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Tuff Love with Robert Kandell258: Rob Rant: Thanks, I Had A Good TimeIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about his experience of the Tuff Love Podcast and the journey it has involved. Rob shares a humorous and poignant story involving bed bugs from his time at One Taste, explores his relationship with his own ego and how it has impacted his work, and how he has developed faith in letting go of things in life in order to allow new chapters to begin.
3:54 – I had a good time
7:50 – A space to express love
10:00 – Committing to changing
12:51 – A story about bedbugs
17:38 – Ego guiding work
20:32 – Surfing the wa...
2020-09-0838 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell257: Stopping Corrupted Love with Vanya SilvertenVanya Silverten works internationally as an intuitive energy healer and teacher. With clients and students from over 50 countries, she has a passion to help individuals transform all aspects of their lives. Her greatest joy is to teach people the skills of healing and intuition so that they can master their own lives. Vanya believes healing is an art, and so has refined her gifted intuition through the experience of treating, reading and teaching 10,000+ people – from children to royalty.
Vanya is a Master Theta Healer and has taught 150+ courses in six different countries. She has developed the energetic un...
2020-09-0135 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell256: Myths of Age and Romance with Violent LangeViolet Lange is a love, dating, and relationship mentor who helps spiritual, successful women date like a Queen and feel Fabulously Feminine along the way. Violet has her MBA from Harvard, training from Coach Training Alliance, and is a 500 hour registered yoga teacher and Reiki Master. She is passionate about empowered dating, and lasting loving relationships as building blocks of a healthy society and fulfilling life. Violet recently became a mama to a spunky, sweet daughter named Ruby.
1:42 – Violet’s background
5:19 – How she helps women find fulfilling relationships
7:31 – Using feelings as a barometer of relationship success
2020-08-2534 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell255: Xponential Intelligence with Mas SajadyMas Sajady is a world renowned consciousness programmer who, through his unique techniques and meditations, shifts people’s lives to an evolved and advanced frequency level that enables them to achieve success, fulfillment, and happiness from a natural and balanced state.
From a very young age, Mas showed signs of higher intuition, and after his second near death experience he acquired highly advanced capabilities for quantum frequency programming. His journey to discover the true meaning of this newfound ability led to his own personal breakthroughs, giving him a new effortless, happy, and fulfilling life. This found knowledge en...
2020-08-1844 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell254: Men in the Time of Coronavirus with Adam GiladAdam Gilad is an independent educator, writer and life adventurer, devoted to creating learning programs, films, books and live workshops that awaken, delight, provoke, connect and inspire. The goal of each of his programs and trainings: for each of us to love more fully, laugh more deeply, feel more sensually and live our gifts to awaken ourselves and others into deep engagement and awakening to every precious passing moment of our lives.
2:30 – Adam’s experience of 2020 so far
9:19 – The impact on children
11:23 – Men in Coronavirus
16:35 – A call for balance, Black Lives Matter, and the rise of li...
2020-08-1137 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell253: What It Means To Be A Woman Today with Anna RovaFemininity & Feminine Embodiment Coach Anna Rova is on a mission to help successful women attract and keep masculine men. She runs a powerful group coaching program called “Claimed” that helps women embody their feminine essence fully and get into the best position to attract a partner that will consciously and eagerly play the masculine pole of the polarity spectrum
Writer, podcaster, yoga instructor, and location-independent entrepreneur, Anna is the founder of Girlskill – an online coaching company empowering women to connect to their femininity and understand men through various stories of women around the world and personal revelations.
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2020-08-0443 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell252: Rob Rant: It’s Okay Not To KnowIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about the large array of uncertainty across the world and in his own life during this time. Rob explores COVID, Black Lives Matter, the economic and political situation in the USA, as well as his relationship with his father and life partner. He outlines how while it’s okay not to know, it shouldn’t stop you: do the internal work to know yourself and all aspects of your being.
3:23 – My superpowers
6:37 – Things Rob doesn’t have certainty around
8:52 – Black Lives Matter
12:44 – The economic and political situation in the USA...
2020-07-2825 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell251: FLAUNT Yourself with Lora CheadleLora Cheadle is a transformational thought leader and media personality who empowers women to express themselves fully, find uninhibited joy, and gracefully take the lead in the dance of life despite any external circumstances. She is the author of the bestselling book FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self that is available wherever books are sold. Listen to her podcast or find out more at www.loracheadle.com where you can download your free Bundle of JOY gift pack.
1:47 – Acknowledging the outcries following George Floyd’s death
5:20 – Who is Lora?
8:51 – Life choreogr...
2020-07-2142 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell250: The Power of Polarity in Relationships with Arielle BrownIn this episode, Rob welcomes long-time friend and colleague Arielle Brown to discuss the premise for the workshop that they held on June 17th 2020.
Arielle describes the workshop as follows:
“The degree of power and influence we have in our life is directly related to the amount of sensation we can hold in our body. Similarly, the level of ability we have to create real, authentic connection in our lives is directly related to our ability to hold polarity within our body. To “hold polarity”, in my definition, means to be able to hold (at least) two pe...
2020-07-1443 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell249: Pain Into Pleasure with Aimee BatuskiWhile Aimee spent her first two years out of college building a career in corporate Manhattan, it quickly became clear to her that her passion was wilder than that. She packed her apartment and shipped herself all the way across the country to Los Angeles, where everything in her life as she knew it made a complete 180… except her love life.
Without a job or an income, she found a home with her friends, hired her first Life Coach, and started building her own business. On paper, her life was shaping up, but she found she was st...
2020-07-0740 min
Robert Kandell248: Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School? With Blake Boles & MORGAN KandellThe post 248: Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School? With Blake Boles & MORGAN Kandell appeared first on Robert Kandell.
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2020-07-0138 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell248: Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids To School? With Blake BolesBlake Boles is the founder and director of Unschool Adventures and the author of Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids to School?, The Art of Self-Directed Learning, Better Than College, and College Without High School. He hosts the Off-Trail Learning podcast and has delivered over 75 presentations for education conferences, alternative schools, and parent groups. Blake and his work have appeared on The New York Times, The Christian Science Monitor, BBC Travel, Psychology Today, Fox Business, TEDx, The Huffington Post, USA Today, NPR affiliate radio, and the blogs of Wired and The Wall Street Journal.
In 2003 Blake...
