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Man Shopping with StacieEP62 - Cheers to the New Year - Iâm building a legacy over hereIn this episode, I discuss the idea of building a legacy. I share how over the past year and a half, through my podcast, social media, and networking, I have been building mine. My mission has been to help other single people like me find more joy. Through my transparency, I hope to help others feel understood and less alone. It takes bravery to be real on this podcast, in photos, etc. I hope Iâm known for that too. I challenge you to think about what it is you want to be known for. What is it th...2022-12-3029 minMan Shopping with StacieEp61~ Holly Jolly ChristmasSince I recognize that the holidays are often busy, stressful, and not so holly jolly, I want to remind you of some of the things we singles should be grateful for and also give you all some ideas to bring a bit more joy to your Christmas season.We can plan time away without permission or agreement (within reason)We can decorate as little or as much and in any fashion we want.We don't have to share the goodies and gifts we receive.We can get a little extra fluffy (or unshaved) and no one...2022-12-1630 minMan Shopping with StacieEp60 ~ Cuffing Season'Tis the Damn Season... You can call me babe for the weekend." ~ Taylor SwiftCuffing season as defined by Merriam Webster:"Refers to a period of time where single people begin looking for short term partnerships to pass the colder months of the year.' Cuffing season begins in October and lasts until just after Valentine's Day.Paraphrasing a recent article from Today.com says that cuffing season is a seasonal phenomenon of single people ramping up their efforts to enter into relationships during the fall and winter months. Cuffing season falls into the c...2022-12-0234 min
COFFEE CULTURE with Holly ShannonMan Shopping with Stacie and Coffee DatesStacie Wimer on InstagramMan Shopping with Stacie on Facebook Our episode on YoutubeBuy Me a CoffeeHolly Shannonâs WebsiteZero To Podcast on AmazonHolly Shannon's new Youtube Channel, Subscribe here!Holly Shannon, InstagramHolly Shannon, LinkedinHolly Shannon, TwitterMini Lavalier Microphones #Coffee #barista #pumpkinspicedlatte #Starbucks #DunkinDonuts #blackcoffee #darkroast #lightroast #latte #macchiato #cappuccino #espresso#centralperk #Bulletproof #howtomakecoffee #coffeebeans #coffeedate #virtualcoffee #coffeebreak #coldbrew #coffeemachine #coffeegrinder #connection #community #frenchpress #coffeehousemusic #cafe #arabica #espresso #cupp...2022-11-2348 minMan Shopping with StacieEP59 - Deciding To Come CleanIn this episode, I talk about navigating difficult conversations in our dating lives... When and how do we come clean about challenges (past or present) in our lives? Some of the topics I explore:Marital infidelityFinancial/debt issuesHealth concerns, including addiction or previous battles with addictionDifficult Relationships with exes or childrenI share stories from listeners and friends, as well as a couple of my own. I also give advice, for what it's worth. :)Support the show2022-11-1827 minMan Shopping with StacieEp58~ What's The Worst That Could HappenIn this episode, I explore all of the ways I could see my life play out as a single woman. I've done a lot of day dreaming and soul searching after divorce. One of the things I like to think about is what I could do if I grow old alone, but not lonely.Ideas of how I could spend my golden years single:Be a real life golden girl - live somewhere fantastic with widowed or divorced friendsBuild a carriage house adjacent to my married friends big house at the beachLive in a resort type...2022-11-0125 minMan Shopping with StacieEp 57 Love Me, Love My DogOur pets impact our dating lives in countless ways. To begin, I share a tragic story of how I adopted a black lab puppy on a whim from a not-so reputable animal shelter in Kansas City years ago. My dad, logically and lovingly asked if I had thought this decision through. I was a young single mom of a 5 year old. Was it really a good idea to add a rambunctious large dog into the mix. He warned me that some men would not want to take all of that on. I answered with... "So be it. Lo...2022-10-2125 minMan Shopping with StacieEP56 - Green FlagsThis episode is about all things happy and healthy that we should be looking for out in the dating world.The format for this episode is progressive... Green flags to spot when someone is into us when we first meet, when we're planning a first date, and while dating or in a relationship. I share personal stories along the way, per usual.Some Green Flags when we first meet someoneDisplaying genuine interest in youNatural, fun banterPositive gut feelings/excitement to hear from themResponsiveness/Consistency in communicationDirect communication regarding feelings/excitement to meetSome...2022-10-0744 minMan Shopping with StacieEp55~ Red FlagsThis episode is all about red flags - how to spot them and how to respond to them. I share my own stories of red flags from my past as well as from my current dating life.To begin, I talk about little pink flags- early flags that have popped up when I've just been texting or getting to know someone before a first date. A guy that I got to know early in 2020 is a great example. Some of the flags that bothered me:Texting too frequentlySharing every detail of daily lifeTalking too much about their...2022-09-2345 minMan Shopping with StacieEP54~ Love me like a Country SongIn this episode, I use songs from Lanie's country music playlist to describe how I hope to be thought of felt about by someone who loves me. I hope this musical discussion elicits  thoughts in your own mind of what it is exactly you