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The Conscious Love ShowBeyond Charm and Chemistry: Attracting a Partner Who is Truly Emotionally AvailableWhy do we get so swept up by charm and chemistry, only to find ourselves in relationships that lack true emotional depth? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the magnetic pull of initial attraction and why it often leads us into patterns with emotionally unavailable partners. You’ll learn what emotional availability really looks like, why we unconsciously gravitate toward avoidance or inconsistency, and how to break the cycle. Together, we’ll uncover the deeper connection between self-worth and the types of partners we attract—and how healing our inner patterns can transform our lo...2025-07-301h 23

The Conscious Love ShowChoosing the Right Partner Part 2: Individual Aspects of CompatibilityIn this week's episode we explore choosing the right partner, not in a way that applies to everyone, but in a way that applies to you personally. This episode is a deep dive into exploring your own values, needs, and desires, in a relationship. What are the things that are truly non-negotiable for you? And what can you be flexible about? The answers might surprise you! If you're listening to this episode and are interested in joining our next breathwork event, please email info@thelivingrelationship.com to be added to our waiting list! 2025-07-231h 25

The Conscious Love ShowChoosing the Right Partner, Part 1: Universal Aspects of CompatibilityIn this episode of The Conscious Love Show we do a deep dive on how to choose the right partner. Shane does a detailed exploration of how to identify true compatibility with someone, covering important red and green flags that reveal the character of a person. In this Part 1 of a 2 part episode, we focus more on the universal aspects of compatibility that apply to everyone. In part two we'll look at compatibility in more of an individual sense and how to choose the partner that's right for you specifically. 2025-07-161h 45

Ike Inspiration Podcast#70- Shane KohlerShane Kohler is a relationship coach and host of The Conscious Love Show, known for helping women and men navigate dating with emotional clarity, purpose, and maturity. In this episode, he breaks down why emotional intelligence—not income or appearance—is the new standard for modern masculinity. Shane confronts the disconnection between men and women in today’s dating world, calls out indulgent singlehood, and exposes how dating apps, avoidance, and fear of vulnerability are sabotaging real intimacy. For Shane, true partnership starts when men stop escaping into comfort and start growing into presence, self-awareness, and emotional depth.2025-05-2359 min

The Conscious Love ShowHow to Invite a Man to Step Up For You (in the ways that matter most...)Click here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love Do you want the man you're dating to plan better dates and show more initiative to move the relationship forward? Would you like men on dating apps to take action and ask you out or follow up more often? Would you like to get approached more in the real world, make connections at the gym or at your favorite coffee shop? If you're looking for a simple way to motivate men to take action with you, this episode has the answer. Whether you’re wanting more urgency for people to get off the...2025-04-231h 19

The Conscious Love ShowWhy Anxious Women Push Love AwayIf you're interested in being part of my lifetime coaching circle, email me at shane@thelivingrelationship.com and request an intro call to learn more. You say you want deep love—but you keep chasing men who can’t give it. You overthink, overgive, and anxiously wait for crumbs… but real intimacy? That scares you. What if your anxious attachment isn’t about needing too much—but about avoiding the intimacy of being truly seen? In this episode, we'll reveal the hidden avoidance behind anxious behavior—and why the chase feels safer than actu...2025-04-021h 12

From Mrs. to Ms.Ep | 84: Are You Ready to Break Free from Toxic Dating Patterns & Attract Real Love? with Shane KohlerSend us a textAre you dating with intention, or just going through the motions? How do past traumas and emotional wounds shape your relationships?In this eye-opening conversation, Andrea Knoche sits down with conscious love and dating coach Shane Kohler to explore the transformative power of self-love, healing, and intentional dating. They dive into how relationships have evolved from survival-based connections to thriving, deeply fulfilling partnerships—and what it really takes to attract the right person.Shane shares powerful insights on breaking unhealthy relationship cycles, trusting your in...2025-04-011h 11

The Conscious Love ShowQUESTION - Should I Prioritize Sex or Emotional Connection?In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore a common relationship dilemma: Should I prioritize sex or emotional connection? If you’ve ever felt torn between physical intimacy and emotional closeness, this episode is here to help you navigate that decision with clarity and confidence. I’ll dive into the importance of both sex and emotional connection in a healthy relationship and how they complement each other. We’ll discuss how to recognize what you need at different stages in your relationship, how to communicate those needs effectively, and how to find balance in both areas...2025-02-2811 min

The Conscious Love ShowHe Likes You but He Doesn't Love You Enough to Choose You...Grab your spot in the upcoming Inspired Love Program here. Click here to get get 7 Days FREE on the Aura App! You feel the connection. He says he cares. But when it comes to stepping up, he hesitates. Why? In this episode, I'm breaking down the 5 types of men who will ALWAYS avoid commitment and the 4 reasons that women tolerate this. If you've ever encountered one of these men or been one of these women, this episode will tell you exactly what you need to do next. T...2025-02-261h 16

