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De-Escalation Conversations040 - From Venezuela to U.S. Borders - Eddy Weiss Talks Tren de Aragua and Gang Threatsđ Just wrapped up an enlightening episode of the De-Escalation Conversations Podcast Episode #40, featuring an in-depth conversation with the brilliant Eddy Weiss on current security challenges and the influence of the influx of foreign gangs on U.S. soil.
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đď¸ In our latest episode, "From Venezuela to U.S. Borders - Eddy Weiss Talks Tren de Aragua and Gang Threats" Eddy Weiss delves into the strategic use of fear and its exploitation, drawing parallels to historical events and emphasizing the urgent need for awareness and action.
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De-Escalation Conversations040 - From Venezuela to U.S. Borders - Eddy Weiss Talks Tren de Aragua and Gang Threatsđ Just wrapped up an enlightening episode of the De-Escalation Conversations Podcast Episode #40, featuring an in-depth conversation with the brilliant Eddy Weiss on current security challenges and the influence of the influx of foreign gangs on U.S. soil.
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đď¸ In our latest episode, "From Venezuela to U.S. Borders - Eddy Weiss Talks Tren de Aragua and Gang Threats" Eddy Weiss delves into the strategic use of fear and its exploitation, drawing parallels to historical events and emphasizing the urgent need for awareness and action.
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Eddy d...2024-11-0143 minDe-Escalation Conversations038 - Your Calendar is a Reflection of Your True ValuesOn this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, host Kerry Mensior delves into the powerful concept that your calendar is a reflection of your true values. He reflects on the challenges individuals face when focusing on what they lack instead of acknowledging their achievements, and how this mindset can affect mental health. Kerry shares practical steps on using a calendar to live a fulfilling life by aligning it with your values and responsibilities, while also improving relationships and reducing procrastination. Tune in for valuable insights and actionable tips to start living your life by design.2023-12-0522 minDe-Escalation Conversations038 - Your Calendar is a Reflection of Your True ValuesOn this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, host Kerry Mensior delves into the powerful concept that your calendar is a reflection of your true values. He reflects on the challenges individuals face when focusing on what they lack instead of acknowledging their achievements, and how this mindset can affect mental health. Kerry shares practical steps on using a calendar to live a fulfilling life by aligning it with your values and responsibilities, while also improving relationships and reducing procrastination. Tune in for valuable insights and actionable tips to start living your life by design.2023-12-0522 minDe-Escalation Conversations037 - Deep Dive into Routines: Leveraging Evening and Morning Rituals for SuccessIn this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, Kerry Mensior delves into the powerful impact of evening and morning routines, with a focus on the practice of journaling. Kerry emphasizes the importance of reflection and introspection through journaling, detailing the "WLAG's" approach to capturing Wins, Losses, Aha's, and Goals. He explores the significance of journaling in personal growth and trauma healing, providing insights into the neuroscience behind its effectiveness. With practical tips and techniques, Kerry guides listeners through establishing their own journaling routine and integrating it with mindfulness and meditation practices. Furthermore, he...2023-11-2827 minDe-Escalation Conversations037 - Deep Dive into Routines: Leveraging Evening and Morning Rituals for SuccessIn this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, Kerry Mensior delves into the powerful impact of evening and morning routines, with a focus on the practice of journaling. Kerry emphasizes the importance of reflection and introspection through journaling, detailing the "WLAG's" approach to capturing Wins, Losses, Aha's, and Goals. He explores the significance of journaling in personal growth and trauma healing, providing insights into the neuroscience behind its effectiveness. With practical tips and techniques, Kerry guides listeners through establishing their own journaling routine and integrating it with mindfulness and meditation practices. Furthermore, he...2023-11-2827 minDe-Escalation Conversations036 - The Science of Goal Achievement: How to Use Neuroscience to SucceedIn this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, we delve into the fascinating world of neuroscience and its powerful connection to goal setting. Kerry explores how setting clear, actionable goals not only directs our efforts effectively but also triggers changes in the way our brains operate. By breaking down the science behind goal achievement and the role of dopamine in reinforcing positive behavior, Kerry will provide practical tips for aligning our goals with our brain's natural processes. Drawing from real-world examples, Kerry will show you how to combat procrastination and achieve success by leveraging our b...2023-11-2124 minDe-Escalation Conversations036 - The Science of Goal Achievement: How to Use Neuroscience to SucceedIn this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, we delve into the fascinating world of neuroscience and its powerful connection to goal setting. Kerry explores how setting clear, actionable goals not only directs our efforts effectively but also triggers changes in the way our brains operate. By breaking down the science behind goal achievement and the role of dopamine in reinforcing positive behavior, Kerry will provide practical tips for aligning our goals with our brain's natural processes. Drawing from real-world examples, Kerry will show you how to combat procrastination and achieve success by leveraging our b...2023-11-2124 min
De-Escalation Conversations035 - Authenticating Identity and Mitigating Risk - with Matt LorencWelcome back to another episode of De-Escalation Conversations, where we dive into the world of conflict resolution and finding peaceful solutions. In today's episode, we have a special guest joining us: Matt Lorenc, the Director of Sales and Marketing at Fraud Fighter. With over 20 years of experience in Sales, Team Building and Business Expansion, Matt Lorenc brings a wealth of knowledge in the field of ID and document authentication. We explore the importance of verification and authentication in preventing fraud, as well as the prevalence of synthetic ID fraud and the potential risks it...2023-11-1453 min
