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A Groom with a View | The Wedding Podcast for the Modern ManSame Sex Grooms | Capturing the LGBTQ+ ExperienceSend us a textThis episode not only marks the end of our Season 2! But also the culmination of Pride month, celebrating love in all its forms. We wanted to make sure that we represent ALL Grooms are covered off and something that is missed at times are gay men and LGBTQIA+ community. So in this episode, we delve into the unique and heartfelt journey of LGBTQ+ weddings through the lens of professional photographer Ross Willsher. As a gay man getting married, Ross shares his personal experiences as an G...2024-11-2332 min
Your Individual WeddingOur wedding recipe for the cosmic kitchenHeidi met the wonderful Betti and Afnan when they were modelling on a styled weding shoot she was part of. When Heidi chatted with them and found out about their wedding plans and spiritual journey she knew they would make brilliant podcast guests. In this deeply insightful epsiode, Betti and Afnan discuss sprituality, manifesting their relationship and plans for their Bali wedding with their head Shaman. A great listen, which will really open up your mind to new ways of thinking and being. Betti & Afnan (Wild Flower Couple) www.instagram.com/wildf...2023-04-1949 min
Your Individual WeddingMaking weddings more accessible for allThis week Ross is joined by Kathryn Palmer-Skilling, a Humanist celebrant who is passionate about making weddings more acessible. Kathryn chats about her own experience of planning a wedding as a bride with additional access requirements, and shares tips on how couples, businesses and the wedding industry as a whole can create more accessible weddings that welcome and celebrate all abilities. You can find out more about Kathyrn by visiting her instagram or wesbite (details below). https://www.instagram.com/kps_celebrant/ https://www.celebrantkathryn.com/2023-04-0552 min
Your Individual WeddingPlanning our 'blended family' weddingOne thing we don't see celebrated enough, are second and third-time around weddings. These can be just as beautiful and meaningful as first time weddings, so we thought it high time we address this topic. In today's episode, we chat with Ellie & Eddie who very openly and honestly talk about planning their wedding day with their belnded family of 5 children clearly at the forefront. It's a conversation filled with both laughter and poignancy, and one we are very grateful to this lovely couple for sharing. 2023-03-2157 min
Your Individual WeddingPlanning Our City WeddingCity weddings are nothing new, but rarely do we hear tips and adivce tailored specifically to couples planning a wedding in an urban setting. There are endless reasons why city weddings are a great idea but also quite a few considerations to bear in mind before planning your favourite city. In this episode we chat with Keely & Bryony about their Manchester wedding and their advice is invaluable! Ross Willsher Photography https://rosswillsherphotography.co.uk Glorious By Heidi https://www.gloriousbyheidi.com 2023-03-0153 min
Your Individual WeddingGreat examples of inclusive practiceWe often chat with couples who have really struggled to find inclusive suppliers to help them on their wedding planning journey. However, we know that there are lots of wonderful wedding professionals working hard to make all couples feel celebrated and seen. In this epoisde we share examples of great inclusive practice in the wedding industry and discuss ways of ensuring all you wonderful couples have the weding experience you deserve. The incredible wedding suppliers featured in this episode are well worth a follow on social media and can be found via the links below. 2023-02-151h 07
Your Individual WeddingHow I felt as a bride in her 50sWe chatted to wedding celebrant Juliette (@Juliettebythesea) on the last series of the podcast, when she shared her frustrations at planning her wedding as an older bride-to-be. She's now tied the knot and so we wanted to invite her back to ask how it went and to see if - and how - she overcame some of the obstacles she encoutered as a bride-to-be in her 50s. Over the course of the conversation, Juliette and Ross (Heidi was away for this one), discuss mental health, represeantation, feeling celebrated and sticking to your values. 2023-02-0142 min
Your Individual WeddingWhere are the brides that look like me?In this week's episode Heidi and Ross chat to Mercedes who runs an eco-friendly wedding styling business. As a plus-size, bisexual black women, Mercedes has struggled to see herself represented in blogs and on Pinterest. She is now modelling for styled shoots and her mum has opened a plus size bridal boutique, in order to be the change they want to see in the industry. In this insightful epsiode, Mercedes talks openly about her sexuality, disability and what she does and does not want from her upcoming wedding. You can find out more about Mercedes...2023-01-1846 min
Your Individual WeddingMy experience as a plus size brideIf you're sick of being bombarded with images of wedding couples who are no larger than a size 8, and want to see more reepreatation for bigger bride and grooms then this is the podcast episode for you. We chat with the fabulous Lily Screen-Gear (https://www.instagram.com/lilyscreen) who talks candidly about her experiences of being a larger woman, her journey towards self-acceptance and how she made sure she had the wedding day she really wanted. An inspiring listen. 2023-01-041h 00
