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The Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#201 Creating Brave Spaces and Celebrating Big HeartsRick Kahler and Partha Iyengar dive into a heartfelt conversation about creating brave spaces to explore money, culture, and personal growth. From Mumbai to the world, Partha shares powerful insights about financial freedom, the contradictions in money worship, and the emotional stories that shape our financial behaviors. With passion, a big heart, and boundless energy, Partha inspires us to think deeper about the role of money in our lives and how understanding our money scripts can lead to true independence and security. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions t...2025-07-1528 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#200 - The Boy Behind the Miser, a Child’s Trauma, an Adult’s DefenseLong before he became a miser, Scrooge was a lonely boy left behind at boarding school—forgotten, unwanted, and emotionally starved. In this IFS-informed exploration, Rick traces how those early wounds formed exiled parts burdened with shame and abandonment, which in turn gave rise to the controlling, isolated adult we meet in A Christmas Carol. Scrooge’s obsession with money, his cold demeanor, and his rejection of connection weren’t signs of greed—they were survival strategies. Through this lens, Dickens’ story becomes more than a tale of redemption—it’s a powerful look at how childhood trauma shapes adult financia...2025-07-0125 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#199 - The Limits and Promise of IFS Financial CoachingIn this episode, Rick dives into the evolving and sometimes murky intersection of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and financial coaching, raising critical questions about where the line is drawn between coaching and therapy. He explores the growing interest in using IFS-informed language and concepts—like parts work—in coaching settings, even as concerns mount about untrained coaches inadvertently wading into therapeutic territory. With transparency about the current shifts in IFS training access, Rick offers a thoughtful look at both the promise and pitfalls of this integration. Whether you’re a coach, therapist, or simply IFS-curious, this episode sheds light on how...2025-06-1729 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#198 - Why Most Financial Planners Aren’t Equipped to Help Couples—And How to Find OneMerging finances as a couple isn’t just about numbers—it’s about navigating emotions, values, and long-held money beliefs. Many financial planners aren’t trained to handle the dynamics of couples’ financial decision-making, which can lead to unresolved conflicts and misaligned goals. But some advisors are embracing skills from financial therapy and conflict resolution to better support couples in making shared financial choices. Rick Kahler shares insights from his own journey, including training designed for couples therapists, to help couples find an advisor who truly understands their unique challenges. The right planner can help both partners feel heard, reduce mon...2025-06-0328 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#197 When Economic Fundamentals Shift - Financial Therapy Without a MapIn this sobering yet grounding episode, Rick Kahler explores what it means to be a financial planner—and a human being—when the economic and social fundamentals we've long relied on begin to feel unstable. From tariffs and a declining dollar to fractured alliances and shifting client fears, Rick unpacks how historical echoes and present-day signals are asking us to lead differently. This isn’t about panic—it’s about presence. He offers a powerful blend of financial insight and emotional guidance, reminding listeners that amid uncertainty, leadership begins with calm, connection, and courageous honesty.A podcast th...2025-05-2026 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#195 - The Money Polarizations That Shape Your Financial ChoicesRick continues his Internal Financial Systems™ series by exploring new dimensions of our money parts, including those tied to awareness, generosity, shame, and control. From the meticulous Accountant and the solution-focused Problem-Solver to the avoidant Ostrich and the self-sacrificing Over-Giver, these parts reveal the complexity of our financial behaviors. Rick also uncovers how polarizations, like the Controller’s desire for order versus the Free Spirit’s embrace of chaos, can drive internal conflict. By understanding and balancing these contrasting parts, we can foster meaningful change and align our financial choices with personal well-being.A podcast that blends...2025-04-2225 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#194 - Your Internal Financial System-The Keys to Transforming Money BehaviorsRick launches his new series on Internal Financial Systems™, revealing the key players within us that shape our money habits. By uncovering these internal voices—like the thrill-seeking Spender or security-driven Saver—you’ll gain the insight needed to make meaningful behavioral changes and achieve true financial wellness. This journey of self-discovery can help you balance conflicting priorities, align your financial choices with your values, and unlock a healthier, more intentional relationship with money.