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LifeAudioThe Love Offering - Renew Your Mind, Renew Your Marriage: A Conversation with Ron DealMarriage has a way of bringing both our deepest joy—and our deepest pain—to the surface. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in the same frustrating patterns, wondering why you keep ending up here, you’re not alone. In honor of National Marriage Week, I want to share a meaningful conversation from The Love Offering Podcast with Ron Deal about his book, The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself. This book—and our conversation—is especially powerful because it’s rooted in both neuroscience and biblical truth. Ron openly shares h...
2026-02-1031 minThe Love OfferingRenew Your Mind, Renew Your Marriage: A Conversation with Ron DealMarriage has a way of bringing both our deepest joy—and our deepest pain—to the surface. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in the same frustrating patterns, wondering why you keep ending up here, you’re not alone. In honor of National Marriage Week, I want to share a meaningful conversation from The Love Offering Podcast with Ron Deal about his book, The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself. This book—and our conversation—is especially powerful because it’s rooted in both neuroscience and biblical truth. Ron openly shares h...
2026-02-1031 min
LifeAudioThe Happy Home Podcast with Arlene Pellicane - The Four Steps That Saved Our Marriage with Ron and Nan DealStruggling to break free from the same old conflicts in your relationship? When Ron and Nan Deal suffered the devastating loss of their child, their marriage was nearly shattered by the destructive cycles that were already existing before the crisis. They sought help from Dr. Terry and Sharon Hargrave whose transformational Restoration Therapy has helped millions. Now for the first time, Ron and Nan share their journey from a marriage on the brink of collapse to complete transformation. It happened for them and it can happen for you. Their new book is "The Mindful Marriage: C...
2026-02-0942 minThe Happy Home Podcast with Arlene PellicaneThe Four Steps That Saved Our Marriage with Ron and Nan DealStruggling to break free from the same old conflicts in your relationship? When Ron and Nan Deal suffered the devastating loss of their child, their marriage could have collapsed. For decades, Ron and Nan were stuck in destructive cycles, experiencing ruptures without repair. They sought help from Dr. Terry and Sharon Hargrave whose transformational Restoration Therapy has helped millions. Now for the first time, Ron and Nan share their journey from a marriage on the brink of collapse to complete transformation. It happened for them and it can happen for you. Their new book is "T...
2026-02-0942 min
RT DialogueSeason 2 | Episode 55 | The 7 Vital Components of an IntensiveWelcome to Episode 55 of the RT Dialogue! We are glad that you have joined us. If you are liking the podcast, please subscribe to it on Spotify, Apple or YouTube (or subscribe on all 3). And please recommend to any other people you think would find the content beneficial.In this latest episode, we discuss the 7 vital components of an intensive. We have both been trained in the intensive model, and spent a number of years on staff helping co-lead...
2026-02-031h 08RT DialogueSeason 1 | Episode 44 | Special Guests, Sharon Hargrave & Dee Mayer -- Navigating Relationships During the HolidaysWe were really excited to have Sharon Hargrave and Dee Dee Mayer on Episode 44 of the RT Dialogue. Sharon as many of you already know, is the founder of Relate Strong, and Dee Dee Mayer is the Senior Director of The Boone Center at Pepperdine University -- this is just to name a couple of things these amazing women are currently involved in, or have contributed to. On this episode we wanted to have them both on to discuss navigating relationships during the holidays. Both bring a wealth of...
2025-11-2651 minRT DialogueSeason 1 | Episode 37 | Special Guest, RT Therapist Marcial FelanSuch a fun conversation in this episode with Dr. Marical Felan who is a Level II Restoration Therapist, splitting time living and doing therapy between California and Texas. In this episode we spend a lot of time talking about theological integration and the unique background that Marcial brings to Restoration Therapy with all of his experience in ministry and organizations like Chuck Colson's Prison Fellowship Ministries and serving on staff with Dr. David Jeremiah at Shadow Mountain Community Church. As well as discussing some of his favorite interventions such as reparenting and the two-screen...
2025-10-091h 07RT DialogueSeason 1 | Episode 36 | Special Guest, Ron Deal -- Emotional Coregulation or Self-Regulation?We welcomed back Ron Deal to the podcast to discuss an important topic that seems to be on everyone's mind (at least in the RT world) -- and that is the paradigm shifting move from emotional coregulation to self-regulation. And Ron helped us dive deep into the topic. If you have never met Ron before, he is the President of Smart Stepfamlies and Senior Director of Family Life Blended. We also had him on this podcast way back in Episode 7. Oh, and lest we forget -- Co-Author of The Mindful Marriage along with his...
