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Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyContrary Ways to Overcome Detox, Pain, Addiction & Shame GUEST: Dr. Will HortonWow! I was so prepared to ask tough questions of my guest, Dr. Will Horton, because I found some of the claims he made sounded outrageous to me. Really? And, I asked those tough questions about addiction, recovery, pain, and shame...and more! When I read one of his book titles, my antennae went up: "How to Get Others to Do What You Want and Have Them Think It was Their Idea" Oh, no! That sounds so manipulative and under-handed, right? That's why I called...2020-02-0500 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyThe Upsides For Workplace Warriors To Lead And Succeed - GUEST: Jordan GoldrichDo you feel like a warrior when you go to work? Do you feel like you MUST be a warrior?Warriors are tough. Is that a necessity for getting people to work together and produce desired results?My conversation with Jordan Goldrich, author of Workplace Warrior, had some surprises. The subtitle of his book is "People Skills for the No B.S. Executive." He immediately brought up the word, abrasive, to describe many leaders. Not a surprise! Sometimes people think they have to be tough, competitive, and yes, abrasive in order...2020-01-3000 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyAss-Kickin' Advice for Step-Moms GUEST: Kathy Hammond We have so many images of step-moms. Angels, devils, and everything in between! My guest, Kathy Hammond, is the author of How to Kill Your Husband's Ex, Attorneys and Then Some: Ass Kickin' Advice for Stepmoms.You might relate! She says, "Books on step parenting hope to evoke a kumbaya feeling. That might work if everyone involved in the step family dynamic is mature, empathetic and certainly not narcissistic. In reality are very raw emotions of jealousy, anger, resentment and fear, experienced by ex-spouses and subsequent spouses and, as chief casualties...2020-01-2300 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyWhy Health and Healing Require Trust and Listening GUEST: Dr. Elizabeth HughesWhat do you do when you don't feel well? Do you ignore it and hope it will go away?Do you become interested in the needs of your body?Just because your parent had a disease or condition, do you believe you're next? Today's guest, Dr. Elizabeth Hughes, has exciting news: "YOUR FUTURE IS NOT WRITTEN IN YOUR DNA."What would change for you if you believed your future is not written in your DNA? Such an important belief to challenge! 2020-01-1500 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyMid-Life Dating, Sex & Finding True Love GUEST: Jonathon AslayFearful? Skeptical? Not sure you trust yourself to choose well? Unsure about trusting when you start to date again? You'll likely have some of that when you're dating in mid-life, especially if you have left a toxic relationship? You hear the term, self-love, so often these days. Do you know what it really means? What are your assumptions about it? I actually don't use that term much because of the ambiguity. In today's episode, my guest, Jonothon Aslay, and I discuss this because sometimes the term causes me to roll my...2020-01-1000 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow Living in Alignment with Your Human Design Leads to Success GUEST: Chetan ParkynHUMAN DESIGN? What immediately came to mind when you read that?Human Design is a system that "illustrates the genetic codes in our personal makeup, both from a conscious perspective, and also from the unconscious ancestral input," as today's guest, Chetan Parkyn says."We get distracted in our lives from the moment we arrive here.We become conditioned not only from the attitudes and behaviors of the family and circumstances in which we are born, but we also have ingrained in our genetic codes unconscious patterns from...2019-12-2700 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyLove, Lust & Love-Bombing! How to Tell the Difference to Stay Safe GUEST: Dr. Terri OrbuchNever mistake love-bombing for love!Never mistake lust for love!Great advice for dating! Today's episode with Dr. Terri Orbuch is SO important, especially when you're dating. And, even more especially if you're dating after leaving a difficult, or toxic, relationship. You need to know these distinctions so that you feel more confident in the dating scene.The big question we discuss is "How can you reignite passion in a relationship that has become a little humdrum, and maybe a little too indifferent. You can do it and Dr. Terri gives...2019-12-2000 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHealing Brain Fog, Fatigue & Depression Naturally GUEST: Dr. Brindusa VantaGO WITH YOUR GUT! How many times have you heard that? Sure, most folks are talking about intuition and gut feelings, but did you know that the seat of health is in your gut, your microbiome? Worth knowing, right? Better yet, and more worth knowing, is learning about taking good care of your microbiome to encourage health, in every way.Dr. Brindusa Vanta has used her training as a medical doctor, and her vast interest and research, to understand the foundations of health, and how to return to it when it...2019-12-1100 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyOvercoming the Heartbreak Of and For Foster Kids - GUEST: Richard VillasanaYou've likely heard so much in the news about the separation of children from their families at the United States borders. Children kept in cages.Overcrowding conditions that don't seem to improve. And, the issues of children being placed in foster homes for their own safety has always been with us.HOW DO WE MAKE THE FOSTER CARE SYSTEM WORK WELL IN THE BEST INTERESTS OF CHILDREN AND FAMILIES? That's the big, ongoing question. Today, my guest, Richard Villasana, helps us understand what the actual realities...2019-12-0400 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyWhat's the Relationship Between Autoimmune Conditions & Emotional Well-being GUEST: Sharon SaylerDo you think that there is a connection between what goes on in your emotional life and what goes on in your body?You betcha! Today's episode starts with me giving you some insights into the hows, whys, and benefits of creating uninterrupted time in your life frequently. Do you do that? Most people don't, so take this in. It can make a HUGE difference in your feeling of well-being!When you have difficulties--especially chronic stress and anxiety--from being raised by, living with, or leaving toxic people, #Hijackals, you are...2019-11-3000 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Forgive Who Broke Your Heart GUEST: Terri LevineFORGIVENESS! It sounds right. Sounds good. But, what does it really mean to forgive someone?On Emotional Savvy, I'm often talking about those relentlessly difficult, toxic people that I call #Hijackals®. #Narcissists are #Hijackals, and they will do all they can to have power over you in every way, and exert control wherever they can. My guest, Terri Levine, has encountered them, and she talks about the terror. You may have experienced the terror of being in relationship with a narcissist. Today's episode will really help you. Would y...2019-11-2000 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHUGGING! Helpful, Healing, or Back Off! GUEST: Dr. Stone KraushaarHUGGING? Love it? Hate it? Only for really close people? Hug everybody? Big questions! Hugging has had a renaissance in the last twenty years, and has even found its way into corporate culture. Should it be there? Is it appropriate? I know people have some strong feelings about hugging. How about you? This conversation with Dr. Stone covers all the bases of hugging how's, why's, and why not's. According to Healthline.com :"Hugs may boost your heart health. Hugging can be good for...2019-10-3000 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvySolving Invisible Issues for Women Leaving the Military GUEST: Ariel Shivers-McGrewWe are grateful for a woman's service in the military. We need to consider