Shaun Galanos And John Kim - Podcast Details

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We Can Do BetterGoodbye, for nowToday, John and Shaun get real about control, creative burnout, and what it means to walk away - maybe just for now. From family patterns to personality frameworks, they explore the subtle ways we try to mold the people closest to us, and how that effort can quietly extinguish our own inner spark.They reflect on how responsibility, relationships, and the pace of adult life can dim our fire - and how human design might offer clues to getting it back. Shaun shares what it means to live life as a Generator, while John questions his Manifestor...2025-05-2955 min

We Can Do BetterOnce a cheater, daddy issues, and 2nd to lastToday, John and Shaun get real about trust, control, and what it means to shape a life that doesn’t always follow the plan. From confessions about the past to reflections on what we can and can’t control - careers, relationships, even timing - they navigate what it means to let go and still show up.Shaun opens up about missing his father, while John shares what it’s like to not miss his. Compliments make things awkward, cheaters raise big questions, and somewhere in the middle, there's a gentle acknowledgment that we’re all just figuring...2025-05-2252 min

We Can Do BetterSize queens, mixed messages, and wounded inner childrenCW: There is some talk about violence towards women in this episode, specifically about cases of Uber drivers drugging female passengers. Today, John and Shaun get real about attraction, ambiguity, and the old wounds that shape how we love. From body talk and gym-floor preferences to the deeper imprints left by early heartbreak, they explore what drives desire - and what quietly drives us away.They reflect on confusing signals, self-worth, and how our inner kids still shape our adult relationships - often in ways we don’t notice until it’s too late. It’s funn...2025-05-1555 min

We Can Do BetterJohn's celibacy, Shaun's criticism, and a plot twistToday, John and Shaun get real about celibacy, the unexpected wisdom of edging and what it means to hold space for change. As they dive into how we show up for friends, and navigate endings with grace (or not), they explore what it means to sit with discomfort and desire.Also on the table: sex in senior living homes, prostate surprises, and the enduring mystery of midnight erections.And then comes the twist: a conversation that starts with podcast logistics quickly turns into something deeper—a surprising reveal that could shift the future of the sh...2025-05-0849 min

We Can Do BetterMoving on, saying no, and cuddle puddlesToday, John and Shaun get real about what it means to let go - with grace, awkwardness, and a few unexpected laughs. As the podcast edges toward its final episodes, they reflect on the shifting dynamics of friendship, the tension between presence and performance, and the quiet courage it takes to speak the truth out loud. From lighthearted debates about minivans and shower preferences to deeper moments of emotional honesty, this conversation holds space for both the silly and the sincere - and leaves room for what comes next.Mentions:The Costa Rica...2025-05-0150 min

We Can Do BetterMDMA therapy, libido in older adults, and the end of an eraToday, John and Shaun get real about psychedelic revelations, aging skin, and why they’re rethinking what makes their podcast worth doing. From John’s guided MDMA session and a “my mom never hugged me” breakthrough, to Shaun’s retinol skincare journey and anti-aging the natural way, this episode rides the line between hilarity and healing.They dive into the tension of overcommitting, how time and money shape creative work, and whether Burning Man is really a sex fest (spoiler: not exactly, but there is a Foamy Homies shower rave). Also on the table: the wisdom of the cock...2025-04-2553 min

We Can Do BetterWorthiness of love, cock ring experiments, and the duty of joyToday, John and Shaun open up about emotional honesty, the fear of being too much, and the art of letting others take care of you. From cock ring experiments and therapist breakthroughs to growing up without unconditional love, they explore the tangled roots of worthiness and connection. Also: the Love Drive podcast is making a comeback, and the house cleaner found the cock rings.They dive into what it means to feel safe in romantic vulnerability, Shaun’s fear of scaring people away with his sadness, and how early family dynamics shape our adult intimacy patterns. Shaun ge...2025-04-1753 min

We Can Do BetterEmotional availability, waking up alone, and economic collapseToday, John and Shaun get real about singlehood, morning moods, and what it means to wake up feeling alone. From retirement fund fears and post-fire perspective shifts to questioning whether AI can truly touch hearts, they explore how life—and money—quietly reshapes us. Also on the table: LA as the land of opportunity and the timeless wisdom of Winnie the Pooh.They dive into why we’re drawn to emotionally unavailable partners, the love we grew up with, and what it means to truly be seen. Shaun opens up about feeling like the one who always reache...2025-04-1050 min

