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Order of ManBlind Tribalism, Passive Income, and Holding onto Anger | ASK ME ANYTHINGWhat does it really mean to lead with integrity when institutions fail and people disappoint? In this Ask Me Anything episode of Order of Man, Ryan Michler answers real questions from the community on leadership, anger and forgiveness, building passive income, physical fitness, accountability, and personal standards. Ryan shares hard-earned insights on responsibility, discipline, and how to operate with clarity in uncertain times. This candid AMA delivers practical guidance and mindset shifts for men committed to growth, strength, and personal ownership. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Ask Me Anything Kickoff 02:42 Asking Better Questions as a...
2026-01-071h 03
Order of ManYour Apathy is Your Undoing | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler challenges men to stop drifting through life and confront the apathy holding them back. He breaks down the five core actions that help men regain direction, eliminate complacency, and move with purpose. Ryan speaks candidly about distraction, burnout, and his own past patterns of escape, giving listeners a direct path to clarity and discipline. This episode offers a clear call for men to reclaim their focus, cut the noise, and commit to what actually matters. A powerful, practical reminder for anyone who feels stuck or overwhelmed. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00...
2025-11-1419 min
Order of ManHow to Reclaim Masculinity in a Feminized Culture | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week’s Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down how men can reclaim masculinity in an overly feminized culture. He outlines five principles for leading, protecting, and providing in a world that often mislabels masculine virtues as toxic. Ryan challenges modern misconceptions, redefines what strength looks like, and calls men to take responsibility - for themselves, their families, and their communities. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Intro - The Cost of a Feminized Culture 00:12 - We Live in an Overly Feminized Culture 02:33 - Rule #1 - Reject the Idea That Men and Women Are t...
2025-10-1728 min
Order of ManA Man’s Guide to Taking Risk | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler explores what it truly means for men to take risks and why it’s essential for growth, leadership, and purpose. He outlines the importance of knowing your “why,” weighing risk versus reward, hedging your bets, and preparing every area of your life before making bold moves. Ryan also emphasizes the need for courage, resilience, and guidance from mentors. This conversation is a practical and powerful guide for men who want to step into greater responsibility, push past fear, and live with meaning while taking calculated, righteous risks. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS...
2025-09-2621 min
Order of ManNice Guys Never Win | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler breaks down the truth behind the phrase “Nice Guys Never Win.” He explains how the tendency to avoid conflict, suppress needs, and chase approval leads to weak boundaries, indecision, and frustration in relationships and careers. Ryan outlines the real costs of “nice guy syndrome” and challenges men to reclaim respect through clarity, honesty, and decisive action. He closes with five daily practices to help men stop self-betrayal and start leading with conviction. This episode is a direct, no-fluff call for men to stop playing the victim and step into responsib...
2025-09-1929 min
Order of ManWhen Good Men Do Nothing | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week’s Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler addresses the troubling rise of political violence and cultural hostility, urging men to step up as protectors, providers, and leaders. He lays out a clear roadmap of four key actions—protecting your family, speaking out against destructive ideologies, stepping into positions of influence, and building strong brotherhoods. Ryan also shares upcoming plans for local Order of Man chapters and emphasizes why good men must refuse to stay silent any longer. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:15 – The power of prayer and courage 05:00 – Protecting your family and building s...
2025-09-1223 min
Order of ManHow to Be Vulnerable Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler breaks down what it really means to be vulnerable “like a man.” He challenges the popular narrative that vulnerability is strength in itself and instead explains how it should be used as a tool for growth. Ryan outlines why discernment matters, how goals must shape openness, and why solutions must accompany weakness. Listeners will walk away with a sharper, more practical understanding of vulnerability—stripped of fluff and grounded in responsibility. This episode is a call for men to embrace honesty without falling into the trap of empty exposure.
2025-09-0524 min
Order of ManDaily Efficiencies, Practices, Planning, and Systems | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler dives into daily efficiencies, planning systems, and the power of structure in building a productive life. He answers listener questions on balancing flexibility with discipline, handling unexpected events, creating rituals around planning, and becoming an early riser. Ryan also shares practical tactics like using buffers, after-action reviews, and categorizing different types of days to stay consistent and effective. Whether you’re aiming for better routines or long-term growth, this conversation offers actionable strategies you can apply immediately. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction and episode setup 02:14 – Balancing flexibility and st...
2025-09-0334 min
Order of ManHow a Man Overcomes Betrayal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how men can confront and overcome betrayal in both personal and professional life. Drawing from his own recent experiences, Ryan offers practical strategies and hard-earned insights to help men navigate betrayal with strength, clarity, and integrity. He emphasizes respect, self-control, and learning valuable lessons rather than succumbing to anger or despair. This episode is a call for men to rise above hardship, establish healthy boundaries, and move forward with resilience and purpose. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:15 – Facing betrayal in life and business 04:37 – Responding with respect and ra...
2025-08-2921 min
Order of ManHow to Initiate Boys Into Manhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the crucial question of how to initiate boys into manhood. Drawing from personal experience as a father and mentor, Ryan outlines key principles such as separation, challenge, risk, and meaning that help shape rites of passage. He emphasizes the importance of deliberate and intentional practices for raising boys into strong, capable men—especially in a society that often resists such growth. This episode offers fathers, mentors, and even single mothers clear considerations for guiding the next generation of men. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:40 – The challenge of rais...
2025-08-2223 min
Order of ManThe Hard Truth of Addiction | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this week’s Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle powerful questions from the Order of Man community. From knowing which battles are worth fighting, to bringing God into past trials, to addressing blind spots at work without sounding like a complainer — they cover practical wisdom every man can apply. They also dive into handling public haters, having hard conversations about addiction, and reflecting on past interviews. Honest, challenging, and inspiring — this one’s packed with lessons for intentional living. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Opening and headlines 08:07 – Choosing your battles 19:45 – Inviting God into past tria...
2025-08-201h 03
Order of Man10 Ways to Make Yourself More Influential | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler shares ten powerful strategies to become more influential in every area of life. From building strength and dressing with purpose to mastering communication, practicing honesty, and making exceptionalism the standard, Ryan delivers actionable insights for men who want to lead with integrity and impact. He also emphasizes the importance of follow-through, consistency, and lightheartedness in building trust. Whether at home, at work, or in the community, these principles equip listeners to show up as the man they are meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 02:28 Build Strength & Muscle
2025-08-1537 min
Order of ManMen and The Humanity of Hunting | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler passionately defends hunting, addressing misconceptions and highlighting its ecological and ethical benefits. He explores the historical role of hunting in human survival, its impact on conservation, and the reverence of consuming what you kill. Michler provides data-driven arguments to counter anti-hunting sentiments, emphasizing population management, habitat preservation, and sustainable practices. He also offers practical advice for aspiring hunters. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that challenges assumptions and celebrates hunting’s role in human tradition and environmental stewardship. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Addressing Hunting Misconceptions 04:09 - T...