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CF...2025-04-0828 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#193 - Why Your Money Struggles Are Rooted in Self-Talk (and How to Fix It)Ever feel torn between saving and spending? That internal dialogue reveals so much more than you think! Rick Kahler explores how Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS) can transform your relationship with money. By understanding the “parts” of you—like the risk-taker, the cautious planner, and even the inner child—you can uncover the stories behind your financial decisions and start healing old patterns. This compassionate, curiosity-driven approach can help you move from financial conflict to balance. Are you ready to explore your inner financial boardroom?A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the...2025-03-2528 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#192 - Your “Last Love Letter” – One Thing Your Kids Want to Hear From YouWhat’s the one thing you’ve always longed to hear from your parents? Gayle Colman suggests it’s not advice or instructions but something much deeper—a simple acknowledgment of love and connection. In this conversation, Rick Kahler explores the idea of “last love letters,” a powerful practice that goes beyond estate planning to nurture relationships and create a lasting emotional legacy. These letters capture what truly matters: the love and appreciation we often leave unspoken. Why wait to share these heartfelt words? Learn how to begin writing your own letter and why starting today can transform your relationships...2025-03-1130 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#191 - The Nine Enneagram Types Walk Into a Restaurant - Who Pays the BillWhen the check arrives at a group dinner, the reactions can be as varied as the personalities at the table. Rick Kahler and Enneagram expert Joan Ryan explore how different types approach this everyday financial moment. Whether it’s a Type Two offering to pay to foster connection, a Type Five calculating their exact share, or a Type Seven suggesting “Let’s split it and move on,” these responses reveal our deeper money motivations. Learn how to navigate these dynamics with empathy and awareness—and transform financial interactions into opportunities for growth.A podcast that blends the nuts a...2025-02-2530 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#190 - Saving, Spending, and Security - How Enneagram Patterns Explain Financial BehaviorWhy do some people save every penny while others spend like there’s no tomorrow? The answer may lie in your Enneagram type. Rick Kahler and Enneagram expert Joan Ryan unpack the emotional drivers behind our financial habits, from the cautious saving of Type Sixes to the thrill-seeking spending of Type Sevens. This episode highlights how understanding your personality can transform the way you approach money—whether you’re battling inner conflict about saving or navigating the emotional pulls of spending. Discover how to align your habits with what truly matters to you.A podcast that blends...2025-02-1126 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#189 - Money Scripts and Enneagram Types: Understanding Your Financial BehaviorsOur financial choices aren’t just about dollars and cents—they’re shaped by the stories we believe about money, called money scripts. In this video, Rick Kahler explores how these scripts, passed down through generations, influence everything from saving to spending. Joined by Enneagram expert Joan Ryan, the conversation delves into how personality types add a fascinating layer to our financial habits. Whether you're a Type Three overspending to impress or a Type Nine avoiding budgets to keep the peace, understanding these patterns is key to rewriting your financial story. Awareness is the first step to lasting change!2025-01-2830 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#188 - Who's Really Running Your Finances? Meet Your Inner Money ManagersRick Kahler uses a vivid boardroom metaphor to show how clashing internal financial parts of you, like a strict Project Manager, cautious Risk Manager, and bold Entrepreneur—can create chaos in your financial life. Without your calm, capable CEO (the Self) leading, these parts clash, leading to stress and indecision. This episode explores how to identify these financial “managers,” understand their roles, and unblend from their extreme behaviors. By unlocking the Self, you can harmonize these parts, making thoughtful, balanced money decisions and reclaiming leadership of your financial life."A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts...2025-01-1427 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#187 - The Intersection of IFS and Coaching - Transforming Financial Planning with Saundra DavisRick Kahler is joined by Saundra Davis, a leader in financial coaching and the director of Golden Gate University’s Financial Planning Program, to explore how Internal Family Systems (IFS) and coaching are revolutionizing the financial planning profession. Saundra shares her inspiring journey from traditional financial planning to a behavior-focused approach, offering practical insights on using IFS and coaching to help clients align money decisions with their values. Learn how these innovative tools empower both professionals and clients to heal money wounds, create new financial narratives, and transform their relationships with money.A podcast that blends th...2024-12-3129 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#186 - The Future of Financial Therapy - Bridging Money and Emotions with IFS and AIJoin Rick, a pioneer in financial therapy, as he explores the promising horizon for this evolving field. This episode delves into the integration of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, a transformative approach