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The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 68 - Dealing with Depression in KinkDealing with depression is not something that you should be ashamed or embarrased of. We need to open the conversation about depression and help each other. There are many avenues to receive help and the first one that you should start with is a medical doctor. Tell your friends and family that you are struggling and learn that your are not alone. It may feel that way at times but you are never alone. I struggle with depression, do you?2016-06-2217 min
The People of Kink Live!TPOK Live 207 - Sex and Violent Imagery - Good Bad or Indifferent?This week we talk about how imagery in media effects us as humans in our lifestyle and the vanilla world. This all started with a the movie poster for Xmen which depicted the main villain with his hands around Mystique's throat. There had to be an apology released and so many people were upset. Really?? Have we really gotten to the point where we are offended by any image that is not calm and peaceful? It's a movie with fictional characters. What do you think? Do you think it's a bad thing? Is there too much sexual imagery and violence...2016-06-2057 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 67 - What it means to be FREEWhat does it mean to be free? I think it means letting go of the negative, the hate and the judgement. We also need to let go of our past mistakes and be open to living in the moment. It means forgiving ourselves and letting the negative parts of our past go. We also have to be willing to let the energy sucking people in our lives go too. You have all the power to surround yourself with good and positive people. Find your tribe or your family and get rid of the garbage that holds you back from being...2016-06-1518 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 206 - The Leather Lifestyle with TraeonnaTraeonna is back again to talk about everything leather! If you love leather, the leather lifestyle or want to learn more about it then this is show for you! This will be Traeonna's 3rd time on the show! Come join us LIVE!2016-06-1300 min
The People of Kink Live!TPOK 205 - AuntieSocialAuntieSocial is someone who stands up for what she believes in. She is not afraid to have her voice heard and is more than happy to discuss and debate her opinions and writings. It is these exact traits that we at TPOK look for in a host. You can listen to AuntieSocial's live show "Stereo-Typed" on TPOK Radio starting in July.2016-06-121h 07The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 66 - Embracing ChangeChange is hard for most people. The path of least resistence is comfortable but it that really living? What if change brought new excitment and experiences? If change was to open a door for you...would you walk through it?2016-06-0815 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 204 - Challenging the Status QuoNOTE: WE HAD A TECHNICAL ISSUE ON THIS EPISODE AND THERE IS A LOT OF WHITE NOISE. WE APOLOGIZE FOR THE BAD AUDIO. This week on the show we are taking our subject from a writing that Crazy Heart did on The TPOK Profile. The point of the writing was to get people talking and debating. We want to raise the level of conversation and debate in our lifestyle. The world moves forward when people choose to look at things in new and exciting ways. It's easy to get comfy about something in your life. It can almost take on...2016-06-061h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK 185 - PandoraPandora is a poly, submissive, masochistic, sadist from New Hampshire. We hear how she got her start and made many mistakes but then found her way. She now enjoys a rich and kinky life by having put the work in. As always, communication is the key. She is listed on FetLIfe as "Evolving". I think that describers her perfectly.
You can find Pandor on FetLife here: https://fetlife.com/users/4993412016-06-0553 min
The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 65 - Just for the love of itWe talk this week about doing kink and things in your life purely for the love of it. Find what you love in kink and do that thing so that it fills your soul. Don't do things because that's what is popular or that's what the majority says you should. Do your kink because it is simply the thing that makes you happy. If the people around you are not happy with your kink then find some people that are for you. On the flip side of all this is that we should not pressure people do our kinks or...2016-06-0117 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 203 - All About Sex Toys!All about sex toys with __MissTee__
Do you love sex? Do you love using toys on yourself and your partners? Not sure what is good and what is bad? __MissTee__ will clear up the confusion and recommend some brands, and manufacturers that she thinks can help you get your sex life soar! Not all toys are made equal and sometimes we don't know how to properly use the toys. This week it's all about toys and sex! Don't ya love it?!?!?2016-05-301h 00
The People of Kink Live!TPOK 184 - snstrmnstrsnstrmnstr never felt like he belonged in his vanilla life. Soon after a hard time in his life he found kink and a place that felt like home to him. He very quickly made friends and before long was co-hosting a local munch. He proves that you don't have to be in kink for years before you volunteer or organize something. You just have to have to want to help your community. He loves to help but also loves to play and has developed a reputation as being someone to play with and to feel safe. Play doesn't necessarily mean...2016-05-2957 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 64 - Creating Community for YourselfIn order to create community we have to be willing to be involved. People have to get to know each other on a deeper level than just knowing what turns each other on. We all have to come together to educate, organize and create safe space. Bad behaviour needs to be addressed and corrected as a group. A community is not one person leading. A community is a group of people coming together to create something that is fluid and safe. We all have it in us to do all of these things. The questions is will you choose to?2016-05-2516 