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Ex-Homeschoolers ClubWhy We’re All Struggling with Relationships & Connection | #29In this episode I’m sitting down with Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye, hosts of 7 on Sundays, a podcast focused on sex, relationships, and mental health for young adults. We dive into the challenges of relationships, loneliness, and navigating connection in today's world. From the impact of homeschooling, social media, pornography, and dopamine addiction, to actionable steps for fostering real, meaningful connections—we cover it all. If you’ve ever struggled with loneliness, relationship skills, or finding your community, this episode is for you.Key Takeaways:The social impact of homeschooling: How growin...2025-03-131h 03
7 On Sundays™ PodcastHow Performative Sex Is Hurting Us All -Garrett Part 2In this powerful follow-up episode of 7 on Sundays, Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye welcome back Garrett, a college junior, for part two of their candid conversation. This time, they dive deep into the topic of performative sex, the impact of pornography, and the crucial role empathy plays in healthy sexual relationships. Garrett courageously shares a personal experience that highlights the importance of ongoing consent, emotional awareness, and authentic communication during intimacy. Together, the trio debunks myths around sexual expectations and challenges listeners to rethink what it means to be truly connected in the bedroom. T...2025-03-0239 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastPorn Myths, Mental Health, & Relationships: A College Guy's Perspective - Garrett's StoryIn this raw and powerful conversation, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye sit down with Garrett, a college junior from Texas, to explore the complicated intersection of performative sex, pornography, consent, and masculinity. Through personal stories and reflective insights, Garrett opens up about how cultural narratives have shaped his sexual experiences and emotional awareness. This is the first part of a two-part series that sheds light on topics rarely discussed openly among young men. Topics Discussed ● What is "performative sex" and how porn and pop culture influence it ● Garrett’s early exposure to pornography a...2025-02-231h 057 On Sundays™ PodcastThe Real Signs of Depression You Might Be Missing —Part 2 With Betsy Stephenson Author of BlackbirdIn this deeply moving continuation of their conversation, Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye welcome back Betsy Stephenson, author of *Blackbird*, for Part 2 of her powerful interview. Together, they explore the hidden signs of depression, especially in young men, through the lens of Betsy's late son, Charlie. The conversation spans parental grief, early mental health interventions, the need for community conversations, and the urgent importance of creating supportive environments for young people. This episode is a raw, empathetic, and essential look at the complexities of depression, grief, and healing. "Depression is enough. Depression is huge. And that...2025-02-1654 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastHealing After Loss of a Child to Suicide: From Grief to Grace (Part 1 with Betsy Stephenson Author of Blackbird)In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye sit down with writer and advocate Betsy Stephenson, author of Blackbird: A Mother's Reflections on Grief, Loss, and Life After Suicide, for a deeply moving and heartfelt conversation. With vulnerability and strength, Betsy shares her personal journey through the unimaginable loss of her child to suicide and the ongoing process of healing after suicide loss. This is Part 1 of a two-part series offering insight into grief after the suicide of a child, the resilience of the human spirit, and the power of speaking one’s t...2025-02-0954 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastThe Hidden Dangers of Binge Drinking & Nightlife Culture - Lily's StoryIn this powerful episode of *7 on Sundays*, we sit down with Lily to discuss the challenges of post-college life, the dangers of binge drinking, and the journey to finding meaningful friendships and personal growth. Lily shares her deeply personal story of reckless nights, hard-won lessons, and the transformative power of faith and self-discovery. If you’ve ever felt lost, struggled with unhealthy friendships, or questioned your path forward, this conversation is for you. Topics Discussed ● The struggles of transitioning from college to post-grad life ● The impact of binge drinking and reckless behavior ● ...2025-02-0250 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastConflicted Feelings of Men on Sexual Strangulation -Thomas' StoryEpisode Overview In this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby welcome Thomas, who bravely shares his deeply personal experience navigating a complex and challenging relationship. His story sheds light on the growing normalization of extreme sexual