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Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorcing Because Your Spouse is Gay | S4, Ep. 13It's one of those situations that sounds shocking and also probably happens more often that you think. How do you get through a situation like this? How do you work through the betrayal or feeling like you never even really knew your spouse - and most importantly, how can you move forward in a way that still allows for a productive relationship and co-parenting situation? We speak to Jessica Frew, who has been through this, and has some valuable tips and wisdom to help anyone else in this position. (Guest: Jessica Frew, Relationship Crisis Coach, The BOLD Logic) 2024-03-2533 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Harmonious Coparenting | S4, Ep. 6Have you ever heard of harmonious coparenting? Does the expression make you cringe or smile? If you want to know ways you can actually make peace and harmony with your coparent, then this is the episode for you. It is filled with such great, actionable tips and Jessica even used one with her own ex/coparent after we recorded it with great success! The advice here is priceless and could legit change the relationship you currently have with your ex! (Guest: Luke Entrup, Teacher and Coach) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' ⁠Divorce Rulebook⁠⁠! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok a...2024-02-0541 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Women for Women Today - NJ EVENTIf you love hearing from and being inspired by women rockstars, then this event is for you! There are different options for you to choose from, in order to customize the event for you. This in-person gathering will take place on Wednesday, January 24, 2024 from 5:30pm - 9pm at The Woman's Club of Ridgewood in New Jersey. There are AFTER PARTIES happening from 9 - 10pm with Jen Polt and "Jenny No Chung," so make a night of it! Women for Women Today is an event that promises to be a pivotal moment for those...2024-01-2102 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorced AF - Jess and Her Ex Tell All | S3, Ep. 52In this special episode, we invite Jessica's ex to come on and face the music...we mean share his feelings and opinions about their marriage and divorce. Hear from both of them on what worked, what didn't, and what they think of each other as exes today. (Guest: Daren Herzberg, Jessica's ex husband) Sign up for exEXPERTS in your inbox for weekly updates, events and tips you can't afford to miss! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.exEXPERTS.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram. SPONSORED BY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠SOBERLINK⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠: If you're co-parenting with an ex-partner who abuses alcohol, Soberlink's alcohol monitoring system can provide evid...2023-12-2538 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Are You Coparenting with An Asshole? | S3, Ep. 34One of the hard truths about divorce is that if you have kids, you're not done with your ex once the divorce is final. You now have to transition into the next phase, which is coparenting together. For many couples, finding common ground and being able to coparent peacefully is as hard as getting through the divorce negotiations - and for some couples, coparenting ends up being years of additional arguing and toxicity. We spoke to lawyer and divorce coach Sabrina Cronin about the secret to making it a little easier. (Guest: Sabrina Cronin, Family Law Attorney) ...2023-08-2134 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce Tips for Moms and Dads | S3, Ep. 33Talking to your kids about your divorce is one of the hardest parts for many parents. When do you tell them? What should you say? What shouldn't you say? What's the best way to handle their emotions - anger, sadness, fear? We talk to Grace Casper from Divorce Tips From Kids, who has suggested answers that are a great guide for any situation. Anyone who has kids should listen to this episode! (Guest: Grace Casper, Podcast Host and Author of Divorce Tips From Kids) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up...2023-08-1430 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How Do You Deal with a Smear Campaign? | S3, Ep. 32Have you felt that your ex is trying to smear you during your divorce, whether it's to your kids, your friends or even to the lawyers and court? Dealing with a smear campaign is a highly emotional situation, but it happens far too often. In this episode, we speak to Matt Phifer all about this version of toxic abuse and how to handle it. This is a must-listen for anyone dealing with a high-conflict divorce. (Guest: Matt Phifer, Therapist, Trauma and Emotional Abuse Expert) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up...2023-08-0733 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)What Can You Say During Divorce (To Not Get in Trouble)? | S3, Ep. 31Once you know you're getting divorced, you need to start watching what you say. Nowadays, so many things can be used against you, that you really want to be careful about your communications with everyone in your life. Your texts, your emails, even your social media posts - these are all things that you have to be aware of. And it's not just your messages to your ex...even communications you have with friends and family may end up hurting you. This episode with divorce lawyer Seth Nelson goes through all of the ways to protect yourself, and what...2023-08-0141 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)What Can You Say During Divorce (To Not Get in Trouble)? | S3, Ep. 31Once you know you're getting divorced, you need to start watching what you say. Nowadays, so many things can be used against you, that you really want to be careful about your communications with everyone in your life. Your texts, your emails, even your social media posts - these are all things that you have to be aware of. And it's not just your messages to your ex...even communications you have with friends and family may end up hurting you. This episode with divorce lawyer Seth Nelson goes through all of the ways to protect yourself, and what...2023-07-3134 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Have You Lost Your Identity? | S3, Ep.30Feeling like you've lost your identity after getting divorced is so common because divorce often brings about feelings of "who am I?" now that you're no longer part of a married couple. From changing your name to going back into the corporate workforce, major changes are happening in many ways. Dr. Elizabeth Cohen - the Divorce Doctor - explains that there are ways to reset how you think so you can embrace the new you. This is must-listen for anyone going through divorce and everyone who has already gotten divorced! (Guest: Dr. Elizabeth Cohen, Ph.D., Author, aka The...2023-07-2436 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Common Financial Pitfalls in Divorce | S3, Ep. 29Money is a main concern in divorce, and there are many common pitfalls that occur that you can avoid if you know what they are. In this episode we speak to Sara Chevere, Financial Coach and Founder of Finance Babe, to learn what you need to know and how to prepare and protect yourself financially during your divorce. (Guest: Sara Chevere, Intuitive Financial Coach & Founder of Finance Babe) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process! Fo...2023-07-1726 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Advanced Adulting with Bradley Richardson | S3, Ep. 