, studying the radical organizing in the 60's and 70's at Glide Memorial Church, where he currently serve as the Senior Church Communications Specialist.   Megan is an award-winning filmmaker, musician and historian.  He was a fina...
2024-10-0942 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefDementia Care with the Creator and Host of the Daughterhood Podcast, Rosanne CorcoranSend a textIn this episode, we meet Rosanne Corcoran, who shares her experience as a caregiver for her mother with vascular dementia. She discusses the challenges of caregiving, the impact of death awareness, and the importance of supporting caregivers. The conversation also delves into the complexities of dementia care and the need to meet caregivers where they are. We talk about the challenges of caregiving, the broken system, the importance of support, and the spiritual aspect of end-of-life care. We emphasize the need for open conversations about death and grief, and the significance of nature in...
2024-10-0241 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefThe Value of Listening, Patience, and Compassion in End-of-Life Care with Lynn RovigSend a textIn this episode, we enjoyed a conversation with Lynn Rovig. Lynn contacted us to say she had a story to tell about her work as a Home Care Consultant with a Seattle area organization called “Home Instead.” Lynn has been working with seniors for twenty-four years. She has worked with many people in hospice care and on a personal note, Lynn’s parents died in the last few years. Lynn notes that dealing with her own parents' death has helped her with her hospice clients in a compassionate and very rewarding way. She offers a harm...
2024-09-2532 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief🔒 Being With GriefSubscriber-only episodeSend us a textYou can see the video version of this premium episode on YouTube here - https://youtu.be/8mWuhQCQyB8 In this conversation, Wakil and Annalouiza discuss how to support someone who is grieving. They emphasize the importance of compassionate listening and being present for the person without trying to fix anything. They also highlight the need to be aware of the person's individual needs and preferences, rather than making assumptions. They discuss the unhelpful things to say or do, such as offering unsolicited advice or making insensitive comments. T...
2024-09-2529 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefPoetry As a Powerful Tool for Addressing End-of-Life Topics with Poet Steve DahlSend a textIn this episode we are honored to speak with poet, Steve Dahl. Steve’s career has always been in the world of marketing and creativity. He’s helped many clients over the years promote and grow their business with his creative writing, photography, and social media skills. Steve holds a Master’s degree in Organization Development and a Master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology.His marketing experience took an interesting twist in 2013 when he became Director of Marketing for the Cal State University Institute for Palliative Care. There, he began to dive into the...
2024-09-1837 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefCreative Aging, Death Awareness, and Resilience with Rebecca CrichtonSend a textIn this episode we meet Rebecca Crichton, the executive director of Northwest Center for Creative Aging. We discuss her work in the field of creative aging and grief counseling. She shares personal experiences with death and highlights the importance of having conversations about death and end-of-life choices. Rebecca emphasizes the value of resilience and positive psychology in the grieving process. She also talks about the significance of legacy letters and the need for open discussions about death and dying. Rebecca encourages listeners to embrace the gift of each day and find purpose in their...
2024-09-1130 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefEco Friendly Caskets and Urns with Diana O'Riordan Verschoor and Luc NadeauSend a textToday we're very happy to be able to share a conversation with two friends, Diana & Luc Diana O'Riordan Verschoor, who also goes by Dee, is an eco folk artist living in the Colorado on Cheyenne, Ute, and Arapaho ancestral land. Dee's small business, Thimble and Stone, supports collective liberation through functional folk arts, placing an emphasis on ritual and wellness. One of Dee's artistic focuses is on painting simple, nature-inspired designs onto eco-cremation urns using natural pigments.Luc Nadeau is an entrepreneur, artist, and freelance ecologist living in Longmont, Colorado...
2024-09-0437 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefA Cultural Perspective on the End of Life from a Black Woman with Dr. Amelia PhillipsSend a textToday we have an opportunity to share a conversation with Dr. Amelia Phillips, a black woman working in a variety of fields dominated by white men including Engineering Information technology and real estate. Dr. Phillips  is a graduate of the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) with a BS degree in Astronautical Engineering and a BS in Archaeology along with an MBA in Technology Management from the University of Phoenix. She completed her PhD at the University of Alaska Fairbanks in Computer Security.She has also managed rock bands, worked on an assembly li...
