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The Austin Young Show
Sunny Marcell (Sunny Disposition)
The Austin Young Show dives deep into the world of Sunny Disposition with their frontwoman, Sunny Marcell. The band's latest self-titled EP is a fresh, energetic blast of indie rock, and it's available for a cool $5 on Bandcamp.Marcell opens up about the band's dynamic, sharing her unfiltered thoughts on her bandmates and the creative process.Freshly married, she also drops a track from her husband's band, The Five Hands, giving us a glimpse into her musical world outside of Sunny Disposition.But it's not all sunshine and rainbows. Marcell offers some real talk on...
2024-09-19
56 min
How I Got Greenlit
Always Be Willing To Learn with John & Dave Chernin (It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Incoming)
Egos abound in the business of show. But if you aim to be like writer/directors John and Dave Chernin, then you'll have to accept that there are always new ways of doing things and different approaches to storytelling that you are totally unaware of and should probably embrace.Brothers John and Dave Chernin started their television careers as writers for the hit comedy IT’S ALWAYS SUNNY IN PHILADELPHIA (FXX). The duo co-wrote 10 episodes while on the ALWAYS SUNNY writing staff, and departed after six seasons with the show in order to spearhead thei...
2024-08-13
1h 21
American Sex
Fluid Relationships vs. Polyamory with Kate Loree - 212
Ever felt confined by the choice of monogamy or polyamory? What options lie between those two ends of the spectrum? And what happens if what’s right for you changes over time? Sex- positive psychotherapist Kate Loree joins Sunny to talk about navigating and customizing fluid relationship dynamics. Some of what’s covered: The significance of intention in customizable relationships Anxiety & Jealousy in non-monogamy Parenthood & fluid relationships Honesty in relationship dynamics Mindfulness & communication Couple’s privilege Fluid relationships vs relationship anarchy & more...
2023-10-29
1h 21
American Sex
Kink Education Freestyle Reddit Edition - Sunny Megatron 211
Host, Clinical Sexologist & Kink Educator Sunny Megatron Is back for a third installment of free-style BDSM education. This time she weighs in on BDSM reddit. Topics discussed: Am I a bad sub for not liking pain or degradation? What’s a praise kink? When Is humiliation play healthy and when is it detrimental? Where & how to find 1-on-1 BDSM instruction and “exploratory sessions” for kink newbies? How can I safely do breath play to the point of passing out? New partner advice: Is this how TPE and CNC works...
2023-10-13
1h 15
American Sex
Body Fluid Fetish & Fantasy with Luna Matatas - 209
Have you ever wondered why we eroticize certain bodily fluids but consider others disgusting? Luna Matatas dives into the why and how behind body fluid fetish & fantasy Find out if squirt is really pee plus learn creative ideas for squirt play. Discover why people are into golden showers– is it humiliation? Dominance? Something else? Learn how to explore piss play safely and some surprising things about diaper play (nope, they aren’t only for adult babies). We also talk spit, tears, sweat, lactation, snot jobs, tips for negotiating fluid play with a partner, and more. Guest Bio – Luna Matata...
2023-07-07
1h 17
American Sex
Mental Health & Polyamory with Kate Loree - 208
Sex-positive psychotherapist, Kate Loree joins us to talk about managing mental health within polyamory and consensual non-monogamy -- specifically how mood and personality disorders like anxiety, depression, BPD, NPD, etc., can impact these relationships. According to NAMI one in five American adults experienced mental illness in 2020. When we combine this with consensual non-monogamy (CNM), things can become even more complex. As Kate points out, CNM tends to poke at unresolved attachment injuries more than is typical in monogamous relationships plus polyamory involves more people which means there’s more to navigate. While this conversation is geared toward non-monogamous relationships, the...
2023-06-23
1h 24
three siblings: surviving loss and finding hope
Sunny's Interview on Causepods - with Host, Mathew Passy
Thank you Causepods and Mathew Passy for hosting Sunny on their show! "As Sunny Chang and his siblings navigated the complexities of grief and healing, they realized that their experiences were not unique and that there were many people out there who had similar stories to share. They decided to use their platform to amplify these voices and create a safe space for listeners to explore their own traumas and healing journeys. One of the things that set the Three Siblings Podcast apart is its approach to storytelling. Rather than focusing solely on the events...
2023-04-25
33 min
American Sex
Grooming in BDSM Relationships with Sunny Megatron - Ep 199
Adult grooming is often misunderstood -- from what it looks like, to who is most vulnerable, what types of people groom, and why -- most assume it can’t happen to them. The fact is, grooming comes in many forms and can happen in any type of relationship - including BDSM dynamics. And because kink often involves power imbalances, it can be especially difficult to recognize in this context. Whether you're new to kink or a seasoned veteran, episode 199 of American Sex will give you the tools to spot unhealthy power dynamics in BDSM and deco...
2023-02-17
1h 26
American Sex
Communication & Jealousy in Polyamory with Kate Loree - Ep 196
Having difficult conversations with one partner is hard enough. When consensual non-monogamy is part of the equation it can feel overwhelming. In this episode, therapist Kate Loree gives insight and actionable strategies for working through uncomfortable emotions in polyamory/CNM like jealousy, envy, insecurity, and feeling disempowered. She also provides valuable tips on identifying & managing triggers with our partners and metamours. Some of what we touch on: Attachment injury Triggers Grounding techniques Getting into your “resilient zone” The EPIC communication model Guest Bio – Kate Loree, LMFT Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family...
2022-10-28
1h 09
American Sex
Safewords & The Murky Messy Nuances of BDSM - Ep 194
In episode 194 of American Sex Podcast, Sunny Megatron continues her deep dive into the murky, messy, nuances of kink. She examines some of the most popular kink “rules” pertaining to consent & safewords and the grey areas that cause community friction: “Never renegotiate during a scene” “When there’s a problem someone will use their safeword” “Never do heavy impact without a warm-up” “Safewords can be abused” “Safewords are for sex and BDSM” This episode will help you diversify what’s in your consent toolbox, assess risks in intimate situations, evaluate exceptions to BDSM rules, differentiate personal preferences from useful & inclusive best...
2022-09-30
1h 15
American Sex
Safe Words, Consent & Customizing Your Kink - Ep 193
Safe words aren't as deep & complicated as we make them out to be. They aren’t necessarily as simple as we think either. In kink & sex, safe words are simple communication tools that stop the action & trigger a predetermined protocol. What they mean, how they're used & what you do after is up to you. How do you decide that? Episode 193 of American Sex Podcast will help you figure it out. This convo was inspired by a listener suggestion to unpack some of the fiercest kink community debates about consent, how BDSM *should* be done, and the customizability of...
2022-09-16
1h 27
The Filter Koffee Podcast
Sunny Singh on Being in the Moment
We all would agree that one this we thrive for and struggle with is being in the moment, grounded and in control. On this episode, Sunny Singh, founder of RoundGlass, discusses the importance of wholistic well-being and building a healthy, sustainable life. Sunny shares with Karthik, how he decided to follow his inner voice to becoming an entrepreneur starting his first healthcare business. This episode is about going within, seeking, and becoming a master of your own mind and life.—You can know more about RoundGlass on https://roundglass.com/in/...
2022-09-05
1h 00
Cyrus Says Clean
Ep. 1007 : An Actor's Journey ft. Sunny Kaushal
On Cyrus Says today, we're joined by actor Sunny Kaushal. Cyrus speaks to Sunny about his life as an actor and what that journey has been like till now. The show starts with Cyrus taking a mildly funny take on how Sunny got his name. From thereon, they start from the very beginning by talking about Sunny’s father, who has been working in the industry as an action director and has been the reason for him to take up acting as a career. They discuss those initial times of struggle, the days of theater that taught Sunny plenty ab...
2022-08-05
1h 00
Cyrus Says
An Actor's Journey ft. Sunny Kaushal
On Cyrus Says today, we're joined by actor Sunny Kaushal. Cyrus speaks to Sunny about his life as an actor and what that journey has been like till now. The show starts with Cyrus taking a mildly funny take on how Sunny got his name. From thereon, they start from the very beginning by talking about Sunny’s father, who has been working in the industry as an action director and has been the reason for him to take up acting as a career. They discuss those initial times of struggle, the days of theater that taught Sunny plenty ab...
2022-08-05
1h 00
American Sex
Kink & BDSM Myth Busting w/ Sunny Megatron - Ep 191
Kink & BDSM stigma is alive and well in the mainstream, in our own communities, and even in professional/academic spheres. In episode 191 of American Sex Podcast, Sunny Megatron busts some of the most common kink myths + provides clinical & academic resources for therapists, academics, and skeptical naysayers. She deconstructs the following kink & BDSM myths: Kink is always sexual and platonic kink does not exist Kink is considered abnormal by psychologists & the scientific community There's a dramatic difference between academic/clinical understanding of kink (that's always more accurate) and BDSM community education Dark age play aka sexual littles' play is abus...
