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The Parent Advocate PodcastSCOTUS, Skrmetti, and the Struggle for Trans RightsIn this episode of the Parent Advocate Lizette and Stephen unpack the Supreme Court’s recent decision in the United States vs Skrmetti decision, which allowed Tennessee’s ban on gender affirming care for transgender youth to take effect, and the implications of that decision for trans kids and their families.2025-06-2038 min
At LibertyWho We Fight For: The Journey to Trans LiberationThis past weekend, an estimated 5 million folks across the country protested Trump's attack on our rights. And if you asked anyone in the crowd why they showed up—and who they showed up for—they’d likely have an answer. Today, W. Kamau Bell is joined by three activists—Ash Lazarus Orr and Stephen and Hobbes Chukumba—who are showing up for LGBTQIA+ rights. Listen in as they discuss how they’re navigating Trump’s escalating abuses of power, what trans rights have to do with reproductive and racial justice, and how they’re finding joy this Pride month.
A note from the At...2025-06-201h 10The Parent Advocate PodcastBaby I’m A Star!In this special Pride edition of the Parent Advocate, Stephen is joined by the show’s self-appointed executive producer, third host and younger brother, Anthony to talk about the inaugural LGBTQ+ Entertainer Hall of Fame, highlighting Elliot Page, Angelica Ross, Laverne Cox, Gena Rocero, Alan Cumming, Colman Domingo, Nicole Maines, Janelle Monáe, Freddie Mercury, and Billy Porter.2025-06-1217 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastDear Abby, is my husband trans?In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen are joined by trans scholar, writer, producer and historian, Susan Stryker. They talk about discovering who they were in a Dear Abby column, growing up trans in the ‘90s, their path to recording and forging a path to capture and preserve trans histories. In Today’s Topics, we cover the Trump administration pulling funds from LGBTQ suicide prevention programs, Pittsburgh police raiding a popular trans nightclub, the Vatican’s questionable selection of Cardinal Robert Prevost as the next pope, and SCOTUS declining to hear the challenge to Trumps ban on tra...2025-05-211h 00The Parent Advocate PodcastThe world breaks everyoneIn this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen interview Emmy and Peabody Award-winning journalist and visionary founder of TransLash Media, Imara Jones. We talk about growing up Black and bougee in Atlanta, working in the Clinton Administration, and traveling the globe as a journalist, storyteller and activist. In Today’s Topics, we discuss Planned Parenthood in AZ resuming services, Alabama Republicans requiring the Ten Commandments in public schools, a Georgia teacher dismissed for supporting LGBTQ students, and the Department of Health and Human Services recognizing gender dysphoria as a disability under federal law. In Allies & Assholes, we ce...2025-05-1047 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastWhy Would I Not Want You To Be Trans?In this heartwarming and inspiring episode, Stephen and Lizette welcome a truly special trio — Michelle, Andy, and 10-year-old Violet DuMont — to the Parent Advocate Podcast! The conversation dives deep into what it means to parent with unconditional support, how schools are navigating attacks on LGBTQ+ rights, and how Violet’s bright spirit shines through it all. Violet shares her dreams, her inspirations, and what she wants lawmakers — and the world — to know about kids like her.Stephen and Lizette cover troubling court rulings in the UK, dangerous rhetoric from Trump and Nancy Mace, and glimmers of hope fr...2025-04-2749 min
Teach the Babies w/ Dr. David J. JohnsStay EducatedLeave it to the babies to stop by class to teach us the importance of staying woke. Hobbes Chukumba is a STEAM-loving scholar who helped organize the national trans prom when he was sixteen. Hobbes and his father, Stephen, provide a master class on the importance of sacrificing to do our part so that the opposition does not win and the importance of appreciating one another’s humanity. They want us to remember that when we come together, there’s nothing we can’t do and provide tangible strategies to get closer to freedom and center joy in the process.2025-04-1551 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastWe are the champions!In this special episode of the Parent Advocate, recurring guest host, Anthony Chukumba helps us celebrate a few LGBTQ+ athletes serving as possibility models for trans and nonbinary youth, including Greg Louganis, Megan Rapinoe, Chris Mosier, Daniela Ryf, Schuyler Bailar, Lia Thomas, and Brittney Griner. 2025-03-2718 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastI’ll Walk Through HellfireIn this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen speak with father and son duo, Eric and Doug about origin stories, supporting trans children, and following our children’s lead. In Today’s Topics, we cover SCOTUS taking up a challenge to conversion therapy bans, the Texas attempts to criminalize gender affirming healthcare, federal officials placing trans women in men’s prisons, and Republican officials crossing the aisle to defeat a drag ban in Montana. In Allies & A**holes, we celebrate Texas Rep. Al Green for getting into good trouble at the State of the Union, and drag Califo...2025-03-1752 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastThey Not Like Us!Buckle up for an eye-opening episode of the Parent Advocate as Stephen and Lizette welcome clinical psychologist and interfaith minister Dr. MaryBeth Napier. In this powerful interview, Dr. Napier shares her 25-year journey providing gender-affirming care and the challenges she's faced navigating the ever-changing political landscape. Today's Topics tackle the alarming rollbacks of transgender rights, from Google's removal of cultural events to the NCAA's discriminatory sports policy. We also spotlight the CDC's shameful directive to erase transgender identities from public health research. But it's not all doom and gloom - our Ally of the Week...2025-02-1758 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastHonoring our TranscestorsIn