De-Escalation Conversations035 - Authenticating Identity and Mitigating Risk - with Matt LorencWelcome back to another episode of De-Escalation Conversations, where we dive into the world of conflict resolution and finding peaceful solutions. In today's episode, we have a special guest joining us: Matt Lorenc, the Director of Sales and Marketing at Fraud Fighter. With over 20 years of experience in Sales, Team Building and Business Expansion, Matt Lorenc brings a wealth of knowledge in the field of ID and document authentication. We explore the importance of verification and authentication in preventing fraud, as well as the prevalence of synthetic ID fraud and the potential risks it...2023-11-1453 min
De-Escalation Conversations034 - Hunters and Howlers - Threat Assessment and Management with Dr. Steve AlbrechtIn 1994, Dr. Steve Albrecht co-wrote one of the first business books on workplace violence. He interviewed a double murderer in prison for the book. Since then, he has trained thousands of government, healthcare, library, and private-sector employees in workplace violence awareness, prevention, and response. He helps K-12 schools and colleges and universities to create Threat Assessment Teams to address school violence threats. He has written 26 books on HR, security, leadership, and criminal justice topics.đď¸ Exciting News! We just recorded an amazing episode for the De-Escalation Conversations Podcast with the incredible Dr. Steve Albrecht!  đď¸...2023-11-0750 min
De-Escalation Conversations034 - Hunters and Howlers - Threat Assessment and Management with Dr. Steve AlbrechtIn 1994, Dr. Steve Albrecht co-wrote one of the first business books on workplace violence. He interviewed a double murderer in prison for the book. Since then, he has trained thousands of government, healthcare, library, and private-sector employees in workplace violence awareness, prevention, and response. He helps K-12 schools and colleges and universities to create Threat Assessment Teams to address school violence threats. He has written 26 books on HR, security, leadership, and criminal justice topics.đď¸ Exciting News! We just recorded an amazing episode for the De-Escalation Conversations Podcast with the incredible Dr. Steve Albrecht!  đď¸...2023-11-0750 min
De-Escalation Conversations033 - What the Heck is Behavioral Health? - With Dr. Ann HawkinsWelcome to the De-Escalation Conversations Podcast! Today, we have a special guest, the Chief Innovation Officer at 1st MOMENTâ˘. With a focus on transforming workplace culture through a prevention-oriented approach, 1st Moment bridges the gap between physical and behavioral health, and work comp incidents. Providing comprehensive care, 1st MOMENT⢠aims to prevent incidents and foster well-being within and beyond the workplace. Let's prioritize prevention and create an environment where employees and their families thrive. Join us as we delve into their insights and expertise in reshaping workplace culture. Please join me in welcomin...2023-10-3039 min
De-Escalation Conversations033 - What the Heck is Behavioral Health? - With Dr. Ann HawkinsWelcome to the De-Escalation Conversations Podcast! Today, we have a special guest, the Chief Innovation Officer at 1st MOMENTâ˘. With a focus on transforming workplace culture through a prevention-oriented approach, 1st Moment bridges the gap between physical and behavioral health, and work comp incidents. Providing comprehensive care, 1st MOMENT⢠aims to prevent incidents and foster well-being within and beyond the workplace. Let's prioritize prevention and create an environment where employees and their families thrive. Join us as we delve into their insights and expertise in reshaping workplace culture. Please join me in welcomin...2023-10-3039 min
De-Escalation Conversations032 - The Impact of Legacy: Craft Your Legacy and Lead a Meaningful Life - With Gagan Guptađď¸ Exciting News! đ  I had the honor of hosting Gagan Gupta, a powerhouse of personal development and leadership, on this episode of De-Escalation Conversations. We dove deep into empowering senior executives, conscious business leaders, and professionals to unlock their full potential in a rapidly transforming world. đ  Here are 3 key takeaways from my conversation with Gagan Gupta:  1ď¸âŁ Disconnect from your roles and find inner peace: Gagan highlighted the importance of detaching ourselves from our titles, jobs, and material possessions. By identifying ourselves with our surroundings, we limit our ability to experience true joy, peace, and...2023-10-241h 01
De-Escalation Conversations032 - The Impact of Legacy: Craft Your Legacy and Lead a Meaningful Life - With Gagan Guptađď¸ Exciting News! đ  I had the honor of hosting Gagan Gupta, a powerhouse of personal development and leadership, on this episode of De-Escalation Conversations. We dove deep into empowering senior executives, conscious business leaders, and professionals to unlock their full potential in a rapidly transforming world. đ  Here are 3 key takeaways from my conversation with Gagan Gupta:  1ď¸âŁ Disconnect from your roles and find inner peace: Gagan highlighted the importance of detaching ourselves from our titles, jobs, and material possessions. By identifying ourselves with our surroundings, we limit our ability to experience true joy, peace, and...2023-10-241h 01
De-Escalation Conversations031 - Meditate With Your Eyes Open - Say WHAT?! Brandon Mehrgut Shares His WisdomIDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training...2023-10-1724 min