We Can Do BetterAnti-aging, mansplaining, and blowing BrianToday, John and Shaun ride the roller coaster of texting anxiety, threesomes, slippery self-care hacks, and the occasional social media meltdown. They break down why a simple “Good morning” text can feel like a high-stakes game and the many unexpected uses of coconut and olive oils.Special guest, Lydia from Face Yoga by Lydia, joins to prove that, yes, your face needs a workout too. Expect expert guidance from Lydia and some endearingly awkward attempts from John and Shaun as they stretch and sculpt their way to eternal youth.The duo also reflects on the emot...2025-04-0352 min

We Can Do BetterThe orgasm gap, Sabrina Zohar, and picky datersToday, John and Shaun dive into the orgasm gap—why so many women aren’t reaching the finish line in the bedroom. They break down the importance of communication in sex, myths around male performance, and why “homie, your dick’s not enough.”They’re joined by guest, Sabrina Zohar, who shares her insights on modern dating, picky partners, and how unrealistic checklists keep people single. Plus, is blue balls a real thing? Should every guy read She Comes First? And why sometimes, you just need to tap out.People & Res...2025-03-2753 min

We Can Do BetterConstipation, speed dating, and jealous partnersToday, John and Shaun talk about the struggles of aging, navigating dietary changes, and the unexpected joys of pooping on command. They also discuss the concept of "optimistic nihilism" and the blurred lines between platonic and romantic relationships.They share thoughts on speed dating, social media jealousy, and whether liking photos online is harmless or a sign of "leaky energy." Plus, Shaun opens up about his ski trip, his new “ski wife,” and the complications of modern relationships.People & Social Links:Dayan Kolev on Instagram: @dayan.koleEpisode Resources & Events: Love...2025-03-2050 min

We Can Do BetterStarting over, writing a book, and divorced in your 50sToday, John and Shaun talk about hair insecurities, moving to Costa Rica, and the challenge of making big life changes. They also discuss dating in Los Angeles, social anxiety, and the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone.As they look ahead, John and Shaun brainstorm ways to expand the podcast, from guest appearances on other shows to adding expert guests of their own. Shaun shares insights from a podcast agent he met at a recent party, and they reflect on how networking (even when you don’t feel like it) can open un...2025-03-1352 min

We Can Do BetterPopping Cherries, Internalized Misogyny, and When To Have KidsToday, John and Shaun talk about internal misogyny, dating older women, how they lost their virginity, and starting over. They also answer two listeners’ questions: how do you know when you’re ready to have kids, and how do you learn to trust yourself and your intuition?You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001Find out more about Shaun and John’s Spring retreat HEREPlease take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. 2025-03-0659 min

We Can Do BetterThe American “Dream”, Herpes, and Moving to Costa Rica?Today, John and Shaun talk about different styles of communication, the American dream, the meaning behind tattoos, and relocating outside of Los Angeles. They also answer two listeners’ questions: what was the skateboarding life like for you guys, and what’s the best way to disclose to someone that I have herpes?You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001Find out more about Shaun and John’s Spring retreat HEREPlease take a moment and leave us a revi...2025-02-2758 min

We Can Do BetterCock Rings, Getting Arrested, and Mothering Your PartnerToday, Shaun and John talk about their recent Valentine’s Day retreat, past addictive behaviors, Shaun’s new sex toy, and the benefits of using cock rings in the bedroom. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: how can you help your partner without feeling like you’re mothering them?You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001Check out Shaun’s new sex toy HEREPlease take a moment and leave us a review on...2025-02-2056 min

We Can Do BetterChristianity, Cancel Culture, and Moaning During SexToday, Shaun and John talk about break ups, their Valentine’s Day retreat, making platonic friends, and celebrity drama. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: why don’t men make more noise in the bedroom?You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001Please take a moment and leave us a review on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us.Find out more about John’s Breakthrough ExperienceHEREFind out more about John⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...2025-02-131h 00

