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It's Not That SeriousThe Trip Survival GuidePack your SPF, your delusion, and a backup credit card — because not everyone’s coming back friends.In this week’s episode of It’s Not That Serious, Sarah and Frankie break down everything that can go right (and mostly wrong) when you travel with a group. From accidentally becoming the dinner entertainment (and realizing men love a personality with seasoning) — to Frankie’s grand heist getting 8 men into a table like it’s Ocean’s Eight: But Make It Hot & Horny.They cover:Why spring and s...2025-05-1552 minIt's Not That SeriousGrieving Like A Hot Mess: Losing A Parent In Your 20sNobody prepares you for grief—especially when you’re still figuring out how to do your taxes and deciding if you should be drinking oat milk or just accepting lactose intolerance. In this raw, messy, and painfully real episode, Sarah & Frankie get brutally honest about losing a parent in their 20s—the highs, the lows, the absolute crash-outs, and why grief doesn’t look like a Nicholas Sparks movie.Frankie & Sarah talk about:The shock of losing a parent while still feeling like a kid yourself.How...2025-05-0631 minIt's Not That SeriousAdult Friendships & New KinksWe talk about romantic breakups all the time—but what about friendship breakups? The ones that leave you spiraling, questioning your entire personality, and re-reading old texts like a detective? This week, Sarah & Frankie dive into the messy reality of friendships after 25—the slow fades, the sudden betrayals, and the awkward ‘we’re basically just mutuals now’ phase.But first—Frankie has discovered a new kink: getting kidnapped (not literally—calm down). He and Sarah keep finding themselves abducted by strangers and thrown into wild nights they never planned for.Then, we get into the real stuff:2025-04-2824 minIt's Not That SeriousNew Year, Same Mess - But We’re BackGuess who decided to finally clock back in? After ghosting the podcast since December (ooops), Sarah & Frankie are back with massive updates, unfiltered chaos, and the same questionable decision-making skills.Sarah turned 25, and let’s just say the birthday was so wild that she and Frankie have yet to return to the scene of the crime. Was there a health code violation? Did they actually end up working in the kitchen? Will the Better Business Bureau be in touch? All alleged.Meanwhile, Frankie has been spilling everyone else’s tea on TMZ Live...2025-04-0738 minIt's Not That SeriousBlank Profiles, Naughty Nights & Holiday DelightsIt’s the season of giving… and Frankie’s giving naughty list energy. After being crowned “Most Likely to Be Naughty” at a holiday party, Frankie and Sarah unpack all the holiday chaos. From shocking Grindr reveals (the face behind that blank profile will leave you shook) to why everyone seems to be hooking up this time of year, they’ve got the seasonal tea.
Plus, Frankie’s aura is setting off too much sexual energy, Sarah’s has men spinning the block, and they’re sharing the ultimate tips for gifting gifts and surviving “meet th...2024-12-1744 minIt's Not That SeriousBig Tony’s, Big Drama: Pizza, Cheating & Icks Galore FT. KaitlinLive from their favorite late-night pizza spot, Big Tony’s, Sarah and Frankie are joined by their friend Kaitlin McDonald for the ultimate girl dinner. In this hilarious and no-holds-barred episode, the trio tackles the infamous Facebook group Are We Dating the Same Guy/Girl, shares spicy takes on cheating, and debates whether they’d snitch on a friend’s partner—or expect their friends to do the same for them. They also dive deep into whether your man should come "pre-assembled" or if a little fine-tuning is fair game, and share their ultimate dating icks. Plus, Kaitlin’s love affai...2024-11-2554 minIt's Not That SeriousTricks, Treats and Relationship Reveals Ft. TerenceAfter surviving two wild weeks of Halloween shenanigans, Sarah and Frankie are back—and they have stories. Sarah’s Halloween rager led to a near-death experience involving her weave and a twisted ankle, though the details behind her mysterious third injury will remain a spooky secret. Frankie, meanwhile, had an eye-opening revelation at Sarah’s party that's inspired a whole new dating approach for 2025.
