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Divorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawDiscretionary Trusts in a Divorce with Mackenzie Ralstin | Episode 240Trusts are often described as “bulletproof” in divorce—but that assumption can be misleading. In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, co-host Ryan Kalamaya is joined by associate attorney Makenzie Ralston to discuss how discretionary trusts are treated in a Colorado divorce.Ryan and McKenzie explain when a trust may truly be protected, when it can be considered property, and when it may still affect property division, spousal maintenance, or child support—even if it is not divisible. Using common divorce scenarios and Colorado case law, they break down how trust language, trustee discreti...
2026-02-0233 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawManaging Youth Sports in Co-Parenting: Tips to Avoid Sports-Related Disagreements | Episode 238This week, Ryan and co-host Amy Goscha explore how youth sports intersect with co-parenting and divorce. From intense schedules to rising costs, sports can offer structure and joy—or spark serious conflict between separated parents. Whether your child is just starting out or already in competitive leagues, this episode helps parents navigate decisions with clarity and focus on the child’s best interests.🔹 Episode HighlightsWhy Youth Sports Matter • How sports build resilience, discipline, and identity—especially during divorce • The mental and physical benefits for kids navigating changeThe Pres...
2025-12-1135 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawCan My Ex Enroll Our Kids in Sleepaway Camp? Understanding Co-Parenting Agreements | Episode 237In this episode, Ryan and co-host Amy Goscha unpack a topic many divorced or separated parents face: how to navigate sleepaway summer camps. With limited summer weeks, emotional attachments, and high costs, these camps can offer both enriching experiences—and major co-parenting challenges.🔹 Episode HighlightsWhy Sleepaway Camps Spark Conflict • Time lost with kids during a parent's summer break • High costs and disagreements over scheduling, location, and traditionLegal & Logistical Considerations • Should it be in your parenting plan? • Who pays, who travels, and who decides?
2025-12-0424 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawTo Stay or To Go? The Housing Question in Divorce | Episode 234 Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with Ryan Kalamaya! In this episode, Ryan and co-host Amy Goscha tackle one of the most frequently asked questions in divorce and separation: Should I move out of the house—or make my spouse move out?Whether you're early in the separation process or navigating a high-conflict breakup, this conversation breaks down the legal, emotional, and financial implications of moving out while cohabitating with a spouse. Episode HighlightsSafety First • Why safety concerns should be the first consideration in any cohabitation decision • The risks of...
2025-06-2015 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawMore Than Legal: Managing Mindset in Divorces | Episode 233Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha! In this episode, Ryan and co-host Amy Goscha are recording from their brand-new office near Cherry Creek—and reflecting on the mindsets that shape how clients experience divorce and custody disputes.Drawing from both their professional and personal experiences, Ryan and Amy unpack what it means to manage emotions, expectations, and communication through one of life’s most difficult transitions. Whether you're an attorney or someone navigating a family law matter, this episode offers valuable insights into the human side of the legal process.
2025-06-1329 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawDouble Dipping: How Business Valuations Impact Maintenance in Divorce | Episode 232Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with Ryan Kalamaya! In this episode, Ryan is joined by co-host and family law attorney Amy Goscha to explore how property division impacts spousal maintenance in Colorado divorce cases.Whether you're a high-net-worth individual or navigating a more modest estate, understanding the relationship between property distribution and support obligations is critical. Ryan and Amy unpack how Colorado law approaches these issues and the strategic implications for both parties in a divorce.Episode HighlightsProperty First, Then Maintenance Learn why Colorado courts divide property before...
2025-05-0828 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawDivorce & Real Estate: Why Didn't My Lawyer Tell Me That? | Episode 230Welcome back to another episode of Divorce at Altitude! This week, host Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) Karla Kyte to explore the critical intersection of divorce and real estate. With mortgage rates and home prices rising, understanding how divorce impacts homeownership, refinancing, and mortgage qualifications is more important than ever.With 27 years of lending experience in Colorado, Karla helps divorcing individuals navigate property division and mortgage financing. This episode unpacks common real estate pitfalls and smart planning strategies to help homeowners make informed decisions.Episode Highlights: • Why re...