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 183 - Kinky Chat with Solotaire, Rubee Tuesday and Crazy HeartThis week on the show we simply talk kink and have a good time. There is a lot of laughing and giggling. This should be a nice change of pace and show the lighter side of kink. We don't have to be so serious all the time! Kink is fun! Thank to Rubee Tuesday and Solotaire for bringing this together at the very last minute!2016-05-221h 08The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 63 - Sadism vs MasochismCrazy Heart talks about the symbiotic relationship between sadism and masochism. At the TPOK Celebration Weekend Master T'Hayla and her demo bottom Countess_Mercia both talked about what they were thinking and feeling during there demonstration. Crazy Heart elaborates on what they said and talks about both sides of the coin. People can have very deep relationships with pain for many reasons. It helps to understand both perspectives and what they bring to the table.2016-05-1817 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 202 - Workshop Recap from TPOK Celebration WeekendIf you missed the TPOK Celebration Weekend you missed a kick ass event. The Celebration Weekend is about celebrating kink. We all need safe space and that's what it's about. Fly your freak flag! If not here, then where?
We will summarize the workshops that we saw over the weekend that were put on by our awesome presenters Master T'Hayla, Heather, IronTempleDog & Tormenta. We heard about body language in Rough Body Play, How to do pickup play, Creating Community for yourself, Masochism and Sadism and Fear Play. Every workshop was absolutely thought provoking and audience participation was excellent. We truly...2016-05-161h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK 182 - CypressCypress is the Master to Rainbow who was on the show last week. This couple are both hosts on TPOK Radio. Cypress is a man who has really thought thru his kink. He knows what he wants. He stands by his convictions and goes about this business and doesn't worry about what others think. He's passionate and smart. He is also loyal to his chosen family and pack. We are lucky to have him on TPOK Radio.2016-05-151h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 62 - Being Fluid, Cross Dressing and moreThis minicast was inspired by a writing that I recently did on my being gender fluid. https://fetlife.com/users/1359/posts/3749348. I wrote this piece because of listening to the latest show on The Rainbow Connection on TPOK Radio. Rainbow talked to a trans friend about their journey and the struggles and triumphs of being trans. It gave me the strength to make an important decision to not be worried about what others think and to know that dressing does not make me weak or any less than any other person out there. I hope you enjoy as I poured my...2016-05-1117 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 201 - Approaching a DominantAlice is back with us on TPOK Radio again. Alice is known for putting the fun back into kink. One of the biggest complaints that Dom/mmes have is how people approach them for for play or more. Alice is going to help us to understand what she likes to see and hear. She will help guide you to use better methods to find more success.2016-05-091h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK 181 - RainbowWe talk to the host of the new show on TPOK Radio called "The Rainbow Connection" hosted by Rainbow. She is a smart, well spoken person and slave. She gets who she is and where she is going. In a kink world that is going faster and faster Rainbow has taken her time in everything that she does. She enjoys the moment and knows that when things are right she will move forward and knows exactly how to communicate it. Next week we will interview her Master Cypress.2016-05-081h 02The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 61- Not Luck, Hard WorkThis minicast is inspired by a writing by my friend and the co-host of The 3rd Rail on TPOK Radio Cypress. If you are on Fetlife here is the link to the writing. https://fetlife.com/users/4314/posts/3737389 Cypress talks about his poly and who he is as anything but lucky. I totally agree with everything he says. Kink is general has very little to do with luck. It takes hard work and dedication to look at yourself and the people around to figure it out. Every great relationship and player in this lifestyle has put in the work and un...2016-05-0515 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 200 - MBE Sincinnati OrganizersThis week on the show we have the organizers of MBE Cincinnati. This is a full weekend event that TPOK Radio will be attending. If you love rope and rigging you will like this interview. We are going to hear about the space that they use for rope events and educating their local community too. We are very excited about attending this event and broadcasting LIVE from it!2016-05-0259 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 180 - Moira100We hear from Moira this week who is a female slave. She tells
about her joy of service and finding joy in that service when times
get bad. When you lose an M/s relationship it is difficult, when
you lose one because someone passes away it's worse. Moira very
graciously explains what that was like and how she went on with the
help of friends. I think you will love this story.2016-05-0158 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 60 - 1 PercentMost of us love being kinky. We think that we have bared our
souls to our partners in pursuit of our desires. But have we
really? I say that most of us are holding back that 1% that
completes our desires and dreams. It's that part that we wank to
when we are alone. It's that thing that we are the most scared of
because we might be judged. How can we really be honest and happy
if we don't say the words? If the people around us truly do love
and care for us they won't judge us. Why not...2016-04-2715 min
The People of Kink Live!TPOK 199 - Case Scenarios DM TrainingShayblondie & Stefanos are teaching DM Training called Case Scenarios. This is an updated version of DM training and looking at it from a fresh point of you for modern kink today. DM training is done with live demonstrations. Let's have a conversation.