2022-06-20
1h 34
American Sex
Therapeutic Kink with Andrea Glik - Ep 189
Kink isn’t a replacement for therapy, but it can be therapeutic. On Ep 189 Andrea Glik, LMSW explains the impact of trauma on our nervous system, depression as a survival response, the stress response cycle, the difference between glimmers and triggers, how BDSM can be used to heal trauma for both doms and subs, how she integrates clients BDSM experiences into therapy, plus how healing can manifest through CNC, little space, subspace, aftercare, and more. Even if you're not a kinkster, this episode will help you discover how trauma & shame affect your s3xual identity. Also a must-listen for me...
2022-05-23
1h 11
American Sex
BDSM Community Real Talk w/ Sunny Megatron & Kate Loree - Ep 188
Being a part of community isn't required to practice BDSM, although it may seem like it due to visibility. What is important is knowing the positive and negative ways community influences the kink subculture. Yes, mainstream myths and stereotypes contribute to BDSM stigma, however, misleading info from the community causes harm too. On ep 188 of American Sex, Sunny Megatron & Kate Loree discuss this plus give advice on verifying the validity of educational info, sniffing out gatekeeping and “one twue wayisms,” doing effective gut checks in consent situations, and more. Sunny also discusses the far-reaching implications of overturning Roe vs. Wade...
2022-05-09
1h 28
American Sex
Healthy Consensual Non-Monogamy with Kate Loree - Ep 187
All relationships are susceptible to hurdles & conflict--resentment, attachment injuries, navigating mental health, unhealthy coping strategies, overcoming societal conditioning, trauma, and more. It’s hard enough between 2 people; in polyamory, we have multiple partners to factor in plus unique issues like jealousy and couple’s privilege. On episode 187 of American Sex Podcast, Kate Loree draws from her years as a polyamorous relationship therapist to talk about strategies for compassionate communication, cultivating self-awareness, breaking unhealthy patterns, and reconciling conflict in consensually non-monogamous relationships. Guest Bio – Kate Loree Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapi...
2022-04-25
1h 22
American Sex
Race & Kink w/Luna Matatas - Ep 186
The kink community has a reputation for being accepting & inclusive. When it comes to race, however, we have some work to do. Recent research published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found at BDSM events people of color were 16x more likely to feel discriminated against & 17x more likely to feel fetishized than their white counterparts. On ep 186 of American Sex podcast, Luna Matatas discusses insight she's gleaned from the monthly Race & Kink discussion series she co-hosts with Marla Renee Stewart. What actionable steps can allies and accomplices take to tackle these issues head-on? How can we...
2022-04-11
1h 12
American Sex
Rethinking Kink with Kate Loree & Sunny Megatron - Ep 184
On episode 184 of American Sex Podcast, Sunny Megatron & sex-positive therapist, Kate Loree, look at BDSM through an atypical lens. We chat about the misconceptions we worked through as people who stumbled upon kink later in life and how that perspective is helpful now in our careers. We discuss the headspace & strategy needed to tap into the customizable nature of BDSM, plus dive into the science & psychology behind kinky play--why do masochists like suffering? What happens to the body & mind during the altered states of consciousness subspace & topspace? How do people use kink to be more grounded, regulate the nervous...
2022-03-14
1h 16
American Sex
Spotify, Rogan & Sexual Freedom w/ Sunny Megatron - Ep 182
What does the Joe Rogan/Spotify controversy have to do with the freaky things you do in the bedroom? Surprisingly, A LOT! This situation uncovered bigger issues regarding corporate control of information & influence over censorship. In 2022 posting about sexual health, LGBTQIA+ activism, or thirst traps online is risky due to SESTA FOSTA, bank restrictions, and impending legislation like Earn It. Discussions about structural inequity and/or content made by marginalized creators is suppressed by biased algorithms. Indie podcasts & audio apps are among the last least censored mediums and a central hub for these...
2022-02-14
1h 30
American Sex
Ep 181 - Sex Tips from a Urologist w/Dr. Ashley Winter
On episode 181 American Sex Podcast we have the convo you WISH you could have with your doctor . . . if they were sex & kink-positive, didn’t shame or judge, told jokes that made you snort-laugh, and had all the time in the world to answer every one of your questions about sex & genitals. Urologist Dr. Ashley Winter joins us for a fascinating chat about the medical side of the freaky things we do. Some highlights: Myth-busting & pleasure biology of g-spots, squirting, clit sensation, prostate play, pre-cum, erections & more How patients & doctors can better talk to each other about sexual health Wh...
2022-01-31
1h 32
大學史密斯
EP74 Sunny 大學史密斯-練習說再見
#年前最終回大學史密斯Podcast節目自2020年9月開播以來到本集己經推出了74集,每集節目主要訪談大學生分享他們自己多采多姿的大學四年生活,但有時也會穿插訪談校長、教務長、老師對於學校課程的安排及如何來教授現在的大學生等等,sunny之所以想做這類型的節目是因為發現有很多大學生認為學歷沒有用,有心想學習的人並不多,所以上課都離不開手機,好不容易唸到畢業也不知道想走哪一條路,因為他們不會在意自己未來想做什麼?這是高等教育非常嚴重的議題,所以想藉由大學史密斯節目來訪問在學校用心學習的大學生努力學習的過程以及生活體驗,來做為同學及學弟妹們的榜樣,讓他們對未來不再感到迷茫,同時也為日後銜接社會職場預做準備。再者,接受訪談的大學生可透過Podcast節目隨選隨點的播出形態來分享給自己的親朋好友及有興趣的朋友們方便收聽節目,學生也可以自行下載節目來保存自己難忘的校園生活回憶。另外一點,就是希望能藉由節目的製播來圓Sunny以前未完成的夢,這又是怎麼說呢?還記得Sunny曾在第一集節目中說過自己唸大學時,應該唸書的時間都沒能好好唸書,把重心都放在工作上,未能把握學習的機會,所以希望現在的大學生該唸書就好好把握,善加利用時間來充實自己的大學生活。而上面所言皆是Sunny製播大學史密斯節目的初心。自節目開播以來,定期於每週四下午6點推出最新一集節目,一路走來,在製作每集節目過程中,從一開始的搜集資料,尋找故事主角大學生,條列訪綱,進而邀約學生至電台受訪,然後到後製剪輯都必須花心思及時間來完成,在約訪的過程中接觸許多年輕的大學生,他們訴說著自己的故事,閒聊思想、觀點,年輕人的說話方式有時還蠻逗趣的,在這樣的言談互動間也讓Sunny愈發覺得自己像個大學生一樣可以快樂地、毫無顧忌的暢所欲言。為能更貼近聽眾粉絲做更多的連結互動,在節目的行銷宣傳上,成立了節目專屬粉絲專頁,粉絲可以透過粉專連結收聽節目,每周二下午6點也PO出節目預告,節目上線的同時也撰寫主角故事於Podcast各播客平台露出,平日也會po出重要時事,如:疫情、天氣、民生等實用資訊,逢節慶也PO貼文誠心地來祝福大家佳節愉快。上述的林林總總無非希望能讓大家知曉大學史密斯進而點閱收聽,儘管這些全都是Sunny一人獨自完成,但Sunny並不覺得辛苦,反而愈做愈有興趣,且樂在其中。但話又說回來,在一個公司體制下要經營Podcast節目,就必須接受市場的考驗以及思索著如何帶進商業利益替公司賺錢,所以Sunny也嘗試著開始找尋節目商業合作的機會,很幸運地找到了第一家合作的學校中信金融管理學院,節目除了宣傳學校的致學理念,也提供學校新鮮人及高三學生一個新的選擇機會,雙方合作相當愉快,但之後的第二家、第三家又在哪裡呢?Sunny深深感受到現在的Podcast節目很多,門檻很低,大家想做都可以做,但要做好節目進而帶進商業合作的機會卻是一門相當高深的學問,尤其是要怎麼樣來跟聽眾做更多的連結互動,及提供更有創新的節目內容是很重要一點,Sunny也意識到這點,所以在節目的策略上也邊做邊修正,並且也努力提合作案給南台灣多所大學,但承諾公司的期限已到,學校方面也未接獲好消息,在經過深思熟慮後覺得大學史密斯需要再調整作法,必須要再重新思考聽眾真正需要的是什麼?