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Men's Movement PodcastEp37 Your Brain on Love w/ Stan TatkinHost: Vince Casey Guest: Dr. Stan Tatkin Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a renowned clinician, author, researcher, and teacher specializing in couple's therapy and relationship health. He is best known for developing the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT), a method that integrates attachment theory, developmental neuroscience, and arousal regulation to help couples create secure-functioning relationships. Find Dr. Stan on Instagram: @drstantatkin https://thepactinstitute.com Intro music: "Some Things" (instrumental) by Patty Rose Exit music: "Fake Plastic Trees (Radiohead cover)" by
2026-02-281h 07
The Gifts of TraumaReducing Relationship Issues Through Proactive Design & Planning, with Dr Stan Tatkin and Leila Bahri-LucasHosted by Rosemary Davies-Janes & Leila Bahri-Lucas. Produced by J'aime Rothbard. This episode reminds us that the unconscious processes that drive humans, our memories and survival instincts, often lead to misunderstandings and reactive behaviors. Consequently, most relationship issues, while they may seem personal, actually stem from our innate drives. Stan outlines that rather than being approached casually, successful relationships require deliberate design, shared purpose, defined roles, and agreed-upon principles. We also explore: - The PPPRRR Approach: Couples can "Predict, Plan, Prepare, and Revise or Repair" potential issues. - What's required for 'real repair - How life...
2025-12-2553 min
The Weekend UniversityThe Neurobiology of Thriving Relationships — Dr Stan TatkinDr Tatkin is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of the psychobiological approach to couples therapy, often referred to as PACT.
He is assistant clinical professor in the family medicine department at the University of California. Dr Tatkin has authored numerous bestselling books on attachment and couples therapy, including: Wired for Love, Wired for Dating, In Each Other’s Care, and Your Brain on Love.
In this conversation, we explore:
— How human beings behave according to procedural memory most of the time and why this is important to understand in couples work
— Why relationships can be so difficult for humans
— The diff...
2025-09-041h 04
ManTalks PodcastStan Tatkin - You Won't Get A Secure Relationship Without Secure AgreementsTalking points: relationship, attachment, cultureI love Stan because he's able to cut through so much of the modern BS around relationships, and get straight to practical, tactical perspectives and advice. We covered a TON of ground here, from the importance of social contracts and mutual protection, to the need for shared vision and purpose in creating equitable and collaborative relationships. This is definitely a convo that will spark some discussion, so listen in, team.(00:00:00) - Intro and the nature of secure functioning(00:05:52) - Human Nature and Relationship Dynamics...
2025-07-071h 04
Starter MarriageI'm Worried The Baby Will Ruin What We HaveJohn is concerned that having a baby will totally disrupt their marriage. Thank goodness the co-authors of Baby Bomb: A Relationship Survival Guide For New Parents were available to help Allison and John navigate this new chapter. Therapists Kara Hoppe, MFT and Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, discuss how Allison and John can continue to take good care of each other despite the major changes babies bring. Also, were the Ratliffs happily married before Timothy lost all their money on The White Lotus? A debate ensues.
If you would like to submit a “Marriage Moment’ or suggest...
2025-06-301h 11
This Tantric Life with Layla MartinHow to Create Secure, Lasting Love in a Long-Term Relationship with Dr. Stan Tatkin | 60Shownotes The difference between secure attachment and secure functioning Why a deep desire for love is underneath all attachment styles How shared purpose in your relationship brings you closer Why you have to become a whisperer for your partner One of Dr. Tatkin's top ways to create safety for your partner The biggest mistake people make in modern dating Bio Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, co-founder of the PACT Institute and an assistant clinical professor at...
2025-06-011h 12
The Partnership PodcastLaunches & Landings: How To Strengthen Your Relationship Through Daily RitualsHow do the simple rituals we share each day shape the security and connection in our relationship? In this episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey dive into "Launches & Landings"—the daily practices that start and end their days together.Lauren recently finished Wired for Love (Second Edition) by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT (📖 Get the book here) and was surprised to learn the science behind the rituals they've naturally developed over the years. They explore:☕ Morning Launches—How Lauren signals Trey for coffee in bed, the small moments that ligh...
2025-03-3145 min
BookBytesWired for Love by Stan TatkinIn this episode of BookBytes, we explore Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner’s Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT. This book offers science-backed strategies to create deep emotional bonds by understanding how the brain processes relationships. Tatkin introduces concepts like the “couple bubble,” attachment styles, and conflict resolution techniques to help couples build lasting, secure relationships.