2020-06-3038 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell246: Moving from 3D to 4D to 5D with Taylor SimpsonTaylor Simpson is a sought after Motivational Speaker, a Podcast Host and Online Mindset Coach. Through her methodology of combining Science, Spirituality, and Mysticism, Taylor helps women around the world tap into the Frequency of Money and step into their unique Super Power, allowing them to live the Abundant life they desire – unapologetically. With her unique ability to infuse light frequencies into her work, Taylor guides women through an entire DNA & Soul Upgrade process where they find themselves in a new dimension on the other side.
Taylor has been featured in The Washingtonian, Very WellFit, Reader’s Dige...
2020-06-1647 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell245: Compassionately Dismantling the Patriarchy with Harriette HaleHarriette is the UK’s Leading Certified Soul, Money and Mindset coach. A serial entrepreneur with 12 years experience and six businesses, Harriette has a global clientele base of creative and spiritual freelancers, fellow entrepreneurs and individuals on the path to self-growth and ascension. Her teaching & coaching stems from principles based in Universal Energy Law, first inspired by the well known ‘Law Of Attraction’ ideology, however, the practical side of business and life coaching takes equal precedence.
As the High Priestess of Light, Harriette also applies her energy healing, energy reading, and powerful psychic channel to coaching and master...
2020-06-0946 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell244: Origins of Skewed Masculinity with Johnny ElsasserJohnny is a former special operations U.S. Army Ranger with 4 combat tours between Iraq and Afghanistan. After the military Johnny worked for a private company protecting the U.S. Ambassador to Iraq in Baghdad for 5 years. After spending almost 10 years in and out of the Middle East, Johnny struggled with his transition to the daily life of being back home. Johnny decided that he needed to support other men struggling with similar experiences and in doing so he developed his new purpose. Johnny has seen the field of masculinity from an extremely alpha perspective and knows the trials...
2020-06-0238 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell243: Why Aren’t Couples Having Sex? with Megan LambertMegan Lambert is an intimacy expert, specializing in helping couples reignite their sex life, and singles dismantle walls to love in order to find their life partner. She offers 1:1 and couples’ coaching as well as workshops and retreats around the world.
She holds a summa cum laude double BA in psychology and neuroscience from the University of Southern California. She spent 4 years as an executive leadership coach and facilitator for Fortune 100 companies before leaving the corporate world to start her own company. She’s a master-level certified relationship & sexuality coach, with 5 years of experience helping hundreds of peop...
2020-05-2636 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell242: Rob Rant: How Plandemic Almost Ended My MarriageIn this week’s episode, following his recent experiences with his partner, Rob rants about movies such as Plandemic and the impact they make on the relationships people have. Rob dives into exploring his own prejudices and judgements, as well as looking at examples of how others have reacted, and how people can overcome the chasms created to reach new levels of connection.
3:07 – What happened
6:59 – Critical thinking resources
8:40 – Watching one’s judgements rise up
11:22 – What it means to be triggered
13:17 – Men and chauvinism
16:09 – Reflecting on his relationship goal
17:39 – Four key belief systems for connec...
2020-05-1934 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell241: Brave Conversations with Elisabeth CardielloThis infinitely curious, coffee-loving, Brooklyn native had business cards at six and her first product on shelves at 13. After graduating from college, where she played Division 1 soccer, and business school with highest honors, she spent four years on Wall Street, at an investment bank and at a $4 billion alternative asset management fund. She dealt with loss, found her passion, more loss and learned the meaning of post-traumatic growth. She started a coffee company called Caffè Unimatic, with an awe-inspiring story, featured in the Netflix documentary “Coffee For All”. She has gone on to create a line of coffee, give two T...
2020-05-1240 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell240: How to Speak More Truth with David WoodA former Consulting Actuary to Fortune 100 companies – including Sony Music, Chanel, and Exxon – David left his cushy Park Avenue job 20 years ago to build the world’s largest coaching business. He became #1 on Google for “life coaching”, serving an audience of 150,000 coaches, and coaching thousands of hours in 12 countries around the globe.
Alongside his clients’ successes, David is no stranger to overcoming challenges himself, having survived a full collapse of his paraglider and a fractured spine, witnessing the death of his sister at age seven, anxiety and depression, and a national Gong Show!
He is the author o...
2020-05-0543 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell239: Less Takeout, More Makeout with Marc WendtMarc Wendt began his coaching journey at age 9, working with the children of his parents’ clients, during weekend workshops based on the work of Thomas Harris’ book, “I am Ok You’re Ok” Since then he has gone on to have a professional career in the film industry, and for the last several years as a Personal Coach.
Marc has completed formal coaches training programs with Ken Blackman and Alexandra Stockwell in their year-long “Coaching Dojo”, Brig Feltus’ “ReMember Institute Curriculum for Diversity Consciousness”, and Zat Baraka Elias’ “Men’s Wisdom Work Coaches Training”. Additionally, he continues to expand his personal devel...
2020-04-2838 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell238: Navigating Relationships in the Time of CV with Rachel WrightPsychotherapist Rachel Wright is recognized as one of the freshest voices on millennial and couple-preneur relationships. She and her husband Kyle co-founded Wright Wellness Center in 2016 to bridge the gap between a self-help book and a therapist’s couch. Together, they’re changing how we approach relationships, sex, and mental health.
With a Master’s Degree in clinical psychology, Rachel has worked with thousands of couples all over the world, helping them scream less and screw more. She has brought her message to stages across the globe and is also a sex educator, writer, and co-host of the po...
2020-04-2135 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell237: Your Permission Slip with Madelyn MoonMadelyn Moon is a walking permission slip, embodiment teacher and transformational coach. Her mission is to help women and men unify all pieces, including the Feminine with Masculine, Light with Dark, Introvert with Extrovert and Doing with Being.
Through transformational experiences such as coaching, shadow work, spiritual healing, polarity, and Feminine and Masculine embodiment, Maddy will warmly guide you deeper into your own truth.
Her work and story have been featured in hundreds of podcasts as well as various publications such as The Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, Thought Catalog, Nylon Magazine, The Daily Mail, Vice...
2020-04-1440 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell236: How to Find Your F*#$k Yes in Your Life with Sandra BershadSandra Bershad, M.A. is a visionary mentor and awakening catalyst deeply devoted to empowering people in becoming intimate with the resonance of their highest truth and inner guidance. She is on a mission to create spaces of radical permission that invite individuals to tap into the full spectrum of their inner knowing, visions, gifts, and the specific genius they are meant to share.
As a truth resonator and amplifier, she strives to demystify the perception that we need something outside ourselves to connect with our intrinsic nature that is infinite, innately wise, and already whole. Her...
