Sherry Gaba And Carla Romo - Podcast Details

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The Love FixThe Next Evolution for The Love FixIn the heartfelt finale of "The Love Fix" podcast, Sherry and Carla take a nostalgic journey through the show's evolution, mirroring the ebbs and flows of relationships. The dynamic duo reflects not only on the success of achieving their podcasting goals but also on the profound impact the show has had on their personal growth. Like any enduring friendship, "The Love Fix" has been a catalyst for positive change, teaching Sherry and Carla valuable lessons along the way, and they take a minute to give thanks for the unwavering support and listenership that has made "The Love Fix" a...2023-12-0131 min

The Love FixNavigating Attachment Styles and Love Addiction in Multiamorous Relationships with MultiamorySherry and Carla start things off with a Love Fix Question from a listener who is in an open relationship with her husband, but feels like he is not upholding his side of being honest and transparent. Then, they welcome Multiamory, a group that offers support and advice for modern relationships through their podcasts and books, whether you are monogamous, polyamorous, casual dating or if you just do relationships differently. If you want to deepen your current relationships, find your ideal romantic partners or develop a better understanding of yourself, then you have come to the right place by c...2023-11-2441 min

The Love FixWhen Present Triggers are Past Wounds with Tess McMechanCarla nurses her newly broken bone, and then she and Sherry take a Love Fix question from a listener whose boyfriend has photos of his ex on his phone. She’s wondering if this is normal and just annoying, or super sketchy red flag behavior. They then welcome Tess McMechan, a Certified Somatic and Trauma Integration Practitioner. Tess works one-on-one with people to help them identify the root cause of why they are suffering, heal their trauma, break cycles, and deprogram conditionings. In the conversation, Tess talks about how and why red flags in relationships often stem from past tr...2023-11-1729 min

The Love FixUnraveling the Narcissist in Divorce with Seth Nelson and Pete WrightCarla and Sherry first share their love for their favorite takeout joints, and they take a Love Fix Question from a listener who is in the middle of getting divorced and feels quite fearful about what it will mean for their financial stability. They then welcome Seth Nelson, a Tampa-based family lawyer known for coming up with creative solutions to difficult problems, and Pete Wright, an experienced broadcaster who has spent 30 years helping brands shape their stories together, Seth and Pete aim to provide divorcing couples with practical advice and hope through their podcast, How to Split a Toaster, a...2023-11-1033 min

The Love FixHow Family Estrangement Affects Self Worth, Relationships and Trauma with Yasmin KerkezCarla and Sherry first take a Love Fix question from a listener who is feeling the attraction fade towards their partner. They would like to know whether it’s worth sticking through things, or if it’s the beginning of the end. They then welcome Love Fix guest Yasmin Kerkez, Co-Founder of Family Support Resources, an organization,helping transform the lives of people living with family conflicts and estrangement. Yasmin talks about what family estrangement is, the common reasons it happens, and how to let go of the shame and blame around the trauma that typically comes with family estr...2023-11-0332 min

The Love FixChanging the Culture Towards Consent, Betrayal and Abuse with Anne BlytheCarla and Sherry first start the show talking about their preference for sweet vs. sour candies, and then they take a Love Fix question from a listener who feels like they are walking on eggshells around their partner. They are seeking advice on how to move on from past arguments and make some real progress, but aren’t even sure if their partner is open to it. They then welcome Anne Blythe, Founder of BTR.org and host of the Betrayal Trauma Recovery Podcast. BTR.org offers daily group sessions from women, victims of emotional and psychological abuse and se...2023-10-2738 min

The Love FixAttraction, Red Flags and The Wow Factor in Dating with Jacob LucasSherry and Carla kickstart the show by discussing their favorite dating apps and Sherry's preferred age range. They then tackle a Love Fix Question from a listener who consistently feels dating jitters around 3 or 4 and is looking for advice on how to move forward and finally commit. Next up, they're joined by Jacob Lucas, a renowned UK dating coach with over 700,000 followers, real-life methods, and an impressive media presence, to uncover the secrets of successful dating. Join The Love Fix Get Healthy Relationships and Dating group coaching program www.thelovefix.com Con...2023-10-2035 min

The Love FixUnraveling Love Addiction and Taking a Love Detox with Whitney WalkerSherry and Carla kick this week off with a Love Fix Question from a listener wondering how to cohabitate with a partner who isn’t the biggest dog fan, and she’s wondering how she and her pooch can compromise when he moves in. Then, they welcome Whitney Walker, a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in addiction, eating disorders, trauma, and spirituality. She also works as a recovery coach and spiritual guide. Whitney opened a private practice in the California Bay Area where she sees clients, couples, and families. Whitney created the “Women Waken” podcast, a holistic guide to...2023-10-1334 min

The Love FixHow Trauma Affects Our Dating Patterns and Knowing Your Feminine Archetype with Lilli BewleySherry is in her self love era, and it all starts with the hair. She and Carla take a Love Fix Question from a listener that is interested in adding in a coach along with her trauma therapy, and has some questions on the timing and finding the right coach to fit the job. They then welcome Lilli Bewley, a seasoned dating coach with over a decade of experience in personal development. Her own journey took her from mere survival to thriving in both love and purpose. Today, Lilli is dedicated to assisting single, accomplished women in rediscovering the...2023-10-0632 min

The Love FixDetaching with Love and How Codependency Can Fuel Addiction with Rachel HarrisonSherry and Carla start the episode by pointing out that you shouldn’t trust everything you see online about relationships. They then take a Love Fix Question from a listener who feels ashamed of their past and wants to stop caring about what others think. Then, they welcome guest Rachel Harrison, an inspiring woman who founded the Recover Your Soul podcast and community over three years ago. Through her personal journey of recovery from alcoholism, control addiction, and codependency she experienced profound changes in her life. These experiences led her to discover the transformation and the power of a sp...2023-10-0633 min

The Love FixDetaching with Love and How Codependency Can Fuel Addiction with Rachel HarrisonSherry and Carla start the episode pointing out that you shouldn’t trust everything you see online about relationships. They then take a Love Fix Question from a listener who feels ashamed of their past and wants to stop caring about what others think. Then, they welcome guest Rachel Harrison, an inspiring woman who founded the Recover Your Soul podcast and community over three years ago. Through her personal journey of recovery from alcoholism, control addiction, and codependency she experienced profound changes in her life. These experiences led her to discover the transformation and the power of a spiritual pa...2023-09-2934 min

The Love FixShameless Sex & How Codependency Affects Sexuality with Amy Baldwin and April LampertSherry and Carla have a funny chat about their coffee preferences before they get into a Love Fix question from a listener who is trying to break away from pleasing people, but still isn’t comfortable or confident while stating their needs. They then sit down with two incredible guests who are changing the game in the world of sexual empowerment and pleasure, Amy Baldwin and April Lampert. Amy is a certified sex educator, relationship coach, and co-owner of a mother-daughter online pleasure boutique. April is the Co-owner of the innovative pleasure product company Hot Octopuss. Together, they've created th...2023-09-2238 min

The Love FixHow Negatively Unhealed Trauma Affects Our Relationships with Marlena TillhonSherry and Carla first share a little about the infamous Villages community in Florida, and then they take a Love Fix question from a listener wondering how they can stop feeling triggered from past situations in their new relationship. They then welcome Marlena Tillhon, a psychotherapist and relationship coach specializing in helping people heal from past trauma caused by unhealthy relationships. Marlena works with her clients so they can create healthy, loving and fulfilling relationships so they can feel loved for who they are today. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast 2023-09-1531 min