De-Escalation Conversations031 - Meditate With Your Eyes Open - Say WHAT?! Brandon Mehrgut Shares His WisdomIDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training...2023-10-1724 minDe-Escalation Conversations030 - Suicide by Cop - I Interview the Suspect Shot 3x by Oxnard CA PDWelcome to the DEC podcast. I want to warn you that the subject matter in this podcast is for Mature Audiences and there may be some parts that are disturbing and Viewer Discretion is advised.   Iâm going to be sharing a story with you today that is incredibly compelling. Itâs about a 17-year-old girl and an Oxnard Police Officer â and Iâm blessed to know both of them. In this episode, youâre going to have the privilege of listening to the conversation I had while speaking with one of them. On May 3rd...2023-10-101h 05De-Escalation Conversations030 - Suicide by Cop - I Interview the Suspect Shot 3x by Oxnard CA PDWelcome to the DEC podcast. I want to warn you that the subject matter in this podcast is for Mature Audiences and there may be some parts that are disturbing and Viewer Discretion is advised.   Iâm going to be sharing a story with you today that is incredibly compelling. Itâs about a 17-year-old girl and an Oxnard Police Officer â and Iâm blessed to know both of them. In this episode, youâre going to have the privilege of listening to the conversation I had while speaking with one of them. On May 3rd...2023-10-101h 05
De-Escalation Conversations029 - Leadership Skills: From Reactivity to Clarity in Conversations - with Kirsten AsherMeet Kirsten Asher, creator of Feminine Embodiment Method, who teaches women to embody and flow instead of hustle and grind through the way they move, breathe and think. Creator of Feminine Embodiment Method, who teaches women to embody and flow instead of hustle and grind through the way they move, breathe and think. Have you ever felt disconnected from your body or emotions? Do you ever find yourself being afraid to show up as a leader in your full feminine power or do you feel pressured to lead from a more masculine place? Give yourself p...2023-10-0251 min
De-Escalation Conversations029 - Leadership Skills: From Reactivity to Clarity in Conversations - with Kirsten AsherMeet Kirsten Asher, creator of Feminine Embodiment Method, who teaches women to embody and flow instead of hustle and grind through the way they move, breathe and think. Creator of Feminine Embodiment Method, who teaches women to embody and flow instead of hustle and grind through the way they move, breathe and think. Have you ever felt disconnected from your body or emotions? Do you ever find yourself being afraid to show up as a leader in your full feminine power or do you feel pressured to lead from a more masculine place? Give yourself p...2023-10-0251 min
De-Escalation Conversations028 - Circuit Breakers and Calming Techniques: Mastering Self-Control - With Torrin MinutilloA Seasoned Business Veteran, Proven Under Fire Torrinâs 34-year business journey started in a time before mobile phones and internet instant communication. This journey was riddled with many highs and lows in the first 20 years before he cracked the code and now enjoys a business life that seemed impossible at one point.The turning point was driven by getting a deep understanding of the human experience and applying it to the business experience.That real life education has prepared him well for what he is passionate about doing nowâŚthat is helpin...2023-09-191h 12
De-Escalation Conversations028 - Circuit Breakers and Calming Techniques: Mastering Self-Control - With Torrin MinutilloA Seasoned Business Veteran, Proven Under Fire Torrinâs 34-year business journey started in a time before mobile phones and internet instant communication. This journey was riddled with many highs and lows in the first 20 years before he cracked the code and now enjoys a business life that seemed impossible at one point.The turning point was driven by getting a deep understanding of the human experience and applying it to the business experience.That real life education has prepared him well for what he is passionate about doing nowâŚthat is helpin...2023-09-191h 12
De-Escalation Conversations027 - How You Can be the Best Field Training Officer - With Paul HasselbergerLt. Paul Hasselberger is a law enforcement administrator and educator who has a passion for constant improvement. His drive to find balance between formal education, practical skills, and real-world leadership experience can be seen through his various assignments and accomplishments.After earning degrees in psychology and sociology, he joined the Clifton Police Department in 2005 and quickly earned awards and commendations for his personal performance including: a physical fitness award, life-saving awards, and meritorious service citations. His work ethic helped him earn multiple specialty assignments including: SWAT, Academy Instructor, and Narcotics detective.Outside of his full-time...2023-09-1253 min
De-Escalation Conversations027 - How You Can be the Best Field Training Officer - With Paul HasselbergerLt. Paul Hasselberger is a law enforcement administrator and educator who has a passion for constant improvement. His drive to find balance between formal education, practical skills, and real-world leadership experience can be seen through his various assignments and accomplishments.After earning degrees in psychology and sociology, he joined the Clifton Police Department in 2005 and quickly earned awards and commendations for his personal performance including: a physical fitness award, life-saving awards, and meritorious service citations. His work ethic helped him earn multiple specialty assignments including: SWAT, Academy Instructor, and Narcotics detective.Outside of his full-time...2023-09-1253 min
De-Escalation Conversations026 - Pushing Boundaries and Discovering Personal Capabilities - with Sarah ApgarWelcome back to De-Escalation Conversations, where we delve into the art of effective communication and leadership. In today's episode, we have the privilege of speaking with Sarah Apgar, the founder of Fit Fighter, a revolutionary strength solution for all ages. Sarah's impressive background as an Iraq war veteran, former firefighter, and mother of two girls brings a unique perspective to our discussion on adaptability, setting expectations, and pushing personal boundaries. Tune in as Sarah shares her journey of creating the steel hose, a groundbreaking training tool featured on ABC's Shark Tank, and how it has...2023-09-0450 min
De-Escalation Conversations026 - Pushing Boundaries and Discovering Personal Capabilities - with Sarah ApgarWelcome back to De-Escalation Conversations, where we delve into the art of effective communication and leadership. In today's episode, we have the privilege of speaking with Sarah Apgar, the founder of Fit Fighter, a revolutionary strength solution for all ages. Sarah's impressive background as an Iraq war veteran, former firefighter, and mother of two girls brings a unique perspective to our discussion on adaptability, setting expectations, and pushing personal boundaries. Tune in as Sarah shares her journey of creating the steel hose, a groundbreaking training tool featured on ABC's Shark Tank, and how it has...2023-09-0450 min