Your Individual WeddingTips for neurodivergent couplesOur first guest this series is the wonderful Rachel Bull. Rachel has been in the wedding industry for many years and has recently setup a platform to provide advice, guidance and recommended suppliers for couples who are neurodivergent. Rachel shares lots of tips for both wedding suppliers and couples themselves, and offers ways in which we can create a more open and welcoming environment to discuss any additional measures that can be put in place to make wedding planning more welcoming for those who are not 'neurotypical'. To find out mroe about Rachel and access he...2022-12-2136 min
Your Individual WeddingLooking AheadAfter a (more than) brief hiatus, Ross and Heidi are back sharing stories from unseen and underrepresented couples to promote inclusion in the wedding industry. We have some fantastic guests lined up covering topics such as body positivity, neurodiversity and ageism in the industry. In this first episode Heidi teases Ross' "Hi" We have a quick gloat over the reaction to our previous season / series Ross shares his passion for diversity and why he started the podcast Heidi speaks candidly about her experience of being a parent of a child with Downs Syndrome We share our a...2022-12-0737 min
Your Individual WeddingSeason 6 Best BitsThis series has been one that we are super proud. That is thanks to our wonderful guests who opened up their hearts, and shared some deeply personal experiences of planning a wedding as a marginalised or underrepresented group. If you're new to the show, this epsiode will give you a small insight into what we are about and why we are passionate about promoting diveristy within the wedding industry. If you're a regular listener this will whet your appetite for our brand new series starting soon. Thank you for listening! Ross http...2022-04-131h 16
Your Individual WeddingPlanning a sustainable weddingSustainability is - rightly - a topic at the forefront of many conversations at the moment. In this episode we chat to Charlotte, who planned her own sustainable wedding last year and shares her tips and wisdom on how to create a day that is kinder to the planet. Like Charlotte says, it's not about trying to be perfect, but instead making little changes that reduce the impact your day has on the environment. https://rosswillsherphotography.co.uk www.gloriousbyheidi.com 2022-03-0234 min
Your Individual WeddingInclusive weddings for the deaf community; why it needn't be a dragIn this episode Ross chats with the fabulous Martin Fox-Roberts, a wedding celebrant who incorporates his skills as both a drag artist and as a British Sign Language intepretor to make you day extra special. We chat about how the wedding industry can do more to support the deaf community and Martin shares his rather awesome hashtags and drag name! We loved chatting with Martin and you can find him by searching for @proudfox_ceremonies on instagram or visiting www.proudfoxceremonies.com https://rosswillsherphotography.co.uk www.gloriousbyheidi.com 2022-02-1644 min
Your Individual WeddingBody Confidence and InsecuritiesWe all have issues with self-esteem and body confidence from time to time. Planning a wedding when you feel less than self-assured can be especially daunting. In this episode, Ross and Heidi share their own experiences with body confidence and provide some advice to help you feel good about yourself on your wedding day. 2022-02-0248 min
Your Individual WeddingPlanning a wedding as a more mature coupleContinuing our theme of hearing the wedding planning experiences of those who are planning a wedding deemed a little 'outside of the norm' by the wedding industry, today we talk to celebrant Juliette (Juliettebytheseacelebrant.co.uk). Juliette is currently planning her wedding at the age of 56 and here, in a very funny and frank interview she shares her experiences and frustrations at planning a wedding a little later in life. What should be a purely enjoyable journey has been slightly tainted by suppliers making assumptions, friends questioning decisions and a sense of not being 'seen' by the...2021-12-0846 min
Your Individual WeddingHow we planned our LGBTQ weddingEwan and Greg's wedding had it all... 🌟 Nods to Ewan's Scottish heritage 🌟 🌟 Traditions honouring Greg's Jewish Faith 🌟 🌟 Decor and seating plans based on their Long distance relationship between New York & London 🌟 🌟 Drag Queens 🌟 🌟 A Ceilidh Band 🌟 🌟 A best man falling i the canal 🌟 How did they plan it all and make it their own? What were their experiences of being an LGBTQ couple planning a wedding? Listen to today's new podcast episode to hear them share their wedding story.2021-11-2458 min
Your Individual WeddingPlanning our Interfaith WeddingMussara married her husband Roy just over 5 years ago in Essex, and Ross had the absolute pleasure of capturing the day. Here, Mussara talks candidly about how they both met, her family's reaction to her marrying a non-Muslim man, and which British wedding traditions they were relieved not have incorporated in their day. A truly inspiring listen. 2021-11-101h 02