2020-04-0743 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell235: StoryTime: My Sophie’s ChoiceIn this week’s episode, during a time of global challenge, Rob tells the story of his experience of his own “Sophie’s Choice” in a formative part of his life, that went on to create who he is today.
Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for...
2020-03-3139 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell234: How Our Self-Worth Can Block Our Pleasure with Amanda BiccumAmanda Biccum is an Evolutionary Coach dedicated to helping individuals discover deeper connections to themselves, their passion and their pleasure. She is currently living in Bali where she is the creator of Tantric workshops, temples and experiences which create deep interpersonal connections and healing spaces rooted in the work of sacred sexuality.
2:00 – Amanda’s view of what self-pleasure is
6:53 – Her road to self-discovery around self-pleasure
11:11 – First steps on the road to self-pleasure
14:22 – Showing love to our own bodies
16:28 – The relationship between self-worth and self-pleasure
19:37 – Societal values and self-worth
22:45 – Breaking feeling “I am bad”
26:5...
2020-03-2437 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell233: Modern Manhood with Cleo StillerCleo Stiller is on a mission to encourage health, education and positive social action around the world. She is an award-winning journalist, speaker, and television host — and most recently, the author of Modern Manhood: Conversations About the Complicated World of Being a Good Man Today out with Simon & Schuster on November 12th, 2019.
Cleo received a prestigious Peabody Award nomination for public service journalism in 2018 and an Emmy Award nomination in 2015. Her health-focused television show for Univision’s cable network Fusion is the network’s highest-performing original series premiere. Her work receives frequent coverage, including The New York Times...
2020-03-1742 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell232: Rob Rant: Antagonistic vs CollaborativeIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about Antagonistic versus Collaborative Communication. Pulling ideas from the key concept of James P. Carse’s book “Finite and Infinite Games”, as well as the work of Simon Sinek, Rob explores the games that we play and people’s relationship to scarcity in relationships and business.
3:09 – James Carse’s book “Finite and Infinite Games”
7:26 – Reflecting on the idea of finite and infinite games
11:54 – Being right versus being connected
13:34 – Your scarcity incites the scarcity of others
17:37 – Tone in communication
19:26 – Societal training regarding scarcity
20:21 – Servant leadership
24:03 – The effects of p...
2020-03-1034 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell231: Rob Rant: The Impeachment of the United StatesIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about the outcome of the recent impeachment trial of Donald J. Trump, and the impact it, as well as who he is, has on the world, and its occupants.
Rob explores what he sees in the president’s behaviour as it relates to bullying tactics, climate control, racism, and separation, as well as the standard set for young boys.
3:52 – Separation and speaking to a small base
5:23 – Rob’s experience of separation and racism growing up
8:02 – Trump becoming president
10:02 – Bullies and role models
12:48 – Appealing to the disempowered...
2020-03-0320 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell230: Jealousy with Olivia Lara OwenOlivia Lara Owen is an expert in Human Transformation, Intimacy and is a Coach and Guide for Men and Women.
Olivia works with clients privately, runs online programmes, speaks publicly, writes on the internet and facilitates immersive experiences. Olivia has cultivated a body of work around the Unleashing of the Fully Expressed Self for both Men and Women.
The Unleashed path is using the power of sexual embodiment to unlock your authentic expression and recreate an entirely new relationship to your power. Her next release is called The Unleashed Man guiding the modern man in...
2020-02-2547 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell229: Empowerment Through Feng Shui with Patricia LohanPatricia Lohan helps entrepreneurs make their homes & businesses magnetic to money, fame and new opportunities. She shows you what they don’t teach in business school, what lies between the lines, your top-secret tool for success. She is a Feng Shui expert & and passionate female entrepreneur who has shaped her dream life living in Bali with her husband. Patricia has a gift at making Feng Shui simple, easy to understand and implement.
She has helped thousands of people across the globe embrace Feng Shui and create lasting changes in their businesses, homes and lives. Patricia has been fe...
2020-02-1836 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell228: Book Release: Conscious Cock with Kris LovestoneKristopher Lovestone is a sex educator and relationship consultant who survived six divorces in his childhood and went on to rewrite the rules of the relationship game so people can win. He now teaches people how to succeed through communication, education & integrity. His techniques have yielded him a wildly successful 14-year marriage that gets hotter every year, and he published his teachings in his new book Conscious Cock: The Empowered Sexuality Manual For Men. He has been called the “Einstein of relationships” and has been endorsed by many of the top sex educators in the world.
2:21 – Behind the ti...
2020-02-1240 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell227: Overcoming Premature Ejaculation with Jeff AbrahamJeff is a successful entrepreneur and the CEO of Promescent, a leading sexual wellness brand that helps couples Make Love Longer. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women. With over 10-years experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space.
3:09 – The portion of men affected by Premature Ejaculation (PE)
5:22 – The Arousal Gap
9:33 – Physiological causes of PE
14:02 – Ejaculating before you want to
15:48 – The pressure m...
2020-02-0442 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell226: Unblocking Your Core Pattern(s) with Kristen KanclerKristen Kancler is a Relationship Coach who helps successful, single men find the woman they want to spend the rest of their life with. With over 10 years of experience, Kristen is committed to helping men effortlessly attract the love of their lives through clearing 5 Core Relationship Patterns that appear in all people.
3:06 – How Kristen started her work
5:02 – The difference between traditional and somatic therapy
10:08 – The 5 Core Relationships Patterns
14:40 – Process to identify moments that create patterns
18:42 – Releasing patterns
21:30 – How our Core Patterns create distance between who we are and what we want
25:53 – Self-esteem an...
2020-01-2835 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell225: Rob Rant: It’s the End of the YearIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about the transition from 2019 to 2020, the past decade, and how his life has changed. Rob explores the decisions he’s made in his career and relationships, the roles different people have played in shaping him, significant experiences from the past decade, and his outlook for the years ahead.
3:40 – Looking back
6:08 – Turning 50 and enjoying life
8:58 – The previous change of the decade
11:11 – The past decade and the best decision Rob ever made
13:22 – Reflecting on 2019
14:44 – Medicine journeys
17:06 – His business roles expanding
18:56 – HIs relationships
22:02 – His relationship with himself
Do...
2020-01-2125 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell224: How to Deal with Getting Hooked with Jade Connelly-DugganGrowing up in a family of wellness and organization development pioneers, Jade Connelly-Duggan, M. Ac., was the guinea pig for what would become the first Master’s of Transformative Leadership and Social Change in the U.S.