2025-10-021h 16RT DialogueSeason 1 | Episode 35 | Special Guest, RT Founders Terry and Sharon HargraveIt will come as no surprise to anyone when we say that we are in the midst of a very difficult time in world history. The world is in a very volatile state politically, and the cultural climate is full of tension. And as therapists, this can be complicated terrain to navigate, especially when in the context of one therapy day we interact with clients coming from all different perspectives.With this in mind, we wanted to bring Terry and Sharon Hargrave onto the podcast to help us better understand the role of Restoration...
2025-09-251h 08
Connected Families PodcastScreen Addiction: Prevent & Combat It by Giving a Big YES to Your Kids
Even if your kids aren’t struggling with screen addiction, Connected Families co-founders Jim and Lynne Jackson want to help you shift the conversation away from a big “No” to a big “Yes!” In this episode, you will discover how to apply this transformative approach to managing screen time in your family. Listen in to help your children find their God-given purpose and calling beyond screens!
Key Points:
Jim and Lynne share how their initial parenting approach toward screens escalated with their son, leading them back to the Foundation level of the framework
Mutual accountability with daily scre...
2025-06-0940 min
With and For hosted by Dr. Pam KingHow to Restore a Relationship, with Dr. Terry HargraveRomantic relationships are sacred, powerful, and life-giving. But I don’t have to tell you how difficult it is to love and let yourself be loved.
Marriage and family therapist Dr. Terry Hargrave has been helping couples in crisis restore broken relationships for decades, teaching them how to get unstuck, improve communication, and move beyond destructive coping mechanisms—to find reciprocity, self-affirming confidence, emotional regulation, and a joyful, lasting love.
In this conversation with Terry Hargrave, we discuss:
How to turn around a relationship in crisis and get off the emotional rollercoaster
How to buil...
2025-05-261h 11
Connected Families PodcastThe Emotionally Distant Marriage: Don't Stay Stuck
Do you feel like you are in an emotionally distant marriage? In this special episode, Jim and Lynne Jackson interview Ron and Nan Deal about their new book, The Mindful Marriage, which combines biblical foundations with brain science. The authors vulnerably share how their marriage hit a crisis point after 20 years, leading them to seek help from a therapist (who later co-authored the book with them). They explain how our “pain cycles” develop from childhood and manifest in four reactive coping styles: blame, shame, control, and escape. The conversation explores their four-step process for moving from destructive pain cycles to “...
2025-05-1948 minRT DialogueSeason 1 | Episode 7 | Special Guest, RT Therapist and Author of The Mindful Marriage, Ron DealWe had such a fun and deep conversation with Ron Deal, who many know in the Restoration Therapy community. Ron is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, author, podcaster, speaker, and is highly sought after for his work with blended families and marriage enrichment.Ron and his wife Nan, along with Terry and Sharon Hargrave are the authors of The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself. We talked to Ron about working with blended families, dove deep into the importance of humility in marriage...
2025-03-271h 37RT DialogueSeason 1 | Episode 4 | Special Guests, Restoration Therapy Founders Terry and Sharon HargraveWe were so excited to have Terry and Sharon Hargrave on the RT Dialogue. Not only are they the founders of Restoration Therapy, but we (and many of you) consider them mentors and close friends.In this episode we explore the origins of Restoration Therapy and the significant iterations along the way. Terry and Sharon are the authors many books and articles, covering a wide range of topics in therapy, as well as exclusively focused on Restoration Therapy. We look forward to having them...
2025-02-161h 32RT DialogueSeason 1 | Episode 1 | The RT Dialogue with Co-Hosts Lance Ahl & Rhett SmithWelcome to the launch of RT Dialogue. A conversation within the Restoration Therapy community where we hope to continue to foster community, make connections, and learn and grow around best theories and practices from other practitioners. In Episode 1, co-hosts Lance Ahl and Rhett Smith talk about their own journeys in coming to Restoration Therapy, while exploring some of their hopes for the new podcast. They also end the show by sharing a Restoration Therapy practice they are really excited about in their work currently. Links to things mentioned in...