28Who doesn't want to become better at Advanced Adulting? In this episode, one of our signature male exEXPERTS, Bradley Richardson, gives us the lowdown on what exactly "Advanced Adulting" is and means, and why is essential for everyone - both men and women. The concept is based on life lessons and learning from mistakes we've made, and how to move forward productively and positively. As Bradley says, he's all about education and mentoring for grown-ass adults. This is a must listen! (Guest: Bradley Richardson, Author, Coach & Founder of Advanced Adulting) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if...2023-07-1038 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce Do's and Don'ts with Dennis Vetrano | S3, Ep. 27When getting divorced, most people just don't know what they don't know. They also don't know what they need to know. In this episode, we speak to Family Law attorney Dennis Vetrano, who deals with a lot of high-conflict cases and tells it like it is. From when is the right time to start meeting with lawyers, to understanding that every time you're in court you are "on stage", so how you act (and even dress!) matters. (Guest: Dennis Vetrano, Family Attorney) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a pr...2023-07-0331 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)A Personal Story of Divorcing a Narcissist | S3, Ep. 26Divorce from a narcissist is one of the most challenging types of divorces a person can go through, and we know it's not always easy to talk about. Getting out of a toxic relationship that includes trauma and emotional abuse is extremely difficult, but with the right support, you can move on and find joy - and love! - again. In this episode we hear a first-hand account of divorcing and moving on from a narcissist, so if this is a situation you are or have faced, you are not alone! (Guest: Alyssa Dineen, Author & Dating Expert) ...2023-06-2630 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Parenting Apps for Divorced Parents | S3, Ep. 25What do parenting apps do and how can they help divorced parents? And are there certain features you should be looking for if you want to use one, like GPS locator or the ability to upload photos and documents? In this episode we speak to Michael Daniels, Founder of the co-parenting app FAYR. Hear about what makes Fayr different than other apps out there, and why this might be the right choice for you. (Guest: Michael Daniels, Founder FAYR) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Je...2023-06-1927 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorced Dads Father's Day | S3, Ep. 24Father's Day should be a happy day for dads, but when you're divorced, there are a lot of emotions that may come along with it. Plus, wrangling the kids and trying to set up the day can sometimes end up leading to disappointment. We've all been there! But there are some ways you divorced dads can set yourself up for success, and we get some of the best ideas and tips from parenting coach Jay Skibbens. This episode can help make your day the way you want it! (Guest: Jay Skibbens, Parent Coach) Email hello@exexperts.com...2023-06-1128 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Out of Court Options for Divorce | S3, Ep. 23When you think of getting divorced, you may not actually realize how many options you have for the kind of divorce you might want. Back in the day, litigation was the norm, and sometimes mediation was an alternative. But today, due to the fact that so many couples - and most lawyers - want to avoid litigation, you have a lot of choices. And the great news is, there is an organization whose whole mission is to help divorcing couples find the best out of court option for them. In this episode we lay out each of those options...2023-06-0528 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)SPLIT UP - A Movie From Kids of Divorce | S3, Ep. 22For everyone divorced with kids, talking to your children and trying to figure out how to approach the tough conversations are some of the hardest parts of the whole process. How to bring it up, what are the "right" things to say and what are the kids even thinking? As parents, we want to help our kids process without doing further damage or causing additional emotional stress. This in an inside conversation between the filmmakers behind the powerful documentary SPLIT, who have now produced the sequel, Split UP: The TEEN Years. This new film follows kids ages 16-22 and...2023-05-2947 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Concerns About Money During Divorce | S3, Ep. 21Fears about money are one of the biggest concerns of divorce, and learning how to strategize for financial success can have an enormous impact on every part of your process. In this episode, we talk to a Certified Divorce Financial Advisor all about the best formula for successful negotiations and how to look at your own situation to determine whether or not you feel ok, and what changes you will want to make. (Guest: Rhonda Noordyk, CFDA and Founder, Women's Financial Wellness Center) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a...2023-05-2227 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Handling the Stress of Divorce | S3, Ep. 20The stress of divorce takes a toll not only on your mind, but on your body. That's why it is so important to prioritize your your own health and wellness and make sure that doesn't fall to the bottom of your to-do list. Easier said than done, we know, but this episode sheds light on 12 lifestyle factors and how these different pieces need to fit together to be balanced in order to move on past stress, trauma and divorce. (Guest: Suzy Wood, Integrative Nutrition Health Coach and Founder, True Wellness Within) Email hello@exexperts.com or click h...2023-05-1527 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Grow the F*ck Up with Sarah Knight | S3, Ep. 19Sometimes we have to just hear the straight truth, no matter how much it hurts. Why? Because being honest with ourselves, especially in a hard situation, is going to help us be prepared and get through it in the best way possible. But if you can get all of that with a few laughs along the way, even better. NY Times Bestselling Author Sarah Knight gives us an inside look at her newest book, how it relates to everything in life (including divorce!), and leaves us with some practical, non-nonsense and even funny tips for getting through whatever you're...2023-05-0826 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How to Recover From Divorce | S3, Ep. 18Recovering from divorce can be a painful process, but it's important to know where to start and what steps to take to work through it. This episode with Divorce Recovery Coach Leah Marie gives you all the information you need to start - and end - with success. Hear how your recovery can lead you into a new path of opportunity! (Guest: Leah Marie, Divorce Recovery Coach - www.mindfullyready.com) Email hello@exexperts.com or click here if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your...2023-05-0123 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Moving Forward Through the Divorce Process | S3, Ep. 17You can get stuck in any phase of the divorce process - even deciding "should you or shouldn't you" is a monumental decision. And once you do choose the divorce path, moving forward through the process can be very tricky in many ways. There are some things you can control while you're going through it, and that's what you'll learn in this episode. We talk about owning your outcome, being a creator versus a victim and the LEAN