2025-08-0828 min
Order of ManBe The Rock For Your Family | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESRyan Michler, in this week's Friday Field Notes, delivers an inspiring episode on becoming a steadfast presence for family and community. He shares seven actionable strategies to navigate life's challenges while supporting others, emphasizing clear communication, firm boundaries, and emotional resilience. Michler urges men to embody trustworthiness and capability, ensuring they’re the reliable "rock" others depend on during tough times. Packed with practical advice and motivational insights, this episode empowers listeners to lead with strength and serve those they love. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction: The Challenges of Life 02:03 - Communicate Your Desires
2025-08-0122 min
Order of ManConfronting the Stress of Masculinity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the overwhelming stress men face in their roles as providers and protectors. He offers five practical strategies to manage stress effectively, emphasizing personal responsibility over societal expectations. Michler encourages men to identify stress triggers, eliminate distractions, prioritize health, break monotonous routines, and adjust life's tempo without losing direction. Through actionable advice and personal insights, he empowers listeners to reduce stress and enhance performance, ensuring they can serve their families and communities without crumbling under pressure. Join the conversation at facebook.com/groups/orderofman. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
2025-07-2524 min
Order of ManWhat You Do Is Who You Are | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler shares an inspiring message about becoming the person you aspire to be through consistent action. Reflecting on his adventures, from Alaska to Africa, he emphasizes that small, daily habits shape identity and success. Michler addresses overcoming setbacks like divorce or financial struggles, urging listeners to combat imposter syndrome and act now. He breaks down practical steps across four key areas—calibration, connection, condition, and contribution—to live with purpose and achieve goals, encouraging men to take small victories and seek guidance to expedite progress. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
2025-07-1817 min
Order of ManRuthlessly Work Towards Goals | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos tackle listener questions on emotional intelligence, co-parenting challenges, manifesting goals, and personal growth. They share practical strategies for managing emotions, setting boundaries in difficult relationships, and taking action to achieve dreams. Reflecting on Ryan’s book Sovereignty, they discuss evolving perspectives on life’s past, present, and future. With personal anecdotes and actionable advice, this episode inspires men to show up authentically and pursue excellence despite life’s challenges. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 01:57 - Emotional Intelligence Strategies 22:00 - Navigating Co-Parenting Conflicts...
2025-07-161h 02
Order of ManA Man’s Guide to Taking More Risks | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how men can embrace calculated risks to achieve success in relationships, health, wealth, and quality of life. He shares five actionable strategies—defining your vision, measuring risk versus reward, hedging bets, conducting a SWOT analysis, and seeking coaching—to ensure risks are prudent and aligned with personal goals. Michler emphasizes preparation and intentionality to minimize threats and maximize opportunities, urging men to act boldly yet wisely. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:26 - The Importance of Calculated Risks 02:10 - Know What You Want 03:52 - Meas...
2025-07-1120 min
Order of ManRevisiting Your Vision, Reclaiming Your Sovereignty, and The Power of Disruption | ASK ME ANYTHINGJoin Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, tackling listener questions on personal growth, leadership, and life challenges. From choosing dream podcasts to reclaiming sovereignty in marriage, they share actionable insights and heartfelt advice. Ryan reflects on a decade of Order of Man, while both discuss overcoming mid-season slumps with mindset shifts and practical strategies. Tune in for inspiration, humor, and wisdom to become the man you're meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Intro and Banter 02:34 - Top Podcasts to Guest On 07:12 - First Cars and N...
2025-07-0952 min
Order of ManThe 4 Ways a Man Provides for His People | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the multifaceted role of a man as a provider, extending beyond financial support. Drawing from Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, he outlines fou key provisions: physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Michler emphasizes equipping loved ones wit skills, emotional resilience, and a sense of purpose rooted in objective truth. With actionable insights he inspires men to lead their families toward abundance and fulfillment. Tune in to learn how to ste into your role as a protector, provider, and leader. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00- Introduction to Providing for Your Pe...
2025-07-0421 min
Order of ManThe BBQ Test: How to Vet Your Band of Brothers | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the crisis of male isolation, emphasizing the need for strong male connections. He introduces the "BBQ Test," a framework to evaluate potential brothers-in-arms based on five key questions: enjoyment, resilience, depth, principle, and capability. Michler challenges men to reject cultural lies about lone masculinity, urging them to build networks of virtuous men. He shares personal insights and offers the Iron Council as a resource for forging these bonds. Join Ryan to discover how to cultivate meaningful, growth-oriented relationships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - The Struggle of M...
2025-06-2724 min
Order of Man6 Books Every Father Should Read | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESRyan Michler shares six essential books for fathers in this heartfelt episode of *Friday Field Notes*. Reflecting on fatherhood’s profound impact, he draws from personal experiences, including a near-death hunting trip with his son. Michler recommends reads like *The Boy Crisis* and *Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters* to help fathers navigate modern challenges, raise resilient sons, and nurture daughters’ self-worth. Emphasizing sovereignty and emotional regulation, he inspires men to lead with purpose,0making this episode a powerful guide for fathers committed to growth. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Fatherhood’s Importance 02:31 - Father’s Day Reflectio...
2025-06-2018 min
Order of ManImposter Syndrome | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this powerful episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles imposter syndrome, urging men to reject feelings of inadequacy and embrace their divine purpose. He challenges the notion of being an imposter, labeling it as selfish and rooted in insecurity. Michler provides a candid, no-nonsense perspective, offering five actionable steps to reframe negative self-stories, unpack insecurities, and lean on others’ belief in oneself. With raw honesty, he inspires listeners to recognize their worth and take bold action to become the men they’re meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:30 - Introduction to Imposter Syndrome...
2025-06-1331 min
Order of ManYour Integrity Gap is Destroying You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESRyan Michler delves into the concept of the "integrity gap" — the disparity between what men know they should do and what they actually do. He explores how this gap hinders personal growth, results, and relationships, urging listeners to bridge it through actionable steps. Michler provides six introspective questions to help men align their actions with their aspirations, fostering purpose and impact. Tune in to discover how to close the integrity gap and become the man you’re meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introducing the Integrity Gap 02:23 - Risks of the Integrity Gap 08:17 - Impa...
2025-06-0629 min
Order of ManWhat We Do Echoes in Eternity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the powerful concept inspired by Gladiator and Marcus Aurelius: “What we do echoes in eternity.” Michler emphasizes the importance of adopting a long-term perspective in life to avoid emotional impulsivity, short-term gains, and scarcity mindsets. He shares three key mindsets for maintaining focus on lasting goals and three practical strategies—pausing before acting, applying the “five-five-five rule,” and prioritizing long-term results—to achieve meaningful outcomes. Michler’s insights inspire listeners to make decisions that resonate beyond the present, fostering a legacy of impact and growth. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS...