Your Individual WeddingCreating Positive Wedding Experiences for LGBTQ+ CouplesLisa Vine works with schools, businesses and charities across Leicestershire and the UK for all their LGBT+ training and advocacy needs. This alone makes her a perfect interviewee for the podcast, but add-in the fact the Lisa is also planning her her own special day to her wedding videographer girlfriend, and we just knew we had to have her join us for a chat. Insightful, informative and full of wonderful wisdom for both couples and wedding suppliers, this is a must-listen for everyone seeking a little more inclusivity in their lives. You can fin...2021-10-2759 min
Your Individual WeddingPlanning one of the first weddings post-Covid restrictions as a couple with Downs SyndromeEarlier this year we had the absolute pleasure of interviewing James and Heidi about what it was like planning one of the first weddings that took place after the lifting of some of the Covid restrictions. James and Heidi are a wonderfully positive couple, so obviously in love and a great example of how having the right outlook helps you to navigate through life's unexpected moments. They also happen to have Downs Syndrome. This is undoubtedly one our favourite ever podcast episodes, and regardless of whether you are currently planning a wedding or not...2021-10-1321 min
Your Individual WeddingDiversity, Inclusion & WeddingsAfter a longer than planned hiatus, Ross and Heidi are back discussing all things weddings. This season we're taking a much deeper look at weddings for people who are underrepresented in the wedding industry; be that due to their age, race, sexuality, faith or ability. In each of the upcoming episodes we chat to couples who have previously, or who are currently planning their wedding, and have had to overcome extra hurdles due to being part of (for want of a better phrase) a minor group. This first episode outlines why diversity and inclusion is so...2021-09-2930 min
Your Individual WeddingThe Best BitsFor our final episode of Season 5, we take a look back at a few of our favourite moments from the past few months. Moments that made us think, moments that made us laugh and moments that made us feel better informed. We've loved teaming up to share lots of wedding tips and advice and are planning some really exciting content for season 6. We'll be back after a short break so stay subscribed and son't forget to tell your friends about us! 2021-04-0227 min
Your Individual WeddingPreparing for every eventualityHooray Heidi’s back and in this episode we talk about how to plan for those tricky moments that could potentially ruin the enjoyment of your wedding day. From dealing with guests you really don’t want to invite, to bad weather and fallouts with a supplier, we provide you with tools to navigate any tricky elements of wedding planning you might encounter. An episode not designed to scare you but to give you all the tools and information needed to absolutely sail through your wedding experience. We also reference the fab resources avail...2021-03-1954 min
The Daily GardenerMarch 19, 2021 Hunting Century Oaks for Notre Dame, Stella Ross-Craig, Charles Joseph Sauriol, The Art of Outdoor Living, Garden Secrets of Bunny Mellon by Linda Holden, and The Plant MessiahToday we celebrate one of the best British scientific botanical artists of the 20th century. We'll also learn about a Canadian naturalist who was battling a mole problem on this day 83 years ago today. We hear a wonderful excerpt from a garden design book published two years ago today We Grow That Garden Library™ with a book about the secret design tips of the great Bunny Mellon. And then we’ll wrap things up with a glimpse behind the scenes of life as a student botanist at Kew. Subscribe Apple | Google | Spotify | Stitcher | iHeart To listen to the show while you're...2021-03-1927 min
Your Individual WeddingRoss' Wedding TipsIf you didn't already know, this podcast was inspired by Ross' wedding planning book 'How to Have a Wedding as Individual as You Are'. To celebrate World Book Day, in this bonus episode Ross shares some tips from his book to help you have the smoothest wedding planning experience possible. You can grab your very own copy of this book by clicking here https://tinyurl.com/yhcr5h5v 2021-03-0534 min
Your Individual WeddingWedding Ceremony Wisdom with Deborah from True to You CelebrancyWe love celebrants on Your Individual Wedding, they are always so full of wonderful stories and ideas for a truly unique wedding. We were lucky enough this week to be joined by Deborah from True to You Celebrancy who is an incredible lady. Combining life as a mental health nurse with her role as an award-winning wedding celebrant, Deborah shared a wealth of wisdom with us, including why most wedding traditions aren't actually legal requirements. A great episode to listen to if you wish to discover just how limitless you are when planning your wedding cer...2021-02-1945 min
Your Individual WeddingWedding trends for 2021Trends come and go, and they should never dictate the look and feel of your wedding day. However, they can be a great way of discovering what products and services will be readily available over the coming year to 18 months. In this episode Ross and Heidi share their favourite trends for the season ahead to inspire you and reignite your excitement for your upcoming wedding. 2021-02-0549 min