behaviors, the influence of pornography, the impact of past trauma, and the struggle to communicate boundaries in intimate relationships. This conversation explores the emotional and psychological effects of these experiences, offering insight into a topic that is rarely discussed from a male perspective. Topics Discussed - The emotional and psychological t...2025-01-2657 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastLove Bombing, Gaslighting, and Breaking Free: Natasha’s Dating StoryEpisode Overview In this episode of 7 On Sundays, Natasha shares her deeply personal experiences with toxic relationships and the lessons she learned along the way. Joined by Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye, the conversation explores red flags in dating, narcissistic behaviors, love bombing, and the emotional toll of gaslighting. This candid discussion offers valuable insights for anyone navigating modern relationships, emphasizing self-worth, awareness, and healing. Topics Discussed - Recognizing Love Bombing – How excessive flattery and grand gestures can be a red flag. - Understanding Narcissistic Traits – The difference between narcissistic tende...2025-01-191h 127 On Sundays™ PodcastSororities, Social Pressure, and Finding Your Real Tribe -Everett's StoryIn this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye welcome Danielle and Everett to discuss the complexities of friendships, particularly during college and young adulthood. They share their personal experiences navigating sorority life, forming meaningful connections, and the challenges of distinguishing genuine relationships from superficial ones. This candid conversation dives into the importance of authenticity, the evolution of friendships, and lessons learned through trials and triumphs. Topics Discussed ● The idealized expectations of college friendships vs. reality. ● Navigating sorority life: the good, the bad, and the unexpected dynamics. ● Identifying and foste...2025-01-1252 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastThe Truth About Sex Work, Advocacy, and Survival with Andrea HeinzIn this impactful episode of "7 on Sundays," host Stephanie Boye engages in a deeply moving conversation with Andrea Heinz, Canadian author, advocate, and former sex worker. Andrea shares her personal journey through the commercial sex industry, her advocacy for the Nordic model, and the societal structures that perpetuate exploitation. This episode sheds light on the realities of sex work, the challenges of exiting the industry, and the urgent need for education and systemic change. TOPICS DISCUSSED ● Andrea Heinz’s Background: From her entry into the sex trade due to financial hardship to becoming an advocate and autho...2025-01-051h 197 On Sundays™ PodcastSexual Strangulation: A Critical Conversation About The Myths, Realities and The Role of Porn -with Brian BennettThis week, we dive deep into the critical and under-discussed topic of non-fatal strangulation with expert Brian Bennett. A retired South Carolina law enforcement veteran and police academy instructor, Brian sheds light on the alarming realities of strangulation in domestic violence, sexual contexts, and beyond. Joined by Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye, the conversation explores the physiological, psychological, and societal implications of strangulation, highlighting its role as a precursor to severe violence and the urgent need for awareness and intervention. Topics Discussed: ● The mechanics and dangers of non-fatal strangulation. ● Recognizing strangulation in domestic viole...2024-12-291h 147 On Sundays™ PodcastCreating Digital Intentionalism & Cultivating Real Connections: Harrison Haynes on Mindful Technology UseIn this enlightening episode, we welcome Harrison Haynes back to dive into the profound impacts of digital dependency and how intentional technology use can enhance our connections and well-being. Harrison, alongside hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye, explores the challenges of social media addiction, digital minimalism, and creating a life of presence. Through personal stories, actionable advice, and reflections, this episode offers a fresh perspective on digital intentionalism. Topics Discussed ● Technology and Relationships: How screens impact our connections and Harrison’s insights on restoring genuine relationships. ● Post-COVID Social Dynamics: Challenges young adults face in rebuildi...2024-12-2253 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastNavigating Intimacy: Lexi's Journey with Vaginismus, Hymenectomy, and Emotional HealingIn this heartfelt episode, Lexi shares her deeply personal journey of navigating physical and emotional challenges related to intimacy and sexual health. With the guidance of hosts Stephanie Boye, a seasoned sex educator, and Dr. Chez Leeby, a licensed marriage and family therapist, Lexi opens up about her experiences with hymenectomy, pelvic floor therapy, and finding the courage to advocate for her well-being. Together, they unpack the