2024-08-2841 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefMedical Aid in Dying & Personal Agency at the End of Life with Dr. Twana SparksSend a textTwana Sparks MD is a semi-retired ear, nose and throat surgeon and writer.  She is a native New Mexican and 1986 graduate of the University of New Mexico Medical School.  Dr. Twana Sparks excels at oral histories mixed with scientific information. Her books on Medical Aid in Dying (2024) and Tuberculosis treatment (2013) blend the personal with the process. She was raised in a large family in New Mexico and by age 12 she had a  bucket list that included but was not limited to:  become  a doctor, write a book, walk across America, go around the w...
2024-08-2143 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefDeath Designer Isabel Knight - Creating Human Centered, Accessible and Inclusive End of Life ExperiencesSend a text On today’s episode we have a wonderful conversation with Isabel Knight. Isabel is the Founder of The Death Designer, a company that provides end-of-life planning services, including funeral and vigil planning, digital account password management, advance directives, and assistance with reconciling fears of mortality. She takes a human-centered design approach, with a focus on promoting individual autonomy, sustainability, and home deathcare options. Her goal is to create a more humane and equitable end-of-life experience for all. She is also the President of the National Home Funeral Alliance, a board memb...
2024-08-1444 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefTerramation - Composting as an Alternative Body Disposition - with Brien SmithSend a textIn this episode we got to spend time with Brie Smith. Brie is the longest-standing employee at Return Home, a leader in the new (but old) practice of terramation or body composting. She first served as Director of Services, then as COO, and now she is responsible for overseeing Return Home’s community outreach initiatives, including both their in-person and online efforts. She is also the General Manager of Return Home’s newest venture, TerraPets.  With TerraPets she works to offer terramation to families who have lost their beloved pets. Finally, Brie is th...
2024-08-0741 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefSeason One Roundup and Season Two TeaserSend a textIn this episode you can view as a video podcast on YouTube or on Spotify  Annalouiza and Wakil discuss the first twenty episodes from Season One and all of the profound and inspirational insights that we learned from our guests.We also talk about what is coming in Season Two, including a new website and new video offerings for paid subscribers that will include discussions of some of the episodes, short classes on preparing for end-of-life, role-playing ways that you can communicate about grief and loss, and examples of what y...
2024-07-1030 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefGrief Companioning is Walking Side by Side with Someone Unconditionally - with Dr. Janice LundySend a textIn this episode we meet Dr. Janice Lundy, who is a grief support specialist and a grief educator. She is the founder of the Metta Center, which offers specialized training in spiritual direction, also known as spiritual companionship, including one-of-a-kind grief companionship training. Having experienced a great deal of loss in her own life, she knows firsthand the transformative power of healing through grief.Jan is a celebrated author and lifelong educator who currently serves as the Gerald May Professor of Spiritual Direction and Counseling at the Graduate Theological Foundation. For the...
2024-07-0335 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefAddressing Death Anxiety and Grief in a Holistic and Sacred way with Paul MinerSend a textPaul Minor is a transpersonal and spiritual counselor and a Thanatologist. He shares his personal experiences with death and how they influenced his career path. Paul's work involves transpersonal spiritual counseling and Thanatology, the study of death, dying, and bereavement. He emphasizes the importance of addressing death anxiety and grief in a holistic and sacred way. Paul faces challenges in breaking through societal taboos and misconceptions around death and spirituality. He strives to be a companion and create space for the mystery of death in his work. In this conversation,
2024-06-1941 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefProviding Resources and Support for the LGBTQ+ Community - with Grief Specialist Gary SturgisSend a textGary Sturgis, a grief specialist, speaker, and bereavement facilitator, shares his personal experience with loss and his journey to support others through grief. He discusses the importance of providing resources and support for the LGBTQ+ community, who often face unique challenges in their grief. Gary emphasizes the need for understanding and respect when supporting someone who is grieving and encourages seeking help and connection during the grieving process. Gary survived the greatest loss of his life and now works as a Grief Specialist, Speaker, and Bereavement Facilitator. He is recognized a...
2024-06-0529 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefDeath Is the Coronation of Life with Professor Dr. Harald WalachSend a textFor this unique episode, we will be interviewing Professor Harald Walach PhD.Professor Walach is a clinical psychologist, philosopher of science, and researcherat the interface between medicine, psychology, and consciousness studies. He is a professorial research fellow with the Next Society Institute at Kazimierash Simonavichius University in Vilnius, Lithuania. He is the founding director of the Change Health Science Institute in Basel, Switzerland, where he lives as a freelance scientist and an author. His recent work focuses on the role of spirituality and consciousness within science, for our health system...