the issues a woman faces when leaving the military, and re-entering civilian life. Those of us who have not served need to understand these issues because we can help.I asked my guest, Ariel Shivers-McGrew, what the greatest benefit she received from being a woman in the military. Her answers may surprise you! And, they were positive! Now, she helps women understand and solve the issues of re-entry into civilian life.Re-entry can be difficult:2019-10-2300 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyGOOD NEWS! Everyone Doesn't Have to Like You. GUEST: Tonya HofmannWere you brought up with the underlying understanding that, if you were a good person, everyone would like you? Most folks are.So, you do your level best--even once you're an adult--to be pleasant, agreeable, and interesting so that will happen.Sometimes, you go the extra mile in hope, right? And, after you turn yourself into a pretzel, they still withhold approval and interest. So, today's topic will relieve you of the notion that you are supposed to jump all the hoops that each person sets up, and find a...2019-10-1800 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyWhat You Need First If You Want to Have Great Relationships. Host Dr. Rhoberta ShalerToday's episode is so important: a required ingredient for a great relationship! And, it may not be what you think.We all live, work, or play with other humans, and we know it sometimes takes more skills than at other times. Some people are more work. Some people are toxic and you need to recognize that right away, and steer clear!And, you may think that your past relationships define you. They can, but I hope they do not!It's not rocket science to understand that your early training continues...2018-12-2800 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyWhat You Need First If You Want to Have Great Relationships. Host Dr. Rhoberta ShalerToday's episode is so important: a required ingredient for a great relationship! And, it may not be what you think.We all live, work, or play with other humans, and we know it sometimes takes more skills than at other times. Some people are more work. Some people are toxic and you need to recognize that right away, and steer clear!And, you may think that your past relationships define you. They can, but I hope they do not!It's not rocket science to understand that your early training continues...2018-12-2811 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyAre You Spiritually-Minded? What About Intuition? GUEST - Terry WildemannIn today's episode, DR. RHOBERTA SHALER asks: "Are you spiritually-minded?" Being spiritually-minded is not simply having an interest in spiritual things. It's much more than that.Are you basing your thinking on the spiritual principles you hold dear? That's the real question.What about the mind? Your mind? Can you point to it? Can it be surgically isolated? Even though you cannot indicate its physical whereabouts, you do understand that you have a mind, or, more precisely, that you use one. It's more than your brain, isn't it?2018-10-0900 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyAre You Spiritually-Minded? What About Intuition? GUEST - Terry WildemannIn today's episode, DR. RHOBERTA SHALER asks: "Are you spiritually-minded?" Being spiritually-minded is not simply having an interest in spiritual things. It's much more than that.Are you basing your thinking on the spiritual principles you hold dear? That's the real question.What about the mind? Your mind? Can you point to it? Can it be surgically isolated? Even though you cannot indicate its physical whereabouts, you do understand that you have a mind, or, more precisely, that you use one. It's more than your brain, isn't it?...2018-10-0943 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyThe Impact of Emotional Abuse on Children and The Adults They Become. GUEST: Dr. Jonice WebbEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorUNDERSTANDING THE IMPACT OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND NEGLECT ON CHILDREN...AND ON THE ADULTS THEY BECOME.GUEST: DR. JONICE WEBB, Author of the first book written on Childhood Emotional Neglect ( CEN )In today's episode, DR. RHOBERTA SHALER asks: "Do you recognize what emotional abuse of children is? It's much more than you might think."Abuse is any behavior that is designed to control or dominate another person. Whether that...2018-10-0341 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyThe Impact of Emotional Abuse on Children and The Adults They Become. GUEST: Dr. Jonice WebbEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorUNDERSTANDING THE IMPACT OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE AND NEGLECT ON CHILDREN...AND ON THE ADULTS THEY BECOME.GUEST: DR. JONICE WEBB, Author of the first book written on Childhood Emotional Neglect ( CEN )In today's episode, DR. RHOBERTA SHALER asks: "Do you recognize what emotional abuse of children is? It's much more than you might think."Abuse is any behavior that is designed to control or dominate another person. Whether that...2018-10-0300 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyGo for the Gold. Be a Leader in Your Own Life. GUEST: Lisa Marie PlatskeEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorGO FOR THE GOLD. BE A LEADER IN YOUR OWN LIFEGUEST: LISA MARIE PLATSKE, AWARD-WINNING LEADERSHIP EXPERTDR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Four Important Principles To Achieve the Results You Want Today, I'm sharing four important--actually essential--principles to grow your business, increase your effectiveness, and create relationships you most want. Tall order...and, these work!You've heard that "attitude is everything." There's truth in that, and w...2018-09-2641 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyGo for the Gold. Be a Leader in Your Own Life. GUEST: Lisa Marie PlatskeEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorGO FOR THE GOLD. BE A LEADER IN YOUR OWN LIFEGUEST: LISA MARIE PLATSKE, AWARD-WINNING LEADERSHIP EXPERTDR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Four Important Principles To Achieve the Results You Want Today, I'm sharing four important--actually essential--principles to grow your business, increase your effectiveness, and create relationships you most want. Tall order...and, these work!You've heard that "attitude is everything." There's truth in that...2018-09-2600 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyRelieving the Mess of Chronic Stress in Toxic Relationships GUEST: Dr. Ganz FerranceIn today's episode, DR. RHOBERTA SHALER talks about 'Clearing Your Head When Chronic Stress and Anxiety Have Clouded Your Thinking.'Much research has been done that shows the effects of chronic stress coupled with chronic anxiety. When you're in a troubling or toxic relationship, you have that combination of stress and anxiety. It has been shown to lead to chronic illness, and seems very likely to produce inflammation and autoimmune issues, particularly. Of course, each body is different, and each will react differently as well.Your brain changes with chronic stress and...2018-09-0400 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyRelieving the Mess of Chronic Stress in Toxic Relationships GUEST: Dr. Ganz FerranceIn today's episode, DR. RHOBERTA SHALER talks about 'Clearing Your Head When Chronic Stress and Anxiety Have Clouded Your Thinking.'Much research has been done that shows the effects of chronic stress coupled with chronic anxiety. When you're in a troubling or toxic relationship, you have that combination of stress and anxiety. It has been shown to lead to chronic illness, and seems very likely to produce inflammation and autoimmune issues, particularly. Of course, each body is different, and each will react differently as well.Your brain changes with chronic stress and...2018-09-0450 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyGot Energy Leaks? Procrastination? Denial? Resentment? Forgiveness? GUEST: Brenda AdelmanEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorStop Emotional Energy Leaks! What About Forgiveness?GUEST: Brenda Adelman, Acclaimed Actor. Author. Recipient of Hero of Forgiveness Award. ---------------------------------------------DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Do You Have Unfinished Business from Emotional Energy Leaks? What are emotional energy leaks?procrastinationdenialresentmentsgrudgesunresolved relationship issuesfor a few! Which ones are plaguing you?Rhoberta gives you insights into why you may be keeping these leaks in place, and w...2018-08-2945 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyGot Energy Leaks? Procrastination? Denial? Resentment? Forgiveness? GUEST: Brenda AdelmanEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorStop Emotional Energy Leaks! What About Forgiveness?GUEST: Brenda Adelman, Acclaimed Actor. Author. Recipient of Hero of Forgiveness Award. ---------------------------------------------DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Do You Have Unfinished Business from Emotional Energy Leaks? What are emotional energy leaks?procrastinationdenialresentmentsgrudgesunresolved relationship issuesfor a few! Which ones are plaguing you?Rhoberta gives you insights into why you may be keeping these leaks in place...2018-08-2900 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyWhat About Toxic Shame? Powerful Strategies to Help With Addiction in the Family GUEST: Jeff JonesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorWhat About Toxic Shame? Powerful Strategies to Help With Addiction in the Family GGUEST: Jeff Jones, therapist, addiction counselor, interventionist, and family recovery coach. ---------------------------------------------DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: How to Give Up, Give Back, and Recover From Shame Have you ever felt shame? Been shamed? If you haven't, you've been extremely fortunate. Most people have. Shame is when someone does their best to make you...2018-08-2200 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyWhat About Toxic Shame? Powerful Strategies to Help With Addiction in the Family GUEST: Jeff JonesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorWhat About Toxic Shame? Powerful Strategies to Help With Addiction in the Family GGUEST: Jeff Jones, therapist, addiction counselor, interventionist, and family recovery coach. ---------------------------------------------DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: How to Give Up, Give Back, and Recover From Shame Have you ever felt shame? Been shamed? If you haven't, you've been extremely fortunate. Most people have. Shame is when someone does their best to make you feel small, un...2018-08-2246 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyAbundance, Prosperity & Tapping Into The Body-Mind Connection GUEST: Jolen PhilbrookEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorAbundance, Prosperity & Tapping Into The Body-Mind Connection GUEST: Jolen Philbrook, Abundant Mindset Expert---------------------------------------------DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Prosperity Starts Between Your Ears Sometimes, people are surprised when I talk about prosperity and relationship in the same sentence or breath. They simply haven't connected the two. Today, I'm talking about where prosperity is actually created: between your ears. And, then, how that actually plays out in your...2018-08-1400 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyAbundance, Prosperity & Tapping Into The Body-Mind Connection GUEST: Jolen PhilbrookEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorAbundance, Prosperity & Tapping Into The Body-Mind Connection GUEST: Jolen Philbrook, Abundant Mindset Expert---------------------------------------------DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Prosperity Starts Between Your Ears Sometimes, people are surprised when I talk about prosperity and relationship in the same sentence or breath. They simply haven't connected the two. Today, I'm talking about where prosperity is actually created: between your ears. And, then, how that actually plays out in your daily life.2018-08-1453 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyLove, Dump, Or...? What About Radical Acceptance? GUEST: Andrea MillerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorLove, Dump, Or, ...? What About Radical Acceptance? GUEST: Andrea Miller, CEO of YourTango.com, author of Radical Acceptance DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: How Do You Create and Experience Acceptance in Your LIfe?You want to be seen, heard, known, acknowledged, appreciated, and accepted in life. By your parents. By your partner. By others in your world. Not everyone is willing or capable of doing that. I've written about this more in...2018-08-0900 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyLove, Dump, Or...? What About Radical Acceptance? GUEST: Andrea MillerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorLove, Dump, Or, ...? What About Radical Acceptance? GUEST: Andrea Miller, CEO of YourTango.com, author of Radical Acceptance DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: How Do You Create and Experience Acceptance in Your LIfe?You want to be seen, heard, known, acknowledged, appreciated, and accepted in life. By your parents. By your partner. By others in your world. Not everyone is willing or capable of doing that. I've written about this more in my b...2018-08-0953 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyIntimacy, Pleasure, and How to Get More of Both GUEST: Rabbi Manis FriedmanEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorIntimacy, Pleasure, and How to Get More of Both GUEST: Rabbi Manis Friedman, author of The Joy of Intimacy, and Doesn't Anyone Blush Anymore?DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Creating and Enriching Emotional Intimacy with your Partner"The deepest principle of human nature is the craving to be appreciated." ~ William James Emotional intimacy allows you to feel appreciated--and known, seen, heard, accepted, and acknowledged, too. When that is not...2018-08-0200 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyIntimacy, Pleasure, and How to Get More of Both GUEST: Rabbi Manis FriedmanEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorIntimacy, Pleasure, and How to Get More of Both GUEST: Rabbi Manis Friedman, author of The Joy of Intimacy, and Doesn't Anyone Blush Anymore?DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Creating and Enriching Emotional Intimacy with your Partner"The deepest principle of human nature is the craving to be appreciated." ~ William James Emotional intimacy allows you to feel appreciated--and known, seen, heard, accepted, and acknowledged, too. When that is not present i...2018-08-0246 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyWhat About Unconditional Love and Creating Peace? GUEST: Swami Sadashiva TirthaEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorWhat About Unconditional Love and Creating Peace in Relationships?GUEST: Swami Sadashiva Tirtha, The Orange Cowboy, host of the TV show, Talking with Our AngelsDR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Four Scary Reasons Unconditional Love May be a Dangerous Myth "Wait! Don't run away. I'm not taking away the idea of unconditional love. Hear me out...please. " ~ Dr. Rhoberta Shaler In today's episode, Dr. Shaler steps way out...2018-07-2500 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyWhat About Unconditional Love and Creating Peace? GUEST: Swami Sadashiva TirthaEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorWhat About Unconditional Love and Creating Peace in Relationships?GUEST: Swami Sadashiva Tirtha, The Orange Cowboy, host of the TV show, Talking with Our AngelsDR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Four Scary Reasons Unconditional Love May be a Dangerous Myth "Wait! Don't run away. I'm not taking away the idea of unconditional love. Hear me out...please. " ~ Dr. Rhoberta Shaler In today's episode, Dr. Shaler steps way out...2018-07-2537 