Using tools from the arenas of ontology, biology of cognition, chaordic design, TLSC principles, natural scale and the proprietary Duggan Method, alongside her clinical acupuncture practice, Jade uses a particularly practical and physiologically grounded skills-based approach to culture and leadership design.
Jade’s signature work is in the arena of empowering more effective living and leadership through listening to t...
2020-01-1445 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell223: Being a Mentally Tough Man with Dominick and BryanDominick Quartuccio and Bryan Stacy are two men generating worthy inquiry and meaningful introspection into the forces that shape a man’s sexuality, behavior and intimate relationships. Through their podcast, The Great Man Within (formerly The Man Amongst Men), running regular retreats, and their monthly live event The Discerning Dick, they are creating forums for men to discuss what it means to be a man today, and giving them the tools to become the Great Men that they all have the potential to be.
3:09 – Men’s behavior with women
8:10 – Power dynamics and behavior
13:46 – The “Hitch” model of conse...
2020-01-0847 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell222: The Mandatory Necessity of Men’s Groups with Jason LangeJason Lange is a men’s embodiment coach, group facilitator, and evolutionary guide. He helps men drop in and wake up to deeper clarity in their life’s purpose and relationships. He believes every man should be in a men’s group for the growth and support opportunities they provide. Jason applies an integral framework to all the work he offers, drawing on many disciplines and modalities to effectively serve. He has trained with John Wineland, Jun Po Roshi, Tripp Lanier, Ken Wilber, Brother David Steindl-Rast, and Robert Augustus Masters.
He is also the co-founder of the non-pr...
2019-12-3139 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell221: Changing Your Mindset with Marla MattensonMarla Mattenson is a relationship & intimacy expert specializing in coaching couples in business together with a desire to learn how to take their drive for success and growth mindset in business and apply it to invigorate their relationship, increase pleasure, joy and passion all while crushing sales. Over the course of her 25-year career, she’s helped more than 12,000 couples including Academy Award-winning actors, producers and directors, NBA players and coaches, Grammy Award-winning artists, and millionaire entrepreneurs.
Marla was also a National Board Certified mathematics teacher in Los Angeles for seven years and is currently on the bo...
2019-12-2451 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell220: The Masculine in Relationship with G.S. YoungbloodG.S. Youngblood is a coach for men in relationship, former Silicon Valley executive, founder of a tech company that he eventually sold, and the author of two books (including the recently published “The Masculine in Relationship”). His teachings are based on 12 years as a student and creator in the realm of the Masculine-Feminine dynamic, as well as principles he pulls from a variety of fields: psychology, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM.
2:21 – His divorce as the start of his journey
5:07 – Taking responsibility
10:02 – Seeking help
12:46 – The Masculine Blueprint
13:52 – The first element of the Masculine Blue...
2019-12-1731 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell219: Understanding Men with Alison ArmstrongAlison Armstrong has been designing, leading, and executing a prodigious array of transformational projects for adults and children for nearly 30 years. Alongside her friend Joan McClain, she founded PAX Programs Incorporated with the mission of “altering society’s culture by transforming the way women relate to men”. She believes that by shifting the relationship between women and men from an adversarial context, environments can be created where conflicts become resolved quicker, and more peace can be found on this planet.
1:51 – The biggest changes in man-woman dynamics over the last 30 years
5:55 – Men’s complexity
8:00 – Labels given to men to show...
2019-12-1049 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell218: Rob Rant: The Stories We Tell OurselvesIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about our internal stories and how they impact our lives, and the lives of those around us. He looks at the stories we tell ourselves about our own identities, about how we relate as individuals to society, and the stories that affect the way we interact with children.
1:09 – Insights from a recent medicine journey
5:50 – The impact of stories we have
10:23 – Stories creating isolation
13:10 – Social media
14:56 – The story of reality and agreement
17:44 – Stories and parenting
19:38 – The stories we tell about ourselves
Find Marla Mattenson at:
2019-12-0323 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell217: Supporting Women Entrepreneurs with Racheal CookRacheal Cook is an author, speaker, business growth strategist, and host of the Promote Yourself to CEO podcast. With an MBA in Entrepreneurship, several years consulting small businesses and tech start-ups, and having won the National Small Business Institute Competition, she teaches savvy, soulful, smart women to simplify their businesses so that they can achieve not only a meaningful living, but also a meaningful life.
2:49 – Her early experiences as a post-graduate
7:28 – The reason behind the behavior men exhibit to women in the workplace
9:02 – A toxic workplace and panic attacks
12:32 – First step into running her own busi...
2019-11-2638 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell216: Rob Rant: Confront FearIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about fear: how it affects us, various ideas on what it represents, the biology behind it, and his own experiences of it. Rather than shying away from what scares us, we should move towards confronting our fears, so that we can lead lives free of what would hold us back otherwise.
4:23 – Biological impact of fear
8:06 – Fires in California
11:45 – Fears around evolution in relationships
16:34 – Rob’s personal experience of fears around his partner’s evolution
17:51 – Not letting fear run you
21:03 – Confrontation as the antidote for fear
Don’t forget...
2019-11-1924 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell215: The Power of Invisible Influence with Shana JamesFor 15 years Shana James has coached more than a thousand leaders, CEOs, authors, speakers and people with big visions who step into more powerful leadership, start and grow businesses, create more effective teams, increase their impact, get promoted, find love, rekindle spark, create a legacy, and become more personally inspired and fulfilled. She’s been known for my ability to assess, in just a few minutes, the cause of dissatisfaction and stuck points in your profession and love life. Then she creates a clear and unique path for you to have true success and incredible love.
Referred to...
2019-11-1238 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell214: Rob Rant: You’re Evolving – Deal With ItIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about the evolution that each and every one of us is undergoing constantly in our lives. Rob explores what he’s seen in others, as well as his own evolution in the spheres of his sexuality, his relationship with his parents, and his career as he has gotten older.
4:26 – Our relationship with evolution
9:36 – Rob’s sexual evolution
13:57 – Masturbation and self-love
16:51 – Your transformation and those around you
21:27 – Evolution with one’s parents
24:44 – Rob’s evolution around his career
Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bests...
2019-11-0528 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell213: Libido, Desire and Arousal with Susan BrattonSusan Bratton is an author, award-winning speaker and serial entrepreneur who champions passionate relationships. Her straight-forward love-making advice is rooted in her personal experience of watching her marital intimacy wither as she and her husband pursued dynamic careers. When her relationship hit a crisis point, Susan made a fierce commitment to do whatever it took to hold her family together and revive the passion in her marriage.