The Conscious Love ShowQUESTION: Should I Just Leave an Avoidant?In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, I’m tackling a tough question that many people in relationships with avoidant partners face: Should I just leave an avoidant? If you’ve found yourself struggling with an avoidant partner’s emotional distance, fear of intimacy, or difficulty with commitment, this episode will offer insight into whether it’s time to walk away or if there’s a different approach you can take. We’ll explore the dynamics of avoidant attachment, how it affects relationships, and what it truly takes to navigate these challenges. I’ll also share tips for commu...2025-02-2109 min

The Conscious Love ShowThe 10 unique Types of Attraction: What's Pulling You In?Click here to grab your spot in the March 5th Inspired Love Journey To get FREE Access to the Aura App, click here. What really pulls you toward someone—chemistry, confidence, or something deeper? In this episode, I’m breaking down the 10 types of attraction that shape your romantic choices. We'll help you recognize which ones are driving you, which can lead you astray, and which are essential for lasting love. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re drawn to certain people (especially when it doesn’t work out), this episode will give you the answers you'r...2025-02-191h 08

The Conscious Love ShowQUESTION: How to Feel Complete Without a RelationshipIn today’s episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive deep into a powerful question: How to feel complete without a relationship? If you’ve ever felt like your sense of fulfillment is tied to being in a relationship, or struggled with the idea of being single, this episode is for you. I’ll share key insights on how to cultivate self-love, discover your personal passions, and create a life that feels whole – with or without a partner. Tune in to explore the importance of inner fulfillment and how to embrace your own worth and completeness from wit...2025-02-1410 min

The Conscious Love ShowThe Fine Line Between True Interest and Emotional ManipulationClick here to activate your free trial for the Aura App To learn more about Inspired Love and book your Discovery Call, click here What is the line between someone showing genuine interest and just saying what you want to hear to disempower you? How do you know someone is worth the investment of your energy, intention and heart and or if they're just love-bombing and making empty promises. This is a fine line but in this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how you know a relationship is worth opening your hea...2025-02-121h 06

The Conscious Love ShowQUESTION: Should a Woman Chase a Man?You’ve met someone you’re excited about—but he’s not making a move. Do you step up and chase him, or do you wait and risk losing the connection? In this episode, we’re tackling one of the most debated questions in dating: Should a woman chase a man? I’m breaking down the difference between healthy pursuit and over-investment, why chasing often leads to the opposite of what you want, and what to do instead to inspire a man to step forward. If you’ve ever found yourself initiating, over...2025-02-0713 min

The Conscious Love ShowWhy You're Not Meeting the Right Person [3 Specific Reasons]Click here to learn more about The Inspired Love 8-Week Journey To activate your FREE trial of the Aura App, click here. You swear you’re ready for love, so why does it feel like you’re either attracting the wrong people or struggling to find anyone who truly fits? You meet someone promising, but something always feels off—or you find yourself walking away for reasons you can’t quite explain. What if the real problem isn’t where you’re looking, but how you’re looking? What if...2025-02-051h 05

RQ: The Relational Intelligence Podcast w/ Dolphin Kasper"From Crippling Shame to Incredible Connection: Embracing Growth & Authentic Relationships with Shane Kohler"RQ: The Relational Intelligence Podcast w/ Dolphin Kasper "From Crippling Shame to Incredible Connection: Embracing Growth & Authentic Relationships with Shane Kohler" In this Episode of the Relationship Intelligence Podcast, Shane Kohler discusses the challenges of dating and relationships, emphasizing the importance of staying grounded and clear. He also explores the balance between online dating and real-world connections. As a coach, Shane provides practical takeaways for listeners to implement in their own lives. The conversation concludes with a discussion on preparing for the interview and the distribution of the video format. Overall, the conversation...2025-02-041h 12

The Conscious Love ShowHow to Ask for What You Need with Confidence and ClarityClick here to secure your spot in the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge! Learn more about The Inspired Love 8 Week Journey here. To start your 7 Day Free Trial of the Aura App, click here. Have you ever hesitated to ask for what you need in a relationship? In this episode, we’re diving into how to ask for what you need with confidence and clarity—without the frenzy, fear, or emotional buildup. Whether you’re navigating a situationship, a committed relationship, or any connection where your needs mat...2025-01-291h 03

The Conscious Love ShowThe Core Mistakes of the Feminine: Unbalanced Giving, Boundaries, and CompassionClick here to learn more about our Inspired Love 8 Week Journey Click here to start your FREE 7 Day Trial of the Aura App Why do women often find themselves overextending, over giving, and losing themselves in the name of love, care, or connection? In this episode, we dive deep into the core mistakes of the feminine, exploring how this imbalance can lead to burnout, resentment, and even enable harmful behaviors, and why it’s essential to reclaim feminine energy with discernment and power. 2025-01-221h 10

The Conscious Love ShowReclaim Your Energy: How to Stop Chasing and Start Attracting in 2025Learn more and book your intro call for The Inspired Love 8 Week Journey here. As the new year begins, it’s time to shift your energy and step into a more empowered version of yourself. In this episode, we’re diving into the art of stopping the chase—whether it’s for love, validation, or approval—and embracing the mindset that allows you to attract what you truly deserve. We’ll explore why overthinking and unmet expectations often lead to burnout in relationships and how you can break the cycle by focusing on yourself firs...2025-01-151h 01