Framework, and how you can apply it to your situation. Everyone can learn something from this podcast! (Guest: Jennifer Warren Medwin...2023-04-2430 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Protecting Your Kids When Divorcing a Narcissist | S3, Ep. 16It's hard to see our kids be disappointed, especially when it stems from their other parent letting them down. It's instinct to want to protect them from that hurt, which often comes in the form of covering for that other parent. It could be as simple as getting the birthday gift for the party they're invited to on your ex's weekend, or as big as making excuses when your ex doesn't show up when they're supposed to. But shielding them from the inevitable disappointment from a difficult person isn't always the best thing for your kids. Parenting expert Christina...2023-04-1736 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)"What if They Don't" Clause in Divorce | S3, Ep. 15Have you thought about a "what if they don't" clause in your divorce agreement? Negotiating settlements are difficult by nature, and we're all concerned about making sure we get in all of the things the ex must do in order to abide by the terms. But one thing that can be extremely useful and important when divorcing a narcissist or difficult person is protecting yourself in any case where they do not follow the agreement. This episode goes through some great points on how to protect yourself in ways you may not have thought about otherwise. (Tracy Malone, Narcissist...2023-04-1030 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Will a Parent Coordinator Help or Hurt You? | S3, Ep. 14Hearing that you may need a parent coordinator can sound scary, but it can actually help you in your divorce process. The skills and benefits a parent coordinator can offer can help you navigate the co-parenting situation and set you up for a successful future. Lawyer and LCSW Linda Schofel talks us through all of the ways this type of expert can be an asset for you in your divorce. (Guest: Linda Schofel, Lawyer, LCSW and Parent Coordinator) Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica...2023-04-0335 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)The Million Dollar Year with Dow Janes | S3, Ep. 13Worries over money is often one of the biggest concerns in divorce - do I have enough, where will it comes from, can I afford my expenses and take care of my family? Very frequently, women aren't in the know about their financial situation and the thought of having to learn it all and take over your own finances is overwhelming. In this episode, Britt Baker - one of the co-founders of Dow Janes - explains how to get yourself started in a way that's simple and doable, and how you can even easily invest and grow your money...2023-03-2729 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Organizing Your Life for Divorce | S3, Ep. 12Trying to organize your life for divorce is hard. You're likely dealing with trying to declutter and streamline your "things" while also trying to figure out how to handle your new life and even your calendar...organizing logistics of getting the kids where they have to be can clutter up your brain. It's all a lot, and if you're wondering where to start and how to get it all done productively, this episode has all the tips and tricks for your physical, emotional and even calendar clutter! (Guest: Laurie Palau, Simply B Organized) Email hello@exexperts.com...2023-03-2043 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Signs of Parent Alienation | S3, Ep. 11If your ex-spouse is deliberately trying to damage your relationship with your children, you may be a victim of parent alienation. It's important to understand what the signs are and how you cam handle it, in order to determine your best options going forward. Former divorce lawyer and Dear Divorce Coach, Cherie Morris, digs deep to give you the tips and information you need in this matter. (Guest: Cherie Morris, Dear Divorce Coach) Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process!2023-03-1330 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Will I Be Able to Afford My House? | S3, Ep. 10If you think you can't afford your house, you might be wrong. There are Divorce Lending Professionals whose job is to show you alternative ways of financing and qualifying for a mortgage or loan, even if you're worried you can't qualify. In this episode, Emile Flowers explains when to speak to a CDLP (hint: immediately), exactly how the process works and why the service is absolutely free! If you are working through your options for housing and where you will live post-separation/divorce, you must listen to this episode. (Guest: Emile Flowers, Certified Divorce Lending Professional) Email...2023-03-0629 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)WTF Divorce - Busting Male Myths | S3, Ep. 9Turns out, one of the first questions men ask themselves when getting divorced is "WTF do I do now?" This episode helps answer that, along with busting many of the myths around men and divorce. It's different for men and women, but many assumptions are made about how easy it can be for guys because they seem to move on so quickly. It's not true! And in this episode, the founder of WTF Divorce breaks it all down. (Guest: Rob Roseman, Founder, WTF Divorce/www.wtfdivorce.com) Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to set...2023-02-2743 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce and Your Money Personality | S3, Ep. 8If you aren't sure what your money personality is, now is a good time to find out. Identifying your money personality will help you as you navigate your divorce budget and finances, which is imperative while you're going through the process and figuring out your next steps. Plus, knowing your money personality and spending traits will be helpful when you are looking for a new partner, because you will be able to understand red flags and potential problems before they arise. (Guest: Mikelann Valterra, Seattle Money Coach) Follow us on IG and TikTok @exexperts Email...2023-02-2033 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How Divorce Affects Kids - Are They Ok? | S3, Ep. 7Helping kids navigate divorce is one of the scariest parts of the process. As a parent, you wonder how your divorce will affect them, and there are plenty of people that will make you feel like you are doing the worst thing in the world by making them go through this. But we can tell you from experience this is not true! It's all about how you talk to them and how you manage the situation yourself. This episode will help guide you to ensure you're doing the right thing for your family.  (Guest: Amy Armstrong, LISW, Co-Founder and P...2023-02-1330 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Repurposing Your Engagement Ring After Divorce | S3, Ep. 6Finding a way to still wear and enjoy your engagement ring after divorce can be tricky, but nowadays there are so many ways to repurpose your stone that selling it is no longer your only option. If you've had an amicable divorce or the stone happens to be a family heirloom that you still love and plan to keep, we're bringing you some amazing ideas on how you can do exactly that. (Stephanie Gottlieb, Founder & CEO, Stephanie Gottlieb Fine Jewelry) Follow us on IG and TikTok @exexperts Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like...2023-02-0635 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorced and Ready to Date | S3, Ep. 5If you're divorced and ready to date, there is a better way to do it, according to Smart Dating Academy. From recognizing the difference between green and red flags (spoiler alert: butterflies are NOT always a good thing!) to knowing how to how the crucial conversations , we get down to the details in this episode in order to help you enjoy the dating process and find a new healthy relationship! (Guest: Bela Gandhi, Smart Dating Academy) Follow us on IG and TikTok @exexperts Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to set up a...2023-01-3027 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Best Tips for Divorce Settlement Negotiation | S3, Ep. 4Want the best tips for divorce settlement negotiation? It's a difficult and often emotionally painful process, but there are certain strategies that can help you streamline the process. In this episode, you'll get some of the best ideas on how to strategize, how to start the negotiation and why it's important for you to make the first move. (Guest: Joseph Willmore, Family Attorney) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts. Email hello@exexperts.com if you would like to set up a private session with Jessica and T.H. to help with your process!2023-01-2339 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce and Cancer - Rebuilding an Inspirational Life | S3, Ep. 3Can you imagine getting diagnosed with stage-three cancer right after finding out your spouse was having an affair and divorcing you? To be a single parent with three small kids and dealing with divorce, surgery, chemo and more might completely break many of us and our spirits. But TV personality Barbara Majeski rose to all the challenges and rebuilt her life bigger and better than before, and shares how she did it (you can, too!) and her life philosophy to help inspire us all. (Guest: Barbara Majeski, TV Personality and podcast host "Baring it All")  Follow us o...2023-01-1729 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How to Deal With Financial Fraud During Divorce | S3, Ep. 2Thinking about financial fraud in your marriage or divorce is a scary prospect, but unfortunately it happens quite often. As with most things when it comes to divorce, knowing what to look for and having the right information in order to protect yourself is crucial. In this episode a fraud coach and forensic accountant talk about what to look for and how to protect yourself if you are dealing with financial fraud or abuse. (Guest: Tracy Coenen, Divorce Money Guide, Forensic Accountant and Fraud Coach) Follow us on IG and TikTok @exexperts Email hello@exexperts...2023-01-1131 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Is Divorce the Right Answer? | S3, Ep. 1Making the decision to divorce can be extremely difficult, and often comes with thoughts around whether there is anything more you can do to make it work. The beginning of the year sees the most divorce filings, so we spoke to divorce coach Karen McMahon on how to know when to mend or to end - listen to her tips on how to know if your marriage can be saved or if getting divorced is the answer. (Guest: Karen McMahon, Divorce Coach & Founder of Journey Beyond Divorce) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exEXPERTS Email...2023-01-0329 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Don't Feel Rushed to Divorce - Take the Time You Need | S2, Ep. 75Even when the decision is made to divorce, it's important to take the time you need to prepare, find the right attorney and understand what you want your process to look like. Wendy Sloane, co-host of the "Divorce Doesn't Suck" podcast and host of "What's Up with Wendy" podcast, opens up about her process in an effort to help others not to find themselves in the same situation. Wendy offers up some great tips and insight that will be helpful for anyone dealing with the divorce process. (Guest: Wendy Sloane, co-host "Divorce Doesn't Suck" podcast) Follow us...2022-12-2335 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)The Top 5 Best Episodes of Divorce Etc... Season 2 and What You'll learn From Them | S2, Ep. 74In this episode, we briefly recap which are our top 5 highest-rated and most-listened to podcast episodes from this past season - the guests, the topic and some of the best, most useful pieces of information that you'll take away from each. These episodes were all about dealing with difficulties, whether it be divorcing a narcissist or moving on from a difficult relationship, trauma recovery, and focusing back on yourself. No. 1:  Melissa Gragg, “How to Find Hidden Money in Divorce” - Season 2, Ep. 60 No. 2 (and 2.5): Ina Hansen, “Narcissist v. Asshole –There is a Difference” - Season 2, Ep 57 & 582022-12-2138 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Best Episodes of Divorce etc...Season 1 and Why You Need to Hear Them | S2, Ep. 73As 2022 draws to a close, we have gone back to find out highest rated and most listened to episodes of Divorce etc... from Season 1, and in this episode we re-cap why you need to hear them and the amazing nuggets of information you will get from each one. Our list covers everything from self-care and empowerment to the male perspective to money to family – each aspect of what we focus on here at exEXPERTS. Here’s our countdown: No. 1 – Gabriella Formosa, “What Your Divorce Lawyer Doesn’t Want You to Know” | Season 1, Episode 4 No. 2 – Julie Wein, “Rebound...2022-12-1232 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Seasonal Setbacks and Resetting Your Life | S2, Ep. 72Moving forward in divorce isn't always a straight line of progress and momentum - we all have periods where we and moving with momentum and then times where it seems we're stuck moving backwards. This is all part of the process and it's important to understand that a series of steps forward and back is completely common. In this interview, we talk to Sadie Marie, host of the Divorced and Happy podcast all about seasonal setbacks (in her case it was a summer setbacks) and resetting your life. The joy and pain are relatable to all of us, and...2022-12-0724 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Covering Your Ass in Real Estate During Divorce | S2, Ep. 71If you are buying a new home while getting divorced or post-divorce, this is an episode you must hear. There are a lot of important things to know (and things you have to be sure your real estate agent and real estate attorney know!), and you'll find out exactly what they are. Whether it's choosing your agent or lawyer - and knowing whether or not you even need one or both - we give you the information you need and the questions to ask. (Guest: Jill Sodafsky, Real Estate Attorney) Follow us on TikTok and Instagram @exexperts.2022-11-2829 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)We All Need Community During Divorce - Divorced Over 40 | S2, Ep 70Is this you? Wouldn't you like to feel some community as we enter into the holiday season? While we pride ourselves on the engagement and community we're building through exEXPERTS, we love to give a shout-out to others that have a similar mission, and Divorced Over 40 definitely does. We know how lonely, isolating and sad getting divorced is, and this group has grown from just six people to hundreds across the country. Their in-person events and trips has attracted people from all over (including us!), and two of its core members, Amy and Travis, tell all about what they...2022-11-2128 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)What is a Post-Nuptial Agreement? (HINT: It's not a Divorce Tool) | S2, Ep. 69You've heard of a pre-nup, but a post-nup? This is a similar document detailing both people's assets and what will be divided in a divorce, however it is negotiated and agreed upon AFTER a marriage, versus before. The concept of having an agreement in place in case a couple divorces can make things much easier during the actual divorce process, so this is an option for anyone who got married without having a pre-nup in place beforehand. There are specific things to know about how to approach and work out a post-nuptual agreement, and this episode gives all the...2022-11-1424 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Dealing with a Sexless Marriage | S2, Ep. 68For many divorced couples, it seems there was a long period of time where they lived in sexless marriages. This can have a huge impact on a relationship, both mentally and emotionally, and it can be very hard to work through it to revive a healthy sex life together.  