Overview of their course in San Fransisco:
• There are only three reasons to interrupt a scene at the Citadel- immediate and clear danger to LIFE, LIMB, or CITADEL PROPERTY. Any other concerns- call a party host.
•Remember that being a DM involves customer service! Always be polite & respectful.
If it is possible to check with people before they star...2016-04-251h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK 179 - Queen RainiQueen Raini believes that kink should be fun and honest. We talk
about her love of boys that dress and that she believes that most
people hold back that 1% that is most important to getting exactly
what they want as kinky people. If you trust the people that you
are playing with you might as be honest. What's the worst that
could happen? They say no? Maybe they know someone who could do
what you need. Simple.2016-04-241h 03The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 59 - Safe SpaceWe all require Safe Space. We need it to gather and to play. We need it to be able to express who we are and to be able to communicate with each other. Everywhere we go and play that is organized is really just an area that is safe. It might be a munch, a party or even a camping event but what is really being given to us is a Safe Space. Without it we couldn't what we do and interact together.2016-04-2017 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 198 - Traeonna GQ Leather WomanTRAEONNA is a verb, not a noun. I am not the product of my past; I am the process of where I am going.
I have been involved with the leather and kink communities for 20+ years. I consider myself an endorphin enthusiast and a silly sadist who enjoys a good laugh when playing.
A kink educator, organizer and Leather Woman. But to really find out about Traeonna check out her profileon FetLIfe that explains everything that this very involved person is!2016-04-181h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK 178 - Rick Storer from The Leather Archives and MuseumYou have heard it many times on this show how we feel that capturing our kinky history is very important. That's exactly what LA&M does everyday. The Leather Archives & Museum is dedicated to the compilation, preservation, and maintenance of leather, kink, and fetish lifestyles. The museum galleries serve to present educational and historical material to an adult audience. Their reading library and archive serve to support researchers and community members in accessing materials and documentation relevant to the history and culture of leather.
http://www.leatherarchives.org2016-04-1748 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 58 - Consent - Let's TalkThis is a continuation of a our topic on TPOK Live on TPOK Radio on Sunday night. I work thru some more of my thoughts on the subject.
Counterfeit Kink Communities, Surprise it's all a Power Trip with Eva Wilde - Authentic communities are integral to keep people safe.
What makes them counterfeit and how do we make them authentic?The safety of Kinksters is at risk because we fail to be more than a collective of people with similar interests and goals. We fail to hold each other accountable, we fail in supporting each other, and in creating an e...2016-04-1317 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 197 - Counterfeit Kink Communities: Surprise, It's All A Power Trip with Eva WildeAuthentic communities are integral to keep people safe.
What makes our them counterfeit and how do we make them authentic?
The safety of Kinksters is at risk because we fail to be more than a collective of people with similar interests and goals. We fail to hold each other accountable, we fail in supporting each other, and in creating an environment where people feel safe enough to be authentic.