Key Takeaways – Insights from the Book:
1. Create a “Couple Bubble”: Establish a mutual commitment to prioritize the relationship above all else. This emotional safet...
2024-12-1617 min
The High Performance LifeRelationships Are Hard, But Why? | Dr. Stan TatkinIn this week's episode, I am joined by Dr. Stan Tatkin! Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy®. He is also an assistant clinical professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine, Department of Family Medicine. In 2010 he and his wife, Tracey created the PACT Institute, to train mental health professionals to think and work through a psychobiological lens in their clinical practice. Tatkin's work, based on a social-emotional capacity model, focuses on what partners can and cannot do to mitigate threa...
2024-07-1652 min
Begin This Life-Enhancing Full Audiobook — Perfect Right Now.Wired for Love (Second Edition) by Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, Harville Hendrix PhD - forewordPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/175814to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Wired for Love (Second Edition)
Author: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, Harville Hendrix PhD - foreword
Narrator: Stan Tatkin
Format: mp3
Length: 9 hrs and 41 mins
Release date: 07-09-24
Ratings: 4.5 out of 5 stars, 17 ratings
Genres: Conflict Resolution
Publisher's Summary:
Every person is wired for love differently—with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and routines, making it possible to neurologically prime the brain for greater love and connection and fewer conflicts. Th...
2024-07-099h 41
Coping with GhostingLong-Term Relationship Ghosting with Dr. Stan TatkinIf you've been ghosted in a long-term relationship or want to learn more about ghosting and dating, this episode is for you. Gretta is joined by Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, a clinician, researcher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). Dr. Tatkin speaks and teaches worldwide on how to understand, create, and sustain secure-functioning relationships. He's authored six bestselling books and has trained thousands of therapists.In this show, Dr. Tatkin shares his views on:- What to do if you've been ghosted in a long-term relationship- Attachment and distancing behaviors
2024-06-1659 min
The Embodiment Coaching PodcastWhat's Your Attachment Style? - with Stan TatkinAttachment specialist and couples expert Stan joins me to talk adult pair bonding, why we war, the threat system, waves vs islands, secure vs insecure attachment, how to assess yourself, abandonment and rejection, being needy, cultural factors, what to do with your partner's attachment style, how to raise secure children and the polarisation in the world. A hugely important one if you have humans in your life. More information about Stan Tatkin - https://www.thepactinstitute.com/ ----------------------------------- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a teacher, clinician, researcher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach t...
2024-06-041h 00
Evidence-Based: A New Harbinger Psychology PodcastWired for Love with Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFTStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, author of Wired for Love, joins us to talk about the neuroscience of love. Stan is a clinician, teacher, researcher, and developer of the psychobiological approach to couples therapy (PACT). He and his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, cofounded the PACT Institute to train other mental health professionals worldwide to use this method in their clinical work. Tatkin is an assistant clinical professor at the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA. He maintains a private practice in Southern California, and directs PACT programs in the US and internationally. He is author of In Each Other’s Ca...
2024-06-0451 min
360 Yourself! With Jamie NealeEp 249: Understanding Your Partner's Brain - Dr. Stan Tatkin (PsyD, MFT, Clinician, Researcher to Couples Therapy) Dr. Stan Tatkin, is a PsyD, MFT, clinician, researcher, developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT), and best-selling author of the relationship must have book, Wired for Love (second edition out June 2024), which is the complete “insider’s guide” to understanding your partner’s brain, sparking lasting connection, and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust—now with more than 170,000 copies sold. His work has been endorsed by Gwyneth Paltrow, Alanis Morrisette, Mark Groves, Scott Steindorff, among others.
He speaks and teaches around the world on how to understand, create and sustain secure-func...
2024-06-0251 min
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2024-03-101h 59
Black Marriage TherapyAttachment Styles in Marriage This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BLACKMARRIAGE and get on your way to being your best self.
In this episode, we're diving into the world of attachment styles – the unique ways we connect with others, influenced by our early relationships. We'll explore why knowing about attachment styles matters for building strong relationships and sharing our own stories to help you understand their impact. Whether it's feeling secure in closeness, worrying about being left, or preferring independence, we'll break down how these styles shape how we love. Jo...