De-Escalation Conversations025 - Bridging the Gap: Effective Communication and Leadership in Public Safety with Roy BethgeRoy Bethge experienced several moments of disillusionment throughout his career. Despite facing these challenges, Roy remained resilient and determined to find a path that would bring him fulfillment. Roy didn't let these setbacks define him. Instead, he used them as a catalyst for change and growth. Today, Roy Bethge stands as a testament to the power of resilience and determination. His story serves as an inspiration to others who may be facing similar challenges in their careers. Roy's Bio:Roy Bethge (Beth-key)Â Roy Bethge is a veteran police leader with m...2023-08-2856 min
De-Escalation Conversations025 - Bridging the Gap: Effective Communication and Leadership in Public Safety with Roy BethgeRoy Bethge experienced several moments of disillusionment throughout his career. Despite facing these challenges, Roy remained resilient and determined to find a path that would bring him fulfillment. Roy didn't let these setbacks define him. Instead, he used them as a catalyst for change and growth. Today, Roy Bethge stands as a testament to the power of resilience and determination. His story serves as an inspiration to others who may be facing similar challenges in their careers. Roy's Bio:Roy Bethge (Beth-key)Â Roy Bethge is a veteran police leader with m...2023-08-2856 min
De-Escalation Conversations024 - Building Bridges: A Conversation on Stress Reduction and Communication - with Adam TimmWelcome back to another episode of De-Escalation Conversations, the podcast where we explore strategies and insights for creating peaceful and productive conversations. In today's episode, we have the opportunity to sit down with Adam Timm, a former dispatcher from the Los Angeles Police Department who has transformed his career and now focuses on helping others in similar high-stress roles. Adam shares his personal journey of self-discovery, from being known as "Angry Adam" to becoming a kinder and more effective communicator. After leaving the LAPD, Adam founded his own company, The Healthy Dispatcher, and has since ga...2023-08-2248 min
De-Escalation Conversations024 - Building Bridges: A Conversation on Stress Reduction and Communication - with Adam TimmWelcome back to another episode of De-Escalation Conversations, the podcast where we explore strategies and insights for creating peaceful and productive conversations. In today's episode, we have the opportunity to sit down with Adam Timm, a former dispatcher from the Los Angeles Police Department who has transformed his career and now focuses on helping others in similar high-stress roles. Adam shares his personal journey of self-discovery, from being known as "Angry Adam" to becoming a kinder and more effective communicator. After leaving the LAPD, Adam founded his own company, The Healthy Dispatcher, and has since ga...2023-08-2248 min
De-Escalation Conversations023 - The Power of Patience: Communication Skills in High-Stress Situations with Chris BartolottaUPDATE: Christopher Bartolotta has been appointed as Deputy Chief of the Avon Police Department, being selected following a nation-wide recruitment process.Deputy Chief Bartolotta recently retired as a Captain with the Connecticut State Police, following 32 years of service. He started as a road trooper and throughout his career gained experience in all areas of enforcement function and technique, including investigations, as a member of the Major Case Squad, both as a detective and supervisor. He is also experienced on the tactical side involving high-risk incidents, as an operator, supervisor and trainer for the Emergency Services...2023-08-1552 min
De-Escalation Conversations023 - The Power of Patience: Communication Skills in High-Stress Situations with Chris BartolottaUPDATE: Christopher Bartolotta has been appointed as Deputy Chief of the Avon Police Department, being selected following a nation-wide recruitment process.Deputy Chief Bartolotta recently retired as a Captain with the Connecticut State Police, following 32 years of service. He started as a road trooper and throughout his career gained experience in all areas of enforcement function and technique, including investigations, as a member of the Major Case Squad, both as a detective and supervisor. He is also experienced on the tactical side involving high-risk incidents, as an operator, supervisor and trainer for the Emergency Services...2023-08-1552 min
De-Escalation Conversations022 - Inspiring Leadership - Lt. Col Dave Grossman on Modeling Behavior and Taking ChargeI want to express my sincere gratitude to Colonel Grossman for sharing his expertise and insights with us. To connect with and learn more from Colonel Grossman, be sure to visit his website at www.GrossmanOnTruth.com - trust me, it's worth it! Thank you all for your continued support and for tuning in to De-Escalation Conversations. Stay tuned for more exciting episodes and interviews coming your way soon! #DeEscalationConversations #Leadership #Training Lt. Col. Grossmon's BIO:In their description of Lt. Col. Dave Grossman, Slate Magazine said, âGrossman cuts such a heroic, omnicompetent figure, he cou...2023-08-0851 min
De-Escalation Conversations022 - Inspiring Leadership - Lt. Col Dave Grossman on Modeling Behavior and Taking ChargeI want to express my sincere gratitude to Colonel Grossman for sharing his expertise and insights with us. To connect with and learn more from Colonel Grossman, be sure to visit his website at www.GrossmanOnTruth.com - trust me, it's worth it! Thank you all for your continued support and for tuning in to De-Escalation Conversations. Stay tuned for more exciting episodes and interviews coming your way soon! #DeEscalationConversations #Leadership #Training Lt. Col. Grossmon's BIO:In their description of Lt. Col. Dave Grossman, Slate Magazine said, âGrossman cuts such a heroic, omnicompetent figure, he cou...2023-08-0851 min
De-Escalation Conversations021 - Unlocking Healing and Transforming Lives - with Michele Blood(For SEVERAL Free Gifts, go to: MicheleBlood.com/deescalation)Welcome back to another episode of De-Escalation Conversations! In today's episode, we have the pleasure of hosting the inspiring Michele Blood. Michele shares her incredible journey from being a rock singer in Australia and, after a near fatal car accident, meeting Bob Proctor and later becoming a renowned figure in the field of personal development. With a focus on helping individuals in many professions, Michele's tools offer a lifeline for those who struggling mentally, emotionally, and spiritually due to the demands of the...2023-07-3155 min