Your Individual WeddingWhen to start wedding dress shoppingOnce the venue is booked and you know which photographer will be capturing all the wedding memories, your attention will more than likely turn to wedding outfits. Previously on the show we've chatted with tailors and bridal designers to give you an idea of what to look out for when finding your style. In this episode we chat to Rami from Coco Bridal Boutique who shares her wisdom on wedding dress shopping timelines (especially during a pandemic) and the benefits of scheduling a virtual consultation. You can find Rami at https://www.cocobridal.co.uk and...2021-01-2241 min
Your Individual WeddingAll About Wedding PhotographyWe kick off our first episode of 2021 discussing Ross' favourite topic; wedding photography. Heidi asks Ross all the questions you wanted answered in relation to choosing and booking your wedding photographer and Ross shares his approach to capturing your special day. We also have a really special audio clip from Julie who tells us about how she and her fiancé Adam designed their own engagement rings. Oh and Ross shares a Big Day Balls Up that might put you off ever getting in a car with him!! 2021-01-081h 16
Your Individual WeddingWedding ProposalsPopping the question, going down on one knee, putting a ring on it; however you refer to it, we are definitely in the midst of wedding proposal season. So, what better way to round the year off, than with an episode filled with wedding proposal tips, ideas and tales? Heidi shares her hilarious proposal story and we read some of our listeners stories too. We also have sitcom-worthy Big Days Balls Up and the usual fun, frolics and laughter. Brighten your dark winter days with this hour of wedding-related conversation. 2020-12-2552 min
Your Individual WeddingHow Covid19 Impacted Our Wedding PlansWell 2020 has been a shcocker hasn't it? This pandemic has hit everyone hard, and has had a devastating impact on the wedding industry and couples planning their wedding. In this episode we chat to two brides-to-be about the process of postponing their weddings and how this has impacted their mental health. We loved chatting to Emma & Jodie and really appreciated their openness and honesty. We hope their stories provide some comfort and remind you that you are not alone in feeling despondent about your wedding postponement. 2020-12-1144 min
Your Individual WeddingThe Joy of Intimate WeddingsRoss & Heidi return! WIth news of several successful Covid vaccines emerging in the past few weeks, we kick off season 5 of the podcast with some much needed hope and optimism. Whilst we don't know when weddings will be back in all their large-scale glory, we are feeling confident that smaller weddings will be able to resume in 2021 and so we share with you what can make intimate weddings so wonderful. If you've had to reduce your guest numbers, don't despair as there are so many positives to planning your intimate wedding and in this show we list t...2020-11-2755 min
Your Individual WeddingLooking ForwardIt's the end of season four. Thank you so much to all of you who have downloaded and listened Your Individual Wedding this year and thank you to all the fabulous wedding suppliers who have joined me to share their wisdom and wedding expertise. Season 5 is in the pipeline but with a big difference. Heidi from Glorious by Heidi will be joining me as a co-host for the season and in this episode we talk about what you can expect from this wedding podcast over the coming months. We'd love to hear from you, whether it...2020-11-131h 06
Your Individual WeddingWhat About Weddings? with Annabel & Tamryn from Love My Dress2020 has been a devastating year for the wedding industry and the couples we so passionately work with. Couples have had to face the disappointment and stress of postponing their wedding plans (sometimes more than once) and suppliers have seen income plummet with very little support from the government. In short we have all been feeling ignored and undervalued. In fact we've even been called unviable and told to 'Get a better job". Step in the team behind #whataboutweddings; an incredible campaign that has created purpose, a voice for couples and their suppliers and a lobby fo...2020-10-3042 min
Your Individual WeddingOn the day wedding coordination - with Nina from Occasion QueensWhat is on the day wedding coordination and how can it help your stress levels go down and your enjoyment levels rocket? In this episode, I chat with Nina from Occasion Queens who shares what makes on the day wedding coordinators different from wedding planners and venue coordinators, and how she helps to troubleshoot little fires on the wedding day before they put a glitch in proceedings. Nina has also been a huge part of the #whataboutweddings campaign, and lobbying for a clear road map for the wedding industry and couples planning their wedding during th...2020-10-1631 min
Your Individual WeddingHow we planned our LGBTQ weddingUsually I chat with wonderful wedding suppliers who share their wisdom from years of working in the wedding industry. This week, we switch things up and speak to a couple who 8 years ago were planning their perfect day. Gavin and Ian look back on their special day(s) and share what made the occasion so special and what (if anything) they would do differently. A great listen for couples currently in the midst of wedding planning dilemmas. 2020-10-0237 min
