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The Turn Outward PodcastEp 30: Talking masculinity with Jayvan TeranIn this episode, I sit down Jayvan Teran. Jayvan is the founder of a men’s coaching program called Koa Warrior, where he helps men become the best versions of themselves physically, mentally, and spiritually. Jayvan shares his story of leaving his home country of Venezuela and trying to survive on the streets of the Dominican Republic, before eventually finding his way to the USA. He shares his perspective on issues men are facing in mental health and relationships. He and I discuss how healthy masculinity is serving others, protecting, and being vulnerable rather than having control.2024-11-201h 32
MindFit MentorTurn Outward W/ Spencer SmalleyTune into "The Turn Outward Podcast" w/ Spencer Smalley! This week I am interviewed about all things mindset, fitness, and share my journey of becoming a life coach.
"In this episode, I sit down with Life Coach, Daniel Jacobsen. Daniel tells his story of growing up feeling like he was out of place, struggling in school, and trying to balance many priorities; and how this experience led him to coaching. He shares how he overcame perceived unfairness and avoided a victim mentality, how we can reframe our thoughts to find meaning in the mundane...2024-10-311h 23The Turn Outward PodcastEp 29: Dating with a Turn Outward mindsetIn this episode, I sit down with Dating Coach, Ashley Jordan. Ashley shares her story of facing and heartbreak in her dating life; and how she was able to overcome them and find connection, value, and joy within herself. She shares techniques that she uses with her clients in order to help them experience more meaningful relationships and genuinely attract potential partners. She and I discuss what it means to date with a turn outward mindset.2024-10-291h 28The Turn Outward PodcastEp 28: Developing mental fitness with Daniel JacobsenIn this episode, I sit down with Life Coach, Daniel Jacobsen. Daniel tells his story of growing up feeling like he was out of place, struggling in school, and trying to balance many priorities; and how this experience led him to coaching. He shares how he overcame perceived unfairness and avoided a victim mentality, how we can reframe our thoughts to find meaning in the mundane, and the benefits of mindfulness.
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https://www.skool.com/mindfit-tribe/about2024-10-241h 23The Turn Outward PodcastEp 27: Reframing addiction with Weston JuddIn this episode, I sit down with my good friend, Weston Judd. Weston and I discuss substance use and how its prevalence and perception have changed in our culture over time. We talk about what factors lead individuals to use substances at a high rate, and why we feel the need to numb and escape certain emotions. We relate this to pornography use and seeking validation from friends and romantic partners. We discuss healthier alternatives that lead to long-term rather than short term solutions.2024-10-161h 21The Turn Outward PodcastEp 26: How coming out helped me turn outward with Thommy AuseugaIn this episode, I sit down with Thommy Auseuga. Thommy is a social worker back in his home country of Australia. He shares his story of growing up and discovering that he was gay, and what this meant for him in his religious and social environments. He shares how he was able to heal in presenting his authentic self to others, and how turning outward and helping others has given him meaning and purpose.2024-10-091h 04The Turn Outward PodcastEp 25: Seeking connection over validation with Brodi TomicicIn this episode, I sit down with Brodi Tomicic, founder of Vivir Community and host of the Live it Be it Podcast. Brodi and discuss the difference between validation and connection, why we feel such a desperate need for validation, and how connection brings a more authentic sense of validation when we no longer feel a need to prove ourselves to others or perform as a character to please them. We also discuss how this principle relates to dating and every other meaningful connection.2024-10-021h 55The Turn Outward PodcastEp 24: Sergio's testimonyIn this episode I sit down Sergio Gonzalez. Sergio shares his life story of choosing to turn away from God due to hardships in his life. He shares different trials that he experienced: traveling, stories, and meeting celebrities while living a life outside of faith. He describes a harrowing illness that he endured and visions he had that ultimately restored his faith in God and led him to a life of service. 