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Growing In Marriage238. Ask the Expert: Important Marriage Questions Answered (with Cindy Renfrow, LCSW)This week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Rich and DeAnna sit down with Cindy Renfrow, LCSW, to tackle some of the most pressing and challenging questions couples face. In this episode, Cindy shares her expert insights on topics like how to get help when your spouse is resistant, rebuilding trust, breaking the cycle of emotional shutdowns, and reigniting excitement in a boring relationship. We also dive into sensitive issues such as comfort levels in the bedroom, managing resentment, and the difficult journey of forgiveness. Join us for an engaging and enlightening conversation that promises to equip you with...2024-07-241h 05
Growing In Marriage236. SoulmatesOn this week’s episode of our the Growing In Marriage podcast, DeAnna is flipping the script and interviewing Rich about our brand new product, Soulmates. It’s designed especially for Christian couples, featuring interactive stories and guided conversations to help you grow closer and deepen your spiritual intimacy. DeAnna asks all the juicy questions you’ll want answers to, making sure you get all the details that will have you rushing to grab your copy. Tune in to discover how Soulmates can help you and your spouse build lasting connections and enjoy a more fulfilling marriage by growing closer...2024-07-1043 min
Growing In Marriage235. Together We Thrive: The Art of Spousal SupportWelcome to this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage Podcast with Rich and DeAnna! Today, we explore the profound impact of uplifting your spouse. Rich shares his journey from ignoring DeAnna’s pleas for help to taking responsibility for household chores and demonstrating true, lasting change. Discover the difference between temporary modifications and genuine transformation, and how consistent acts of love, inspired by God's Word, can strengthen your marriage. 👉🏾**REGISTER FOR THE HAPPILY MARRIED WORKSHOP** 👈🏾 Growing In Marriage Growing In Marriage Website Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful c...2024-07-0338 min
Growing In Marriage233. Healthy Self, Happy MarriageToday, we’re diving into the importance of creating a healthier version of yourself. A happy marriage thrives when both individuals are committed to their personal growth and well-being. DeAnna shares how one of her own growth journeys has brought us closer together and positively impacted our marriage. **REGISTER FOR THE HAPPILY MARRIED WORKSHOP** Growing In Marriage Growing In Marriage Website Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selling book, Face to Face Study God's Word together in our Couples Bible Stu...2024-06-1936 min
Growing In Marriage232. Misunderstood: She Said, He SaidJoin as we tackle the inevitable misunderstandings that arise in marriage. Discover how these moments can affect your feelings and learn strategies to navigate them without trying to convince your spouse that your perspective is the only perspective. We’ll share the importance of acknowledging and reflecting on each other’s viewpoints, even when you don’t agree. Rich and DeAnna will discuss how essential it is to believe that your spouse is on your side, which fosters openness and prevents defensiveness. Plus, they’ll delve into the power of repentance and the importance of seeking forgiveness when you’re wrong...2024-06-1245 min
Growing In Marriage231. We're Not Best FriendsDive into the heart of what makes each of us unique and how to truly love and appreciate those differences in your spouse! Today, Rich and DeAnna are sharing insights on loving your spouse in a way that makes them feel cherished, quick and fun ways to connect and build intimacy through new experiences, travel, and even a bit of friendly competition. Plus, we'll talk about creating a daily routine that helps you slow down, share your life, and truly connect. We are also exploring how to understand and respect your spouse’s emotional bandwidth, making this episode a tr...2024-06-0556 min
Growing In Marriage230. Is Your Marriage Savable?Today, Rich and DeAnna are having fun and answering questions a marriage counselor would ask to determine if their marriage is savable. The reality is we believe all marriages are savable if you do them God's way. As Jimmy Evans would say, you have a 100% chance of success if you do it God's way. And to that, we say, "Amen!" Growing In Marriage Growing In Marriage Website Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selling book, Face to Face Study God's Wor...2024-03-1342 min
Growing In Marriage229. Does Your Spouse Have Your Back?Ever wonder what it truly means to have your spouse's back, in the good times and especially the bad? In this heartwarming episode, Rich and DeAnna dive into the art of being there for your spouse. We'll explore how these actions not only deepen your bond but also honor God's design for marriage. Tune in as we unpack practical tips, share inspiring examples, and delve into Scripture to guide you in cultivating a relationship where you and your spouse are each other's greatest allies, no matter what life brings. Growing In Marriage Growing In M...2024-03-0643 min