Read the blog: http://www.sexfortherest.com/blogpost/2016/3/creating-authentic-kink-community2016-04-111h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK 177 - VikingJamesSometimes the hardest thing we can do is to have an open mind. Viking James goes at his kink with a sense of calm, compassion and yes an open mind. From the second that he discovered kink he has tried to enjoy the journey and to not get stuck in the mud by drama & judgement. He tries to not hold onto anything to tightly with the hopes that if it remains free that the universe will bring it back to him. A great guy and a wonderful conversation.2016-04-101h 06The People of Kink Live!TPOK 196 - The State of Kink Round TableThis week on TPOK LIVE we will have our first round table discussion feature your host Crazy Heart plus Rubee Tuesday and Solotaire. Join us and help us to discuss how we feel the kink lifestyle is doing today. We will talk about where we came from and where we are headed. Should kink be mainstream? Should kink be more underground? This will be an open talk about how we feel about our lifestyle from a personal level. We all have it very easy with the content on the internet but is that a good thing? We will discuss FetLife...2016-04-041h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK 176 - NorthernTigerI love it when an interview goes in a direction that I just didn't think it would go. NorthernTiger is a very kinky woman who is a slave, she is bi and she is poly. What I didn't see coming is that she is a furry too! We get to hear all about what being a furry is and what she loves about it. A very interesting conversation and a new topic to The People of Kink. If you have any preconceived notions of what a furry is you should listen to this episode and learn what it really means.2016-04-0354 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK MInicast 56 - FamilyHaving a family has always been important to me. When I came into this lifestyle I realized that I could have a chosen family. This kinky family became my rock and the place I went to for council. I lean on them and they lean on me. We laugh, cry, play and just be there for each other. There are many types of families too. I talk about a few of them on this episode and tell you why family is so important to me.2016-03-3016 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 175 - The Pageist interviewing bodhiThe hosts of the podcasts from the Erotic Awakening Podcast Network have gotten together and decided to do a switchero and host each other's shows. The Pageist got to take over The People of Kink for one show and interview her good friend bodhi. bodhi is a rope sadist who loves making rope and of course tying people up. He is a sadomasochist who has a very special relationship with pain. This interview was a lot of fun for me to listen to and be a fan of my own show. You can catch me doing an episode of the Er...2016-03-271h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 55 - Gender BenderWhy does gender matter? It shouldn't. I work my way thru my thoughts on gender, changing gender or being gender fluid. No matter what gender that people choose to be or to dress up like they are still just people. Kink is kink. We all need to support our fellow kinksters who are transitioning or enjoy floating between the sexes and remember that gender does not matter. The only thing that matters is that people are happy and loved.2016-03-2314 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 195 - Lee HarringtonWe talk to Lee Harrington tonight LIVE! Lee Talks about sacred kink, traveling the world and transgendered issues and solutions.2016-03-201h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK 174 - Canadian TiedA rigger in his heart, Canadian Tied has had a very fruitful journey so far. He has taken his craft very seriously and until recently had not attended any big rope events. A trip to MBE Montreal changed all of that. He suddenly began to look at the scene with wider eyes and discovered some really great things about himself. It just goes to show if we remain open to experience, it can change the direction of our journey in a moment.2016-03-2053 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 54 - Dress The PartWe have so many wonder toys and props that we get to play with. Sometimes it's easy to forget that dressing the part can be fun and put us into a different mind set. Whether you love corsets, leather, latex, PJ's, a suit and tie or a gown it doesn't matter. What is it that puts you into a deeper mindset when you play or interact with other kinky people? Dressing up can be an escape from the everyday and mark the change between vanilla and kinky. Why not have fun with it?2016-03-1716 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 194 - alt SPACE "Alternative Sexuality Education and Play Centrealt.SPACE "Alternative Sexuality Education and Play Centre from Edmonton, Alberta.2016-03-131h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK 173 - JaneAdoreBeing Dominant can be so many things. For JaneAdore it is about keeping control during play and in her life. She likes to embrace her "Freaky Side" in her life too. She is completely happy to play with people that like to walk on the wild side and she chooses to celebrate their kink with them and jump in the sandbox and mess around too.2016-03-1352 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 53 - Don't Lose YourselfIt's important to know who you are as person first. Kink is this wonderful world of fun and sexy play. However we can't forget who we are before kink. We all have personalities and things that make us who we are. The kink should be layer on top of that. We all love being kinky. I hope you don't lose who you are at your core in the process of being kinky. Like the saying goes....I just gotta be me!2016-03-0916 min