But being in a sexless marriage can also affect your sex life after a divorce, as it may cause a lot of triggers and feelings of low self-esteem and unworthiness. In this episode you'll learn how to cope after a sexless marriage and the things you can do moving forward i...2022-11-0718 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)What Does a Divorce Coach Do? | S2, Ep. 67Are you wondering what a Divorce Coach actually does and why you need one? The practice of divorce coaching has become more common and is often the best first step to take in your divorce process. They are different than your divorce lawyer (and less expensive) but can actually help guide you through many of the issues you face so that you only use your lawyer for the essentials - thereby saving you money. We brought in a top divorce coach who has also been through divorce, to help break down exactly what they do and how they can...2022-10-3122 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)What Is Divorce Mediation and Is It For You? | S2, Ep. 66Mediation is a method of negotiation used in almost every divorce, whether you go to court or not. It's important to understand that typical mediation involves both spouses and one mediator who is trying to help both sides come to a settlement. The mediator is not more inclined to one party over the other, and that can be difficult for some people in the process. You can have a lawyer to help you through the mediation process, and in some states you are required to have your own lawyer sign off on the final mediated terms. There is a...2022-10-2424 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Mindful Eating - Keep Your Eye On What You Eat | S2, Ep. 65It's challenging to go through divorce while also trying to manage "self care", including watching your eating habits. So many of us fall into unhealthy eating patterns - either stress eating too much or not eating at all due to the stress. There is a simple solution in "mindful eating", which can actually allow you to eat what you want and need, when you want and need it. It's really being aware of your choices, being aware of every bite you take and enjoying the food that you're eating. The choices we make impact our blood levels and stress...2022-10-1724 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)The D-Word: Can You Actually Love Divorce? | S2, Ep. 64In this episode, we talk to a parenting mediator/divorce coach/author whose personal experience through her own parents' divorce taught her that divorce is not a problem in our culture, but rather a potential solution to a problematic marriage. No one is advocating for divorce, but there is a way to have a mindset that allows you to embrace - and yes, even love - divorce...for what it is. It's a refreshing and uplifting perspective that helps shed some of the stigma surrounding divorce, and will help inspire everyone who listens! (Guest: Tara Eisenhard, Parenting Mediator, Divorce...2022-10-0932 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)JUST US: Moving After Divorce and Finally Feeling Settled | S2, Ep.55Have you transitioned to a new home after getting divorced? Moving is a huge life event by itself, but having to do it in the midst of a divorce can add a lot of emotion and complications. Both Jess and T.H. have dealt with finding new homes after their divorces, and both also recently moved again into new places for different reasons. It was a particularly difficult transition for Jessica after her second divorce, and she had to move four times within a year and a half, while T.H. dealt with the challenges of a huge life...2022-08-2215 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How Can This Divorce Coach's Infidelity and Divorce Help You? | S2, Ep. 49Infidelity is far too common in many marriages, but it's all about how you own up to it and take responsibility that allows people to move on productively, and often find themselves in a better place than before. In this episode, Jessica speaks to divorce coach Cindy Stibbard, whose own personal experience with cheating - both her own and her ex husband's - led her to a successful practice helping others focus on family reorganization and navigating the divorce process in a better way. Cindy opens up about how extramarital affairs affected her self-worth and inner strength, and her...2022-07-1833 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)What I Wish I Knew: Climbing Kilimanjaro is a Lot Like Navigating Divorce | S2, Ep. 43The enormity of divorce can feel like you're climbing a mountain, and in the cases of T.H. and Daniel Herrold, one of the founders of Divorced Over Forty, they can actually make that comparison as they both climbed Mt. Kilimanjaro in the wake of their divorces! Daniel opens up in this episode and tells T.H. and Jessica his side of going through divorce, how he came to do the climb and how he almost didn't make it to the summit! Daniel gives a refreshing look at the male psyche when it comes to divorce and offers some...2022-06-0634 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Negative Thoughts After Divorce? Try Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) | S2, Ep. 40This episode is going to give you an entirely new way of thinking and managing your mindset about divorce through neuro-linguistic programming! Who doesn’t have at least some negative thoughts when going through - or after going through - a divorce? It doesn’t matter if you’re the one that initiated or not, there are bound to be some less-than-positive feelings about the fact that your marriage didn’t work out as you had hoped and planned. Jessica has actually done NLP in the past - this methodology is scientifically proven to be effective and you can start us...2022-05-2029 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Girl Hustle Founder Creates Success Beyond Divorce | S2, Ep. 25Getting in shape after divorce is a common goal, and Jessica found an amazing program that actually produces results AND is actually another woman's post-divorce success story! Kristie Barker founded Girl Hustle after her ex told her she wouldn't be able to make a living without him. Kristie developed her core program and it's been so successful, she's now created several more programs, as well as grown a loyal following of thousands of women. In a world of workout programs that promise results but often don't deliver, hear why Kristie's is a cut above the rest! (Guest: Kristie Barker...2022-03-2037 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)JUST US: Kids & Questions About Divorce | Season 2, Ep. 1Kids have a lot of questions when parents are getting divorced. How old they are and the questions they have determine how parents answer, and we've found it hugely helpful to hear how others handle these situations. In this