The Love FixRunaway Husbands and Wife Abandonment Syndrome with Vikki StarkSherry and Carla kick off the show with a Love Fix question from a recent divorcee who is looking for tips around dating, especially when they aren’t sure if they ever want to get married again. This leads to a conversation about how important it is to work on your issues before you enter the dating game. They then welcome internationally known psychotherapist, speaker, author and divorce recovery expert, Vikki Stark. Vikki is the director of the Sedona Counseling Center of Montreal and is known for her groundbreaking book, Runaway Husbands, which has led her to mentor a wo...2023-09-0831 min

The Love FixLetting Go of the Pain and Trauma of Abuse with Rachel GrantSherry and Carla start out talking about the real deal - the difference between loving someone and being in love with them. They go to a Love Fix question from a listener feeling spooked that they may be getting ghosted soon, and are looking for some advice on what to do. They then welcome Rachel Grant, founder of Rachel Grant Coaching and a leading sexual abuse recovery coach with an MA in Counseling and Psychology. As the author of "Beyond Surviving" and "Recovery from Sexual Abuse," Rachel combines her academic background, neuroscience insights, and personal journey to offer the...2023-09-0132 min

The Love FixDispelling Codependency Myths and Getting Out of the Freeze Fawn Trauma Response Loop with Marshall BurtcherSherry talks about her love for life in Florida, enjoying the sunny days and vibrant energy. Then, she and Carla take a Love Fix question about how to spot signs of codependency early in dating to avoid getting stuck in such relationships. They then introduce Love Fix guest Marshall Burtcher, a codependency healing expert who helps people pleasers, perfectionists, and those struggling with codependency. Marshall's approach, developed after his own 30-year struggle, focuses on shifting from self-fixing to self-love, enabling fulfilling relationships and inner peace. He guides people trapped in codependency to break free from these patterns and find...2023-08-2535 min

The Love FixSelf Love, Solo Travel and Embracing the Risk of Loving Again with Gabrielle StoneSherry introduces her pup Mocha to the show, and Carla reminisces about the days that feral cats tore up her home. They then take a Love Fix question from a listener who is new to dating, has anxious attachment and can’t seem to console themselves. Then we met Gabrielle Stone, a familiar face in the entertainment industry, having grown up alongside the iconic scream queen, Dee Wallace. Gabrielle's childhood was steeped in the enchantment of showbiz, from playful days of faux-blood tasting to witnessing cinematic enchantment behind the scenes. Her early exposure to globetrotting with her parents fueled he...2023-08-1834 min

The Love FixDating Apps From An Attachment Lens, Sexual Confidence and Polyamory with Dr. Alexandra SolomonSherry and Carla start the week with a Love Fix question from a listener who caught their fiance watching adult movies, and now they are wondering what is normal and what may be going too far. They then welcome Love Fix guest Dr. Alexandra Solomon, who is internationally recognized as one of today's most trusted voices in the world of relationships. Her framework of relational self awareness has reached millions of people around the globe. A couples therapist, speaker, author, professor, podcast hosts retreat leader and media personality, Dr. Solomon is passionate about translating, cutting edge research and clinical...2023-08-1130 min

The Love FixLove Addiction, Knowing Your Dysfunction and Childhood Trauma in Relationships with Kenny WeissCarla kicks off the episode with an exciting announcement that gives us all hope for the dating apps, and then they take a Love Fix question from a listener unsure about what a healthy relationship really looks like. They then welcome guest Kenny Weiss who is an advocate for truth, healing, personal responsibility and forgiveness. As an author, speaker, coach, teacher, and healer, Kenny specializes in helping individuals and couples heal their emotional hurts and pain from the past to reclaim their authentic selves and become the greatest version of themselves. He accomplishes this through the use of his...2023-08-0445 min

The Love FixHealing Strategies for Getting Over a Break-up & Toxic Relationship with Ana MariaSherry and Carla take a Love Fix Question from a listener who is tired of dating, is feeling burnt out, and wondering if they should take a break from the dating scene or keep plugging away. They then welcome guest Ana Maria, who is not the typical standard template kind of life coach. Ana Maria is a healing strategist with a thirst for problem solving, and a keen passion for root cause solutions. Today, she has transformed her pain into purpose, and now she's here to serve others who want to do the same. She talks with Sherry and...2023-07-2830 min

The Love FixDoing Deep Work, Surviving Trauma and Living Fearlessly with Farrah AbrahamFirst, Carla and Sherry connect over their shared passion for electric music and offer a glimpse into their upcoming group coaching program, designed to help individuals forge a path towards healthy relationships. They address a listener's Love Fix Question about recognizing the right time to end an unhealthy relationship. Later, renowned guest Farrah Abraham joins the show, showcasing her indomitable spirit and remarkable journey. Overcoming adversities as a teen mother, Farrah defied expectations, rising to prominence through MTV's "16 and Pregnant" and the Teen Mom franchise. As a bestselling author, keynote speaker, and advocate for women's empowerment, she continues to...2023-07-2138 min

The Love FixSelf Worth, Self Love and Healing From Toxic Relationships with Kat ZammutoThe gals start out highlighting great life lessons from past relationships, and then take a Love Fix question from a listener looking for information on how to tell if someone may be an addict out there in the dating world. They then welcome Kat Zammuto, an artist with a passion for multiple creative fields. Kat’s podcast “Kat on the Loose: Sex, Dating and Relationships is growing a big and loyal following. Kat grew up in California and started working in the entertainment and modeling industries at a very young age, as her dad was a TV and video prod...2023-07-1434 min

The Love FixRed flags on Sabotaging Your Love Life with Kasturi MCarla shows Sherry a picture that takes her breath away, and then they take a Love Fix question from a listener who is dating a guy who said he gets bored easily, and it’s making her feel insecure and unsure of what to do next. They then welcome Kasturi M, a relationship coach and Marriage and Family Therapist based out of India. She has a global audience and helps individuals all over the world build healthy relationships and marriages. Kasturi talks about self sabotage, attachment styles, and provides some great resources for conscious coupling and upping your confidence wh...2023-07-0727 min

The Love FixDefining Attachment Trauma and Untangling Trauma Bonds with Dr. Laura CopleySherry and Carla start off with a Love Fix Question from a listener who has been cheated on in the past, and now they are dating someone who has cheated on their partner in the past, and they are concerned that they always pick cheaters. They then welcome Dr. Laura Copley, a highly respected trauma bond specialist, counselor, educator, and researcher who excels in unraveling the intricate dynamics of toxic relationships and facilitating healing from trauma bonds. As the founder and director of Aurora Counseling and Well Being, a trauma-informed group practice nestled in the beautiful Shenandoah Valley, she...2023-06-3031 min

The Love FixPractical Steps To Move From Anxious and Avoidant Attachment to Secure Attachment with Dr. Christina ReeseThis episode first starts with Sherry and Carla reflecting on embracing life’s journey without harboring regrets. They discuss how to find value in the ups and downs and recognize the positive outcomes that have emerged from past experiences. They take a Love Fix question about learning during conflict rather than turning away. Then, they are joined by Dr. Christina Reese, a highly experienced licensed clinical counselor who has dedicated the past two decades to helping children and their families affected by trauma. As an internationally recognized trainer, she works extensively with mental health professionals, specializing in trauma-informed schools, cl...2023-06-2331 min