因此決定在過年前的最後一集第74集大學史密斯節目中,不得不暫時先跟聽眾朋友們說聲再見~儘管有千百個不願意,捨不得,也必須學會放下。說再見也需要練習,不是嗎?節目最後,Sunny要衷心感謝大家:感謝 節目中的靈魂人物所有受訪的大學生、校長、教務長、老師;感謝 所有支持收聽大學史密斯的聽眾粉絲;感謝 曾經商業合作的中信金融管理學院的老師及同學;感謝 2021年在YouTube趣!你的Live頻道總曝光次數21,849次/觀看過3,361次(截至12/31統計)的朋友們;感謝 在Sound On各播客平台下載1,087次(截至1/24統計)的朋友們;感謝 在大學史密斯粉專按讚的216位(截至1/24統計)粉絲們;Sunny除了感謝還是感謝~希望大學史密斯在不久的將來還有機會再次和所有聽眾粉絲在Podcast播客平台上見面,大家也不要忘記Sunny!!Sunny的本名叫蘇旭秋哦~最後,祝福大家 虎年好運連連 快樂年年,希望 後會有期 再會囉!!▲大學史密斯Podcast節目各頻道收聽如下:v Apple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/……/%E5%A4……/id1604279046v Google Podcasthttps://podcasts.google.com/……/%E5%A4%A7%E5%AD%B8……v KKBOX Podcasthttps://podcast.kkbox.com/tw/channel/OoX99DxuZRSyOUVeACv SoundOn聲浪https://player.soundon.fm/p/alineradio-TpKv Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2nu8O1es0IG8HPP0c9nCqR……v firstoryhttps://open.firstory.me/user/cklc2867t07tz0892iohe0j6tv趣!你的Live Youtube頻道https://www.youtube.com/playlist……
2022-01-27
07 min
大學史密斯
EP73 Sunny 大學史密斯-「斷。捨。離」
#年前大掃除#印度佛陀開悟#環境及內心斷捨離#外界不可控變數學習運用智慧應對#虎年福氣到好運到轉眼間又過了一年,過年是國人非常重視的一個闔家團圓的節日,也是很多人在這個時候進行環境及內心的「大掃除」,學習如何來「斷。捨。離」~將過去一年家裡囤積的雜物丟棄及內心所遇到的「坑」吸取經驗教訓全都記錄下來,作為新一年改進的參考!!本集節目Sunny以一個印度佛陀開悟的故事做為開場,接續來自中金院 金融管理研究所 張宸銚同學分享自己實踐斷捨離的做法及新年新計劃。此外,您知道婆婆媽媽們每年大掃除的「大魔王」有哪些??又要如何來打掃??還有,在一般家庭成員裡誰最會囤積東西??Sunny將在節目中一一分享!!在居家環境整理乾淨後,也不要忘記整理自己的內心,將過去一年不愉快的、內心糾結的,全都用筆記錄下來,重新審視一遍,作為來年再出發的勇氣與決心。對於外界不可控的變數,都要學會如何運用智慧去應對,將損失傷害降到最低。新的一年Sunny希望大家都能平平安安、順順利利,在這裡先預祝大家~虎年福氣到,人人都能「轉運」讓自己「好運」、「賺大錢」優~喜歡大學史密斯Podcast節目的朋友們~別忘了按讚+訂閱+分享+開啟小鈴噹對節目有任何意見歡迎留言給Sunny唷!!▲大學史密斯Podcast節目各頻道收聽如下:Apple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/……/%E5%A4……/id1604279046Google Podcasthttps://podcasts.google.com/……/%E5%A4%A7%E5%AD%B8……KKBOX Podcasthttps://podcast.kkbox.com/tw/channel/OoX99DxuZRSyOUVeACSoundOn聲浪https://player.soundon.fm/p/alineradio-TpKSpotify https://open.spotify.com/show/2nu8O1es0IG8HPP0c9nCqR……firstoryhttps://open.firstory.me/user/cklc2867t07tz0892iohe0j6t趣!你的Live Youtube頻道https://www.youtube.com/playlist……
2022-01-20
11 min
大學史密斯
EP72 Sunny 大學史密斯-過年偽出國度假去
EP72大學史密斯Podcast節目跟著Sunny一起來偽出國度假去!!#傾聽自己內心的聲音#過年偽出國度假去#賞櫻泡湯享受人生今年過年放9天,你想去哪兒HAPPY?辛苦了一整年,趁著今年農曆春節9天假期,好好地來犒賞自己一下,享受偽出國度假的Feel~但請注意一定要打過疫苗,帶好口罩,做好個人衛生防護,才能外出旅行享受人生呦!!剛自台灣首府大學烘焙系畢業的社會新鮮人劉宇芸,去年曾經在第32集大學史密斯節目中分享自己的校園生活,宇芸的大學四年都在台南求學,家住屏東的她過年回到自己家鄉,都有不一樣的深刻感受,今年過年9天假期又將如何計劃呢??本集節目帶大家一起來聆聽宇芸內心最真實的聲音。而Sunny本身過年想走「賞櫻泡湯」行程,每逢春節前後是櫻花盛開的季節,花期約在1月至3月間,全台各地皆可觀賞到不同品種的櫻花綻放美景,白色、粉紅色、桃紅色櫻花,你最喜歡哪種顏色呢??但要注意的是有些賞櫻地點有管制人數須事先預約,出發前請先搜尋相關網站,以免撲空。另外,泡湯也是大家非常喜愛的休閒,從台灣頭到台灣尾都有非常棒的泡湯地點,像是台灣四大溫泉從北至南有:陽明山、北投的硫磺泉,中部谷關的碳酸泉,台南關子嶺的泥漿溫泉至屏東四重溪的碳酸氫鈉泉,Sunny通通都有泡過的經驗,若你問哪種溫泉泡起來比較舒服暢快,純屬個人感受度問題,Sunny是比較偏愛無色無味的碳酸氫鈉泉!!在這兒溫馨提醒大家,泡湯也有相關注意事項一定要留意,不然像Sunny曾有泡到昏倒的經驗,這可不是享受人生阿!!想知道是怎麼回事嗎??別忘了收聽1/13週四下午6點最新上線Podcast節目EP72大學史密斯-偽出國度假去!!!喜歡大學史密斯Podcast節目的朋友們~別忘了按讚+訂閱+分享+開啟小鈴噹對節目有任何意見歡迎留言給Sunny唷!!▲大學史密斯Podcast節目各頻道收聽如下:v Apple Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/……/%E5%A4……/id1604279046v Google Podcasthttps://podcasts.google.com/……/%E5%A4%A7%E5%AD%B8……v KKBOX Podcasthttps://podcast.kkbox.com/tw/channel/OoX99DxuZRSyOUVeACv SoundOn聲浪https://player.soundon.fm/p/alineradio-TpKv Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/2nu8O1es0IG8HPP0c9nCqR……v firstoryhttps://open.firstory.me/user/cklc2867t07tz0892iohe0j6tv趣!你的Live Youtube頻道https://www.youtube.com/playlist……
2022-01-13
10 min
American Sex
Kink Education Freestyle Part 2 w/Sunny Megatron - Ep 180
On episode 180 of American Sex Podcast, Host & Kink Educator Sunny Megatron Is back for a second installment of free-style BDSM education. She gives helpful tips and busts myths that are commonly spread within the kink community. Topics discussed: Important similarities & differences between the terms BDSM, kink, D/s, fetish, SM Is kink a sexual orientation? The problem with online BDSM tests Clit myth-busting How age play terminology means very different things in various communities Is “Sane, Sane & Consensual” harmful? Edging vs. edge play The secret behind Farty Parties ___________________________________ --Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by emai...
2021-12-13
1h 26
American Sex
Sex Toys & Pleasure Zones with Sunny Megatron - Ep 178
It’s sex toy season! Between all the holiday discounts hitting our inbox and impending supply shortages, many of us are making snap decisions to buy new gear. With more sex toys available than ever before and new technology available, wading through this sea of options can be overwhelming. This week Sunny spills all her tips for selecting toys suited to your body and specific needs so you can get the most bang (pun intended) for your buck. Some of what’s covered: Tips for sex toy gift-giving etiquette Sex toy myth-busting Rumbly vs. buzzy vibrations & why it matt...
2021-11-29
1h 32
American Sex
Humiliation & Psychological Edge Play w/Amp Somers - Ep 174
On episode 174 of American Sex Podcast Sunny has a conversation with Amp Somers from the Watts Your Safeword Podcast about erotic humiliation and psychological edge play. Some of what we cover: Neurodivergence & psychological kink The trauma love languages can be used for aftercare & trigger plans Negotiation considerations for humiliation play Using kink therapeutically-- what’s helpful & what’s dangerous Shame & BDSM Balancing real-world power dynamics with kink D/s Cultivating emotional intelligence through erotic play & more ___________________________________ --Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com --To support American Sex podcast, please...
2021-11-01
1h 08
American Sex
BDSM Education Freestyle with Sunny Megatron - Ep 172
On episode 172 of American Sex Podcast, Host & Kink Educator Sunny Megatron free-styles BDSM education, gives helpful tips, and busts myths that are commonly spread within the kink community. Topics discussed: Benign masochism & the neuroscience of BDSM Myths about sadomasochism and the notion that pain = pleasure Examining the WHY behind our attraction to certain kinks The surprising relationship between BDSM & sex Kinksters on the neurodivergent and asexual spectrums The differences between subspace & domspace How community affects kinksters that aren’t involved in community Platonic kink & the “dynamic escalator” The many types of kinksters How dangerous BDSM misinformation spreads on the int...