2025-05-3022 min
Order of ManDo Not Grow Bitter | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler shares four strategies to avoid bitterness amid life's challenges. He urges men to take responsibility for their circumstances, emphasizing decision-making, reframing adversity, learning from experiences, and applying lessons for growth. Michler highlights the dangers of victimhood and encourages gratitude and proactive change to transform struggles into opportunities. With personal anecdotes and practical advice, he inspires listeners to rise above frustration and embrace their potential. Visit orderofman.com/battle-ready for tools to implement these principles and become the man you're meant to be. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:10...
2025-05-2321 min
Order of ManOptions Equal Freedom | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores how creating options leads to true freedom. Expanding on the concept of "discipline equals freedom," Ryan argues that personal responsibility, open-mindedness, and sovereignty are key to unlocking a life of choice. He shares four actionable strategies to cultivate options, emphasizing self-improvement, avoiding rigid thinking, aligning relationships, and prioritizing liberty. Ryan inspires listeners to take control of their lives and pursue their desired path. Join the Iron Council at orderofman.com/ironcouncil for more. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to Options and Freedom 02:35...
2025-05-1621 min
Order of Man5 Signs You’re a People-Pleaser | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this poignant episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delves into the pitfalls of people-pleasing, drawing from personal reflection. He identifies five critical signs—saying yes when you mean no, avoiding conflict, feeling responsible for others’ emotions, tying self-worth to praise, and feeling burned out or resentful. Michler shares candid insights, referencing No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover and Let Them by Mel Robbins, offering practical anecdotes to break the cycle. Through raw honesty, he encourages listeners to set boundaries and prioritize self-care to become their authentic selves. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00...
2025-05-0936 min
Order of ManFind Your Values, Validate Yourself, and Why You Hate Yourself | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a St. Louis event recap, sharing its triumphs and challenges. They tackle listener questions on sibling conflicts, leaving work stress behind, the pressures of leadership, marriage cycles, discovering personal values, and managing credit scores. With candid insights, Ryan and Kipp explore self-validation, intentionality, and aligning actions with values, offering practical advice for men striving to live purposefully. Join them for an inspiring discussion on growth and resilience. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00.088 - Event Recap: St. Louis Experience 06:40.662 - Handling Sibling Conflicts
2025-05-071h 04
Order of ManWhen You Mess Up, Learn | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delivers a powerful message on embracing failure as a catalyst for growth. Drawing from personal experiences, he outlines six actionable strategies to learn from setbacks, including avoiding complacency, focusing on controllables, and forgiving oneself. Michler emphasizes resilience and personal responsibility, urging listeners to let go of past mistakes and build a better future. His candid, motivational approach inspires men to confront challenges head-on and transform adversity into opportunity. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction: The Inevitability of Failure 02:53 - Six Strategies to Learn from Failure 05:13 - Complacency K...
2025-05-0231 min
Order of ManMindset of Masculine Money Management | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESRyan Michler shares seven essential mindsets for effective money management in this episode of Friday Field Notes. Aimed at men striving to protect, provide, and preside, Michler emphasizes money as a tool and metric of value, urging listeners to overcome emotional pitfalls and societal misconceptions. He outlines a strategic approach—fortify, neutralize, attack—and stresses the importance of professional support. With practical wisdom, Michler empowers men to master their finances and fulfill their potential. Tune in to rethink money and elevate your financial game. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:37 - Money as a Metric of Valu...
2025-04-2530 min
Order of ManThe Peril of Self-Betrayal | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of self-betrayal, defining it as failing to act on known responsibilities or instincts. He discusses its consequences, including anxiety, poor relationships, and unfulfilled potential, and identifies emotional signs like frustration and impatience. Ryan provides actionable steps to overcome self-betrayal, such as listing neglected tasks, taking immediate action, and journaling emotions. Encouraging listeners to align actions with their values, he offers resources at orderofman.com. Tune in to learn how to bridge the integrity gap and live a more fulfilled life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
2025-04-1829 min
Order of ManLearning to Let Go, Choose Yourself, and Earn Your Kids’ Trust | ASK ME ANYTHINGJoin Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, tackling listener questions on personal growth, trust, and balance. From auditing life’s decisions to rebuilding trust with kids, they dive into coachability, journaling, and managing overwork. Ryan shares insights from his Texas hunting trip and mentions The Men's Forge event (May 1-4). Expect raw reflections on letting go, choosing yourself, and earning trust, with practical advice for intentional living. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Episode Introduction 00:20 - Morning Routine Struggles 03:41 - Auditing Life’s Decisions 15:45 - One Principle for Your...
2025-04-161h 01
Order of ManMan in the Arena | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler draws inspiration from Theodore Roosevelt’s iconic speech to explore resilience and masculinity. Michler challenges men to rise above criticism, embrace adversity, and take action despite life’s inevitable setbacks. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, he outlines steps to build confidence, act decisively, and critique oneself constructively without losing identity. Ryan emphasizes that true manhood shines in moments of struggle, urging listeners to live boldly as the "man in the arena." Tune in for an inspiring call to courage and purposeful action. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:10.082 - Int...
2025-04-1128 min
Order of ManHead, Heart, and Hands: The Trifecta of Manliness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores what it means to be a comprehensive man, introducing a framework of head, heart, and hands—logic, empathy, and action. Reflecting on his own tendencies and biases, Ryan challenges listeners to identify their strengths and weaknesses across these dimensions. Through personal anecdotes, including a friend’s loss and a poignant Iron Council call, he emphasizes the need for balance to lead effectively in family, business, and community. Ryan invites feedback as he refines this model, urging men to round out their approach to become who they’re meant...
2025-04-0414 min
Order of ManMorning Routines that Work, How Comparison Can be an Ally, and How to Choose Your Battles Wisely | ASK ME ANYTHING In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a viral morning routine video before tackling listener questions. From the power of comparison and faith in men’s ministries to essentialism in daily tasks and building friendships, they offer practical insights. Ryan shares his half-marathon experience, while Kipp celebrates his son’s jujitsu win. Expect raw, actionable advice on choosing battles, seeking guidance, and property investment, all laced with humor and real talk. Tune in for inspiration and strategies to level up your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:04 - Intro and Morning Struggles 01:10 - Head...
2025-04-021h 00
Order of ManMake Yourself a More Dangerous Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the provocative idea of "making yourself a more dangerous man." Far from advocating volatility, Michler redefines danger as effectiveness—knowing your goals, communicating with precision, and embodying conviction. Through personal anecdotes and actionable insights, he challenges men to reject wishy-washiness, embrace deliberate presentation, and overcome imposter syndrome by simply doing the work. With a blend of tough love and humility, Michler inspires listeners to step boldly into their potential. Tune in for a raw, motivating call to action, and discover how to join the Iron Council at or...