The Love FixCodependency, Sustainable Self Care and Handling Ghosting Trauma with Krystal Mazzola WoodSherry and Carla engage in a lively discussion about effective ways to alleviate post-first date pressure, whether it involves a leisurely stroll in the park or a delightful ice cream outing. They then address a Love Fix Question about a listener's concerns about the lack of communication from their date. Then, they welcome Krystal Mazzola Wood, licensed marriage and family therapist who has made remarkable contributions to fostering self-love and establishing profound connections with others through her Healthy Relationship Foundation. Krystal's expertise shines through her authorship of two immensely popular books, namely "The Codependency Recovery Plan" and "The Codependency...2023-06-1635 min

The Love FixComplex PTSD, Addictions and the Link to Trauma with Mary GiulianiSherry and Carla kick off the show talking about how much hormones affect us as women, and then take a Love Fix question from a listener that is dating an ex addict who isn’t getting the help they need, which leaves them feeling controlled and criticized. They then welcome Mary Giuliani, a certified coach, keynote speaker, and author of It’s Not About Food, Drugs or Alcohol: It’s About Healing Complex PTSD. As a coach, Mary supports survivors in healing from complex trauma and achieving long term recovery from codependency relating to food, drugs, and or alcohol, result...2023-06-0930 min

The Love FixJealousy, Envy, and Setting Boundaries with Dr. Joli HamiltonSherry and Carla start off talking about the serious nature of stalking and how narcissistic partners can show scary traits that can be a form of stalking. They take a Love Fix question from a listener that has trauma from a former controlling partner and is worried that her next partner will also be the same way. They then welcome Dr. Joli Hamilton, the relationship coach for couples who color outside the lines. Dr. Joli is a research psychologist, TEDx speaker, best-selling author, and sex-certified sex educator. Dr. Joli also co-hosts the Playing with Fire podcast with her anchor...2023-06-0237 min

The Love FixHeartbreak and Intimacy with Allana PrattSherry and Carla talk about putting the focus back on you and good self care, and how that starts by taking care of your teeth! They take a Love Fix question from a listener on a personal journey who recently lost their boyfriend and is feeling very alone. They then welcome Allana Pratt, a former small-town Canadian girl turned global media personality, who has emerged as a trusted authority for those who have endured heartbreak and are now ready to fearlessly embrace life and attract open-hearted ideal relationships. Connect with Us! The Love Fi...2023-05-2630 min

The Love FixHow Codependency Affects Sexual Relationships with Dr. GorntoCarla has a fun new announcement, and then she and Sherry take a Love Fix question from a listener who has a question about a situation that consistently occurs when dating interracially. They then welcome Dr. Scott Gornto, an LMFT, former pastor, church planter, certified sex therapist, speaker, and author based in Dallas, Texas. Dr. Gornto has over 35,000 hours of individual marriage, family, and group therapy. His specialties are addiction, codependency, boundaries, communication, couples, therapy, infidelity, repair, trauma, PTSD, and sex therapy. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Dating & Rel...2023-05-1937 min

The Love FixHow Your Inner Child Influences Your Romantic Relationship Choices with Evelyn HaleSherry and Carla first talk about embracing your creativity, even if you have no clue how to put together that Lego set. They take a Love Fix question from a listener who believes that their toxic ex gave them an STD and are wondering how to move forward. They then welcome Evelyn Hale, a Trauma Coach supporting survivors of childhood trauma and helping them reclaim their power through a range of holistic practices that rewire the nervous system, heart, and mind. Evelyn’s own journey of healing from childhood sexual and complex trauma led her to have a spiritual aw...2023-05-1230 min

The Love FixSelf Love, Surrender, and MANifesting Love with Jaime BronsteinSherry and Carla talk about practicing what they preach in their own dating life, and that sometimes it isn’t something you are doing wrong, but just plain bad luck. They take a Love Fix Question from a listener wondering when it’s time to make it official in dating, and how to initiate that conversation. They then welcome Jaime Bronstein, a licensed therapist, relationship coach,m and author of the upcoming book MAN*ifesting: A Step-by-Step Guide to Attracting the Love That is Meant for You. Jaime works on Zoom and in person with singles, couples, and people navig...2023-05-0531 min

The Love FixDealing with Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Styles, Betrayal, and Regulating Your Nervous System with Dr. Zoe ShawSherry and Carla send a shout-out to their fantastic listeners from Sweden before taking a Love Fix Question from a listener who dislikes their boyfriend's family and is overwhelmed by their gossipy nature. They then welcome Dr. Zoe Shaw, a licensed psychotherapist, author, speaker, podcast host, relationship coach, and fitness enthusiast. She specializes in helping women who struggle with difficult relationships, particularly their relationship with themselves. Dr. Zoe offers virtual therapy, coaching services, and programs using a blend of psychology, faith, and feminism. She has authored the Ask Dr. Zoe column in the Grit and Grace Project, and the...2023-04-2828 min

The Love FixReparenting the Inner Child and Mindful Compassion with Laura K. ConnellSherry gets ready for Bike Week in Florida, and she and Carla share a good laugh about men with beer, bandanas, and bellies. They then take a Love Fix Question from a listener who just escaped a toxic relationship and started to realize now how bad it was after speaking with friends and reflecting on the situation. However, they still accept breadcrumbs and really need to move on for real. They then welcome special guest Laura K. Connell, a Trauma Informed Author and Coach who helps women uncover the blind spots that hold them back. Laura blogs weekly about...2023-04-2127 min

The Love FixRelational Programming and Emotional Intimacy with Dr. Elizabeth FedrickSherry and Carla start the show by talking about what they like to do for exercise, and the beauty of just getting outside and going for a walk. They take a Love Fix question from a listener who realizes they only like emotionally unavailable men, but can’t seem to stop herself and turn things around. Then, they welcome Dr. Elizabeth Fedrick, a Licensed Professional Counselor, relationship expert, and multi-unit group private practice owner in Arizona. She is trained in various therapeutic modalities and specializes in relationships, intimacy, trauma, depression, and anxiety. In addition, she hosts a relationship-based podcast, Re...2023-04-1426 min

The Love FixAcceptance and Commitment Training (ACT) with Dr. Diana HillSherry and Carla first take a Love-fix question from someone looking to spice things up in their happy yet somewhat boring relationship. They then welcome Diana Hill, Ph.D. Diana is a clinical psychologist, international trainer, and sought out speaker on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). She is also the host of the Your Life in Process podcast and co-author of the ACT daily journal. Diana works with organizations, high achievers, and health professionals who are committed to becoming psychologically flexible, so they can move from striving to thriving at work, home, and around the globe. 2023-04-0733 min

The Love FixStating your Needs and The Butt Pucker Zone With Bex BurtonSherry and Carla start out with some pillow talk and then take a Love Fix question from a listener who is frustrated at the lack of consistency they get around their partner listening and showing that they care. They then welcome Bex Burton, a trauma-informed certified life coach, helping independent women attract and grow lasting love without sacrificing who they are or what they want out of life. After painfully hitting the same walls and love for over a decade, Beck is committed to the study and growth of lasting love today, and she enjoys a deeply connected partnership...2023-03-3126 min