2021-10-18
1h 32
American Sex
Femme Dominance with Jaki Griot - Ep 169
Jaki Griot gives us the real talk on femme dominants on ep 169 of American Sex Podcast. In the kink world, they’re often disrespected, devalued, and held to higher standards than their masculine counterparts. Femme doms of color, even more so. This undercurrent is present in lifestyle play, sex work, and community leadership. Jaki talks about their experiences both in the lifestyle and in sex work, how default world misogyny skews these D/s dynamics, and the benefits and drawbacks of entitlement on both sides of the slash. Jaki also offers tips for femmes eager to explore their dominance—how...
2021-09-27
1h 15
American Sex
More Than a Sex Party w/ Polly Superstar - Ep 168
Polly Superstar is a sex culture revolutionary and she’s also our guest on episode 168 of American Sex Podcast. Over the last 14 years her legendary event, Kinky Salon, has spread to 16 cities around the world. Some describe it as a sex party but it’s actually so much more—theatrics, erotic exploration, an opportunity to embrace ridiculousness in the safe container of creativity and community, to name a few. Each event is thoughtfully crafted with intention, accountability, inclusivity at the center. Polly tells us how it all started—from the underground fetish clubs of London to San Francisco and beyond...
2021-09-20
1h 17
American Sex
Electric Play w/ Cass Anderson & Emma Norman - Ep 164
Ep 164 of American Sex Podcast is SHOCKING! Sunny talks electric play with Emma & Cass from the Honeydew Me Podcast. If you think e-stim is all about pain, think again! Electrosex devices are incredibly versatile. With just a simple setting adjustment you can go from a hardcore BDSM scene to gentle, sensual, hands-free orgasms! In this conversation, we start with the basics of TENS units and violet wands and pace up the action step-by-step so you can zero in on what suits you. You’ll learn safety information, about body piercings & electric play, how-tos, accessories you can find ar...
2021-06-21
1h 12
癡呆小酒館 Silly Bistro
癡呆小酒館 EP.18 壞旅伴就是這樣!之SUNNY惹的禍
我們是在澳洲的背包客,這個podcast主要是介紹我們在澳洲的故事及有生活趣的事。 癡呆小酒館 EP.18 壞旅伴就是這樣!之SUNNY惹的禍 本集重點整理: • Airbnb的奇葩房東 • 組團遇到奇怪的朋友 • SUNNY惹的禍 喜歡我們可以追蹤我們的Instagram http://Instagram.com/sillybistro30 意見回饋 聯絡我們 sillybistro30@gmail.com 癡呆小酒館已經上架到各大平台囉 Sound on https://sndn.link/Silly-Bistro https://player.soundon.fm/p/b36d025e-96ac-4c59-9c04-738f70ffcb18 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1As2Y6JX9Z6tO1l4enNOla Listen Notes https://www.listennotes.com/c/d455baba2bac415289e210d19eaa67df KKBOX Podcast https://podcast.kkbox.com/channel/CpDbd3owPT9Vkto3ST Google Podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hcGkuc291bmRvbi5mbS92Mi9wb2RjYXN0cy9iMzZkMDI1ZS05NmFjLTRjNTktOWMwNC03MzhmNzBmZmNiMTgvZmVlZC54bWw?ep=14 Apple podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/1545090788
2021-05-18
32 min
American Sex
Sex-Positive Community Post-COVID w/Justine Cross - Ep 161
On Ep 161 of American Sex Podcast, Justine Cross helps us navigate our emotions around getting back to dating, traveling, and attending sex parties in a post(ish)-COVID world. Although many of us are vaccinated and the CDC has relaxed social distancing guidelines, we’re having unexpected mixed feelings about integrating back into our real-life sex-positive communities. Introverts that thrived online are anxious about their newfound virtual communities disappearing. Visually stunning live online performance has become its own art form that we just can’t duplicate in a real-life setting. Which in-person events do we go to? When? How do w...
2021-05-17
1h 12
American Sex
Puppy Play with Amp Somers - Ep 160
You’re invited to our puppy pile! On ep 160 of American Sex Podcast, Amp Somers from Watts the Safeword joins us to talk puppy play. This episode is your ultimate pup resource! Find out exactly why so many people enjoy this role-play plus learn what kind of gear you need, how to join community & who’s welcome, how consent works when your words are barks, dynamics between pup and handler, switching as a puppy, similarities in role-playing other animals and primal kink, public play and when it crosses the line, various pup roles, how solo & non-community puppy play works, and...
2021-05-10
1h 19
American Sex
Leveling Up The Strap with Glenise Kinard-Moore - Ep 159
Have an idea for a new sex toy design but no clue how to actually produce it? Let this conversation with Glenise Kinard-Moore be your inspiration! A couple of years ago Glenise was an average person with an off-the-cuff idea and today she’s the founder of the lifestyle tech startup, SkiiMoo. Her flagship product, VDOM, isn’t only a pleasure tool, it's also a groundbreaking gender-affirming prosthetic made for the LGBTQ+ community. Glenise walks us through the process of starting with zero background in the pleasure business and what she did every step of the way. She also talks...
2021-04-26
1h 06
American Sex
Manipulation with Kitty Stryker - Ep 158
The word “manipulation” has a very negative connotation. But is all manipulation abusive? Does it always have the potential to undermine consent? On ep 158 of American Sex Podcast Kitty Stryker joins us to analyze how manipulation shows up in sex, relationships, and kink. It turns out we manipulate a lot more than we realize and sometimes it can be for noble intentions. But what differentiates positive manipulation from abuse? We discuss what manipulation red flags to look for when vetting potential partners, how to manipulate ethically in BDSM scenes, how to negotiate manipulation in play, how to recognize when it’s...
2021-04-19
1h 18
American Sex
The History of Syphilis with Danarama - Ep 157
Syphilis is making a comeback. In the last 4 years cases have increased by 81%. On Ep 157 of American Sex Podcast Danarama joins us to talk about syphilis past and present. Learn about the stages of this disease, how it’s treated, and how to protect yourself. Plus its long and tragic history, from its start coinciding with the genocide against the Indigenous Peoples in the Americas right up through today. Dan tells us about notable figures throughout history stricken with the disease and how it affected their decision-making and legacy, the beauty and fashion trends that spawned from treatments (some we s...
2021-04-12
1h 22
American Sex
Keeping Secrets with Kate Loree - Ep 156
Did you know the average person has 13 secrets? On episode 156 of American Sex Podcast, Therapist Kate Loree joins us to examine the role secrets play in our lives. Find out: When are secrets good? When are they bad? How can we tell the difference? What does keeping secrets do to our relationships? Our friendships? Our physical and emotional selves? When should we reveal our secrets? And is telling others always a positive thing? What about people that just can’t stop keeping secrets even when they don’t have to -- like polyamorous folks that go out of their way...
2021-03-29
1h 15
Open Deeply Podcast
Sunny’s Story: Burning Cross to Sunshine Rising - Ep 3
Internationally known, sex educator, Sunny Megatron’s life story is simply jaw-dropping. Even before her birth, an intergenerational, rapid-fire chain of traumas had already unfolded starting with a cross burning in her grandfather’s lawn. Born into chaos and with few anchors, Sunny made her way despite it all. Her biracial identity was hidden from her. Her neurological disability was undiagnosed and protection from her abuser came way overdue, but regardless, Sunny’s resilience won out. She found her purpose and became the bright shining light of sexual authenticity and knowledge that she is today. Don’t miss this epic story. ...
2021-03-08
57 min
American Sex
Fighting Intolerance Online Rosalynne Montoya - Ep 154
On Ep 154 of American Sex Podcast, trans activist & content creator Rosalynne Montoya tells us about her journey of self-discovery. Seeing real LGBTQ+ people sharing their lives on YouTube was a lifeline for Rose coming of age as the child of a pastor in a conservative town. When she started sharing her own transition journey online, she became a role model for so many people with no transgender and queer representation in their lives. When her social media popularity skyrocketed in so did transphobic hate. Targeted by a small group of bigots, Rose was harassed and attacked relentlessly on TikTok...
2021-03-01
1h 17
American Sex
BJ Tips & Tricks with Carly S - Ep 152
Episode 152 of American Sex Podcast is jampacked with tips for fantastic fellatio! In our conversation with Carly S we start with the psychology of BJs-- does viewing it as a dominant or submissive act affect our enjoyment and technique? Also learn important penis anatomy, which lube is best, what to do with the balls, gagging, how to handle foreskin, deep throating tricks, how to combat sore jaw or a small mouth, maneuvering around sharp teeth, spitting vs. swallowing, blowing using barriers, how to determine what rhythm & technique your partner enjoys most, how to negotiate oral sex, and more.