2024-05-2934 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefSupporting Children and Teens in Grief with Julie LockhartSend a textIn this episode, we talk with Julie Lockhart, a retired academic. During the last years of her career, she led a grief support nonprofit called WinterSpring, where she discovered the beauty and depth of personal stories. There she shared her own experience, which helped grieving people feel less alone.  Julie loves an adventure, especially in wild places. She spent most of her career in academics, publishing extensively in peer-reviewed journals.  From that, she has embraced writing personal essays about her adventures, life experiences, and grief, sharing insights from what she ha...
2024-05-1534 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefThe Importance of Gathering and Saying Goodbye - with Arlene HoagSend a textArlene Hoag, a hospice volunteer and co-chairman of the Mountains of Courage conference, shares her experiences and insights on death and dying. She discusses her early encounters with death, the grief she experienced when a friend passed away, and the importance of communicating with loved ones who have passed. Arlene also emphasizes the significance of supporting grieving individuals and caring for loved ones with dementia. She shares how a class at a spiritual community camp and a gravestone exercise influenced her perspective on death. Arlene concludes by discussing...
2024-05-0133 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefHealing Through Writing with Laura DavisSend a textIn this episode, we speak to Laura Davis, author of The Burning Light of Two Stars, The Courage to Heal, and four other books. In addition to writing books that inspire, the work of Laura’s heart is to teach. For over twenty years, she’s helped people find their voices, tell their stories, and hone their craft. She teaches online and at retreat centers around the world. She's a featured speaker for The National Association of Memoir Writers and a popular craft teacher at The San Miguel Writer's Conference. In May, Laur...
2024-04-1735 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefEducating About the Realities of Death and Dying and Grief - with Jill McClennenSend a textWe were honored to meet and talk with Jill McClennen in this episode.She is a certified death doula, a non-medical professional specially trainedto provide holistic care for individuals in their final stages of life. She offerscomprehensive support, preparation, and deep soul healing to her clients and theirfamilies, whether in person or through virtual sessions, as she works as a deathdoula and end-of-life coach.In her virtual practice, Jill helps people prepare themselves and their loved ones forthe end of...
2024-04-0333 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefBringing Kindness Through Song to Those Facing Life's Thresholds with Kate SchuylerSend a textPlease note this content warning for the following episode. In this episode our friend Kate speaks about her experience with putting down a beloved horse. Please take care of yourselves.Today we are excited to have a conversation with Kate Schuyler. She is an active student of life, self, and the heart, a mother, grandmother, partner, and loyal friend. She is a world traveler, a hiker, a backpacker, a community volunteer, a gardener, a poetry lover, and a musician and singer. She has been a Licensed Massage Therapist since 1982, and a...
2024-03-2025 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefGrief is Where Your Love Goes with Rev Judith LaxerSend a textIn this episode, we are blessed to spend time with the Rev. Judith Laxer. She is a modern-day mystic who believes that beauty, humor, and the wonders of nature make life worth living. The founding Priestess of Gaia’s Temple, Judith is a keynote and TEDx speaker, teacher of the magickal arts and mysteries, and author of Along the Wheel of Time: Sacred Stories for Nature Lovers [Ravenswood Publishing]. Judith dedicates her work to the rise and cultural integration of the Divine Feminine in all Her magnificence and wisdom. www.judi...
2024-03-0638 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefGrief is Grief, Loss of Pets, or Loss in a Small African Village - with Stephanie and JeffreySend a textIn this episode, we had the honor of sharing a conversation with Jeffrey and Stephanie, a married couple who live on an island near Seattle.Jeffrey has his master's and a Ph.D. in agriculture and has been working in food security in Sub-Saharan Africa for over 20 years. He has found that our humanity comes before our agendas, that we must connect as people before we work together, and that laughter, tears, and sighs bring us together in times of joy and sorrow. He is currently the program coordinator for an agricultural...
2024-02-2142 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefValentines Day Memorial SpecialSend a textIn this special episode, we bring you memorials to beloveds who have crossed over the veil ahead of us.Wakil and Annalouiza share memorial tributes to Wakil's Grandpa Herbert and Annalouiza's sister Vivian.We'll also hear from Jane Ellen Nickell whom we interviewed in our last episode who shares the story of her mother's end of life.Then, our friend Quan Yin Lynn Williams speaks about her journey with her friend Coco and her gracious and beautiful end-of-life story.Finally, we are privileged to hear from...