2025-03-2825 min
Order of ManThe Benefits of Brotherhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the vital role brotherhood plays in men’s lives. Drawing from personal struggles like divorce and alcohol abuse, he highlights five key benefits—belonging, usefulness, insight, support, and accountability—and warns of the isolation plaguing modern men. Ryan emphasizes how authentic male connections combat loneliness and foster growth, sharing candid stories and practical wisdom. He also introduces the Iron Council, his brotherhood initiative, inviting listeners to join. This discussion inspires men to build meaningful bonds and reclaim purpose. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:07 - Introduction to Brotherhood 02:34 - The...
2025-03-2141 min
Order of ManLions and Hyenas | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores a powerful metaphor for masculinity. Drawing from nature, he contrasts the virtuous, leadership-driven traits of lions with the deceptive, self-serving behaviors of hyenas. Through five key distinctions—leading vs. following, earning vs. taking, brotherhood vs. matriarchy, fearlessness vs. deceit, and protection vs. predation—Ryan challenges men to embody the lion’s strength and integrity. With personal anecdotes and bold insights, he urges listeners to reject parasitic tendencies and pursue a legacy of righteous living. Join Ryan as he unpacks this analogy and offers a path to purposeful manhoo...
2025-03-1418 min
Order of ManTogether for the Kids?, Overcomplicating the Uncomplicated, and Discounting Other People’s Success | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle pressing listener questions on parenting, leadership, and self-improvement. They discuss whether staying together for the kids is truly the best choice, how men often overcomplicate simple solutions, and why discounting others' success is a losing mindset. Ryan also shares insights on leading former peers, navigating the role of a stepfather, and staying accountable within the Iron Council. Packed with practical advice and tough love, this episode challenges listeners to level up. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction & Weekly Headlines 04:48 – Together for the Kids?
2025-03-1256 min
Order of ManWhy Every Man Must Advocate for Himself | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler discusses why every man must learn to advocate for himself. He explains how setting boundaries, communicating needs, and standing firm in convictions are essential for personal and professional success. Ryan challenges the belief that self-advocacy is selfish and presents compelling research on how men who stand up for themselves experience greater fulfillment, stronger relationships, and better health. He also shares practical steps for asserting oneself in all areas of life. Tune in to learn how to take control of your mission, command respect, and lead with confidence.
2025-03-0722 min
Order of ManDo I Have What it Takes, Everything in Excellence, and Doing the Right Things | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this week's Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle pressing questions from listeners on self-improvement, purpose, and resilience. They discuss the importance of discipline, finding passion, and navigating major life transitions like retirement. They also explore the impact of mindset on success, the dangers of victim mentality, and how small decisions can lead to lasting growth. Plus, Ryan shares a personal story about saying “yes” to unexpected opportunities. Tune in for another insightful and thought-provoking conversation. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction & Monday Mindset 04:35 – Zelensky, Trump, and Diplomacy 11:10 – The Impact of Screen...
2025-03-051h 21
Order of ManWhy Every Man Should Build ‘Command Presence' | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of Command Presence—the ability to lead with confidence, clarity, and composure. He breaks down the four essential pillars of command presence: Clarity, Character, Competence, and Composure. Through personal stories and real-world examples, Ryan explains why every man should cultivate this leadership trait to positively influence his family, workplace, and community. He also shares insights from a recent leadership discussion inside the Iron Council. Tune in to learn how to build command presence and become the man you are meant to be. SHOW HIG...
2025-02-2822 min
Order of ManLearning to Let Go, Overcoming Grief, and Setting Expectations | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this episode of Order of Man, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle another round of Ask Me Anything, answering pressing questions from the Iron Council. They discuss the importance of letting go of past regrets, dealing with grief, navigating difficult conversations, and taking ownership of life’s decisions. Ryan also shares insights on leadership, personal responsibility, and the value of embracing discomfort for growth. Whether it’s coaching youth sports, handling setbacks, or preparing for a marathon, this episode is packed with practical wisdom. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction & Weekly Headlines 21:45 – Advice for Your 20-Year-Ol...
2025-02-261h 19
Order of ManBe Less Insecure | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler discusses the growing insecurity among men and how it affects their lives, relationships, and success. He shares five actionable strategies to build confidence, financial freedom, physical fitness, and self-discipline. Ryan challenges listeners to take control of their lives by eliminating negative influences, dressing with intention, and becoming men of conviction. This episode is a direct, no-nonsense guide to overcoming self-doubt and living with purpose. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:49 - Breaking free from financial insecurity 05:44 - The importance of physical fitness 08:05 - Dressing with...
2025-02-2122 min
Order of ManMen, Do Less...Better | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler challenges men to simplify their lives by focusing on what truly matters. He breaks down five key areas—physical possessions, technology, environment, relationships, and work—where men can cut out the unnecessary and become more effective. By doing less but doing it better, men can increase their value, find deeper satisfaction, and lead more fulfilling lives. Ryan delivers a powerful message on eliminating distractions, setting boundaries, and making intentional choices. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction 02:47 – The power of brotherhood and connection 03:59 – Decluttering your physical space 07:2...
2025-02-1420 min
Order of ManASK ME ANYTHINGIn this AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle hard-hitting questions from listeners on leadership, relationships, career growth, and personal development. They discuss overcoming fear, building strong teams, saving for the future while enjoying the present, and stepping up as a leader. Ryan also shares insights on assertiveness and taking responsibility, while Kipp breaks down the mindset shifts needed for growth. Plus, they highlight the power of networking and making bold career moves. Don't miss this powerful conversation filled with practical advice and real talk. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction and catching up 03:05 - W...
2025-02-121h 21
Order of ManIf Boys Don’t Learn, Men Won’t Know | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the crucial role men play in shaping the next generation. He discusses the consequences of fatherlessness, the importance of mentorship, and the responsibility of men to lead by example. Ryan shares personal experiences and actionable steps to ensure boys grow into strong, virtuous men. He emphasizes leading from the front, getting involved, and knowing when to step back to let others rise. This episode is a powerful reminder that the future of manhood depends on the lessons we pass down today. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Introduction ...
2025-02-0724 min
Order of ManMasculinity in the Arts, the Drift of Life, and Why It’s Good to be the Underdog | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this week’s AMA episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a range of thought-provoking topics, from the role of masculinity in the arts to overcoming stagnation and embracing the underdog mindset. They tackle viewer questions on leadership, personal growth, and maintaining momentum after success. Ryan shares insights on self-improvement, discipline, and the power of artistic expression in shaping culture. Tune in for a compelling discussion that challenges conventional thinking and offers actionable advice for men striving to improve their lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 02:50 - The psychology of political id...