We Can Do BetterPicking Up in Public, Leaving LA, and One Hour Work WeeksToday, Shaun and John talk about rebuilding after loss, their struggles getting older, the pressure to be productive, and comparing yourself to others on social media. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: how can men approach women without being “creepy,” and how do you know when you should leave a toxic relationship? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more abou...2025-02-061h 01

We Can Do BetterMaking Adult Friends, Meeting Men in Public, and LitteringToday, Shaun and John talk about their relationship with sweets, new love experiences, and making friends in Los Angeles. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: how do I make friends and meet new people when I struggle with social anxiety, and can people stop using delivery apps and go out instead since it’s so hard to meet people in person nowadays? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠...2025-01-3053 min

We Can Do BetterJohn’s Rise, Shaun’s Date, and No Sugar For 30 DaysToday, Shaun and John talk about their fears regarding the aftermath of the LA fires, thirty day diet challenges, Shaun’s successful first date, and digital detoxes. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: how can I navigate feeling guilty for not wanting to spend time with my friend’s kids, and what does it mean when someone says they need to “cool off” from the relationship? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a...2025-01-2358 min

We Can Do BetterThe Fire Episode and John Starts OverToday, Shaun and John talk about the LA fires, their Valentine’s Day retreat, and how to help those who were affected by this tragedy. They also listen to a voicemail from one of their followers who lost their home in the fires. You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 As some of you might know, John and his family lost their home in the LA fires. John has started a GoFundMe to support friends and families in Altadena and help with basic needs such as shelter, fo...2025-01-1648 min

We Can Do BetterPhone Addiction, Morning Routines, and Giving People SpaceHey folks. As some of you might know, John and his family lost their home in the LA fires. John has started a GoFundMe to support friends and families in Altadena and help with basic needs such as shelter, food, and clothing. If you called to donate, please do so here: https://www.gofundme.com/f/basics-needed-for-friends-who-lost-their-homes-today If you were planning on joining our retreat, signing up sooner rather than later is also helpful. Do that here: https://the-angry-therapist.myshopify.com/products/love-thyself-a-winter-retreat-for-singles-with-john-kim-and-shaun-galanos Sending...2025-01-091h 02

We Can Do BetterShared Phone Plans, Sober Dating, and Talking About MenToday, Shaun and John talk about motorcycles, things they need to work on with their parents, feedback from their first live show, and shared phone plans. They also answer and give advice on a listener’s question: do mixed sobriety relationships work? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more information about the Love Thyself: Valentine's Day Retreat ⁠⁠HERE⁠ Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find...2025-01-021h 08

We Can Do BetterBeing Childfree, Spirituality, and Disappointing OthersToday, Shaun and John talk about choosing a child-free life, fitness, spiritually, and being of service by sharing your gifts. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: where’s the line between being the best version of yourself and being lazy or selfish for prioritizing your needs, and how do you maintain a friendship with someone who doesn’t think women are viewed or treated differently in society? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and lea...2024-12-2659 min

We Can Do BetterLive From Hollywood - We Can Do BetterToday, Shaun and John do a live podcast recording on the rooftop of the Mama Shelter hotel in Hollywood, California. We talk about dating app fatigue, how to feel confident in LA when it's easy to feel insecure, Shaun's new sex toy collaboration, and we take live questions from the audience about regaining sexual confidence, dating outside the apps, and more! It's a special one, folks. You can leave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Get your own Girls Get Off x The Love Drive Glass Wand: https://girlsgetoff.com/products/elle-glass-wand Thank...2024-12-251h 14

We Can Do BetterHeart-Ons, Wounded Masculine & Feminine, and Playing GamesToday, Shaun and John talk about what they want for themselves in 2025, showing emotion by crying, and wounded masculine and feminine energies vs sacred masculine and feminine energies. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: should women hold back and make the men they’re dating chase them, and how do I become less avoidant and not get the “ick” in the early stages of dating? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 RSVP to We Can Do Better Live Podcast at Mama She...2024-12-191h 02

We Can Do BetterLong Distance with Kids, First Live Podcast, and Taking ComplimentsToday, Shaun and John talk about their upcoming live podcast at Mama Shelter, their Valentine’s Day retreat, depression, and what women look for in men. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: what should you do when you’re dating someone who doesn’t want the same things as you, and any advice on how to handle a long distance relationship when you both have kids? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 RSVP to We Can Do Better Live Podcast at Mama Shelter...2024-12-121h 04