stigmas and societal pressures surrounding hookup culture, relationships, and self-discovery, offering listeners validation and insights into healing and empowerment. Topics Discussed - The emotional and physical c...2024-12-1547 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastThe Overwhelming Pressure of Hustle Culture on Young Men -Levi's StoryIn this episode of 7 on Sundays, Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye dive into a candid conversation with Levi, a 20-year-old college student, about the pervasive influence of hustle culture on young people. Levi shares his personal journey of navigating the pressures of achievement, societal expectations, and mental health, offering profound insights on finding balance, authenticity, and purpose. The discussion explores the spiritual and emotional dimensions of hustle culture, providing listeners with both inspiration and practical takeaways. Resources Mentioned ● Chi Alpha Campus Ministries: chialpha.com A national organization providing spiritual and community support for coll...2024-12-0859 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastIntimacy, Porn, and Mental Health: Lessons from Parker’s StoryIn this powerful second part of our interview with Parker, we delve deep into the impacts of growing up in a sheltered, conservative environment and the formative influence of pornography on mental health, self-esteem, and relationships. Parker courageously shares her journey of self-awareness and healing, offering listeners valuable insights into overcoming shame, understanding sexuality, and rebuilding confidence. Resources Mentioned ● Digital Intentionalism 7 On Sundays Podcast with Harrison Haynes (episode Discusses strategies to reduce digital distractions and build healthier habits. ● Books on Body Awareness and Cycle TrackingExplore resources that helped Parker understand her menstrual c...2024-12-0157 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastGrowing Up Conservative: Overcoming Porn Addiction and Shame - Parker's StoryIn this powerful and candid episode, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby sit down with Parker, a thoughtful and reflective guest who shares her journey of navigating pornography addiction, self-worth, and sexual discovery while growing up in a conservative household. This episode delves into the impacts of early media exposure, shame, and societal expectations on young people’s sexual development and emotional health. Parker’s openness provides insight and hope for listeners who may feel alone in their struggles. RESOURCES: The Porn Myth: Wendy and Larry Maltz Timestamps 2024-11-241h 187 On Sundays™ PodcastHow Purity Culture Impacted My Relationships and Self-Worth -Haley's StoryIn this heartfelt episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye are joined by Haley, who shares her journey of overcoming an abusive relationship rooted in a restrictive religious upbringing. Through an honest conversation, Haley reflects on her experience within purity culture, the emotional impact of family dynamics, and her path to reclaiming her voice, boundaries, and self-worth. This episode highlights resilience, self-discovery, and the importance of empowering young people to make informed choices about relationships and personal identity. Topics Discussed: The Impact of Purity Culture: Haley shares her experience of growing...2024-11-1757 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastThe Dark Side of OnlyFans: Exploring Manipulation, Control, and Empowerment (Sophie's Story)In this powerful episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby dive into the story of Sophie, who opens up about her experience with OnlyFans and the complexities of navigating desire, manipulation, and self-worth. Sophie shares how a trusted relationship initially led her into content creation, which soon became a path marked by emotional challenges, self-reflection, and hard-won insights. Stephanie and Dr. Chez explore the themes of codependency, validation, and finding one's voice amid difficult dynamics. Topics Discussed Sophie's Journey with OnlyFans: How a friend’s influence led her into OnlyFans and th...2024-11-101h 087 On Sundays™ PodcastSpiritual Connection After Loss: A Conversation with Laura and BeverlyIn this emotionally powerful episode, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby engage in a heartfelt conversation with Laura and Beverly, two mothers who have navigated the profound loss of their children. Together, they share their stories, experiences with grief, and journeys toward healing. This episode touches on spirituality, connection with loved ones in spirit, and how Laura and Beverly found support and purpose through Helping Parents Heal, a supportive community for parents who have lost children. RESOURCES Community Recommendations Helping Parents Heal An organization dedicated to hel...2024-11-041h 137 On Sundays™ PodcastPart II Surviving Online Predators: Journey to Healing -Harrison HaynesThis is the second part of Harrison