to understanding the emotional 'parts' influencing financial behavior, and the role of AI in reshaping therapeutic practices while keeping the human connection at the forefront. Richard also discusses the challenges of scalability, clinical boundaries, and public recognition, along with what’s ahead for the CFT™ certification, including heightened standards and interdisciplinary growth. Discover how financial therapy is poised to address deep-rooted financial trauma and support diverse comm...2024-12-1729 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#177 - The 2024 Election Outcome -Your Portfolio And What To Do NowIn this insightful episode, we delve into how U.S. election outcomes influence retirement planning, revealing a surprising pattern: many advisors and clients react to political uncertainty with fear-driven investment decisions, often to their detriment. Reflecting on the 2016 and 2020 elections, we explore how market reactions defied expectations. Will history repeat itself and why this year may or may not be different. Join us as Rick discusses what you need to do both emotionally and financially to prepare for the 2024 election outcome. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that dr...2024-09-1727 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#172 - Balancing Passion and Pay: A Reality CheckIn this episode, Rick explores the evolving perspectives on career and passion within the financial life planning community. Once an advocate of "do what you love and the money will follow," many early life planners have now realized the challenges of balancing fulfilling work with financial stability. Featuring insights from Scott Galloway and Jonathan Clemens, he delves into why finding your talent might be more crucial than following your heart. Join Rick as he discusses his own path of applying the practicalities of achieving both financial success and personal satisfaction in today's world. Don't miss this enlightening monologue!2024-08-1330 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#170 – The Best Kept Secret to Maximizing Your Social Security BenefitsRick tackles a common misconception about Social Security benefits. Many people opt to take their benefits early to avoid leaving money on the table if they pass away young. However, this very reason is exactly why they should consider waiting and why cognitive biases and emotions keep us locked into making a poor decision. We’ve all heard that by delaying your Social Security benefits, you can statistically significantly increase the amount you receive, ensuring greater financial security in your later years. Join us as we explore why that is logically and what you can do to recognize if co...2024-07-3029 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money168 – The Science of Getting Unstuck with Britt FrankFeeling stuck? In this episode, host Rick chats with psychotherapist and best-selling author Britt Frank. Discover the neuroscience behind stuckness and practical tools to make positive changes in your life. Britt discusses the difference between feeling stuck due to a lack of choices versus disliking your options. She emphasizes the importance of micro-steps and explains how your brain's focus on survival might be holding you back. Learn how to break down big goals into manageable pieces and explore the benefits of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy. Get unstuck and find your path forward!A podcast that...2024-07-1629 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money165 - Beyond Calories & Budgets -Breaking Societal Taboos & Finding Lasting Change – Part 3Conclude the series with Rick and Celia as they tackle societal taboos around money discussions and draw parallels between financial secrecy and body shame. Explore the emotional complexities faced by individuals in larger bodies, navigate biases, and challenge assumptions about happiness and appearances. Gain insights into the link between self-worth, body image, and financial status, and how they impact health and well-being. Discover common challenges related to safety, unmet needs, and self-worth in both food and money issues, and learn how therapists and financial professionals can collaborate to support lasting change.A podcast that blends the...2024-06-2530 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money164 - Beyond Calories & Budgets -Navigating Emotional Dimensions – Part 2Dive deeper with Rick and Celia as they explore the profound link between feeling secure in your body and financial safety. Uncover the emotional drivers behind controlled or chaotic eating, and how both food and spending can be used to seek connection or disconnection. Learn about the psychological roots of money and food-related behaviors, emphasizing the importance of addressing underlying needs and emotions for lasting change. This episode equips therapists and financial professionals with deeper understanding of the emotional landscape surrounding eating and spending habits.