Growing In Marriage226. Happily MarriedIntroducing the Happily Married Workshop. Rich and DeAnna spill the beans on their new in-person event. If you are local to the Central Valley of California: Bay Area, Sacramento, Fresno, Foothills then you don't want to miss this fun one-day workshop that will help you achieve the kind of relationship others will be asking, "How do they do it." Sign Up for The Happily Married Workshop Register for the Happily Married Workshop Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when R...2024-01-3135 min
Growing In Marriage225. Transforming Criticism Into Compassion in MarriageToday Rich and DeAnna are talking about a topic that affects every marriage, but often lurks in the shadows of the relationship. This darkness leaves a silent but very profound impact on both spouses—it’s criticism! So, grab a cup of coffee, find a comfortable space, and listen to us engage in a conversation that could breathe new life into your relationship. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab...2024-01-2453 min
Growing In Marriage224. DeAnna's BackRich and DeAnna finally deliver a "short" episode. In this podcast, DeAnna's back and she is sharing how she celebrated her 50th birthday and created a memory we will NEVER forget. 😂 Tune into this fun episode that's sure to make you smile and gasp all within 24 minutes. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our...2024-01-1725 min
Growing In Marriage223. Start Caregiving and Step Into IntimacyToday, Rich is teaming up with Shannon McKiernan as she fills in for DeAnna. DeAnna had an unexpected event take place that sidelined her for this episode. We want you to step into intimacy in your marriage. One of the ways to do that is through caregiving. Listen as Rich and Shannon discuss why careging is necessary in your marriage and what it looks like. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. 2024-01-1056 min
Growing In Marriage222. Stop Taking Care of Your SpouseTo some degree, we all love being taken care of at times, especially when the care is coming from our spouse. Today, Rich and DeAnna want you to stop taking care of your spouse in exchange for something better. Listen as they discuss why caretaking is detremental to your marriage and what you should do instead. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind H...2024-01-0348 min
Growing In MarriageReplay: How Do You Handle Rejection?Rich and DeAnna are replaying a popular episode from two years ago. Settle in and listen again to Rich and DeAnna share how you can handle rejection from your spouse and in your marriage. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selling book, Face to Face Study God's Word together in...2023-12-2736 min
Growing In Marriage221. Inside Our Marriage: What Really Happens Behind Closed DoorsRich and DeAnna are spilling the beans on what happens behind closed doors in their marriage. Enjoy this fun, light-hearted episode that sure to make you smile. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy Confident Husband Mastermind Have meaningful conversations with the person you love using our best selling book, Face to Face Study God's Word together in our Couples Bible Study Purchase our Couples Bible S...2023-12-2039 min
Growing In Marriage220. Cozy Moments and Cheer: Embracing Holiday WarmthToday, Rich and DeAnna aim to equip couples with practical strategies and guidance to navigate the holiday season more smoothly, reducing stress and overwhelm. It's the perfect opportunity to fostering emotional closeness, rediscover intimacy, and create meaningful moments together. Learn to embrace and relish the holiday moments as a team, fostering a sense of joy, togetherness, and shared celebration. Don't Miss Anything Sign up to be on our mailing list and be notified first about upcoming events, special discounts, and when Rich and DeAnna are in your area. Show Links Grab our freebie Buy...2023-12-1338 min
Growing In Marriage219. 5 Moves from Amateur to Pro CommunicationEver felt like you and your partner are speaking different languages, even when you're saying the same things? This podcast episode is the ultimate playbook for upgrading your relationship communication skills. Rich and DeAnna are addressing five powerful moves to help you ace those heart-to-heart talks. From genuinely tuning in and understanding your partner's vibes to nailing that tricky balance between words and body language, this episode is all about practical tips to make your conversations smoother than ever. Dive in for a fun, insightful session that'll make you the MVP of communication in your relationship. It's time to...2023-12-0644 min
Growing In Marriage213. Secrets and White Lies: Navigating Trust and Honesty in RelationshipsJoin Rich and DeAnna in this eye-opening podcast episode as they dive headfirst into the world of white lies, trust issues, and the tangled web of emotions that come with them. 🕵️♂️🔍 Ever caught yourself telling a harmless white lie to your partner? Well, we're getting real about how those seemingly innocent fibs can snowball into something way bigger. From the fear of disappointing your significant other to the dangerous dance of people-pleasing, Rich and DeAnna spill the tea on how these white lies can wreak havoc on trust and connection. SHOW LINKS: - Register to...2023-08-1651 min