Haynes' story, a journey that dives deep into healing and recovery from the trauma that began with online grooming. If you missed last week's episode, we encourage you to catch up before listening to today’s continuation. Prepare yourself for a deep dive into a story of survival, resilience, and the power of vulnerability. In this episode, Harrison bravely continues sharing his journey of healing after experiencing trauma from online grooming and self-harm. You’ll hear firsthand how moments of isolation can evolve into powerful opportunities for growth and resilience. Harri...2024-10-271h 247 On Sundays™ PodcastPart I Surviving Online Predators: Hidden Dangers of Online Gaming -Harrison HaynesToday, we’re diving into part one of an incredibly moving story with Harrison Haynes. If you’ve ever struggled with bullying, dubious online relationships, loneliness, or navigating the challenges of adolescence in the digital age, this episode is for you. Why You Should Listen In this episode, Harrison shares his deeply personal journey of being groomed online as a young teen and how it impacted his mental health and relationships. His story highlights the dangers of online predators, the emotional weight young people carry, and the importance of support systems. Whether you’re a parent...2024-10-2041 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastSexual Choking: A Candid Conversation About Risks and Realities - Joy's StoryIn this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye dive deep into a sensitive and often misunderstood topic: sexual choking. Joined by returning guest Joy, the conversation explores personal experiences, societal norms, and the implications of this practice in sexual relationships. This is a crucial listen for anyone seeking to navigate the complexities of sexual relationships, particularly regarding the often-overlooked and dangerous practice of sexual choking. Joy shares her experiences and sheds light on the nuances and potentially deadly unknowns surrounding this practice. Listeners will gain insights into: Recognizing t...2024-10-131h 007 On Sundays™ PodcastSetting Boundaries: Empowering Yourself After Abuse - Root's StoryIn this powerful episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye engage in a candid conversation with Root, a survivor of sexual trauma. Root shares her deeply personal story, shedding light on the complexities of abusive relationships and the journey towards healing. This episode is essential for anyone looking to understand the dynamics of abusive relationships, particularly among young adults. Root’s bravery in sharing her story serves as a beacon of hope for others who may be experiencing similar situations. Listeners will gain valuable insights into: The significance of recognizing unhealthy pa...2024-10-061h 117 On Sundays™ PodcastSuicide and Silence: Men’s Unseen Battles on American CampusesIn this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Stephanie Boye and Dr. Chez Leeby delve into pressing mental health issues affecting young men, featuring a candid conversation with 24-year-old college graduate Thomas. The discussion sheds light on the high rates of suicide among young adults, influenced by societal pressures, toxic masculinity, and hustle culture. Thomas recounts his personal struggles and losses, underscoring the urgency of open dialogues, group therapy, and strong support networks. The episode also explores the significance of retreats and character-building activities, advocating for practical strategies like employing therapists for fraternities. Overall, it emphasizes the need for creating...2024-09-291h 177 On Sundays™ PodcastNavigating Depression and Loneliness in College: A Candid Conversation -Belle's StoryIn this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye discuss the profound challenges of depression and loneliness with guest Belle. The conversation delves into Belle's personal experiences with suicidal ideation, coping mechanisms, and the impact of college life on mental health. The episode highlights the importance of recognizing depression, creating a supportive routine, and reducing the stigma around mental health. Belle shares valuable insights and practical strategies for managing depression, making meaningful connections, and helping those in crisis. Listeners are reminded that the show is for mature audiences and that mental health support is always...2024-09-2242 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastWhy We Need To Talk About Smut - Anne's StoryThis episode of the '7 on Sundays' podcast, hosted by Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye, dive into the controversial topic of smut, a form of erotic literature that is popular among teens and young adults. With guest Anne, a college student, the discussion covers her personal journey through fanfiction and smut, the psychological and societal impacts, and the normalization of content that often parallels the explicitness of pornography. Anne shares insights on how smut shapes sexual expectations