2021-02-01
1h 20
Sunny and Romeo
The Sunny and Romeo Show Se. 2 Ep.3
We interview the one and only G_Gucci Gigi tells us their Top 3's! If you have any ideas for up coming podcasts put them in the comments below!!!! Follow, like, subscribe, and share Instagram: @sunnyandromeo Spotify: Sunny and Romeo Show Apple Podcasts: Sunny and Romeo Show
2021-01-21
29 min
癡呆小酒館 Silly Bistro
癡呆小酒館 EP.6 奇葩怪事都遇上 澳洲奇葩工作 Sunny爆淚離開工廠
我們是在澳洲的背包客,這個podcast主要是介紹我們在澳洲的故事及有生活趣的事。 癡呆小酒館 EP.6 奇葩怪事都遇上 澳洲奇葩工作 Sunny爆淚離開工廠 這集來聊聊在澳洲遇上的各種慣老闆,比在國內遇到還可怕,除了老闆天生難伺候外,一大半原因是平時隱忍、吞聲與不敢說「慣」出來的! 自己的權力自己捍衛,別寵了老闆後苦了自己。 本集重點整理: • 老闆習性 國內國外大不同? • Bona的棒棒老闆跟慣老闆 • Sunny的培根廠 • Bona的可怕主管 喜歡我們可以追蹤我們的Instagram http://Instagram.com/sillybistro30 意見回饋 聯絡我們 sillybistro30@gmail.com 癡呆小酒館已經上架到各大平台囉 Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/1As2Y6JX9Z6tO1l4enNOla Listen Notes https://www.listennotes.com/c/d455baba2bac415289e210d19eaa67df KKBOX Podcast https://podcast.kkbox.com/channel/CpDbd3owPT9Vkto3ST Google Podcast https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hcGkuc291bmRvbi5mbS92Mi9wb2RjYXN0cy9iMzZkMDI1ZS05NmFjLTRjNTktOWMwNC03MzhmNzBmZmNiMTgvZmVlZC54bWw?ep=14 Apple podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/1545090788
2020-12-19
45 min
American Sex
What is Kink? - Ep 140
When we talk about “the kink community” or BDSM as a general practice, it’s assumed these things have the same meaning for everyone. But do they? This conversation explores sex-positive philosophy & BDSM theory as we deconstruct the question, “What is Kink?” It sounds pretty simple but as we peel back the onion layers we find infinite answers. It turns out each of our subjective meanings of “kink” and “the kink community” dictate how we relate to others and our overall sexual experience. Is kink a set of actions? A philosophy? A generic catch-all word? Do we all practice it to some degree...
2020-09-14
1h 07
American Sex
Sex in 2020 w/ Cam & KarenLee Poter - Ep 137
On ep 137 of American Sex Podcast, we talk with mother-son duo, Cam & KarenLee Poter of the Sex Talk With My Mom podcast, about what’s happening with our sex lives in 2020. Some of us have lost our libido and others are hypersexual wanting to use every moment to explore new things. KarenLee & Cam tell us how isolation has affected their sex lives plus give tips for relaxing under pressure, opening yourself up to feeling worthy of receiving pleasure, combating the challenges of looking for partners during quarantine, finding new types of porn to explore, using quarantine for an opportunity fo...
2020-08-10
1h 05
American Sex
Race & BDSM w/ Luna Matatas & Marla Renee Stewart - Ep 136
On episode 136 of American Sex Podcast, we talk about the intersection of race and kink with Luna Matatas and Marla Renee Stewart. Learn how casual and not so casual racism shows up in structural, cultural, and interpersonal contexts in the BDSM scene; if and when the labels Master/slave are appropriate; and if race play is taboo in all contexts. We discuss the hypocrisy of claiming kink spaces are no place for political or racial discussions while appropriating oppressive power dynamics for personal enjoyment, things allies can do to make these communities more welcome to all, and more....
2020-08-03
1h 08
American Sex
Porn Reviews w/ Yvette d'Entremont & Alice Vaughn - Ep 135
What’s it like being the Siskel & Ebert of porn? Find out on ep 135 of American Sex Podcast! Yvette d'Entremont and Alice Vaughn from the Two Girls One Mic podcast tell us how they stumbled into porn reviewing and where it’s taken them. We talk about the plots and details of classic adult films like Behind the Green Door, Deep Throat, and Debbie Does Dallas, plus analyze how well they’ve aged. We dive into porn parodies too like Fap to the future, ET The Extra Testicle, and more. If you’re looking for solid recommendations for your next adu...
2020-07-27
1h 04
American Sex
Sexual Revolutionary Madison Young - Ep 133
On ep 133 of American Sex Podcast, we talk with Madison Young about her transformation in the Anthony Bourdain of kink. Madison wrote, directed, produced, and hosted a new kinky travel TV show called Submission Possible. She tells us about the difficulties of filming during a pandemic and delves into the sexual subculture of her first stop on her televised traveling kink journey, New Orleans. We discuss how NOLA’s flavor of sex-positivity differs from other regions; the city has a soulful witchiness and a strangely high frequency of encounters with flirtatious ghosts. Have you ever wondered how consent negotiations wor...
2020-07-13
1h 04
American Sex
Attachment Styles with Aida Manduley- Ep 130
On episode 130 of American Sex Podcast, Aida Manduley introduces us to attachment theory and explains how it impacts our daily lives. It turns out the way we connect in adult relationships is influenced by how we related to our caregivers as kids. Find out which best describes you--secure, anxious, avoidant, fearful? Aida also adapts attachment theory to polyamorous relationships, tells us how attachment styles affect the way we express ourselves sexually, how they impact our relationships in quarantine, and how BDSM roleplay can be used to explore our styles. Aida also gives us specific exercises we can do to...
2020-05-25
1h 12
American Sex
alt.sex.bondage & Sci-Fi Erotica w/ Cecilia Tan - Ep 129
On episode 129 of American Sex Podcast, Cecilia Tan tells us about an infamous post-geek-convention play party organized through the first online BDSM community, alt.sex.bondage in 1991. We explore how this budding virtual leather community went on to shape sex & kink positive culture and how other contributions of Gen X set the tone for the world we live in now. Cecilia also spills the tea on the history of tea and its curious relationship with gender plus she tells us how she single-handedly created the now popular Sci-Fi Erotica genre. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email...
2020-05-18
1h 10
American Sex
Life After a Sex Scandal w/ Sydney Leathers - Ep 121
On episode 121 of American Sex Podcast, Sydney Leathers talks about her fallout from the Anthony Weiner sexting scandal. In what was one of the biggest political sex scandals of the last decade Sydney was cyberbullied, hounded by the media, isolated from family and friends, shunned by members of the adult industry, and slut-shamed by her own therapist. She tells us how she eventually came out on the other side and how this incident unexpectedly improved, and perhaps even saved, her life. We examine why we repeatedly fail to consider how power dynamics, age, and the men themselves in sex...
2020-03-02
1h 15
American Sex
BDSM as a Healing Tool with Andrea Glik - Ep 119
On episode 119 of American Sex Podcast, we learn about using BDSM as a healing tool with Andrea Glik, LMSW. She explains the impact trauma has on our nervous system, how depression can be a survival response, the stress response cycle, and the difference between glimmers and triggers. We dive into how BDSM can be used to heal trauma and how she integrates BDSM into her therapy sessions. Discover how BDSM can be therapeutic for both submissives and dominants plus how healing can manifest through consensual nonconsent, little space, subspace, aftercare, and more. Even if you don’t consider yourself a...
2020-02-17
1h 00
American Sex
Fisting & Fingering with Allison Moon - Ep 118
On ep 118 of American Sex Podcast, Allison Moon lends us a hand with fisting. She’s a true afistingonado! Our fister from another mister! Whether you’re interested in vaginal or anal fisting, or simply want to up your handsex/fingering game, this episode has fistfuls of valuable info (and puns. LOTS of puns!). We start out busting fisting myths, conquering shame many people have about this act, plus address hangups that straight cis men have about fisting. We also cover footjobs (footing?), prepping the vagina and anus for a hand, technique tips, anatomy, considerations for trans bodies, safer sex...
2020-02-10
1h 09
American Sex
Indian Porn Star Sahara Knite - Ep 117
On episode 117 of American Sex Podcast, we talk religion, sex, and politics with “the UK’s first Muslim porn star,” Sahara Knite. We learn how her strict Muslim family reacted when they found out she was working in porn and how it’s changed the trajectory of her life. Sahara is often compared to Mia Khalifa and we discuss why that isn’t necessarily accurate. She tells us how handles the vitriol & threats she receives from those claiming she brings shame upon the Muslim religion, plus we discuss her role on Game of Thrones, her new role as chairperson of the UKA...
