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The Feeling Lighter PodcastEpisode 146 - Navigating Emotions and Relationships with Silvy KhoucasianCoach Tyler and Dr. Lisa sit down with Silvy Khoucasian to discuss the emotional intricacies of relationships—from navigating conflict to building deeper, more secure connections. Together, they unpack how attachment styles show up in everyday dynamics, why setting and honoring boundaries is essential, and how validating your own emotions can transform how you relate to others. The conversation dives into anxious and avoidant behaviors, the value of clear agreements between partners, and the importance of leading with vulnerability and self-awareness to foster meaningful, authentic relationships.Connect with Silvy https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/?hl=en...2025-06-1849 min
Create The Love Podcast#009: Attachment Styles Explained With Silvy KhoucasianIn this episode of the Create the Love podcast, Mark sits down with relationship coach Silvy Khoucasian to explore the transformative power of attachment theory in deepening our relational awareness. Silvy breaks down the four core attachment styles and explains how early caregiving experiences shape the way we connect, communicate, and repair in adult relationships. She shares how greater self-awareness, empathy, and mutual responsibility can shift us toward secure, fulfilling bonds—whether in romance or friendship. If you’ve ever struggled with intimacy, conflict, or emotional patterns, this conversation offers a compassionate roadmap to healthier, more conscious relationships.2025-05-2713 min
Wellness + Wisdom PodcastStop Confusing Chemistry for Trauma: Silvy Khoucasian on Why You're Attracted to the Wrong PeopleWellness + Wisdom | Episode 736Is your attachment style secretly directing every move you make in a relationship, from how quickly you run away to how desperately you cling?Silvy Khoucasian joins Josh Trent on the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 736, to share how our nervous system, childhood attachments, and self-imposed boundaries can either block or build authentic love, why some red flags can be transformed into healthy agreements how to break old patterns and self-regulate more effectively, and what it takes to begin creating fulfilling relationships based on curiosity, vulnerability, and mutual respect.In This...2025-04-291h 45
Wise Woman Podcast113: Energetic Boundaries & Secure Relationships: Tools for Anxious and Avoidant Attachment with Silvy KhoucasianThis podcast episode is a rich, compassionate exploration of the multifaceted nature of personal boundaries and attachment dynamics in relationships. Silvy Khoucasian, a relationship coach, emphasizes that boundary work is not just about creating firm walls, but also learning when to soften them to foster deeper connection and intimacy. She shares how her own upbringing in a household where emotional boundaries were often crossed sparked her path toward understanding boundary violations—whether emotional, intellectual, physical, or spiritual—and how to recognize and articulate them in non-shaming ways. Silvy introduces the concept of boundaries as an “energetic field” that protects the inte...2025-04-0949 min
Let's Talk Love | A Real Love Ready PodcastA Sneak Peek into In Bloom 2025When it comes to love and relationships, we are bombarded with myths and fairy tale notions. We asked the experts: What is one relationship myth you’d love to dispel? In this special episode, our In Bloom 2025 speakers—Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh, Damona Hoffman, Dr. Ramani Durvasula, Silvy Khoucasian, Bryan Reeves, and Dr. Shamyra Howard—come together for a dynamic conversation on love, dating, and relationships.From the pressures of “relationship goals” to the myth that couples become one when they commit, our expert panel breaks down some of the biggest misconceptions about love. They share insights on individuali...2025-03-0629 min
Love With IntegrityEp 16: Coaching With MeIn this episode I walk you through exactly what my coaching sessions focus on (and what they don’t). I also help you better understand the difference between therapy and coaching and share the specific kinds of goals I support my clients with during sessions. If you’re interested in potentially working with me, you can book a free 30-minute consultation with me here: https://silvykhoucasian.com/workwithsilvy/If you have any questions about coaching, please feel to email me at silvy@silvykhoucasian.com2025-01-1712 min
The Sabrina Zohar Show101: Chasing Potential And Putting Them On A Pedestal With Silvy KhoucasianSabrina and Silvy sit down to discuss what can cause the tendency to chase potential in relationships and put partners on pedestals. They offer practical tips for managing these patterns. Silvy, a relationship coach, reflects on her own journey with fearful-avoidant attachment after a long-term relationship, explaining how unresolved childhood trauma led her to project insecurities and set unrealistic standards. She and her husband learned to recognize their vulnerabilities and communicate better, a skill crucial for those in anxious-avoidant dynamics. Sabrina and Silvy emphasize that placing someone on a pedestal, which is linked to attachment wounds, prevents true intimacy by...2024-10-1153 min
The ManKind Podcast165 - Why Men Are Afraid To Be Vulnerable In Their Intimate Relationships and How To Fix It with Silvy KhoucasianText Us Your Feedback! (Likes, Dislikes, Guest/Conversation Recommendations). Silvy Khoucasian is a renowned expert in intimate relationships and boundaries. With a Master's Degree in Psychology, Marriage, & Family Therapy, and as the Founder of the Love With Integrity Podcast, Silvy helps people expand their relationship skills -- which includes the expression of boundaries, vulnerability, and attachment awareness in order to create fulfilling and reciprocal relationships.In this conversation, Brandon Clift and Silvy Khoucasian discuss the challenges men face in opening up and being vulnerable in relationships. They explore the societal conditioning that discourages...2024-08-0651 min
Bridging Connections with Bryan Reeves121. Creating Healthy Attachment (When You’re Anxious or Avoidant) with Silvy Khoucasian“Understanding our attachment styles and how they influence our relationships can transform the way we connect with others. It's not about reaching a perfect state of secure attachment but about attuning to our own needs and those of our partners. This journey is a lifelong process of learning, growing, and healing together.” — Silvy KhoucasianToday on Men, This Way:5:05 – Silvy's inspiration for exploring attachment styles during her psychology studies6:15 – The attachment theory and how childhood experiences with caregivers shape adult relationships7:42 – The different attachment styles: secure, anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant10:10 – Personal experiences and realizations around attachment sty...2024-06-201h 08Love With IntegrityEp 15: Grief and LoveIn this episode of Love With Integrity, I share 3 key insights into grief and love that often get overlooked and minimized.
