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The Fox and the Phoenix218 - Feminine Objectification (part 2)In this second of two episodes, Savannah and Julie continue to discuss the same topic! After the March excitement of the 2025 Keystone Conference in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, our cohosts delve deeper into a question that was brought up during Savannah's workshop, "Why might a cis-gender female partner think that their crossdressing counterpart is objectifying womanhood and femininity when they dress up as a female"?-----SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both focus on the male-to-female (mtf) crossdresser, “Defining a New Normal...2025-05-0729 min

The Fox and the Phoenix217 - Feminine Objectification (part 1)In this episode, Savannah and Julie want to discuss the same topic! After the March excitement of the 2025 Keystone Conference in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, our cohosts delve deeper into a question that was brought up during Savannah's workshop, "Why might a cis-gender female partner think that their crossdressing counterpart is objectifying womanhood and femininity when they dress up as a female"?-----SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both focus on the male-to-female (mtf) crossdresser, “Defining a New Normal” delves into crossdr...2025-04-3031 min

The Fox and the Phoenix215 - Body LanguageIn this episode, Julie asks Savannah to chat about body language for the male-to-female gender expansive person. From the way we walk and talk to the way we eat and use our hands, adopting and perfecting a feminine demeanor in public is a critical component for so many of us. Also, Julie and Savannah talk about generational feminine stereotypes ands how to emulate the established feminine mannerisms that feel most right to the individual. -----SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identi...2025-04-0242 min

The Fox and the Phoenix213 - Inner DivasIn this episode, Julie reads Savannah a comment from a listener who speaks to their inner feminine child, finally accepting and embracing that little girl, and vowing to walk hand in hand together as they navigate the future. Savannah and Julie discuss the fundamentals of inner chid work, the importance of professional therapy, and how that work is both similar and different from cis-folks' relationships with their internal "littles".-----SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both focus on the male...2025-03-1942 min

The Fox and the Phoenix212 - Organic v TraumaticIn this episode, Savannah asks Julie to chat about what drives male-to-female crossdressers to adopt a feminine presentation. What was the spark that initially led to the first and, ultimately, ongoing experiences of femdom? Did the thoughts come from a natural subconscious space or were there extenuating circumstances that conditioned the body to use femininity as a suit of armor against certain assaults? Savannah and Julie dig a little under the surface to raise awareness and further discussion.Examples of childhood trauma that could potentially contribute to gender dysphoria include: being forced to conform t...2025-03-1237 min

The Fox and the Phoenix206 - Sense of BelongingIn this episode, Savannah reads a Quora.com posting to Julie. entitled, "For us crossdressers, would we be considered LGBTQ?". The comments to the posts ranged from a resounding "Yes!" to an absolute "No!" Savannah and Julie dig in to discuss where crossdressers belong and how, in reality, nobody can tell you who you are ... that decision is wholly reserved for you to make! Links: https://www.quora.com/Are-crossdressers-part-of-the-LGBTQ-community/answer/Douglas-Stephens-18?ch=15&oid=1477743774090335&share=fb413071&srid=8TV5t&target_type=answer ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a...2025-01-2941 min

The Fox and the Phoenix205 - Avenging AngelIn this episode, Savannah tells Julie a little ole story of a heroine who saves a feminine damsel in distress when said damsel is caught at Starbucks dressed as Savannah by a patron who only knew Savannah in male-mode! Witness an avenging guardian angel who swoops in to save her from that uncomfortable situation! What happens next? Listen in to find out! ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both focus on the male-to-female (mtf) crossdresser, “Defining a New Normal” de...2025-01-2233 min

The Fox and the Phoenix204 - Shine Bright Like A DiamondIn this episode, Julie asks Savannah about how to find positivity in one's femininity in a time when the world seems bleak. What can be done when one loses their sparkle and the want to dress? Julie and Savannah discuss some of the ways Savannah has overcome those challenges, and offer a number of ways to stay positive, grounded, filled with gratitude, and living in the present. Show Notes: https://www.kvc.org/blog/10-ways-to-stay-optimistic-coping-during-covid-19/ ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Cr...2025-01-1535 min

The Fox and the Phoenix203 - Sisterhood of the Traveling PantiesIn this episode, Savannah shares her experiences with the wonderful ladies of a recent Atlanta girls' weekend. Part of what Savannah discovered was more confidence to simply be herself around others. Beyond that, she realized that oftentimes, and most amazingly, crossdressing as a woman is just only one of many colorful and delightful commonalities that sisters can share. We come for the crossdressing, we stay for the sisterhood. ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both focus on the male-to...2025-01-0828 min

The Fox and the PhoenixBONUS - Gobble, Gobble, Y'all - Twice BakedIn this episode, Savannah and Julie take you back to their first podcast Thanksgiving together. From standard classics like lots of laughs and Julie breaking out in song to poor sound quality, poor editing and distracting dogs barking in the background, this episode is a perfect holiday stuffer for your ears and a blast from the past to bare witness to this duo's humble beginnings. While Savannah and Julie were focused on the excitement of what the future would hold for them way back in week 13, you can listen with a fresh perspective as to just how far the...2024-11-2733 min

The Fox and the PhoenixA Hiatus and Our PrayersIn this soundbite, Savannah lets all the lovely listeners that the world got in the way of creating content for the show. From hurricanes to Bat Mitzvahs to scheduling issues, sometimes The Fox and the Phoenix Podcasts has to make way for more important and more immediate life events. Also, as the 200th episode looms, Savannah and Julie would love to hear from the listeners through comments, direct messages, and/or audio clips to be added to the show's celebration! Send your contribution to Savannah or Julie through any of our social media channels! -----2024-10-0902 min

The Fox and the Phoenix199 - The High Cost of LivingIn this episode, Savannah asks Julie about examples of crossdressing men having to take on additional exchanges when it comes to their gender diversity, from storage units to store their attire to having to lease or rent a completely different residence in order to affect their feminine presentation. When Julie saw the residence as a possible "girls' pad" where the crossdresser can feel free from judgment, Savannah countered with the fact that the partner was being forced to compromise their authenticity in a geographically different and expensive "closet" in order to keep the peace at home. Savannah and Julie...2024-10-0240 min

The Fox and the Phoenix197 - Family MattersIn this episode, Julie reads Savannah a letter from a listener who asks the duo to discuss the dynamics and possible resources for a gender diverse husband who partially shares their femininity with their wife and young children. What might the family be thinking? What resources are out there to help in the 'transition' from fully masculine husband to sometimes feminized spouse? How can one know how their dressing may affect their wife and children? Julie and Savannah dig in and discuss! ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New No...2024-09-1835 min