Your Individual WeddingBlack Representation in the Wedding Industry with Ofe from Studio Oudizo / Noire Wedding EditWe talk a lot on this podcast about diversity and how the wedding industry is still very slow to represent couples that aren't straight, white, heterosexual and able-bodied. In this episode I chat with Ofe from Studio Oudizo who, aside from being the creative force behind this stunning wedding stationary / calligraphy business, has set up Noire Wedding Edit. Noire Wedding Edit showcases black-owned wedding businesses, many of whom still struggle to be recognised and promoted in a white-dominated industry. In addition to providing a platform for black owned businesses, Noire Wedding Edit also enables black co...2020-09-1831 min
Your Individual WeddingWedding Allies with Michelle Taylor (Funky Celebrant)What is a wedding ally and why is it important to find them? If you and / or your partner are of an identity or part of a community or societal group that is underrepresented in the wedding industry it's so important that you find wedding suppliers who are true allies. In this episode I chat to the wonderfully uplifting Michelle Taylor (known very aptly as the Funky Celebrant) about what being an ally means to her, how couples can find their perfect allies, and how she makes sure that she crafts weddings around the personalities o...2020-09-0442 min
Your Individual WeddingThe couple / supplier dynamic - with Valentina from The Stars InsideChoosing the perfect suppliers for your wedding is so important and has such a big impact on how your day unfolds. It's essential to look beyond the branding and products and make sure that you connect with your wedding vendors on a personal level. In this episode I chat with the wonderful Valentina from The Stars Inside about her role as a wedding and elopement planner, how she builds rapport with her clients and the reason for her fabulous business name. If, like me, you feel inspired and uplifted by listening to Valentina you can se...2020-08-2144 min
Your Individual WeddingCreating The Ultimate Wedding Experience - with Bola from Memories4USometimes, the excitement of wedding planning can soon lead to stress and overwhelm if you don't have the time and experience to coordinate every element of your day by yourself. This is where a wedding planner can step in and help you to create not just a wedding day but a wedding experience that will live long in the memory. In this episode I chat with the delightful Bola from Memories4U Weddings & Events about thinking big and creating an experience to remember. If you love the sound of Bola (and who wouldn't?) yo...2020-08-0736 min
Your Individual WeddingFinding The Perfect Dress - with Charlotte from Maisie Darling Bridal BoutiqueIn the previous episode we helped you to identify your style and in this episode we make the smooth transition to helping you find your perfect wedding dress (it's almost as if we planned it....but we didn't)! We know that not all of you listeners will be wearing a dress on your big day, but for those of you who have dreamt about that dress since you were little, this is a great episode to help you make the most of your bridal shopping experience. Our wise wedding supplier this week is the lovely Ch...2020-07-2426 min
Your Individual WeddingWhat's my wedding style? with Heidi from Glorious by HeidiWe're kicking off season 4 in style with a new name, new artwork and a guest who is glorious by name and by nature. Heidi from Glorious by Heidi is a bridal accessories designer who - when it comes to style - has truly got your back. She'll help you find out what really makes your eyes light up and empower you to make wedding style choices that you'll look back on with pride. In this episode, we chat about finding your personal style, not being swayed by friends and family and how your home decor c...2020-07-1045 min
Your Individual WeddingVideography Vibes with Jade from Hushabye FilmsWho says wedding photographers and videographers don't get on? Having had the pleasure of working with Jade from Hushabye films on a recent wedding, I knew she'd be a great podcast guest and she proved to be awesome. We sit (in a busy London cafe so apologies for the background blurb) and chat all things videography; from stolen lenses to overheard conversations. It's a fun way to end season three and Jade sets the standard for next season's guests! 2020-06-0540 min
Your Individual WeddingPlanning Your LGBTQ Wedding - with Alison Hargreaves from Pride GuideIt's so fantastic to be a photographer in a time when same sex marriage is legally recognised. However, the wedding industry can still be a little behind when it comes to inclusivity and catering to the needs of LGBTQ couples. In this episode I chat with Alison Hargreaves from Pride Guide (an online LGBTQ wedding directory and information hub) about how to find the perfect suppliers for your wedding. 2020-05-2224 min
Your Individual WeddingCreating you perfect wedding with Siobhan Craven-RobinsJust how do you get started when planning your wedding and how do you ensure you are not just planning a wedding like everyone else but are creating something truly unique to you? In this episode I chat with the UK's finest wedding planner Siobhan Craven-Robin who shares her knowledge and wisdom from over 20 years in the industry. In fact, Siobhan was the UK's first ever wedding planner and now trains other wedding planners at the London Event School. This is an episode jam-packed with useful advice that you can't afford to miss if looking to...2020-05-0826 min