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice...2024-06-1830 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money163 - Beyond Calories & Budget Unveiling the Parallels - Part OneJoin financial therapist Rick and food & body image specialist Celia Clark as they shatter myths about health and unveil surprising connections between healing your relationship with food and managing your finances. The speakers explore the concept of "bonding" with food or money, and how societal pressures play a role. Explore the link between debt and weight, challenge body size stereotypes, and discover how binge eating and binge spending might share similar roots. While both food and money are essential, they can become difficult to manage when disordered. Learn the two-step approach to recovery: creating safety and identifying six core...2024-06-1129 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money161 - Exploring The Fears of Not Owning a HomeIs homeownership the dream for everyone? Join Rick as he dives into the complex emotions behind renting vs. owning. Discover the hopes, fears, and personal factors that shape this life-altering decision. This insightful exploration goes beyond finances, offering valuable perspectives for financial planners and individuals seeking a holistic understanding of their financial journey. Tune in to unlock the true meaning of "owning your dreams."A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by int...2024-05-2827 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money157 - Is Financial Therapy Right for You? Unlock the Signs & Take Charge!Feeling overwhelmed by money decisions? Struggling with past financial trauma? This episode is your guide! Join Rick as he answers the crucial question: "How do I know if I need a financial therapist?" Discover the key signs and emotions that might signal it's time to explore financial therapy. From emotional spending to lingering debt trauma, we'll delve into the indicators that could benefit from professional guidance. This empowering episode equips you with the knowledge to recognize the call for financial therapy and take proactive steps towards a healthier financial mindset. Don't wait! Unlock your financial well-being and learn when...2024-04-3025 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money156 - Reflections on The Third Anniversary of The Financial Therapy Podcast and What It Means To Pick Up a PennyJoin us for a special edition of the Financial Therapy Podcast as we celebrate our third anniversary! Host Rick Kaler reflects on the journey of producing 156 episodes, sharing insights and lessons learned along the way. Rick dives into an intriguing discussion on the psychology of picking up a penny, exploring various money scripts and the emotional responses they trigger. Whether you're a long-time listener or new to the podcast, this episode offers a heartfelt look at the impact and purpose of financial therapy. Don't miss out on this milestone moment! A podcast that blends the nuts a...2024-04-2328 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money155 - African Psychology & Financial Therapy - Finding Freedom & Boundaries – Dr. Prince SarpongDive deeper with Dr. Prince Sarpong and Rick as they discuss the complex relationship between financial freedom and community harmony. Discover how embracing healthy boundaries within the Ubuntu philosophy can unlock true liberation. Learn how prioritizing relational well-being alongside financial goals leads to a more fulfilling and meaningful life.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions tha...2024-04-1631 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money152 - Escaping the Guru Trap - Breaking Free from Destructive Financial Cults with Jillian Knight – Part 2Join LMFT Jillian Knight and Rick as they delve deeper into the dangers of rigid financial communities. Explore tactics like shame, guilt, and manipulation used to control members. Learn to recognize these red flags and protect yourself from harmful group dynamics, even if they appear helpful on the surface.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions tha...2024-03-2630 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money149 - Uncovering Hidden Gems – AI vs. Authentic Intelligence with Susan Bradley - Part 2Dive deeper with Susan and Rick as they continue their captivating conversation. Explore how Susan's work with financial planners empowers financial therapists. They'll delve into the future, questioning the role of Artificial Intelligence and championing the power of Authentic Intelligence in both professions. Get ready for insightful perspectives and a glimpse into the evolving landscape of financial wellness.#money #values #financialplanning #financialtherapy #financialpodcast #rickkahler #discussingmoney #relationship #psychology #financialbehaviors #moneyscripts #emotions #sarahbradley #financialtransitions+ Website for Podcast: https://thefinancialtherapypodcast.com+ Website for Financial Therapy Appointments: https://advanced-wellbeing.com+ Website for Financial Planning Appointments: https://kahlerfinancial...2024-03-0526 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money148 - Uncovering Hidden Gems – The Intersection of Financial Transitions & Financial Therapy with Susan Bradley – Part 1Buckle up for a thought-provoking ride with Susan Bradley and Rick! Decades of conversations, never recorded until now, unfold as they explore the groundbreaking intersection of financial transitions and financial therapy. Be surprised as they uncover hidden gems, sparking insights for financial planners and therapists alike. Join this spontaneous, unrehearsed discussion and discover how financial well-being goes deeper than just numbers. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He b...2024-02-2730 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money146 - One Set of Money Scripts We Don’t Talk AboutWhat money scripts has Rick never thought of, has he never covered in any of the books he’s authored? Surveys show that if the average American didn’t have these money scripts, they would do things differently. Every American has money scripts on this topic, and yet it isn’t a topic that is top on the list to discuss on date night, or any other night. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money...2024-02-1329 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money145 - Understanding the Emotional Landscape of Debt ForgivenessEmbark on an insightful journey as we explore the nuanced emotions surrounding student loan forgiveness in this episode. Prompted by a recent inquiry from a talk-show host, Rick delves into the emotional terrain, especially for those who never carried student debt or did not qualify for forgiveness programs. What might it feel like for individuals who paid off their student loans or whose education debt isn't eligible for forgiveness, to witness others being relieved of their financial burden? In this episode, Rick unpacks the diverse emotions shaped by personal experiences, beliefs, and circumstances. Brace yourself for a episode that...2024-02-0629 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money141 - Talking Money, a Taboo Topic in Both the US and Africa“Money conversations are hard; people refuse to talk about money.” We know that is true in the US, and it’s equally true in Africa. Join Rick in an interview with Peter Kwadwo Asare Nyarko, the Executive Director of the Centre for Financial Literacy Education Africa. In bringing his passion for financial wellbeing to Africa and building a successful organization in 13 African countries, there were times when he felt like giving up. “Money Skills are 21st century survival skills,” and that doesn’t matter where you live.About Peter Kwadwo Asare Nyarko:Peter Kwadwo Asare Nyarko is a...2024-01-0927 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money138 - Transitioning to Full-Time Travelers with Tamala FloydLearn how Tamala Floyd, Certified IFS Therapist and Lead Trainer, transitioned her life to become a full-time traveler at no additional cost to, or significant change in, her lifestyle. She explains the preparation, both financially and emotionally, that it took to embark on this grand adventure, which may surprise you as much as it did Rick! A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bolt...2023-12-1929 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money131 - Rick's Recap of the 2023 FTA ConferenceWhat is the Financial Therapy Association? Rick recently attended the 14th Financial Therapy Conference held in Charlotte, NC. He talks a little about the history of this relatively new organization and a few of his personal highlights of the many discussions he had with so many in attendance, both legends and first timers. He gives some insights as to future projects, sessions, and podcasts that are on his mind.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make b...2023-10-3129 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money130 – If Only My Partner Would Change, Things Would Be Great!“If my partner would change, we would resolve our conflict about when and where we should retire!” “My spouse doesn’t understand that I work hard for us!” These are common statements uttered in frustration about money and work conflicts. So, how do couples make their conversations constructive and create financial intimacy? Rick’s guest Deb Kaplan shares how to utilize the tools necessary for a constructive conversation: listen, suspend judgment, become curious, practice compassion, and focus on our own behavior. We also explore Money Scripts, IFS tools and how listeners can interview and dialogue with the part of themself that...2023-10-2430 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#126 - From Macro to Micro – How do Cognitive Biases FormRick and his guest, Deb Kaplan, introduce the term Cognitive Biases in this segment. They choose Confirmation Bias and Loss Aversion to explore how couples can resolve conflict by first understanding their own biases. This provides couples an opportunity to be curious about themselves and their partner’s perspective. Curiosity, compassion, and compromise are tools to resolve money disagreements.”A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nut...2023-09-2629 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#123 Wondering About IFS, MDMA, Groups, and TransformationRick visits some notes he made in 2020 where he wondered about the possibilities of applying IFS, MDMA Assisted Therapy, and the use of groups to financial therapy. All of these are transformative in their own right, but what are the possibilities when combined with financial therapy? A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them...2023-09-0528 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#122 - Are Gambling, Gaming, and Hoarding Always a Problematic Behavior?Gambling, gaming, and hoarding for many can be an enjoyable endeavor. For some, it can become impulsive, compulsive or part of an unhealthy cycle. Rick and Deb Kaplan explore what beliefs and behaviors one might consider to assess whether healthy behaviors are problematic, compulsive or addictive. Rick steps into the client’s seat for an impromptu session in the second half of the segment to answer his question; do I have a hoarding issue, or do I just like to collect objects of sentimental value?”A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with...2023-08-2927 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#120 - Money Scripts Myths That Won't Go Away!“Rick, what is your money script?” I was a bit baffled and responded, “I have well over one hundred, I don’t have just one.” He responded, “No, there are only four and I was wondering which one is yours.” He clearly didn’t understand the concept of money scripts. In this episode we explore the origins of this myth and the myth that there is one superior money script to have.