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyCreating a Safe Place to Love Yourself GUEST: Pernilla LillaroseEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorCreating A Safe Place To Love Yourself...and Doing It GUEST: Pernilla Lillarose, Hakomi Therapist, Self-Love Mentor, and Founder of Young Women Empowerment Circle DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:In today's episode, Dr. Shaler talks about what the term, "self-love" really means. We hear it spoken of so frequently that we may not think about what it actually means. It's not about being vain, arrogant, conceited, or self-centered. It's a very positive thing...2018-07-1800 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyCreating a Safe Place to Love Yourself GUEST: Pernilla LillaroseEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorCreating A Safe Place To Love Yourself...and Doing It GUEST: Pernilla Lillarose, Hakomi Therapist, Self-Love Mentor, and Founder of Young Women Empowerment Circle DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:In today's episode, Dr. Shaler talks about what the term, "self-love" really means. We hear it spoken of so frequently that we may not think about what it actually means. It's not about being vain, arrogant, conceited, or self-centered. It's a very positive thing...2018-07-1849 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow Personal Trauma Gave Rise to Strength, Courage, and Empowering Others GUEST: Tracy MaloneEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorHow Personal Trauma Gave Rise to Strength, Courage, and Empowering OthersGUEST: Tracy Malone, All around amazing woman, and founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.comDR. RHOBERTA SHALER:In today's episode, Dr. Shaler talks about "Gaslighting." It's a real thing. When someone else wants to tell you what you think, feel, intend, or have done, and they insist they are right, there's a very good chance that they are gaslighting you.2018-07-1143 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow Personal Trauma Gave Rise to Strength, Courage, and Empowering Others GUEST: Tracy MaloneEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorHow Personal Trauma Gave Rise to Strength, Courage, and Empowering OthersGUEST: Tracy Malone, All around amazing woman, and founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.comDR. RHOBERTA SHALER:In today's episode, Dr. Shaler talks about "Gaslighting." It's a real thing. When someone else wants to tell you what you think, feel, intend, or have done, and they insist they are right, there's a very good chance that they are gaslighting you.2018-07-1100 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Speak Up Powerfully When You Want Things to Change GUEST: Tina DietzEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorHow to Speak Up Powerfully When You Want Things to Change - Episode 44GUEST: Tina Dietz, Speaker, Audiobook Publisher, Podcast Producer, Content Marketing Expert DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:In today's episode, Dr. Shaler shares compelling ideas about how you can be keeping yourself from having the life and relationships you most want.What's getting in your way? What's stopping you? Do you know? Stop and think about it...seriously....2018-06-1944 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Speak Up Powerfully When You Want Things to Change GUEST: Tina DietzEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorHow to Speak Up Powerfully When You Want Things to Change - Episode 44GUEST: Tina Dietz, Speaker, Audiobook Publisher, Podcast Producer, Content Marketing Expert DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:In today's episode, Dr. Shaler shares compelling ideas about how you can be keeping yourself from having the life and relationships you most want.What's getting in your way? What's stopping you? Do you know? Stop and think about...2018-06-1900 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyChange Your Life with Powerful Self-Talk & Heart-Centered Focus GUEST: Candy BaroneEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorChange Your Life with Powerful Self-Talk & Heart-Centered Focus - Episode 43GUEST: Candy Barone of You Empowered Strong: YES! Catalyst and change agentDR. RHOBERTA SHALER:In today's episode, Dr. Shaler shares compelling ideas about how you can be keeping yourself from having the life and relationships you most want.What's getting in your way? What's stopping you? Do you know? Stop and think about it...seriously.2018-06-1345 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyChange Your Life with Powerful Self-Talk & Heart-Centered Focus GUEST: Candy BaroneEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorChange Your Life with Powerful Self-Talk & Heart-Centered Focus - Episode 43GUEST: Candy Barone of You Empowered Strong: YES! Catalyst and change agentDR. RHOBERTA SHALER:In today's episode, Dr. Shaler shares compelling ideas about how you can be keeping yourself from having the life and relationships you most want.What's getting in your way? What's stopping you? Do you know? Stop and think about it...seriously.2018-06-1300 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyMental Health: Know What To Do When It's Slipping Into Anxiety, Depression, or More GUEST: Kristin WalkerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorMental Health: Know What To Do When It's Slipping Into Anxiety, Depression, and More - Episode 42GUEST: Kristin Walker, CEO of Mental Health News Radio NetworkDR. RHOBERTA SHALER'S TOPIC: Mental Illness Scares Us More Than A Broken Leg Today, Dr. Shaler talks about the prevalence of mental health issues in our world, and why it is so essential to remove any stigma from it.People feel sorry...2018-06-0643 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyMental Health: Know What To Do When It's Slipping Into Anxiety, Depression, or More GUEST: Kristin WalkerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorMental Health: Know What To Do When It's Slipping Into Anxiety, Depression, and More - Episode 42GUEST: Kristin Walker, CEO of Mental Health News Radio NetworkDR. RHOBERTA SHALER'S TOPIC: Mental Illness Scares Us More Than A Broken Leg Today, Dr. Shaler talks about the prevalence of mental health issues in our world, and why it is so essential to remove any stigma from it.People feel sorry...2018-06-0600 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHelp! What About the Money When Thinking About Divorce? GUEST: Michelle JacobikEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorHELP! What About The Money When Thinking About Divorce - Episode 41GUEST: Michelle Jacobik, author of Prosperity After DivorceDR. RHOBERTA SHALER:In this episode, Dr. Shaler introduces a new topic: prosperity. This is the first time she's addressed this.As you know, Dr. Shaler has written many books, and one called "What You Pay Attention To Expands" offers the keys to understanding how powerful your mind is...2018-05-3044 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHelp! What About the Money When Thinking About Divorce? GUEST: Michelle JacobikEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorHELP! What About The Money When Thinking About Divorce - Episode 41GUEST: Michelle Jacobik, author of Prosperity After DivorceDR. RHOBERTA SHALER:In this episode, Dr. Shaler introduces a new topic: prosperity. This is the first time she's addressed this.As you know, Dr. Shaler has written many books, and one called "What You Pay Attention To Expands" offers the keys to understanding how powerful your mind is...2018-05-3000 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Keep Yourself Safe: Verbally, Physically, Emotionally GUEST: Susan HarrowEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorHOW TO KEEP YOURSELF SAFE: VERBALLY, PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY - Episode 40GUEST: Susan Harrow, Creator of TRUE SHIELD: Verbal Self-Defense For GirlsDR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Do people respect