2025-02-1643 min
The Nothing Is Wasted PodcastEpisode 364 - The Mindful Marriage with Ron and Nan DealHow do we get out of the negative patterns in our marriage? What impact does learning to regulate our own emotions have on our relationships?For authors Ron and Nan Deal, it wasn't until they learned to self-regulate their own emotions after the built up pain from their stories and the loss of their child that they began to find healing in the destructive cycles in their marriage. When their relationship had reached a critical point, they found hope and help in the work of Dr. Terry and Sharon Hargrave, whose transformational Restoration Therapy gave Ron and Nan...
2025-02-131h 25
Asking Why with Clint DavisEpisode 143: Dr. Terry & Sharon Hargrave | Restoration TherapyIn this episode of the Asking Why podcast, host Clint Davis engages with Dr. Terry Hargrave and Sharon Hargrave, pioneers of Restoration Therapy. They discuss the integration of psychology and theology, the importance of love and trust in relationships, and the journey of personal growth through therapy. The conversation highlights the collaborative nature of their work and the impact of their teachings on clinicians and couples alike. In this conversation, Terry Hargrave and Clint Davis explore the importance of self-regulation in relationships, emphasizing that personal growth and emotional health are crucial for intimacy. They discuss the role of faith...
2025-01-2457 min
Still Becoming with Monica DiCristinaEpisode 138 - Conversation with Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. and Sharon Hargrave, M.A: The Mindful MarriageI am so excited and honored to have Terry Hargrave, Ph.D. and Sharon Hargrave, M.A. on the Still Becoming Podcast. I had the honor of being trained by them in their model: Restoration Therapy. I respect them clinically, and I love them personally. They are wise, experienced, and so relatable. Terry and Sharon take difficult concepts in marriages and break them down into actionable insights and behavior changes. They have a new book out today! Their new book : The Mindful Marriage: Create Your Best Relationship Through Understanding and Managing Yourself.
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2025-01-0746 min
Start This Inspiring Full Audiobook — Perfect During Your Workout.The Mindful Marriage by Ron L. Deal MMFT, Nan Deal BSE, Terry Hargrave PhD - foreword, Sharon Hargrave MA - forewordPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/176848to listen full audiobooks.
Title: The Mindful Marriage
Author: Ron L. Deal MMFT, Nan Deal BSE, Terry Hargrave PhD - foreword, Sharon Hargrave MA - foreword
Narrator: Pete Straub
Format: mp3
Length: 5 hrs and 52 mins
Release date: 01-07-25
Ratings: 5 out of 5 stars, 10 ratings
Genres: Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships
Publisher's Summary:
When Ron and Nan Deal suffered the devastating loss of their child, their marriage was nearly shattered by their destructive cycles. At wits' end, they sought the help of pioneering therapists Dr. Terry Hargrave and Sharon Hargrave, LMFT, whose transformational Restoration Therapy has helped...
2025-01-075h 52
Access Thousands of Audiobook Collection with Easy AccessGrimwood: Party Animals: The Times Children's Book of the Week -- Nadia ShireenPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/707313 to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Grimwood: Party Animals: The Times Children's Book of the Week
Series: #4 of Grimwood
Author: Nadia Shireen
Narrator: Adam Buxton
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 3 hours 8 minutes
Release date: June 27, 2024
Genres: Non-fiction
Publisher's Summary: Return to the forest where anything can happen. An unmissable new book in Nadia Shireen’s bestselling and wildly funny illustrated comedy adventure series, Grimwood! 'Wind in the Willows (with added wind) for a new, wilder generation' – The Times Perfect for readers age 7+, and fans of Dog Man, Roald Dahl...
2024-06-283h 08
Blooming HumanWoran ich dieses Jahr gewachsen bin & was mich gehalten hatNach langem wieder eine neue Folge und Zeit für einen Rückblick! Das Jahr 2023 war für mich nicht einfach und ich teile mit euch ganz persönlich, was mich dieses Jahr herausgefordert hat, woran ich gewachsen und wofür ich dankbar bin.Es geht darumwie ich im Winter eine Trennung verarbeitet habewie ich im Frühling wieder langsam aufgeblüht binwie ich mich im Sommer irgendwie verlorenund im Herbst wieder stärker zu mir gefunden habund wie mir die Nähe zur Natur, me...