Growing In Marriage205. The Four HorsemenRich and DeAnna attended a marriage conference in Seattle, Washington, about five years ago. Rich and DeAnna were introduced to the Four Horsemen at that conference. What they learned was life-changing, and they think it will also be for you and your marriage. Listen along as they discuss the Four Horsemen and how you can limit their presence in your marriage. SHOW LINKS: - Register to attend the Growing In Marriage Retreat 2023: https://www.growinginmarriage.com/retreat -Want to purchase Face to Face? Visit our website at: https://growinginmarriage.com/face-to-face ...2023-04-1959 min
Growing In Marriage162. Office RomanceToday, Rich and DeAnna continue the conversation of office romance. DeAnna shares about an office romance she had early in their marriage and how she navigated those waters.2021-07-1451 min
Growing In Marriage159. You Might Be Having An Office Romance If ...Today, Rich and DeAnna are talking about how you can know if you are having an office romance or maybe on the verge of starting one. DeAnna shares about an office romance she had early in our marriage and how she navigated those waters. To view the show notes and grab the freebies mentioned in this episode, visit our website. growinginmarriage.com/1592021-06-2340 min
Growing In Marriage140. Advice for NewlywedsOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are giving advice to newlyweds. Congratulations Billy and Avery, we love you! Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Get FREE Marriage Tips and Advice2020-10-0737 min
Growing In Marriage139. Talking About GodOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss three of their favorite Scriptures and how they have formed them and allowed them to form their view of God. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Get FREE Marriage Tips and Advice2020-09-3041 min
Growing In Marriage138. Rules of DisengagementOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the rules of disengagement. When to stop and disengage before you make things worse in your conflict. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Get FREE Marriage Tips and Advice2020-09-2335 min
Growing In Marriage137. UGLyOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss what to do when you spouse acts in an ugly manner. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Get FREE Marriage Tips and Advice2020-09-1632 min
Growing In Marriage136. RecapOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna, are recapping the month of August with their four guests: Dr. Morgan Cutlip, Dr. Kim Kimberling, Laura Heck, and Dr. Corey Allan. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Get FREE Marriage Tips and Advice2020-09-0936 min
Growing In Marriage135. Gridlock (with Dr. Corey Allan)This week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are talking with Dr. Corey Allan about gridlock in marriage. Corey Allan (if you want to be formal it’s Dr. Corey Allan, but he's usually pretty casual) is a husband, father, author, speaker, as well as a Marriage and Family Therapist and a Licensed Professional Counselor with a Ph.D. in Family Therapy. He and his wife Pam host a weekly podcast, Sexy Marriage Radio, where they help frame the conversation for couples to experience the best sex possible in their marriage. ...2020-08-2657 min
Growing In Marriage134. Sex and Desire (with Laura Heck)On today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are talking with Laura Heck on the subject of sex and desire in marriage. Laura Heck is a licensed marriage and family therapist and Certified Gottman Therapist. She is a relationship specialist, meaning she doesn't work with teenagers, doesn't treat eating disorders, and doesn't heal past life trauma. Nope...Laura is solely focused on helping couples. That's it. Learn more about Laura Heck Follow us on Instagram Visit our Website Buy our new book, Face to Face2020-08-1944 min
Growing In Marriage133. Oneness (with Dr. Kim Kimberling)On today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are talking with Dr. Kim Kimberling on the subject of oneness and spiritual intimacy. Dr. Kim Kimberling has been a professional counselor for over thirty years. He holds a PhD and a Doctor of Ministry in Christian Counseling. He also holds Masters Degrees in Christian Ministry and Theological Studies. Dr. Kim is President and co-founder of Awesome Marriage, which reaches thousands of people with God's plan for marriage and relationships. Dr. Kim's inspiration and passion for marriage began at a young age as he watched...2020-08-1247 min