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Work with me @https://silvykhoucasian.com/workwithsilvy/2024-05-1714 minLove With IntegrityEp 14: A Meditation on Self-ForgivenessIn this episode of Love With Integrity, I guide you through a meditation on self-forgiveness. This meditation will bring you peace and compassion regarding any guilt or shame you might be carrying from a past relationship experience.
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Work with me @https://silvykhoucasian.com/workwithsilvy/2024-05-0512 minLove With IntegrityEp 13: 7 Green FlagsIn this episode, I talk about 7 Green Flags to look for (or create) in your dating and relationship experiences. These qualities can be a guide that you can actively move towards to help you create more fulfilling and secure love. If you’re interested in working with me privately, you can find more information about my coaching sessions here @https://silvykhoucasian.com/workwithsilvy/2024-04-2819 min
Gathering GoldTrue WildThe wild has been banished, pushed to the edges of civilization, pushed to the edges of psyche. Wolves and coyotes, bears and bobcats, rage and sexuality and messiness and imperfection have all been relegated to the outskirts.
We long for wildness. We long for freedom and aliveness, creativity and authenticity.
And yet, we might also fear wildness—the way it can control us. The way we can burn others and be burned by it.
How do we get in touch with our wild parts, and integrate them with the rest of us? How do...2024-04-1959 minLove With IntegrityEp 12: Attachment + BreakupsIn this episode, I discuss how the different attachment styles experience breakups and offer support to integrate your breakup experience. The 5 stages of grief by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross are Denial, Anger, Depression, Bargaining, Acceptance and the 6th (by David Kessler) is Meaning. Find me on IG @silvykhoucasian // work with me privately @ https://silvykhoucasian.com/workwithsilvy/2024-04-1717 minLove With IntegrityEp 11: How Your Attachment Patterns Shape Your Adult RelationshipsIn this episode, I dive into the 4 attachment styles, and help you learn what qualities to look for (or create) in your romantic relationships in order to have more secure relationships. If you’re interested in working with me 1 on 1, you can find more info @ https://silvykhoucasian.com/workwithsilvy/2024-04-1017 min
Bryan Reeves111. Challenges I've Faced in Relationship With My Wife w/ Silvy Khoucasian (My Wife)
Do all relationships struggle?
What even is intimacy … really?
Why do so many men struggle with relationships and intimacy?
In this episode, my very special guest and I dive into these questions and more for useful insights to make a meaningful difference in your life … And my very special guest is … my wife of 8 years … Silvy Khoucasian …
Silvy is brilliant and bad-ass in her own right. She’s the host of the popular instagram community under her name, where she writes about attachment, healthy boundaries, relational dynamics … I’m constantly hearing from people, even...2023-12-1455 min
Bridging Connections with Bryan Reeves111. Challenges I've Faced in Relationship With My Wife w/ Silvy Khoucasian (My Wife)Do all relationships struggle? What even is intimacy … really? Why do so many men struggle with relationships and intimacy? In this episode, my very special guest and I dive into these questions and more for useful insights to make a meaningful difference in your life … And my very special guest is … my ... Read more2023-12-1455 min
Confessions of a Male GynecologistMASTERCLASS with SILVY KHOUCASIAN - Attachment Types and RelationshipsAccording to attachment theory, there are four different attachment styles: secure, anxious, fearful-avoidant, and dismissive-avoidant. These are shaped by a child’s early interactions with their primary caregiver and, as adults, they tend to show up most clearly in romantic relationships. Today, I’m joined by relationship coach and writer Silvy Khoucasian to explore how these attachment styles show up in our lives and how we can better navigate them and nurture healthy relationships. In this conversation, Silvy and I discuss her work as a relationship coach, what the four attachment styles look like in rela...2023-08-2444 min
The Brave Table with Dr. Neeta Bhushan147: How to Know If You Are Being Gaslit or Gaslighting Others with Dr. Neeta BhushanThere are different parts of ourselves that come up to the surface…that come up, that show up when we are being attacked or when we feel like we need to protect. And, it's only because there are certain parts of ourselves that's triggered. – Dr. Neeta Bhushan Hey there, Brave Table fam! In today's episode, we're diving deep into a topic that's crucial to our relational success. We'll be exploring the concept of gaslighting - what it is, how to spot it in ourselves and those around us, and how it can affect our relationships. I'll...2023-08-0221 min
The Mark Groves Podcast#277: Hot/Cold Dating: Decoding Emotional Distancing – Solo EpisodeThemes: Relationships, Attachment Theory, Dating, Emotions, Breakups
Summary:
In relationships, we all crave connection and intimacy. But what happens when someone we’re dating suddenly becomes emotionally distant? Let’s talk about emotional distancing and how we can increase our ability to love and be loved.