The People of Kink Live!TPOK 193 - IPCookieMonsterIPCookieMonster is a sexual gymnast. She has been a kinky pansexual polyamorous pagan freak for several years, and has written extensively about about her deliciously deviant lifestyle on fetlife and her blog, slutphd.com. In the “vanilla” world, she has one of the best jobs ever: she’s a professor of sociology who studies the BDSM scene. In the “chocolate” world, she writes about and teaches kink, is a founding member of the firespinning troupe Hubris, and is an occasional burlesque/ropelesque perfomer. Having gone through everything from ballet to tap to fire to pole, she was starting to run out of for...2016-03-0758 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 172 - Dolly Returns!Dolly returns to the show and talks about what's been going on Dolly's life since being on the show in October of 2013. Dolly has done a lot of growing and is currently on what Dolly is calling "A Year of Yes". We hear all about that and much more.2016-03-061h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK MInicast 52 - Explore Kink Outside of Your CommunitySometimes it's a good idea to get out of your local area and see how other communities do their kink. You may find that there is a lot to learn. There are connections to be made and friendships to start. Why not share some info and exchange ideas? We all will benefit from it and you might just learn something new.2016-03-0216 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 171 - Sarge - International Ms Leather 2015Sarge tells us how she found out that she was naturally kinky in the early years of her life. Her story takes a turn and she tries to be vanilla and eventually comes back to kink and finds someone who she can share her life with. With a great support group she competed for and won the International Ms Leather 2015 Title. She now gets to travel around the world and talk about the leather lifestyle and what it means to her.2016-02-2856 min
The People of Kink Live!TPOK 192 - MBE Montreal Part 2Live from MBE Montreal Part 22016-02-283h 11The People of Kink Live!TPOK 191 - MBE Montreal Part 1MBE Montreal Part 12016-02-281h 53The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 51 - ServiceService can be a very wonderful thing. It can be joyful and fun. It can bring two people in a D/s relationship together in a very deep way. Service can also be done for someone even when it's not exactly what the bottom or sub wants. They may hate it but will still be required to do it. It's when they freely choose to do it despite hating it that the beauty happens.2016-02-2417 min
The People of Kink Live!TPOK 190 - Eden Bradley NY Times Best Selling AuthorEden Bradley is a New York Times & USA Today bestselling author of erotica and erotic romance. She’s probably best known for her BDSM novels THE DARK GARDEN and DANGEROUSLY BOUND, and more recently for GIRL, the first book in her best-selling Training House series. Her books have been translated into ten languages, so you can find her in almost every corner of the world.
As someone who has been involved in BDSM practice for much of her adult life, she relates in particular to her kink-themed stories, infusing them with her own truth about kink practice from her life ex...2016-02-2257 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 170 - NavisongsWe sometimes forget how creative BDSM and all of the activities we do can be creative. Navisongs is from Romania and and she is a singer/songwriter. She is not only very kinky but she channels her kink through her music and videos. To live this lifestyle can be so fulfilling. To live it, breathe it and create from it can be inspiring. We hope that you are inspired too.
Here is a music video for you to enjoy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WQCHxlm-WpA2016-02-2152 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 189 - Dan and dawn from Erotic Awakening PodcastWe talk live with Dan and dawn who are a lifestyle couple of many years, as well as authors and educators, bring their diverse backgrounds and experiences to each presentation and workshop they lead. With their blend of training and experience in Sacred Sexuality, BDSM, M/s & energy work, they offer a unique perspective to their audience. Although they have presented hundreds of workshops at dozens and dozens of events over the past 10 years, they continue to bring great enthusiasm and energy to each presentation.