2020-02-03
1h 08
American Sex
QTPOC Superheroes & Inclusive Fiction w/ Kevin Patterson &Alana Phelan - Ep 116
On Episode 116 of American Sex Podcast, Kevin Patterson & Alana Phelan, authors of the For Hire series, talk about the queer superhero universe they created. We also discuss why centering marginalized voices is important in fiction, how Harry Potter fans are handling the JK Rowling TERF situation, why books like Fifty Shades of Grey and Anne Rice’s Beauty Series positively changed our culture while still perpetuating harmful stereotypes, and how positive representation in media can change the world. The pair also tell us about being awarded and Effing Foundation Grant and their upcoming non-fiction book about cautionary polyamory. S...
2020-01-27
1h 15
American Sex
ABDL Fetish (Adult Baby Diaper Lover) - Ep 115
Have you ever heard of ABDL fetish? That stands for Adult Baby Diaper Lover. On episode 115 of American Sex Podcast, we talk to an anonymous diaper fetishist known as Diaper Boy. Diaper boy is a handsome, fit, African American man who enjoys opening minds by breaking the stereotypes of ABDL players and black submissive men. He teaches us how masculinity and tenderness can coexist and inspires others to take comfort in pursuing fantasies that seem “weird.” Diaper boy answers your burning ABDL questions too-- how did his diaper fetish start? Is it hard to find partners to play with? Does...
2020-01-20
1h 04
American Sex
Erotic Hypnosis with Miss Mackenzee - Ep 114
Have you ever wished you could put a lover under your spell? Miss Mackenzee, Erotic Hypnotist, joins us on episode 114 of American Sex Podcast. She tells us how a brain surgeon not only convinced her hypnotism was real but inspired her to become a Certified Erotic Hypnotist. Find out what types of people can and can’t be put under plus the things you can do with erotic hypnosis like swapping pain for pleasure, giving instant orgasms, exploring gender, or helping couples who aren’t into the same kinks play together. Miss Mackenzee discusses how consent works with hypnosis and...
2020-01-13
1h 01
American Sex
Las Vegas Escort Kate Layne - Ep 113
If you’re a client unsure about how to approach providers or are a companion yourself, Ep 113 of American Sex Podcast will answer a lot of your questions. Kate Layne tells us about how she broke into the business and why she found it so empowering. Balancing escorting with her high profile white-collar career is tricky and she discusses how advertising without showing her face has affected her business. Kate also gives helpful insight for first time clients-- what acronyms like GFE really mean, why most providers don’t want to negotiate services like they are menu items, how to a...
2019-12-02
1h 09
American Sex
The Best Sex Toys of 2019 - Ep 112
Episode 112 contains everything you need to know about buying and gifting sex toys this holiday season. Sunny & Ken walk you through the sexytime gift-giving process from start to finish-- the do’s and don’ts of gifting vibrators, how to solicit toy feedback from your partner without ruining the surprise, the things you need to know about preferences before selecting the right pleasure device, and how to make sure you’re giving a ‘we’ gift instead of just a ‘me’ gift. Find out which are the best sex toys of 2019--the top Bluetooth app toys, the best penis toys, budget picks...
2019-11-25
56 min
American Sex
Age Play with Paul Rulof - Ep 111
On Ep 111 we speak with ageplay expert, Paul Ruloff. Paul breaks down the different types of ageplay and the misconceptions about them. We explore the psychological motivation behind being a little-- which is surprisingly less about emulating a juvenile and more about creating a reality free from adult pressures and responsibilities. He highlights the differences between non-sexual and sexual ageplayers plus addresses the judgment they face in the BDSM community. Learn about the phenomenon of the 'shrinking childhood' and how it contributes to the surging popularity of age roleplay, why the role of a ‘big’ (like a Mommy Domme or D...
2019-11-18
1h 02
American Sex
BDSM Myths & Realities w/ Mistress Justine Cross - Ep 110
On ep 110 Mistress Justine Cross sorts out BDSM myths and facts. We begin by dissecting negative stereotypes the media feeds us about kink and sex work plus learn the reasons why we’ll likely never see accurate representations in pop culture. Justine tells us about her clients, not only the ones that seek typical BDSM fare, but also those that desire self-improvement, home organization, and other seemingly not-having-to-do-with-sex things. Learn important tips for seeking community and attending your first dungeon party--from proper etiquette to what to wear. She also addresses recent legislation & online censorship making sex work dangerous and re...
2019-11-11
59 min
American Sex
The Kink & Gaming Crossover with Shanna Germain - Ep 109
On ep 109 we explore the parallels between the kink and gaming cultures with Shanna Germain. It turns out these groups can learn a lot from each other-- especially along the lines of negotiation, consent, and aftercare. Shanna is doing her part to facilitate consent in RPGs (role-playing games) and offers a free resource for gamers. On the same token, those in the BDSM world can expand their horizons by embracing the spirit of play and roleplay gaming principles. We talk about misogyny in the gaming world and what’s being done to create room for diversity plus Shanna gives ti...
2019-11-04
1h 03
American Sex
Sex Ed & Social Justice in the South w/ @SexologyBae - Ep 107
On episode 107 sex blogger Lizet (aka @SexologyBae) tells us about how she unlearned the sexual shame instilled in her from her Southern Christian upbringing. She describes teenage purity ceremonies she attended, how being taught to value virginity above all else negatively impacted her developing sexuality, and the consequences of religious oppression not only on her own life but on society as a whole. We also get into political and cultural stereotypes about the south, how people with marginalized identities can unknowingly replicate and reinforce oppression, unpacking privilege, and what all of those things have to do with sex and s...
2019-10-21
1h 15
American Sex
Life After Bottom Surgery with Callie Wright - Ep 106
On episode 106 Callie Wright of the Queersplaining Podcast has a candid conversation with us about her experience with bottom surgery. She shares a snapshot at life leading up to surgery including establishing her trans identity. Then Callie takes us step-by-step through the physical & mental prep, recovery, and the procedure itself. During the two years that followed, Callie learned that reclaiming her sexuality with her new vagina was multi-layered--it affected her marriage, her relationship with her body, and sex from a psychological perspective. Although it isn’t typical (or expected) for trans folks to openly talk about their genitals, having the...
2019-10-14
1h 10
American Sex
Sex Research with Nicole Prause - Ep 99
Nicole Prause, Ph.D. gives us an eye-opening view into the world of a sex researcher. We learn about the latest sexuality research like brain hacking to normalize sexual desire, scientific sex product research, and the very specific laboratory definition of an orgasm that surprisingly fails to line up with what many of us experience in the bedroom. We get into the internal clitoris, vasocongestion, skene's glands, the mystery of sexual vaginal lubrication, and the most sensitive areas of the clitoral glans. Have you heard that men are more sexually visual, orgasms are different based on gender, or the...
2019-08-19
47 min
American Sex
Non-consensual Pelvic Exams: Amy Jo Goddard - Ep 98
It’s legal in the majority of the US for medical students to perform educational pelvic exams on anesthetized patients without their knowledge. Amy Jo Goddard has been working for years to put a stop to this practice and is producing a documentary on the issue called At Your Cervix. In this conversation, she tells us how unbelievably prevalent this practice is. She also gives accounts from women this has happened to and from medical students uncomfortable with this requirement but afraid to jeopardize their grades by refusing. We also learn about the dark history of gynecology, the work Am...
2019-08-12
1h 00
American Sex
Leveling Up Your Dating Game with Shannon Boodram - Ep 97
Level up your dating game with Shannon Boodram! Screw those dating books filled with pick up artist techniques to trick potential mates. Shan’s dating advice is more like “dating therapy”… and you need it! We talk about the importance of addressing emotional intelligence before you start swiping on Tinder. Shan tells us why knowing you and your partner’s attachment style and apology style is so important. We also learn why risky behavior is integral to your brain’s development and bonding with a partner, how to handle things if your partner isn’t as committed to doing self-work as y...
2019-08-05
1h 04
American Sex
BDSM After 40 with Casey Carter - Ep 95
BDSM educator, Casey Carter, welcomes us back from our summer hiatus on episode 95 of American Sex podcast. Casey tells us about diving into the kink & leather world after the age of 40 when an unexpected divorce forced her to reexamine a sexual part of herself he had abandoned years before. She gives us important tips about exploring kink and tells us why understanding what’s behind our reluctance to talk to partners about fantasies is crucial for a satisfying sex life. We discuss the upsides and downsides of being one of the few black, dominant, female BDSM educators in our fie...