De-Escalation Conversations021 - Unlocking Healing and Transforming Lives - with Michele Blood(For SEVERAL Free Gifts, go to: MicheleBlood.com/deescalation)Welcome back to another episode of De-Escalation Conversations! In today's episode, we have the pleasure of hosting the inspiring Michele Blood. Michele shares her incredible journey from being a rock singer in Australia and, after a near fatal car accident, meeting Bob Proctor and later becoming a renowned figure in the field of personal development. With a focus on helping individuals in many professions, Michele's tools offer a lifeline for those who struggling mentally, emotionally, and spiritually due to the demands of the...2023-07-3155 min
De-Escalation Conversations020 - Winning Mind Training - with Brian WillisBrian Willis is recognized throughout North America as a catalyst for change in the law enforcement profession and a man with many questions.Brian was a full time police officer for 25 years and has over 33 years of law enforcement training experience. He is the recipient of a Lifetime Achievement Award in recognition of his contribution and commitment to Officer Safety in Canada, the Queenâs Diamond Jubilee Medal in recognition of his contributions to the law enforcement profession and the Law Officer Trainer of the Year award. In addition to his work with law enforcement professionals Brian has...2023-07-2550 min
De-Escalation Conversations020 - Winning Mind Training - with Brian WillisBrian Willis is recognized throughout North America as a catalyst for change in the law enforcement profession and a man with many questions.Brian was a full time police officer for 25 years and has over 33 years of law enforcement training experience. He is the recipient of a Lifetime Achievement Award in recognition of his contribution and commitment to Officer Safety in Canada, the Queenâs Diamond Jubilee Medal in recognition of his contributions to the law enforcement profession and the Law Officer Trainer of the Year award. In addition to his work with law enforcement professionals Brian has...2023-07-2550 min
De-Escalation Conversations019 - Training, Leadership and Communication - with Gordon GrahamGordon Graham, J.D., is also a Law Enforcement Officer.Gordon's education as a Risk Manager and experience as a practicing attorney, coupled with his extensive background in law enforcement, have allowed him to rapidly become recognized as a leader in private and public sector organizations with multiple areas of expertise.Gordon proudly served the California Highway Patrol and was a motorcycle officer for his first ten years.He helped design the first DUI task force, assisted in developing the DRE (Drug Recognition Expert program), was an instructor in the initial âMod I and...2023-07-1856 min
De-Escalation Conversations019 - Training, Leadership and Communication - with Gordon GrahamGordon Graham, J.D., is also a Law Enforcement Officer.Gordon's education as a Risk Manager and experience as a practicing attorney, coupled with his extensive background in law enforcement, have allowed him to rapidly become recognized as a leader in private and public sector organizations with multiple areas of expertise.Gordon proudly served the California Highway Patrol and was a motorcycle officer for his first ten years.He helped design the first DUI task force, assisted in developing the DRE (Drug Recognition Expert program), was an instructor in the initial âMod I and...2023-07-1856 min
De-Escalation Conversations018 - Unmasking Manipulation: Strategies for High Conflict Personalities â with Samantha Drum, Esq.Samantha Drum is a high-conflict strategist and personal injury attorney with years of experience managing high-conflict people and situations, as well as coaching others to do the same. Â Â After facing several high-conflict personalities at the start of her career, she realized a harsh truthâlaw school did NOT prepare her for managing high-conflict behavior or extreme personalities. She decided to take the time to study high-conflict personalities. To learn effective tools and strategies that she could use when she found herself in high-conflict situations. Â She learned how high-conflict personalities work, the way t...2023-07-1140 min
De-Escalation Conversations018 - Unmasking Manipulation: Strategies for High Conflict Personalities â with Samantha Drum, Esq.Samantha Drum is a high-conflict strategist and personal injury attorney with years of experience managing high-conflict people and situations, as well as coaching others to do the same. Â Â After facing several high-conflict personalities at the start of her career, she realized a harsh truthâlaw school did NOT prepare her for managing high-conflict behavior or extreme personalities. She decided to take the time to study high-conflict personalities. To learn effective tools and strategies that she could use when she found herself in high-conflict situations. Â She learned how high-conflict personalities work, the way t...2023-07-1140 min
De-Escalation Conversations017 - The Four Main Reasons Why You Procrastinate: An Expert's Guide to Increase Productivity and Eliminate Overwhelm - with Sam TornatoreJoin us on De-Escalation Conversations as we explore the strategies and insights shared by Sam Tornatore to beat procrastination, increase productivity, and enhance our ability to De-Escalate emotionally charged scenarios.  On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, our guest is Sam Tornatore, an accomplished author and expert in beating procrastination and increasing productivity. Sam has helped over 10,000 people and businesses break free from feeling overwhelmed and paralyzed by procrastination. In this episode, we explore the connection between Sam's expertise and De-Escalation, as negative emotions and experiences can hinder problem-solving and lead to reacting rather than responding in...2023-07-031h 09