The Conscious Love ShowHow Important is Physical Attraction? What the science says...In this thought-provoking episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore one of the most debated questions in modern relationships: How important is physical attraction? From first impressions to long-term chemistry, physical attraction plays a unique role in how we connect with others. But what does the science say? Join us as we dive into fascinating research on the psychology of attraction! Exploring how physical attraction evolves in healthy relationships and what it really takes to sustain lasting intimacy. If you’ve ever wondered whether “the spark” matters more than compatibility, this episode offers the clarit...2024-12-251h 06

The Conscious Love ShowHow to Know If a Relationship Is Worth the EffortRelationships take work, but how do you know if the effort you’re putting in is truly worth it? In this episode, we dive into the signs that a relationship has the potential to grow versus when it may be time to let go. We’ll explore the essential indicators that demonstrate real potential while also examining common red flags that drain your energy and leave you stuck. Whether you’re in a relationship that feels uncertain or simply want tools to navigate love with more clarity, this episode will provide the insight you need to make the most empowe...2024-12-181h 23

The Conscious Love ShowEmbracing a Season of Aloneness and Growing through SolitudeClick here to learn more about joining our Inspired Love Coaching Circle in the new year The holidays can be a time of joy and connection, but for many, they may highlight feelings of loneliness. Whether you’re single, away from loved ones, or simply seeking more peace during the holiday rush, this episode will inspire you to find meaning and fulfillment in your own company, setting the tone for the future connection that you invite into your life. Solitude is a profound place to awaken aspects of ourselves that have been...2024-12-1157 min

The Conscious Love ShowBreaking the Habit of Being Single and Learning to Love AgainLet's explore the deep-seated patterns that keep so many stuck in cycles of singleness and unfulfilling relational patterns, even when we long for love and commitment. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “All men/women are the same” or “I just can’t trust anyone,” you’re not alone. These beliefs, rooted in past hurt and disappointment, act as barriers to the very connection we desire. In this episode, we’ll uncover how our subconscious defenses perpetuate patterns like staying single or attracting toxic situationships, even when your heart is ready for love. This episode is an in...2024-12-041h 37

The Conscious Love ShowLoving Without Losing Yourself: Ending self-abandonment and embracing clear communicationGrab your spot in The Conscious Love Challenge here! Special pricing available now :) Starts December 4th 2024 Have you ever felt like you lose yourself in relationships, sacrificing your needs, desires, or boundaries just to keep the peace or maintain connection? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive deep into the patterns of self-abandonment that leave us feeling unseen, unfulfilled, and disconnected from our true selves. We’ll explore why we often prioritize others over ourselves, how these patterns are rooted in fears of rejection or unworthiness, and the emotional toll it ta...2024-11-271h 30

The Conscious Love ShowShowing Authentic Interest and Keeping the Upper Hand in DatingHow do you show genuine interest in someone without feeling like you’re giving away all your power? In this episode of The Conscious Love Show, we explore the delicate balance between authenticity and maintaining confidence in dating. You’ll learn how to express your enthusiasm and stay true to your nature while setting healthy boundaries that keep you grounded and respected. We’ll debunk the myths about “playing hard to get” and the idea that men only “like to hunt,” offering practical strategies for communicating with clarity and strength. Whether you’re texting first, showing excitement, or navigating mi...2024-11-131h 29

The Conscious Love ShowIs the Potential Enough? How to know when to walk away...Conscious Relationships are about being a space for two people to grow together but what rate of growth is truly acceptable? When someone says they want to change and become better but the change doesn't seem to be happening very quickly, how much time and space should we really give? What kinds of things should we tolerate and what other things are truly deal breakers? This is such a confusing dynamic, especially when it's clouded by strong feelings for someone and a sincere desire to see the relationship go somewhere. It can be so easy t...2024-11-061h 33

The Conscious Love ShowHow to Keep the Spark Alive as a Relationship GrowsClick here to grab your spot in the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge It can be so confusing when the fire that had effortlessly pulled us together in the beginning starts to fade and the relationship no longer feels the same anymore. When our partner no longer shows the attentiveness and affection that they did in the beginning and the love that made the relationship worth it in the first place feels like it's dying and no matter what we do, we can't seem to get it back. At this point, we st...2024-10-301h 36

The Conscious Love ShowDating Fatigue: How to Keep Hope Alive After Repeated DisappointmentsClick here to get the details for The 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge If you’re feeling exhausted by the idea of starting over, navigating the dating pool, or investing in relationships only to face uncertainty or pain, you’re not alone. In this episode, we explore how romantic setbacks can leave you questioning whether it’s worth it and offer practical insights on how to stay open to love without compromising your healing or peace of mind. Join me as we discuss strategies for overcoming emotional exhaustion, setting new relationship standards, and reigniting joy and...2024-10-231h 23

