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Doing Life with Ken and TabathaFrom Routine to Romance: Ignite Your Relationship Again | Doing Life with Ken & TabathaSend us a textHas your relationship started to feel more like routine than romance? đŹ Youâre not alone â most couples hit seasons where the spark fades and connection feels distant. But it doesnât have to stay that way.In this episode, Pastors Ken & Tabatha Claytor get real about what causes relationships to lose their spark and share 5 practical ways to bring it back â emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Whether youâve been married for 2 years or 20, these truths will help you reconnect, rekindle affection, and protect your âusâ from the noise of life. đđ W...
2025-10-1631 minDoing Life with Ken and Tabatha7 Signs They Are Not The One with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textEver find yourself ignoring relationship red flags because your heart is saying "yes" when your gut is screaming "no"? In this revealing episode, Ken and Tabatha Claytor draw from their 26 years of marriage and ministry experience to shine a light on the seven unmistakable signs that someone isn't right for youâregardless of how strong your feelings might be.The Claytors don't hold back as they challenge the casual dating culture with a powerful perspective: "I personally feel, especially as a Christian, we shouldn't date to date. I think we should da...
2025-09-2540 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaFive Keys to Save Your Marriage with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textMarriages don't break overnight, and they aren't restored in a day either. In this raw and revealing conversation, Ken and Tabatha share the five transformative keys that saved their once-broken relationship and built the foundation for their marriage journey."Locate where you are" begins their practical frameworkâbecause you can't navigate to Macy's without first finding the "You Are Here" dot on the mall directory. This honest self-assessment creates the starting point for genuine change. From there, the couple dismantles the myth that you should "work on yourself first" before addressing yo...
2025-08-0728 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaHow to study the Bible? With Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textThe secret weapon sitting on your shelf might be collecting dust. When was the last time you actually opened your Bible and studied it with purpose? In this powerful conversation, Ken and Tabatha tackle one of the most fundamental yet overlooked aspects of Christian life - how to develop a meaningful relationship with Scripture.Christians often struggle with Bible study, feeling intimidated by ancient text or unsure how to extract relevant meaning for today's challenges. Both hosts candidly share their early experiences with Scripture - from falling asleep mid-verse to treating...
2025-07-3135 minDoing Life with Ken and Tabatha10 Ways to Be the CEO of Your Home & Strengthen Your Marriage with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textA focus on becoming a Chief Encouragement Officer can need positive transformations in household dynamics. Understanding the CEO role expands beyond business concepts into personal relationships. ⢠Discussing the significance of encouragement in building strong marriages ⢠Highlighting the need for positivity over authority in families ⢠Understanding encouragement as an integral part of personal and spiritual growth ⢠Offering practical steps to implement encouragement in daily life ⢠Recognizing the importance of self-encouragement before uplifting others ⢠Addressing the challenges and negativity that can permeate home life GET THE BETTER MA...
2025-03-0620 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaI love you, but you're annoying: Marriage Confessions with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textEvery marriage experiences annoyance, but understanding and communication are key to overcoming these challenges. This episode addresses the importance of perspective, encourages treating your spouse with grace, and emphasizes the necessity of friendship in strengthening the marital bond. ⢠Discussing normalcy of marital conflicts ⢠Exploring why spouses irritate each other ⢠Importance of open communication ⢠Power of choice in reactions ⢠Strategies for self-care and personal reflection ⢠Encouragement to treat spouse as best friend ⢠Practical tips for maintaining harmony ⢠Significance of grace and understanding in marriage GET THE B...
2025-02-2025 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaRekindle Intimacy in Marriage | Embracing the 7-Day Sex Challenge with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textThis podcast episode encourages married couples to embrace the beauty of sexual intimacy while confronting cultural taboos surrounding the topic. Ken and Tabitha share personal insights and experiences, introduce the concept of a Seven-Day Sex Challenge, and provide actionable steps to increase communication and pleasure in marriage.⢠Importance of normalizing discussions about sex and intimacy ⢠Godly purposes of sex: procreation, intimacy, and enjoyment ⢠Overview of the Seven-Day Sex Challenge for couples ⢠Addressing sexual health issues and personal insecurities ⢠Encouragement to create regular space for open communication ⢠Tips for sustaini...