The Love FixDefining Codependency in a Toxic Family System with Dr. Sherrie CampbellCarla has returned from her trip to India and had a wonderful experience immersing herself in the culture. She shares a few highlights with Sherry before diving into a Love Fix Question from a listener who is struggling to fully move on from a toxic ex that cheated on them, and is looking for guidance to stop peeking at everything they do on social media. They then welcome guest Dr. Sherrie Campbell, a licensed psychologist who specializes in assisting healthy individuals in severing ties with toxic people. Dr. Sherrie is a nationally recognized expert on family estrangement, a best-selling a...2023-03-2434 min

The Love FixDevelopmental Wounds and How EMDR Can Help Heal Trauma with Tim SosinSherry starts off with a story about a date who was waving some big red flags, and then she and Carla take a Love Fix Question on how to stop second guessing yourself. They then welcome Tim Sosin, LPC, NCC, an internationally certified trauma therapy specialist, EMDR, therapist and licensed professional counselor. Since trauma is such a common denominator within the lives of so many, Tim has devoted his career to trauma liberation, relational reconciliation, and the recovery process. Everything he does is informed by a desire to see people break through the barriers holding them back. 2023-03-1735 min

The Love FixTransform That Toxic Self Talk with Maryse CardinSherry and Carla first take a Love Fix question from a listener that is looking for more confidence in dating and wants to switch it up and speak with more compassion to themselves. They then welcome Maryse Cardin, author of the book 5 Minute Morning Magic, Speaking to Yourself with Love and Speaking To Yourself with Love workbook, and more. As a speaker, workshop leader, and university communication teacher, Mary is passionate about sharing positive and loving self-talk skills. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching 2023-03-1032 min

The Love FixLearning To Trust Yourself After Narcissistic Trauma with Caroline StrawsonSherry and Carla start the show talking about the constant pressure women feel in almost every aspect of our lives, and they take a Love Fix question from a listener who knows logically that she shouldn’t go after unavailable guys, but she can’t seem to keep listening to her gut and always ends up going after the same type of man. Then, they welcome Multi-Award winning ICF accredited Trauma Informed Coach and Therapist Caroline Strawson. Caroline is also the host of the Narcissistic Trauma Recovery podcast. She uses a unique integration of brain body-based therapies such as brai...2023-03-0335 min

The Love FixBoundaries, The Freeze Response, and Listening to The Body with Krista ResnickSherry and Carla first take a Love Fix question from a listener looking for the right answer when they get consistently asked about when they’re going to be back in the dating pool again. Then, they welcome Krista Resnick, Master Coach, Boundary Expert, and Podcaster for high-achieving females. Krista works with her clients to help them start standing in their power, taking up space, and owning their gifts so they can create the life they truly crave. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching The...2023-02-2429 min

The Love FixHow Following Your Yes Can Help you Move Away From Toxic Or Codependent RelationshipsSherry and Carla start by celebrating their dual birthdays, wahoo! They take a Love Fix Question from a listener that is lacking confidence in speaking up both in dating and relationships and wants to be able to state their boundaries in a more clear and concise way. Then, guest Ken Bechtel joins the show. Ken is an author, speaker, and mentor who has been called the “love child of Simon Sinek, Oprah Winfrey, and Joseph Campbell”. Ken’s best-selling book Follow Your Yes provides simple guidance on how to build confidence and eliminate overwhelm across the full spectrum of life.2023-02-1729 min

The Love FixWhat Constitutes a Toxic Relationship with Stephanie McPhailSherry and Carla start the show talking about baggage of every kind, both the real luggage type and the kind that comes in a toxic relationship. They take a Love Fix Question from a listener whose boyfriend loses his cool and is two-sided, yet everyone loves him. They then welcome guest Stephanie McPhail, MS. Stephanie is the author of Being Loved Shouldn’t Hurt, a certified coach and has a double Master’s Degree in Health and Education, and a Bachelor’s in Psychology, and is a Certified Crisis Counselor and Certified Coach. She specializes in coaching professional women to hea...2023-02-1032 min

The Love FixCreating Joy, Loving Solitude, and Embracing Self Love with Robin Joy MeyersSherry and Carla kick off this week by playing a clip from Michelle Obama and discuss how it exemplifies respect and patience for your partner. They take a Love Fix question from a listener that is down in the dumps from feeling single this Valentine’s Day and then welcome guest Robin Joy Meyers, a Molecular Geneticist, Self-Mastery Mindset Coach, TEDx, and international speaker, and author. Robin has empowered thousands of women worldwide to amplify their voices, embrace change, and thrive through life’s transitions by falling in love with themselves. Connect with Us! The Lo...2023-02-0328 min

The Love FixCodependency, Love Addiction and Getting Out of the LaLa Love Cycle with Lindsey EllisonSherry and Carla first start the show talking about the overuse of the word “narcissist” and then identify what hoovering is in breakups. They then welcome Lindsey Ellison, author, podcaster, and relationship coach who helps people discover their breakthrough after a breakup. Lindsey believes that all breakups and divorces are catalysts for self-discovery, and a gold mine awaits them when they are able to identify their destructive relationship patterns. She specializes in childhood trauma, codependency, and communicating with narcissists and high-conflict relationships. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching The Love...2023-01-2733 min

The Love FixUnresolved Complex Trauma and Self-Gaslighting with Ingrid ClaytonSherry embraces her inner Pisces and faces her ocean abandonment issues, and then she and Carla take a Love Fix question from a listener that keeps seeing the same patterns on a repeat of their relationships going nowhere fast. They then welcome Psychologist and Author Ingrid Clayton who talks about healing from narcissistic abuse and complex trauma, as well as the subtlety of self-gaslighting. She talks about the inspiration behind her memoir Believing Me, and how we can get more help and support from fawning, trauma, and codependency. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @th...2023-01-2033 min

The Love FixThe Science of Stuck and Understanding Trauma with Britt FrankThis week starts off with Sherry vs. the Florida bugs, and then she and Carla answer a Love Fix question on when (if ever) you should go back to an ex. They then welcome Britt Frank, LSCSW, therapist, educator and trauma specialist. Britt speaks and writes widely about mental health myths that keep us stuck and stressed. Britt received her BA from Duke University and her MSW from the University of Kansas where she later became an award winning adjunct professor. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching The Love Fi...2023-01-1330 min

The Love FixCalling in the One, Shedding Shame and the Shadow Self with Junie MoonCarla opens the show with a story about explaining polygamy to her 87 year old grandfather, and the conversation shifts towards how dating has evolved over the recent years in Sherry’s work. They then take a Love Fix question of the day from a listener dealing with anxious attachment after their jealous partner wants space, and welcome guest Junie Moon, Love Coach and Women’s Empowerment Leader and Certified Shadow Work Coach. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching The Love Fix Relationship Quiz Sherry Website...2023-01-0630 min

The Love FixSherry & Carla’s 2022 Reveals: Breakups and AwakeningsWhat a year it’s been! Sherry and Carla first reflect on how great it was to finally meet in person and that there will be more in person meetups in 2023. They then share their favorite memories of this year, and open up about some HUGE life changes they both made including the loss of relationships, new locations, and a lot of healing. Then get real about how they each found strength and support during very painful times and came out the other end even more confident and excited for what’s to come. Thank you for a great 2022, and...2022-12-3035 min