The Fox and the Phoenix196 - Chasing UnicornsIn this episode, Savannah asks Julie "why do we hunt for unicorns" for partners. Why do we assume that because we crossdress it would take a special woman or partner to love us unconditionally? The label of being a rare and mythical creature in this regard seems to be both a compliment and an insult at the same time. By assuming that it would take a 'unicorn' to love us, we are saying that it takes a special breed of human being to love somebody like us, AND that we are somewhat unlovable. Julie and Savannah break it down...2024-09-1133 min

The Fox and the Phoenix195 - Panty RaidIn this episode, Savannah tells Julie about trying on a pair of sexy panties. In this story, Savannah was suddenly caught in the throes of shame, self0doubt, lack of confidence, fear of judgment, and putting those panties back in the drawer in favor of something more basic. What happens when long-forgotten experiences from earlier in the relationship reverts to a sudden attack of PTSD? In this case, Savannah did some self-analysis, discovered the root of the issue, and was able to have a productive conversation with Judy about how she felt. Then, the next day, those sexy panties...2024-09-0428 min

The Fox and the Phoenix189 - Shein DownIn this episode, Savannah shares with Julie an odd experience about trying on Shein dresses with Judy looking on as a spectator. When Judy offered her opinions about the dresses once tried on, Savannah found herself feeling a bit sad. The reason? The same as any kid on Christmas morning or any woman excited to try on their Amazon purchases, there is something special about the euphoria of getting something new and spending autonomous time with whatever that thing is! ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living...2024-07-2438 min

The Fox and the Phoenix187 - Almost FamousIn this episode, Savannah finds herself gushing to Julie about meeting somebody famous. That famous somebody had reached out to Savannah because they feel Savannah is also 'famous' in the community and is the right individual to confide in and get advice about their gender authenticity. How does a person embrace their gender authenticity when they have curated a higher persona that may bring them under more magnified scrutiny and possible judgement? ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both foc...2024-07-1037 min

The Fox and the Phoenix186 - Trans DamnationIn this episode, Savannah and Julie discuss one of their favorite supporters and friends, Crystal aka 'Jellyfish'. This time around, Crystal shared with Savannah an encounter where she spoke to a cousin who not only admitted that they used to dress up in feminine clothes but also thought they 'were a girl'. Now, thought, through the Word of God, this cousin now feels saved from their feminine afflictions and feels that Crystal is headed to hell and eternal damnation. What's a girl to do? ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a...2024-07-0330 min

The Fox and the Phoenix185 - Total Facial, La FleurIn this episode, Savannah shares with Julie her experience of having a facial while dressed as Savannah. Not only was Savannah dressed for her first facial, but also traveled to the appointment without any makeup. Afterward, Savannah took a pic of herself after the facial and without makeup, realizing that she still saw Savannah staring back at her from the phone. Gender dysphoria was super low and seeing her femininity (without makeup) was a all-time high. ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your T...2024-06-2626 min

The Fox and the Phoenix184 - When Worlds CollideIn this episode, Savannah tells Julie about two specific events that happened a week apart but included the same life lesson. The first was an author event that Savannah (as Chuck) was a part of. The second was a conversation with one of Chuck's work colleague that included the fact that the coworker found Savannah Hauk on social media and realized 'he' was also a 'she'! In both cases, Chuck and Savannah's worlds had suddenly collided into a bigger universe where both sides of our intrepid heroine's gender was on side-by-side display! ----- SAVANNAH HAUK...2024-06-1936 min

The Fox and the Phoenix183 - Hey Judy... Girlz in the HoodiezIn this episode, Savannah asks Judy the question, "Why do women like to wear their partner's clothes? And, why is that okay and MTF crossdressing isn't?" Well, it wasn't that pointed or loaded a question, but it does raise the question of why there are completely common-place and socially accepted manner of quote-unquote crossdressing while those of us who are creating feminine personas are still considered outsiders. Savannah and Judy explore the fabric of Americana where women have been totally accepting wearing their male partner's clothing, and explore why it is that women tend to do it in the...2024-06-1231 min

The Fox and the Phoenix178 - A Reading From the Book of GenderIn this episode, Savannah sneaks to the mic to read the first chapter of her new book, 'Gender 101: An A-Z Handbook and Exploration'. Many have asked Savannah about Audible versions of her 'Living with Crossdressing' book series. Now, you can hear the authoress herself read her own words. If you like what you hear, please help support the community and queer creatives by getting your own copy today! ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both focus on the male-to...2024-05-0816 min

The Fox and the Phoenix177 - Leapfrogging LabelsIn this episode, Savannah and Julie discuss a topic that fascinated Savannah from Keystone. Namely, the fact that a young person with trans experience attended Savannah's workshop with the express notion of learning more about what 'crossdressing' means. With Savannah's mind blown, she sits down with Julie to better understand the place of 'crossdressers' within the new trans generations. From a century of the label being closeted to the possibility of sliding into obscurity in the 21st Century, anything and everything is still possible. ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a...2024-05-0132 min

The Fox and the Phoenix174 - Hey Judy... It's All About You!In this episode, Judy and Savannah discuss the timeless question, "When is it going to stop being about you?!" For every significant one who discovers or is revealed to that their male's propensity to dress enfemme, there is a high percentage of couples who endure the male partner's 'Pink Cloud' and their sudden obsession with all things feminine. All the while the female partner is wondering whether they themselves will ever see the brightness of the spotlight again. This is not about selfishness. It is about a balance between all parties. It is about remembering that each person in...2024-04-1037 min

The Fox and the Phoenix173 - Coming Down From KeystoneIn this episode, Savannah returns from the 2024 Keystone Conference in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, to regale Julie with all the wonderful people Savannah met and all the amazing events she participated in. From the decompression of coming down after several days enfemme with other gorgeous women, to connecting with inclusive and accepting fellow conference goers, to being totally authentic in a safe setting, the Keystone Conference is a hub for being at one's best. ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both foc...2024-04-0329 min

The Fox and the Phoenix172 - Protective MeasuresIn this episode, Savannah reads a letter to Julie from Melanie, a CD site administrator, who felt the podding duo missed an important opportunity about a serious matter when discussing Fred 'Bubba' Copeland in episode 162 (Top Secret Dox). Keeping one's feminine identity private--and taking thoughtful and vigilant protective measures--should always be of utmost importance to a gender diverse individual, especially when being found out could have dire consequences in their day-to-day life. Savannah and Julie talk about social media and a few of the hidden tricks userfs may not be aware of that may put your feminine identity on...2024-03-2736 min

