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Life, love and the lawSurviving divorce and separation at ChristmasChristmas is one of the most important times of the year for many families. When you're dealing with divorce and separation, though, the pressure can easily mount up and there can be a tidal wave of emotion. Dealing with child arrangements over Christmas, making a new financial situation work around a festive budget and navigating loneliness are just some of the things divorcing or separating people take on.In this Christmas Special of Life, love and the Law, host and family lawyer Liza Gatrell welcomes back familiar faces from Stowe talks, Jodie Phelps, financial adviser, and Tom...
2025-12-1234 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 68: Ask a family lawyer (2) - LiveYou loved our first live episode, and there were so many questions that needed answering, we’ve done another one! In this live show, Liza is joined by Managing Partner Sebastian Burrows to answer all the family law questions you put to them. From finances, to the family home, to communicating with your ex, Liza and Seb provided guidance and information, using their extensive expertise.01:10 How much does a divorce cost?02:41 Starting out on the divorce process03:40 What is mediation and why is it helpful?06:45 What to do if you’re stru...
2025-10-0854 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 67: Should there be protection for unmarried couples living together?Matt and Liza discuss the problems around the lack of protection for unmarried couples living together. Cohabitation is the fastest growing family type and with this social change, there have been calls from family lawyers to review the law and help protect the financially vulnerable. But is this just inventing new laws for the sake of it? Can current marriage and divorce laws be adapted to better reflect society?00:51 What are the problems with current cohabitation laws?01:56 How property ownership works04:47 Do unmarried couples have claims other than to property?
2025-08-2823 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 66: Will living with a new partner affect my divorce?Moving on after a break-up is rarely easy, but many individuals do go on to have new relationships after divorce or separation. But what happens if you want to move in with a new partner? Buying somewhere together, or either of you moving into an existing property can have knock-on effects. Matt and Liza discuss how having a new partner can impact your divorce, including your finances, child arrangements and ongoing communication with your ex.00:54 How does moving in with a new partner impact a financial settlement?02:10 When the court will take...
2025-08-2217 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 65: Navigating divorce after coming outIn this episode of Stowe talks, Matt and Liza welcome back Tom Nash aka Mr Divorce Coach for a fascinating chat about how to manage a heterosexual divorce when one partner has come out. Tom explores having the conversation, letting people in, what to do about children and potential responses from the other spouse.02:15 Common reasons people come out later in life06:06 The impact of suppressing who you are 09:52 Reactions and emotions experienced by the other spouse 12:07 What preparation can you do before having the conversation15:31 Coming out to yo...
2025-08-2030 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 64: Do I need a lawyer to do my financial disclosure?Getting a financial settlement in divorce is a hugely important step, ensuring that you break all financial claims to your ex. The first part of this process is ‘full and frank’ financial disclosure, i.e., sharing the details of all your money, property, assets and debts. In this episode, Matt and Liza discuss the importance of legal advice in this process and potential risks of a DIY divorce.00:34 What is financial disclosure and why is it important?02:40 Practicalities of financial disclosure03:28 What is the Form E?06:00 The wider impa...
2025-08-1615 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 63: Children in the Family CourtOne of the main things parents going through divorce are concerned about is the impact on their children, what their family situation will be going forward, and how best to shield their children. In many cases, parents can agree on matters between themselves. However, sometimes it’s necessary for the court to get involved. In this episode, award-winning barrister from 4PB, Mani Singh Basi joins Matt and Liza for a discussion on the finer details of children proceedings in the family court.02:09 What is the function of the Family Court when it comes to children?05:08 Th...
2025-08-1536 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 62: Clean break vs maintenance - what's right for me?Sorting out your finances on divorce can be a confusing business. There’s a lot of jargon and it can be overwhelming when you’re first setting out. In this episode, Matt and Liza answer the question ‘what is a clean break’ and ‘what is maintenance’ in divorce, how to decide what’s going to be right in your unique situation and risks to be aware of.00:45 What is a clean break order?02:28 What are the different types of maintenance in a divorce settlement?02:59 Exploring how child maintenance is calculated03:48 Understanding when spousal m...