and its effects on real-life relationships. The episode explores the hidden dangers, parental ignorance, and the broad normalization among young readers...2024-09-151h 147 On Sundays™ PodcastWhat We Compromise For The Promise of Connection - Bonnie & Beth's StoryIn this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye engage in an insightful conversation with college sophomores Bonnie and Beth. They discuss the challenges and dangers young adults face in seeking connections, particularly through dating apps and hookups. The discussion delves into the emotional repercussions of seeking validation through shallow encounters and emphasizes the importance of building genuine, meaningful relationships. The hosts offer advice on self-worth, safety, and the significance of listening to trusted friends and family when making risky decisions. This episode is an honest exploration of the pressures and pitfalls of young adult...2024-09-0859 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastBreaking the Hookup Cycle, My Journey to Empowerment - Sam's StoryIn this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye dive deep into candid discussions with Sam, a recent college graduate, who shares her journey of navigating through hookup culture and finding self-worth. The conversation explores Sam’s personal experiences, the impact of early family dynamics on her relationships, the realization of needing more than superficial validation, and how she learned to set firm boundaries. This episode is a profound look at how young adults can reconcile past traumas and choose healthier paths in their relationships. The discussion includes insights on overcoming codependency, understanding th...2024-09-0359 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastSorority & Fraternity Hazing - with Dr. Chez & StephanieDr. Chez and Stephanie take a critical look at the time honored tradition of fraternity and sororotiy hazing. As kids head back to school, or are going to college for the first time they will likely make the decision to rush Greek life or not. What are the good and bad aspects of the Greek system. Why are we allowing others to tell us our worth? How is it hurting young people? how could the system be improved? Let's dig in! TIMESTAMPS [00:01:30] Introduction to sorority and fraternity hazing discussion [00:03:55] The appeal of fraternities and...2024-08-2559 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastMy Sorority Hazing Nightmare - Sadie's StoryIn this 7 On Sundays Episode Dr. Chez and Stephanie explore sorority and fraternity hazing. Their guest, Sadie, shares the stories of her sorority hazing that ultimately caused the sorority to be booted from the campus and Sadie to drop out of the organization. 2024-08-181h 187 On Sundays™ PodcastNavigating College Life: Social Pressures, Self-Respect, and Authenticity - Hanna's StoryIn this episode of 7 on Sundays, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye converse with Hannah, a sophomore at a large public university on the West Coast, about the challenges female students face when not involved in sorority life. The discussion delves into issues such as loneliness, the pressures of Greek life, non-consensual encounters at frat parties, and the broader hookup culture. Hannah shares personal experiences and advice on maintaining self-respect and authenticity despite peer and societal pressures. The episode emphasizes the importance of staying true to oneself, the power of saying 'no,' and the impact of media...2024-08-111h 157 On Sundays™ PodcastNavigating College Life: Authenticity, Social Expectations, and Hookup Culture - Lauren's StoryIn this episode of the 7 on Sundays podcast, Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye delve into the complex challenges that young adults face during and after college life. They are joined by Lauren, who provides insightful reflections on Greek life, social expectations, and hookup culture. Lauren discusses the importance of self-exploration and emotional intimacy, highlighting the struggles that come with conforming to societal norms and the paradox of choice in college environments. The discussion emphasizes the significance of doing what you genuinely want and not caring about others' opinions to foster authenticity and genuine connections. TIMESTAMPS 2024-08-0451 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastNavigating Red Flag Relationships In College - Hope's StoryIn this episode of the 7 On Sundays podcast, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye dive into a candid interview with Hope, who courageously shares her experiences with two significant and emotionally abusive early relationships. Discussing the intense emotional dependency and manipulation she faced, Hope provides detailed insights into recognizing red flags, trusting intuition, and learning from unhealthy relationships. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, setting boundaries, and seeking support and therapy. Both the hosts and Hope offer valuable advice for young adults navigating similar situations. RESOURCES If you or a loved one are...2024-07-2846 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastBreaking Down Porn Myths - With Dr. Chez Leeby & Stephanie BoyeIn this episode of the 7 On Sundays podcast, hosts Dr. Chez Leeby and Stephanie Boye tackle sensitive and often triggering topics surrounding the porn industry. Through Stephanie's candid conversation with former adult film star Cici, they explore the dehumanization and abuse experienced by women and men within the porn industry. They delve into the psychological and physical harm perpetuated by the industry, discussing the impact of conditioning, the lack of safety standards, and the devastating consequences for those involved. This episode highlights the need for awareness, critical thinking, and bringing humanity back into the conversation. T...2024-07-2154 min7 On Sundays™ Podcast"The Ugly Underbelly Of Big Porn - My Experience" -CiCi's StoryToday we are re-airing an episode from Stephanie's podcast, Laid Bare With Anonymous X (still available on spotify and all podcast platforms). In this powerful episode re-airing on 7 On Sundays, host Stephanie Boye interviews Cici, a former porn star, who candidly shares her experiences and busts myths surrounding the adult film industry. Big porn is as corrupt and deceitful as all the other BIGs - tobacco, food, pharma. The discussion focuses on the harsh realities faced by performers, including the lack of consent, painful and degrading scenes, unrealistic depictions of sex, and the psychological and physical toll on those i...2024-07-141h 027 On Sundays™ PodcastWhen Hookups Become Assault: Blurred Lines of College Hookup Culture & Consent -Caroline's StoryDo college students REALLY have an understanding of consent? The answer is “no." Many young people believe "yes" to hooking up means "yes" to any and all sexual acts. They mistakenly believe that "yes" to some sexual act yesterday, an hour ago or last week means "yes" forever to that act. None of these things are true. Whether due to failed sexuality education programs, rapey cultural messages, caregivers naivete and insecurity about how to properly educate children about consent, there are grave misunderstandings about the nuanced aspects of many sexual hook ups. As a result, mu...2024-07-0757 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastPorn Made Me Hate My Vagina - Brooke's StoryIn this 7 On Sundays episode, Dr. Chez and Stephanie to to Brooke, a college student who bravely shares her struggles with genital dysmorphia, a form of body dysmorphia. Genital dysmorphia involves a constant concern about the genitalia. Body dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) is diagnosed when an individual has a preoccupation with an imagined defect in their appearance or an exaggerated concern with minor aspects of their physical appearance. This preoccupation causes significant disruption in social, occupational, sexual and other areas of functioning. Like our guest today, these individuals often report social isolation, anxiety, increased depression, and even suicidal thoughts (Bjornsson...2024-06-301h 047 On Sundays™ PodcastPurity Culture Fed My Porn Expectations - Drew's StoryPurity culture is defined as a movement beginning in the 1990’s that promotes a religious view of purity to mean abstaining from sex and sometimes even dating, before marriage. Purity culture emphasizes traditional gender roles in relationships and encourages women/girls to dress modestly so that boys/men are not aroused sexually in their presence. The doctrines and teachings are rigid and stereotypical in regards to roles and burden of “purity.” How does purity culture play out today for young people? Our guest this week, Drew, grew up in a conservative Christian household and a church t...2024-06-231h 047 On Sundays™ Podcast"Hey, Sara...I saw you on PornHub!" - Sara's StoryToday’s story is about Sara, a survivor of non-consensual pornography (NCP), by her on-again-off-again hook-up we call, Dick! For legal reasons Dr. Chez and Stephanie share this particular story, not Sara herself. “Non-consensual pornography,” sometimes called “revenge porn,” is the sharing or distribution of electronic or printed photographs, pictures, or films that; show the genitals, anus, or female breast of the other person; or depicts that person engaged in a sexual act. The distribution, either purposefully or inadvertently, harasses, hurts, or shames the individual depicted in the photos. NCP is illegal in most states and punishments range from...2024-06-1646 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastThe Night My Boyfriend Strangled Me - Karoline's StoryIntimate Partner Violence (IPV) and Domestic Violence (DV) affects millions of women worldwide. According to recent research, almost one in two women (47.3% or 59 million) in the US report experiencing IPV at some time during their lifetime (Leemis et al., 2022). According to The Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia, approximately 