2024-09-261h 45The Turn Outward PodcastEp 23: Honesty and tolerance vs. guidance with Hannah LarsonIn this episode I sit down with Hannah Larson and we discuss the importance of honesty in human relationships. We ask difficult questions about what is love—more guidance or more acceptance? How do we love people where they are without condoning destructive behavior? How do we reconcile when we have hurt and been hurt? 2024-09-181h 18The Turn Outward PodcastEp 22: Identity determines destiny with Sam RichardsonIn this episode, I sit down with Sam Richardson. Sam is a family studies graduate and is beginning a Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling in the winter. Sam and I talk about challenges with our identity growing up. We discuss how our identity shapes our thoughts, beliefs, and actions; and how to base our identity in what is most important.2024-09-111h 30The Turn Outward PodcastEp 21: Breaking cycles of abuse with Kanoe CrowellIn this episode I sit down with Kanoe Crowell. Kanoe is a behavior technician and social media influencer. She shares her story of growing up in Hawaii; experiencing childhood abuse; struggling with suicidal thoughts, addiction, and trauma; and going through a divorce. We discuss her journey of healing through therapy, finding God, and serving others. 2024-09-051h 18The Turn Outward PodcastEp 20: Having compassion while exercising authorityIn this episode I sit down with my friend, Eddy Saunders. Eddy is a police officer and recent father. Eddy and I discuss how we manage careers based in crisis intervention and how to compartmentalize work-based trauma and to avoid letting it negatively impact family life. We go to talk about how to enforce rules and boundaries without letting our hearts be poisoned with hate, and to have compassion especially for those that the world would be quick to cast judgment upon.2024-08-281h 42The Turn Outward PodcastEp 19: Living with abundance, awe, and wonder with Matt NielsenToday I sit down with my friend, Matt Nielsen. Matt shares his experience growing up as a white person in northern Mexico, and how he has learned to help others feel seen through his experience of growing up different. We talk about shifting our mindset to allow us to be more present, changing the way that we pray, and allowing ourselves to experience childlike wonder again. 2024-08-131h 59The Turn Outward PodcastEp 18: Unpacking childhood trauma with Dallin BryantIn my most vulnerable episode yet, I sit down with my friend, Dallin Bryant. Both of us discuss challenges we faced in our childhood years, ways that these challenges impacted us as adults, and how we were able to work through them and turn pain into purpose and growth.2024-08-061h 27The Turn Outward PodcastEp 17: The power of choice with Caden KirbyIn this episode, I sit down once again with my friend, Caden Kirby, and we discuss the importance of believing in free will rather than determinism in terms of finding joy and meaning in our lives. We also discuss boundary setting, the necessity of suffering, and the dangers of trying to escape pain. 2024-07-311h 06
The Turn Outward PodcastEp 16: Different is a good thing with Derick LarsenI interview my friend, Derick Larsen, and ask him about his experience being diagnosed and living with OCD. Derick shares how he was able to shift his perspective on his condition from a negative label to a superpower—allowing him to connect with others like him and motivating him to help as many people as he can.2024-07-091h 20The Turn Outward PodcastEp 15: Discovering your inherent value with Caden Kirby I sit down and listen to my friend Caden Kirby's story. Caden was diagnosed with Muscular Dystrophy at the age of 5. Caden shares his story of facing shame and judgement from his disability, pushing himself to walk throughout high school, and learning that he is so much more than his body.2024-06-191h 23The Turn Outward PodcastEp 14: Overcoming insecurity with Randy WhiteI sit down with Randy White, the director of the Herriman Institute, and discuss the challenges faced by young adults today: the difficulty of perfectionism, comparison, and shame; and on the other side the tendency towards pride as a defence mechanism. We discuss how changing our interntions to be other-oriented can help us avoid both shame and pride, and how we can consistently show up in our relationships. 2024-06-0549 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEp 13: Navigating challenging family dynamics with Joanna SalvadorJoin me as I interview my friend and Family Studies graduate, Joanna Salvador. Joanna shares her story of growing up in a less than ideal family environment and the challenges that that created for her going into college. She then shares how these experiences helped her turn outward and desire to be an agent of change in her family and her community. 2024-05-3153 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 12: Effort and Patience with Julio GonzalezFor the first ever in-person interview on the Turn Outward podcast, I listen to Julio Gonzalez share his story of growing up in Mexico, immigrating to America during his childhood, and having his heart changed to discover what is most important in life.2024-05-2258 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 11: A new convert's perspective on turning outwardIn this episode I interview Louisa Fowler-Packham. Louisa holds a Master's degree in Religious Studies from Boston University. Louisa shares her story of learning about and joining the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, going through mental struggles, getting married, and what these experiences have taught her about altruism and turning outward.2024-05-161h 48