2025-08-1417 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 61: Managing your money during divorceThere is a great deal of misunderstanding, and taboo around finances, but it is a topic that will impact everyone going through a divorce. Going from one household to two, and splitting finances at the point of divorce can be tricky and stressful.In this episode, Liz Grimshaw, financial planner and co-founder of Revival Financial Planning, talks about how to manage your money during the divorce process, what happens to your money when you divorce and understanding the importance of long-term planning, and educating yourself about money.01:42 Why it’s important for people to manage the...
2025-08-0824 min
Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe35 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2626 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe34 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2621 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe33 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2628 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe32 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2624 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe31 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2624 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe30 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2616 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe29 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2628 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe28 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2621 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe27 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2620 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe26 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2632 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe25 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2625 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe24 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2633 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe23 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2628 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe22 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2624 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe21 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2636 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe20 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2620 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe19 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2622 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe18 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2635 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe17 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2638 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe16 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2620 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe15 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2621 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe14 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2625 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe13 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2623 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe12 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2638 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe11 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2626 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe10 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2626 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe09 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2626 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe08 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2620 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe07 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2637 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe06 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2623 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe05 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2621 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe04 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2626 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe03 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2631 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe02 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2636 minLife of Harriet Beecher Stowe01 - Life of Harriet Beecher Stowe by Charles Edward StoweDelve into the life of Harriet Beecher Stowe, the Cincinnati-born author who stirred the world with her powerful literature. Best known for her groundbreaking novel, Uncle Toms Cabin, Stowes work revealed the harsh realities of slavery, and is said to have ignited the American Civil War. A prolific writer, Stowe authored 30 books, articles, travelogues, poems, hymns, and speeches, all reflecting her deep commitment to social issues. Born into a family of ministers, teachers, and social activists, Stowe and her family were instrumental in the Underground Railroad, often facing fierce criticism in their fight against slavery. Post-war, Stowe, her husband Calvin...
2025-07-2603 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 60: Walkaway Wife: women and divorceWalkaway wife syndrome has become an ever-more prominent phrase in the last few years, used to describe a woman who, after years of emotional neglect in her marriage, chooses to end the relationship. In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Liz Harrington, co-founder of Family Flow the Divorce Collective, alongside Susie Giles. Liz is an expert trauma therapist and coach.This podcast explores what causes walkaway wife syndrome, 'symptoms of a walkaway wife' both in women and men, and why people choose to leave a relationship that's not necessarily problematic to outside eyes.02:31...
2025-07-2540 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 59: Avoiding the top divorce mistakesMost people are new to divorce. It’s not something many of us have done before, and the whole thing can feel utterly overwhelming. The emotional and practical difficulties can lead to jumping in before we’re ready, making mistakes because we’re not thinking straight, and trying to get it all over with as quickly as possible. Whilst nobody wants to drag divorce out, one of the biggest mistakes Chloe Oudiz, a divorce and separation coach, sees, is rushing into decisions without getting the right advice or thinking things through.Matt and Liza welcome back Chloe for th...
2025-07-1839 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 58: Navigating divorce with SEND childrenDivorcing when you have children comes with complications - where will they live, how much time does each parent get, how do you have the least amount of impact on their normal everyday lives. But if you have a special educational needs child, these complexities can seem almost insurmountable. In this special episode, Stowe talks teamed up with Smart divorce for a collaborative podcast. Matt Taylor and leading financial planner Tamsin Caine welcomed Rhiannon Gogh, an award winning chartered financial adviser and founder of PlanIt Future, a financial service for the parents and carers of SEND children. ...
2025-07-1139 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 57: Ask a family lawyer - LIVEStowe talks goes live! Our first ever live podcast opened up Matt and Liza to audience questions for the first time. Family law covers a huge range of issues surrounding the breakdown, and building up, of families. Everything from divorce and separation, to surrogacy and IVF laws.In this episode, Matt and Liza answered a variety of questions, everything from how long does divorce take, to what to do with an uncommunicative ex-spouse, to financial arrangements and pensions to child matters to international divorce. 02:00 How long does it take to get divorced?03:35 What t...
2025-07-0450 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 56: Single parenting, successfullyParenting is no picnic, and when you’re doing it solo the challenges can be even greater. Whether it’s because of a divorce or separation, co-parenting or parallel parenting, loss of a partner, or you’re doing it by yourself by choice, single parenting can be overwhelming as much as it is joyful.In this episode, Matt & Liza are joined again by Sue Atkins, certified Parenting Coach, to discuss all things solo parenting, navigating difficult ages, tricky exes and ultimately how to put on your own oxygen mask first.For any single/solo parents, this e...