The Love FixSweep Out The Breadcrumbers in Dating with Tracy CrossleyHappy 100th Episode! Sherry and Carla celebrate the big milestone and take a moment of gratitude for each other and all the fabulous listeners. Next, they take a Love Fix question from a listener struggling with anxious attachment issues in her relationship. They then welcome Tracy Crossley, a Behavioral Relationship Expert, author, and podcast host. Tracy identifies what breadcrumbing is in dating, how we can recognize the signs, and how we can get out of the pattern of just accepting crumbs and getting the love and respect we truly desire. Connect with Us! The L...2022-12-2338 min

The Love FixHealing From Trauma and PTSD with Efu NyakiSherry starts this week by sharing her own experience with trauma when the hurricane hit Florida, and how even as a trained therapist she felt the somatic and emotional symptoms of being in a trauma vortex. She and Carla also talk about how toxic positivity can sometimes impede us from feeling the real feelings we need to process our trauma. Sherry and Carla take a Love Fix question from a man dating a codependent woman, and is wondering how to help get her into therapy, but she has grown complacent. They welcome Love Fix guest Efu Nyaki, faculty member...2022-12-1631 min

The Love FixGrief, Shame, and Finding Emotional Freedom with Bernadette PleasantSherry and Carla start with some exciting news, they met IRL! The sparks flew, and this leads them to reflect on just a few of the beautiful things about their partnership. They take a Love Fix question from a listener looking for some ways to process her emotions after leaving an ex that is an addict, and they welcome Bernadette Pleasant. Bernadette is a sensational speaker, somatic healer, sacred grief ritual facilitator, and founder of The Emotional Institute. Bernadette promotes emotional freedom through movement and empowerment. She talks with Sherry and Carla about what exactly grief is, and how...2022-12-0938 min

The Love FixHow To Know If You’re Being Abused with Leanne OatenSherry and Carla first start talking about how being single can sometimes get a bad rap, and the many reasons it’s better to be single than in the wrong relationship. Also, you’re never alone when you have a connection with yourself and to the higher powers in your life, whatever that means for you. They take a question from a Love Fix listener who is trying to stick to no contact with an abusive ex, but finding it really challenging and wondering how long the pain will last. They then welcome guest Leanne Oaten, a former counselor with...2022-12-0231 min

The Love FixThe Trauma of Cheating and Regulating Your Nervous System with Jamie McCoySherry and Carla talk about self care during the holidays and how to find calm in all the rushed moments, and they take a Love Fix listener question from a listener fearful that she’s going to pick another cheater again. They then welcome licensed therapist and trauma coach Jamie McCoy, who has been working with people for over 10 years on how to regulate their nervous system using somatic healing and holistic health education. Jamie talks about her passion to empower people to master their stress, and how you can move from living in survival mode to becoming resilient....2022-11-2528 min

The Love FixHow Toxic Positivity May Be a Trauma Response or People Pleasing Behavior with Whitney GoodmanSherry and Carla first take a Love Fix question from a listener who feels their long-distance relationship running away, and is too afraid to cross boundaries to talk with her partner about it. They then welcome Whitney Goodman, LMFT, the radically honest psychotherapist behind the hugely popular Instagram account @sitwithwhit, author of Toxic Positivity, and the owner of the Collaborative Counseling Center, a virtual therapy practice in Florida. Whitney talks about what exactly toxic positivity is, and how we can shift to a deeper and more authentic connection with ourselves and the people around us. She talks with Carla...2022-11-1827 min

The Love FixLooking at Codependency From An Addiction Lens with Kevin PetersenSherry and Carla first give a shout-out to the Love Fix male audience, and then take a Love Fix question from a listener who feels judgment from friends and family for still staying with their addict partner. They then continue the conversation about addiction and relationships with guest Kevin Petersen, Author, Speaker, and LFMT. Kevin is the founder of the Chronic Hope Institute, which provides healing for families in crisis due to addiction and codependency. Kevin talks about family addiction coaching, intergenerational trauma, and why it’s okay to come out as codependent. Connect with Us!2022-11-1138 min

The Love FixSacred Sexuality, Erotic Blueprints, and Why Codependents Have Trouble Receiving Pleasure with Juliette KaramanSherry and Carla start off with some fun celebrity dating stories, and then take a Love Fix question from a listener to is anxious during sex and looking for ways to feel more comfortable. They then welcome Certified Mind and Body Coach, Juliette Karaman. As a teacher, mentor, and writer, Juliette’s work helps others with everything from relationships to trauma, healing, sex and intimacy. Juliette talks with Sherry and Carla about sacred sexuality, and how we can train our bodies to open up to more pleasure, no matter whether we are alone, in a relationship, or somewhere in be...2022-11-0432 min

The Love FixThe Gaslighting Effect with Dr. SimonThis week starts with some hydration motivation from Carla, and she and Sherry take a Love Fix question from a listener who worries that she and her partner may not have enough in common to make things last. They then welcome Dr. George Simon, internationally known expert on narcissists, manipulators, and other troublesome characters. He is the first to describe what is now commonly called the gaslighting effect, along with authoring five best selling books. Dr. Simon’s work has been published in over 25 countries and languages. He talks with Sherry and Carla about what exactly the gaslighting effect is...2022-10-2841 min

The Love FixHow to Move Away from Getting Ghosted, Breadcrumbed, and Toxic Relationships with Dr. Marni FeuermanGrab your cup of coffee this week and join Carla and Sherry as they first take a Love Fix question from a listener that had yet another big fight with her boyfriend and is wondering if it’s time to break up. They then welcome Dr. Marni Feuerman, nationally recognized relationship and marriage expert and licensed psychotherapist with specialized training in couples therapy. Dr. Marni is also the author of the popular self help book, Ghosted and Breadcrumbed. She discusses how we can identify and resolve unconscious triggers that lead to patterns and actions that hold us back from gr...2022-10-2134 min

The Love FixWhat EMDR is and How It Can Help with Codependency, Trauma, and Regulating Your Nervous System with Jaclyn BsalesThe episode begins with Carla’s announcement that she’s learning Spanish, and it leads to a conversation on all the languages she and Sherry would love to learn how to speak. Then, they take a Love Fix question from a listener that wants to stop running away in relationships when things get tough, and then Sherry and Carla welcome guest Jaclyn Bsales, EMDR Certified, Licensed Clinical Social Worker. Jaclyn breaks down exactly what EMDR is in a clear and understandable way, and how it can help both people with complex trauma and those looking to self regulate and gain...2022-10-1437 min

The Love FixGuiding Yourself Towards Healthy and Happy Relationships with The Change Triangle: Hilary Jacobs HendelSherry and Carla get in the Halloween mood with some spooky spider trivia, and then take a Love Fix question from a listener that needs help learning to not always put their partner on a pedestal. They then welcome Hilary Jacobs Hendel, Psychotherapist, Emotion Educator, and author of the award winning book, It’s Not Always Depression: Working the Change Triangle To Listen to the Body, Discover Core Emotions, and Connect to Your Authentic Self. Hilary talks about what the Change Triangle is, our 7 core emotions, and how to spot healthy vs. unhealthy conflict. Connect with...2022-10-0733 min