Whether you're struggling with your own emotional availability or trying to connect with someone who is emotionally distant, this episode will leave you with a new perspective on the hot/cold dynamic.
Discover:
The connection between distancing tactics and attachment theory
How to stop the hot/cold dynamic from repeating in your relationships
00:00 Intro
01:51 Distanci...2023-04-2019 min
You Turn Podcast w/ Ashley Stahl[LOVE] Ep. 290 Creating Lasting Friendships with Silvy KhoucasianGet your own copy of Ashley’s new book You Turn at youturnbook.com! Where do you want your friendships to improve? This week, Ash steps into a conversation with guest Silvy Khoucasian a relationship coach, therapist, and writer, to discuss relationships. And this week, the love category isn’t romantic…it’s all about friendships. Silvy and Ash discuss setting boundaries, attachment styles, communication with a friendship dynamic, and much more. Here is a conversation between two close friends sharing how to build a relationship that is filled w...2023-01-2553 min
The Terri Cole ShowHealthier Love Attachments with Silvy KhoucasianToday, I’m chatting with my friend and relationship expert Silvy Khoucasian. We chat about holding firm boundaries to create nourishing, supportive relationships as you go through life– That includes understanding attachment theory, making your own choices about what aging successfully means to you, and setting compassionate boundaries with family even when it conflicts with their cultural expectations. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/453 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices2022-11-0335 min
The Brave Table with Dr. Neeta Bhushan59. Understanding Love & Conflict Resolution With Your Partner with Annie LallaAre you feeling stuck in a relationship that’s no longer serving you? Or perhaps you’ve been single for so long now, and you’re ready to call in your soul partner? Maybe you know you’re with “the one” but things feel off or challenging in your relationship lately, and you’re looking for a way to connect more deeply with your significant other. Well, Brave Table fam, I’m sure you can relate to at least one of these experiences, and this is the episode to help get you through it. My guest is the oh-so-lovely...2022-08-0157 minThe Brave Table with Dr. Neeta Bhushan53. How To Build Your Emotional Strength Through Emotional Regulation with Nawal MustafaHey there, Brave Table fam, thanks for being here! I am so excited to have with me today Nawal Mustafa—yes, it’s @thebraincoach! Nawal’s created a massive following on Instagram (gaining 1 million followers in just two years!), and once you check out her content, it’s easy to see why. As a fellow highly ambitious brown woman in the mental health space, it only made sense to bring her on the show. After immigrating to Canada from Pakistan as a teen, Nawal began to notice the challenges first-generation immigrants face at home. While society overall doesn’t f...2022-07-1149 minThe Brave Table with Dr. Neeta Bhushan50. Understanding Your Attachment Styles To Create Boundaries in Relationships with Silvy KhoucasianOMG BT squad, we've arrived! Our 50th episode! Thank you so much for joining me on this journey so far. It's been a whirlwind of powerful, magical, messy, moving, and BRAVE conversations with so many amazing guests. I couldn't be more grateful! Helping me to celebrate this milestone is my sweet soul sister Silvy Khoucasian. Silvy has leveraged her Master's Degree in psychology to become a highly sought-after Relationship Coach, diving deep into topics like attachment styles, boundaries, and creating agreements in relationships. Silvy's boundary work started during her acting days when a love scene c...2022-07-0444 min
Let's Talk Love | A Real Love Ready PodcastSilvy Khoucasian - How Attachment Styles and Boundaries Impact our RelationshipsToday, on Let's Talk Love, we talk with Relationship Coach, Silvy Khoucasian about the different attachment styles we all have—that were formed in childhood—and how these styles affect our relationships as adults. We also talk about the four different types of boundaries, why it is so important to set them, while also honoring the boundaries others in our lives have set. We want to hear from you! Send us your anonymous questions for the Podcast as well as our weekly IGTV Live Ask The Experts Q&A. https://realloveready.com/submitaquestionJoin our commu...2022-06-3057 min
Confidently Insecurethe big BOUNDARIES episode | SILVY KHOUCASIANBOUNDARIES!! HOW DO YOU SET THEM?! Where do you start? How do we tap into what kind of attachment style we are drawn to? Not only in sexual relationships, but also in family relationships! ALL OF THIS ANSWERED with boundaries expert Silvy Khoucasian - author and relationship coach! FOLLOW SILVY: @SilvyKhoucasianhttps://linktr.ee/silvykhoucasianhttps://silvykhoucasian.com/BUY KELSEY'S BOOK! AND SENSITIVE MERCH! OUT NOW!BOOK:https://shopc.at/dfpMERCH:https://shopcatalog.com...2022-05-1646 min
Good Risings47.5. Hash It Out: Attachment Styles with Silvy Khoucasian - Differing Attachment StylesThis week we will be discussing Attachment Styles. We have a great person to help with this discussion as we are joined by Silvy Khoucasian. She is an expert on Attachment Styles and Theories. She also has the number one course on Attachment Styles titled Attachment Theories 101. If you are interested in taking her course you can find it at: www.createthelove.com/attachment
Today’s question: Can you have a healthy relationship if you have different attachment styles?