2024-02-2835 min
The Trouble with SexWorking Through Conflicts in Your RelationshipDr. Tammy sit downs with one of the world's foremost relationship experts and best-selling author, Dr. Stan Tatkin, to talk about the biology of relationships, the most common conflicts couples face, and how to overcome them in his new book In Each Other's Care. DR. TAMMY WANTS TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS about Sex, Love & Relationship and help you with your Trouble with Sex. Send your questions to drtammy@thetroublewithsex.com.OUR GUESTStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a best-selling author, clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of a Psychobiological Approach to C...
2024-01-2239 min
The Mark Groves Podcast#330: A Relationship Survival Guide for New Parents with Dr. Stan TatkinIn this episode, I welcome back the brilliant Dr. Stan Tatkin to the show. This time, we’re talking about parenting, especially from the lens of being new parents. Dr. Tatkin co-authored the book Baby Bomb, which dives deep into the nuances of new parenting and the effects it has on the couple’s relationship dynamic. Couples are often unprepared for the challenges of parenthood and lack a solid foundation in their relationship. Dr. Tatkin covers topics like disagreements in parenting style, embracing the change in sexual dynamics, and how to master communication and connection. Whether you’ve got a babe on...
2023-12-0436 min
Unfilteredd: Narcissistic Partners5 Strategies for Forgiving Yourself with Holly Herzog, Counselor (Ep 116)What Are We Discussing In This Episode?
In this episode, we focus on five strategies that you can use to forgive yourself after narcissistic abuse:
Acknowledge and accept what actually happened in the relationship (02:30)
Look at your past (05:23)
Be patient with yourself (08:17)
Release the emotions (11:27)
Learn what secure attachment looks like (17:59)
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2023-11-2427 min
What Would Love Do?Attachment Styles: Why We Choose Who We Choose w/Dr. Stan Tatkin
Attachment Styles: Why We Choose Who We Choose w/Dr. Stan Tatkin
You’ve heard me talk about attachment styles before but today we’re diving deep with Dr. Stan Tatkin to really understand what each style means and how each style manifests during the early stages of a relationship.
Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, author, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA, and developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this metho...
2023-11-071h 01
Close the Chapter Podcast with Kristen Boice230. What Makes Relationships Work and Last with Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFTIn this episode, Kristen talks with Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, author, and co-founder of the PACT Institute, about building better relationships, addressing common couple challenges, and strategies for making relationships last. www.thepactinstitute.com Subscribe and get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a...
2023-09-1348 min
The Sexual Wellness SessionsUnravelling Attachment Styles, Sex and Intimacy With Dr Stan TatkinAttachment theory is a commonly discussed psychological and relational theory that is rooted in how we develop attachments in early childhood, and continue them throughout our lives, adulthood and couple relationships. There are thousands of books written on the topic of how we can understand relationships, be better in relationships and choose the right partner - but Dr Stan Tatkin would argue that as humans we are all difficult and therefore difficult partners; which is why relationships are some of the hardest work that we'll do in our lives. 1.9 Million people have watched his Ted Talk Relationships Are Hard...
2023-09-081h 16
Sex, Love, and AddictionPart 2: Couples, Conflict and Resolution with Dr. Stan TatkinDr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA, and developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this method in their clinical practice. In this episode, Dr. Stan discusses the 5 things that break a relationship apart, how to recover from a betrayal, and how to live a pro-relationship life.
TAKEAWAYS:
[1:45] How do you recover from a betrayal?
[6:00] In a society, we are forced to grow up for...
2023-09-0731 minSex, Love, and AddictionPart 1: Couples, Conflict and Resolution with Dr. Stan TatkinDr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA, and developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this method in their clinical practice. In this episode, Dr. Stan discusses what really is the glue that keeps relationships together, why they are so messy, and how you can better define it with the person you love.
TAKEAWAYS:
[3:50] Let’s talk about conflict in a relationship.
[5:05] What do people...
2023-08-3137 min
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2023-08-1300 min
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2023-08-0800 min
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2023-08-0800 min
Cheaper Than Therapy with Vanessa and DenéEp 169 In Each Other's Care w Dr Stan TatkinStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a teacher, clinician, researcher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). He speaks and teaches around the world on secure-functioning relationships – how to understand them, create them, and support them, has written dozens of academic articles and six bestselling books, and is a TEDx Speaker. We sat down with Stan to explore:1. Why it is so important for couples to come to a shared agreement about what they are attempting to build 2. The importance of a couple being differentiated before attempting to find...