2025-06-2436 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 56: Single parenting, successfullyParenting is no picnic, and when you’re doing it solo the challenges can be even greater. Whether it’s because of a divorce or separation, co-parenting or parallel parenting, loss of a partner, or you’re doing it by yourself by choice, single parenting can be overwhelming as much as it is joyful.In this episode, Matt & Liza are joined again by Sue Atkins, certified Parenting Coach, to discuss all things solo parenting, navigating difficult ages, tricky exes and ultimately how to put on your own oxygen mask first.For any single/solo parents, this e...
2025-06-2436 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 55: Buying a house as an unmarried coupleMore and more unmarried couples and friends are buying houses together, but the move comes with potentially serious financial risks. In this episode, Matt & Liza explain the importance of how a property is legally owned, the risks unmarried couples face and the legal options available to protect yourself financially if the love bubble bursts. From Joint Tenants to a Declaration of Trust, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to buy a house with a partner, friend, or family member. 00:38 Statistics on unmarried couples in the UK01:15 The total myth of t...
2025-03-1020 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 44 How to prepare to leave a narcissist - Part 1In the first of this two-parter episode, Matt and Liza were delighted to be joined again by Dr Supriya McKenna, one of the leading experts in the field of narcissism, to discuss how to prepare to leave a narcissist. Dr Supriya shares her deep knowledge of narcissism, why it is harder to leave one, including hoovering and gaslighting, finding the right lawyer, and practical tips on the preparations needed to end your relationship. Meanwhile, Matt & Liza share legal insight, the options available to you and the pitfalls to avoid. 00:00 Introductions 02:34 Why is it harder...
2024-09-1039 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 45 How to prepare to leave a narcissist - Part 2In the second part of this episode, Dr Supriya McKenna, a highly experienced specialist narcissism expert, continues to share her advice and practical tools and techniques to help people prepare to leave a narcissist. (You can access the first part of this episode here.)We pick the conversation back up as Dr Supriyas shares her advice on preparing financially, before exploring how to stay safe online, saving previous communications, and keeping personal items safe. Before closing with her top tops. Again, Matt & Liza share their insight into how the law can help and the pitfalls to avoid.
2024-09-1040 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 43 How much does it cost to get divorced?In this bite size episode, hosts Matt & Liza turn their attention to another popular question that clients frequently ask: How much does it cost to get divorced? They talk through typical costs, the different ways to reduce costs, for example reaching agreement together or using mediation, and what you can do personally to save money during the process. All in just under 8 minutes.00:33 The cost of the divorce application 01:15 How much does a typical financial settlement cost? 02:05 What are the ways to keep costs down and save money? 04:59 What can you d...
2024-08-2907 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 42 How long does it take to get divorced?In this bite size episode, hosts Matt & Liza turn their attention to a popular question they hear from many of their clients: How long does it take to get divorced? They talk through the process, how long it takes, the impact of the family court, the myth of the quickie divorce, before closing on their top tips to help speed up the process as much as possible. All in just under 8 minutes. 00:30 What is the process for getting divorced?02:20 How long does it take to get divorced? 03:10 How does the family cour...
2024-08-2907 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 41: What happens if your ex won’t respond to a divorce?In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza explore what options are available for people if their ex-partner will not respond to the initial divorce application, refuses to disclose any information, or provides incorrect or misses details when trying to resolve finances. They dive into your legal options so you can progress your divorce, how to track down a missing ex, the role the family court can play, managing the emotional impact and anxiety, and top tips for dealing with your ex throughout the process. 00:30 How common is it for someone not to respond to a divorce?
2024-08-2219 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 40: Are you in a relationship with a narcissist?Narcissism has become a popular buzzword. But despite the interest, there are many myths that undermine the complexity and destructive impact of this personality disorder.We were delighted to be joined again by Dr Supriya McKenna, one of the leading experts in the field of narcissism, to discuss how you can tell if you are in a relationship with a ‘real’ narcissist, and why knowing this is so important, particularly if you want to leave them. 00:00 Introductions 02:25 Why is it important to know that you are in a relationship with a ‘real’ narcissist?03:05 Why are na...