this episode of the Parent Advocate podcast, Lizette and Stephen speak with transgender and gay activist Landon Richie of the Transgender Education Network of Texas and talk about his passion for advocacy, the HERO campaign, finding joy in difficult times, and what hope looks like. In today's topics we cover Trump's EOs, backlash against Target for removing their DEI program, the 15 state Attorneys General suing the Trump administration, and the racism of Emelia Perez Best Actress Oscar nominee Spanish transgender actress Karla Sofia Gascon. In Allies & Assholes, we celebrate the Metropolitan African Methodist Episcopal Church for winning the...2025-02-1056 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastEssential ReadingIn this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen are joined by the unofficial executive producer, third co-host and Stephen's younger brother, Anthony Chukumba, and talk about nine LGBTQ+ books including Page Boy, by Elliot Page, Hijab Butch Blues by Lamya H, The Bold World by Jodie Patterson, American Teenager by Nico Lang, No Ashes in the Fire by Darnell L. Moore, Maeve Rising by Maeve Duvally, History of the Transgender Child by Jules Gill-Peterson, Becoming Nicole by Amy Ellis Nutt, and Native Country of the Heart by Cherrie Moraga.2025-01-2835 minThe Parent Advocate Podcast2024 Allies & Assholes!In this season's final episode of the Parent Advocate podcast, Stephen Chukumba, Lizette Trujillo (and a special surprise guest) recap this year's most memorable Allies, like Sarah McBride, Will Ferrell and Vivian Wilson, and forgettable Assholes, including the Trump campaign, the Heritage Foundation, and Elon Musk.2024-12-2126 minTeach the Babies w/ Dr. David J. JohnsThe Parent AdvocateStephen Chukumba is a trusted voice on issues of race, gender, and intersectionality. He stops by class to share some of the lessons he learned along his parenting journey, including the importance of mourning the loss of the life you imagine for your child to make space for the one they design and celebrating your child’s wins. Stephen talks about the first-ever Trans Prom, which took place on the National Mall in Washington, D.C., the Netflix documentary short, The Dads, and being a dope-ass father.Rainbow in Black- dedicated to providing unwavering support, resources, and advocacy fo...2024-12-1050 minThe Parent Advocate Podcast(Radical) Hope is a decision!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen speak with Garden State Equality Department of Training and Trans Resiliency trans activist, Aisling MacDonald, and talk surviving addiction, assault, and mental health struggles, mutual aid, and navigating systems of support. In today's topics, we cover Nancy Mace's campaign against Sarah McBride, Matt Gaetz stepping down as Trump's AG nominee, Linda McMahon's ironic nomination as Education Secretary, and 2024's spike in violence against trans people. In allies & assholes, we celebrate AOC for standing with trans women, and drag Representative Mike Johnson for banning trans women from public spaces in...2024-11-251h 02The Parent Advocate PodcastHow 'bout you do your job?In this Transgender Awareness Week episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen interview Sundance Official Selection star and trans activist, Daniel Trujillo, and talk Trans Prom, being featured in a short, advocating at the state capitol and favorite bands. IN today's topics, we talk Trump's batshit crazy cabinet picks, the resistance by Democratic leaders in blue states, and the Department of Education's findings around the death of Nex Benedict. In Allies & Assholes, we celebrate Kelly Clarkson for elevating the stories of trans people, and drag NY Rep Tom Suozzi for trying to (once again) scapegoat trans people for...2024-11-1842 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastThis flipping blows my mind!In this post 2024 election episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen are joined by Boston clinical therapist Rachel Hulstein-Lowe, and unpack the election results, what it means for the mental health of trans and gender expansive children, and the importance of hope and finding joy in difficult circumstances. In today's topics we talk about MAGA Republican and AG prospect threatening NY AG Letitia James, white supremacists telegraphing harm to women during the next Trump presidency, a spike in crisis calls after the election, and the election of multiple LGBTQ+ officials across the country. In Allies & Assholes, we celebrate...2024-11-1159 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastEpic Rant: 2024 Election EditionOn this special 2024 Election Edition of the Parent Advocate, Stephen and the unofficial third co-host, Anthony, chop it up and rant about Tuesday's election results, their fears for another Trump terms, what the election says about America, and their commitment to keep fighting.2024-11-0930 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastI just wanna do my homework!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen are joined by actor, author and activist, James Rose, and talk Hedwig and the Angry Inch, being targeted by Trump and Desantis in anti-trans ads, and their debut memoir, sorry i keep crying during sex due out next year. In today's topics, we cover trans wrestler Mack Beggs lawsuit against Senator Ted Cruz, AG Ken Paxton's suit against a doctor for providing GAC to minors in Texas, a new law in Odessa Texas, which allows citizens to sue trans people if they're ‘caught” using the wrong restroom, and misleading bill...2024-11-041h 09The Parent Advocate PodcastHeather love the kids!