2023-07-051h 44
On Attachment#87: The Art of Secure Relating with Stan TatkinIn today's episode, I'm delighted to be joined by the one & only Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT. Stan is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of PACT (a Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy), as well as being a prolific author of several best-selling books such as Wired for Love and most recently, In Each Other's Care. In this episode, Stan joins me to chat with me about how we can experience conflict within relationships in a safe way and really build secure foundations in our relationships. We'll cover:How launching into self-protecting patterns ca...
2023-06-2950 minOn Attachment#87: The Art of Secure Relating with Stan TatkinIn today's episode, I'm delighted to be joined by the one & only Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT. Stan is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of PACT (a Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy), as well as being a prolific author of several best-selling books such as Wired for Love and most recently, In Each Other's Care. In this episode, Stan joins me to chat with me about how we can experience conflict within relationships in a safe way and really build secure foundations in our relationships. We'll cover:How launching into self-protecting patterns ca...
2023-06-2950 min
SkyTalkDocE185 Why humans are a pain in the ass, and how to fix your marriage with Dr. Stan Tatkin PACT InstituteWhy are humans hardwired to have conflict? Why do we fight with our partners/team mates in this game called life? How do you find common ground with your spouse? Is your love life boring? Dr. Stan Tatkin shares all of this plus tangible ways to improve your marriage through his new book In Each Other's Care. If you need actual tips to improve your pact/agreements with your partner, this is the episode for you.
Stan Tatkin, PsyD,MFT Clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, and co-founder of the PACT Institute. Dr. Tatkin is an assistant clinical...
2023-06-2255 min
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And GuideERP 372: How To Work Together In Relationship For A Strong, Secure Connection — An Interview With Dr. Stan TatkinBuilding a strong and secure connection within a romantic relationship is a goal shared by many. We strive for harmony, understanding, and a deep bond that withstands the test of time. But with human nature being what it is - aggressive, warlike, moody, and easily influenced - it can be a challenging task. So, how do we achieve this level of connection? Is it about finding the perfect partner or following a set of rules? In this episode, Dr. Stan Tatkin and Dr. Jessica Higgins embark on an enlightening exploration of human behavior within relationships...
2023-05-1652 min
Listen to Top-Rated Digital Audiobooks with Easy AccessIn Each Other's Care : Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT, Lin ChenPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/175707 to listen full audiobooks.
Publisher's Summary: Few things are more frustrating than repeating the same fight with your partner. Playing out the same disagreement about money, parenting, sex, or household chores may leave you exhausted, cut off from the person you want to feel close to. While conflict in any relationship is inevitable, healing is possible. With In Each Other's Care, Stan Tatkin shares a hands-on repair manual that will help you discover how arguments get triggered, why they keep happening, and what you can do to get better at communicating what you...
2023-04-2512h 19
The Mark Groves Podcast#247: How to Create a Lasting, Healthy Relationship with Dr. Stan TatkinThemes: Relationships, Attachment Theory, Conflict, Interdependency
Summary:
Today I’m honoured to be joined by Stan Tatkin: PsyD, MFT, clinician, author, researcher, co-founder of the PACT Institute and all-around relational ninja. Stan’s ability to help couples navigate the often tricky waters of relationships is truly unparalleled, and in this episode, you’ll understand why. Join us as we discuss attachment theory, the leading causes of breakups and, ultimately, how to co-create a thriving, lasting relationship.
Dr. Tatkin is an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He maintains a private practice in Southern California and leads PACT pro...
2022-12-0558 min
I Thought I Was Over ThisMental Health: Getting Unstuck - Five Expectations to have from Professionals [Getting Help 2]Welcome to the second episode of our Getting Help series on the I Thought I Was Over This podcast!In part 2, Dr. Kimber dives into what you can expect from people who are helping you, what you should be looking for—and red flags to be aware of!—and how to find help and support that is the right fit for YOU, to help create the change that you are looking for.Key moments include:1:09 - Is it normal if your therapist forgets about your appointments and/or cancels the day befo...
2022-09-2133 min
Mindful Mama: Raising Kind, Confident Kids Without Losing Your Cool | Parenting Strategies For Big Emotions & MoreCouples: Keep Your Union After Kids - Kara Hoppe and Stan TatkinDo you and your parenting partner struggle post-kids? In this episode I talk to Kara Hoppe, MFT and Stan Tatkin, PsyD about what happens to couples after having children. We discuss the idea of secure functioning and how important it is for partners to make their relationship a priority. We touch on the importance of listening open-heartedly to each other, even when you don’t hold the same views and encourage you to get curious about where your partner is coming from.*New!* Watch video clips from this episode on the Mindful Mama Youtube channel!If y...