They are the authors of Living M/s: A book for Masters and slaves and...2016-02-151h 00The People of Kink Live!TPOK 169 - CalmandreadyDeciding to live your life in the way you want and in a way that makes you happy. That's how Calmandready lives her life. She grew up with parents that decided not to judge her and to love her for who she is. In my opinion the world needs to be like this. We all need to judge less and to love more. Happy Valentines Day!2016-02-141h 04The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 50 - Love Not JudgementThis is a special Valentines addition of TPOK Minicasts. We are a lifestyle of such variety and difference. We strive to stand up and go our own way and not be held back by the status quo. Somewhere along that path people began to bring judgement against people. The people that were different were judged and pushed back. We began to lose what is in our opinion so wonderful about this lifestyle. We are losing individuality because of it. Why judge when we can love? Why mock when we should celebrate? Being different and going your own way is one o...2016-02-1417 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 49 - EtiquetteI talk about something we all need to be aware of whether we are new or not. Etiquette is respect for your surroundings and the people in them. Don't touch what is not yours, ask first and try being polite. Simply rules to follow and to teach. It really just boils down to common sense. Got some?2016-02-1017 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 168 - MissHuntressWe are joined by MissHuntress who is a Pro Domme, Life Coach, disciplinarian, sensualist, psychodramatist and alternative desires mentor. We talk about the reasons why people play and want to be spanked, punished or humiliated. We also hear about how if we keep an open mind we can find out that we can love things that we never thought that we could before. The brain is the biggest sex organ. How we use it is up to us.2016-02-0757 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 48 - Setting Expectations as a DominantI have been hearing a lot of talk about expectations lately so I thought we would talk about what we should do to set them for the bottom/sub/slave. Knowing what the expectations are and being able to communicate it when it works and when it doesn't work is a great skill and can enrich any lifestyle relationship.2016-02-0316 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 188 - Opening Night Part 2Our very first show. This part was live as we were having technical difficulties. We interview Alice from "Alice in Bondage Land", Lady Severine from Australia and -Exile- from MBE. Call in and join the conversation! Skype ID "thepeopleofkink" for FREE or call us @ 231-580-TPOK (8765) Long Distance may apply.2016-02-011h 29The People of Kink Live!TPOK 187 - Opening Night Part 1Our very first show. This part was not live as we were having technical difficulties. We interview Alice from "Alice in Bondage Land". See part 2 for the rest of the evening.2016-02-0131 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 167 - NookienotesNookie grew up in an environment that shaped her life forever. We hear about how a non judgemental sexually open family can bring you to kink and feel like it's just the way life is. Nookie is never happy with the status quo. She thinks things thru, and tries to see all the angles. If we never look at things in a different light, how will the world ever move forward? I think that is a great way to live your life.2016-01-311h 11The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 47 - Kink Starter Cards Live NegotiationEva Morgan and her play partner Angela Rae do a live negotiation with the Kink Starter Cards by Erotic Awakening. They talk you through how to use them and what their thought process is at the time and how it helped them. How many times have you sat across the table from someone and asked them what they wanted to do during play and you both say "I don't know."? This simple set of cards can help anyone from new to seasoned players. Why not get some help finding your sandbox?2016-01-2722 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 166 - DarknDeviantDarknDeviant came to terms with her sexuality at a young age. We talk about entering the lifestyle and exploring who you are and trying to find a partner. We hear about how she balances her needs vs. her partners needs and their challenges in finding other people to fit into their dynamic.2016-01-2456 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 46 - How do I show my submission?Submission is a very personal thing for most people. We talk about what that means to us and what it could mean to others. What we know for sure is that it's going to be different for everyone. How you show it is up to you. We try and give you some ideas to get you started.2016-01-2021 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 165 - TheBreitlingWe explore explore fetish again and talk to TheBreitling about rubber and latex. Latex has been at the centre of his kink for years. We hear about how it feels and how it effects his headspace. There is also a creative side to putting together different themes and looks. It's not cheap but the pay off can be huge.2016-01-1752 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 45 - Old School vs New School KinkKink has changed over the years. We have started to move out of the shadows and into the light. There are some great things that have come from the "Old School" way of doing things but there is also a lot to be said about where kink is today. Eva and I discuss the differences and give our take on what's best about both era's. No matter what, kink is changing and evolving whether you like it or not.2016-01-1419 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 164 - Eden BradleyEden Bradley writes kinky erotica and is a New York Times Best Selling Author. She has been practicing kink for 30 years as a switch, and speaks regularly on the psychology of kink, writing kink, mentoring newbies, sexual positivity for women and other topics. She's been a regular guest on Playboy Radio. Eden belongs to Lair de Sade in LA, Dominion Dallas and Sanctuary Dallas, and Citadel San Francisco.2016-01-101h 04The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 44 - PassionPassion can drive us all. Are you a passionate? Do you let anyone steal that from you? Find