2025-02-0556 min
Order of ManWill it Make the Boat Go Faster? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the powerful concept of “Will it Make the Boat Go Faster?”, a mantra for making decisions that drive real progress. Inspired by Olympic rower Ben Hunt-Davis, Ryan shares how this mindset can be applied to career growth, relationships, health, and personal goals. He discusses the importance of setting clear objectives, testing strategies, and adjusting when necessary. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction to the concept 01:42 - The Olympic rowing story 03:12 - Applying the mantra to life 07:43 - Decision-making and pivoting 09:45 - The importance of se...
2025-01-3118 min
Order of ManPrioritizing Masculinity, Leading Your Leaders, and Boundaries vs. Walls | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this week’s Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle a variety of topics, including building wealth, establishing healthy boundaries, and balancing hobbies with responsibilities. They explore how to lead effectively, the tiers of accountability, and the importance of fostering integrity in relationships and organizations. With personal insights, practical strategies, and engaging humor, Ryan and Kipp deliver actionable advice for men striving to improve their personal and professional lives. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 Headlines and Updates 13:52 Expanding Wealth and Financial Planning 24:12 Boundaries vs. Walls in Relationships 29:39 Masculine Projects and Fulf...
2025-01-291h 15
Order of ManThe Stories You Tell Yourself Define You as a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the powerful concept of the stories men tell themselves and how these narratives shape their identity, success, and outlook on life. Ryan challenges listeners to rewrite negative scripts, adopt a victor mindset, and use their inner dialogue to build resilience and purpose. He emphasizes the importance of self-talk, taking responsibility, and reframing experiences as opportunities for growth. This inspiring episode will leave you reflecting on your own story and the impact it has on who you are and who you’re becoming. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction
2025-01-2438 min
Order of ManYou Are Your Own Boss, What Men Value in Women, and Fighting Against Victimhood | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle thought-provoking topics like entrepreneurial mindset, rediscovering drive after setbacks, and the dynamics of relationships. They answer listener questions on building self-discipline, explaining love to kids, and navigating life’s challenges with resilience. Ryan and Kipp also share insights on avoiding victimhood and embracing personal responsibility, alongside their thoughts on leadership, success, and living intentionally. Packed with practical advice and inspiring conversations, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to level up in life and relationships. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 04:02 You Are Your Own Bo...
2025-01-221h 12
Order of Man5 Lessons Learned From the LA Fires | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delves into the tragic events of the LA fires to uncover critical lessons about preparedness, responsibility, and leadership. He emphasizes the importance of self-reliance, accountability in governance, and practical approaches to safeguarding our families and communities. Drawing from real-world examples and personal reflections, Ryan challenges listeners to think critically about their own preparedness and role in protecting their loved ones. Tune in to discover five powerful lessons learned from this devastating event and how they can inspire you to become a better protector, provider, and presider in your own life.
2025-01-1730 min
Order of ManOvercoming Complacency, Communication is Key, and Correctly Comparing Yourself to Others | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this week’s episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler takes on an engaging solo session to address viewers’ thought-provoking questions. Covering topics like combating complacency, building confidence, improving communication, overcoming insomnia, escaping the comparison trap, and fostering a positive relationship with finances, Ryan delivers actionable advice and personal experiences. Packed with practical wisdom, this AMA is a must-listen for anyone seeking to enhance their mindset, leadership, and overall growth as a man. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: 00:00 - Introduction 02:31 - Combating complacency 06:18 - Building confidence and resilience 16:46 - Communication skills and reading strategies 23:54 - Ove...
2025-01-151h 07
Order of ManMen and the Battle for Culture | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the pressing challenges men face in today’s cultural landscape. From the battle for personal sovereignty to equipping families and communities with the tools to thrive, Ryan delivers actionable advice for reclaiming masculinity and creating meaningful change. He emphasizes the importance of fixing oneself first, engaging in local politics, and building networks of like-minded men to confront societal pressures. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on leadership, responsibility, and how men can shape the future for themselves and the next generation. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00...
2025-01-1024 min
Order of ManInternal Locus of Control, Victimhood Destroys You, and The Pitfalls of Sovereignty | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this week’s Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle thought-provoking viewer questions about personal transformation, leadership, family dynamics, and overcoming challenges. From handling the balance between work and family to breaking free from nice guy syndrome, the conversation dives deep into actionable strategies for growth. Ryan and Kipp also explore boundaries in relationships, the dangers of victimhood, and how sovereignty ties into service. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 12:39 - The “aha” moment and hitting rock bottom 19:38 - Leading your family like a business 27:21 - Quitting alcohol: The hardes...
2025-01-081h 10
Order of ManHow a Man Builds Sovereignty in 2025 | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler delves into the concept of sovereignty and provides actionable insights for men to regain control over their lives in 2025. Ryan emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility, setting goals, maintaining health, and eliminating excuses to achieve freedom in every aspect of life. From creating a compelling vision to tightening finances, Ryan outlines a blueprint for building a strong foundation of self-reliance and leadership. This episode is a powerful guide for any man striving to become the best version of himself. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Introduction 01:01 - Defining Sovereignty
2025-01-0329 min
Order of ManPersonal Reflections, and Leadership Lessons | Ask Me AnythingIn this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen dive into a range of personal, thought-provoking, and entertaining questions. From discussing family relationships and overcoming challenges to exploring martial arts and leadership principles, the conversation offers a mix of heartfelt insights and lighthearted moments. Kipp shares deeply personal reflections about his son’s journey with Usher syndrome and the life lessons he’s gained from it. The episode is packed with wisdom, humor, and inspiration for anyone looking to navigate life’s challenges with grace and resilience. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction and Opening Remark...
2025-01-011h 04
Order of ManThe 3-Part Formula for Starting Something New | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESWhat if you could unlock the secret to overcoming fear and achieving success using a simple formula? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unpacks a powerful three-part strategy designed to conquer the fear, uncertainty, and doubt holding many back from reaching their full potential. In this episode, Ryan emphasizes the importance of mindset, exploring how authenticity and a genuine self-assessment can help combat imposter syndrome. He discusses how harnessing past achievements can pave the way for future triumphs while offering practical advice on managing expectations and timelines to avoid discouragement. Learning from the greats like...
2024-12-2725 min
Order of ManMental Resilience, High Stress, and a Winning Mindset | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this Ask Me Anything episode, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen tackle a variety of thought-provoking topics, including mindfulness, overcoming resistance, and the impact of hustle culture on leadership. They share insights on planning for 2025, managing holiday stress, and navigating personal growth. With engaging viewer questions and practical strategies for improvement, this episode offers valuable lessons for anyone striving to lead a more intentional life. Ryan and Kipp also discuss the benefits of the Iron Council and how it supports men in their journey to success. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 – Episode Introduction 00:40 – Headlines 09:25 – Mindfulness and Overcoming Resist...