The Conscious Love ShowHealing Heartbreak and Becoming More Secure than BeforeIn this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show, we dive deep into the journey of healing after heartbreak. Whether you’re reeling from a recent breakup or still processing old wounds, this conversation offers insight into how to move through the pain and emerge even stronger. Shane Kohler explores the emotional process of letting go, the hidden growth opportunities within heartbreak, and the essential steps to build a more secure, empowered sense of self. You’ll learn how heartbreak can become a catalyst for profound personal transformation—pushing you to cultivate a deeper sense of self-worth, securi...2024-10-161h 27

The Conscious Love ShowHealing the Wounds Created by the MasculineClick here to learn more about my 8-Week Inspired Love Program beginning on October 15th. In this powerful episode of The Conscious Love Show, we’re diving deep into a topic that touches so many women on a personal level—healing the wounds created by the unhealthy masculine. Throughout history and personal experience, women have often been left carrying emotional scars from unhealthy masculine energy, whether it stems from family, romantic relationships, or societal conditioning. While there are countless good men out there, these unhealed wounds can keep you stuck in patterns of mistru...2024-10-091h 31

The Conscious Love ShowThe Essential Qualities of a Conscious WomanLearn more about my Inspired Love 8 Week Process, beginning October 15th here. In this episode we explore the attributes that define a woman who is deeply attuned to her personal growth, emotional intelligence, and authentic self-expression. Drawing from universal spiritual principles and practical experience, we outline the key characteristics that enable a woman to cultivate meaningful connections and embody true love. From self-awareness and vulnerability to emotional resilience and compassion, we discuss how these traits not only enhance her relationship with others but also deepen her relationship with herself. Whether you’re s...2024-10-021h 33

The Conscious Love ShowThe Essential Qualities of a Conscious ManClick here to register for The Conscious Love Challenge beginning on October 2nd Click here to join my 8-Week Inspired Love Intensive beginning October 15th Let's dive deep into the essential qualities that define a conscious man. In this episode, we explore the attributes that empower men to build authentic connections, embrace vulnerability, and foster healthy relationships. We're clearly defining the qualities that not only enhance personal growth but also contribute to more fulfilling partnerships. Whether you’re a man looking to bring forth your highest self or a w...2024-09-251h 23

The Conscious Love ShowReleasing the Need to Be Chosen and Learning to Choose Conscious LoveClick here to learn more about the 8-Week Inspired Love Program starting on October 15th. In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional wounds that shape our need to be chosen in relationships. Whether it’s from childhood abandonment, rejection, or feeling unworthy, many of us carry unresolved pain that drives us to seek validation through being selected by a partner. This unconscious desire to be chosen often leads to unhealthy dynamics, where we sacrifice our needs or stay in unfulfilling relationships out of fear of rejection or being alone. We’ll explo...2024-09-1854 min

The Conscious Love ShowMeeting the Needs of the Masculine and Feminine in PartnershipClick here to learn more about my Inspired Love 8 Week Program beginning on October 15th Most women say they want to experience a strong masculine presence from their man and most men say they want to experience the warm, gentle feminine presence from their woman, yet we struggle so much to receive this from each other. In dating, many women feel that it's almost impossible to have men step up and bring the strength and security they seek from the masculine while men feel that women are too protective and guarded, limiting the wa...2024-09-111h 22

The Conscious Love ShowLearning to Rely On MiraclesMost of us want more from our lives and relationships. We want to experience more magic, passion, and vitality. And while we are craving for more, we are often living in a state of mind and body that feels jaded, heavy, disconnected and alone. The pain that we've experienced in the past paints a bleak picture of the future and while, on some level, we hope to have a life that reflects our dreams one day, filled with passionate love and deep connection, that vision often feels far away and we struggle to believe in it...2024-09-041h 17

The Conscious Love ShowThe True Nature of LoveThis episode invites you to explore the profound difference between love that is authentically expressed and the fear-based behaviors that often masquerade as love in relationships. We dive deep into what genuine love looks like—how it nurtures, heals, and strengthens the bonds between partners. Conversely, we examine the manipulative tactics and survival strategies that arise from fear and insecurity, leading to power struggles and disconnection. This episode is a journey toward understanding how to cultivate relationships based on true connection, trust, and mutual respect, moving beyond the patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of...2024-08-281h 08

The Conscious Love ShowTrauma Responses: Why we attract unfulfilling loveClick here to join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge Click here to apply for Private Coaching with Shane If you've experienced patterns of unfulfilling love in your life, this episode will offer you some important insight. When we are looking for love, we are often tuning into subtle cues that reflect our past pain. Believe it or not, this is often what generates our attraction to people. Sometimes, we are not seeking fulfilling love but rather we are seeking someone with whom we can play out these past patterns, som...2024-08-211h 26