2022-05-1758 min
Relationship Renovation: Marriage Advice, Intimacy & Couples Communication65 - Building a Healthy Loving Relationship - Interview with Dr. Stan TatkinStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT). He is the author and co-author of numerous best-selling books exploring individual and relationship wellness. Tatkin’s work, based on a social-emotional capacity model, focuses on what partners can and cannot do to mitigate threat reactions during stressful interactive sequences. Tatkin is known for integrating various theories and models to form the foundation of the comprehensive principles and methodologies he teaches. As a result, the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists, California, honored Tatkin with the Educator of the Year ...
2022-04-2247 min
Better Relationships, Better LifeEpisode 009: Simple Ideas That Will Save Your Marriage: Part 2, It Still Takes TwoRelationship Stress Quiz - https://www.judycounselor.com Complimentary Clarity Call - https://JudyKHerman.as.me/Complimenta... Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/judykherman/ Stan Tatkin, pt. 2Better Relationships, Better Life with Judy HermanEpisode 009: Simple Ideas That Will Save Your Marriage: Part 2, It Still Takes TwoStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT Clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, and co-founder of the PACT Institute. Dr. Tatkin is an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He maintains a private practice in Southern California and leads PACT programs in the US and internationally. He is the author We Do, Wired for...
2022-03-0830 minBetter Relationships, Better LifeEpisode 009: Simple Ideas That Will Save Your Marriage: Part 2, It Still Takes TwoRelationship Stress Quiz - https://www.judycounselor.com Complimentary Clarity Call - https://JudyKHerman.as.me/Complimenta... Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/judykherman/ Stan Tatkin, pt. 2Better Relationships, Better Life with Judy HermanEpisode 009: Simple Ideas That Will Save Your Marriage: Part 2, It Still Takes TwoStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT Clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, and co-founder of the PACT Institute. Dr. Tatkin is an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He maintains a private practice in Southern California and leads PACT programs in the US and internationally. He is the author We Do, Wired for...
2022-03-0830 min
Better Relationships, Better LifeEpisode 008: Simple Ideas That Will Save Your Marriage and Your Life: Part 1Relationship Stress Quiz - https://www.judycounselor.comComplimentary Clarity Call - https://JudyKHerman.as.me/Complimenta...Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/judykherman/Stan Tatkin, pt. 1Better Relationships, Better Life with Judy HermanEpisode 008: Simple Ideas That Will Save Your Marriage and Your Life: Part 1Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT Clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, and co-founder of the PACT Institute. Dr. Tatkin is an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He maintains a private practice in Southern California and leads PACT programs in the US and internationally. He is the author We Do, Wired for...
2022-03-0126 minBetter Relationships, Better LifeEpisode 008: Simple Ideas That Will Save Your Marriage and Your Life: Part 1Relationship Stress Quiz - https://www.judycounselor.comComplimentary Clarity Call - https://JudyKHerman.as.me/Complimenta...Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/judykherman/Stan Tatkin, pt. 1Better Relationships, Better Life with Judy HermanEpisode 008: Simple Ideas That Will Save Your Marriage and Your Life: Part 1Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT Clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, and co-founder of the PACT Institute. Dr. Tatkin is an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David Geffen School of Medicine. He maintains a private practice in Southern California and leads PACT programs in the US and internationally. He is the author We Do, Wired for...
2022-03-0126 min
Sex Birth Trauma with Kimberly Ann JohnsonNavigating Difficulties & Maintaining Connection in Partnerships After Children with Kara Hoppe & Stan TatkinIn this episode, Stan, and Kara discuss their new co-authored book "Baby Bomb: A Relationship Survival Guide for New Parents." Many couples experience new challenges in their relationship after the birth of a new baby and need tools and support for navigating these common issues. They discuss "primitives" and "ambassadors" as terms for people in relationship, maintaining presence and attention during sex, and the importance of committing to shared values as a relationship buoy during the postpartum period where both parents, and especially the birthing partner, are pushed to new edges. Bio Dr...
2022-02-271h 01
The Jackie Senatore Podcast#023 - Stan Tatkin on How to Create A Secure-Functioning RelationshipThis interview is packed with amazing insights on how to have an extraordinary, secure-functioning relationship. One of my favorite interviews to date. There's so much to learn in this episode that's all about relationships. If the quality of your life is based on the quality of your relationships, then listening to this episode with Stan is an absolute must! Grateful to have him on the show. Please enjoy :) Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
Clinician, author, researcher, PACT developer, and co-founder of the PACT Institute. Dr. Tatkin is an assistant clinical professor at UCLA, David...