Answer: The short answer is absolutely a resounding yes. It can be difficult at times but the key is to understand th...2022-04-1509 min
Good Risings47.4. Hash It Out: Attachment Styles with Silvy Khoucasian - BoundariesThis week we will be discussing Attachment Styles. We have a great person to help with this discussion as we are joined by Silvy Khoucasian. She is an expert on Attachment Styles and Theories. She also has the number one course on Attachment Styles titled Attachment Theories 101. If you are interested in taking her course you can find it at: www.createthelove.com/attachment
Today’s question: What kind of boundaries help Avoidant Attachment style people stay accountable but feel safe enough to re-engage with me?
Answer: Understanding that going from alone time to connection time can be very difficult. You...2022-04-1405 min
Good Risings47.3. Hash It Out: Attachment Styles with Silvy Khoucasian - Avoidant to SecureThis week we will be discussing Attachment Styles. We have a great person to help with this discussion as we are joined by Silvy Khoucasian. She is an expert on Attachment Styles and Theories. She also has the number one course on Attachment Styles titled Attachment Theories 101. If you are interested in taking her course you can find it at: www.createthelove.com/attachment
Today’s question: How can I move from avoidant today to secure attachment tomorrow?
Answer: Becoming more secure is not only about self. Security in a relationship is also about being in tune with others. As a...2022-04-1307 min
Good Risings47.2. Hash It Out: Keeping Attachment Wounds from Replicating with Silvy KhoucasianGood Risings is a mindset. Join Elizabeth Earnshaw for a daily dose of Advice.
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Good Risings47.1. Hash It Out: Rewind - A Week With Silvy KhoucasianGood Risings is a mindset. Join Elizabeth Earnshaw for a daily dose of Advice.
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Modern MinoritiesMolly Kawahata’s (unapologetic) climate optimism“The beauty is there is so much opportunity in solving the climate crisis. Let’s give more people access to the climate movement and make the movement fight for everybody.”Molly is a former policy advisor for energy and climate change at the Obama White House where she helped implement President Obama's energy agenda and Climate Action Plan. Since leaving government, Molly now helps leading companies, nonprofits, activists, influencers, and communities create more effective climate communication and advocacy. An unabashed idealist - Molly’s optimism is infectious. Because it's only by understanding the climate opportunity for ALL of us...2021-12-061h 02Gathering GoldBurnout and RestAfter a short break, Gathering Gold is back with an episode about burnout and rest. We name just some of the many reasons why humans are tired right now, from navigating an ongoing global pandemic, to managing expectations around productivity and achievement. We land on a conversation about the unrelenting demands of technology that lead us to constant checking, producing, and multitasking, and exiting the present moment.
We discuss some of the fears underneath resistance to rest, and Sheryl shares her recent experience of taking a break from Instagram. We talk about learning to pay attention to...2021-10-0858 min
Starve the Ego Feed the SoulHealing As Men - Bryan ReevesLove the show? Support by donating here https://donorbox.org/nico-barrazaThis week's guest is Bryan Reeves. Bryan is a life and relationship coach who has been featured on countless news outlets and publications. He was a Captain in the US Airforce before life led him into the work he does now. Bryan primarily focuses on men and men's work. He is the author of "Choose Her Everyday, Or Leave Her" and "Tell the Truth, Let the Peace Fall Where it May: How Authentic Living Creates the Passion, Fulfillment & Love You Seek".Bryan o...2021-10-041h 00
Good Risings16.5. Hash It Out: Different Attachment Styles with Silvy KhoucasianGood Risings is a mindset. Join Elizabeth Earnshaw for a daily dose of Advice.
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Good Risings16.4. Hash It Out: Avoidant Tendencies with Silvy KhoucasianGood Risings is a mindset. Join Elizabeth Earnshaw for a daily dose of Advice.
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Good Risings16.3. Hash It Out: Avoidant Today, Secure Attachment Tomorrow with Silvy KhoucasianGood Risings is a mindset. Join Elizabeth Earnshaw for a daily dose of Advice.
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Good Risings16.2. Hash It Out: Attachment Awareness with Silvy KhoucasianGood Risings is a mindset. Join Elizabeth Earnshaw for a daily dose of Advice.
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Good Risings16.1. Hash It Out: Attachment Styles with Silvy KhoucasianGood Risings is a mindset. Join Elizabeth Earnshaw for a daily dose of Advice.
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Mark Groves PodcastSilvy Khoucasian - Attachment Theory 101Themes: Attachment Theory, Attachment Styles, Dating, Relationships
THIS IS IT! The Attachment theory podcast you’ve all been waiting for! Silvy Khoucasian is my personal go-to expert for attachment theory so sit back and let us guide you through all things attachment!