2024-12-251h 03
Order of ManKeep Calm and Be a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES Unlock the secret to unwavering composure and master the art of staying calm even in the most challenging situations. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler offers eight actionable tips to cultivate calmness, teaching you how to manage emotional regulation effectively. Harness this skill to enhance decision-making and leadership capabilities, ensuring you navigate crises and emotional exchanges confidently and clearly. Understanding and managing personal triggers is crucial for maintaining a stress-free life. Ryan discusses techniques for identifying triggers and minimizing their impact, allowing you to control reactions and avoid overwhelm. Simplifying your life becomes the...
2024-12-2034 min
Order of ManHow to Get More Respect | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the essential steps to earn true respect in every area of life—personal relationships, career, and self-worth. Highlighting the importance of boundaries, effective communication, consistency, and character, he shares actionable advice for building a reputation that commands admiration. From managing your time and commitments to making confident decisions, Ryan unpacks how respect is cultivated through intentional actions rather than empty words. Listeners will also learn the "confidence-competence continuum" and why dressing, speaking, and presenting yourself matter. Whether for work or home, these principles empower yo...
2024-12-0646 min
Order of ManA Heart of Gratitude | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler dives into the transformative power of gratitude. Reflecting on personal struggles and triumphs, Ryan shares how gratitude has shaped his journey through life’s challenges. From personal relationships to professional growth, gratitude serves as a lens to reframe adversity and embrace opportunities. Ryan explores how choosing gratitude can unlock growth, resilience, and connection in both personal and collective pursuits. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00: Episode Intro 00:40: Opening and reflections on Thanksgiving 02:45: Personal gratitude for family and loved ones 03:53: Gratitude in struggles and growth through adversity
2024-11-2909 min
Order of ManLessons Learned in Divorce | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESCan recognizing relationship red flags early save a marriage? In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler reflects on lessons from his 18-year marriage and divorce, emphasizing how minor issues, if ignored, can snowball into major challenges. He highlights the power of proactive communication and self-growth. Ryan shares strategies for navigating divorce with grace, focusing on personal responsibility, parenting, and self-care, while avoiding spiteful behavior. He also explores male empowerment and collective growth, offering insights from friends like Keith Yackey to inspire hope, resilience, and a thriving future. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro
2024-11-1523 min
Order of Man"Toxic Masculinity” Stereotypes | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESRyan Michler believes traditional masculinity isn’t inherently toxic; it’s simply misunderstood. In this episode, he unravels the complexities surrounding toxic masculinity, challenging the myths that paint masculinity as harmful. Drawing on a pivotal 2019 study by the American Psychological Association, Ryan highlights the critical need for a balanced understanding of masculinity’s role in society, emphasizing that traditional masculine traits—when constructively channeled—can bring comfort, security, and innovation. Ryan’s discussion explores men and women as complementary forces, underscoring the indispensable contributions of men to societal progress. He delves into “righteous aggression,” a principle that advocates for ass...
2024-11-0832 min
Order of ManHow to Influence People (And, Why You Should) | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIs influence different from manipulation, or just a different shade? In this episode, Ryan Michler breaks down the art of building true influence, essential for leaders in any realm—family, business, or community. Through ten practical strategies grounded in integrity, Ryan explores how influence can elevate our interactions by aligning personal goals with broader values, creating outcomes that benefit everyone involved. Influence isn’t just for the workplace; it’s woven into daily life, from guiding your kids to closing deals. With relatable examples—from Donald Trump’s connection with blue-collar voters to Kamala Harris’s attempts at relatabil...
2024-11-0139 min
Order of ManThe Difference Between Quitting and Pivoting, Application Over Knowledge, & Maintaining Priorities | ASK ME ANYTHINGNavigating life's challenges with integrity and purpose requires a commitment to personal priorities. By allowing children to face their own obstacles, we nurture resilience and growth. Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore the importance of honest self-assessment and celebrate others' achievements as sources of inspiration rather than envy. The idea is to stay true to our paths, even amidst external pressures, ensuring that our decisions reflect what truly matters to us. Finally, Ryan and Kipp embrace the chaos of daily life with strategies that emphasize moral integrity and personal growth. They reflect on the balance between discipline a...
2024-10-301h 07
Order of ManRigging the Election, Owning Unnecessary Stuff, and Showing Up Powerfully | ASK ME ANYTHINGThis Ask Me Anything episode dives into critical themes of election rigging, the burden of owning unnecessary stuff, and showing up powerfully. Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen explore how misleading FBI crime statistics and media manipulation erode public trust, impacting political narratives and elections. Transparency and active participation are essential in fighting this, and they challenge listeners to engage fully in the democratic process. Personal growth is also discussed, emphasizing that investing in experiences, relationships, and self-improvement leads to deeper fulfillment than material possessions. From political engagement to simplifying life and focusing on what truly ma...
2024-10-231h 06Order of ManAnxiously Engaged in the Fight | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESUnlock the secret to choosing battles that truly matter and become the hero of your own story. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the powerful notion of being "anxiously engaged in the fight," inspired by Mormon doctrine, and how it can guide us in aligning our efforts with personal beliefs and societal impact. Discover five essential strategies to ensure your fight is both meaningful and successful, as we discuss the concept of personal sovereignty and the pursuit of worthy causes. Hear Ryan's personal anecdotes that illustrate the power of enlisting allies who b...
2024-10-1826 min
Order of ManMasculinity Vs. Manliness | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESJoin Ryan Michler as he explores the distinction between masculinity and manliness, a conversation that goes beyond mere semantics. Drawing insights from our social media followers, he discusses how masculinity often encompasses inherent traits like dominance and competitiveness, while manliness is about applying these traits through cultural, moral, and ethical lenses. By sharing various perspectives and definitions, Ryan illustrates that masculinity is a birthright, but manliness must be earned through responsible and positive actions. This conversation encourages a broader discussion on how men can effectively cultivate these attributes to benefit themselves and others. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
2024-10-1114 minOrder of Man7 Signs of Masculine Maturity | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESWhat if mastering your emotions could make you not just a better man, but a stronger leader too? This week on Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unveils the seven signs of masculine maturity, essential for any man aiming to elevate his personal growth and leadership skills. Starting with an inspiring reading of Rudyard Kipling's timeless poem "If," Ryan sets a powerful tone for the first topic: emotional regulation. Through heartfelt personal stories, he reveals the transformative power of understanding and managing your emotions, enabling you to become a more effective protector, provider, and leader within your community and family.
2024-09-2737 minOrder of ManVigilance, Presence, and Consistency | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen discuss the serious implications of an East Coast maritime strike. They delve into the importance of vigilance in adapting to technological disruptions and the necessity of presence in fostering strong relationships. Drawing parallels between martial arts and life, Ryan emphasizes consistency in personal growth, whether navigating economic uncertainties or emotional resilience post-divorce. Additionally, they explore the complex dilemmas of voting in today's political climate and share practical advice on active listening, setting boundaries, and maintaining emotional stability. Join Ryan and Kipp for thought-provoking in...