Growing In Marriage132. Affairs (with Dr. Morgan Cutlip)On today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are talking with Dr. Morgan Cutlip on the subject of infidelity in marriage. Dr. Morgan is a wife, mom to Effie and Roy, a Ph.D. in psychology, and the life-long lover of all things relationships. She develops online courses and resources at Love Thinks and manages the blog at mylovethinks.com. Feel free to hang out with Dr. Morgan on Instagram @mylovethinks and check out her new course The Mother Load: Helping Couples Unite to Tackle the Mental Load. Follow us...2020-08-0554 min
Growing In Marriage131. Help! My Spouse Is an Extrovert and I'm an IntrovertOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna, are discussing how an introvert and extrovert married couple can experience deep intimacy without compromising on their core needs. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Get FREE Marriage Tips and Advice2020-07-2936 min
Growing In Marriage130. Common GoalsOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna, discuss why having common goals are so good for your marriage, and how you can use common goals to create new intimacy in your relationship. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Get FREE Marriage Tips and Advice2020-07-2234 min
Growing In Marriage129. Vacation Don'tsOn this week's episode of Growing In Marriage Big Rich and DeAnna have fun with the subject of vacation–specifically what not to do. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Get FREE Marriage Tips and Advice2020-07-1534 min
Growing In Marriage128. Marriage What's It All About (Part 2)On today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna return for part two of a two part series on the purpose of marriage. Big Rich and DeAnna talk about the point of marriage, its origins, what the point of it all is and what it's doing in your life. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Buy our new book, Face to Face2020-07-0841 min
Growing In Marriage127. Marriage What's It All AboutOn today's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna start a new series on the purpose of marriage. Big Rich and DeAnna talk about the point of marriage, its origins, what the point of it all is and what it's doing in your life. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Buy our new book, Face to Face2020-07-0145 min
Growing In Marriage126. Feeling Pressure To Leave Your MarriageThis week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about what to do when you start feeling the pressure to leave your marriage. Stress is part of every relationship and so are trials. If we are not looking at our stressors and trials through the right lens, we might miss what God has for us. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our website Buy our new book, Face to Face2020-06-2439 min
Growing In Marriage125. Woman Caught In AdulteryOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the woman caught in adultery as the story is told in John chapter 8. There are several ways you should see yourself in the account and because of that, it should lead you to the same conclusions as the people in the story. Forgiveness can be very difficult to work through in marriage, but when you see yourself as the one needing forgiveness, it helps us extend and offer forgiveness to the offenses done against us. Follow us on Instagram: https://ww...2020-06-1734 min
Growing In Marriage124. Don't Sweat the Small StuffOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the importance of not sweating the small stuff. Mistakes are a part of life. When we react harshly or when we overreact to a mistake our spouse has made it can create a culture of fear and uncertainty in your marriage. Misplaced value will lead us to treasure the wrong things in our marriage. This week we will learn what really deserves priority in your relationship. Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/growinginmarriage Like us on Fa...2020-06-1042 min
Growing In Marriage123. Black Lives MatterThis week on the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the importance of the Black Lives Matter movement and the death of George Floyd at the hands of Minnesota police officers. Racism touches all of our lives, for some everyday. Learn how you can begin to affect positive change in your community and city. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Learn about us on our website2020-06-031h 08
Growing In Marriage122. Don't Waste Your TimeOn this week's episode of Growing In Marriage Big Rich and DeAnna share the importance of not wasting your time in quarantine/sheltering in place. We all have things we have told ourself we would like to work on if we had the time. Well, now is the time. Follow us on Instagram. Like us on Facebook. Purchase our new book, Face to Face.2020-05-2735 min
Growing In Marriage121. Spiritual Intimacy (God speaks to us)On this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast Big Rich and DeAnna discuss spiritual intimacy and what God has been speaking to them individually lately. Follow us on Instagram Like us on Facebook Visit our Website Purchase our new book Face to Face 2020-05-2039 min