2024-07-2654 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 39: The realities of high-net-worth divorceHigh-net-worth divorce brings its own unique challenges, especially around understanding, valuing and dividing complex earning structures, assets and pensions, often with international elements. In this episode, Ceri Griffiths a chartered financial planner specialising in supporting women divorcing high earners shares her advice on how to navigate the unique issues that high-net-worth divorce can bring. 01:43 What is a high net worth divorce? 03:40 Common power imbalances in high-net-worth marriages 05:00 The lack of knowledge and understanding around finances 05:40 The prevalence of narcissism in CEOs and challenges08:55 What is the sharing principle in divorce?10:00 The l...
2024-07-2338 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 38: The first things to do when getting a divorceYou may have made the decision, or had it made for you, but however you arrived at the moment, facing a divorce can be dauntingSo what should you do first? In this episode, family lawyers and hosts Matt & Liza share their tips on the most important things to do and consider before getting a divorce.00:00 Introductions 01:00 The different scenarios 01:10 The first thing to do is take your time 03:00 Getting in the right headspace 03:29 Building your support team 05:10 Use of divorce coaches and counsellors 05:45 The role of online resources...
2024-07-0931 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 37 Should I stay, or should I go?It is normal to face challenges in a relationship, but what happens when one, or both people, completely disconnects and thoughts turn to leaving? How do you know the right time to end a relationship?In this episode, divorce coach Dr. Sue Palmer-Conn joined us to discuss the challenging question of whether to stay or go, including common stress points and challenges couples face, how discernment counselling can help them make a decision, and why divorce or separation can change your life for the better. Chapters00:00 Introductions 03:07 What is discernment...
2024-07-0336 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 36: How to introduce a new partner to the kidsIntroducing a new partner to your kids can be complicated, and requires careful thought and planning to get it right. So we asked parenting and relationship coach Nichole Farrow to join us to share her advice on how to introduce a new partner, including: Fostering good communication with the other parent The importance of a gradual introduction - baby steps all the way Ensuring thoughtful planningSetting and sticking to boundariesThe challenges and joy of a blended family And the need for patience, allowing time for adjustment in the new family dynamics.00:00 Introductions 02:00The generation of div...
2024-06-2736 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 35: School holiday planning for separated parentsSchool holidays can be difficult to juggle for any parents, but for those separated and co-parenting, it can bring a whole host of additional issues. In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza were joined by The Divorce & Separation Coach, Chloe O. to look at the best way to plan the holidays as a separated parent. Take a listen as they explore the challenges of planning holidays, the importance of communication, flexibility, and child-focused decision-making. How to address objections, your legal options and the use of mediation to resolve any issues, along with practical advice for navigating the...
2024-06-1830 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 34: Who gets the house in a divorce?The family home can often be the most emotive element of a divorce. Steeped in memories, many ex-couples face the difficult decision about what to do with the house, in the short and long term. In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza deep dive into all things property and divorce including: 00:35 Why is the family home so important? 01:56 The legal ownership of a property - joint tenants v tenants in common04:00 What happens if the house is in one person’s name?06:00 The importance of Wills07:25 Living together or moving out during the...
2024-06-1136 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 33: Prenups, postnups and petnupsNo longer the preserve of the ultra- wealthy, prenups, postnups and petnups are on the rise. But what are they, what can they cover, and do they stand up in court?Take a listen as Matt & Liza dive into nuptial agreements, the advantages, the challenges, and the laws surrounding them. Along with when and how they are useful, especially for people marrying later in life, wanting to protect family assets or preserve inheritance for their kids, and when they are not. Conversation then moves to the rise of the petnup, how pets are viewed in d...
2024-03-2635 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 32: Recognising and dealing with economic abuseA staggering 95% of survivors of domestic abuse experience economic abuse, leaving them isolated, trapped, dependent and confused. So, we asked Tamsin Caine, a Chartered Financial Planner from Smart Divorce, to join us to look at how to recognise the signs of economic abuse and what you can do about it. A financial specialist in advising people going through a divorce or separation. Tamsin covers: What is economic abuse? What are the red flags of economic abuse What is the effect of the abuse on survivors? Reducing the stigma around economic abuse The support available for sur...