are looking for and how you hope to be treated. The first song I dissect is She's Everything by Brad Paisley. A few talking points are:It's nice to be appreciated for what we look like in our natural state. It's exhausting putting our best foot forward, appearance-wise all the time. I want to be...2022-09-0947 minMan Shopping with StacieEP53~ Easy TargetsIn this episode, I talk about how we (single people) are often easy targets for married people to hit on, hit up on social media, to proposition or entangle in an affair.I begin by sharing my own personal examples of being hit on by married men. I talk about my reaction to being hit on and how I handled those situations.Many years ago after my first divorce, I first created my Facebook account. I was immediately contacted by a guy I had grown up with. He was married but asked me to keep in touch v...2022-08-2627 minMan Shopping with StacieEP52~ Got Game?In this episode, I talk about that undeniable pull that some individuals have. I share some stories from my youth, recent experiences, and a story of one of my girlfriends.I have a theory some people are just born with game. To drive this point home, I share stories of a kid I knew in elementary school and a boy I nannied while I was in college. These boys had the it-factor and it was undeniable as early as fourth grade. They were confident, but not arrogant. "Game" is almost never used as a female connotation. I d...2022-08-1233 minMan Shopping with StacieEP51- My Take on the Hot Crazy MatrixIn this episode, I share my thoughts on the Hot Crazy Matrix. I talk about how appearance, mental stability and emotional availability affect our search for a compatible partner.To begin, I think the terms hot, crazy, and emotionally unavailable are incredibly subjective. My idea of a HOT man, vastly differs from friend's opinions. I share a recent example.For the most part, I believe that what is "hot" to you, may not be "hot" to me. BUT, I also think there are some universally undeniably hot people out there who we can all agree on. T...2022-07-2928 minMan Shopping with StacieEp50~ Come on in to the Cougar DenMy name is Stacie and I am an agist. I have never been interested in dating anyone more than a few years older or younger than me. My friend, Tonya, though... Well, she's quite different.We begin by chatting about our friendship when I was newly divorced from Lanie's dad and she was single, as well. We, along with another friend, called ourselves the Neapolitan Sundae. We three friends were different in many ways and our preferences when it came to men were different too. Tonya noticed back then, when I was 31, that I was biased when it ca...2022-07-1540 minMan Shopping with StacieEp49~ Single AFAre you REALLY Happy being alone ( like I am)? If so, maybe you have some of the same struggles I have... I'm guarded and I'm getting VERY particular about who I share my heart and time with. Can you relate?In this episode, I'm going to share with you some examples of how I'm feeling SINGLE AF. At the end, I'm going to share a story from my stepdad Barry about his thoughts about navigating life alone or in a marriage.This past winter I hibernated. After months of launching this podcast and going out...2022-07-0130 min
WTF Divorce#Dating 20: đŹ How much do you tell your teenage kids about your dating?Stacie Wimer talks about what she does (and doesn't) share with her teenage daughter about dating.
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WTFdivorce.com/dating2022-06-2803 minMan Shopping with StacieEp48~ Influencer for GoodThis inspiration for this podcast actually came from a Mass I attended. During the Mass, the priest said that if Moses were alive today he would be considered an "influencer". He went on to tell the parishioners that we could all be influencers for good in the lives of those around us, not just on social media. In this podcast, I explore how posts on social media affect us. I discuss my own presence on social media. Lastly, I talk about how we can all be influencers for good in the lives of children and in our dail...2022-06-1728 minMan Shopping with StacieEp47~ Emotionally SluttyThe phrase "Emotionally Slutty" is from a Sex and the City episode... Carrie Bradshaw says, "I revealed too much too soon. I was emotionally slutty."In this episode, I talk about the habit some of us are in of giving it up too early... You know, sharing intimate details of our lives with people we don't know very well. I share with you why I think it is both a blessing and a curse that I wear my heart on my sleeve. I also tell a story of how this played out on a date I went...2022-06-0326 minMan Shopping with StacieEp46~ Learning to Write in PencilI'm back! I'm on a journey of self- discovery right along with you! I'm 44 years old now and my daughter turns 17 at the end of the month. We've been on our own for about 3 years now. This skill of learning to write in pencil is something I've been working on for awhile.In this episode, I'm going to share some examples of how despite trying to write my own life's story with a sharpie, life has thrown curveballs time an time again to remind me I should be writing in pencil. I'm also going to try to convince...2022-05-2048 minMan Shopping with StacieSeason 1 Finale! Ep45~ It's Not You, It's MeThis episode is all about a fact of life... rejection.To begin, I discuss how the end of a significant relationship or marriage can feel like the ultimate rejection. Sometimes these relationships end due to infidelity, growing apart, or choosing a vice over the relationship. I dive into how I experienced rejection throughout my two divorces.Rejection can also be less significant yet it still stings. Examples of this type of rejection are when we flirt in person or online and it is not reciprocated. We may be ignored after following or DMing someone. Likewise, Datin...2022-03-1131 minMan Shopping with StacieEp44 ~ Hook, Line, & SinkerThis episode is all about Catfishing on online dating sites. In this episode, I discuss the Tinder Swindler, a popular Netflix documentary about a man who conned several women out of hundreds of thousands of dollars. He called himself Simon Liviev and claimed to be the heir to the "king of diamonds".  