The Spencerclaeys.com ShowHow Matthias Made $22,000 this month soft washing housesSend us a textInterview with Inner Circle member Matthias Smalley who has been crushing it this year 💪Matthias is a great example of a guy who didn't sit around waiting for the answers, he quit his job and went all in and now is making over $22,000 this month all as a solo operator.Love to see it. Are you next?If you've started your business AND are making at least $5,000/month but are looking to grow to $10K, $15k or even $30K plus per month and network with guys like me...2024-05-1337 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 10: Humility and Mentorship with Kris UrbinaToday I sit down with my close friend and fellow psychology graduate Kris Urbina, as we discuss topics such as why bad things happen, how to avoid toxic comparison, how to receive feedback with grace, and the importance of cultivating non-transactional relationships. 2024-05-0858 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 9: Traveling isn't about you with Paul VictorIn the age of influencing, we think of travel as something selfish, something we do for our own interest, or to show off on social media. I sit down with Paul Victor, entrepreneur and avid traveler, and discuss how travel is made more fulfilling by embracing discomfort, being vulnerable, turning outward, and making connections. We also discuss the importance of being where your feet are, living with wonder and gratitude, and learning to reinvent ourselves.2024-04-241h 06The Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 8: Using our pain to heal othersThere's a narrative in self-care that we need take of our ourselves before focusing on others. This philosophy can be dangerous and cause us to isolate when we are experiencing emotional pain so as to avoid spreading our pain to others. In this episode I discuss how using our pain to build meaning and connection with others gives purpose to our suffering and is a crucial form of self-care.2024-04-1828 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 7: Exploring Vulnerability and Conflict with André HurtadoToday we have our first ever podcast guest, André Hurtado! Andre and I delve into a philosophical, pyschological, and theological discussion about topics such as vulnerability: (how much of myself do I share and how much do I hold back?); relationship conflict: (why is it sometimes easier to forgive a different a stranger than someone close to us?); and empathy: (why do we feel a need to hurt someone that has hurt us?).2024-03-081h 19The Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 6: Compassion through seeing the Inner Child in othersIn this episode I discuss principles from the book You Are the One You've Been Waiting For by Richard C. Schwartz. First: that each of us is multi-dimensional and made up of several parts, and second: that there is a wounded child inside all of us. Understanding these principles allows us to view others through a lens of compassion rather than judgment.2024-02-2419 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 5: Facing pain and negative coping mechanisms head onIn this episode I get vulnerable and talk about some of the challenges I have faced that have tempted me to cope by distracting, numbing, and isolating. Why do I spend endless amounts of time on my phone? Why do I procrastinate? Why do I find it difficult to connect with others? Asking these difficult questions allows us to find the underlying emotions behind our behavior and begin turning outward.2024-02-1623 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 4: Lessons from camping in HawaiiIn this episode I tell the story of backpacking and camping in Hawaii with my friends, and the lessons learned from when things don't go ideally.2024-02-0737 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 3: Disabilities, different beliefs, and how to find peace when things don't go our wayIn this episode I talk about various lessons I learned throughout the week while completing assignments for my graduate program. How should we treat those that are different then us? How can we connect with those that believe differently than us? How can we find peace and purpose when things don't go our way? Find out in episode 3!2024-01-2525 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 2: Theories of Successful AgingIn this episode, I talk about three different theories on aging, and what they mean for the rest of us. How can principles of successful aging lead us to focus on the needs of others and live more healthy, connected, and meangingful lives? Tune in to find out!2024-01-1720 minThe Turn Outward PodcastEpisode 1: My story and the meaning of Turn OutwardHere in the very first episode of the Turn Outward Podcast, I talk about my background, my upbringing, and the origin of the name Turn Outward.2024-01-111h 32
The Perks Of Being A Book Lover PodcastS. 8E. 160 - Hot And Cold Winter Reads - 1-11-23For show notes for any episode, go to our website at www.perksofbeingabooklover.com.