We Can Do BetterAddiction, I'm Too Picky, and I’m Attracted To My TherapistToday, Shaun and John talk about quitting nicotine, their addictions, complexities of parental relationships, and generational views on money. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: how do I know if I’m being too picky choosing a partner, and do you have any advice on how to channel more of my feminine energy? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out m...2024-12-051h 05

We Can Do BetterMoney, Finances in Dating, and Being the ProviderToday, Shaun and John talk about a skill Shaun's secretly good at (fixing bikes), communal living, Bitcoin, and money. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: should men be making a certain amount of money before getting into a relationship, and how can my new boyfriend and I navigate fiances? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠...2024-11-281h 01

We Can Do BetterMoney, Finances in Dating, and Being the ProviderToday, Shaun and John talk about a skill Shaun’s secretly good at (fixing bikes), communal living, Bitcoin, and money. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: should men be making a certain amount of money before getting into a relationship, and how can my new boyfriend and I navigate fiances? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE...2024-11-281h 01

We Can Do BetterThe Election, Women’s Safety, and Soft MenToday, Shaun and John talk about Shaun’s big move to Los Angeles, John and Vanessa’s wedding in Mexico, and how people respond to men crying. They also answer and give advice on two listeners’ questions: what does “we can do better” mean in politics for the male community right now, and how can we do better for women’s safety and rights in the US? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. ...2024-11-2756 min

We Can Do BetterSex Work, Life Purpose, and Lack of SleepToday, Shaun and John talk about riding motorcycles, happy endings, al-anon meetings, and supporting sex workers. They also share positive feedback from their listeners, and answer a listener’s question: how do I begin self-reflecting on my tendencies to cheat? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more about al-anon meetings ⁠⁠HERE ⁠⁠ Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...2024-11-0759 min

We Can Do BetterMale Sexuality, Leaving Your Marriage, and Gen ZToday, John and Shaun talk about fear, negative feedback from listeners, asking for what you need, and male body and bedroom insecurities. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you get the courage to leave a marriage, and how do you deal with jealous feelings in a relationship? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Jump into John’s new Single...2024-10-311h 08

We Can Do BetterOur First Fight, Repairing Ruptures, and Repeating PatternsToday, John and Shaun talk about jet skiing to Catalina, their first fight, being seen v.s. fitting in, and repairing after conflict. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I avoid getting into unhealthy relationships, and how much information should I share about my divorce on the first few dates? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more...2024-10-241h 00

We Can Do BetterBreaking Up, Dealbreakers, and First Date RejectionToday, John and Shaun talk about Shaun’s first tattoo, getting rejected after one date, different types of breakups, and more “icks” in dating. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you move on from a breakup that completely blindsided you, and how do you stop feeling unworthy after a breakup? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. You can pre-order John's new book...2024-10-171h 10

We Can Do BetterGetting Over the Ick, First Tattoos, and Cheating (Again)Today, John and Shaun talk about their parents, post travel blues, overthinking your first tattoo, and upcoming creative projects. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I reverse having "the ick" for someone I'm dating, and how long does it take for someone to get over infidelity? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠...2024-10-101h 02

We Can Do BetterExposing Cheaters, Commitment, and WeddingsToday, Shaun and John talk about tattoos, MIGs (most inappropriate guests) at weddings, and not wanting to have kids. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: should I tell someone their partner is cheating on them, and the men I date don't want anything serious after a few months - is it personal? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out...2024-10-0357 min

Our DiagnonsenseShaun Galanos aka @TheLoveDriveIn this episode of OurDiagnonsense, we sit down with Shaun Galanos, relationship coach, creator of The Love Drive, and co-host of the podcast We Can Do Better with John Kim. Shaun opens up about the personal challenges he's faced on his journey of self-discovery, including the pressures of maintaining a public persona in the age of social media. He shares candidly about how the search for validation and meaning has, at times, led him down the rabbit hole of online comments, impacting his mental health and self-esteem. Join us for an honest conversation about navigating vulnerability, visibility, and how...2024-09-2735 min

We Can Do BetterConsent, Sex Parties, and Jet SkisToday, Shaun and John discuss making romantic connections while traveling, feedback from listeners about consent, sex parties in Berlin, and skinny dipping. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: why does Shaun want to have a "super slutty hot girl summer" instead of a "f*ck boy summer," and is there a list of fool proof questions to ask someone to be more serious with you? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠...2024-09-261h 05