Growing In Marriage120. Small BreakOn this week's episode of the Growing In Marriage podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna are back from a small break and we are sharing the reason we took our break and what we have been up to. The reason we took our break might shock you. We also discuss our new book, Face to Face and how you can get a copy for yourself. It has always been a dream of ours to produce quality resources, tools every couple can put in their tool belt and implement quickly in their marriage and get real, tangible results. Face to...2020-05-1341 min
Growing In Marriage119. Connected To GodWhen do you most feel connected to God? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna are going to answer this question in their own personal lives and offer up some ways for you to connect with God in new and fresh ways in your relationship. 2020-04-0136 min
Growing In Marriage118. Showing AppreciationDo you express your appreciation toward your spouse as well as you could, or in a meaningful way to you spouse? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna will share how you can be more impactful in showing your spouse appreciation. 2020-03-2538 min
Growing In Marriage117. Supporting Your Spouse Through CoronavirusIt's the only thing people are talking about. You can't get away from it, it's the coronavirus. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna will talk about ways you can support your spouse through the coronavirus. 2020-03-1844 min
Growing In Marriage116. Listener Question (My Marriage Is on the Rocks Please Help)Today, Big Rich and DeAnna are answering a question from a Listener who emailed saying, "My marriage is on the rocks... please help.")2020-03-1151 min
Growing In MarriageRepairing Broken ConnectionAfter a disagreement or a big fight, you may feel disconnected from your spouse. It's normal. But how do you repair the broken connection and start moving forward again. Conflict in marriage is also normal–you're two different people you see the world differently–learning to minimize disconnection in your conflict and having less conflict is the goal. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna are going to talk about how you can achieve this in your marriage. 2020-03-0440 min
Growing In MarriageBonus: Love LanguagesBig Rich and DeAnna talk about how you can apply the Five Love Languages to your marriage and give you practical examples for each love language. 2020-02-2911 min
Growing In Marriage114. Planning a Successful Date NightThe purpose of date night is to connect with your spouse. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna are going to give you a framework that you can use to help you plan a successful date night. 2020-02-2629 min
Growing In Marriage113. Is The Grass Greener On The Other SideIs the grass really greener on the other side? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the grass and what to do about it. 2020-02-1935 min
Growing In Marriage112. Listener Question (He Loves Me Not)Today Big Rich and DeAnna are answering a question from a Listener and who writes in and says, "My husband has told me that he loves me but is not sure if he is in love with me." We are helping this Listener navigate these difficult waters. 2020-02-1240 min
Growing In Marriage111. Listener Question (Betrayal)On today's podcast we are answering a question from a listener about betrayal. This question comes to us from and Instagram DM. Big Rich and DeAnna tackle tough topics and provide tough answers. 2020-02-0536 min
Growing In Marriage109. 1 Peter 3:7Ever read a passage of Scripture and get offended by what it says because it doesn't sound progressive enough? Or maybe it sounds degrading and outdated? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, will talk about one of those passages and how we should see it as God intended us to view it. 2020-01-2235 min
Growing In Marriage107. RiskToday we answer a listener's question about trust. Big Rich and DeAnna also introduce Jumpstart and I wish DeAnna a Happy Birthday! 2020-01-0834 min
Growing In Marriage106. Motivated To ChangeToday we are talking about what motivates someone to change. Big Rich and DeAnna share some of their motivations and how you can identify what may move you to change.2019-12-1832 min
Growing In Marriage104. Bids For Your Spouse's AttentionOn today's episode Big Rich and DeAnna discuss what you can do to stay connected during the busy time of year. Making sure you recognize your spouse's attempts to connect and turning toward your spouse are keys to holding on to your intimacy with one another. 2019-12-0424 min