Discover:
Attachment 101- New Course all about Attachment Theory and attachment styles
Silvy’s background and expertise in Attachment Theory
What your attachment style tendencies are and how you can change them to create secure stable relationships
Links:
https://createthelove.lpages.co/attachment-101/
https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/
See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.2021-08-2655 min
The Mark Groves Podcast#165: Attachment Theory 101 with Silvy KhoucasianThemes: Attachment Theory, Attachment Styles, Dating, Relationships
THIS IS IT! The Attachment theory podcast you’ve all been waiting for! Silvy Khoucasian is my personal go-to expert for attachment theory so sit back and let us guide you through all things attachment!
Discover:
Attachment 101- New Course all about Attachment Theory and attachment styles
Silvy’s background and expertise in Attachment Theory
What your attachment style tendencies are and how you can change them to create secure stable relationships
Links:
https://createthelove.com/attachment
https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/
Sponsors:
Organifi | Visit organifi.com/createthelove to receive 20% off all products with co...2021-08-2655 min
Journey Forward with Joree RoseAnd, not But… with Silvy KhoukasianTo take the Get Unstuck Assessment, click here: https://joreerose.com/getunstuckquiz And it’s not too early to join the September cohort of the Journey Forward Method (an 8-week live course to help you get - and stay - unstuck), which starts Sept. 9 at 5pm PST. Secure your spot by clicking here: https://joreerose.com/journeyforwardmethod/ And I still have a few spots remaining for my women’s retreat Sept. 26-29 at Miraval in Tucson, AZ. Get all the info and sign up now: https://joreerose.com/upcoming-retreats/ I...2021-07-2650 min
As Told By Nomads582: Understanding Attachment Styles and Setting Healthy Boundaries with Silvy KhoucasianIn today's episode of the As Told by Nomads Podcast, join Silvy Khoucasian and me to discuss the different styles of attachment, the types of boundaries by Rokelle Lerner, and what she has to say about how to make intentional, genuine connections. Of course, not fully understanding what other people are going through sometimes is understandable. But for Silvy, what's essential at the very least is to learn how to validate the experiences of others even though we're unable to completely empathize. Tune in as Silvy shares more of her wisdom as a Relationship Coach in this episode!2021-07-2148 min
Sylvester McNutt III PodcastDeep Connection with Silvy KhoucasianSilvy Khoucasian is a Relationship Coach, a Writer, and the Founder of Love With Integrity Coaching. Silvy earned her Master’s Degree in Psychology from the MFT program at Phillips Graduate Institute, and her bachelor’s degree in Sociology from the University of California, Santa Barbara.
Silvy was born in Saudi Arabia and immigrated to the United States at the age of 4 years from Syria. Her own experiences of straddling two very different cultures helps her to understand complexity, challenges around identity, and the ability to hold and tolerate differences (and even contradictions) in oneself and within interpersonal relationships.
She also...2021-05-301h 02
Pay It Forward RadioBroken Masculinity (a work in progress)had a convo with a friend that sparked this conversation. really just exploring what it means for me to be a man and what masculinity actually means in this world. People that i look to that have mentored me directly or indirectly, emotionally or spiritually, thank you guys so much.Bryan Reeves @BryanreevesinsightSteve Wood @itsstevewoodSilvy Khoucasian @silvykhoucasianNzinga Moore @iamnzingamooreMunday Smith @smithmundayMy Spiritual Community: @therealprayermovementSupport the show (http://cashapp.com/bwade061490) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more i...2021-05-2449 min
Conversations with Kenzie#54 Attachment theory pt 2 with Silvy KhoucasianYes our convo was THAT good that we needed to keep going! Silvy and I continue to learn and unpack about different attachments. Anxious, avoidant, anxious-avoidant? How do you date someone with a different attachment to you? Can you change your attachment? Should you? All of this plus SO much more!Follow Silvy on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/Produced by Brett Kibbler2021-05-0345 minConversations with Kenzie#53 Attachment theory pt 1 with Silvy KhoucasianAre you anxiously attached? Maybe avoidant? What if you're a bit of both? In this conversation with renowned relationship coach Silvy Khoucasian where we dive into what attachment is, how we figure out what type we are, what the pros and cons are to each attachment type. This conversation was SO good we went overtime which means there is a part 2 that you don't want to miss!Follow Silvy on instagram https://www.instagram.com/silvykhoucasian/Produced by Brett Kibbler 2021-05-0340 min
The Embodied Love PodcastS1.Ep.11 Boundaries, Sisterhood and Navigating Needs w/ Silvy KhoucasianIn this week's episode I sit down with my beloved friend, sister and colleague Silvy Khoucasian.
Silvy is one of my most favourite humans, she's kind, generous, considerate and such a brilliant coach and teacher when it comes to all things relationships, boundaries and attachment systems.
It is one of my greatest blessings in life to be loved up by this woman. To get to share her magic with ya'll today brings me great joy and pleasure. Let's dive in!
In this episode we explore:
• The nature of boundaries.