episode, Jess & T.H. offer some of their best tips, and talk about how they spoke to their kids and answered questions from age two all the way into their 20's. Follow us on Instagram @exexperts --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorceetc/message2022-01-0330 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Why Does Anyone Even Care if You're Divorced? | S1, Ep. 64Why do you always have to check off the "divorced" box on medical forms, school forms and more for years after your divorce? Does the fact that you went through a divorce mean that has to be your identity forever? Listen to this fun and empowering conversation btwn Jessica and T.H. and two incredible women who are also best friends, and hear how the stigma and judgement around the topic of divorce has to change in a positive way. (Guests: Najiyyah Brooks & Tanisha Russell Day) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts2021-12-3032 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Your Kids Are Most Important | S1, Ep. 63It's way too easy to get caught up in wanting to get back at your ex during divorce, even against your better judgement. And it's refreshing to hear a divorce lawyer say they would prefer their clients not fight over everything, and just focus on what's most important - the kids. Easier said than done, but this episode offers practical suggestions and ways to stay on track for the benefit of everyone...including yourself. (Guest: Evan Weinstein, Family Law Attorney) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts2021-12-2829 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)"Gray Divorce" Estate Planning - Before, During and After Divorce | S1, Ep. 62Divorce over 50 is becoming more common, but the issues and finances need to be treated differently, as this is a time where retirement is a much bigger concern. If you're in this age group, this episode will give you the information and tips on the steps you must take right now, in order to best serve your needs during your divorce. (Guest: Laura Cowan, Trust & Estates Attorney) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts2021-12-2422 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Rebound Relationship or Real Thing? How do you know? | S1, Ep. 61Relationships after divorce can be tricky, particularly when it comes to knowing if it's really right, versus a rebound coming off your marriage. Rebound relationships don't have to be immediately after a divorce (or break-up), sometimes they can come months or years later...it's all about understanding where you are in your journey to be able to tell. Hear some of the signs that might indicate whether you are - or have been - in a rebound relationship and how to find the real thing. (Guest: Julie Wein, LCSW) Follow us on Instagram at @exexperts2021-12-2332 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Different Options for Getting Divorced | S1, Ep. 60There are multiple ways that a couple can get divorced, and it's important to know and understand all of your options before choosing the path you take with your soon-to-be ex. The common options are litigation, mediation and collaborative divorce, and they all have different aspects that will affect your outcome. You may also find yourself integrating more than one of these options into your process, in order to proceed in the best way for you and your family. Hear exactly what these different divorce options are and how they work, so you make the right choice. (Guest: Deb P...2021-12-2222 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Sometimes You Just Need to Hear "It's OK" | S1, Ep. 59Society burdens women with an undue amount of responsibility and sense of failure when it comes to getting divorced, and this is a stigma we all have to work together to change. The reactions to women feeling sad, depressed and trying to deal with the adversity we face during divorce is very different than the way those same things are handled when men are going through it. At the end of the day, we all want and need to hear it's ok. All of it. This episode peels back the layers on how and why it's so important for...2021-12-2118 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How Kids Handle the Holidays with Bella Duncan (@akidwithtwohomes) | S1, Ep. 58If you have kids, stop and listen to this episode! As hard as it is for parents of divorce to deal with the holidays, it's equally hard for our kids. We mean well, but we often say and do the wrong things, which can make it worse for the children (and us). This episode is filled with all the things kids think and want to say but don't, as well as things you may never have thought of, but that can actually make your holiday season a whole lot smoother. Bella is a child of divorce and she reveals...2021-12-2033 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How to Use a Therapist to Get Out of Your Marriage | S1, Ep. 57Making the decision to get a divorce is one of the most difficult things you can go through, and it can often take a long time to come to that conclusion. If you are in couple counseling and feeling like divorce is what you want, there are ways your therapist can help you to have that conversation with your partner in a productive way. This episode offers tips and advice on how to use your therapist to get you through this painful process so you and your partner can focus on next steps. (Guest: Michelle Weisman, LCSW) ...2021-12-2026 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Why Yoga? | S1, Ep. 56What if you hate yoga? How many times have you heard it...everyone saying to do yoga because it's THE answer for all the stress in your life. And who doesn't need help with stress during a divorce? But what if you don't like it...is there a way to learn to love yoga - if not for the mindfulness, then at least for the abs? Neither Jessica nor T.H. enjoy yoga, so listen to this conversation on the truth about yoga and why you might decide to learn to love it. (Guest: Thara Natalie, Certified Yoga Teacher...2021-12-1925 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Health & Diet Myths | S1, Ep. 55Thinking about revamping your food and exercise routine? Separation and divorce are a popular time to assess what's working or not, and to make some big changes. Revenge body, anyone? We asked all the questions about what's true versus what's a myth around some of the most common diets and workout routines. Listen up to get started on your own path to the best you yet! (Guest: Hillary Irwin, Nutritionist) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts2021-12-1920 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Tips to Protect Your Assets | S1, Ep. 54Assets are a huge concern when getting divorced - who gets what, and how can you protect what's yours? Plus, do you even know what your biggest asset is? Spoiler alert - it's not your home! Be sure to hear everything you need to know on the best ways to protect what you've got. (Guest: Stacy Francis, Francis Financial & Savvy Ladies) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts2021-12-1720 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How Religion and Spirituality Affect Divorce | S1, Ep. 53It's a sad fact that many people who get divorced often feel more shame and judgement about their divorce, based on their religious and cultural beliefs. Divorce doesn't just affect you and your partner and children...it affects all of your loved ones in some way - siblings, parents and friends. How do you navigate the feelings of letting other people down? Of feeling like you're doing something that your religion