2024-03-1937 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 31: How does surrogacy work in the UK?Surrogacy is a wonderful way for people to build their family outside traditional norms, but it comes with legal complexities that often surprise people. In this episode, Matt & Liza were delighted to welcome Andrew Powell, one of the country’s leading children's law barristers from 4PB, who specialises in surrogacy law, to explore how surrogacy works in the UK and internationally. An expert on surrogacy and the modern family, Andrew covers: What is surrogacy?What are the surrogacy laws in the UK?What is a parental order? And the role of parental responsibility?What cause...
2024-03-0653 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 30: Supporting male survivors of domestic abuseOne in 6-7 men is a domestic abuse survivor*, but only half of male victims (49%) fail to tell anyone they are a victim. Stigma, fear, shame, misinformation and societal pressures all contribute to men suffering in silence and not reporting their perpetrator. In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza were joined by Tom Nash, aka Mr Divorce Coach, a specialist Divorce, Separation and Family Coach, to talk through the challenges faced by men struggling and trapped in abusive relationships. Using his expertise and insight from supporting male clients, Tom talks about the different types of abuse, re...
2024-02-2138 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 29: Supporting teenagers through divorceDivorce and separation can be difficult for any child, but supporting teenagers through it can bring a host of different issues. In this episode, Matt & Liza were joined by one of the UK's leading relationship and family coaches, Nichole Farrow, as she shared her advice on how to support teenagers, including the best way to tell them, how to avoid overexposing them to what is happening, the importance of putting in boundaries, and creating a safe space to enable them to share their views. She also discusses role-modelling the right behaviours, showing your emotions, helping th...
2024-02-1434 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 28: How to prepare for your financial settlement in divorceReaching a financial settlement in divorce requires people to gather a wealth of information and paperwork, so they have a clear picture of their finances and the evidence required to complete the 30-page plus daunting Form E.In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza offer practical advice to help people prepare, including where to start, what the process to reach a settlement is, the role of financial disclosure, how to complete the Form E, what information you need to gather, and what you can do if your ex won’t provide the information.They also cover ho...
2024-01-3123 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 27: Creating financial wellbeing following separation In this episode, we welcomed Jodie Phelps, a leading Financial Planner, about the importance of, and how to achieve financial wellbeing following a divorce or separation.We begin our chat exploring what lies beneath financial well-being, the importance of understanding your relationship with money, managing your mindset, and identifying and learning to avoid your spending triggers.Jodie then turns to where to start when faced with managing your finances solo - don’t bury your head in the sand, get everything out on the table, take it step by step and plan, plan and plan som...
2024-01-1729 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 26: The unique challenges of a relationship break down in the LGBTQIA+ communityIn this episode, Matt & Liza were thrilled to be joined by award-winning comedian and creator of global hit podcast and book The Breakup Monologues, Rosie Wilby, to look at the unique challenges faced by the LGBTQIA+ community during a relationship breakdown. Rosie shares her passion for understanding the impact of heart break, before exploring monogamy, the history of relationships in the community, the various forms of cheating, how lesbians pioneered conscious uncoupling way before Gwyneth Paltrow, and how the gay community approaches the adversity caused by separating differently. She explores the expectation that marriage and re...
2024-01-0841 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 25: The dangers of a DIY divorceIn this episode, hosts Matt & Liza explore the rising popularity of DIY divorces, how and when they work well, and the common dangers and pitfalls. They explain what a DIY divorce is, the current online process, and the difficulties that can arise from the implications of not completing the paperwork correctly in the beginning.They then turn to the numerous problems that can be caused by not getting legal advice on your finances, including inheritance and Wills, protecting yourself from future claims from your ex-spouse, and the dangers of ignoring any pensions, before looking at h...
2023-12-0726 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 24: Parenting alongside a narcissist Dr Supriya McKenna - Part twoIn the second part of this episode, Dr Supriya McKenna, a highly experienced specialist narcissism expert, continues to share her advice and practical tools and techniques for people trying to parent alongside a narcissist. (You can access the first part of this episode here.) We pick the conversation back up as she explores the role of parallel parenting and how to help children understand the narcissist behaviours and deal with the way they respond by validating their experience and emotions. She then continues with tips and advice on how to manage communication with th...
2023-11-2440 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 23: Parenting alongside a narcissist with Dr Supriya McKenna - Part one In the first of this two-parter episode, Matt and Liza were delighted to be joined again by Dr Supriya McKenna, a highly experienced specialist narcissism expert, as she shares her advice and practical tools and techniques for people trying to parent alongside a narcissist. Building on our previous conversations (see links below to listen if you’ve not already), Dr Supriya starts by explaining what narcissistic personality disorder is, what drives them, and how this manifests in their behaviour, especially during divorce and parenting. She talks through how you can never co-parent with a narcissist, how t...