2025-05-0143 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawProperty Division & Maintenance: How Assets Shape Alimony in Colorado Divorces | Episode 231Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with Ryan Kalamaya! In this episode, Ryan is joined by co-host and family law attorney Amy Goscha to explore how property division impacts spousal maintenance in Colorado divorce cases.Whether you're a high-net-worth individual or navigating a more modest estate, understanding the relationship between property distribution and support obligations is critical. Ryan and Amy unpack how Colorado law approaches these issues and the strategic implications for both parties in a divorce.Episode HighlightsProperty First, Then Maintenance Learn why Colorado courts divide...
2025-04-2431 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawC.R.C.P. Overhaul: Practical Impacts on Divorce, APR, and Post-Decree Practice | Episode 229 Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude with host Ryan Kalamaya! In this episode, Ryan is joined by co-host and seasoned family law attorney Amy Goscha to break down the most significant proposed changes to Colorado’s family law rules in over a decade. After spending two years working on the Colorado Supreme Court's Family Issues Committee, Amy offers a behind-the-scenes look at how these reforms aim to modernize and streamline the family law process. Whether you're a legal professional or navigating a family law matter in Colorado, this episode provides essential insight into what...
2025-04-1125 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawThriving Through Chaos: Productivity and Financial Resilience in Divorce with Karen McMahon | Episode 224In this episode, host Ryan Kalamaya is joined by divorce coach Karen McMahon to discuss how personal growth and financial resilience can empower individuals during divorce, particularly for high-achieving executives and entrepreneurs.Episode Highlights:Role of a Divorce Coach: Karen shares how coaches help clients manage emotions, clarify priorities, and stay productive during high-stakes divorces.Setting Boundaries for Co-Parenting: Learn to establish temporary arrangements and negotiate boundaries in shared living to minimize conflict.Financial Expectations: Understand the importance of working with financial experts to navigate complex disclosures and...
2024-12-1939 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawMoney and Marriage - Screw Love, Are You Financially Compatible | Episode 223In this final episode of our "Marriage and Money" series, host Ryan Kalamaya is joined by Nikki Tucker, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of The FIIRM Approach, to discuss: “Screw Love: Are You Financially Compatible?” They examine how financial alignment can impact relationships and offer practical advice for improving financial compatibility.Episode Highlights:Emotional vs. Financial Compatibility: Nikki and Ryan explain why financial compatibility is often overlooked and how aligning money values is crucial for marital success.The Role of Money Stories: They delve into how deeply rooted mone...
2024-12-1220 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawMoney and Marriage - Why Pre-Nups Aren't Popular Enough | Episode 222Welcome back to another thought-provoking episode of Divorce at Altitude! In this episode, co-host Ryan Kalamaya continues the three-part series on marriage and money, diving into the compelling topic of why prenuptial agreements aren't popular enough. Joining him again is Nikki Tucker, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of The Firm Approach.With over 20 years of financial expertise, Nikki offers valuable insights into the stigma surrounding prenups and why they can be an essential tool for couples to establish trust, financial transparency, and security before saying “I do.”Episode Highlights:
2024-12-0522 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawMoney and Marriage - Do You Understand Your Partner's Money Story | Episode 221Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, your trusted resource for navigating Colorado family law with attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. Each week, they dive into topics related to divorce, co-parenting, and relationships, offering practical insights and expert advice.In this episode, Ryan is joined by Nikki Tucker, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and founder of The FIIRM Approach, to kick off a three-part series on Marriage and Money. The first topic in the series is understanding your partner’s money story a concept that can significantly impact both relationships and divorce outcomes.Episode Highlights:...