After matching with a woman on Tinder, he would portray himself to be wealthy, intelligent, charming, and adoring. Initially, he would wine and dine his targets. He spent a lot of money on them, as well as attention to earn their trust. He was c...2022-03-0428 minMan Shopping with StacieEp43~ I've Gotta Have FaithI'm often asked if I'm scared to grow old and die alone? My answer is always "NO!".  A huge source of my peacefulness and optimism for my future is my faith.  This is an inclusive podcast, so if you believe in any higher power, I hope it resonates with you too.I believe in love. I believe that God has chosen a compatible match for me. I am patient. I will not settle for a relationship that is not a good match. That wouldn't be fair for either of us. In this episode, I sh...2022-02-2520 minMan Shopping with StacieEp42 ~ I'll Have What They're Having- Can men & women be friends?In this episode, my friend, Eric Reid, and I discuss the age old question... Can men & women be friends... just friends?Our topics of conversation include:When Harry met SallySiblingsLGBT+ Exes (itch scratched. But is it always? What about new relationship's feelings about it? Would you let a Friend tell you you can't have other friends?)Eric - Chicago - After heartbreak determined he could not (just) be friends with his ex girlfriend.Co-parents - How we've adapted to friendly / amicable r...2022-02-1851 min
Brian Crombie Radio HourBrian Crombie Radio Hour - Epi 587 - Dating on Valentine's Day with Stacie WimerBrian interviews Stacie Wimer. Stacie hosts the Man Shopping with Stacie podcast which she hopes helps single parents and divorced people over 40 to find more happiness and joy in their lives right now. We discuss first dates and online dates for Valentineâs Day, her best dates and worst ones. Stacie is an unabashed 43 year old twice divorced single mother. She is a pharmaceutical & medical device sales professional by day and a writer, podcaster, cooking & baking enthusiast by night. Man Shopping is a silly comparison between online shopping and online dating.2022-02-1251 minMan Shopping with StacieEp41~ Let All That You Do Be Done In LoveLet all that you do be done in love. 1 Corinthians 16:14This is a special Valentine's Day Episode. I'm sharing with you several different ways you can spend this holiday that is NOT just for lovers.If you're alone, with little kids or older children, or open to sharing Valentine's Day with a group, I'm sharing ideas of how you can look forward to, anticipate, and have fun with this most romantic holiday of the year.If you like the idea of spending Valentine's Day with others, I have a couple of ideas f...2022-02-1128 minMan Shopping with StacieEp40 ~ Taking The High Road (Pt 2)In this episode, I have a conversation with my friend, Licensed Clinical Therapist, Emma Wood, about narcissism, triangulation, and gas lighting. I share experiences from my second marriage with Emma to gain a better understanding of these traits and behaviors as they relate to divorce and co-parenting. Emma beautifully articulates:Why triangles form as a result of conflict between two peopleWhy narcissists are prone to seek and thrive in triangulationHow triangulation affects children when put in the middle of two parentsWhat gas lighting isWhy people may use gas lighting as a manipulation tacticHow gas lighting makes a vul...2022-02-0456 minMan Shopping with StacieEp39~ Taking The High Road (Pt 1)On this podcast, I typically focus on light subjects and keep things positive and fun around being single and dating. However, I think it's important to keep in mind we can't be happy and healthy singles if we haven't learned from our past. In this episode, I share many stories of narcissism and triangulation I encountered during my second marriage.  As I am still learning and healing from divorce, I know many of you are too. I tried to record in a way to relate to the challenges of co-parenting with difficult people. If you've never done life...2022-01-281h 08Man Shopping with StacieEp38~I Get By With A Little Help From My FriendsThey say we are the sum of who we surround ourselves with. In this episode, I examine who I have surrounded myself with throughout my life and how they impact me and I encourage you to do the same.  It's pretty well accepted that teens' peer groups impact them even more than their families, so I begin by talking about childhood friends and experiences. I invite you to take a trip down memory lane with me to think back on your middle school/junior high and high school friends and cliques you were a part of. How di...2022-01-2150 minMan Shopping with StacieEp37~ It's 2022! OK. Now What?I mean, after the past two years, how are we supposed to feel as we enter 2022? For those of us who are single and dating during a pandemic, newly separated or maybe divorced for years, approaching this new year can seem extra challenging and overwhelming. For me, I feel clueless and at a loss but I'm entering this year cautiously optimistic. In this episode, I begin by discussing a Reece Witherspoon/Ina Garten Instagram Post that has actually gone viral since I recorded. It's a great example of exactly how I'm feeling as we embark on 2022. On one...2022-01-1429 min