Your Individual WeddingFabulous Floristry - with Kerry from Foxgloves & AliceEarlier in the year I had a really inspiring chat with Kerry from Foxgloves & Alice all about wedding flowers, thinking outside of the box and providing an awesome experience for our couples. Tune in to find out how to find inspiration for your wedding flowers, how to get the best from your florist and how to make the most of your wedding planning experience. 2020-04-2427 min
Your Individual WeddingGetting Value for Money with Alison Hargreaves from Guides for BridesWhether money is no object or you are planning a wedding on a bit of a budget, getting value for money is something we all seek when searching for the perfect suppliers. In this episode, I chat to Alison Hargreaves to bring you tips and advice on getting the best from your wedding budget. Alison is the Managing Director of guidesforbrides.co.uk and (as predicted) was a font of all knowledge on this topic. I learned a lot and I'm sure you will all find it invaluable. 2020-04-1023 min
Your Individual WeddingWedding planning in uncertain timesWow. What a crazy time we a re living in. No doubt your wedding plans have been impacted by the current pandemic; whether that be your date having to be postponed or not being sure how to proceed with booking suppliers and shopping for outfits etc. You may just be feeling really anxious in these unprecedented times. Therefore I chatted to my friend and podcast regular Emma McNally about the natural emotions we go through when faced with change, and share some tips for coping with events out of our control. I hope you...2020-03-2528 min
Your Individual WeddingWedding Planning WisdomToday I'm joined by fellow wedding podcasters Rianna and Rebecca (from The Wedding People Podcast). The girls share their wealth of knowledge on all things wedding-related; from setting budgets to on the day timings and everything in between. It's jam-packed with tips, laughs and awesome insight into the world of weddings. Sit back and enjoy!2020-03-1347 min
Your Individual WeddingHow to get that newlywed glow - with Elaine Marie Make-upWho doesn't want to look absolutely stunning on their wedding day? In this episode I chat to the delightful Elaine Marie who shares her wisdom on skin care, nutrition and making sure you look fab in your wedding photographs. Also...find out why Elaine is so passionate about Broccoli! 2020-02-2826 min
Your Individual WeddingEco Weddings with Jennie GalgeyWe are all starting to realise the impact our actions have on the environment; both as individuals and as human beings as a whole. In this episode I chat with Jennie Galgey from Bridal Hair by Jennie about the small ways in which you can incorporate more environmentally-friendly elements into your special day without necessarily labelling your day as being explicitly eco-friendly. Listen to us share tips on how you can be more eco-conscious without compromising on style and taste. 2020-02-1436 min
Your Individual WeddingMarriage & Identity with Emma McNallyWe're back! After a (not so brief) hiatus, How to Have a Wedding As Individual As You Are is back to provide loads of useful tips and inspiration for your upcoming wedding. In this first episode of season 3, I chat with friend of the podcast, Emma McNally about how to successfully transition from engaged life into marriage without losing a sense of who you are and what you value. We chat about looking beyond the wedding day itself to make sure you have put as much consideration into your marriage as you have yo...2020-01-3142 min
Futility ClosetThe Great Hedge of India In the 19th century, an enormous hedge ran for more than a thousand miles across India, installed by the British to enforce a tax on salt. Though it took a Herculean effort to build, today it's been almost completely forgotten. In this week's episode of the Futility Closet podcast we'll describe this strange project and reflect on its disappearance from history. We'll also exonerate a rooster and puzzle over a racing murderer. Intro: A group of plasterers working in London’s Tate Britain art gallery in 1897 left a message for future ge...2019-09-1634 min
Your Individual WeddingFinding your perfect wedding photographerSo we've come to the final episode of season two and I thought it was high time we spoke about my main area of expertise; wedding photography. I chat with Carmel from Carmel Jane Photography who - prior to owning a hugely success dance and school photography business - shot over 500 weddings. We chat wedding photography styles, questions to ask and how to make sure you wedding photographer is excited about capturing your special day. As ever, lots of tips and advice for making sure your wedding is as wonderful as it...2019-07-0350 min
Your Individual WeddingLocation, location, locationYour wedding venue has so much impact on your day - from guest numbers, to food and drink options and of course the photo opportunities available. It's often the first thing couples book when planning their wedding. In this episode I speak to Sigita, the Sale Manager / Wedding Planner from Smiths of Smithfield to find out about what considerations you need to take into account when booking your wedding. I also find out about what this stunning London venue has to offer for those looking for a stylish wedding in the centre of the city. 2019-06-1922 min