out about Crazy Heart's passion for TPOK and why he does what he does.2016-01-0619 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 163 - GreywolfeGreywolfe is very involved in his local community. He runs a local munch and organizes parties. He chose to help and organize very early after finding his local scene. He entered the scene with his wife and they have both grown together and supported each other in all that they do.2016-01-031h 11The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 43 - Rescuing a SceneEva Morgan and I talk about what happens if a planned scene can't happen or if a scene goes sideways mid scene. There are many reasons why this happens but what is important is how you communicate it and the willingness to adjust your play.2015-12-3018 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 162 - PreacherBear Returns!It's been over a year since we talked to Preacher Bear. He remains a man full of passion and love for his community. He has branched out into exploring poly and has discovered that it takes hard work and dedication. This easy going guy is humble and wise. The conversation that we had was good from the beginning to the end.2015-12-271h 06The People of Kink Live!TPOK 161 - RogueRivenRoninRogue is the husband of Wretched Whore from Episode 21. During that interview in 2013 they had been broke up at the time. Now they are back together and married. Poly has now become central to their relationship. We also talk about being a switch and the challenges of being involved with another switch.2015-12-2058 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 42 - Sadist vs. Reaction JunkieEva Morgan and I sit down and talk about the differences between being a sadist and a reaction junkie. Sometimes people think they have to be a sadist or even a masochist when playing but that's just not true. Whether you love the reactions you get or you are turned on by giving or receiving pain it doesn't matter. Be true to yourself.2015-12-1616 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 160 - slave_ziggyLeather is something that is a very passionate thing. slave_ziggy has followed the leather path from the beginning. She lives her life in a way that honours her leather but also honours herself. A true leather woman.2015-12-1358 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 159 - Master ShadesMaster Shades is part of the San Antonio Texas community. He describes the community there as one of the friendliest ones that he knows. In his time there he has become involved with their "Community Centre" where they have play parties and educate each other. We get to hear about how the board of this group works to create and administer this wonderful space.2015-12-0659 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK 158 - DeityDeity is someone who enjoys the control aspects of BDSM. He likes to be in control of as much as possible and that takes finding the kind of sub/slave that enjoys exactly the same thing. Now married to his partner he has total control and they are happily exploring all aspects of their kink....as long as he is control. :)2015-11-291h 04The People of Kink Live!TPOK 157 - DunterWe talk to Dunter from Montreal this week. Dunter is a guy that loves his rope but is not defined by rope. He loves to teach and help others and travel around and experience other events and locations to experience his kinky life to the fullest while doing all he can to help out. We also get to hear about the MBE Montreal!2015-11-221h 01The People of Kink Live!TPOK 156 - Minnie_Taur Returns!We check in this week with Minnie_Taur. We last heard from her in June of 2013. A lot has changed in her life since the first time we talked. She has discovered many things about herself. She wore a collar for a year and a half and has discovered that she likes pain on both sides of slash. It just goes to show that we never stop learning and growing. As long as we are open to experience anything can happen.2015-11-151h 06The People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 41 - Find Your Authentic SelfI think the hardest thing we can do in our lives is to be authentic to ourselves. This is magnified when you are kinky. It's hard to tell people who we want to be and all the nasty, crazy things that we want to do. But are they nasty or crazy? They are if you give them that power. I think to find true happiness we all have to find our authentic selves and be the people who we truly want to be.2015-11-0316 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 40 - Morpheous's Bondage ExtravaganzaMorpheous's Bondage Extravaganza has become a rigger's dream. Toronto was the birthplace for MBE and they have never looked back. Now they have events all over the world. The People of Kink is the Official Podcast of MBE in 2015. You will be able to hear us do interviews on the live video feed on October 2, 20152015-09-2836 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 39 - The Power of WordsWords only have as much power as we give them. We can choose to make them something that shames us or we can take them back and make the powerful. How you describe yourself is up to you. Don't let the words have power over you. You must take the power back from the words.2015-07-1515 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 38 - Body ModsBody Modifications are nothing new to our lifestyle. There are so many ways to express yourself. From Tattoo's, piercings, brandings and even skin peels we can change our bodies however we want. We try to give you information and tips on how to do it safe and clean. It's your body, make it as different as you like!2015-07-0815 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 37 - Tell Your Kinky History!Your kinky history is imporant! You don't have to tell it on this show but you can tell your kinky friends and newbies. Tell them what you did right and what you did wrong. Tell them about the emotion and the help and the excitement. Most of all stand up and be counted. Your journey is unique and special. It can help someone and help you.2015-07-0115 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 36 - Poly TipsSo you want to be poly? Poly can be a lot of work and if you are not prepared to do that work it can make things very difficult. Rubee Tuesday and I try to give you tips based on our experiences that include success and failure. Being poly can be a very rewarding