2025-02-1338 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaMaster Your Morning | 5 keys to a spiritually empowered start with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textThe episode focuses on mastering your morning to unlock a fruitful and spiritually empowered day. With practical insights and biblical wisdom, we discuss five keys: planning for the next day, obtaining quality sleep, prioritizing God, engaging in exercise, and meal prepping, all aimed at eliminating excuses and setting a purposeful tone for daily life. ⢠Preparing the night before for a smoother morning ⢠Understanding the importance of quality sleep ⢠Prioritizing God through dedicated morning time ⢠Incorporating exercise into your morning routine ⢠Meal prepping to fuel your body for the day ahead
2025-01-3040 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaBad company corrupts good manners | Building Right Relationships with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textThe episode explores the profound effects of relationships on spiritual growth, emphasizing the need for discernment in choosing one's company. We discuss boundary-setting, the challenges posed by misunderstandings, and the call to prioritize spiritual families over blood ties. ⢠The impact of friends on decisions and behavior ⢠The duality of positive and negative influences ⢠Discernment in new relationships after conversion ⢠Misunderstandings from friends and family ⢠Emphasis on spiritual families ⢠The importance of setting healthy boundaries ⢠Prioritizing Godâs approval over othersâ opinionsGET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
2025-01-2312 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaDeepen Your relationship with God Practical steps for âliving at a 9â with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textWhat if your relationship with God could transform not just your spiritual life, but every aspect of your existence? We're Ken and Tabitha, and today we're offering you an insightful journey into deepening that divine connection. Just like sporadic workouts can't give you a six-pack, attending church occasionally won't build a robust spiritual foundation. Tune in as we promise to equip you with tools for daily spiritual engagement, using our 60-day devotional, "Living at a Nine," as your guide to grow closer to Jesus. Our 25-year marriage is a testament to how a...
2025-01-1642 min
Friendship FrequencyTabatha #17Tabatha Shares about her life growing up and how that shaped her and the work she has done to overcome those struggles.Music track: Forbidden Voices by AylexSource: https://freetouse.com/musicRoyalty Free Music for Videos (Safe)
2025-01-1051 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaHow to Make Your Husband Feel Valued & Respected at Home | Marriage Tips with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textA strong marriage thrives on creating spaces that nurture both partners. This episode discusses practical ways to make room for husbands in the home, emphasizing collaboration and mutual respect in household rules, the importance of personal downtime, and actions that make them feel honored. ⢠Discussing the balance of rules and personal freedom in the home ⢠The importance of mutual buy-in for household decisions ⢠Encouraging husbands to engage with the podcast ⢠Setting up welcoming environments within the home ⢠Honoring the need for personal space and quiet time ⢠Practical tips on...
2025-01-0915 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaPrayer & Fasting Made Simple with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textDiscover the profound spiritual rewards that come from fasting and prayer as we embark on a 21-day journey to start the new year with renewed faith and purpose. Through heartfelt personal stories from our own marriage, we reveal how fasting has helped us prioritize God's will, break strongholds, and enhance our spiritual intimacy. Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like Esther and Daniel, this episode will guide you toward preparing for a fast, setting meaningful parameters, and ultimately, ending your fast in a way that nurtures both body and soul.We delve...
2025-01-0251 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaMy motive is love but I am standing in faith with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textWeâre taking a much-needed break to focus on family and faith, but we promise to return in January with fresh content that aims to enrich your life. We believe 2025 is a year of growth, and we want to make it inclusive by inviting you to share your thoughts and questions with us. Your involvement is key to helping us create content that genuinely resonates and inspires.Moreover, we're thrilled to share our church's cherished traditionâSuper Sunday, a celebration focused on giving as the year winds down. For 24 years, this has...
2024-12-1903 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaChristmas with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textEver wonder how unwrapping gifts can spark a lively debate during Christmas morning festivities? Join us, as we recount our personal tales and unique traditions that make Christmas an extraordinary time every year. From the peace that Christmas offered Tabatha during a turbulent childhood, to Ken's family's amusing tradition of not wrapping gifts, we explore how these experiences shape our holiday spirit. We promise you'll walk away with a renewed appreciation for how diverse and meaningful holiday customs can be.Our conversation isn't just about the past; we delve into the...
2024-12-1242 minDoing Life with Ken and Tabatha4 Easy Steps to Become More Generous with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textHave you ever wondered how generosity can transform every facet of your life? Join us on "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" as we unfold the powerful influence of giving on relationships, finances, and spiritual well-being. We'll take you on a journey through our 25-year marriage, revealing how we overcame selfishness and pride by embracing a spirit of generosity. This episode promises to ignite a desire for giving, especially during the holiday season, and inspire you to strengthen connections with both God and your loved ones.We're peeling back the layers...
2024-12-0557 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaGrounded in Gratitude with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textImagine transforming your darkest moments into opportunities for gratitude and growth. This episode takes you on a heartfelt journey of thanksgiving, as we reflect on the power of gratitude, even when life throws its toughest challenges our way. We explore how a thankful heart can redefine our perspective on lifeâs trials and triumphs. Our chat is filled with the warmth of family traditions and the joy of sharing cherished Thanksgiving memories, honoring the spirit of togetherness that this season embodies.We unravel the transformative effects of gratitude and how it ca...