The Love FixHow toxic relationships, trauma, and stress can affect our sex life with Rafaella FialloSherry and Carla start with a Love Fix question from a listener wanting to know when the right time is to get a therapist, which leads to a discussion on the important things to note before jumping into couples therapy. They then welcome Rafaella Fiallo, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Sexual Liberation Activist, Educator, and Therapist specializing in relationship, sex, and trauma therapy. Rafaella owns a therapy private practice, Healing Exchange LLC, and co-founded Afrosexology, a sex-positive pleasure-based sexuality education business. Rafaella talks about her guide to Sexual Self-Care, and group for Trauma Survivors, which is basically a sex-ed class...2022-09-3036 min

The Love FixThe Difference Between Codependency and Anxious Attachment with Tana EspinoSherry and Carla start off the episode talking about self care, and take a Love Fix question from a listener in her 30’s who can’t seem to shake anxiety when she doesn’t hear from her partner. They then welcome Tana Espino, a LMFT and Somatic Coach, guiding women to heal codependency and anxiety in relationships. Tana talks about how you can learn to shift from an anxious to secure attachment, and move from codependency to confidence. She discusses the different nervous system responses, and the tools we can use to learn to have healthy and empowering responses to the...2022-09-2328 min

The Love FixBoundaries, Toxic Relationships, and Codependency with Kamini WoodSherry and Carla start the show talking about east coast fashion vs. dressing in LA, and then take a Love Fix question from a listener wondering the difference between setting boundaries and reacting. They then welcome Certified Professional Coach Kamini Wood, creator of the Authentic Me Rise Up program and CEO of Live Joy Your Way. Kamini talks about how to recognize red flags and toxic relationships, what setting a porous vs. rigid boundary looks like, and how codependents can start to set aside time and space for themselves without feeling guilty. Boundaries Master Class: ht...2022-09-1627 min

The Love FixDivorce and Toxic Relationships with Dawn BurnettIt’s all about divorce and moving on from toxicity this week. First, Carla and Sherry take a Love Fix question from someone who is hesitant to date a divorcee. They then welcome Dawn Burnett, CSA who is the founder of the #SHEROproject and a divorce and lifestyle consultant. Dawn has helped countless people around the world free themselves from relationships, habits, and situations that are no longer serving their highest selves. She discusses her own journey of abuse and how she broke certain patterns and freed herself from toxicity, why what we eat and how we treat ourselves re...2022-09-0934 min

The Love FixThe One Personality Trait Narcissists Have In Common: Darlene LancerCarla and Sherry share their favorite snacks, from Tostitos to eggs with ketchup. They take a Love Fix question about a listener who feels like they are constantly in denial about their relationship, and then welcome Darlene Lancer, best-selling author, psychotherapist, and international relationship expert on narcissism and codependency. Darlene shares some of her wisdom from writing 10 books and counseling individuals and couples for over 30 years and shines a light on some traits of a narcissist, how to spot one, and why certain people are more vulnerable to this behavior. Connect with Us! The Lo...2022-09-0235 min

The Love FixEmbracing Codependency and Taking Custody of Your Inner Child with Aishia GrevenbergCarla and Sherry start this week off with tips for staying focused, and then take a Love Fix Question about the difference between love addiction and codependency. They then welcome Aishia Grevenberg, LCSW., a psychotherapist with over 20 years experience and clinical expertise in trauma, relationships, codependency and addiction. Aishia is a on a tireless quest to promote transformational change in women and she talks about realizing her own self worth, embracing the non-married (and happy!) life, and giving herself permission to feel any and all emotions. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Da...2022-08-2640 min

The Love FixJessica Da Silva: The Four Attachment Styles and Steps Towards Secure AttachmentCarla and Sherry start this week off with a Love Fix question from someone whose partner gets frustrated with their lack of focus and undivided attention. They then welcome Jessica Da Silva, LMFT and Attachment Coach, who helps adults end their unhealthy dating patterns to create strong and secure relationships. Jessica talks about the four different attachment theories, and how we can learn from both the challenges and gifts that each one brings. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Dating & Relationship Coaching The Love Fix Relationship Quiz Sherry W...2022-08-1927 min

The Love FixThe Roller Coaster of Trauma Bonding and Love Bombing with Nova GibsonSherry talks about her new move to Florida, and then she and Carla take a Love Fix question from a listener in a new relationship who is trying to break old patterns from having to deal with narcissists. They then welcome Nova Gibson, Founder and Principal Counselor at Brighter Outlook Narcissistic Abuse Counseling Service. Nova talks about her expertise and passion behind supporting victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse, how to begin the process of recovery, why a tribe is important as you begin to seek help, and why victims tend to get stuck in a cycle of going...2022-08-1236 min

The Love FixIdentifying Your Triggers and Getting Over a Narcissist with Laura CharanzaDo you say hi to your neighbors? Sherry and Carla start the episode talking about whether or not they say hi to strangers while out on a stroll, and take a Love Fix question from a listener whose partner can’t stop bringing up their ex. They then welcome Laura Charanza, relationship expert and narcissistic abuse survivor. Laura is also the author of Ugly Love: A Survivor’s Story of Narcissistic Abuse. Laura talks about her mission to help men and women navigate toxic relationships, and how it is possible to come out on the other side better than ever...2022-08-0528 min

The Love FixDismantling Family Patterns and Generational Trauma with Johanna LynnSherry and Carla start the show with a first, talking about Khloe Kardashian and her continued relationship with Tristan Thompson, along with what we can take away from their patterns. They take a Love Fix question from a listener who is dating someone who has a drinking issue that has gotten worse as the relationship has gone on, and doesn’t know what to do next. Then, they welcome Johanna Lynn, Founder of the Family Imprint Institute, an International Private Practice. Johanna talks about how our generational past and imprints continue to influence us, and how epigenetics can release th...2022-07-2934 min

The Love FixKatelyn Baxter-Musser: Traits of a Physically and Verbally Abusive Relationship, Trauma Bonding, and Getting HelpSherry and Carla kick off the week with a Love Fix question from a listener who is not feeling totally heard or listened to in their relationship. They then welcome Katelyn Baxter-Musser, LCSW in private practice whose areas of expertise include the treatment of trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, grief, intimate partner violence and relationship issues. Katelyn talks about what physical abuse and domestic violence can look like, how to begin to get help, and she shares some shocking statistics showing that abuse does not dscriminate. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Become a Me...2022-07-2228 min

The Love FixKyle Benson: Codependency, Vulnerability and Your Part In ItSherry and Carla kick off the show talking about how pizza can be used in negotiation, and take a Love Fix Question from a listener who keeps attracting unavailable men, even though she doesn’t feel she has father issues. They then welcome in Kyle Benson, a self proclaimed relationship nerd who provides practical research-based tools to build long-lasting and intimate relationships. Kyle explores how you can stop settling for less and how to get over the illusion that you can fix, control, or manipulate someone. Connect with Us! The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Become a Mem...2022-07-1532 min

The Love FixEFT and Recognizing Both Green and Red Flags with Craig Weiner and Alina FrankSherry and Carla kick off this week talking about strip clubs and then take a Love Fix Question on how to lessen the tension in a relationship, which leads to a conversation on the need for mental health more than ever since the pandemic. They then welcome Alina Frank and Craig Weiner, Directors of the EFT Tapping Institute. These life and business partners talk about what EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) is, how to begin using it as a tool in your life, and how it can help us get out of toxic relationships and heal from trauma. ...2022-07-0835 min