Growing In Marriage101. He Doesn't Help Around The HouseLadies, has your husband ever expressed to you that he thinks his contribution of going to work is enough? A lot of husbands feel like working is the biggest contribution to the relationship and their work absolves them of any responsibility to help with household chores. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, share how you can get past this in your marriage and begin to move forward. 2019-11-1337 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-100: 100 EpisodesToday, Big Rich and DeAnna celebrate 100 episodes of the Growing In Marriage podcast. Listen as they celebrate this important milestone. 2019-11-0643 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-099: We Are DifferentAre your differences keeping you apart, or are they pulling you closer together? When we celebrate our differences rather than seeing them as something that separates you, they become incredibly powerful to create new intimacy and new levels of engagement in your marriage. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, talk about celebrating the things that make us different. 2019-10-1021 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-098: The Hard QuestionsEveryone has a question or two they don't want to answer or would rather not be asked. Today, we are asking the hard questions. Listen as Big Rich and DeAnna explore these questions and share how you can grow and connect with your spouse through these difficult inquiries. 2019-10-0237 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-097: When Marriage Gets HardMarriage isn't all roses. Ask any couple. Marriage gets hard at times. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss why marriage gets hard and how you can weather the storm. 2019-09-2537 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-095: You Can Be Right Or HappyHave you ever been in a relationship with someone who always needs to be right? You know the type, it's their way or no way, all the time. Today Big Rich and DeAnna discuss how you can move past being right and work together to find a solution that works best for the marriage. 2019-09-1132 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-094: Compassion and MercyIt's not always easy to be compassionate and merciful to your spouse. But, as Jesus demonstrates, it's our compassion for one another that should lead us to acts of service. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss the significance of the parable of the Good Samaritan and how it relates to your marriage to transform your relationship. 2019-08-2835 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-093: Marks of a Christian MarriageListen as Big Rich and DeAnna discuss some distinguishing marks of a Christian marriage and why yours should be different than most relationships.2019-08-2135 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-093: State of the MarriageHow is your marriage doing? Can you openly and freely talk to your spouse regarding the state of your relationship? Today Big Rich and DeAnna discuss how you can have a profitable State of the Marriage meeting. 2019-08-1426 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-091: Growing In Your Relationship with God TogetherGrowing in our relationship with God is a journey, not a series of tasks and goals. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about how couples can grow in their relationship with God together, as husband and wife, and how to overcome some of the common pitfalls that frustrate us and cause us to give up.2019-08-0742 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-090: Listen for the HeartListening is a skill everyone should have in their tool belt. It's also a tool we should constantly fine tune and sharpen because it pays huge dividends. On today's podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna, talk about the importance of becoming proficient in the art of listening and how you can make small changes to ensure your spouse feels heard, validated and understood. 2019-07-2437 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-089: Taming Your TongueToday, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about how important it is that we address the issue of our speech and how we talk to our spouse. Our speech can set us up for success, or it can sabotage our interactions before they even begin. Learn about the core reason our tongues give us so much trouble and what we can do about it. 2019-07-1737 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-086: AutopilotWhat's the difference between a marriage on autopilot versus one that is fully engage and deeply connected? Purpose and intentionality. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about what it means to have a marriage on autopilot and how to remedy the relationship if it just coasting along. Scripture references: Proverbs 1:32 (ESV, NCV) Luke 12:13-21 James 4:17 2019-06-1935 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-082: Seeing Eye-To-EyeWhat do you do when you and your spouse are unable to see eye-to-eye? How do you get on the same page? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, answer a Listener's question regarding a situation he is currently facing in his marriage. It's a problem every marriage faces and one that has real potential to create deep intimacy and lasting connection or fuel anger and isolation. Scripture references: Luke 9:23 Phil. 2:3 James 1:5 2019-05-1539 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-081: Looking BackToday, Big Rich and DeAnna, discuss four things they wish they would have done sooner in their marriage. Every marriage suffers from bad choices and mistakes. Learning from those choices and mistakes is the goal. Today, we want you to learn from our examples. Scriptures used: Proverbs 12:27 Proverbs 24:30-34 Proverbs 26:15-16 Proverbs 11:14 2019-05-0834 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-080: Ted TalkThere are specific markers in one's professional career that stand out above the others. Today is one of those days. We are having our first Ted Talk! Today, we welcome Ted Lowe as our guest. Ted is one of the co-hosts of the Married People Podcast. Ted has been responsible for shaping marriages and marriage ministries all across the county. To find out more about Ted and his ministry you can visit marriedpeople.org or visit @marriedpeople on Facebook or Instagram. Today Big Rich and DeAnna talk with Ted about all things marriage: serving, conflict, divorce, surviving h...2019-05-011h 04
Growing In MarriageGIM-079: The PokeToday Big Rich and DeAnna discuss "5 Things Your Husband Wants You To Know About His Sexuality." This fun, candid conversation about sex will make you laugh, challenge your perspectives and give you the boldness you may need to have a courageous conversation with your spouse. 2019-04-2438 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-078: Living with A Spouse that has Low Self EsteemOn today's show Big Rich and DeAnna talk about living with a spouse who has low self esteem. 2019-04-1037 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-077: Rebuilding TrustWhen trust is given, rarely do we expect it to be broken. However, when someone breaks their word, repairing the breach can be difficult waters to navigate. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna start a conversation around rebuilding trust and what that actually means. Maybe, more importantly, what it looks like. 2019-04-0338 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-073: 5 Ways A Wife Should Express Her Love To Her HusbandLove is multifaceted and is expressed in a million different ways. Continuing from last week, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss five ways a wive should express love to their husband.2019-03-0640 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-072: 5 Ways A Husband Should Express His Love To His WifeLove is multifaceted and is expressed in a million different ways. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss five ways husbands should express love to their wives. 2019-02-2734 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-071: Weaknesses In MarriageEvery good leader should know their strengths, but they should also know their weaknesses as well. It's not different for marriage. We should be aware of our marital weaknesses and learn how to plan for success in spite of them. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about identifying your marriage's weaknesses and how to make them work for you, not against you. 2019-02-2036 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-067: ResourcesYour marriage needs great resources to thrive. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss three resources that have made a deep impact on their marriage. These books share practical godly wisdom on how to walk in marriage as God intended. You will not want to miss their discussion. 2019-01-0937 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-061: Six Ways We Tear Down Our MarriageAre you tearing down your marriage and you don't realize it? Today Big Rich and DeAnna talk about how you might be sabotaging your marriage and working to tear it down, rather than building it up. 2018-11-1436 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-060: It's Going To Take WorkMarriage can be difficult to navigate and do well, but it's not impossible. Nowhere near it. In today's episode, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about the work it takes to have a successful marriage, one that you will be proud of and a marriage you have always dreamed about. 2018-11-0734 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-059: Micro-CheatingAre you micro-cheating on your spouse? On today's episode, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about this new phrase, "micro-cheating" and define what it is and how you can know if you are doing it. 2018-10-3135 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-057: Good To GreatToday Big Rich and DeAnna share five things you can do in your relationship to take it from good to great. Just like a standout professional athlete has things she does that take her game from good to great, we're going to show you how you can do that in your marriage.2018-10-1034 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-056: LingerieOn today's episode, Big Rich and DeAnna have fun with the topic of lingerie. Are there benefits to wearing lingerie? Is it worth the expense? Find out on today's podcast. 2018-10-0329 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-054: The Silent TreatmentIf you have ever experienced isolation and being cut off from the people and the things you love the most, you know what "the silent treatment" feels like. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about the devastating effects the silent treatment has on your marriage and you as an individual. 