lifestyle. It certainly is for us.2015-06-2415 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 35 - LabelsWe all use them. We feel a need to call ourselves subs or Doms or many of the other labels that we can come up with. We are limited on FetLife to only giving ourselves one label. We all get hung up in trying to give people labels or figure out what best describes them. I say that the label is only the beginning of the conversation to get to know the person. We are all more than that one single label.2015-06-1716 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 34 - Using FetLife as a ToolFetLife can be a wonderful place. It is a tool that could help us all from promoting to learning and finding new partners. It can be all these things if we choose to use it properly and respectfully. So let's learn to get along and be positive!2015-06-1016 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 33 - Respecting People's KinkThere are so many kinks and ways of doing kinks. You don't have to like them all. You don't have to try them all. However, if you would like your kinks and how you do them to be respected you need to return that respect. A simple concept that can be hard to do sometimes. Just remember you get back what you put out into the world.2015-06-0315 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 32 - Make kink your ownI talk about something that is very important in kink. You need to own your kink and do it in the way that works for you. There are many ways of doing almost everything that we do. Why not do it the way that makes you happy? I say we should own our kink and find people that fit into our lives that feel that way too. Just be happy. Don't listen to the white noise. Make kink your own.2015-05-2716 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 31 - Role PlayingBernie Roehl did a workshop on Role Playing at TPOK Celebration Weekend. We were so impressed by the workshop that we had to do a Minicast on it. Role playing can be a lot of fun and we try and give you ideas on how to move forward and execute a great scene. Full Credit to Bernie on this one!2015-05-2015 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 30 - Deeply Connected PlayRubee Tuesday and I talk about playing the way that we really love. Listen as we explain how to play on a level that is like a dance to connect yourself to your partner. It takes time and getting to know your partner but the pay off is worth it in the end.2015-05-1316 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 29 - TPOK Community FoundationI had the absolute honour of announcing the TPOK Community Foundation at the Celebration Weekend. It's our way of supporting our local community thru service. We want this to be community driven by kinksters helping kinsters. Have a listen and find out more!2015-05-0615 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 28 - What if I was out?Rubee Tuesday and I talk about what it would mean to be out. This could be to friends, family or to the world. It's a tough and touchy subject for most. We tell you what we think it would be like and how it could be for you and the people around you.2015-04-2915 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK MInicast 27 - How to find community in kinkAngelaRae and I talk about how to find community in kink by getting out there and introducing yourself at munches, parties and groups. We talk about arriving early and not sitting off to the side. We know it can be intimidating but the pay off is worth in the end.2015-04-2217 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 26 - Power Exchange with Dan and dawnDan and dawn, hosts of the Erotic Awakening Podcast have been in a 24/7 M/s power exchange relationship for 14 years. Their experience and insights on power exchange come from living it each and every day. Want to learn more? Check out the Power Exchange Summit May 29, 30, 31. www.powerexchangesummit.org.2015-04-1518 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 25 - Kinky CampingWe have talked about kinky camping many times on the show but we thought we would devote a minicast to explaining what you can expect and tell you how awesome that it really is. If you love kink and you want to have a life experience you need to go kinky camping!2015-04-0817 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 24 - Pain ToleranceEva Morgan and Crazy Heart sit down and talk about pain tolerance and what effects it during play. Many things can factor into your how much pain you can take and that can include your mindset, your emotions and the environment you are in.2015-04-0221 minThe People of Kink Live!DaddyDenny & babybethieThis week on TPOK I talk to a couple who's main kink is being age players. For some people this can be a kink that's hard to understand. By the time you are done listening to this interview you will fully understand what it means to them. Not only are they age players but they are both in their 60's and still keeping their lives full of play and kink!2015-03-2956 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 23 - Communication is keyWe talk about how important communication is in our lifestyle. Great communication leads to trust and deeper connections. From being able to talk about what fantasy's that we might have to being a good listener. Open, honest communication in any part of your life is good. Communication in kink....priceless.2015-03-2518 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 22 - Electrical ToysWe talk about the wonderful world of electrical toys this week. From Tens Units to Violet Wands, Cattle Prods and more. There are so many ways to enjoy this kink. We also discuss safety and the costs of buying toys to start zapping people!2015-03-1916 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 21 - CollarsCollars are an important symbol in the BDSM lifestyle. They mean different things to different people. We try and shed some light on what they mean to us and what they might mean to you. Rubee Tuesday and Crazy Heart.2015-03-1117 minThe People of Kink Live!TPOK Minicast 20 - FetishesFetishes can be a driving force in many kinky people's lives. From feet to rubber and leather and more, there are so many. Rubee Tuesday and Crazy Heart talk about how wonderful they can be and how to navigate fetishes that you may not be into with a partner that is. Perhaps The People of Kink could be a fetish?2015-03-0416 min