The Fox and the Phoenix170 - Hey Judy... Heels? Why?In this episode, Judy and Savannah discuss the following question... "Why does Savannah need to wear heels all the time?". From the want to feel more feminine, distract from large feet, make that booty pop and the tits jut out, to the aura of the overly feminine spirit, Savannah and Judy weigh the pros and cons of wearing only heels. ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both focus on the male-to-female (mtf) crossdresser, “Defining a New Normal” delves into crossdr...2024-03-1334 min

The Fox and the Phoenix169 - Body SwapIn this episode, Savannah and Julie do a bit of checking in about books and movies before discussing what it would be like if the crossdressing man's female partner wanted to experience what it would feel like to add a "package bulge" in their boxer briefs. What happens when the heel is on the other foot? Sure, we want to be feminine with our breastforms, hip and booty pads, and waist compression foundation garments. But, could we handle it if our partners wanted to embody the masculine? Savannah votes "yes", of course. And, along the way and with many...2024-03-0631 min

The Fox and the Phoenix167 - Hate MailIn this episode, Julie reads Savannah a letter from a former contact to the FoxandHanger.com business. But this letter is not filled with butterflies and rainbows, oh no. Instead, this letter includes a reference to fun crossdressing in times past, a statement that they had abandoned that practice long ago, and the declaration that they were no longer cool with that scene and that trans folks indeed had a mental disorder and needed to be helped to return to a semblance of normalcy. Julie and Savannah dissect the letter and talk about how every gender diverse journey is...2024-02-2130 min

The Fox and the Phoenix166 - Gossip GirlsIn this episode, Julie and Judy give Savannah the high heel and kick her to the curb in favor of some girl talk between just them cis-girls. They chat about the starts of their own relationship, the altered dynamic of Savannah and Judy when it came Savannah suddenly working with Julie on such a grander scale for the podcast, and so much more! Julie even brings a few listener questions to the episode for Judy to ponder. ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discov...2024-02-1441 min

The Fox and the Phoenix161 - Hey Jude... You Aren't Going Out Looking That Way, Are You?In this episode, Savannah and guest co-host and CD partner Judy have another on-air chat. This time, Savannah asks Judy why she is still sometimes uncomfortable around seeing her Savannah all dolled up. Sure, Chuck is her man... but what are some of the barriers and concerns that still gives Judy pause and hesitation when confronted by the glamour and femininity that Savannah chooses to embody. Judy and Savannah talk frankly about appearance, societal trappings, feelings that are not facts, patience and communication. ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Cr...2024-01-1035 min

The Fox and the Phoenix160 - Savannah Gets A Bikini WaxIn this episode, Savannah shares with Julie her first ever experience getting a bikini wax. After months of waxing and having permanent hair removal on other parts of her body, Savannah decided to brave the pain and cross another one of her bucket list items. During the conversation Savannah drops a couple benefits of waxing, from better skin to the psychological effects of looking your best and most femme. Waxing is great self-care and a boost to the ole confidence! Savannah now swears by it. If you are in the Upstate of South Carolina...2023-11-2234 min

The Fox and the Phoenix158 - Hey, Jude... Read a Letter (Part 3)In a new ongoing segment, Savannah's partner, Judy, comes on the podcast to lend her personal experiences when it comes to being in a relationship with a male-to-female crossdresser. In this first episode, Judy reads the third and last part of the letter she wrote several years ago for the first 'Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal' book... back in the early days of her and Savannah's relationship. She reads the first part of the letter, gets reactions from Savannah, expands upon her original thinking, and comments about the progress she has made from then to now. This...2023-11-0820 min

The Fox and the Phoenix157 - I Feel Like a 100 GrandIn this episode, Savannah and Julie take a stroll down memory lane as they reminisce and indulge in the recollection of their humble beginnings for their friendship, partnership, and podcast co-hosting. Savannah reads the emails between her and Julie, pointing out just how much the initial ideas for collaboration evolved. It all leads to the proclamation that - because of their amazing listeners, followers, and subscribers - the podcast has reached over 75 countries and 100,000 listens! ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True I...2023-11-0138 min

The Fox and the Phoenix154 - Hey, Jude... Read a Letter (Part 2)In a new ongoing segment, Savannah's partner, Judy, comes on the podcast to lend her personal experiences when it comes to being in a relationship with a male-to-female crossdresser. In this first episode, Judy reads the second part of the letter she wrote several years ago for the first 'Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal' book... back in the early days of her and Savannah's relationship. She reads the first part of the letter, gets reactions from Savannah, expands upon her original thinking, and comments about the progress she has made from then to now. This ongoing segment...2023-10-1136 min

The Fox and the Phoenix151 - A Magician Revealing Their SecretsIn this episode, both Savannah is excited to share in a celebration with her co-host Julie. A close friend of the podcast, codenamed 'Jellyfish' (if you know, you know), had begun to share their feminine persona with a couple close lifelong friends and close neighbors. Each has been met with love, support, acceptance and shares of their own. Each reveal is a testament to the kind side of human nature. With the posting of these successes, Savannah and Julie take a journey to discuss what seven important factors should be considered when wrestling with whether to share one's authenticity...2023-09-2041 min

The Fox and the Phoenix150 - Hey, Jude... Read a Letter (part 1)In a new ongoing segment, Savannah's partner, Judy, comes on the podcast to lend her personal experiences when it comes to being in a relationship with a male-to-female crossdresser. In this first episode, Judy reads a letter she wrote several years ago for the first 'Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal' book... back in the early days of her and Savannah's relationship. She reads the first part of the letter, gets reactions from Savannah, expands upon her original thinking, and comments about the progress she has made from then to now. This ongoing segment is perfect for crossdressers...2023-09-1343 min

The Fox and the Phoenix149 - Best Made Travel PlansIn this episode, both Savannah and Julie return to the podcast mics from their separate travels abroad within the US of A. Savannah went to New York on a work trip and Julie joined her extended family in Aspen for a week of rest and relaxation. Each of them return with very similar stories, regaling each other with unplanned and positive encounters with strangers who become engaged in conversations about the queer community. Julie gets two new podcast listeners in Savannah (yes, another one) and Dave who live in Tennessee, while our Savannah has a religious and Bible-centric discourse...2023-09-0643 min

The Fox and the Phoenix148 - Does This Podcast Look Tight On Me?In this episode, Savannah discusses with Julie her feelings of fatness and unattractiveness that seems to be more acute int he summer months. While Savannah has mentioned this concern before on previous episodes, she shares with Julie some tips that may assist in body positivity and self-love. From mirror affirmations to surrounding yourself with positivity-filled friends, Savannah and Julie bring their own perspectives to the table for you to consider. This is part two of two episodes! Center For Discovery https://centerfordiscovery.com/blog/10-tips-body-positivity/ ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living...2023-08-3035 min