2018-09-1934 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-053: Expectations, Encouragement and ValidationToday, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about expectations, encouragement and validating your spouse in your marriage. If you have not created an atmosphere where healthy encouragment and loving validation is happening in your marriage you will not want to miss this episode. 2018-09-0529 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-052: One YearToday, Big Rich and DeAnna celebrate one year of podcasting. Listen to us share about the podcast and their personal lives on today's show. 2018-08-2944 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-050: My Spouse Has An AddictionToday, Big Rich and DeAnna welcome Tino and Miki Urias. Living with a spouse who has an addiction is something you may be experiencing right now. We want you to know there is hope and freedom available for both of you. Addiction doesn't just affect one spouse. Listen as Tino and Miki share their story of hope, healing and freedom. 2018-08-1538 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-048: Interracial MarriageAre you in an interracial marriage or know someone who is? What you could learn from an interracial marriage has the potential to strengthen your relationship. Listen as Big Rich and DeAnna talk a little bit about their marriage and what they have learned from one another over the years.2018-08-0136 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-047: NewlywedsAre you a newlywed? If so, today's show is especially for you. If you have been married for more than two years, this show will hopefully make you evaluate where you are in your marriage and where you want to be next year. Listen as Big Rich and DeAnna answer a listener's email regaring his new, young marriage. 2018-07-2533 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-045: Stuck In Your CommunicationWe all get stuck in our communication with our spouse from time-to-time. When we use statements like, "you always," or "you never," communication gets stuck quickly. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, are going to show you how to work through your communication and help you get unstuck so you can continue to move forward in connection and intimacy with your spouse.2018-07-1135 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-043: Marriage CheckupEvery marriage could benefit from a marriage checkup. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna start the conversation and ask you to evaluate your marriage with your spouse. 2018-06-2040 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-040: Am I Becoming A Better MeStarring at the person in the mirror is always one of the toughest things to do. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss how you can become a better version of yourself in order to create a better version of your marriage. 2018-05-3040 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-039: VacationVacationing together is super important in your marriage. Do you vacation well. Listen to Big Rich and DeAnna this week as they talk about what they have learned over the years and share how you can have a refreshing holiday with your spouse. 2018-05-2337 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-036: In-LawsDealing with in-laws can be a touchy subject in marriage. Learning to navigate those waters with wisdom and discernment can be tricky. Today, Big Rich and DeAnna talk about how to address the subject of in-laws in a God-honoring way and not allow it to negatively impact your marriage. 2018-05-0239 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-035: LeadingWho's leading in your marriage? What does leadership look like? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna discuss what leadership in marriage is and look at how Jesus is the chief example of what good leadership looks like. 2018-04-2539 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-034: FinancesIs money causing tension in your marriage? Today, Big Rich and DeAnna, welcome special guests Chris and Natalie Lewis, to talk about the challenges finances can present in your relationship. This dynamic couple will share their journey to a debt free life and how you can strengthen your marriage through financial freedom.2018-04-1856 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-031: Emotional AffairHow do you guard against an emotional affair in your marriage? On today's podcast, Big Rich and DeAnna will discuss how to recognize an emotional affair and safeguard against one. 2018-03-2836 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-28: Naked and Not AshamedEver wonder just what exactly it means to be naked and not ashamed? On today's podcast Big Rich and DeAnna talk about Genesis 2:25 and what it means to live naked and not ashamed with your spouse. 2018-02-2834 min
Growing In MarriageGIM-004: Sexually ConfidentToday Big Rich and DeAnna ask the question, "Are you sexually confident?" Listen as they explore this topic and talk about their journey along this road.2017-09-0636 min