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Books Mentioned in This Episode:
1- The Mist by Ragnar Jónasson
2- Snowblind by Ragnar Jónasson
3- Who is Vera Kelly? by Rosalie Knecht
4- Burial Rites by Hannah Kent
5- Salt to the Sea by Ruta Sepetys
6- The Island of Adventure by Enid Blyton
7- How the Penguins Save...2023-01-1159 min
The Perks Of Being A Book Lover PodcastSeason 4 Ep. 85 The Bones of a Marriage Laid Bare with guest Christina Consolino 4-14-21There is a pop psychology theory about left brain and right brain dominance from the 1980s. Supposedly those with strong right brains are the analyzers and those with dominant left brains are the artists. In this scenario, it is a rare person who is lucky enough to have both sides of their brain work harmoniously; their logical and scientific right brain plays nicely with the creative and imaginative left brain. Our guest this week, debut novelist Christina Consolino would be one of those people. Christina grew up creating stories but also loved to read biographies of famous female scientists...2021-04-1459 min
The Perks Of Being A Book Lover PodcastSeason 4 Ep. 81 Lions, Tigers, Bears, and Books with guest Katy Morrison
When I say the word “zoo” your first thought is probably elephants or giraffes; maybe a great memory of going on a school field trip or of taking your own children there for a special outing. A word you probably don’t associate with a zoo is “Book club”. But our guest today, Katy Morrison, a zoo educator at the Louisville Zoo, wants to broaden your vision a bit. At the beginning of the pandemic, she was brainstorming ways that the zoo could still serve its patrons virtually, especially adult patrons who are often not the focus of zoo outreach...2021-03-1059 min
The Perks Of Being A Book Lover PodcastSeason 4 Ep. 77 Romance Language with guest Tiffany Reisz 2-10-21
This coming Sunday, February 14, is Valentine’s Day, and we couldn’t pass up an opportunity to talk about the genre of romance.
If you are of a certain age, you may most associate romance novels with Fabio, the long-haired king of Romance novel covers. But romance is a very wide umbrella. There are historical romances like the books that inspired the Netflix series Bridgerton, classical romances (think Jane Austen books), and queer romances. Some romances are just about the emotional aspects of love, while others venture into the erotic beyond just a little kiss.
Our...2021-02-1059 min
The Perks Of Being A Book Lover PodcastSeason 3 Ep.73 This Episode Is So "2020"2020 has been one for the books, hasn’t it. See my pun there? A worldwide pandemic, a truly historic election, racial unrest, murder hornets, shortages of toilet paper, and massive fires in California are just a few weird things that happened this year; we all took solace where we could. For book lovers like us, it usually meant a book but could also include new hobbies like puzzles and baking for me, crocheting for Carrie, and wine for the both of us.
For this last episode of 2020, Carrie and I decided to talk about some notable books th...2020-12-3059 min
DTC RadioBreaking Bread by Joshua SmalleyKasey and her partner Rylan would like to have a nice, quiet Easter dinner: eat some ham, maybe chit-chat about church, listen to Mozart. But their neighbors Talitha and Tyson have other ideas. Who could have known a painting of Jesus would be so offensive?
Written by Joshua Smalley. Directed by Kristan Seemel. Starring Aaron Ballard, Barron B Bass, Cameran Hebb, and Isabelle Pierre. Sound engineering by Liz Regan. Sound design by Lisha Brown. Sound editing by Tyler Grimes. Play development by Tyler Grimes.Artwork by Andrew Singer. Hosted by Pip Gengenbach. dtc radio theme by Spencer Robelen, all...2018-03-0124 min
Godless Rebelution171 - Physician, Heal ThyselfRyan is working a bit of overtime, so we were happy to have The Purple Dragon (A.K.A. Grant Larimer) join us to fill in for Ryan as co-host for this episode.
Exclusively for our Patreon patrons, we have a difficult discussion about white privilege. What is it, where does it come from, and what do you think of when you hear the term?
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Teen finds Jesus and then goes on a shooting rampage
Joel Osteen is as quick to offer help to his parishioners as...2017-09-072h 01