Your Individual WeddingIncorporating art into your weddingAll of the wedding industry suppliers I have featured on my podcast so far have provided so much useful insight and advice from their experience in the the industry. In this episode I chat to an artist just starting her journey as a wedding stationery designer but who also (at the time of recording) was planning her own wedding. As a result, Philippa Kettlewell (now Andrews) shares not only her professional knowledge but her personal experiences and frustrations of planning her wedding. A really insightful chat and I know you will hear lots of useful a...2019-06-0531 min
Your Individual WeddingPlanning your perfect LGBTQ+ Wedding - with Lorna from My Oh My WeddingsPlanning your wedding can be stressful and hectic for all couples, but for those who identify as LGBTQ+ it can be even more problematic as a result of having to deal with suppliers who are not inclusive and whose language and services cater exclusively to bride and grooms. In this episode I chat with the lovely Lorna from LGBTQ+ Weddings, all about how the experience of planning her own wedding led her to start her wedding planning business. Lorna shares some invaluable advice for all couples in the throws of wedding planning, and educates us on...2019-05-2931 min
Your Individual WeddingA sensory sensation of a celebration - with Jo from V V RavenThis episode features the lovely Jo from V V Raven who specialises in floral and natural styling for weddings and events. Jo incorporates lots of British flowers into her work and is much more than your average wedding florist, instead using her design and creativity skills to create wildly original spaces that appeal to all of the senses. Jo shares her passion and her advice for creating a wedding that is truly bespoke and we chat about ways to make sure your wedding remains individual to you as a couple. 2019-05-1541 min
Carmel Jane Talks Business#17 Images as Individual as You Are - From Wedding Photography to Author (With Ross Willsher)In this episode I speak with Ross Willsher, a local wedding photographer who has now written multiple books. He provides beautiful images that tell wonderful and powerful individual stories.2019-05-1537 min
Your Individual WeddingUnveiling your style - With Heather from Sash & VeilChatting to creative wedding experts is always inspiring and I loved conversing with Heather from Sash & Veil about her creative process and her journey from the fashion industry to the world of weddings. Heather shares some fantastic tips for finding your style and working with designers to create your perfect vision. Heather's veil designs are stunning and well worth a look online. Excuse the tinny noise in parts - the quietest room in the building where Heather has her studio was the old police cell which was a tad echoey!! 2019-05-0128 min
Your Individual WeddingSuits, Style and Sartorial Elegance with Jake from King & AllenWe all want to look and feel great on our wedding day. Finding the right outfit is a key part of this and so I chatted with Jake from King & Allen about their inclusive bespoke tailoring business and how both men and women can find a wedding suit that...err...suits! Jake also provides great advice on choosing the right fit and caring for your outfit after your special day has ended. The episode is filled with lots of tips and advice and I learned so much from this chat, so I am sure that you will...2019-04-1730 min
Your Individual WeddingWedding woes and wedding whaaats?We've trawled the net to bring you some of the most bonkers, brilliant and downright bizarre wedding stories to share with you. In this laughter-filled episode, Emma McNally (NLP supremo and owner of Achieve Your Greatness Ltd.) and I discuss what you can do to avoid these madcap scenarios happening on your day and provide advice on what to do if (heaven forbid) the worst happens during your wedding. Have a listen and find out what happens when weddings go a little 'off-piste'! 2019-04-0356 min
Your Individual WeddingCakes, creativity and common courtesyWho doesn't love cake? I certainly do and I'm lucky enough to know a wedding cake designer who makes the most incredible cakes. In this episode I chat with Fiona Byrne of Fifi's Cakery all about the magic that goes into her awesome wedding cakes and together we share some top tips from getting the best from your wedding suppliers. If you want to see some of Fi's wonderful creations head over to www.fifiscakery.com or email info@fifiscakery.com to get in touch with the lovely lady herself! 2019-03-2038 min
Your Individual WeddingWhat does your partner really think of you?What does your partner really think of you?We're back and kicking of season two with something a little bit different. When recently exhibiting at the awesome Gay Wedding Show in Camden, I asked the lovely couples that I met to answer some questions about their partner and keep their answers to themselves. In this episode myself and Karen from Phillips Celebrants read out the answers. So what does your partner think is your worst habit and what are they most looking forward to about your wedding day? Listen now to find out! 2019-03-0644 min