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen continue in the "work" theme, interviewing fellow parent of trans kids, Heather Postelwait, and discuss raising two trans kids in conservative Arizona, life as a former Mormon seeking spirituality, teaching middle graders, book reviews and reading clubs. In today's topics, we talk a new CDC report and the GOP spending on anti-trans ads. Finally in Allies & Assholes we celebrate Selena Gomez for her support of the trans community, and drag Micah Beckwith for his proposal to fire people who add pronouns to their signatures.2024-10-1458 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastThe Work. Family, Friends & AlliesIn this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen are joined by Jose Trujillo and discuss Lizette's recent experience in her friend group and how sometimes you need to cut a transphobic b*tch off! We also get into the sometimes complicated relationships we've had with family and friends, and discuss the advice we've given parents at odds with their spouses over affirming their gender expansive kids. Finally, we wrap with advice for being better allies to parents of trans kids. 2024-10-0749 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastReal men cryIn this episode of the Parent Advocate podcast, Lizette & Stephen interview Kym and Mike Hoffman, parents of a trans daughter and facilitators of TRANSpirational family support group, and talk raising a trans child, creating spaces for kids to see themselves reflected, and the importance of affirming our children. In today's topics, we talk Project 2025 architect Corey DeAngelis' gay porn past, a new study out that links the effects of anti-trans legislation to increased suicide risk in trans youth, and Toyota's backlash for their LGBTQ+ and DEI initiatives. Finally, in Allies & Assholes, we celebrate Will Ferrell for his support of...2024-09-301h 00The Parent Advocate PodcastGender Liberation!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette & Stephen interview Hazel & Christoph Heinzer, parents of two nonbinary kids in Tuscon, AZ, and talk about the Gender Liberation March, leaning into their advocacy, and learning from their kids. In Today's Topics, we discuss the NH school board which allowed a trans girl to play soccer defying state law, trolls spamming the Texas gender marker change reporting inbox, NC Lt Gov Mark Robinson's disturbing posts on porn forums, and fellow NC GOP candidate Michelle Morrow's interesting take on the "+" in LGBTQ+. In our Allies & Assholes segment, we celebrate Gov Andy Beshear...2024-09-2358 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastEpic Rant: Sade EditionIn this Epic Rant: Sade Edition of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen chop it up about the beating of a trans teen Jayden Tzaczyk in Dogtown, Sade's new track and ode to her son Izaak Theo, Young Lion on the forthcoming Red Hot album, Donald Trump's unconvincing attempt to distance himself from Project 2025, and the upcoming Gender Liberation March in Washington, DC. 2024-09-0921 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastFinding joy!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen chat with Indivisible Chicago's Laura Tanner and talk Hillary Clinton's loss to Donald Trump, text banking for Kamala Harris and Tim Walz, learning about transphobic colleagues, and finding joy. In today's topics, we cover Donald Trump's weird belief that trans kids are getting operations in schools, AGs targeting the medical records of trans patients, Idaho Gov Brad Little's executive order blocking Biden's Title IX, and the New Hampshire Supreme Court upholding student's right's to privacy. In our Allies & Assholes segment, we celebrate Sheryl Lee Ralph for teaching older people...2024-09-0258 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastEpic Rant: DNC EditionIn this Epic Rant: DNC Edition of the Parent Advocate Podcast, Lizette and Stephen talk about Stephen’s experience at the 2024 Democratic National Convention, the historic moments and missed opportunities for trans representation. Lizette celebrates a major legal victory in Arizona for transgender youth, while also addressing disheartening news from Texas, where new policies restrict trans peoples' ability to change gender markers on driver's licenses. We wrap on a high note talking about the importance of a Harris/Walz presidency, the challenges and triumphs in the ongoing fight for LGBTQIA+ rights.2024-08-2631 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastTestosterone darts!In this episode of the Parent Advocate podcast, Lizette & Stephen interview, Harvard, Yale and Stanford educated author of Free to Be: Understanding Kids & Gender Identity, Dr. Jack Turban and get into the myth of rapid onset dysphoria, sports bans and supporting parents and families in transition. In today's topics, we discuss the French lawsuit against Elon Musk and J.K. Rowlings, declining LGBTQ+ acceptance, Hawaii's first ever trans lawmaker, and the GOP's investigation and impeachment inquiry into superintendent Ryan Walters. In our Allies & Assholes segment, we celebrate viral TikToker Jools Lebron and drag SCOTUS for their shitty Title IX...2024-08-191h 00The Parent Advocate PodcastBIPOC Baddies!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette & Stephen interview trans youth activist, Mya Figueroa (and her parents) talk cheerleading, starting high school and convincing Arizona State Senators to abandon their misguided anti-trans bills. In today's topics, we cover the Planned Parenthood lawsuit, Washington State Senator Emily Randall, Valentina Gomez's failed primary run, and the Olympic Team LGBTQ+'s medal run. In Allies & Assholes, we celebrate Governor Tim Walz for his LGBTQ advocacy and activism, and drag GOP VP candidate JD Vance for weaponizing anti-trans sentiment.2024-08-1248 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastA family affairIn this episode of the Parent Advocate Podcast, "A Family Affair," Lizette and Stephen chat up DOJ attorney Sonia Murphy, and talk about advocacy, the Gender Cool Project, and parenting a trans youth. In today’s topics, we highlight a significant ruling on the Biden administration's Title IX sex discrimination rule, a federal court's support of an Ohio school district's anti-bullying policy, transphobia at the Olympics and the far right group Ziklag's AI purge of voter rolls. In "Allies and Assholes," we name an unlikely Ally in FOX News’ Laura Ingraham while Logan Paul is our Asshole of the Week...2024-08-0550 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastHistory Making. Kamala Harris EditionIn this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette & Stephen interview queer nonbinary historian & author, Lydia Otero, and they spill tea on growing up queer in the Southwest, coming of age queer in LA, and run-ins with Madonna. In today's topics we talk Alpa Phi Alpha's proposed ban on trans men becoming brothers, a slap down for Moms for Liberty, the RNC crashing gay-dating app Grindr during their convention, and Kamala Harris’ record-breaking fundraising and volunteer numbers. Finally in Allies & Assholes, we celebrate Vivian Wilson for standing up to this week's Asshole, her father, Elon Musk.2024-07-2959 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastFlip the script!