The Fox and the Phoenix147 - Do I Look Fat in this Podcast?In this episode, Savannah discusses with Julie her feelings of fatness and unattractiveness that seems to be more acute int he summer months. While Savannah has mentioned this concern before on previous episodes, she shares with Julie some tips that may assist in body positivity and self-love. From mirror affirmations to surrounding yourself with positivity-filled friends, Savannah and Julie bring their own perspectives to the table for you to consider. This is part one of two episodes! Center For Discovery https://centerfordiscovery.com/blog/10-tips-body-positivity/ ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the...2023-08-2347 min

The Fox and the Phoenix146 - Summer Lovin'In this episode, Savannah and Julie talk about how hot they both are. No... no... they aren't talking about their amazing physical appearance but rather the difficult times some crossdressing men may encounter when the full glare of summer is upon them. Some may feel self-conscious showing more skin, while others may come close to heat stroke with their wigs and compression and padding on. Still others love other seasons so much more than summer, basking in the ability of the pastels of spring, the earth tones and knee boots of autumn, and the jackets and scarfs of winter...2023-08-1645 min

The Fox and the Phoenix145 - Reviewing the Source MaterialIn this episode, Savannah is so excited to tell Julie abut her interaction on an Instagram post where a troll tells Savannah she needs to repent, Read the Gospels, and be saved from sin. From that interaction, Savannah decides to think back to episode '5 - Debunking Deuteronomy 22:5' and see what else people who spout one of the 613 Mitzvot should be also adhering to to secure their own places at the right hand of the heavenly Father. Julie and Savannah take a silly and whimsical turn at reviewing other archaic laws, just to prove that a couple dozen...2023-08-0947 min

The Fox and the Phoenix144 - 16(.)(.) Pennsylvania AvenueIn this episode, Julie asks Savannah to discuss the hot raging news coming from the lush green White House lawns during a PRIDE celebration. Front and at the center of it all... in several ways... was the one and only Rose Montoya. As a mentor and influencer to Julie, Rose Montoya and her breasts were weaponized against her and the Transgender community by conservative media outlets that felt her "rockets' red glare" were both inappropriate at a White House event and a telling reminder and proof that people under the transgender umbrella are indeed vile and perverted. Rosa apologized...2023-08-0252 min

The Fox and the Phoenix143 - With Open Minds and BodiesIn this episode, Julie asks Savannah how her experience was going to therapy for the first time... as Savannah. Sure, Chuck has been going to therapy for a while now, but this marked the first time the therapist asked Savannah to make an actual "wig to heel" appearance "on the couch". They touch on the actual session experience, the nervousness Savannah felt about showing up for the first time, her concern for receiving validation and acceptance as a serious male-to-female gender diverse individual, and the feelings of being seen and heard in her feminine persona. Julie and Savannah round...2023-07-2644 min

The Fox and the Phoenix141 - Life Hacks for the Gender DiverseIn this episode, Julie sent out an "all points bulletin" to ask our community what DIY and life hacks they have discovered, invented, or employed in the development of their male-to-female gender diverse lives. On air, she shares some of the responses with Savannah and with the listeners in the hopes that these great ideas can be utilized by others as well. Even Savannah, when her memory is sparked, throws her own life hacks in the mix. ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discov...2023-07-1239 min

The Fox and the Phoenix138 - Closure In MemoriamIn this episode, Savannah comes back from a trip west. She returns with a heavy heart and some of her father's ashes. Per a thought from Julie Savannah sat down to write a letter to her father, finally putting into words and onto paper everything she had ever wanted to share with her dad. Today, Savannah reads that letter aloud in a very emotional pod. ----- SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discovering your True Identity“. While both focus on the male-to-female (mtf) crossdresser, “Defining a...2023-05-3131 min

The Fox and the Phoenix137 - Little Boy Blue and the Man in the MoonIn this episode, Savannah finds out minutes before recording the podcast episode that their father is terminally ill in the hospital without any chance to recover. What bubbles up to the surface is a frank conversation with Julie about Savannah's childhood as the little boy his parents' assumed them to be, how Savannah dealt with their upbringing, the things they felt they missed out on, their ongoing twenty-something anger against their father, and the thirty-something forgiveness finally released from Savannah's heart for the man who has just done the best he knew how to do. Savannah now will never...2023-05-2438 min

The Fox and the Phoenix136 - Dear Judy,... Part 2In this second of two episodes, Julie and Savannah reconnect in person as Julie makes a cross-country trip to be IRL with Savannah in the studio. Above and beyond that, Julie, Savannah AND Judy come together again for day trips to local downtowns, lunches and dinners out, work trips to Starbucks, and a couple hours at the podcast mic to ask Judy questions from our listeners, specifically from the wonderful and supportive wives--the SOs, the Significant Ones--of some of our male-to-female crossdressing husbands. From how Savannah revealed herself to Judy to Judy's processing time to better understand and support...2023-05-1743 min

The Fox and the Phoenix135 - Dear Judy,... Part 1In this first of two episodes, Julie and Savannah reconnect in person as Julie makes a cross-country trip to be IRL with Savannah in the studio. Above and beyond that, Julie, Savannah AND Judy come together for day trips to local downtowns, lunches and dinners out, work trips to Starbucks, and a couple hours at the podcast mic to ask Judy questions from our listeners, specifically from the wonderful and supportive wives--the SOs, the Significant Ones--of some of our male-to-female crossdressing husbands. From how Savannah revealed herself to Judy to Judy's processing time to better understand and support how...2023-05-101h 02

The Fox and the Phoenix134 - A Significant Problem For OthersIn this episode, Julie and Savannah reconnect after a couple weeks away from podcasting. Julie talks about her new laptop and Savannah regales Julie with her trip to the 13th Annual Keystone Conference in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania. Other than the conference and workshops as a whole, Savannah comes back with tales from the Significant Ones--the partners of their male-to-female crossdressing mates--more fully understanding the plights of our cis-female partners and their struggles of finding relevant and positive support from other female counterparts who are going through the same trials and tribulations with a man who finds peace with dressing and...2023-05-0353 min

The Fox and the Phoenix132 - Secrets, Secrets EverywhereIn this episode, Savannah is inspired by a comment referring to her first TEDx talk where she mentioned she had not told her parents about being gender diverse...nor had any intention of sharing her feminine identity with them. Savannah and Julie discuss the pros and cons of keeping a secret this important and encompassing, when, why and with whom to share with, and how sharing secrets can be vulnerable, scary, dangerous and lifesaving. Each person is different, therefore each person's secret and their choices of confidante is wholly unique to their experiences. See articles: https://www.ps...2023-04-1947 min