2:45 – Susan’s journey in becoming a sexpert
11:42 – The Expanded Orgasm Practice
18:06 – Sexuality, triggers, and shame
24:05 – The growth of her and her partner’s company, Personal Life Media
28:22...
2019-10-2945 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell212: How Men Can Level Up with Mark GuayMark is a personal-development coach based in San Diego. His work guides men to integrate emotional energy and step into greater purpose, power, and connection. He is a featured teacher on Insight Timer where you can listen to his meditations for free.
3:15 – Mark’s story and mission
9:52 – Men and crying
14:25 – Traditional work lifestyles and emotions
21:23 – Pragmatic steps for men to connect with their emotions
26:08 – Suppression of emotions
30:51 – Shame and porn
36:00 – 18-year-old girls and porn
40:10 – Mark’s upcoming book
Find Mark at:
MarkWGuay.me
Mark’s Emotional Charge Exercise:...
2019-10-2242 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell211: The Radical Change of Gender Dynamics in Modern Divorce with Andrea VaccaAndrea Vacca is the founder of Vacca Family Law Group, a law firm in New York City that focuses exclusively on non-adversarial divorce and family law matters. Andrea is regularly featured as a media expert on divorce-related matters, and she lectures, writes and blogs on the topics of collaborative law, mediation, and topics related to non-adversarial family law. After practising traditional litigation-focused family law for many years, Andrea’s firm now works only with clients who want to keep their divorces out of court and want their prenuptial and postnuptial agreements negotiated in a non-adversarial manner. In addition to ha...
2019-10-1534 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell210: Sexuality as the Gateway Drug for Intimacy with Caity Flannagan and Matt SturmCaity Flannagan and Matt Sturm are the co-founders of Embodied Erotic – a community for sacred sexuality, intimacy, and personal growth. Drawing on Neo-Tantra, Core Shamanic practices, somatic psychotherapy, yoga and meditation, they offer a unique experience that’s powerful, accessible and fun in aiding the exploration of couples’ sexuality. Having worked with hundreds of couples, they share practical tools for sex and relating to uncover the magic and love waiting just below the surface, while remaining conscious of each individual’s unique experience, to invite the full expression of our bodies and relationships.
2:26 – Their backgrounds and how they came...
2019-10-0838 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell209: Stop Giving Yourself Away with Sydney CamposSydney Campos is a Visionary, Healer, Spiritual Teacher and Author of The Empath Experience: What To Do When You Feel Everything. Sydney guides visionary leaders to live in alignment with their soul purpose while embodying next-level power, pleasure and prosperity.
In addition to being a seasoned Business Strategy Advisor and Certified Holistic Health Coach, Sydney is also a 200-Hour Registered Yoga Teacher, Reiki Energy Healer, Azure Light Guardian and Certified Akashic Records Practitioner and Instructor. Sydney shares her multifaceted expertise through writing, 1:1 visionary mentoring, self-mastery courses, transformational retreats, live workshops and events, intuitive soul sessions and the...
2019-10-0134 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell208: The Beauty of Conflict with CrisMarie Campbell and Susan ClarkeCrisMarie Campbell and Susan Clarke are a couple who together run Thrive! Coaching & Consulting, offering coaching for individuals, couples, and corporates. Founded in 2002, they work with leadership teams, management groups, project teams and senior executive teams to resolve conflict in real time and use it to drive collective creativity, profits, and extraordinary results. They teach that conflict is natural when smart, passionate people work together towards an ambitious goal. The trick is learning how to use that conflict as a healthy driver for collective creativity.
2:50 – CrisMarie’s background
7:28 – Susan’s background
11:37 – Their book “The Beauty of Conflict”...
2019-09-2443 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell207: Three Pillars for Equanimity with Pablo LuceroPablo Lucero is a renowned Yoga instructor and designer of Functional Movement – a powerful and skilful integrative practice rooted in the ancient philosophies of Yoga, Ancestral Indigenous Healing Arts and Functional Movement Methodologies. Pablo aims to awaken people’s inner power, recondition their natural vitality and reclaim their highest potential. He leads workshops, conferences, memorable Yoga Retreats and Yoga Teacher Trainings Certifications locally and internationally.
3:37 – The beginning’s of Pablo’s path
9:31 – The move to Costa Rica
14:34 – Equanimity
17:34 – Three pillars to establish equanimity
17:54 – The first pillar: Conscious Movement
24:16 – The second pillar: Concentration
28:00 – The th...
2019-09-1746 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell206: Getting Out of the Man Box with Dr. John SchinnererDr. John Schinnerer is an U.C. Berkeley-trained coach with a Ph.D. in educational psychology, who provides executive coaching and organizational consulting with a scientific basis, with previous clients ranging from AskJeeves to Visa, FedEx to Starbucks.
Drawing from the best of his research background, Dr John helps clients to overcome anxiety and anger to move towards happier, more purposeful lives. A nationally-recognized speaker and an award-winning author, Dr John was recently one of three experts to consult with Pixar on the Academy Award-winning movie, Inside Out.
3:12 – Consulting for Pixar’s Inside Out
5:32 – The Ma...
2019-09-1040 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell205: The Rob and Ken ShowKen Blackman is a sex and relationship expert who has worked with hundreds of couples from San Francisco to Paris to Sydney, and trained thousands of students in his workshops on sex, intimacy and connection. With nearly two decades of experience, Ken’s powerful, unapologetic break from conventional relationship advice is shifting the world conversation around love and committed coupledom.
01:03 – Ken’s history
5:17 – The difficulty for women to speak their truth, and for men to hear it
10:21 – Men and the shift of the gender paradigm
12:39 – Men wanting to know the truth, even if it hurts their...
2019-09-0331 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell204: The Truth About Attachment Theory with Dr Cat MeyerDr Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT, is evolving the relationship we have with sexuality and our bodies. A published researcher, yoga instructor, reiki practitioner, and licensed couples and sex therapist, Dr Meyer pulls from various fields of knowledge to inform her work helping people to “create a deeply fulfilling, prosperous relational and sexual life” through private practice, workshops, international retreats, and her podcast Eat.Play.Sex.
2:14 – Dr Meyer’s backstory
3:55 – Disconnect between body and mind
8:29 – What is attachment theory?
15:42 – Common misconceptions about attachment theory
19:01 – Compassionate methods of interacting with different types
21:26 – First dimension of Mentalizing: de...