De-Escalation Conversations017 - The Four Main Reasons Why You Procrastinate: An Expert's Guide to Increase Productivity and Eliminate Overwhelm - with Sam TornatoreJoin us on De-Escalation Conversations as we explore the strategies and insights shared by Sam Tornatore to beat procrastination, increase productivity, and enhance our ability to De-Escalate emotionally charged scenarios.  On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, our guest is Sam Tornatore, an accomplished author and expert in beating procrastination and increasing productivity. Sam has helped over 10,000 people and businesses break free from feeling overwhelmed and paralyzed by procrastination. In this episode, we explore the connection between Sam's expertise and De-Escalation, as negative emotions and experiences can hinder problem-solving and lead to reacting rather than responding in...2023-07-031h 09
De-Escalation Conversations016 - Mastering the Basics: Why Slowing Down is Essential for Training - with Todd Fletcher On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, Todd Fletcher talks about the importance of teaching behavior in demos rather than allowing shooting. Instructors must show all the little things they do to achieve a certain speed or goal and slow down demos so that students can see the pace at which the drill needs to be done. Firearms instructors are seen as de facto leaders, and their behavior is mimicked by new officers, so strong leadership must be at the base of the pyramid to negate poor leadership at the top. Additionally, Todd shares pers...2023-06-2646 min
De-Escalation Conversations016 - Mastering the Basics: Why Slowing Down is Essential for Training - with Todd Fletcher On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, Todd Fletcher talks about the importance of teaching behavior in demos rather than allowing shooting. Instructors must show all the little things they do to achieve a certain speed or goal and slow down demos so that students can see the pace at which the drill needs to be done. Firearms instructors are seen as de facto leaders, and their behavior is mimicked by new officers, so strong leadership must be at the base of the pyramid to negate poor leadership at the top. Additionally, Todd shares pers...2023-06-2646 min
De-Escalation Conversations015 - Encouraging Curiosity: The Link Between Learning and Growth - with Ken Murray On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, the focus is on the variety of topics covered with Ken Murray. Ken shares his insights and experiences on fear, behavior shaping, PTSD, and the importance of slowing down to assess progress. We also discuss the evolution of Ken's company SIMUNITION , critical incidents in law enforcement, and the '8 Can't Wait' movement. Ken speaker shares his personal journey that led to him attending the ILEETA conference and emphasizes that extrinsic motivation is not always the best motivator for people in the job. Tune in to hear Ken's fascin...2023-06-191h 01
De-Escalation Conversations015 - Encouraging Curiosity: The Link Between Learning and Growth - with Ken Murray On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, the focus is on the variety of topics covered with Ken Murray. Ken shares his insights and experiences on fear, behavior shaping, PTSD, and the importance of slowing down to assess progress. We also discuss the evolution of Ken's company SIMUNITION , critical incidents in law enforcement, and the '8 Can't Wait' movement. Ken speaker shares his personal journey that led to him attending the ILEETA conference and emphasizes that extrinsic motivation is not always the best motivator for people in the job. Tune in to hear Ken's fascin...2023-06-191h 01De-Escalation Conversations014 - The Fallacy of Only One Correct Course of Action in De-Escalation - with Adam KinakinOn this episode of De-Escalation Conversations podcast, host Kerry Mensior speaks with guest Adam Kinakin about the importance of De-Escalation tactics in Law Enforcement. We discuss the connection between appearance and success in personal and professional development, and the totality of circumstances involved in using force. Adam shares a personal experience and emphasizes the need for better education and communication with the public about the challenges of Law Enforcement. Additionally, we discuss the importance of training and planning for success in high-pressure situations. Later in the episode, they shift focus to the value of collaboration, par...2023-06-1346 minDe-Escalation Conversations014 - The Fallacy of Only One Correct Course of Action in De-Escalation - with Adam KinakinOn this episode of De-Escalation Conversations podcast, host Kerry Mensior speaks with guest Adam Kinakin about the importance of De-Escalation tactics in Law Enforcement. We discuss the connection between appearance and success in personal and professional development, and the totality of circumstances involved in using force. Adam shares a personal experience and emphasizes the need for better education and communication with the public about the challenges of Law Enforcement. Additionally, we discuss the importance of training and planning for success in high-pressure situations. Later in the episode, they shift focus to the value of collaboration, par...2023-06-1346 minDe-Escalation Conversations013 - Insights on Interleaving During Training - with Jason Der On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, Kerry Mensior and Jason Der discuss the importance of evidence-based teaching and continuous feedback.  Jason shares his experience as Law Enforcement Officer and Instructor, and emphasizes the benefits of incorporating techniques such as peer learning and the concept of interleaving, which involves mixing up different skills to improve overall performance in the long run. The episode highlights the importance of setting expectations and having a flexible lesson plan when using this method, as well as providing ongoing feedback to track progress and make necessary changes to teaching methods. K...2023-06-0634 minDe-Escalation Conversations013 - Insights on Interleaving During Training - with Jason Der On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, Kerry Mensior and Jason Der discuss the importance of evidence-based teaching and continuous feedback.  Jason shares his experience as Law Enforcement Officer and Instructor, and emphasizes the benefits of incorporating techniques such as peer learning and the concept of interleaving, which involves mixing up different skills to improve overall performance in the long run. The episode highlights the importance of setting expectations and having a flexible lesson plan when using this method, as well as providing ongoing feedback to track progress and make necessary changes to teaching methods. K...2023-06-0634 minDe-Escalation Conversations012 - Exploring Police Magazine - with Senior Editor Wayne ParhamSenior Editor Wayne Parham describes the many resources that Police Magazine has for Law Enforcement Officers and why you should take a look at their online content.IDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to...2023-05-3012 minDe-Escalation Conversations012 - Exploring Police Magazine - with Senior Editor Wayne ParhamSenior Editor Wayne Parham describes the many resources that Police Magazine has for Law Enforcement Officers and why you should take a look at their online content.IDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to...2023-05-3012 min