The Conscious Love ShowA Man's Journey to CommitmentClick here to join the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge for FREE! If you've been feeling like there aren't a lot of commitment-ready men out there, I hear you. Men crave connection and they want commitment just as much as women do but they have a very different process of getting there. While women have often been encouraged to seek relationship and commitment from a very young age, men have often been encouraged to do the exact opposite and when they've expressed their sensitivity and need for love it's often been regarded as...2024-08-141h 13

The Conscious Love ShowUnderstanding Masculine and Feminine Energies, Polarity, and their Toxic AspectsUnderstanding polarity is a profound conversation that gives us insight into attraction, sexuality, intimacy, and how relationships can develop in healthy ways and also toxic ways. The polarity of masculine and feminine energy is at the core of how we relate with each other, it drives our attractions, it informs our highest actions and also our lowest impulses. I hope you enjoy this episode and that it helps you understand how to attract the ideal partnership you're seeking, deepen the intimacy in your existing relationship, and foster the highest good for all your relationships. 2024-08-071h 54

The Conscious Love ShowSuppression of Feminine Power and Awakening the Divine FeminineClick here to book your discovery call for Inspired Love Feminine power is an uncomfortable thing in our world. Women are afraid to use it because of the intense backlash they get when they do and men are afraid to experience it because it shines a light on their unconscious insecurities. Yet, conscious love can only be experienced in a relationship where the feminine power is expressed and honored by both partners. This means there is healing that needs to happen for both men and women. This episode will reveal the journey to healing for all people and show women how to...2024-07-311h 27

The Conscious Love ShowHow to Make Deeper Connections in Love and DatingClick here to book your discovery call for Inspired Love Connection is a fundamental human need and we are in a crisis of it! Most of us struggle to feel deeply connected and most of our relationships are surface level and don't meet our deepest needs. In dating, we struggle to bridge the gap and feel genuinely connected to the people we date and many of us in long term relationships feel completely disconnected from our partners. We struggle to feel seen, heard, understood and truly known by the people we love...2024-07-241h 06

The Conscious Love ShowHealing Anxious Attachment and Creating Secure Love with Laura--Inspired Love GraduateJoin the 7 Day Conscious Love Challenge here! Book your free discovery call for Inspired Love here. Struggling with anxious attachment? We've got you covered. I had the pleasure of interviewing one of our amazing graduates, Laura as she shares her journey of healing anxious attachment and attracting secure love with a wonderful man who is all in! From a life of compromising boundaries, people pleasing, and worrying about being chosen by someone, to maintaining high standards, clear communication, firm boundaries and calling forth secure lo...2024-07-1747 min

The Conscious Love ShowWhat is a Conscious Relationship (and how to create one)Book Your Discovery Call for Inspired Love here. What is a conscious relationship and what makes it different from any other relationship? Today is Fatima and I's four year wedding anniversary, going on 8 years together, and we've learned a lot about this topic through our various adventures and challenges! In this episode, I'm sharing our story of creating and sustaining the conscious love we have today. The good, the bad and the ugly! Whether you are single or in a relationship, your journey to conscious love starts right now! There i...2024-07-1056 min

The Conscious Love ShowPowerful Communication to Create Conscious LoveClick here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love Most of us don't realize how much power we actually have to move a relationship in the direction we want it to go! When a relationship isn't meeting our needs, many of us are likely to play manipulative games, withhold love, fawn and pander, some of us even going so far as to lie, cheat, or end the relationship altogether simply because we don't know how to communicate in a way that will motivate our partner to step up for us. Whether you're getting to know someone new or with yo...2024-07-031h 18

The Conscious Love ShowSacred Sexuality: How to have deeper, more connected sexClick here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love What makes the difference between good sex and Great sex? This episode is all about that. I've found, in my many years doing relationship and intimacy work, that most people, both single and in long term relationships are missing out on so much in their sex lives. Single people often feel disillusioned by their sexual experiences, feeling they are short lived and many times not even that good to begin with while married couples often experience a dwindling of their sex lives the...2024-06-191h 16

The Conscious Love ShowThe Path to Conscious Love with Stephanie MenezesClick here to book your Free Intro Call for Inspired Love Every so often I like to include a magical story of transformation and conscious love on the show, this is one of those episodes. In this week's episode, I interview Stephanie Menezes, a friend and graduate of The Inspired Love Program as she shares her journey to the conscious partnership she's created with her incredible man, Patrick. Speaking into all of the ups and downs along the way, she highlights important lessons she learned, steps she took, and changes she made in her life to prepare for and attract the conscio...2024-06-1150 min

The Conscious Love ShowFrom Casual to Committed: Bridging the Gap to Long Term LoveBook your free intro call for The Inspired Love Program here. Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here. So many of us feel stuck in a perpetual cycle of casual relationships, temporarily getting excited when something real seems to show up only to be let down when we realize it's yet another short term thing that wasn't built to last. Others of us have gone so long without being excited about anything that we doubt the reality...2024-06-041h 08

The Conscious Love ShowHe's Not Showing His Interest, Should I Walk?Book your free intro call for The Inspired Love Program here. Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here. Use code SHANEK15 to save 15% on your order. Trying to find out someone's true feelings for you can be one of the most frustrating and anxiety inducing experiences you'll ever go through. And I know men can often be particularly mysterious in terms of sharing how they feel. But it doesn't have to be so...2024-05-281h 06