you? Or, do they take you for granted? Maybe, there are only one or two people who get your knickers in a twist in that way, and this needs straightening out right away.Don't feel like a victim. There's no need. You...2018-05-181h 23Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Keep Yourself Safe: Verbally, Physically, Emotionally GUEST: Susan HarrowEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Showwith Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorHOW TO KEEP YOURSELF SAFE: VERBALLY, PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY - Episode 40GUEST: Susan Harrow, Creator of TRUE SHIELD: Verbal Self-Defense For GirlsDR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Do people respect you? Or, do they take you for granted? Maybe, there are only one or two people who get your knickers in a twist in that way, and this needs straightening out right away.Don't feel like a victim. There's no need. You...2018-05-1800 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Leave a Hijackal With Your Spiritual Self Intact GUEST: Lily SandersEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorHOW TO LEAVE A HIJACKAL WITH YOUR SPIRITUAL SELF INTACT - Episode 38GUEST: Lily Sanders, Author of Truth to Triumph: A Spiritual Guide to Finding Your TruthDR. RHOBERTA SHALER:You've likely not happy when you blurt something out, and think better of it later, right?You want to have the presence of mind to be your best self, even in the face of irrationality, rudeness, and toxicity.2018-05-0800 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Leave a Hijackal With Your Spiritual Self Intact GUEST: Lily SandersEMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help DoctorHOW TO LEAVE A HIJACKAL WITH YOUR SPIRITUAL SELF INTACT - Episode 38GUEST: Lily Sanders, Author of Truth to Triumph: A Spiritual Guide to Finding Your TruthDR. RHOBERTA SHALER:You've likely not happy when you blurt something out, and think better of it later, right?You want to have the presence of mind to be your best self, even in the face of irrationality, rudeness, and toxicity.2018-05-0839 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow To Live With Few Regrets & Move Towards Success GUEST: Scott KimbroThe Relationship Help Show with Dr Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorHOW TO LIVE WITH FEW REGRETS AND MOVE TOWARDS SUCCESSHighlights: Dr. Shaler talks about "Are You Mistaking Activity for Progress?"Guest: Scott Kimbro, Author of SubmUrgency: How To Live & Die Without Regrets Dr. Shaler offers her own tricks on how to stop wasting time on regrets __________________________________________________________________________________________Moving towards success is never a straightforward path...at least, not for most people. There are curves, sidelines, and...2018-04-0400 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow To Live With Few Regrets & Move Towards Success GUEST: Scott KimbroThe Relationship Help Show with Dr Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorHOW TO LIVE WITH FEW REGRETS AND MOVE TOWARDS SUCCESSHighlights: Dr. Shaler talks about "Are You Mistaking Activity for Progress?"Guest: Scott Kimbro, Author of SubmUrgency: How To Live & Die Without Regrets Dr. Shaler offers her own tricks on how to stop wasting time on regrets __________________________________________________________________________________________Moving towards success is never a straightforward path...at least, not for most people. There are curves, sidelines, and setbacks...2018-04-0458 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyIs Your Family History Ruining Your Relationship Life? GUEST: Johanna LynnRelationship Help Show with Dr Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorDr. Shaler opens the show with thoughts on things you might believe about yourself if you were raised by a Hijackal®Guest, Johanna Lynn, Clinical HypnotherapistAll that happened to you in life affects everything that is currently happening in your life. If you are not getting the results in life and relationships that you want, then, you want to listen to this episode for sure. Dr. Shaler talks about a common iss...2018-03-2800 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyIs Your Family History Ruining Your Relationship Life? GUEST: Johanna LynnRelationship Help Show with Dr Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorDr. Shaler opens the show with thoughts on things you might believe about yourself if you were raised by a Hijackal®Guest, Johanna Lynn, Clinical HypnotherapistAll that happened to you in life affects everything that is currently happening in your life. If you are not getting the results in life and relationships that you want, then, you want to listen to this episode for sure. Dr. Shaler talks about a common issue: hoping someone will bring up a dif...2018-03-2859 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Manage Uncertainty, Ambiguity and Chaos in Relationships GUEST: Dr. Dennis Merritt-JonesThe Relationship Help Show with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor HOW TO MANAGE UNCERTAINTY, AMBIGUITY & CHAOS IN RELATIONSHIPS Toxic people thrive on--and, therefore create--uncertainty, ambiguity and chaos. That's how they gain power and control over people, conversations, and circumstances. Today's show will help you see where and how you are being controlled by uncertainty...even when you don't think it's possible.Dr. Rhoberta Shaler gives you strategies for safely saying what you mean, at the time it needs to be said. Guest, Dr Dennis Merritt-Jones, aut...2018-03-2159 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Manage Uncertainty, Ambiguity and Chaos in Relationships GUEST: Dr. Dennis Merritt-JonesThe Relationship Help Show with Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor HOW TO MANAGE UNCERTAINTY, AMBIGUITY & CHAOS IN RELATIONSHIPS Toxic people thrive on--and, therefore create--uncertainty, ambiguity and chaos. That's how they gain power and control over people, conversations, and circumstances. Today's show will help you see where and how you are being controlled by uncertainty...even when you don't think it's possible.Dr. Rhoberta Shaler gives you strategies for safely saying what you mean, at the time it needs to be said. Guest, Dr De...2018-03-2100 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyIs That Passive-Aggressive? GUEST: Dr. Ganz FerranceEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorIs the behavior you're upset about passive-aggressive? Dr. Shaler gives you tips for recognizing and managing passive-aggressive behaviors. They can be so frustrating and infuriating. Respond well to passive-aggressive behavior. If you don't, it will continue, and the relationship will stay stuck!Guest: Dr. Ganz Ferrance talks about men and his book, The ME Factor: Your Systematic Guide to Getting What the Hell You Want.#1 Introduction to Episode 35#2 What is Passive-Aggressive Behavior? D...2018-03-141h 00Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyIs That Passive-Aggressive? GUEST: Dr. Ganz FerranceEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorIs the behavior you're upset about passive-aggressive? Dr. Shaler gives you tips for recognizing and managing passive-aggressive behaviors. They can be so frustrating and infuriating. Respond well to passive-aggressive behavior. If you don't, it will continue, and the relationship will stay stuck!Guest: Dr. Ganz Ferrance talks about men and his book, The ME Factor: Your Systematic Guide to Getting What the Hell You Want.#1 Introduction to Episode 35#2 What is Passive-Aggressive Behavior? 2018-03-1400 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyDo Hijackals Become Wonderful With A New Partner? GUEST: Bree BonchayEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorHOW CAN I LEARN TO TRUST? Part 2Today. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler offers further insights into learning to trust, and learning to trust AGAIN. Trust is such an essential element in a healthy relationship. You may have had previous experiences with folks in your life where you sadly learned you could not trust them. This tends to color your new relationships. Dr. Shaler offers insights to help you gain a new perspective on building trust...2018-03-0757 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyDo Hijackals Become Wonderful With A New Partner? GUEST: Bree BonchayEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorHOW CAN I LEARN TO TRUST? Part 2Today. Dr. Rhoberta Shaler offers further insights into learning to trust, and learning to trust AGAIN. Trust is such an essential element in a healthy relationship. You may have had previous experiences with folks in your life where you sadly learned you could not trust them. This tends to color your new relationships. Dr. Shaler offers insights to help you gain a new perspective on building trust...2018-03-0700 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Get Over Betrayal and Trauma to Trust AgainEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorHow Can I Trust? Recovering from Relationship Trauma & BetrayalGuest: Michael Wayne Regier, Ph.D., Clinical Psychologist/Marriage TherapistDr. Michael Wayne Regier received his PhD from the California School of Professional psychology. Early in his career he was on the faculty in the department of psychiatry at the Johns Hopkins School of medicine. He did a post doctoral internship in couples group psychotherapy with Dr. Judy Coche in Philadelphia.2018-02-2857 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to Get Over Betrayal and Trauma to Trust AgainEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorHow Can I Trust? Recovering from Relationship Trauma & BetrayalGuest: Michael Wayne Regier, Ph.D., Clinical Psychologist/Marriage TherapistDr. Michael Wayne Regier received his PhD from the California School of Professional psychology. Early in his career he was on the faculty in the department of psychiatry at the Johns Hopkins School of medicine. He did a post doctoral internship in couples group psychotherapy with Dr. Judy Coche in...2018-02-2800 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyLearn to Say NO! to Toxic People GUEST: Laura RubinsteinEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorNew insights on how to find love and support within yourself, to commit to creating and maintaining your healthy, safe life with other humans. Do You Want to Feel Showered with Appreciation? Do these things. Insights from Dr. Rhoberta ShalerGuest Conversation with Laura Rubinstein - Learn to Say No. What it Takes and Why We're Reluctant to Do ItToxic people, difficult people, push you to d...2018-02-211h 07Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyLearn to Say NO! to Toxic People GUEST: Laura RubinsteinEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorNew insights on how to find love and support within yourself, to commit to creating and maintaining your healthy, safe life with other humans. Do You Want to Feel Showered with Appreciation? Do these things. Insights from Dr. Rhoberta ShalerGuest Conversation with Laura Rubinstein - Learn to Say No. What it Takes and Why We're Reluctant to Do ItToxic people, difficult people, push you...2018-02-2100 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyLove Yourself, Tune Up Your Self-Confidence, & Step Out! Dr. Rhoberta ShalerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorValentine's Day Show: It All Starts With Loving Yourself.Dr. Rhoberta Shaler gives you insights, wisdom, and great tips for jumpstarting self-confidence. It Happened To Me - True Stories: Wendy Newman - Dating a Wealthy Man and Oops!Do you really need a new love story? It starts with you.What You Really Need to Have a Great RelationshipTune In and Turn Up Your S...2018-02-141h 04Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyLove Yourself, Tune Up Your Self-Confidence, & Step Out! Dr. Rhoberta ShalerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorValentine's Day Show: It All Starts With Loving Yourself.Dr. Rhoberta Shaler gives you insights, wisdom, and great tips for jumpstarting self-confidence. It Happened To Me - True Stories: Wendy Newman - Dating a Wealthy Man and Oops!Do you really need a new love story? It starts with you.What You Really Need to Have a Great RelationshipTune In and Turn Up...2018-02-1400 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyCHANGES: Is It Time to Change? GUEST: Filippo VoltaggioEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorCHANGES: Do You Need to Change To Have the Life & Relationship You Want? What Needs to Change? Guest: Filippo Voltaggio, Life Coach / Author / Radio HostFilippo's work as a Life Coach, Speaker, Author, Workshop Creator and Leader, and as Host of The LIFE CHANGES Show, revolves around change, and the wholeness and expansion of The Self.From early childhood Filippo Voltaggio never believed in pigeonholing himself into any one thing. When as...2018-02-071h 04Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyCHANGES: Is It Time to Change? GUEST: Filippo VoltaggioEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorCHANGES: Do You Need to Change To Have the Life & Relationship You Want? What Needs to Change? Guest: Filippo Voltaggio, Life Coach / Author / Radio HostFilippo's work as a Life Coach, Speaker, Author, Workshop Creator and Leader, and as Host of The LIFE CHANGES Show, revolves around change, and the wholeness and expansion of The Self.From early childhood Filippo Voltaggio never believed in pigeonholing himself into any...2018-02-0700 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyBULLYING: At Home, at work, at School. GUEST: Dr. Nekeshia HammondEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorBULLYING. It could be happening to you, at home or at work. It could be happening to your child. Timely, practical insights into how to make it stop.Guest: Dr. Nekeshia Hammond talks with Dr. Shaler about how you can help your children deal with bullying, ADHD, and school issues. Learn how to respond well and speak up effectively. Dr. Nekeshia Hammond was raised in Orlando, Florida and now resides in the Tampa...2018-01-3100 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyBULLYING: At Home, at work, at School. GUEST: Dr. Nekeshia HammondEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorBULLYING. It could be happening to you, at home or at work. It could be happening to your child. Timely, practical insights into how to make it stop.Guest: Dr. Nekeshia Hammond talks with Dr. Shaler about how you can help your children deal with bullying, ADHD, and school issues. Learn how to respond well and speak up effectively. Dr. Nekeshia Hammond was raised in Orlando, Florida and now resides in the Tampa Bay a...2018-01-311h 07Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyCall It What It Is: Abuse! US Olympic gymnasts. GUESTS: Liberty Forrest and Christine BaumgartnerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorURGENT TOPIC! Dr. Shaler has convened two insightful women to join her In a timely response to the court statements of Aly Raisman of US Gymnastics Team to her accused abuser, Dr. Larry Nassar.ABUSE! Systemic abuse! Why doesn't anyone listen to the victims? Is it because they are children? OUTRAGEOUS!Guests Liberty Forrest and Christine Baumgartner discuss how to recognize all kinds of abuse...and call it what it is! 2018-01-2400 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyCall It What It Is: Abuse! US Olympic gymnasts. GUESTS: Liberty Forrest and Christine BaumgartnerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorURGENT TOPIC! Dr. Shaler has convened two insightful women to join her In a timely response to the court statements of Aly Raisman of US Gymnastics Team to her accused abuser, Dr. Larry Nassar.ABUSE! Systemic abuse! Why doesn't anyone listen to the victims? Is it because they are children? OUTRAGEOUS!Guests Liberty Forrest and Christine Baumgartner discuss how to recognize all kinds of abuse...and call it what it is! C...2018-01-241h 01