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen switch places with self-appointed executive producer and third co-host, Anthony Chukumba, who grills them on what brought them to advocacy, their proudest moments, best (and worst) guest, and tips for parents of TGNC youth.2024-07-2253 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastIt takes a village!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen interview queer Star Tribune reporter Nicole Norfleet, and talk Pride, disinformation, objectivity in journalism and Project 2025. In today's topics, we cover the Missouri AG trying to get medical records of trans kids, the White House's clarification on surgery for trans minors, a federal judge halting Biden’s new Title IX gender identity protection rules, and gay furry hackers group SiegedSec hacking the Heritage Foundation. Finally, in Allies & Assholes we celebrate the new Black nonbinary CEO of the Trevor Project, Jaymes Black, and drag Donald Trump Junior for thinking hurricanes ha...2024-07-1558 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastSpecial Rant Edition: SCOTUS F*ckery!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen kinda go off on SCOTUS, Trump, MAGA Republicans, the Heritage Foundation and the steady decline in the country caused by sycophants in elected office. 2024-07-0828 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastChinese Chorizo! A recipe for solidarity.In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen are joined by queer food artist activist Feng Feng Yeh, talk assimilation, the history of Mexican & Chinese solidarity, and the importance of preserving cultural traditions. In today's topics, we discuss the Supreme Court's taking up a transgender rights case, a new survey revealing that LGTQ+ students don't feel safe in schools, and the permanent closure of an LGBTQ+ center. In Allies & Assholes, we highlight Precious Brady Davis for her groundbreaking appointment as the first black transgender woman to hold public office in Cook County, and drag is Beth Bourne...2024-07-0359 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastCome again. Say what?In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen interview nonbinary researcher Em Matsuno of the Arizona State University and talk parent support programs, supporting trans youth, understanding what it means to be nonbinary, and a Night of Trans & Nonbinary Joy. In Today's Topics, we discuss the win for abortion rights at the Supreme Court, the federal appeals court siding with a middle school on a First Amendment case over a "there are only two genders" t-shirt, the Colorado GOP referring to LGBTQ people are "godless groomers" and the federal judge in Florida striking down the state's ban...2024-06-231h 06The Parent Advocate PodcastB6. We throw Hands!In this episode of the Parent Advocate podcast "B6. We Throw Hands!" Lizette & Stephen interview nonbinary Director of Inclusion, Diversity, Equity & Access for housing at the University of Arizona, John-Peter Wilhite. Join them as they talk the lessons he learned working with ACT UP!, the AIDS epidemic and survivor's guilt, the importance of supportive parents, and listening to our LGBTQ youth to help them thrive. In Today's Topics, we cover Dwyane and Zaya Wade launching Translatable the online support community for Black families of trans youth, the appeals court in Maryland who ruled that religious parents don’t automatically ha...2024-06-1157 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastDid I answer your question?Join Lizette and Stephen as they interview trans artist Dante Celeiro and get into the NYC underground ballroom scene, discovering his people on Christopher Street, building a LGBTQ+ performance art space, and finding time to breathe. In Today's Topics, we discuss the deadly sin of Pride per Harrison Butker, the 18 Republican-led states suing the Biden Administration, Mississippi's attack on trans people in public spaces, and a former klansman coming out as transgender. In Allies & Assholes, we celebrate Kristen Chenoweth from her vocal red carpet support of LGBTQ+ people, and we drag Republican candidate Valentina Gomez for suggesting Americans stop...2024-05-201h 02The Parent Advocate PodcastTwinny, twin, twin!In this episode of the Parent Advocate podcast, Lizette and Stephen interview Rutgers University Associate Dean, Marta Esquilin and we get into racial microaggressions, parenting twins, raising trans masculine children, and the attack on DEI in education. In today's topics, we get into South Carolina’s ban on GAC for TGNC youth, the class action lawsuit against Aetna to cover fertility treatments for LGBTQ+ couples, a gay North Carolina teacher fired for announcing his wedding on Facebook, and a NY Supreme Court ruling blocking Nassau County's ban on trans women in sports. In our Allies & Assholes segment, we celebrate Mo...2024-05-131h 05The Parent Advocate PodcastFuck hope! I wanna feel whole!In this episode of the Parent Advocate podcast, Lizette and Stephen speak with fellow parent and children's book publisher nadeen "mothasistah" herring. Join us as we spill the tea on her company blaq noyz, finding common ground for conversation, listening to our trans children and the value of hugs. In today's topics, we get into the United Methodist church lifting their ban on LGBTQ clergy, the Arkansas lawsuit over new restrictions on drivers license gender markers, the death of trans nonbinary teen River Nevaeh Goddard, and the Republican-led states suing the Biden administration over new Title IX regulations. Finally...2024-05-0659 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastDrag me out on my shield!