2023-12-3154 min
Harbor, Pepperdine Bible LecturesHope and Help for AnxietyTeachers: Sharon Hargrave, Dee Dee Mayer
Many of us worry from time to time, but those who suffer from anxiety often experience fear that limits daily life and activities and makes it hard to find joy. Anxiety also impacts our ability to relate to one another in healthy ways. Over the last decade, mental health issues have been on the rise, with anxiety and depression taking the lead.
The National Institute for Mental Health reports that 31 percent of adults in America experience an anxiety disorder at some point in their life. These numbers are not...
2023-05-202h 09
Open to Explore DevotionsA Festival of Lessons and CarolsOpen to Explore Devotions podcast gladly presents, A Festival of Lessons and Carols. This was first presented on Sunday morning, December 18, 2022, in the sanctuary of First Baptist Church, Athens, GA. Tom Granum, the Interim Director of Music Ministries for First Baptist Church, directed the service. Festival of Lessons and CarolsDecember 18, 2022 Gathering Music: Wait for the Lord (Psalm 40), Wait for the LordO Come, Emmanuel, Alice ParkerComfort Ye from Messiah, G. F. Handel, Charles Hooper, TenorAnd the Glory fro...
2022-12-241h 04
Free to Love - Transforming Pain Into PeaceHow Can We Heal? - Story, Neuroscience and Spirituality: Restoration Therapy with Dr. Terry and Sharon Hargrave
2022-09-2456 min
Novant Health Inside RemarkableEquity in ActionAshleigh Hargrave 0:05 Welcome to Mosaic, your Novant Health podcast for diversity, inclusion and equity. You'll learn more about the mosaic of similarities and differences that make us stronger, and how health equity benefits us all. Piece by piece, we're telling the stories of the beautiful mosaic of Novant Health. Welcome to this week's episode of mosaic. I'm Ashleigh Hargrave senior director of diversity, inclusion and equity. And this week, I'm delighted to have with me, a member of our foundation who's going to tell you about philanthropy, but also how do the words diversity, inclusion and equity all be...
2022-03-2814 min
The Jennifer Hargrave Show⭐️ What is mediation and how can it help people in the middle of a divorce? | Jennifer Hargrave Show E51Our guest today is well-respected mediator Sharon Corsentino who is here to tell us what mediation is and how it can help people in the middle of a divorce. https://SharonCorsentino.comLearn more about Hargrave Family Law at https://hargravefamilylaw.comHargrave Family Law4201 Spring Valley Rd.Suite 1210, Dallas, Tx 75244Phone: 214-420-0100Email: assistant@jhfamilylaw.com
2022-03-0931 min
Policy Forum PodPreventing violence against women and girls with disabilitiesOn this episode of Policy Forum Pod, Patty Kinnersly from Our Watch and Jen Hargrave from Women with Disabilities Victoria join us to discuss the Changing the landscape report, a new national resource to prevent violence against women and girls with disabilities.Australian women and girls with disabilities are twice as likely to experience violence than women and girls without disabilities. How can policymakers address ableism and gender inequality, two intersecting drivers of this violence? Why is co-design so important to policy-making in this area? And what role do all Australians have to play in preventing...
2022-02-2445 min
The Jennifer Hargrave Show⭐️ Episode 32: Special Education and the LawOn Episode 32 of The Jennifer Hargrave Show our guest is Sharon Ramage who has devoted her entire, professional career to helping families and children, as a social worker and as an attorney. Contact Sharon:http://www.ramagefamilylawfirm.com http://www.texasspecialeducationattorney.comLearn more about Hargrave Family Law at https://hargravefamilylaw.comHargrave Family Law4201 Spring Valley Rd.Suite 1210, Dallas, Tx 75244Phone: 214-420-0100Email: assistant@jhfamilylaw.com
2021-06-1432 min
Harbor, Pepperdine Bible LecturesThe Argument For MarriageTerry Hargrave, Sharon Hargrave
The number of people getting married today is shrinking, and the age at which people marry is getting older all the time. Many young adults don’t understand how marriage can be life giving and contribute to life satisfaction and happiness. Come learn five easy tips that promote marriage in a culture that, even though statistics show most people desire lifelong commitments in relationship, appears to be marriage wary. Hosted by the Boone Center for the Family
2019-05-041h 03Harbor, Pepperdine Bible LecturesChanging UsTerry Hargrave, Sharon Hargrave
"A New Perspective on Marriage"
While we often believe that marriage is designed for us to help our partner see how he or she needs to change, the truth is that marriage changes us. Embracing the fact that change is good and leads to more peaceful and productive lives helps couples relax in their differences, conflicts, and struggles. This workshop is designed for couples who want to continue to grow in their own relationships or for those who work with young adults who lean toward cohabitation rather than marriage. Hosted by...