The Conscious Love ShowAre You a Love Addict? 2 Questions Reveal the Answer...Book your free intro call for The Inspired Love Program here. Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here. Use code SHANEK15 to save 15% on your order. Love addiction is extremely common and pervasive. While addictions like drugs or alcohol are often clearly seen as destructive and people are encouraged to quit or not engage in the first place, the same cannot be said for love addiction. We are often encouraged to fuel o...2024-05-211h 05

The Conscious Love ShowThe 6 Big Lies We All Believe About LoveBook your intro call for The Inspired Love Program here. Click Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here. Use code SHANEK15 to save 15% on your order. In this captivating episode of the Conscious Love Show, Shane Kohler shines a spotlight on the six pervasive lies that have ensnared our understanding of love. With warmth and insight, he navigates through the misconceptions that often lead us astray in our pursuit of meaningful connections. One by one...2024-05-151h 19

The Conscious Love ShowUsing Hypnosis and Meditation to Rewire Yourself for Conscious Connection with John and Rachelle MoyerClick Here to activate your FREE TRIAL of the Aura App Order RYSE Matcha and Adaptogenic products here. Use code SHANEK15 to save 15% on your order. To work with Shane, apply here. To take the Conscious Relationship Readiness Quiz, click here. Please make sure to subscribe to John Moyer's channel on YouTube and here are some gifts he's shared to learn to work with meditation and hypnosis: Master Your Mind https://youtu.be/sSmgjelC8eI Reinvent Yo...2024-05-071h 12

The Conscious Love ShowWhy Do I Rush Into Relationships? (and how to stop!)Click here to take your Conscious Relationship Readiness Quiz! Delving into the complexities of love and attachment, Shane unpacks the underlying motivations behind the tendency to rush into relationships and offers practical strategies for cultivating mindful, intentional connections. In this episode, Shane explores the deep-seated fears and desires that drive us to seek validation and security in romantic partnerships. From the fear of loneliness to the longing for companionship, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of the emotional dynamics at play in the rush to love. But beyond mere analysis, Shane a...2024-04-3049 min

The Conscious Love ShowWhy Men Lose Interest After Sex (and what makes them want to stay)To work with Shane, Apply Here. To activate your free trial of the Aura App, click here. Delving into the intricate world of hormones and neurochemistry, Shane unveils the fascinating factors that influence how men bond with women, shedding light on the mysteries of post-sex behavior. Through captivating discussions and insightful revelations, Shane explores the hormonal blueprint that governs male attraction and connection. From the role of oxytocin, the "bonding hormone," to the impact of vasopressin, dopamine and testosterone, listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how these chemicals sh...2024-04-2354 min

The Conscious Love ShowHow Important is Physical Attraction? The science behind it finally explainedTo work with Shane, apply here. Click here to register for the Attachment Workshop Here is the link to the article mentioned in the episode: https://www.verywellmind.com/what-defines-beautiful-according-to-psychologists-5180378 Delving deep into the realms of human connection and attraction, Shane demystifies the complex interplay of biology, psychology, and personal preference that shape our perceptions of physical allure. Through engaging discussions and insightful revelations, Shane sheds light on the evolutionary roots of physical attraction and its role in forming initial connections. From the influence of hor...2024-04-161h 08

The Conscious Love ShowHow to Handle Your Insecure Feelings in Love and DatingClick here to apply for Inspired Love Register for Attachment Workshop here. In a world where vulnerability is often perceived as weakness, Shane invites listeners to embrace their insecure feelings with compassion and courage, transforming them into catalysts for growth and deeper connection. Through heartfelt storytelling and insightful teachings, Shane shares practical strategies and empowering insights on how to navigate feelings of insecurity with grace and resilience. From cultivating self-awareness and practicing self-love to fostering open communication and trust in relationships, Shane offers invaluable guidance on how to transform in...2024-04-0958 min

The Conscious Love ShowAwakening Your Sexuality to Live a Fully Expressed LifeTo apply for Inspired Love, click here. In this week's episode, Shane shares practical strategies and empowering insights on how to tap into the innate wisdom of your sexuality, reclaiming it as a sacred aspect of your being. Discover how cultivating a deeper connection with your sensuality can unlock a newfound sense of vitality, creativity, and self-expression. From exploring the importance of self-love and body acceptance to learning how to navigate intimacy and pleasure with authenticity and confidence, Shane offers invaluable guidance on how to liberate your sexuality from societal constraints and embrace it...2024-04-021h 14

The Conscious Love ShowUnderstanding Your Nervous System, Parts Work, and Inner Child Healing with Sarah BaldwinFollow Sarah on Instagram: @sarahbcoaching Learn more at www.sarahbaldwincoaching.com In this illuminating episode as we delve into the profound realms of inner healing, nervous system regulation, and parts work with the insightful Sarah Baldwin. In this transformative conversation, Sarah shares her wisdom and expertise on how understanding our nervous system can lead to deep healing and transformation. Through compassionate discussions and practical insights, Sarah guides listeners on a journey of self-discovery, exploring the intricate connections between our nervous system responses, inner child wounds, and fragmented parts of ourselves. Discover h...2024-03-261h 12