2024-09-251h 21Order of ManHow to Break Negative Habits | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESTransform your habits and reclaim control over your life! In this Friday Field Notes episode, Ryan Michler offers a powerful roadmap to identify and overhaul negative behaviors by drawing on the wisdom of "The Power of Habit" by Charles Duhigg and "Atomic Habits" by James Clear. He dissects the three-step formula for understanding habits, focusing on cues, behaviors, and rewards. By recognizing the triggers and rewards that fuel habits like smoking, drinking, or anger, you'll learn how to replace them with healthier, more productive behaviors that align with your goals. Ryan discusses eight pivotal questions to guide...
2024-09-2038 min
Order of ManWhat Kind of Man Do You Need to Become? | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESUnlock the secrets to becoming the man you aspire to be with actionable insights from our latest episode. Ryan Michler delves into the importance of having a clear vision and ask the critical question, "Who do I need to become?" Discover the necessity of specificity in your goals and learn that success is built on deliberate, consistent actions rather than mere luck. Ryan discusses the concept of the "integrity gap" and shares real-life examples that illustrate how your actions, not just your desires, shape your identity. This is a call to take responsibility and actively work towards...
2024-09-1319 min
Order of ManHow the Comparison Trap Can Serve You | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESDo you ever wonder why comparing yourself to others can sometimes leave you feeling deflated and stuck? In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unravels the comparison trap and its profound impact on personal development and self-confidence. He tackles the issue head-on by exploring how negative comparisons create feelings of inadequacy and impede progress. Listen in as Ryan shares three practical strategies to turn those comparisons into powerful sources of inspiration and motivation. By recognizing the achievements of others and understanding that success isn’t a zero-sum game, we can transform envy into admiration and pro...
2024-09-0626 minOrder of ManPolitics & Masculinity, Starting a Business, Eliminating Health Excuses | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this episode of Ask Me Anything, Ryan Michler addresses masculinity and its role in society and its significance from politics to personal growth. Ryan emphasizes the virtues of strength, courage, and fortitude, balanced with empathy and grace. Learn how to graciously accept compliments, reflect on personal concerns, and approach challenges with a solution-oriented mindset. From the importance of masculine virtues to the political spectrum’s impact on these ideals, Ryan discusses what it means to embody true masculinity today. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:43) Starting a Business (08:44) Crafting Business Stories for Success
2024-09-0454 minOrder of ManEscaping the Friend Zone: Building Authentic Intimacy | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESCan you spot the difference between being nice and being kind? Many people mistakenly view niceness as a surefire way to a woman's heart, but in this week's Friday Field Notes latest episode Ryan Michler reveals why this approach often leads to manipulation rather than attraction. Ryan shares practical tips on clearly stating your intentions, understanding what women truly seek in a partner, and cultivating genuine romantic connections. Whether you're single and struggling with the friend zone or feeling like a roommate in your marriage, his insights will help you create and rebuild intimacy in your relationships.
2024-08-2324 minOrder of ManThe Seven Masculine Archetypes | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unlocks the secrets to becoming a well-rounded man through an exploration of seven masculine archetypes, inspired by Robert Moore and Douglas Gillette. Gain valuable insights into harnessing traits like visionary leadership, moral conviction, and keen intellect while embodying the motto: "protect, provide, preside." Reflect on strengths and weaknesses through these archetypes with examples of real people. This self-assessment encourages recognizing areas for improvement and taking steps toward personal development. Ryan concludes with a call to action to consider additional perspectives for becoming the best version of yourself. S...
2024-08-0238 minOrder of ManBe Strong in a Weak World | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIt's time to reclaim your strength and resilience. In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler tackles the urgent need for men to prepare for life's inevitable challenges—whether it's a divorce, job loss, or medical emergency. He discusses the pitfalls of taking the easy way out and the crucial role of mental, physical, and emotional resilience in safeguarding loved ones and thriving amid adversity. Enough with the complaints! This episode is a wake-up call to adopt a solution-oriented mindset. Ryan explores how constant whining only reinforces weaknesses and stalls progress. He argues for the necessity of...
2024-07-1227 minOrder of ManYou are Meant to Live Free | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESDiscover how to truly safeguard your freedoms and honor the legacy of our founding fathers. In this week's Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler promises to transform your understanding of Independence Day from mere celebration to a profound contemplation of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Ryan sheds light on the often overlooked responsibilities that accompany these cherished rights, emphasizing that they are not entitlements but opportunities demanding vigilance and effort. By focusing on the pivotal role of men as protectors, providers, and leaders, Ryan underscores the essential virtues of personal responsibility, self-improvement, and community service. He reflects on...
2024-07-0518 min
Order of ManHow to Communicate Like a Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler unlocks the secrets to mastering respectful and effective conversations. Learn the "10 Commandments of Healthy Conversation" and understand how to navigate complex topics like the transgender movement and COVID-19 without falling prey to the allure of popular opinions. Through real-world examples, Ryan highlights how critical thinking can safeguard your discussions from resentment and animosity. Ryan tackles the nuanced concept of the burden of proof, addressing its significance in debates on contentious issues such as transgenderism and healthcare. Discover why those making bold claims must back them up with solid...
2024-06-2843 minOrder of Man10 Harsh Truths for Every Man | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler unlocks the key to a confident and fulfilling life, where hard-hitting truths every man must embrace are confronted. Discover why men aren't inherently entitled to anything and the critical importance of continuously proving worth through performance and value. Learn how to build more meaningful relationships and endeavors by making significant contributions that truly count. Find out how true strength lies in humility and honesty as conventional ideas of vulnerability are challenged. Ryan delves into the power of openly addressing struggles without falling into victimhood. Understand the crucial value of...
2024-06-2138 minOrder of ManThe Trifecta of Men’s Health | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler dives headfirst into the trifecta of health—mental, emotional, and physical. He reveals practical advice for optimizing physical health through the right diet and exercise, using an unforgettable analogy between vehicle maintenance and body care to underscore the importance of holistic well-being. Listeners will master the art of balancing all three aspects of health and become the best version of themselves. Prepare to build an unshakeable mental fortitude by embracing and conquering life's toughest challenges. Avoiding difficult tasks and conversations might feel easier, but it stunts growth and hampers pr...
2024-06-1430 minOrder of ManWhen No One is Looking, Do the Right Thing | FIRDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explores the crucial topic of addressing mistakes with integrity and confidence. Failure is an inevitable part of life, but how we handle our missteps truly defines our character. Ryan shares personal anecdotes, including an archery practice mishap that led to damaging a neighbor's trailer tire. Through this seemingly minor incident, he illustrates a powerful three-part formula for addressing mistakes: acknowledging the error, making a deliberate attempt to fix it, and maintaining integrity. By owning up to our failures, we build the character necessary to face more significant challenges.