2023-11-2433 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 22 What rights do cohabiting couples have?In this episode, hosts Matt & Liza explore the myth of common-law marriage and the reality of legal rights for cohabiting couples, who are now the fastest growing family type in the UK. They talk through the minimal legal rights of cohabiting couples compared to their married counterparts, and how to deal with issues around property and child maintenance, should a couple separate. They look at how cohabiting couples can protect themselves financially with a Declaration of Trust, a cohabitation agreement, and the importance of having a Will. Along with advice for unmarried people buying a pr...
2023-06-1635 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 21 Domestic abuse - how can a family lawyer help?In this episode, Matt & Liza look at the role a family lawyer can play to help survivors of domestic abuse, the injunction orders available, and the impact of domestic abuse on financial settlements and making arrangements for children in a divorce case.They walk through the role of the two injunction orders available: non-molestation and an occupation order, how to apply for them, how the applications are handled in the family court, and the powers they have. They also talk about how allegations of domestic abuse can impact a child arrangements case, and the minimal i...
2023-05-3142 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 20 Rebuilding your life after narcissistic abuseIn this episode, Matt and Liza were delighted to welcome back Dr Supriya McKenna, a highly experienced specialist narcissism expert, as she shares her advice and practical tools and techniques for people rebuilding their lives after narcissistic abuse. Building on the conversation in our episode in Season 1 (see below to listen if you’ve not already), Supriya explores the impact of post-separation narcissistic abuse, how to parent with a narcissist (the only option is parallel parenting), building financial independence, and the importance of switching off that narcissistic supply, whatever the challenges.She discusses the importance of...
2023-05-2357 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 19 Dating after divorceIn this episode, hosts Matt & Liza talk to dating coach and matchmaker Laura Buckley from Secret Alchemy to explore all things dating after divorce.Laura talks about how to get into the mindset of dating again, the red flags to look out for (love bombing being key), the importance of knowing your boundaries and what you want, not just what you don’t want. Laura also shares her top tips on dating apps, how to make your profile stand out, including ensuring your photos are upfront, clear, recent and decent (definitely no animals), how to man...
2023-05-1233 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 18 How mediation can help you separateIn this episode, hosts Matt & Liza talk to Sushma Kotecha from Holistic Family Mediation & Coaching to look at how mediation can help couples work together to have a more dignified and amicable separation. Sushma talks about what mediation is, how it works, the process, what a MIAM is, and how it helps separating couples work through their issues, explore their options and make informed decisions about their future. Sushma also explains how mediation is not suitable for all couples, the red flags she looks for, and what you can do if one person is resistant to...
2023-05-0438 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 17 Budgeting solo during a cost-of-living crisisIn this episode, hosts Matt & Liza talk to Certified Money Coach, Fanny Snaith, on how to best manage the drop from two salaries to one following a separation during a cost of living crisis. Fanny talks about the emotional responses we all have to money, the 8 different money types, and how understanding your relationship with money can help you uncover the reasons behind your spending and saving behaviours. She discusses the first steps to take to help you manage your finances if your relationship breaks down, and what to focus on once you are budgeting so...
2023-04-2047 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 16 Supporting children through divorceIn this episode, hosts Matt & Liza talk to Sue Atkins, a leading Parenting Expert, author of Divorce Journal for Kids, and Broadcaster, to look at how to best support children through all the changes that divorce brings. Sue talks about the best way to tell children you are separating, whatever their age, the importance of listening and communication, and the power of the narrative you tell and the language you use. She discusses how parents can work together, the importance of planning and creating a parenting plan, how to manage special occasions such as Christmas an...
2023-04-0437 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 15 Understanding and dealing with tech abuseIn this episode, hosts Matt & Liza are joined by Emma Pickering, Senior Operations Manager at Refuge, as they look at technology assisted abuse, what it is, how to spot and how you stop it. Emma explains what technology assisted abuse is, the signs, and the various tools used by perpetrators, including everyday devices such as ring doorbells, mobile phones, home hubs, along with stalkerware, listening and tracking devices.She also talks about the connection with other forms of abuse, the rise in deep fake technology, and sharing intimate images, along with the impact felt by s...