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make...2023-08-1528 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#119 - One Woman's Journey to Financial WellnessJoin Rick for a conversation with Chaitali Shah, a financial coach with, Wealthron, Mumbai, India. Chaitali will talk about her transition from the finance industry where she has worked since the age of 21 and gained extensive experience in financial planning, investment management and taught financial economics, to becoming a pioneer in India in financial coaching. She shares a transformative event that came from attending Rick’s “Real Money” workshop. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make bette...2023-08-0830 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#118 – Exploring the Psychology of Compulsive Financial BehaviorsCompulsive behaviors are often due to an individual’s need to self-medicate unresolved wounds. Deb Kaplan and Rick Kahler explore the psychology of compulsive financial behaviors through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS). IFS focuses on a person's internal “parts” and “Self.” Partners can apply IFS to understand themselves and heal their coupleship's money conflicts.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bolts of fina...2023-08-0130 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#114 - Why Is It So Hard Discussing Money With My Partner?Why is it so hard for many couples to talk about money? Rick’s guest, Debra Kaplan, dives into romantic relationships, some of the reasons that it becomes hard to discuss money and the ways that our childhood experiences influence our beliefs and behaviors about money.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them...2023-07-0426 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#113 – Is Workaholism and Over-Spending Hurting Your CoupleshipHow many times have you heard yourself or your partner repeat these statements; “I’m passionate about work, that’s why I work long hours!” or, “I won’t be home late?” In this episode, Rick and Deb take on the topic of workaholism other money behaviors, beginning with work and shifting to compulsive shopping/spending. They explain the difference between being passionate about work and unhealthy work behaviors (workaholism), and shopping versus buying.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™...2023-06-2730 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#106 – The Elements of a Financially Intimate CoupleshipRick talks with his guest, Debra Kaplan, about their collaboration that resulted in them writing, “Coupleship Inc: From Financial Conflict to Financial Intimacy.” They dive into some of the elements of a financially intimate coupleship and their unique perspectives that help couples successfully resolve their financial conflicts. This episode highlights topics such as Internal Family Systems (IFS)/parts work, money scripts, and money behaviors.A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integra...2023-05-0929 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#103 - Two Year AnniversaryRick takes a look back at the origins of the Financial Therapy Podcast, going behind the scenes as to how it came about, its format, some statistics, and considers what may be next. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them and shares them on his financial therapy podcast. 2023-04-1825 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#102 - Talking Couples Therapy, IFIO, IFS and NarcissismJoin a conversation on couples therapy with an emphasis on IFIO, IFS, and Narcissism with a former GGU student Louis Wellmeier, a former attorney whose role was adversarial, to an integrated financial planner whose role is to collaborate with his clients to make their lives better. The session was taped as a part of my monthly “Talking Financial Therapy with Rick Kahler” office hours session. If you would like to join a free session with "Talking Financial Therapy with Rick Kahler", check out https://advanced-wellbeing.com/events/A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts...2023-04-1125 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#99– Bari Tessler - Doing Your Own WorkBari Tessler is back with us this week where we discuss the importance of professionals in doing their own work and why that is a continuous practice, not a one-and-done event. We also discuss the challenges of certification, the future of the financial therapy profession, one of Rick’s money scripts, and why Bari is the consummate individualist. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions that drive making them.Rick Kahler, CFP®, CFT-I™, has helped people make better money decisions by integrating financial planning. He blends the nuts a...2023-03-2125 minThe Financial Therapy Podcast - It's Not Just About The Money#96 Rick, Are You Worth $1 MillionI was encouraging one of my 20 something friends at my gym to attend a workshop I was giving on investing and financial planning. I quipped, “I’ll teach you how to be a millionaire.” “Really?” she responded. I quickly explained how if someone her age invested $6,000 a year in stocks for the next 7 years and then stopped, there would be a high probability she would have $1 million at age 65. I didn’t anticipate her next question, “Are you a millionaire?” Listen now for my answer. A podcast that blends the nuts and bolts of financial advice with the emotions tha...2023-02-2828 min