In this episode, they break down the best and worst costumes they saw (and wore), tackle the pros and cons of couples costumes (Frankie argues one partner’s always a hostage), and dive into the...2024-11-1242 minIt's Not That SeriousMondays, Mistresses and MayhemFrankie and Sarah return from a two-week hiatus after a wild weekend bender that had Sarah on the verge of calling it quits. Back in the studio, Frankie spills about a guy asking him out on a Monday—his least favorite date night ("Mondays are like the nosebleeds of dates"). This leads to a hilariously candid chat on the hierarchy of date nights. The duo also dishes on the wildest dinner they've ever had, involving a womanizer making moves on everyone at the table—even with his girlfriend right there! Cue a deep dive into the messy world of open...2024-10-2149 minIt's Not That Serious50 Cent, One Wrong Text & A Few White LiesIn this laugh-out-loud episode, Sarah and Frankie are back with more wild stories and awkward moments! A listener shares their embarrassing DM disaster—sending an NSFW pic to the wrong person—while Sarah relives the cringe-worthy moment of meeting her celebrity idol... and forgetting who he was! Frankie spills behind-the-scenes tea from his days as a celebrity assistant, revealing the surprisingly sweet rapper who shocked him (spoiler: it's 50 Cent!) and a Grammy-winning actress who wasn’t quite as pleasant. They also break down the dos and don’ts of exes asking for gifts back, and discuss just how much you shou...2024-10-0841 minIt's Not That SeriousWrong Dates, Older Mates & Football FakesThis week on It's Not That Serious, Sarah kicks things off with a story straight out of a sitcom—she thought she was having dinner with her boss, but surprise! A complete stranger showed up instead. Cue the lesson: save numbers and never trust your memory. Meanwhile, Frankie just got back from Boston, where he faced the joys (and surprises) of dating an older man. The duo also dives into the world of Love Is Blind DC, dissecting the dating culture in the nation’s capital and, for some reason, football?! Frankie knows nothing about it except that "men like...2024-10-0248 minIt's Not That SeriousSummer Flings Fails, Villa Fires, and Sober Hookups: Our Hot Mess AdventuresThis Week, Frankie and Sarah dive into their wild summer adventures, where romance was messy, steamy, and a little bit hazardous! Sarah went to New York chasing “love at first sight” - but can one great first impression really last? Meanwhile, Frankie had a slip of the tongue moment during a hookup with an ex that resulted in some seriously awkward vibes, Plus, Frankie shares what it was like having sober sex for the first time and dishes on his ex’s bizarre body hair faux pas that left him speechless. But that’s not all - Sarah spills the tea...2024-09-2348 minIt's Not That SeriousWe’re A Mess … Your WelcomeGet to know your new favorite disaster duo, Frankie and Sarah, as they dive headfirst into hilarious stories, wild truths, and a rapid-fire game that’s going to reveal more than they ever intended. From dating faux pas to drunken confessions, this episode sets the stage for the chaos, fun, and ridiculousness that It’s Not That Serious is all about. Buckle up—it's going to be a wild ride.
Make sure to follow It's Not That Serious On Instagram for more exclusive content. 2024-09-2327 minIt's Not That SeriousIt’s Not That Serious TrailerGet ready for the premiere of *It’s Not That Serious* — the podcast serving up all the juicy gossip on those toxic hookups you secretly crave, the roommates who push you to the edge, and the questionable life choices we all make. Join Frankie Endo Ondo and Sarah Davis, your unfiltered guides, as they spill the tea on everything you’re too scared to ask your friends. Buckle up for the wildest ride — it’s chaotic, it’s hilarious, and you won’t want to miss a moment. Premieres Monday, September 23rd at 12 PM. Follow us on Instagram @notthatsrspod for updates and bo2024-09-1801 min