The Love FixIs It Love, or Is It a Trauma Bond with Lisa SonniSherry and Carla talk about their first jobs and other career paths they went on before meeting each other, and how it helps them out today. They take a Love Fix question on getting out of a toxic relationship, even if your family and friends don’t recognize the need to leave, and then welcome Lisa Sonni. Lisa is a Certified Life and Relationship Coach, who helps clients of all genders and walks of life. Lisa herself is a survivor of domestic assault and narcissistic abuse, and she launched the Stronger Than Before Coaching Practice in 2011. Lisa talks with Sh...2022-07-0133 min

The Love FixSelf Recovery and Codependent Behaviors with Nancy JohnstonIt’s all about codependency this week as Carla and Sherry start the episode with a Love Fix question about how to grow even further in your relationship as you are in codependency recovery and in therapy. They then welcome Nancy L. Johnson, a Licensed Professional Counselor and Licensed substance abuse treatment practitioner in private practice in Lexington, VA. Nancy gives some sage insight from her over 44 years of clinical experience on bringing awareness to our patterns, and why she prefers to look at codependent behaviors on a continuum. Nancy also talks about self-recovery, self-attunement, and how we can be...2022-06-2439 min

The Love FixHealing From Toxic Relationships and Getting Away from Gaslighters with Stephanie SarkisCarla finds out she is a lifestyle guru during a Google search, and she and Sherry take a Love Fix question on recognizing true manipulation versus trendy buzzwords. They then welcome Dr. Stephanie Sarkis, a Psychotherapist in anxiety, gaslighting, narcissistic abuse, and ADHD. She is also the author of six books, one workbook, and a Licensed Mental Health Counselor. She talks about the key factors that can make someone susceptible to being gaslighted, what truly defines gaslighting, and how to disengage and get out if you are in a relationship with a gaslighter. Stephanie also gives us a glimpse...2022-06-1736 min

The Love FixInner Bonding, Self Abandonment, and Following Your Gut with Dr. Margaret PaulCarla and Sherry first start out with some eyebrow tips if you want to look like Brooke Shields, and then take a Love Fix question from someone struggling with self-love at certain times during arguments in their relationship. They then welcome Dr. Margaret Paul, best-selling author, relationship expert, and co-creator of the powerful inner bonding self-healing process. Dr. Margaret first talks about the process of inner bonding, and how it can help co-dependents learn to love themselves and rely on their own validation and acceptance. She explains how what we eat affects us on a large scale, and why...2022-06-1039 min

The Love FixIs It Dating and Courting or Is It Love Bombing with Ronia FraserCarla and Sherry first talk about how we can use Taylor Swift songs to recognize attachment styles, and they take a Love Fix question on how to get back in the dating scene after a toxic relationship. They then welcome Ronia Fraser, internationally certified and multi-award winning Trauma Recovery Coach, clinical hypnotherapist, and one of the leading experts in Narcissistic Abuse Recovery. Ronia talks about how to start the process of becoming unstuck from being in a loop of codependency in a toxic relationship, why no contact is crucial for healing, and the difference between natural courting and love...2022-06-0334 min

The Love FixPost Traumatic Growth with Dr. Arielle SchwartzCarla and Sherry kick off the show sharing their dream places to travel, along with a shout out to all the international listeners. They then take a Love Fix question from someone who is losing their friends and family because they decided to take back a toxic ex, and then they welcome Arielle Schwartz, Ph.D. and licensed clinical psychologist, EMDR therapy consultant, author, and somatic psychotherapist. Arielle talks about her Post Traumatic Growth guidebook and defines what post-traumatic growth is. She talks about how the journey of trauma recovery is an awakening of the spiritual heart, and how...2022-05-2738 min

The Love FixHow Securely Attached People Can Fall Victim to Narcissists with Sarah PeytonSherry and Carla start off with some favorite recipes, and Carla promises Sherry a homemade meal whenever she comes to visit. They then welcome Sarah Peyton, Certified Trainer of Nonviolent Communication, Constellation facilitator and neuroscience educator, and author of Your Resonant Self Workbook. Sarah travels the world to help people learn how to use language and self-compassion to heal trauma, and how to use self-guided meditations and exercise to engage the brain’s capacity for healing. Sarah talks about how disconnection from our primary caregivers can set the stage for disorganized attachment, and how stress can change our attachment style. To...2022-05-2037 min

The Love FixWorking Through Trauma Responses And Your Early Wounds with Kristen BoiceAre you an extrovert, introvert, or somewhere in between? Carla and Sherry start this week talking about which one they are, and then take a Love Fix question staying friends with an ex. Then, they welcome Kristen Boice, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a private counseling practice in Indiana, and host of the Close the Chapter Podcast. Kristen talks about the healing tool of EMDR and why it's so successful, what brainstopping is and how it’s different from EMDR, and how EMDR can be a great resource for someone dealing with attachment and abandonment issues. Carla al...2022-05-1336 min

The Love FixFreeing Yourself From Trauma and Toxic Relationships with Lauren ZoellerCarla and Sherry share hilarious Zoom fails and the unexpected silver linings from working online over the last two years. Then, they take a Love Fix question from a friend who thinks it’s time for her friend to get married. What are the red flags in this question and in this situation, and is marriage as important as finding the right life partner? Then, they welcome Lauren Zoeller, CTA certified relationship coach, motivational speaker, and podcast host. She has achieved overwhelming success in helping high performing, female executives attract a dream relationship and life they crave. She is the...2022-05-0634 min

The Love FixHow to Cut off a Narcissist’s Supply with Brynn CicippioCarla’s big sister Stephanie jumps on at the top of the show, to give the good ‘ole sister stamp of approval to The Love Fix. Then, Sherry and Carla take a Love Fix question from someone who is married, but things don’t feel like they are improving, especially in therapy. Then, they welcome Brynn Cicippio, LMFT and recovery specialist. Brynn is the founder and owner of BCA Therapy, a group private practice that sees Pennsylvania clients and residents in both in-person and telehealth. Brynn talks about how she got into supporting individuals, couples, and families to recover from t...2022-04-2937 min

The Love FixTrauma Work, Tapping, and Narcissistic Rage with Michelle FarrisSherry and Carla first talk about the importance of discernment when it comes to hiring the right coach or therapist and a few of the differences between therapists and coaches, especially when it comes to trauma work. They then welcome MIchelle Ferris, a licensed psychotherapist and anger management specialist. Michelle loves helping codependent people create healthy relationships without sacrificing their big hearts. She talks about how to begin to trust your intuition as a codependent, narcissistic rage, and walks Sherry and Carla through a live round of tapping to give an example of a powerful tool that can help...2022-04-2236 min

The Love FixHow Hormones Affect Libido, Mood, and Even Dating AppsCarla and Sherry kick off this week talking about birth control and then take a Love Fix Question on how to fall in love with reality instead of just the fantasy when you are struggling with co-dependnecy. They then welcome the mother and daughter duo Candace Burch and Jess Suchan to talk about hormone health, testing your hormones, and why it’s important to know and track your cycle. Candace and Jess also discuss how our relationships affect our hormones, and why there may even be a best time in the month to use (or not use!) dating apps. ...2022-04-1538 min