2021-12-211h 00
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And GuideERP 291: How "Love Is Not Enough" - An Interview With Dr. Stan TatkinUnderstanding why love is not enough in an empowered relationship can be a challenge. So in this episode, Dr. Stan Tatkin helps us recognize some of the most common biological and human factors that take us off track when creating intentionality in a relationship. Having a scientific framework that allows us to understand why we need more than love helps us create a shared vision for our relationships. By unpacking common causes of relationship challenges, we can learn how to commit fully to a loving partnership and ensure it remains a beautiful and fulfilling experience. ...
2021-10-2645 min
Enjoy The Sensational Full Audiobook Now, Knowledge Hunters!What Every Therapist Ought to Know by Stan Tatkin PsyD MFTPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/175696to listen full audiobooks.
Title: What Every Therapist Ought to Know
Author: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
Narrator: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
Format: mp3
Length: 9 hrs and 29 mins
Release date: 10-26-21
Ratings: 5 out of 5 stars, 19 ratings
Genres: Conflict Resolution
Publisher's Summary:
Couple therapy combines the intense work of one-on-one sessions with the need for close mediation skills - which is why the practice can be twice as difficult and emotionally draining. This is why Stan Tatkin put together What Every Therapist Ought to Know - a comprehensive guide to the psychobiological approach to couple...
2021-10-269h 29
Sex Birth Trauma with Kimberly Ann JohnsonAttachment Theory, Interdependence, and Rewiring from Threat to Love with Dr. Stan TatkinIn this episode, Kimberly and Stan discuss attachment theory, styles of learned attachment, and ways to maintain healthy relationships. They discuss attachment theory regarding parent-child relationships as well as romantic partners, differences between codependence and interdependent relationships, and how to work towards mutually beneficial relationships even during conflict. Tatkin believes that with proper understanding and/or coaching, all humans can sustain loving and beneficial relationships despite conflict. Bio Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy®. Tatkin has written many books based on hi...
2021-09-2454 min
Tell Me Your StoryStan Tatkinn - Wired For LoveStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT is a teacher, clinician, researcher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT). Beloved by colleagues and clients alike, Stan is an expert on human behavior and couple relationships. He speaks and teaches around the world on secure-functioning relationships – how to understand them, create them, and support them. Stan has written dozens of academic articles and six bestselling books – now translated into Spanish, Chinese, Turkish, and Romanian. More than 1.1 million people have tuned in to Stan’s TEDx talk. A Therapist’s Therapist Stan and his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD, created the PACT Institute in 2010 t...
2021-07-0357 min
Mother the Mother060 | Inspiring Community and Volunteerism in Our Children | with Tracey Boldemann-TatkinTracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhDTracey Boldemann-Tatkin has served as the director of various philanthropic family foundations over three decades. In addition to her leadership roles, she has been involved at the ground level of humanitarian efforts worldwide. Tracey is co-founder of the PACT Institute.Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFTClinician, author, PACT developer, and co-founder of the PACT Institute, Dr. Tatkin teaches at UCLA, maintains a private practice in Southern California, and leads PACT programs in the US and internationally.In this episode of Mother the Mother:
2020-06-031h 08
Human NurtureHuman Nurture Ep 6 - PACT in Theory - Sheri Glucoft Wong InterviewAs PACT therapists we need to quickly organize a great deal of information within a reliable yet flexible structure while still remaining present with the action unfolding between the couple. In order to do this, we rely heavily on the theory and practice developed by family therapists. In this episode of The Human Nurture Podcast, we explore PACT's core element of family therapy in interviews with Sheri Glucoft Wong, LCSW and Stan Tatkin, MFT, PsyD..
Sheri describes "being on her spot", which is an attitude and approach she has developed to working with families. Not only is...
2020-01-311h 31
Attachment Theory in ActionStan Tatkin: Looking at Attachment Theory in Couples & Romantic Relationships - Part 2Karen Buckwalter concludes her conversation with Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, about examining couples and romantic relationships through the lens of attachment theory.
Tatkin is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA, and developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this method in their clinical practice. Dr. Tatkin also teaches and supervises family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente, Woodland Hills, CA, and is an assistant clinical professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine, Department of Fa...