or culture frowns upon? Of feeling like you're doing something wrong by getting divorced and will be judged or shunned because of it? This is a powerful and...2021-12-1440 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Best Divorce Advice - Own Your Outcome | S1, Ep. 52In your divorce, would you rather be happy or would you rather be "right"? Realistically, your result won't end with both 100%, but there are a lot of ways to help focus on what matters most to you. And no judgments! Whichever you aim for, just be sure you're doing it for the right reasons - and own your own outcome! (Guest: Scott Orr, Family Law Attorney & Divorce Mediator)2021-12-1325 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Organizing Your Divorce with Divorce Rx | S1, Ep. 51Organizing your life during and after divorce is not just about the stuff, although that's certainly part of it. There are tons of logistics and household matters to handle, on top of everything out. Michelle Sarao started Divorce Rx to help everyone who needs assistance beyond color-coded bins. Hear her best tips on getting and keeping yourself on track when you need it most. (Guest: Michelle Sarao, Divorce Rx) Follow us on Instagram @exexperts2021-12-0637 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorcing Without Children | S1, Ep. 50Is getting divorced if you don't have kids easier? And does assuming it is belittle the emotional and psychological toll that those divorces have on the respective spouses? There are a number of ways these divorces may be even harder or more challenging, and in this episode you'll hear why from a Real-Life Expert. (Guest: Helen Archontou, CEO YWCA Bergen County) 2021-12-0321 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Co-Parenting Made Easy(ish)... | S1, Ep. 49Having kids switch back and forth between parents and homes is challenging, no question. And if they're very young, you may feel like you're constantly missing out on many important moments. It was this exact challenge that inspired Fiona Kong to create Home Sweet Homes journal, which is specifically designed for children and co-parents. Hear how this ingenious journal can help make co-parenting much easier! (Guest: Fiona Kong, Home Sweet Homes Journal)2021-12-0226 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Susan Guthrie on the Do's and Don'ts of Using Social Media During Your Divorce | S1, Ep. 48Using social media while in the midst of separation and divorce is a bad idea. There are too many nuggets that your ex can (and will!) use against you during the process. In this episode we give you all the do's and don'ts of using Instagram, Facebook, and more, so you can protect yourself. (Guest: Susan Guthrie, The Divorce & Beyond Podcast Host/Attorney/Mediator)2021-11-2930 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)JUST US: Holidays Alone During Divorce | S1, Ep. 47All of us have a first holiday season alone at some point after getting divorced. It may seem scary, lonely or depressing, but we actually found ways to enjoy ourselves and get through it - and you can, too! Listen to the two of us giving you the real and raw look at post-divorce holidays, and all that worked for us, and you can use to help you stay happy throughout the holidays. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorceetc/message2021-11-2519 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Take the Time For Yourself Right Now | S1, Ep. 46Taking the time to focus on yourself and practice self-care is especially difficult as you're going through a divorce. There are so many things you have to deal with, that it's easier than ever to let yourself fall to the bottom of the list. We're offering up a list of ways that you can make sure you're doing ok, and you might be surprised to hear some of the reasons why! (Guest: Jasmine Rice, Good Things Are Gonna Come)2021-11-2531 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)The Best Fitness & Health Apps for your Post-Divorce Body | S1, Ep. 45There are zillions of fitness and health apps available but which are the best for getting back into your best shape post-divorce? We break down the top apps and what they offer so you can choose the right one(s) to live your best life as you start this new chapter. (Guest: Hillary Irwin, Registered Dietician)2021-11-1821 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)The Truth About Health Insurance After Divorce | S1, Ep. 44Health insurance is a complicated topic, but we break down what you need to know and when to deal with it. If you've been on your spouse's health insurance, you will need to know exactly what your options are after you're divorced. (Guest: Michele Chiellini, Ken Chiellini Benefit Solutions)2021-11-1230 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)The Most Frequently Asked Questions About Retirement Savings After Divorce | S1, Ep. 43Saving for retirement when you're divorced - or getting divorced - looks different. You may be starting over and you need to know all the options for retirement accounts, plus the right way to get started so you have what you need when you need it. We get all the answers from financial expert Tracy Byrnes.2021-11-0920 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Why Men Need Divorce Support, Too | S1, Ep.42The man’s view of divorce and how to handle it isn’t always what we think. Stereotypes lead us to think men don’t want to talk about it, but that’s not the case. Karen McMahon of Journey Beyond Divorce shares the real story from the male perspective.2021-11-0427 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)What Men Really Think About Divorce and Getting Through It | S1, Ep. 41Listen firsthand to men talk about how they really feel about divorce, the stigmas they face and how they try and get through the process. Turns out, men are lonelier than you might think, and some of their insights will surprise you! (Guests: John Nachlinger of Divorce Shield and James Bastian.)2021-11-0248 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Helping Kids Transition Through Divorce | S1, Ep. 40Changing environments can be tough for any kid, but making transitions from one parent to the other during divorce is especially challenging. Co-Parenting Coach, Jen Gallagher, gives some great tips on helping children transition in co-parenting divorce situations. (Guest: Jennifer Gallagher, Single Parent Solutions)2021-10-2723 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Setting Up the New Home for Divorced Dads (and Moms!) | S1, Ep. 39Divorced dads often have a harder time setting up and settling into a new home after divorce. Design firm Stripe Street Studio focuses on making this a smooth transition for both divorced parents and kids. (Guest: Stacey Herman, Stripe Street Studio)2021-10-2625 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)To Litigate or Not to Litigate Your Divorce (Part 1). | S1, Ep. 37Going to court is not always necessary in divorce today, but it does happen when couples cannot agree on how to settle. It may be the traditional idea of divorce, but nowadays it is always more expensive and usually not worth it. Hear all the reasons why you don't want to litigate! (Guest: Ruth Kim, Family Law Attorney)2021-10-2123 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)To Litigate or Not to Litigate Your Divorce (Part 2). | S1, Ep. 38Divorce litigation happens when couples are too caught up in their emotions or blame to be able to find a way to settle. But the revenge of litigating will cost you more than just money...and is usually not worth it. (Guest: Ruth Kim, Family Law