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette and Stephen chop it up with Erin Russ of Southern Arizona Senior Pride, and talk Boy Scouts, coming out to their father, fears of being ostracized and finding purpose. In today's topics, we discuss the SCOTUS decision in Idaho, Moms for Liberty saying Americans have a lot in common with Trump, and Tennessee lawmakers criminalizing assisting trans youth. In Allies & Assholes, we celebrate trans high school athlete Maelle Jacques for her powerful testimony in front of the New Hampshire legislature and drag Texas Governor Greg Abbott for suggesting that trans people...2024-04-2949 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastEpic Rant - TDOV EditionIn this special episode of the Parent Advocate podcast, Lizette and Stephen discuss the killing of Diamond Brigman, and the arrest of the killer of Aisha Davis, the lawsuits brought by Stephen Miller's America First Legal, Scientific American's article on the shrinking safe places for trans people and their families, and the reasons we are both visible advocates for trans youth.2024-03-2634 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastCactus & SunshineIn this episode of the Parent Advocate, join Lizette & Stephen as they talk with scholar activist Stephanie Troutman-Robbins about attacks on reproductive rights, gender and sexuality, finding white allies in the mountains, and re-Imagining the invisible knapsack in higher education. In our today's topics, we talk about the NCAA lawsuit challenging trans women's participation in collegiate sports, the hate crime shooting of a gay man in Florida, the hunt for the killer of Torrence HIll, and the medical examiner's ruling of Nex Benedict's death as suicide. In Allies & Assholes, we elevate Planet Fitness for standing with trans people and...2024-03-1956 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastI pooped on myself!In this episodes Lizette and Stephen talk going from education to comedy, cycles of gender expression, wellness and movement with nonbinary educator, movement specialist, doctoral candidate and comedian, Em Bowen. In today's topics, we cover Ohio's thousands of comments to Governor DeWine, a North Dakota judge's ruling that Christian groups don't have to provide health coverage for their trans workers, trans golfer Hailey Davidson's banning from the NXXT Women’s Pro Tour, and Republicans in Florida’s House of Representatives passing three new anti-LGBTQ+ bills. In Allies & Assholes we highlight Emma Mulvaney-Stanak, Burlington, Vermont’s first w...2024-03-131h 04The Parent Advocate PodcastPlayer Hater Degree!In this episode of the Parent Advocate podcast, join hosts Lizette Trujillo and Stephen Chukumba as they interview Emeritus member of the Parents for Transgender Equality Council, adjunct professor of Gender and Sexuality Studies andEthnic Studies, Dr. Priya J. Shah. We get down to the history of bathroom and swimming pool bans, successful examples of coalition building, and centering trans kids in movement building. In today's topics, we discuss the Owasso High School walkout, Indiana's ban on gender affirming care, Mississippi's ironically titled Dignity and Safety for Incarcerated Woman Act, and the successful hate crimes conviction of the killer...2024-03-0453 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastRegular schmegular girl from the hood.In this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette Trujillo and Stephen Chukumba are joined by Tamilia Valenzuela, a bilingual, disabled, neurodivergent Queer Black Latina' and at-large member of the Washington Elementary School District, and talk cat ears, being doxxed, and her dream for educational opportunities for all kids. In today's topics, we discuss the tragic death of Nex Benedict, the hypocrisy of the Catholic church and its response to the funeral of Cecilia Gentili, and Tennessee Governor Bill Lee signing into law the ability to refuse to solemnize marriage. In this week's Allies & Assholes segment, we celebrate the solidarity...2024-02-2557 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastThe kids are gonna be okay!In this episode of the Parent Advocate, join hosts Lizette Trujillo and Stephen Chukumba as they interview nonbinary author Joelle Retener about their upcoming book, Marley's Pride. We find out how she went from diplomatic service with the State Department to homeschooling nonbinary kids in the woods to writing books. In today's topics, we dig into the Tennessee bill allowing discrimination against same sex couples, the Super Bowl "He Get Us" ads, and right wing media trying to make the Joel Osteen shooter trans. This week's Allies & Assholes highlights Lyft for expanding safety precautions to protect women and nonbinary...2024-02-1750 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastAmerican TeenagerIn this episode of the Parent Advocate, Lizette Trujillo and Stephen Chukumba interview nonbinary journalist, author and advocate, Nico Lang as they prepare for the release of their upcoming book, American Teenager. We dive into their recent piece on Dave Chappelle and their problematic comedy, writing about the nuanced lives of trans youth, and what they would be doing if they weren't documenting the attacks on queer people. In our today's topic segment, we discuss how the Maryland House committee killed a bill that would have banned trans kids from playing sports, the defeat of 11 anti-trans bills proposed by...2024-02-111h 06The Parent Advocate PodcastTransplaining.In our Transplaining episode Lizette Trujillo and Stephen Chukumba interview Dr AC Goldberg a world renowned intersex/transgender DEIB consultant, Professor and Speech/Language Pathologist, and talk about helping trans youth literally find their voices, standing up to the system, and grappling with institutional bias and discrimination. In Today's Topics, we discuss the ‘end game’ for anti-trans legislation, Utah becoming the first state to advance anti-trans legislation this year and LGBTQ+ establishments in Washington state being charged with lewdness. Finally, in Allies & Assholes, we elevate Ohio Democratic state representative Shontel Brown for standing up for trans youth, and drag Bud...2024-02-031h 03The Parent