The Fox and the Phoenix131 - Listener LoveIn this episode, Savannah and Julie choose comments and letters from listeners and followers to read on air. From gratitude that Savannah's partner,Judy, was able to voice her own side of their journey together, to agreeing with the distaste for the word 'transvestite', to feeling sadness after deconstructing from enfemme mode back to biological male mode, each listener has a rich story to tell all their own. Savannah and Julie read the letters and comments on air before giving their love, appreciation, and commentary back to each entry. The listeners are what makes this journey worthwhile! ...2023-04-1257 min

The Fox and the Phoenix130 - The Best Things About CDs List - Part 2In this second of a two-part episode, Savannah and Julie continue to take a deep dive into the 'at the thing' cute list of all the great benefits significant ones have when coupled with a male-to-female crossdresser. In 'Living with Crossdressing: Defining the New Normal', toward the back of the book, Savannah wrote out a lengthy list of the reasons why a crossdresser's partner would benefit from having a CD in their life. While the list was personal to Savannah and partly wish fulfillment, Julie and Savannah reflect on the contents of that list, dissect each entry, and discuss...2023-04-0535 min

The Fox and the Phoenix129 - The Best Things About CDs List - Part 1In this first of a two-part episode, Savannah and Julie take a deep dive into the 'at the thing' cute list of all the great benefits significant ones have when coupled with a male-to-female crossdresser. In 'Living with Crossdressing: Defining the New Normal', toward the back of the book, Savannah wrote out a lengthy list of the reasons why a crossdresser's partner would benefit from having a CD in their life. While the list was personal to Savannah and partly wish fulfillment, Julie and Savannah reflect on the contents of that list, dissect each entry, and discuss the underlying...2023-03-2943 min

The Fox and the Phoenix128 - Gender v SexualityIn this episode, Savannah and Julie tackle a topic they have touched on many times but never dedicated an episode to. During a podcast appearance with Dr. Dan, Savannah was asked a question about how one would see themselves in their sexuality if they had transitioned from man to woman. Would they consider themselves a heterosexual woman after transition if they started dated men, or would they still be homosexual since they were born a biological male? What sparked first as a very interesting podcast guest scenario question became the genesis of this conversation with Savannah and Julie. From...2023-03-2241 min

The Fox and the Phoenix127 - A Tender AgeIn this episode, Julie reads a letter to Savannah from a 14-year-old individual whose parents found out about their crossdressing. As a result, this teenager is afraid to dress again. Savannah and Julie, both having strong feelings on the topic, spend the episode dissecting the short letter, Julie's response, and what it's like to be a teenager struggling with an inherent sense of their own gender diversity. What can parents do t support their children without overreacting...both in a too-positive and a too-negative way? Savannah also brings up a www.Parents.org article about how to support a...2023-03-1552 min

The Fox and the Phoenix126 - Savannah Goes To TherapyIn this episode, Savannah reveals to Julie a mind-blowing revelation. During a counseling session, the therapist comments that much of Savannah's current proclivities, life coping skills, and non-confrontational demeanor may have stemmed from a childhood chock full of continued attempts to keep herself safe from emotional harm and invalidation by her parents. Self-preservation is a critical and often-overlooked reason why we continue to exist as a species. Throw in gender diversity in a world that hasn't fully embraced our authenticity and the chance that our parents may withhold their unconditional love from us because we are not fitting into...2023-03-0855 min

The Fox and the Phoenix124 - No Short Cuts to Your True SelfIn this episode, Savannah comes to the table with Julie with a story of detransition. Chris Beck, a United States Navy Seal, who gained public attention in 2013 after coming out as a trans woman (Kristin Beck), announced in 2022 that he would be detransitioning. Upon investigation, Savannah found an article and interview entitled, "Former Navy SEAL Trans Poster Boy Announces DeTransition: 'Transgender Ideology Is Cultish'" on the Christian Broadcast Network online media outlet. After reading the article and watching the first hour of the two-hour interview, Savannah and Julie needed to discuss the topic. While Chris' detransition is an unfortunate...2023-02-221h 02

The Fox and the Phoenix121 - We Will Return After These Commercial MessagesIn this episode, Savannah is excited to have Julie watch a newly launched whiskey commercial which tells a lovely holiday season family tale of transgender identity. Added to that is a Mars Halloween Bite: New Nanny Twix commercial from a Halloween or two ago. And, finally, talk springs up about the release/banning/re-release of the Zola commercials on the Hallmark Channel a few years ago. From outrage of a lesbian kiss and wedding, to a boy in a dress in public, to any possible outcry about an elderly man trying on makeup in secret before the holidays, Savannah...2023-02-0145 min

The Fox and the Phoenix120 - Kicking the CD Habit... a Roast (Part 2)In this second of two episodes, Julie and Savannah bring an article to the pod. The article is a wikiHow entry about. how to stop crossdressing... with seven easy to follow and implement steps for success... NOT! Our podcast dynamic duo go through each step one-by-one, trying to figure out just how to implement any or all of these suggestions. From simple to silly, from easy to excruciating, from obvious to OMG, Savannah and Julie point and counterpoint each and every word. Is there good information in the article? IDK, you will just have to listen to find out!2023-01-2535 min

The Fox and the Phoenix119 - Kicking the CD Habit... a Roast (Part 1)In this first of two episodes, Julie and Savannah bring an article to the pod. The article is a wikiHow entry about. how to stop crossdressing... with seven easy to follow and implement steps for success... NOT! Our podcast dynamic duo go through each step one-by-one, trying to figure out just how to implement any or all of these suggestions. From simple to silly, from easy to excruciating, from obvious to OMG, Savannah and Julie point and counterpoint each and every word. Is there good information in the article? IDK, you will just have to listen to find out!2023-01-1838 min

The Fox and the Phoenix118 - It's A Small World After AllIn this episode, Savannah reminds Julie of yet another accidental reveal between her and a work vendor while she was quarantined but working from home. In the aftermath of her revealing herself in full to this work partner, Savannah was graced with a response she never would have expected. In the letter back, the vendor spoke about her own daughter being "beyond the binary" and their perchance for preferred pronouns is "whatever". Julie and Savannah talk about the lovely letter itself, the fact we really never know how many people we meet in our lives who, in fact, are...2023-01-1132 min

The Fox and the Phoenix116 - Remembering PrideIn this episode, Savannah talked to Julie about what PRIDE means to her, reflecting on the local PRIDE event she missed this year due to COVID, binge-watching season 11 of the 1981 New York Gay Community themes of American Horror Story: NYC, and thinking about how far Savannah has come over the last several years. Like looking at Transformation Tuesday pics on social media, the end of the year is always a great opportunity to see your evolution in mind, body and spirit as it comes to your life, in general, and feminine authenticity. Julie tells a story of supporting her...2022-12-2845 min