1 in 3 teens is the victim of dating violence. IPV and DV may be considered the same thing, but they are not. Domestic violence is any abuse happening in the home. It can involve more than just intimate partners and can mean that a victim is fearful of violence in the...2024-06-0956 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastI Didn't Understand, Boyfriends Can Rape - Bea's Story“Sexual abuse refers to any behavior that pressures or coerces someone to do something sexually that they do not want to do. It can also refer to behavior that impacts a person’s ability control their sexual activity or the circumstances in which sexual activity takes place, including oral sex, rape or controlling reproductive methods and choices” Sexual abuse “can look like unwanted kissing or touching, unwanted rough or violent sexual activity, refusing to use condoms or restricting someone’s access to birth control, sexual contact with someone intoxicated from drugs or alcohol, unconscious, asleep, or otherwise unable to...2024-06-021h 017 On Sundays™ PodcastStarving For Love & Finding My Voice - Chloe's StoryApproximately 24 million people in the United States suffer from an eating disorder, according to the National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders. It is estimated that 10-20% of female college students struggle with diagnosable eating disorders. Eating disorders are among the deadliest mental illnesses, second only to opioid addiction, resulting in over 10,000 deaths each year. While many individuals keep their eating struggles hidden, the numbers of these disorders are on the rise worldwide. Today, our guest, Chloe shares her two year journey with anorexia, binge eating, sexual assault, emotional abuse, and bullying–all beginning in high sch...2024-05-2650 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastSo Ashamed Of The Porn I Watch - Anne's StoryIn today's episode, we are going where no one goes. We are hearing from a female about her early exposure to porngraphy as an innocent, curious girl. Did you have a natural curiosity about sex that led you down a path to porn? Did it become a compulsion and eventually an addiction that shaped your view of sex and relationships? Unfortunately, many of the teens and young adults we speak with answer these questions with an anonymous "yes." How does porn really impact young people? What happens when you begin watching porn at age 8-10 and how d...2024-05-191h 047 On Sundays™ PodcastCoerced Rape Was My First Sexual Experience - Hope's StoryDo you remember your first crush? The rush of excitement when your friend told you your crush was also interested in you? The dizzying blur of getting ready for the first gathering where you will hang out? And then the opportunity presents itself to be alone, together. This was the experience of Hope, today’s guest, when she was just 15-years-old! And as soon as she and her crush were alone, the innocent fairytale ended. Hope, like too many young people their first foray into hooking up or relationships can be jarring and filled with immediate sexual exp...2024-05-1258 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastSocial Anxiety & College Drinking: What No One Talks About - Abby's StoryAre drinking and college synonymous? Can you name a movie with college students where alcohol and partying are not pictured? Let us know when you find one! While culture promotes the college drinking lifestyle, what do students really think about it? Does it help you find friends? Date with the best intentions? Ease social anxiety? For many young people heading off to college, anxiety becomes more pronounced and may reach new levels away from home and all that is familiar. Becoming part of a new community requires social interactions and alcohol is often touted as a...2024-05-0658 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastPressure To Perform Like A Porn Star - Nicole's StoryFor some parents and grandparents today, their high school relationships were “sweet” and innocent. While this was not the case for everyone in previous generations, today, the dating landscape has dramatically shifted. In current culture, many girls' ideas of relationships are informed by rom-coms at a time while their male counterparts are watching porn. Relationship and sexual expectations couldn’t be further apart. If you listen to pop culture’s take on pornography you will hear, “Porn is absolutely not problematic” and sometimes even described as “healthy.” Cultural narratives insist, "Everyone watches porn and if you don’t like it, you are...2024-05-0558 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastMy Trauma Began Long Before I Hid From My Step-Father - Lilith's StoryWhat happens when trauma is not addressed and healed in a family? Often, untreated wounds and patterns of dysfunction, consciously or unconsciously, are repeated and carried forth within families as “intergenerational trauma.” While the concept of Intergenerational trauma may be a new idea to some, others live it firsthand. We learn