Advocate PodcastJoyful Defiance!In episode 2 of season 2, Lizette Trujillo and Stephen Chukumba interview Emmy award winning producer, Nicole Bozorgmir, and talk about becoming a parent, raising trans kids in America, and the importance of joyful defiance in the face of adversity. In Today's Topics, we cover Texas' appeal to the United Nations, the myth of trans regret, and the importance of Tias to trans youth. Finally in our Allies & Assholes segment, we celebrate Will Ferrell and his documentary Will & Harper which premiered at the Sundance Film Festival to a standing ovation, and drag the Ohio Legislature for overriding Governor Dewine's veto and...2024-01-271h 09The Parent Advocate PodcastMy Freedom Dream!In our season two opener, join Lizette Trujillo and Stephen Chukumba as we ring in the new year with the newly appointed CEO of the National Black Justice Coalition, Dr. David Johns, and talk Black liberation, letting the babies talk, and taking up space. What would a show be without Allies & Assholes? This week we highlight our ally Arienne Childrey, the transgender woman running for Ohio's state legislature, and we drag Dave Chappelle who can't seem to leave transgender people out of his damn mouth!2024-01-221h 10The Parent Advocate PodcastAllies & Assholes!In the final episode of the Parent Advocate podcast, Stephen Chukumba, Lizette Trujillo (and a special surprise guest) recap this year's most memorable Allies and forgettable Assholes, including Luchina Fisher, POTUS & FLOTUS, Dwyane Wade, Machaela Cavanaugh and the organizers of Trans Prom.2023-12-2936 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastJump on the pendulum!In episode 31 of the Parent Advocate, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we get into LGBTQ muslims calling for a ceasefire at Stonewall, SCOTUS declining to take an appeal banning conversion therapy, a Florida lawsuit over pronouns, and Ohio's gender-affirming care and sports bans headed to the desk of Governor DeWine. Lizette and Stephen interview one of People's Sexiest Men Alive - Brian Michael Smith. We talk trans visibility, affirming love, and the responsibility of media. In Allies & Assholes, we celebrate Elliot Page and drag former president Donald Drumpf.2023-12-191h 02The Parent Advocate PodcastLet the damn kids play!In episode 30 of the Parent Advocate, join hosts Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as they interview the first mother of trans kids, I Am Jazz's own Jeanette Jennings, as we talk about being the parent of the most visible trans kid in America, landing an interview with Barbara Walters and eight seasons on TLC. Listen to today's topics as we discuss Oklahoma!, the loss of health care providers in South Carolina, Title IX and Governor Tony Evers's veto. In our Allies & Assholes segment, we celebrate Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez and her brilliant takedown of transphobic bigots (aka Riley Gaines) and...2023-12-101h 01The Parent Advocate PodcastSCOTUS for sale!In episode 29 of the Parent Advocate, co-hosts Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo interview activist and fellow PTEC parent, Debi Jackson. Join us as we talk trolls and being inspired by hate mail, the Problem with Jon Stewart, TransHood, effective comm strategies and fighting for trans equality despite the shenanigans of SCOTUS. In Today's Topics, we get into George Santos, Moms for Liberty being roasted by middle schoolers, and conservative outrage over Froot Loops. In our Allies & Assholes segment, we celebrate the Monarch High School students walkout in solidarity with their trans classmate and volleyball player, and we drag Rafael...2023-12-011h 05The Parent Advocate Podcast"Hope is a discipline."In this episode join hosts Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as they interview Melanie Willingham Jaggers, the first Black nonbinary Executive Director of GLSEN, and talk about being named to the Out 100 list, making whole children, and creating safe learning environments for kids. We also dig into Raquel Willis's memoir, The Risk It Takes Bloom, observe a moment of silence for TDOR, and review the Netflix movie, Rustin. In our Allies & Asshole segment, we uplift Marlon Wayans for acknowledging his son Kai, and drag Moms for Liberty for aligning with the Proud Boys.2023-11-231h 03The Parent Advocate PodcastAn Uncle and Two DadsIn a very special Episode 27 of the Parent Advocate podcast, we celebrate the Netflix release of the documentary short The Dads, with 'uncle' Anthony Chukumba returning as our guest host to interview two of the film's stars, podcast host Stephen Chukumba and co-host Lizette Trujillo’s husband Jose. Join us as we learn more about their backgrounds, first impressions of each other, being “invited in” by their transgendered children, their ongoing advocacy, what they hope viewers take away from The Dads, and whether there will be a The Dads 2 (or a 'The Uncles' for that matter). The Dads airs on Net...2023-11-1750 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastNot Philly Buster! Filibuster!In Episode 26 of the Parent Advocate, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we interview Nebraska State's Machaela Cavanaugh, whose historic 60-day filibuster shut down the Nebraska legislature. We chop it up about Mike Tyson defending gay men with the support of his non-binary child, and Danica Roem, a three-term Virginia lawmaker and a former journalist, on Tuesday became the first openly transgender person to be elected to a State Senate seat in the South. We talk inviting in vs coming out and unpack the Vatican finally opening up to trans people. This week, we acknowledge the ACLU national...2023-11-1547 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastIt's Gaelle-tines Day!In Episode 25 of the Parent Advocate podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we interview activist Gaelle Esposito with Creosote Partners, Arizona's progressive lobbying, government relations, communications, and legislative advocacy firm. We are also go in on all the crazy sh*t that’s been going on in the world including comments by Yung Joc, the inordinate number of trans deaths in October and our asshole of the week House Speaker