2019-05-041h 00
Praxis Podcast with Rhett SmithConversation with Terry and Sharon Hargrave on the Beginnings and Future of Restoration Therapy and Relate StrongIn this episode I spend some time in conversation with Terry and Sharon Hargrave. Terry is the founder of Restoration Therapy and is the Evelyn and Frank Freed Professor of Marriage and Family Therapy at Fuller Theological Seminary and Sharon is the Executive Director of the Boone Center for the Family at Pepperdine University, as well as the founder and director of Relate Strong. I have known this couple for about 8 years, and not only do I consider them close friends, but I am a huge fan of them. Restoration Therapy has changed my life a...
2019-03-2250 min
Harbor, Pepperdine Bible LecturesFeeling Safe in an Unsafe WorldSharon Hargrave
Statistics tell us anxiety and depression are on the rise. The daily news of shootings, hurricanes, earthquakes, and human suffering reminds us of our own lack of control over our future and the future of the ones we love. As Christians, how do we think about safety and security, not only for ourselves, but for those we lead and serve?
2018-05-071h 02Praxis Podcast with Rhett SmithUsing the Pain and Peace Cycle to Lead to Differentiation in Relationships This last week I have spent some time talking to you about the Pain Cycle and Peace Cycle in Terry Hargrave's Restoration Therapy model. I love the Pain and Peace Cycle because it has transformed my life. It's transformed me as an individual, as well as my marriage, my relationships, vocation and more. But how do you practice the Pain and Peace Cycle in your own life? To do so I recommended 4 steps to practice. As you begin to use these steps and work through the cycles you create a safe emotional connection which also fosters a real strong...
2015-12-0324 minPraxis Podcast with Rhett SmithTransform Your Relationship Through the Practice of Your Pain and Peace CycleThis week I am spending time talking about the Pain and Peace Cycle found in the work of Terry Hargrave and his Restoration Therapy model. As I talk about previous episodes, the Pain Cycle and the Peace Cycle have transformed my life, marriage, relationships, friendships, and work.
So in this episode I want to teach you how to use the 4 steps of the Restoration Therapy model to help you practice the Pain and Peace Cycle. I love the simplicity of the model in helping people create change, but like any long lasting, transformative change, it t...
2015-12-0131 minPraxis Podcast with Rhett SmithLearning to Regulate Your Emotions by Identifying Your Peace CycleIn the previous podcast episode I talked about just how life transforming the Pain and Peace Cycle work have been to my life both personally and relationally. Ever since I learned these tools when I went on staff at The Hideaway Experience in 2010 I have continued to use them in all the work I do. I use them with clients. I use them with church staff. I use them with corporate organizations. And in all cases I see lives being transformed and I get good feedback about them.
The Pain and Peace Cycle were created b...
2015-12-0135 minPraxis Podcast with Rhett SmithHow Violations of Love and Trust Construct Your Pain CycleOne of the tools that has changed my life in such an amazing way...that at times it's really hard to explain...is learning the Pain and Peace Cycle in the work of Terry Hargrave in his Restoration Therapy model. In fact, in Episode 21 of this podcast I talked about how it can change your life, your relationships, as well as church organizations and corporations. In fact, I have taught the Pain and Peace Cycle in all these settings and see it do just that...change lives.
So this week I wanted to dive in a...
2015-12-0125 minPraxis Podcast with Rhett Smith5 Relational Skills That Will Radically Improve Your Marriage
Hanging out at our Strong Marriage training in Malibu, CA.
This last week my wife and I spent two days training with Sharon Hargrave in her Marriage Strong curriculum. There were several reasons why we wanted to attend the training: 1) We know how much working through our Pain and Peace Cycle has transformed our own marriage; 2) We have a desire to lead these groups in our neighborhood, community, and at workshops and conferences; and I in my practice. 3) I absolutely love the work of Terry and Sharon Hargrave.
In 2010 my colleague a...
2015-11-1827 min