2019-08-2736 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell203: Rob Rant: Confronting Your GhostsIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about looking into our past traumas and how we continue to have a connection with them. He outlines his current process behind writing his autobiography, and how he has investigated past relationships and events in order to gain insight into and feel out his own pain from the past.
2:07 – Confronting one’s ghosts
5:01 – Childhood wounds
8:59 – Being in conversation with our parents
10:01 – Planning Rob’s book and investigating old hurts
14:01 – Not pushing our ghosts away
15:07 – Rob’s relationship with his parents and punishment
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2019-08-2019 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell202: The Role of Creativity in Your Evolution with Adam RoaAdam Roa is an inspired speaker, author, coach, and business consultant. Through his video series “The Art of Choosing Love” Adam explores his personal relationship with intimacy and his traumas, and his search for understanding ‘what it means to be a conscious, empowered man’. A prolific artist, Adam uses film, music, and spoken word to explore messages of creativity, love, and transformation.
3:04 – Adam’s transition out of his 10-year relationship to where he is today
6:41 – The rising to consciousness of past trauma
10:51 – Feeling unsafe in being the object of sexual desire
16:28 – The response of people to their pa...
2019-08-1349 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell201: Rob Rant: That Annoying New Teacher of YoursIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about how the relationships we have with people who annoy us can be used as great tools for addressing parts of ourselves. Rob looks at how this affected his relationship with his father, as well as ways of approaching this means of reflecting on ourselves.
3:58 – Rob’s Father’s Day post
6:29 – Accepting others despite the way we feel treated
11:32 – We have three choices in every situation
13:14 – Viewing annoyance as an opportunity for magic, as opposed to fighting it
15:31 – Outside annoyances as a reflection of what is inside us
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2019-08-0625 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell200: Rob Rant: Episode #200!!!!In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the process he’s gone through over the last two hundred episodes of Tuff Love, and the experiences and insights he’s had into privilege, determination, abundance, and success along the way.
1:24 – Gratitude to everyone who participated
4:08 – The setting for the start of Tuff Love
6:31 – Privilege, work ethic, and determination
12:21 – Abundance vs Scarcity
16:11 – The process behind Rob’s relationship with Morgan
19:30 – When to continue, and measuring success
22:22 – Rob’s second book
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2019-07-3024 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell199: How Self-Love Will, and Can, Keep You from Love with Arielle FordArielle Ford is the “The Cupid of Consciousness”: a world leader in the self-growth space. Practising and teaching conscious-based approaches to love and life for 30 years, she is a bestselling author, speaker, and relationship expert whose “mission is to help women Find Love, Keep Love and Be Love”. She is the author of eleven books, including her international best seller “The Soulmate Secret: Manifest The Love of Your Life With The Law of Attraction”, which has be published in 21 languages and 40 countries, and “Wabi Sabi Love: The Ancient Art of Finding Perfect Love in Imperfect Relationships”. She can be found regularly...
2019-07-2339 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell198: Playing Safe is Dangerous with David WoodDavid Wood is a successful entrepreneur and life coach, former Actuary, and current CEO of Play for Real. He coaches leaders in living a life free of regret, through four pillars: truth, daring, caring, and connection.
5:02 – Playing safe is dangerous
6:30 – Beginning the process of living dangerously through truth
11:39 – The integration of vulnerability by today’s leaders
15:19 – Vulnerability in women in power positions
23:10 – The importance of being daring
26:48 – Mitigating risk through rapport
27:20 – Caring as an important counterpart to daring
31:26 – Connection as a goal
35:18 – The power of disruptive communication
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2019-07-1640 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell197: Rob Rant: Inside the BardoIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about his interpretation of the Tibetan Buddhist idea of the Bardo – the space between this and that – as a means of identifying periods of transition in aspects of our lives. Pragmatic help and insights are offered in facing what is normally a very uncomfortable, and scary time for people.
4:21 – The Bardo
7:14 – The lives Rob has led
11:49 – Why is the Bardo so uncomfortable?
15:10 – Pragmatic tips during your time in the Bardo
21:52 – Young parents and the Bardo
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2019-07-0927 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell196: Modern Romance with Evan KatzEvan Marc Katz is a dating coach who specializes in helping smart, strong, successful women understand and connect with men. Through his books, coaching, blog, and newsletter, thousands of satisfied clients have found empowerment in their relationships.
01:39 – Modern dating and its challenges
4:46 – The gamification of dating through apps
9:15 – Taking the good with the bad
14:27 – The difference between what works for you, and what you’re compatible with
18:59 – Attraction versus what is good for you
23:13 – Evan’s “Love U Pyramid”
26:38 – Knowing your bottom lines
27:33 – Communicating desirable behaviors
33:26 – Advice for women, and how men are not infall...
2019-07-0536 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell194: Choosing Self-Power with Wayne PernellDr. Wayne Pernell As a Global Executive Coach and Relationship Expert, Dr. Wayne Pernell is known for being insightful, witty, and playful. Bringing more than thirty-five years of experience in helping leaders set new strategic targets, gain clarity and confidence, and attain clear success.
As a #1 International Best-Selling Author, Speaker, Certified High-Performance Coach, and morning television guest, Dr. Wayne Pernell’s work has helped thousands of people across the globe.
Throughout his journey, Dr. Wayne Pernell continues coaching individuals and consulting with organizations, always looking for ways to help them reach their next level of greatness. To...
2019-06-1841 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell193: Six Vulnerable Conversations Series 5 Episode 5Listen to Series 5: Episode Five of Six Vulnerable Conversations.
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robert...
2019-06-1144 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell192: Masculinity on the Rocks with Kyle WrightKyle Wright is transforming how we talk about masculinity, mental health, and relationships. Bridging the gap between self-help books and a therapist’s couch, he’s one half of the NYC-based sex and love power couple who founded Wright Wellness Center. Kyle co-hosts the Bachelor-themed podcast The Wright Reasons, and check out his popular new podcast Masculinity on the Rocks.
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visitin...
2019-06-0541 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell191: Six Vulnerable Conversations Series 5 Episode 4This is Series 5: Episode Four of Six Vulnerable Conversations.
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robert...
2019-05-2852 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell190: Men’s Depression with Terry RealThis episode is about men’s depression with Terry Real, the groundbreaking author of “I Don’t Want To Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression”. Get the book here: https://www.amazon.com/Dont-Want-Talk-About-Overcoming/dp/0684835398
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a...