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyAttachment: What Happens When It Goes Sideways. Guest: Dr. Gary SalyerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorATTACHMENT: WHAT HAPPENS WHEN IT GOES SIDEWAYS AND WHY THAT MATTERSGuest: Gary Salyer, PhD, author of Safe To Love Again More about Dr. Gary SalyerDr. Gary Salyer speaks to audiences across the country as a featured expert, inspirational speaker on how to create the love we all deserve. He is an expert in Attachment Theory, the science of relationships, Bert Hellinger's Family Systems approach and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). As a...2018-01-171h 10Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyAttachment: What Happens When It Goes Sideways. Guest: Dr. Gary SalyerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorATTACHMENT: WHAT HAPPENS WHEN IT GOES SIDEWAYS AND WHY THAT MATTERSGuest: Gary Salyer, PhD, author of Safe To Love Again More about Dr. Gary SalyerDr. Gary Salyer speaks to audiences across the country as a featured expert, inspirational speaker on how to create the love we all deserve. He is an expert in Attachment Theory, the science of relationships, Bert Hellinger's Family Systems approach and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). As a...2018-01-1700 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyIntuition, Loving Yourself and New Beginnings. Guest: Liberty ForrestEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest: Liberty Forrest - What It Takes To Trust Your Gut and IntuitionMore about Liberty ForrestLiberty Forrest is an award-winning author, a columnist and Huffington Post contributor. She's written articles for numerous publications in several countries and has written several books. Previously, she specialised in non-fiction inspirational self-help books but she now focuses on family saga fiction with a paranormal element.Liberty's professional background is in social work and counselling, l...2018-01-1059 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyIntuition, Loving Yourself and New Beginnings. Guest: Liberty ForrestEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest: Liberty Forrest - What It Takes To Trust Your Gut and IntuitionMore about Liberty ForrestLiberty Forrest is an award-winning author, a columnist and Huffington Post contributor. She's written articles for numerous publications in several countries and has written several books. Previously, she specialised in non-fiction inspirational self-help books but she now focuses on family saga fiction with a paranormal element.Liberty's professional background is in social work and...2018-01-1000 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHijackals, Conflict and Tough Conversations. Guest: Charmaine HammondEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest: Charmaine Hammond, Communication, Collaboration, Conflict Resolution ExpertMore about Charmaine HammondCharmaine Hammond, CSP, expert in communication, collaboration & conflict resolution has facilitated the resolution of some of the most complex workplace and family conflicts. She is a professional speaker, author and is passionate about building more kindness in workplaces, and communities. She now works with businesses and entrepreneurs to help them build relationships and successful collaborations.CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:2018-01-0357 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHijackals, Conflict and Tough Conversations. Guest: Charmaine HammondEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest: Charmaine Hammond, Communication, Collaboration, Conflict Resolution ExpertMore about Charmaine HammondCharmaine Hammond, CSP, expert in communication, collaboration & conflict resolution has facilitated the resolution of some of the most complex workplace and family conflicts. She is a professional speaker, author and is passionate about building more kindness in workplaces, and communities. She now works with businesses and entrepreneurs to help them build relationships and successful collaborations.CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA...2018-01-0300 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyStop the Toxic Dance and Recognize Hijackals® with Dr. Rhoberta ShalerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorToday's episode is all Dr. Shaler. She created the non-clinical term, Hijackals®, to give everyone a way to talk about the patterns, traits, and cycles of people with tendencies towards personality disorders.It's important to recognize when you're with a Hijackal. If you don't, you will think that everything in the relationship is your fault, because that's what the Hijackal tells you. You'll soon be making yourself into a people-pleasing pretzel, trying to be good enough. And, i...2017-12-2658 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyStop the Toxic Dance and Recognize Hijackals® with Dr. Rhoberta ShalerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorToday's episode is all Dr. Shaler. She created the non-clinical term, Hijackals®, to give everyone a way to talk about the patterns, traits, and cycles of people with tendencies towards personality disorders.It's important to recognize when you're with a Hijackal. If you don't, you will think that everything in the relationship is your fault, because that's what the Hijackal tells you. You'll soon be making yourself into a people-pleasing pretzel, trying to be good enough. And, i...2017-12-2600 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHijackals & Spirituality. Guest: Dr. Dennis Merritt-JonesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest, Dr. Dennis Merritt-JonesIntro - Hijackals, Power, and SpiritualityUnconditional Love Can Be a Very Dangerous Myth with a Hijackal in Your LifeGUEST:Dr. Dennis Merritt-Jones - Part 1 Becoming Who You Were Born to BeDr. Dennis Merritt-Jones - Part 2 Spirituality is Not About Having Power Over PeopleDr. Rhoberta Shaler - Spirituality, Hijackals, and You. What To Do.2017-12-1955 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHijackals & Spirituality. Guest: Dr. Dennis Merritt-JonesEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest, Dr. Dennis Merritt-JonesIntro - Hijackals, Power, and SpiritualityUnconditional Love Can Be a Very Dangerous Myth with a Hijackal in Your LifeGUEST:Dr. Dennis Merritt-Jones - Part 1 Becoming Who You Were Born to BeDr. Dennis Merritt-Jones - Part 2 Spirituality is Not About Having Power Over PeopleDr. Rhoberta Shaler - Spirituality, Hijackals, and You. What To Do.2017-12-1900 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyRecognizing Relationship Predators: Dr. Rhoberta ShalerHave You Become the Unwitting Prey of a HIjackal® Predator?SEG 2 - Jan: I Knew Better But I Married Him AnywaySEG 3 - Hijackals are Predators - Pt 1. Dr. Rhoberta ShalerSEG 4 - Hijackals are Predators - Pt 2 Dr. Rhoberta ShalerSEG 5 - Dating Red Flags That Mean Long-Term Relationship TroubleCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerYouTube: YouTube.com/ForRelationshipHelp2017-12-1356 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyRecognizing Relationship Predators: Dr. Rhoberta ShalerHave You Become the Unwitting Prey of a HIjackal® Predator?SEG 2 - Jan: I Knew Better But I Married Him AnywaySEG 3 - Hijackals are Predators - Pt 1. Dr. Rhoberta ShalerSEG 4 - Hijackals are Predators - Pt 2 Dr. Rhoberta ShalerSEG 5 - Dating Red Flags That Mean Long-Term Relationship TroubleCONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShalerLinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShalerY...2017-12-1300 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyCo-Parenting and Keeping Your Sanity. Guest: Karen CovyEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest, Karen Covy - Divorcing A Hijackal® When Children Are InvolvedKaren Covy, divorce adviser, attorney, coach. It is imperative to know how to divorce a difficult person, a Hijackal, a toxic person. It is a different approach with different preparation. You have to know how to present