De-Escalation Conversations011 - Navigating Mental Illness - with Nick GrecoIDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training...2023-05-2338 min
De-Escalation Conversations011 - Navigating Mental Illness - with Nick GrecoIDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldSubscribe to our free weekly newsletter to stay up to date on the latest news and blogs about Schools, Police, Fire, Medical Services and Flight Attendants.Do you or your organization need Communication Skills and De-Escalation Training...2023-05-2338 min
De-Escalation Conversations010 - Humor thatâs Quick and Messages that Stick - with Dan FraserVIDEO VERSION: https://lynxshort.com/dec_010On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, Kerry Mensior discusses the trend of De-Escalation in North American Law Enforcement with guest Dan Fraser. They stress the importance of teaching a framework for De-Escalation to use in many situations, rather than just âTime, Distance, Shieldingâ. They also address the resistance experienced officers often have when it comes to De-Escalation training. In this episode, you'll also learn about transferable communication skills for dealing with highly emotional situations and emphasizes the benefits of emotional labeling, breaking down IDEAâs Communication Success Formulas, (Relatio...2023-05-1657 min
De-Escalation Conversations010 - Humor thatâs Quick and Messages that Stick - with Dan FraserVIDEO VERSION: https://lynxshort.com/dec_010On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, Kerry Mensior discusses the trend of De-Escalation in North American Law Enforcement with guest Dan Fraser. They stress the importance of teaching a framework for De-Escalation to use in many situations, rather than just âTime, Distance, Shieldingâ. They also address the resistance experienced officers often have when it comes to De-Escalation training. In this episode, you'll also learn about transferable communication skills for dealing with highly emotional situations and emphasizes the benefits of emotional labeling, breaking down IDEAâs Communication Success Formulas, (Relatio...2023-05-1657 min
De-Escalation Conversations009 - Navigating Autism Behaviors: A Parent's Story â with R âDocâ DavisOn this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, we explore the world of autism and self-injurious behavior. Ronald âDocâ Davis shares his personal experience of having a son who struggles with self-aggression and the severity of his son's injuries, which have led to potential legal investigations. We examine the psychological impact on officers who use force in such situations and the importance of patience and communication skills in crisis intervention. We also learn about the different ways autistic individuals self-calm and engage in self-stimulating behavior. This episode of the podcast was recorded at the annual conference of ILEETA, the International Law Enfor...2023-05-0942 min
De-Escalation Conversations009 - Navigating Autism Behaviors: A Parent's Story â with R âDocâ DavisOn this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, we explore the world of autism and self-injurious behavior. Ronald âDocâ Davis shares his personal experience of having a son who struggles with self-aggression and the severity of his son's injuries, which have led to potential legal investigations. We examine the psychological impact on officers who use force in such situations and the importance of patience and communication skills in crisis intervention. We also learn about the different ways autistic individuals self-calm and engage in self-stimulating behavior. This episode of the podcast was recorded at the annual conference of ILEETA, the International Law Enfor...2023-05-0942 min
De-Escalation Conversations008 - How to Have People Thank You for Arresting Them - with Robert CarlsonRobert Carlson has over 20 years in Law Enforcement, serving since 2013 as an instructor for the Memphis Police Department.  He has over 27 years in the military and is currently the lead tactical medical Instructor for the Regional Counter Drug Training Academy, providing free training to law enforcement around the country.  As a Police Officer, Robert has served as a Crisis Intervention Team specialist and is a trained crisis negotiator. He is recognized as an expert in Active Shooters and Tactical Medicine, regularly speaking on law enforcement response to Active Shooter Events.  Robert is the foun...2023-04-1941 min
De-Escalation Conversations008 - How to Have People Thank You for Arresting Them - with Robert CarlsonRobert Carlson has over 20 years in Law Enforcement, serving since 2013 as an instructor for the Memphis Police Department.  He has over 27 years in the military and is currently the lead tactical medical Instructor for the Regional Counter Drug Training Academy, providing free training to law enforcement around the country.  As a Police Officer, Robert has served as a Crisis Intervention Team specialist and is a trained crisis negotiator. He is recognized as an expert in Active Shooters and Tactical Medicine, regularly speaking on law enforcement response to Active Shooter Events.  Robert is the foun...2023-04-1941 min
De-Escalation Conversations007 - Building an Agile Culture - with Vladimir BushinIntroduction: On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, the topic of negotiation and agile coaching is discussed. Vladimir Bushin shares his belief that having a coach can lead to continuous improvement and growth, referencing successful individuals like Michael Phelps who have coaches to maintain their success. The Negotiation Practice Community is also introduced as a resource for personal and professional development. The conversation then shifts to the topic of de-escalation, with the speaker sharing their admiration for the high standards of the police in the United States. The use of the word "why"...2023-04-1050 min