2023-03-3040 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 14 Where do I start? A beginner's guide to divorceIn this episode, hosts Matt & Liza share their advice on where to start if you are thinking of ending your relationship, it has ended, or your partner has told you they want a divorce. A beginner’s guide to divorce, they explain the importance of getting legal advice early, the divorce process (step-by-step), the pitfalls of kitchen table settlements, how finances are usually divided, and arrangements for children made. They also look at how to deal with the emotional challenges divorce brings, and dispel some of the most common divorce myths. If you ne...
2023-02-2032 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 13 Representing yourself in the family courtIn the second part of our series on the family court, hosts Matt & Liza offer their advice for anyone facing the family court without legal representation (litigant in person). They explain how family court processes work, tips on how to prepare, the names of each judge and protocols for each stage, what to expect from each hearing, and the expected outcomes from each stage. They also look at the importance of dealing with proceedings factually, not emotionally; top tips on how to deal with the court process and useful resources for further support. Ple...
2022-12-2125 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 12: The role of the family court with Matt & LizaIn the first of a two part series, Matt and Liza share their experiences of the family court system and how it can be a useful process for people in certain circumstances who cannot reach an agreement otherwise. They also discuss the limitations of the system, funding issues, court delays, top tips for dealing with court, when it does, and when it doesn’t work, and what needs to be changed. They also talk about the value of divorce coaches, the importance of a holistic approach, and how the court system still fails survivors of dome...
2022-12-2025 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 11 Dealing with post-separation abuse with Caron KippingIn this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Caron Kipping, an independent domestic abuse advocate and divorce coach specialising in domestic abuse recovery, to look at how to deal with post-separation abuse. Caron explains what post-separation abuse is, the impact it has on people, building the right support team, the power of reframing, and how to focus on what you can control and let go of what you can’t. Caron also talks about financial abuse, how you cannot co-parent with an abusive ex-partner, the use of parallel parenting, and how you can move forw...
2022-12-0737 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 10 Handling fear and uncertainty with Claire MacklinIn this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by divorce coach, NLP Master Practitioner and author of Break up: from Crisis to Confidence, Claire Macklin (nee Black) as they look at how to handle fear and uncertainty through your relationship breakdown and beyond. Claire shares her experience of divorce, and tips and tools to help you cope with the overwhelming emotions separation can bring, including healthy coping strategies, breathing exercises, discrepancy engagement, focusing on what you can control, and small ways to create more certainty. They also talk about helping children deal with fear and un...
2022-12-0140 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 9 Dealing with conflict about ChristmasIn this festive themed episode, Matt and Liza look at the options available for separated couples struggling to sort out arrangements for Christmas. In what can be a tricky time of year for separated couples, they share their advice on the importance of communication and the use of tools such as child-focused mediation, arbitration, and in some cases the family court for those couples who cannot decide between them. They also talk about the wider use of a Specific Issue Order to help couples resolve issues including school and holidays, and how the family court is...
2022-11-2420 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 8 Overcoming loneliness after separation with Tosh BrittanIn this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Divorce Coach and Founder of Divorce Goddess Coaching, Tosh Brittan, as they talk about loneliness and how to overcome it following a relationship breakdown.Tosh explains how loneliness can easily sneak up on people, the difference between married lonely and divorce lonely, how embracing loneliness can help remove the fear and uncomfortableness of it, and practical advice on dealing with it, especially when you have time away from your children.Tosh also shares her ethos of showing kindness in divorce to each other and yourself, and...
2022-11-1634 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 7 Understanding pensions in divorce with Ceri GriffithsIn this episode of Stowe talks, Matt and Liza are joined by specialist divorce financial planner Ceri Griffiths of Willowbrook Lifestyle Planning, as they look at the importance of pensions and how to deal with them in a divorce settlement. Ceri shares her knowledge of the different types of pensions, how to value a pension, the role of an actuary report, issues around offsetting a pension against the family home, and the options available for pension sharing.She also shares the importance of getting financial advice as early as possible, and taking a long-term view o...
2022-11-0737 min
Life, love and the lawEpisode 6: Surviving economic abuse with Rosie LyonIn this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Rosie Lyon, an Executive Assistant and divorce coach, public speaker and campaigner for survivors of economic and domestic abuse.Rosie shares her personal story of being in an abusive relationship that led to the repossession of her home through no-fault of her own, and how this has impacted her life and financial position. Rosie explains what economic abuse is, how to spot the red flags, how family and friends can help, the support available, particularly in the banking system, and how people can safeguard themselves in t...