2024-11-2851 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaNavigating Boundaries and Submission in Marriage with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textWe answered all your questions in this episode. For example, can setting boundaries with in-laws rejuvenate your marriage? Discover how prioritizing your relationship and applying the biblical principles of leaving and cleaving can create a sanctuary of respect and comfort. We unpack the power of words and the strategies spouses can employ to nurture their most important relationships, ensuring that love remains unfazed by toxic dynamics. By fostering supportive spaces, couples can learn to stand strong together, even when external pressures threaten to intrude. GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP H...
2024-11-2134 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaSex Starts in The Morning | What a Wife Really Wants with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textJoin us as we delve into prioritizing both physical and emotional connections amidst the chaos of daily life. Through personal anecdotes, we explore how shared responsibilities and intentional communication can nurture intimacy. Whether it's addressing everyday acts like household chores or understanding the impact of health and self-care on a relationship, we've got you covered. This episode is perfect for anyone looking to strengthen their bond and create a more fulfilling partnership grounded in mutual respect and love.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)
2024-11-1439 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaShould your Kids Sleep in Your Bed? with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textCurious about the ongoing bed-sharing debate? Listen as we dive into this hot topic sparked by a viral social media clip. We explore the varying perspectives on whether children should sleep in their parent's bed, debating the emotional bonds it can create versus the potential impact on marital intimacy. Drawing from our own experiences and those of our listeners, we share how setting boundaries around sleeping arrangements has strengthened our marriage and suggest ways couples can tailor these practices to fit their unique families.Discover the art of balancing parenting duties...
2024-11-0740 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaHow to Stop Being Selfish with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textSelfishness can be like a chokehold, stifling your relationships and potential, but there's a way out. Picture the fierce determination of a mixed martial arts fighter breaking free or the resilience of WWE legends like Hulk Hogan facing down their greatest challenges. That's the spirit we're channeling as we explore how embracing selflessness can breathe new life into your marriage, business, and everyday interactions. Drawing from personal stories and biblical lessons, we vividly picture moving beyond self-centeredness to prioritize others, fostering healthier and more fulfilling connections.GET THE BETTER...
2024-10-3141 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaShould a Christian Celebrate Halloween? With Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textHow should Christians approach Halloween? Join us as we unpack this thought-provoking question, sharing personal stories from our 25-year journey of faith and marriage. Our exploration isn't about offering definitive answers but rather about nudging you toward considering your own beliefs and how they align with cultural practices. We reflect on our transitions from Halloween-loving children to new Christians wary of celebrations, and how weâve since learned to balance cultural norms with kingdom principles. ARTICLES:Paganism and Witchcraft: The Dark Reality of Halloween | CBN NewsThe Facts on Hal...
2024-10-2443 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaSex & a Sandwich | What a Husband REALLY Wants with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textWe believe it's time to break the silence on sexual liberation within Christianity without shying away from the tough conversations. Through open and honest dialogue, we reflect on past mistakes, sharing how faith and mentorship have guided us towards a healthier, more fulfilling sexual relationship. We'll explore the importance of reclaiming language around anatomy and celebrating virginity without judgment, all while equipping you with a godly perspective on sexuality to navigate the mire of misinformation. Join us as we share our experiences and insights, hoping to foster understanding, growth, and love within your...
2024-10-1750 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaHow to Overcome Challenges with Faith | Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textDoes the societal pressure to have children right after marriage feel overwhelming to you? Hear our personal stories and insights as we discuss why it's essential to make decisions based on your unique timeline and needs, rather than succumbing to external expectations. Plus, we address a listener's heartfelt concern about navigating intimacy when health complications make sex challenging, sharing ways to maintain deep connection and understanding within your marriage.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com)Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:90...
2024-10-1038 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaBenefits of Humility with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textIn a world dominated by self-promotion and social media bravado, finding the right balance between humility and confidence is more crucial than ever. We dissect the fine line that separates healthy self-assurance from destructive pride, exploring why humility is not about devaluing oneself but about recognizing and giving glory to God. By contrasting the appealing nature of a humble heart with the repellent effects of prideful behavior, we offer practical advice on how to cultivate humility intentionally in your personal and professional life. Discover how humility can make you more approachable, authentic, and...
2024-10-0740 minDoing Life with Ken and TabathaHow to Vote in 2024 as a Christian with Ken and Tabatha ClaytorSend us a textThinking about how to vote in 2024? We guide you on voting with a Godly perspective, emphasizing the responsibility and privilege that comes with it. Understand the importance of focusing on policies over emotional reactions, and how to discern the truth amidst media manipulation and negative ad attacks. We also address critical issues such as the sanctity of life and aligning your vote with biblical principles. Join us for a thoughtful discussion on making informed, faith-based decisions to safeguard moral and biblical values in society.GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE:
2024-09-2649 min