Mike Johnson. We also celebrate our Ally of the Week, Dolly Parton!2023-11-0659 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastThey're ready for you Mister President.In this super special episode of the Parent Advocate podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we discuss HRC's Equality Convention and National Dinner. Listen in on the speeches delivered by award recipient Matt Bomer, Delaware State Senator Sarah McBride, and Trail Blazers Awardees, Daniel, Grayson, Hobbes and Libby, who brought the house down with their speech. IN our Allies & Assholes segment, we prop up Dennis & Judy Shepard for their tireless work on behalf of LGBTQ+ youth and drag alt-right pundit Matt Walsh for being a douchebag.2023-10-1844 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastIs there a doctor in the house?Dr. Ugo Ezenkwele of Mount Sinai Hospital and the Icahn School of Medicine joins hosts Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo to talk about standards of care for dealing with transgender and gender diverse patients in emergency room settings. We also talk about the appointment of California's first Black out lesbian serving in the United States Senate, and pour a little out for former House Speaker Kevin McCarthy (sorry not sorry). In Allies & Assholes, we celebrate Delaware State representative Eric Morrison, and put transphobe and far right Republican candidate Vivek Ramaswamy on blast.2023-10-0642 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastNothing but the facts, Jack!Join hosts Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we chat up our guest, Dr. Russ Toomey (of vs the State of AZ fame). Listen as we gab about the NY Times disinformation machine, being 'mansplained' by Congressional staffers, and the general fuckery that is 'debating' trans lives. Check out this week's Allies & Assholes, the Biden Administration and Rep. Lauren Boebert. Episode 22. One for the ages.2023-09-291h 06The Parent Advocate PodcastDid someone order a funeral?In episode 21 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we dig in on 'parental grieving', California's Trans History Month announcement, Texas AG Ken Paxton's impeachment acquittal, and the coming LGBTQ takeover of politics . We also chop it up with our guest, Gender Specialist Rebecca Minor. Listen to what the fuss is all about!2023-09-221h 11The Parent Advocate PodcastDecolonize your mind!In this special 'rant' episode number 20, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we dispense with our traditional format to get shit off our chests! Join us as we talk about Kappa Kappa Gamma's lawsuit by seven sorority sisters (say that three times fast), Georgia's stay on its gender affirming care ban, and the 25th anniversary of the death of Matthew Shepard. In our Allies & Assholes segment, we celebrate Olympian Adam Rippon, and drag Nebraska Governor Jim Pillen.2023-09-1459 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastCalling all my Drag Kings and Queens!In episode 19 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we get into The Dads part 2, back to school, an attack on Pride flags, gender affirming care ban challenges, and an HRC report about the mental state of trans people in the wake of all these anti-trans GAC bans. We interview photography artist Rachel Castillo, who talks about her coming out experience and rasing a trans kid. And we give two thumbs up to D. Smith of Kokomo City fame, and two thumbs down to Spanish football president, Luis Rubiales.2023-08-301h 30The Parent Advocate PodcastDown with the patriarchy!In episode 18 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we talk Baylor University being exempted from protecting LGBTQ folks, Target bitchin' about slumping profits, New Hampshire banning the trans panic defense, and dealing with our children's doctors. We interview trans activist, Nghia Nguyen working for trans liberation in the south and highlight this week's Allies & Assholes: Beyonce and the North Carolina House and Senate Republicans. 2023-08-231h 16The Parent Advocate PodcastJesus! Hand me a folding chair!In this episode of The Parent Advocate Podcast join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we talk pastors, passports and parent groups. This week we interview Reverend Louis Mitchell, and get his take on his path to spirituality and the importance of self-love. We look at how religious freedom worked against a Catholic couple seeking to foster, the beatdown of crackers in Alabama, and a University of Michigan study that found that trans people don't experience regret from gender confirming surgery. We also elevate Skittles for standing with the trans community, and poop on the New College of Florida...2023-08-161h 22The Parent Advocate PodcastTales of a White House Heckler.In episode 16 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we talk parental support, back to school sweet 16s and sometimesy families. We get to speak with Jennicet Gutierrez, who talks about being an undocumented trans Latinx woman fighting for the rights of marginalized people in the wake of anti-immigration, anti-trans opposition. In our Allies & Assholes segment, we highlight Doc Martens and Mike Pence. Can you guess which is which?2023-08-061h 21The Parent Advocate PodcastGive it to me straight doc!In Episode 15 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we chat with Dr. Robert Abreu about supporting families of trans children, parental grief. We also get into the Barbie movie, Twitter and and Virginia's rollback of trans affirming policies. In our Allies & Assholes segment, we highlight Sir Charles Barkley and give CNN the gas face.2023-07-261h 19The Parent Advocate PodcastTwo Spirits and Crackers.In Episode 14 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we interview our show's first Two Spirit guest, Eli Rigatuso and we talk about his journey to self-discovery, being seen by his mother, and navigating life as a 'late-bloomer'. We celebrate Imagine Dragons as our Ally of the Week, and drag Studio 8 Hair Lab owner Christine Geiger as the Asshole of the Week for her transphobic rant on Facebook.2023-07-191h 25The Parent Advocate PodcastLiberation isn't possible if it's not collective!In episode 13 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we discuss Kansas, Tennessee, the 6th Circuit and the erosion of privacy rights in light of recent decisions. We speak with Jamie Bruesehoff, author of Raising Kids Beyond the Binary, about her accidental activism, having child protective services show up at her door, and raising a viral transgender child. 