2024-11-2121 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawHumphries and Decision-Making | Episode 220Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, your guide to Colorado family law with attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. In each episode, they tackle topics related to divorce and co-parenting, offering insights for navigating the complexities of family law in Colorado.This week, Ryan and Amy break down one of the most complex aspects of family law: decision-making standards and enforcement in custody cases. They dive into the recent Colorado Court of Appeals case, In re Marriage of Humphries, which addresses the legal standards for modifying decision-making authority post-divorce. Understanding how to approach legal standards—such as the be...
2024-11-1415 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawIntangible Property in a Divorce Raj Kukreja | Episode 219Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, your guide to Colorado family law, hosted by attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. Each week, we dive into a topic related to divorce and co-parenting to help you navigate the complexities of family law in Colorado.In this episode, Ryan is joined by Raj Kukreja, a high net worth divorce expert, to explore Intangible Assets in Divorce—a complex but crucial topic for many high-asset cases. Together, they unpack the concept of intangible property, including Name, Image, and Likeness (NIL), intellectual property, personal goodwill, and more, and explain how these often-overlooked as...
2024-11-0743 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawBeyond the Basics: Understanding Above-Guideline Child Support in High-Income Cases | Episode 18In this "how-to" episode, Ryan dives into high-income scenarios and how they impact child support in Colorado. Using the case of hypothetical clients, Eric and Melanie Wolf, Ryan breaks down what happens when combined incomes exceed $30,000 per month, the legal floor for child support. Drawing on the Colorado Supreme Court case of In re Marriage of Boettcher, Ryan explains how courts determine child support in high-income cases, focusing on lifestyle disparities between parents and the needs of the children.Episode Highlights:Income & Child Support: How high incomes, such as Eric’s million-dollar sa...
2024-11-0407 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawRe-Opening Divorce Settlements | Episode 218Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, a Colorado family law podcast hosted by experienced attorneys Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. Whether you're going through a divorce, considering one, or simply want to understand more about the intricacies of family law in Colorado, we’re here to help. We aim to provide practical guidance to make the process a bit easier and empower you with the insights you need.In this episode, Ryan and Amy discuss Divorce 2.0, or what happens when someone wants to reopen a finalized divorce case. Using the hypothetical clients Eric and Melanie Wolf, they explore wh...
2024-10-3128 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawBeyond Basics: Tackling Extraordinary Medical and Extracurricular Expenses | Episode 217Welcome to Divorce at Altitude, a podcast focused on Colorado family law, hosted by Ryan Kalamaya and co-host Amy Goscha. In each episode, we delve into various topics related to divorce, child custody, and co-parenting in Colorado. Whether you're navigating a divorce or just curious about the legal process, we offer practical advice and tips to guide you.In this "how-to" episode, Ryan explores extraordinary medical and extracurricular expenses and their impact on child support in Colorado divorces or custody cases. Using the hypothetical case of Eric and Melanie Wolf, Ryan breaks down how costs like private...
2024-10-2816 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawNavigating Daycare Costs in Child Support: What Every Parent Needs to Know | Episode 216Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude, a podcast on Colorado family law hosted by Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha. In this "how-to" episode, Ryan explores work-related daycare and its impact on child support in Colorado divorces and parenting disputes.Episode Highlights:Work-Related Daycare & Child Support: Ryan explains how daycare, preschool, and after-school expenses influence child support calculations. Using a hypothetical example of Eric and Melanie Wolf, he demonstrates how these costs can adjust the final support amount.Income & Parenting Time: The episode discusses how parents' incomes and parenting schedules affect...
2024-10-2110 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawWhat is Reintegration Therapy in Colorado | Episode 215In this episode, Ryan and Amy discuss the complex topic of reintegration therapy in family law. They explore its role, challenges, and how it helps children rebuild relationships with estranged parents amid recent media coverage.Episode Highlights:What is Reintegration Therapy? Ryan and Amy define it as a therapeutic intervention designed to help children reconnect with a strained or severed relationship with one parent.Challenges in High-Conflict Cases: They address scenarios where children resist contact with a parent due to issues like substance abuse, domestic violence, or alienation, and the...