We Can Do BetterModern Dating, Nude Beaches, and Can I Kiss You?Today, John and Shaun talk about nudity, dating without relying on technology, verbal consent, and ghosting. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: will men lose interest in women if they want to be friends with benefits but without penetration, and how can people flirt without it turning into dirty talk? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠...2024-09-191h 05

We Can Do BetterWho Pays On The First Date, Trusting Your Gut, and The Manosphere?Today, John and Shaun discuss travel, dropping into your body, who pays on the first date, and using dating apps to make friends. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the best way to communicate interest in someone after the first date without scaring them off, and how do I check my male friend who's going down a toxic self improvement rabbit hole? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠. Your review means the...2024-09-121h 07

We Can Do BetterDirty Talk, Molly, and Small WilliesToday, John and Shaun talk about John's first time taking Molly, anal play, threesomes, and ethical porn. They also listen to a few dirty voicemails and give advice on two listeners' questions: why can't men be just as noisy as women in the bedroom, and how does one become more comfortable with dirty talk? Here are the links Shaun and John were talking about in today's episode! A Worksheet To Help You Talk To Partners About Sex How To Dirty Talk Ethical Porn: xconfessions.com (Erika Lust) & Makelovenotporn.tv (Cindy Gallop) You...2024-09-051h 10

We Can Do BetterErectile Dysfunction, Bad Friends, and Men with DepressionToday, John and Shaun discuss emotional safety in the bedroom, erectile dysfunction, and compromise in friendships. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the best way to be vulnerable with your partner so they don't use it against you, and am I wasting my time dating people who aren't looking for a serious relationship when I want one? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠. Your review means the world to us. ...2024-08-291h 08

We Can Do BetterHelping Men, Libido Discrepancy, and People PleasingToday, Shaun and John discuss controlling behaviors that show up unconsciously, breaking up with friends, and providing a safe space for men on this podcast. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the concept behind "bros before hoes," and how do you deal with libido differences in a long term relationship? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠. Your review means the world to us. Find out...2024-08-221h 07

We Can Do BetterThe Orgasm Gap, Anger Management, and Should We Break Up?Today, John and Shaun talk about their recent retreat experiences, celebrity man crushes, and their first blowjobs. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: Is it a woman's responsibility to ask the man she's dating to go down on her, and how do I know when (or if) I should pull the plug on a connection after giving it a fair chance? You can leave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your review means the...2024-08-151h 13

We Can Do BetterThe Skidmark Bandit, No Good Men, and Our New HotlineToday, Shaun and John talk about how men struggle to be vulnerable, abandonment wounds from childhood, thirst traps, and their new voicemail hotline. They also answer two listener questions: how should I tell my boyfriend he's leaving skid marks on the bedsheets? And where do I find a good man to date after doing the inner work and being single for so long? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001 Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow S 2024-08-0859 min

We Can Do BetterVasectomies, Sex Toys, and Should Women Ask Men Out?Today, John and Shaun discuss how they handle criticism on social media, men getting vasectomies, using sex toys in the bedroom, and hall passes for celebrity crushes. They also answer a listener's question and give advice about whether women should wait for men to chase them, or if they should ask men out first. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠2024-08-011h 00

We Can Do BetterManopause, How To Flirt, and My BF Steals My PantiesToday, Shaun and John discuss hairstyle insecurities, aging, and the ethics of keeping exes' nudes. They bring on two live caller's and give advice on how to bring more flirty energy into your life, and what to do about a boyfriend's panty kink. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠2024-07-2556 min

We Can Do BetterKinky John, Dealing with Anger, and Golden ShowersToday, Shaun and John touch on their kinks, seeking therapy, experiences growing up, and “parts work.” They also bring on their first two live callers and answer their questions. The first caller asks how to set boundaries and distance yourself from unhealthy people. The second caller seeks their guidance on coping with anger towards systemic injustices and daily dilemmas. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠2024-07-181h 00