2023-07-141h 06The Parent Advocate PodcastYou can miss me with that!In our 12th episode of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we talk with ACLU super attorney, Chase Strangio on the Supreme Court, learning from elders, where he finds joy and Trans Prom. We give the SCOTUS Six double middle fingers and celebrate VPOTUS Kamala Harris for her historic visit to the Stonewall Inn. 2023-07-021h 05The Parent Advocate PodcastDon't make me get my machete!In episode 11 of The Parent Advocate Podcast join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we talk family vacations at Disney, forgetting Father's Day, trials of travel soccer and Netflix. We interview Ngozi Nnaji, the mother of Andraya Yearwood, and get her take on parenting a trans athlete, being a mama bear and redlining. In our recurring segment, Allies & Assholes, we give props to Lizzo and drag Lance Armstrong and Caitlyn Jenner.2023-06-281h 12The Parent Advocate PodcastAre you sure he's your son?In Episode 10 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, it's a Chukumba takeover! Co-host Anthony Chukumba, joins his brother, Stephen Chukumba, as they interview Trans Prom co-organizer Hobbes Chukumba, and they talk Trans Prom, visiting the White House, being on TV and standing in solidarity and community with other trans youth. We also highlight our ally of the week, President Joe Biden, and drag presidential contender Nikki Haley for - well being an idiot.2023-06-1737 min
The Parent Advocate PodcastHe’s Out! He’s Proud! (and he’s much faster than you)On this special Chukumba Brother's & Pride Month edition of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and special co-host brother Anthony Chukumba we interview Matthew Llano, and out gay professional marathoner, and get his take on being a role model to young athletes, finding his voice and the costs of coming out. We also highlight Lego and drag Fox late night host Greg Gutfeld, aka "The Ghetto Stephen Colbert."2023-06-0155 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastEverything tastes like ash in my mouth.In episode 8 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we talk Trans Prom, book bans, possibility models and superheroes. We interview trans activist and actor, Nicole Maines, who talks Yellowjackets, her life as a superhero, standing up for herself and what it means to be a role model for trans youth. We also celebrate ACLU trans attorney, Chase Strangio and drag Iowa Governor Kim Reynolds.2023-05-311h 16The Parent Advocate PodcastSituational Awareness & Blue Lamp PostsIn episode 7 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we talk to pediatric physician, Keisha Michaels as she unpacks the myths surrounding gender affirming care, the firing of doctors at Dell Children's Medical Center in Texas, and the hopes and dreams she has for her daughter. We drag Governor Ron "De Satan" DeSantis, and celebrate Nebraska Senator Megan Hunt who literally trashed her colleagues from the Senate floor.2023-05-201h 02The Parent Advocate PodcastThe crowd goes wild!In our Mother's Day episode 6 of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo and fellow The Dads cast member and Lizette's hubby, Jose Trujillo, who talks about being the father of a trans kid, what it's like being an immigrant, and the importance of building community. We examine the firing of physicians at Dell Children's Medical Center in Texas, the Supreme Court, and CNN.2023-05-1444 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastNo working! We're walking!In episode five of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we get inside the head of Jeannine LaRue, Board Chair of the Garden State Equality Fund, and talk piano lessons, coming out of the closet, policy and proximity. We elevate Brittney Griner and drag Kerri Seekins-Crowe in our recurring Allies & Assholes segment.2023-05-0651 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastMess with me and we're gonna tussle!In our fourth episode of The Parent Advocate Podcast, join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we talk dog portraits, finding purpose, and making good trouble with our guest, photographer Jesse Freidin. We give props to LIzzo, and the finger to Montana Republicans.2023-04-2948 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastDrumpfs & DingleberriesIn the third episode of The Parent Advocate join Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo as we talk crucifixions, exploding rockets and underwear flying from the gallery. We also have an insightful interview with Dr. Scholar Lee our first guest of transgender experience, who talks spirituality and walking one's own path. 2023-04-2252 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastSupergirl's Dad is a Badass who CriesThis week, hosts Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo are joined by surprise co-host, Jose Trujillo, as we interview Wayne Maines, the first out father of a transgender child and CW superhero Supergirl (Nicole Maines). We talk about his journey raising a transgender child and his efforts to get more fathers to connect and acknowledge their role in the fight for trans equality. We discuss Kid Rock, Caitlyn Jenner, Kelly Cadigan, as well as our Ally & Asshole of the Week: Athlete Ally and Representative Webster Barnaby.2023-04-1539 minThe Parent Advocate PodcastNot here for the Bullsh*t!In this episode, we meet the show's hosts, Stephen Chukumba and Lizette Trujillo, two BIPOC parents of transgender kids who discuss the events of the day, including Drag show reading bans and the growing spate of anti-trans legislation taking over the country. We interview award winning filmmaker, Luchina Fisher, as she discusses two of her films, Mama Gloria and The Dads. We also highlight our A$$hole of the Day, Governor Mark Gordon for allowing Senate File 133. 2023-04-0840 min