2019-05-2142 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell189: Six Vulnerable Conversations Series 5 Episode 3Here is the third episode of our 5th Series of 6 Vulnerable Conversations.
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relati...
2019-05-1459 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell188: Rob Rant: The King ArchetypeIn this week’s episode, Rob rants about embracing who we were meant to be as men, Kings, and the King Archetype as a model for men to know their value, use their gifts and embrace the responsibility of a ‘kingliness’ in life. Rather than shrinking in the face of our biggest obstacle, ourselves and self doubt, men should urgently avoid wasting the gifts we’ve been given.
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHid...
2019-05-0720 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell187: Six Vulnerable Conversations Series 5 Episode 2Here is the second episode of our fifth series of 6 Vulnerable Conversations.
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relati...
2019-04-301h 00
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell186: The New Childhood with Jordan ShapiroIn this episode, Jordan Shapiro, author of “The New Childhood” discusses technology and the relationship between kids, technology, and parents. Shapiro discusses the importance of parents and their role in facilitating kids’ behavior. Teaching children technological etiquette should be just as relevant as teaching kids etiquette within the physical world.
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
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2019-04-1644 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell185: Six Vulnerable Conversations Series 5 Episode 1We kick off the 5th edition of Six Vulnerable Conversations and this time, it’s between three very unique perspectives. We hope you enjoy!
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie tr...
2019-04-0957 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell184: The Man Card with Jim RamosWe talk with Jim Ramos about The Man Card, Religion, and what it means to be a man today. Jim Ramos’ passionate proclamation of God’s word, relational humor, and epic storytelling skills will keep you riveted in your seat. Jim is a highly sought after men’s event speaker, author, and internationally known podcaster.
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
2019-04-0539 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell183: Accelerate Learning with Navy SEAL Chris SajnogRetired Navy SEAL Chris Sajnog, a Master Training Specialist in the Navy, was hand-selected to write the US Navy SEAL Sniper Manual. He used this experience, plus four years of studying neuroscience and elite performance, to develop the SEAL Training System (Science-based, Education for Accelerated Learning) — a fundamental shift to learning any skill. He’s the author of two bestselling books, How to Shoot Like a Navy SEAL and Navy SEAL Shooting, and the owner of Center Mass Group, LLC a 100% Service-Disabled Veteran-Owned Small Business in San Diego, CA. Chief Sajnog, now offers his unique training online at https://chri...
2019-04-0436 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell182: Rob Rant: Reverting Back to My Little BoyIn this week’s episode, Rob tells a story where he caught himself being triggered by a childhood experience. It’s a powerful discussion of how important self-awareness and healing from our trauma is to moving forward toward becoming a better person.
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order
OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want t...
2019-04-0218 min
Tuff Love with Robert Kandell181: Recovering from Perfectionism with Brandee LynnBrandee Lynn is the co-creator of Rythmia Life Advancement Center in Costa Rica, a leading retreat center which infuses ancient and modern wisdom, plant medicine, and breakthrough technologies for healing and awakening to one’s highest potential. Brandee also founded Majesty, a modern-day mystery school for women, that facilitates retreats at sacred sites around the world.
Don’t Forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/orde...
2019-03-2136 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell177: No More Mr. Nice Guy with Dr. Robert GloverNo More Mr. Nice Guy with Dr. Robert Glover
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2019-02-0840 min
Guy's Guy Radio with Robert Manni#345 Robert Kandell: unHidden - The Truth About Men, and Those Confused By ThemOn the 4th episode of Guy's Guy Radio on KCAA FM, author and men's expert Robert Kandell returns to the show to discuss his new book, unHidden: A Book about Men, and Those Confused by Them.
Robert Kandell Robert is the host of the Tuff Love podcast where he brings his enthusiasm and acumen to his beloved audience on subjects around relationships, intimacy, communication and gender dynamics. He's spent time in corporate America, a start-up, a small computer shop, and then built an international 8-figure business based on relationship, intimacy and sexuality called OneTaste. He left OneTaste in...
2019-01-3155 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell172: unHIDDEN Book Reading Chapter 16As the world changes, so is the dynamic of how we create relationships. When it comes to the relationship between men and women, what worked for men before do not anymore work today. Women do not need men the way the society thinks they did. They are now more in charge of their choices and confidently seeking beyond what the world expects of them. Exploring into this changing relationship is Rob Kandell who gives a book reading of his book, unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. Tackling Chapter 16, “How to Relate to Women?”, he gives men...
2018-12-2126 min
Guy's Guy Radio with Robert Manni#288 Robert Kandell: Tuff LoveRobert Kandell Robert is the host of the Tuff Love podcast where he brings his enthusiasm and acumen to his beloved audience on subjects around relationships, intimacy, communication and gender dynamics. He's spent time in corporate America, a start-up, a small computer shop, and then built an international 8-figure business based on relationship, intimacy and sexuality called OneTaste. He left OneTaste in 2014 to start his own Consulting firm helping small businesses in the Los Angeles area to become marketable and profitable.
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2018-06-0752 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell119: The Guys’ Guy’s Guide to Love In This Day And Age with Robert ManniWhat does it take to be a man? With how contemporary culture has evolved, Robert Manni explores the idea of authenticity in present-day society where it has become confusing to be a man in today’s world. He delves into what it means to come out and be real with your partner, and stresses how important it is for men to start looking inside to realize who they are and what they can contribute so they can be comfortable with their own skin. In his novel, The Guys’ Guy’s Guide to Love, he illustrates the dynamics between flawed men an...
2018-03-1336 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell100: Celebrating The Most Dynamic Life with Morgan KandellShow 001 didn’t make it because I forgot to press record on Zoom. I even forget what it was about it was so long ago. I started my podcast because I was done, after 12 years, of running in-person workshops but still had plenty to say. “I’ll start a podcast. Why not?” 100 shows later, my life is radically changed. I’m married, step-dad to two powerhouse little ladies, live in suburbia, building an amazing business and writing my first book. Most importantly, I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. Come join for my 100th celebratory show where I’ll be joined by...
2017-12-1345 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell097: Leap to Live the Life you Want with Antesa JensenWelcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. The guest this week is Antesa Jensen. Antesa is the founder and visionary leading Adventure Awake, as well as co-founder of The Proteus Group. She recently left a 12-year career in the investment banking industry to scale and expand Adventure Awake, launch The Proteus Group and fully grow herself into a full-time entrepreneur. Rob and Antesa discuss the Adventure Awake experiences: Adventure Awake is a hybrid of coaching and travel, a retreat on the go.