much more from our forebears than language and favorite family recipes. We learn and experience imprinted paradigms for communication, relationship functioning, mental health coping strategies, and self esteem. Unfortunately, in many cases, parents model ineffective and unhealthy coping because of addiction, abuse, stress, rage and co...2024-04-281h 017 On Sundays™ PodcastHow I Fell For a Sociopath - Riley's StoryWould you be able to spot the signs of a person with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD)? What does dating a sociopath (someone with ASPD) look like? ASPD is a serious mental health condition characterized by a pattern of deceit. These individuals use their intelligence and charm to manipulate and exploit people and partners. While statistics report that only 1-4% of the population is diagnosed with ASPD, it appears that these numbers are higher. The reported numbers are lower because these individuals are very resistant to therapy and many never receive a formal diagnosis. To be diagnosed with A...2024-04-211h 037 On Sundays™ PodcastWhat We Really Think About One Night Stands (Guy's POV) - Dave & John's StoryWhat messages are we getting about sexual hookups from a male POV? “It’s just part of the college experience.” Or, “it’s no big deal.” Culture, including songs and media, glorifies and normalizes hookups. Parents may say, “just don’t do it.” But…when it seems like everyone else is going for it, we may say to ourselves “why not?” Are the gendered ideas about hookups still relevant? Today’s 7 On Sundays guests, John and Dave (chosen pseudonyms), are both freshmen from different parts of the country. While they do not speak for their entire gender or gene...2024-04-211h 147 On Sundays™ PodcastMy Partner Was My Sex Trafficker - Linsey's StoryHow does a young woman get trafficked by her boyfriend? Most people think it could never happen to them. In today’s 7 On Sundays Podcast episode, Linsey shares her story of gradual and escalating grooming at the hand's her boyfriend, who then became her husband and eventually, her trafficker. This story shares how isolation, secrecy, shame, and fear kept Linsey from leaving. She lost all independence and outside support. Linsey shares the complicated nature of these relationships, especially when there are children. What are the long-term impacts of living with (and trying to love) a trafficker? Man...2024-04-071h 087 On Sundays™ PodcastI Hate My Vagina - Teddy's StoryHow do women really feel about their vaginas(vulvas)? A pornified culture says “vaginas” (correct term is “vulvas”), need to look a certain way to not evoke mockery and shame. Whether girls watch porn or not, today they know exactly what their vulvas “should” look like. No surprise it is almost never “porn perfect”. What happens psychologically when your vulva is something you view with disgust? How does it hurt your self image? Your self esteem? How does it change what intimacy looks like for you? On today’s episode of 7 On Sundays™ we talk to Teddy. Teddy...2024-03-3157 min7 On Sundays™ PodcastDying To Be Skinny - Ruby's StoryWhat are the messages we get about our weight? Family, parents, peers, doctors, social media, and partners -they all have something to say about the idealized picture of both male and female bodies. Culture now promotes uber thin bodies (from glycemic control medications for diabetes). As our guest Ruby shares, social media platforms actually teach young followers "how to" self harm (cutting) and "how to" become anorexic. Parents unknowingly, comment on weight and eating patterns of growing teens and miss the signs. Peers, friends, and partners shame individuals around weight, even overtly as Greek life...2024-03-311h 007 On Sundays™ PodcastAlone in a Crowd: The Hidden Loneliness of College Life -Henry & Anna's StoryWhat's happening socially in institutions of higher learning? Culture says that college is the time of your life when you'll meet your best friends and future spouse! Parents and others reiterate this as teens venture out to college. But what about when it's not? Sometimes, after all the angst and anticipation, we get to college and realize, "It just isn't what I thought it would be!" It's a WTF moment. Our guests wonder, "Did I make a mistake?" "How can I feel so alone when surrounded by so many other students?" "Am you the only o...2024-03-171h 057 On Sundays™ PodcastI Am NOBODY's Waiting Room - Joy's StoryWhat's happening in hookup culture today? Pop culture often portrays having sex with your Tinder date as empowering. Many young people don't question this but feel empty and used from the experience. Often, sexual and cultural nonchalance clashes with the human desire to be wanted, cherished, held, and seen. This creates a disconnect. Like our guest, Joy, individuals may compromise themselves by rationalizing, "If I have sex, at least I might get the aftercare (defined as hugs/affection)." In this 7 On Sundays™ episode, our 19-year guest, Joy, candidly shares her hookup stories, some of which are...2024-03-031h 09