• Boundaries in roman...2021-02-201h 00Bridging Connections with Bryan Reeves58. The 2nd Pillar of a Thriving Man ~ INTIMACY ~ w/ Silvy Khoucasian (My Intimate Partner)What is intimacy … really? Can you experience intimacy without another person actually present? (hint: yes!) Why do so many men (women, too!) struggle with sustaining intimacy? In this episode, my very special guest and I dive into these questions and more for useful insights to make a meaningful difference in your life … my ... Read more2020-12-021h 01
Rastlos - Dein Podcast für Entschleunigung & mehr Selbstvertrauen055 | Endlich klare Grenzen setzen - Teil 2Du hast keine Ahnung wo du beim „Grenzen setzen“ anfangen sollst? In dieser Folge geht es um 3 Arten von Grenzen, an die jeder von uns schon mal gestoßen ist und bei denen es sich lohnt mal genauer zu reflektieren - körperliche, emotionale und spirituelle Grenzen. Ich empfehle dir die Inhalte von Silvy Khoucasian :) Ich freue mich, dass Du hier bist! Website: www.nathalie-mauckner.de Mail: info@nathalie-mauckner.de, Instagram: Nathalie_mk2020-07-2439 min
The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult ChairSummer Series: Attachment and Relationships with Silvy KhoucasianWe all have different ways that we connect and bond with others, and in psychology, we call this “attachment style.” For example, some of us are anxious in our bonds, always making sure the relationship is ok. Others of us pull away when we feel we are getting too close with someone else. Our attachment style is HIGHLY influenced by our childhood and how we bonded with our caregivers growing up, and it’s so important to understanding how we interact in our adult relationships! In this episode, I interview the incredible Silvy Khoucasian, a relationship coach and at...2020-07-0243 min
Love With IntegrityEp 10: Navigating Relationship Anxiety With Sheryl PaulDo you struggle with Relationship Anxiety?
Do you tend to leave relationship after relationship .. only to find yourself experiencing the same fears and anxieties over and over again?
Do you feel like you can get in touch with the love and connection you have for your partner only (after) you have broken up with them?
Well .. you are SO not alone!
I am so excited to introduce today’s special guest, Sheryl Paul. She is an incredible and compassionate expert on anxiety. Sheryl has a Master’s Degree in Jungian Psychology and has worked with thousands of people worldwide through her p...2020-03-1049 min
The Art of AuthenticityBest of 2019: Silvy Khoucasain: Love with IntegrityToday we have a really special show in store for you! We welcome relationship coach Silvy Khoucasian to share her expertise and personal work with relationships. Silvy has her masters degree in psychology and is particularly interested and specializes in attachment and boundaries and how codependency arises in relationships. She helps clients to show up and stay authentic with their partners, a balance that most people will find to be a constant challenge, even with the best intentions. 2020-01-0745 min
Room to Grow Podcast with Emily GoughAligning Values Over GoalsSince it's the end of the year, the question of New Years resolutions inevitably comes up alongside a look back at the past year, what we've accomplished, and what we want to do and change for the year ahead. This is usually when we make a long list of goals, have high hopes for ourselves, and trying to stick to a handful of new habits for as long as possible. Which, as we all know, often doesn't work well to begin with. I want to propose something different: what about choosing the values you want to...2019-12-1716 min
The MAJic Hour#50 All About Boundaries & Attachment Styles w/Relationship Coach, Silvy KhoucasianOur guest, Slivy Khoucasian, is an expert in teaching practical relationship skills and how to build and maintain healthy boundaries. In this episode we touch on the attachment styles we all play out in our relationships, being bound by codependency, and the shame that keeps us from communicating in truth with others. We explore where and how we, often unconsciously, seek validation from our loved ones, and better ways of navigating our patterns to improve our relationships. We’re thrilled to be learning from her today, how to turn conflict into connection, and how to love with integrity....2019-10-281h 21The Michelle Chalfant Show — Life from the Adult ChairAttachment and Relationships with Silvy KhoucasianToday on the show, relationship and attachment expert, Silvy Khoucasian and I have a conversation about attachment in relationships. We talk through all of the attachment styles and how to heal and find secure attachment regardless of your style. We also talk about the importance of boundaries and how to set them as well as shame and trust in relationships and how to build this. Regardless of your attachment style, you are going to find value in today's show and walk away with tools you can begin to use right away! 30 Day Journaling Cha...2019-10-2442 minJourney Forward with Joree Rose“And, not But…” with Silvy KhoucasianThis conversation is with the amazing and insightful Silvy Khoucasian, who imparts beautiful wisdom and tools on how to create effective and healthy relationships. Bringing her personal experience of being raised within two different cultures along with being an introvert and sensitive person, she, along with her training, uses an intuitive approach to help couples connect, be vulnerable and thrive. A big focus of our conversation is on boundaries, and Silvy highlights invaluable tools that any couple can implement as soon as they’re done listening. And the title of this episode highlights one of my most favorite awarenesses th...2019-10-0748 min
The Viall FilesAttachment Styles with Relationship Coach Silvy KhoucasianToday we are joined by popular relationship coach Silvy Khocasian who teaches us all about Attachment Styles. We learn about where they originate, Nick reveals his own attachment style, and we talk about how to know whether someone is compatible with you. Are you secure, avoidant, anxious, or fearful? Be sure to subscribe so that you never miss an episode! THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: BEST FIENDS: https://download.bestfiends.com NOOM: https://www.noom.com/viall PROACTIV: https://www.proactiv.com/NICK S...2019-10-021h 10Love With IntegrityEp 9: Tools For The Passive Partner During ConflictI have come to find that the more passive partner often feels stuck and overwhelmed during conflict.