The Fox and the Phoenix114 - Poor Grooming HabitsIn this episode, Savannah comes to the pod with a little fire and anger in her belly. Julie has to talk her off the proverbial ledge as they dissect the re-emerging tactic of the use of the word "grooming" as it gets applied to the queer community by conservative or political groups trying to cast aspersions on members of the LGBTQIA+ community through misinformation, suppression of information and resources and equality, and the fanning of the flames of fear mongering against people they already consider require purging. How did the definition of grooming go from being an issue of...2022-12-1435 min

The Fox and the Phoenix109 - Surviving the HolidaysIn this episode, Savannah and Julie tackle a topic that has plagued generations of family members... the dreaded family-centric holidays. Those holidays where we have been taught and told are magical and all about family values and togetherness. The famous Norman Rockwell depiction of the joyous Thanksgiving dinner with smiling family members around the table isn't a reality for many of us, especially those with dysfunctional dynamics that must be burdened because we, as blood relatives, have an unwritten obligation to commune in these times and on these days. How can you survive hosting or guesting through the holidays...2022-11-0955 min

The Fox and the Phoenix107 - Close Encounters of the CD KindIn this episode, Savannah and Julie respond to listener and personal DM comments about Significant Ones seeing their enfemme partners for the first time IRL. From cis-female wives' and girlfriends' trepidation and anxiety of the anticipation of seeing her male partners dressed as women in front of their eyes to the male partners' concern and fear of outright rejection, the first in-person interaction between crossdressing men and their female partner can be a scary event. What will happen? Will it go positively or negatively? Will the experience create a better relationship dynamic or a worse one? Will the crossdresser...2022-10-2654 min

The Fox and the Phoenix106 - CDs and the CinemaIn this episode, Julie and Savannah chat about one of Savannah's favorite things... the movies! Growing up, many gender diverse folks of the 1970s, 80s, 90s, and the early aughts only found characters similar to themselves on the silver screen. From the crossdressing antics of "Some Like It Hot", "Tootsie", and "Mrs. Doubtfire" to the more serious and irreverent treatments of the gender fluid community with "To Wong Foo...", "Kinky Boots", and "Transamerica", the movies have come a long in their portrayals of the gender fluid experience. Here is a list of trans and gender fluid films t...2022-10-1949 min

The Fox and the Phoenix105 - When I Hear the Word Transvestite (part 2)In the second part of this episode, Savannah and Julie continue to respond to listener comments about how they feel when they hear the word "transvestite". Along the way,Savannah and Julie weigh in with their own experiences with the word, and words like it. And, without, fail, Savannah swoops in with a history lesson about Magnus Hirschfeld and the genesis of the T-word--and its place in the world.Some people hate the word, some people love the word, some are ambivalent to it. Regardless of how the word "transvestite" makes one feel--based on its storied past and its...2022-10-1242 min

The Fox and the Phoenix104 - When I Hear the Word Transvestite (part 1)In this episode, Savannah and Julie respond to listener comments about how they feel when they hear the word "transvestite". Along the way,Savannah and Julie weigh in with their own experiences with the word, and words like it. And, without, fail, Savannah swoops in with a history lesson about Magnus Hirschfeld and the genesis of the T-word--and its place in the world.Some people hate the word, some people love the word, some are ambivalent to it. Regardless of how the word "transvestite" makes one feel--based on its storied past and its various uses--we cannot overlook the strength...2022-10-0551 min

The Fox and the Phoenix103 - Blue Sky - Scraps and Wrap UpsYOU'RE LISTENING TO BLUE SKY In this blue sky episode, Julie, Savannah, and Judy talk about the support, questions, messages, and letters/cards received about how she lives with a crossdresser. Savannah is the first to admit her faults, mistakes, traumas, and triggers, knowing that to make the relationship work requires constant communication and, sometimes, professional support and help. Therapy is not a bad word and shouldn't be treated as such. And, before all of that, The Fox and the Phoenix Podcast sizzles up some of the fat that was too much for the regular episodes. AND...2022-08-2449 min

The Fox and the Phoenix102 - Menage A Trois (Part 3)In this third part of three episodes, Julie, Savannah, and Judy continue their conversation together, focusing on those topics they had glossed over or had forgotten when recording the first two episodes. From living a domestic life as a partner of a gender diverse male-to-female crossdresser, to best understanding what make her boyfriend tick, to supporting all of the projects Savannah has completed and has continued to undertake, this episode is all about hearing the truth from the Significant One's point of view. ------ SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a Ne...2022-08-171h 10

The Fox and the Phoenix101 - Menage A Trois (Part 2)In this second part of three episodes, Julie, Savannah, and Judy continue their conversation together, focusing on those topics they had glossed over or had forgotten when recording the first episode. From living a domestic life as a partner of a gender diverse male-to-female crossdresser, to best understanding what make her boyfriend tick, to supporting all of the projects Savannah has completed and has continued to undertake, this episode is all about hearing the truth from the Significant One's point of view. ------ SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New No...2022-08-1050 min

The Fox and the Phoenix100 - Menage A Trois (Part 1)In this first part of three episodes, Julie, Savannah, and Judy continue their conversation together, focusing on those topics they had glossed over or had forgotten when recording the first two episodes. From living a domestic life as a partner of a gender diverse male-to-female crossdresser, to best understanding what make her boyfriend tick, to supporting all of the projects Savannah has completed and has continued to undertake, this episode is all about hearing the truth from the Significant One's point of view. ------ SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a Ne...2022-08-0359 min

The Fox and the Phoenix099 - Superhero Origins Remastered - A Love Letter to our ListenersIn this episode, Savannah surprises Julie with a secret behind-the-scenes project where Savannah reviewed and remastered the very first The Fox and the Phoenix Podcast episode ever recorded together. While Julie thought the surprise was listening to the podcast trailer, the real surprise was the joy of reflecting on the time they have spent together as community advocates, pod co-hosts, and close friends. As the team closes in on their first 100 episodes, this seemed the perfect was to both look back at their humble beginnings and look forward to an amazing future together. ------ SAVANNAH...2022-07-2756 min

The Fox and the Phoenix098 - Listener Lovefest (Part 2)In this episode, Savannah and Julie continue to scour all of the comments received since the inception of The Fox and the Phoenix Podcast, chomping at the bit to share listener comments across as many episodes as possible in the limited time Julie and Savannah had to read and respond back. In fact, there were so many comments to choose from, our intrepid co-hosts decided to dedicate two episodes to their loyal listeners. In this episode, the listeners are the co-hosts and stars. Sending love to all! ------ SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living wi...2022-07-2054 min