things effectively to your attorney, and how to present yourself in court. SO much to know. That's the gift of today's episode.Effective Co-Parenting with A D...2017-12-0657 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyCo-Parenting and Keeping Your Sanity. Guest: Karen CovyEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest, Karen Covy - Divorcing A Hijackal® When Children Are InvolvedKaren Covy, divorce adviser, attorney, coach. It is imperative to know how to divorce a difficult person, a Hijackal, a toxic person. It is a different approach with different preparation. You have to know how to present things effectively to your attorney, and how to present yourself in court. SO much to know. That's the gift of today's episode.Effective Co-Parenting with A D...2017-12-0600 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to See Red Flags of Dating Disasters Guest: Lorna PooleEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest, Lorna Poole - Going from Dating Disaster to Finding Long-Time LoveHow's Your Dating Radar? Dr. Rhoberta Shaler helps you see why you may be missing red flagsGuest, Dating Coach Lorna Poole, talks candidly how dating disasters woke her up to what she really wanted and how she found long-time love and what it took to get it.More about Lorna PooleShe is...2017-11-2800 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHow to See Red Flags of Dating Disasters Guest: Lorna PooleEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest, Lorna Poole - Going from Dating Disaster to Finding Long-Time LoveHow's Your Dating Radar? Dr. Rhoberta Shaler helps you see why you may be missing red flagsGuest, Dating Coach Lorna Poole, talks candidly how dating disasters woke her up to what she really wanted and how she found long-time love and what it took to get it.More about Lorna PooleShe is...2017-11-2858 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHijackals at Work: Workplace Bullying. Guest: Judy HobermanEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGUEST: Judy Hoberman, author of Walking on the Glass Floor on Workplace Bullying Workplace bullying is a top cause of stress, and a leading cause of quitting. It creates a hostile and toxic environment, often because the bullies are allowed to get away with their behavior. In this episode we discuss how to effectively deal with these types of people in your workplace, so you can get on with enjoying your job, and lowering your stress levels.2017-11-2200 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyHijackals at Work: Workplace Bullying. Guest: Judy HobermanEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGUEST: Judy Hoberman, author of Walking on the Glass Floor on Workplace Bullying Workplace bullying is a top cause of stress, and a leading cause of quitting. It creates a hostile and toxic environment, often because the bullies are allowed to get away with their behavior. In this episode we discuss how to effectively deal with these types of people in your workplace, so you can get on with enjoying your job, and lowering your stress levels.2017-11-2250 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyDifficult or Dangerous? Dr. Rhoberta ShalerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorA new season begins! New format, new guests!Seg 1 - 6 minutes Intro to EpisodeSeg 2 - Q & A Filed for DivorceSeg 3 - What's up? Power in Positions - Harvey WeinsteinSeg 4 - Is Your Relationship Difficult or Dangerous?Seg 5 - Have You Given Up Your Boundaries?CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor...2017-11-0100 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyDifficult or Dangerous? Dr. Rhoberta ShalerEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorA new season begins! New format, new guests!Seg 1 - 6 minutes Intro to EpisodeSeg 2 - Q & A Filed for DivorceSeg 3 - What's up? Power in Positions - Harvey WeinsteinSeg 4 - Is Your Relationship Difficult or Dangerous?Seg 5 - Have You Given Up Your Boundaries?CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:Website: ForRelationshipHelp.comFacebook: RelationshipHelpDoctorTwitter: Twitter.com/Rho...2017-11-0154 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyCompassionate Communication. Guest: Laura JackEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest: Laura Jack, author of The Compassion Code Were you ever told to "be nice" or to "play nicely?"Any chance that turned into negating what you wanted in order to make other people happy?This show focuses on what you may be losing in life if you're still following that early "Be nice!" admonition.Guest, Laura Jack, author of The Compassion Code, joins in to discuss the...2017-09-2000 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyCompassionate Communication. Guest: Laura JackEMOTIONAL SAVVY: THE RELATIONSHIP HELP SHOWwith Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help DoctorGuest: Laura Jack, author of The Compassion Code Were you ever told to "be nice" or to "play nicely?"Any chance that turned into negating what you wanted in order to make other people happy?This show focuses on what you may be losing in life if you're still following that early "Be nice!" admonition.Guest, Laura Jack, author of The Compassion Code, joins in to discuss the...2017-09-2055 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyRecognize the Indelible Marks of Adverse Childhood Experiences, ACEsSo many people have had difficulties in their childhood, and resulting from their childhoods. Adverse Childhood Experiences, ACEs, is a thing. It's real. It's today topic.You may not realize how much of an impact your early life has had on your every thought about yourself, others, relationships, rights, and expectations if you have had ACEs. Here's a definition from the Minnesota Department of Health:"An adverse childhood experience (ACE) describes a traumatic experience in a person's life occurring before the age of 18 that the person remembers as an adult....2017-07-1900 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyRecognize the Indelible Marks of Adverse Childhood Experiences, ACEsSo many people have had difficulties in their childhood, and resulting from their childhoods. Adverse Childhood Experiences, ACEs, is a thing. It's real. It's today topic.You may not realize how much of an impact your early life has had on your every thought about yourself, others, relationships, rights, and expectations if you have had ACEs. Here's a definition from the Minnesota Department of Health:"An adverse childhood experience (ACE) describes a traumatic experience in a person's life occurring before the age of 18 that the person remembers as an adult....2017-07-1956 minTransforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyWhat It Takes to Divorce a Difficult Toxic Person: A Hijackal®!The first show! The Relationship Help Show: Move from Pain to Power is here to help you recognize and remedy relationships within yourself, and with the people in your life...especially with the relentlessly difficult people Dr. Shaler calls Hijackals®.In this episode, the conversation is about divorce. Yes, for some people, it comes to that: divorce. And, it's a very big decision, especially if you don't clearly see and understand the traits, patterns and cycles of the difficult, toxic people, the Hijackals.You may think that all that is going on is y...2017-07-1200 min
Transforming Relationship with Emotional SavvyWhat It Takes to Divorce a Difficult Toxic Person: A Hijackal®!The first show! The Relationship Help Show: Move from Pain to Power is here to help you recognize and remedy relationships within yourself, and with the people in your life...especially with the relentlessly difficult people Dr. Shaler calls Hijackals®.In this episode, the conversation is about divorce. Yes, for some people, it comes to that: divorce. And, it's a very big decision, especially if you don't clearly see and understand the traits, patterns and cycles of the difficult, toxic people, the Hijackals.You may think that all that is going on is y...2017-07-1251 min