They want to show up .. they want to set boundaries .. but they just don't know how to.
In this episode, I break down this dynamic between the aggressive partner and the passive partner.
I offer a few practical tools to empower the passive power to be able to show up in a more authentic and assertive way.
Make sure to check out my practical communication program if you'd like additional support with communicating during...2019-09-2114 min
The Power Couple PodcastAttachment Styles 101 W/ Silvy KhoucasianWe're thrilled to bring our friend Silvy to the show today to grace all of you Love Legends with her incredible wisdom, insight and knowledge on all things attachment theory. Silvy is a relationship coach who specializes in attachment theory work and boundaries. FRIENDS....she's THE BEST. We love her so much and were so honoured to have this time to showcase her brilliance, expertise and give you all a backstage pass to one of our favourite relationship educators, coaches and expert in this relational field.*Some of our favourite moments from this in...2019-09-1900 min
The Long Distance Love Bombs Podcast24: Silvy Khoucasian - How do you create and maintain healthy vulnerability?Silvy Khoucasian is a relationship coach and the founder of the Love With Integrity podcast. She teaches practical relationship skills and how to have healthy boundaries. She has three online programs available, one on practical communication, another on establishing boundaries, and one for couples looking to go from conflict to connection.
Follow her on Instagram here.
The books that Silvy recommended include Attached, Wired for Love, Where to Draw the Line, and Wired for Dating.
Also, you're fantastic. Yes, you.
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Follow me on Instagram @LongDistanceLoveBombs: https://www.instagram.com/long...2019-09-011h 05
Charisma Quotient: Build Confidence, Make Connections and Find LoveInterview With Silvy Khoucasian: Creating Healthy Dating BoundariesWhether you're casually dating, or you're in a long-term relationship, setting boundaries is imperative! In order to have a healthy relationship, both parties need to be comfortable sharing their needs without fear of judgment or retaliation. This week on the show, Kim interviews relationship coach, and host of the podcast Love with Integrity, Silvy Khoucasian. Silvy has coached countless singles and couples throughout her career to have fulfilling, happy relationships by focusing on setting healthy boundaries. Kim and Silvy talk through the importance of owning your needs and wants from the minute you start dating someone. Even though it...2019-08-0736 minThe Art of AuthenticitySilvy Khoucasian: Love with IntegrityToday we have a really special show in store for you! We welcome relationship coach Silvy Khoucasian to share her expertise and personal work with relationships. Silvy has her masters degree in psychology and is particularly interested and specializes in attachment and boundaries and how codependency arises in relationships. She helps clients to show up and stay authentic with their partners, a balance that most people will find to be a constant challenge, even with the best intentions. 2019-07-2945 min
The Stacey June ShowSingle Pringle - Boundaries in RelationshipsDo the work and set your emotional boundaries. Respect your own. Respect other People’s. It’s good to have emotional boundaries. Look to the past to determine what has triggered you. Think about the things that have made you uneasy, and know where your limits are. Then let people know they need to respect them…this is what I need! This is who I am! And you’re not going to walk all over me.Kat O'Connor (nee Howitt) talks about taking your relationship to the next level hereSilv...2019-07-2217 minLove With IntegrityEp 8: Understanding The Shame of Men w/ Quentin HafnerAre you frustrated with how to support the men in your life?
Do you want to better understand the thoughts men have when it comes to getting help?
Do you feel exhausted with trying to “uplift” and “support” men?
Men, do you want to better understand your own resistance too?
Marriage and Family Therapist Quentin Hafner is a very special guest on this episode.
He is a couple’s therapist, specializing with men and with couples who are on the brink of divorce.