2024-06-0717 minOrder of ManNavigating a New Divorce | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler his journey through the emotional upheaval of divorce and offers actionable advice for others facing similar challenges. Ryan emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, accountability, and personal development across mental, emotional, physical, spiritual, and financial dimensions. With a candid approach, Ryan discusses the dangers of repeating destructive patterns, the need for strong parenting during separation, and strategies for fostering resilience and growth post-divorce. Practical steps for managing financial challenges and maintaining a positive trajectory are also covered. This episode serves as a beacon of hope and guidance for men striving to rebuild...
2024-05-3139 minOrder of ManMan Vs. Bear | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down the dance between male and female dynamics, revealing how both genders offer distinct yet complementary strengths. He shares insights into the power of personal growth, encouraging men to forge ahead in their journey of self-improvement. From physical fitness to the mental grit informed by stoicism, he lays out a blueprint for men to stand as pillars of reliability and emotional intelligence. Listen in for strategies that challenge and change antiquated notions, paving the way for healthier, more meaningful connections. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler an...
2024-05-2423 minOrder of ManDefeat Your Inner Critic, the Paradox of Choice, and Beating BitternessIn this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:42) Political Turmoil and Health Concerns (07:32) Frustration With Politics and Personal Growth (16:51) Overcoming Impostor Syndrome and Judgments (26:13) Realistic Expectations Through Mentorship (30:46) Navigating Life Transitions and Family Dynamics (44:08) Learning Empathy and Letting Go (48:10) Overcoming Challenges and Staying Focused ...
2024-05-221h 17Order of ManMen, Be More Assertive | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week's FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explores the pivotal role of assertiveness in men's lives, discussing how embracing this quality can lead to a more fulfilling and commanding existence. He addresses the spectrum of communication styles – passive, aggressive, and passive-aggressive – and unpack why assertiveness stands out as the most effective approach. Ryan also introduces five transformative daily exercises designed to steer men away from less effective communication habits and towards a more confident and direct way of expressing their desires. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SH...
2024-05-1729 minOrder of ManMen’s Impact on Boy Scouts, Personal Growth, and Achieving BalanceIn this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Men's Impact in Boy Scouts (05:43) Impact of Values on Organizational Change (18:00) Navigating Publishing and Mental Health (23:50) Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth (35:53) Choosing and Addressing Life's Challenges (42:35) Balancing Work, Family, and Goals (58:16) Moving Past Resentment and Foc...
2024-05-151h 06Order of ManIn All Things, Be Intentional | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler breaks down how we can live the life we desire by being intentional. He uncovers how to identify what truly matters, reduce the noise of modern distractions, and live with deliberate action to better serve ourselves and those we care for. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS - (00:00) - Episode Intro - (00:40) - The Importance of Being Intentional - (12:24) - Articulate Your Goals and Enlist Support - (20:59) - The Importance of Alignment and Bounda...
2024-05-1030 minOrder of ManImpactful Challenges for Men, Achieving and Maintaining Excellence, and Making Hard Choices | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions LIVE from the Order of Man Uprising event. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (00:50) Men's Impactful Challenges and Growth (10:26) Achieving and Maintaining Excellence (15:37) Choices and Integrity (26:02) Achieving Balance in Alpha Relationships (33:08) Navigating Growth and Burnout in Community (44:37) Event Schedule and Team Appreciation Order of Man Merchandise. Pick yours up today! ...
2024-05-0845 minOrder of ManStress-Reduction Strategies | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses several different stress reduction strategies, and how to manage anxiety effectively. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (00:00) Episode Intro (01:14) Men's Stress Management Strategies for Success (04:40) Managing Stress Through the Five W's (17:05) Managing Stress Through Various Techniques (20:42) Managing Stress and Anxiety Effectively (31:26) Maintaining Stress Management Strategies Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculi...
2024-05-0332 minOrder of ManMoments of Self-Betrayal, Winning Where You Are, and Letting Go of the Man You Were | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses the importance of actually doing the work and not just planning and thinking about it. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (2:16) What do you think stops men from deciding to make improvements today? (22:14) How long have Kipp and Ryan known each other? (30:31) Talk about forgiveness of yourself and others and the impact that it has on the work around us. (45:46) What are the three most powerful lessons...
2024-02-141h 11Order of ManUnnecessary Intellectualism, Perfection Paralysis, and Imposter Syndrome | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council and Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (8:33) What are some of the best ways to strengthen and improve consistency? (19:02) How do you recover from burnout, and what are some ways to combat imposter syndrome when taking on a moonshot goal? (32:43) Who are your top 3-5 bucket list guests?...
2024-01-311h 01Order of ManYou Don't Need Confidence, You Need Courage | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses why men should be seeking courage rather than confidence and how the pursuit of courage will lead to confidence when going after our goals. Ryan also offers five steps men can implement to become more courageous. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Make a plan Make a bigger deal out of things that you should Don’t tie your worth to the outcome of your actions Surround yourself with courageous people Practice be...
2023-05-0521 minOrder of ManDon't Be a Flaccid Jellyfish, Learning to Validate Yourself, and Minding Your Tongue | ASK ME ANYTHINGIn this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen take on your questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (10:40) How can I talk to others about my own struggles with alcohol without referring to myself as an alcoholic and wrapping my identity around that label? (15:00) How do we maintain our masculine frame with our wives, while still being humble and kind?
2023-02-151h 18Order of Man5 Lessons Learned Building Our Canoe | FRIDAY FIELD NOTESIn this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler shares practical lessons he and his son (Brecken Michler) learned while building a canoe. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS #1 You don’t need to know it all #2 Move slow and methodical #3 Some things still suck #4 Afford yourself some grace #5 Let the future fuel you Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner...
2021-06-1122 minOrder of ManPresiding Without Support, Become More Disciplined, and Deescalating Arguments | ASK ME ANYTHINGKipp Sorensen is running solo without Ryan Michler this week for another ASK ME ANYTHING to answer man’s most pressing questions. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Do you think we could recruit capable men into the armed forces with masculinity diminishing in society? What are your suggestions to de-escalate a public altercation? Are there any organizations an expecting father can seek out to help raise the child in a proper way? How do you bring up the conversation of children with a significant other...
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The Learning Leader Show With Ryan HawkRyan Michler – How To Build Your 1,000 True FansEpisode 121: Ryan Michler – How To Build Your 1,000 True Fans If you have a desire to build your own tribe full of raving, engaged fans, then this is a great episode for you. I originally met Ryan Michler over a year ago… He was in the midst of building his community, "The Order of Man." It's incredible to see how far and impactful his community has become in just 12 months. In addition… Ryan and his wife had their 4th child the DAY BEFORE we recorded this episode. Ryan is a man of his word and didn't want to cancel...
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