Your Individual WeddingLGBTQ Equality - with Ava KorwinAs a proud gay man and photographer of many fantastic same sex weddings, this episode is particularly close to my heart. I chat with the wonderful Ava from LGBTQ Equality Weddings about the incredible work she is doing to help wedding suppliers and businesses in general to develop their language to be more inclusive and help break down some of the barriers that same sex couples face when planning their wedding. Remember that there are thousands of people out there that will love you and support you to live your life as authentically as you wish to; w...2018-11-2143 min
Your Individual WeddingHow to survive a wedding fairThere are so many wedding fairs around but which ones are worth going to and how do you know which is going to be the best fit for you? What's more, what to you say and do when you get there? In this episode (against an unintentional backdrop of sultry Jazz music) I chat with Diane Boothe and Sophia Leach - organisers of Not Just a Wedding Fair, the UK's first multi-cultural wedding fair - to help guide you through wedding fair etiquette. Here us share tips on finding the right fair for you, how to...2018-11-0739 min
Your Individual WeddingCelebrant good times...come on!If you can get over the awful pun and listen to this week's episode you will find out all about the role a celebrant can play in your wedding. I chat to celebrant Karen Phillips about how her role differs from that of a registrar and we discuss wedding traditions. Karen shares some tradition from other cultures past and present too. A fun-filled and informative chat that hopefully helps you to think outside of the box with your wedding traditions. 2018-10-3143 min
Your Individual WeddingSprucing up your wedding speechArgh speeches - no-one likes doing them do they? Fortunately, in this episode I chat with public speaking expert Kayla Conley who - as well as dazzling in her ever-colourful attire - sat down and provided some wonderful tips for writing, preparing and delivering your wedding speech. 2018-10-2438 min
Your Individual WeddingWedding meditation and some literary conversationIn this episode, I leave the cosy comfort of my dining room table and chat to Emma Mills in London about how meditation can help you stay calm and find focus when planning your wedding. We then chat about literature and poetry and share some advice for choosing readings for your weddings. Apologies for a few distracting background noises in this one - we were in Devonshire Square where halfway through recording restaurant staff started clearing chairs and tables! You can find out more about Emma and her work by visiting www.emmamillslondon.com...2018-10-1743 min
Your Individual WeddingConflicts, confusion and keeping in control with Emma McNallyNLP? What is that? How on earth does it relate to wedding planning? In episode 4, I chat with the lovely Emma McNally about Neuro Linguistic Programming and she shares some basic NLP techniques to deal with any conflicts or anxieties that are arising in relation to your wedding (and life in general). So if "chunking" and "anchoring" mean nothing to you, tune in and find out how they can transform your life. It all sounds very heavy-going but fear not (!!)...this episode is filled with laughter and lighthearted chat as much as it is...2018-10-1050 min
Your Individual WeddingCan we get some confidence up in hair? with Jennie GalgeyIn the latest episode of the podcast, I chat (at length!) to the lovely Jennie Galgey about hair styles, consultations and confidence on your big day. Jennie didn't exactly dispel the stereotypes about hairdressers talking at length but she was so engaging and passionate about what she does we produced a really informative and helpful podcast. You can find examples of Jennie's work by visiting www.bridalhairbyjennie.co.uk2018-10-0354 min
Your Individual WeddingBeing "On Trend" vs Being Yourself with Leanne PerillyIn this episode I chat with the incredibly talented wedding make-up artist Leanne Perilly on how to walk the thin line between being inspired by but not dictated by wedding trends and fashions - both in relation to your wedding make-up and the wider aspects of your day. We chat about social media and how to use it wisely, and share advice on being the best version of yourself and feeling fab in your own skin. You can contact Leanne by visiting www.leanneperilly.co.uk2018-09-2627 min
Your Individual WeddingWhat Does a Wedding Look Like? with Carly StraughanIn the second episode of "How to have a wedding as individual as you are", I chat with Carly Straughan about her totally unique wedding and how her frustration with the wedding industry led her to starting a business to help couples plan elopements and tiny weddings that really resonate with what they want from their special day. Carly provides some great tips for couples seeking to think outside of the box and sidestep the traditional wedding day routine and stereotypes. Whether you are looking to elope, or just want to make a few changes to the t...2018-09-1948 min
Your Individual WeddingPinpointing Your Wedding PrioritiesIn the first episode of "How to have a wedding as individual as you are", Ross Willsher (me) chats with wedding stationery supremo Fred Foster (from Yours Occasionally) about the importance of knowing who you are, what you value and what you want from your wedding before planning your big day. We feature guidance on maintaining a sense of perspective and keeping the true meaning of a wedding at the centre of everything you plan. Not even the interruption of the post slamming onto the nearby doormat stops us from providing some top tips for all newlywed c...2018-09-1336 min