2022-11-0334 min
Life, love and the lawHow to spot a toxic relationship and leave one with Sara DavisonIn this episode of Stowe talks, Matt and Liza are joined by Sara Davison, one of the UK’s leading divorce coaches and NLP Master Practitioner, as she talks through her advice on how to spot a toxic relationship and leave oneSara shares her deep knowledge of what a toxic relationship is, how to recognise the red flags of abusive behaviour, including love-bombing and gaslighting, the cycle of abuse, how to approach the divorce, and the power of her gameplay checklist.She also discusses the use of parallel parenting and practical tips on how to...
2022-05-1739 min
Life, love and the lawDealing with a relationship breakdown during menopause with Dr Sue Palmer-Conn In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Dr Sue Palmer-Conn, a leading UK Certified Divorce Specialist and Chartered Psychologist, as they explore the challenges faced by women if their relationship breaks down during the menopausal years.Sue shares her own personal experience, having divorced at 50, and her expertise in supporting women through the menopause deal with a relationship breakdown on how to rebuild confidence, take back control and gain strength and independence. Through Sue’s emotional advice and practical tips, you can learn how to practice self-care, build a new life for yourself, and...
2022-05-1739 min
Life, love and the lawTaking control of your finances on separation and beyond with Lottie Kent In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Lottie Kent, founder and owner of True Financial Design, as they look at the importance of understanding your financial situation and making plans that meet your immediate and long-term needs following a divorce or separation.Lottie explains the importance of financial knowledge, managing expectations, understanding the value of the family home, how to map out your finances for your immediate needs and plan for the future, and how to deal with and understand pensions. Through Lottie’s advice, you can learn how to measure the impact of t...
2022-05-1747 min
Life, love and the lawDivorcing or separating from a narcissist with Dr Supriya McKenna In this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Dr Supriya McKenna, a highly experienced Specialist Narcissism expert, as she shares her deep understanding of narcissism, along with tools and techniques for people undergoing a divorce or separation from narcissistic individuals. Supriya discusses the traits of a narcissist, how to identify them, how to best manage your response to their behaviours, and why divorcing from them requires a very different approach. Her advice will help you take back control of the separation process, helping prevent costs spiralling out of control, and protect your mental health and...
2022-05-1754 min
Life, love and the lawHow to co-parent calmly and navigate the challenges of blended families with Tom NashIn this episode, Matt and Liza are joined by Tom Nash, an internationally certified Life, Divorce & Business Coach, as he shares his advice on how to become a successful co-parent after separation and navigate the challenges of a blended family.Following his own marital breakdown, Tom shares his personal journey from going through the family courts to building a respectful and mutually beneficial partnership with his ex-wife and a happy, successfully blended family.Sharing the techniques he has learned along the way, and the practical advice he frequently gives his clients, you will learn how...
2022-05-1748 min
The Crout & Stowe ShowAre You There Jeff Bezos? It's Us, Crout & StoweJeffrey, if you're there, please show us a sign? Preferably a monetary sign. Stowe has gets hustled by his local gym. Egregious animals, like burrowing rhinos. We crack the code of how 5G towers work.
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2021-07-201h 03
Gestern Heute Übermorgen - Star TrekBotschafty auf die Brücke 02: Benjamin Stöwe - 1701Live im Keller
Manchmal führen Zufälle zu besonderen Zusammenkünften. Diesmal hat Arne uns mit Benjamin Stöwe, dem Captain des Raumschiff Eberswalde, bekannt gemacht und uns verbindet natürlich eine große Liebe: Star Trek. Benjamin ist nicht nur ein Fan, der seine Liebe zum Beruf gemacht hat, denn er synchronisiert Dr. Hugh Culber aus „Star Trek: Discovery“, sondern er ist auch Kurator des kleinsten Star-Trek-Museums des Universums auf 17,01 m². Und er ist Initiator der großartigen Idee „1701Live“, die auf den 55jährigen Geburtstag von Star Trek zustrebt. Was das bedeutet? Das soll er gerne selbst erzählen: Botschafter Benjam...
2021-04-1755 min