The Fox and the Phoenix097 - Listener Lovefest (Part 1)In this episode, Savannah and Julie scour all of the comments received since the inception of The Fox and the Phoenix Podcast, chomping at the bit to share listener comments across as many episodes as possible in the limited time Julie and Savannah had to read and respond back. In fact, there were so many comments to choose from, our intrepid co-hosts decided to dedicate two episodes to their loyal listeners. In this episode, the listeners are the co-hosts and stars. Sending love to all! ------ SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: De...2022-07-1357 min

The Fox and the Phoenix096 - Kinky BootsIn this episode, Julie brings a juicy and scandalous topic to the podcast table, asking Savannah what the difference is between crossdressing as a kink versus as a way of life. After a great diatribe about snoring and a shared love for music--and Savannah's explanation of how DSM-5 defines transvestic disorder--Julie and Savannah get into the nitty gritty of how sensuality is not just a component of the kink scenes but also a normal part of tapping into the divine feminine spirit as a human being. While we can point at others and say that what they are doing...2022-07-061h 00

The Fox and the Phoenix093 - Let Your Freak Flag FlyIn this episode, Savannah tells Julie about her struggles with the seemingly simple--yet vastly complex--task of putting a flag out in one of the street-facing flowerbeds. While Savannah admits she isn't a big fan of domestic chores, yard work, or repairs, this specific task included so many nuanced dilemmas for her. Why, you ask? Because the colors of this flag weren't the red, white and blue of the unity of the country, but the symbolic baby blue, pink and white of the transgender flag. When living in a conservative state with neighbors who have already shown their colors and...2022-06-1540 min

The Fox and the Phoenix091 - From the Closet to the BoudoirIn this episode, Savannah tells Julie all about her experience of a feminine and transformative boudoir shoot. From the research for the right photographic partner, to the preparation prior to the session day, to the enjoyment and rigors of the actual sessions, to seeing herself as a professionally photographed sensual siren, Savannah was amazed to see herself in a way she previously only dreamt about. Once the day was over, an elation encompassed her and a version of the Pink Fog descended upon her as Savannah wanted to share her joyful feelings and pride and fulfilling a lifelong bucket...2022-06-0151 min

The Fox and the Phoenix090 - She Says, They Say, Sage SaysIn this episode, Savannah brings on a special guest for Julie to meet. Sage (SG) is a twenty-something person who recently came to terms with both their sexual identity and their non-binary gender identity and resulting and supportive gender expressions. While the focus of the episode is focused on Sage's adopting the appropriate "they/them" pronouns to supplement their existing "she/her" pronouns, it is nearly impossible to not want to dig deeper into Sage as a person and their struggles and triumphs as they evolve beyond indoctrinated and socially accepted norms. From the physical dangers of chest binding...2022-05-2530 min

The Fox and the Phoenix089 - Reindeer GamesIn this episode, Julie invites Savannah to listen to a letter from a listener who just wants to be "one of the girls". She just wants to be able to comment on a woman's clothing choices or accessories and be able to get those same words of affirmation in return. On a more deeper note, she would love to dress more feminine or carry a little pink Coach purse so that she can be complimented and validated for her feminine spirit. In a world of cliques and have/have nots, it is important to have a loving support system...2022-05-1853 min

The Fox and the Phoenix088 - Don't Say QueerIn this episode, Savannah shares with Julie a somewhat bigoted and hateful meme that one of her neighbors posted on social media. They posted that until Jesus can be talked about in the classroom, gender shouldn't be. In the wake of Florida's "Don't Say Gay" bill which, in part, bans school administrators, counselors, and teachers from being able to discuss the gender and sexual diversity, the meme from someone who lives less than a hundred yards from where Savannah lives and records hit too close to home--both metaphorical and literally. What follows is a discussion of what both sides...2022-05-1151 min

The Fox and the Phoenix087 - Julie's Harrowing JourneyIn this episode, Julie open old wounds as she and Savannah discuss the arduous journey Julie had to face and overcome in order to have the ability to meet Savannah for the first time. With what starts out with cancelled flights and ends with lost and delayed luggage, Julie also finds out how she really feels about meeting both Savannah (AND Chuck) for the first time in real life. Tears are shed and Julie's odyssey of flight and vehicular travel are regaled in this special "upon first meeting" tale. ------ SAVANNAH HAUK is the author...2022-05-0454 min

The Fox and the Phoenix086 - Sexual HealingIn this episode, Savannah reads a note from a woman named Andrea--a cis-female woman with a male-to-female crossdressing boyfriend. In the message, she relates her realization and understanding that sexual attraction is purely based on that single first impression... based on that single look across a crowded room. Whether a trans-woman or trans-man, a mtf or ftm crossdresser, or a glorious enfemme celebrity, the manner and demeanor of the people we find attractive is not truly based on biology or the genitalia between one's legs... but based on how they look and carry themselves. We may not be romantically...2022-04-2734 min

The Fox and the Phoenix085 - Don't Take That Tone With Me!In this episode, Savannah and Julie have a little chat about the people they meet in their daily lives and how the tone in which different types of people make their introductions. Seemingly and more stereotypically, cis-women and men in touch with their feminine energy seem to harness that energy with softer and more empathetic prose while more masculine types are direct, to-the-point, and lacing some of the pro-functionary pleasantries most expect while conversing with strangers. From there, Julie digs into Savannah's second "Living with Crossdressing" book to list out the stereotypically socially-accepted terms we assign to men and...2022-04-2053 min

The Fox and the Phoenix084 - Savannah turns her head and coughsIn this episode, Savannah can't contain her frantic excitement and bursting pride as she regales Julie with the baby steps she took between episodes. While to many these baby steps seem minor and insignificant, to many a crossdressing individual find them to be almost insurmountable. Savannah tells Julie the stories of how she decided to checkmark a certain gender box on her medical intake form before her first medical checkup in several years. Not only that, Savannah also did something else for the first time... something less formalized than medical documentation but more visible in the everyday world...she g...2022-04-1344 min

The Fox and the Phoenix083 - Trans Enoughin this episode, Savannah and Julie both come to the mic with the same topic... that of a gender diverse person as feeling "trans enough". Referring to a listener's Facebook post on the same topic and the resulting comments to the post, Savannah and Julie tackle the question, "What determines what is trans enough?". While the galaxy of gender diversity goes so far and wide of simply being 100% masculine or 100% feminine, many feel it is their responsibility to determine another person's level of trans-ness. Of course, we all want to find our LGBTQ+ tribe and to be validated for...2022-04-0648 min

The Fox and the Phoenix082 - A Bump of the Tit, An Underdressing StoryIn this episode, Savannah introduces Pattie Smith to Julie. Pattie is a male-to-female dual-gender individual who finds and honors her feminine spirit through underdressing during the work week. Married to her high school sweetheart, Pattie's wife thought that Pattie's gender identity issues were a passing phase when she found out about Pattie's gender therapist. What comes from it is Pattie's personal and current balance for their masculine and feminine side, wearing camis and bras under their male work clothes. Sometimes a hint of mascara or filling the bra with breast forms while on a work errands makes Pattie's experience...2022-03-3057 min