We Can Do BetterAge Gaps, Big D*ck Energy, and Short ShortsToday, Shaun and John discuss the concept of 'nectar' as a source of joy, and retiring the term 'Big Dick Energy.' For the Q&A, they tackle when to define the relationship and what the most appropriate age gap in relationships is. Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠ 2024-07-111h 01

We Can Do BetterThreesomes, Deleting Your Ex, and Ankle Socks Are For Old PeopleToday, John and Shaun discuss ankle socks, and sexual terms like 'stealthing.' For the Q&A, they tackle the topics of keeping mementos from past relationships, retroactive jealousy, threesomes, and more. Here are the links Shaun was talking about in this episode: Yoga Nidra For Deep Rest Radish House, Oakland Find out more about John ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠HERE 2024-07-041h 06

We Can Do BetterWhy We Date A**holes, Disclosing STIs, and Why Does My Ex Watch My Stories?Today, John and Shaun touch on the challenges of dealing with criticism, and disclosing herpes status. For the Q&A, they explore why we tend to date a**holes, and what it means when our exes still watch our stories. You can read Shaun's article, How to Talk About Sexual Health For the First Time, HERE Find out more about John ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠⁠HERE 2024-06-271h 00

The Angry Therapist PodcastIs Pornography Cheating, Can Long Distance Work, and We Don't Play Sports with Shaun GalanosIn this episode, John brings on Shaun (The Love Drive) to talk about how hurtful ghosting can be, what "mommy issues" look like in relationships, whether long distance relationships can work or not, the inability to say "I love you," why you keep attracting unavailable partners, if watching pornography is cheating, and more. Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices 2024-06-2145 min

We Can Do BetterStop Interrupting Me, Height Differences in Dating, and Dealing with InfidelityToday, John and Shaun read some feedback from listeners about their new podcast. For the Q&A, they dive into the significance of height in dating, and explore the topic of infidelity. Find out more about John ⁠HERE⁠ Follow John on Instagram ⁠HERE⁠ Find out more about Shaun ⁠HERE⁠ Follow Shaun on Instagram ⁠HERE 2024-06-2055 min

We Can Do BetterThe Importance of Sexual CompatibilityIn the first episode of We Can Do Better, John Kim (The Angry Therapist) and Shaun Galanos (The Love Drive) share their excitement and fears about the new venture and collaboration. They dive into their addictive tendencies, the importance of sexual compatibility in a relationship, and give advice on how to navigate the dating scene. Find out more about John HERE Follow John on Instagram HERE Find out more about Shaun HERE Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE 2024-06-131h 10

The Angry Therapist PodcastYoni Massages, Our Definition of Love, and Circumcision with Shaun GalanosIn this episode, John talks to Shaun Galanos (The Love Drive) about various topics including fear of missing out (FOMO), polyamory, dating rejection, and attachment styles. They also highlight the importance of communication, emotional regulation, coping with dating rejection, and redefining what rejection means. Follow John on Instagram HEREFind out more about John HERE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices 2024-06-121h 03 $Let\'s Talk Love | A Real Love Ready Podcast$ Let's Talk Love | A Real Love Ready PodcastA Sneak Peek into In Bloom 2024Join us for a special episode of Let’s Talk Love, as host John Kim moderates a panel discussion featuring six speakers from the upcoming In Bloom Summit, alongside Real Love Ready founder, Robin Ducharme.Discover the perspectives of John Kim, Vanessa Bennett, Todd Baratz, Shaun Galanos, Dr. Jody Carrington, and Dené Logan as they offer diverse viewpoints on love and relationships. Together, they tackle questions submitted by listeners, exploring topics such as effectively communicating needs to avoidant partners and distinguishing between peace and boredom in relationships.This episode offers a sneak peek into the tho...2024-04-0840 min

The Angry Therapist PodcastIn Bloom Panel: Answering Your Love & Relationship QuestionsIn this exciting episode, John hosts a panel with the speakers for the upcoming In Bloom: A Love and Relationships Summit. They talk about everything love and relationships including artificial intimacy, sex as a cultural and relational issue, emotional availability, and the practice of interdependence. The conversation also touches on communication in relationships, the challenges of navigating different attachment styles, the importance of understanding and empathy in relationships, rather than labeling and blaming, and much more.In Bloom: A Love and Relationships SummitApril 12-14, 2024Fairmont Waterfront Hotel, Vancouver BC...2024-04-0841 min