2019-07-22
1h 05
American Sex
Urethral Sounding & Using Silicone Lube with Condoms - Ep 94
This week we revisit an enlightening conversation with John C. Luna about urethral sounding. Get ready to have all your questions answered-- What exactly is urethral sounding? Why do people do it? How do people do it? Is it safe? Does it hurt? Why does it scare the bejeezus out of me? Why does it also sound hot AF? And what exactly do urethras even sound like anyway? We also discuss advanced play with tuning forks and electricity, what to do if you're scarred from kidney stones, plus John shares a few cringey urethral sounding mishap stories and tells...
2019-06-17
56 min
American Sex
Building Open Relationships with Dr. Liz Powell - Ep 93
Dr. Liz Powell is an open relationship expert. Find out when you should and shouldn’t open your relationship, how partnerships change after they become non-monogamous, how to emotionally prepare for opening up, the pitfalls of unicorn hunting, the different types of non-monogamous relationship styles and how to figure out what’s best for you, and how to manage jealousy. Surprisingly, much of Dr. Liz’s advice applies to any type of relationship--from monogamous romantic ones to relationships with friends, family, or co-workers. She tells us how avoidance reinforces negative emotions, techniques for establishing healthy boundaries, the challenges of wantin...
2019-06-10
1h 07
American Sex
Findom Secrets with Amberly Rothfield - Ep 92
Amberly Rothfield, the go-to resource on the business of phone sex, is back! She gives us the do's and don'ts of online domination-- what to do when fantasy meshes with reality, when to walk away from a client, how to assert your boundaries as a provider, talking dirty & mastering sexual improv, what mistakes she’s made in her 13 years as a PSO & how to avoid them, plus more goodies from her new book “Financial Domination: Tales from an Online Mistress”. We talk about the increasing demand of erotic audio, where to sell it, and how to market it. Amberly covers...
2019-06-03
1h 14
American Sex
Legal Abortion & Reproductive Justice with Bianca Laureano - Ep 90
Our access to safe and legal abortion is being threatened with the recent anti-choice bills passed in a number of states. Reproductive justice expert, Bianca Laureano, gives us a deeper look at abortion policy & procedure in the US. In this conversation, she helps us understand harmful ways lawmakers have chipped away access to abortion and quality reproductive care with things like parental consent, approval waiting period, and the myth of the partial-birth abortion. We learn what goes into an abortion procedure and how to provide care for those going through it. Bianca breaks down the differences between the reproductive...
2019-05-20
1h 18
American Sex
Disabled People Are Hot with Andrew Gurza - Ep 88
Andrew Gurza is back and it’s his birthday (happy birthday, Andrew!). He talks with us about his viral hashtag, #DiablesPeopleAreHot, and how it became a worldwide movement. Andrew also tells us how his relationship with his mother changed when he told her that he hires sex workers regularly. We discuss why the concept of enthusiastic consent is ableist, how we can all better combat our personal “isms” and learn to be better allies, plus the harsh realities of dating when you’re disabled. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American...
2019-05-06
1h 04
American Sex
Screwnicorn Lance Hart - Ep 83
Adult Star Lance Hart is our guest on episode 83 of American Sex Podcast. If you’re a straight-identified guy that’s been curious about dipping your toes into the bi pool, you’re going to enjoy Lance’s account of the first time he bonded sexually with another man. If you’re in the adult industry and geek out about the business side of things, you’re going to get a ton of practical information out of this episode. If you’re interested in what’s behind the porn you see-- how people get into it, how performers stay hard for 8 hour...
2019-04-01
1h 10
American Sex
Exploring BDSM w/Sunny Megatron & Lexi Sylver - Ep 80
This BDSM episode is a perfect primer for those dipping their toes into the kinky pool for the first time or for experienced kinksters looking for a little renewed inspiration. Ken & Sunny’s approach to kink is quite different than what’s typically depicted. Nearly every stereotype, archetype, and “rule” you thought applied to BDSM is about to be broken. In this episode Sunny talks with Lexi Sylver of the Seek, Discover, Create podcast about all things BDSM. They cover: the roles of a dominant and submissive, how to start communicating and experimenting with your partner to discover what your kin...
2019-03-11
1h 01
American Sex
Sex + Kink Q&A with Sunny & Ken - Ep 79
Sunny & Ken dip into their virtual mailbag to answer listener sex questions on their second Q&A episode! They cover painful sex after menopause, exploring BDSM, being ghosted in non-monogamous relationships, erotic humiliation, tips for keeping lube from drying up and more. If you have a question you’d like answered anonymously in a future episode, send it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com. Sunny & Ken also dive into the hottest twitter thread this week-- Unpopular Opinion: Sex Edition. They even confess a few things they routinely do that contradict their own sex education advice! 😲😬 ___________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advi...
2019-03-04
1h 03
American Sex
Surviving R Kelly & Our History of Sexualizing Teens w/ Dirty Lola - Ep 75
On episode 75 Sunny & Lola’s reflection on the Surviving R. Kelly docuseries prompts an impromptu conversation about America's long history of sexualizing teens. We’re all shocked by the R. Kelly story but remember back in high school when it was “cool” to date a college-aged person? Remember when adults in your life didn’t bat an eye at you dating a legal adult when you were underage? We break this complicated situation down by reflecting on our own experiences. Some of what we touched on: hitting puberty early, the over-sexualization of girls of color, how being sexually objectified as a teen...
2019-02-04
1h 09
American Sex
The Science of Sexual Fantasy with Dr. Justin Lehmiller- Ep 74
This episode might just change your life-- especially if you've ever wondered if your sexual fantasies are too “weird.” Dr. Justin Lehmiller surveyed over 4,000 Americans about their fantasies and what he discovered is absolutely fascinating and reassuring. It turns out all of our sexual fantasies fall into seven major categories. Dr. Lehmiller tells us which are the most popular and why, if people of different genders fantasize differently, why suppressing our sexual fantasies can be damaging, why group sex is so appealing, why Republicans tend to have more taboo sexual fantasies, and how to use the information he uncovered to ma...
2019-01-28
58 min
Wrongful Conviction
#081 Jason Flom with Sunny Jacobs - RE-RELEASE
In 1976, Sonia “Sunny” Jacobs was sentenced to death for the murders of Florida Highway Patrol officer Phillip Black and Donald Irwin, a visiting Canadian constable. The officers were killed during a traffic stop where Sunny was traveling with her boyfriend, Jesse Tafero, and her two children, Eric, nine, and Christina, 10 months, in a car driven by Walter Rhodes. After officers approached the vehicle, Rhodes fired shots at them, a gun battle ensued, and chaos erupted. Sunny and Jesse were arrested, and both of their children were taken away by the state. Rhodes negotiated a plea bargain with the state, clai...
2019-01-08
1h 03
American Sex
Hotter Negotiation with Midori - Ep 72
Great sex and mind-blowing kink must include clear communication and thorough negotiation. Sometimes, however, the process can seem impersonal and not very sexy. In this episode, Midori teaches us surefire techniques for laying groundwork before a sexy scene that doesn’t feel like negotiation at all. She explains her signature engaged collaborative consent model, gives specific steps for flirtatious negotiation, and offers tips for cultivating “Queen of the Starfish” moments. She also busts myths about what aftercare should entail, explains the brain chemistry behind sub drop and top drop, introduces us to BYOA, and details how to get the afterc...
2018-12-17
1h 05
American Sex
The 69 Episode w/ Dirty Lola & Jim Marcus - Ep 69
For our 69th episode, we talk everything 69 with guests Dirty Lola and Jim Marcus. Whether you’re on #Team69 or not, you’re going to learn a lot from their unique and differing perspectives. We cover positions for comfort, overcoming size differences, combating the distractibility factor, 69ing being a secret tool of the patriarchy, period sex, face sitting, the dominant/submissive nature of the act, and much more. We also hear some listener perspectives and answer your questions about how to make your 69ing experiences more gratifying. Whether you find 69 overrated, the hottest thing ever, or something in between, you’...
2018-11-26
1h 05
American Sex
Tech Based Sex Coaching with Brianna Rader - Ep 67
Brianna Rader gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the sex tech startup world. It turns out it's not as easy as it seems. Facing restrictions at every turn and nonsensical business standards (i.e. promoting penile erectile solutions is allowed but discussion of vaginal sexual function is not), Brianna stopped at nothing to bring her revolutionary idea, Juicebox, to life. We talk about how she got started in sex ed--as a college student trying to bring sex week to her university who ended up in the middle of a media firestorm. Brianna also breaks down sex coaching for us...
2018-11-12
1h 04
American Sex
Catching Up With Sex Nerd Sandra - Ep 64
Statistically speaking you’re probably a Sex Nerd Sandra fan. Her wildly popular sex podcast has over 15 million downloads! You also may have noticed she vanished during the last couple of years. Ken & Sunny catch up with Sandra and get all the details about her upcoming Sex Nerd Sandra podcast reboot. Sandra also shares what prompted her hiatus and the important things she learned about herself while she was away. The trio also talk about healing hurt, the skills needed for healthy relationships, rebranding comprehensive sex ed as comprehensive emotional ed, and the real reason so many Americans refute sc...