We dove right...2019-07-0952 min
You Turn Podcast w/ Ashley Stahl[LOVE] Ep. 69: The 4 Types Of Boundaries In Love w/ Silvy KhoucasianHave you ever felt a line was crossed in your relationship and you didn’t do anything? Join Ash this week as she talks with Silvy Khoucasian, a relationship coach, who focuses on boundaries and attachment styles. She shares the 4 ways your boundaries can get violated and actionable ways to repair them. There is a major tie between attachment styles and boundaries. Ash and Silvy break down what the attachment styles are, where they come from, and what their impact on your relationships can be. Silvy sheds light on how and why your adult relationships patte...2019-06-271h 00Love With IntegrityEp 7: Navigating CodependencyAre you confused about what Codependency is? I get it. It's a really huge topic. In this episode, I break down what codependency is in a simplified way and also offer you 3 ways to begin your recovery journey. You can check out http://coda.org/ to find support groups in your local area. Also check out our boundaries program for deeper support on boundaries @ bryanreeves.com/boundaries2019-06-0419 minLove With IntegrityEp 6: How To Heal From Betrayals w/ Dr. Debi SilberAre you struggling to get over a betrayal? Do you feel completely stuck and don’t know where to begin? Did you know that betrayals can happen in all kinds of relationships? They can happen in intimate relationships, within a parent/child dynamic, between siblings, within a therapist/client relationship, and in religious or spiritual organizations. Join us in this episode where I interview Dr. Debi Silber. She is a holistic psychologist, a Tedx speaker, and the founder of www.pbtinstitute.com. She walks us through the entire journey of a betrayal, including the 5 different stages she has discovered through he...2019-05-0848 minLove With IntegrityEp 5: How To Manage Guilt When Setting BoundariesI discuss why some of us struggle so much with setting boundaries. I break down 3 different family systems that influence our ability to set healthy boundaries. You can get my full boundaries program @ bryanreeves.com/boundaries2019-04-2711 minLove With IntegrityEp 4: How To Overcome HeartbreakI discuss the complexity that breakups and heartbreak often come with. I also offer some journaling prompts to help you work through your grieving. You can find more of my relationship content on my IG page @silvykhoucasian2019-04-0411 minLove With IntegrityEp 3: If You’re Uncomfortable With Your Boundaries, Your Partner Will Be, Too.Healthy boundaries are essential for healthy relationship. Learn what may be getting in the way for you in expressing your boundaries. Get “The Boundaries Program: Relationships Suck Without ‘Em” @ https://bryanreeves.com/boundaries2019-03-2908 minLove With IntegrityEp 2: Can We Be Friends With An Ex?In this episode, I dive into the question … “Is talking to your ex okay even if it is a trigger for your partner? You can find more of my daily relationship insights on my IG @silvykhoucasian2019-03-1610 minLove With IntegrityEp 1: Want Your Partner To Go To Therapy?In this short episode, I offer 3 simple tools you can use to support your partner to go to therapy.2019-03-1607 min
Building Psychological Strength0106 | Setting Healthy Boundaries & Creating Lasting Connection with Silvy KhoucasianHave you ever stopped to think about the impact that your upbringing has on your adult relationships? No? I hadn’t either. That is, I hadn’t thought about it until I began hitting bumps in the road in the early days of dating my husband. I didn’t realize that the avoidant attachment style I had developed as a child (after losing my dad to cancer when I was younger), was manifesting itself in this relationship. It didn’t occur to me that the last man I loved and was extremely close to was s...2019-03-1359 min
The Love Drive with Shaun GalanosSetting Healthy Boundaries with Silvy KhoucasianSilvy Khoucasian is a relationship coach with a passion for helping individuals and couples have healthier relationships with themselves and others. She also creates a ton of beautiful content on Instagram, a lot of it centering on boundaries and attachment styles. Today, we deep dive on boundaries - what they are, how to set them, and what to do when they're being violated.
What you'll learn (or why you should care):
• What the heck boundaries are and the four types of boundary violations
• The difference in how men and women process and talk about e...2019-03-121h 10
The Divorce Survival Guide PodcastEpisode 28: Understanding Attachment Styles with Silvy KhoucasianThis week’s guest is Silvy Khoucasian. She is a Relationship Coach who specializes in attachment styles as well as creating healthy boundaries. I invited her onto my podcast with the hope of having a rich conversation about attachment styles. Oh and we absolutely did have a rich and amazing conversation! If you are thinking, “Alright, Kate, what’s up with attachment styles and why are they important?” Well, our attachment styles are deeply rooted and can have a dramatic impact on the way we relate to someone as an adult. Yes, it always goes back to relationships, doesn’t it? 2019-02-251h 01
The Modern Therapist's Survival Guide with Curt Widhalm and Katie VernoyHaving Fun at The Evolution of Psychotherapy Conference: Talking about Modern Therapist Problems in the Exhibitor HallEpisode 12: Having Fun at The Evolution of Psychotherapy ConferenceSurvival Guide Tips, Tools, and Name DroppingIt’s time to reimagine therapy and what it means to be a therapist. We are human beings who can now present ourselves as whole people, with authenticity, purpose, and connection. Especially now, when therapists must develop a personal brand to market their practices.To support you as a whole person and a therapist, your hosts, Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy talk about how to approach the role of therapist in the modern age.In th...2017-12-1431 min
Mastering Life, Relationships and Intimacy with Lucia GabrielaEp 90 | Relationships | How Boundaries Are The Key To Finding Lasting Love with Silvy KhoucasianLucia Gabriela helps individuals and couples to master their life, intimacy and relationships with themselves and others. Her passion is to create a safe and sacred space for women and men to deeply explore many aspects of themselves, purge emotional and/or sexual traumas that are holding them back from manifesting what they desire, heal their inner child, embrace their shadows, connect with their higher self, reconnect with their own body's wisdom, align with their true essence, live their higher potential, and master their sexual life in all realms. They can then create their life with awareness, ma...2017-11-1659 min
The Couples Therapist Couch012: Building an Instagram Following with Silvy KhoucasianThere is a growing movement of therapists who are using various social media platforms to connect with the people who need them. In this incredible interview with Silvy Khoucasian, we talk all about using Instagram in order to market your private practice. This is the second bonus business episode for the purpose of helping therapists grow their private practices. Silvy has been able to grow her Instagram following to over 16,000 followers in under a year. Because of this, she has a way to provide value to people to help them in their relationships. Potential clients have the...2017-11-0253 min