2019-09-1734 minAttachment Theory in ActionStan Tatkin: Looking at Attachment Theory in Couples & Romantic Relationships - Part 2Karen Buckwalter concludes her conversation with Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, about examining couples and romantic relationships through the lens of attachment theory.
Tatkin is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA, and developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this method in their clinical practice. Dr. Tatkin also teaches and supervises family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente, Woodland Hills, CA, and is an assistant clinical professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine, Department of Fa...
2019-09-1734 minAttachment Theory in ActionStan Tatkin: Looking at Attachment Theory in Couples & Romantic Relationships - Part 1Karen Buckwalter welcomes Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, for part one of their conversation about examining couples and romantic relationships through the lens of attachment theory.
Tatkin is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA, and developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this method in their clinical practice. Dr. Tatkin also teaches and supervises family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente, Woodland Hills, CA, and is an assistant clinical professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Me...
2019-09-1023 minAttachment Theory in ActionStan Tatkin: Looking at Attachment Theory in Couples & Romantic Relationships - Part 1Karen Buckwalter welcomes Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, for part one of their conversation about examining couples and romantic relationships through the lens of attachment theory.
Tatkin is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA, and developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this method in their clinical practice. Dr. Tatkin also teaches and supervises family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente, Woodland Hills, CA, and is an assistant clinical professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Me...
2019-09-1023 min
Connectfulness PracticeWhy Are Relationships Difficult? with Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFTIf you've ever wondered "why are relationships difficult?" you'll want to catch this episode with Dr. Stan Tatkin. We start with an exploration of how our species’ survival relies on an inborn negativity bias and how this same mechanism makes relationships difficult and more challenging to sustain under stress. Everyone’s experienced some form of relational loss and developmental trauma. And so, with this in mind, we’re also discussing how early development shapes each of us and our ability to self-regulate and foster safe, secure, adult romantic relationships.Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, teacher, and de...
2019-04-1946 min
Access Best-Selling Digital Audiobooks for Your LibraryWe Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love (Written by Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT)Please visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/369012 to listen full audiobooks.
Title: We Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love
Author: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
Narrator: Matthew Boston
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 7 hours 25 minutes
Release date: February 12, 2019
Ratings: Ratings of Book: 3.25 of Total 4
Ratings of Narrator: 1 of Total 1
Genres: Relationships & Intimacy
Publisher's Summary: 'If you and your prospective partner adopt the principles and skills I describe here, your relationship will be successful—not just for starters, but for the long run.' An indispensable guide for an...
2019-02-127h 25
Synchronicity: Mind Body SoulDr. Stan Tatkin - We DoWe Do: Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring LoveStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, teacher, and author who integrates neuroscience, attachment theory, and current therapies. He is the developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT), and he and his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, created the PACT Institute to train other psychotherapists in this methodology. Dr. Tatkin teaches and supervises family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente in Woodland Hills, CA, is assistant clinical professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine, and directs training programs throughout North America and globally. H...
2019-01-211h 00Sex, Love, and Addiction“We Do!” Saying Yes to Your Relationship with Dr. Stan TatkinStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, joins the show today to talk about creating a long-lasting and secure relationship. He discusses his latest book, We Do, his work at the PACT Institute, and how we can encourage people to take time to have the important discussions before jumping in headfirst to a commitment or marriage. He also discusses the smart way to vet out a potential relationship, monogamy as a choice, the Commandments of a secure functioning relationship and advice for couples dealing with betrayal.
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[3:10] Stan Tatkin’s book, We Do is a pre-commitment man...
2019-01-1041 min
The Spark With Stephanie JamesRevving Up Your Relationship with Stan Tatkin“Relationships are difficult,” begins Dr. Stan Tatkin in his 2016 TED Talk. However, as you will see… they are not impossible; in fact, being in a relationship with another human being and becoming on expert on each other, is actually one of the most rewarding things in life.There is hope – whether you are needing the tools to tune up and repair some of the current ruptures in your relationship, or want to take a good relationship to great, Stan Tatkin helps show us the way through the shallows of dating, all the way through to the “I do” and how to n...
2018-05-171h 08
Sounds True: Producer’s PickSounds TrueStan Tatkin: Distress Relief, Exciting Love, and Quiet LoveStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinical therapist and author who synthesizes current therapeutic modalities and neuroscience. With Sounds True, he has created the audio programs Your Brain on Love and Relationship Rx.