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2017-11-1448 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell096: A Man’s Mission vs. Self CareWelcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. The concept of the show today is man’s mission versus self-care, and the strange balance that exists between the two. Many people, Rob included, have a challenge finding that balance. Morgan asked Rob why the show is called ‘a man’s mission versus self-care’ instead of ‘a man’s mission and self-care’, but it’s because to Rob, the two feel contrary to each other. It’s like the motherhood versus self-care conversation, and how most of us don’t know how to do both sides of the equation well.
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2017-11-0628 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell095: Dealing with Touch Deprivation with Jean FranzblauWelcome back to Tuff Love, with Rob Kandell. The guest today is Jean Franzblau, who is talking about the concept of cuddling. Once upon a time, Jean opened an in-flight magazine and saw a bunch of people chilling out and cuddling. As a single and sometimes lonely professional, she thought to herself, ‘That’s for me.’ Amazed by the wellness and happiness benefits she experienced, Jean founded Cuddle Sanctuary, the Los Angeles destination for consent and hug-positive events and professional cuddling since 2014. She has also expanded the reach of Cuddle Sanctuary by teaching consent on college campuses. Jean graduated cum la...
2017-10-3045 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell094: The VERY important conversation about #meTooWelcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. This show is in response to the #metoo meme that has had people all over the world talking about the pervasive issue of sexual assault and harassment. Rob believes the truth is the most important impact we can have in this world, and if we’re not willing to speak up then that impact can remain hidden. You never know who you can help just by telling your truth. The #metoo meme has seen hundreds of thousands of people tell the truth about their experiences. It would be naïve to say...
2017-10-1959 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell093: Men’s Vulnerability vs. Control w/ Christopher HoffmanWelcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. It’s been an exciting few week as Rob finished the book proposal, finished the Indiegogo campaign at 110% of the goal, and sent the book proposal off to Hay House! In the process of writing the book, Rob’s been reading as many books as possible to learn as much as possible from competitors. One book he read was Heart In Gear: An Engineer’s Erotic Journey to Freedom by Chris Hoffman. The concept is a geek who discovers his freedom through an erotic journey. Rob really enjoyed the book, and then a...
2017-10-1241 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell091: Tiger-Tiger is it true?Welcome back to Tuff Love with your host, Rob Kandell. Tuff love is always about ways to improve your life, ways to see how things are or are not working. The topic today is very interesting and possibly one of the unique Tuff Love episodes to date. There is no coachee in this show but it’s a great show regardless. It’s about a book that has changed Rob’s life. Everything you read, do or look at changes you in some way, but this has been a big book for Rob. It’s the children’s book Tiger-Tige...
2017-09-2718 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell090: Integrating Shadow Desires with Dr. Carolyn ElliotWelcome back to Tuff Love, with your host, Rob Kandell. The guest today is Dr. Carolyn Elliott who is a 6-figure online business strategist and witch, with a bodhisattva vow. She founded Witch Magazine to give voice and prominence to the subtle witching in the world that’s not confined to tradition and convention. She uses it to teach Influence, the life-altering course on mastering practical magic. She runs a multi-6 figure online business specializing in helping people achieve dramatic positive change in their lives through shadow integration practices and applied occult philosophy. She’s also the author of cult...
2017-09-1446 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell089: Taking the Tougher RoadWelcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. This week’s show is called Taking The Tougher Road. When looking at your life, your experience, your relationship, your job, there are an infinite amount of roads possible and on some level you know this. Which road do you want to take, the easy or the tough?
Rob tends to take the tougher road and there are pros and cons to this. It’s built his character, it’s gotten him in a lot of situations where he feels he could have done better, but the whole process of tak...
2017-09-0743 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell088: The Anti-Male Cultural Narrative w/ Om RupaniWelcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. Om Rupani is the guest on the show today. Om is a New York based photographer, writer and sex educator. He has been teaching workshops and coaching people in the sensual arts and BDSM for over 10 years. His new book Prerequisites to Ecstacy deals with the common obstacles he sees couples getting entangled in that prevent them from going deeper into their relating and their sensuality.
Trigger Warning: This is an intense conversation that contains topics that may trigger some listeners.
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2017-08-3145 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell087: So You want to have a podcast?Welcome back to Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. This episode is all about starting a podcast, because Rob is broadcasting from the Podcast Movement Conference in California. There will be two different focuses for this episode. Firstly, the emotional motivations for podcasting and secondly, the technical nitty-gritty of the process.
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2017-08-2442 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell086: Your Masculine/Feminine RatioWelcome to another episode of Tuff Love with Rob Kandell. The topic of today’s show is the concept of masculine and feminine dynamics. Rob has been working with a team recently to help the people within that team with some very disparate personalities and views from separation and opposite sides of the playing field to come together, be more connected and find union. The takeaway from that experience for everyone was how amazing it is that people can find union and connection and we can create that in our lives.
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2017-08-1739 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell071: WTF is up with Romance Today?Welcome to another episode of Tuff Love, with Rob Kandell. This is episode number 71: WTF is up with romance? In this episode, Robert discusses the concept of romance in the 21st Century. In 1997, David Deida wrote the book The Way Of The Superior Man and gave the reality of how things were becoming f****d up between men and women. He eased people’s souls in reassuring them they weren’t alone in what they were feeling. However, 20 years later things are even worse. If you Google “Millennial Dating” the first 5 articles suggest negative experiences.
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2017-05-0443 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell026: Mother’s Day with Netta KandellI once read a “joke” on Facebook that your parents know how to push your buttons because they are the ones who installed them. – My mother, Netta Kandell, was born into a different time, raised to abide by certain rules.
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2016-05-0644 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell021: Eradicate Obsession with your Ex with Eva ClayWelcome to Tuff Love, a weekly podcast hosted by Robert Kandell. We get together every Thursday at 10am PST to discuss the issues that are impacting our society today in relationship, communication, self-esteem and love.
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2016-03-3144 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell018: What Women WantHello and welcome to Tuff Love, a weekly all from Venice, California with your host, Robert Kandell. Each week, I pick a topic on something that I see in the world that needs discussing.
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2016-03-0440 minTuff Love with Robert Kandell005: Why does ‘Brash, Brilliant and British’ Piss People OffWelcome to Tuff Love, a weekly live coaching call from Venice, California with me, Robert Kandell, coach, consultant, teacher, lover of communication and always a little disturbed on how people in the world aren’t having their lives exactly the way
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