De-Escalation Conversations007 - Building an Agile Culture - with Vladimir BushinIntroduction: On this episode of De-Escalation Conversations, the topic of negotiation and agile coaching is discussed. Vladimir Bushin shares his belief that having a coach can lead to continuous improvement and growth, referencing successful individuals like Michael Phelps who have coaches to maintain their success. The Negotiation Practice Community is also introduced as a resource for personal and professional development. The conversation then shifts to the topic of de-escalation, with the speaker sharing their admiration for the high standards of the police in the United States. The use of the word "why"...2023-04-1050 min
De-Escalation Conversations006 - Training People to Listen Deeply with Chuck StringhamCopLine.org is a Law Enforcement Officer's Lifeline! Available only to LEO's and their families, this Crisis and Suicide Hotline is staffed 24-7 and today, we have the Training Coordinator with us =, Chuck StringhamIDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldS...2023-03-2737 min
De-Escalation Conversations006 - Training People to Listen Deeply with Chuck StringhamCopLine.org is a Law Enforcement Officer's Lifeline! Available only to LEO's and their families, this Crisis and Suicide Hotline is staffed 24-7 and today, we have the Training Coordinator with us =, Chuck StringhamIDEA - the International De-Escalation Association, is dedicated to Saving Lives, Reputations, & Relationships through Conflict De-Escalation & Communication Training for Teachers, Parents, and Public Safety Providers.Find more about How to Calm an Angry Person in 90 Seconds or Less Come visit us at the IDEA website (International De-Escalation Association): https://TheIdea.WorldS...2023-03-2737 min
De-Escalation Conversations005 - Meet Language Architect Doug WyllieDoug Wyllie has authored thousands of feature articles, opinion columns, news reports, and tactical tips with the goal of ensuring that police officers are safer and more successful on the streets. Doug is a Western Publishing Association âMaggie Awardâ winner for Best Regularly Featured Digital Edition Column. He is a member of International Law Enforcement Educators and Trainers Association (ILEETA), an Associate Member of the California Peace Officersâ Association (CPOA), and a member of the Public Safety Writers Association (PSWA).HOW TO KEEP IN TOUCH WITH DOUG WYLLIE:Doug.Wyllie@Gmail...2023-03-2032 min
De-Escalation Conversations005 - Meet Language Architect Doug WyllieDoug Wyllie has authored thousands of feature articles, opinion columns, news reports, and tactical tips with the goal of ensuring that police officers are safer and more successful on the streets. Doug is a Western Publishing Association âMaggie Awardâ winner for Best Regularly Featured Digital Edition Column. He is a member of International Law Enforcement Educators and Trainers Association (ILEETA), an Associate Member of the California Peace Officersâ Association (CPOA), and a member of the Public Safety Writers Association (PSWA).HOW TO KEEP IN TOUCH WITH DOUG WYLLIE:Doug.Wyllie@Gmail...2023-03-2032 min
De-Escalation Conversations004 - What is #Responder Readiness? (with Joe Willis)Joseph Willis, Chief Learning Officer for First HELP, joins us to discuss how to get your brain right!An experienced Learning & Development Professional with a passion for #ResponderReadiness and specialize in developing leaders of character, professional organizational climates, and high performing cultures of trust. Joseph is a retired US Army First Sergeant and currently serves as the Chief Learning Officer for First H.E.L.P. where the work to smash the mental health stigma for First Responders and honor the lives and service of those lost to suicide by caring for their families in t...2023-03-1356 min
De-Escalation Conversations004 - What is #Responder Readiness? (with Joe Willis)Joseph Willis, Chief Learning Officer for First HELP, joins us to discuss how to get your brain right!An experienced Learning & Development Professional with a passion for #ResponderReadiness and specialize in developing leaders of character, professional organizational climates, and high performing cultures of trust. Joseph is a retired US Army First Sergeant and currently serves as the Chief Learning Officer for First H.E.L.P. where the work to smash the mental health stigma for First Responders and honor the lives and service of those lost to suicide by caring for their families in t...2023-03-1356 min
De-Escalation Conversations002 - How a Sandwich Saved My Life! (With Leo Petrilli)BIOLeo Petrilli was trapped in an addiction for over four decades, and has been substance free since 2011. He just retired from working in the trenches at the Addiction Recovery Home, where he went for his own recovery. Today, he is a virtual Train The Trainer for the First Responder Program with The Addictions Academy. Leo is also a virtual Personal Growth Coach, with the Wellness Coach organization, a Nationally and Internationally Certified Recovery Coach, and an Intervention Professional.  He attends several First Responder virtual recovery meetings, and is a volunteer with Boot...2023-03-0639 min
De-Escalation Conversations002 - How a Sandwich Saved My Life! (With Leo Petrilli)BIOLeo Petrilli was trapped in an addiction for over four decades, and has been substance free since 2011. He just retired from working in the trenches at the Addiction Recovery Home, where he went for his own recovery. Today, he is a virtual Train The Trainer for the First Responder Program with The Addictions Academy. Leo is also a virtual Personal Growth Coach, with the Wellness Coach organization, a Nationally and Internationally Certified Recovery Coach, and an Intervention Professional.  He attends several First Responder virtual recovery meetings, and is a volunteer with Boot...2023-03-0639 min
Todd Durkin IMPACT ShowNinja Communication Skills | Ep. 168 with Sgt. Kerry MensiorCommunication, conflict resolution, and decision-making are essential for everyone. One of the people I know who is best at sharing top lessons & tips on these crucial skill-sets is my great friend and retired Police Sergeant Kerry Mensior. Kerryâs âNinja Communicationâ & conflict resolution tips will make anyone a more effective communicator, regardless of oneâs role, position, or occupation. Â Kerryâs message is strong, clear, and from the heart. In todayâs episode, you will receive:Â - Kerryâs top lessons learned as a police officer and how that helps him teach âcommunicationâ today. - The...2021-03-151h 03