2018-03-1519 minSounds True: Producer’s PickSounds TrueStan Tatkin: Distress Relief, Exciting Love, and Quiet LoveStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinical therapist and author who synthesizes current therapeutic modalities and neuroscience. With Sounds True, he has created the audio programs Your Brain on Love and Relationship Rx.
2018-03-1519 min
Discover Your Day With A Riveting Full Audiobook.Relationship Rx by Stan Tatkin PsyD MFTPlease visithttps://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/2/audible/175649to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Relationship Rx
Author: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
Narrator: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
Format: mp3
Length: 8 hrs and 28 mins
Release date: 03-01-18
Ratings: 5 out of 5 stars, 224 ratings
Genres: Conflict Resolution
Publisher's Summary:
Why do couples fight? With Relationship Rx, renowned psychotherapist Stan Tatkin offers couples in crisis a prescription for understanding the deeper issues underlying their conflicts. Drawing from his Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT), Tatkin unpacks common causes of relationship challenges with humor and compassion. Filled with practical tools, insightful commentary on sample conflict dialogues, and an i...
2018-03-018h 28
Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And GuideERP 107: How To Prioritize Relationship With Stan TatkinGUEST STAN TATKIN: Dr. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a couple therapist known for his pioneering work in helping partners form happy, secure, and long-lasting relationships. His method—called PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy®)—draws on principles of neuroscience and teaches partners to become what he terms "secure-functioning." Together with his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD, Dr. Tatkin founded the PACT Institute to train psychotherapists and other professionals how to incorporate his method into their practices with couples. Therapists from all over the world are being trained in this breakthrough approach. Dr. Tatkin has a priva...
2017-05-2544 min
It's All HappeningEpisode 81 - Stan TatkinWhy are relationships so hard? If you're anything like I am you've spent immeasurable time and effort clawing away at romantic relationships that just never seem to work out. For me personally, it's been by far the biggest supplier of grist for the mill. When the offer came across my desk to have Stan on the podcast I immediately jumped on it because I not only wanted to bring his wisdom to you but I also wanted to get into the deep end of my own issues. I got so much out of this one. We talked about the...
2017-03-1059 min
Intuitive TransformationsWired for Dating with Dr. Stan TatkinAired Thursday, 12 January 2017, 2:00 PM ETIn the age of online dating, finding a real connection can seem more daunting than ever. But, what if there is a way to stack the odds of finding the right person for you in your favor? Everyone wants to find love, but few really understand how and why people become attracted to one another; how to move toward or away from commitment; and the important role the brain and nervous system play in the creation of love and romance. Join Sylvia and Dr. Stan Tatkin as they discuss...
2017-01-1356 min
Access Thousands of Audiobooks for Your LibraryEnjoy Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship from Stan Tatkin PsyD MFTPlease visit https://thebookvoice.com/podcasts/1/audiobook/314973 to listen full audiobooks.
Title: Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
Author: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
Narrator: Michael Hinton
Format: Unabridged Audiobook
Length: 7 hours 38 minutes
Release date: November 3, 2015
Ratings: Ratings of Book: 4.48 of Total 33
Ratings of Narrator: 4.45 of Total 11
Genres: Relationships & Intimacy
Publisher's Summary: 'What the heck is my partner thinking?' is a common refrain in romantic relationships, and with good reason. Every person is wired for love differently...
2015-11-037h 38
A Better World with Mitchell J. RabinYour Brain On Love: Dialogue with Dr. Stan TatkinPurchase Stan’s Books and CDs
Wednesday, Jan 1, 6pm EST: Mitchell’s guest tonight is Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT®). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA.
Dr. Tatkin has developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this method in their clinical practice.In addition, Dr. Tatkin teaches and supervises family medicine residents at Kaiser Permanente, Woodland Hills, CA, and is an assistant clinical professor at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine, Department of Family Medicine. Dr. Tatkin is on th...
2014-01-021h 11
Relationships 2.0 With Dr. Michelle SkeenGuest: Stan Tatkin, author of Wired for LoveIs it possible to maintain or re-ignite an exciting sexual relationship with your long-term partner?
My guest this week is Stan Tatkin. Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, researcher, teacher, and developer of A Psychobiological Approach To Couples Therapy® (PACT) which integrates neuroscience, infant attachment, arousal regulation, and therapeutic enactment applied to adult primary attachment relationships. He maintains a practice in Calabasas, California, and runs a bi-weekly clinical study group for medical and mental health professionals and training programs in Los Angeles, San Francisco, Boulder, Seattle, Austin, and New Jersey.
2012-08-3044 min