2018-10-22
1h 15
American Sex
Hudsy Hawn: From Vanilla to Kink - Ep 62
Hudsy Hawn is not your typical dominatrix. She tells us how discovering BDSM in her 30s after tragedy and divorce changed her life. Careerwise kink took her literally from Disneyland to the Dungeon. It also healed personal wounds in unexpected ways. Hudsy shares how these experiences lead to her hit musical stage show geared toward vanilla audiences. We also get a peek into the pro-BDSM world and learn about the lives of professional submissives. She gives us tips for getting into kink with or without a partner and breaking into the business for those that want to go pro...
2018-10-08
1h 12
American Sex
Amy Jo Goddard: Empowerment & Healing in Trying Times - Ep 61
Amy Jo Goddard specializes in women’s healing & empowerment and after the week our country has had, this conversation is perfectly timed. Sunny & Amy Jo discuss the impact of age of #MeToo has had on various members of society--women, survivors, allies, non-binary folks, men, people of color, etc--and how our roles in it all intertwine. Their discussion zeros in on how these factors affect women’s sexuality: why so many have difficulty focusing on pleasure and embracing desire, the struggle of getting sexual and emotional needs met, healing from trauma, feeling sexually ‘broken’, learning to be fully present in your bod...
2018-10-01
1h 13
American Sex
Sex + Kink Q&A Episode - Ep 56
Ken and Sunny dive into their mailbag to answer listener sex questions this week for their first ever Q&A episode! They cover subjects from vanilla to extra kinky-- erotic asphyxiation, electric play, blow job tips, orgasm issues, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships, desensitization from vibrators, how to go on after a good dick down, intro to BDSM, compromise in the bedroom, what to do with the balls, and more. This episode is not to be missed! Do you have a question you’d like answered anonymously in a future episode? Send it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com. Also this we...
2018-08-27
1h 09
American Sex
Andrew Gurza: Sex & Disability - Ep 55
This conversation about sex and disability is essential listening for every human on the planet! Andrew Gurza helps us sit with and work through our discomforts around disability. We talk ableism, inspiration porn, and the reason he chooses to identify with words most people find uncomfortable. Andrew tells us about his own difficulties as someone with cerebral palsy navigating queer spaces and dealing with jerks in the dating pool. We also get down to the juicy stuff as Andrew shares details from his own sex life. Ken & Sunny theorize about Doja Cat’s new hit “Mooo!” and its relation to hucow...
2018-08-20
1h 14
American Sex
Amberly Rothfield: Tips From a Phone Sex Operator - Ep 54
This hour with Amberly Rothfield is essential listening for anyone who’s ever considered being a phone sex operator, telephone dominatrix, cam performer, or XXX content creator. Amberly gives us tips from her book “How I Made $10k a Month as a Phone Sex Operator” (the electronic version is free right now BTW, get it!). She covers: working for services vs. being independent, how to remain anonymous, considerations before breaking into the business, how to generate passive income, marketing yourself effectively, the different types of phone sex specialties, and more. We also talk about some of the unique calls and req...
2018-08-13
1h 11
American Sex
Paul Fishbein: AVN & Beyond - Ep 48
Looking at Paul Fishbein you’d never guess he’s “the porn guy.” Fresh out of college in the early 80s Paul was working at a video store when he spotted an unaddressed need in the adult movie industry. He went on to found AVN-- the magazine, organization, and awards show otherwise known as “The Oscars of Porn.” Paul shares stories from the heyday of x-rated moviemaking and the personal tragedy that prompted his exit from that world. He also gives us a peek into his new career producing mainstream TV and film-- what it was like to feature Whoopi Goldb...
2018-07-02
1h 16
American Sex
Our Open Marriage: Sunny, Ken, Lee Lee & Their Polyamory - Ep 46
How would you feel if your spouse dated other people? This week Ken & Sunny open up and talk about their open marriage and include Ken’s girlfriend, Lee Lee as their guest. They reveal how they manage jealousy, their time, and their emotions. Learn what rules are non-negotiable in their polyamory, what benefits and pitfalls come with maintaining multiple concurrent long-term relationships, and how their kids and extended family factor into the equation. They answer listener questions about polyamorous relationships and dole out advice to others experiencing difficulties opening up. Sunny and Lee Lee also clear the air and addr...
2018-06-18
1h 21
American Sex
Dr. Chris Donaghue: Masculine Sexuality - Ep 45
Dr. Chris Donaghue drops so much valuable knowledge in this episode! We get right to the heart of issues common in masculine sexuality-- low desire, masturbation habits, societal pressures to perform, the taboo of prostate play, the stigma of using sex toys, plus we examine what we can learn from other cultures that don’t view self-pleasure as shameful. Dr. Chris also gives us the definitive answer on how much self-love is too much (and what he says may surprise you!). Ken and Sunny answer a listener question about beginner prostate toys, Sunny has her first colonoscopy & they contemplate ho...
2018-06-11
1h 04
American Sex
STEM & Feminism with Erin Heaney & Greg Marks - Ep 043
This week Ken & Sunny interview a pair of high school teachers. Erin Heaney and Dr. Greg Marks are dedicated to making sure women and girls have equal access and representation in STEM (science, technology, engineering, and math). Why is this important and what does it have to do with sex and relationships? Surprisingly a lot. Learn how women not having an equitable seat at the table affects our dating, marriage, and sex lives and what you can do to change it. If you have women in your life, this is a must listen. Ken & Sunny experience more SESTA/FOSTA...
2018-05-28
57 min
American Sex
"I'm Kinky! Now What?" with The Black Pomegranate
“I think I’m kinky! Now what?” Ken & Sunny discuss 4 things you need to know before exploring the BDSM scene. They talk with Mr. BLK & Ms. Pomegranate of the award-winning BDSM blog theblackpomegranate.com. They tell us how they got started in kink & the Leather community, about the inner workings of the kink scene, including how to navigate it if you’re a person of color and how allies can be more welcoming and inclusive. Ken & Sunny also reminisce about their Mommie Dearest roleplay sexytimes. Guest Bio The Black Pomegranate are collectively Mr.BLK and Ms.Pomegranate (Foxxy), t...
2018-01-15
1h 02
American Sex
Ashley Manta, CannaSexual: Enhancing Your Sex Life with Cannabis
CannaSexual, Ashley Manta, tells us everything we need to know to enhance our sex lives with cannabis: the best strains & dosages for sex, topicals like Foria & other weed lubes, making DIY products at home, how weed affects sexual consent, combining BDSM & pot, the time Sunny ate too many edibles, & more. We also talk about living with herpes: myth vs. fact, how it’s transmitted, how to disclose to new partners, & why it’s not included in full panel STD/STI tests. More at sunnymegatron.com & americansexpodcast.com Guest Bio Ashley Manta has become a sought-after authorit...
2017-12-04
1h 07
American Sex
Princess Kali: From the Dungeon to the Boardroom
Princess Kali is a former Pro Domme & current headmistress of the online sex ed platform, Kink Academy. Recently she’s taken everything she’s learned from years of being a dominatrix out of the dungeon & into the boardroom. She now teaches women’s empowerment in the business/startup sector. Kali tells us how skills acquired roleplaying in the bedroom can help you get ahead in your career. Ken & Sunny also give their top 8 picks for starting your kinky bedroom kit & introduce their new submissive, Alexa. Guest Bio Princess Kali is a dynamic educator & entrepreneur that focuses on power...
2017-11-20
1h 04
American Sex
Dawn Serra: Getting Real About Sex, Bodies & More
Sex coach and host of the Sex Gets Real Podcast, Dawn Serra talks with Ken & Sunny about life as a sex coach -- What does a coach do? What are the challenges? What are the most outrageous things she's approached with? We touch on the ethics of unusual fetishes like breeding and splorching. We also dive into body politics, being sexy and fat, and her new free online summit, Explore More: Bodies Edition. Ken and Sunny give 8 Essential Tips on Penis Pleasure plus Sunny’s exciting announcement. Guest Bio Sex is a social skill. Dawn Serra speaks it...
2017-11-13
1h 06
American Sex
Samwell "What What in the Butt" + Anal Sex Tips with Sunny & Ken
Samwell of "What What in the Butt" fame talks about that time he helped Sunny & Ken get married, how his lighthearted song became a viral sensation, the seriousness & underlying message behind it, growing up black & gay in the south, reconciling his don’t-ask-don’t-tell family arrangement with being out in every other aspect of this life, his new projects including a song about hypocritical politicians, his cooking series, and more. Ken & Sunny give their top 8 must-know tips for amazing anal sex. Guest Bio Samwell was propelled into internet infamy in 2007 when his song and video, What What (In the...
2017-11-06
1h 01