The Love FixStop Swiping Past Your Soulmate: Professional Matchmaker Talia GoldsteinSherry and Carla bond over aligned nervous systems, and take a Love Fix question about how to get back into the dating scene after losing a partner. Then they welcome professional Matchmaker, Talia Goldstein, who has found matches for 100’s high-level clients including top executives and celebrities through her company Three Day Rule. Talia talks us through how she found her path on pretty much the coolest job ever as a matchmaker and walks us through the process of how it works. She talks about the broad range that Three Day Rule services, helping clients of all types from ag...2022-04-0831 min

The Love Fix10 Days To a Soulmate with Dr. Christie KederianCarla gets in trouble for coming to California and not seeing Sherry, and then the two talk about when they will finally see each other after a year of working together. Then, they take a Love Fix Question from a listener that can’t seem to get past the first date, and welcome Dr. Christie Kederian, a nationally renowned relationship expert who specializes in helping clients create lives they love and find the love they deserve. Dr. Christie talks about her research-backed method for finding if the relationship has potential after 10 dates, if people can really have long-distance relationships, an...2022-03-2534 min

The Love FixThe Little Shaman: Narcissistic Abuse, Going No Contact, and How They Trap YouCarla and Sherry start off the show with a conversation about buying expensive(ish) jeans, which leads to a deeper issue of how our spending typically reflects the way we were taught to feel about money as a child. They take a Love Fix question on getting over the fear that a new partner will be abusive and then welcome trailblazing expert The Little Shaman to the show. The Little Shaman talks about the most important things for people to understand about getting in a relationship with a narcissist, when the “honeymoon stage” really falls apart for a narcissist, and...2022-03-1133 min

The Love FixThe Real Red Flags In a Relationship with Elizabeth EarnshawSherry and Carla open up the show talking about aging gracefully and the culture of dating in Los Angeles, mixed with the pressure of finding that special someone. They then take a Love Fix question about red flags in a relationship and welcome one of today’s most trusted relationship teachers, Elizabeth Earnshaw. Elizabeth talks about her standing as a renowned Gottman Therapist, a Licensed MFT, and influential IG therapist who has helped transform countless relationships. Elizabeth is also the head therapist at Actually, and author of I Want This To Work. In this super fun episode, Elizabeth gives her ad...2022-03-0439 min

The Love FixVanessa Bennett on Codependency and Trauma Bonds — Are They Tied To A Past Life Or Soul’s Contract?Sherry and Carla kick off this week with some TV talk about what they are currently watching and loving and then take a Love Fix Question on long-distance relationships. They then welcome Vanessa Bennett, Licensed Holistic Therapist, and codependency Expert, as well as co-host of the Cheaper Than Therapy podcast. Vanessa made the transition from corporate to wellness after years of doing her own inner work while always feeling like she was teetering on the edge of burnout. Described as the “cold water on the face” therapist, she gives it to us raw this week talking about codependency, the arch...2022-02-2535 min

The Love FixStrengthen Your Boundary Setting Muscle and Break People Pleasing Patterns: Hailey MageeSherry and Carla start by talking about what kind of podcasts they listen to, and Carla confesses her love for a good murder mystery. They take a Love Fix question from a listener that seems like she has the same issues in love, even while dating different men. Then, they welcome Codependency Recovery Coach Hailee Magee, who helps individuals of all ages break the people pleasing patterns, set empowered boundaries, and master the art of speaking their truth. Hailee shares why most people don’t set or stick with their boundaries, and what’s really going on under people's plea...2022-02-1832 min

The Love FixHealing The Trauma of Love Addiction: Elizabeth BarreThe show starts with a very special guest this week, Carla’s sister Stephanie! She spills on what it was really like growing up with Carla, why she will always think of Carla as the baby, and what she has learned as a loyal Love Fix listener. Then, they welcome Counselor, Trainer, and Body Oriented Coach, Elizabeth Barre. Through Elizabeth’s work, she helps people heal through embodied self-compassion by working with their whole system and creating more space and resilience into their experience. Elizabeth discusses how we can get addicted to trauma, what she does to help her clients beco...2022-02-1140 min

The Love FixWhy Our Past Dating History Doesn’t Predict The Future with Laura BehnkeSherry and Carla kick off the show with a Love Fix Question about dealing with pressure in your late 30’s and early 40’s about having children, especially when you aren’t sure what you really want. Then, they welcome Laura Behnke, writer, speaker, coach, and founder of The Life Actually company and podcast. Laura is a 16 year TV veteran and anchor, and left the business to follow her passion for supporting and empowering women in all phases of their life. Laura shares how she learned to stop “shoulding” on herself and no longer accept breadcrumbs, and why our past dating his...2022-02-0434 min

The Love FixThe Love Spectrum, Coming Out, and Sexual Fluidity with Anne-Marie ZanzalSherry and Carla kick off this week talking about if it’s really that sexy dating someone with an accent, or if we just romanticize it. Then they take a Love Fix Question about how to break the habit of lying in your relationship and welcome guest Anne-Marie Zanzal. Anne-Marie is a coach, ordained minister, chaplain, and author. She came out later in life and shares her journey from tucking away her sexuality while raising a family, to stepping into her true authentic self. She talks with Sherry and Carla about her work specializing in women coming out later in...2022-01-2835 min

The Love FixWhat The Experts Are Wrong About Anxious and Avoidant Attachment: Tara Blair BallCarla and Sherry start this week talking about how proud they are of their clients and how they love seeing them learn and grow. Then, they take a Love Fix question on how to let go of someone who shows red flags from the start, and then welcome Tara Blair Ball, author and Certified Relationship Coach. Tara talks about the work she does to help her clients foster happy healthy relationships, understand their attachment styles, and learn new ways of thinking and acting in a way that sets them up for their best relationship with themselves and others. Tara a...2022-01-2134 min

The Love FixThe Art of Online Dating and Getting Over a Ghoster with Alyssa DineenSherry and Carla kick off this week talking about their morning routine and the importance of getting a little exercise in, and then welcome in Personal Stylist and Dating Coach Alyssa Dineen, founder of Style My Profile. Alyssa shares her story of being new to the dating market at age 41 after a divorce, and how she saw a need for helping both men and women get their profiles maximized and ready to find long lasting matches. She combined her experience as a stylist for over 20 years, and now is helping online daters all around the world transform their destiny...2022-01-1438 min

The Love FixSherry and Carla Spill Their Juicy SecretsSherry and Carla kick off the new year with a fun solo episode where they interview very special guests — each other! They grill one another on everything from who they are, how they got to their career and how they met, to their own experience overcoming codependency and heartbreak. Plus, they share what the exciting future of Love Fix holds, and a fun rapid-fire of personal Q&A. What You’ll Hear In This Episode: Believe it or not, Sherry and Carla are human too and they make mistakes. What experiences have they learned from...2022-01-0731 min

The Love FixTrauma Bonding, Relational Trauma, and Self-Love with Dr. Heidi GreenSherry and Carla share their intentions for the New Year and take a Love Fix question about how to know where to even begin where there are so many trauma treatments out there. Then, they welcome Clinical Psychologist, Author, and Trauma Specialist Dr. Heidi Green. She discusses why it’s so important to recognize and work on our trauma, and how every one of us has some type of trauma from our experience with family or just being out in the world. Dr. Heidi also talks with Carla and Sherry about how we project our trauma onto romantic relationships, tr...2021-12-3136 min