2024-10-1025 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawMasterclass on Separate Property in Colorado | Episode 214Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude! After a brief hiatus, hosts Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha return to discuss a frequently debated topic in divorce: separate property. They explore what constitutes separate property, how it’s treated in Colorado, and the nuances involved in tracing its value.Episode Highlights:Introduction to Separate Property: Ryan and Amy explain the difference between marital and separate property in Colorado, noting that separate property (acquired before marriage or through gifts/inheritance) can appreciate during marriage, potentially becoming marital property.Burford vs. Powell Approaches: They di...
2024-10-0337 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawNavigating Parental Relocation | Episode 212Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude! This week, hosts Ryan Kalamaya and Amy Goscha explore the complex and emotional topic of parental relocation cases, increasingly common in mountain areas.Episode Highlights:Introduction to Parental Relocation: Ryan and Amy define parental relocation and its impact on co-parenting dynamics under Colorado law.Pre-Decree vs. Post-Decree Relocation: They contrast relocation during divorce (pre-decree) with post-divorce relocations, noting the challenges of post-decree cases under Colorado law.Key Legal Framework: The hosts discuss legal precedents from the Colorado Supreme Court, breaking down factors...
2024-08-2240 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family Law7 Key Strategies to Master Divorce Economics | Episode 211Welcome back to Divorce at Altitude. After a brief summer break, hosts Ryan Kalamaya and Brett Hirsch are here to preview their upcoming presentation at the Family Law Institute in Vail, Colorado, titled "Summiting the Financial Slopes: Seven Key Strategies to Master Divorce Economics." They share essential legal and financial insights for navigating divorce complexities.Episode Highlights:Family Law Institute Overview: Ryan introduces the significance of this annual conference, where divorce professionals and judges gather to discuss family law trends and strategies.Key Strategy #1 - Marital Balance Sheet: Learn the...
2024-08-1546 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawWitness Preparation in a Divorce Case with Jessica Brylo | Episode 210We are Ryan Kalamaya explores the crucial aspect of witness preparation in divorce proceedings. Joined by Jessica Brylo, an expert in litigation and witness preparation, the discussion delves into how emotional management and presentation significantly impact the outcomes of divorce cases, particularly in custody and financial disputes.Key Highlights:Expert Guidance from Jessica Brylo: With her extensive background in both the legal and psychological facets of witness preparation, Jessica offers invaluable insights into managing emotions and crafting a narrative that resonates with judges and evaluators.The Importance of Presentation: Learn...
2024-06-2831 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawFrom Numbers to Answers: How to Tackle the Child Support Worksheet | Episode 207Welcome to another instructive episode of Divorce at Altitude. Today, host Ryan Kalamaya dives deep into the complexities of child support calculations in Colorado, building on the foundational knowledge from episode 203, "Child Support Basics." This episode, primarily visual, provides a detailed walkthrough of the child support worksheet using a case study of hypothetical clients, Eric and Melanie Wolfe.Episode Highlights:Understanding the Child Support Worksheet: Explore a visual demonstration of the child support calculation process using the Family Law Software. This tool is crucial in determining child support based on factors such...
2024-06-1710 minDivorce at Altitude: A Podcast on Colorado Family LawChallenges in Business Valuations in a Divorce with Ron Seigneur Episode 206In this episode of Divorce at Altitude, Ryan Kalamaya talks with Ron Seigneur, an expert in business valuations, about evaluating closely held businesses during divorce proceedings. With the holiday season approaching and discounts on everyone's mind, this conversation addresses the financial complexities of including a business in marital assets.Episode Highlights:Valuation Basics: Ron explains foundational aspects of business valuations, including fair market value, fair value, and investment value, and their impact on divorce scenarios.Discounts and Goodwill: The discussion covers marketability discounts and the difference between enterprise goodwill and...
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