The Conscious Love ShowHow to Nurture the Best From Men without Mothering ThemJoin the March 20th Polarity Workshop here Join Shane Kohler on The Conscious Love Show for an empowering exploration into nurturing the best from men without slipping into the role of a mother. In this enlightening episode, Shane shares profound insights and practical strategies for fostering masculine growth, partnership, and harmony in relationships without compromising individual agency or authenticity. Drawing from his extensive experience as a relationship coach and spiritual guide, Shane dives deep into the dynamics of masculine energy, exploring the delicate balance between support and autonomy. Through hea...2024-03-191h 05

The Conscious Love ShowThe Wound is Where the Light Enters You...Apply for the Inspired Love Program: Click Here Polarity Workshop, click here to register. In this deeply introspective exploration, Shane invites listeners to embrace the profound wisdom that arises from our wounds and challenges. Drawing from his own journey and spiritual teachings, Shane delves into the transformative power of embracing our wounds as gateways to deeper understanding, compassion, and growth. Through heartfelt storytelling and insightful reflections, he illuminates the path toward healing and wholeness, reminding us that our wounds are not flaws to be hidden but sacred openings for lig...2024-03-121h 01

The Conscious Love ShowWhy Your Instincts Are Misleading You in LoveApply for Inspired Love here This week's episode is a thought-provoking exploration into the complexities of human instincts and their influence on our experiences in love and relationships. In this eye-opening episode, we unravel the intricacies of why our instincts can sometimes lead us astray in matters of the heart. In this episode, Shane deep dives into the roots of our instincts and how they often clash with the modern complexities of love and romance. From the allure of instant attraction to the pitfalls of toxic patterns, we examine how understanding and questioning our instincts c...2024-03-051h 01

The Conscious Love ShowRelationship Pacing to Build Attraction, Connection, and Depth To apply for Inspired Love, click here. This week, we explore the delicate art of relationship pacing, a vital element in building authentic attraction, profound connection, and lasting depth in romantic relationships. In this enlightening episode, we unravel the intricacies of pacing and its profound impact on the dynamics of love and intimacy. Shane shares insights and practical wisdom on how to navigate the journey of love with intentionality and grace. From setting boundaries to honoring individual needs and desires, we delve into the transformative power of pacing as a catalyst for cultivating trust, intimacy...2024-02-271h 15

The Conscious Love ShowExperiencing Abundance in Life and LoveTo apply for Inspired Love, click here. In this illuminating episode, we uncover the secrets to cultivating abundance in all its forms and nurturing profound connections that resonate with the essence of our being. Through heartfelt discussions and inspiring anecdotes, we delve into the interconnectedness of love and abundance, exploring how fostering a sense of abundance within ourselves can ripple outward, enriching our relationships and experiences. Join us as we delve into the transformative power of abundance rituals, manifestation techniques, and self-love practices that empower us to embrace abundance as our b...2024-02-201h 42

The Conscious Love ShowAcceptance: Completing Past Cycles to Create Freedom and Love Apply for Inspired Love: Click Here In this episode of The Conscious Love Show we explore the transformative power of acceptance. Join us as we unravel the intricacies of completing past cycles to pave the way for freedom and love in our lives. In today's episode, Shane guides us through a profound journey of acceptance, offering invaluable insights and practical strategies to embrace closure and release the burdens of the past. Through heartfelt conversations and personal anecdotes, he reveals the importance of acknowledging our past experiences, embracing them with compassion, and a...2024-02-131h 31

The Conscious Love ShowFatima's Story: A Valentine's Day Special where Fatima and I share our love storyClick here to register for Breath of Love on February 13th! Hey friends, in this special episode, I have my wife on the show for the very first time where we share our story and she shares the intimate details of her journey and everything she went through to create the love we have today. I really enjoyed this intimate and vulnerable conversation with my love and I know you will too. Packed with deep insights, humor, lessons, and heartfelt moments, this is an episode you don't want to miss! 2024-02-061h 52

The Conscious Love ShowCultivating Self-Love and Healing Self-Destructive PatternsIn this transformative episode of The Conscious Love Show, we delve deep into the profound realms of cultivating self-love and breaking free from self-destructive patterns that may hinder our personal growth. today, Shane shares invaluable insights on the importance of self-love as the foundation for building meaningful connections with others. Discover practical tips and empowering techniques to nurture a positive relationship with yourself and banish self-sabotaging behaviors. Through heartfelt conversations and personal stories, we explore the roots of self-destructive patterns, understanding their origins, and unlocking the keys to healing. Gain a fresh perspective on self-love...2024-01-161h 36