Attorney)2021-10-2140 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Telltale Signs of an Abusive Marriage and How to Get Out | S1, Ep. 36Knowing the initial signs of domestic abusive are critical in order to get out and begin the healing process. The pandemic enabled more cases of domestic abuse due to the isolation for so many people, but there are many ways to identify the situation and to get much needed help. (Guest: Mira Vanjari, Center for Hope and Safety)2021-10-1113 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How to Get Help in an Abusive Marriage | S1, Ep. 35Making the first move to ask for help in an abusive marriage is never easy, but it's critical. Especially if there are children at home, because the effects can have a major impact on them. There are so many ways to get help, and we go through the steps. Guest: Kate Miller, Center for Hope and Safety)2021-10-1124 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)What an Abusive Marriage Can Look Like | S1, Ep. 34Abuse can show itself in many ways in a marriage - it's not always physical and doesn't always show obvious scars. You or someone you know may be in an abusive marriage without realizing it. Hear some of the forms and the telltale signs, as well as how to get help. (Guest: Julye Minor, Center for Hope and Safety)2021-10-1126 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)The F Word | S1, Ep. 33Going through a divorce requires a mindset of forgiveness - for yourself. Hear from bestselling author, Barry Selby (aka The Love Doctor), how the "F word" (Forgiveness) can help you with your emotional progress and how to move forward. (Guest: Barry Selby, Author "50 Ways to Love Your Lover")2021-10-0719 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Just Us - Engagement Rings and What We Did With Them | S1, Ep. 32The question of what to do with your engagement ring after divorce is a personal choice, and isn't the same for everyone. Keep it? Sell it? Reset it into another piece of jewelry? Here's what we each did with our rings (and some tips to watch out for!). --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorceetc/message2021-10-0520 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)The Biggest and Most Common Mistakes in Online Dating Profiles | S1, Ep. 31Summary: Online dating isn't always easy, but avoiding the most common mistakes can help you stand out in your dating profile. Hear the biggest mistakes and what you should be doing instead. (Alyssa Dineen, Style My Profile)2021-09-3031 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)JUST US: Moving and Transition with Our Stuff | S1, Ep. 20This episode is just us! T.H. and Jessica are both moving, and we discuss the idea of transition during divorce as well as some moving hacks to help you make it easier! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorceetc/message2021-07-3029 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)JUST US: Rewind and Reset After Divorce | S1, Ep. 8In this episode, T.H. and Jessica talk about getting through 2020...the importance of having a certain mindset, how to do it, and how despite so many things happening for each of them - including major health issues and a second divorce, it was actually a pretty good year! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/divorceetc/message2021-05-0919 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Dating After Divorce (And During Covid) with Susan Winter | S1, Ep. 7In this episode, Jessica and T.H. start off with a Random Share about FitBit and connecting with community through challenges. Then they talk to internationally renowned relationship expert, Susan Winter, all about dating during the pandemic. Are people out there dating? How can you meet people, and what do pandemic dates look like? Also, how are people talking about and handling hooking up and sex? Susan has some amazing advice about how to keep your life going in today's world.2021-05-0922 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Empowering Women - Creating Your Girl Gang with Tara Gilvar from B.I.G. | S1, Ep. 6In this episode, T.H. and Jessica talk to Tara Gilvar, founder of B.I.G. (Believe Inspire Grow) all about the importance of female empowerment, particularly during challenging times like divorce. Tara offers inspiring tips about how she created an international women's organization focused on supporting women everywhere, and how crucial it is to have the right kind of girl gang friends around you, no matter what - which is especially important throughout difficult times, such as going through divorce.2021-02-1025 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How to Talk to Kids About Divorce with Psychologist Maci DeCarlo | S1, Ep. 5In this episode, T.H. and Jessica talk to licensed psychologist Maci DeCarlo, who is also a child of divorce. Maci's own experience impacted her life and motivated her to work as a school psychologist to help other kids. Maci offers practical advice and tips on what parents can do in order to speak to their kids about the divorce process, things to say and what not to say and how to help validate the children's feelings.2021-02-1022 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)What Your Divorce Lawyer Doesn't Want You to Know with Gabriella Formosa | S1, Ep. 4In this episode, divorce lawyer and mediator Gabriella Formosa, from Greenblatt Law LLC, tells Jessica and T.H. all the things your divorce lawyer doesn't want you to know! From initial consultation to billing tips and more, the exEXPERTS helps you get down to the nitty gritty to save you time, money and aggravation when choosing who will represent you through this major process in your life.2021-02-1023 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Purging, Piling & Passing It On - Tips and Tricks to Remove Clutter at Home | Season 1, Ep. 3In this episode, T.H. and Jessica talk to organizational experts Nicole Naidrich and Lauren Tutundgy of NeatFreaks Home, to learn the easiest ways to declutter your home when starting fresh after a divorce. Whether consigning designer clothing or donating items to charity, the NeatFreaks girls offer three super simple tips that will prevent the process from becoming overwhelming.2021-02-1020 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)How to Create a Budget & Pay for Your Divorce | Season 1, Ep. 2In this episode of the exEXPERTS Podcast, Jessica 7 T.H. talk to Tracy Byrnes, former Fox Business News TV anchor and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst about how to create a budget for divorce. This is an essential step in your divorce process, and Tracy shares tips and tricks, as well as a downloadable checklist to help you make it as easy as possible. Some apps Tracy says are great resources are Mint.com and Pocketguard.com.2021-02-1022 minDivorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)Divorce etc... hosted by the exEXPERTS (T.H. and Jessica)JUST US: How & Why We Got Divorced at the Same Time | Season 1, Ep. 1In this introductory episode, Jessica and T.H., best friends for 25 years, briefly tell their stories about how and why they ended up getting divorced at the exact same time 12 years ago. Those fateful days were the beginnings of new stages for each of them, and the whole reason exEXPERTS began. We've lived it, so we get it. Now exEXPERTS is the ultimate resource for everything divorce, all in one place, for anyone and everyone at any stage of the process. Whether you're just starting to think about the possibility of divorce, or you're finished and wondering what's next, come...2021-01-2703 min