The Fox and the Phoenix081 - Crossdressers in Full Late Afternoon BloomIn this episode, Julie and Savannah unpack male-to-female crossdressing for men entering the second half of their life. What does crossdressing after 50 look like? With a lot of help and input from listeners in the same era and evolution, Julie and Savannah read the comments and dissect what's its like to finally develop a feminine energy and/or persona when retirement may be closer than you think, the children have grown up and possibly having families of their own, and you are left with a possibly dramatic change in your personal and interpersonal social dynamics. ------ 2022-03-231h 00

The Fox and the Phoenix080 - Defining Crossdressing In A Different WayIn this episode, Julie regales Savannah with stories of clients who have a specific viewpoint of when they consider that they themselves are crossdressing. What follows is a mind-blowing pivot of what everyone has defined the term crossdressing... that crossdressing means you are dressing in clothes defined for the opposite gender. What if, though, crossdressing was not about dressing opposite of your biology, but instead opposite of your gender identity? What if crossdressing was what you were doing when dressing as a biological man even though you always considered yourself psychologically a woman? Is it still considered crossdressing if...2022-03-1644 min

The Fox and the Phoenix079 - Love the One You're WithIn this episode, Savannah asks Julie the question, "How do you accept yourself in a world where many do not share that same acceptance of you?". It is very very difficult to build a solid foundation of self-love and self-confidence when every indicator and comment and advertised worldview seems to point to there being something unwelcome about the person you are. Yes, the world is slowly changing its view of gender diverse people and their place in society, but that change is slow to happen and hasn't been the formative experience many of us grew up with--hence our hiding...2022-03-0940 min

The Fox and the Phoenix076 - This Is Who I Am!In this episode, Julie brings up a recent consultation with a young trans person who bristled at the words crossdresser and persona. This young person has always considered herself a woman and didn't want her existence reduced to that of a crossdresser. Savannah gets the tiniest bit triggered by the comment but she and Julie go into a deep intense dive to better understand the repulsion or attraction of the term of crossdresser as it affects one's own sense of self. From disliking the idea of trying on a wig to challenging each other about what motivates our perceptions...2022-02-1648 min

The Fox and the Phoenix075 - Too Stressed To DressIn this episode, Savannah welcomes Julie back from her vacation to Mexico and fo ask her opinion of a problem Savanah had been facing during her time away. Why didn't she feel like dressing in her feminine expression? Was the novelty of having a female persona wearing off after 50 years? Was she failing as a dual gender individual because Savannah felt she was not paying proper homage to her feminine spirit? How was she suppose to get her femme mojo back? The questions get explored by our dynamic duo and the answers to Savannah's problem are universal to anyone w...2022-02-0949 min

The Fox and the Phoenix074 - The "L" in LGBTQ+ Stands for LiteratureIn this episode, Savannah comes to Julie with a passionate plea for parents and partners of those in the gender queer community to have patience, perseverance, and practical experience when seeking out literature for yourself and those whom you love. One recent LGBTQ+ best seller children's picture book sold and promoted on Amazon was actually an example of anti-transgender transphobia propaganda. Savannah and Julie talk about the importance and necessity of finding the literature that best supports education and inclusivity for allies and the people they love and want to support in their positive journeys. From the genesis of...2022-02-0238 min

The Fox and the Phoenix073 - Brown Chicken, Brown CowIn this episode, Savannah circles back back around to the topic of the widely misunderstood notion that labeling yourself as a crossdresser means that you may see yourself--or others may see you--as having a casual interest in dressing as your feminine self. Similar to the "just a crossdresser" episode of the past, this topic is a triggering and touchy topic for Savannah. She and Julie spar about whether the label of crossdresser designates one's gender identity versus whether it simply describes the mechanism in which one is able to affect one's gender expression. Julie talks about the fact that...2022-01-2649 min

The Fox and the Phoenix072 - Lovely Support SystemsIn this episode, Savannah starts off the New Year right (well, at least January) by bringing by the podcast's first in-studio guest! The lovely Michele comes by to meet Julie and chit-chat for a few minutes before Savannah and Julie have to say their goodbyes and get to the topic at hand. What happens when the significant one of a crossdressing partner tells them they are loved and supported, but the crossdressing one still seems to prefer to dress up in private? Is it because the girlfriend is doing something the wrong? Even after researching and reading one of...2022-01-191h 02

The Fox and the Phoenix071 - Don't Ask, Don't TellIn this episode, Savannah reads a social media comment from a friend. The message concerns a previous episode and asked if the duo could touch on the relationship dynamic of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell", where the partner of the crossdressing man knows about his femininity, supports him enough to know he needs an outlet for his gender diversity, but really wants to know nothing about the details of when, where, and how (and what and why). How do couples make the new dynamic work without resentment setting in? How can couples create a contract of compromise where both parties f...2022-01-1242 min

The Fox and the Phoenix069 - The Conference CallsIn this episode, Julie asks the most important question, "How do we get out there again when in-person conferences return?". With 2022 upon us, many trans- and LGBTQ+-friendly conferences and workshops and getaways are coming back into a semblance of normalcy and face-to-face interaction. How does one prepare for a return to in-person events or, better yet, for one's first time traveling to and participating in a multi-day planned event? Julie and Savannah talk about the tips and tricks for preparation--from how to pack to how to interract--as well as telling a few stories of personal experiences along the...2021-12-2949 min

The Fox and the Phoenix067 - Savannah Hates Her BodyIn this episode, Savannah comes to the podcast tables to tellJulie how unhappy and uncertain she is about her feminine body, especially in the full-length photos she is asked for sometimes. From the feelings of being overweight to failing to live up to the appreciable social norms for the feminine, Savannah has shed away from full-body pics until now... trying now to face it head on. Julie gives tips on how Savannah can be more self confident in this regard... letting her know she is not alone in feeling this way about one's body and that continued practice, exposure...2021-12-1539 min

The Fox and the Phoenix066 - Fashion Sense (with our very own Julie)In this episode, Julie tells Savannah and the listeners the top tips and tricks for how to find success in one's male-to-female gender expression. From the right fit of what you wear, to what actually works best to wear, to find both the accessories and confidence to step out from a highly organized and intentional closet, Julie spills the tea about those fashion concepts that any of us can implement quickly. ------ SAVANNAH HAUK is the author of “Living with Crossdressing: Defining a New Normal” and “Living with Crossdressing: Discov...2021-12-0858 min