The Conscious Love ShowHealing Attachment Wounds and Navigating the Wounds of OthersFREE TRIAL through Jan 12th! Click Here: InspiredLoveProgram.com In this week's episode, join Shane as he explores the roots of attachment wounds and how they shape our emotional landscapes. Discover insightful strategies and therapeutic approaches to heal these wounds, fostering a path towards healthier connections and self-discovery. But that's not all – we also navigate the complex terrain of dealing with the wounds of others, especially in our romantic relationships, understanding and supporting those we care about through their healing process is a crucial aspect of fostering genuine connection and lasting love. Thro...2024-01-091h 41

The Conscious Love ShowGet Turned On by Life and Love in 2024Start you free trial for The Inspired Love Program here: http://inspiredloveprogram.com Welcome to 2024! In this first episode of the new year, join Shane as he explores the profound connection between living a fulfilling life and experiencing deep, conscious love. As we step into the new year, gain expert insights and practical tips to help you ignite passion in every aspect of your existence and attract the deep passionate love you've been seeking. Discover how to cultivate a mindset that sparks joy, meaningful connections, and a love for life that rad...2024-01-021h 46

The Conscious Love ShowHappy Holiday and New Year Message from Shane KohlerHappy Holidays and so much love as we enter this New Year. Thank you for being part of this community! Your presence here is immensely appreciated, we are only here because of you. Thank you for listening this year and we're looking forward to an exciting 2024! Much love and many blessings 2023-12-2802 min

The Conscious Love ShowNew Year Intentions and Holiday Mindset with Shane Kohler Click Here to Get Started with Inspired Love In this heartfelt episode of The Conscious Love Show, we usher in the holiday season with a special focus on the power of gratitude and intention. Join us as we explore a mindful approach to spending the holidays solo, steering away from the societal pressure to lament the absence of a partner. Instead, we invite you to embrace the present moment with gratitude for what you have, and to set clear intentions for the love you wish to cultivate in the upcoming year. Discover empowering p...2023-12-201h 50

The Conscious Love ShowHow to Become Attracted to Healthy, Secure, and Consistent Men After a Dramatic Dating HistoryIn this empowering installment, join Shane as we explore the transformative journey of discovering How to Become Attracted to Healthy, Secure, and Consistent Men After a Dramatic Dating History. Whether you've experienced heartbreak, inconsistency, or uncertainty in your romantic past, this episode is your guide to breaking old patterns and fostering a deep, conscious connection with partners who embody stability and emotional security. Tune in for expert advice, personal anecdotes, and actionable tips that will empower you to redefine your relationship choices and cultivate a love that is not only passionate but also grounded in...2023-11-281h 57

The Conscious Love ShowHow the Things We Avoid Become the Ceiling on What’s Possible for UsIn this thought-provoking episode of the Conscious Love Show, delve into the profound exploration of "How the Things We Avoid Become the Ceiling on What's Possible for Us." This episode unravels the intricate dynamics of our subconscious choices and the impact they have on our personal growth and fulfillment. Discover the hidden barriers that often arise from avoidance and learn how these unaddressed aspects of our lives can inadvertently set limits on our potential. In this episode, Shane shares real-life stories to shed light on the transformative power of confronting the uncomfortable and embracing vulnerability. J...2023-11-141h 52

Self-Help JunkieAttracting The One | A Return to Love ft Shane KohlerReady for your forever person but only finding situationships? It seems to be getting more and more difficult in our modern day. Shane Kohler, co-founder of The Living Relationship, host of The Conscious Love Show podcast, is here to shift you out of the mindset of scarcity and into love. He’s brought in the companion book, “A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of A Course in Miracles” by Marianne Williamson, to take us on his journey of self-love and finding his wife.----------Key points discussed in this episode:Transitioning from t...2023-09-2648 min

The Kohler ShowThe Kohler Show Ep. 6- Roe v Wade ReviewKohler and Shane talk about corporate pandering, the Roe v Wade ruling, and caprese salads 2022-06-2950 min

The Kohler ShowKohler Show Ep. 2- Love is Blind 2 Review pt. 1 (ft. Shane Thundercloud)Kohler and Shane discuss the first 9 episodes of Netflixes "Love is Blind 2"2022-02-2554 min

The Self-Confidence ProjectEp#89 The Best Dating Advice with Shane KohlerHow do you attract the right kind of person to you? How do you date successfully? It sometimes feels difficult to understand where to go and how to meet people, especially if you're not loving the online game! So have a listen as Shane and I talk about a fantastic piece of advice on how to meet the right people for you and have fun at the same time. Shane Kohler has worked in personal development and transformation for over a decade. He has personally coached over 100 people, helped dozens of couples bring their relationship back from...2022-01-2043 min

The ASH Kohler Pro Wrestling PodcastWhat's up, Shane Black?I hope you're HUNGRY Hungry for yet another unpredictable interview. I have a conversation with Shane Black that is the opposite of normal. We're talkin' deathmatches, wings, wet things, the usual. Fist bump! Follow Shane: FB/Insta-@shaneblackofficial Twitter @the_shaneblack Follow me on all the social medias. linktr.ee/theashkohler 2020-07-0400 min