2024-02-1440 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefWorking as a College Chaplain - with Jane Ellen NickellSend a textJane Ellen Nickell is enjoying retirement, after serving 16 years as Chaplain of Allegheny College, which followed a career in performing arts management and marketing. A native of West Virginia, she currently lives in Meadville, Pennsylvania, with two feline companions. In retirement, she keeps busy gardening, cooking, doing yoga, making music, reading, and writing. She also works with Third Act Faith, a group of activists over age 60 who are addressing climate and democracy.For a college chaplain, death is a relatively rare occurrence, but it is often unexpected and involves losing someone at...
2024-02-0737 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefThe Privilege of Accompanying People in Their Sacred Time of Dying - with Yanna HansonSend a textIn this episode we speak with Yanna Hanson. Yanna is a death doula and currently specializes as a volunteer with end-of-life Washington. Helping terminal patients navigate the medical aid in dying process.She is often present when they take the life-ending medications. Yana also helps educate clients about another life-ending choice, that of V-S-E-D, which is voluntarily stopping eating and drinking.After raising her own five children, Yana became an RN, providing post-op care for pediatric patients, but she often felt called to hospice nursing.When she retired...
2024-01-2435 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefAlways Coming Back Into the Light with Ms. MargaretSend a textMs. Margaret Johnson. Ms. Margaret is currently 101 years old. When's your birthday? So she just turned 101. Margaret has lived a very rich and varied life. She has been a homemaker, a wife, and a mother to two children. She lived all over the country due to her husband's career as a geologist. She went back to school at the age of 52 and became a clinical social worker. By the time she moved to Denver, she was slowly led into a deeper and richer spiritual life. She then trained as a spiritual director a...
2024-01-1026 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefAwareness of daily losses builds a container for grief - with Patty BuenoSend a textPatty Bueno is a certified grief counselor, dying consciously teacher, and creator of the Amorté podcast on death and grief education.She's currently training to become a somatic experiencing facilitator. Having accompanied three of her grandparents and later her mother through their dying process as a primary caregiver was an initiation and powerful call to serve and assist others in her community.She's the mother of two beautiful men who are married and she just became a grandmother.She lives in Mexico City and has been supporting terminally i...
2023-12-2736 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefHeaven: From Community to Community - with Rev. John MabrySend a text“If you cultivate community in this life, you will pass into community.”In this episode we spend time with our dear friend and teacher, Rev. John Mabry. We met him when we were both seminary students in Berkeley, CA and have remained close.Reverend Dr. John Mabry is a United Church of Christ pastor and a spiritual director. He is a novelist and songwriter and lives with his veterinarian wife and 3 boxers in the foothills of the Catskill Mountains In upstate New York.We will talk about his late...
2023-12-1335 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefMy Boat is Small, the Ocean is So Vast with Rev Bodhi BeSend a textWelcome to Episode 3! Today we welcome Reverend Bodhi Be ‘Warrior of the heart, protector of the sacred’.Reverend Bodhi Be is an ordained interfaith minister and teacher in the Sufi lineage of Samuel Lewis and Hazrat Inayat Khan. He is the founder and executive director of Doorway Into Light, a nonprofit organization on Maui, which provides conscious and compassionate care for the dying, their families, and the grieving, and has been offering community educational programs and training since 2006 in the fields of awakened living and dying and the care of the dying.
2023-11-2935 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefCompanions on the Path with Rev Ayah Shakur SevignySend a textIn this episode we are blessed and honored to spend time with our friend Rev Ayah Shakur Sevigny. He is currently working as a palliative care chaplain at a large hospital in Seattle, and spent 20 years as a hospice chaplain.He shares with us his wisdom and insights about the work of an end of life caregiver.He mentioned two important resources - first this book by Carolyn Singh - The Grace in Dying; and the Zen Hospice project, now renamed the Zen Caregiving project.He...
2023-11-1529 minEnd of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and Grief
End of Life Conversations: Normalizing Talk About Death, Dying, and GriefIntroducing End of Life ConversationsSend a textIn this first episode of our End of Life Conversations podcast, Rev. Annalouiza Armendariz, and Rev. Wakil David Matthews share their own stories and talk about their passion for normalizing the conversations around death and dying.In future podcasts, we'll share people’s experiences with the end of life. We have reached out to front-line workers, as well as friends, neighbors, and the community to have conversations about their experiences with death and dying.  We have invited wonderful people to sit with us and listen to each other’s stories.  Our go...
2023-11-0136 min